1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 3: All at all, So. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: Don't given all the million bus things and. 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 4: Boozy yas listening to to. 6 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 5: I don't joy joy? 7 00:00:59,000 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: You know you. 8 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 6: Love? 9 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 3: You gotta turn I can't. 10 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: I got to turn the mouse. 11 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 5: Turn You probably got to turn mouth to turn out, 12 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 5: to turn. 13 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 3: A wd of the money up wouldn't. 14 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: Come come out your think? Uh, I sure will. Good morning, everybody. 15 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now, 16 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 2: one and all is Steve Harvey got a radio show 17 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: particling me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show 18 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:20,839 Speaker 2: filled with nothing but joy and hope about it too. 19 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: You know, it's a great thing to be able to 20 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 2: wake up in the morning with peace in your heart 21 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: and joy. Peace and joy is immeasurable. It has a 22 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: value attached to it, and I have no idea what 23 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: it is. It's invaluable. It is worth so much more 24 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 2: than any amount of money you can make. 25 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: Peace and joy. I have not always had that. 26 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 2: I've not always been a peaceful person or a person 27 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 2: who lived his life and enjoy spirit. It took an 28 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 2: arrival at this moment. Some people arrived sooner than others. 29 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but 30 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 2: I think it was necessary for me to learn a 31 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned about 32 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences 33 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 2: and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the negative 34 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 2: and calling them bad times, I look at them now 35 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: as experiences. I had to have those experiences that were negative, 36 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: that were good, positive, wrong, evil. I had to have 37 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 2: all those experiences to become to shape who we are today. 38 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: We all have to have them. If you look back 39 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things 40 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: that you called failures, all the businesses I started that 41 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 2: went under, all of the jobs I had that I 42 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,760 Speaker 2: was fired from, all the shows that were canceled, all 43 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 2: of the times I thought I was going to get 44 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: something happened in my way and turned out I didn't 45 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: get it at all. When you look at all of it, 46 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 2: all of it, hopefully along the way, what you have 47 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 2: done as a person is you've taken those negatives and 48 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 2: those failures and you've used them for what they actually are. 49 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 2: They are experiences, and they've now created in you an 50 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: experienced person and you know that is worth something. That's 51 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: then it becomes a positive. But what too many people 52 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 2: do is they let the negative things that have happened 53 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: in their life. They allow the failures that have happened 54 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 2: in them lives never to manifest themselves as experiences. And 55 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 2: you sit up there and you dwell on it, and 56 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: you dwell on it until you have this woe is 57 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: me attitude. Stop looking at it like that, y'all. You 58 00:04:57,120 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: go through things in order to become the person that 59 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 2: you are today. I'll tell you who you sometimes have 60 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 2: to sit down and talk to. Sometimes you ought to 61 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: sit down to an inmate that really gets it. An 62 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: inmate that says, man, I've actually heard inmates say it 63 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 2: to me and write to me, and they've said things like, man, 64 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 2: come into prison, save my life. Now, those of you 65 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 2: have never got how can he say a thing like that? 66 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: But some men know, man, I was so far out 67 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 2: there that if I'd have stayed out there, I wouldn't 68 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: even be here today. This actually allowed me to stop, 69 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 2: spend some time with myself and learn some things about me. 70 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: Now does that happen for everybody like that? And no, 71 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 2: But here's a person who was taking an experience that 72 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 2: could be considered a failure or negative and turn it 73 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:47,239 Speaker 2: into a positive and using it to enrich their lives. 74 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: You can do it no matter what your set of 75 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: circumstances is. I recommend to everybody that you try changing 76 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 2: your outlook in order to change your outcome. Everything that 77 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 2: happens to you that's negative or you consider failure their experiences. 78 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 2: You've got to go through these things in order to 79 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 2: have the knowledge that you have today. So I wish 80 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 2: that I had come to this arrival that I'm in now, 81 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 2: this place of peace and joy, But then guess what, 82 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: I will not know what I know. I couldnot share 83 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 2: some of the things that I'm able to share if 84 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: I had not gone through some of them. And sometimes 85 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: that's the purpose of them, is to teach you a 86 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 2: lesson because you know, God has a plan for you, 87 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 2: He really really does, and eventually he can use you 88 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 2: no matter how old you are, and he can use 89 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: you no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay, 90 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine 91 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 2: ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God, what 92 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: do you want me to do? That's why I say 93 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: every day, Steve already got radio show, y'all, Cause, man, 94 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 2: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming. 95 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 2: I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I 96 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 2: ain't seen half of the amazing things that are happened 97 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: to me. I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, 98 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 2: manking God for some direction. And then I got smart 99 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 2: enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker now because faithful, 100 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: our works is dead, and it came. And I'll remind 101 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 2: you of this. God has given all of you a gift. 102 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: Every last one of you listening has a gift. God 103 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 2: has never created a soul that he did not provide 104 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 2: a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a 105 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts 106 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 2: are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who 107 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift, 108 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 2: you know, and in that you can become great. You know, 109 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 2: a lot of people think that successful and greatness is 110 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 2: the same thing. Cornell West said it at my daughter's graduation. 111 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 2: He was a spokesperson and he said something so pointed. 112 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 2: He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness. The two 113 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 2: have nothing to do with each other. See people determined 114 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 2: success about money and fame and all this hell. But greatness. 115 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 2: Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money. It 116 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's how 117 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 2: you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant you 118 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 2: become in your community, at your church, on your job, 119 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 2: to the cub Scout unit that you run, to the 120 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 2: little girl's lives, that you change that that little center 121 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: in the hood where you just one place of hope 122 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 2: to so many people and they come back. And I 123 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 2: used the example of Lou Dazzler who passed away in 124 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 2: LA who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club out 125 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: in La. And he wasn't a rich man at all, 126 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know 127 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: who he was. But if you look at all the 128 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: people who have gone on to become politicians, who have 129 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 2: gone on to become CEOs, who have gone on to 130 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building 131 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:56,760 Speaker 2: in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, man. 132 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 2: Prayer changes things. I said at all the time. But 133 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: when you see people become successful or great, that somebody 134 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: praying somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's they. Mama. 135 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 2: You know, I think of Tiger Woods and all the 136 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk about his 137 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,199 Speaker 2: father and all this. Here somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods. 138 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 2: I got cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama 139 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 2: is a praying woman or something. My mother was. She 140 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 2: prayed me into this place because she used to call 141 00:09:24,400 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: me all the time praying for you, boy, And prayer 142 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 2: changes things. It really does. Try it today. It can 143 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 2: change you. It has changed millions of people. Open up 144 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 2: yourself to the greatness that's in you, because God is 145 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 2: giving you a gift matter fact that you ain't using it. 146 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 2: Who fought you think that is? I'm just telling you 147 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 2: you got one, and if you start praying about it, 148 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 2: it'll manifest itself and you can become one or two things, 149 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 2: successful or great or both. You can make the decision. Today. 150 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning, Shall. 151 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention right now, 152 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:15,439 Speaker 2: at this present time, you are experiencing a blessing, authenticated, originated, 153 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: produced by Heavenly Father. It is called right now. In 154 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 2: other words, it's a new date. He is the only 155 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 2: one who can do it, and he does a time 156 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 2: and time and time again. I feel like pop locking 157 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 2: like Kirk Franklin, I feel Fosswaw video. Kirk onstage was said, 158 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 2: come on boy, all right now, come on little James, 159 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, this is Steve harper Morn the show. 160 00:10:49,520 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 2: Shelly Strawberry is out. I can't believe it. Junior's taking 161 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: her place. But the one and only calling for real 162 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 2: Mississippi Monica him the voice Junior and the legend that 163 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 2: is NEPHW Tommy Jr. What's on your mind today? I 164 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 2: got something on mind. 165 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 7: What's on your mind? Let's just get it. What you're 166 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 7: thinking about me today? 167 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 2: Well, I'm just hoping today go better than yesterday. 168 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 7: Yes, they were great. 169 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: I didn't a lot of ins and outs. Was real choppy. 170 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 2: We missed Shirley badly. Now we're gonna miss her anyway 171 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 2: cause of her voice. Your voice and her voice. It's 172 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 2: just such a different Junior. But we're gonna tolerated because 173 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 2: it's interesting radio. Now, what's on your mind? 174 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 7: What's some mind that is that? 175 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 8: I feel like you love me? But you don't feel 176 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 8: the same way about me that you do. Sure, I 177 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 8: feel like I am somebody just just stepping in. 178 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 7: You don't feel the same way about me. 179 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 2: Absolutely, you nailed it. 180 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 7: Is this fair? 181 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? What is it? 182 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 4: Fair? 183 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 2: Caller? 184 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 1: This is this show? 185 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 2: So you're not You're not? Surely? How is I supposed 186 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 2: to feel the same way? 187 00:11:59,240 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 4: Back? 188 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 3: Close? 189 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 7: Ain't I close? 190 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 2: Close? 191 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 7: How? 192 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: First of all, you see on this zoom right now? 193 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 8: Boys, you see there the voice, I'm close somewhere in 194 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 8: the neighborhood. 195 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: That's you so off. You ain't in the neighborhood. You 196 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: out of town. 197 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 3: It's not close? 198 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? 199 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: He at all? Ever? 200 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 3: Wait? 201 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 7: Man, if you wait, man, hold on. You don't see 202 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 7: the resimblance between me and Shirley in voice in. 203 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 2: Voice, don't say see the resemblance between you and Chirvey. 204 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 7: You got your in the boy? 205 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 2: Did you see what your hands is right now? She 206 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 2: can't do that. M I see what you're saying. I 207 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 2: got you right, and it's a whole lot of stuff. 208 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 2: She got nice hair, pretty eyes and stuff. 209 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 7: Voice here right now, this. 210 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: Hand here, Well, you know, I mean you said you 211 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:58,319 Speaker 2: just like Shelley. But you not you know, and it's 212 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 2: it's all right, junior. Just be yourself. 213 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 7: Have faith in me today. 214 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 2: Just have faith in me. No that that that ain't 215 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 2: what I got to do. You got to have the faith. 216 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 2: I'm listening. My job ain't got nothing to do with 217 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:17,360 Speaker 2: belief in you. Believe charves meself. I ain't got that. 218 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 2: I ain't finna believe in you. Then what sit up 219 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: here and watch you let me down? That's not what 220 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: I'm finna do. 221 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: No let me down. 222 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not to set up here setting myself up 223 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 2: for failure. Ain't gonna telling what you're gonna do today. 224 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 2: But we will see. 225 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 7: Okay, I got uncle, and I'm proud of you. Believe 226 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 7: in myself. 227 00:13:34,800 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 2: First right, you go to first time, Go comeing up next, 228 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: brank back with the I. 229 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 9: You watch this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 230 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 10: At the Salvation Army. 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Now, that's what we're gonna do. Cat dog, 242 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 4: if you fuld, let's run it. Hello, I'm trying to 243 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 4: speak to sister Lauren, please, my sister Lawen. This is 244 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 4: Brother David from the church. I don't know if you 245 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 4: know me. You might know me when you see me, 246 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 4: but I don't know if you just know me because 247 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 4: we don't really interact that much at the church. But 248 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 4: I wanted to give you a call. We got a 249 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:42,440 Speaker 4: bit of a problem going on. Ok, Okay, you got 250 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 4: you get Do you have a minute to talk? All right? 251 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 2: Now? 252 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 4: How long have you been doing the h the sign 253 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 4: you in the you know, you in the ministry where 254 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 4: you do the sign language for the church, and you 255 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 4: know I notice you up there at least two sundays. 256 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 2: Out of a the mind. You've been doing it quite 257 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: a while, am I right? 258 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 11: So yes, I've been doing it for over ten years. 259 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 11: But I'm a little confused as to why they're calling 260 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 11: about this time. I'm just a little to confuse. I 261 00:15:12,160 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 11: don't know who you are. You say that if I 262 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 11: see your face, I may know you. But what does 263 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 11: this have to do with anything? Is how long I 264 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 11: have been doing sigh language? I know, okay, I've been 265 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 11: doing it for years? So how may I help you 266 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 11: with this? Do you want? 267 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 2: Okay? 268 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 4: So no, no, I'm not trying to learn any sign language. 269 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 4: Do you do you know miss everybody call him Miss Murder? 270 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 4: Do you know Miss Murdle? 271 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 6: Oh? 272 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 11: Yeah, I sure do, mm hmm okay. 273 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: So Miss Murder. 274 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 4: That's that's that's that's that's one of my aunties right there. 275 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: Ms Murder lives. 276 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 11: Okay, And she gave you my number to call me. 277 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 11: I'm what what do you need for me? 278 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 12: Did she get me? 279 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:49,960 Speaker 6: No? 280 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 4: No, That's what I'm getting at. So, so you know, 281 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 4: you know my you know, my honest is death. You 282 00:15:54,760 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 4: know she's hearing it pain? 283 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 2: You know that? Right? Okay? 284 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 11: Yes, uh, okay. 285 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 2: So here's a problem. 286 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 4: I ain't murderers telling us that you're not doing the 287 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 4: sign language right, doing the service and like you're missing 288 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 4: some things in the scripture or. 289 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 11: Something that's incorrect. I've been doing this for a very 290 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 11: long time and I know what I'm doing. So how 291 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 11: you so she told you for me to tell me 292 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 11: that I'm not doing this Allline correctly, that's let me. 293 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 4: Say, let me say this to you. I don't want 294 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 4: us to get off on the wrong for Let me 295 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,520 Speaker 4: just say this to you. Once my once my aint 296 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 4: murder told us what was going on. 297 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: You know. 298 00:16:33,400 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 4: We then went to one of the deacons and asked him, 299 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 4: you know, is that way we can uh have a meeting, 300 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 4: you know, with with with Sister Lawrence so we can 301 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,480 Speaker 4: try to get this taken care of and talk about it. 302 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 4: He said, well, won't you just won't you just call 303 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 4: and y'all can just work it out. And and that's 304 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 4: how I'm calling you now. I hope you I don't 305 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 4: know if you're at work or whatever. I apologize, but 306 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 4: I'm just trying to get to the bottom up Now, 307 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 4: let me go and say this. If my ain't murders 308 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 4: say that you ain't signing right, then Mi anie ain't lying. 309 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 4: That means your excuse me, that means you ain't signing right. 310 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 11: Really, so the pastor couldn't come to me, but he 311 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 11: but you figured you would just call me and tell 312 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:16,199 Speaker 11: me that your auntie says that I'm doing incorrectly. That 313 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 11: doesn't make sense to me. How does she tell you that? 314 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 11: Did she sign it to you? 315 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 4: She signed languages to her daughter. Listen, you ain't got 316 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:25,639 Speaker 4: to worry about who she's signing too. What you need 317 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 4: to worry about is getting your getting your stuff together 318 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 4: all right, and learning how to do this the correct 319 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:34,199 Speaker 4: way so that my aintie can't get You know, Miami 320 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 4: needs to be getting the word like everybody else getting 321 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 4: the word, but she not getting it because you the 322 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 4: words getting lost in your hands. 323 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 11: All I'm hearing is your voice is getting very loud 324 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 11: and you need to match my tone. Young man. Okay, 325 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 11: let's start with that. What you means that match my tone? 326 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 11: Because you're getting very loud and I can't hear through 327 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 11: all of that. All right, Okay, Okay, I say this 328 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 11: the situation you called my phone, correct. You have a 329 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,040 Speaker 11: problem that you're discusting with me, but you're getting more 330 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 11: angry than anything else. How am I going to resolve 331 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 11: this problem? I am trying to be as course, the way. 332 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 4: You resolved this problem is carry back to science school. 333 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 4: So you can learn what you need to so my 334 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 4: any can get the word. My ainty can't get the 335 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 4: gospel because you messing it up. 336 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 11: God anointed me to do style language at that church, 337 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 11: and I've been doing this for a long time and 338 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 11: I will continue to do so. Don't call my phone 339 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 11: telling me that I'm not doing something right? You know? 340 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 6: But do God know. 341 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 4: That you're not doing it right? Do God know that? 342 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 4: Does God know that my ain't myrtle not getting the 343 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 4: work because of you? 344 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:43,440 Speaker 2: Name? 345 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 11: Young man? Jesus, Please give me the strength to continue 346 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 11: on with this conversation. But you know what, Lord, I'm 347 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:54,400 Speaker 11: gonna be right back. Let me tell you something. Don't 348 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 11: you ever call my mother freaking phone telling about I 349 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,360 Speaker 11: ain't doing something? 350 00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 6: Man? 351 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 11: If I see you in there, this can't I have 352 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:01,720 Speaker 11: this gonna. 353 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 13: Go upside your God? 354 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 11: Damn that did I miss myself? 355 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:05,240 Speaker 13: Clear? 356 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 2: I cannot believe you talking to me like this. 357 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 11: Oh now you want to be calm? Now you're calm? 358 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 11: Now you match my tone. 359 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 6: I don't gained. 360 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 2: I can't believe you just got you talking to me 361 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 2: like that? 362 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:16,880 Speaker 11: Are we done here? 363 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 4: So you think it's cool for you to tell the Lord? 364 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 4: I be right back Thank you, Lord. I needed a 365 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 4: moment you. 366 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 11: We've been on the stone in this world. 367 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 13: You've been swing at me. 368 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:31,159 Speaker 11: I told you to match my tone. Match my tone. 369 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 2: I am matching your tone. No can I say? 370 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 7: Can I? 371 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 2: Can I give you something else in this tone? 372 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: Do you mind? 373 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,160 Speaker 2: If I say something in this tone? 374 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 11: You're gonna hear a click and the dog real quick. 375 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:43,760 Speaker 12: Go ahead. 376 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 4: I just want to tell you in this tone that 377 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 4: your friend von de Taylor got me to prank phone 378 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 4: call you. I am nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey 379 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 4: Morning Show. 380 00:19:54,440 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 14: In your tone, have mercy, Bonda, Bonda Taylor, Bonda Taylor, 381 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 14: tell met I put this on the radio, on the radio. 382 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 11: Bond in Jesus name, Amen radio. I'm not playing in 383 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 11: the game time. I think it's funny, but this is 384 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:19,160 Speaker 11: my job here. 385 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: Listen, everything is fine. 386 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 11: You haven't doing there. I have to tell Jesus give 387 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 11: me a minute, because you was about to be my 388 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 11: pressure of Lord, has mercy. I don't even want to 389 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 11: hear this, but I will be calling Bonda because I 390 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 11: have some merch. Oh Lord, Lord, Lord Father, please forgive me. 391 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 2: Okay, you gotta you gotta do this for me. 392 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 4: In my tone, in my tone, and tell me in 393 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 4: your tone, what is the baddest radio show in the land? 394 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:52,800 Speaker 2: In your tone. 395 00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 11: In my tone. 396 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,680 Speaker 2: Right there, that's what I do. I'll be back in 397 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: another hour to do it again. 398 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, because my job is to be stupid, and 399 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 4: I'm gonna stand up on that. 400 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 2: Stand up on stupid. You stand up on standing on 401 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:12,959 Speaker 2: that's damn. 402 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 4: When I stand on stupid, I'm standing on business. You 403 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 4: see what I'm saying. That's that's that's my business. I'm 404 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 4: in the stupid business. 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Affer ends January second, 414 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,800 Speaker 4: called five six two three one four four six zero 415 00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 4: three You for details. 416 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 417 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 10: And entertainment news Jay Z denies allegations that he's sexually 418 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 10: assaulted a thirteen year old girl with Diddy. 419 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. 420 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 10: President elect Trump has a new cologne called Fight Fight Fight, 421 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,800 Speaker 10: And if we get to it, to go slow, right 422 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 10: boo boo boo. 423 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 2: Why would I want to smell like I've been fighting? 424 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 10: Right, We'll talk about these stories at the top of 425 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 10: the hour, but right now it's time to ask the clo. Okay, clo. 426 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 10: Lenisia in Detroit. She says, I'm fifty nine and recently divorced. 427 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 10: My daughter is always at my house because she thinks 428 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 10: I'm sad and lonely. I don't want her to know 429 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 10: that I have a new man already, so I need 430 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,479 Speaker 10: her to stop popping up over here. Should I tell 431 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 10: her that I've moved on? 432 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 12: Oh? 433 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 2: Menia, I mean, you know you grown? Why nothing? You 434 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 2: gotta quit pop up over here for you mess around, 435 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 2: need therapy. You don't pop up over here and find out, 436 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 2: you know, find out. Yeah, that's right, you haven't mess around, 437 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,439 Speaker 2: find out how you got here because I'm doing things, 438 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 2: you know, so I don't as a mother, do I 439 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:21,520 Speaker 2: think you should just say, hey, look, I need my privacy. 440 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 2: I'm seeing someone because you know what, here's What people 441 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 2: don't understand about divorce people talking about, man, they seeing 442 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 2: somebody already divorce is when the courts give you the date, 443 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: the marriage been over, right, Okay, that's just the legalization 444 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,639 Speaker 2: by the court. The marriage been over. So it's unfair 445 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 2: when people go, they just got divorced last weekend, not 446 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:46,199 Speaker 2: next month. And she's seeing somebody already now, Man, that 447 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 2: marriage been over long time ago. 448 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: Because people say they ain't ain't even dry on a divorce, But. 449 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 2: Hell no, it ain't gonna be dry. I was doing 450 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: something when they were writing it. It wasn't even damn dry, 451 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 2: nothing to blow on yet he was already stop all right. 452 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 10: To Meka in San Diego, she says, this really fine 453 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:17,199 Speaker 10: and handsome guy flirted with me all night at the club. 454 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 10: He followed me to my car at the end of 455 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 10: the night and he tried to have sex with me 456 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 10: in my car. 457 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:24,360 Speaker 1: I said no. 458 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,239 Speaker 10: He said he doesn't normally do stuff like that, but 459 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 10: I did something to him. He asked me out on 460 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 10: a date. So should I see where this goes? 461 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm already tell you where it's going to. Damn 462 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 2: near went there in the parking lot of the car. 463 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 2: Where do you think is going, we know what you did. 464 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 2: Then he lied to you when he said I don't 465 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 2: normally do that. You look, look here, look here, look here. 466 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 2: If you're a grown man and you at a club, 467 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 2: you follow a girl to a car because she did 468 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: something to you in the club, and you try to 469 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: have sex with her in a car, and then you say, 470 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 2: I don't normally do this. Right here, we sure was comfortable. 471 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: H but I do this man, little girl, See where 472 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 2: it's gonna go. It's gonna go right where he tried 473 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 2: to get it to go in the parking lot. Why y'all, 474 00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: Why y'all think if that was his objective in the 475 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: parcket lot, why would his objective change? That's the end 476 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 2: game for him. I don't normally do this. That's a lie. 477 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 2: He's done it a whole lot of times, so he's lying. 478 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 2: Huh it didn't work before? 479 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:33,840 Speaker 6: Ye? 480 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,920 Speaker 1: So should she see where this goes? Let it go? 481 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: Or you're saying he's. 482 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: Showing her, tetting her where it's going. He showed you 483 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 2: who he is? Yeah? Yeah, what's to saying if a 484 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 2: person shows you who they are, believe in Yep? 485 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: So there it is to Mika, all right, let's help. 486 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: Melanie in Dayton. 487 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 10: My boyfriend had just had a baby by another woman 488 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 10: when we started dating. The girl's family calls me a homewreckerd, 489 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 10: but I had no idea what was going on. I'm 490 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 10: about to marry this man and they're still hating on me. 491 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 10: Why not be mad at him? 492 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 2: No, listen, listen, listen. The girl's family is still hating 493 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,880 Speaker 2: on you that he had the baby by, so they're 494 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 2: not finn change. You cannot control what another person thinks, 495 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 2: you can control how you react to it. Now, that's 496 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 2: a tough lesson to learn, and it took me a 497 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: long time to get that one. So I'm just giving 498 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 2: you some old head advice. You know, early on in 499 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 2: your life you can't control what people say or think 500 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: about you, but you can control your reaction to it. 501 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:57,239 Speaker 2: Live your life. They didn't know, You didn't know, and 502 00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 2: I really believe you didn't know. Record he wasn't in 503 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 2: the home, He wasn't finna do man. Yeah, yeah, that 504 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 2: wasn't about to happen, So I would I would just 505 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 2: go on about your business and and then and then 506 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 2: don't want them to shift the blame. See, you just 507 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 2: wanted off you. Why not hate him, see right there? 508 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 2: What you want him to hate? Your husband? 509 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: Well, boyfriend, this is her boyfriend. 510 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 10: They're not married yet, but she said when they started 511 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 10: dating he had a baby by another woman, and so 512 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 10: the family is just hating her, calling her home record 513 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 10: because he don't want to be with the baby mama. 514 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:40,840 Speaker 2: That's what that is. Hello, and that's him. But you know, 515 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: people always got to find the reason. If you wasn't 516 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 2: over there, he would be. That's not true. If a 517 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 2: person don't have to call some shots man man with you, 518 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 2: it's that person's decision, right right. 519 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: You don't want to be with her, that's it? 520 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, all right, you're done with Melanie. 521 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: Let's move on to Carson in Omaha. My son is. 522 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 10: Twenty one and when his girlfriend turns twenty one, he 523 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 10: wants to propose. They've been dating since middle school, so 524 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 10: I think they need a break from each other before 525 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 10: they get married. My son is hurt because I don't 526 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 10: support his decision. 527 00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? 528 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,919 Speaker 2: Well, listen to me. All you doing is trying to 529 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 2: advise him as to dad, getting married at twenty one 530 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 2: is tough. You've been dating since middle school. You ain't 531 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:45,520 Speaker 2: experienced no life y'all been in this relationship or let 532 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 2: me just give you this piece of advice here. No person, 533 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 2: no human being, man, woman, boy, or girl gets through 534 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 2: this life without temptation. You're not gonna get out of 535 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 2: here without that. Temptation is probably the greatest tool of sin. 536 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 2: It's the temptation. You are constantly tempted to do this 537 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 2: or that, right or wrong, or left or right. You 538 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 2: are constantly faced with the temptation of knowing what's best, 539 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 2: but looking at what's wrong. Lord him, miss, If. 540 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: Love and you is wrong, be you right right now? 541 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:34,240 Speaker 2: Nor you don't understand? They got solve everything back in 542 00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 2: the day. Yeah, yeah, if loving you is wrong, I 543 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 2: don't want to be right. See right there? So yeah, 544 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 2: you got it. You got a problem. You have a problem. 545 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: So tell his son what's the Hey man, I'm just 546 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 2: telling you from life experience what I know. But then 547 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 2: you can't stop Carson. He gonna want to propose to her, 548 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 2: you know when it wasn't early, man, Okay, he ain't 549 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 2: seen nothing yet, God, nothing yet. So much. 550 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 8: Lord, temptation make you clo covered up. Next entertainment news. 551 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 552 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 8: Everybody's time for Entertainment news Carlor, What is going on 553 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 8: with jay Z? 554 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 10: What is this that's happening with jay jay Z's attorneys 555 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 10: have filed a motion to dismiss this sexual assault lawsuit, 556 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 10: which was. 557 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: Bought by Houston attorney. 558 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 10: Houston based attorney Tony Buzzby on behalf of a then 559 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:48,200 Speaker 10: fourteen years yes yes, yes, Houston Yeah, Houston attorney Tony 560 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 10: Buzzby on behalf of a then thirteen year old girl 561 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 10: who says that back in two thousand, jay Z and 562 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 10: Diddy raped her at a BMA's after party. The motion 563 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 10: says that Buzzby has been hounding jay Z behind the 564 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 10: scenes for months and only now that after jay refused 565 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 10: to pay, did the woman file suit. Jay also thinks 566 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,480 Speaker 10: that Jane Doe's name, this is the woman, obviously she's 567 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 10: a grown woman now should be made public. The plaintiff 568 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:25,520 Speaker 10: has provided no evidence, no affidavit, declaration, or specific factual 569 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 10: support to establish the kind of severe harm necessary to 570 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 10: justify the sunimity. 571 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,480 Speaker 1: Of a name. 572 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 10: So it's kind of like that someone uses an alias name. 573 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,680 Speaker 10: So jay Z wants to know what is her name? So, 574 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 10: in a statement addressed to CNN, jay Z called the 575 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 10: allegations so heinous in nature that I employ you to 576 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 10: follow criminal complaint, not a civil one. Whomever would commit 577 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,360 Speaker 10: such a crime against a minor should be locked away, would. 578 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 1: You not agree? Quote That's what jay Z said in 579 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: the statement to CNN. 580 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 10: Jay Z also said in a written statement, my only 581 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 10: heartbreak is for my family, My wife Beyonce, and I 582 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,600 Speaker 10: will have to sit our children down, one of whom 583 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 10: is at the age where her friends will surely see 584 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 10: that the press, see it in the press and ask 585 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,959 Speaker 10: questions about the nature of these claims and explain the 586 00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 10: cruelty and greed of people. I'm more and yet another 587 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 10: loss of innocence. He went on to say that children 588 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 10: should not have to endure such a crime at such 589 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 10: a young age, and it's unfair the degrees of malicement 590 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 10: to destroy families and human spirit in quote in part. 591 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: Meanwhile, jay Z and. 592 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 10: Beyonce and their family, they made it a family affair. 593 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 10: Last night they supported their daughter Blue Ivy on the 594 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 10: red carpet of the Disney movie Mufasa, which both Blue 595 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 10: Ivy is doing voice she's a voice actress for that movie, 596 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 10: and Yonce. 597 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 1: So there you go. 598 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 2: Here's the part that's really really nasty. In this whole thing, 599 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 2: we're talking twenty four years, we're talking A person does 600 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 2: this anonymously, and you file a civil suit, which is 601 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 2: unlike a criminal suit in that because in the criminal 602 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 2: suit you have to have the burden of proof. In 603 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 2: a civil suit, the burden of proof is half less 604 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 2: than that. And what happens with a lot of these people, y'all, 605 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 2: this is what happens with a lot of people. A 606 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 2: lot of people get guys like this guy right here, 607 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 2: this is his specialty, get some charges together in hopes 608 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 2: of suddenly so it just goes away. But as jay 609 00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 2: Z said, don't you think someone who would do something 610 00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 2: so heinous should be locked away? Yeah, because if you 611 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 2: do something to my daughter like that, I want prison time. 612 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 2: I don't want your check. But now it's this Sybil 613 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 2: is asking for a check. What's unfair, what is blatantly unfair, 614 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 2: is that this accuser, who may be completely fictitious and 615 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 2: made up, gets to hide under Jane Doe. And then 616 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,799 Speaker 2: once this goes away, the damage has been done to 617 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 2: jay Z and they get to skip to the lou 618 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 2: my dollar. Well, we didn't get the money. We just 619 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 2: go on about our business. They should come up with 620 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 2: the law when you falsely accuse somebody or something and 621 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 2: it turns out not to be true, that should be 622 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 2: a penalty you gotta face some time too. That's the 623 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 2: thing I hate about this one right here, man, because 624 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,399 Speaker 2: it can be that way, you know, and just people 625 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 2: people need to look at that too. And so, now, 626 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 2: if a crime was committed, like jay Z said, that 627 00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,760 Speaker 2: person should a thirteen year old, you should be under 628 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: the jail. 629 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 10: Blow under the jail. That's unthinkable. Sexual assault of a child, 630 00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:17,800 Speaker 10: a thirteen year old. So I mean, you know, justice 631 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,000 Speaker 10: for the victims if this crime actually occurred. 632 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 2: And so because of the world we live in, it 633 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 2: makes you question everything twenty four years later because here's 634 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:34,040 Speaker 2: what has the little tangent it. It's that lawyer that's it. 635 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: This is his specialty. Yeah, yeah, this is his specialty. 636 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:42,319 Speaker 2: And now this man's family got to deal with this, 637 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 2: and ain't nobody got no proof. Ain't nobody came forward 638 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,360 Speaker 2: with nothing. They just saying this is what happened, and 639 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 2: you you lump it together with somebody who's guilty of 640 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:56,080 Speaker 2: some things. I don't like this one at all, man. 641 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,400 Speaker 2: This is I don't I don't like it. You know. Now, 642 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,680 Speaker 2: if you got proof, then let's see it. 643 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, jay Z says this is a blackmail attempt. The 644 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 10: attorney contacted him and basically tried to get him to 645 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:12,800 Speaker 10: give money, and when he didn't give up the money, 646 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,320 Speaker 10: you know, we're gonna release your name and all these things. 647 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:21,359 Speaker 10: And he jay Z said, all celebrities aren't alike, you know. 648 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:26,000 Speaker 2: So right, And you know that's that's what's hurtful in 649 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 2: this whole thing, and and and and it's coming from 650 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,440 Speaker 2: this guy who this is his im. I'm just y'all. 651 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,439 Speaker 2: And then you know, you look at some of these 652 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 2: blogs and y'all just a ran win it already that 653 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:41,839 Speaker 2: he go, They all, Man, Yeah, and here's a guy 654 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:46,799 Speaker 2: man that ain't really had no JJ had nothing like 655 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 2: that attached to him nowhere. 656 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, you know, this is an ongoing breaking news story. 657 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 10: We'll keep an eye out. 658 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,439 Speaker 7: Praying for his family too. 659 00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,560 Speaker 8: Man, come up at twenty minutes after that hour, what 660 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 8: gifts are you hoping for Christmas? 661 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 7: Okay, we'll talk about it at twenty minutes after. 662 00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 9: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 663 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:13,600 Speaker 4: Holidays are here, and it's essential to recognize that personal 664 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 4: safety is a year round priority. 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Or what's one thing you would improve in 695 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 8: your life for the most? 696 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 7: This is which one? 697 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 2: What gifts? Yeah? 698 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 7: What gift or gift you looking for this year? What 699 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 7: would make you happy? Right now? 700 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,279 Speaker 2: What's the gift? Come? 701 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 4: If I can get my kids not to ask me 702 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 4: for something that that would be a gift within yourself. 703 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 2: Just don't ask me for that. They got every damn 704 00:38:57,760 --> 00:38:59,040 Speaker 2: thing I done. Gave them too much? 705 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:02,319 Speaker 1: Oh that's what you feel, you really feel that way down? 706 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 2: They got everything? What else? 707 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,719 Speaker 10: But I mean, I'm gonna give them some h like 708 00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,319 Speaker 10: a token gift or you're gonna really go out for 709 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 10: their Christmas list? 710 00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:15,480 Speaker 4: No, and you can kill it list out of top 711 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,879 Speaker 4: you kill it list. One gift put child and one 712 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 4: gift card put child, and you're gonna get whatever else 713 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 4: you want. 714 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 1: What I want to see? 715 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:25,839 Speaker 2: How you pulling that off? 716 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:26,080 Speaker 6: One? 717 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying. I'm trying. Dog, Lena, ask you a question, 718 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 2: how old is Jordan going? Thirteen? Okay? Let's see how that. Yeah, 719 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 2: I know, I know, I'm just talking her. 720 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, just running your mouth child. 721 00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 6: You know. 722 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:48,640 Speaker 4: Well, come on, Amazon, let's get it crack again. Give 723 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:53,399 Speaker 4: you it's a good question for you to answer me. Yeah, 724 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 4: one gift. 725 00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 8: I won't That's what we. 726 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 2: Ask what you wanted? Nobody said you ain't gonna get 727 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:05,680 Speaker 2: from golf club. Though. 728 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 7: I want a fence too. 729 00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: I want still trying to get the fence. What's the 730 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 1: hold up on the fence? What's what? 731 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 10: Well? 732 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,160 Speaker 2: What your dog wants a fence too, So so we 733 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 2: can go outside. 734 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 1: Everybody in the family. 735 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 2: Damn, everybody want you need to put something in the backyard, 736 00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 2: to have fence in patio, back the something? What about you? 737 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:29,839 Speaker 2: What you want? 738 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:30,919 Speaker 7: What's to give you want? 739 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,359 Speaker 2: What is it? I ain't gonna get what I want? 740 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 1: What do you want? See? 741 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 2: What do you want? I want an airplane? Any more questions? 742 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 10: Oh? 743 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:46,399 Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, any any more damn question. Let's get 744 00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 2: you a nice drone, A nice one all right? Here 745 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 2: sat across, slide that under the tree. We be. 746 00:40:54,360 --> 00:41:00,000 Speaker 8: Yeah, coming up thirty four after that, as we'll Checkste's voicemails. 747 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: Eight, we'll be back. 748 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,320 Speaker 15: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 749 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,240 Speaker 10: Trying to check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, 750 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,200 Speaker 10: you can call, leave a message and you might just 751 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:17,479 Speaker 10: hear your phone call on the air. Are you ready, suh? 752 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:18,720 Speaker 2: Stay ready? 753 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:22,640 Speaker 1: All right? This caller left a message about Junior. 754 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 12: I have listening to your radio show on December the 755 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,880 Speaker 12: night Monday, that is. And I'm just curious Junior, that 756 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:36,759 Speaker 12: is I guess the ann for today because it so 757 00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 12: I need him to live enough in a voice a 758 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 12: little bit, make it seem like he is excited to 759 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,439 Speaker 12: be there and let's have a good time. 760 00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. So now let's see how you handle critique and Junior, 761 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 2: because I felt the same way, I thought it very right. 762 00:41:58,840 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 2: Now go ahead. 763 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 8: You Okay, First of all, I'm doing all I can. 764 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,360 Speaker 8: First of all, Okay, what's getting me and what stopped 765 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 8: me is all this reading I'm doing. See, I don't 766 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 8: I don't know how to read, and I don't know. 767 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 8: I'll never do this. All this reading is in the way, 768 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:16,960 Speaker 8: is what I'm saying. 769 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,160 Speaker 2: Okay, but do it anyway. 770 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 7: That's what Sureley do. 771 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 2: It's the reading that's bothering you. Why don't you read it? 772 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:30,560 Speaker 2: Because it ain't. It ain't like three paragraphs? Why don't 773 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 2: you read it? Memorize it? And then saying. 774 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 7: Why would I do that? 775 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 2: It's people get scripts all the time. See you ever 776 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,359 Speaker 2: seen Denzel walking on the movie screen with the paper 777 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 2: in and hand? Okay, if he can remember a whole 778 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,399 Speaker 2: damn movie, how you can remember? Hey coming up next? 779 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,360 Speaker 2: Jowberry letters? 780 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 7: Hell, let me ask you this, U, what movie have 781 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 7: you seen me in? 782 00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 8: I ain't got Therefore I must not be a good 783 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,719 Speaker 8: actor because I ain't want remember I remember I don't 784 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 8: get the job for Santa Claus. 785 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,520 Speaker 7: Remember how the pressed I was They didn't give me 786 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 7: the job. 787 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 1: Last year Santa Claus. What you auditioned for a movie 788 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:12,919 Speaker 1: to be. 789 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 7: Saying to be Santa Claus? 790 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:16,760 Speaker 2: And they said not, I'm all to be Santa Claus. 791 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,240 Speaker 2: That's why you ain't get the park. 792 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,640 Speaker 7: I can tell you the other part. I wasn't good 793 00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:21,160 Speaker 7: at reading. 794 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,280 Speaker 2: So you're going to know what this lady is saying. 795 00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 2: Let's do the next call off? Picky energy up because 796 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:28,359 Speaker 2: you are up. 797 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 7: I'm excited to be here. 798 00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,359 Speaker 2: Go ahead, you call it next car. 799 00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 1: Going, But Junior, you're here. What the lady is saying right. 800 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 7: The lady ain't got to read this show either, but 801 00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:41,839 Speaker 7: you know. 802 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 2: The do it though? 803 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: All right, were losing, let's just stopping, yeah, because. 804 00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:51,720 Speaker 7: Go ahead. 805 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: This is d from Florida. 806 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 10: She has a question Steve for you about President elect 807 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:57,240 Speaker 10: Donald Trump. 808 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 13: I see Carla Thomas, Shirley or good morning. Sending you 809 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,360 Speaker 13: all blessings, love and light. This is the from Florida. 810 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 13: I wanted to ask you questions Steve, as you all 811 00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:11,800 Speaker 13: was talking about what we could expect from Trump and 812 00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 13: how he's parting January sixth, perists. I will never understand 813 00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 13: the hypocrisy of our democracy. For one, but isn't this 814 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:27,279 Speaker 13: the same president that as a nation we impeached when 815 00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 13: he was in office last time? So I just wanted 816 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:33,160 Speaker 13: to know what your thoughts like, how can a former 817 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 13: president that once was impeached get that power again. I 818 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 13: just just want to get your thoughts as it sings 819 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,240 Speaker 13: that people forgot that he was impeached and how can. 820 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 11: We get that going again again. 821 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 13: I love you all, sending you blessings, love and light 822 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 13: from Florida. I love you guys on the radios, listen 823 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:52,399 Speaker 13: to you every day. 824 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 2: God blessed well. From my standpoint, I tell you, ma'am, 825 00:44:56,239 --> 00:45:00,040 Speaker 2: I'm through hating on Trump. He is the president. He 826 00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,759 Speaker 2: got elected. I did everything in our power to get 827 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 2: Kamala Harris elected. The American public by over five million 828 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:12,719 Speaker 2: votes decided that's not what they wanted. So now they 829 00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: have to sit here and deal with the repercussions. As 830 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 2: far as did they forget he was impeached? Well, did 831 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,840 Speaker 2: they was? Did they forget he was convicted of sexual assault? 832 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,879 Speaker 2: Did they forget he said he grabbed women by the peak? 833 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 2: Did they forget he had thirty four felony convictions? Did 834 00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 2: they forget that when he was president, before he doubled 835 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 2: the debt of the United States? Did they forget all 836 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,600 Speaker 2: of that? Yeah, and they voted him in anyway, they 837 00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,319 Speaker 2: didn't forget. They just don't care. 838 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,840 Speaker 7: Well, in the words of the lady, let me just 839 00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:52,839 Speaker 7: do this right now. Coming up next, Nephew Thomas prank 840 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 7: phone call. 841 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 1: Right after this good energy, yay, whoa much. 842 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:04,040 Speaker 8: Better Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming at 843 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,040 Speaker 8: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after 844 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 8: today's Strawberry letter is pack a bag and a snack 845 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:11,439 Speaker 8: because you ain't coming back. 846 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:16,120 Speaker 7: That's it, all right, thank what you got, man? 847 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 2: What you do right now? Today? I got no halwed, 848 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,919 Speaker 2: no hawed? All right? Gehead here. 849 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 4: So fall your beautiful ladies. That were excellent hair. I 850 00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,759 Speaker 4: love the way you look, whether it's natural all weed. 851 00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 4: This right here is called no haw weed. No how 852 00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:42,439 Speaker 4: we If you show up at work with it, you're done. 853 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:43,400 Speaker 4: Let's go catch up. 854 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:44,640 Speaker 10: Hello. 855 00:46:45,160 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 6: Hello, I'm trying to reach Reesa. Please Reesa, Hia. My 856 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:52,160 Speaker 6: name is Byron, Byron from the job. How are you? 857 00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 6: I'm okay, I'm good. Listen. I hate to call you 858 00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 6: after hours at your home, but there has been some 859 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,600 Speaker 6: new issues that will be going into effect. That was 860 00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,360 Speaker 6: just tomorrow morning, and we're calling everyone letting them know 861 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,759 Speaker 6: the new changes that have been issued that will take 862 00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,839 Speaker 6: effect first thing tomorrow morning. So we're giving everyone a call. 863 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:14,440 Speaker 6: So don't be alarmed. It's just give me a call 864 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 6: letting you know what the what the higher ups have changed. 865 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 16: Okay, Okay, there's no problemsten, Okay. 866 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 6: As of tomorrow, what's gonna happen is when you guys 867 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,640 Speaker 6: come in, you'll be issued a new key card, and 868 00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:29,000 Speaker 6: that particular card will actually registers when you come in 869 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,400 Speaker 6: and go out. Okay, okay, all right. Second one is 870 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,840 Speaker 6: there will no longer be any personal internet at the 871 00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 6: job any longer. You won't be able They're actually putting 872 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,560 Speaker 6: a block on all computers. All the computers will no 873 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 6: longer be able to go to a lot of these 874 00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 6: sites that you guys go to that you've been that's 875 00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 6: been available here in the past. Okay, okay, all right. 876 00:47:51,400 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 6: The last one is reesa do you do you wear 877 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 6: a hair weave? What do you wear a hair weave 878 00:47:58,280 --> 00:47:58,799 Speaker 6: or a wig? 879 00:47:59,640 --> 00:47:59,839 Speaker 10: Yes? 880 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 6: Okay, Well here's one thing and hopefully you can get 881 00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,960 Speaker 6: this change about tomorrow. There's no weaves or hair are 882 00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:11,239 Speaker 6: wigs going to be allowed at the job site from 883 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:14,399 Speaker 6: this point on? So as of tomorrow morning, everyone must 884 00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 6: be wearing their natural hair. 885 00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 3: You're joking. 886 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:20,080 Speaker 6: No, these are the issues that are going to be 887 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,960 Speaker 6: that are instated, and these are going to take effect 888 00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 6: as of tomorrow morning, seven o'clock. 889 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,799 Speaker 16: What does hair weaves to have to do with any 890 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 16: of these changes? The first two I can understand punching 891 00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 16: in and being on the internet, Yes, that's something that 892 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:37,120 Speaker 16: that corporate, But hair weaves and weeks you're getting. 893 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,319 Speaker 6: Into change in the high up start, they're looking down 894 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,840 Speaker 6: upon it. Wigs and hair weaves they have to go. 895 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,600 Speaker 6: So I'm assuming that if you, like you said, you 896 00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:51,320 Speaker 6: do have one, I suggest it doesn't come out. You 897 00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 6: start taking it down now and prepare your hair to 898 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,760 Speaker 6: be natural as you come into work tomorrow. 899 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 16: I'm not taking my hair down. I've been here seven 900 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:00,320 Speaker 16: years and I've dealt with all the change just that 901 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,480 Speaker 16: y'all have made. But there's no way that I'm taking 902 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:05,880 Speaker 16: my hair weave down. I'm sorry. What's your name, Byron? 903 00:49:06,400 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 6: Yes, my name is Byron, and. 904 00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,000 Speaker 16: I'm sorry. 905 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,560 Speaker 6: Let's get back to your weave. This has You're gonna 906 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 6: have to do something. Is there someone that you can 907 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,239 Speaker 6: call tonight to help you get your hair down and 908 00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,560 Speaker 6: so you can look presentable with your natural hair tomorrow. 909 00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,400 Speaker 16: No, my weave colls over two three hundred dollars and 910 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 16: I'm not about to take that down. I mean, it 911 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 16: takes a long time to take that down. 912 00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,839 Speaker 6: Okay, I mean, is this something Maybe you can take 913 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:33,960 Speaker 6: it down and just wear it on the weekends because 914 00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 6: as of now, you're not going to be allowed to 915 00:49:36,080 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 6: actually wear it on the property. 916 00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,680 Speaker 16: And how will you know if someone has weave or not? 917 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 16: Are you gonna do hair checks or something. 918 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 6: Okay, ma'am. I'm not quite sure what they're going to 919 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 6: do to check it. But by you telling me that 920 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,400 Speaker 6: you have a weave, then I have to write it 921 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 6: down that you have confirmed that you do, and we 922 00:49:55,120 --> 00:49:57,839 Speaker 6: got to make sure that tomorrow morning you're not wearing one. 923 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 16: But you don't know what my natural hair looks. It's 924 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 16: like from my wave. Are you heard how much I 925 00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 16: pay for it? 926 00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:05,800 Speaker 2: So it's a good wave, ma'am. 927 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,680 Speaker 6: It's not about how good you know with the quality 928 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,640 Speaker 6: of your weave or anything. They don't want it. They 929 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 6: want natural hair. I don't know what that means. But 930 00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,600 Speaker 6: they're going natural. They're going green, they're going natural. I 931 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 6: don't know what it is. They're going natural, and so 932 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 6: will you. Tomorrow morning you need to come in with 933 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 6: your hair completely down. Okay, I won't do it. 934 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:26,160 Speaker 16: I'm not taking my weave now. 935 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:28,440 Speaker 6: Okay, Then what is that y'all gonna write me up 936 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:30,919 Speaker 6: or something? Okay, ma'am. Do you not want your job? 937 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:31,359 Speaker 2: Yeah? 938 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 16: I want my job, but this don't make no sense. 939 00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 16: You're talking about personal appearance. I can understand y'all have 940 00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 16: a dress coach and enforcing a dress code that's one thing, 941 00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 16: but telling somebody to change. Aw you lost your mind. Man, 942 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,279 Speaker 16: You're crazy, ma'am. 943 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:47,920 Speaker 6: I'm not good. I have other people that I have 944 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 6: to call. Bottom line is get your hat out and 945 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 6: get your butt into work tomorrow, and let's not go 946 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:54,800 Speaker 6: back and forth anymore. 947 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,520 Speaker 16: Okay, Well, listen, by Ranch, you're a lost mine. If 948 00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,760 Speaker 16: you're thinking I'm taking my weave out, I'm not taking 949 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:05,400 Speaker 16: out at all. Resa is coming up in there with 950 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 16: her hair and I'm gonna sit down at my desk 951 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 16: and do my jobs. Y'all gonna have to drag me 952 00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 16: up at some weeds. You know, lost your mind. You 953 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,360 Speaker 16: and your powers that be or whoever. 954 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:15,840 Speaker 13: They may be. 955 00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 6: You tell them that I said that way an wait 956 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,080 Speaker 6: a minute, listen, are you telling me that you're coming 957 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 6: in regardless with your hair on you? 958 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 16: That's what I just said. 959 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:30,080 Speaker 6: Then then we need to Why don't you go ahead 960 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,680 Speaker 6: and bring some boxes in because your man, I'm not 961 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 6: you bring this man. I don't want to have to pack. 962 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:38,600 Speaker 6: You get your stuff and box it up, and you're 963 00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,319 Speaker 6: losing your job because you can't take what. 964 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,520 Speaker 16: You can do that because I'm gonna call the news 965 00:51:43,560 --> 00:51:46,040 Speaker 16: station and tell them you're dragging me out of behind 966 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:50,160 Speaker 16: some weeds. You're wrong, you wrong, You're wrong, you stupid 967 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 16: behind weed an. 968 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 6: You need to watch your language, young lady. 969 00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:55,000 Speaker 16: Why I need to watch my language? 970 00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm at home. 971 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 16: You call me on my own home phone on my time. 972 00:51:59,200 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 6: I'm at my house. 973 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,320 Speaker 12: I'm not on your block. 974 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 16: I say what I want to say on my phone. 975 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,720 Speaker 6: Okay? Can I say what I want on my phone 976 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:07,440 Speaker 6: and then I'll let you go and you can come 977 00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 6: into the work anywhere you want to tomorrow. What is it, Bima? 978 00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 16: What else you got to say? 979 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,080 Speaker 6: I want to tell you. I want to tell you 980 00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:17,440 Speaker 6: that your girlfriend, Jennifer at your job got me the 981 00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:21,040 Speaker 6: prank phone call you. This is nephew Tommy from the 982 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:30,520 Speaker 6: Steve Harvey Morning Show. I know you, Hey, reasons this 983 00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:33,120 Speaker 6: is this is nephew timy baby from the Steve Hobby. 984 00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:36,120 Speaker 6: More than your Jennifer, your coworker, got me the prank 985 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:36,719 Speaker 6: phone call. 986 00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 16: She got my blood pressure up. I'm gonna kill it 987 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,520 Speaker 16: tomorrow and I'm gonna pull home weve out. You want 988 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 16: to come down there and watch me dragon maigh blood pressure. 989 00:52:48,680 --> 00:52:50,479 Speaker 16: You can't be doing that to me behind high weave. 990 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:51,520 Speaker 16: I pay too much money. 991 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 12: I just want my kids. 992 00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 6: Oh ain't nothing like a black woman in her half? 993 00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 6: Oh man, Okay, babe, I got one more thing to 994 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 6: ask you, girl, what is the baddest and I mean 995 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:10,520 Speaker 6: the baddest radio show in the land. Well, after this. 996 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 16: Prank, you have to be the Steve Party Morning showt 997 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 16: and now you have it. 998 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:21,360 Speaker 4: No havel weaves whatever. Way, that was pretty good. That 999 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,960 Speaker 4: was pretty good now I must say so myself. That 1000 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:30,439 Speaker 4: was pretty dog Okay, Saturday, Saturday, December the twenty eighth, 1001 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 4: the nephew is coming to Washington, d C. 1002 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,319 Speaker 2: That's dog dog Constitution Hall. 1003 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,799 Speaker 4: You know that place, that place that my uncle said 1004 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,440 Speaker 4: he done sold like sem eight times straight. 1005 00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 2: The people, all the folk can't get in. Excuse whate 1006 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 2: some twenty two times? 1007 00:53:49,680 --> 00:53:52,160 Speaker 1: You staying excuse me? 1008 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:55,839 Speaker 7: What seven eight eight? 1009 00:53:56,800 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 2: I've been there eight times, but I sold out twenty two. 1010 00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:05,160 Speaker 1: Sold out the dark Constitution Hall twenty two times. 1011 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 2: Shows worked at it, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, 1012 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:14,560 Speaker 2: y'all have multiple shows in the night. Yeah yeah wow. 1013 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:15,880 Speaker 2: So let me say this. 1014 00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 4: The one Tony Robbers, Lance wood Read, Red Grand lou 1015 00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,879 Speaker 4: Neil Bruce, Bruce and yours tutor were trying to sell 1016 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:22,680 Speaker 4: out this one time. 1017 00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,279 Speaker 2: That's what we're trying to do. We're just trying to do. 1018 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 4: Just trying to do this one December twenty eight, hosted 1019 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,799 Speaker 4: by yours Tooting your normal, be stupid, you normal, throw 1020 00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 4: a party, you normal, act the food. Come on, come on, 1021 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,120 Speaker 4: get your tickets and come have a good time. Right 1022 00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:40,719 Speaker 4: after Crystal, this ain't twenty two times. This ain't no, 1023 00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:43,200 Speaker 4: It's just why do you trying to start somewhere? 1024 00:54:43,280 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 2: Do you gotta do one and then you do two? 1025 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:47,879 Speaker 2: You know you gotta start something. 1026 00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:49,280 Speaker 7: How did you get the tweet? 1027 00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm just being that's real talk, because sold out the dog. 1028 00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:56,680 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you know, unk been doing this long 1029 00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:57,359 Speaker 2: ass time. 1030 00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 8: How hard is Junior twenty two times? Because ain't nobody 1031 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 8: broke that recor again? 1032 00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 2: How hard is it? 1033 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:02,480 Speaker 4: Well? 1034 00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:03,200 Speaker 3: How hard is it? 1035 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:03,799 Speaker 4: Do one? 1036 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 6: Hell? 1037 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:08,400 Speaker 2: Look pretty well? Inch by inch anythings that since you 1038 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,000 Speaker 2: got to sell out one for first, you got to 1039 00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 2: get out them clubs. That's for starters. First, you got 1040 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 2: to sell all them clubs out. Then move on up. 1041 00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:19,520 Speaker 2: I'm a whole another story, right all right? 1042 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 7: If you thank you man? 1043 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 8: Coming up next, Jowberry Letters, the subject pack a bag 1044 00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,239 Speaker 8: and a snack because you ain't coming back. 1045 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,319 Speaker 15: I'm not sure if you have COVID nineteen or the flu, 1046 00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,920 Speaker 15: or maybe just a cold. 1047 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 9: Pfizer for All dot com can help book a telehealth 1048 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,120 Speaker 9: visit and talk to a doctor from home, or get 1049 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,760 Speaker 9: a two in one COVID nineteen and flu tests delivered. 1050 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,239 Speaker 9: Pviser for All dot com makes getting care for you 1051 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 9: and your family convenient. 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We could be 1058 00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:14,239 Speaker 9: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1059 00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,520 Speaker 9: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you 1060 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,640 Speaker 9: never know, it could be yours. 1061 00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,280 Speaker 7: It could be yours. Ladies and gentlemen. 1062 00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,239 Speaker 8: It is time for the Strawberry Letter with my good 1063 00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:24,799 Speaker 8: friend Shirley Strawberry. 1064 00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,200 Speaker 15: Thank you, my good friend. 1065 00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:30,480 Speaker 9: Junior subject, pack a bag and a snack because you 1066 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:34,880 Speaker 9: ain't coming back. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm eating a going 1067 00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:36,839 Speaker 9: ben because you ain't going back. 1068 00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:38,600 Speaker 1: Right, let me do that again. 1069 00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,200 Speaker 15: Subjects, pack a bag and a snipe. That ain't you know? 1070 00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 9: Kind of threw me. Pack a bag and a snack 1071 00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,640 Speaker 9: because you ain't going back. Okay, how do you like that, Junior? 1072 00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 2: I love it a little bit more better for you. 1073 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,960 Speaker 2: Pack a bag uh huh and a snack uh huh. 1074 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: Cause your. 1075 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 2: Sad? 1076 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 15: All right, thank you, Steve. 1077 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:10,560 Speaker 9: Dude, Stephen Shirley, I'm dating a new guy that is 1078 00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,000 Speaker 9: either really crazy about me or he's Craig Cray in 1079 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 9: real life. He can't seem to get enough of me 1080 00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:19,400 Speaker 9: and wants to be in my face. Twenty four to seven, 1081 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:22,640 Speaker 9: he was married eight years and said he can't live 1082 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:26,720 Speaker 9: without companionship. His house is forty five minutes from mine, 1083 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:30,240 Speaker 9: so when we go on dates, he either sleeps in 1084 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,920 Speaker 9: my guest room or I sleep in his, depending on 1085 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 9: whose area we spend time in. 1086 00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:37,840 Speaker 15: I work from home, so I'm always able to work 1087 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:38,600 Speaker 15: from his home. 1088 00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 9: Two weeks ago, he invited me to a white party 1089 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 9: and he said to quote, pack a bag and a 1090 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:46,320 Speaker 9: snack because you ain't going back. 1091 00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:49,280 Speaker 15: He wasn't joking, and I've been at his house for 1092 00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 15: two weeks. 1093 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 9: He drove me home to pick up some clothes and 1094 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,920 Speaker 9: water my plants, and I had to get my mail 1095 00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 9: stopped in everything. He has fixed the guest room up 1096 00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,920 Speaker 9: for me, and he brought all of my favorite I 1097 00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:03,560 Speaker 9: think he might really like me because he doesn't pressure 1098 00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,800 Speaker 9: me for sex and he lets me sleep peacefully in 1099 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 9: my own room. He cooks breakfast most of the time, 1100 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,920 Speaker 9: and we have been cooking dinner together. The question I've 1101 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:17,320 Speaker 9: been asking him is where is this going. He can't 1102 00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:19,920 Speaker 9: give me a straight answer. He just says this is 1103 00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 9: a trial period to see if we are compatible. I'm 1104 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 9: thirty four and he's thirty nine, and both of us 1105 00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,280 Speaker 9: are still in our prime. So that fact that he 1106 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,080 Speaker 9: is locked in on me so quickly it's interesting. I 1107 00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,800 Speaker 9: don't doubt that he could be the one, but he's 1108 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,880 Speaker 9: treating me more like a roommate. I sometimes lie in 1109 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 9: the guest room and wonder why he's not trying to 1110 00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:45,760 Speaker 9: sneak in and make love to me. We have done 1111 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,600 Speaker 9: it a few times and it's really good, but it's 1112 00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 9: like he's rationing it out. Is this a good thing 1113 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 9: or is this weird to you? I want to know 1114 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 9: what he's doing in the other bedroom at night? How 1115 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 9: do I get him to open up to me? Okay, 1116 00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:02,040 Speaker 9: I think this is a little weird. 1117 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:02,960 Speaker 3: I really do. 1118 00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:03,960 Speaker 15: You don't think so? 1119 00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,760 Speaker 9: I mean, who basically orders someone to pack snacks because 1120 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:08,800 Speaker 9: they're not going back. 1121 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:09,680 Speaker 15: To their own home? 1122 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:11,720 Speaker 1: Is that what you want? 1123 00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 9: It just doesn't sound like that's what you want to me. 1124 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 9: I think he has pretty much kidnapped you. That's what 1125 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,680 Speaker 9: it sounds like. For lack of a better term, I 1126 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:25,520 Speaker 9: think it's all because he's uncomfortable, very uncomfortable being by himself, 1127 00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,000 Speaker 9: and that's why he's not bothering you at night or 1128 00:59:28,160 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 9: any time, because he just needs a body in the 1129 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:31,640 Speaker 9: house with him. 1130 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 1: But you do know that you can go home at 1131 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:35,880 Speaker 1: any time, right? 1132 00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:36,680 Speaker 3: You do know this? 1133 00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:40,600 Speaker 9: He says it's a trial period to see if you 1134 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,320 Speaker 9: guys are compatible. When you ask, but what is this 1135 00:59:43,440 --> 00:59:47,120 Speaker 9: trial period for? I mean, is it for marriage? Are 1136 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:52,760 Speaker 9: you trying to be in a serious relationship? It sounds 1137 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,120 Speaker 9: like he just wants you as a roommate. You said 1138 00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:58,240 Speaker 9: that yourself, But again, what do you want? 1139 00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,240 Speaker 1: And you should have a say? 1140 01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 9: And how long you want this trial to go on, 1141 01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:05,360 Speaker 9: you don't just have to ask him and get his answer. 1142 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:09,360 Speaker 9: And if you want to continue to participate in this 1143 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:13,040 Speaker 9: so called trial period, you should have an opinion on that. 1144 01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:16,320 Speaker 9: In other words, this should have been a joint decision. 1145 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 9: Tell him you're going home, and that you want to 1146 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:22,280 Speaker 9: go home and see what he says and how he acts. 1147 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 9: If he throws a fit or doesn't want to take you, yeah, 1148 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 9: he's crazy and you need to leave asap. 1149 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,400 Speaker 1: I just think you need to. 1150 01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:33,360 Speaker 9: Think about what you want, and only you can determine 1151 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 9: that if you want to leave, leave, Steve. 1152 01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:37,880 Speaker 2: I want to say something about Pete. People ask me 1153 01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,720 Speaker 2: all the time, Steve. Y'all be writing strawberry letters, y'all self? 1154 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,240 Speaker 2: Who still can do this right here? 1155 01:00:43,760 --> 01:00:43,960 Speaker 3: Oh? 1156 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,120 Speaker 2: Who you know can think of this right here? These 1157 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:50,800 Speaker 2: people with real life, real situation. I'll be just as 1158 01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 2: stunned as y'all are me. 1159 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 1: And going, what the hell you know? I'm stunned. 1160 01:00:56,160 --> 01:01:00,640 Speaker 2: Pack a bag and a snack because you ain't going back. Okay. Now, 1161 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,360 Speaker 2: come to find out later in the letter that this 1162 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:07,240 Speaker 2: woman is thirty four to dude thirty nine. Now you're 1163 01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,560 Speaker 2: dating this new guy that's really crazy about you, or 1164 01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:13,400 Speaker 2: he's cray cray in real life. He can't get enough. 1165 01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:13,720 Speaker 1: Time with me. 1166 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:15,760 Speaker 2: He wants to be in your face. Twenty four seven, 1167 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:19,600 Speaker 2: he was married eight years. Said he can't live without companionship. 1168 01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:24,640 Speaker 2: Now this is a fact. He cannot live with our companionship. 1169 01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,120 Speaker 2: Now listen to me. Now, I think he's going to 1170 01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 2: prove to you that he is needy. This man is needy. Now, 1171 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:36,520 Speaker 2: when a man tell you he can't live with our companion, 1172 01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,320 Speaker 2: he can't be alone. I can't stand to be by myself. 1173 01:01:41,480 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 2: That's one red flag, red flag stuck in the ground. 1174 01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:46,320 Speaker 2: Now what you're doing with these red flag is you're 1175 01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,920 Speaker 2: collecting them. You're picking them up, putting them in the 1176 01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 2: back seat of your car. Steady riding with him. But 1177 01:01:52,480 --> 01:01:55,760 Speaker 2: that was the first red flag. His house is forty 1178 01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,560 Speaker 2: five minutes for mine, so when we go on dates, 1179 01:01:57,600 --> 01:01:59,520 Speaker 2: he just sleeps in my guest room or I sleep 1180 01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,440 Speaker 2: in here, depending on who's there. We spend time in 1181 01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,440 Speaker 2: a work from house, so I'm always able to work 1182 01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:07,600 Speaker 2: from home. Two weeks ago, y'all got invited to a 1183 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,760 Speaker 2: white party. He said, pack a bag and a snack 1184 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:15,320 Speaker 2: because you ain't going back. Really, what the hell you mean. Now, 1185 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 2: you ain't asked no questions right there, right there, you 1186 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,560 Speaker 2: ain't say, wait minute, well, what you mean? I ain't 1187 01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:24,040 Speaker 2: going down? I got a house, I got plants, I 1188 01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 2: got a life, I'm paying rent or whatever you're doing. 1189 01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:30,560 Speaker 2: I need to know you didn't get nothing. Your dumb 1190 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:34,600 Speaker 2: ass packed a bag and got some snacking and went 1191 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:35,240 Speaker 2: on over there. 1192 01:02:35,560 --> 01:02:36,520 Speaker 15: She's a hostage. 1193 01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:40,400 Speaker 9: All right, hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's 1194 01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,919 Speaker 9: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 1195 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 9: Today's Strawberry letter subjects pack a bag and a snack 1196 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,160 Speaker 9: because you ain't going back. We'll get back into it 1197 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:53,520 Speaker 9: right after this. 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That's BYRNA dot com. 1207 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,840 Speaker 9: All right, Steve, come on, let's up recap today's strawberry letter. 1208 01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,880 Speaker 9: The subject is pack a bag and a snack because 1209 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 9: you ain't going back. 1210 01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:35,360 Speaker 2: Thirty four year old woman dating this guy that's thirty nine. 1211 01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:38,040 Speaker 2: She thinks he's really either a great guy he's crazy. 1212 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,120 Speaker 2: Why because he wants to be in her face. Twenty 1213 01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:45,000 Speaker 2: four seven. Man was married for eight years and told 1214 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:49,560 Speaker 2: her I couldnot live without companionship. Well, remember now he 1215 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 2: told that to somebody else too, because he's married for 1216 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 2: eight year. Now he might not be able to live 1217 01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:00,800 Speaker 2: with companionship. But somebody showed this that he wasn't a 1218 01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:06,480 Speaker 2: companion that she wanted to continue to ship with. So 1219 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:12,920 Speaker 2: now obviously this ship don't sail the right way. Now, 1220 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:15,920 Speaker 2: he told you he can't live without companionship. That's a 1221 01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:21,560 Speaker 2: red flag. Ladies, instead of collecting red flags, drive over there. 1222 01:04:21,920 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 2: You don't put this red flag in your back seat. 1223 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:28,120 Speaker 2: And you kept riding. He forty five minutes from your house, 1224 01:04:28,160 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 2: You forty five minutes from his. So when y'all go 1225 01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,480 Speaker 2: out on dates, you spend a night in his guest room, 1226 01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 2: and he's stay in your guest room. Depending on where 1227 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,080 Speaker 2: y'all spent the time at You work from home, so 1228 01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,760 Speaker 2: you can work from his house. Two weeks ago, he 1229 01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:45,120 Speaker 2: invited you to a white party, and then he told you, 1230 01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:48,480 Speaker 2: he said, pack a bag and a snack because you 1231 01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:49,360 Speaker 2: ain't going back. 1232 01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:50,960 Speaker 6: You are. 1233 01:04:52,360 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 2: And voluntary experimental roommate. You are a voluntary experimental roommate. 1234 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:09,480 Speaker 2: He was joking. He wasn't joking, And I've been in 1235 01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 2: this house for two weeks. He drove you home, picked 1236 01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,480 Speaker 2: up some clothes and water. Your playing, had to get 1237 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 2: my mail stopped, and everything you had to or you 1238 01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 2: wanted to see ain't. Nobody got a gun to your head. 1239 01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 2: So what you're not gonna do is blame this letter 1240 01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,840 Speaker 2: on him being Craig Crag, because right now he'd have 1241 01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:31,160 Speaker 2: told you what to do, and your dumb ass is 1242 01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:37,840 Speaker 2: doing it all. You stopped your mail. He fixed up 1243 01:05:37,880 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 2: his guest room for me. He bought all your favorite snacks. 1244 01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,280 Speaker 2: I think he might really like me because he don't 1245 01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:47,240 Speaker 2: pressure me for sex, and he lets me sleep peacefully 1246 01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 2: in my homeroom. He cooks breakfast most of the time, 1247 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:54,040 Speaker 2: and we've been cooking dinner together. The question I've been 1248 01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:56,560 Speaker 2: asking him is where is this going and he can't 1249 01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,120 Speaker 2: give me a straight answer right there. You should have 1250 01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:04,640 Speaker 2: took your ass back. I asked him, where's he going? 1251 01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,760 Speaker 2: And he can't give you a straight answer right there. 1252 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:11,360 Speaker 2: You should have took your asshole. Personally, you shouldn't have 1253 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 2: went over there in the first place, because that pack 1254 01:06:15,360 --> 01:06:18,200 Speaker 2: your bag and a snack because you ain't going back now, 1255 01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 2: you gonna stop your mail. You over that water and 1256 01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 2: your plans, trying to make sure they still living, and 1257 01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:27,120 Speaker 2: you over there working from his house. Y'all playing husband 1258 01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 2: and wife but you ain't husband and wife. Y'all playing house, 1259 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 2: but y'all don't really live together because you got another house. 1260 01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:38,360 Speaker 2: Where is this going? Everybody listening to this woman know 1261 01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:43,360 Speaker 2: he says, this is a trial period to see if 1262 01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:47,040 Speaker 2: we are compatible. I'm thirty four and he's thirty nine, 1263 01:06:47,080 --> 01:06:48,680 Speaker 2: and were still in our prime. So the fact that 1264 01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:53,160 Speaker 2: he's locked in on me so quickly, it's interesting. See, lady, 1265 01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:57,680 Speaker 2: this dude he the one in your mind, he is 1266 01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,200 Speaker 2: the one because you're doing all the things is he 1267 01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:02,480 Speaker 2: asking you to do so you can lock him in? 1268 01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,640 Speaker 2: And he'd locked in on you and you like it. 1269 01:07:05,760 --> 01:07:09,439 Speaker 2: You ain't never been treated this way, so you like it. Now, 1270 01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:12,560 Speaker 2: I've been asking him where this is going, and he 1271 01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:16,280 Speaker 2: can't give me a straight answer. So now you're involved 1272 01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:20,560 Speaker 2: in an experiment that you don't know what the experiment 1273 01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:24,960 Speaker 2: is hoping to accomplish it. You don't know what he's 1274 01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 2: trying to accomplish. So you got an experiment and you 1275 01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:33,160 Speaker 2: don't know what he's trying. What are we what conclusion 1276 01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,320 Speaker 2: are we trying to reach. That's what an experiment is for. 1277 01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:39,720 Speaker 2: Somebody's trying to cure something. Somebody's trying to find an 1278 01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 2: answer to something. Somebody trying to find a shorter way, 1279 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:46,080 Speaker 2: like when I'm out of d ranch, I might cut 1280 01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:48,760 Speaker 2: through another trail to see where it go. Okay, well 1281 01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:55,440 Speaker 2: that's an experiment. But he's treated me more like a roommate. 1282 01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:58,440 Speaker 2: I sometimes lie in the guest room and wonder why 1283 01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:02,200 Speaker 2: he's not trying to sneak in and make love to me. Well, 1284 01:08:02,400 --> 01:08:09,440 Speaker 2: I said, I'm curious about this, my damn, because I'm 1285 01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:12,880 Speaker 2: taking right now, I'll be wearing you to death. I 1286 01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:16,599 Speaker 2: would be wearing you have to death. I'll be army crawling. 1287 01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:22,320 Speaker 2: I open your doughknob from the stomach position and army 1288 01:08:22,439 --> 01:08:25,400 Speaker 2: crawl to the bed. You look up at the foot 1289 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:27,800 Speaker 2: of bed. All you see his eyes and the ball head. 1290 01:08:29,560 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 2: I'll be down there and wait, I'll be wearing your 1291 01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:35,920 Speaker 2: ass half to death. I sometimes lying to just we, 1292 01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 2: But wonder why he ain't trying to sneak in and 1293 01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,160 Speaker 2: make love to me. We've done it a few times 1294 01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 2: and it's really good, but it's like he rationing it out. 1295 01:08:43,520 --> 01:08:45,240 Speaker 2: Is it a good thing? Or is it weird to you? 1296 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,960 Speaker 2: How the hell is a good thing in you? Weird 1297 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,840 Speaker 2: ass man? All this nutty mess he doing? I want 1298 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:53,960 Speaker 2: to know what he's doing in the other room, at 1299 01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:55,240 Speaker 2: the brother bedroom at night? 1300 01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:55,880 Speaker 3: Go in now? 1301 01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:06,080 Speaker 1: Hey, Hey, what's all that out here? Open this doe? 1302 01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,040 Speaker 2: How do I get him to open up to you? 1303 01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 2: If you want a man to open up to you, 1304 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:16,080 Speaker 2: close yourself off to him. Me and a real lead? 1305 01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:18,560 Speaker 2: How do I get him to open up to me? 1306 01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 4: Hell? 1307 01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:22,479 Speaker 2: Are you doing everything he tell you to do? All right? See? 1308 01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:25,160 Speaker 2: You never thought about being in lucive evil? 1309 01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 9: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 1310 01:09:28,479 --> 01:09:31,200 Speaker 9: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 1311 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:35,280 Speaker 9: Letter podcast on the very free iHeartRadio app. 1312 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:36,960 Speaker 15: You can download it today. 1313 01:09:38,000 --> 01:09:39,240 Speaker 1: Hey, this is David Allen Grier. 1314 01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:39,760 Speaker 2: Gos's People. 1315 01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,120 Speaker 1: This is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this is Saca Kahn. What's 1316 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:43,559 Speaker 1: going on? This is your boy Kevin Hart. 1317 01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:44,080 Speaker 2: Let's up. 1318 01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:47,559 Speaker 17: It's DJ Chavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1319 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1320 01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:56,280 Speaker 10: When America needed hope, they delivered this Christmas discovered the 1321 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:59,679 Speaker 10: incredible true story of the sixth Triple Eight, the first 1322 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 10: and only all black, all female battalion to serve overseas 1323 01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:07,080 Speaker 10: during World War Two. Their mission to boost the morale 1324 01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:09,840 Speaker 10: of soldiers with a little love from back home. 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The Saints beat the Giants 1333 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:37,400 Speaker 8: fourteen to eleven. 1334 01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:40,240 Speaker 2: Picked, Yeah, you to picked that? 1335 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:45,439 Speaker 8: Yeah, But then right after that up the Steelers beat 1336 01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:48,839 Speaker 8: the Browns twenty seven to fourteen. 1337 01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:53,800 Speaker 2: Would you have picked that? Yeah? No, I wouldn't have 1338 01:10:53,880 --> 01:10:59,880 Speaker 2: picked it. I'd have been mad, though. Steelers is our arch. 1339 01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:05,439 Speaker 8: Biples well, James in the shop up, but y'all already 1340 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,040 Speaker 8: beat the Ones this year, so they just you know 1341 01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:09,360 Speaker 8: it's even still go unk. 1342 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:13,680 Speaker 7: The Vikings beat the Falcons forty two to twenty one. 1343 01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:14,519 Speaker 7: Would you pick that? 1344 01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:16,000 Speaker 2: You gotta pick that. 1345 01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,160 Speaker 7: The Bucks beat the Raiders twenty eight to thirteen. 1346 01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:23,760 Speaker 2: Uh, you gotta pick that? 1347 01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 16: Yeah? 1348 01:11:24,560 --> 01:11:26,760 Speaker 8: Okay, uh, I know you would have picked this. The 1349 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:28,760 Speaker 8: Eagles beat the Panthers twenty two to six. 1350 01:11:28,920 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hell yeah, Jalen yok. 1351 01:11:33,240 --> 01:11:35,599 Speaker 8: They don't nobody care about this game. The Jaguars beat 1352 01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:36,920 Speaker 8: the Tighters ten to six. 1353 01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:38,519 Speaker 2: Pick that though. 1354 01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:44,280 Speaker 7: The Dolphins beat the Jets thirty two to twenty six. 1355 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:45,640 Speaker 2: I gotta pick that. 1356 01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:47,040 Speaker 12: Can you pick that? 1357 01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:47,639 Speaker 7: Okay? 1358 01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:48,320 Speaker 6: Here we go. 1359 01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:53,000 Speaker 8: The Seahawks beat the Cardinals. That's your team, man, thirty eight? 1360 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:56,320 Speaker 2: Tick that? Hell no, Cardinals. I wouldn't have picked that. 1361 01:11:57,640 --> 01:11:59,320 Speaker 7: But unc higgo want unc Now you got to be 1362 01:11:59,400 --> 01:11:59,960 Speaker 7: honest about this. 1363 01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:04,800 Speaker 2: Up rapping on man. You accuse me of line No, No, 1364 01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, on this game, you gotta be honest. 1365 01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:09,720 Speaker 1: Huh, just be honest. 1366 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,200 Speaker 7: Beat the Bills forty two to forty. 1367 01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:16,200 Speaker 2: I would not have hit that. I would not hell 1368 01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,799 Speaker 2: no our bills all day long. I have picked the Bills, 1369 01:12:21,240 --> 01:12:21,559 Speaker 2: all right. 1370 01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 8: The forty nine Ers beat the Bears thirty eight to thirteen. 1371 01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:29,240 Speaker 2: Up. Yes, And I think it's due to the quarterback 1372 01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:30,919 Speaker 2: wearing fingernail polished. 1373 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:37,640 Speaker 7: That's not that's not fair. It's football, that's it. They 1374 01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 7: just lost. 1375 01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:43,560 Speaker 2: He's not in the words of rappers. I'm standing on 1376 01:12:43,880 --> 01:12:50,280 Speaker 2: business business business, of course. 1377 01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,599 Speaker 7: It's just they just lost. I mean, they just lost. 1378 01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:57,000 Speaker 1: It's all. 1379 01:12:57,200 --> 01:12:59,360 Speaker 7: So you know, that was just week fourteen. 1380 01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:05,280 Speaker 2: Just after she keep on, I said what I had 1381 01:13:05,360 --> 01:13:05,679 Speaker 2: to see. 1382 01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:08,479 Speaker 7: Okay, welcome, let me get you out here. You want 1383 01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,519 Speaker 7: to travel hour. A man on social media needs your advice. 1384 01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:11,800 Speaker 13: Up. 1385 01:13:12,479 --> 01:13:14,960 Speaker 7: I left my date at the bar. We'll talk about 1386 01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:15,640 Speaker 7: it right after this. 1387 01:13:16,760 --> 01:13:18,840 Speaker 1: What's going on? This is your boy, Kevin Hark, What up? 1388 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,040 Speaker 7: This is your boy, Chris Brown, your boy, the Big 1389 01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:21,720 Speaker 7: Snoop Dog. 1390 01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:26,280 Speaker 2: This is your boy, said the entertainer. 1391 01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:28,439 Speaker 1: This is jo Linda Adams less set. 1392 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,760 Speaker 17: It's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1393 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:35,960 Speaker 17: There's morning shows and there's the Greatest Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1394 01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:38,000 Speaker 7: Another one dre. 1395 01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,760 Speaker 10: On Steve Harvey FM Rights. I went on a date 1396 01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,519 Speaker 10: over the weekend with a girl I met on an app. 1397 01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,799 Speaker 10: I was excited until I saw how she carried herself 1398 01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:51,120 Speaker 10: in a bar that we went to. In an hour, 1399 01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 10: she almost got into a fight with another girl, who 1400 01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:57,559 Speaker 10: she said, cut in front of her in the bathroom line. 1401 01:13:58,120 --> 01:14:02,200 Speaker 10: She was overflirting with the bard for free drink and 1402 01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:08,280 Speaker 10: made three racial comments that just disgusted me. In hindsight, 1403 01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:11,720 Speaker 10: I should have told her that the night was over 1404 01:14:11,880 --> 01:14:16,000 Speaker 10: from me and taken her home. Instead, I just excused 1405 01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:19,040 Speaker 10: myself to the bathroom, walked out the back door of 1406 01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:22,840 Speaker 10: the bar, and then locked her. I don't know how 1407 01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:26,120 Speaker 10: she got home, and now I kind of feel bad 1408 01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:27,599 Speaker 10: about that shut out. 1409 01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:32,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, you should always do the gentlemanly thing. Never 1410 01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:35,280 Speaker 2: leave a woman out that, especially if you picked her 1411 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:38,680 Speaker 2: up and how she got home, that's that's being a 1412 01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,479 Speaker 2: little bit rude. But you could have took her home 1413 01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,680 Speaker 2: and just bounced and never seen her again. But the 1414 01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:46,920 Speaker 2: cool thing would have been to get the lady to 1415 01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:51,439 Speaker 2: her house that's responsible, because you would have felt horrible 1416 01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:54,880 Speaker 2: if she had gotten an accident or somebody attacked her something, 1417 01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:57,800 Speaker 2: so that the gentleman thing to do would be to 1418 01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:01,880 Speaker 2: escort her home, be kind, and drop off at the door, 1419 01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:04,640 Speaker 2: and then drive off and go. Bet I don't do 1420 01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:10,720 Speaker 2: that again. Yeah, yeah, gentleman with a girl cut her 1421 01:15:10,760 --> 01:15:14,639 Speaker 2: in the bathroom, flirting with the bartender for future free drinks, 1422 01:15:15,360 --> 01:15:19,880 Speaker 2: and then made several racial comments. What she said, though, 1423 01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:23,439 Speaker 2: What did she say? Probably somebody. 1424 01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:28,080 Speaker 1: You've been careful, sir. 1425 01:15:28,439 --> 01:15:35,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had a good one. I had a good one, 1426 01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:39,120 Speaker 2: but I decided for the future of the radio business. 1427 01:15:43,520 --> 01:15:47,160 Speaker 2: I had a good one though we all knew he said. Okay, 1428 01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:50,360 Speaker 2: you bet that, all right, But but the thing is 1429 01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:52,040 Speaker 2: I had it instantly. 1430 01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:53,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. 1431 01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:59,839 Speaker 10: Exactly what she said, So he should be a gentleman 1432 01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:00,799 Speaker 10: at all times. 1433 01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:02,040 Speaker 1: All right, let's move on here. 1434 01:16:02,280 --> 01:16:05,840 Speaker 10: We have time for one more chuck on Steve HARVFM Rights. 1435 01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,120 Speaker 10: I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years and 1436 01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:09,720 Speaker 10: she's an absolute sweetheart. 1437 01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:13,880 Speaker 1: I love her, but she's a mess, and I've known 1438 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:14,679 Speaker 1: for a while. 1439 01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:17,680 Speaker 10: I've been wanting to break up with her for a 1440 01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:19,960 Speaker 10: few months, but I'm feeling guilty about it. 1441 01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:24,120 Speaker 1: She hasn't really done anything to have her heart broken. 1442 01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:26,680 Speaker 10: But I just can't stay with her and be her 1443 01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:30,960 Speaker 10: therapist anymore and cheer her own and uplift her all 1444 01:16:31,040 --> 01:16:33,920 Speaker 10: the time. I know this is going to be difficult 1445 01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:37,439 Speaker 10: for both of us, but I worry about how she'll respond. 1446 01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:41,439 Speaker 1: What can I do to make this easier on her? 1447 01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:46,759 Speaker 10: How can I end it without destroying an already fragile person. 1448 01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:52,280 Speaker 2: Bruh, there is no way to do what you asking? 1449 01:16:53,240 --> 01:17:00,080 Speaker 2: What is you talking about? No, she fragile. Yeah, in 1450 01:17:00,160 --> 01:17:02,439 Speaker 2: the end of two years, you've been taping her together, 1451 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:05,800 Speaker 2: You've been in therapy with her for two damn years. Yeah, 1452 01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:10,920 Speaker 2: now you're finna tell hers over Hell he ain't therapy 1453 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:12,360 Speaker 2: now this? Yeah? 1454 01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:14,439 Speaker 4: So that? 1455 01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a rough one. 1456 01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: What can he do, then, Steve, he doesn't want to 1457 01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:21,799 Speaker 1: be with her anymore? 1458 01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,160 Speaker 2: What can he do? Yeah, I'm gonna leave. That's what 1459 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:33,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do. You talking to the wrong person like that? Yeah, bounce. 1460 01:17:35,240 --> 01:17:37,320 Speaker 1: Without You're not gonna talk to her, You're just gonna leave. 1461 01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:42,280 Speaker 2: What you're gonna say ain't really nothing you could say. 1462 01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:45,439 Speaker 2: I leave town. I just you know, just uproot. 1463 01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:49,760 Speaker 1: Then a text then a text. 1464 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 2: Go down to your job though, she's gonna come down 1465 01:17:54,600 --> 01:17:57,240 Speaker 2: to your job that's for shore and be out there 1466 01:17:57,280 --> 01:17:59,439 Speaker 2: and banging on the window crying. So it's gonna be 1467 01:17:59,479 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, okay, we. 1468 01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:06,439 Speaker 8: Have bore up today's trinny stories on the see every 1469 01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:08,840 Speaker 8: Morning show at twenty minutes after the hour. 1470 01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:09,840 Speaker 2: Hey, what up? 1471 01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:12,640 Speaker 17: This is your boy, Chris bry big Snoop Dog. 1472 01:18:15,000 --> 01:18:17,160 Speaker 7: You already know what time it is, boy, DC young Flag. 1473 01:18:17,200 --> 01:18:20,200 Speaker 1: You listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 1474 01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1475 01:18:24,120 --> 01:18:26,200 Speaker 7: All right, Colin, So what's going on? What is this 1476 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 7: story about? 1477 01:18:27,320 --> 01:18:29,920 Speaker 10: The couple of newly weeds in Philadelphia may not be 1478 01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:32,840 Speaker 10: the first people to ever get married, but they sure 1479 01:18:33,040 --> 01:18:39,000 Speaker 10: are the oldest. Bernie Littman and Marjorie Fitterman tied the 1480 01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:43,799 Speaker 10: knot at a senior living facility where they met. Bernie 1481 01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:47,639 Speaker 10: is one hundred years old and Marjorie is one hundred 1482 01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:52,080 Speaker 10: and two years old. The Againness Book of World Records 1483 01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:55,599 Speaker 10: recently certified them as the world's oldest couple to marry 1484 01:18:55,800 --> 01:19:00,160 Speaker 10: based on their combined age. The couple first met at 1485 01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:04,280 Speaker 10: a costume party at the facility. And quickly fell in love. 1486 01:19:05,520 --> 01:19:08,160 Speaker 10: So they were previ Was they dressed as two young 1487 01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:15,280 Speaker 10: kids or was they dressed hundred and three? One hundred 1488 01:19:15,320 --> 01:19:17,760 Speaker 10: and two? Marjorie is and Bernie her husband is one 1489 01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:22,160 Speaker 10: hundred and one, and she that she insists on drinking 1490 01:19:22,360 --> 01:19:26,320 Speaker 10: buttermilk every day has helped her stay to be one hundred. 1491 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:28,599 Speaker 1: And two years old. So what do you guys think? 1492 01:19:28,800 --> 01:19:30,840 Speaker 1: What do you would you recommend to lift to be 1493 01:19:31,080 --> 01:19:31,639 Speaker 1: one hundred? 1494 01:19:32,560 --> 01:19:38,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna get some damn buttermilk. That's damn sure. 1495 01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:40,160 Speaker 1: That's on the top of the list. 1496 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:43,960 Speaker 2: Damn what I think she got proof of concept? Yeah, 1497 01:19:44,080 --> 01:19:47,160 Speaker 2: she's proof. So I'm buying me some damn buttermilk to 1498 01:19:47,200 --> 01:19:47,559 Speaker 2: a day? 1499 01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:49,080 Speaker 7: Okay, to day? 1500 01:19:50,080 --> 01:19:55,160 Speaker 1: What a butter milk? 1501 01:19:55,960 --> 01:20:00,120 Speaker 2: I'm not getting married at a hundred? Right to I'm 1502 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:01,599 Speaker 2: not getting married at a hunt. 1503 01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm not. 1504 01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:05,360 Speaker 7: Oh man, Sorry, when we come back, we'll have a rounder. 1505 01:20:05,439 --> 01:20:06,200 Speaker 7: Would you rather? 1506 01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:09,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1507 01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:12,240 Speaker 4: Holidays are here and it's essential to recognize and personal 1508 01:20:12,320 --> 01:20:14,160 Speaker 4: safety is a year round priority. 1509 01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:16,920 Speaker 2: It's mine and why I have the Burner Launcher. 1510 01:20:16,680 --> 01:20:20,240 Speaker 4: Equipped with powerful non lethal deterrence, including tear gas and 1511 01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:23,479 Speaker 4: kinetic rounds with a sixty foot range. 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What we gonna do it? 1520 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:41,840 Speaker 1: All right? 1521 01:20:41,920 --> 01:20:44,120 Speaker 10: Would you rather give up your cell phone for a 1522 01:20:44,360 --> 01:20:46,639 Speaker 10: month or bathing for a month? 1523 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:50,040 Speaker 2: I got to give up. That's a tough one, I got, 1524 01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:50,760 Speaker 2: is it? 1525 01:20:51,000 --> 01:20:51,160 Speaker 8: Is it? 1526 01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:51,759 Speaker 1: Tommy? 1527 01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:52,719 Speaker 7: That's tough Tommy. 1528 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:55,120 Speaker 2: I let know. Let me just tell you what's gonna 1529 01:20:55,120 --> 01:20:57,920 Speaker 2: happen if you don't bathe for two weeks. I know 1530 01:20:58,200 --> 01:21:00,880 Speaker 2: the next time you sit on the toilet, you're gonna 1531 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:04,880 Speaker 2: just roll off of it into the floor once you 1532 01:21:05,000 --> 01:21:07,640 Speaker 2: spread your legs. I'm telling you right now, you just 1533 01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:13,280 Speaker 2: gonna roll out on your die. You gonna fink there's 1534 01:21:13,520 --> 01:21:15,720 Speaker 2: no way you could sit on thathing. You ain't even 1535 01:21:15,760 --> 01:21:18,400 Speaker 2: got to do nothing. Just pull your pants down and 1536 01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:27,240 Speaker 2: sit on that toilet and sink. All right, You're gonna 1537 01:21:27,320 --> 01:21:29,200 Speaker 2: hit your head on the edge of that suit. You're 1538 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:33,439 Speaker 2: gonna do more damage if you don't get your jaw wire. 1539 01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:35,479 Speaker 2: All kinds of stuff dong that that. 1540 01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:41,000 Speaker 1: Don't bathe in thirty days of the bar hard? 1541 01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:45,360 Speaker 2: Long time you do? And when you do bathe after 1542 01:21:45,520 --> 01:21:50,280 Speaker 2: thirty days? What all that stuff in the bathroom, you're 1543 01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:55,800 Speaker 2: gonna have burn? All that you that washcloth, towe soap, 1544 01:21:55,920 --> 01:22:02,519 Speaker 2: that bar soap. That bar soap probably gonna milk. All right? 1545 01:22:03,080 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 10: Would you rather celebrate New Year's Eve in Times Square 1546 01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:11,640 Speaker 10: or watch fireworks from your backyard? 1547 01:22:12,280 --> 01:22:12,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1548 01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:16,280 Speaker 1: Be quiet New Year's e Oh yeah, b B all right. 1549 01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:18,120 Speaker 2: I've been. I've been to Times Square three. 1550 01:22:18,360 --> 01:22:21,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you've done the countdown to the ball dropping all. 1551 01:22:21,479 --> 01:22:27,640 Speaker 2: That the worst? Really, I do not understand why. But 1552 01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:29,680 Speaker 2: first of all, let me say something. If you're there 1553 01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:33,000 Speaker 2: for the New Year's celebration, New York blocks off the streets, 1554 01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:37,000 Speaker 2: so once you come you trapped there. 1555 01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:37,479 Speaker 1: You're there. 1556 01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no leaving. Yeah I heard that too, And 1557 01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:47,960 Speaker 2: there are no bathrooms, so everybody wears diapers. It's crazy, man, 1558 01:22:48,880 --> 01:22:51,720 Speaker 2: It is absolutely crazy what they do to do that. 1559 01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:52,800 Speaker 2: That's a true story. 1560 01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:53,479 Speaker 6: All right. 1561 01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:58,360 Speaker 10: Would you rather detect every lie you here? Or get 1562 01:22:58,439 --> 01:23:00,799 Speaker 10: away with every lie you tell. 1563 01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:05,320 Speaker 2: Which is the whole goal in my life? That is 1564 01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:13,280 Speaker 2: your goal. That's that's the purpose of telling. Why you 1565 01:23:13,360 --> 01:23:15,240 Speaker 2: don't tell a lie to getting busted. You tell a 1566 01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:19,320 Speaker 2: lie to get away. That's the whole goal in life matter. 1567 01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:21,400 Speaker 2: If I can lie and get away with it every time? 1568 01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,200 Speaker 2: Do you know the lies I would tell? 1569 01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:26,560 Speaker 1: Why do you have to lie? Why can't you just 1570 01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:27,680 Speaker 1: tell the truth. 1571 01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:35,280 Speaker 2: That marriage you want to keep, hold your family together. 1572 01:23:35,040 --> 01:23:37,719 Speaker 1: You want you got to lie to do all that little. 1573 01:23:37,479 --> 01:23:43,200 Speaker 2: More respectable, little be able to come to work face 1574 01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:48,240 Speaker 2: your coworkers. You have got to lie if you play 1575 01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:52,000 Speaker 2: on maintaining any relationships in this world. I found out 1576 01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:52,240 Speaker 2: to be. 1577 01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 7: Around And would you rather come up? 1578 01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:58,000 Speaker 8: In forty nine minutes after the hour, it's the last 1579 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:00,479 Speaker 8: break of the day and Uncle Steve's closing remark. 1580 01:24:00,640 --> 01:24:03,080 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1581 01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 2: Nothing feels as good as driving the new Honday And 1582 01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:09,479 Speaker 2: now you can get a great deal on your favorite 1583 01:24:09,520 --> 01:24:13,080 Speaker 2: model at the Hondaid Getaway Sales event. Make your next 1584 01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:17,639 Speaker 2: getaway your best one yet. 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I want to get myself prof 1593 01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:42,720 Speaker 8: I'm proud of me. 1594 01:24:43,840 --> 01:24:44,400 Speaker 3: Are you then? 1595 01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:45,879 Speaker 7: What did a great job. 1596 01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:47,960 Speaker 4: Before? 1597 01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? Bruh. Where was the great job though? Show me 1598 01:24:52,400 --> 01:24:52,920 Speaker 2: where that was? 1599 01:24:53,080 --> 01:24:54,160 Speaker 1: What you've been on? 1600 01:24:54,640 --> 01:24:54,800 Speaker 6: Dog? 1601 01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,680 Speaker 2: What you been I've been right here? First of all, 1602 01:24:57,760 --> 01:24:58,560 Speaker 2: what I'm not gonna do. 1603 01:24:58,640 --> 01:24:59,760 Speaker 7: Some is criticized. 1604 01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 2: Well, well, well, well that's what we're here for. Which 1605 01:25:04,000 --> 01:25:06,240 Speaker 2: break did you think was great? 1606 01:25:07,680 --> 01:25:08,280 Speaker 7: All of them? 1607 01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:09,840 Speaker 2: Oh? 1608 01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:13,840 Speaker 1: Can I ask a question? 1609 01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:14,840 Speaker 2: Uh huh? 1610 01:25:15,000 --> 01:25:16,880 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna ask this to you, Junior. 1611 01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:21,960 Speaker 10: Do you think that your uncle, uncle, Steve and Tommy 1612 01:25:22,280 --> 01:25:23,400 Speaker 10: are too hard on you? 1613 01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:24,920 Speaker 2: You feel they job? 1614 01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:26,320 Speaker 7: They're not gonna stop calling. 1615 01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:29,400 Speaker 1: I didn't ask that. I asked do you think they're 1616 01:25:29,439 --> 01:25:30,160 Speaker 1: too hard on you? 1617 01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:32,680 Speaker 7: Absolutely see that. 1618 01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:37,000 Speaker 10: Now we're getting somewhere. Do you guys receive that? And 1619 01:25:37,120 --> 01:25:39,040 Speaker 10: he's saying y'all are too hard on him. 1620 01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:42,000 Speaker 4: I don't receive a damn thing, Junior just said. Now, 1621 01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:46,720 Speaker 4: why why are we receiving, receiving high for what? 1622 01:25:47,360 --> 01:25:48,560 Speaker 2: What did he want us to do? 1623 01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:52,760 Speaker 10: Well, if somebody's telling you that you you're going going 1624 01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,240 Speaker 10: in too much and they only human, they telling you 1625 01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:57,719 Speaker 10: to pull up a little bit, now. 1626 01:25:57,760 --> 01:26:00,200 Speaker 2: Going in harder? Now now that he just said, you 1627 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:04,360 Speaker 2: wait till tomorrow. Get it? My god, we turned the 1628 01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:06,600 Speaker 2: fire up. Yeah, don't worry about it. 1629 01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:08,840 Speaker 7: Calling. Ain't you got some clothing and some people need 1630 01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:09,160 Speaker 7: to talking. 1631 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:11,719 Speaker 2: You don'd clappin. 1632 01:26:12,040 --> 01:26:17,000 Speaker 1: I'm a cute We pledge, So you're pledging him. He's pledging, 1633 01:26:17,400 --> 01:26:18,680 Speaker 1: he's pleasure, he's online. 1634 01:26:19,000 --> 01:26:24,479 Speaker 2: Oh afterlute, Well we have in the set. He pledged 1635 01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:26,799 Speaker 2: me when I first got on the radio for years, 1636 01:26:27,800 --> 01:26:30,600 Speaker 2: it took years not finish. Just let you come up 1637 01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,960 Speaker 2: in here. Thank you doing everything all right? I want 1638 01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:35,120 Speaker 2: to give myself some credit. Well you need to check 1639 01:26:35,120 --> 01:26:37,000 Speaker 2: with some people. Let's pass some credit out. 1640 01:26:39,000 --> 01:26:40,720 Speaker 1: Junior. How long have you been working here? 1641 01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:46,240 Speaker 7: I've been here thirteen years, thirteen years. 1642 01:26:46,320 --> 01:26:47,880 Speaker 2: You've been on the radio thirteen years? 1643 01:26:47,920 --> 01:26:49,160 Speaker 3: With how long is he? 1644 01:26:51,880 --> 01:26:53,679 Speaker 7: I don't know what I'm but I'm coming. 1645 01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:54,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what. 1646 01:26:56,360 --> 01:26:59,519 Speaker 3: I see And this is how you sun? 1647 01:27:02,320 --> 01:27:03,080 Speaker 7: Can you get to your. 1648 01:27:03,040 --> 01:27:06,320 Speaker 1: Clothes remark sir, I'm sorry. 1649 01:27:08,920 --> 01:27:14,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing them right now. All right, y'all, let 1650 01:27:14,439 --> 01:27:16,000 Speaker 2: me give you this as we can go. 1651 01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:18,599 Speaker 1: Away from here crazy right here. 1652 01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:22,880 Speaker 2: Man, listen, y'all, in this world we live in today, 1653 01:27:25,120 --> 01:27:29,800 Speaker 2: you have got to manage your expectations. And what I 1654 01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:33,880 Speaker 2: mean by that is stop expecting people to be happy 1655 01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:38,759 Speaker 2: for you. Stop expecting people to cheer for you, because 1656 01:27:38,840 --> 01:27:41,560 Speaker 2: I'm finding more and more that that's not what they do. 1657 01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:42,720 Speaker 6: Now. 1658 01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,200 Speaker 2: There are steal a lot of good people in this world. 1659 01:27:46,320 --> 01:27:48,240 Speaker 2: There are a lot of people who are happy for 1660 01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:51,800 Speaker 2: your success. There are a lot of people who are 1661 01:27:51,960 --> 01:27:55,960 Speaker 2: cheering for you. There are steal people that's praying for you. 1662 01:27:58,560 --> 01:28:02,679 Speaker 2: But I found those people to do it quietly. I've 1663 01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:08,479 Speaker 2: said this one hundred times on this show. Hate is loud, 1664 01:28:09,600 --> 01:28:13,080 Speaker 2: but love is strong. And that's what I see. A 1665 01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:16,639 Speaker 2: lot of the people that love you, they're not as 1666 01:28:16,800 --> 01:28:20,120 Speaker 2: loud with it. They just love you. But people that 1667 01:28:20,280 --> 01:28:24,200 Speaker 2: hate you, oh, they make a lot of noise about it, 1668 01:28:24,320 --> 01:28:27,680 Speaker 2: don't they. Oh Man, they come out of nowhere, don't they? 1669 01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:30,960 Speaker 2: And you sitting up here going what did I ever 1670 01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:34,120 Speaker 2: do to you? And I'm telling you right now, in 1671 01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:36,439 Speaker 2: the world we live in today. You don't have to 1672 01:28:36,520 --> 01:28:39,519 Speaker 2: do nothing. All you got to do is exist, and 1673 01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:43,920 Speaker 2: somebody gonna have a problem with you existing. I've never 1674 01:28:44,240 --> 01:28:47,400 Speaker 2: seen the world the way it is today, and I've 1675 01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:52,599 Speaker 2: been on this planet sixty seven years. Is so much hate. 1676 01:28:52,680 --> 01:28:56,600 Speaker 2: We don't cheer for each other anymore. I stopped expecting 1677 01:28:56,640 --> 01:29:00,280 Speaker 2: people to cheer for me. You know what people do, man, 1678 01:29:00,360 --> 01:29:03,400 Speaker 2: People find something to talk about in a negative way. 1679 01:29:04,080 --> 01:29:08,880 Speaker 2: They don't even know the story. You know what's crazy, man? 1680 01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:16,120 Speaker 2: You know what I learned recently. People get jealous of 1681 01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:24,519 Speaker 2: your success, but ain't nobody jealous of your journey? Did 1682 01:29:24,560 --> 01:29:28,439 Speaker 2: you hear what I said? People are jealous of your success, 1683 01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:36,439 Speaker 2: but ain't nobody jealous of your journey? That's crazy? You know, 1684 01:29:36,600 --> 01:29:39,200 Speaker 2: the average person don't even know what you're going through. 1685 01:29:39,320 --> 01:29:41,680 Speaker 2: The average person don't even know what you have to 1686 01:29:41,800 --> 01:29:44,680 Speaker 2: do to be who you are. The average person has 1687 01:29:44,840 --> 01:29:49,240 Speaker 2: no idea what you've overcome, how many hurdles you've jumped, 1688 01:29:49,520 --> 01:29:52,880 Speaker 2: how many rivers you've swam, how many values you've crawled through, 1689 01:29:52,920 --> 01:29:55,760 Speaker 2: how many ditches you done grind out of? They just 1690 01:29:56,040 --> 01:30:01,760 Speaker 2: don't know, And then they have the nerve the audacity 1691 01:30:01,880 --> 01:30:05,960 Speaker 2: to pass judgment on you and all you doing is 1692 01:30:06,040 --> 01:30:10,559 Speaker 2: the best you can for yourself, for your family. So man, 1693 01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:14,320 Speaker 2: listen to me. Stop expecting people to get it nowadays. 1694 01:30:15,680 --> 01:30:19,599 Speaker 2: Understand this. Get you a relationship with God. Get your 1695 01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:23,840 Speaker 2: relationship with somebody that's cheering for you. Talk to God today, 1696 01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:27,120 Speaker 2: somebody who is the architect of your future. Because I 1697 01:30:27,160 --> 01:30:29,640 Speaker 2: got news for you, people at ain't the architect of 1698 01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:32,920 Speaker 2: no future. I heard a guy say recently that the 1699 01:30:33,120 --> 01:30:36,479 Speaker 2: reason he did the types of interviews he did was 1700 01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:39,200 Speaker 2: because he was trying to destroy the people he was 1701 01:30:39,280 --> 01:30:45,200 Speaker 2: talking about. Ain't that crazy, man? You trying to destroy 1702 01:30:45,400 --> 01:30:46,160 Speaker 2: somebody else? 1703 01:30:46,439 --> 01:30:46,639 Speaker 1: Why? 1704 01:30:47,000 --> 01:30:51,960 Speaker 2: Because yours is destroyed? Is that why you're doing it? Man, 1705 01:30:52,320 --> 01:30:55,559 Speaker 2: listen to me, y'all, get a relationship with God, somebody 1706 01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:58,920 Speaker 2: that's happy for your success, somebody that's pulling for you. 1707 01:30:59,200 --> 01:31:02,720 Speaker 2: Somebody has a great plan for you. And that's God Almighty, 1708 01:31:02,800 --> 01:31:06,400 Speaker 2: and He never ever changed. People are subject to change 1709 01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:09,920 Speaker 2: from God, and hold old to God's a change in hand. 1710 01:31:10,000 --> 01:31:11,360 Speaker 2: I used to see older people say. 1711 01:31:11,280 --> 01:31:11,920 Speaker 1: That all the time. 1712 01:31:12,240 --> 01:31:15,479 Speaker 2: I get y'all have a great day. 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