WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Escalator Escape 

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I will admit I was a little judgy today

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<v Speaker 1>in the second Date update just today. Huh, But seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>what is she thinking? I really like your new comment quote,

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<v Speaker 1>wasted you're pretty. I'm gonna say you start using that,

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<v Speaker 1>don't waste your pretty? Oh god, I use that all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. Don't waste your pretty. All right, you'll understand

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on here in a second, because we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new episode for you. But first comments, Alan

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<v Speaker 1>Jamison said, I'm so glad I found the podcast so

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<v Speaker 1>late in the game. Y'ose laughs and antics are the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect thing to drown out the construction noises while at work.

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<v Speaker 2>You can binge yeah, yeah, how loud?

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<v Speaker 1>You have to have us to not hear construction noise? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>jackhammer or which one gives you a headache?

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<v Speaker 3>First?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, Hey, your brand new episode starts right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date Update. There's something I've learned since I started

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<v Speaker 2>working on this show is not everybody necessarily dates for

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<v Speaker 2>true love.

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<v Speaker 1>It was this show that had to teach you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Not high school, college.

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<v Speaker 2>No experience.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I was very much in the Disney mindset. You go

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<v Speaker 2>out to fall in.

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<v Speaker 1>Love, but I just want to pat the top of

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<v Speaker 1>your head.

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<v Speaker 2>I learned some people date for just the free meal.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people date because their horoscope told them to. That's

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<v Speaker 2>actually true. Some people date because their spouse wanted to

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<v Speaker 2>try opening up the relationships. So now it's a table

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<v Speaker 2>for three at the Rainforest Cafe.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you at the Rainforest Cafe, Desert Boro?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 2>Those Mango Tango dakeries cannot come fast enough, but they

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<v Speaker 2>serve alcohol, they sure do. One of our listeners, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 2>wrote us in her email, saying she had a different

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<v Speaker 2>reason for hopping onto the dating apps, and I'd like

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<v Speaker 2>to find out what that is. Jamie. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey are you Are you ready to shock Jeffrey?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, my whole world is about to be rocked. What

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<v Speaker 2>is it that made you or who is it that

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<v Speaker 2>made you get on the app?

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<v Speaker 3>I've just been trying to get myself back out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been in a few relationships that didn't work out recently,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I'm just trying to get my confidence back up.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't really assume I'm going to fall in love immediately,

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<v Speaker 3>but you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like going through the motions just to like get back

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<v Speaker 2>in you. Let's go on a day, Let's see what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that's confidence saying. Are you just waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for enough compliments to come through before the confidence kicks in?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So did it work? Were you able to grab

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<v Speaker 2>some confidence from somewhere?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I did end up matching with this guy

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<v Speaker 3>named Matthew on Hinge, so I was feeling good about that,

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<v Speaker 3>and he had some really cute photos. He's kind of nerdy, cute.

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<v Speaker 3>Look he's wearing glasses like I was into it.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, what did you do for your date?

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<v Speaker 3>See? Here's the thing, So the first date almost never

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<v Speaker 3>happened basically. Okay, so we were going to meet up

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<v Speaker 3>for a happy hour. We get there and I realized

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I can actually coincide or not.

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<v Speaker 3>Why because the Bari picked is on the second floor

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<v Speaker 3>and you have to take an escalator there and I

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<v Speaker 3>have this phobia escalators basically.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like moving stairs.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I got my foot stuck in an escalator. It

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<v Speaker 2>was traumatic.

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<v Speaker 1>And you see those stories of like, I'm sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't add I should have had my bad. I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>crocs a really dangerous too.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, sorry, Jamie. Hopefully we're not triggering you with

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<v Speaker 2>all these stories. We're really not trying to.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, No, it's okay. I actually fell down one at

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<v Speaker 3>the Mall of America when I was a kid, but

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<v Speaker 3>it was going upwards, so I just kind of kept falling. O.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, that sounds so painful.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry to laugh. It's kind of a funny image,

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<v Speaker 2>but I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're on this date and you have to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the second floor and you can't find an elevator.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you do? Right? Obviously, I'm hesitating and he

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<v Speaker 3>sees me, and he's like, what's wrong? And I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>want to tell him because I didn't want to think

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<v Speaker 3>I was weird immediately or.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's your very first interaction, So what did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>I just had him hold my hand while I sat

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<v Speaker 3>on the elevator's step and kept my eyes closed, and

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<v Speaker 3>we rode up worried about faul.

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<v Speaker 2>If you can't see it, it can't hurt you.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Shame on that bar for not having a handicap entrance.

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<v Speaker 2>Somewhere, all right, But you made it to the top

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<v Speaker 2>of the escalator.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yes, I did. He helped me off, and the

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<v Speaker 3>drinks were great. That we had. We ended up having

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<v Speaker 3>a really good conversation after that. I thought he was

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<v Speaker 3>just a really nice guy overall.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to rush things, but I'm so worried

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<v Speaker 1>about you getting back down.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I ended up taking the stairs down. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>the escalators are much more visible. Found the stairs.

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<v Speaker 2>Later after you were at the restaurant, You're like, there's

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<v Speaker 2>this same Yeah, so sorry, he's going back to the

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<v Speaker 2>date though. With Matthew, you said it was you were

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<v Speaker 2>having a good conversation, Like what did you two bond over?

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<v Speaker 3>We actually bonded over of planes. Well, like the airline

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<v Speaker 3>Jet Blue, in particular Jet Blue. Why because it's our

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<v Speaker 3>favorite and they have the best in flight entertainment. So

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<v Speaker 3>we just talked about traveling and whatever our experiences and

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<v Speaker 3>stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get bed sometimes on a domestic flight to

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<v Speaker 2>like four airports, I know it's New York pretty much.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully no airports with escalators in them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you both love Jet Blue. You've already like

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<v Speaker 1>been vulnerable and shared a big fear with him, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I did. I opened up a little bit about it,

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<v Speaker 3>and he used to be sweet about it, and at

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<v Speaker 3>the end of the night he even asked me if

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to meet up again, and I was like, yes, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, he went for the second date as immediately.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, but after that they didn't no fall through and

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm just like, what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>And how long has it been since your date on

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<v Speaker 2>the second story?

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<v Speaker 3>It's a week or so.

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<v Speaker 1>And he hasn't reached out at all.

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<v Speaker 2>No, hopefully his phobia isn't actually following through with the

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<v Speaker 2>second dates, or he's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just looking for first floor restaurants and having a hard time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, maybe that's possible. And he's like, we could never

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<v Speaker 2>beat together. So much could go wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't take the escalator, you can't take the elevator.

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<v Speaker 2>What a tough mash. And hopefully we'll find out what's

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<v Speaker 2>really going on and we call Matthew and try to

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<v Speaker 2>escalate this to a second date. I did it, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>no more, no more puns as we continue for your

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<v Speaker 2>second date update right after this hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>If you'd never heard this story before and I told

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<v Speaker 2>you a young woman sat on an escalator step holding

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<v Speaker 2>her date's hand with her eyes shut tight, you'd probably think, Huh,

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<v Speaker 2>someone's about to get arrested here, soon happening.

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<v Speaker 1>But why why arrested?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm not going to I'm not going to explain it.

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<v Speaker 1>But luckily that was.

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<v Speaker 2>Not the case here our listener. Jamie has an escalator phobia,

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<v Speaker 2>but she beat it going to a happy hour with

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<v Speaker 2>her date Matthew, and together they bonded over Jet Blue

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<v Speaker 2>Airlines of all things. You don't hear that one a

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<v Speaker 2>lot on the first dates. More of a delta guy myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, Yeah, I feel like she's just dropping it in

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<v Speaker 1>case something goes somewhere and they can get sponsored in

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<v Speaker 1>a trip down.

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<v Speaker 2>Smart. But it did bond them, and Matthew even asked

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<v Speaker 2>her out again at the very end of the night.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing is there's been no follow through since, so Jamie

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<v Speaker 2>has now turned to us asking if we can get involved.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and Jamie, you said he hasn't reached out to you,

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<v Speaker 1>But have you called or texted him? Sorry, not called,

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<v Speaker 1>That would be gross phobia.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I haven't. I was nervous because I was just

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<v Speaker 3>anticipating him reaching out to me, and I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want to seem obsessive or weird.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess a big game of stalemate, like I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>going to text her.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably is. I mean, I feel that's how a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dating fizzles out.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, good thing. Nothing weird about a radio show randomly

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<v Speaker 2>calling to his life that you go over totally fine.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have a fear of public speaking. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we'll find out soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's see if he even answers. I'm going to dial

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<v Speaker 2>his number right now. Here we go, Hello, Hey is

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<v Speaker 2>this Matthew? Yeah, this is he, Hey man, thanks for answering.

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<v Speaker 2>You're on a show right now, a radio show called

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Matthew, good morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi. Kind of weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's probably doesn't happen to you every single day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm guessing, but maybe some time we'll see it happening.

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<v Speaker 2>But we're doing something called a Second Date Update, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're trying to help out a listener of ours who

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<v Speaker 2>went out with you recently and she's not heard from

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<v Speaker 2>you since. Woman named Jamie.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, I remember that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, remember cut Jamie imber Jamie.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. So the deal is we've heard from Jamie about

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<v Speaker 2>the night that you two hung out, and Jamie sounded

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<v Speaker 2>like a really cool girl who really enjoyed your companionship

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<v Speaker 2>when you went to the bar together.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a formal way to word it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm working on my vocabulary, broke, Yes, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I can dumb it down for the Idaho listeners in

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<v Speaker 2>your hometown if you want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy your extensive vocabulary like courtship where I come from.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, So that's kind of the situation. We're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>help Jamie figure out if there's a reason why you

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<v Speaker 2>two haven't met up again.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I was having a pretty good time with her,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I was like one hundred percent in, like on

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<v Speaker 4>wanting to hang out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so when you asked it out at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, you were being sincere.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, like she was cool. It was it was

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<v Speaker 3>a good time.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, the drinks were good there.

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<v Speaker 1>That was your highlight.

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<v Speaker 3>The drinks were good there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know he was into it. Okay, because so what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, something must have changed since then?

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<v Speaker 3>Well well it was the comment.

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<v Speaker 1>The comment?

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<v Speaker 2>What comment?

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<v Speaker 4>So as we were saying goodbye, I asked her out

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<v Speaker 4>and I said, hey, this has been really fun. Do

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<v Speaker 4>you want to meet up again next weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>She paused for a second, and she goes, sure, why not,

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<v Speaker 4>my bar is pretty low.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways, whoa, whoa?

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<v Speaker 1>Well that had you have been a joke like it?

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<v Speaker 1>They just landed poorly.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's she should have been very sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, was she trying to be funny, like like, did you.

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<v Speaker 2>Respond to that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, what is that supposed to me?

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<v Speaker 1>You did? You said that back? Okay, okay, And then

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<v Speaker 1>she said, I'm just joking.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, She goes, don't take it personal. I just got

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<v Speaker 4>out of a relationship with an eighty year old guy.

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<v Speaker 2>What whoa wait, rebounding from an eighty year old that

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<v Speaker 2>must feel good?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that also a joke? I just want this all

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<v Speaker 1>to be humorous, back to back.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it didn't sound like a joke to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god.

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<v Speaker 4>She basically says the eighty year old broke up with

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<v Speaker 4>her so he could find someone who lives closer to him.

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<v Speaker 1>What wait, she got dumped by the senior exactly?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, what is going good for that eighty year old

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<v Speaker 2>for having standards?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it makes you feel better. She wasn't living

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<v Speaker 1>in the same city as him, so she didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get the.

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<v Speaker 2>Impression of the same city I've got the impression like

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<v Speaker 2>she's three blocks away and that's too far for his hips.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, on earth would she be in a relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>an eighty year old man?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lot. I don't judge.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm judging you want answers, Alec.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so that kind of explains a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>And how are you lower than that? I am like

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<v Speaker 1>offended for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I felt pretty bad. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>how to respond. And then also, why would I want

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<v Speaker 4>to go out with her after that?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Shouldn't bring any of that up. Not the eighty

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<v Speaker 1>year old, not the comment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I feel like we should probably ask her about

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<v Speaker 2>that because you don't know this, Matthew. But Jamie has

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<v Speaker 2>been quietly listening on the other line, waiting to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you. Oh great, Uh yeah, Jamie.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you're putting me down just because I dated

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<v Speaker 3>an older man. No, I'm putting me.

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<v Speaker 4>Down because you dated an ancient man who kicked you

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<v Speaker 4>to the curb.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, he's right, yes, absolutely he You cannot say

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<v Speaker 1>older man when he's.

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<v Speaker 2>Eighty Jamie, how did none of this come up when

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<v Speaker 2>you were talking to us in the first part?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know I didn't think about it. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>talking about my exes. I was talking about the person

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, wait, do you actually consider the eighty year old

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<v Speaker 1>your ex because it just sounds like a deal that

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<v Speaker 1>didn't break out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, okay, listen, First of all, he was in

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<v Speaker 3>great shape, probably better than you actually, And he's very active,

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<v Speaker 3>and you like to go out and do lots of things. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>like you went to the club.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you have to change a sentence walls on his walker?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's really mature.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, honestly, Jamie, the optics or you're just

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<v Speaker 1>doing it for money. That's the only reason anyone would

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<v Speaker 1>date an eighty year old at your age.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, she says he has a great body.

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<v Speaker 3>People, honestly, you could at.

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<v Speaker 1>Least go with personality over body.

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<v Speaker 3>That's I don't know why I'm getting judged for who

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<v Speaker 3>I'm dating, Like, it doesn't matter. It shouldn't matter a

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<v Speaker 3>or religion or whatever, you know, Like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't come after who she likes. Don't tell us what

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<v Speaker 2>the old man's religion was, because Brook will go in.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very fair to compare and say that the current

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<v Speaker 1>date is worse than the eighty year old that you

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<v Speaker 1>just dum dumped by, Like, I'm sorry, that was just me.

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<v Speaker 1>What if I think it was a joke or not

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't take it as well?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what if it wasn't a joke. What if he

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<v Speaker 2>really was a step down?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't say that to people joke.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, fine, if he was sixty years old, then it

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<v Speaker 2>would be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just really not into dating for money thing, but whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>people need to do dating for money?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, what was he rich?

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't ask you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I never even asked did she?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he have money?

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<v Speaker 3>No? He wasn't like rich, Like I mean he was fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, okay, he only had two boats. Brooke

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<v Speaker 2>depleted his whole four oh one k for.

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<v Speaker 3>Nothing to do with that, nothing to do with money.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think at the end of this is

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<v Speaker 1>like you were rude to Matthew, right, you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you had already why not go out with him? Your

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<v Speaker 1>bars already low? Like that's a terrible thing to say

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<v Speaker 1>to someone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, fair, I was joking, Like I wasn't super serious,

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<v Speaker 3>like I was having fun on that date. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>like I'd just gotten out of something. I wasn't feeling

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<v Speaker 3>good about myself, So I've made a bad joke.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, and yeah, this conversation kind of got off

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<v Speaker 2>the rails. It turned into like put downs back and forth,

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<v Speaker 2>and what we really need to focus on is true love. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>how can we save this right now? I mean, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 2>you said that you were lowering your bar. Maybe Matthew

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<v Speaker 2>is also lowering the bar too. Jamie, you're the one

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<v Speaker 2>Wow reached out to our show that's super low in itself.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you're meant to meet down at the bottom of

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<v Speaker 2>the dating pool.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you asking? Are you asking me if I

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<v Speaker 3>want to go out with him again? You know I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Now there she's joking again. She is Okay, so Amy

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<v Speaker 2>has now rescinded her desire to go out with Matthew again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm good as well. She can have that eighty

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<v Speaker 4>year old man hold her hand up the escalator okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, they're definitely gonna have to take the elevator.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like he would carry her up the stairs

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<v Speaker 2>based on how fit she described it, and see both

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<v Speaker 2>of them in a forever fall an escalator. How sweet rook.

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning you know, after everything we heard

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<v Speaker 2>in that call, I just think it's awesome that eighty

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<v Speaker 2>year olds are still trying to put themselves out there

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<v Speaker 2>and meet people. That's inspiring.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it turned out I was just roasting an eighty

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<v Speaker 1>year old. Really, it's really impressive on his.

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<v Speaker 3>Part gave up.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it sucks for his grandkids that they're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get any of the inheritance. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>True. You know, well that's what I've learned. You're never

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<v Speaker 2>too old to try and take risks, especially when you're

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<v Speaker 2>sliding into a thirty one year old's DM shooting your

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<v Speaker 2>shot with them. That is bravery as an octhogenarian.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, look at that. Impressive.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you're kind of turned on to hold the phone really.

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<v Speaker 1>Far away from the cause in order to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Brooke, if you're thinking about like the benefits

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<v Speaker 2>of it as a young woman dating an old man,

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<v Speaker 2>just imagine if you're in her shoes, combining your rewards

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<v Speaker 2>card savings with his senior discounts, you two could be

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<v Speaker 2>ruling the world, eating dinner at three thirty every day

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<v Speaker 2>for half off.

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<v Speaker 1>There is not enough discounts or savings in the world

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<v Speaker 1>to waste your pretty on an eighty year old.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, honestly, unless the eighty year old's super hot,

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<v Speaker 2>let's agree on that.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever seen a hot eighty year old?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty sure Tom Cruise is eighty.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the old Golden Bachelor wouldn't date somebody over sixty.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, being creepy too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, all right, back off the old guys. That's Brooks territory. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but you can always text, and if you want help

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<v Speaker 2>with your dating life, older young will try not to

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<v Speaker 2>judge you. Just email the show. We'll call that person

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<v Speaker 2>who's not calling you back