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Speaker 1: a brand new episode for you. But first comments, Alan

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Speaker 1: Jamison said, I'm so glad I found the podcast so

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Speaker 1: late in the game. Y'ose laughs and antics are the

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Speaker 1: perfect thing to drown out the construction noises while at work.

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Speaker 2: You can binge yeah, yeah, how loud?

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Speaker 1: You have to have us to not hear construction noise? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: jackhammer or which one gives you a headache?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Hey, your brand new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 2: Second Date Update. There's something I've learned since I started

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Speaker 2: working on this show is not everybody necessarily dates for

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Speaker 1: It was this show that had to teach you that.

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Speaker 1: Not high school, college.

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Speaker 2: No experience.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I was very much in the Disney mindset. You go

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Speaker 2: I learned some people date for just the free meal.

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Speaker 2: Some people date because their horoscope told them to. That's

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Speaker 2: try opening up the relationships. So now it's a table

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Speaker 1: Why are you at the Rainforest Cafe, Desert Boro?

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Speaker 4: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Those Mango Tango dakeries cannot come fast enough, but they

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Speaker 2: to find out what that is. Jamie. Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hey are you Are you ready to shock Jeffrey?

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Speaker 2: Yes, my whole world is about to be rocked. What

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Speaker 3: I've just been trying to get myself back out there.

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Speaker 2: Like going through the motions just to like get back

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Speaker 1: I don't know that's confidence saying. Are you just waiting

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Speaker 2: If you can't see it, it can't hurt you.

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Speaker 3: We actually bonded over of planes. Well, like the airline

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Speaker 1: Just looking for first floor restaurants and having a hard time.

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Speaker 1: I can't take the escalator, you can't take the elevator.

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Speaker 2: If you'd never heard this story before and I told

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Speaker 1: Jeff, Yeah, I feel like she's just dropping it in

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Speaker 2: Smart. But it did bond them, and Matthew even asked

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Speaker 2: Thing is there's been no follow through since, so Jamie

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Jamie, you said he hasn't reached out to you,

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Speaker 1: Probably is. I mean, I feel that's how a lot

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Speaker 2: Well, good thing. Nothing weird about a radio show randomly

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Speaker 2: Let's see if he even answers. I'm going to dial

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Speaker 2: this Matthew? Yeah, this is he, Hey man, thanks for answering.

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Speaker 2: You're on a show right now, a radio show called

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Speaker 1: Matthew, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Hi. Kind of weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's probably doesn't happen to you every single day,

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Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I remember that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, remember cut Jamie imber Jamie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So the deal is we've heard from Jamie about

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Speaker 1: Such a formal way to word it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm working on my vocabulary, broke, Yes, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I enjoy your extensive vocabulary like courtship where I come from.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Sure, So that's kind of the situation. We're trying to

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Speaker 4: I mean I was having a pretty good time with her,

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Speaker 4: You know, the drinks were good there.

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Speaker 3: The drinks were good there.

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Speaker 1: You know he was into it. Okay, because so what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, something must have changed since then?

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Speaker 3: Well well it was the comment.

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Speaker 1: The comment?

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Speaker 4: So as we were saying goodbye, I asked her out

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Well that had you have been a joke like it?

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Speaker 2: What whoa wait, rebounding from an eighty year old that

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Speaker 4: She basically says the eighty year old broke up with

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Speaker 1: I mean, it makes you feel better. She wasn't living

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Speaker 1: And how are you lower than that? I am like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I felt pretty bad. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Shouldn't bring any of that up. Not the eighty

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're putting me down just because I dated

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Speaker 4: Down because you dated an ancient man who kicked you

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Speaker 2: Eighty Jamie, how did none of this come up when

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Speaker 3: I don't know I didn't think about it. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: Now, wait, do you actually consider the eighty year old

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, okay, listen, First of all, he was in

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Speaker 3: and you like to go out and do lots of things. Okay,

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Speaker 4: Did you have to change a sentence walls on his walker?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's really mature.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, honestly, Jamie, the optics or you're just

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Speaker 1: doing it for money. That's the only reason anyone would

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Speaker 2: Well, she says he has a great body.

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Speaker 1: Least go with personality over body.

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Speaker 3: That's I don't know why I'm getting judged for who

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Speaker 2: Don't come after who she likes. Don't tell us what

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Speaker 1: It's very fair to compare and say that the current

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Speaker 1: What if I think it was a joke or not

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Speaker 2: Well, what if it wasn't a joke. What if he

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Speaker 1: You don't say that to people joke.

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Speaker 2: Okay, fine, if he was sixty years old, then it

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Speaker 1: I'm just really not into dating for money thing, but whatever,

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Speaker 2: Well, what was he rich?

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Speaker 3: We didn't ask you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I never even asked did she?

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Speaker 3: No? He wasn't like rich, Like I mean he was fine.

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, okay, he only had two boats. Brooke

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Speaker 3: Nothing to do with that, nothing to do with money.

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Speaker 1: you had already why not go out with him? Your

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Speaker 3: Okay, fair, I was joking, Like I wasn't super serious,

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and yeah, this conversation kind of got off

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Speaker 2: how can we save this right now? I mean, Jamie,

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Speaker 2: Wow reached out to our show that's super low in itself.

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Speaker 3: What are you asking? Are you asking me if I

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Speaker 2: Now there she's joking again. She is Okay, so Amy

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm good as well. She can have that eighty

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're definitely gonna have to take the elevator.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he would carry her up the stairs

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it turned out I was just roasting an eighty

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Speaker 3: Part gave up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it sucks for his grandkids that they're not

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Speaker 2: True. You know, well that's what I've learned. You're never

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Speaker 1: There is not enough discounts or savings in the world

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Speaker 1: Have you ever seen a hot eighty year old?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, back off the old guys. That's Brooks territory. Okay,

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