1 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Brook and Jubels second day of day, You guys have 2 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: all been to a party where you meet someone and 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: then you have a powerful connection and you know that 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: they may be the love of your life. Right, maybe 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: if you've had like twelve drinks breaking jewel in the morning, 6 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five or second date update today, 7 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 1: we're talking to Anna Anna email? Then how are you Anna? 8 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you both good? Now? Your email 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: piqued our interest because it said that you had a 10 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: powerful connection with a guy at a friend's going away party. 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: Tell us about that. Yeah, I thought that. I I 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: went two weeks ago to a going away party from 13 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 1: one of my friends moving to New York, and within 14 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 1: five minutes of being at the party, I met this 15 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: really nice guy named James, and we kind of just 16 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: had that magical all night hang out that you see 17 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: in the movies. Um, we just for advise each other's 18 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 1: side all night and playing board games and just showny's 19 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: other tons of iPhone pictures with each other and showing 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:05,319 Speaker 1: each other iPhone pictures of each other. Like, what kind 21 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: of pictures that we're talking about? I'm guessing they weren't nudies, 22 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: were they? No, okay, you know, like family and you're 23 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: you know, dog and all that stuff, and then we 24 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: kind of took a bunch of funny pictures with each other. 25 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: Had you met him before through these friends or this 26 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: is the first time you met him? He was someone 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 1: that another friend invited and his friend was busy talking 28 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: to someone else, so he just kind of steddied up 29 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: all night because I didn't know a lot of people 30 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: at the party either, And you just got along so well, 31 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: and you know, shared a couple of kisses. Oh you did. 32 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: That's what I was going to ask. How physical this 33 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 1: got and and what happened after you guys kissed? You know, 34 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: we just were kind of laughing and it was really sweet. 35 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: It wasn't like it was just crazy animal makeout, just 36 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,559 Speaker 1: kind of I have a crush on you, really sweet 37 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: kind of stuff. How long did you guys hang out 38 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: for here at the party? For probably four hours? Four hours? 39 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: I mean obviously we didn't go out and have a 40 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: date out in public that it kind of felt like 41 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: a date. It sounds like you thought you would at 42 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: least get a second date out of it or see 43 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: him again, right, Yeah, I mean this happens to lots 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: of my girlfriends, and you think like, oh, they must 45 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: be exaggerating. But at the end of the night, we 46 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: exchanged pun numbers and he said, I'll call you, and 47 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: I was just so excited. For days, I just thought this, 48 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: you know this. I'm not going to say, oh, this 49 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: is it, but it was definitely I felt like it 50 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: was something that would go. So how did it end? 51 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: At the end of the night, he just kissed you 52 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: and second bye and that was it. Yeah, pretty much. 53 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: I mean I was just kind of sad to see 54 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: him go. I thought we would kind of leave the 55 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:41,399 Speaker 1: party and you know, go get ice cream or go, 56 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: you know, get a dream two in the morning. If 57 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: you tried to get a hold of him, I wanted to, 58 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: but the old fashioned kind of nature in me a 59 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: little bit was just kind of leaving it open to him. 60 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: And I haven't heard from him, and it really bummed 61 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: me out. I just I think I get frustrated and 62 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: angry at the way men handles. You know, they shouldn't 63 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: be loving and you know, hang out all night if 64 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 1: you don't want to go on a second date. It's 65 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: like why, you know, why would you waste time with that? 66 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Maybe, you questioned, Yeah, you sound you 67 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: sound fairly invested in this already. Are you going to 68 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: be like totally devastated if this guy just doesn't like you. No, 69 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: I don't think I will. I just need to know, okay, 70 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's like I just want to know if 71 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: I should forget it and let it go, and if 72 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: it was just yeah, chalk it up to one great night. Yeah, 73 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: I guess. Okay, Now, all right, we're gonna play a song, 74 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: come right back, and then call him and get your 75 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: second date up date. All right, Okay, just hang on 76 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: for like three and a half minutes, looking jubil in 77 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: the morning. Second date, today's second data. Anna is on 78 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: the phone with us. Anna emailed us and said that 79 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: she met a guy at a friend's going away party. 80 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: They had a beautiful four hour hand out. They even 81 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 1: kissed a little bit and had a great time and 82 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: then he left and was never to be heard from again. 83 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: And are you ready to call him? I am? Are 84 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 1: you sure? Now? If you if you had to prepare 85 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: yourself for the worst response, what would that be, eyb, 86 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: he's married. I don't know. One's pretty bad, pretty bad. 87 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 1: There's nothing you can think of that you did nothing. 88 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe I'm too nice, I don't know, 89 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: or all the time because they're too nice when i'm 90 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: Sometimes when I meet a really sweet girl and I 91 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 1: talked to her, I'm just like, I'm gonna ruin you. 92 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: So maybe I shouldn't, you know what I mean, Just 93 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: like I'm just gonna hurt you. I don't want you 94 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: to be around. Yeah, you're too sweet. I have a 95 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 1: feeling she's not talking about a guy like you if 96 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: he played board games with her. All yeah, yeah, I 97 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: do not play board games. All right, we're gonna call 98 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: him right now. Okay, Okay, Hello is James there? Yeah, 99 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 1: that's me James. What's up? Man? How are you? This 100 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm 101 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: moving ninety two point five. You got a second? Uh? Yeah, 102 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: I was calling you because I wanted to talk to 103 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: you about something. Have you heard our show before? Um? 104 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 1: I've heard win Brooks Bucks. You know I've win Brooks 105 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: Bucks before. But all right, so you normally listen around 106 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: like eight fifty. Yeah, that's usually when I've been in 107 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: the car. Okay, have you heard anything about the second 108 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: eight updates or ever heard one of the second eight updates. No, 109 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 1: I haven't let me tell you what that is. Let's 110 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: say you go out on a date with someone and 111 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: you blow them off and you don't get back to him, 112 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 1: they end up emailing us to call you to find 113 00:05:53,080 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: out why. Okay, so somebody emailed us about you. Could 114 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: you be a little more specific, I can be. You 115 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 1: went to a going away party for some friends a 116 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: little while ago, right, Yeah, do you remember meeting a 117 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 1: girl named Anna there An? Yeah, okay, I remember Anna. 118 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: Anna emailed us and wanted to know why you won't 119 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: call her back or haven't texted her anything. After meeting 120 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 1: up with her, she said that you guys had a 121 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: really good time that night and she was really hoping 122 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: for a second date, and then never heard anything from you. Really, yeah, 123 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:30,799 Speaker 1: is there a specific reason why. Well, I'm kind of surprised. Actually, 124 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: this is kind of catching me off guard. Really, I 125 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,840 Speaker 1: really didn't think she was interested in me. Were you 126 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: guys like made out and stuff, right, I mean, it 127 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: seemed like we were getting along really well, and we were, 128 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: you know, were kissing and stuff. But then towards the 129 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: end of the night she was kind of flirting with 130 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: a good friend of mine, and I thought she was 131 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 1: kind of into him. Oh really, she was kind of 132 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 1: given like those nonverbal cues, like she was touching his 133 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: shoulder and like kind of lapping and flirting and all 134 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. So, James, you know, yeah, Anna's 135 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:07,040 Speaker 1: actually on the phone with us right now. Anna, Hi, Sorry, 136 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: I maybe you should have told you that at the beginning, 137 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: all right, Anna, was he your second choice of the evening? No, 138 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: I would never. I think I was just trying to 139 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 1: be nice to him to get in good with games. Yeah. 140 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: I was definitely not interested in your friend at all. James, 141 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 1: How was she flirting with the other guy to make 142 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: you feel like she wasn't interested if you guys were 143 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: making out and stuff. She was like, you know, touching 144 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: him on the shoulder, and she was like laughing at 145 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: all his jokes. And I thought that, like at the 146 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 1: end of the night when she asked me for my number, 147 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: that she was really trying to like get to him 148 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: through me. Oh my gosh, No, I'm so sorry. No. No, 149 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: I was definitely just trying to be nice to him 150 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: to get in good with Now. Do you believe her, James? 151 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: I really didn't think I was misreading this I mean 152 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: she was like talking, seeing her hair back with her hands, 153 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: she's laughing, just I mean, just doing her like body 154 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: language stuff and just a lot of stuff. I just 155 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: I don't even remember doing that. Are you kind of 156 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: a flirty girl? Anna? I don't mean that in a 157 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: bad way. I just mean, like, you know, I talked 158 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: to it. Well pretty much, any girl that talks to me, 159 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 1: I think wants me. But but you talk to some 160 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: girls sometimes that are so friendly and you're like, I know, 161 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: she's flirting with me when she's really not. She's just 162 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: kind of like that. I think, like there's so many 163 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: negative people in the world that I have tried to 164 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: be as positive and kind and nice to people all 165 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: day long, so like that could probably be too strid. 166 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: Is flirting. But you can't kind of see where James 167 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: coming from, because some guys can take that the wrong way. 168 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: But she didn't do anything that crossed the line, Like James, 169 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: did you see her do anything besides like flip her hair, 170 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: which can be an I mean, maybe her hair was 171 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: just in her way. I don't know, you know, it 172 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 1: was that it was like the way she you know, 173 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: she kept kind of making it a point to like 174 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: touch in and stuff, and I feel like that usually 175 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: you do when you're like into somebody. Yeah, that's like 176 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: beyond just flirting. I mean I completely understand where you're 177 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 1: coming from with that, because I've always had a couple 178 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 1: of girlfriends that always end up, you know, having the 179 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: guy want to date them when we go out, and 180 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:13,200 Speaker 1: it's hard. I just liked you so much because I 181 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 1: felt like you were the same kind of kind person 182 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: that I am, and that you were actually not, you know, 183 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: just looking to hook up like I feel like everybody is. 184 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: And we actually had a lot of fun doing playing 185 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: board games and being stupid and plus his friend was hot. Right, 186 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: we will send you, guys out on a second date. 187 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: We will pay for it if you'll go out with 188 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: Anna again. Do you want to go out on a 189 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: second date with Anna? Um? I mean maybe she's serious 190 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 1: about wanting to get together again if she went to 191 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: the trouble of contact you guys, so you know, maybe 192 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: it's worth giving it a shot. Is that? Yes? Yeah? Yeah, 193 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: you're such a Seattle boy, Dad, you really are. And 194 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: Anna you want to go out again? Right? Yes? So, 195 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: I mean if he really wants to go, he won't 196 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: bring his friend along, I was gonna say the opposite. 197 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: It's a triple date, you're pronound to go broken. Jupel 198 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: in the morning