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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than the excited.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show, New

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Speaker 2: Waiting by the Phone, Money was Showby's Shelley, Kiki's Court

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Speaker 2: all coming up. But we must do blogs like for

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Speaker 2: writing in our diaries, except we say them allowed Kiki. Yes,

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Speaker 2: this is kind of a two parter, but you go

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Speaker 2: with the first part.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, dear blog, I don't know if this has

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Speaker 3: ever happened to you all, but when you're in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Nope, no, and sometimes no. I don't even need to

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Speaker 2: hear the rest of it.

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Speaker 3: Some beautant day to somebody went back to back.

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Speaker 4: He went back to that right in the pandemic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, in the fake hell Yeah, okay, I'm sorry the

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Speaker 5: famic Yeah, but I should.

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Speaker 4: They actually see those women he dated or was like

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Speaker 4: was he fakeing?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 4: Because we were at home.

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Speaker 7: They didn't take me, so I wasn't allowed to see them.

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Speaker 4: Do we read them?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 4: We didn't mean?

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 1: I met the one on Instagram?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I have the other one DM me looking.

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Speaker 1: For for her, looking for did you respond?

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Speaker 2: I did?

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Speaker 6: I was just like, were you I was like no,

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Speaker 6: I was like, wait, I thought you were with Fred.

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Speaker 4: He's like, where were you Fred? Another one?

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Speaker 6: I think we got in an argument and I was

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Speaker 6: just like, okay, they were in an event together, and

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Speaker 6: then she picked a fight with me, right and she's like.

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Speaker 4: Have you heard from Fred?

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Speaker 1: I was like, we were together, and I can't fight him.

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Speaker 4: I'm like no, like.

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Speaker 8: You pretend like you guys, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 8: Like you tell him hey, if anybody asked.

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Speaker 2: No, he never. He didn't tell me until like Monday

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Speaker 2: this happened. The reason I didn't respond is because we

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Speaker 2: we got in, we had a disagreement, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I don't I'm not gonna fight with you here. I'm leaving,

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Speaker 2: And so I left, and I honestly wasn't even out

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Speaker 2: of the This is not an embellishment. I wasn't even

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Speaker 2: out of the establishment for fifteen seconds. And I get

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Speaker 2: a text, you're obviously sleeping with someone else right now,

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Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 1: How would you pull?

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Speaker 2: But it literally has been less than sixty seconds. Like

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Speaker 2: I understand that you've been with me before, so you

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Speaker 2: know it doesn't take long. But like, still, I can't

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Speaker 2: get my pants off in fifteen I'm still the party. Love.

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Speaker 2: So once you do something like and this, I think

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Speaker 2: is just tied to you. But once you throw out

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Speaker 2: something like that, you've now lost credibility for the rest

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Speaker 1: Like I can't defend.

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Speaker 2: That, right, I'm looking at you through the window anyway,

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Speaker 3: So this is exactly so you can relate. This is

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Speaker 3: exactly what I'm talking about. Being in a relationship and

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Speaker 3: then you fight in public and it's so awkward and

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Speaker 3: on Friday, we're like, let's go get up some dinner.

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Speaker 3: We're going to go to Longhorn, his favorite stay outs. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So we pull up and say, on the way there,

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Speaker 3: I said, hey, why since we're both going, why do

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Speaker 3: what they're doing. He's like, yeah, call them, see if

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Speaker 3: they can meet us here. I call them. They're like, oh, guys,

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Speaker 4: We get off, we can meet you there.

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Speaker 3: This man was hungry right in the moment, so he

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Speaker 4: How did he eat right now?

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, you want me to call my brother

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Speaker 4: We're just gonna get something quick. So they're like, okay.

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Speaker 3: We go into the restaurant, you know the little seating

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Speaker 3: He sits on one end of the bench, and I

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Speaker 3: We look like two idiots because we both got to

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Speaker 3: We get to the table, we're not speaking. So the

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Speaker 3: very very awkward, and I don't know about you. My

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Speaker 3: tantrum tactic in a relationship.

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Speaker 4: Is to silence you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not giving you anything any more of my energy,

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Speaker 2: So, yes, that's exactly what it's purpose. I'm because if

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Speaker 2: I don't talk, we can't fight anymore.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's true. So I sit there in silence. He's

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Speaker 2: Oh, he goes on a hunger stride, which only hurts him.

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Speaker 2: By the way, how does that hurt you? That's like

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Speaker 2: a sex strike. I've never understood that. Like, you must

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Speaker 2: really not like getting with me if you're gonna if

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Speaker 2: you're taking that off the table, right, Like the sure

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Speaker 2: sign that you're decent in bad is if you really

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Speaker 2: do it though anyway, Like I don't want to talk

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Speaker 2: people are like, I'm then you're not kidding any of that.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, how is that good? That doesn't help anybody

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Speaker 3: So it's it's really annoying because the waitress, you know,

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Speaker 3: He goes, actually, I'm just gonna have an appetizer.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, girls, how melodramatic. I would have ordered half

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Speaker 3: Oh no, So I'm tearing up my you know me,

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Speaker 3: I like him by so I'm tearing up up ravines.

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Speaker 3: It comes out he has these order of wings in

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Speaker 3: And he's like, yes, I would like, and this just

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Speaker 3: we just look like two idiots. And in my mind,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, as soon as we leave this restaurant, I'm

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Speaker 3: downloading Bubble like I don't know why we out, you said,

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Speaker 3: apps like what. So, Yeah, we sat there looking like idiots.

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Speaker 3: I ate he didn't. We ended up leaving by the

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Speaker 3: how stupid the whole experience was. But it's just like,

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Speaker 3: what is your fighting language? Because that is so stupid.

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Speaker 7: Oh I'm a communicator, so I need to talk it.

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Speaker 4: Out right away.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, when you guys do the silent treatment, I have

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Speaker 1: Ye don't you start to fights on purpose sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Just like no, no, I thought you told one night

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Speaker 1: I can think of a specific example, but anyway, I

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Speaker 2: I thought, I know people that do that because and

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying well, as a damaged person, then I

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Speaker 2: and fight back with me over a fake fight, then

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Speaker 2: it means like for some people, it's validation that you

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that this.

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Speaker 2: I'm not like psychoanalyzing you, but I know people that

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Speaker 2: is it for you, Jason?

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Speaker 9: then Mike is very much like the silence.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't make any sense. Yeah, So then.

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Speaker 9: I used to be like, what's wrong, let's do what's

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Speaker 9: wrong with you? Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: So I'll try that, but then I'm very okay.

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Speaker 9: Once you like shut me down, I'm like okay, and

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Speaker 9: we just go into our separate corners like you did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, within an hour, like it's over.

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Speaker 7: How do you exist in a room where there's like turmoil.

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Speaker 4: In a different rope we very much separation e in

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Speaker 1: I'm like, let's just finish this. Most likely it's stupid,

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Speaker 1: Like it's so stupid.

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Speaker 9: I'm like Okay, you're just saying that because you're mad,

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Speaker 9: and I'm just like, all right, I'm over see.

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Speaker 2: I'm a silent guy, and I'm a flight guy. Fight

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Speaker 2: or flight, I'll fight. And the problem is the argument

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Speaker 2: gets resolved. And the fact is I probably would, but

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Speaker 2: no one ever makes it easy for me to take

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Speaker 2: take a walk or walk away. It's always like, no,

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Speaker 2: you're staying here. And then that just that just I

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Speaker 2: close out even more because I'm like, when you're not

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Speaker 2: giving me what I need right now, I would come

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Speaker 2: back if you want, so damn annoying about it.

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Speaker 7: I don't believe like the person's never coming back or

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Speaker 7: they'll never talk.

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Speaker 9: You can't leave the premises like that is like the

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Speaker 9: one rule, like are to be mad in separate room.

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Speaker 4: Yeah it's a cool off, but.

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Speaker 1: You are not going though. I want to get the

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Speaker 1: cool off, which problem.

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Speaker 2: For me, it's like if you just give me a

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Speaker 2: not either. I'm going to get over it and at

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Speaker 2: least I'm not going to say things that I regret

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Speaker 2: because I feel like a lot of fights in relationships

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Speaker 2: start here and they end way over there. Yes, and

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Speaker 2: it has nothing to do because we got you know,

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Speaker 2: Paulina over here when when you go.

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Speaker 1: Low lower, Yeah, and before long it's like my.

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Speaker 2: Mom is not ugly, like I don't know whatever, and

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Speaker 2: then and then like, now you've got to clean that up?

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Speaker 7: Do you communicate that though, like I need a minute,

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Speaker 7: I will be back one, let me do it.

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Speaker 1: It's always like you no, you're gonna sit.

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Speaker 2: Down, We're gonna and then it's like you're screaming at me,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, now you're even more mad.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is not working.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you get silent, yes, and I yeah, Jess as

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Speaker 6: a communicator, she wants to talk it out. I will

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Speaker 6: say silent because if I will say something so bad,

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Speaker 6: like I'll say, I'll start about something else. I hate confrontation,

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Speaker 6: but like for me, it's just like I'll get over

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Speaker 6: it in five minutes.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's me.

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Speaker 6: I could be like, all right, just don't talk to me,

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Speaker 6: and then five minutes later I'm fine. But then you

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Speaker 6: still want to resolve. But she still wants to resolve,

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Speaker 6: and I'm like, I'm over it.

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Speaker 1: It's over. It's not over for her that I ad

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Speaker 1: said that, But like, if we.

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Speaker 6: Keep talking, it's gonna go into some kind of other

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Speaker 6: situation from ten years ago. We're gonna bring back and resurface,

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Speaker 6: and it's just gonna get remember one time, Yeah I didn't,

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Speaker 6: but now I do.

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Speaker 2: And then you, you, Paulina, will just you'll just take

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Speaker 2: take him out of the knees.

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Speaker 4: I'm the worst because I'm afraid he's not coming back.

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Speaker 2: You said one way to make sure he doesn't come back.

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Speaker 1: Working on it.

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Speaker 8: My newest one though, and this is so immature and

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Speaker 8: so bad, is that I'll be like, I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 8: your mom what you did. I'm gonna I'm gonna text

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Speaker 8: your mom right now and I've done.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that I've been doing this for years. No,

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Speaker 1: I would.

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Speaker 4: I would pretend I'm doing it.

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Speaker 1: And does his mom actually say anything to him?

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Speaker 8: His mom is the sweetest angel woman and planet Earth.

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Speaker 4: She stays out of it, and I love it.

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Speaker 8: I'll say, like what I see the other day, I

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Speaker 8: was like, Okay, your son's dust.

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Speaker 4: Do you think?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I want you so bad.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, oh, do you think you can come help me?

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Speaker 8: I was like, Hobby's not being helpful at all with

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Speaker 8: the baby. I said that straight, and she was like,

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Speaker 8: you know, if you want me to.

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Speaker 4: Come for real? And I was like, no, she wants

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Speaker 4: to sleep, It's okay, like she did.

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Speaker 8: But I was just like trying to point out to her, like,

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Speaker 8: your son is not helpful. Your son is the pain

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Speaker 8: of my ass. I know, I know, I know she's

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Speaker 8: talking to her son.

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Speaker 7: She's like, yo, she.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 1: I need to chill. I need to chill.

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Speaker 4: After that, I was like, all right, I'm doing too much,

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Speaker 4: way too much.

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Speaker 8: I don't want a bad relationship with her because of

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Speaker 8: my you know, immaturity.

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Speaker 1: Like I think my mom.

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Speaker 2: I know if I were messing up, my mom would

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Speaker 2: tell me, but I don't know that she would validate

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Speaker 2: my partner. I don't know that she would like she

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Speaker 2: would call me and be like, are you messing up?

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Speaker 1: You know? But she wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: She would like if you texted my mom and said

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Speaker 2: Fred's doing this, she might go okay or ignore you,

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Speaker 2: and then she'll call me and go what's going on?

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Speaker 2: And then I might tell and if she thinks I'm wrong.

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Speaker 2: She'll tell me, but she's not gonna tell you. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: my son's dusty, crusty. I'll handle this like I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she would give anyone else that that validation,

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Speaker 2: but she would hold me accountable privately at the end

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Speaker 2: of the day.

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Speaker 8: Like you're her son, you know, and he's not doing

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Speaker 8: anything life thrining. He's just I don't know, I'm not

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Speaker 8: getting me the bottle warmer or something.

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Speaker 2: You know, And then you tell it's mom, Of course

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Speaker 2: I do you tell on this man?

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Speaker 1: Wow, she is more fresh. Show next