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Speaker 3: It's another episode of Horrible Decisions. And I'm speaking this
Speaker 3: fucking professional because we have a doctor in the building.
Speaker 3: It's giving science and guys, I can't wait to get
Speaker 3: into the gauntdamn conversation.
Speaker 4: Anyways, nights, I'm.
Speaker 3: Your girl maybe aka pet to sign aka Debby.
Speaker 1: I'm a person that does believe in My name is
Speaker 1: Weezy If you're watching on the YouTube, Yes, this is
Speaker 1: the fake Beyonce outfit from tour we got into email
Speaker 1: and probably your PR team, I don't know, but anyway,
Speaker 1: you know, we had a lot of emails of guests
Speaker 1: that want to come on, and I.
Speaker 2: Was like, we ignore a lot of y'all niggas.
Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, we already had to
Speaker 1: go on. But then I started clicking and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: it's black man. We never had a mail got on.
Speaker 1: And also I was like the tattoos kind of got me.
Speaker 1: It was like, is he is he a real doctor?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because you remember the guy
Speaker 1: that had that little fake certificate. Yeah, uh huh, So
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. And then I'm like, you just want
Speaker 1: to look at pussy.
Speaker 2: So who do we have in the building today?
Speaker 1: Weezy doctor Michael Reid, the cosmetic g ui in Yes. Yes,
Speaker 1: so you don't only go into pussy and deliver babies.
Speaker 1: You want to fix it and make it a pussy.
Speaker 1: You see what men do. They want to fix it.
Speaker 5: We fix it, You fix it? What be wrong with it?
Speaker 5: Well it's not me, right, but when you talk about men,
Speaker 5: we're just happy to be there. This is for women.
Speaker 5: Women are saying I want this or I want that.
Speaker 5: And guess what I give them this or that that
Speaker 5: they asked for. It could be anything. It could be.
Speaker 5: I don't like the way it looks. It could be
Speaker 5: I don't like the way it feels.
Speaker 1: What about smell?
Speaker 5: Smell? You can't kelp that too.
Speaker 3: By the way, y'all are watching on her YouTube, Doctor
Speaker 3: Reid has a wonderful pen. And where were what you
Speaker 3: thought of?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Like a pan?
Speaker 1: Like what you?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 1: Well, I can't see, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: He has a lovely pin on his coat jacket, and
Speaker 3: where we thought it was a flower, it is the
Speaker 3: flower of mother nature. I want this goddamn pin of
Speaker 3: a pussy. And I would like to start off before
Speaker 3: we get into what you're able to do. How this
Speaker 3: started with your profession? When did you know that you
Speaker 3: wanted to be a cosmetic obg y n and deal
Speaker 3: with the vagina not only on a personal level but on.
Speaker 1: A professional feeling like everybody wanted to be in it
Speaker 1: all day?
Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, so, I mean you know, I'm autritional
Speaker 5: traditional obgyn. That's how it started. And I've been practicing
Speaker 5: twenty four twenty six years practicing obg yn, right, And
Speaker 5: so I would say maybe five years ago. I had
Speaker 5: this feeling that you know what drew me first to medicine,
Speaker 5: and OBI was caring for women, you know, making sure
Speaker 5: that I could do everything that they needed to do,
Speaker 5: deliver babies, be supportive, encourage and treat right and can
Speaker 5: you believe that's what got me there? But one day
Speaker 5: I said, it's hurting me. It's draining me for some reason, right,
Speaker 5: And I said, I got to try to figure out
Speaker 5: something to do. It's one of the difficult things for
Speaker 5: physicians is that there's no place to turn when you
Speaker 5: get can you get bored? Well, that's a nice way of.
Speaker 3: Okay for looking at pusses all day. You're like, what
Speaker 3: else can I do with the puss's?
Speaker 1: Send? Pussy? Become boring? Like seventeen So at the beginning,
Speaker 1: because I feel like every man watching this wants to
Speaker 1: know you go, You're starting off with lions in the beginning,
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, this is a good one.
Speaker 1: Is it the person? Is it?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 1: When do you stop thinking for yourself and become total doctor?
Speaker 5: As soon as I walk into my front door and
Speaker 5: turn their teeth, I know that's how you mean. The
Speaker 5: look Listen listen here, I'm gonna tell you you guys
Speaker 5: are women. You guys are sexual, you guys are prowesses,
Speaker 5: you guys are champion, you guys are leading, and you
Speaker 5: can I'll be on the price. But you all can
Speaker 5: feel energy, right right.
Speaker 2: So I've been called a siren.
Speaker 5: So if you're coming in to see me and I'm
Speaker 5: looking at you with a different energy, You're gonna feel
Speaker 5: it immediately, right. And so I want to change the
Speaker 5: landscape for women as it pertains their sexual enhancement or gratification.
Speaker 5: So if I'm going to try to do this for
Speaker 5: all women, well then all women is business, right, the
Speaker 5: only business I have fun businesses at home, right, So
Speaker 5: I want to change things. So I can't be this person,
Speaker 5: whether it's behind the scenes or outright blinkant. I got
Speaker 5: to be who I am, and that's to change things.
Speaker 5: I love that, That's what all. So when do I
Speaker 5: really turn this on? Yeah, when I go into my office, have.
Speaker 1: You experienced moments where you're almost seeing it so much
Speaker 1: that when you get home to your wife feel like
Speaker 1: I had enough?
Speaker 2: We asked this question to point.
Speaker 5: Right, no, because remember I turned it off, and I'm
Speaker 5: a man. So soon as I go out the door,
Speaker 5: I turn it back off. And when I turn it
Speaker 5: back on, I'm looking at everything I look at from
Speaker 5: out the beach. I got something I'm going to look there.
Speaker 5: I got the same feelings, same thought, same things that
Speaker 5: men do.
Speaker 1: Have you ever got hit on by a big why?
Speaker 1: I know you have? Tell us about the time.
Speaker 5: It was early in my career. So what I what
Speaker 5: what I've learned because I've opened a practice in North
Speaker 5: Carolina and Nebraska now Sacramento, and so what I've learned
Speaker 5: is when you first come out, see, I feel like
Speaker 5: I'm high value. Okay, oh yeah, I'm coming. Yeah the
Speaker 5: way we just hate high value. We got to get
Speaker 5: you another word for that. Okay, Well I think I'm
Speaker 5: a great person. There we go, all right, And and
Speaker 5: like I said, I want to be the best, right.
Speaker 5: So having said that, what was the question?
Speaker 1: When you get tell us about the time you've been on.
Speaker 5: So I was sitting becau You're gonna have to help
Speaker 5: me with that. I was setting this up. So, like
Speaker 5: I said, you got to be all right and everything.
Speaker 5: And I got a letter from a patient. That's what
Speaker 5: I got was a letter that's through old school. Yeah,
Speaker 5: this was a long time ago. You got to remember,
Speaker 5: it was a long time ago. When I first started.
Speaker 5: She said she's going to do this, that, that, that
Speaker 5: and everything else.
Speaker 2: Y seventeen years ago. That wasn't even cell phones.
Speaker 1: You had already been up there. You choose a patient.
Speaker 5: Paper wasn't.
Speaker 3: The only cell phones was a little big old thing
Speaker 3: that they put in a car that we used to
Speaker 3: that we saw in like New jack City.
Speaker 1: And no, they had seventeen years ago. Girl.
Speaker 2: We were in high school, not seventeen years ago.
Speaker 1: I was he are you fucking mandy?
Speaker 3: I'm doing the mad bitch, I ain't an account and
Speaker 3: no more. That just sounds like a long time ago.
Speaker 3: We had cell phones. I did in eighth grade. Let
Speaker 3: me do the math.
Speaker 1: Girl, we are all no, no, no, speak yourself. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: keep going. So she wrote you a letter, What about
Speaker 1: when you're in it? You never had someone when you're
Speaker 1: in to be like, well, hey, if you want to
Speaker 1: see it outside of your gloves.
Speaker 5: Nah, I haven't had that because like listen, like I
Speaker 5: told you, when you first come in, you're shutting it
Speaker 5: off right, and then the patient can feel it. If
Speaker 5: you are not on or off right, they can feel it.
Speaker 5: The last thing is is that they if you set
Speaker 5: yourself up and people know they do that you don't
Speaker 5: do these things, then those pressures go away.
Speaker 1: What about some weird requests or even boundaries you've had
Speaker 1: to make? For example, we saw t I online saying
Speaker 1: that he made the doctor make sure his daughter's was there.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had any fathers just have a ridiculous
Speaker 1: requests or something that you felt.
Speaker 5: Like it's entirely ridiculous. Sorry t I, but that's entirely ridiculous.
Speaker 5: You know the hymen breaks, you know, at twelve years old.
Speaker 5: I mean you could be running, you could be riding
Speaker 5: a bike. You can do anything in the hymen break,
Speaker 5: so it has nothing.
Speaker 3: I mean so that you're cherry popping your hymen breaking
Speaker 3: from penetration, That is a myth.
Speaker 5: That is a myth.
Speaker 1: I didn't want it. Mine did pop from penetration? Did yours?
Speaker 2: My periods started?
Speaker 3: I thought it was just the head went in too,
Speaker 3: So I don't think it really broke. I don't think
Speaker 3: my hymen broke.
Speaker 1: Mine must have been real loone. Nothing happened you just
Speaker 1: my period? Mind you.
Speaker 3: I started my period maybe only four or five years
Speaker 3: before I lost my virginity, so me understanding my body
Speaker 3: or my cycle, I was just waiting for blood to come.
Speaker 3: I ain't know when that motherfucker was coming. I just
Speaker 3: knew it was coming. And so I do believe like
Speaker 3: I had a full period. I didn't spot a period,
Speaker 3: so I was like, whoah, I ain't getting this nigga
Speaker 3: chord anyway.
Speaker 1: So have you ever had a father or mother come
Speaker 1: to you about their kid's virginity or something that you said,
Speaker 1: this is unethical?
Speaker 5: I can't No, I mean no, I haven't had that.
Speaker 1: I guess the weirdos are in Atlanta. Well, the weirdos
Speaker 1: are in Atlanta. What about husbands? Ooh, our husband's ever
Speaker 1: comeing to you, maybe saying, hey, can you influence my
Speaker 1: wife to maybe take some ester it? Maybe this or
Speaker 1: that or no.
Speaker 5: The best patient is when both the husband and the
Speaker 5: wife comes in right, because it takes two to tango,
Speaker 5: and so one of the things that I want to
Speaker 5: do is try to get them to see what it is,
Speaker 5: what it is that's going on, so that they can
Speaker 5: be honest with each other, because what we're really dealing
Speaker 5: with is, really, aren't these procedures we're dealing with the
Speaker 5: most awesome thing that we all enjoy, which is pleasure,
Speaker 5: which is intercourse, which is intimacy and being together.
Speaker 1: So are you more sexual health focus than you are
Speaker 1: regular guy?
Speaker 5: I know, yes, Yeah, that's what I let go of.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 5: I let go of delivering babies because when you think
Speaker 5: when you guys go to an OBGYN, that you go
Speaker 5: in and they do a pat smear, they give you
Speaker 5: birth control, talk about that or not, yes or no,
Speaker 5: do STD check, and if you're at the appropriate age,
Speaker 5: they tell you to get a mammogram. They tell you
Speaker 5: to go on out the door. None of those things
Speaker 5: actually involve the real life concerns of women, especially the
Speaker 5: modern day.
Speaker 3: I will say too with my brand like periods is
Speaker 3: a lot of women have talked about their traumatic stories
Speaker 3: with obg I ins and unfortunately a lot of women
Speaker 3: that going with concerns are literally told, here's birth control,
Speaker 3: this will regulate everything. And it's not always the answers
Speaker 3: because this piece intometriosis. There's all of these things that
Speaker 3: actually affect the cycle. And so I love that. You're like,
Speaker 3: it becomes almost like a business. Unfortunately, where we come
Speaker 3: in for our yearlies.
Speaker 2: Mind you back in the.
Speaker 3: Nineties, eighties, seventies, it's called yearlies. We're not being told
Speaker 3: you really only have to go maybe every three years.
Speaker 3: They're not even telling women. They're also not administering mammograms
Speaker 3: unless you're a certain age. My best friend literally was
Speaker 3: diagnosed with breast cancer at thirty four, and now we're
Speaker 3: being diagnosed at an earlier age. Another one of my
Speaker 3: best friends decided to keep a child because she's had
Speaker 3: so many fibroid removal surgeries that her becoming pregnant is
Speaker 3: almost as a miracle. And so there's so many conversations
Speaker 3: that aren't being had. And I love that you are
Speaker 3: a black mail doctor wanting to just be that ear
Speaker 3: for women that go.
Speaker 2: Beyond like again the yearlies and that.
Speaker 1: Y'all.
Speaker 2: Y'all, look, I'm trying not.
Speaker 3: To get emotional because these conversations with my friends recently,
Speaker 3: they don't feel safe with obg Ian And I love
Speaker 3: that we have you on here because I wanted to
Speaker 3: really dig into that where clearly you're now leaning towards
Speaker 3: the cosmetic route where you have these other conversations with women,
Speaker 3: but for our reproductive health, I'm not sure where the
Speaker 3: mark has been missed in education or with whatever practice
Speaker 3: practicing you guys have to do.
Speaker 1: If you don't mind me asking that.
Speaker 3: You as an OBGI an OBG y N, where do
Speaker 3: you feel like that mark is missed Where the care
Speaker 3: specifically of black and brown women is missed upon in
Speaker 3: terms of them coming into your office and expressing pain,
Speaker 3: irregular periods, and things regarding their reproductive system.
Speaker 5: There's disparities in health. What are you talking about? We
Speaker 5: know that black women are treated differently than Caucasian, Asian women,
Speaker 5: all the other women. One of the things that I
Speaker 5: did when I first started was is that I put
Speaker 5: my practice was gigantic. I have a gigantic practice. I
Speaker 5: had a gigantic practice that I left. I would say
Speaker 5: majority of my practice was probably sixty percent African American
Speaker 5: and forty percent everything else. And everything else came later.
Speaker 5: African Americans came first. And my mission at that time,
Speaker 5: which still runs, is Hey, you're gonna get the same
Speaker 5: care whether you go to a white doctor or you
Speaker 5: go to a black doctor. In fact, you're gonna get different,
Speaker 5: more personalized care, and you're gonna know that you have
Speaker 5: an educated physician. I work hard to be mentally strong.
Speaker 5: I work hard to be a warrior for you too.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. So when you come to me,
Speaker 5: you're gonna get the same care you're gonna get anywhere else.
Speaker 5: And the other thing is is that we don't listen.
Speaker 5: It's very difficult, and I think some of the disparities
Speaker 5: come about because you don't look like the doctor. Do
Speaker 5: you understand what I'm.
Speaker 2: Saying like literal, that's very like, yes, yes.
Speaker 5: I'm being I mean, I'm being frank. You guys are
Speaker 5: exactly personal connection which brings you in to make you
Speaker 5: want to find or push or do that extra right,
Speaker 5: So when you think you expressing pain to you, now
Speaker 5: you bill me as your mom, your aunt. You remind
Speaker 5: me of my aunt Lisa. Aunt Lisa, Aunt Lisa, you
Speaker 5: remind me of her. So when you coming in, I
Speaker 5: see her, right. And so when you're telling me you
Speaker 5: got pain, I ain't gonna say, oh, it's just p
Speaker 5: I D. I'm gonna say, okay, it's anxiety. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say what else is going on? What should
Speaker 5: be happening anyway. But one of the things that I
Speaker 5: really try to do is I want to do that
Speaker 5: for everybody. And that's why My practice is so diverse
Speaker 5: because when they do come in, they go, huh wow,
Speaker 5: he's smart, he cares, he feels. I have so many
Speaker 5: ladies that come in, they're ner and by the end
Speaker 5: of the time they're talking to me.
Speaker 1: Wrote the letter, this is horrible decisions.
Speaker 3: We want to have a quick icebreaker because this is
Speaker 3: getting really scientifical.
Speaker 5: All right, we want to have with you.
Speaker 1: So you started a series on your page. We're going
Speaker 1: into it. So you have the the A B C.
Speaker 1: Crazy what's what's the game calledology cosmetic ill you say.
Speaker 3: No, bitch, that could be the g Anyways, Wei and I,
Speaker 3: when we first started touring, we used to do this
Speaker 3: thing where we would have to go down A B
Speaker 3: C and list porn categories. However, for the A B
Speaker 3: seasons of Kynochological Cosmetology, which is some big ass motherfucker
Speaker 3: scientifical works, we want to do if we get are.
Speaker 2: Gonna literally pull a letter fucking air A to Z.
Speaker 3: What we want you to do is name something that
Speaker 3: relates to that letter and then we're gonna dive into it.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, So by.
Speaker 3: The way, on your page, a y'all, this motherfucker said
Speaker 3: anal skin tags.
Speaker 1: Now, I just watched you pull out okay, so we
Speaker 1: could hear a little bit about.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I just started, Uh this is
Speaker 3: a heavy bootlehole.
Speaker 1: Bit Hanny is. By the way, for everybody not watching,
Speaker 1: she is pulling out a big is a silico.
Speaker 2: We might have the blurt is if y'all watch it anyway.
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, so, I watched your video and
Speaker 3: I literally sund it to weezy today and I'm like
Speaker 3: anal skin tags. So I got skin tags underneath my armpits.
Speaker 3: And of course I learned from when I go to
Speaker 3: uh my my lasering that skin tags are very prevalent
Speaker 3: within the Caribbean community.
Speaker 2: Because of our melanin.
Speaker 3: However we shave, we are more susceptive skin tags, which literally,
Speaker 3: if if you have it, it's just like extra skin
Speaker 3: that just hangs, you do have to have it cosmetically removed. Which, yeah,
Speaker 3: tell us a little bit of that anal skin tag.
Speaker 3: Hold on, we got to talk about the boothole anal
Speaker 3: skin tag. Let's get into it before we give you
Speaker 3: another letter. All right, anal skin tags they're pesky little pritters,
Speaker 3: you know. Uh, they get in the way not to the.
Speaker 2: Hemorrhoids exactly how do you separate the two.
Speaker 5: So a hemorrhoid is going to be painful, it could
Speaker 5: be red, it'll hurt, it'll be uncomfortable, and you'll want
Speaker 5: something to be done right away. Anal skin tags are
Speaker 5: more of a pesky little thing. It gets in the way,
Speaker 5: makes it a little bit more different. Cult you don't
Speaker 5: look as good. And then I know you, so you
Speaker 5: might not want.
Speaker 2: Jamming his finger into the air.
Speaker 1: Not the knuckle girl.
Speaker 5: Yes, that's the knuckle girl.
Speaker 1: So if someone the nuggle girl is crazy last was around, now,
Speaker 1: she wasn't what she could be.
Speaker 5: I don't know what right you didn't tell me that.
Speaker 1: When you first saw anal skins hads like, are people
Speaker 1: like you know, I keep trying to wipe it and
Speaker 1: I think it's ship and it is not?
Speaker 2: No, or is it a pimple?
Speaker 1: What do they think it is?
Speaker 5: They know what it is most of the time. They
Speaker 5: know what it is, and they go to their obg
Speaker 5: y N usually and they look they say what is that?
Speaker 5: They say, Oh, that's an anal skin tag. That's normal.
Speaker 5: That just comes from pushing the hemorrhoids. You don't need
Speaker 5: to fix that. If you want to, you can go
Speaker 5: to a surgeon or something. So then they go to
Speaker 5: the surgeon and the surgeon says, yeah, those are antal skins.
Speaker 5: That's cosmetic. You know, not much there love the air
Speaker 5: Man's bracelest boad and nothing's done. But what she's really
Speaker 5: saying is, I don't like these things. I don't like
Speaker 5: the way they look. I want to feel better about
Speaker 5: my own self. Can you help me? M ain't broke,
Speaker 5: They ain't messing with you.
Speaker 3: Doctors, which is why, which is why, let's let's make
Speaker 3: it very clear, which is why cosmetic is now in
Speaker 3: front of gynecology.
Speaker 5: It's a term. It's just a term. So we're board certified,
Speaker 5: we're ob g I n I do all everything I'm
Speaker 5: supposed to do to keep that certification. But I got
Speaker 5: to be able to communicate to you guys. I gotta
Speaker 5: say I'm different. I'm gonna listen to the of the
Speaker 5: modern day woman, all right. So now when it comes
Speaker 5: to this ant specially tag, I'm gonna take.
Speaker 1: Care of them. Now, what about just give us any
Speaker 1: term you can think mature that starts with LA.
Speaker 5: That's my favorite. That's one of my favorite. Labia major.
Speaker 5: That's my favorite.
Speaker 1: So that is what you're mainly working on in cosmetics, right.
Speaker 5: No, I work on everything. There's not much I can't
Speaker 5: do to the vulgar.
Speaker 1: Now, big come first, you know I'm saying I thought
Speaker 1: mainly when people want to come in for cosmetology, they
Speaker 1: want that trip.
Speaker 5: Like thought that was probably the Yeah, so you're talking about.
Speaker 1: I'll say, the science is iffy, it's tricky.
Speaker 5: Okay, so we're gonna do and do all this. Okay,
Speaker 5: let's get for your for your audience.
Speaker 2: Okay, talk to it. And that's the lips.
Speaker 5: First. This whole thing is the vulva, the whole thing.
Speaker 5: The lips are the bigger ones. Those are my dora, right,
Speaker 5: and then the inner lips manora, oh like a like.
Speaker 1: A Jewish like, okay what and you got to click
Speaker 1: and then you got the platorial hood.
Speaker 5: And under the hood is the and that's the only
Speaker 5: part of the clitters. I think there's a little clitterist
Speaker 5: in that bag too. Right here is this little area
Speaker 5: is the urethra. And then this pink rich area. When
Speaker 5: you do check yourself and feel, you'll feel it rich. Yes, yep,
Speaker 5: it broke.
Speaker 2: It's the wishbone.
Speaker 5: That was the glitterist and it broke.
Speaker 1: Don't go back to the inside.
Speaker 5: Yes, the inside, it's ribbed. It's right up here on
Speaker 5: the anterior vaginal wall.
Speaker 1: And is that the spot?
Speaker 5: Okay spot?
Speaker 1: Why don't you call it the g spot?
Speaker 5: You call zone because you're not turkeys, you know, you
Speaker 5: don't just the pop and the little spot. You have
Speaker 5: an area, you have a bolver, you have it. Some
Speaker 5: women like a little more touch on the side, someone
Speaker 5: across the top, or you want to hear. It's not
Speaker 5: just one spot, it's an area or a zone.
Speaker 1: Now when looking at those what are different things that
Speaker 1: you could see? Maybe when patients come in they're unhappy
Speaker 1: with can you point to some of those things?
Speaker 5: One laby of majorid laby of manure aintal skin tags.
Speaker 1: Put a hood? What do they want going to the hood?
Speaker 5: Well? This so when you there's a couple of things
Speaker 5: that you do to the hood. So there's there's there's
Speaker 5: a condition called liking scrolls. Is that affects whomen where
Speaker 5: it causes the labia to get smaller things stick together
Speaker 5: kind of that shrink, don't lose it. One of the
Speaker 5: other things that happens is that hood will stick over
Speaker 5: the clitteris like this, so how you're gonna get access
Speaker 5: to it, so you're not gonna be able to feel it.
Speaker 5: And sometimes sensitivity will.
Speaker 3: Change my shit too sensitive, I need to desensitation. I mean,
Speaker 3: I guess I'm more into the zone area. So because
Speaker 3: I come off of vaginal penetration all right, like you
Speaker 3: came on pussy. But it's not like uh ooh, Like
Speaker 3: it's cool when I come by myself, I like my
Speaker 3: clip played with, but when I'm with a partner, I
Speaker 3: enjoy the penetration aspect of it.
Speaker 1: So maybe the O shot would be something that's.
Speaker 5: So I think the one of the other things that
Speaker 5: are really it's a tool too. It's a tool. It's
Speaker 5: called badge Angelo.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's that?
Speaker 5: It changed the angle of the vagina all right, so
Speaker 5: the vagina, this is the vagina. The vagina has a
Speaker 5: downward angle on purpose, I'll use this downward angle. So
Speaker 5: that member up here.
Speaker 1: Is the glitters.
Speaker 5: We've just talked about disease on G zone, which is
Speaker 5: an anti vagi wall. So there you got an angle.
Speaker 5: So it doesn't matter the size of the penis at
Speaker 5: this point because you have the angle that calm down,
Speaker 5: hold on, we're gonna I didn't watch that one episode enough.
Speaker 3: First off, why does the size of the penis not matter?
Speaker 2: Let's get into that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds fucking insane because you could get out.
Speaker 5: Well, I don't have a I don't have va giants.
Speaker 3: The episode is, yeah, you don't go ahead. So what
Speaker 3: I'm saying is the size don't matter because.
Speaker 5: Because of the angle, all the sensitivity is at the
Speaker 5: upper part antiervagi glitters.
Speaker 2: So so Dick's that curve up are superior, is what
Speaker 2: it might be.
Speaker 5: They might be.
Speaker 1: I don't like them.
Speaker 5: There you go.
Speaker 1: Not good for her. I'd be like, hey, hey, now
Speaker 1: I gotta go left when you're going right.
Speaker 5: You call it the little Way.
Speaker 1: Actually, I want to have a little bit of vulnerable
Speaker 1: moment with you because Mandy sent something that said, oh
Speaker 1: my god, he does surgery for a vaginal dryness. This
Speaker 1: is I've never heard of that. So last year, actually
Speaker 1: the year before, I was on antidepressants and it was
Speaker 1: very humbling for me not to have no Little Way
Speaker 1: cucin no mo So I had to go through hormone
Speaker 1: therapy and it was really tough. I mean, when I
Speaker 1: tell you I was on by Texas Chase Berry. I
Speaker 1: was taking every fucking thing and it just wasn't working.
Speaker 1: And it was so upsetting because I was like, Damn,
Speaker 1: I feel like the person I can feel me. And
Speaker 1: also I understand we're supposed to be like super sex
Speaker 1: positive about lube, but I'm in my thirties, like and
Speaker 1: I'm early thirties. I don't want to pull this fucking
Speaker 1: bottle out. So I'm curious. Now I'm better, but I'm
Speaker 1: curious to know can you give some advice to women
Speaker 1: that are experiencing vaginal dryness that maybe maybe medication like
Speaker 1: myself that I'm going I.
Speaker 3: Was gonna say perimenopausal as well, like where they're not
Speaker 3: fully there yet.
Speaker 1: But I mean, this is a lot of young women listening,
Speaker 1: mainly so and just had too many picklebag shots like me.
Speaker 1: When I literally finally had to, I had a ton
Speaker 1: of fun this one. Fuck my whole life, Damn, Nick
Speaker 1: and bab.
Speaker 3: I was embarrassed by how dras because we have been drinking,
Speaker 3: yeah night, just.
Speaker 1: Staring regularly regular valisinal dryness at a younger age, Like,
Speaker 1: what would you recommend?
Speaker 2: And have you seen that?
Speaker 5: Sure? You see it that's part of the early things
Speaker 5: that happened. So the first there's a few things hormonal
Speaker 5: will leave. Wise, in your thirties early late twenties, your
Speaker 5: testosterone level will be going to drop. Testosteronees one that
Speaker 5: gives you the confidence, the swag, and makes you want
Speaker 5: to have sex.
Speaker 3: No, okay, noone is just giving real masculine Okay.
Speaker 5: It gives your horningues your libido. Then estrogen also is
Speaker 5: a wonderful hormone that your vagina loves. It stimulates uh
Speaker 5: the cells to develop, become larger and secrete more mucous,
Speaker 5: and that's what makes you more wet, like when you're pregnant.
Speaker 5: Neither one of you been prank because I listen, you
Speaker 5: ain't had none. Don't want you don't.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean a couple we talked about it on
Speaker 3: the body any damn.
Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm gonna say it like I had one.
Speaker 1: Sh had a few seventeen twenty five.
Speaker 2: I know, but we talked about it on the pont.
Speaker 2: It wasn't shady, I promise.
Speaker 1: Okay, keep sorry at this point.
Speaker 5: So what she can do is one, we can check hormones,
Speaker 5: but if she's young, she needs to stay hydrated. Make
Speaker 5: sure she trakes lots of water. Two, you need to
Speaker 5: think about what different procedures are available. You can do thermiva,
Speaker 5: which I call a magic stick. You can do laser
Speaker 5: which helps with uh increasing blood flow and lubrication.
Speaker 2: Now what laser someone do into their vagina?
Speaker 5: Laser fractione two lasers?
Speaker 2: What is this?
Speaker 3: You said, thermiva and you looked at what you actually brought. Yeah,
Speaker 3: what does this do for a woman with her vaginal durinas?
Speaker 5: So it will stemmy. You use it in the vagina
Speaker 5: and you warm the vagina up and it slowly warms
Speaker 5: it up like a hot stone massage, you know, like
Speaker 5: when you go get your pedicure. Slowly but warmly. It
Speaker 5: gets it done, and that stimulates the vagina to increase
Speaker 5: collagen and elasting and new blood vessel growth. Now, when
Speaker 5: you get new blood vessel growth, that means you're carrying
Speaker 5: more water. So if you're staying hydraate, you're gonna feel better.
Speaker 5: If you have more collagen and lasting and the cells
Speaker 5: are gonna be plumper, the nerves are gonna be better.
Speaker 5: You're gonna respond and you'll become more luirius.
Speaker 2: Can I ask you for this one specifically.
Speaker 3: So I went to a dungeon and experienced electro magnetic
Speaker 3: waves inside of my pussy for the first time, and
Speaker 3: it felt like there was eight tongues eating me from
Speaker 3: the inside out. Now with this therapy, you do this
Speaker 3: or is there a way that a person's partner could
Speaker 3: do this for them, because this, to me does create
Speaker 3: a stimulation where if I'm in a doctor's office and
Speaker 3: I feel this level of stimulation, I don't want. I
Speaker 3: don't know if I want to be aroused as a patient.
Speaker 5: Any better do like I do, turn it off when
Speaker 5: you walk in.
Speaker 1: So I have the.
Speaker 2: Butterfly pelvic florid therapy. That's not the same as it.
Speaker 2: What's the difference?
Speaker 5: Okay, listen, I haven't heard the butterfly.
Speaker 1: Well they call it the butterfly. But basically, like I
Speaker 1: had some sexual trauma when I was young I've talked
Speaker 1: about on the pod before.
Speaker 2: Not young, but like like that Christmas dealing with that.
Speaker 1: Basically, I had a partner that was super abusive and
Speaker 1: I got my body would tighten when we had.
Speaker 5: Sex and so vain fear right.
Speaker 2: But they said that I had to do pelvic floor
Speaker 2: therapy and it was.
Speaker 5: With a wand yeah, but that's a glass wand yeah,
Speaker 5: I don't they usually use. It's a different wand it's
Speaker 5: a wand that you use like in massage. So when
Speaker 5: when you have back ache right and your back is
Speaker 5: hurting and you go to rubbit, you feel those two
Speaker 5: little knots and everything in the vagiant, well, your muscles
Speaker 5: of the pelvis can get knots and tighten up. Now
Speaker 5: you're in a relationship vaginis. Whenever I hear vagin this,
Speaker 5: that means there's fear of some sort because you're tightening
Speaker 5: up before you whatever it is. So there's a fear there.
Speaker 5: There's vagins a fear.
Speaker 3: And for people that have not heard of vagin this myths,
Speaker 3: that's I want. I want to make sure that.
Speaker 5: Oh, by the way, I'm gonna use that as v
Speaker 5: no V.
Speaker 3: I love it out there, but badin this miss is
Speaker 3: definitely like if you are experiencing painful sex. Maybe maybe
Speaker 3: you don't know why it's painful, maybe you think you're dry,
Speaker 3: maybe you think your partner is too large, But that
Speaker 3: fear and that cramming up psychologically is where your vagina
Speaker 3: muscles are are strengthening to where we'll sex.
Speaker 5: Exactly, and so you're main tightened and you the muscles
Speaker 5: just remain tight and in an uncomfortable position, and so
Speaker 5: you go to a pelvic floor physical therapist because it's
Speaker 5: like going to a massage therapist and they just work
Speaker 5: that pelvic floor and work it and talk to you
Speaker 5: and get you to understand and try to break the
Speaker 5: cycle that's there. There's a cycle there, and if you
Speaker 5: break that, then you can break the pains.
Speaker 3: As an obg yn, have you had a couple coming
Speaker 3: to your office where they're both expressing that sex is
Speaker 3: not the most pleasurable for them, and then the woman
Speaker 3: had to maybe take you aside and let you know
Speaker 3: that psychologically she's not there because of how this person
Speaker 3: is treating her, Like what has been the conversations.
Speaker 5: With Yeah, yeah, So the journal you got to come
Speaker 5: in when you when a person comes in to see
Speaker 5: me about sex. Best sex organ is right here between
Speaker 5: your ears, right, So if you're in the wrong state
Speaker 5: of mind, or if you're not pleasure or you've been
Speaker 5: working your ass doing podcast off and you coming home,
Speaker 5: if you ain't in the mood, it just ain't gonna
Speaker 5: be there. So you got to talk about those things first,
Speaker 5: So what is it that you're trying to improve upon?
Speaker 5: That's the first question I.
Speaker 1: Ask, What isn't the common thing that's been an issue
Speaker 1: in relationships besides vaginal lubrication or like, what's been an issue?
Speaker 5: Usually it's it's not that. Like I told you from
Speaker 5: the beginning, it's not the man usual. The man will
Speaker 5: say something if the woman will own't. But nine times
Speaker 5: out of ten, we're happy enough. We're happy it works
Speaker 5: because it's us sharing. So most of the time it's
Speaker 5: it's the woman that's coming to and she's saying, I'm
Speaker 5: doing yoga or pilates, and when I do something, I
Speaker 5: hear air going my vagina, or I hear come out
Speaker 5: of my vagina, or uh, I've tried. I used to
Speaker 5: use tampons and now my tampons are falling out. Now
Speaker 5: I gotta use it the Maxi pads. Or when I'm
Speaker 5: sitting on the toilet and I said down, I go
Speaker 5: to wife, I feel something I ain't never felt before.
Speaker 1: What the hell is going on?
Speaker 2: Balling out?
Speaker 5: All these things are happening, And and what happens that
Speaker 5: they go to the O, B, G. Y N and
Speaker 5: they say, I'm feeling something it ain't right, and they
Speaker 5: look when they say everything's fine, no problem.
Speaker 2: Now is the average age for this?
Speaker 5: Oh, it could happen. When are you gonna have children?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 5: Children? Is affects the pelvic floor as well as age
Speaker 5: affects the public.
Speaker 2: So shot going to see section and just ask one.
Speaker 5: I can. Yeah, but that doesn't necessarily think it's gonna
Speaker 5: remain that way. You're gonna do far better than you
Speaker 5: would if you deliver it through. But that is nothing
Speaker 5: necessarily the case because you hold the baby down in
Speaker 5: the pelvis.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I want to I want to ask you
Speaker 3: something that compares to me science versus spiritual. So when
Speaker 3: I broke up with a relationship that I viewed traumatic,
Speaker 3: my hips were the tightest they had ever been. I
Speaker 3: couldn't walk certain ways when I laid, I couldn't stretch.
Speaker 3: When I did my bar class, it hurt, and so
Speaker 3: many women DM me. It was like, Oh, it's because
Speaker 3: you carry trauma in your hips.
Speaker 2: And the body keeps scoring.
Speaker 3: It's a book, yes, And so I want to know
Speaker 3: if that was my experience, not in a holistic or
Speaker 3: spiritual way, scientifically, why are how that happens? Because of
Speaker 3: course I'm not a star of the Moon's bitch. So
Speaker 3: everyone's like, oh girl, it's because you're psychologically you're sad,
Speaker 3: you're grieving. All of this lives in your hips. What
Speaker 3: would you say to a patient who comes to you.
Speaker 3: Do you get into holistic medicine? Are you spiritual in?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Of course we talk about it, right, You got
Speaker 5: to talk about it because we know in medicals, when
Speaker 5: we go through medicine, we're always told that there's a
Speaker 5: mental art with it, a biopsychle and social issue with it,
Speaker 5: bio psycho and social. So if just think about your kids,
Speaker 5: where you don't have a kid, I got a whole
Speaker 5: bunch of kid I got six of them, but you
Speaker 5: got kids. And then when they like so like when
Speaker 5: you delivered all of them, I delivered four out of six.
Speaker 5: So when you think about kids, when they get sick,
Speaker 5: all of a sudden, they seem to regress a little bit.
Speaker 5: You know, like if you have a kid that's been
Speaker 5: off the bottle, but when they get sick, that's what
Speaker 5: they want, is the bottle. So there's a psychological aspect
Speaker 5: that's feeling the pain and discomfort that they're having. So
Speaker 5: you had a bio psycho social phenomenon. Nothing wrong with it. Wow,
Speaker 5: you understood it, you fixed it? Did you know?
Speaker 2: It took a while.
Speaker 3: I had to detach from sex, Like I realized that
Speaker 3: where I was trying to fill the void of a
Speaker 3: sexual relationship, I went back to who I felt was comfortable,
Speaker 3: but I felt empty, and I think it led to
Speaker 3: my hips feeling even tighter.
Speaker 5: You didn't want to open up, you didn't want to
Speaker 5: do it.
Speaker 3: With anybody, Like literally from cuddling to just being around them,
Speaker 3: I literally did not feel comfortable. And so many of
Speaker 3: shout out to the who hide so many of the listeners,
Speaker 3: Like as I was expressing this, I like, oh girl,
Speaker 3: it's because trauma's and your hips.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, not so all making me a
Speaker 1: spiritual bitch.
Speaker 3: But as I like started going more and more to
Speaker 3: bar class but also just in therapy working through my
Speaker 3: traumas I did my hips, like, I was able to
Speaker 3: start opening up a little bit.
Speaker 2: And yeah, it was interesting. I didn't I didn't know
Speaker 2: that connection.
Speaker 1: I do want to get into some stuff about your patients,
Speaker 1: So I want to know about trans women.
Speaker 2: Have you worked with any?
Speaker 5: I haven't worked any. I can't do much with trans
Speaker 5: I don't. I'm gonna obg you. I am the most
Speaker 5: that I can do with trans, which kind of goes
Speaker 5: along with what you were talking about Laby and majora flash. Uh,
Speaker 5: the scrotle becomes the labia madora. It's actually the homologue
Speaker 5: to the vulva, right. So sometimes it's not put together
Speaker 5: as pretty as they would like it to be. So
Speaker 5: are There's some different techniques that I can use to
Speaker 5: try to maybe tighten it, flatten it, smooth some things
Speaker 5: out and make things look a little bit different. But
Speaker 5: I can't do anything more.
Speaker 1: What about transmen that want to enlarge their clitterists, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you have you dealt with any transmit?
Speaker 5: Not in that aspect? Okay, but I have had to
Speaker 5: enlarge glitterists you have, so you as you age, good
Speaker 5: thing for the art. As you age. Uh, the clitterists
Speaker 5: will get smaller, okay. As men age, the penis will
Speaker 5: get far smaller too, So there's lack of sensitivity. Sometimes
Speaker 5: it's too small and you can't get anything. So you
Speaker 5: can use a little testosterone in that area and gently
Speaker 5: do that over a small amount of prescribed amount. How
Speaker 5: I would ask you to do it? And you can
Speaker 5: see growth in the clitteris in a waybe you hopefully
Speaker 5: improve sensation. I can also use that magic stick and
Speaker 5: use and warm around that glitterists and it stimulates small
Speaker 5: nerve fiber density. It stimulates blood flow to bring it back,
Speaker 5: the nerves back, yes, the blood flolk.
Speaker 1: What abo when it comes to kink I had a
Speaker 1: friend of mine who was an er doctor who said
Speaker 1: there were a lot of kinks that people did that
Speaker 1: caused trauma to the body. I remember one specifically she
Speaker 1: talks about was eating batteries like some crazy shit. Are
Speaker 1: there any kinks that you've seen done to the vagina that,
Speaker 1: whether it be like gaping or something.
Speaker 5: Yeah, those things are obviously going to change the pelvic floor. Right.
Speaker 5: The vagina is resilient. Right, we can have babies and
Speaker 5: it'll snap back. It will after a couple times. But
Speaker 5: if you're using larger toys and you use it your
Speaker 5: body after a few times, your body says, oh, you
Speaker 5: want me to relax a little. This is common. I
Speaker 5: need to make room. This is how you want me
Speaker 5: to be. And so you'll get more relaxation. And so
Speaker 5: you get a bigger toy, bigger toy and the next thing,
Speaker 5: you know, you got Wait a second.
Speaker 3: So you're saying that someone's vagina is a hold on
Speaker 3: can change with not with babies, Like I want to
Speaker 3: get into that because there's also this idea of Miles.
Speaker 3: There's this idea of looseness when it comes.
Speaker 1: To nothing to do with sof you got a big dick,
Speaker 1: book too much, they't really if you're fucking too much?
Speaker 2: Is if the dick is big, then know that.
Speaker 5: That's what I'm like, That's what I'm saying right exactly.
Speaker 5: So if the dick is big, you no, you don't
Speaker 5: have to Okay, yeah yeah, so uh so what so
Speaker 5: what that would mean then is if you had a person,
Speaker 5: a larger person than your partner one or two times,
Speaker 5: then they ain't gonna change. But if that's your hub,
Speaker 5: then it's gonna change. It's gonna accommodate.
Speaker 1: So Je said, And Jasmine, I was about to say,
Speaker 1: we didn't see show husb huge, and I just gotta say,
Speaker 1: I want to know what that pussy feels like to
Speaker 1: somebody else.
Speaker 2: What is that man saying?
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy? She literally said on the show,
Speaker 1: Oh he has to see other people sometimes because she
Speaker 1: wants a break from it. Yeah, because it's so big.
Speaker 1: That's that's damn, I feel bad for How do you
Speaker 1: feel bad for? I love that for her. I want
Speaker 1: someone so big that I have to share it.
Speaker 5: That's actually.
Speaker 2: Have you ever had someone want to do tightening because
Speaker 2: their partner smaller?
Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, A lot of times you.
Speaker 2: Don't just tell them to have anal sex.
Speaker 5: Well, it's different, right, there's a difference. Right the anal sex,
Speaker 5: uh is going to stimulate one aspect of the penis.
Speaker 5: It's not stimulating all the way through the vagina. So
Speaker 5: it's just a ring and you're gonna just feel that ring,
Speaker 5: but you're not feeling anything beyond.
Speaker 3: So anal sex does, let's clear it up, does feel different?
Speaker 5: Does feel different than vagina? Said? Yeah, but there's other
Speaker 5: reasons why a woman a man might want anal sex more. Right,
Speaker 5: Maybe he does. That's a sign. That's a sign. That's
Speaker 5: one of the what's the if your husband or partners
Speaker 5: asking for more anal than they usually.
Speaker 2: The pussy and kind of Ah, that is not true,
Speaker 2: don't be.
Speaker 5: That's what that's I mean that much.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because he's he's bored with your vagina.
Speaker 5: You want to you want to feel the tightness or.
Speaker 1: Not saying that asking for it means that he's saying
Speaker 1: asking for it frequently.
Speaker 5: Yes, and more often than you're going like.
Speaker 2: Why is this why you only want to put it
Speaker 2: in my boot hole?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what it's made for, right, Right, then that's
Speaker 5: when you need to start asking some questions. But don't
Speaker 5: ask him in the bag, like that.
Speaker 2: Should never be asked in the bed. So then let's
Speaker 2: get into that.
Speaker 3: How would a woman respectfully to her partner ask why
Speaker 3: her man is now asking for something else? And I
Speaker 3: only ask that too because it could go both ways, right?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 3: Being on tour with tonight's conversation, a lot of men
Speaker 3: are asking a for their butthole to be played with
Speaker 3: and don't know how to ask for that. But you're
Speaker 3: also saying, if a man is asking to have anal
Speaker 3: sex with you, he may be wanting to experience it
Speaker 3: because either the hole's not his or could there be
Speaker 3: another reason?
Speaker 2: But also, how does this comment reason? How do you
Speaker 2: have this conversation?
Speaker 5: That's why you have a cosmetic guy in college because
Speaker 5: I can talk about sex and I'll.
Speaker 1: Say you talk couples about this. Get into a therapy mode.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you do tell us about the time a couple
Speaker 1: started to fight.
Speaker 5: I had a lady that came in and her she
Speaker 5: had a lot of a lot of relaxation, and it
Speaker 5: was it was a lot it was going to be
Speaker 5: a very difficult course case. And she was open and.
Speaker 2: It was her age, and she was.
Speaker 5: I think she was in her forties and she had
Speaker 5: six children. Okay, so you get a pictured and uh
Speaker 5: that was she wanted it. She wanted it fixed. She
Speaker 5: wanted it fixed. And he was like, hell, no, what
Speaker 5: the hell, ain't nothing wrong with it? Feels great, it's wonderful,
Speaker 5: he says. She said, never mind him and kicked him
Speaker 5: out the office.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: And so we had the conversation and she was like,
Speaker 5: there's nothing wrong with his penis. I love him, he's great.
Speaker 5: I ain't feeling what I want to feel.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Wow, it's literally the opposite. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So then I fixed it. I fixed it.
Speaker 3: And when we gave, which may be why let me
Speaker 3: get it out, but it may be why he had
Speaker 3: such an issue with it.
Speaker 2: He may have been felt he felt.
Speaker 5: Here exactly, yes, exactly. So when we gave, he comes,
Speaker 5: he comes into there. My wife is part of the business,
Speaker 5: but she does the office, so she she does office
Speaker 5: and all the others. So she they go in there
Speaker 5: to talk to her to ask, you know, tell me
Speaker 5: how much money it is. Oh, no, walks out the things. Matt,
Speaker 5: she goes, don't worry about it. I got this cover.
Speaker 5: So she paid the It was good price, you know,
Speaker 5: it was ten k. And so then we fixed it
Speaker 5: and she was amazed. She came back, she said, and
Speaker 5: he came back, Doug, I'm sorry. You know, there's a difference,
Speaker 5: you know, but before that he didn't care.
Speaker 1: Can I ask you?
Speaker 3: There's a psychological aspect to medicine, right and going to
Speaker 3: the doctor and for whatever reason, cosmetology and they feel
Speaker 3: like it's not a life or dest situation is not
Speaker 3: covered by insurance. So the way you even put the
Speaker 3: price tag on this is ten k. I assume this
Speaker 3: was out of pocket, which have also been why he
Speaker 3: was the way that it did. In what cosmetic obg
Speaker 3: y N procedures would an insurance cover if any?
Speaker 5: If you zip none, yep, if you zip it up,
Speaker 5: they'll cover that.
Speaker 2: My mom, is that long.
Speaker 1: If it's that, it has to be like affecting your
Speaker 1: everyday life right, So my mom wants to do this facelift.
Speaker 1: That's where to you. She's like, I just want to
Speaker 1: right here, I just want to write here just my eye.
Speaker 1: The skin is hanging too much. I'm like mom. And
Speaker 1: my mom was seventy two and she's gorgeous. So she
Speaker 1: was like, if I get to the point where I
Speaker 1: can see no more, they gonna do my facelift free.
Speaker 2: And I was laughing about it, but she's right because.
Speaker 1: It actually has to affect your everyday life for it
Speaker 1: to be an insurance thing.
Speaker 5: Wow, but then you're gonna get it under insurance, and
Speaker 5: then that doctor it isn't gonna be isn't it isn't
Speaker 5: the one that's doing it all the time, And so
Speaker 5: you get jacks. That's the other thing. So right, So
Speaker 5: like a lot of people try to do that with
Speaker 5: like laby of plasty and even these titans, they try
Speaker 5: to cut the corner go through insurance, and these people
Speaker 5: aren't trained on how to do these things.
Speaker 3: So then I want to ask you, then the difference
Speaker 3: between what you do and maybe a badge, steam or
Speaker 3: a lot of these things that we can essentially go
Speaker 3: to a spot and get done. Now that advertises as
Speaker 3: a vaginal tightening or vaginal rejuvenation as an OBG y N.
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on these badges teams.
Speaker 5: I don't like them.
Speaker 1: I've never even heard that makes you tighter.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 2: No, the vaginal rejuvenation, that's not the steam.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's another problem with the vag rejuvenation. You don't
Speaker 5: know what you're talking about, right right? Is it vaginal dryness?
Speaker 5: Is it tighten? Is it laby of plast is it
Speaker 5: my drawer? Is it that my clitoral hood is stuck?
Speaker 5: Is it that it can't or over y?
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they stood over the pot. We have now
Speaker 3: all these conversations regarding things that you should do from
Speaker 3: douching that now we're learning is not healthy.
Speaker 5: Because it should never do.
Speaker 2: Can we talk about about douche with water.
Speaker 5: I don't think you should do it at all. I
Speaker 5: used to. I don't mean I don't do douche. But
Speaker 5: when I used to do all the time, I said,
Speaker 5: tell my face the prayer, you don't need to douche.
Speaker 5: It's a self cleaning of it. And there's probably the
Speaker 5: person who made the douche was this little old white
Speaker 5: man with some glasses.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about yes, because we've got VV. That happens, right,
Speaker 1: And when you know your micro floor is off, you
Speaker 1: know the pH is off, and you may not want
Speaker 1: to take antibiotics fork acid douching.
Speaker 2: There's so many different options.
Speaker 5: Fork acid is effective treatment because all you're doing is
Speaker 5: changing the acidic pH of the thing.
Speaker 1: I literally have fork acid douche.
Speaker 5: I haven't seen.
Speaker 1: Yeah they do. I'm also asking this because we interviewed
Speaker 1: a porn star who was saying she really doesn't have issues, right,
Speaker 1: and she's like talked about pH and things like that.
Speaker 1: So for me, when I've ever heard a friend of
Speaker 1: mine gets BV out of nowhere, I'm like tennigga fucking
Speaker 1: somebody else.
Speaker 5: But there's an association between BV and multiple partners, right
Speaker 5: if there is.
Speaker 1: When women are coming into you and they just randomly
Speaker 1: get BB with the same partner. Have you ever said
Speaker 1: maybe your.
Speaker 5: Man, I'll say, you know, we see You've been here
Speaker 5: a couple of times for this. I do want to
Speaker 5: share with you that the evidence suggests that women who
Speaker 5: have multiple episodes of BV there is a potential that
Speaker 5: could be because of multiple partners. I don't know what
Speaker 5: you do. I don't know what your boyfriend does, but
Speaker 5: I want you to have that not only multiple.
Speaker 3: Is there a way that the the shit on his
Speaker 3: dick just don't match with my plussy?
Speaker 2: But not on his dick like that, I'm saying.
Speaker 5: Maybe, oh, his own bacterial.
Speaker 3: His own bacteria does not match with the bacteria in
Speaker 3: my vagina.
Speaker 2: Maybe has nothing to do with other ones.
Speaker 1: Can there be.
Speaker 3: Incompatibility with just bacteria from one person to another?
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then but you're gonna get used to it.
Speaker 5: If you're a state of your body is gonna adjust,
Speaker 5: You mean, that's gonna change, That's gonna not be forever
Speaker 5: and ever and ever your phrind of like, no, you'll
Speaker 5: get adjus to the bacteria. She was asking about the
Speaker 5: shout the day. What bacteria you know your body will
Speaker 5: come across?
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Speaker 1: Now, Now, what about in cases of like, sorry, what
Speaker 1: was I thinking? We hear a lot of time that
Speaker 1: you know coming inside is gonna give you the BV.
Speaker 1: But I've always kind of thought that the paator just
Speaker 1: level out, you get used to it. Is that not true.
Speaker 5: As far as the like if a man coming inside
Speaker 5: of you, yeah, I mean, yeah, exactly, you'll get used
Speaker 5: to it. But that's the whole thing about where they're
Speaker 5: talking about different partners, because you're putting in different backs period.
Speaker 1: I have always thought, BV men, you got another beach.
Speaker 5: Not always, but not be you equal.
Speaker 2: You got another bitch.
Speaker 1: Listen, I want to tell you my homegirl has had
Speaker 1: it twice this year, not this year, but twice and
Speaker 1: six months, but the same person.
Speaker 5: I'm like, uh, she's never had that issue before.
Speaker 2: No, she don't want to listen to me.
Speaker 1: She was like, so then she changed a lot of
Speaker 1: soda and not the soda the weed of the hookah
Speaker 1: being to blame. Now, what about porn stars? Because Kazumi
Speaker 1: told us she doesn't experience that, So how is that?
Speaker 1: Do you ever have sex workers coming with DV often?
Speaker 1: Because how is it not happening to them?
Speaker 5: I haven't had it. I haven't taken care of a
Speaker 5: porn star.
Speaker 1: What about escorts?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: Nope, Well they also go to talent testing, is what
Speaker 2: I mean.
Speaker 1: They could have had children, maybe they could have a
Speaker 1: regular doctor.
Speaker 5: Maybe they didn't tell me back then. I mean I've
Speaker 5: had you know, it's a different way of practicing now
Speaker 5: than I did before. So when you come see me now,
Speaker 5: you're paying me out of pocket before you're paying me
Speaker 5: with insurance. Insurance pays you differently.
Speaker 1: I didn't say that, not for real, he said. Okay,
Speaker 1: So let's dig a little bit more into age. I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of this is associated with older women.
Speaker 1: Can you tell us for the women listening in their
Speaker 1: twenties and thirties. Some of the issues that you've seen
Speaker 1: come up that surprised you.
Speaker 5: With younger girls, let's see surprise me with younger women generally,
Speaker 5: coming is going to be birth control. With younger women,
Speaker 5: it's going to be Uh.
Speaker 1: Why is that how young? What do you mean?
Speaker 5: Well, younger women, you're talking about reproductive age. They don't
Speaker 5: want to get pregnant, so using birth control.
Speaker 1: Oh but you said surprise.
Speaker 5: Can I can I surprise?
Speaker 3: Can I ask you why that is the tail and all?
Speaker 3: Can I ask you why birth control is? You get
Speaker 3: a solution for when a lot of women go into
Speaker 3: a doctor, if their flow as heavy, if their cramps
Speaker 3: are really excruciating, if anything regarding their reproductive cycle is abnormal,
Speaker 3: the solution.
Speaker 2: Is birth control.
Speaker 5: That's the first step, right, they give birth control, regulate things. Okay,
Speaker 5: but did they ask you a lot of questions? Did
Speaker 5: they ask you what's going on? What's happening? Did they
Speaker 5: do a really detailed history? Did they just want to
Speaker 5: quickly and you know this is insurance to day come in,
Speaker 5: We're gonna do pills first. I know that's the appropriate
Speaker 5: first that take that go?
Speaker 2: But natural being a money maker?
Speaker 1: Huh?
Speaker 2: Like that's the thing too, like and no offense.
Speaker 1: But like for me with the hormone therapy, the first
Speaker 1: thing that when I went to the doctor, they wanted
Speaker 1: to give me shots of estrogen extra dol cream inside
Speaker 1: of my vagina. No one ever said why don't you
Speaker 1: try this, this or that first? Like when it comes
Speaker 1: to holistic and natural things, I feel like we can't
Speaker 1: really trust a doctor for that.
Speaker 5: You can't, or obgyn, you can trust them to the
Speaker 5: point like I just told you, we're gonna take care.
Speaker 3: Of questions, huh, in terms of how they ask you
Speaker 3: questions to really see how they.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you're also talking about we don't we don't
Speaker 5: get trained about sexual wellness. We don't get trained in
Speaker 5: medicine as Obgyan's and our residency about caring for the
Speaker 5: modern day women in there concerns.
Speaker 2: What's the modern day one?
Speaker 5: Your your group? You I, I'm gonna look at where's
Speaker 5: the camera?
Speaker 1: Said? He said that get them a little modern day
Speaker 1: and she typed in horror, and we popped up.
Speaker 3: No, do you think we didn't get trained in sexual
Speaker 3: wellness as if sex is not the way that we reproduced?
Speaker 2: Then you say modern day women about five times.
Speaker 1: What is that someone who's having more sex? No, what
Speaker 1: it is?
Speaker 5: Okay, I want it. So the modern day, the modern
Speaker 5: day woman wants certain things.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: They are now saying, hey, you got this show why
Speaker 5: because you want to educate women about different options and experience. Right,
Speaker 5: you want them to have intimacy, You want them to
Speaker 5: be able to experience different things, do different things, know
Speaker 5: about different things. That's the modern day woman. The other
Speaker 5: woman was left on the shelf. We weren't talking to her,
Speaker 5: we weren't telling her nothing. We weren't increasing the longevity
Speaker 5: of her vulvat.
Speaker 2: You clean that up. Well, he's talk a lot.
Speaker 1: I did not.
Speaker 5: I tell you what I mean.
Speaker 2: No, you're right, you're right, you're right.
Speaker 5: That was So that's why we have cosmetic. Guy in college,
Speaker 5: I'm getting lied because this is what I'm passionate about.
Speaker 5: But now we have cosmetic. No, we are now cosmetic.
Speaker 5: Gynecologists are saying, we understand that there's more than just
Speaker 5: a papspear and birth control.
Speaker 2: We want to help.
Speaker 5: Well, you're not lubing. Come here, let me this is
Speaker 5: what I got for you.
Speaker 1: You're not lubing, right, I got this. This this is
Speaker 1: for you. When I tell y'all want to be like
Speaker 1: a waterfall. I'm back to normal, but I want him to.
Speaker 1: I wanted to drive in all your time of the
Speaker 1: monthating lots of water.
Speaker 5: Your your drink lots of water. Your your discharge changes
Speaker 5: throughout your minstrel say.
Speaker 2: And do when I ovulate, it is bad. I mean
Speaker 2: I have to wipe it up.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, when you're ovulating, is here to get the more
Speaker 5: because then it makes it easier to get pregnant. The
Speaker 5: sperm can swim easier and fast.
Speaker 1: Now, we do have a few questions for our home
Speaker 1: mail from fans. One I thought was interesting, is getting
Speaker 1: your eggs counted invasive? Expensive or even necessary? If I'm
Speaker 1: thirty two years old.
Speaker 5: Now, if you're having normal, regular, predictable menstrual cycles, you
Speaker 5: should be able to assume that you're having ovulation. When
Speaker 5: you don't ovulate, then your cycle will be off. If
Speaker 5: there are other changes that would make you off, Oh,
Speaker 5: it could be any greater than plus your minded seven.
Speaker 1: Days Okay, okay, okay, okay. I was four days off
Speaker 1: this month, that's what okay, little bruh, I was playing
Speaker 1: in my abortion. It was crazy. I'm not even playing y'all.
Speaker 1: The way that I've been out here, I was like,
Speaker 1: one day, like I said, he'd wrote me every morning
Speaker 1: your period came back. It was bad. So I did hear.
Speaker 3: The inflation didn't take heed into the abortion area. It's
Speaker 3: still like five hundred dollars, which is about what I
Speaker 3: got it. Sure, no, no, no, insurance never covers abortions
Speaker 3: unless unless it is a life or death situation.
Speaker 2: I just had that conversation when I was.
Speaker 1: Twenty five years old planned parent who took my insurance
Speaker 1: and I only paid seventy.
Speaker 3: Five dollars, but you still have to pay. I mean,
Speaker 3: like it doesn't cover that's a pretty good My abortion
Speaker 3: was five hundred dollars. But to my knowledge, and y'all
Speaker 3: can correct me if I'm wrong, I don't.
Speaker 1: My baker right now, I really don't.
Speaker 3: I've heard even from my mom, who is currently in
Speaker 3: the healthcare feared field, insurances don't cover abortions now. Maybe
Speaker 3: because Planned Parenthood is one of those nonprofit organizations that
Speaker 3: are funded by people, they came in on it. But
Speaker 3: if you go to like a normal uh physician or hospital.
Speaker 3: By the way, fuck that we got a fucking obg.
Speaker 2: Wye here Okay, yeah, thank you. Our abortion is covered
Speaker 2: by insurance.
Speaker 1: That's what I So the planned parent that I want
Speaker 1: to go maybe it was a foot play parent, which
Speaker 1: pretty good. So next question, I don't think I have BB,
Speaker 1: but when I'm stressed, there's a smell. Interesting, she said,
Speaker 1: how can I eliminate this?
Speaker 5: Well, every vagina has a little bit of a smell,
Speaker 5: just like balls have a little bit of smell to them,
Speaker 5: right right, So I mean that's not unusually you want
Speaker 5: to worry about odors that are unpleasant, off putting discharge
Speaker 5: that's yellow green.
Speaker 2: I've never seen that.
Speaker 3: Actually, can I ask you with pheromones then your vagina
Speaker 3: and balls? Can stress change the pheromones of the smell
Speaker 3: of you?
Speaker 5: Does that make I think stress could change your response
Speaker 5: to an odor or smell? Okay, I don't know if
Speaker 5: you so, maybe she's act but it may be just
Speaker 5: her response to that.
Speaker 3: Man.
Speaker 2: The next question, how the fuck I keep getting BB
Speaker 2: and how can I get rid of it?
Speaker 1: For good?
Speaker 2: Stop sucking?
Speaker 1: You do that?
Speaker 5: One of the things that you when when I when
Speaker 5: I treat that you give you flagele and then they
Speaker 5: do need to take rest, meaning not having intercourse. You
Speaker 5: need to treat the full course as one of other things.
Speaker 5: Sometimes I thought infection, No, flat is the yeast infection. Okay,
Speaker 5: so you can use metronitis all I do it for
Speaker 5: seven days. But they got a rest. You can't get
Speaker 5: let the normal bacteria come back.
Speaker 1: That's the.
Speaker 2: Take two days of rest. Bitch, give it for it.
Speaker 5: Calm down, don't get right to give it. Give it
Speaker 5: some rest.
Speaker 1: So we got two more. Why don't we get anesthesia
Speaker 1: or pain meds for an I U D insertion?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've heard that one. Okayst No, I don't think
Speaker 5: it has to do with the cost I used to
Speaker 5: use it. Uh, the thing some of it. It just
Speaker 5: has to be with training. This is the difference in
Speaker 5: mindset that some of the physicians are doing. So if
Speaker 5: if you're doing it in the hospital, you're just trying
Speaker 5: to quickly get it done and do it. Uh, you're
Speaker 5: coming to see me and afford not want of y'all
Speaker 5: to talk bad about me, right, So when you come,
Speaker 5: Oh you got that, let me give you some water.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna numb me up real good. You know, there's
Speaker 5: a difference in how you practice.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's the difference from when you go to a
Speaker 3: hair braider and then a bitch were her own salon.
Speaker 1: There you go, you get what do you bitch be
Speaker 1: charged a get the most in the wine in between?
Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Okay, uh HSB. Is it possible to conceive children with
Speaker 1: someone diagnosed with HSB?
Speaker 5: Yeah, herpees absolutely, you can uh get pregnant whether you
Speaker 5: have her pies. You can deliver vaginally if you have
Speaker 5: her pies.
Speaker 2: I felt like I knew the answers to that, but
Speaker 2: I think maybe people did it.
Speaker 5: They don't. They must not. Well, I used to get
Speaker 5: that question all the time.
Speaker 3: I think also because they they still align HSV with
Speaker 3: HIV as one of the things you don't get rid of, right,
Speaker 3: And so the way that we have been brought up
Speaker 3: to uh really think about how we viewed STDs. We
Speaker 3: know that herpes and HIV are the two that you
Speaker 3: can't get rid of. Everyone now looks that chlamydia gonera
Speaker 3: everything else is oh, well I can it's.
Speaker 5: Get rid of it.
Speaker 1: And so I honestly that.
Speaker 5: Comidia people kill silent silent killer of fertility.
Speaker 3: If you're there, and can you speak on that a
Speaker 3: little bit, because well, chlamydia sometimes may not have an
Speaker 3: itch a scratch. You may not even know you have
Speaker 3: it again without being tested. But the silent killer. Can
Speaker 3: we talk about a little bit why and also why
Speaker 3: we don't view chlamydia is.
Speaker 5: So dangerous because I think they need to start Yep,
Speaker 5: it's easy. That's the exact reason they think. You take
Speaker 5: they have it. Now you can mix a drink, drink
Speaker 5: it once real, Yeah, a one time slurry, put in
Speaker 5: a little bit of water, drink it. Boom, not emergency.
Speaker 5: Now you can take I haven't.
Speaker 2: Had an STD in year maybe early twenties. I think
Speaker 2: I had it not And I get to it's so regularly.
Speaker 1: And one of my homegirls made a joke with me
Speaker 1: like ain't no way, and it said yeah in a way,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, damn bro. But she was like telling
Speaker 1: me she's a naturopathy doctor. She's like, I think chlamydia
Speaker 1: nowadays it can be so mild. Maybe it's going away
Speaker 1: on its own with you.
Speaker 2: No, let's be very clear.
Speaker 1: No, like really, she's like that you've taken an antibiotic
Speaker 1: in your life if you had, because triggnosis has become
Speaker 1: so ramp it's very that's the one.
Speaker 2: Literally, And again she's a naturopathy.
Speaker 1: She was like, I believe you've either had tests in
Speaker 1: your life that probably did past you probably had another antibiotic.
Speaker 1: She was saying that it's she's saying, because they're so
Speaker 1: sexually active that there's no she's saying that the amount
Speaker 1: of women that are coming in with more than like
Speaker 1: two or three partners in a year, Okay, it's happening
Speaker 1: metropolitan cities. It's growing even open relationships. She's like, that's
Speaker 1: the most common people that are having promiscuous sex with
Speaker 1: a partner or not.
Speaker 2: I mean there's gone rhea in things that are now
Speaker 2: coming to where they're about. They're saying that now the
Speaker 2: medication that they've created is not the because it's turning
Speaker 2: into like COVID where it's.
Speaker 4: Growing to work.
Speaker 5: What is it called. They're just superbugs. They're not responding
Speaker 5: to traditional antibiotics, and we have to go and figure
Speaker 5: out different ways to give you the antibiotic treat you.
Speaker 1: I want to tell you this. One of my friends
Speaker 1: I just had an STD all the way. This motherfucker
Speaker 1: was like, Bro, I've never seen this ship before. I
Speaker 1: don't even know if I'm what I'm supposed to do. Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I was about to say, what is we about to do?
Speaker 2: That person sent the name of it, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's a new std ver this.
Speaker 1: And we were all laughing about it, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because like because they were like, yo, like
Speaker 1: this is not coming up on.
Speaker 3: Regular don't even know how to spell it the way
Speaker 3: you are. She is going through group chats three shots.
Speaker 3: It's the gram right, hold on, what is the name
Speaker 3: of this STD because I need to know what superbug
Speaker 3: is out here?
Speaker 2: Dog, I needed to help back into the screeks.
Speaker 1: What's the name of.
Speaker 5: Your your rea plasma and EREALYTICU. Yeah, that's just a.
Speaker 5: It's a it's a it's a bacteria. Uh that in
Speaker 5: the vagina. Huh No, that's just the name of it's
Speaker 5: It's just another bacteria.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 5: Sometimes you see bev with it as well, but you
Speaker 5: just treat it with antibiotic.
Speaker 1: It's just another But but so what let me this
Speaker 1: friend got sick on a trip to Paris. Given a
Speaker 1: lot of details on this person's not on Instagram does Okay,
Speaker 1: so this person got sick on a trip to Paris,
Speaker 1: got this test there and was like, I've been tested
Speaker 1: like five times in the States. Never did this come up?
Speaker 1: That thing that you just read. I don't know the
Speaker 1: fun it is. Is it possible that we could be
Speaker 1: passing something like that amongst each other and have no
Speaker 1: idea because it's.
Speaker 2: Not because the US doesn't test for it?
Speaker 1: Like is that something that you've been seeing in tests?
Speaker 1: Or is it because we're not.
Speaker 5: Usually I would see that in the urine though when
Speaker 5: I used to run across that when I would see
Speaker 5: it in the urine.
Speaker 3: But like we know that they don't tell never HSB
Speaker 3: unless you ask for it, and HIV is the same.
Speaker 3: So is this something that potentially doesn't go through screening?
Speaker 5: No, I don't think that.
Speaker 3: Bruh, look at this, You're you're a plasma. You're relic
Speaker 3: political short word for this. Youah that looks like Mike
Speaker 3: called clastmahammadas. So then you know they were like, yo,
Speaker 3: do I need to hit on my partners right now?
Speaker 3: And I'm like, bro, if they got tested on wait
Speaker 3: you said no, it's just like a bacteria. Wait for this,
Speaker 3: you would say you wouldn't have to hit up your partners.
Speaker 5: I don't think so.
Speaker 1: Which STDs? What interesting?
Speaker 3: What if you feel like if I have to get
Speaker 3: if someone has to get antibiotics for an STD, you
Speaker 3: feel like there are STDs that they don't have to
Speaker 3: tell their partners that they're taking antibiotics on. So let's
Speaker 3: let's say bitch, I said that, huh, why is one?
Speaker 5: But why is one?
Speaker 2: Would you not have to tell your partner.
Speaker 5: Because it's just there's a whole bunch of bacteria that
Speaker 5: have these really crazy different names.
Speaker 2: It's just so that's not an st D.
Speaker 5: Interesting, that was the double check. But I mean, I'm
Speaker 5: a little bit away from it. But in my in
Speaker 5: my as I recollect, this is not associated with which.
Speaker 1: Is probably why we don't.
Speaker 2: So it could just be a bacteria in.
Speaker 5: The bladder and that was cultured and showed up and
Speaker 5: they said, oh ship, that's oh that's europism erolytical. Let
Speaker 5: them do and teach them and treat it. That's it's
Speaker 5: kind of like that kind of thing. Bro.
Speaker 1: Well, that motherfucker's gonna have to make a lot of
Speaker 1: calls that whole Yeah. Yeah, anyway, what nobody knows who
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 2: You're allowed to talk about people and no one knows
Speaker 2: who is.
Speaker 1: We're podcasters. This is what we do. Yeah. Anyway, doctor,
Speaker 1: please tell people to find you. We know you're in Sacramento,
Speaker 1: so maybe some of our whore hive there could come
Speaker 1: and visit you.
Speaker 2: And we have a really horror hive in the bank.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, please come. I'm in David, California. You can
Speaker 5: find me at the cosmeticgy n dot com. Doctor Michael
Speaker 5: Reid dot com. I am a little expensive, I am,
Speaker 5: but I mean I do some really good work and
Speaker 5: I'm really educated and I can really take care of
Speaker 5: a whole bunch of things. And uh, what you get
Speaker 5: from me is that warrior that's gonna fight for you
Speaker 5: so that you can have what you want to have
Speaker 5: and improve the longevity of your volge.
Speaker 1: Well, I would like a free zoom because I ain't
Speaker 1: got we were going to I'm going to walk in
Speaker 1: Gino too. I'm tied of that bit.
Speaker 3: I also want to say I think it's important for
Speaker 3: us to create more of this network where we support
Speaker 3: doctors and ob.
Speaker 2: G y N for positions that look like us.
Speaker 5: I do want to plug this. I mean it's not
Speaker 5: but it's but why I want to plug it because
Speaker 5: it's in line. You can always cut it. It's in
Speaker 5: line with what I'm trying to do. It's called it's
Speaker 5: called the Institute of Restorative and Cosmetic Gynecology. It's a
Speaker 5: training program that I started. I started this training program.
Speaker 5: And what we do is we bring physicians in right,
Speaker 5: ten of them. We have cadavers. I give lectures. I
Speaker 5: tell them about the anatomy, how you do these procedures
Speaker 5: correctly and yes, and then they go into the lab
Speaker 5: and then we practice on a human being, of course,
Speaker 5: a cadaver. But we at least have that much training.
Speaker 5: You don't get any of that kind of training when
Speaker 5: you come out of residency. M So I've started this
Speaker 5: institute to train doctors to be gladiators for the modern
Speaker 5: day warmer for you.
Speaker 1: I want to use this tonight. What is gonna do
Speaker 1: to me? Okay, look, go ahead and explain. I got
Speaker 1: to use a mixing bowl and put this sh in
Speaker 1: my This is a CO two lift. B. This is
Speaker 1: gonna burn you to it's given chemistry. I'm gonna let
Speaker 1: you do this. Go ahead.
Speaker 5: They also have CO two lifts you could just use
Speaker 5: on the face. You can use this on the vult.
Speaker 1: What's it gonna do? So?
Speaker 5: It helps with moisturized and remember you're talking about.
Speaker 1: This will help you. I used to be a back.
Speaker 5: This this, this will change your life.
Speaker 2: You fitted yourself with the co two bro.
Speaker 1: Five days, Can I have sexy between?
Speaker 5: You're gonna do it? So this is how you do it.
Speaker 5: You mix it. You're gonna do it at night. You're
Speaker 5: gonna mix packet one with packet two and a bowl.
Speaker 5: Mix it. It'll be orangesh in color. You're gonna put
Speaker 5: it inside the vagina and put a little bit on
Speaker 5: the outside of the vagin Then you're gonna jump in bed.
Speaker 5: So you're gonna do it after you've had sex. Oh,
Speaker 5: make sure you're gonna come over, Okay, all right? Then
Speaker 5: I got a five days.
Speaker 1: Before a while.
Speaker 5: Once you get in bed, you can't go on all
Speaker 5: over the place because it tightens up kind of like
Speaker 5: a face mask. And then what you do is that
Speaker 5: old dark hundred when you know when you get up
Speaker 5: to go pee, it'll PLoP in the toilet. Then you
Speaker 5: jump in bed, and then when you wake up in
Speaker 5: the morning shower, it's gone.
Speaker 1: Well you gotta pee it out first.
Speaker 5: Well, when you go pee, it'll I go.
Speaker 3: That's like when you take cranberry pills. Your pisttern orange bro.
Speaker 3: How many like the same ship? Okay, so start worse
Speaker 3: a wolf? Hey wolf, can we get can we get
Speaker 3: some bts of this patreon where she mixed it on
Speaker 3: the bowl and you like blur out her putting it
Speaker 3: on her pussy and we see a face pussy.
Speaker 1: Can't use both of them, that's a whole.
Speaker 5: It should be five of them, ye see.
Speaker 1: But the little one. The directions ain't good enough.
Speaker 5: You take one, big one, little one, big one, little
Speaker 5: stir them up. There's syringing there isn't it.
Speaker 4: Uh huh oh?
Speaker 2: You about to shoot it up your pussy.
Speaker 5: Yep, push it into the vagina and then you're gonna
Speaker 5: rub whatever is left in the bowl all over the bowl,
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Speaker 3: They are kind of out, and maybe I'll be here
Speaker 3: would a god damn hoodie and sneakers because this weather
Speaker 3: is ridiculous. I just got back from fucking Miami and
Speaker 3: I didn't know that I was coming back home to
Speaker 3: a snowstore.
Speaker 1: Was it fucking Miami or it was sucking Miami.
Speaker 3: Girl, cause the nigga got too drunk and throw up
Speaker 3: and threw up all over himself, so no dick took
Speaker 3: place there.
Speaker 4: So yeah, and he's just like, I feel so terrible,
Speaker 4: and I'm like you should Yeah, you shouldn't.
Speaker 3: But also because I sucked him before the super Bowl,
Speaker 3: but then we had to all go watch super Bowl
Speaker 3: and so we all we all. Oh, girl came, came
Speaker 3: like came, and I had fun with it, like I
Speaker 3: had my homegirl said on the couch while I did it,
Speaker 3: because he kind of like, I'm trying to inch him
Speaker 3: to a threesome.
Speaker 4: He hasn't had like a three.
Speaker 3: We know we fucked already before, though, so I'm like, girl,
Speaker 3: just come downstairs and watch me set this nigga dick
Speaker 3: real quick. And uh So it's so funny because he
Speaker 3: was so nervous, and that's like my whole girl home girl.
Speaker 3: So she was like, yes, bitch, that shit sound wet
Speaker 3: doing you doing that thing? But no, I literally was like, girl,
Speaker 3: just come down here and watch me set this nigga
Speaker 3: dick real quick.
Speaker 4: Why did she join in?
Speaker 3: No, because he was so nervous even that, Like he's
Speaker 3: sitting there and bitch, the game done started and I'm like, nigga,
Speaker 3: you ain't gonna make me miss usher. We got to
Speaker 3: go to this party. So I'm like going at his
Speaker 3: pants and he literally just pulled it out. Then it's
Speaker 3: just sitting on his chest.
Speaker 4: So I like, just go to the socdia. His dick
Speaker 4: is ginormous. His dick is amazing. Okay, now his dick
Speaker 4: is great. Well, No, she felt nervous to even look
Speaker 4: because he was so nervous.
Speaker 1: But she was just like this, like he was so bitch.
Speaker 4: She was so fucking nervous. I was just like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, this is so annoying.
Speaker 1: So are you staying in the room with him?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: He gets me.
Speaker 3: That's why she came, she, I get my own room
Speaker 3: every time he flies me out. Why what do you
Speaker 3: mean why?
Speaker 4: Because I do?
Speaker 3: And I said him my first class ticket. I don't
Speaker 3: need to be all up under your ship. And I
Speaker 3: wanted to be with my friend like I had invited
Speaker 3: her to the game and he like, like I was
Speaker 3: driving around with her. Talk got my own room when
Speaker 3: I went to when I go to, like anywhere I go,
Speaker 3: I get my own room. And so I'll go to
Speaker 3: his room or he'll come to mine. But we don't
Speaker 3: sleep together, like we don't do all the cuddling and
Speaker 3: ship it's new anyway, Yeah, we don't do that. Well, no,
Speaker 3: you said it's new, but normally you do.
Speaker 1: It was that new new, like it's the nigga that
Speaker 1: I would go and see, like when with my ex one,
Speaker 1: So you guys both come downstairs. Does he know she's
Speaker 1: coming downstairs? We went upstairs where.
Speaker 4: He knew? He said, no, he knew. He said, uh.
Speaker 3: He said, both of y'all come down, and I was
Speaker 3: like okay, And of course he was like, you trust her.
Speaker 3: I was like, bro, I'm not going to bring nobody
Speaker 3: around that I don't trust. So wait, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 3: so he knew you were coming down the suckers dick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's what I was coming down because I'm like,
Speaker 1: if you said both of y'all down because he because
Speaker 1: he's scary.
Speaker 4: He's just scary.
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I would not be the whull I
Speaker 3: am today if I had to go through that type
Speaker 3: of party and shit that these girls have to go to.
Speaker 4: Literally for y'all, I'll share what the experience is like.
Speaker 3: So a lot of like basketball players now don't like
Speaker 3: going to clubs because there's phones, they get drunk, they get.
Speaker 4: Shipped, they make one. They's crazy, they make clubs.
Speaker 3: So they'll like turn a restaurant or like a lounge
Speaker 3: into their own club. There'll be a DJ, there'll be
Speaker 3: an open bar, there's bottle service, there's hookah, there's all
Speaker 3: the things except for niggas.
Speaker 4: The bottle service part is the weirdest person.
Speaker 1: Weird.
Speaker 4: Oh they were coming out with Sparklan. I were the
Speaker 4: one at the Mandrium. It was like, you know when
Speaker 4: they were I'm not even one.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but basically at the Madria in New York,
Speaker 1: there's this top floor it's probably like a lounge anyway,
Speaker 1: But it turns into a club.
Speaker 4: So I walk in and I didn't know that type
Speaker 4: of party it was.
Speaker 1: I knew a ballplayer invited me, but I just kind
Speaker 1: of thought was having drinks with friends because we're not
Speaker 1: fucking with each other, so it didn't really He was like, YO,
Speaker 1: have my New York to come through. So the bodyguard
Speaker 1: or the security looks at me and he's like, okay,
Speaker 1: she's cute, is she right? It says Freddy. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for my friend so and so, and he's like, okay,
Speaker 1: well you'd have to go upstairs. I was like, okay, cool.
Speaker 4: And then he's like, well, I need your phone and
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, I have to meet him up No.
Speaker 3: They collected everyone's phone and get them in white envelopes.
Speaker 3: But like the party is literally just the team, maybe
Speaker 3: the players like do boys, and maybe a culture too,
Speaker 3: or like one of the people that were on the
Speaker 3: team there is There was literally ten niggas in this room.
Speaker 4: That's it, and easily one hundred and