WEBVTT - Ep 367: Fixing The G Zone (Ft. Dr. Michael Reed OBGYN) 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:04.400 Guess what decision We're about to make? 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:05.960 Horrible decision? 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:11.119 How do everybody? We have the Horrible Decisions podcast, and 0:00:11.160 --> 0:00:13.440 we are going to be in Dallas, Texas moroyal day weekend. 0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:15.840 Bitch is a Sunday. We're gonna be headlining the two 0:00:15.840 --> 0:00:18.160 Togetherland Festival. And you bitched better than I had. No 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:19.360 motherfucker work on Sunday. 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:22.280 Call out ho, I mean you could do that. But 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:25.000 also it's a three day weekend. They have Monday off. 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:27.680 We will see you guys in Dallas, Texas at the 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:28.920 together Land Festival. 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:30.680 Make sure you get your tickets now. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:34.680 We will be live on the podcast stage that's made 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:39.760 twenty six. Get your tickets now at togetherland dot com. Hi, guys, welcome. 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:43.000 It's another episode of Horrible Decisions. And I'm speaking this 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:46.400 fucking professional because we have a doctor in the building. 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:50.120 It's giving science and guys, I can't wait to get 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:52.360 into the gauntdamn conversation. 0:00:52.520 --> 0:00:54.200 Anyways, nights, I'm. 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:58.160 Your girl maybe aka pet to sign aka Debby. 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.760 I'm a person that does believe in My name is 0:01:00.760 --> 0:01:02.840 Weezy If you're watching on the YouTube, Yes, this is 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:07.080 the fake Beyonce outfit from tour we got into email 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:09.400 and probably your PR team, I don't know, but anyway, 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:11.679 you know, we had a lot of emails of guests 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:13.119 that want to come on, and I. 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:14.840 Was like, we ignore a lot of y'all niggas. 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:19.680 I was like, I was like, we already had to 0:01:19.720 --> 0:01:22.440 go on. But then I started clicking and I was like, okay, 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:25.360 it's black man. We never had a mail got on. 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:27.480 And also I was like the tattoos kind of got me. 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:29.800 It was like, is he is he a real doctor? 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.600 You know what I'm saying, because you remember the guy 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:34.480 that had that little fake certificate. Yeah, uh huh, So 0:01:34.560 --> 0:01:37.160 I wasn't sure. And then I'm like, you just want 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:37.840 to look at pussy. 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:39.440 So who do we have in the building today? 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:44.440 Weezy doctor Michael Reid, the cosmetic g ui in Yes. Yes, 0:01:44.720 --> 0:01:47.000 so you don't only go into pussy and deliver babies. 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:48.480 You want to fix it and make it a pussy. 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:51.080 You see what men do. They want to fix it. 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:54.480 We fix it, You fix it? What be wrong with it? 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:57.760 Well it's not me, right, but when you talk about men, 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:01.080 we're just happy to be there. This is for women. 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.720 Women are saying I want this or I want that. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:07.360 And guess what I give them this or that that 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:09.920 they asked for. It could be anything. It could be. 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:11.320 I don't like the way it looks. It could be 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:12.600 I don't like the way it feels. 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:13.639 What about smell? 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:15.720 Smell? You can't kelp that too. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.480 By the way, y'all are watching on her YouTube, Doctor 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:24.800 Reid has a wonderful pen. And where were what you 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:25.160 thought of? 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:25.480 Oh? 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:26.240 Like a pan? 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:26.679 Like what you? 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:26.880 Right? 0:02:26.919 --> 0:02:28.680 Well, I can't see, That's what I'm saying. 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:33.040 He has a lovely pin on his coat jacket, and 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:35.480 where we thought it was a flower, it is the 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:39.480 flower of mother nature. I want this goddamn pin of 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:43.840 a pussy. And I would like to start off before 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:46.960 we get into what you're able to do. How this 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:49.320 started with your profession? When did you know that you 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:53.160 wanted to be a cosmetic obg y n and deal 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.880 with the vagina not only on a personal level but on. 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:57.800 A professional feeling like everybody wanted to be in it 0:02:57.840 --> 0:02:58.160 all day? 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.480 But yeah, yeah, so, I mean you know, I'm autritional 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:04.320 traditional obgyn. That's how it started. And I've been practicing 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:09.680 twenty four twenty six years practicing obg yn, right, And 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:15.519 so I would say maybe five years ago. I had 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:20.240 this feeling that you know what drew me first to medicine, 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:23.960 and OBI was caring for women, you know, making sure 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:26.320 that I could do everything that they needed to do, 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:35.280 deliver babies, be supportive, encourage and treat right and can 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.400 you believe that's what got me there? But one day 0:03:37.560 --> 0:03:42.520 I said, it's hurting me. It's draining me for some reason, right, 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:44.280 And I said, I got to try to figure out 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:47.000 something to do. It's one of the difficult things for 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.960 physicians is that there's no place to turn when you 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:52.280 get can you get bored? Well, that's a nice way of. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:58.600 Okay for looking at pusses all day. You're like, what 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:00.240 else can I do with the puss's? 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:07.120 Send? Pussy? Become boring? Like seventeen So at the beginning, 0:04:07.120 --> 0:04:09.360 because I feel like every man watching this wants to 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:14.240 know you go, You're starting off with lions in the beginning, 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:15.560 and you're like, oh my god, this is a good one. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:17.280 Is it the person? Is it? 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:17.440 Like? 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.360 When do you stop thinking for yourself and become total doctor? 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:22.120 As soon as I walk into my front door and 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.480 turn their teeth, I know that's how you mean. The 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:28.680 look Listen listen here, I'm gonna tell you you guys 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:31.680 are women. You guys are sexual, you guys are prowesses, 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:35.360 you guys are champion, you guys are leading, and you 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:40.920 can I'll be on the price. But you all can 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:42.240 feel energy, right right. 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:43.880 So I've been called a siren. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:48.039 So if you're coming in to see me and I'm 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:50.760 looking at you with a different energy, You're gonna feel 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:54.279 it immediately, right. And so I want to change the 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:59.480 landscape for women as it pertains their sexual enhancement or gratification. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:01.680 So if I'm going to try to do this for 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:07.960 all women, well then all women is business, right, the 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:12.000 only business I have fun businesses at home, right, So 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:15.400 I want to change things. So I can't be this person, 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:20.200 whether it's behind the scenes or outright blinkant. I got 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:22.720 to be who I am, and that's to change things. 0:05:22.839 --> 0:05:26.760 I love that, That's what all. So when do I 0:05:26.839 --> 0:05:32.000 really turn this on? Yeah, when I go into my office, have. 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:36.560 You experienced moments where you're almost seeing it so much 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:37.920 that when you get home to your wife feel like 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:38.640 I had enough? 0:05:39.320 --> 0:05:40.560 We asked this question to point. 0:05:42.240 --> 0:05:45.480 Right, no, because remember I turned it off, and I'm 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:47.640 a man. So soon as I go out the door, 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:49.839 I turn it back off. And when I turn it 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.640 back on, I'm looking at everything I look at from 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:54.640 out the beach. I got something I'm going to look there. 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.560 I got the same feelings, same thought, same things that 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:57.960 men do. 0:05:58.160 --> 0:05:59.720 Have you ever got hit on by a big why? 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:01.279 I know you have? Tell us about the time. 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.400 It was early in my career. So what I what 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:07.600 what I've learned because I've opened a practice in North 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:11.560 Carolina and Nebraska now Sacramento, and so what I've learned 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:13.960 is when you first come out, see, I feel like 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:22.599 I'm high value. Okay, oh yeah, I'm coming. Yeah the 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:25.000 way we just hate high value. We got to get 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:27.000 you another word for that. Okay, Well I think I'm 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:30.360 a great person. There we go, all right, And and 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:32.640 like I said, I want to be the best, right. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:36.599 So having said that, what was the question? 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:38.640 When you get tell us about the time you've been on. 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.200 So I was sitting becau You're gonna have to help 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:43.880 me with that. I was setting this up. So, like 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.200 I said, you got to be all right and everything. 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:50.880 And I got a letter from a patient. That's what 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.279 I got was a letter that's through old school. Yeah, 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.960 this was a long time ago. You got to remember, 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.119 it was a long time ago. When I first started. 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:58.720 She said she's going to do this, that, that, that 0:06:58.920 --> 0:06:59.960 and everything else. 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:02.320 Y seventeen years ago. That wasn't even cell phones. 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:05.400 You had already been up there. You choose a patient. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:06.000 Paper wasn't. 0:07:06.040 --> 0:07:08.360 The only cell phones was a little big old thing 0:07:08.360 --> 0:07:09.760 that they put in a car that we used to 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:11.200 that we saw in like New jack City. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:13.640 And no, they had seventeen years ago. Girl. 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:16.080 We were in high school, not seventeen years ago. 0:07:16.240 --> 0:07:18.360 I was he are you fucking mandy? 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:21.600 I'm doing the mad bitch, I ain't an account and 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.480 no more. That just sounds like a long time ago. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:27.200 We had cell phones. I did in eighth grade. Let 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:27.720 me do the math. 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:32.320 Girl, we are all no, no, no, speak yourself. Okay, wait, 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.440 keep going. So she wrote you a letter, What about 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:36.680 when you're in it? You never had someone when you're 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:37.960 in to be like, well, hey, if you want to 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:40.920 see it outside of your gloves. 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:43.480 Nah, I haven't had that because like listen, like I 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:45.960 told you, when you first come in, you're shutting it 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:49.560 off right, and then the patient can feel it. If 0:07:49.600 --> 0:07:52.400 you are not on or off right, they can feel it. 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:58.360 The last thing is is that they if you set 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:02.000 yourself up and people know they do that you don't 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:05.360 do these things, then those pressures go away. 0:08:05.680 --> 0:08:09.400 What about some weird requests or even boundaries you've had 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:13.760 to make? For example, we saw t I online saying 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:17.520 that he made the doctor make sure his daughter's was there. 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:20.680 Have you ever had any fathers just have a ridiculous 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.080 requests or something that you felt. 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:25.960 Like it's entirely ridiculous. Sorry t I, but that's entirely ridiculous. 0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.520 You know the hymen breaks, you know, at twelve years old. 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.720 I mean you could be running, you could be riding 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:32.880 a bike. You can do anything in the hymen break, 0:08:32.920 --> 0:08:33.640 so it has nothing. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:38.160 I mean so that you're cherry popping your hymen breaking 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:40.920 from penetration, That is a myth. 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:41.760 That is a myth. 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:44.800 I didn't want it. Mine did pop from penetration? Did yours? 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:46.960 My periods started? 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:51.160 I thought it was just the head went in too, 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:54.679 So I don't think it really broke. I don't think 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:55.360 my hymen broke. 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:58.000 Mine must have been real loone. Nothing happened you just 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.000 my period? Mind you. 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.160 I started my period maybe only four or five years 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:06.280 before I lost my virginity, so me understanding my body 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:08.839 or my cycle, I was just waiting for blood to come. 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:10.640 I ain't know when that motherfucker was coming. I just 0:09:10.679 --> 0:09:14.400 knew it was coming. And so I do believe like 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:17.679 I had a full period. I didn't spot a period, 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:19.840 so I was like, whoah, I ain't getting this nigga 0:09:19.880 --> 0:09:22.000 chord anyway. 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:25.480 So have you ever had a father or mother come 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.280 to you about their kid's virginity or something that you said, 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:29.320 this is unethical? 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:34.679 I can't No, I mean no, I haven't had that. 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.720 I guess the weirdos are in Atlanta. Well, the weirdos 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:42.040 are in Atlanta. What about husbands? Ooh, our husband's ever 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.679 comeing to you, maybe saying, hey, can you influence my 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:46.600 wife to maybe take some ester it? Maybe this or 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:47.720 that or no. 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:50.240 The best patient is when both the husband and the 0:09:50.280 --> 0:09:53.000 wife comes in right, because it takes two to tango, 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:54.840 and so one of the things that I want to 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:56.680 do is try to get them to see what it is, 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:58.520 what it is that's going on, so that they can 0:09:58.559 --> 0:10:01.720 be honest with each other, because what we're really dealing 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:04.959 with is, really, aren't these procedures we're dealing with the 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.880 most awesome thing that we all enjoy, which is pleasure, 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:10.800 which is intercourse, which is intimacy and being together. 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:13.520 So are you more sexual health focus than you are 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:15.439 regular guy? 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.920 I know, yes, Yeah, that's what I let go of. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:18.600 I love it. 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:21.040 I let go of delivering babies because when you think 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:23.800 when you guys go to an OBGYN, that you go 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:25.920 in and they do a pat smear, they give you 0:10:25.960 --> 0:10:28.160 birth control, talk about that or not, yes or no, 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:30.800 do STD check, and if you're at the appropriate age, 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:32.280 they tell you to get a mammogram. They tell you 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.640 to go on out the door. None of those things 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:39.920 actually involve the real life concerns of women, especially the 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:40.480 modern day. 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:45.199 I will say too with my brand like periods is 0:10:45.360 --> 0:10:49.080 a lot of women have talked about their traumatic stories 0:10:49.080 --> 0:10:52.120 with obg I ins and unfortunately a lot of women 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:56.200 that going with concerns are literally told, here's birth control, 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:58.920 this will regulate everything. And it's not always the answers 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:03.080 because this piece intometriosis. There's all of these things that 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:09.280 actually affect the cycle. And so I love that. You're like, 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:14.439 it becomes almost like a business. Unfortunately, where we come 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:15.800 in for our yearlies. 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:17.760 Mind you back in the. 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.960 Nineties, eighties, seventies, it's called yearlies. We're not being told 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:23.000 you really only have to go maybe every three years. 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:26.720 They're not even telling women. They're also not administering mammograms 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:30.199 unless you're a certain age. My best friend literally was 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:33.640 diagnosed with breast cancer at thirty four, and now we're 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:36.440 being diagnosed at an earlier age. Another one of my 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:39.400 best friends decided to keep a child because she's had 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:44.080 so many fibroid removal surgeries that her becoming pregnant is 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.640 almost as a miracle. And so there's so many conversations 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:50.720 that aren't being had. And I love that you are 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:55.040 a black mail doctor wanting to just be that ear 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:56.400 for women that go. 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.800 Beyond like again the yearlies and that. 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:01.480 Y'all. 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:02.600 Y'all, look, I'm trying not. 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:06.640 To get emotional because these conversations with my friends recently, 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.439 they don't feel safe with obg Ian And I love 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.000 that we have you on here because I wanted to 0:12:12.040 --> 0:12:15.360 really dig into that where clearly you're now leaning towards 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:18.800 the cosmetic route where you have these other conversations with women, 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:23.600 but for our reproductive health, I'm not sure where the 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:28.359 mark has been missed in education or with whatever practice 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.160 practicing you guys have to do. 0:12:31.640 --> 0:12:33.320 If you don't mind me asking that. 0:12:35.600 --> 0:12:40.240 You as an OBGI an OBG y N, where do 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:43.360 you feel like that mark is missed Where the care 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.560 specifically of black and brown women is missed upon in 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:50.760 terms of them coming into your office and expressing pain, 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:54.840 irregular periods, and things regarding their reproductive system. 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:57.720 There's disparities in health. What are you talking about? We 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:03.480 know that black women are treated differently than Caucasian, Asian women, 0:13:03.559 --> 0:13:05.800 all the other women. One of the things that I 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:08.560 did when I first started was is that I put 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.160 my practice was gigantic. I have a gigantic practice. I 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.480 had a gigantic practice that I left. I would say 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:18.120 majority of my practice was probably sixty percent African American 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:21.560 and forty percent everything else. And everything else came later. 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:26.280 African Americans came first. And my mission at that time, 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:29.120 which still runs, is Hey, you're gonna get the same 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.240 care whether you go to a white doctor or you 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:34.520 go to a black doctor. In fact, you're gonna get different, 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:38.440 more personalized care, and you're gonna know that you have 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:42.720 an educated physician. I work hard to be mentally strong. 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:44.720 I work hard to be a warrior for you too. 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:46.840 You know what I'm saying. So when you come to me, 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:50.360 you're gonna get the same care you're gonna get anywhere else. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:54.640 And the other thing is is that we don't listen. 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:57.840 It's very difficult, and I think some of the disparities 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:02.000 come about because you don't look like the doctor. Do 0:14:02.040 --> 0:14:02.960 you understand what I'm. 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.760 Saying like literal, that's very like, yes, yes. 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:08.360 I'm being I mean, I'm being frank. You guys are 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.960 exactly personal connection which brings you in to make you 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.600 want to find or push or do that extra right, 0:14:17.040 --> 0:14:21.080 So when you think you expressing pain to you, now 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.480 you bill me as your mom, your aunt. You remind 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:33.080 me of my aunt Lisa. Aunt Lisa, Aunt Lisa, you 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:35.280 remind me of her. So when you coming in, I 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.880 see her, right. And so when you're telling me you 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:39.760 got pain, I ain't gonna say, oh, it's just p 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.400 I D. I'm gonna say, okay, it's anxiety. Yeah, yeah, 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:44.280 I'm gonna say what else is going on? What should 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:46.960 be happening anyway. But one of the things that I 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:48.960 really try to do is I want to do that 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:52.520 for everybody. And that's why My practice is so diverse 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.840 because when they do come in, they go, huh wow, 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.920 he's smart, he cares, he feels. I have so many 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.080 ladies that come in, they're ner and by the end 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:02.440 of the time they're talking to me. 0:15:06.400 --> 0:15:12.680 Wrote the letter, this is horrible decisions. 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:14.680 We want to have a quick icebreaker because this is 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:15.840 getting really scientifical. 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.000 All right, we want to have with you. 0:15:18.440 --> 0:15:24.760 So you started a series on your page. We're going 0:15:24.800 --> 0:15:28.040 into it. So you have the the A B C. 0:15:28.040 --> 0:15:34.120 Crazy what's what's the game calledology cosmetic ill you say. 0:15:34.680 --> 0:15:38.880 No, bitch, that could be the g Anyways, Wei and I, 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:41.840 when we first started touring, we used to do this 0:15:41.920 --> 0:15:45.440 thing where we would have to go down A B 0:15:45.680 --> 0:15:49.960 C and list porn categories. However, for the A B 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:56.920 seasons of Kynochological Cosmetology, which is some big ass motherfucker 0:15:57.000 --> 0:16:00.880 scientifical works, we want to do if we get are. 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:04.720 Gonna literally pull a letter fucking air A to Z. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.400 What we want you to do is name something that 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:13.320 relates to that letter and then we're gonna dive into it. 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:15.440 No, no, no, no, So by. 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:19.720 The way, on your page, a y'all, this motherfucker said 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:21.720 anal skin tags. 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:24.920 Now, I just watched you pull out okay, so we 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:26.520 could hear a little bit about. 0:16:27.480 --> 0:16:30.360 Let me tell you, I just started, Uh this is 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:31.880 a heavy bootlehole. 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.600 Bit Hanny is. By the way, for everybody not watching, 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:37.440 she is pulling out a big is a silico. 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:40.040 We might have the blurt is if y'all watch it anyway. 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:42.800 Let me tell you, so, I watched your video and 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:44.440 I literally sund it to weezy today and I'm like 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:48.440 anal skin tags. So I got skin tags underneath my armpits. 0:16:48.520 --> 0:16:51.880 And of course I learned from when I go to 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:56.560 uh my my lasering that skin tags are very prevalent 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:58.800 within the Caribbean community. 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:00.640 Because of our melanin. 0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:04.800 However we shave, we are more susceptive skin tags, which literally, 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.120 if if you have it, it's just like extra skin 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.520 that just hangs, you do have to have it cosmetically removed. Which, yeah, 0:17:11.560 --> 0:17:13.320 tell us a little bit of that anal skin tag. 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:15.480 Hold on, we got to talk about the boothole anal 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.440 skin tag. Let's get into it before we give you 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:21.439 another letter. All right, anal skin tags they're pesky little pritters, 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:24.640 you know. Uh, they get in the way not to the. 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.960 Hemorrhoids exactly how do you separate the two. 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:29.480 So a hemorrhoid is going to be painful, it could 0:17:29.480 --> 0:17:34.280 be red, it'll hurt, it'll be uncomfortable, and you'll want 0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:37.360 something to be done right away. Anal skin tags are 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:40.639 more of a pesky little thing. It gets in the way, 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:43.400 makes it a little bit more different. Cult you don't 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:47.359 look as good. And then I know you, so you 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:48.200 might not want. 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:50.000 Jamming his finger into the air. 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:51.480 Not the knuckle girl. 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:53.359 Yes, that's the knuckle girl. 0:17:53.600 --> 0:18:01.639 So if someone the nuggle girl is crazy last was around, now, 0:18:01.760 --> 0:18:02.879 she wasn't what she could be. 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:07.600 I don't know what right you didn't tell me that. 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:09.920 When you first saw anal skins hads like, are people 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:11.159 like you know, I keep trying to wipe it and 0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:12.359 I think it's ship and it is not? 0:18:12.760 --> 0:18:13.919 No, or is it a pimple? 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:14.639 What do they think it is? 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:16.560 They know what it is most of the time. They 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:18.919 know what it is, and they go to their obg 0:18:19.160 --> 0:18:21.840 y N usually and they look they say what is that? 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:24.439 They say, Oh, that's an anal skin tag. That's normal. 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:27.040 That just comes from pushing the hemorrhoids. You don't need 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:28.520 to fix that. If you want to, you can go 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:31.639 to a surgeon or something. So then they go to 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:34.520 the surgeon and the surgeon says, yeah, those are antal skins. 0:18:34.520 --> 0:18:37.320 That's cosmetic. You know, not much there love the air 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:43.879 Man's bracelest boad and nothing's done. But what she's really 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:46.159 saying is, I don't like these things. I don't like 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:48.399 the way they look. I want to feel better about 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.639 my own self. Can you help me? M ain't broke, 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:52.760 They ain't messing with you. 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.560 Doctors, which is why, which is why, let's let's make 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:57.679 it very clear, which is why cosmetic is now in 0:18:57.720 --> 0:18:59.280 front of gynecology. 0:19:00.440 --> 0:19:04.959 It's a term. It's just a term. So we're board certified, 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:08.760 we're ob g I n I do all everything I'm 0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:12.399 supposed to do to keep that certification. But I got 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:14.960 to be able to communicate to you guys. I gotta 0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:19.679 say I'm different. I'm gonna listen to the of the 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.640 modern day woman, all right. So now when it comes 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:25.119 to this ant specially tag, I'm gonna take. 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:28.440 Care of them. Now, what about just give us any 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:33.080 term you can think mature that starts with LA. 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:35.520 That's my favorite. That's one of my favorite. Labia major. 0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:40.320 That's my favorite. 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:44.200 So that is what you're mainly working on in cosmetics, right. 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:46.520 No, I work on everything. There's not much I can't 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:47.240 do to the vulgar. 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:55.880 Now, big come first, you know I'm saying I thought 0:19:55.920 --> 0:19:58.720