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Speaker 3: It's another episode of Horrible Decisions. And I'm speaking this

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Speaker 3: fucking professional because we have a doctor in the building.

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Speaker 3: It's giving science and guys, I can't wait to get

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Speaker 3: into the gauntdamn conversation.

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Speaker 4: Anyways, nights, I'm.

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Speaker 3: Your girl maybe aka pet to sign aka Debby.

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Speaker 1: I'm a person that does believe in My name is

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Speaker 1: Weezy If you're watching on the YouTube, Yes, this is

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Speaker 1: the fake Beyonce outfit from tour we got into email

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Speaker 1: and probably your PR team, I don't know, but anyway,

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Speaker 1: you know, we had a lot of emails of guests

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Speaker 1: that want to come on, and I.

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Speaker 2: Was like, we ignore a lot of y'all niggas.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I was like, we already had to

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Speaker 1: go on. But then I started clicking and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: it's black man. We never had a mail got on.

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Speaker 1: And also I was like the tattoos kind of got me.

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Speaker 1: It was like, is he is he a real doctor?

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, because you remember the guy

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Speaker 1: that had that little fake certificate. Yeah, uh huh, So

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Speaker 1: I wasn't sure. And then I'm like, you just want

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Speaker 1: to look at pussy.

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Speaker 2: So who do we have in the building today?

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Speaker 1: Weezy doctor Michael Reid, the cosmetic g ui in Yes. Yes,

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Speaker 1: so you don't only go into pussy and deliver babies.

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Speaker 1: You want to fix it and make it a pussy.

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Speaker 1: You see what men do. They want to fix it.

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Speaker 5: We fix it, You fix it? What be wrong with it?

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Speaker 5: Well it's not me, right, but when you talk about men,

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Speaker 5: we're just happy to be there. This is for women.

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Speaker 5: Women are saying I want this or I want that.

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Speaker 5: And guess what I give them this or that that

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Speaker 5: I don't like the way it looks. It could be

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Speaker 5: I don't like the way it feels.

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Speaker 1: What about smell?

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Speaker 5: Smell? You can't kelp that too.

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Speaker 3: By the way, y'all are watching on her YouTube, Doctor

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Speaker 3: Reid has a wonderful pen. And where were what you

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Speaker 3: thought of?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Like a pan?

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Speaker 1: Like what you?

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Speaker 1: Well, I can't see, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: He has a lovely pin on his coat jacket, and

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Speaker 3: we get into what you're able to do. How this

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Speaker 5: But yeah, yeah, so, I mean you know, I'm autritional

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Speaker 3: Okay for looking at pusses all day. You're like, what

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Speaker 1: Send? Pussy? Become boring? Like seventeen So at the beginning,

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 1: When do you stop thinking for yourself and become total doctor?

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Speaker 5: As soon as I walk into my front door and

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Speaker 5: look Listen listen here, I'm gonna tell you you guys

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Speaker 2: So I've been called a siren.

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Speaker 5: So if you're coming in to see me and I'm

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Speaker 5: So if I'm going to try to do this for

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Speaker 5: only business I have fun businesses at home, right, So

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Speaker 5: I want to change things. So I can't be this person,

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Speaker 5: whether it's behind the scenes or outright blinkant. I got

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Speaker 5: I love that, That's what all. So when do I

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Speaker 5: really turn this on? Yeah, when I go into my office, have.

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Speaker 1: You experienced moments where you're almost seeing it so much

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Speaker 2: We asked this question to point.

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Speaker 5: Right, no, because remember I turned it off, and I'm

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Speaker 5: I got the same feelings, same thought, same things that

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Speaker 1: Have you ever got hit on by a big why?

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Speaker 1: I know you have? Tell us about the time.

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Speaker 5: It was early in my career. So what I what

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Speaker 5: I'm high value. Okay, oh yeah, I'm coming. Yeah the

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Speaker 5: like I said, I want to be the best, right.

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Speaker 5: So having said that, what was the question?

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Speaker 5: So I was sitting becau You're gonna have to help

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Speaker 5: it was a long time ago. When I first started.

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Speaker 5: She said she's going to do this, that, that, that

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Speaker 2: Y seventeen years ago. That wasn't even cell phones.

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Speaker 1: You had already been up there. You choose a patient.

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Speaker 3: The only cell phones was a little big old thing

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Speaker 1: And no, they had seventeen years ago. Girl.

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Speaker 1: I was he are you fucking mandy?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing the mad bitch, I ain't an account and

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Speaker 3: no more. That just sounds like a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: Girl, we are all no, no, no, speak yourself. Okay, wait,

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Speaker 5: Nah, I haven't had that because like listen, like I

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Speaker 5: The last thing is is that they if you set

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Speaker 1: What about some weird requests or even boundaries you've had

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Speaker 5: Like it's entirely ridiculous. Sorry t I, but that's entirely ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: I mean so that you're cherry popping your hymen breaking

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Speaker 1: Mine must have been real loone. Nothing happened you just

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Speaker 3: I ain't know when that motherfucker was coming. I just

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Speaker 1: So have you ever had a father or mother come

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Speaker 1: this is unethical?

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Speaker 5: I can't No, I mean no, I haven't had that.

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Speaker 1: I guess the weirdos are in Atlanta. Well, the weirdos

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Speaker 1: comeing to you, maybe saying, hey, can you influence my

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Speaker 5: The best patient is when both the husband and the

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Speaker 5: wife comes in right, because it takes two to tango,

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Speaker 5: and so one of the things that I want to

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Speaker 5: be honest with each other, because what we're really dealing

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Speaker 5: with is, really, aren't these procedures we're dealing with the

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Speaker 5: most awesome thing that we all enjoy, which is pleasure,

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Speaker 5: which is intercourse, which is intimacy and being together.

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Speaker 1: So are you more sexual health focus than you are

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Speaker 5: I know, yes, Yeah, that's what I let go of.

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Speaker 2: Beyond like again the yearlies and that.

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Speaker 5: There's disparities in health. What are you talking about? We

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Speaker 5: And the other thing is is that we don't listen.

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Speaker 5: I'm being I mean, I'm being frank. You guys are

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Speaker 1: Wrote the letter, this is horrible decisions.

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Speaker 3: We want to have a quick icebreaker because this is

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Speaker 5: All right, we want to have with you.

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Speaker 1: So you started a series on your page. We're going

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Speaker 3: scientifical works, we want to do if we get are.

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Speaker 2: Gonna literally pull a letter fucking air A to Z.

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Speaker 3: What we want you to do is name something that

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Speaker 3: The way, on your page, a y'all, this motherfucker said

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Speaker 1: Now, I just watched you pull out okay, so we

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Speaker 2: We might have the blurt is if y'all watch it anyway.

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Speaker 2: Because of our melanin.

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Speaker 3: However we shave, we are more susceptive skin tags, which literally,

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Speaker 3: Hold on, we got to talk about the boothole anal

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Speaker 3: another letter. All right, anal skin tags they're pesky little pritters,

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Speaker 2: Hemorrhoids exactly how do you separate the two.

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Speaker 5: So a hemorrhoid is going to be painful, it could

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Speaker 2: Jamming his finger into the air.

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Speaker 1: Not the knuckle girl.

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's the knuckle girl.

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Speaker 1: So if someone the nuggle girl is crazy last was around, now,

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Speaker 5: I don't know what right you didn't tell me that.

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Speaker 1: What do they think it is?

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Speaker 5: They know what it is most of the time. They

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Speaker 5: That just comes from pushing the hemorrhoids. You don't need

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Speaker 5: That's cosmetic. You know, not much there love the air

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Speaker 5: Man's bracelest boad and nothing's done. But what she's really

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Speaker 5: They ain't messing with you.

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Speaker 3: Doctors, which is why, which is why, let's let's make

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Speaker 5: It's a term. It's just a term. So we're board certified,

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Speaker 1: Care of them. Now, what about just give us any

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Speaker 5: That's my favorite. That's one of my favorite. Labia major.

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Speaker 1: Now, big come first, you know I'm saying I thought

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Speaker 5: Like thought that was probably the Yeah, so you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: I'll say, the science is iffy, it's tricky.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so we're gonna do and do all this. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Okay, talk to it. And that's the lips.

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Speaker 5: First. This whole thing is the vulva, the whole thing.

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Speaker 5: And under the hood is the and that's the only

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Speaker 5: it broke.

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Speaker 2: It's the wishbone.

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Speaker 5: That was the glitterist and it broke.

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Speaker 1: Don't go back to the inside.

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Speaker 5: Yes, the inside, it's ribbed. It's right up here on

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Speaker 1: And is that the spot?

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Speaker 5: Okay spot?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you call it the g spot?

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Speaker 1: Now when looking at those what are different things that

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Speaker 5: One laby of majorid laby of manure aintal skin tags.

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Speaker 5: Well? This so when you there's a couple of things

439
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,320
Speaker 5: that you do to the hood. So there's there's there's

440
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 5: a condition called liking scrolls. Is that affects whomen where

441
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 5: it causes the labia to get smaller things stick together

442
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 5: kind of that shrink, don't lose it. One of the

443
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 5: other things that happens is that hood will stick over

444
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 5: the clitteris like this, so how you're gonna get access

445
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 5: to it, so you're not gonna be able to feel it.

446
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 5: And sometimes sensitivity will.

447
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 3: Change my shit too sensitive, I need to desensitation. I mean,

448
00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,959
Speaker 3: I guess I'm more into the zone area. So because

449
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 3: I come off of vaginal penetration all right, like you

450
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 3: came on pussy. But it's not like uh ooh, Like

451
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 3: it's cool when I come by myself, I like my

452
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 3: clip played with, but when I'm with a partner, I

453
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 3: enjoy the penetration aspect of it.

454
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 1: So maybe the O shot would be something that's.

455
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Speaker 5: So I think the one of the other things that

456
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Speaker 5: are really it's a tool too. It's a tool. It's

457
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 5: called badge Angelo.

458
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:51,679
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what's that?

459
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 5: It changed the angle of the vagina all right, so

460
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 5: the vagina, this is the vagina. The vagina has a

461
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 5: downward angle on purpose, I'll use this downward angle. So

462
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 5: that member up here.

463
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: Is the glitters.

464
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 5: We've just talked about disease on G zone, which is

465
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 5: an anti vagi wall. So there you got an angle.

466
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 5: So it doesn't matter the size of the penis at

467
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 5: this point because you have the angle that calm down,

468
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 5: hold on, we're gonna I didn't watch that one episode enough.

469
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Speaker 3: First off, why does the size of the penis not matter?

470
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 2: Let's get into that.

471
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, that sounds fucking insane because you could get out.

472
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 5: Well, I don't have a I don't have va giants.

473
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: The episode is, yeah, you don't go ahead. So what

474
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying is the size don't matter because.

475
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 5: Because of the angle, all the sensitivity is at the

476
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 5: upper part antiervagi glitters.

477
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: So so Dick's that curve up are superior, is what

478
00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:42,840
Speaker 2: it might be.

479
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 5: They might be.

480
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 1: I don't like them.

481
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 5: There you go.

482
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,479
Speaker 1: Not good for her. I'd be like, hey, hey, now

483
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: I gotta go left when you're going right.

484
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 5: You call it the little Way.

485
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: Actually, I want to have a little bit of vulnerable

486
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Speaker 1: moment with you because Mandy sent something that said, oh

487
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: my god, he does surgery for a vaginal dryness. This

488
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 1: is I've never heard of that. So last year, actually

489
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: the year before, I was on antidepressants and it was

490
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 1: very humbling for me not to have no Little Way

491
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: cucin no mo So I had to go through hormone

492
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 1: therapy and it was really tough. I mean, when I

493
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 1: tell you I was on by Texas Chase Berry. I

494
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: was taking every fucking thing and it just wasn't working.

495
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 1: And it was so upsetting because I was like, Damn,

496
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: I feel like the person I can feel me. And

497
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 1: also I understand we're supposed to be like super sex

498
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: positive about lube, but I'm in my thirties, like and

499
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 1: I'm early thirties. I don't want to pull this fucking

500
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: bottle out. So I'm curious. Now I'm better, but I'm

501
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 1: curious to know can you give some advice to women

502
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 1: that are experiencing vaginal dryness that maybe maybe medication like

503
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: myself that I'm going I.

504
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 3: Was gonna say perimenopausal as well, like where they're not

505
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 3: fully there yet.

506
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 1: But I mean, this is a lot of young women listening,

507
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: mainly so and just had too many picklebag shots like me.

508
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: When I literally finally had to, I had a ton

509
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: of fun this one. Fuck my whole life, Damn, Nick

510
00:24:59,520 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 1: and bab.

511
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 3: I was embarrassed by how dras because we have been drinking,

512
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 3: yeah night, just.

513
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: Staring regularly regular valisinal dryness at a younger age, Like,

514
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: what would you recommend?

515
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 2: And have you seen that?

516
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 5: Sure? You see it that's part of the early things

517
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 5: that happened. So the first there's a few things hormonal

518
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 5: will leave. Wise, in your thirties early late twenties, your

519
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 5: testosterone level will be going to drop. Testosteronees one that

520
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 5: gives you the confidence, the swag, and makes you want

521
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 5: to have sex.

522
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 3: No, okay, noone is just giving real masculine Okay.

523
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:38,119
Speaker 5: It gives your horningues your libido. Then estrogen also is

524
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 5: a wonderful hormone that your vagina loves. It stimulates uh

525
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:46,640
Speaker 5: the cells to develop, become larger and secrete more mucous,

526
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 5: and that's what makes you more wet, like when you're pregnant.

527
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 5: Neither one of you been prank because I listen, you

528
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 5: ain't had none. Don't want you don't.

529
00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean a couple we talked about it on

530
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 3: the body any damn.

531
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Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm gonna say it like I had one.

532
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: Sh had a few seventeen twenty five.

533
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: I know, but we talked about it on the pont.

534
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 2: It wasn't shady, I promise.

535
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 1: Okay, keep sorry at this point.

536
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 5: So what she can do is one, we can check hormones,

537
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 5: but if she's young, she needs to stay hydrated. Make

538
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 5: sure she trakes lots of water. Two, you need to

539
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 5: think about what different procedures are available. You can do thermiva,

540
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 5: which I call a magic stick. You can do laser

541
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 5: which helps with uh increasing blood flow and lubrication.

542
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: Now what laser someone do into their vagina?

543
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 5: Laser fractione two lasers?

544
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 2: What is this?

545
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 3: You said, thermiva and you looked at what you actually brought. Yeah,

546
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 3: what does this do for a woman with her vaginal durinas?

547
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 5: So it will stemmy. You use it in the vagina

548
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 5: and you warm the vagina up and it slowly warms

549
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 5: it up like a hot stone massage, you know, like

550
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 5: when you go get your pedicure. Slowly but warmly. It

551
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 5: gets it done, and that stimulates the vagina to increase

552
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 5: collagen and elasting and new blood vessel growth. Now, when

553
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 5: you get new blood vessel growth, that means you're carrying

554
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 5: more water. So if you're staying hydraate, you're gonna feel better.

555
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 5: If you have more collagen and lasting and the cells

556
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 5: are gonna be plumper, the nerves are gonna be better.

557
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 5: You're gonna respond and you'll become more luirius.

558
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 2: Can I ask you for this one specifically.

559
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 3: So I went to a dungeon and experienced electro magnetic

560
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 3: waves inside of my pussy for the first time, and

561
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: it felt like there was eight tongues eating me from

562
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 3: the inside out. Now with this therapy, you do this

563
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,760
Speaker 3: or is there a way that a person's partner could

564
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 3: do this for them, because this, to me does create

565
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 3: a stimulation where if I'm in a doctor's office and

566
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 3: I feel this level of stimulation, I don't want. I

567
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 3: don't know if I want to be aroused as a patient.

568
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 5: Any better do like I do, turn it off when

569
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 5: you walk in.

570
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: So I have the.

571
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 2: Butterfly pelvic florid therapy. That's not the same as it.

572
00:27:59,119 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: What's the difference?

573
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 5: Okay, listen, I haven't heard the butterfly.

574
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 1: Well they call it the butterfly. But basically, like I

575
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 1: had some sexual trauma when I was young I've talked

576
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 1: about on the pod before.

577
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 2: Not young, but like like that Christmas dealing with that.

578
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: Basically, I had a partner that was super abusive and

579
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: I got my body would tighten when we had.

580
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 5: Sex and so vain fear right.

581
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 2: But they said that I had to do pelvic floor

582
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 2: therapy and it was.

583
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,880
Speaker 5: With a wand yeah, but that's a glass wand yeah,

584
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 5: I don't they usually use. It's a different wand it's

585
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 5: a wand that you use like in massage. So when

586
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:34,960
Speaker 5: when you have back ache right and your back is

587
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 5: hurting and you go to rubbit, you feel those two

588
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 5: little knots and everything in the vagiant, well, your muscles

589
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 5: of the pelvis can get knots and tighten up. Now

590
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 5: you're in a relationship vaginis. Whenever I hear vagin this,

591
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 5: that means there's fear of some sort because you're tightening

592
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 5: up before you whatever it is. So there's a fear there.

593
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 5: There's vagins a fear.

594
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: And for people that have not heard of vagin this myths,

595
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: that's I want. I want to make sure that.

596
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 5: Oh, by the way, I'm gonna use that as v

597
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 5: no V.

598
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 3: I love it out there, but badin this miss is

599
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 3: definitely like if you are experiencing painful sex. Maybe maybe

600
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 3: you don't know why it's painful, maybe you think you're dry,

601
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 3: maybe you think your partner is too large, But that

602
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 3: fear and that cramming up psychologically is where your vagina

603
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 3: muscles are are strengthening to where we'll sex.

604
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 5: Exactly, and so you're main tightened and you the muscles

605
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 5: just remain tight and in an uncomfortable position, and so

606
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 5: you go to a pelvic floor physical therapist because it's

607
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 5: like going to a massage therapist and they just work

608
00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 5: that pelvic floor and work it and talk to you

609
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 5: and get you to understand and try to break the

610
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 5: cycle that's there. There's a cycle there, and if you

611
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 5: break that, then you can break the pains.

612
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 3: As an obg yn, have you had a couple coming

613
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 3: to your office where they're both expressing that sex is

614
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 3: not the most pleasurable for them, and then the woman

615
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,160
Speaker 3: had to maybe take you aside and let you know

616
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: that psychologically she's not there because of how this person

617
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 3: is treating her, Like what has been the conversations.

618
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 5: With Yeah, yeah, So the journal you got to come

619
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 5: in when you when a person comes in to see

620
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 5: me about sex. Best sex organ is right here between

621
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 5: your ears, right, So if you're in the wrong state

622
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:19,520
Speaker 5: of mind, or if you're not pleasure or you've been

623
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 5: working your ass doing podcast off and you coming home,

624
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 5: if you ain't in the mood, it just ain't gonna

625
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 5: be there. So you got to talk about those things first,

626
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 5: So what is it that you're trying to improve upon?

627
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 5: That's the first question I.

628
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: Ask, What isn't the common thing that's been an issue

629
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: in relationships besides vaginal lubrication or like, what's been an issue?

630
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 5: Usually it's it's not that. Like I told you from

631
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 5: the beginning, it's not the man usual. The man will

632
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 5: say something if the woman will own't. But nine times

633
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 5: out of ten, we're happy enough. We're happy it works

634
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 5: because it's us sharing. So most of the time it's

635
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 5: it's the woman that's coming to and she's saying, I'm

636
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 5: doing yoga or pilates, and when I do something, I

637
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:04,520
Speaker 5: hear air going my vagina, or I hear come out

638
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 5: of my vagina, or uh, I've tried. I used to

639
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 5: use tampons and now my tampons are falling out. Now

640
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 5: I gotta use it the Maxi pads. Or when I'm

641
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 5: sitting on the toilet and I said down, I go

642
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 5: to wife, I feel something I ain't never felt before.

643
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: What the hell is going on?

644
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: Balling out?

645
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 5: All these things are happening, And and what happens that

646
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 5: they go to the O, B, G. Y N and

647
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 5: they say, I'm feeling something it ain't right, and they

648
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 5: look when they say everything's fine, no problem.

649
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 2: Now is the average age for this?

650
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 5: Oh, it could happen. When are you gonna have children?

651
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 1: Uh?

652
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 5: Children? Is affects the pelvic floor as well as age

653
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 5: affects the public.

654
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: So shot going to see section and just ask one.

655
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 5: I can. Yeah, but that doesn't necessarily think it's gonna

656
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 5: remain that way. You're gonna do far better than you

657
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 5: would if you deliver it through. But that is nothing

658
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,040
Speaker 5: necessarily the case because you hold the baby down in

659
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 5: the pelvis.

660
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I want to I want to ask you

661
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 3: something that compares to me science versus spiritual. So when

662
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: I broke up with a relationship that I viewed traumatic,

663
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: my hips were the tightest they had ever been. I

664
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 3: couldn't walk certain ways when I laid, I couldn't stretch.

665
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 3: When I did my bar class, it hurt, and so

666
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 3: many women DM me. It was like, Oh, it's because

667
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 3: you carry trauma in your hips.

668
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: And the body keeps scoring.

669
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: It's a book, yes, And so I want to know

670
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 3: if that was my experience, not in a holistic or

671
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 3: spiritual way, scientifically, why are how that happens? Because of

672
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: course I'm not a star of the Moon's bitch. So

673
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 3: everyone's like, oh girl, it's because you're psychologically you're sad,

674
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 3: you're grieving. All of this lives in your hips. What

675
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: would you say to a patient who comes to you.

676
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 3: Do you get into holistic medicine? Are you spiritual in?

677
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 5: Yeah? Of course we talk about it, right, You got

678
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 5: to talk about it because we know in medicals, when

679
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 5: we go through medicine, we're always told that there's a

680
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 5: mental art with it, a biopsychle and social issue with it,

681
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 5: bio psycho and social. So if just think about your kids,

682
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 5: where you don't have a kid, I got a whole

683
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 5: bunch of kid I got six of them, but you

684
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 5: got kids. And then when they like so like when

685
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 5: you delivered all of them, I delivered four out of six.

686
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 5: So when you think about kids, when they get sick,

687
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 5: all of a sudden, they seem to regress a little bit.

688
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 5: You know, like if you have a kid that's been

689
00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 5: off the bottle, but when they get sick, that's what

690
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 5: they want, is the bottle. So there's a psychological aspect

691
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 5: that's feeling the pain and discomfort that they're having. So

692
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:41,720
Speaker 5: you had a bio psycho social phenomenon. Nothing wrong with it. Wow,

693
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 5: you understood it, you fixed it? Did you know?

694
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 2: It took a while.

695
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 3: I had to detach from sex, Like I realized that

696
00:33:49,160 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: where I was trying to fill the void of a

697
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 3: sexual relationship, I went back to who I felt was comfortable,

698
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 3: but I felt empty, and I think it led to

699
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 3: my hips feeling even tighter.

700
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 5: You didn't want to open up, you didn't want to

701
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 5: do it.

702
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 3: With anybody, Like literally from cuddling to just being around them,

703
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:11,840
Speaker 3: I literally did not feel comfortable. And so many of

704
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:15,520
Speaker 3: shout out to the who hide so many of the listeners,

705
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 3: Like as I was expressing this, I like, oh girl,

706
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 3: it's because trauma's and your hips.

707
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, not so all making me a

708
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: spiritual bitch.

709
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 3: But as I like started going more and more to

710
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 3: bar class but also just in therapy working through my

711
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 3: traumas I did my hips, like, I was able to

712
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 3: start opening up a little bit.

713
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 2: And yeah, it was interesting. I didn't I didn't know

714
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: that connection.

715
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: I do want to get into some stuff about your patients,

716
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: So I want to know about trans women.

717
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: Have you worked with any?

718
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 5: I haven't worked any. I can't do much with trans

719
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,640
Speaker 5: I don't. I'm gonna obg you. I am the most

720
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 5: that I can do with trans, which kind of goes

721
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 5: along with what you were talking about Laby and majora flash. Uh,

722
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 5: the scrotle becomes the labia madora. It's actually the homologue

723
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 5: to the vulva, right. So sometimes it's not put together

724
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 5: as pretty as they would like it to be. So

725
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 5: are There's some different techniques that I can use to

726
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 5: try to maybe tighten it, flatten it, smooth some things

727
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 5: out and make things look a little bit different. But

728
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 5: I can't do anything more.

729
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: What about transmen that want to enlarge their clitterists, Like,

730
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: how do you have you dealt with any transmit?

731
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 5: Not in that aspect? Okay, but I have had to

732
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 5: enlarge glitterists you have, so you as you age, good

733
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 5: thing for the art. As you age. Uh, the clitterists

734
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 5: will get smaller, okay. As men age, the penis will

735
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 5: get far smaller too, So there's lack of sensitivity. Sometimes

736
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 5: it's too small and you can't get anything. So you

737
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 5: can use a little testosterone in that area and gently

738
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,719
Speaker 5: do that over a small amount of prescribed amount. How

739
00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 5: I would ask you to do it? And you can

740
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 5: see growth in the clitteris in a waybe you hopefully

741
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 5: improve sensation. I can also use that magic stick and

742
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 5: use and warm around that glitterists and it stimulates small

743
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 5: nerve fiber density. It stimulates blood flow to bring it back,

744
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,919
Speaker 5: the nerves back, yes, the blood flolk.

745
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 1: What abo when it comes to kink I had a

746
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 1: friend of mine who was an er doctor who said

747
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 1: there were a lot of kinks that people did that

748
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: caused trauma to the body. I remember one specifically she

749
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: talks about was eating batteries like some crazy shit. Are

750
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,400
Speaker 1: there any kinks that you've seen done to the vagina that,

751
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: whether it be like gaping or something.

752
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, those things are obviously going to change the pelvic floor. Right.

753
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 5: The vagina is resilient. Right, we can have babies and

754
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 5: it'll snap back. It will after a couple times. But

755
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 5: if you're using larger toys and you use it your

756
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 5: body after a few times, your body says, oh, you

757
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 5: want me to relax a little. This is common. I

758
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 5: need to make room. This is how you want me

759
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 5: to be. And so you'll get more relaxation. And so

760
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 5: you get a bigger toy, bigger toy and the next thing,

761
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 5: you know, you got Wait a second.

762
00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 3: So you're saying that someone's vagina is a hold on

763
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 3: can change with not with babies, Like I want to

764
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 3: get into that because there's also this idea of Miles.

765
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 3: There's this idea of looseness when it comes.

766
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,879
Speaker 1: To nothing to do with sof you got a big dick,

767
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: book too much, they't really if you're fucking too much?

768
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 2: Is if the dick is big, then know that.

769
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 5: That's what I'm like, That's what I'm saying right exactly.

770
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 5: So if the dick is big, you no, you don't

771
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 5: have to Okay, yeah yeah, so uh so what so

772
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 5: what that would mean then is if you had a person,

773
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 5: a larger person than your partner one or two times,

774
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 5: then they ain't gonna change. But if that's your hub,

775
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 5: then it's gonna change. It's gonna accommodate.

776
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: So Je said, And Jasmine, I was about to say,

777
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: we didn't see show husb huge, and I just gotta say,

778
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:51,840
Speaker 1: I want to know what that pussy feels like to

779
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: somebody else.

780
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 2: What is that man saying?

781
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy? She literally said on the show,

782
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh he has to see other people sometimes because she

783
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: wants a break from it. Yeah, because it's so big.

784
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: That's that's damn, I feel bad for How do you

785
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,439
Speaker 1: feel bad for? I love that for her. I want

786
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: someone so big that I have to share it.

787
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 5: That's actually.

788
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 2: Have you ever had someone want to do tightening because

789
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 2: their partner smaller?

790
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, A lot of times you.

791
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 2: Don't just tell them to have anal sex.

792
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 5: Well, it's different, right, there's a difference. Right the anal sex,

793
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 5: uh is going to stimulate one aspect of the penis.

794
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 5: It's not stimulating all the way through the vagina. So

795
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 5: it's just a ring and you're gonna just feel that ring,

796
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 5: but you're not feeling anything beyond.

797
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 3: So anal sex does, let's clear it up, does feel different?

798
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 5: Does feel different than vagina? Said? Yeah, but there's other

799
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 5: reasons why a woman a man might want anal sex more. Right,

800
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 5: Maybe he does. That's a sign. That's a sign. That's

801
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 5: one of the what's the if your husband or partners

802
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,959
Speaker 5: asking for more anal than they usually.

803
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: The pussy and kind of Ah, that is not true,

804
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 2: don't be.

805
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 5: That's what that's I mean that much.

806
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's because he's he's bored with your vagina.

807
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 5: You want to you want to feel the tightness or.

808
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 1: Not saying that asking for it means that he's saying

809
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: asking for it frequently.

810
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 5: Yes, and more often than you're going like.

811
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,960
Speaker 2: Why is this why you only want to put it

812
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 2: in my boot hole?

813
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what it's made for, right, Right, then that's

814
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 5: when you need to start asking some questions. But don't

815
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 5: ask him in the bag, like that.

816
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: Should never be asked in the bed. So then let's

817
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 2: get into that.

818
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 3: How would a woman respectfully to her partner ask why

819
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 3: her man is now asking for something else? And I

820
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 3: only ask that too because it could go both ways, right?

821
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 5: Uh?

822
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,919
Speaker 3: Being on tour with tonight's conversation, a lot of men

823
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 3: are asking a for their butthole to be played with

824
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 3: and don't know how to ask for that. But you're

825
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 3: also saying, if a man is asking to have anal

826
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 3: sex with you, he may be wanting to experience it

827
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 3: because either the hole's not his or could there be

828
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 3: another reason?

829
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 2: But also, how does this comment reason? How do you

830
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: have this conversation?

831
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 5: That's why you have a cosmetic guy in college because

832
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 5: I can talk about sex and I'll.

833
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: Say you talk couples about this. Get into a therapy mode.

834
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes you do tell us about the time a couple

835
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: started to fight.

836
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 5: I had a lady that came in and her she

837
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,839
Speaker 5: had a lot of a lot of relaxation, and it

838
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 5: was it was a lot it was going to be

839
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 5: a very difficult course case. And she was open and.

840
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 2: It was her age, and she was.

841
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 5: I think she was in her forties and she had

842
00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 5: six children. Okay, so you get a pictured and uh

843
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 5: that was she wanted it. She wanted it fixed. She

844
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 5: wanted it fixed. And he was like, hell, no, what

845
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 5: the hell, ain't nothing wrong with it? Feels great, it's wonderful,

846
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,879
Speaker 5: he says. She said, never mind him and kicked him

847
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 5: out the office.

848
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: Wow.

849
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 5: And so we had the conversation and she was like,

850
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 5: there's nothing wrong with his penis. I love him, he's great.

851
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,319
Speaker 5: I ain't feeling what I want to feel.

852
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Wow, it's literally the opposite. Yeah.

853
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 5: So then I fixed it. I fixed it.

854
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 3: And when we gave, which may be why let me

855
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 3: get it out, but it may be why he had

856
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 3: such an issue with it.

857
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: He may have been felt he felt.

858
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:19,479
Speaker 5: Here exactly, yes, exactly. So when we gave, he comes,

859
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 5: he comes into there. My wife is part of the business,

860
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 5: but she does the office, so she she does office

861
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 5: and all the others. So she they go in there

862
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 5: to talk to her to ask, you know, tell me

863
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 5: how much money it is. Oh, no, walks out the things. Matt,

864
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 5: she goes, don't worry about it. I got this cover.

865
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 5: So she paid the It was good price, you know,

866
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 5: it was ten k. And so then we fixed it

867
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 5: and she was amazed. She came back, she said, and

868
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 5: he came back, Doug, I'm sorry. You know, there's a difference,

869
00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 5: you know, but before that he didn't care.

870
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: Can I ask you?

871
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 3: There's a psychological aspect to medicine, right and going to

872
00:41:55,880 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 3: the doctor and for whatever reason, cosmetology and they feel

873
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:02,920
Speaker 3: like it's not a life or dest situation is not

874
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,279
Speaker 3: covered by insurance. So the way you even put the

875
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: price tag on this is ten k. I assume this

876
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 3: was out of pocket, which have also been why he

877
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:17,240
Speaker 3: was the way that it did. In what cosmetic obg

878
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 3: y N procedures would an insurance cover if any?

879
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 5: If you zip none, yep, if you zip it up,

880
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 5: they'll cover that.

881
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 2: My mom, is that long.

882
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: If it's that, it has to be like affecting your

883
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 1: everyday life right, So my mom wants to do this facelift.

884
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 1: That's where to you. She's like, I just want to

885
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: right here, I just want to write here just my eye.

886
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 1: The skin is hanging too much. I'm like mom. And

887
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 1: my mom was seventy two and she's gorgeous. So she

888
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 1: was like, if I get to the point where I

889
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: can see no more, they gonna do my facelift free.

890
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 2: And I was laughing about it, but she's right because.

891
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 1: It actually has to affect your everyday life for it

892
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: to be an insurance thing.

893
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 5: Wow, but then you're gonna get it under insurance, and

894
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 5: then that doctor it isn't gonna be isn't it isn't

895
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 5: the one that's doing it all the time, And so

896
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 5: you get jacks. That's the other thing. So right, So

897
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 5: like a lot of people try to do that with

898
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 5: like laby of plasty and even these titans, they try

899
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 5: to cut the corner go through insurance, and these people

900
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 5: aren't trained on how to do these things.

901
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 3: So then I want to ask you, then the difference

902
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 3: between what you do and maybe a badge, steam or

903
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 3: a lot of these things that we can essentially go

904
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 3: to a spot and get done. Now that advertises as

905
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 3: a vaginal tightening or vaginal rejuvenation as an OBG y N.

906
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on these badges teams.

907
00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 5: I don't like them.

908
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 1: I've never even heard that makes you tighter.

909
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:45,720
Speaker 5: No.

910
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 2: No, the vaginal rejuvenation, that's not the steam.

911
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's another problem with the vag rejuvenation. You don't

912
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 5: know what you're talking about, right right? Is it vaginal dryness?

913
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 5: Is it tighten? Is it laby of plast is it

914
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 5: my drawer? Is it that my clitoral hood is stuck?

915
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 5: Is it that it can't or over y?

916
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they stood over the pot. We have now

917
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: all these conversations regarding things that you should do from

918
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 3: douching that now we're learning is not healthy.

919
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 5: Because it should never do.

920
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 2: Can we talk about about douche with water.

921
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 5: I don't think you should do it at all. I

922
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 5: used to. I don't mean I don't do douche. But

923
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 5: when I used to do all the time, I said,

924
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 5: tell my face the prayer, you don't need to douche.

925
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 5: It's a self cleaning of it. And there's probably the

926
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:31,240
Speaker 5: person who made the douche was this little old white

927
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 5: man with some glasses.

928
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: Let's talk about yes, because we've got VV. That happens, right,

929
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: And when you know your micro floor is off, you

930
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: know the pH is off, and you may not want

931
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,840
Speaker 1: to take antibiotics fork acid douching.

932
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 2: There's so many different options.

933
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 5: Fork acid is effective treatment because all you're doing is

934
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 5: changing the acidic pH of the thing.

935
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,760
Speaker 1: I literally have fork acid douche.

936
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 5: I haven't seen.

937
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: Yeah they do. I'm also asking this because we interviewed

938
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: a porn star who was saying she really doesn't have issues, right,

939
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: and she's like talked about pH and things like that.

940
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: So for me, when I've ever heard a friend of

941
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,959
Speaker 1: mine gets BV out of nowhere, I'm like tennigga fucking

942
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: somebody else.

943
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 5: But there's an association between BV and multiple partners, right

944
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 5: if there is.

945
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: When women are coming into you and they just randomly

946
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: get BB with the same partner. Have you ever said

947
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: maybe your.

948
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 5: Man, I'll say, you know, we see You've been here

949
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 5: a couple of times for this. I do want to

950
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 5: share with you that the evidence suggests that women who

951
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 5: have multiple episodes of BV there is a potential that

952
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 5: could be because of multiple partners. I don't know what

953
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 5: you do. I don't know what your boyfriend does, but

954
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 5: I want you to have that not only multiple.

955
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: Is there a way that the the shit on his

956
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 3: dick just don't match with my plussy?

957
00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 2: But not on his dick like that, I'm saying.

958
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 5: Maybe, oh, his own bacterial.

959
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,440
Speaker 3: His own bacteria does not match with the bacteria in

960
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 3: my vagina.

961
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 2: Maybe has nothing to do with other ones.

962
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: Can there be.

963
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 3: Incompatibility with just bacteria from one person to another?

964
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then but you're gonna get used to it.

965
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,800
Speaker 5: If you're a state of your body is gonna adjust,

966
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 5: You mean, that's gonna change, That's gonna not be forever

967
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 5: and ever and ever your phrind of like, no, you'll

968
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 5: get adjus to the bacteria. She was asking about the

969
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 5: shout the day. What bacteria you know your body will

970
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 5: come across?

971
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: What up? Bread Brendon, y'all make sure you get your

972
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Speaker 1: tickets now.

973
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 3: May fifth, we are at the Earth Theater in London's

974
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 3: and we made this a specific request to be in

975
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 3: London on the weekend, so that are are you.

976
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,239
Speaker 1: All of our euro people can come and see this.

977
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: We want our whole euro people, Europe and europeal pull

978
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 1: whatever all the black people that live over there. Just

979
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: take that another fucking year, ol Star, and come and

980
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: see us. We're gonna be there May fifth. We are

981
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: having a whole new show, one that you didn't see.

982
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: This is a part of the Climax tour. So even

983
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:08,799
Speaker 1: if you were on the Climax Tour and you need

984
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: a little trip, it's gonna be warmer, it's gonna be fun.

985
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 1: Come through and see.

986
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,759
Speaker 3: A that's right, make sure you head on over to

987
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Speaker 3: or hive dot com and get your tickets.

988
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 1: Now, Now, what about in cases of like, sorry, what

989
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 1: was I thinking? We hear a lot of time that

990
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:27,760
Speaker 1: you know coming inside is gonna give you the BV.

991
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 1: But I've always kind of thought that the paator just

992
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: level out, you get used to it. Is that not true.

993
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 5: As far as the like if a man coming inside

994
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 5: of you, yeah, I mean, yeah, exactly, you'll get used

995
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 5: to it. But that's the whole thing about where they're

996
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 5: talking about different partners, because you're putting in different backs period.

997
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: I have always thought, BV men, you got another beach.

998
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 5: Not always, but not be you equal.

999
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 2: You got another bitch.

1000
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: Listen, I want to tell you my homegirl has had

1001
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,400
Speaker 1: it twice this year, not this year, but twice and

1002
00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: six months, but the same person.

1003
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,320
Speaker 5: I'm like, uh, she's never had that issue before.

1004
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 2: No, she don't want to listen to me.

1005
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: She was like, so then she changed a lot of

1006
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: soda and not the soda the weed of the hookah

1007
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 1: being to blame. Now, what about porn stars? Because Kazumi

1008
00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: told us she doesn't experience that, So how is that?

1009
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: Do you ever have sex workers coming with DV often?

1010
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: Because how is it not happening to them?

1011
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 5: I haven't had it. I haven't taken care of a

1012
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:23,879
Speaker 5: porn star.

1013
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 1: What about escorts?

1014
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 3: No?

1015
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: Nope, Well they also go to talent testing, is what

1016
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 2: I mean.

1017
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: They could have had children, maybe they could have a

1018
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: regular doctor.

1019
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 5: Maybe they didn't tell me back then. I mean I've

1020
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 5: had you know, it's a different way of practicing now

1021
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 5: than I did before. So when you come see me now,

1022
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 5: you're paying me out of pocket before you're paying me

1023
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 5: with insurance. Insurance pays you differently.

1024
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:59,800
Speaker 1: I didn't say that, not for real, he said. Okay,

1025
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 1: So let's dig a little bit more into age. I

1026
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of this is associated with older women.

1027
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: Can you tell us for the women listening in their

1028
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 1: twenties and thirties. Some of the issues that you've seen

1029
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: come up that surprised you.

1030
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 5: With younger girls, let's see surprise me with younger women generally,

1031
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 5: coming is going to be birth control. With younger women,

1032
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 5: it's going to be Uh.

1033
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: Why is that how young? What do you mean?

1034
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 5: Well, younger women, you're talking about reproductive age. They don't

1035
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 5: want to get pregnant, so using birth control.

1036
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 1: Oh but you said surprise.

1037
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 5: Can I can I surprise?

1038
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 3: Can I ask you why that is the tail and all?

1039
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 3: Can I ask you why birth control is? You get

1040
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 3: a solution for when a lot of women go into

1041
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 3: a doctor, if their flow as heavy, if their cramps

1042
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 3: are really excruciating, if anything regarding their reproductive cycle is abnormal,

1043
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 3: the solution.

1044
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 2: Is birth control.

1045
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:01,240
Speaker 5: That's the first step, right, they give birth control, regulate things. Okay,

1046
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 5: but did they ask you a lot of questions? Did

1047
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 5: they ask you what's going on? What's happening? Did they

1048
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 5: do a really detailed history? Did they just want to

1049
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 5: quickly and you know this is insurance to day come in,

1050
00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 5: We're gonna do pills first. I know that's the appropriate

1051
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 5: first that take that go?

1052
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 2: But natural being a money maker?

1053
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: Huh?

1054
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,360
Speaker 2: Like that's the thing too, like and no offense.

1055
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: But like for me with the hormone therapy, the first

1056
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: thing that when I went to the doctor, they wanted

1057
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: to give me shots of estrogen extra dol cream inside

1058
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: of my vagina. No one ever said why don't you

1059
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 1: try this, this or that first? Like when it comes

1060
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 1: to holistic and natural things, I feel like we can't

1061
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 1: really trust a doctor for that.

1062
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 5: You can't, or obgyn, you can trust them to the

1063
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 5: point like I just told you, we're gonna take care.

1064
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 3: Of questions, huh, in terms of how they ask you

1065
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: questions to really see how they.

1066
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you're also talking about we don't we don't

1067
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 5: get trained about sexual wellness. We don't get trained in

1068
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 5: medicine as Obgyan's and our residency about caring for the

1069
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 5: modern day women in there concerns.

1070
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 2: What's the modern day one?

1071
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 5: Your your group? You I, I'm gonna look at where's

1072
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:11,879
Speaker 5: the camera?

1073
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: Said? He said that get them a little modern day

1074
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: and she typed in horror, and we popped up.

1075
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 3: No, do you think we didn't get trained in sexual

1076
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 3: wellness as if sex is not the way that we reproduced?

1077
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,879
Speaker 2: Then you say modern day women about five times.

1078
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: What is that someone who's having more sex? No, what

1079
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: it is?

1080
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 5: Okay, I want it. So the modern day, the modern

1081
00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,440
Speaker 5: day woman wants certain things.

1082
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: Right.

1083
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 5: They are now saying, hey, you got this show why

1084
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:52,279
Speaker 5: because you want to educate women about different options and experience. Right,

1085
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 5: you want them to have intimacy, You want them to

1086
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 5: be able to experience different things, do different things, know

1087
00:51:57,200 --> 00:52:00,640
Speaker 5: about different things. That's the modern day woman. The other

1088
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 5: woman was left on the shelf. We weren't talking to her,

1089
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 5: we weren't telling her nothing. We weren't increasing the longevity

1090
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:08,440
Speaker 5: of her vulvat.

1091
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 2: You clean that up. Well, he's talk a lot.

1092
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: I did not.

1093
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:13,960
Speaker 5: I tell you what I mean.

1094
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 2: No, you're right, you're right, you're right.

1095
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 5: That was So that's why we have cosmetic. Guy in college,

1096
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 5: I'm getting lied because this is what I'm passionate about.

1097
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 5: But now we have cosmetic. No, we are now cosmetic.

1098
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,320
Speaker 5: Gynecologists are saying, we understand that there's more than just

1099
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:31,760
Speaker 5: a papspear and birth control.

1100
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 2: We want to help.

1101
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 5: Well, you're not lubing. Come here, let me this is

1102
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 5: what I got for you.

1103
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: You're not lubing, right, I got this. This this is

1104
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: for you. When I tell y'all want to be like

1105
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:44,759
Speaker 1: a waterfall. I'm back to normal, but I want him to.

1106
00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to drive in all your time of the

1107
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: monthating lots of water.

1108
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 5: Your your drink lots of water. Your your discharge changes

1109
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 5: throughout your minstrel say.

1110
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 2: And do when I ovulate, it is bad. I mean

1111
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 2: I have to wipe it up.

1112
00:52:58,200 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1113
00:52:58,400 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, when you're ovulating, is here to get the more

1114
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 5: because then it makes it easier to get pregnant. The

1115
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 5: sperm can swim easier and fast.

1116
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: Now, we do have a few questions for our home

1117
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:11,520
Speaker 1: mail from fans. One I thought was interesting, is getting

1118
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: your eggs counted invasive? Expensive or even necessary? If I'm

1119
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 1: thirty two years old.

1120
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:21,480
Speaker 5: Now, if you're having normal, regular, predictable menstrual cycles, you

1121
00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 5: should be able to assume that you're having ovulation. When

1122
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 5: you don't ovulate, then your cycle will be off. If

1123
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 5: there are other changes that would make you off, Oh,

1124
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,920
Speaker 5: it could be any greater than plus your minded seven.

1125
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,799
Speaker 1: Days Okay, okay, okay, okay. I was four days off

1126
00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: this month, that's what okay, little bruh, I was playing

1127
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 1: in my abortion. It was crazy. I'm not even playing y'all.

1128
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: The way that I've been out here, I was like,

1129
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,280
Speaker 1: one day, like I said, he'd wrote me every morning

1130
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: your period came back. It was bad. So I did hear.

1131
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 3: The inflation didn't take heed into the abortion area. It's

1132
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 3: still like five hundred dollars, which is about what I

1133
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:02,360
Speaker 3: got it. Sure, no, no, no, insurance never covers abortions

1134
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 3: unless unless it is a life or death situation.

1135
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: I just had that conversation when I was.

1136
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: Twenty five years old planned parent who took my insurance

1137
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 1: and I only paid seventy.

1138
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 3: Five dollars, but you still have to pay. I mean,

1139
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 3: like it doesn't cover that's a pretty good My abortion

1140
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 3: was five hundred dollars. But to my knowledge, and y'all

1141
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 3: can correct me if I'm wrong, I don't.

1142
00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:25,319
Speaker 1: My baker right now, I really don't.

1143
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 3: I've heard even from my mom, who is currently in

1144
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 3: the healthcare feared field, insurances don't cover abortions now. Maybe

1145
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 3: because Planned Parenthood is one of those nonprofit organizations that

1146
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,400
Speaker 3: are funded by people, they came in on it. But

1147
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:44,720
Speaker 3: if you go to like a normal uh physician or hospital.

1148
00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 3: By the way, fuck that we got a fucking obg.

1149
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 2: Wye here Okay, yeah, thank you. Our abortion is covered

1150
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:49,880
Speaker 2: by insurance.

1151
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: That's what I So the planned parent that I want

1152
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: to go maybe it was a foot play parent, which

1153
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: pretty good. So next question, I don't think I have BB,

1154
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: but when I'm stressed, there's a smell. Interesting, she said,

1155
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: how can I eliminate this?

1156
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 5: Well, every vagina has a little bit of a smell,

1157
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 5: just like balls have a little bit of smell to them,

1158
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 5: right right, So I mean that's not unusually you want

1159
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 5: to worry about odors that are unpleasant, off putting discharge

1160
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 5: that's yellow green.

1161
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 2: I've never seen that.

1162
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 3: Actually, can I ask you with pheromones then your vagina

1163
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:32,280
Speaker 3: and balls? Can stress change the pheromones of the smell

1164
00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 3: of you?

1165
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,239
Speaker 5: Does that make I think stress could change your response

1166
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 5: to an odor or smell? Okay, I don't know if

1167
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 5: you so, maybe she's act but it may be just

1168
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 5: her response to that.

1169
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 3: Man.

1170
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 2: The next question, how the fuck I keep getting BB

1171
00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 2: and how can I get rid of it?

1172
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 1: For good?

1173
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:50,479
Speaker 2: Stop sucking?

1174
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: You do that?

1175
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 5: One of the things that you when when I when

1176
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 5: I treat that you give you flagele and then they

1177
00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 5: do need to take rest, meaning not having intercourse. You

1178
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 5: need to treat the full course as one of other things.

1179
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes I thought infection, No, flat is the yeast infection. Okay,

1180
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 5: so you can use metronitis all I do it for

1181
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 5: seven days. But they got a rest. You can't get

1182
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,879
Speaker 5: let the normal bacteria come back.

1183
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: That's the.

1184
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,360
Speaker 2: Take two days of rest. Bitch, give it for it.

1185
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:26,920
Speaker 5: Calm down, don't get right to give it. Give it

1186
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:27,399
Speaker 5: some rest.

1187
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: So we got two more. Why don't we get anesthesia

1188
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: or pain meds for an I U D insertion?

1189
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've heard that one. Okayst No, I don't think

1190
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 5: it has to do with the cost I used to

1191
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 5: use it. Uh, the thing some of it. It just

1192
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 5: has to be with training. This is the difference in

1193
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 5: mindset that some of the physicians are doing. So if

1194
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:55,719
Speaker 5: if you're doing it in the hospital, you're just trying

1195
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 5: to quickly get it done and do it. Uh, you're

1196
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 5: coming to see me and afford not want of y'all

1197
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 5: to talk bad about me, right, So when you come,

1198
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 5: Oh you got that, let me give you some water.

1199
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 5: I'm gonna numb me up real good. You know, there's

1200
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:09,600
Speaker 5: a difference in how you practice.

1201
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 3: Okay, it's the difference from when you go to a

1202
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 3: hair braider and then a bitch were her own salon.

1203
00:57:15,360 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: There you go, you get what do you bitch be

1204
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: charged a get the most in the wine in between?

1205
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:25,200
Speaker 5: Yes? Absolutely?

1206
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: Okay, uh HSB. Is it possible to conceive children with

1207
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: someone diagnosed with HSB?

1208
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, herpees absolutely, you can uh get pregnant whether you

1209
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 5: have her pies. You can deliver vaginally if you have

1210
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 5: her pies.

1211
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 2: I felt like I knew the answers to that, but

1212
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:41,640
Speaker 2: I think maybe people did it.

1213
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 5: They don't. They must not. Well, I used to get

1214
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 5: that question all the time.

1215
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: I think also because they they still align HSV with

1216
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 3: HIV as one of the things you don't get rid of, right,

1217
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,800
Speaker 3: And so the way that we have been brought up

1218
00:57:54,840 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 3: to uh really think about how we viewed STDs. We

1219
00:58:02,760 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 3: know that herpes and HIV are the two that you

1220
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 3: can't get rid of. Everyone now looks that chlamydia gonera

1221
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 3: everything else is oh, well I can it's.

1222
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 5: Get rid of it.

1223
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: And so I honestly that.

1224
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 5: Comidia people kill silent silent killer of fertility.

1225
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 3: If you're there, and can you speak on that a

1226
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:28,600
Speaker 3: little bit, because well, chlamydia sometimes may not have an

1227
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 3: itch a scratch. You may not even know you have

1228
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 3: it again without being tested. But the silent killer. Can

1229
00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 3: we talk about a little bit why and also why

1230
00:58:37,080 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 3: we don't view chlamydia is.

1231
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 5: So dangerous because I think they need to start Yep,

1232
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 5: it's easy. That's the exact reason they think. You take

1233
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 5: they have it. Now you can mix a drink, drink

1234
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 5: it once real, Yeah, a one time slurry, put in

1235
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 5: a little bit of water, drink it. Boom, not emergency.

1236
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 5: Now you can take I haven't.

1237
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 2: Had an STD in year maybe early twenties. I think

1238
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 2: I had it not And I get to it's so regularly.

1239
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: And one of my homegirls made a joke with me

1240
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 1: like ain't no way, and it said yeah in a way,

1241
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: and I'm like, damn bro. But she was like telling

1242
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 1: me she's a naturopathy doctor. She's like, I think chlamydia

1243
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: nowadays it can be so mild. Maybe it's going away

1244
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:16,400
Speaker 1: on its own with you.

1245
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 2: No, let's be very clear.

1246
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: No, like really, she's like that you've taken an antibiotic

1247
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,760
Speaker 1: in your life if you had, because triggnosis has become

1248
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: so ramp it's very that's the one.

1249
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 2: Literally, And again she's a naturopathy.

1250
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 1: She was like, I believe you've either had tests in

1251
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: your life that probably did past you probably had another antibiotic.

1252
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:37,440
Speaker 1: She was saying that it's she's saying, because they're so

1253
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: sexually active that there's no she's saying that the amount

1254
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: of women that are coming in with more than like

1255
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 1: two or three partners in a year, Okay, it's happening

1256
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:49,240
Speaker 1: metropolitan cities. It's growing even open relationships. She's like, that's

1257
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: the most common people that are having promiscuous sex with

1258
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 1: a partner or not.

1259
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:54,640
Speaker 2: I mean there's gone rhea in things that are now

1260
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,520
Speaker 2: coming to where they're about. They're saying that now the

1261
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 2: medication that they've created is not the because it's turning

1262
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 2: into like COVID where it's.

1263
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:02,960
Speaker 4: Growing to work.

1264
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 5: What is it called. They're just superbugs. They're not responding

1265
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 5: to traditional antibiotics, and we have to go and figure

1266
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 5: out different ways to give you the antibiotic treat you.

1267
01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: I want to tell you this. One of my friends

1268
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 1: I just had an STD all the way. This motherfucker

1269
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: was like, Bro, I've never seen this ship before. I

1270
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: don't even know if I'm what I'm supposed to do. Okay,

1271
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:29,000
Speaker 1: hold on.

1272
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 3: No.

1273
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: I was about to say, what is we about to do?

1274
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 2: That person sent the name of it, and I was like, oh,

1275
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 2: it's a new std ver this.

1276
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: And we were all laughing about it, you know what

1277
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because like because they were like, yo, like

1278
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 1: this is not coming up on.

1279
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 3: Regular don't even know how to spell it the way

1280
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 3: you are. She is going through group chats three shots.

1281
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 3: It's the gram right, hold on, what is the name

1282
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:58,280
Speaker 3: of this STD because I need to know what superbug

1283
01:00:58,360 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 3: is out here?

1284
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 2: Dog, I needed to help back into the screeks.

1285
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: What's the name of.

1286
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 5: Your your rea plasma and EREALYTICU. Yeah, that's just a.

1287
01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 5: It's a it's a it's a bacteria. Uh that in

1288
01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 5: the vagina. Huh No, that's just the name of it's

1289
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 5: It's just another bacteria.

1290
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 2: Okay.

1291
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,960
Speaker 5: Sometimes you see bev with it as well, but you

1292
01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 5: just treat it with antibiotic.

1293
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 1: It's just another But but so what let me this

1294
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 1: friend got sick on a trip to Paris. Given a

1295
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,439
Speaker 1: lot of details on this person's not on Instagram does Okay,

1296
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 1: so this person got sick on a trip to Paris,

1297
01:01:40,520 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 1: got this test there and was like, I've been tested

1298
01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 1: like five times in the States. Never did this come up?

1299
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 1: That thing that you just read. I don't know the

1300
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: fun it is. Is it possible that we could be

1301
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,120
Speaker 1: passing something like that amongst each other and have no

1302
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: idea because it's.

1303
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 2: Not because the US doesn't test for it?

1304
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: Like is that something that you've been seeing in tests?

1305
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: Or is it because we're not.

1306
01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 5: Usually I would see that in the urine though when

1307
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 5: I used to run across that when I would see

1308
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:05,960
Speaker 5: it in the urine.

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Speaker 3: But like we know that they don't tell never HSB

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Speaker 3: unless you ask for it, and HIV is the same.

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Speaker 3: So is this something that potentially doesn't go through screening?

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Speaker 5: No, I don't think that.

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Speaker 3: Bruh, look at this, You're you're a plasma. You're relic

1314
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 3: political short word for this. Youah that looks like Mike

1315
01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 3: called clastmahammadas. So then you know they were like, yo,

1316
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 3: do I need to hit on my partners right now?

1317
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 3: And I'm like, bro, if they got tested on wait

1318
01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 3: you said no, it's just like a bacteria. Wait for this,

1319
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:40,720
Speaker 3: you would say you wouldn't have to hit up your partners.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so.

1321
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: Which STDs? What interesting?

1322
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Speaker 3: What if you feel like if I have to get

1323
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 3: if someone has to get antibiotics for an STD, you

1324
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 3: feel like there are STDs that they don't have to

1325
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 3: tell their partners that they're taking antibiotics on. So let's

1326
01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 3: let's say bitch, I said that, huh, why is one?

1327
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 5: But why is one?

1328
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 2: Would you not have to tell your partner.

1329
01:03:05,000 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 5: Because it's just there's a whole bunch of bacteria that

1330
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 5: have these really crazy different names.

1331
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 2: It's just so that's not an st D.

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01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:16,400
Speaker 5: Interesting, that was the double check. But I mean, I'm

1333
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 5: a little bit away from it. But in my in

1334
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 5: my as I recollect, this is not associated with which.

1335
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 1: Is probably why we don't.

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01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 2: So it could just be a bacteria in.

1337
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 5: The bladder and that was cultured and showed up and

1338
01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 5: they said, oh ship, that's oh that's europism erolytical. Let

1339
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 5: them do and teach them and treat it. That's it's

1340
01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 5: kind of like that kind of thing. Bro.

1341
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: Well, that motherfucker's gonna have to make a lot of

1342
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: calls that whole Yeah. Yeah, anyway, what nobody knows who

1343
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: it is.

1344
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:45,920
Speaker 2: You're allowed to talk about people and no one knows

1345
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 2: who is.

1346
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:50,640
Speaker 1: We're podcasters. This is what we do. Yeah. Anyway, doctor,

1347
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 1: please tell people to find you. We know you're in Sacramento,

1348
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 1: so maybe some of our whore hive there could come

1349
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: and visit you.

1350
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: And we have a really horror hive in the bank.

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01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, please come. I'm in David, California. You can

1352
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 5: find me at the cosmeticgy n dot com. Doctor Michael

1353
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 5: Reid dot com. I am a little expensive, I am,

1354
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 5: but I mean I do some really good work and

1355
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Speaker 5: I'm really educated and I can really take care of

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Speaker 5: a whole bunch of things. And uh, what you get

1357
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 5: from me is that warrior that's gonna fight for you

1358
01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 5: so that you can have what you want to have

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01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 5: and improve the longevity of your volge.

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01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:27,840
Speaker 1: Well, I would like a free zoom because I ain't

1361
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 1: got we were going to I'm going to walk in

1362
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 1: Gino too. I'm tied of that bit.

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Speaker 3: I also want to say I think it's important for

1364
01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,080
Speaker 3: us to create more of this network where we support

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Speaker 3: doctors and ob.

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Speaker 2: G y N for positions that look like us.

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Speaker 5: I do want to plug this. I mean it's not

1368
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:44,880
Speaker 5: but it's but why I want to plug it because

1369
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 5: it's in line. You can always cut it. It's in

1370
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,720
Speaker 5: line with what I'm trying to do. It's called it's

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01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 5: called the Institute of Restorative and Cosmetic Gynecology. It's a

1372
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 5: training program that I started. I started this training program.

1373
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 5: And what we do is we bring physicians in right,

1374
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:06,680
Speaker 5: ten of them. We have cadavers. I give lectures. I

1375
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,640
Speaker 5: tell them about the anatomy, how you do these procedures

1376
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 5: correctly and yes, and then they go into the lab

1377
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:16,439
Speaker 5: and then we practice on a human being, of course,

1378
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,040
Speaker 5: a cadaver. But we at least have that much training.

1379
01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:21,240
Speaker 5: You don't get any of that kind of training when

1380
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 5: you come out of residency. M So I've started this

1381
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Speaker 5: institute to train doctors to be gladiators for the modern

1382
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Speaker 5: day warmer for you.

1383
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Speaker 1: I want to use this tonight. What is gonna do

1384
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: to me? Okay, look, go ahead and explain. I got

1385
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 1: to use a mixing bowl and put this sh in

1386
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 1: my This is a CO two lift. B. This is

1387
01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 1: gonna burn you to it's given chemistry. I'm gonna let

1388
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 1: you do this. Go ahead.

1389
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 5: They also have CO two lifts you could just use

1390
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 5: on the face. You can use this on the vult.

1391
01:05:52,360 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: What's it gonna do? So?

1392
01:05:53,280 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 5: It helps with moisturized and remember you're talking about.

1393
01:05:57,600 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 1: This will help you. I used to be a back.

1394
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 5: This this, this will change your life.

1395
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 2: You fitted yourself with the co two bro.

1396
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: Five days, Can I have sexy between?

1397
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 5: You're gonna do it? So this is how you do it.

1398
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 5: You mix it. You're gonna do it at night. You're

1399
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 5: gonna mix packet one with packet two and a bowl.

1400
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,880
Speaker 5: Mix it. It'll be orangesh in color. You're gonna put

1401
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 5: it inside the vagina and put a little bit on

1402
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:21,440
Speaker 5: the outside of the vagin Then you're gonna jump in bed.

1403
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,400
Speaker 5: So you're gonna do it after you've had sex. Oh,

1404
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 5: make sure you're gonna come over, Okay, all right? Then

1405
01:06:27,080 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 5: I got a five days.

1406
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 1: Before a while.

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01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 5: Once you get in bed, you can't go on all

1408
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 5: over the place because it tightens up kind of like

1409
01:06:32,680 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 5: a face mask. And then what you do is that

1410
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:37,280
Speaker 5: old dark hundred when you know when you get up

1411
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 5: to go pee, it'll PLoP in the toilet. Then you

1412
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 5: jump in bed, and then when you wake up in

1413
01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:44,400
Speaker 5: the morning shower, it's gone.

1414
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:45,640
Speaker 1: Well you gotta pee it out first.

1415
01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:47,160
Speaker 5: Well, when you go pee, it'll I go.

1416
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 3: That's like when you take cranberry pills. Your pisttern orange bro.

1417
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 3: How many like the same ship? Okay, so start worse

1418
01:06:53,240 --> 01:06:55,200
Speaker 3: a wolf? Hey wolf, can we get can we get

1419
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,920
Speaker 3: some bts of this patreon where she mixed it on

1420
01:06:58,000 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 3: the bowl and you like blur out her putting it

1421
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 3: on her pussy and we see a face pussy.

1422
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 1: Can't use both of them, that's a whole.

1423
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 5: It should be five of them, ye see.

1424
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: But the little one. The directions ain't good enough.

1425
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 5: You take one, big one, little one, big one, little

1426
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 5: stir them up. There's syringing there isn't it.

1427
01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 4: Uh huh oh?

1428
01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,200
Speaker 2: You about to shoot it up your pussy.

1429
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,240
Speaker 5: Yep, push it into the vagina and then you're gonna

1430
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,880
Speaker 5: rub whatever is left in the bowl all over the bowl,

1431
01:07:24,080 --> 01:07:27,520
Speaker 5: or just be just indiscriminate, just put it on there.

1432
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 2: I break my pussy up to tag you, Yeah you

1433
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 2: can tag me.

1434
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 5: You better call me and let some people know. It changed.

1435
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 5: And it's because of.

1436
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:38,040
Speaker 1: When I tell you I'm going to Hawaii and I'm

1437
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 1: trying to look like the ocean, trying to look like

1438
01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:44,479
Speaker 1: ocean Carell. And honestly, you know, I've never talked about

1439
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 1: what I experienced because it had to do with me

1440
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,840
Speaker 1: taking antidepressants, and I was like, I just don't really

1441
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: want to get into it. But now that my pussy's back,

1442
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 1: I'm cool to talk about it. We'll see, we'll see

1443
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: if you about what you be talking about. We're gonna

1444
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 1: find out if that degree faith you'll call me who

1445
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:02,440
Speaker 1: Thank you, Doctor Reid. We enjoyed this episode so much.

1446
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:04,160
Speaker 1: I'll please go check them out. If you're in the area,

1447
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: you have any questions, or even if you know you

1448
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: take a little trip to get your pussy done. You

1449
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Speaker 1: get your little designer pussy.

1450
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Speaker 3: But also if you want to see Weezy's pussy, join

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Speaker 3: us on Patreon because maybe she'll just a BTS of

1452
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Speaker 3: this experiment on our vagina. Maybe well shit, Join us

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Speaker 3: we have bonus episodes every week. On top of BTS

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Speaker 3: join us in supportive of us. And this has been

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Speaker 3: yet another episode of Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 4: Bye bye is bonus bitchy.

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Speaker 1: For those of you niggas that aren't spending another five dollars,

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Speaker 1: If you're nasty, So upgrade to the next tier to

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Speaker 1: see this episode on video. And if you're already looking

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Speaker 1: at us, you're welcome because my titties are out, are they? Yeah?

1464
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Speaker 3: They are kind of out, and maybe I'll be here

1465
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:04,280
Speaker 3: would a god damn hoodie and sneakers because this weather

1466
01:09:04,680 --> 01:09:08,200
Speaker 3: is ridiculous. I just got back from fucking Miami and

1467
01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 3: I didn't know that I was coming back home to

1468
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:10,639
Speaker 3: a snowstore.

1469
01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:14,600
Speaker 1: Was it fucking Miami or it was sucking Miami.

1470
01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 3: Girl, cause the nigga got too drunk and throw up

1471
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 3: and threw up all over himself, so no dick took

1472
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:22,080
Speaker 3: place there.

1473
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 4: So yeah, and he's just like, I feel so terrible,

1474
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:28,439
Speaker 4: and I'm like you should Yeah, you shouldn't.

1475
01:09:28,880 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 3: But also because I sucked him before the super Bowl,

1476
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 3: but then we had to all go watch super Bowl

1477
01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 3: and so we all we all. Oh, girl came, came

1478
01:09:40,760 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 3: like came, and I had fun with it, like I

1479
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 3: had my homegirl said on the couch while I did it,

1480
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:46,599
Speaker 3: because he kind of like, I'm trying to inch him

1481
01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 3: to a threesome.

1482
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:49,160
Speaker 4: He hasn't had like a three.

1483
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 3: We know we fucked already before, though, so I'm like, girl,

1484
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 3: just come downstairs and watch me set this nigga dick

1485
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 3: real quick. And uh So it's so funny because he

1486
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 3: was so nervous, and that's like my whole girl home girl.

1487
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:04,760
Speaker 3: So she was like, yes, bitch, that shit sound wet

1488
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:10,000
Speaker 3: doing you doing that thing? But no, I literally was like, girl,

1489
01:10:10,200 --> 01:10:11,719
Speaker 3: just come down here and watch me set this nigga

1490
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 3: dick real quick.

1491
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 4: Why did she join in?

1492
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 3: No, because he was so nervous even that, Like he's

1493
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:20,400
Speaker 3: sitting there and bitch, the game done started and I'm like, nigga,

1494
01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:22,000
Speaker 3: you ain't gonna make me miss usher. We got to

1495
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,640
Speaker 3: go to this party. So I'm like going at his

1496
01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 3: pants and he literally just pulled it out. Then it's

1497
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:29,800
Speaker 3: just sitting on his chest.

1498
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 4: So I like, just go to the socdia. His dick

1499
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:36,040
Speaker 4: is ginormous. His dick is amazing. Okay, now his dick

1500
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 4: is great. Well, No, she felt nervous to even look

1501
01:10:37,960 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 4: because he was so nervous.

1502
01:10:39,320 --> 01:10:43,679
Speaker 1: But she was just like this, like he was so bitch.

1503
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:45,960
Speaker 4: She was so fucking nervous. I was just like, oh

1504
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:47,280
Speaker 4: my god, this is so annoying.

1505
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 1: So are you staying in the room with him?

1506
01:10:49,880 --> 01:10:49,920
Speaker 4: No?

1507
01:10:50,040 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: He gets me.

1508
01:10:50,640 --> 01:10:52,360
Speaker 3: That's why she came, she, I get my own room

1509
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 3: every time he flies me out. Why what do you

1510
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 3: mean why?

1511
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:57,240
Speaker 4: Because I do?

1512
01:10:57,760 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 3: And I said him my first class ticket. I don't

1513
01:10:59,680 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: need to be all up under your ship. And I

1514
01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 3: wanted to be with my friend like I had invited

1515
01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:06,800
Speaker 3: her to the game and he like, like I was

1516
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 3: driving around with her. Talk got my own room when

1517
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 3: I went to when I go to, like anywhere I go,

1518
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,680
Speaker 3: I get my own room. And so I'll go to

1519
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:16,840
Speaker 3: his room or he'll come to mine. But we don't

1520
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 3: sleep together, like we don't do all the cuddling and

1521
01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 3: ship it's new anyway, Yeah, we don't do that. Well, no,

1522
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:24,120
Speaker 3: you said it's new, but normally you do.

1523
01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 1: It was that new new, like it's the nigga that

1524
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 1: I would go and see, like when with my ex one,

1525
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 1: So you guys both come downstairs. Does he know she's

1526
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,280
Speaker 1: coming downstairs? We went upstairs where.

1527
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:41,080
Speaker 4: He knew? He said, no, he knew. He said, uh.

1528
01:11:41,920 --> 01:11:43,479
Speaker 3: He said, both of y'all come down, and I was

1529
01:11:43,520 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 3: like okay, And of course he was like, you trust her.

1530
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 3: I was like, bro, I'm not going to bring nobody

1531
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,720
Speaker 3: around that I don't trust. So wait, hold on, hold on,

1532
01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:52,920
Speaker 3: so he knew you were coming down the suckers dick.

1533
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's what I was coming down because I'm like,

1534
01:11:56,360 --> 01:12:00,599
Speaker 1: if you said both of y'all down because he because

1535
01:12:00,600 --> 01:12:01,120
Speaker 1: he's scary.

1536
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 4: He's just scary.

1537
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I would not be the whull I

1538
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 3: am today if I had to go through that type

1539
01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 3: of party and shit that these girls have to go to.

1540
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:11,640
Speaker 4: Literally for y'all, I'll share what the experience is like.

1541
01:12:12,320 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 3: So a lot of like basketball players now don't like

1542
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 3: going to clubs because there's phones, they get drunk, they get.

1543
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,599
Speaker 4: Shipped, they make one. They's crazy, they make clubs.

1544
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:27,759
Speaker 3: So they'll like turn a restaurant or like a lounge

1545
01:12:28,320 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 3: into their own club. There'll be a DJ, there'll be

1546
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:35,519
Speaker 3: an open bar, there's bottle service, there's hookah, there's all

1547
01:12:35,600 --> 01:12:37,839
Speaker 3: the things except for niggas.

1548
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:39,639
Speaker 4: The bottle service part is the weirdest person.

1549
01:12:39,800 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 1: Weird.

1550
01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:42,040
Speaker 4: Oh they were coming out with Sparklan. I were the

1551
01:12:42,120 --> 01:12:44,040
Speaker 4: one at the Mandrium. It was like, you know when

1552
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 4: they were I'm not even one.

1553
01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, but basically at the Madria in New York,

1554
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: there's this top floor it's probably like a lounge anyway,

1555
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:52,679
Speaker 1: But it turns into a club.

1556
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:56,040
Speaker 4: So I walk in and I didn't know that type

1557
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:56,680
Speaker 4: of party it was.

1558
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: I knew a ballplayer invited me, but I just kind

1559
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 1: of thought was having drinks with friends because we're not

1560
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:03,760
Speaker 1: fucking with each other, so it didn't really He was like, YO,

1561
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:07,320
Speaker 1: have my New York to come through. So the bodyguard

1562
01:13:07,400 --> 01:13:09,880
Speaker 1: or the security looks at me and he's like, okay,

1563
01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:11,800
Speaker 1: she's cute, is she right? It says Freddy. I was like,

1564
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: I'm looking for my friend so and so, and he's like, okay,

1565
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:17,360
Speaker 1: well you'd have to go upstairs. I was like, okay, cool.

1566
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 4: And then he's like, well, I need your phone and

1567
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, I have to meet him up No.

1568
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 3: They collected everyone's phone and get them in white envelopes.

1569
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 3: But like the party is literally just the team, maybe

1570
01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,639
Speaker 3: the players like do boys, and maybe a culture too,

1571
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 3: or like one of the people that were on the

1572
01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,720
Speaker 3: team there is There was literally ten niggas in this room.

1573
01:13:38,920 --> 01:13:40,920
Speaker 4: That's it, and easily one hundred and