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Speaker 1: All right now. If you thank you. Subject my husband

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Speaker 1: has run out of options. Dear Stephen Shirley, My marriage

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Speaker 1: may look perfect now, but it hasn't always been like this.

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Speaker 1: I got married when I was twenty seven and my

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Speaker 1: husband was thirty six. He and two other guys owned

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Speaker 1: a club, and he'd be there every night and come

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Speaker 1: home after two am, even during the week. He didn't

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Speaker 1: allow me to go out with him. After we got married,

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Speaker 1: and even though we met at his nightclub and we

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Speaker 1: had sex for the first time at his club, he

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Speaker 1: was hardly ever home and we weren't having sex but

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Speaker 1: once or twice a month. I used to smell the

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Speaker 1: other women on him when he got home, and he

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Speaker 1: didn't even have the decency to take a shower before

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Speaker 1: he got in the bed. I practically raised our two

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Speaker 1: children alone. He took care of us all financially, and

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Speaker 1: that meant that I couldn't question him about anything. Then

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Speaker 1: when the club burned in twenty eighteen, things shifted because

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Speaker 1: he had to get a job. He got fired a

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Speaker 1: lot because of his drinking, so me and the kids

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Speaker 1: would do our best to avoid him. During the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: he started reading the Bible and he stopped drinking. He

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Speaker 1: was able to get a job, to keep a job,

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Speaker 1: and we started having sex again. Up until May of

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Speaker 1: this year, our marriage was so much better and we're

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Speaker 1: having a lot of sex. Then a light bulb went

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Speaker 1: off in my head. I feel like my husband only

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Speaker 1: wants me because he's getting older, he slightly overweight, and

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Speaker 1: we live paycheck to paycheck. No other woman would want him,

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Speaker 1: so I'm all he's got. Now, he's all out of options.

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Speaker 1: I've been thinking about divorcing him so he can see

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Speaker 1: how it feels to be alone. Please help now. If

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Speaker 1: you're thinking about divorcing him because so he can see

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Speaker 1: how it feels to be alone, that's really a stupid

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Speaker 1: reason to get divorced. I mean, why would you play

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Speaker 1: like that with something so serious. You stayed with him

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Speaker 1: through all the bad times, and now that he's changed,

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Speaker 1: you want revenge. I mean, you didn't think divorce when

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Speaker 1: he came home smelling like other women and you know,

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Speaker 1: got in the bed with you without showering all of that.

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Speaker 1: How about the fact that he hardly ever came home,

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Speaker 1: you said, And what about the fact that you had

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Speaker 1: to raise the kids, two kids practically by yourself, all

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Speaker 1: of that that didn't cause you to think divorce. You're

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Speaker 1: either there now because you're committed to the marriage and

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Speaker 1: you love him and you want to make it work,

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Speaker 1: or you want a divorce because you don't love him

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Speaker 1: anymore and you want to move on, but you just

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Speaker 1: want to get back at him. It sounds like, do

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Speaker 1: you want to be married to him or not?

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Speaker 2: To me?

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Speaker 1: That's the question, Steve.

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Speaker 3: My husband has run out of options. Okay, well, let's

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Speaker 3: look at just a different way. I got married when

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Speaker 3: I was twenty seven. Your marriage. You say, your marriage

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Speaker 3: may look perfect now, and it hasn't always been like this.

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Speaker 3: So I'm in that statement right there. It says to

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Speaker 3: me that there's been an improvement. That's what that statement says.

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Speaker 3: You got married when he was twenty seven, your husband

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Speaker 3: thirty six. Okay, He and two other guys owned the club.

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Speaker 3: He was there every night, come home at two am

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Speaker 3: during the week. He didn't allow me to go out

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Speaker 3: with him after we got married, even though we met

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, appreciate that information.

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Speaker 3: He was hardly ever home and we weren't having sex

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Speaker 3: but once or twice a month. I used to smell

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Speaker 3: the other women on him when he got home, and

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Speaker 3: he ain't even.

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Speaker 2: Have the decency to take a shower before he.

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Speaker 3: Got into bed. Well, he just got in from the club.

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Speaker 3: He has sex down there. You just he has sex down.

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Speaker 2: There at the club.

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Speaker 3: Ain't that where you had sex with him? Atter for

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Speaker 3: the first time.

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Speaker 2: At the club.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, I practically raised our two children alone. He took

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Speaker 3: care of us financially. That meant I couldn't question him

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Speaker 3: about anything. Well, he told you that. He told you, Hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: I'm taking care of you. I pay these bills. Gonna

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Speaker 3: be asking me about my work. I'm out here providing

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Speaker 3: making it. And then you accepted that. Then when the

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Speaker 3: club burned down in twenty eighteen, things shifted because he

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Speaker 3: because of his drinking. Well that what you see when

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Speaker 3: you got a club. Part of the club revenue is

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Speaker 3: not just the tickets at the door. This alcohol. That's

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Speaker 3: the revenue at the club. So anyway, you know, now

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Speaker 3: he can't hold a job because he's drinking. So me

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Speaker 3: and the kids would do our best to avoid him.

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Speaker 3: Oh he wanted them loud drunk people. Okay, I see right,

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Speaker 3: y'all't even want to talk to him. During the pandemic,

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Speaker 3: he started reading his Bible. Okay, here's where the shift comes.

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Speaker 3: He was able to.

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Speaker 2: Keep a job and we started having sex again.

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Speaker 3: Up until May of this year, our marriage was so

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Speaker 3: much better and we were having a.

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Speaker 2: Lot of sex. Jackpott.

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Speaker 3: Then a light bub went off your head. We're gonna

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Speaker 3: talk about that in a minute. The light bulb went

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Speaker 3: off on your head. And I feel like my husband

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Speaker 3: only wants me because he's getting older. He's forty seven,

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Speaker 3: forty three now, Uh, he's slightly on the wait and

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Speaker 3: we live paycheck to paycheck. No other woman would want him,

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Speaker 3: so I'm all he's got. Now he's all out of options.

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Speaker 3: I've been thinking about divorcing him so he can see

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Speaker 3: how it feels to be alone. Please help lady. Why

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Speaker 3: did you come to the divorce at Like Shirley said, Now,

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Speaker 3: you wasn't talking about the divorce when he was sleeping

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Speaker 3: with all the women at the club, coming home smelling

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Speaker 3: like other women without the.

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Speaker 2: Decen seed shower.

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Speaker 3: Now he'd have read his Bible, turned his life around,

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Speaker 3: got himself, got fat. Hang on, y'all having a lot

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Speaker 3: of sex, Well you have lost six with fat dude.

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Speaker 1: Hang hang on, Steve. We'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject my husband has run out of options.

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Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve.

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Speaker 1: come on, Steve. Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 1: is my husband has run out of options.

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Speaker 3: I don't think this letter is about your husband running

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Speaker 3: out of options. I think that you've come to a really,

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Speaker 3: really crazy conclusion. They were married that he was a

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Speaker 3: club owner. They met at a club. The first time

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Speaker 3: they had sex was out a club. They got married,

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Speaker 3: they got two kids.

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Speaker 2: He won't take.

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Speaker 3: Her out with him nowhere, especially to the club. And

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Speaker 3: when he comes home at night, you can smell other

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Speaker 3: women on him, and he don't have the DC the shower.

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Speaker 3: He just get into bed. And then the club burned down.

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Speaker 3: In twenty eighteen, things shifted because he had to get

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Speaker 3: a job. He couldn't keep a job because he drank

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Speaker 3: a lot, because you know, he picked up that habit

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Speaker 3: down at the club, and so you and the kids

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Speaker 3: tried your best to avoid him. Then the pandemic hit.

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Speaker 3: He started reading his Bible and stopped drinking. He was

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Speaker 3: able to keep a job. We started having sex again.

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Speaker 3: Up until mayor this year, marriage was a lot better,

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Speaker 3: and we started having a lot of sex.

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Speaker 2: Then a light bulb went.

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Speaker 3: Off in my head. This is the light bulb. A

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Speaker 3: light bulb went off in my head. I feel like

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Speaker 3: my husband only wants me because he's getting older. He's

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Speaker 3: slightly overwaiting me little paycheck to paycheck, and no other

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Speaker 3: woman will want him. Well, I think the light bulb

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Speaker 3: that went off in your head was a satanst See,

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Speaker 3: you prayed for God to fix something. Then you want

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Speaker 3: God to fix it your way. Well he fixed it.

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Speaker 3: Your man come home. Now, your man read the Bible.

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Speaker 3: Y'all back to having sex. He got a job, he

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Speaker 3: stopped drinking, he done gained a little bit of weight.

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Speaker 3: And you said your marriage shifted and was going fine.

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Speaker 3: But then a light bulb went off in your head.

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Speaker 3: We didn't turn that light off. You need to over

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Speaker 3: hit the switch. You need to cut the squidch off

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Speaker 3: because that's crazy to get what you want and then

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Speaker 3: talk yourself out of a blessing.

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Speaker 2: I've never seen nothing like that.

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Speaker 3: Before you asked God to fix it, You've been probably

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Speaker 3: praying about this or it turned around in your favor.

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Speaker 3: Now you're looking at it, and now you want to

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Speaker 3: kick the blessing. So I'm all he's got. Now, Ain't

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Speaker 3: that what you want it? He's all out of options.

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Speaker 3: Ain't that what you wanted? I've been thinking about divorce

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Speaker 3: in him because so he can see how it feels

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Speaker 3: to be alone.

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Speaker 2: Please help. Okay, when you get a.

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Speaker 3: Divorce and he alone, let me ask you a question,

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Speaker 3: ain't you gonna be alone?

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Speaker 2: Too? Because let me explain to you your options.

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Speaker 3: You are now back out here on this market of dating,

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Speaker 3: this dating market, the post pandemic market, and this is

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Speaker 3: a rough one, and you need to ask some women

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Speaker 3: that's out here.

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Speaker 2: This is a rough one.

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Speaker 3: And you're going out here and you ain't got no

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Speaker 3: dating experience because YO met your husband at a club

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Speaker 3: and first time y'all had sex was at the club.

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Speaker 3: Now you got two kids, you want to enter the

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Speaker 3: dating market with that, And now your man is at home,

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Speaker 3: y'all having plenty of sex. Now, okay, he done got chunky.

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Speaker 3: We could fix that. You ain't even got to get

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Speaker 3: a gym membership to fix that. You could fix that.

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Speaker 3: He come home every day. He just start reading his Bible.

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you a question. You ain't gained no

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Speaker 3: weight when you had your kids. You ain't pick up

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Speaker 3: no pounds. A lot of women do, and that and that,

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Speaker 3: and that baby weight look good a lot of women

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Speaker 3: do you know? It's badge of honor. I like him,

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Speaker 3: and you're a boy.

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Speaker 2: I like him.

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Speaker 3: Now you probably ain't the same as you used to be.

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Speaker 3: But he done managed to come home. Maybe he just said, hey,

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Speaker 3: let me get on to the house and batch up,

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Speaker 3: let me go on in here. And you gained some weight,

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Speaker 3: let me go get a little weight on it.

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Speaker 2: And that's it. And you got a good husband.

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Speaker 3: Right now, now you're talking about divorcity so he can

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Speaker 3: feel like what it feels to be alone.

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Speaker 2: Where do you get this revenge where you're from.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand interjecting the revenge into it, because right

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Speaker 3: now you're not saying the only problem y'all have is

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Speaker 3: y'all live in paycheck to paycheck. That's the grind of life.

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Speaker 3: That's the grind of life. What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: You don't understand that you have a paycheck that gets

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Speaker 3: you to the next paycheck. You don't see that, so

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Speaker 3: you gonna throw that out the window. You don't see

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Speaker 3: that he ain't drinking no more. So you gonna throw

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Speaker 3: that out the winter. You don't see that the man

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Speaker 3: come home and y'all now having a lot of sex.

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Speaker 3: You wanna throw that out the winter? Now you gotta

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Speaker 3: figure it out. I've been thinking about divorce meal because

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Speaker 3: ain't no other woman with won't help. Oh, oh that's

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Speaker 3: where you're wrong, a though, Oh that way you're wrong.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of women sign up for a smoke

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Speaker 3: of the bell. The whole lot of them got a job,

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Speaker 3: come home at night, have a lot of sex. Yeah, so, lady,

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Speaker 3: I don't know why you wanna throw get thro kick

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Speaker 3: the blessing out the house, but I would not recommend that.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you get this revengeful spirit out your If

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Speaker 3: you've forgiven him for all the nights he came in

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Speaker 3: and slept with you, after he slept with all these

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Speaker 3: women that didn't shower, you can't see the blessing you

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Speaker 3: have now? Are you kidding me? Wait a minute? What

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Speaker 3: did I just do? Did I defend a man in

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Speaker 3: the Strawberry letter?

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Speaker 2: Oh? My god, is the man from Richmond, Virginia listening.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, he's stupid. Divorce him, leave him, he's nothing.

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