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If you have any Alha Moe, 20 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 2: or appreciate anything from this episode, please leave us a 21 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 2: review to let us know we're on the right track. Also, 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: we release episodes every Friday, so be sure to subscribe 23 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:16,399 Speaker 2: on iTunes and visit cultivatinghearspace dot com to access our 24 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 2: exclusive after show and other bonus content. From the Patreon tab. 25 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: Welcome to Cultivating her Space, a podcast dedicated to uplifting 26 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: women like you. 27 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: We're your hosts. 28 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 1: Doctor Dominique Bussard, a college professor and psychologist. 29 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 5: And Terry Lomax, a techie and motivational speaker. In a 30 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 5: world where black women are often misrepresented and misunderstood, please 31 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 5: join us as we initiate authentic conversations on everything from 32 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 5: fibroids to fake friends, and create a safe space where 33 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 5: black women can just be. 34 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: Hey, lady, is doctor dom here from the Cultivating her 35 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: Space podcast. Are you currently a resident of the state 36 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:09,359 Speaker 1: of California in contemplating starting your therapy journey? Well, if so, 37 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: please reach out to me at doctor Dominique Brusard dot com. 38 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: That's d R D O M I N I q 39 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: U E B R O U S S A r 40 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: D dot com to schedule a free fifteen minute consultation. 41 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: I look forward to hearing from you. 42 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 5: All Right, lady, today we have a very special guest 43 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 5: in Cultivating her Space. Okay, she's beautiful, she's talented, she's athletic, 44 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 5: she's super down to earth. But you might be a 45 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 5: little jealous because well, her husband is Damson Idris. Okay, 46 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 5: I'm joking. I'm joking, but she has I'm just joking, 47 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,120 Speaker 5: but she has an amazing an interview with Jamson on 48 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:03,640 Speaker 5: her podcast and maybe I'm crazy and you should definitely 49 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 5: check it out. They both convinced me to start watching Snowfall. Okay, 50 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 5: so you got to check that out. Joy Taylor is 51 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,919 Speaker 5: a radio personality and TV host for Fox Sports One. 52 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 5: Hailing from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, one of the best sports towns 53 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 5: in the country, Joy has played basketball and volleyball and 54 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 5: was recruited for soccer and track. Today, she's the news 55 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 5: update anchor on The Herd with Colin Coward and was 56 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 5: previously the moderator for Fox Sports one's studio show Skip 57 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 5: and Shannon Undisputed with commentators Skip Bayless and Shannon Sharp. Joy, 58 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 5: welcome to Cultivating her Space. 59 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 4: Oh thank you. That was such a nice show. Thank 60 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 4: you guys for having me. 61 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: Of course, you're so welcome. 62 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 1: Yes, we are so happy to have you with us 63 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: today and we are looking forward to this conversation. So 64 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: we are going to jump in with our quote of 65 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 1: the day, which will sound pretty familiar to you. It 66 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: is there's joy in hard work. By Brian Flores, football coach. 67 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 2: There it is, there you go, there you go. 68 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: Yes, So we know Joy that that is a quote 69 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: that's important to you. So can you tell us a 70 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: little bit about why you love that quote so much? 71 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 3: Well, One, Brian Flores is a very principled man who 72 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 3: has risen through the ranks in the NFL and is 73 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 3: a black head football coach, which is extremely valuable in 74 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 3: today's NFL, and he's done great work in Miami. But 75 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 3: I also think the quote is important because a lot 76 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 3: of times in life, especially now with social media, we 77 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 3: kind of don't appreciate the process very much and we 78 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 3: start to get a little disillusion about what success is 79 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 3: and how to get it, and everything is kind of 80 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 3: in a microwave society. And I came up through the 81 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 3: ranks of the broadcast business and have held pretty much 82 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 3: every job there is to have in the business. And 83 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,919 Speaker 3: I do think that hard work, and you know, dedicating 84 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: yourself to your craft and being excellent at what you 85 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: do has great value throughout your life and your career, 86 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 3: and it will make reaching certain levels of success that 87 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 3: much more valuable and you will appreciate. 88 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 4: Them more when you do reach them. 89 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 3: When you know what you've put in to get there, 90 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: and you'll be ready for the opportunities that you come 91 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 3: across and that are offered to you. A lot of 92 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 3: times we get into situations where we have opportunities, but 93 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: we're not necessarily ready for those opportunities, and then we 94 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 3: don't we don't get to capitalize on them. So I 95 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: think enjoying the process. There's joy in hard work, you know, 96 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 3: seeing things through, seeing your hard work payoff and what 97 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 3: you've put in give back to you is a great 98 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: it's a great joy in life, like it is. I'm 99 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: trying to look for another word, but it is it. 100 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 3: It really makes reaching levels of success that much more valuable. 101 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 2: That is such a good point. 102 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 5: And doctor John one of her favorite quotes, I don't 103 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 5: know if you saw a smile, is trust the process. 104 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 2: So when you're like there's joy in the process, there, 105 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 2: it truly is. 106 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,919 Speaker 5: We listen to some of your past interviews where you 107 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 5: talked about how you started off as an intern and 108 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 5: you learned how to do all aspects of the role 109 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 5: so that let's say someone's out one day, you got this, 110 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 5: like you know how to hold it down. So when 111 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 5: it comes to the misconception. Some of the biggest misconceptions 112 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 5: about being a woman in sports media. What would you 113 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 5: say some of those are joy Well. 114 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 3: I think one, and I'll just speak from my experience 115 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 3: being a black woman in sports media that process, that 116 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 3: hard work makes you excellent. 117 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 4: Because you have to be so. 118 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: I think one of the biggest misconceptions about women, and 119 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 3: particularly black women in sports media is that you're just 120 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 3: there because of what you look like. We've had a 121 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 3: lot of conversations about that surrounding the business recently, and 122 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 3: I can very much empathize to being treated not just 123 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 3: by you know, people at the top, but and not 124 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 3: just viewers but also your peers being treated like you're 125 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 3: only there because of what you look like. 126 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 4: And that's not true. 127 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 3: You're there because you're excellent, because you wouldn't be in 128 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 3: the room any other way. So, I think one of 129 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 3: the biggest misconceptions is that, you know, women are just 130 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 3: hired because of what they look like, they're just a 131 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 3: token higher, when in fact, in order to even be 132 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 3: considered for that job, to get that job, you have 133 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 3: to be so much further along than any man that 134 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: would be considered for that job. Just to be in 135 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 3: that position. So I think that's the biggest misconception that's. 136 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: True, that is so real, and you know, speaking along 137 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: those lines of our looks and how women are frequently 138 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: judged and misjudged because of our looks, sometimes being a 139 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: woman in sports media also comes along with there's part 140 00:07:52,680 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: of what also happens from what I've been reading about, 141 00:07:56,320 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: is harassment and sexual harassment to be specific. And so 142 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: can you talk to us a little bit about how 143 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: you have navigated not getting into a situation around sexual 144 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: harassment and supporting other women who have experienced such things 145 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: as they're trying to navigate being in this male dominated arenum. 146 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 3: Well, I haven't navigated not experiencing sexual harassment, So I 147 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 3: can't say that I have experienced sexual harassment. I don't 148 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 3: know any woman in the business who hasn't, which is 149 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 3: an unfortunate reality of the business. I obviously can't speak 150 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 3: for all women, but I personally have every conversation that 151 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 3: I have surrounding sexual harassment with anyone in the business, 152 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 3: they have some sort of experience with it, and that 153 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 3: is something that really. 154 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 4: Needs to change. 155 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: And I think a big factor in how to change 156 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 3: that and how to support women in the business, and 157 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 3: not just the sports media business, but the media and 158 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 3: entertainment business in general is you know, if you look 159 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:04,559 Speaker 3: at the top of organizations and businesses, it's generally a 160 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 3: lot of people that look the same a lot of 161 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 3: the same gender, and you know that trickles down through organizations. 162 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:15,839 Speaker 3: You need to have diversity at the top. You need 163 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 3: to have people that you can go to, people that 164 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 3: aren't going to sexually harass you, in place to hold 165 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 3: those people accountable and to create an environment of inclusion 166 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 3: where women are not looked at as I was just saying, 167 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 3: as tokens or there because of what they look like, 168 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 3: but are equal to the men in that same business 169 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 3: space and time. So I'm very supportive of women in 170 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 3: the business for multiple reasons. One just knowing how hard 171 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 3: it is to navigate trying to get the same opportunities, 172 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 3: trying to be viewed as equal, having to navigate sexual 173 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 3: harassments and age discrimination, you know, all these things. 174 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 4: It's a whole culture that has to be. 175 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: Removed from the business. But in order to do that, 176 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 3: one I think there needs to obviously be more women 177 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 3: hired at every level behind the scenes, in front of 178 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 3: the camera and the executive level, but also, you know, 179 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 3: more people need to be held accountable. 180 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a really good point, and that sounds super tough. 181 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 2: It just sounds like there are so. 182 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 5: Many burdens that a woman has to wear in addition 183 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 5: to you showing up to be your best self and 184 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:18,959 Speaker 5: to do the work. 185 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 2: And kind of sometimes I prove to them like, yeah, 186 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 2: I'm not just here because I'm cute or whatever, you 187 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 2: know what I mean. 188 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:24,599 Speaker 5: But like, like all these other things that you have 189 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,560 Speaker 5: to wear, what would you say are some of the 190 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 5: skills that contributed to your success in this mail dominated 191 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 5: sports industry. 192 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 3: Well, you know, I get this question all the time, 193 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 3: but mostly from men, which is how did you, you know, 194 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 3: get into sports? Like why when did you start liking sports? 195 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 3: And I always think it's a weird question because you 196 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 3: would never ask a guy that question, right, probably the 197 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:48,320 Speaker 3: same way you did. Did you watch it on TV? 198 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 3: Did you have a favorite player? Did you play sports 199 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 3: growing up? 200 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 4: Because that's that's the same thing that I did. 201 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:58,319 Speaker 3: I think, particularly for my job, which is an opinion space. 202 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 4: Job, you gotta have opinion. 203 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 3: You gotta have a personality, you gotta be a little 204 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 3: fearless and be able to deal with a little bit of, 205 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 3: you know, negative response to what you're saying, because everyone's 206 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 3: not going to agree with you. I mean, we could 207 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: pick a topic that three of us definitely don't all 208 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 3: agree on and argue about it for hours if we. 209 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 4: Find the right topic. 210 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 3: So, you know, everybody has opinions about everything, and being 211 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 3: in the opinion space you really have to lean into that. 212 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 3: So I've always kind of been a big mouth personality, 213 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 3: so that that kind of works. 214 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 4: For that space. But I also really I like the 215 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 4: stories of sports. I think that sports is. 216 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 3: A great microcosm of society, meaning that a lot of 217 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 3: things that are happening out in the world that aren't 218 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 3: necessarily sports stories, the vaccine, COVID politics, social issues, gender issues, 219 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 3: economic issues, international issues, everything ties into sports in some 220 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 3: way because athletes are human and they have families, and 221 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 3: they have wives, and they have children, and they have husbands, 222 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 3: and they have mothers and fathers, and they're from different 223 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 3: places in the world that have different political backgrounds, and 224 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 3: they come from different economic backgrounds, and these issues always 225 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 3: sprout within sports. So I think sports is such a 226 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,960 Speaker 3: unique place, and it is so many times throughout history 227 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 3: generated change for the world. So I just I think 228 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 3: I have a unique outlook on sports and the value 229 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: that it brings. And I wouldn't necessarily know if that's 230 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:37,959 Speaker 3: a skill, but I have tried to sharpen those through 231 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 3: you know, being a good researcher, being good at interviews, 232 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 3: you know, really digging into what the story behind the 233 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: story is. 234 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 1: Yes, I think that that is really important, right, because 235 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: we are more than just one dimensional people and if 236 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: we're playing just because we are playing one particular sport 237 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:02,719 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that our life is centered only on that aspect, 238 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: and that you're right that so many other things come 239 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 1: into play, and so one of those things that comes 240 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: into play is our behavior outside of our sport. So 241 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: one person that we've talked about that Terry and I 242 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: have talked about is Shakari Richardson right, and the controversy 243 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: around her testing positive for marijuana use. Right. And so, 244 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:41,960 Speaker 1: what do you think is the solution to this overall 245 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: issue around athletes being tested for marijuana use. 246 00:13:48,240 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 3: Well, I think, as with anything in life, we have 247 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 3: to look at the origin of how we got here. 248 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 3: I think a big problem, especially in American culture, is 249 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 3: that we deny history. We don't want to talk about 250 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 3: bad stuff that happened. Because we're here now, so let's 251 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 3: just forget that this happened. Let's just move forward. Everyone, 252 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,680 Speaker 3: just let it go. We don't have to keep talking 253 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 3: about it. Why do you guys keep one of talking 254 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 3: about it? Because what happened created this situation, and you 255 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 3: have to know why it exists in order to truly 256 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: change it. And when it comes to marijuana and a 257 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 3: lot of the laws and a lot of the stigma, 258 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 3: and a lot of the ideas and misinformation that people 259 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 3: have about marijuana as a whole. 260 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 4: Is rooted in deep racism. That's a fact. That is 261 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 4: not something I've made up. It is not a conspiracy. 262 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 3: It is a certifiable fact that a racist white man 263 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 3: created a false narrative around marijuana, saying that it would 264 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 3: cause white women who want black men. A whole entire 265 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 3: list of nonsense, pure racist rhetoric that was placed on marijuana, 266 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 3: which has led to the incarceration mostly of black people 267 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:12,160 Speaker 3: for marijuana related charges. And the stigma that is around 268 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: marijuana as a whole that still exists today. And that 269 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 3: misinformation is not limited to just white people and to 270 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 3: law enforcement. There's a whole idea of misinformation around marijuana. 271 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 3: So that's the first thing that has to happen before 272 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 3: we get to any kind of other policy change or 273 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 3: anything else. Everyone has to acknowledge we do not have 274 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 3: the correct information about this substance. 275 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 4: It was created. The entire narrative. 276 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 3: What we thought was facts and logic was lies from 277 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 3: a racist, evil man a. It has to start there, 278 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,560 Speaker 3: number one. And until everyone can agree on that, we 279 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 3: really can't move forward. And that applies to a lot 280 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 3: of things in life. We were just talking about sexual harassment. 281 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 3: Until we can all agree this is a problem, how 282 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 3: can you fix it because you're still going to have 283 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 3: a group of pep people who are saying this isn't 284 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 3: this isn't really a problem, this isn't really real. So 285 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 3: that has to be number one. Once we establish that, 286 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 3: then we can move on to the next step, which 287 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 3: is decriminalizing it as a whole. That will happen whether 288 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 3: a happens at all, because we know the amount of 289 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 3: tax dollars that marijuana can bring into states because we've 290 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 3: seen it, and let's be honest, a lot of government 291 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: organizations and states have lost a lot of money due 292 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 3: to COVID, So they're going to start legalizing gambling, legalizing marijuana. 293 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 4: It's eventually going to be legal all over the country. 294 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 3: That is inevitable, whether people like it or have some moral, 295 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 3: you know, resistance to it or not. 296 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 4: That's happening, similar to. 297 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: The way that alcohol eventually became legal again around the country. 298 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 4: So once those two things are true, and. 299 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 3: It's been decriminalized and it's been regulated, we now have 300 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 3: to have the conversation of how do we how do 301 00:16:55,600 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 3: we remove that also from sports, sports which has a 302 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 3: very certifiable reputation for shoving very heavy opioids and shots 303 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 3: and all kinds of treatment that can have extreme long 304 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 3: term damage on athletes just to help them recover and 305 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 3: just to help them get out there and perform. So 306 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 3: there's the whole conversation about, oh, the Olympic Committee rules 307 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 3: say that this and that. Like we're in the United 308 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 3: States of America. All right, we're the let's be let's 309 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 3: be real about this. We bully and do whatever we want. 310 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 4: So if it's. 311 00:17:31,400 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 3: Legal here in the States, and that's just what it is, 312 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 3: and we allow our athletes to do that. By the way, 313 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 3: it's legal in many countries around the world, and some 314 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 3: places you can't drink okay, And they don't test our 315 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 3: athletes for alcohol in their system, not while they're competing, 316 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 3: of course, But like, you're allowed to drink as an 317 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 3: Olympic athlete, why would you not be allowed to use marijuana? 318 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 4: Especially where Shakiri did, where it was legal. 319 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 3: So you know, the first reaction I saw to Shakiri 320 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 3: was like, well, you know, obviously, first of all. 321 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 4: She knew what the consequences were. 322 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 3: Yes, she was also in a moment of extreme grief, 323 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 3: which everyone seemed to just gloss over that this young 324 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 3: woman just lost her mother in a very stressful situation. 325 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 3: US trials are incredibly stressful. We saw some own Biles 326 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 3: remove herself from competition just yesterday, it was just this 327 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 3: morning because of stress. These are stressful situations. You train 328 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 3: for this your entire life. You put in hours and 329 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 3: hours and hours of work for really like ten seconds 330 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 3: of performance. 331 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 4: That is a lot of stress. 332 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 3: And you can say whatever you want about oh, like 333 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 3: this is what they're supposed to do or whatever, like 334 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 3: I really don't care if you've never been in that 335 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 3: situation to understand the level of stress. Like forget me, 336 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 3: I don't care about your opinion, Like you don't have 337 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,679 Speaker 3: that kind of stress in your life to judge what 338 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 3: they're going through as athletes, which is why I would 339 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 3: give them that grace. So look, do I have any 340 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 3: personal objection to marijuana? No, none, whatsoever. Are there consequences 341 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 3: to her doing that? Yes, that's the rules, but also 342 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 3: sometimes in life things happen and she has to stuffer 343 00:18:59,480 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 3: the consequence of those rules because they're in place. 344 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 4: But now we can as a group acknowledge several things. 345 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 3: One, those rules are in place because a racist, evil 346 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 3: man created a false, incorrect, not factual stigma around marijuana, 347 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 3: which has cost many people, many people years and years 348 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 3: of their life due to incarceration and all kinds of 349 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 3: other ripple effect layers to the use of marijuana and 350 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 3: the stigma surrounding it, people getting kicked out of school, 351 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 3: people being kicked. 352 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 4: Out of their homes. I can go on and on 353 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 4: about it. 354 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 3: So let's one, that's something that we should all learn 355 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 3: and educate yourself on. Two, it's going to be legal everywhere, 356 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 3: so we need to start having real conversations about it 357 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 3: and realizing that she did not commit a crime. She 358 00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 3: did not commit a crime, it was legal where she 359 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 3: consumes it. And lastly, it's time to change the rules 360 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,719 Speaker 3: when it comes to athletes using marijuana, because it is 361 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 3: a way for athletes to relief stress. It is less 362 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:06,159 Speaker 3: damaging than some of the pills and the treatments that 363 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 3: they are receiving for that and other health related items. 364 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 3: And also if they just want to use it to 365 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 3: feel good for just recreational purposes, it's legal and it 366 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 3: will be legal, and it should be decriminalized completely. 367 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 5: So, Joy, this is a topic that you're not passionate 368 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:26,000 Speaker 5: about this topic by any means, are you not at all? 369 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 5: The reason I say this is because on your Instagram 370 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 5: you have a video about Shakerri when the news was 371 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 5: released and you went in, Okay, Like y'all have to 372 00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 5: go to Joy's Instagram and check out the video. 373 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 2: You went in. 374 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,480 Speaker 5: And I want to know you know today you strike 375 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 5: me as a very confident you know, you're secure woman. 376 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 5: Of course, we all have our moments as human beings, 377 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 5: but like overall confident woman, you have your own opinion. 378 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:50,800 Speaker 5: You're also on TV daily right and you're sharing your opinions. 379 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 5: Was there ever a time where you were I want 380 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 5: to say, phaged by the critiques of the public when 381 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 5: you shared these opinions, and how did you deal with that? 382 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 5: Because you are a public figure, people see you, so 383 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:03,640 Speaker 5: you're often a target. 384 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: So how do you cope with that? 385 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 5: At least in the beginning when you when it was 386 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 5: like tough, if it ever was. 387 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 3: You know, I wasn't always as confident sharing my opinion, 388 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 3: and I wasn't always as confident about how it was going. 389 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 4: To be received. 390 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 3: But I you know, I went to Bary University and 391 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 3: I had the privilege of studying under professors who had 392 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:31,200 Speaker 3: had years and years and years of experience in the business, 393 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 3: and they really emphasize the value of prep and the 394 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 3: value of being able to write, and those. 395 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 4: Are very fundamental things. 396 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,959 Speaker 3: You know, you should research what you're talking about, and 397 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,439 Speaker 3: you should be able to communicate what it is that 398 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 3: you've researched. And you know, when you're in college or 399 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 3: a young person, you really. 400 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 4: Just kind of want to do things and just. 401 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 3: You know, you don't want to truss the process. You 402 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 3: don't want to put the hard work in. 403 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 4: Because you don't think you need to, because you. 404 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:03,720 Speaker 3: Have this blind confidence until you say something that isn't 405 00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 3: factual and someone checks you, or you run into a 406 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 3: situation where someone asks you a question you don't really 407 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 3: know the answer. So I think one thing that really 408 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,959 Speaker 3: really helps me with my confidence in the business is 409 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 3: being prepared. People ask me all the time if I 410 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 3: get nervous when I go on TV, and I'm like, no, 411 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 3: I'm not nervous. I mean, like, I'm used to being 412 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 3: on TV and I want to be on TV, so 413 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 3: being actually on TV doesn't make me nervous. I understand 414 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 3: some people would feel nervous being on TV, but if 415 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 3: you're in this business, you're past that. They're like, do 416 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 3: you feel nervous about what you have to say? And 417 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 3: the answer is no, because I know, I know this 418 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,959 Speaker 3: is this is what I've studied, this is what I do, 419 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: and I don't know every answer to every single thing. 420 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:47,119 Speaker 3: Nobody does. We do a two hour prep call before 421 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 3: every single show. Every day, every show that I'm on 422 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 3: has a meeting before the show, and then we meet 423 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 3: with our researchers and we meet with our producers, and 424 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 3: then we go over notes, and then we compare notes, 425 00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 3: and then we take notes out and then we change things. 426 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,080 Speaker 4: Nobody's just walking in and talking. 427 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 3: So you know, when you feel confident is when you 428 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 3: are prepared and I think that's like with anything in life. 429 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 4: If you go to a job interview and you don't 430 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 4: know anything about the company and you don't really. 431 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 3: Know what the job is about, and you don't know 432 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 3: who it is you're meeting with, and you've done no research, 433 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 3: you should be nervous. 434 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 4: You're probably going to do very badly in that interview. 435 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 4: So so you should be nervous. 436 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 3: If you're going to meet with you know, your girlfriend's 437 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 3: parents are the first time and you've never listened to 438 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 3: a word she said about her family, and you don't 439 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 3: know their names and you don't know where they're from, 440 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 3: and you don't know anything about them, and you're walking 441 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 3: in there, you should be nervous. You're you're probably not 442 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,359 Speaker 3: going to come off very well. So being prepared is 443 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 3: just a value in life that you should put a 444 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 3: lot of value in that in life, being prepared because 445 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 3: it will pay off and the work that you do 446 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 3: before will keep you from having to do more work 447 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 3: in the moment. 448 00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,640 Speaker 2: I love that. I love that. 449 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I was sitting over here like yes, the 450 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,159 Speaker 1: job interview example, I was like, I hope my students here. 451 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 4: And I've been in that situation before. 452 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 3: I've been in a situation where I've been like meeting 453 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 3: with people that I didn't really know who I was 454 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 3: talking to, and I mean luckily it worked out, but 455 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,760 Speaker 3: it was a very good lesson for me that like, listen, 456 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,680 Speaker 3: if you're going into meet with someone, you should know 457 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 3: where they're from, you should know their name, you should 458 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,240 Speaker 3: know what you're meeting with them about, because you don't 459 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 3: want to be in that situation, in that job interview, 460 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 3: in that meeting, on that show, in that moment, unprepared 461 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 3: and scrambling like that's it's the same thing as studying. 462 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,399 Speaker 4: Like we've always been all. 463 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 3: Crammed for tests, right, Yeah, and professors tell you, like study, 464 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 3: take some time, study it because you're cramming it. Then 465 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 3: you come in and you're nervous because you don't really 466 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 3: know it. You've just crammed it. You haven't committed it 467 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 3: to a memory, you haven't studied it, you haven't researched it, 468 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 3: You've just. 469 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:45,720 Speaker 4: Okay, I think I'm good. 470 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,159 Speaker 3: I did an hour of studying last night for you 471 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 3: know this midterm that's three hours long. Like, yes, you're 472 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 3: probably not going to do well unless you're a genius. 473 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 3: And even geniuses can only rely on that for so for. 474 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,719 Speaker 4: So long, exactly exactly. 475 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: I love it and so well, I'm assuming then that 476 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:10,040 Speaker 1: a lot of preparation goals into your podcast. Maybe I'm crazy. 477 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: Can you tell us what inspired you to create this podcast? 478 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,640 Speaker 3: Well, when I came to FS one, I was leaving Miami, 479 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 3: where I did a four hour morning drive radio sports 480 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 3: talk show. 481 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 4: And I came to FS one. 482 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 3: We hadn't launched a show yet, so I was here 483 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 3: in LA I was like obviously being paid, but I 484 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 3: wasn't actually working on a show yet because it was 485 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 3: still developing. 486 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 4: And then Skip came and they launched. 487 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 3: Undisputed, so they wanted me to be the moderator of 488 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 3: the show, which was a great opportunity opportunity for me 489 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 3: to work with Skip and Shannon and launched this new 490 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,360 Speaker 3: show on the network. But I knew it would be 491 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 3: limited space for me to express my opinion and to 492 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 3: talk and that's what I moved across the country and 493 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 3: joined the network to do. 494 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 4: And that's what I was leaving in Miami. 495 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 3: So I needed to create a platform where I could 496 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 3: still get my opinion, where I could still talk about 497 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 3: topics that we wouldn't necessarily talk about on Undisputed, but 498 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 3: were valuable to me and to the culture, and I 499 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 3: wanted to have that. 500 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 4: Space to do that. So that's really why we made 501 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 4: the podcast super Dope. 502 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,120 Speaker 5: I love that too, because I think sometimes in life 503 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 5: we think that we're just waiting for an opportunity for 504 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 5: like to come to us, and you're like, oh, Okay, 505 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 5: I had this great opportunity here, but I really want 506 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 5: to showcase my voice and my opinion, so I'm going 507 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 5: to create something versus complaining. 508 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 2: So I think that's amazing. I do want to shout 509 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 2: out joy that. 510 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 5: You know, we both went to Pennsylvania State School, so 511 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 5: I just got to call out I up and. 512 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:44,119 Speaker 2: Goods Town because I'm a Goodstown girl. Oh yeah, up girls, 513 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,120 Speaker 2: So I had to call that out. 514 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 5: And I was not a college athlete however, and I 515 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:50,719 Speaker 5: know you were recruited for tracks. I want to know 516 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 5: what are some of the most exciting parts about the name, 517 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,119 Speaker 5: image and likeness error, and what are your overall thoughts 518 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 5: on that. 519 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 4: In general, I think it's great. 520 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 3: I think it's actually a wonderful compromise to the idea 521 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 3: of paying college athletes, which logistically, while I support everyone 522 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:12,680 Speaker 3: making money, logistically there's not a sustainable platform to do that. 523 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 3: Which that would, you know, be equal for men and women, 524 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 3: It would be equal for different sports because most of 525 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 3: these college athletic programs are supported through the revenue made 526 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 3: from football teams. There are a few schools where the 527 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,680 Speaker 3: basketball team will bring in more than the football team, 528 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 3: but in general, overwhelmingly it's the football teams and bigger 529 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 3: sports that bring in the most revenue for these athletic programs. 530 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:38,360 Speaker 4: So it could get very weird. 531 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 3: In how you're going to who makes How much do 532 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 3: you pay the lacrosse team, how much do you play 533 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,320 Speaker 3: the swimm team? How much do you play the women's basketball team? 534 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 3: How much do you pay the football team. It's like, okay, 535 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 3: Like there's a reason that amateur sports exists, and I'm 536 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 3: okay with that. However, I always had a major issue 537 00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 3: with the idea that athletes wouldn't be able to make 538 00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 3: money off of their own name. 539 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 4: And this goes back decades and decades. 540 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 3: I mean, why can't a star quarterback go to a 541 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,679 Speaker 3: sports memorabilia shop and do an hour signing autographs? 542 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 4: How does that hurt you? What is who's losing there? Nobody? 543 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: The kid is making money those sports Mabelia people are 544 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 3: making money. That's a capitalist exchange. Like everyone's always talking 545 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 3: about communism, capitalism, that's capitalism. Like being able to make 546 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 3: money off of yourself. That's what America is. And for 547 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,239 Speaker 3: that matter, if you're not an athlete, you can do that. 548 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 3: So if you're there on a music scholarship, you can 549 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 3: still go make money. If you're there on academic scholarship, you. 550 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 4: Can still go make money. 551 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,880 Speaker 3: Athletes are the only students who are not allowed to 552 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 3: make money while they're at school. Meanwhile, they're the ones 553 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 3: bringing in all the money to the school, So not 554 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 3: all the money, but you know a majority of the 555 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 3: money for these huge facilities and branding and getting students 556 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,560 Speaker 3: to come because they want to enjoy, you know, watching 557 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 3: LSU play football or watching Florida play football. But they 558 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 3: are the only ones, the athletes, who can't make money. 559 00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 3: So I think it's I think it's well overdue. I 560 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 3: do think though social media was the catalyst for this change, 561 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 3: because you're seeing athletes and everyone really have the ability 562 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 3: to make money off of their social media and the 563 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:28,000 Speaker 3: influencer marketing space has taken over the advertising world, and 564 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,480 Speaker 3: how are you going to tell some volleyball players she. 565 00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 4: Can't make money from fashion Nova. Okay, how are you 566 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 4: going to do that? You know? 567 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 3: And and why would you put her in a situation 568 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,959 Speaker 3: where she'd have to choose between her athletic career and 569 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 3: making money while she's in college from this company. 570 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 4: Why why would they have to choose? 571 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 3: So I think that the Internet kind of sped this up, 572 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 3: and you know, society sort of met the NCAA like 573 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,960 Speaker 3: face to face, like Okay, you guys are actually not 574 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 3: even making sense anymore, like this is this no longer 575 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 3: makes sense? Nothing that ever did, but now especially this 576 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 3: no longer makes sense. So I think it's great. I 577 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 3: think it's great for the student athletes. I think it's 578 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 3: great for the programs. I think it's great for everyone 579 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:15,560 Speaker 3: in college sports because now as what it removes the well, 580 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 3: it doesn't remove, but it definitely lessens the influence that 581 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 3: bigger schools have because there's always been cheating going on. 582 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 3: We all know that, it's just what are you gonna do? 583 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 3: Like how do you enforce it? And then it becomes 584 00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 3: even sketchier because you got to go through all these 585 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 3: different channels to get these kids money. Now it's like, look, 586 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,080 Speaker 3: just bam, and if I go to this school, I 587 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 3: have this company, this plumbing company that wants to, you know, 588 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 3: give this kid ten thousand dollars to wear their shirts. 589 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 4: Who cares? 590 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 2: You know. 591 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 3: It doesn't have to be at a big school. It 592 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 3: doesn't have to be at a power five conference school. 593 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 3: So I think it opens the doors up for everybody. 594 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 3: It makes sense, which is really at the end of 595 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 3: the day, just make it make sense. I mean that's 596 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,880 Speaker 3: like I just Smike Mantra in the morning. 597 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 4: Just make it make sense. 598 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 3: And so it does make sense, and I think the 599 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 3: panic around it. 600 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 4: Is really unnecessary. 601 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 3: Anytime there's a big major change in anything in society, 602 00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 3: half the people are going to freak out, and then 603 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 3: over time, ninety eight percent of them are going to 604 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 3: come to the other side, and they'll still be two 605 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 3: people who are grumpy about it for the rest of 606 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 3: their lives. 607 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 4: And what are you going to do about it? Like 608 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 4: this is just the world. Change is inevitable. It's the 609 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 4: right thing. And I also think that it gives. 610 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:26,720 Speaker 3: Student athletes the opportunity to start managing money and income 611 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 3: and their finances and building towards their future at a 612 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 3: younger age. So their financial literacy levels will go up 613 00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 3: as well. You'll start learning about the stock market earlier, 614 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 3: You'll start learning about investments earlier, you will start learning 615 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 3: about buying property in real estate earlier, financial management earlier. 616 00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 3: And I think in the long term that will lead 617 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 3: to a more balanced society and better financial literacy for everyone. 618 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 2: And it's such a good point. Make it makes sense 619 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 2: and let these students get their coin. 620 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 5: Go yes, okay, So Joe, we're bringing the interview to 621 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 5: a close, but before we do that, we want to 622 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 5: shift up the energy of this conversation. 623 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 624 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,720 Speaker 5: So we recognize and appreciate the multifaceted woman, and we 625 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 5: celebrate her, and we believe that it's okay to be 626 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 5: classy and it's okay to be ratchet. You can still 627 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,880 Speaker 5: be elegant and dance to strip club music. Okay, So Joy, 628 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 5: get ready to get ready. We want to invite you 629 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 5: to the oh you clatch it segment? So do you 630 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 5: take on the challenge? 631 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 4: I do, Let's do it? 632 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 5: Yes, no hesitation, okay, I love it. Okay, now that 633 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 5: you agree, we just want to tell you really quickly 634 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:36,520 Speaker 5: what to expect. 635 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 636 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 5: So we're going to ask you three questions or maybe 637 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,280 Speaker 5: more depending on how you answer. We're going to have 638 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 5: you finish three sentences, and then we're going to show 639 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 5: you a photo that you have not seen or that 640 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,959 Speaker 5: you're not ready for from your Instagram, and I'm going 641 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 5: to ask. 642 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 2: You some questions about it. Okay, all right, Donnie want 643 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 2: to take it over? 644 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 4: Yes, all right. 645 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: So first question, what's the best piece of wisdom or 646 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: advice you've ever received? Oh? 647 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:06,920 Speaker 4: I love this question. So after college, kind of similar 648 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 4: to how a lot of students today are. 649 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 3: Dealing with the effects of COVID coming out of college 650 00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 3: looking for jobs. I ran into a similar situation in 651 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 3: the business where there was a big hiring freeze when 652 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,480 Speaker 3: I graduated from college. So I had all my eggs 653 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 3: in one basket for this job. I didn't get it. 654 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 3: It kind of set me into the spiral. I was 655 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 3: like in and out of the business for like a 656 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 3: year and a half, and I was in a really 657 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 3: bad situation. Was sleeping in my friend's couch. 658 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 4: I didn't have a job. It was like all bad, 659 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 4: and I was. 660 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:36,720 Speaker 3: Talking to a friend of mine who's extremely successful, and 661 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm complaining to him about it, and like going on 662 00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 3: and on and he kind of sought me and asked 663 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 3: me a question that really changed my life. He said, how, 664 00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 3: what is it something that you want for yourself in 665 00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 3: the next three years. It can be a job, it 666 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 3: can be a car, a house, a man like whatever. 667 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,520 Speaker 4: What is it something that you want for yourself? Like, 668 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,400 Speaker 4: what's a goal of yours in the next three years? 669 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 3: And it's a very specific timeframe too, And I said, 670 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 3: I want to be full time on air, radio or 671 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 3: TV in the next three years' great, how much of 672 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,359 Speaker 3: your energy are you putting towards making that happen? And 673 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 3: I thought about the question, and I thought about the 674 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 3: word he used, and I said, maybe ten percent. 675 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 4: You know, I don't have a job, so I can't 676 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 4: pay any of my bills, i don't have a place 677 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 4: to live. I'm sleeping my friend's couch. Like everyone's mad 678 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:21,239 Speaker 4: at me right now. 679 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 3: I'm in a really bad headspace, like I don't know 680 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:24,760 Speaker 3: what I'm going to do with my career. 681 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 4: So no, not a lot of energy. Maybe ten percent. 682 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 3: And he said, okay, So why are you surprised that 683 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 3: it's not happening for you? 684 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 4: And maybe it was the moment that I was. 685 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:38,239 Speaker 3: In, Maybe it was everything that had happened, or how 686 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,840 Speaker 3: he said to me, or I was just you know, 687 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 3: the universe. That opens me up to taking advice, which 688 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,720 Speaker 3: is a moment that I think we all have as adults. 689 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,799 Speaker 3: You know, we think we know everything and then we 690 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 3: realize we don't. And it's so much easier to just 691 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,359 Speaker 3: ask people that we trust who have been through it, 692 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,359 Speaker 3: for advice and. 693 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 4: Actually take it. 694 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 3: And it really changed my perspective on everything in life. 695 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,080 Speaker 4: If you want something, you you. 696 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 3: Have to put one hundred percent of your energy into it. 697 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 3: And energy is the word. 698 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,320 Speaker 4: It's not just time, it's not just money, it's energy. 699 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:12,280 Speaker 3: Everything that you do has to be directed towards this goal, 700 00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,880 Speaker 3: and sports are a great example of that. If you 701 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,600 Speaker 3: want to be a champion, there's some stuff you have 702 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 3: to do. There are things you have to sacrifice. You 703 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 3: can't go out every night, you can't hang out with 704 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 3: certain people. You got to be in the gym early. 705 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 3: You can't get that extra sleep, you can't eat that sandwich, 706 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 3: you got to eat this salad. There's things you have 707 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,800 Speaker 3: to do. You have to put your energy into that goal. 708 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 3: And from that point forward, I just got on the 709 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,200 Speaker 3: right track and anything that I want to do or 710 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 3: anything I want to accomplish. I put one hundred percent 711 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 3: of my energy into and I can't stress enough how 712 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 3: much that matters if you really want to be successful. 713 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 5: That is a beautiful piece of wisdom. I love it 714 00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 5: and I think it's going to inspire many people that 715 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,920 Speaker 5: are listening. Now, I have four words for you, twerk 716 00:35:58,040 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 5: or two step? 717 00:35:58,880 --> 00:35:59,800 Speaker 2: What you doing, Julie. 718 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 3: You know I'm not the best dancer, so I would 719 00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 3: so I would say it's work because you don't really 720 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 3: have you know you can, you can have your own 721 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 3: version of working. 722 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 5: We struggle with the rhythm too, so it's okay, struggle 723 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 5: with the rhythm. 724 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:18,840 Speaker 4: I'm not the best answer. I was. 725 00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 3: I was never in dance growing up, but I did 726 00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:26,720 Speaker 3: not have natural rhythm. So I'm the I'm the drunk 727 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 3: auntie at the party. Anyways, nobody paying attention to me. 728 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 2: We sound like we could hang. 729 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 4: I appreciate that. 730 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 1: Yes, So the next question, now, Joey, we've heard that 731 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 1: you may or may not be the queen of petty. 732 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 1: What's the pettiest thing that you've done to teach someone 733 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: a lesson? 734 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 4: Oh? I have to think about that. I don't know. 735 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 3: I have to really think about it. I'm just a 736 00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 3: pretty generally a petty person. I don't like to hold 737 00:36:58,800 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 3: grudges like I don't. 738 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 4: I'm a Capricorn. So when I'm done with something, I'm 739 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 4: done with it. This is I'm sorry. 740 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,600 Speaker 3: I've exhausted all of my efforts, so I can't go back. 741 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 3: But I I definitely am like a blocker and a 742 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:15,200 Speaker 3: muter and like I will just remove you from my 743 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 3: entire life and never Yeah, just poof begone. 744 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 2: I was just thinking poof begone. 745 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 4: I'm a big beyond person, so. 746 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 3: I don't know that I can think of like a 747 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 3: specific story. But yeah, I got that. 748 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:28,640 Speaker 4: Nickname on Undisputed. 749 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,960 Speaker 3: Actually Shannon gave that to me because Skip and I 750 00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 3: would always talk about Lebron and I was salty that 751 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 3: Lebron left the heat, but I got over it. 752 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 4: But yeah, so that's where that's where that came from. 753 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 2: I love that. I love it. 754 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 5: Okay, so now we have the sentence completions for you? 755 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,240 Speaker 5: How would you finish the sentence? One question or topic 756 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,319 Speaker 5: I wish people ask me about more often is. 757 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 3: Just my opinion, Like I think people ask specific questions 758 00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,360 Speaker 3: to women all the time, and then they'll ask like 759 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 3: I'll notice I'll ask a guy this like, oh, like 760 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 3: what do you think about you know, this topic? But 761 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,960 Speaker 3: then they'll ask me like, oh, so, like you know, how'd. 762 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,520 Speaker 4: You get into business? So I wish they would. 763 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 3: I wish people would ask me about what it is 764 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 3: I think rather than how did I get here? More often, 765 00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,919 Speaker 3: like when I like sometimes and obviously like I love 766 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,560 Speaker 3: talking about the journey and all that, But when I 767 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,839 Speaker 3: I'll do like specific sports shows and they're like, oh, 768 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,760 Speaker 3: like we want to talk about like your your experiences 769 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:27,800 Speaker 3: in the sports world. 770 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 4: Like you wouldn't ask Colin to do that. 771 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 3: You would want to know what he thought about, you know, 772 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,439 Speaker 3: the topics that are going on in sports today. 773 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 4: So I wish people would ask my opinion more. 774 00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 1: All right, if your interview and enjoy yes, yes, And 775 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,880 Speaker 1: if there's any opinions that you haven't expressed with us 776 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,839 Speaker 1: today that you want to share, come right on. We 777 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: are ready, We are listening. 778 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 3: We are captive audience say we support some own biles. 779 00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:54,399 Speaker 4: We support you. You are the goat. 780 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 3: No amounts of stress or mental health issues or any 781 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:03,200 Speaker 3: of that changes what you've accomplished. We still love you 782 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 3: and we're still supporting you through the rest of the 783 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,200 Speaker 3: Olympics and beyond. 784 00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 4: Nothing's changed. 785 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,880 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, period. 786 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 1: All right, the most embarrassing thing you've ever done to 787 00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 1: get a CRUSH's attention. 788 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 3: Is maybe like go through and like periodically like their 789 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,800 Speaker 3: pictures on Instagram. 790 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:27,919 Speaker 2: And years ago. 791 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:29,399 Speaker 4: Not no, not that far. 792 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:33,839 Speaker 3: Okay, we're still looking, but we're just we're scrolling a 793 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,399 Speaker 3: little softer so we don't double tap. Yeah, I'm sure 794 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 3: I've done something more embarrassing, but yeah, I mean it's 795 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 3: so it's so much honestly easier, but like you can 796 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,000 Speaker 3: be so much more strategic about getting a crushious attention 797 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:51,879 Speaker 3: now because of social media. But yeah, that's just that's 798 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,920 Speaker 3: pretty embarrassing to like, like I'm gonna like this, like 799 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,919 Speaker 3: comment some weird thing, and then like I'll like send 800 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 3: them a meme like I like, maybe I'll I think 801 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:05,240 Speaker 3: I'm funny. 802 00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 2: That's cute, that's cute. 803 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:10,200 Speaker 5: Support I think so I'm also cheesy, So don't think much. 804 00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,759 Speaker 4: Well, I'm there, I'm best all this. I'm the wrong 805 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:13,759 Speaker 4: person I ask. 806 00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 5: And now our last sentence completion for you is what 807 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 5: do you love most about yourself? Or what I love 808 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:22,160 Speaker 5: most about myself? 809 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 4: Is what I love most about myself is. 810 00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:31,480 Speaker 3: I have really learned how to forgive myself, which is 811 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:33,960 Speaker 3: something that I struggled with for a long time. I'd 812 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:38,680 Speaker 3: be really hard on myself for mistakes and not like 813 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:42,280 Speaker 3: take the time to process it and allow other people 814 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 3: to take advantage of me being in a vulnerable space 815 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 3: because I haven't forgiven myself. 816 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 4: So I think at this point in. 817 00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 3: My life being the woman that I am. You know, 818 00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 3: we all struggle with confidence. We all struggle with, you know, 819 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:59,719 Speaker 3: being hard on ourselves, hating our bodies, making decisions and 820 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,279 Speaker 3: then feeling bad about them, especially when it comes to 821 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,319 Speaker 3: you know, dating and things like that. And I really 822 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 3: struggle with that for a long time because I have 823 00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 3: high expectations of myself. But I also you know, you 824 00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 3: get into moments where you're emotional, or you've made decisions 825 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 3: and you trust people and they betray you or all. 826 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 4: These things happen, and we tend to be really like 827 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,799 Speaker 4: what did we do? What's what did I do? 828 00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 3: And I do think that that accountability and self awareness 829 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:26,400 Speaker 3: are very important. Nothing is, you know, as that simple. 830 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 3: There's always some nuance. I could have done this better, 831 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 3: I could be better here. I need to be better 832 00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 3: at communicating. I need to be more you know, transparent 833 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 3: or less transparent. You know, I do think that you 834 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 3: should always be evolving. But I really struggled with being 835 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 3: really hard on myself for decisions for a long time. 836 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 3: And I love that now I can, you know, talk 837 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 3: to my therapist about it. I can look at why 838 00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 3: I made that decision. I can evaluate, you know, how 839 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 3: I can either stop doing that moving forward, or why 840 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,400 Speaker 3: is it that I did that and what do I 841 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,760 Speaker 3: need to heal so that I don't do that moving forward? 842 00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 3: Or you know it just accepted for the experience and 843 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 3: learn from it. 844 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,360 Speaker 4: And now it's just a memory and. 845 00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 3: A story that you have, and it's part of your 846 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 3: the fabric of your you know, your journey. 847 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 4: So I love that I have. 848 00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:14,239 Speaker 3: I've learned and developed that skill to be able to 849 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,240 Speaker 3: make decisions and feel confident about it. It is a mistake, 850 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 3: learn from it, and just never stop trying to heal 851 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 3: yourself and never stop trying to grow and understanding that 852 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 3: change is an inevitable part of life. So how you 853 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 3: adapt to change, how you embrace change, how you embrace 854 00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 3: change on your body as a woman, your mentality as 855 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 3: a woman, you know, decisions you made in college. 856 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,080 Speaker 4: You might not be making now why did you make them? 857 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 4: Then it's okay. 858 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,920 Speaker 3: And you don't have to hold yourself to anyone else's 859 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 3: standards or anyone else's expectations, or anyone else's idea of you. 860 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,920 Speaker 3: Other people's idea of you is not your responsibility. So 861 00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:53,839 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, you're the one who 862 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,839 Speaker 3: looks yourself in the mirror, You're the one that talks 863 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,359 Speaker 3: to God. You're the one that has to live with 864 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,799 Speaker 3: your decisions and who you are are, And you don't. 865 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,319 Speaker 4: Actually have to explain yourself to anyone. 866 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,239 Speaker 3: And I think that's a that's a lifelong journey that 867 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 3: everyone goes through, but I think particularly with women, with 868 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 3: the pressures that we have, you know, physically, emotionally, societal pressures, 869 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,919 Speaker 3: expectations of what we're supposed to look like and think 870 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:20,440 Speaker 3: like and talk like and be like and date like 871 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 3: and just let it all go. 872 00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:23,760 Speaker 4: None of it matters. 873 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,080 Speaker 3: At the end of the day, what do you think 874 00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,879 Speaker 3: about yourself and what do the people that love you 875 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 3: feel about you and where you are and your journey 876 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 3: and how you're treating them. 877 00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 4: It's the most important. 878 00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 1: That's so beautiful. I love all of it. Like lady, 879 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,880 Speaker 1: you might have to press pause and rewind and listen 880 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 1: to responds one more time twice to make sure you 881 00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 1: soak it all up. 882 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,280 Speaker 5: So George is preaching it, preach Tuesday or Friday wherever 883 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 5: whenever we air. 884 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 4: This is a beautiful sisterhood. You know each other? 885 00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 5: Yes, okay? So speaking of sisterhood? Are last sort of 886 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 5: activity for you is we want to share a picture. 887 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 5: And I was trying to which hose three. I'm trying 888 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:06,880 Speaker 5: to bait which one we're gonna show you? But how 889 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:08,520 Speaker 5: about you just pick a number and then we'll just 890 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 5: go to whatever one? 891 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,279 Speaker 2: Oh? Okay, number two? The number two? 892 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 5: This photo tell us about And if you're tuning in, 893 00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 5: you gotta go to Patron to get the videos. 894 00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 2: You can see Joy talk about this photo. 895 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 5: Joy tell us what's something we wouldn't know about this 896 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:26,879 Speaker 5: photo just by looking at it? 897 00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,600 Speaker 3: So this is from He Got Game the movie to 898 00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 3: Senzel's character from He Got Game. And I love Halloween. 899 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 3: Halloween is my favorite holiday. So I always go all 900 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 3: in on my podcast. 901 00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 4: As you can see. For some reason, I've always dressed 902 00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:42,879 Speaker 4: as a man. 903 00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:44,359 Speaker 2: I don't know. 904 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 3: I was a Pacino's character from a given Sunday the 905 00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 3: year before and then the year before that, I was 906 00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:55,960 Speaker 3: Larry David from Curb Your Enthusiasm. Oh so I don't know, 907 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:58,799 Speaker 3: I always dress like a guy, but yeah, so I 908 00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,839 Speaker 3: am Jake Shuttle's Worth from He Got Game Here, and 909 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 3: so I always do that character. I always do like 910 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,320 Speaker 3: a funny character and then I'll do like the sexy. 911 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 4: One when I go out. So so yeah, so this 912 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:11,319 Speaker 4: is what it was. 913 00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,400 Speaker 3: This is a podcast and I actually I did the 914 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:19,239 Speaker 3: interview on this day with LeVar Arrington, who I was 915 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 3: filling in with on Speak for Yourself Today, and he 916 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 3: had no idea what was going on, and he just 917 00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 3: came into the podcast and was like, what is happening there? 918 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 4: What's going on? 919 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's what it is. So I love Halloween. 920 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 3: It's my favorite holiday. And I always always try to 921 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:38,440 Speaker 3: go all in and get a good funny sports character 922 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 3: or like television character for the podcast is relevant. 923 00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 4: And then I'll do it. I'll do a sexy costume. 924 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:49,640 Speaker 1: Yes, we love it and we look forward to seeing 925 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 1: who you will be this Halloween. 926 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:53,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 927 00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:58,680 Speaker 1: So Joy, we want to thank you so much for 928 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: your time, energy and expertise and all the amazing gems 929 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: that you shared with us today. Where can people find 930 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: you on social media? 931 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,920 Speaker 4: You can follow me on Joy's at Joy Taylor talks 932 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 4: on Instagram and Twitter. 933 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 3: I don't really use Snapchat, but I'm on there if 934 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 3: you want to follow, and TikTok, which I will one 935 00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 3: day figure out how to use propperly. And then you 936 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,320 Speaker 3: can watch the show The Herd weekdays noon to three 937 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 3: on FS One. 938 00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 4: We are retooling the podcast, so we'll have. 939 00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:34,520 Speaker 3: A relaunch soon for that and then when football season starts, 940 00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 3: I have a lot of things going on, so you 941 00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 3: can always check out my website or again follow me 942 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,160 Speaker 3: on social media for things to look out for. 943 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:42,840 Speaker 2: Yay, we love it. 944 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 5: Thank you so much, Joy, And we just want to 945 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,959 Speaker 5: tell you that we have an audience of black women 946 00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 5: across the globe and we hope that you kind of 947 00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 5: get our vibe of how we do the podcast, what 948 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,320 Speaker 5: our mission is, and so we'd love to know, based 949 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,320 Speaker 5: on your experience today, who would you recommend us interview 950 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 5: next and would you be open to making introduction someone 951 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 5: that you're like, you know what they will be perfect 952 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 5: for this show. 953 00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:08,440 Speaker 3: Well, my best friend mj Acosta, we went to college together. 954 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,480 Speaker 3: She lives in Los Angeles now. She is the first 955 00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,320 Speaker 3: Afro Latino woman to host a show at NFL Network, 956 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:20,000 Speaker 3: and she is also currently covering the Olympics right now 957 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:24,759 Speaker 3: for NBC so on her turf. She's hosting that for 958 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:29,320 Speaker 3: NBC along with her show NFL Total Access on NFL Network. 959 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 3: And she is an amazing story and an amazing woman. 960 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,320 Speaker 3: And I would be happy to make the introduction. 961 00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:36,560 Speaker 4: Yes, thank you so much. 962 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 2: We love it. 963 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:40,399 Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much for having me. I really 964 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 4: appreciate it. 965 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,240 Speaker 2: You're so welcome. 966 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: Joy. 967 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,320 Speaker 4: Yes, thank you. 968 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 6: Hey lady, It's Terry here from the Cultivating her Space podcast. 969 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,759 Speaker 6: I'm hosting a free podcasting masterclass where I'm going to 970 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,399 Speaker 6: teach you how to create your impactful podcast and how 971 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,480 Speaker 6: you can generate multiple streams of income. You can visit 972 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:02,719 Speaker 6: Podcast with Terry to register for free. I hope to 973 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:03,320 Speaker 6: see you there. 974 00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:09,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us today. Please note that our show 975 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:15,440 Speaker 1: may contain conversations about self help, advice, self empowerment, and 976 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,680 Speaker 1: mental health, but is by no means meant to be 977 00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:23,000 Speaker 1: a substitute for an ongoing formal relationship with a trained 978 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 1: mental health provider. If you are someone you know is 979 00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 1: in need of mental health care. Please visit a Therapy 980 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:36,400 Speaker 1: for Black Girls directory Psychology today or contact your insurance provider. 981 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 5: If you liked what you heard and want to keep 982 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:43,640 Speaker 5: the conversation going, visit our website, cultivatinghirspace dot com and 983 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 5: be sure to click the Patreon tab to get access 984 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 5: to video content, bonuses, and our weekly after show and 985 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 5: before we meet again, repeat after me. Greatness is my birthright, 986 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,480 Speaker 5: so I no longer ask for permission,