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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey everybody, Brian Austin Green here. Obviously I am not

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Speaker 2: Tori Spelling, but I'm filling in for her this week

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Speaker 2: and tonight we're kind of peeling back the curtain. I

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Speaker 2: guess on on Masked Singer, a show that I've done,

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Speaker 2: a show that Tory did, and we're talking to a

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Speaker 2: couple who was just revealed as the Croissants in the

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Speaker 2: last episode. They are the two heads of the family

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Speaker 2: from the show Chrisly knows best. I've become friends with

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Speaker 2: their daughter, and so I say, we we get.

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Speaker 3: Right into it. They're they're kind of dynamic there. They

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Speaker 3: do this.

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Speaker 2: Drama filled reality show. So let's let's continue that here.

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Speaker 2: So let's welcome them. Todd and Julie Christly, How.

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Speaker 4: Are you, buddy? How are you both doing good? Doing good?

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Speaker 3: Thank you so thank you so much for being here

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Speaker 3: with me. This is amazing, This is really fun.

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Speaker 4: For having us. This is so crazy because we were

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Speaker 4: expecting Tori.

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Speaker 2: I yeahs as was I an apparent, and I mean,

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Speaker 2: clearly I am not Tory Spooning.

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Speaker 3: I'm taller than she is.

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Speaker 5: But this morning, Brian, I was laying there in the

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Speaker 5: bed when I was waking up and I was scrolling

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Speaker 5: through my Instagram and it was you doing an interview

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Speaker 5: with someone on a sofa about someone you had dated

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Speaker 5: in the past.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Dion Cole, Yes, yeah, and now here you are

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Speaker 2: on this today, So that's crazy. Yeah, yeah, that was

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Speaker 2: That was a really fun That was a really fun show.

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Speaker 3: I had a great time to doing that.

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Speaker 2: So for before we get into Mass Singer, I've done

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Speaker 2: Mass Singer as well, so we've we've got a lot

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Speaker 2: in common there, and I'm so curious to uh, to

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Speaker 2: ask you about the experience of it, because it's a

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Speaker 2: whirlwind experience.

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Speaker 3: I had such a crazy time doing it.

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Speaker 6: And then you did Special Forces with Savannah.

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Speaker 3: That's what I was just gonna say.

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Speaker 2: I met your daughter and I did Special Forces with her,

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Speaker 2: and she is fantastic.

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Speaker 5: She is.

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Speaker 2: You two did such an amazing job raising her. We

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Speaker 2: I always talk about the fact that, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: politics right now are so they're so partisan, and they

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Speaker 2: they're so divisive, and Savannah and I have very different

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Speaker 2: political beliefs and ideas, but it didn't matter. We we

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Speaker 2: developed this amazing friendship and and we we spoke.

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Speaker 3: We just loved each other. I I love her.

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Speaker 2: She's so she's so kind of I haven't spoken to

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Speaker 2: her in a while, so please please tell her.

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Speaker 3: I said, oh, that was.

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Speaker 5: What she came back from that show and said about you.

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Speaker 5: So that is the That is so crazy because she

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Speaker 5: said who was on there? And she told me and

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Speaker 5: I said, oh, my god, I loved him nine o

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Speaker 5: two one oh and uh, he goes, daddy, the nicest

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Speaker 5: human being you will ever meet.

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Speaker 4: So she wonderful things to say about you.

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Speaker 3: That's great to hear.

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Speaker 2: That makes me feel good, like that's people that are

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Speaker 2: people that are on the same on the same page

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Speaker 2: and want to spread that. That's that's fantastic. So let's

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Speaker 2: talk Let's talk a little bit about now, singer. You

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Speaker 2: guys were the croissants, Yes, yeah, was that your choice?

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Speaker 4: That costume?

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Speaker 5: They gave us some options, but when they ausgressed the croissant,

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Speaker 5: it was it was kind of like a nod in

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Speaker 5: a wink for us. Because Savannah's former fiance who was

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Speaker 5: killed on a motorcycle accident, he was French and he

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Speaker 5: had passed away while we were gone, and he was

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Speaker 5: like another son to me. And so when I saw that.

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Speaker 5: It was like God saying to me, Nick's gonna be

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, it was. It was a sweet moment.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And the costumes were so like, they do such an

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Speaker 1: amazing job with the costumes.

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Speaker 3: There's an amazing job. Amazing.

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Speaker 2: So I was here in the States. I was a giraffe,

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Speaker 2: which seemed really great. So it's fun. It's deceiving for me,

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Speaker 2: at least the show because it's I'm not a.

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Speaker 3: Singer, or either of you a singer.

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Speaker 1: It all Todd Kins saying he did a song with

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Speaker 4: Now, okay, but I am not.

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Speaker 6: At all so at all.

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Speaker 2: I remember going into it and at first I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh man, I got to sing in front of people.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about this. And then

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden you realize, oh, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: I get to kind of hide behind something. And then

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Speaker 2: all of a sudden you're out on stage and you're

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Speaker 2: wearing like, for me, I have this nine.

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Speaker 3: Foot crazy giraffe costume.

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Speaker 2: You guys, the croissants were these big, wide costumes.

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Speaker 3: It's it's It was shocking.

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Speaker 2: For me how fast you go from I'm excited about

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Speaker 2: this because I get to be anonymous to oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I can barely see the floor as I'm walking now.

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Speaker 3: It's way more nervous than if I was just standing

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Speaker 3: by myself well with my real.

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Speaker 1: Last too, that once the mask comes off, then you

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Speaker 1: have to sing again.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was looking around, like we gotta sing again. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what the mask is off? Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not a singer and I've been friends with

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Speaker 2: Robin Fixed since we were kids, and I the last

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Speaker 2: song that I sang on the show was get Down

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Speaker 2: on It, and so we we did the unmasking and

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Speaker 2: then I had to sing the song again, and I

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Speaker 2: he sang it as well with me, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I do not belong here.

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Speaker 2: I think it's wrong right now because I'm entertaining people

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Speaker 2: singing and I can tell everybody's cringing as I hit notes.

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Speaker 6: You know, did he know it was you?

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Speaker 3: No, he had no idea. So I got really lucky.

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Speaker 2: They they kind of went around and they guessed a

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Speaker 2: few people that were close but they but nobody ever guessed.

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Speaker 3: Now, Jenny guessed you guys right away, right, yes she did.

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Speaker 4: But we've known Jenny for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, do you think that had something to do

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Speaker 4: I do.

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Speaker 5: I think I think that had a lot to do

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Speaker 5: I and my biggest concern when we were doing this,

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Speaker 5: I said, Jenny's going to figure this out right away.

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Speaker 5: As soon as I speak, she's gonna know.

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Speaker 4: And sure enough she did.

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Speaker 1: After watching it back when I heard him sing, like,

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Speaker 1: of course I knew, but it sounded familiar. I don't

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Speaker 1: think like they disguised it enough and he has such

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Speaker 6: That it just I think it was. It was kind

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Speaker 2: It's it's amazing though, the secrecy around that is, and

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Speaker 2: it's the whole for people that don't know. They they

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Speaker 2: pick you up in like a blacked out suv. They

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Speaker 2: have the hoodie with the mirrored mask and the gloves

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Speaker 2: and the pants and the whole thing, and you have

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Speaker 6: I know we were like, what is this?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: It is it?

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Speaker 2: Like the government needs to take a cue from the

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Speaker 2: way that the show. It is unbelievable, the secrecy, the

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Speaker 2: things they get away with.

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Speaker 3: And they've been doing it now for what this is?

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Speaker 3: Like what the fourteenth season I think of the show.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Unbelievable fourteenth for fourteen seasons. And I've never once had

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Speaker 2: heard of any sort of leak on that show either

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Speaker 2: either they do. I remember when I was on, I

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Speaker 2: was super excited because I thought I recognized one of

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Speaker 2: and then they were eliminated, so I was I was excited.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm going to get to see

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Speaker 2: black right before the the unmasking. I was heartbroken.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, damn, you mass Singer, you got

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Speaker 5: I was watching the thing on Instagram the other day

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Speaker 5: and it was one of our friends from Nashville.

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Speaker 4: He was talking about.

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Speaker 5: The mass singer and I'm like, oh my god, who

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Speaker 5: were theyre?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's Tiffany.

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Speaker 5: Tiffany had she had heard her mask taken off last

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Speaker 5: night and and I was like, So, I was like,

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Speaker 5: damn it, Love, I wanted to be able to see.

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Speaker 3: I know that that was the thing.

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Speaker 2: Like, I was such a fan of the dude that

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Speaker 2: so people think that all of the celebrities were all

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Speaker 3: We're not. We are all in our like.

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Speaker 2: Solo trailers by ourselves all day long, and you're like,

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Speaker 2: they knock on the door and you have ten minutes

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Speaker 2: relief for me, honestly, was the point when I was

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Speaker 2: was I missed you feel like you know, like like

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Speaker 2: you have some sort of like a disease.

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Speaker 3: It felt like COVID times.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it really did it, and I was so it

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Speaker 5: was so outside of our norm Brian, because our show

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Speaker 5: is very controlled, you know, not the ones around us.

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Speaker 5: It's not supposed to be around us. We've got the

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Speaker 5: same crew that we've always had, and then here we

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Speaker 5: were in another place on a lot. Now, you know,

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Speaker 5: I've done other shows and I've dealt with that, but

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Speaker 5: this one was a whole other level because it's almost

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Speaker 5: like you have no social interaction. You stuck in your trailer.

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Speaker 2: The producer comes to your door and you're like, oh

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Speaker 2: thank god, I can speak right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh it's the it's the worst.

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 2: I found myself every time I would walk into a

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Speaker 3: Like can I show my face to this person? You

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Speaker 3: It's been a great year for us. She's getting reaccustomed

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Speaker 4: I came home and made the twenty eighth.

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 6: You know, whereas you're.

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Speaker 1: It's like, no one can know what it was like

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Speaker 5: that have happened you in your life.

446
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Speaker 4: And I have had a very blessed life.

447
00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 5: But when I'm listening to these other kids out here,

448
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 5: you know that are the same age as my children,

449
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 5: and I hear that, you know, they never had a

450
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,679
Speaker 5: father at home, or their mother gave them up for

451
00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:25,439
Speaker 5: adoption or left them with her their grandparents or whatever.

452
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 5: And I think I have had such a good life,

453
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 5: you know, when I listen to these other stories. But

454
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 5: I think that when we are vulnerable to the situations

455
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 5: that we're in, it opens us up to being more.

456
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 4: Receptive for sure.

457
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,840
Speaker 5: And you know, and I say that about pologists, you know,

458
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 5: if we would all just take the time to be quiet,

459
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 5: to listen, every person has something to say and what

460
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,159
Speaker 5: they what they're saying is coming from a place of

461
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Speaker 5: what they've experienced, and everyone's experiences were different.

462
00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:12,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, Savannah and I had that conversation early on.

463
00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 3: So we it was funny.

464
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 2: We were in New Zealand and they put us up

465
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Speaker 2: in these in these hotels and we were there for

466
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: like two days before the whole thing started, and we

467
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 2: were all supposed to stay in our rooms, so nobody

468
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 2: knew who else was there, and of course she.

469
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:31,719
Speaker 4: Was the band.

470
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 2: I didn't stay any right, no, of course not. It

471
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 2: was so it's funny. It was Jojo Siwa, who who

472
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:43,360
Speaker 2: I'd known before. She was in the gym, and someone

473
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 2: had left a map of the property and then rooms

474
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 2: were circled with initials on them. So she starts deducting

475
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 2: these initials, who like, who are the names that match

476
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: up with them? And there was like bag So she

477
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 2: was like, okay, oh my god, Brian's here, and so

478
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 2: she started putting it all together and then we ended

479
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 2: up having kind of these We would sort of pass

480
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 2: each other.

481
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 3: On the paths as we were walking around the property.

482
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,439
Speaker 2: So Savannah and I like very quickly got into a

483
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 2: conversation not just about politics, but very much about our

484
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 2: kind of beliefs in society and the people that were

485
00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 2: around us, and the information that we had and what

486
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 2: we had and didn't have, and it was it ended

487
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: up being this very we had a common bond in

488
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,959
Speaker 2: the fact that neither one of us knew all the

489
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: information from the other side. And it wasn't until we

490
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 2: sat and we just listened to each other without judging

491
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:45,239
Speaker 2: each other that it was really informative and you end

492
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: up learning something or the other person learned something and

493
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 2: you and you leave the situation, you go, Okay, we're

494
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 2: just two We're two people that have been informed in

495
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 2: different ways, but we still love our family and like

496
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 2: we still are passionate about the things that we're passionate about.

497
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: And we shared these common you know, these common sort

498
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: of moral moral beliefs, and and I think I think

499
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 2: if more people got into those conversations with each other,

500
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 2: this country would be a very different country than what

501
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: you know.

502
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 5: I agree with you, I told I told Savannah we

503
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,919
Speaker 5: were talking last week, and I said, listen, you and

504
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 5: I don't agree on everything. I'm not going to say

505
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,239
Speaker 5: all the things that you want to hear. You're not

506
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 5: going to say all the things that I want to hear.

507
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 5: But as your father, we're going to agree to listen

508
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 5: to each other open dialogue. And and when I say

509
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 5: certain things to her, you can tell she wants to

510
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 5: push back. But then, Brian, you can see her that

511
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 5: wall coming down a little bit, and she'll say, well,

512
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,440
Speaker 5: and then what was in a couple of weeks I

513
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 5: heard someone said, well, Savanna told me that you told

514
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 5: her so, and so, and I said, oh really, I said,

515
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 5: I didn't know that she'd heard that. And so, you know,

516
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 5: we all have the ability to be either a blessing

517
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,119
Speaker 5: or a hindrance. And I'm not looking to hinder your

518
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 5: path that your on. If I can help you, then

519
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 5: I'll help you. I don't want to hurt you. Yes,

520
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 5: you know, I am a Christian and my values are

521
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 5: that you are my brother in Christ. And regardless of

522
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 5: how you feel about who you voted for, what you

523
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 5: do in your career are choices.

524
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 4: That you have made or who you love.

525
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 5: My job as a Christian is to wrap my arms

526
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 5: around you and love you as my brother in Christ,

527
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 5: not to judge you. And if we can all, if

528
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 5: we could all just look at each other as just

529
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 5: fellow human beings, as family, as our own brothers and

530
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 5: sisters in Christ, I feel like that all the anger

531
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 5: starts to dissipate and and we start seeing each other

532
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 5: as human beings.

533
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:08,239
Speaker 2: Right, Absolutely, I a thousand percent agree with that. There

534
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 2: there are differences in everything. Everyone has different religious views,

535
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 2: different political views, different, but it doesn't mean that we

536
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: are different, that we are different as human beings. We

537
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 2: all share that we're all the same species. We all

538
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 2: have the ability to choose the way we listen and

539
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: respond to people. I always say, like the I genuinely

540
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: feel like the only control that I have in life.

541
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 2: And you guys know, like you just you just got

542
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 2: out of out of prison. Did you in a million

543
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 2: years ever see that coming? But that's out of our control.

544
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: The only thing that is in my control is are

545
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,639
Speaker 2: the choices that I make who I choose to be

546
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 2: while living life. Life is going to be up and

547
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 2: down and sideways, and it's going to be incredibly exciting

548
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 2: and enjoyable, and then I'm going to have times where

549
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 2: it's just incredibly hard and difficult and depressing and sad.

550
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 2: Who do I want to be during all of that?

551
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 4: Those?

552
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 3: To me, that's what I have control over.

553
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 6: And what are your children going to see? Your children?

554
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 6: That's what you want your children to see.

555
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 3: Because there's my legacy.

556
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: Nothing that my children can do that I'm that's going

557
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: to make me stop loving them another that grow up

558
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: and have it believe exactly the way I believe, or

559
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: believe polar opposite and do completely opposite.

560
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 6: I will yes voice my opinion.

561
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,239
Speaker 1: I don't think this is a good idea or I

562
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 1: really wish you would consider this, but it's not going

563
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: to change how I feel about them, and I'm going

564
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: to love them through it.

565
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,879
Speaker 5: And you know, I don't want to be in a

566
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 5: room that everyone thinks the same way.

567
00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 4: No, of course not, because then there's no growth.

568
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 5: And sure, some of my greatest growth and some of

569
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 5: my greatest education has come from conversations with someone that

570
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 5: believes totally opposite of what I believe. In a lot

571
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 5: of my compassion and my mind has been opened to

572
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 5: so many conversations that I've had with people that if

573
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 5: I'd been sitting in the same room with Julie and

574
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 5: we think the exact same way, then I don't think

575
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 5: about what I'm just what I'm trying to talk to.

576
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 4: You about right now.

577
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 5: I want to know what your struggle has been. I

578
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 5: want to know so that if I run across someone

579
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 5: that's going through that same struggle, I'm now more equipped

580
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 5: to help that person get through their level of path

581
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 5: I think I think.

582
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: Prison really did that in a way to us, because

583
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: we were exposed to people that we would have probably

584
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: never be around in our entire life, you know, I

585
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 1: mean never had you had other people who you know,

586
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: it was they were in there for a white collar crime,

587
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: but then you had these kids that have been in

588
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: there for drugs and other things, you know, stuff we

589
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,719
Speaker 1: would just have never around. But it totally when you

590
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: walk through those doors, and Titus said this, it is

591
00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: the greatest equalization tool that we have in this country

592
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: because when you walk through those doors. Yeah, I walked

593
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: out of a beautiful home, out of a nice car,

594
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: and I checked myself in. But when I walked through

595
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: those doors, I'm no different than anybody else.

596
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 4: You're a number. You're a number.

597
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 6: We all become our own reg number, you know.

598
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 4: Right.

599
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 1: That was very eye opening and I think there was

600
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: growth for me at fifty years old to think that

601
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: I could I could actually I've always thought of myself

602
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: as being open minded, but really and truly was I.

603
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 6: You know, I lived in this bubble.

604
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: You know, I've had this beautiful life, and I think

605
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 1: until you are forced to live.

606
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 6: In it, it totally changes your perspective.

607
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 5: And you know, at the end of the day, if

608
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,239
Speaker 5: you have Brian, you're in a room and you're and

609
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 5: you're with fifty other guys, and thirty of you are

610
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 5: eating and twenty of you are not are you looking

611
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 5: at those twenty that are not eating and saying I'm

612
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 5: not going to feed you because you're a Democrat, or

613
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 5: because you're a Republican.

614
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 6: Or because you're black, or you're a Latino or this.

615
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 4: It should be that my brother is hungry.

616
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 5: So I want to share what I have with you,

617
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 5: and that is That's what I want the world to be.

618
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 4: Because I have future grandchildren coming.

619
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 5: I want my grandchildren to love who they love and

620
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 5: to feel loved. I want grandchildren to be good, decent,

621
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 5: honorable human beings with servants' hearts and that has compassion

622
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 5: for their fellow brothers and sisters. That doesn't mean that

623
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 5: because you know you wore red and I hate red,

624
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 5: that I.

625
00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 4: Can't be your friend. It doesn't mean that because you've dated.

626
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 5: Someone that I don't like, that that means I don't

627
00:30:56,720 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 5: like you. It just means that, Brian, that you're that

628
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 5: you're down with eyeing down with her. So, because I

629
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 5: love you, I'm won't put up with this ship.

630
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 4: But do it, do it right? Yeah, bring her around

631
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 4: me and smiles.

632
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll give I'm going to give you my opinion

633
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 2: on this, but it's just my opinion. I'm not going

634
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 2: to state it like it's a fact and like you

635
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: have to change your life because of my opinion on it.

636
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 2: But it's you know, toal what you're talking about. That

637
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 2: is to me, that is a legacy. Like I, you know,

638
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: the the world that my children and my grandchildren have

639
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 2: after I'm gone, for them to be sitting and talking about,

640
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: Oh my.

641
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 3: God, what a great human being.

642
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 2: And I learned so much about decency and kindness and

643
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 2: self awareness and those things that I didn't learn from

644
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 2: anybody else. And and he just continued to push those

645
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 2: on me. That is That's the beauty of being to me,

646
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: being a parent.

647
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 5: Knowing that I'm doing that it is And you know,

648
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 5: and we have friends that you know that are in

649
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 5: politics and you and I and I say to them,

650
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 5: I don't care who's in the White House. Who's in

651
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 5: the White House doesn't govern what's going on in my house. Yeah,

652
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 5: goes on in my house with my children is what

653
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 5: I'm putting out into the world. My children is what

654
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 5: I'm putting out in the world. The message that I

655
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 5: instill in them is what I'm putting out in the world.

656
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 4: So if you.

657
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 5: Felt like that Biden was the shittiest president on the

658
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 5: face of the earth. He really didn't have any control

659
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 5: over you parenting your children.

660
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 4: That's what you're putting into your child.

661
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 5: If you think that President Trump is the shittiest president

662
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 5: in the world, he's not controlling what's going on in

663
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 5: your house and what you're pumping into your child. He

664
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 5: does none of these None of these men, these are men,

665
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 5: These are not gods. None of these men have control

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Speaker 5: over your heart and you being willing to extend a

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Speaker 5: hand to your brother and sister. That's down that just

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Speaker 5: because they don't want you to do it doesn't mean

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Speaker 5: you don't that you can't do it.

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Speaker 4: True. So that's how that's how I live.

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't get marred down in the mud

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Speaker 5: of oh my god, you voted for this person, or

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Speaker 5: you voted for this person. You don't know who I

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Speaker 5: voted for. First of all, I didn't vote because I

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Speaker 5: was in prisident. I didn't have the opportunity right, So

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Speaker 5: they can't nobody blame shit on me about.

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Speaker 4: Break I was not inside.

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Speaker 2: I would actually like to claim immunity on this one.

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Speaker 4: Vote.

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Speaker 5: And I you know, I listen. I love President Trump.

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Speaker 5: He's been wonderful to our family. He reunited us and

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Speaker 5: he did a wonderful But as I said, President Trump

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Speaker 5: doesn't agree with everything that I do, and he doesn't

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Speaker 5: have to and I don't have to agree with everything

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Speaker 5: he does, or Biden or Obama or.

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Speaker 4: Clinton, who the hell ever's in the office.

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Speaker 5: I personally felt like that I didn't understand why President

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Speaker 5: Trump wanted to be president because the White House was

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Speaker 5: a downsize to him.

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Speaker 4: So he was he was already living better in New

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Speaker 4: York than when he's living in the White House.

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Speaker 5: So you know, for me, I'm grateful for everything that

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Speaker 5: has happened to me in my life, the good, the bad,

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Speaker 5: and the indifferent, because every dose of it is what

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Speaker 5: truly created what my life is becoming.

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Speaker 4: And I'm grateful for that.

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Speaker 3: Amazing I we share very similar views. I feel the

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Speaker 3: same way.

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Speaker 4: Well, it has been a pleasure, Brian.

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Speaker 2: It has been unbelievable. Yeah, thank you so much for

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Speaker 2: jumping on. I'm sorry again. I'm sorry that I'm not Tori.

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Speaker 2: I hope that wasn't any disappointment for you guys.

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Speaker 3: Fantastic surprise. You guys were great on the show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for entertaining everyone with your appearance on Mass

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Speaker 2: Singer and thank you for being on here and please

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Speaker 2: send my love to your daughter.

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Speaker 3: I want to thank you, God bless Thank you guys,