1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:00,840 Speaker 1: It is the Fred Show. 2 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 2: Good Morning, one O three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number 3 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 2: one hit music station. We're playing bills all day to day, 4 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: thirteen chances at one thousand bucks. You have to listen 5 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 2: to us eight oh five the first keyword to get 6 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: that money. Also, Amy wither Right, our girl from one 7 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 2: eight hundred truck Crek is what are we? 8 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 1: Who are you paying? This time? 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 2: I was still moms. Okay, it's amazing, Moms all this month. 10 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 2: One thousand bucks. You know it won't be a thousand bucks. 11 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: You know it'd be way more than that because Amy, 12 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 2: that's Amy, don't fallow the rules, and it's her money. 13 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: She can do what she wants. 14 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 2: Tell us why your mom deserves a grand At one 15 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 2: O three five kiss fm dot com, we might be 16 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 2: calling you Friday morning and hooking up your mom thanks 17 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 2: to Amy wither Right and one hundred truck Crek. Also, 18 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,480 Speaker 2: we've got tickets to our Kiss FM Juneteenth Music Festival 19 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: with a chance to stay in this Fred Show crash 20 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: Pad at the Virgin Hotel that I only learned that 21 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: we had recently, and I've never been invited to stay 22 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 2: and said Fred Show Crash Pad before. 23 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's other people, but other people get 24 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: to stay there, so that makes a lot of sense. 25 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: But jun Teenth Music Festival ticketmaster dot com for tickets 26 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 2: a shanty, I don't know how you booked a shawn 27 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 2: ticketsidering you're blocked. 28 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 3: I mean either you know, do. 29 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: You have any idea how you would have gotten blocked? 30 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:09,760 Speaker 4: Uhh. 31 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: I think it's a case of mistaken identity. 32 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: I think she thinks I'm somebody else. 33 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna get it straightened out though, Well if 34 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 1: you're allowed to get close to her. Yeah, Lo Kim 35 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: Maya and Lloyd is going to be there as well. 36 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,120 Speaker 1: So get tickets to ticketmaster dot com or have a 37 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: son at seven fifty five do win tickets all this week? 38 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: Who is the guy Champagneoppy who hit me up yesterday 39 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: Trumpet Poppy? 40 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: What Drake hit me up before as Daniel Champagne Poppy. 41 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: No, No, he's not though he what's his name trumpet. 42 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,839 Speaker 3: Trumpet Poppy, Yeah, trump Poppy. 43 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: Trumpet Poppy. 44 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 2: This is the dude who found an envelope full of 45 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 2: money near UIC's graduation and he went on TikTok and 46 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: he said I got a whole I mean it looked 47 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 2: like hundreds of dollars if somebody's parents gave them in 48 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 2: like a nice note and stuff in there. Anyway, we 49 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: announced yesterday that he was looking for the owner of 50 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: seid Envelope, but I'm not sure how exactly he was 51 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 2: able to confirm it. But he then he emailed me 52 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: yesterday and said, Hey, were you talking about me on 53 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: the radio this morning? And I'm like, as a matter 54 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: of fact, I was Champagne Bobby or Trumpet Pobby or 55 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 2: whatever your name. Yeah, very nice guy. Anyway, he found 56 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 2: the girl and was able to return the money to her, 57 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 2: and there's a video with it, and then he gave 58 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: her something else too. 59 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what it was, but. 60 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: He said to me, I said, hey, that was a 61 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: really classy thing for you to do, and he said, 62 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 2: I'm just doing what any Chicagoan would do. Not sure 63 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 2: about that, Okay, No, I'm pretty sure that I know 64 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: some Chicagoans who would have taken that money. Yes, Like, 65 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: excuse me, is this your money? I tried to find 66 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 2: a person. I tried to find a person whose money 67 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 2: it is. Ye, So he believes that's what any Chicagoan 68 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 2: would do, and I appreciate that. 69 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 3: It's nice of him. Did she break him off something 70 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: for a returning it? 71 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: I don't think so. It didn't look like it. But 72 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 2: you know, look, she's a college graduate. She didn't have 73 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: any money. Her parents probably saved up to give her 74 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 2: that money. M that's true, coming up in Key Key Court. 75 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 3: Really, he gave you your money bag. 76 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 2: He didn't even see my kind of dude. Trumpet Poppy 77 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: doesn't seem like the kind of dude that would that 78 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 2: would even take the money. 79 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 3: He's like, yeah, very for the community. 80 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: He seems like a good dude about offering. But shout 81 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: out to him and go follow him on TikTok. I 82 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: don't know what his content is like. Hopefully it's not unsavory. 83 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 1: I don't actually know. 84 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 2: I just saw the one video he got the money 85 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: back to the college graduate. I'm very excited, and then 86 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 2: he he hit us up to let us know. So 87 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: I take no credit for this. I just appreciate that 88 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: somehow it got back to him that we were trying 89 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 2: to help him in his quest. 90 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 3: You know this guy, I do, yeah, he we're being. 91 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: Cryptic about this guy. Have you dated this man? 92 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 5: No? 93 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 3: I did not date him. 94 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 6: Over here him it's even Honestly, I can't remember if 95 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 6: I went to high school with him or not. As 96 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 6: one of those where I'm like, I've seen your face before. 97 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 6: I was in the hallways of Carrie And I could 98 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 6: be wrong, but I've seen him before. 99 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: I hand this man poppy and in your personal day 100 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: and not. 101 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 6: Call him poppy my personal life. This is this is 102 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 6: a good man. He's very for the community, he's very 103 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 6: for the people. Well, there you go, then then go 104 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 6: follow him. Trumpet poppy. 105 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 1: I think there's more to it, but I don't know 106 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: how many trumpet poppies there are. But they'll get them 107 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: a fun it's the frend. 108 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 3: Show'll wake up up. 109 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 2: Why would Why would I do seventy five to get soft? No, 110 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 2: I would do seventy five to get hard, I guess, 111 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 2: But I wouldn't do seventy five to get. 112 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: I mean I already am. 113 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am soft to medium, so I'm not trying 114 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: to get soft. I mean the seventy five soft he's 115 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: going to Culvert's every day or something like, or you. 116 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: Know, Fred's show is on. How's that going to you? 117 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 6: You know, I think it's somewhere between soft and hard, 118 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 6: like like a medium. So you're a medium, A medium, 119 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 6: which I don't think is a thing. But I made 120 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 6: seventy five medium. So you're walking every day, walking every day, 121 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:44,000 Speaker 6: so every day I read every day a physical book, which. 122 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 3: Has been really hard. 123 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 6: Physical. Wow, I'm an audiobook girls book. Okay, Well do 124 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,039 Speaker 6: you have time to like sit and reading on the 125 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 6: couch like it's it's hard. My mind is in a 126 00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 6: hundred different places. 127 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,080 Speaker 2: I can't just really say yeah, that's all I do 128 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: when I go home. I just I just go home 129 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:58,720 Speaker 2: and read and do legos. That's it, and do legos. 130 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 2: That's it. That's my whole life. Actually, that pretty much 131 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 2: sums it up. Sounds great, And then you want to 132 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 2: was it supposed to be a meal plan of some kind? 133 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 7: Basically? No sugar. 134 00:05:07,520 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 3: I sneak in a little sugar here there. So that's 135 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 3: why I'm medium. 136 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: All right, So she's seventy five medium. Yeah, how you 137 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 2: doing on it? 138 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 5: Oh? 139 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: I'm doing great? 140 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, seventy five medium, Yeah. 141 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 3: Seventy five medium, extra large charge. 142 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so what's your day like? Then it's at least 143 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 2: a three piece from KFC. 144 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 8: No, I don't eat that. I mean a shout out 145 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 8: to KFC. You know, I used to work there, right, 146 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 8: I'm familiar you were. You were the manager of the store. 147 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 8: Now we know you. Nobody could work a drive through 148 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 8: like you. 149 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 3: Right. I think I could still hold it down there too. 150 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 151 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 2: Did you win an award or something for like the 152 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: most efficient drive through time or something? 153 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? 154 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 8: I want all type of certificates. Man, they offered me 155 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 8: my own store. Yeah, you fumbled the bag on that 156 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 8: work here. Yeah, sorry, I might have done that instead. Actually, 157 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 8: you probably make more money now. But what's your daily routine? 158 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 8: Are you reading ten pages a day seventy five hards? 159 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 3: Yes, I read all of our dms. 160 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that those are novels emails. Oh yeah, so 161 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: very long. Yeah that's true. 162 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I do a lot of reading. 163 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. And how about the diet plan on that? 164 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: Oh, the diet plan is very intact. 165 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 8: Yes, on Tuesdays, which is today, I eat a salad 166 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 8: in the office to let everybody know that I'm eating 167 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 8: a salad, so I walk around and shap you will. 168 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wondered why do you walk around with the 169 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 2: salad Like, I'm like, why are you going you know, 170 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 2: position a position making sure everybody knows about it? 171 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 8: Uh huh, Because when I know everyone's in the office, 172 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 8: that's the time to shine. 173 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: But then what do you mean when you leave? 174 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 9: Oh? 175 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 3: When I leave, I eat the salad? Why you in 176 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 3: my business? 177 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 2: I'm wondering what your definition of seventy five hard is, 178 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: and if it's anything like Minie is go to the 179 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: gym for an hour and a half or run around 180 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 2: with Gideon and circles and then order a pizza. And 181 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 2: as far as I'm right now, my backers, as far 182 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 2: as I'm concerned, that's just balance. 183 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 3: It is. 184 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 7: I agree, because before. 185 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: I would have just eating a pizza and I've done 186 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 2: the workout part, so at least now I'm doing both. 187 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 3: Hey, I'm proud of you. I think you're winning the workout. 188 00:06:57,880 --> 00:06:59,600 Speaker 2: Man, I would be I would be on the cover 189 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 2: of Men Health if I didn't eat the pizza after 190 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:02,040 Speaker 2: the workout. 191 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: Seventy five hard. You gotta do better than that to play. 192 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're more of a two fifty Oh okay, 193 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 1: I got him. Stay here go. 194 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 2: Fifty chicken nuggets. I can do that well. Debate some 195 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 2: relationship drama in just a second. The entertainment of Port 196 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 2: Kinki eight hundred bucks new player, Your record's thirty and 197 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 2: four good news stories. 198 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: If we have time, what are you working on for 199 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:27,280 Speaker 1: a fort k? 200 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 7: Kim Kardashian will testify today. 201 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 10: Also, fans are kind of disturbed by an actress saying 202 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 10: she was going to get put through the mattress to 203 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 10: celebrate Mother's Day. 204 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was yeah. 205 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 2: And if I were that guy, I'd be the proudest 206 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 2: guy on the planet. I mean, yes, you can take 207 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: a picture of me because I'm about to hook up 208 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 2: with Halle Berry. 209 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm that guy. I'm him, right, you 210 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: all worried about the pope. Look about what I'm about 211 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: to do. 212 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 3: Okay. 213 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 2: And that's not the guy though that I would have 214 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: thought would be hooking up with Halle Berry. Necessarily you think, so, oh, yeah, 215 00:07:58,920 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: that dude. 216 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: Who is it? Do we know who it is? 217 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 3: I don't know his name, but he find Van Van 218 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 3: oh something. 219 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 7: Yeah. 220 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't think he's hot, but I don't think that's 221 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: just she hooked up a way hotter. 222 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 2: You get a three piece from KFC, can't you. Isn't 223 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 2: that a thing? Yeah, someone's tested me a three piece 224 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 2: from CAFC the question mark. 225 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, that's a thing. 226 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, they have that. Yeah, that's that. That's what I thought. 227 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 2: You know, you know, it might be a little light 228 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 2: for some people. But because I mean maybe you're more 229 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 2: of like a bucket of koc person. But you can 230 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 2: get a three piece little side or something, can't you? 231 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 3: A bucket is insane? But yeah, what is that? Twelve yeah? 232 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 3: Eight piece? Twelve piece? Sixteen piece? How much money? 233 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: Oh? 234 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 3: A bucket? 235 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh my god. 236 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 3: We do catering, well, they do catering. 237 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 2: Maybe you should have taken that location after all, A 238 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: starego in three minutes after got Bruno Marspreads show and 239 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: we're commercial free for the next forty minutes. 240 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: Fread show is on. It's stay or go. 241 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 2: It's gone too far, Bella, It's gone too far. We 242 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 2: obtained an actual photograph of Bella Hamine, our intern who 243 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: if you missed it a few minutes ago. She believes 244 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: that she should be honored as the first daughter of 245 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 2: her hometown in California because her dad is the part 246 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 2: time mayor. And if you go to our instagram Fred 247 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 2: Show Radio, you're gonna see that this is an image 248 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 2: that she posted herself. This is unbelievable. She had a 249 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 2: full on photo shoot and everything The haters are gonna 250 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 2: say it's photoshop because of the hands. 251 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 1: But she has Madley hands, she has manly hands. 252 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 3: And those shoulders, and she's part black. 253 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: Which a lot of people didn't know. I didn't know 254 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 1: that about that. 255 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,560 Speaker 2: But man talk about taking his shine away from her dad, 256 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 2: who's doing the hard work. 257 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: This is crazy. 258 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: This is the image Fred Show Radio was like, last 259 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 2: we grew on this esteemed panel for this international radio 260 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 2: conference they flew us to to We're on this panel, 261 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: and this dude has been listening. We said, more than 262 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: a dude, he's a he too is an esteemed European 263 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: radio manager. 264 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 1: Yeah right, big, big time guy. 265 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 2: And apparently he'd been listening to our show for weeks 266 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:14,839 Speaker 2: and like picking out moments and then use it for 267 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: this this slideshow kind of presentation thing and question and 268 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 2: answer in front of all these radio people from all 269 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 2: over the world. And one of the images he found 270 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: was of Kiki's cord and Kiki has three hands in 271 00:10:26,960 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 2: the image. He's just three hands and one's white or 272 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: two might be white. I'm not even sure. But okay, 273 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 2: here we are. You know, it's like miss you should know, 274 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,320 Speaker 2: you know if you came you're thinking you were going 275 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 2: to get secrets. The secret is we don't have any 276 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 2: money for a graphic designer. That's the secret. 277 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: We don't have to say something. 278 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 3: We we do what we can photographers, none of the videographers. 279 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 1: But I had to just say it. 280 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 2: I had to say just I had to get it 281 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 2: out of the way and say, guys, we're aware that 282 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 2: Kiki has three hands in this. That's that's what we're 283 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 2: working within the United States. Guys, Hey, Amanda, good morning. Well, 284 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 2: hi Amanda, welcome to the show. Welcome to Stay or Go. 285 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: We appreciate your note. What's going on with this boyfriend 286 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: of yours? 287 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: Is his name? 288 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 2: Well, when I'm gonna say his name, but he's been 289 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: around for six months, this boyfriend, Yes, yeah, we've. 290 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 4: Been dating for about six months. And you know, as 291 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 4: a disclaimer, he's not a heavy drinker like whatsoever. But 292 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 4: you know, he does like to go out over the 293 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 4: weekend on his days off, and he does usually getting 294 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 4: he gets really drunk. 295 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: Okay, so what okay? 296 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 2: So the guy, this guy even dating, he doesn't drink 297 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 2: like so what is like not during the week he 298 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 2: doesn't drink, but then when he goes out he beings drinks. 299 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 1: Is that the story? 300 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean, well, the thing is. 301 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:58,599 Speaker 4: That he just turns into a different person when he 302 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 4: starts drinking. And he's you know, he really is such 303 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 4: a kind and considerate boyfriend, but you know, on the 304 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 4: weekends when he drinks, he's just not as sweet, and 305 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 4: he starts like picking fights with me and even like 306 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 4: just people around in the bar. It's just really weird. 307 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 4: Like he gets like overly protective, Like he like he 308 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:24,839 Speaker 4: thinks that guys are flirting with me when they're not. 309 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: He's a tough guy what he's drinking. 310 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:32,679 Speaker 4: I mean, that's the thing is, like I know him 311 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 4: as this big softy, but you know there are times 312 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 4: like where he's even like left me at the bar 313 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 4: and he's gone home like without me, without telling me, 314 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 4: and it seems like he's he found a reason to 315 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 4: be like really mad. I don't know, but the whole 316 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 4: thing is that he doesn't even remember leaving me, you know, 317 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 4: Like I did talk to him about it. It's just 318 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,559 Speaker 4: that he explained that he I don't know if this 319 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 4: is an excuse or not, but he said that he 320 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 4: probably did that because he knows his limits and he 321 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:08,080 Speaker 4: was getting too drunk. 322 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's you know, you would say that. I mean, 323 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: you're his partner. 324 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 2: So if that were the case, and I realized when 325 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 2: you're drinking, you're not necessarily in your right mind. But 326 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: that's something you would say to your partner. You wouldn't 327 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 2: leave your partner somewhere. I mean, that's something I I'm 328 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: the thing of the iris exit when I have met 329 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 2: a little bit too much or whatever, when it's time, 330 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 2: I usually to sneak out, but I don't have anybody 331 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:28,839 Speaker 2: with me. 332 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: I don't leave anybody where we were. You can't do that, right, Like, at. 333 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 4: Least let me know that you know, you need to 334 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 4: go home or something, because I know he would be 335 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 4: so modified did that to him, you know, But like 336 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 4: I said, I mean he he it's not just about 337 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 4: like checking off boxes. But he really is such a 338 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 4: great boyfriend outside of when he drinks. 339 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 3: He's like, it. 340 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,839 Speaker 4: Seems like he's perfect for me other than that, And 341 00:13:57,400 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 4: I don't know, it's just it's not like I would 342 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 4: say he's class right of having a huge drinking problem 343 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 4: because he only drinks like once or twice a weekend. 344 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but if he's drinking and again, not an alcohol substance, 345 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 2: abuse counselor. But if he's drinking to that level once 346 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 2: or twice a week, that's still a problem. I mean, 347 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: the problem isn't necessarily And again, someone who's welcome to 348 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 2: call and correct me on this eight five five five 349 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 2: nine one oh three five. 350 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: I don't think it's the frequency. 351 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 2: I don't think it's if you drink every day or 352 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 2: if you just get hammered twice a week. It sounds 353 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 2: like he may have a problem with alcohol. And I 354 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: think the question is, I mean, have you have you 355 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 2: said to him? And again, I don't know that I'm 356 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: qualified to give this advice, but I'm going to try. 357 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 2: I mean, have you said you have you had this 358 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: conversation with him, Hey, I'm concerned about your drinking. I'm 359 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,480 Speaker 2: concerned about your behavior when you drink. I mean, have 360 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: you have you had like a like a kind sort 361 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 2: of constructive conversation about that. 362 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 4: I have I've had, I would say, yeah, like a 363 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 4: few very like conversations around it. And I think, you know, 364 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 4: he gets a little bit defensive, like I'm attacking him 365 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 4: for all like the good things that he does do 366 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 4: for me, And so I don't think he really like 367 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 4: understands how it affects me and like other people because 368 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 4: he doesn't remember, you know. So yeah, it's kind of 369 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 4: like tricky. 370 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 371 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 2: I hate to say this, but my gut tells me 372 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: you got to go. My gut tells me that it's 373 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 2: it's you're you're early in this relationship. It's going to 374 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 2: be a difficult thing. It's gonna be difficult thing to mitigate. 375 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's your job to save this guy. 376 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 2: You know, he gets to fen. I mean you, I 377 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: think you can tell him, you know, in a caring, 378 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 2: loving way. Hey, this this concerns me. I care about you. 379 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: I like you, you know, but you don't seem to 380 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:55,600 Speaker 2: be acknowledging what is a serious problem here. And someone 381 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 2: texted that Ben's drinking is a form of alcoholism. I mean, 382 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 2: I think again, it's a I don't think you have 383 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 2: to get hammered every day to be to have a problem. 384 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: I think you can get If you're getting hammered consistently 385 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: in any frequency, that's probably an issue, especially if he's 386 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: doing it to to sort of mask other issues, insecurities 387 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: or whatever. I don't know, I mean, this could be 388 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 2: something you deal with the entire length of your relationship. 389 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 2: This may never go away. 390 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that would really thinks. I really like him so 391 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:32,280 Speaker 4: much and I really care for him, so it's it's 392 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 4: really hard to. 393 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 12: End it just like that, you know. 394 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 4: But yeah, I totally hear what you're saying. 395 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 2: I've dealt with this a little bit in my life, 396 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 2: and all I can tell you is that this is 397 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 2: a decision that the person using the substance. 398 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 1: They have to make that decision. 399 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 2: Like, you can beg him, you can, you can, you know, ultimatums, 400 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 2: you can do all this different stuff, But ultimately, I 401 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 2: think it's just going to cause a divide. I feel 402 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 2: like if you're saying to him, look, I really care 403 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 2: about you, and you are a lot of things that 404 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 2: I want, but this is a problem and in order 405 00:17:04,920 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: for this relationship to continue, you're going to need to 406 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 2: manage this somehow. And he's telling you all I don't know, 407 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: or he's using it making excuse you, why do remember? Okay, Well, 408 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 2: then don't drink as much. You might rememb you know 409 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 2: what I mean. I think the only real option here 410 00:17:18,320 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 2: is for him to stop drinking, or manage the drinking, 411 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 2: or get some help or do something if he wants 412 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 2: to save the relationship. 413 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: If he's not willing to do any of that, then 414 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: I don't know that this changes, right, I mean, what. 415 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 4: Do you think if you know he says, you know, 416 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 4: change shouldn't happen overnight, Like you have to just like 417 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 4: trust me with it, like let me, you know, take 418 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 4: care of it. And then it kind of it's like 419 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 4: a ball. 420 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:44,880 Speaker 11: It seems like a ball. 421 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 4: Then is in my court to like let him deal 422 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 4: with it and try not to like micromanage these actions. 423 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 3: Well, you bring it up. 424 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 8: If he's getting defensive when you bring it up, it 425 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 8: doesn't even sound like he's really acknowledging that there's an issue. 426 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like he I feel like he knows 427 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 4: he I think he's like it feels vulnerable. 428 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 2: Okay, But again, I mean this, this is going to 429 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: affect your life too. And so if he's serious about 430 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 2: this relationship and it's it really is becoming a problem, 431 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: whether it's the way he acts, it's about the way 432 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 2: he treats you or leaving you places of it, about 433 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,879 Speaker 2: your safety. You know, again, I think you're in You 434 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,480 Speaker 2: have your you have every right to communicate your concern. 435 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 2: You have every right to wish of him that he 436 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 2: changes his behavior. You can offer him help, you can 437 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 2: offer him support. But I mean, if he's not going 438 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: to do any of that and deny it, I don't know. 439 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:42,680 Speaker 2: He may not be as perfect as you think. And 440 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 2: I'm again I'm not I'm not advocating you just dump 441 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 2: the guy and leave him. But I mean, if you 442 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 2: express your care and you express your concern, ultimately he 443 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 2: has to make the decision. If he's telling you he 444 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: doesn't have a problem, that's I think that says a lot. 445 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 4: Yep, yeah, no, you have a point there, especially with 446 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 4: like leaving me and stuff. It's like comes more of 447 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:01,639 Speaker 4: a safety issue. 448 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the text is blowing up, it's overwhelmingly. 449 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 2: You've got to go run a lot of people, you know, 450 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 2: sharing their personal experience. I mean, it's hundreds of texts already. Unfortunately, 451 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:16,960 Speaker 2: this is something that I think affects a lot of people. 452 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,679 Speaker 2: But let me take some phone calls. Maybe there are 453 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: some people more qualify, anyone's more qualified than me to 454 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 2: be giving you advice on this, because again, this is 455 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:25,879 Speaker 2: not something to play with. You know, this is a 456 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 2: this could be a disease, this could be you know, 457 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 2: a dependency that he needs. Real help with and I 458 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 2: don't I don't want to say anything that you know 459 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 2: I shouldn't say because I'm certainly not an expert. But 460 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 2: let me take some calls and and see people have 461 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 2: to say, and keep the radio one and man, I 462 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 2: wish you the best. Thank you for sharing that with us. 463 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 2: Good luck, Yeah, yeah, eight five five five N one 464 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 2: one oh three five. Nick, you're a you're a mental 465 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: health therapist. 466 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 5: I am, I am. How's everybody doing today? 467 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: Good morning? So you hear this story? What what what 468 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 1: comes to mind? 469 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 5: What comes to mind is not immediately like leave obviously, 470 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 5: is like struggling, and what he's struggling with is impacting 471 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 5: their relationship, and he clearly needs some form of therapy 472 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 5: to address these concerns. Because Fred, I agree with you, 473 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 5: it's not necessarily about the frequency. It's also about like 474 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 5: how much you're drinking in that two day period that 475 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:23,800 Speaker 5: he's getting blackout drunk. That could qualify as like a 476 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:29,400 Speaker 5: potential binge eatings or binge drinking disorder, and that definitely 477 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 5: needs to be addressed. 478 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,800 Speaker 11: So I think maybe. 479 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 5: Putting the relationship on like a probation and saying, hey, 480 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 5: if within this six month time period you don't seek 481 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 5: help or make any changes, and we don't communicate what 482 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,879 Speaker 5: you're doing to make these changes, then I can't be 483 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 5: with you anymore. 484 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 3: This has become unsafe. 485 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, man, good advice. Thank you, Nick, Thanks for listening. 486 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,680 Speaker 1: Have a good day anytime. 487 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:52,239 Speaker 5: You guys too. 488 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 1: Love you, Yeah, I love you too. 489 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 2: I mean it's said, you know, you don't want to 490 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 2: leave someone who care about, who you think has all 491 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 2: these qualities, right, we don't want to just leave them. 492 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 2: But again, if I know anything about this, and sadly 493 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: it's in my family and it's been part of my life. Unfortunately, 494 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: it's the kind of thing where the person having the 495 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 2: issue and I don't mean to I don't mean to 496 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,959 Speaker 2: isolate that person, but that person, in my experience, has 497 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 2: to make the decision that they want that for their 498 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 2: life and that people that they matter and that the 499 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 2: people around them matter enough. But like again, you can threaten, 500 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 2: you might threaten your whole relationship. Ye I'm gonna leave 501 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 2: you if well, guess what if you don't leave, then 502 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 2: then then your threats don't mean anything anymore. Oh yeah, 503 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 2: you know, ultimatums aren't going to work. And if you're 504 00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 2: going to leave, then leave, you know what I mean. 505 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 2: And you can offer so much support, but then if 506 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 2: they don't want to take the support, this could be 507 00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: an issue for a very long time. Hey Bianca, Yes, hi, Hi, 508 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 2: good morning. So this resonates with you, this story. 509 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 11: Oh yes, I've been in a seventeen year relationship. I 510 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 11: have a child, blended family. He's a great guy. I mean, 511 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 11: don't get mean, he's a family guy. But seventeen years 512 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 11: weekend drinker doesn't get better. Definitely needs some kind of 513 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 11: therapy there. You know, it's just it's a hard situation. 514 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 11: You're six months and you know you have your whole 515 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 11: life ahead of you. It's sometimes it's not worth it. 516 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 11: Now it's gotten better through the years, but you don't 517 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 11: want to wait seventeen years for it to get better, 518 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,159 Speaker 11: you know what I mean. Like he's like he has 519 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 11: really calmed down through the years, but you know it 520 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:34,119 Speaker 11: was hardy, nothing but heartache and heartbreak and coming and 521 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 11: going into the house, and then when you have children, 522 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 11: it just makes it even worse because it's just like 523 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 11: you just feel stuck. And I'm a product of a divorce, 524 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 11: you know, divorced parents, and you know I've been through 525 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 11: relationships and whatnot, and it's just it's a hard you 526 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 11: want to make up. I say, Oh, he's a teddy bear, 527 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 11: he's this, he's a family guy. He does great things, 528 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 11: very successful, very this, very that. It's you know, you're 529 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 11: willing to spend the rest of your time with somebody 530 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 11: who just constantly drinks on the weekend. It's it's it's 531 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:11,600 Speaker 11: never going to change, and they're never going to change, 532 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 11: and you know there's deeper issues there. There's deeper, deeper. 533 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 2: Issues there, Beyonca. You what you're saying resonates with me 534 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 2: a little bit. And I think probably other people in 535 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 2: the room who are the product of a divorced family, 536 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 2: because because I know Caitlin is, I am Paulina was. 537 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 2: It's like, I think if I were married and I 538 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 2: had kids, I can tell you that I would, and 539 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 2: I think in some ways it maybe is preventive of 540 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 2: me getting into a serious relationship. I don't want to 541 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 2: be to someone else what my parents were to each 542 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 2: other at that, you know, I mean like I don't 543 00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 2: want to I don't want I don't want. 544 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 1: To be in a situation where I get divorced. 545 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 2: I don't want to be in a situation where I 546 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 2: have kids and I break up the family or the 547 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 2: family is broken up by my actions are someone else's, 548 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,480 Speaker 2: and so I think I would be inclined to stick 549 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 2: with things and behaviors and mannerisms that are unhealthy. And 550 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 2: I think this is a trap that a lot of 551 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 2: people fall into, where it's like, well, I don't want 552 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 2: to break up for the kids. I don't want to divorcely, 553 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 2: but it's like, hey, how long can. 554 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 1: You live like that? 555 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 9: You know? 556 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, it's very hard, you know, I cheeter her in 557 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 11: my own head here and there. It's kind of like, 558 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 11: but I stuck around this long? Yeah, why am I 559 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 11: going to leave now? 560 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 4: You know? 561 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 11: But I mean, like I said, through the years, that 562 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 11: has gotten a lot better. But you know, you do 563 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 11: suffer through I suffer through a lot of years in 564 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,440 Speaker 11: between where I'm like, hey, you know, what the heck 565 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 11: am I doing? You know, like this is not right 566 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,080 Speaker 11: and it's not and it's not fair if you're bringing 567 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 11: you know, other little people into the world and they 568 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 11: see that. 569 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, well they see that mom or 570 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 2: dad isn't happy, and I know you think you're doing 571 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 2: the right thing, but sadly, you know, this stuff does 572 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,160 Speaker 2: permeate and look, I thank you for sharing. Very brave 573 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 2: of you, Bianca, and I appreciate you calling and for 574 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: offering your perspective. 575 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 1: Have a good morning. 576 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 11: Thank you too. 577 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:51,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Sadly this is I mean a lot of these 578 00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: calls are the same. 579 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 2: It's almost universally go ye, so yeah, Molly, Hi, good morning? 580 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: Hi are you hey? You say good? Thanks for calling 581 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,719 Speaker 1: for listening. So just said recap and stair go. Hear. 582 00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,399 Speaker 2: This woman called and she's been with the guy for 583 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 2: six months. She thinks he's perfect in every way excepted 584 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 2: and these are my words, but he binge drinks on 585 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,920 Speaker 2: the weekend, and he gets combative, not with her, but 586 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 2: with other people. He leaves her places, doesn't communicate well 587 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 2: when he's reached his limits, and you know, she's wondering, 588 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 2: is this something that I need to overlook or that 589 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: I can overlook? And I mean overwhelmingly people are saying no, right, 590 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 2: she absolutely. 591 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:31,760 Speaker 12: Needs to go. So my reasoning is that since they've 592 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,480 Speaker 12: only been together for six months, if the relationship does 593 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,520 Speaker 12: get any longer, and let's say they have kids, or 594 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 12: they get married, or something happens at his job, and 595 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,400 Speaker 12: then there's more stressors of his life, he might start 596 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 12: drinking more and with the if he's already being mister 597 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 12: macho man at the bar, like, he's probably going to 598 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 12: be physically abusive towards her. And she definitely does not 599 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 12: need that in her life. 600 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I hate that she feels that he's perfect 601 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 2: in every way except for this. And I don't know 602 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 2: the guy, but that's a big this, you know what 603 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 2: I mean. He's perfect in every way except he's a 604 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 2: binge drinker and he and it seems like it's somebody 605 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,360 Speaker 2: that he wants to deny and and doesn't. Isn't going 606 00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 2: to be able to adjust easily that that Unfortunately, that 607 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,919 Speaker 2: means you might deserve more. He might not be as 608 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 2: perfect as you think. 609 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh that's a big issue. 610 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,600 Speaker 8: And then if you bring children into the mix, a 611 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 8: lot of people are saying, you know, they stay for 612 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 8: the kids. 613 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 3: The worst thing you can do is say these situations 614 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 3: for your kids. 615 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,120 Speaker 1: I agree. 616 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 3: The kids are traumatized because they're scared of dad on 617 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 3: the weekend. 618 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, I agree. You know, it's a it's 619 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 2: a serious and it's a sad situation. But you know, 620 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: six months might be it might be more than enough 621 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: to know that this is what you're up against and 622 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 2: it's sad. Thank you, Mollie, thanks for calling. Have a 623 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 2: good day. 624 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 12: Thanks, love you guys. 625 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 1: I love you too. 626 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:47,960 Speaker 2: I only got time for one more. Sophia, you're a 627 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: therapist as well. Good morning. 628 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 9: Hi. Yes, I'm so glad that I got through because 629 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,440 Speaker 9: I'm never a caller in for the radio, but I 630 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 9: felt like I needed to because I actually. 631 00:26:58,760 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 11: Have I am a there. 632 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 9: But I also have firsthand experience within my family of 633 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 9: this happening where my brother in law became somebody that 634 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 9: was a drinker and unfortunately is he took it out 635 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 9: on my sister and he became physically abusive and it 636 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 9: is a very sad situation. One night he drank too much, 637 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,920 Speaker 9: he became abusive, and she almost died because of the situation. 638 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 9: So this is just like in my gut, like you 639 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 9: need to go, Like there is no waiting for them 640 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 9: to get help. You're you're so new in the relationship, 641 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 9: You're going to find another guy that texts every box 642 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,639 Speaker 9: and there is no this that you have. 643 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: To kind of roll out. 644 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 9: But it's just it's the beginning signs of abuse. If 645 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,960 Speaker 9: he's already doing it in public. Just when he's getts home, 646 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 9: it's going to become even worse because there's no audience. 647 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 12: She needs to go. 648 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, Sophia, thank you, have a good day. Thank you. 649 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: I hate to say them. In my personal experience too, 650 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 2: I think sometimes people need to hit rock bottom. Sometimes 651 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,919 Speaker 2: they need to either stand to lose or lose everything 652 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 2: absolutely before they can come to the Sadly, some people 653 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 2: that that's not enough either. But you know, again, the 654 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 2: threats aren't going to do anything unless you actually follow 655 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 2: through with it. And the truth is, if if he 656 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,880 Speaker 2: feels for you what you feel for him, then maybe 657 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 2: he looks in the mirror and says, this is a 658 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 2: change I need to make if I want to be 659 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 2: with this person. And if he doesn't make that change, 660 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,920 Speaker 2: I think that you then learned in six months what 661 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 2: you didn't need to take ten years to learn. 662 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:29,159 Speaker 4: Right. 663 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 3: Absolutely, Yes, he. 664 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,800 Speaker 7: Has to want something more than he wants to drink. 665 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Hostly, it sounds like it. 666 00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: And thanks for the actual professionals for calling, because I mean, 667 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 2: unfortunately we've all lived many of us in this room 668 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: have lived there. Yes, but at the same time I 669 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: don't claim to you know, know exactly the path to 670 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 2: take But all right, we'll get back to smut. The 671 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 2: Entertainer Report is up next and eight hundred bucks show 672 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 2: Bisquiky in the Showdown thirty and four is uh, how 673 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 2: do you say lav rena junior? 674 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: How do you say junior? Junor? 675 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 2: Because we'll go with that. I think you just called 676 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 2: her a home But anyway, it's fun. Fred Show is 677 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: the hub Caitlin's Entertainment report. He's on the Fred Show. 678 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 10: Kim Kardashian touchdown excuse me in Paris yesterday so that 679 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 10: she can testify this morning in a long delayed trial 680 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 10: after she was robbed at gunpoint in the biggest French 681 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 10: jewelry heust in decades. 682 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 7: So a group known as the Grandpa Robbers because they're 683 00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 7: old are. 684 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 10: Being charged with stealing more than ten million in jewelry 685 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 10: from her in twenty sixteen. Mom Chris Jenner and boyfriend 686 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 10: Corey Gamble are also there to support Kim today. Remember 687 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 10: she was in Paris for fashion week and about like 688 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 10: three am, two armed robbers overpowered a security guard standing 689 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 10: outside her hotel room. She was found the zip ties 690 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 10: and duct tape and put into a bathtub as two 691 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 10: mass men took her jewelry, including a four million dollar 692 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:58,240 Speaker 10: engagement ring given to her by her then husband, Kanye West. 693 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 10: Remember he was in concert at the time Tim and 694 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 10: literally got the call and had to run off stage. 695 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,720 Speaker 10: Nine men and one women, most in their sixties and seventies, 696 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 10: are now standing trial for the robbery that happened nearly 697 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,720 Speaker 10: a decade ago, even though they were arrested like months 698 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 10: after this whole thing went down. We've heard Kim talk 699 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 10: about it on her show, of course, but we will 700 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 10: hear her testimony in court today. The Kansas City Chiefs 701 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 10: will officially host the Denver Broncos on Christmas Night. You 702 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 10: can watch the game on Prime as part of Amazon's 703 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 10: Thursday Night football package. 704 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 7: This marks the third straight year that the Chiefs play 705 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 7: on Christmas. 706 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 10: Netflix will stream the other two games, and the matchups 707 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 10: will be announced I think tomorrow afternoon with a full 708 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 10: NFL schedule after that. Prime also announced its Black Friday game, 709 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 10: which will be the Chicago Bears visiting the Eagles aka 710 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 10: the reigning Super Bowl champs on November twenty eighth, and. 711 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 2: Last week so thought by the way, they came up 712 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: with the QR code to be able to get into 713 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 2: all these different things, like you know, when you pull 714 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 2: it up on your computer or on your TV, because 715 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 2: can you remember trying to first of all, trying to 716 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 2: remember your passwords and then trying to use the remote. 717 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 7: To get the password in No, that's nasty word. 718 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 1: It was terrible. So you know, thank you, Thank you 719 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: to whatver came up with that idea. I just I 720 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: just want to honor you this morning. 721 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 7: We honor you and Ali Jackson and Alan jacks. 722 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 2: Jackson very much alive, so alive, beautiful, life, vibrant, he's 723 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: a vibrant. 724 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:19,959 Speaker 7: And Leslie I saw this yesterday. 725 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,959 Speaker 10: I chose to ignore it because it kind of made 726 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 10: me uncomfy, but it's going viral now, so here you go. 727 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 7: Halle Berry has people. 728 00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 10: Scratching their heads after she uploaded a video of she 729 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 10: and her boyfriend Van Hunt laying in a bed naked 730 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,600 Speaker 10: as she announces to the world that she's prepared to 731 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 10: quote get put through the mattress in celebration of Mother's Day. 732 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,959 Speaker 7: She and Van were naked and they were giggling with her. 733 00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 10: Let's call it intimacy gel that I think she has 734 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 10: like a brand deal with that they were about to use, 735 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 10: so they showed us what they were going to use, 736 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 10: and he was rushing her to get the video over 737 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 10: with so we can put. 738 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 7: Her through the mattress. 739 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 2: If I were in bed with Halle Berry and she 740 00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 2: wanted to make a video, I would be all about it. 741 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: Can you tag me in that? 742 00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: Please? Can we collaborate on more? 743 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 5: Oh? 744 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 1: I'd be like absolutely, She's. 745 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 7: So hot and I have such a crush on her. 746 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 7: But like, I don't know, the video was odd. 747 00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 4: It was. 748 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:07,160 Speaker 1: It was very strange. 749 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,560 Speaker 7: People are calling it kind of like juvenile, Like the 750 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 7: way they were giggling like he was. 751 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,320 Speaker 1: It was not sexy. 752 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 3: It was just odd to me. 753 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,680 Speaker 1: But Kiki, you got a look on your face. 754 00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 8: Hey man, I'm not hating o'holly getting getting it in. 755 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 8: You know, more people need to get it in and 756 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 8: we'll be We. 757 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: Don't need to announce like yeah, I'm sure they get 758 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 1: it in. 759 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't even know. 760 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 7: The moment you're going to use the job. 761 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: I mean, get it in. 762 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 7: I want her to get it in all day. I 763 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 7: love that she's getting it in. She's naked on balcony, 764 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 7: she's happy. 765 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 10: But I don't need to know that after that video 766 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 10: you're getting put through the mattress in celebration. 767 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:39,959 Speaker 1: Of mother's Yeah, that was another I think the way 768 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 1: it was described was a. 769 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:45,680 Speaker 8: Little yeah, that's aggressive, right, like mam okay, all right, Helle. 770 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 10: I mean listen, Paulina had a brunch and that's how 771 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 10: Halle celebrated. 772 00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 3: So that's there. 773 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 4: You go. 774 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 10: By the way, if you missed any part of our show, 775 00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 10: just type the Fred Show on demand and please set 776 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 10: us as a preset on the free iHeart radio app. 777 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: And I guess in some cities. 778 00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: Today you'll have to listen to us because they forgot 779 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 2: to play the electric bill and not surprisingly, got got 780 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 2: Daddy Trevor back there. He's got a soldering gun out 781 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,240 Speaker 2: and a drill, yeah, you know, putting putting wires together. 782 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 2: People are texting us this morning. You guys get in trouble. No, 783 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 2: surprisingly not, It's just they forgot to pay the electric. 784 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:18,160 Speaker 1: Bills this place. Do you have what it takes to battle. 785 00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 2: With I know that I'll get an email from someone going, hay, 786 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 2: the ratings are down. Yeah, that's because you didn't turn 787 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:34,200 Speaker 2: the transmitter off. Dummies, Yeah, dummies, what am I going? 788 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 1: Stupid management of this company. If it's off, you just 789 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: turn it on. You know's like, I don't know what 790 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: readings are down. That's because we weren't on the air, 791 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: you idiots. 792 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 3: Did you try restarting it right? 793 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: Unplugging right? Take it out? It's hard enough. Fancy to 794 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 1: is okay. 795 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 2: People aren't buying radios on the regular, so can you 796 00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: at least make it work technically. 797 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's okay. 798 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 3: They're playing Seacrest Rey Runs or something. 799 00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:15,439 Speaker 1: Through the roots through forget about. 800 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god, we're gonna be unbelieve. Oh my god, 801 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,920 Speaker 2: the ratings just exploded there. I think we're gonna learn 802 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 2: the Top three things not to microwave at work? 803 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: Hey, Eric, how you doing doing well? I'm doing well? 804 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: How are you yet I'm the one begging for money. 805 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 2: Top three things to microwave wave unbelievable, Eric kay Man, 806 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 2: good morning. 807 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: Tell us about you please? Good morning. 808 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 12: I'm doing well. 809 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 1: Uh got a little family with a one year old boy. 810 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 1: That's exciting. What's nad redhead? Little ginger? Little one year old? 811 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,400 Speaker 1: What's his name? Ezra? 812 00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 2: Well, good morning to Ezra and to you and eight 813 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 2: D the price this is good money. But Kiki said, 814 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,319 Speaker 2: a very good job filling in for Shelley, who's back 815 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,239 Speaker 2: in a couple of weeks. We think thirty and four 816 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,480 Speaker 2: is the record. A bunch of ties in there, a 817 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,399 Speaker 2: lot of good players. Five pop culture questions. Let's play 818 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 2: the game. Good luck all right? 819 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 11: Good luck all right? 820 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 5: Thank you? 821 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 2: You gotta go off, you go Eric, Okay? Question number one, 822 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian is taking a stand. We just did the story. 823 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 2: By the way, Kim Kardashian's taking the stand in her 824 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 2: jewelry heist trial. Where is the trial taking place? Bill 825 00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 2: Belichick's twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up 826 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 2: in the Miss Main USA pageant. 827 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 1: Couldn't happen to a nicer person? Name is girlfriend? 828 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:45,399 Speaker 9: All right? 829 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,399 Speaker 2: By the way, there are rumors that he's not even 830 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 2: gonna make it to the beginning of the season because 831 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,919 Speaker 2: he does a buyout. I think it's after like June 832 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 2: first or something. He can buy him out for a 833 00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 2: million bucks. So there are people are saying that he 834 00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 2: won't even wind up coaching if this one. If he 835 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 2: doesn't wind up coaching this year because of his girlfriend, 836 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:10,359 Speaker 2: that is insane. Actress Storm Reid, who plays plays Sendeia's 837 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 2: little sister in Euphoria, says she wants to be the 838 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,200 Speaker 2: flower girl in her wedding? On which network or streaming 839 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,320 Speaker 2: service would you find Euphoria HBO? 840 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: That's right? 841 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,160 Speaker 2: A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times has 842 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,720 Speaker 2: finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking. 843 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:29,720 Speaker 2: Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty 844 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 2: fifth anniversary this month. Dan and Which, actor known for 845 00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 2: playing Edward Cullen in The Twilight Saga, turns thirty nine today? 846 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 5: Oh you. 847 00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 1: All right? 848 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,879 Speaker 2: That's a three. That's not bad. That's not about a three, 849 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,880 Speaker 2: Kiki Boy. A three is the scorre of me for 850 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 2: eight hundred from Delores? Are you ready? 851 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:55,239 Speaker 5: Yes? 852 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 2: Kim Kardashian is taking a stand in her jewelry heist try? 853 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,800 Speaker 2: Where is the trial taking place? Paris strip? Bill Belichick's 854 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: twenty four year old girlfriend got second runner up in 855 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,720 Speaker 2: the Miss Maine USA pageant. 856 00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,439 Speaker 1: Name his girlfriend Jordaan Sure. 857 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 2: Actress Storm Reed, who plays Sindeia's little sister in Euphoria, 858 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,719 Speaker 2: says she wants to be the flower girl in her 859 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 2: wedding on which network of streaming service which you find Euphoria? 860 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 3: HBO? 861 00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 1: Right or Max? We'll take both. 862 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 2: A man who broke into Eminem's home multiple times, has 863 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 2: finally been convicted of first degree home invasion and aggravated stalking. 864 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,440 Speaker 2: Which Eminem song about an obsessed fan celebrates its twenty 865 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 2: fifth anniversary this month stand and which actor known for 866 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 2: playing Edward Cohen in The Twilight Saga turns thirty nine today. 867 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 3: No hold on Now three he the guy with the 868 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:43,759 Speaker 3: dark hair. 869 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,840 Speaker 7: No Tom one Tom. 870 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 2: Robert for Robert Pattinson's the answer. We were looking for 871 00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:02,239 Speaker 2: the win on your number thirty one, eight fifty. Surprised tomorrow, Eric, 872 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 2: you did a great job, but you're gonna have say it. 873 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,280 Speaker 1: My name is Eric. I got showed up on the showdown. 874 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 1: You know the rest. My name is Eric. 875 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 11: I got showed up on the showdown. 876 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 1: And I can't hang with the gorilla. 877 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 2: You probably you probably wouldn't hung with the goerrilla either, 878 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,279 Speaker 2: even though we love you, Eric, but you I'm gonna 879 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 2: try and do this. 880 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 1: This is this is risky. You Eric can't hang with 881 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 1: the key. Cute cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cat Cash. 882 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,480 Speaker 8: Shout out to my boy Tom pet cat. 883 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,359 Speaker 2: Tom, Tom Pulman, I call him see Tom Pullman. He yeah, 884 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 2: he was they wanted him to be. He's one of 885 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 2: the high level executives, not one of the ones I 886 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 2: was just railing on. We actually liked him, but it 887 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 2: is all black and leather and whatever. They wanted him 888 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,120 Speaker 2: to be the star of the Twilight movies, but they 889 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 2: didn't go with him. I think he's too busy. 890 00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 7: Well, he just got married, right, did he did? 891 00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:56,959 Speaker 1: He didn't got. 892 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,719 Speaker 3: Married have a big enough budget for my boy? 893 00:38:58,920 --> 00:38:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, no he didn't. 894 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 2: He's not saying no because he's in I think Paris 895 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 2: or something. So I think he's hanging out with Kim 896 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:06,799 Speaker 2: Kardashian from my understand. But hey, congratulations, said Tom Polman. 897 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 1: Just got married. Yes, it's he's beautiful. The way they 898 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: look at each other, it actually is. 899 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 7: They're they're really cute. 900 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:13,840 Speaker 1: Actually, it truly is. 901 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 2: Actually the way I mean, I'm looking for my Luise 902 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 2: I am. It took him a long time to find her, though, 903 00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 2: so there's hope for me. 904 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: I guess. I just don't think I'll be as attractive 905 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,320 Speaker 1: as he is at that age. So there's that. 906 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,240 Speaker 2: And by the way, Tom, don't take a halle Berry picture. 907 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 2: We know we love you, and we we love you 908 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 2: and we know, okay, so just do you. We don't 909 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 2: need to see it on Instagram. Yeah right, exactly to someone, 910 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 2: and our careers are slipping before very eyes. Yeah again, 911 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:47,800 Speaker 2: Jason Brown Yeah j