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Speaker 1: Scable advice spice. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome to the

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Speaker 1: naught even I'm a hostrup shooter and it's Tuesday, which

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Speaker 1: means a dear friend. Mister Delane Dixon joins us. Hey,

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Speaker 1: mistery are you there? I am? How are you today?

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Speaker 1: The new work it's so chey. Yes, you know, I

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Speaker 1: and I'm doing the bob now I'm feeling very bobby. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Do you change the color with the seasons,

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Speaker 1: like the warm mariote gets the blonder you seem to get. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do go just the tadbit blinder. I'm not Platinum Bond.

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Speaker 1: I have done it in the past and it's fabulous,

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Speaker 1: But I don't think people could handle it on a

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Speaker 1: day today. Basis they'd be like, girl and I have

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Speaker 1: a I have a red number. She ready, she just

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Speaker 1: waited for her. She might go out tonight. She really,

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Speaker 1: we haven't been out in so long. We have to know.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to DC on Wednesday, so I know I've

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Speaker 1: been invited down by Georgetown University. I know to talk

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Speaker 1: about your book. Yeah, to talk about the book and

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Speaker 1: PR and well, to be honest, I think I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about my book and they want me to

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Speaker 1: talk about PR. The figure out a way to sort

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Speaker 1: of merge them all together. But maybe we're going to

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Speaker 1: drink on Friday, Miss Steel, let's jump into the show.

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Speaker 1: What time is it, my friends, It's time. I love

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Speaker 1: this story. At the top of the show, said Jennifer Gardner,

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Speaker 1: who I just adore. She's just the really, really good person.

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Speaker 1: She is saying that she avoids any press coverage of

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Speaker 1: herself and her x Ben Affleck. She said, quote, I

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Speaker 1: the press. She's fifty years old, and she steers clear

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Speaker 1: that she shares her three children with. She said the

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Speaker 1: following quote, I really work hard not to see either

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Speaker 1: even if they're writing something nice about one of us. Recently,

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Speaker 1: Ben shrugged off or the means of him. He sort

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Speaker 1: who I am. However, his ex, Jennifer Gardner would prefer

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Speaker 1: just try to forget that I'm out there in any way.

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Speaker 1: She tries to forget that she's a celebrity, and she

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Speaker 1: said that that actually makes a much much happier. She

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Speaker 1: in my family made into a meme. It's so interesting, Mystery.

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Speaker 1: You've become much more comfortable seeing yourself on television listening

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Speaker 1: yourself on TV. It was a conscious decision. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: not one to really watch my stuff after I've done it,

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Speaker 1: I'll peak with one eye. But look, when you go

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Speaker 1: what normal people do. We close the chapter and she

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Speaker 1: I totally understand where she's coming from. She's like, it's

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Speaker 1: I don't think she actually looks at it, and I

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Speaker 1: So part of me wishes, Hey, Jenny, if you're listening

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Speaker 1: because you can't run away from being this famous. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: you can't run away from it, but you can certainly

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Speaker 1: choose not to look at things if you don't want to.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure if there's a fantastic, fabulous photo of herself

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Speaker 1: for myself absolutely, And you know what I do. I

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Speaker 1: wait until somebody says, hey, I saw you on television.

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Speaker 1: You did fantastic, And then I go watch and with

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Speaker 1: And I'm sure Jennifer Garner she can really do no wrong.

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Speaker 1: now I hear you, mistery, which brings us to our

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Speaker 1: obviously we're not, Jennifer Garner, we're not making movies, were

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Speaker 1: waiting time fully awake, and then I'll tickle. Do you

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Speaker 1: I'm sure to check back tomorrow to hear at your results. Hey, mistery,

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Speaker 1: where are you working on? Well? You know Lana Wilson,

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Speaker 1: she's an American filmmaker. She maye Taylor Swift Americana back

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Speaker 1: sure if she wanted to do another celebrity documentary. It's

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Speaker 1: conversation one day with Brooke Shields. She actually directed Pretty Baby,

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Speaker 1: power comes from your look. Oh. Now, Brook's life was

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Speaker 1: Lana had to say was that she had creative control

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Speaker 1: amazing documentary. Check it out. Hey, there's a new book

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Speaker 1: out that has a bombshell about her. Late majesty who

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Speaker 1: royal correspondent. His name is Robert Jobson. He's really good.

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Speaker 1: His books called The King, and he claims that the

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Speaker 1: one priority. She put the monarchy, the crown, and often

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