1 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, as promised, I am back, and we're going 2 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:21,639 Speaker 1: to continue on the topic of my Housewives trajectory and 3 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: what took me to this point and what I think 4 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: about things that are said about me and me going back, 5 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: and we're going to keep getting into it. So when 6 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: I left, I really left. I did not want to 7 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: go back. That was not where I wanted to be. 8 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: And I'm not you know, believe me, I'll rip somebody 9 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: like the best of them. It just wasn't what I 10 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 1: wanted to do. I didn't want to be doing the 11 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: gotcha And you know, Bravo and the production company and 12 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: all these people will say it's four months of work, 13 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: and it's a lot of money for the four months 14 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: of work, But anybody who's on the Housewives, no knows, 15 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 1: it's not four months of work. It's four months of shooting. 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Then it's doing a reunion, but now out way more 17 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: than then. Then it was more like four months of shooting. 18 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:07,160 Speaker 1: Now it's four months of shooting, eight months of defending yourself, 19 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: preparing for the for the fall, talking about editing, doing 20 00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 1: press to promote it, doing press to protect yourself, doing 21 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: press to trash. Are the people doing you know, it's endless. 22 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: It's year round. You shoot the show, then you panic 23 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: for a while and finish doing what they call pickups, 24 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: which is doing those interview bites for a while, freaking out, 25 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 1: still hardbring resentment. Then the show. Then you have to 26 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 1: promote the show. So then you have to do all 27 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: the press to promote the show. And that's a whole 28 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: other ship show too. If you don't want to be 29 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: sitting down promoting the show with certain people, you want 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: to do it, you know, on your own or however, 31 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: that's a whole thing. And what shows people get picked for, 32 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,960 Speaker 1: meaning I would get the Today's show, someone else gets this. 33 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: Why do I do? Ellen? Why don't we? You know, 34 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: that's a whole competition, and across the whole franchise. The 35 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,640 Speaker 1: competition is fierce. Now okay, I'll get to that, but 36 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to forget it all. Just say it. 37 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: It's fierce now. I have had people from all of 38 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: the different franchises say to me, oh, well, they sent 39 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: me to hear they sent me to another country to 40 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: promote it. They had me do it alone because I'm 41 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: the only one doing this. Just me and this person 42 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: are doing this. Cover It is cause It is competition, 43 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: like you can't believe. It is not women supporting women 44 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: at all. It is women supporting women on television, or 45 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: women saying they're supporting women, or women pretending they're supporting women. 46 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: It is every woman for themselves. It is this way 47 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: across the board. There are a few exceptions. I will 48 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: say that Tinsley happens to be a nice person who 49 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 1: literally like doesn't really like to be in the fray. 50 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: She's an operator. She's got her own game she's running, 51 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: and she's got her own brand of games she's running. 52 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: But she's not in there to like kill or be killed. Um, 53 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: that's just somebody who jumps off the page. I don't 54 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: know everybody from every other season. I know that on Atlanta. 55 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: I respect the fact that they will go fucking all 56 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: the way. It is not just the tip. They will 57 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: say whatever they want there are They do not edit themselves. 58 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,799 Speaker 1: The things that they say behind your back are things 59 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: they'll say to your back. I respect that. I've always 60 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: respected that. The other end of the spectrum is the 61 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Beverly Hills Housewives. They do the opposite. I've been in 62 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: a crossover episode. I was in that episode when Erica 63 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: came over to my house. They were all telling sending 64 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: me things ahead of time that she was in, sending 65 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: me sexy videos that she was in. They were telling 66 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: me about her rolling their eyes. That wasn't the caliber 67 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: of person they wanted for Beverly Hills. They also thought 68 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: she was boring. They brought her over to my house 69 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: and they hadn't said a single thing to her face. 70 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: They wanted me to be the person that said what 71 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: they were thinking. I got it, and I understood from 72 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: the why the producers wanted that as well. They tiptoe 73 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 1: the most. The Beverly Hills housewives are terrified to say 74 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 1: what they really feel. They have to say what is 75 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: politically correct and what will not be taken uh, you 76 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: know wrong. They are the most calculated in that regard 77 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: the opposite end of the spectrum of um Atlanta. They 78 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: have the big houses and the hair and the costumes 79 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: and the bags and the money. Porn that that's entertainment, 80 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: so they can get away with New York we had. 81 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: You know, most people have small, shitty apartments, so you've 82 00:04:13,400 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 1: got to really survive on you know, what's coming out 83 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: of your mouth. You don't have the same kind of 84 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: like money porn. Most people don't have the same real 85 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: estate porn, you know. And you have other cities like 86 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 1: Atlanta that do have real estate porn because their houses 87 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: are much less expensive by nature of the real estate 88 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 1: market there in the suburbs of Atlanta. So a two 89 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: million dollar house there could be eighteen thousand square feet, 90 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: where a two million dollar house in New York City 91 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:42,919 Speaker 1: would be could be square feet. So like you know this, 92 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 1: these are the things that have to be balanced by 93 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: by by Bravo. You know, you've got to show big houses. 94 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: So in New York City that's not as easy. So 95 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 1: you have to have people that might be really witty 96 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: or willing to go there. And New York women are 97 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: pretty much will willing to go there, not quite to 98 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: the level that Atlanta will go there, and they're not 99 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: as restricted as as as as a group like Beverly Hills. 100 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: But I come from when people weren't weren't wearing costumes. 101 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: I remember Andy Cohen walking into my house. It was 102 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: gonna be like the eagles Hell freezes overtour. I was 103 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: never coming back. I never wanted to come back. I 104 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: didn't want to do it. I forgot what I was 105 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: doing I was doing my talk show, I was doing 106 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: other things. I just was happy with my life. I 107 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 1: was making money. I was being paid seven figures a 108 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: year just by my cocktail, even after selling it. You know, 109 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: like things were good. I was writing books. It was good. 110 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not a person who I don't want 111 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: to do it. I don't want to take every dollar 112 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: off the floor. I just want to always have balance 113 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: and be happy. And we'll do another show on balance. 114 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: But um so I just didn't want to do it. 115 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: Andy Cohen came and he came to my kitchen and 116 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: I was pitching him another show, and he said, well, 117 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pitch you this, and he wanted me to 118 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 1: come back. We didn't know about the ratings, and they 119 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: used to not tell us ratings. There were no ratings. 120 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: We had no idea what the ratings were. Once we 121 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: started to realize what the ratings were, we were finding 122 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: it out on our own. Bravo wasn't even telling us. 123 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: I used to send emails. I used to send emails 124 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 1: on everyone's behalf to Bravo, being like, we deserve to 125 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: know what the ratings are and if we do well, 126 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: we deserve to know that we've done well. You don't 127 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: want to hide the rate. They used don't want to 128 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: hide the ratings from us, So we want to know 129 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: how well we were doing so we wouldn't ask for 130 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: more money. And all the girls will will verify this. 131 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: You know. We used to talk about it and finally 132 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 1: they had to just tell us after years of me 133 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 1: emailing them said, we'll tell you that Bravo. I've got 134 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: the emails, I've got the receipt I used to be like, 135 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 1: tell us what the ratings are and when we do well, 136 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: we should be rewarded. But they won't. They won't admit 137 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: that that part. Um and he came into my kitchen 138 00:06:38,880 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: and he said to me, and this is something for negotiating. 139 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: He said to me, Um, come back and I said, 140 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 1: I'm coming to you with a number. And that's it. 141 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,359 Speaker 1: There will be no negotiating. Now. You have to understand. 142 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: Any of the girls can also tell you what it's 143 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: like to negotiate with Bravo. They're not playing any games. 144 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: And too, I don't blame them because they are. Um, 145 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: I'm the I'm the one who come up with the terminology. 146 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: How Housewives of jelly Beans and a jelly Bean jar 147 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 1: there's a bunch of them, and you could. You know 148 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: when I was negotiating, when I was leaving after three seasons, 149 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: there was Jersey, there was Atlanta. Things were doing well, 150 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: and other they didn't. You know, I didn't have a 151 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: lot of negotiating power, and I didn't negotiate, and I 152 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: just took my last third season and said, fine, I'll 153 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: take whatever money I took. Because I also knew I 154 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: had a spin off, which, by the way, was at 155 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 1: the time the highest rated series premiere in Bravo history. 156 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: It was a very big success for three seasons, so 157 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: and I wanted that to do well. So negotiating with them, 158 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: you know, they've got all the leverage. All the girls 159 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: need the money and the relevance, so they really don't 160 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: have any leverage. They pretend they have leverage. I think 161 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: they have leverage. They fight to the end, then they 162 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: give Bravo and ultimatum. Bravo calls their bluff. The girls 163 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 1: say they're walking away, Bravo starts shooting. The girls crawl 164 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: back and repeat every season. Girls band together, then one 165 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: girl gets scared. She walks away from the other girls 166 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: she bandaged together with. Now she now everybody has less power. 167 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: They literally you could write a book on how terrible 168 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: Bravo talent is at negotiating, and Bravo will confirm this 169 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: as well. One season, one of the girls said, I 170 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: want to make one dollar more than Bethany is making 171 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: and or I'm not coming back, and Bravo laughed, folded 172 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: their hands as it fine, don't come back. Then the 173 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: girl came begging back because she had broken away from 174 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: her negotiating team and had no leverage. And Bravo knows 175 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,240 Speaker 1: that they all need it. They need the money, they 176 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: need it, so it's just like the war. You could 177 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: do a course in Harvard on what not to do 178 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 1: about negotiating. But I said to Andy, I will give 179 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: you a number. There will be no negotiating back and forth. 180 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 1: That's my number. And actually I now know that I'm 181 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: twenty five thousand dollars lower than they would have given 182 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 1: me per episode for that negotiation. But I wanted to 183 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: not go back and forth. I don't negotiate like that 184 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: in general. I like to say what I need to 185 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: get paid, and they don't play games. I don't say 186 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 1: I want to give ten, but I'll want ten, but 187 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: I'll take it. I say the number I need. I 188 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 1: told the number I needed. They came back. A contract 189 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 1: was signed. A contract was signed in the way that 190 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: I could do it with regards to my excruciating, horrific 191 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: divorce as it pertains to my daughter I was making. 192 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: I was able to state the turns, their terms they're 193 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 1: needed to be. I came back to the house. I 194 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: was on different terms, not only legally with the other women, 195 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 1: because I ran into one of the girls at SOHO 196 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 1: House and she said to me, please say you're coming back. 197 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: I ran into one of the newer girls between Heather, 198 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: Carol and Kristen, and they said, please say you're coming back. 199 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: Because Sonja will admit She's the only one that will 200 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: actually admit that. She emailment to say, please say you're 201 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,599 Speaker 1: coming back. Everybody was saying they are asking me to 202 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: come back because whether they loved me or hated me, 203 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: and most it was the ladder. The show had tanked 204 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: and they wanted good business. They wanted good business and 205 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: they wanted me back. That made me feel good. I 206 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 1: came back. It separated me. No one expected us to 207 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:57,559 Speaker 1: be all paid the same, treated the same. It just 208 00:09:57,640 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 1: they just wanted a good show and it was it 209 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:03,199 Speaker 1: for me personally and Lauren. Michael said it best when 210 00:10:03,200 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 1: he said to me, you have to sometimes make an 211 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: exit to make an end. You have to make an 212 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 1: exit to make an entrance. I didn't do any of 213 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: this on purpose, but it happened. I walked away. It 214 00:10:12,440 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: made me hire and demand they want to be back. 215 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: I came back. This was exciting, unexpected. Um, it may 216 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: seem funny to you. It's just so unique that I 217 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: would be so fascinated by their story. But wow, what 218 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: a fascinating story it is going to be. My guests 219 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: are Ben Cohen and Jerry Greenfield, Yes, the Ben and Jerry. 220 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: They share with me how a failed attempt at getting 221 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: into medical school and a failed pottery career led them 222 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: into the world of specialty ice cream in a way 223 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: that no one had ever seen before that continues to 224 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: this day. They started with just one small shop in Vermont, 225 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: and their famous ice cream is now sold all over 226 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: the world. I promised them we wouldn't do a gotcha interview, 227 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 1: but I still got the dirt on the only disagreement 228 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: they've ever had, and it's a dramatic one. Their success 229 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: has been built around one important thing, chunks. It's a 230 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 1: very chunky interview. I can't wait for you to hear it. Okay, 231 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: So who is Ben and who is Jerry? I'm Jerry. 232 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: It used to be that Ben had the beard, but 233 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: we switched several years ago. Okay, So you are childhood friends? 234 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: How old? Well we met in seventh grade, Jim class. 235 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: We were the two slowest fattest kids in class. We 236 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 1: met running around the track. Actually Jerry and I were walking. 237 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: And you have been actual best friends ever since. Hard 238 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: to believe. Huh. Unbelievable, like a like a lifelong marriage. 239 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: I mean it's unbelievable. Um. And what were where? Where 240 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: did you grow up? Brooklyn? Well, we were born in Brooklyn. 241 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: We grew up on Long Island in the town of Merrick. 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: I know Merrick because I lived in Rockettell Center. Merrick 243 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,319 Speaker 1: was I think the first or second sushi restaurant in 244 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: Long Island in like the seventies. Yeah, there weren't no 245 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:20,719 Speaker 1: sushi when we were there. I can tell you that 246 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: south Shore, Long Island you don't have the accent, no, 247 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: somehow or other. Uh. It seemed like South Americ people 248 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: had the accent. We were North American people. You were 249 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: North Americ people. Okay, was that um? Because in Great 250 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: Napa Long Island there's north and south and south was 251 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,320 Speaker 1: it's still upper middle class or middle class, but it 252 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: was lower socioeconomics. So were you in were you both 253 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: of means growing up or uh? Struggling? I would not 254 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: scribe us as of means? Would you describe us as 255 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: of means? Jerry? Not particularly? But for us, the difference 256 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: between South America and North Merrick was the kids in 257 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: South America were the fast kids. They were like they 258 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: knew what was going on. They were hip, and the 259 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: kids in North Merrick were like clueless. That's that's where 260 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: Ben and I found ourselves and the clueless bunch got it. 261 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 1: Like in gym class, it sounds like did you grow 262 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,080 Speaker 1: up in from similar families? Like did you have the 263 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: same sort of cultural messaging around you, meaning your parents 264 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: were driven? Did they say, you know, you have to 265 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: have a solid work ethic, you have to always have 266 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 1: a job, Like what about that? Well? Uh, let's see, 267 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: my father was a hard worker. He was a workaholic. Uh. 268 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: He was an auditor for the New York State Department 269 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 1: of Ordered and Control. Uh. He ordered it school districts 270 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: uh north of New York City. He found that, um, 271 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: the person who was stealing the money was usually the 272 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 1: little old lady who was watching the petty cash. Then 273 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:08,439 Speaker 1: he became a um, you know, kind of general manager 274 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: of a direct mail printing and advertising and mailing company, 275 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 1: and you know, he used to he used to talk 276 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: about his business management issues at the kitchen table, and 277 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: that was kind of an education for me. Did you 278 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: want to be a business person? No? I of course 279 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 1: wanted to be uh, you know, a policeman or a 280 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: firement or a carpenter. And my parents really eventually I 281 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: think I wanted to be an electrician, and they explained 282 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 1: to me, no, you don't want to be an electrician, 283 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: you want to be an electrical engineer. You know. I 284 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 1: kind of like working with my hands. I liked photography. 285 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: I was very good at extracurricular activities. But I wasn't 286 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:00,160 Speaker 1: very good at uh school. I mostly I had a 287 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: hard time motivating myself to do my own work. I 288 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 1: got it, I do get that. And so you were 289 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: the there's there's in my cocktail brand, skinny Girl. I 290 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: was the creative and the marketer and the vision and 291 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 1: my partner was the operations guy. So you, Ben were 292 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,720 Speaker 1: the creative and not that you're both not creative, well 293 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: get into that, but you were the creative in your business. 294 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: I was the marketing guy and Jerry was the guy 295 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: who made all the ice cream. Oh, so Jerry was operations. 296 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: Ben is is is of course being a little modest. 297 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:41,840 Speaker 1: He's incredibly creative and uh he he created everything. But 298 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: you know, and so going back to growing up, I 299 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 1: think education was important for me. And the message I 300 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: got from my parents was we don't care what you do. 301 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: As long as you're happy, We're going to support you 302 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: no matter what. You know. It was one of these 303 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 1: we love you no matter what sort of things and 304 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: very non directive, and that might have been a little 305 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,680 Speaker 1: different from the message Ben was getting. Yeah, I think 306 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: the message I was getting was that you should be 307 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: a lawyer right today was so you put, your parents 308 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: are more financially focused, which is interesting. Your parents are 309 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: more financially focused, and you were the creative and Jerry's 310 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 1: parents were more just be happy and live free, and 311 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: you ended up being the operations guys. So that's that's 312 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: interesting to me. Um. I read something that one of 313 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: you worked at Saratoga Springs Race Track for those listening, 314 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: the oldest racetrack in the country. I grew up going 315 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 1: to Saratoga and this summer because I grew up in 316 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: a horse racing family. My father was a Hall of 317 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: Fame horse racer trainer. My my father was Bobby Frankel. 318 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 1: He was in the Hall of Fame as a trainer. 319 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: My stepfather, John Parris Ella, was also a very successful 320 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: horse trainer. So we spent every summer in Saratoga. To 321 00:16:51,880 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: a separate podcast on how that place has changed. But 322 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: I remember from being a kid, I guess I've always 323 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: been brand aware my whole life. I've always know everything 324 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: to this day. I noticed every restaurant, every sign, every font, 325 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 1: every menu, and I remember that bench on that corner 326 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: not far from Mrs London's, I think, in Saratoga at 327 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: Ben and Jerry's, and that was the first time I 328 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: ever saw the brand. And that was a thousand years ago, 329 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:19,679 Speaker 1: and reading the reading today, I realized, if that was 330 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: early on in your brand. It started in Vermont and 331 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 1: that wasn't far behind, right, Yeah, I think that was 332 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: like the first or second franchise shop that we opened. 333 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 1: It was owned by a friend of ours from high school, 334 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: Jeff Durstuwitt's, and I was very involved personally in uh 335 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 1: in you know, helping to construct that um that shop 336 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: and design it. It was. It was in an old 337 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 1: gas station like our original and ben us Ben used 338 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: to work at Mrs London. It's a long time ago. 339 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,680 Speaker 1: It was one of the many jobs he got fired from. Yeah, 340 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 1: you know, Yes, I was a pinkerton guard at the 341 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: Saratoga Racetrack. Uh you know. They gave me a holster 342 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: with no gun in it and a badge and a 343 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: whistle and uh my job was to guard the Traverse canoe. 344 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: You're probably people I've told this story too that is 345 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: aware of the Traverse canoe and travers is a big 346 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: race like the Kentucky Derby of of Saratoga on the 347 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 1: third Saturday in August. So they had this canoe painted 348 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: in the colors of the jockey's uniform who won the Traverse, 349 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: and it was located in a little man made pond 350 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: behind the toadboard. Well, you got to be a cop. 351 00:18:47,560 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: You wanted to be a cop, so you've got to 352 00:18:49,040 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: be a cop. So the two of you get together 353 00:19:06,359 --> 00:19:08,719 Speaker 1: and how do your roles? Well, First of all, how 354 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: do you come up with the idea for your business 355 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: and how do your roles get to find Because people 356 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 1: listening are working in businesses, running their own businesses, a 357 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:17,359 Speaker 1: lot of them are interested in just the food space 358 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 1: and having an idea and it coming to fruition. I 359 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: just want to kind of understand your dynamic in the fruition, 360 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: the idea, how it came to fruition, and then how 361 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 1: does everyone fall into who they are in this building 362 00:19:28,680 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: of a brand. You know, it's it's funny, Bethany, because 363 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: when you describe it, you're making it sound like there 364 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 1: was a lot more thought and planning that went into 365 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 1: it for me, and nothing like that. I mean, we 366 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 1: we we started an ice cream shop because we were 367 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: failing and everything else we were trying to do. I 368 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: tried to get into medical school and got rejected from 369 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: all the medical schools I applied to. Ben was trying 370 00:19:56,560 --> 00:20:00,200 Speaker 1: to be a potter and nobody would buy his pot area. 371 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: And we just decided to open up an ice cream 372 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,479 Speaker 1: shop because we had always liked to eat, and we 373 00:20:06,520 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: thought we would do something with food, and we just 374 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: picked ice cream. Got it could have been anything. It 375 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: could have We thought about other things. We thought about bagels. 376 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: It could have been bagels. We thought about a fond restaurant, 377 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: We thought about a rotisseary restaurant. Well, that's a great point. 378 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: I agree. I just wanted to have a lowcality margharita. 379 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 1: It wasn't all that deep, and then exactly could have 380 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 1: been ten other things that I care about. But do 381 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 1: you believe that UM had it been now, knowing who 382 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 1: you both are and how you both fell into business 383 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 1: and you didn't know you were entrepreneurs, and you're undeniably entrepreneurs, 384 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:39,719 Speaker 1: and we'll get into that you did it in your 385 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: own caring, philanthropic way, we'll get into that. But do 386 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: you believe that if you had had a bagel store 387 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: or a fond store or whatever these other ideas were, 388 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 1: that it would have been successful? Now, knowing what you 389 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: know that it was ice cream, not not near a successful. 390 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: I think that UM America has a very deep love 391 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: affair with ice cream that's way beyond whatever they've got 392 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: with bagels, are fun due or rotisserie roasted foods or crepes, 393 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: Thank goodness for that, right, Ben? So there could have 394 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 1: been a luck. So that's a luck part. Look Oh yeah, 395 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: It's definitely definitely a bunch of luck. And we ended 396 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 1: up getting into an industry that was growing quite rapidly 397 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: at the time, the super premium ice cream industry, and 398 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: the way the way we got into our roles. You know, 399 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 1: Ben Ben was creating all the flavors and I was 400 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: making the ice cream. And it was because I think 401 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: Ben knew what he wanted in ice cream. Uh he 402 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: wanted big chunks of cookies and candies, and he wanted 403 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: very strong flavors. And I was very comfortable with routines, 404 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 1: you know, sort of making ice cream, doing the same 405 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: thing over and over. I'm not creative at all, and 406 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: so I think we just kind of fell into what 407 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: we were doing based on what we enjoyed. You know, 408 00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 1: Jared keeps on saying he's not creative, But it was 409 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: Jerry who came up with our best promotion of all time, 410 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: which was pop Sidbiswe the penny off per celsius Degree 411 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 1: below zero Winter Extravaganza. The colder it gets, the more 412 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,840 Speaker 1: you save forever degree below zero celsius, we would take 413 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: a penny off the cost of a cone, and you know, 414 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: at the time, a penny meant something you know. I 415 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:41,679 Speaker 1: mean the cone cost fifty cents. When it was really cold, 416 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 1: you could get one. Forts It was a brilliant concept, 417 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 1: I think. I think the actual execution or success of 418 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: the program was it didn't live up to what it 419 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 1: could have been. For whatever, we were not streaming in 420 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: the door when it was twenty below zero. But at 421 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: least left you. I know you were still around when 422 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 1: it was twenty below zero and it was market. Yeah, 423 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: you should have been around for the big January white 424 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 1: sale that we had us off anything white we had 425 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 1: in the store, vanilla cream. That's hilarious. Um well, but 426 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 1: it was so you were the formulator. It sounds like 427 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,879 Speaker 1: you were sort of the chemist. You were formulating and 428 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 1: then and then you were executing the duplication. It had 429 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 1: to be you know that that it was gonna that 430 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,879 Speaker 1: it was gonna work. So you said premium ice cream 431 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: became a big thing. And sometimes I think people wonder 432 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 1: myself included. So I'm in the sala addressing category and 433 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 1: some people are wondering whether they should be baking cookies 434 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 1: and it's so crowded or salt stuff. You go to 435 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: the Food and Wine Show, there's fifty types of salsa 436 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 1: and olive oil. So how much is when things are 437 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: competitive in a market good and when it's too much? 438 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: Meaning you were noticing that the premium ice cream category 439 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 1: was becoming more relevant. But in some cases that might 440 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,439 Speaker 1: scare somebody away because there's so much competition. But by 441 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: the same toe, can you want there to be to 442 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: be relevant and there to be a conversation to be 443 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: had in society? So how do people know how to 444 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:09,920 Speaker 1: gauge that, like when to jump into a crowded category, 445 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: but there's room for more people, room for more products. Well, 446 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:16,960 Speaker 1: we were certainly not jumping in with our eyes open. 447 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:19,520 Speaker 1: I mean we were not aware that it was a 448 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: growing category at the time. I mean, I think you 449 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:30,080 Speaker 1: just gotta do something that you're passionate about and that uh, 450 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 1: and that has a point of difference. Hopefully, the point 451 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: of difference is that it's really good unusual that that 452 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: it's a you know, you need to find a void 453 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: in the marketplace and let that be your niche. And 454 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: I think that in terms of kind of like least 455 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: cost stuff or stuff that's average, it's really hard for 456 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 1: a small company to compete with big companies in that area. 457 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,199 Speaker 1: Big companies are always going to do be able to 458 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 1: produce stuff at a lower cost, but they have a 459 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:12,440 Speaker 1: hard time producing really high quality stuff. How do you 460 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: honor the integrity of the brand, the initial culture of 461 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 1: the brand when it's growing, when you need to make 462 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 1: your margins, when you need to be competitive, how do 463 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: you both manage to do that? Or how have you 464 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: managed to that? How can people do that? I think 465 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:31,639 Speaker 1: Ben is uncompromising when it comes to quality. Uh. I 466 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,239 Speaker 1: remember in the early days when uh you know, when 467 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: we were this little company that had no resources, no money, 468 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: and if if the ice cream didn't come out perfect, 469 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: Ben would say, we got to dump it. And people 470 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: would go, we can't afford the dump it, Ben, and 471 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:50,239 Speaker 1: we can't do that, And there was no question in 472 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: Ben's mind. Uh, you cannot afford to not be doing 473 00:25:56,600 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: your best. So there's that element, and then you know, 474 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 1: Ben Ben is awful, spoken very eloquently about the inexorable 475 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:12,200 Speaker 1: drift towards the main street. Uh. How you know, everything 476 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: sort of pushes you to become more like everybody else 477 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: and for you to lose your difference and to lose 478 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: your quality not just around the quality of your product, 479 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 1: but around so many different things well, I hear every 480 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 1: day and all the different categories that I am, I hear, well, 481 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 1: this is trending, and we're seeing a lot of this 482 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 1: right now, and it literally makes my skin my hair 483 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 1: stand up on end because I don't want to do 484 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: what's trending and what you want to keep your own 485 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,480 Speaker 1: clear point of view, and it's not that easy to 486 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: do because partners are scared, retailers are scared. Other people 487 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: want you to sort of just go with the flow, 488 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,360 Speaker 1: and that's how you become a diluted version of yourself. 489 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: When I spoke to Cameron Diaz, she and her partner 490 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 1: were saying that in their relationships at home, if something 491 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 1: is really important to one person, then the other person 492 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: goes in that direction. So I'm wondering if that applies 493 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: to business. Have you two butt heads or you literally 494 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: just have always had this copasetic kumbay our relationship. I mean, 495 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 1: if one of you is really serious about something like 496 00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:11,879 Speaker 1: throwing away the batch and it's really important, does the 497 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:14,239 Speaker 1: other one just fall in because it's that much more 498 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: important to that person. It's amazing you bring that up, 499 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: because that was how we've operated. We we always and 500 00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 1: it was it wasn't unspoken. It was absolutely agreed that 501 00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: if somebody felt really strongly about something, they would get 502 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 1: their way. I can't even think of times, well maybe 503 00:27:34,359 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 1: one time, uh, where we both felt strongly about something, 504 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:46,399 Speaker 1: but by and large, it was extremely rare when we 505 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 1: when we butted heads. You know that the big disagreement 506 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: we've had that that we always talked about was the 507 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 1: size of the chunks in the ice cream. Done one well, 508 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 1: Ben one First, he was right in retrospect. It's easy 509 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 1: to say that in retrospect hindsight right or even even better. 510 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, and and this comes back to being the 511 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: creative person that Ben was, and this comes back to 512 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:18,479 Speaker 1: me being the operational person who was making the ice cream. 513 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 1: Ben wanted big chunks of cookies and candies in the 514 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:27,679 Speaker 1: ice cream. He always said, uh, people don't care if 515 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,120 Speaker 1: they get a chunk in every bite, as long as 516 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: they know there's a big chunk coming. And I would say, no, Ben, 517 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: we need a much better distribution of smaller chunks. That's 518 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,719 Speaker 1: you know, so people know it's in there, and you know. 519 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 1: At the same time, I was the guy making the 520 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: ice cream, and I can tell you it is a 521 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: lot harder putting big I was thinking about that the 522 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: machinery for to get through the like extrusion process or something, right, 523 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 1: I mean, Bethany, we've been making ice cream at Ben 524 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 1: and Jerry's for over forty years. You know the hallmar Well, 525 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:04,040 Speaker 1: one of the hallmarks is these big chunks of cookies 526 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 1: and candies. And there's still no the other ice cream 527 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: company putting in big chunks. It's that hard to do that, 528 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: Ben So. And back in the old days when I 529 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: was doing it, you know, yes, I thought, yeah, people 530 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 1: want more smaller chunks. But at the same time it 531 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 1: was making my life really uh, it wasn't. Hell. I 532 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 1: don't know what do you think, Ben, Is it more 533 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: expensive putting in big chunks? It's not more expensive unless 534 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: you put in more of them. Okay, I got you. 535 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 1: The original discussion was about should we have a larger 536 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 1: amount of smaller chunks or a smaller amount of larger chunks, 537 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 1: And eventually what we agreed on was the larger amount 538 00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: of larger chunks. So these are the little This is 539 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: the you know, this is the weeds that you sometimes 540 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: get into. And it sounds like you could have your 541 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,760 Speaker 1: The advice could be the same for a marriage as 542 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: it is for your business marriage. If it's important to you, 543 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: it's important to me. So it sounds like Ben Ben 544 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: used to go around saying a chunk is not a 545 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: chunk unless it's a chunk. And you know that on 546 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: the surface, it doesn't seem like there's a lot there, 547 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 1: but I can tell you there's a lot lurking there. 548 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, you are still both involved in 549 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: the brand on sort of advisory levels, right. I think 550 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: what we like to say is where we're employed at 551 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:41,040 Speaker 1: Ben and Jerry's, were not involved in management or operations. 552 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: But if they do well, you still both do well. Actually, 553 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: it's not like that at all. We I don't think, uh, 554 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: we do any better. Whether the company sells a lot 555 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,400 Speaker 1: of ice cream or not much ice cream, we kind 556 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: of do the same. So do you think that um 557 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: has the brand been preserved in the way that it 558 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: initially was um incubated and does it feel like the 559 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 1: culture is still there and the quality and the way 560 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 1: that you envisioned it. So Ben and Jerry's was acquired 561 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: by this larger company, Unilever, a little over twenty years ago. Uh, 562 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:19,080 Speaker 1: and Unilever is this very large consumer brands product that 563 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:23,040 Speaker 1: has all sorts of personal care brands and food brands. 564 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 1: So they make Hellman's mayonnaise, Dove soap. Uh. You know. 565 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 1: We always like to joke that on the same day 566 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,680 Speaker 1: they bought Ben and Jerry's, they also bought slim Fast, 567 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: So you know, they've got a really good sense of humor. Uh. 568 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 1: You know. So it's been twenty years. I would say 569 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,480 Speaker 1: for the first half of that time, it was really difficult. 570 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: I think Unilever and their leadership did not understand Ben 571 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: and Jerry's. They didn't really appreciate what made it what 572 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: it is. And then, you know, probably about ten years ago, 573 00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 1: there was a great CEO at Unilever, Paul Pullman, who 574 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,520 Speaker 1: retired just a few years ago, and he was very 575 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: committed to sustainability. He understood the values of the company, 576 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:14,800 Speaker 1: and I think at that time, Uh, Ben and Jerry's 577 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 1: started to thrive again, both in terms of the product 578 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: and in terms of the social mission. Uh. You know. 579 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: And one thing we haven't really talked about Bethany is 580 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: the social Mission company. But but and the only reason 581 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: I mentioned is because the success of the company is 582 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 1: attributable at least as much to the social mission of 583 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: the company as it is to the quality of the product, 584 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 1: and and the flavors and the chunks themselves that you 585 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: can't really separate them. They're all they're all part of 586 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: the mash. Well, I agree, because it's not just because 587 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: there are obviously two names attached, but there's a feeling 588 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: to the brand where you feel like the brand has 589 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,920 Speaker 1: a soul and not every single person knows the mission 590 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 1: and all of the philanthropic work you've done and how 591 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: you treated your employees, which we can get into, and 592 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: the culture, but there's something about the vibe of the 593 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,200 Speaker 1: brand that indicates that that it's sort of like a 594 00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 1: feel good, nice person, good person, not capitalism brand. It 595 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: just always felt like that, and I just think that 596 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:27,719 Speaker 1: came through in some of the flavors, and you know, 597 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: just the sort of the deadhead vibe and just giving 598 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,320 Speaker 1: back and the campaigns and all that. You know, a 599 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: lot of that was Ben too, you know Ben Ben uh. 600 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: You know, so the company started out very countercultural because 601 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: I think Ben and I were kind of countercultural. But 602 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:49,120 Speaker 1: the other thing about Ben is he's completely anti authoritarian, 603 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: which is part of his chure, and I think, you 604 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: know that was that was built into the company very 605 00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: early on. How do you be non entrepreneur real type 606 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 1: people and change with not only the times, but like 607 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:08,200 Speaker 1: you know, you have to be more corporate, more hr more. 608 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,160 Speaker 1: You need to grown up in the room who's smarter 609 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,160 Speaker 1: than you to just have these conversations that are not 610 00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: you're not naturally inclined to have, which I've read about 611 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 1: both of you, and it sounds like you went through that. 612 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: So how do people navigate these growing pains? Your ice 613 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 1: cream makers? You're doing well, You're making money. People like it, Like, 614 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: so how did you navigate that arc? Yeah? You know, 615 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 1: I I think the way you're talking about it is 616 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: exactly the way to do it. I mean, so for 617 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,360 Speaker 1: Ben and myself, I think it was recognizing the things 618 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: we were good at, and almost so that means recognizing 619 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: the things we were not that good at. Uh. You know, 620 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:49,160 Speaker 1: Ben and I are wonderful, caring, creative people, etcetera, etcetera. 621 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:56,240 Speaker 1: We're not managers. We were not good with policy and procedure, 622 00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 1: and and so we needed to bring in great people 623 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: and a team to do that. And I think that 624 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:08,360 Speaker 1: one of the critical aspects of that is finding people 625 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:13,319 Speaker 1: not just who have those skills, but people who share 626 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: the values and the culture that you bring. And I'm 627 00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: sure you could talk a lot about that, and you know, 628 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: it's got to be a fit. So both of you 629 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: are not quote unquote uh managers or those type of 630 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,439 Speaker 1: process oriented people, although you're more process oriented, but um 631 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,400 Speaker 1: do you both have a very serious work ethic, like 632 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,759 Speaker 1: get it done and work you know, as long as 633 00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 1: it takes to get it done. Very serious. You know. 634 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: In in the early days, we were living and sleeping 635 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 1: and eating uh at the ice cream shop we were 636 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: we were sleeping on top of the freezers in the 637 00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:55,000 Speaker 1: back room. So it was seven day a week, you know, 638 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 1: ten or twelve hours a day. Well, I guess that's 639 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 1: kind of on the shore side, but that's what I'm saying. 640 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,480 Speaker 1: And Jeffrey Katzenberg said on here, and he got into trouble. 641 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: I think about this comment he made years ago. This 642 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: is not literal, but he said, if you don't if 643 00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,440 Speaker 1: you don't come in on Saturday, don't bother coming in 644 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:13,279 Speaker 1: on Sunday, you know. But that's a true entrepreneur. And 645 00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 1: I just don't like to sugarcoat things to entrepreneurs because 646 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: everybody now is about you know, thinking about all the 647 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 1: time that they have off and getting our breaks and 648 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,520 Speaker 1: all that. You know, there's a whole new you get, 649 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:27,280 Speaker 1: you know, cancelation culture for everything not being totally perfect 650 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:31,240 Speaker 1: and in a square box of human resources. Well, that's 651 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: not what I experienced coming up. And the people that 652 00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: I know that are the most successful, that's not what 653 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,399 Speaker 1: they experienced either. So however, you all want to get 654 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,760 Speaker 1: it done. I'm just saying true entrepreneurs work their asses 655 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: off because someone else is willing to work there as well, 656 00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 1: you know, the nice the nice thing for Ben and me, uh, 657 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: you know, doing it together. And I think, well, I 658 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: can speak for myself. A lot of the reason I 659 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 1: was working so hard was I wanted to keep up 660 00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: my end of the bargain with Ben. I knew what 661 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,560 Speaker 1: he was still, I knew he was killing himself and 662 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,760 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't want to be the guy letting 663 00:37:04,800 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 1: things down. So yeah, that's the way it was for 664 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 1: both of us. I mean, we were both trying to 665 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,760 Speaker 1: work as hard as the other guy. You know, people 666 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: say how hard it is, you know, working with friends 667 00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:20,239 Speaker 1: or whatever. I think the experience we had was completely 668 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,439 Speaker 1: the opposite. I mean, we felt so lucky and still 669 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,879 Speaker 1: do to be working with each other because I mean, 670 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 1: you have that trust and you have that personal commitment 671 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:36,920 Speaker 1: to your your friendship, your relationship that I think for 672 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:41,280 Speaker 1: us goes much much deeper than the business, And um, 673 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 1: how do you think that someone is supposed to determine 674 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: whether they're really supposed to have a partner or be 675 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 1: on their own, Because it's a very different dynamic. For me, 676 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,399 Speaker 1: it was never a question about it. There's I mean 677 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 1: even today we're bet and I get to doing stuff together. 678 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: My first thing to Ben is, yeah, I'll do it 679 00:37:58,480 --> 00:37:59,880 Speaker 1: if you want to do it with me, but I'm 680 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 1: going to do it on my own. There had to 681 00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:19,600 Speaker 1: be a time when you didn't really have the money 682 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 1: to get the management that you needed to take this 683 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 1: thing to the next level and to scale it. How 684 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: did you how do you deal with that? And did 685 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: you know you were going to scale it? Like? What 686 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 1: are you thinking in that weird purgatory time? You know, 687 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 1: I think uh, Ben and Jerry's was always under resourced 688 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:40,879 Speaker 1: in terms of money or whatever until it popped off 689 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: and you got bought. Yeah, but you know, at that point, uh, 690 00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: you know, there was we weren't running it. I mean, 691 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,440 Speaker 1: we weren't running it well before then, but you owned it. 692 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 1: You had someone else running it well before then, but 693 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: you owned it had you sold off apart to that person. 694 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,120 Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad to not have all the 695 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 1: resources you think you need. You find ways to do it, 696 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: You find smarter, less expensive ways to do things, and 697 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 1: you make it work. It. It makes you think smarter 698 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:20,040 Speaker 1: about what you're doing. And uh, it certainly keeps you focused, right, 699 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you're you don't get unfocused when when you're 700 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,719 Speaker 1: trying to figure out how to get something done that 701 00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: you don't really have the resources to do. How do 702 00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:30,640 Speaker 1: you know when to hold them? And went to fold them, 703 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,720 Speaker 1: went to sell someone to let go? Like what? Because 704 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: I had my own reason for those decisions that evolved 705 00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 1: things that are not sexy, like intellectual property versus money, 706 00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,320 Speaker 1: and street cred versus money, so or just not getting 707 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:46,120 Speaker 1: sued versus money. You know, what are the decisions when 708 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: you're saying should we sell? We didn't want the company 709 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,360 Speaker 1: to be sold even at the point it got acquired. 710 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: But what had happened was Ben and Jerry's was a 711 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: public company. The company started in nineteen seventy as this 712 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: little homemade ice cream parlor, and the company had a 713 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,600 Speaker 1: stock offering just within the state of Vermont. Why I 714 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 1: don't I just don't understand why. Uh, well, the company 715 00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: needed to raise some money, and Ben found this, uh 716 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 1: kind of obscure law in the state of Vermont that 717 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: said you could sell stock in the company to vermonts. 718 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,719 Speaker 1: And the reason we wanted to do that was to 719 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: give people in Vermont who had been supporting the company 720 00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 1: an opportunity to become owners of the business. And uh, 721 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 1: you know, that way, the company would be owned by 722 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:51,760 Speaker 1: essentially the local community, so that as the business prospered, 723 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 1: the owners the local community would automatically process. Wow, that 724 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 1: is interesting and very on brand for you guys culturally. Okay, 725 00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,800 Speaker 1: that's right. And and and then a couple of years 726 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: after that, the company had a national public stock offering, 727 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:11,480 Speaker 1: so that was in about It's interesting that you say 728 00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:15,280 Speaker 1: we were on brand for the company's culture. We weren't 729 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: trying to be on brand. We were just trying to 730 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:24,080 Speaker 1: be what we believed in. We were trying to use 731 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,960 Speaker 1: this need for cash, you know, they were there was 732 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,799 Speaker 1: a bunch of venture capitalists that were coming to us 733 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 1: saying we want to invest in your company, and we 734 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 1: we instead of I mean, essentially, the way we saw 735 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,799 Speaker 1: that was it was essentially a bunch of people who 736 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:49,279 Speaker 1: already had a whole lot of money. You wanted more right, 737 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,560 Speaker 1: you would you want to do like a co op. 738 00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:55,120 Speaker 1: We wanted people wanted to share the wealth. We wanted 739 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 1: to spread the wealth. We wanted people who did not 740 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,400 Speaker 1: already have a whole lot of money to have a 741 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 1: chance to get in on the ground floor. But that 742 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: was the rose that I had pedal and Thorn's because 743 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: that one move made you end up having to do 744 00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,439 Speaker 1: the I p O, which made you end up having 745 00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,840 Speaker 1: to sell. So it was like a weird journey that 746 00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:18,840 Speaker 1: you didn't necessarily want to be on. I don't I 747 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 1: don't think that one move required us to have the 748 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 1: I p O. I mean, you know, the the national 749 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 1: I p O. Uh. You know, eventually we did. And 750 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:36,400 Speaker 1: you know, I think that if we had been a 751 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 1: little smarter, uh, we would not I've been forced to 752 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 1: to sell the company. But you know, interesting we live 753 00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: and we learned, don't we wow? So is that I 754 00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,680 Speaker 1: usually ask later in the conversation, is that your rose 755 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 1: and your thorn, or that was not a rose at all? 756 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:57,920 Speaker 1: Was that a rose at the time? And you're high 757 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 1: and you're low. Well know, one out of every hundred 758 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:08,680 Speaker 1: Vermont families bought stock and Ben and Jerry's uh totally rosy. 759 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,839 Speaker 1: So I don't know, I mean what you're I mean, 760 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: so you're talking about roses and you're talking about Thorn's 761 00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: what you want to talk about? What was? What was? 762 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 1: What was bad? Or you're you're trying to sit not 763 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 1: meaning like a daily fight or like the thing of 764 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,760 Speaker 1: your careers. I usually ask it later, but it sounds 765 00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: like this is a complicated thing that went down. So 766 00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 1: usually the roses like the high of the career, and 767 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 1: then you know, the thorn is the low of the career. 768 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,280 Speaker 1: You know, I think the low is when the company 769 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 1: got sold. Uh, you know, both Jerry and I tried 770 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 1: to keep it independent. And I think that's good for 771 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 1: people to hear because people always think when they read 772 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: the headlines, somebody sold that that is like their big 773 00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,319 Speaker 1: pay day and everybody's all excited. And there are many 774 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:56,560 Speaker 1: things that make people have to do things their intellectual 775 00:43:56,600 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 1: property issues that go on with certain people that they 776 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 1: end up losing their name and they don't even realize it. 777 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: There are issues like this that you're talking about, where 778 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 1: things get out of your hands and people say to me, 779 00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,759 Speaker 1: if I sold half my business, now I have a 780 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 1: bigger dog collar on my neck, a different person to 781 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: aunt driving this sleigh. Like, So, just for entrepreneurs at home, 782 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 1: what would you say, Like, what's the message behind all 783 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,560 Speaker 1: of this? You can help other people because people all 784 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,240 Speaker 1: want a big event, you know, a big financial event, 785 00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: and they may be careful what you wish for. You know, 786 00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 1: It's funny you ask about the highs and the lowest. 787 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: When I think about Ben and Jerry's Uh, the greatest 788 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 1: thing for me is not that the company got successful 789 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 1: or made a lot of money or that it Uh. 790 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,480 Speaker 1: The greatest things for me that I think about are 791 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 1: the experiences, the relationships. It's all about that. It's it's 792 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 1: not that, uh. You know, at one point the company 793 00:44:57,320 --> 00:45:00,840 Speaker 1: sold X number of dollars of ice cream, owns or whatever. 794 00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:04,880 Speaker 1: It's it's never about that. One of the house for 795 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 1: us was scooping ice cream Occupy Wall Street, Uh in 796 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:19,440 Speaker 1: New York. I mean I I felt like, you know, 797 00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 1: being able to help support that movement by giving ice 798 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: cream to people and by just lending the credibility of 799 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:33,319 Speaker 1: Ben and Jerry's to it. UH to me was a 800 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:39,000 Speaker 1: real high point that I felt like this, this was 801 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,120 Speaker 1: why we created, this is why Ben and Jerry's came 802 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,239 Speaker 1: to be. It's truly I say this all the time. 803 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:48,399 Speaker 1: The people that I speak to you are truly successful. 804 00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,839 Speaker 1: Nobody is about the money. You can't. I once knew 805 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,200 Speaker 1: a girl who said, I have to find a product 806 00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,319 Speaker 1: to sell. I need to find white space. I'm looking 807 00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 1: for white space. And I thought, what a moron. It's 808 00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:03,040 Speaker 1: inside of you. You know what I mean? Inside you 809 00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 1: is what are you passionate about? What do you love, 810 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,360 Speaker 1: what do you not like? What's bothering you? It's aggregated 811 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 1: whatever it is like. That's what true entrepreneurialism is to me, 812 00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: and that's what we're saying. Paul Pullman, who is the 813 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: former CEO of Unilever, just came out with a book 814 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:29,920 Speaker 1: called net Positive, and it is about how corporations, businesses, 815 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: what they need to do in our new world is 816 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 1: to meet the needs of the society, to deal with 817 00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:44,960 Speaker 1: the issues of racial injustice, to deal with the issues 818 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: of economic injustice, and the environment, and that it is 819 00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:57,320 Speaker 1: by using the power of their businesses and integrating those 820 00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:02,640 Speaker 1: values into their business that they end up becoming successful, 821 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,680 Speaker 1: high profit businesses. So it's a win win. You're saying, 822 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,440 Speaker 1: your whole entire business was about what you truly felt, 823 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,600 Speaker 1: and the values were coming through in the brand and 824 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:15,040 Speaker 1: the products. So it was based. That's a good foundation. 825 00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 1: That's a house that's built on a solid foundation, is 826 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:21,279 Speaker 1: what you're saying. You know, it's it's it's a really interesting, uh, 827 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:29,439 Speaker 1: facet of the human experience that as you give, you receive. Yes, 828 00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,279 Speaker 1: as you help others, you're helped in return. As you 829 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:39,359 Speaker 1: authentically give, business supports the community, the community supports your business. 830 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: I mean, it's nothing more really than uh the golden rule. 831 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,880 Speaker 1: But you know, you you can't prove it. You can't 832 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 1: prove that, well, we we did all this stuff to 833 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:59,600 Speaker 1: support the community, and that is why we've become more profitable. 834 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 1: But I can tell you that we did do all 835 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,600 Speaker 1: this stuff to support the community. We did take all 836 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:13,000 Speaker 1: these social and political stands, and the company kept on 837 00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 1: getting more and more profitable. Well that's an amazing construct. 838 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:18,440 Speaker 1: But also from what I've read, you also did that 839 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 1: internally in your business, like externally in the community, but 840 00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,960 Speaker 1: in your internal community it was a great workplace. You've 841 00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: made that a serious priority. Whether you're good to quote 842 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 1: unquote managers or not. You managed to make sure that 843 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:35,960 Speaker 1: the your employees were happy. You know, our company started 844 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 1: in seventy eight. Uh. In the eighties, Uh, we were 845 00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 1: giving healthcare benefits to domestic partners. We had a compressed 846 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:52,720 Speaker 1: salary ratio so that the highest paid person didn't get 847 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:56,280 Speaker 1: more than five times with the lowest paid person got. 848 00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,759 Speaker 1: I don't know, I just cared about that stuff. I think. 849 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 1: I think part of it for Benning me was we 850 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: had no business training. We we you know, we didn't 851 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:12,239 Speaker 1: go to business school whatever. And and the other thing was, uh, 852 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 1: we didn't really see ourselves as bosses. We had much 853 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,320 Speaker 1: more of a of a worker mentality because we'd always 854 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 1: worked for other people and we wanted to run a 855 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: company the way we would want to be treated. Right. 856 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 1: I mean that just kind of makes sense. Right. That's 857 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,080 Speaker 1: amazing for people listening, because it makes people think no 858 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: one's an expert on I think, which you weren't and 859 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 1: which I wasn't. Do you have any I guess you 860 00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,359 Speaker 1: kind of said your regrets, but any regrets are big 861 00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,359 Speaker 1: mistakes that people could learn from what what you could 862 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 1: have done differently, that they would do differently. Well, I 863 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:50,160 Speaker 1: think we we used to and continue to make mistakes 864 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 1: all the time. You you just referenced it yourself that 865 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,520 Speaker 1: you know, you have to be trying new things, you 866 00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:01,920 Speaker 1: have to be taking risks, and some sizeable percentage of 867 00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:05,840 Speaker 1: those things don't work, they fail, and you have you 868 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 1: were Ben you wrote a book right above the Indeed, 869 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 1: I did to write a book. Uh, it's about what 870 00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:16,799 Speaker 1: Jerry and I are focused on right now, which is 871 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:21,759 Speaker 1: the campaign to end qualified immunity. Uh. You know, there's 872 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:27,440 Speaker 1: a there's a loophole in the law whereby if police 873 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 1: officers break the law, they get off scott free. They're 874 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 1: immune from prosecution. And that's the reason why you see, 875 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:44,680 Speaker 1: uh these situations where rogue cops will be brutalizing or 876 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:49,640 Speaker 1: murdering on armed black people and they get off with 877 00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:51,600 Speaker 1: a slap on the wrist or a lot of times 878 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 1: they're they're not prosecuted. It's because of this particular legal 879 00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:01,439 Speaker 1: doctrine that needs to be overturned. So we are part 880 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:08,319 Speaker 1: of a coalition now of over two dozen organizations including Uh, 881 00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 1: the a c o U and Americans for Prosperity and 882 00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,960 Speaker 1: the Cato Institute and the n a CP Legal Defense Fund, 883 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:23,600 Speaker 1: that all understand that this is not just. And you know, 884 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:27,120 Speaker 1: I think the thing that we've been thinking about lately 885 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 1: is that, you know, so many people look at this 886 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:34,080 Speaker 1: as a black problem, that it's black people that are 887 00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:38,799 Speaker 1: getting murdered and abused, but the reality is that it's 888 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:43,240 Speaker 1: a white problem. That we live in a white society. 889 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: It's a majority white culture. The police who act in 890 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,840 Speaker 1: our name and with our money are people that we 891 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 1: white people put in power, and when they go and 892 00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:02,719 Speaker 1: screw up, we need to take responsibility and hold them accountable. 893 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:08,400 Speaker 1: And so that's that's what we're working on. Fabulous. And 894 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: are you both in relationships? I don't. I didn't read 895 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,360 Speaker 1: anything about your personal life. I don't know if that's intentional. 896 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,800 Speaker 1: You don't have to tell me about you guys. You 897 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 1: have kids? What a wife? I got a daughter, I 898 00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 1: got a granddaughter. Okay, what about you? Ben? I would 899 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,040 Speaker 1: say that we're very, very happily married, both of us, 900 00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,840 Speaker 1: not to each other, but to to our beautiful wives. 901 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: And uh, we we both have grandchildren. Were are your 902 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:40,440 Speaker 1: wife's friends. Yeah. In fact, we uh Ben and some 903 00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,520 Speaker 1: other friends and his beautiful wife were over her brunch 904 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:47,799 Speaker 1: on on Saturday and we hang at we're all members 905 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 1: of the fifty one club. Are you probably not familiar 906 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:56,160 Speaker 1: with the tift one club In Vermont, Bethany, there is 907 00:52:56,440 --> 00:53:00,400 Speaker 1: a club called it. No, it's it's people who go 908 00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:03,880 Speaker 1: to visit all two hundred and fifty one towns in 909 00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:08,840 Speaker 1: the state of Vermont. It's the Vermont to Oh that's cool. 910 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:10,759 Speaker 1: I thought it was like that. I thought, I thought, 911 00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,480 Speaker 1: because you guys have in Vermont. It was that like 912 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,719 Speaker 1: the pot smoking time that's that day. I don't know 913 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,960 Speaker 1: what it is a time. It sounded like, God, I'm 914 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 1: such so stupid. Well, all right, well you're getting your 915 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 1: number twenty vermonttown. My beautiful wife and I are actually 916 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:37,600 Speaker 1: going on a two fifty one club tour through southern 917 00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 1: Vermont UH starting at the end of this week Thursday, Friday, Saturday. 918 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:48,280 Speaker 1: Will be visiting UH near Burlington, the big city near Banton, Okay, 919 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,799 Speaker 1: because I love Stows, such a good mountain not that 920 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,239 Speaker 1: far away. And you know what's on the wage Stow, 921 00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 1: don't you don't? But it's the Ben and Jerry's Factory 922 00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 1: in Waterbury, the number one tourist attraction in Vermont. I'll 923 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 1: now I can bring my daughter and tell her that 924 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:03,840 Speaker 1: I know you guys, and you can get me ahead 925 00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,400 Speaker 1: to jump the line with brand for ice cream. Yeah, 926 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:10,279 Speaker 1: we're going to take really good care of you and 927 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:13,480 Speaker 1: your daughter when we come. Yeah, okay, I'm gonna take 928 00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:15,240 Speaker 1: our road trip to go to the Ben and Jerry. 929 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 1: That's amazing. I'm so excited. I was like, I think 930 00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:21,040 Speaker 1: your name is probably still pretty valuable around there. Um. Wow, 931 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:23,719 Speaker 1: what an interesting conversation. I know we had some back 932 00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: and forth ahead of time. Wait before I just want 933 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,080 Speaker 1: to tell you when you come visit the factory, Bethany, 934 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:32,160 Speaker 1: you can go visit the flavor Graveyard. You can go 935 00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:38,320 Speaker 1: visit some of the dearly departed flavors that are buried 936 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:43,359 Speaker 1: right there on the ground. White what Russian who was 937 00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 1: resurrected a couple of times, but they came back from 938 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:51,400 Speaker 1: the dead Halloween. It's perfect thing for you guys to 939 00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 1: do around Halloween, bring bring bring flavors back from the dead. Right, 940 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 1: such a good conversation, and I appreciate you trusting me. 941 00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 1: So it was a pleasure. Yes, thank you for interesting conversation. 942 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,520 Speaker 1: Thank you. I'd like to I'd like to hear more 943 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:10,359 Speaker 1: about your ventures sometimes and then drink Skinny Girl. Yeah, 944 00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 1: they certainly can. Again, I don't. I I sold off 945 00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:17,520 Speaker 1: the Skinny Girl. I owned the Skinny Girl intellectual property 946 00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:19,840 Speaker 1: except for in cocktail, so I kept all the I 947 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 1: P So imagine if you kept Ben and Jerry's in uh, 948 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:26,319 Speaker 1: you know, lip gloss and makeup and every genes and 949 00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,760 Speaker 1: everything else. That's what I did. Uh yeah, we we 950 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,720 Speaker 1: we don't have any intellectual property. All we have is ourselves. 951 00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: We have the real Ben Jerry. Awesome, Thank you, have 952 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:50,440 Speaker 1: a great day, by bye. That was incredible. It's so 953 00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 1: great when you have a conversation where it goes so 954 00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:55,160 Speaker 1: well and at the end you could tell Ben and 955 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 1: Jerry were so happy because they're probably not having conversations 956 00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:00,520 Speaker 1: like this, And that's what I want this to be, 957 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:06,200 Speaker 1: if you can have an entertaining takeaway conversation without being 958 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 1: about just hawking products or trying to catch somebody in something. 959 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:13,480 Speaker 1: So they were amazing. I now knowing what I know, 960 00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,080 Speaker 1: the fact that it almost didn't happen this interview, I'm 961 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:19,760 Speaker 1: so happy that I pushed through to make everybody feel comfortable. 962 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:21,480 Speaker 1: You know that I'll say, this will be the best 963 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,959 Speaker 1: conversation you're ever going to have. Just have it, and 964 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,239 Speaker 1: people love it. So I'm so thrilled and I'm so 965 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 1: grateful to you, and we keep going and it's so successful, 966 00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:32,719 Speaker 1: and I just want you to keep rating, reviewing, and 967 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 1: subscribing because UM obsessed loving these conversations.