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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

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Speaker 1: If you need advice on dating, on sex, on parenting,

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Speaker 1: on relationships, work, and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter live on the air,

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Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here,

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Speaker 1: right now. Buggle up, hold on tight, we gotta fall

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Speaker 1: you here it ease. Strawberry Letter, Thank you, nephew. Subject

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Speaker 1: anywhere except the bedroom. Dear Stephen Shirley, I truly need

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Speaker 1: your advice on this one. I'm twenty eight years old,

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Speaker 1: and so is my girlfriend. We have been together six

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Speaker 1: months and I really like her, But lately I think

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Speaker 1: she's lost her darned mind. She has a crazy new

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Speaker 1: habit that's very embarrassing and illegal. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: lose her, so I've been going along with it. She

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Speaker 1: likes to have sex a lot, and that's fine with me,

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Speaker 1: but she has become obsessed with having sex in public places. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but it started a month ago. See the difference there.

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Speaker 1: It started a month ago when we went to see

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Speaker 1: a movie. We sat in the back so we could

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Speaker 1: neck and ear, and she knew I was getting excited.

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Speaker 1: Before I knew it, she had jumped on my lap

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Speaker 1: and we had sex in the movie theater. I tried

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Speaker 1: to enjoy it, but I was so scared of getting caught.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't get into it like I wanted to. Now,

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Speaker 1: whenever we're out, she wants to do it somewhere random.

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Speaker 1: We've done it in the car, in the grocery store

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Speaker 1: parking lot, we did it in the bathroom at my

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Speaker 1: friend's house party. We did it in the driveway at

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Speaker 1: her parents house, and we did it on the rooftop

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Speaker 1: of my apartment building. I know there are cameras everywhere,

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Speaker 1: and I don't want to go to jail for a

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Speaker 1: lewd act in public. The quality of our sex is

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Speaker 1: not the same when we're at home, and she is

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Speaker 1: not as aggressive. She said that regular sex at home

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Speaker 1: is boring, and she refuses to do it in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: I have tried to have sex with her in the

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Speaker 1: living room or in the kitchen, and she will suggest

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Speaker 1: that we go on the patio or out to the

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Speaker 1: car instead. I can't keep my best performance in public

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Speaker 1: because the stress of getting caught takes over. I need

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Speaker 1: her to get used to having regular, safe sex again.

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Speaker 1: Am I being a weirdo for not enjoying this? Please help? Well?

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Speaker 1: I mean no, I don't think you're being a weirdo

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Speaker 1: or anything for not enjoying it. I mean you've stated,

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Speaker 1: and maybe that's the problem here. She's what you call

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Speaker 1: really really freaky. How is it that at just twenty eight,

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Speaker 1: regular sex in the bedroom or in the house somewhere

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Speaker 1: is a problem for her or it's boring to her.

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Speaker 1: You have every right to be concerned about your reputation,

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Speaker 1: about your future, and what could happen if things go wrong,

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Speaker 1: if you guys get caught some people, you know, that's

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Speaker 1: the excitement, the getting caught part. What if we get caught?

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Speaker 1: You know, we all know in life, one bad decision

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Speaker 1: can follow you for the rest of your life. Whether

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Speaker 1: it's hidden cameras or cell phone cameras, this type of

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Speaker 1: behavior can cause a lifetime of embarrassment. It really can.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I got to ask you. I know

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Speaker 1: you said that you know she refuses to do it

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Speaker 1: talked to her about this, about how it stresses you

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Speaker 1: out and how you can't perform because of it. I

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Speaker 1: mean a lot of guys would love to be in

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Speaker 1: your shoes. You just got to decide is she worth

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Speaker 1: these risks? And it doesn't sound like she is. You

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Speaker 1: said you don't want to go to jail and for

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Speaker 1: doing a lewd act in public, So I mean, hey,

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Speaker 1: you got to talk to her about this. Really, you

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Speaker 1: guys have to stop this. This is crazy. Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what's with the side where Shelley? I ain't got no

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Speaker 1: idea how much it is you're gonna let me do

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Speaker 1: so you're a caller, I want to get ready to

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Speaker 1: tell me I'm going to I think just now, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you think she gonna lost some mind because you

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Speaker 1: up watching this movie from back road so we could talk. Look,

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Speaker 1: the talk. Start kissing on your neck. You got excited.

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Speaker 1: Before I knew it, she had jumped on my lap.

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Speaker 1: We had sex in the movie. Then I tried to enjoy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you did it. I tried to

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Speaker 1: I understand. I couldn't get into it like I wanted to.

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Speaker 1: I understand. But you, young boy, you got to get

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Speaker 1: it in while you can and wherever you came qualify.

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Speaker 1: Our sex is not the same when we at home.

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Speaker 1: She's not as aggressive. She says that regular sex at

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Speaker 1: home is born. She don't want to do it in

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Speaker 1: the bed room. You don't tried having sex with the liberal.

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Speaker 1: I guess you thought that was excited. Well, you don't

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Speaker 1: wanna do it in barrel? It's going liberal? Well how

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Speaker 1: about it did? How about only Lucy? Now? She want

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Speaker 1: to go out to the Patty on the car. I

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Speaker 1: can't give my best performance in public. Well me, Tommy

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Speaker 1: and Junior here to let you know that most of

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Speaker 1: our best performances have been in public. Yes, sir, So

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Speaker 1: you have said this to the wrong people. What So

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Speaker 1: when I come back, I'm gonna tell you the way

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Speaker 1: to cure this problem. But you're gonna have to listen

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Speaker 1: to me because it's gonna it's gonna take some real doing.

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Speaker 1: Stay with me, young man, You about to learn yourself.

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Speaker 1: So all right, hold that thought, Steve. We'll have part

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Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject anywhere except in

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Speaker 1: the bedroom. We'll be back right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters,

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Speaker 1: subject anywhere accept the bedroom. Well, this twenty eight year

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Speaker 1: old couple, this dude and said that this woman came

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Speaker 1: up with this crazy new habit. She got to have

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Speaker 1: sex in public. They didn't done it at the movie theater.

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Speaker 1: She can't do it at home no more because she

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Speaker 1: said it's embarrassing that it said. It's not exciting to

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Speaker 1: young man don't know what to do because he liked her,

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Speaker 1: but he can't perform his best in public. What I've

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Speaker 1: had some of my better performances in public, and that's everywhere.

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Speaker 1: So here's my suggestion to you you are dating an exhibitionists. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a woman who is a thrill seeker, and the extra

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Speaker 1: thought of being in public and getting caught is erotic

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Speaker 1: gotta embarrass huh in public. What you got to do

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Speaker 1: is overdo it. You got to out do hug. Come on,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do it when we're in line at the break.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, Now all listen here, y'all. All the

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Speaker 1: on the paddy hiding the car at the bank. They're

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Speaker 1: not doing it. We're making a deposit. Tell you what,

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Speaker 1: shut up. We at your aunt's wake Friday, perfect time

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Speaker 1: does everybody leads right over that behind that casket. Come

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Speaker 1: on me and you girl, let's go for your grandmama's

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Speaker 1: that prescription medicine sitting on the champie and her teeth

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Speaker 1: y'all talking to that's how that little for you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's perfect gold right now? Yeah, I got another one

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Speaker 1: for you. Back into the house. She don't like the bedroom,

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Speaker 1: No mot let's go into kitchen. Yeah, open up the

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Speaker 1: oven dough and do it on. The dough is strong,

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Speaker 1: but the oven O two twenty five for a little

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Speaker 1: extra heat. That's pretty heat. That would be pretty high yoga.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty eat. I tell you what. On that damnfridgerator.

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Speaker 1: crispy being huh and watch this hill. Watch them eggs,

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Speaker 1: don't break them? Here? Can I go up in here?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead of time that's going on. That's going on

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Speaker 1: to the amusement park. Get on that roller coaster, and

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Speaker 1: when we getting ready to come down on that big one, God,

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Speaker 1: all our clothes come down to that's what we're going

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Speaker 1: right down on the way down, baby, on the way down. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the stomach falls. Yeah, let's when it's good. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying, I'm just I got another one. Oh, let's

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Speaker 1: halla boo, we go boom you Yeah, so all this

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Speaker 1: is to break her? Oh? Yeah? Can I just get

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Speaker 1: one in on? You got to go ahead here? Why

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Speaker 1: don't they do this? Pass the anniversary. Let's go get

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Speaker 1: want to Do you want to thrill, don't you. That's

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Speaker 1: three o'clock service right there. Yeah, three o'clock service right

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Speaker 1: down here, and pass his office. Let's go. Okay, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Don't take it on, Let's take it up about thirty

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Speaker 1: thousand feet. Let's do that. We're gonna go parachute. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna but when we jump out, when we pull it, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're pulling it. When we pull it, we're pulling it

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Speaker 1: all right, Say we do it? Yeah, all the way

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Speaker 1: down the way. I'll tell you what. I got one

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Speaker 1: we doing about? Yeah? I like good. Ain't nothing like good?

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Speaker 1: Dragon love? Okay, Yeah, that's a good. Let's go to

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Speaker 1: How y'all. Yeah, that's good. I got one for you

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Speaker 1: right here. I'm abous two first class tickets on the

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Speaker 1: airplane come on, I want you to get up. Open

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Speaker 1: the curtain the first class. But just put Joe hand

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Speaker 1: They don't see none but your head. They don't know

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Speaker 1: why you move. I'm gonna be back there, first class.

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Speaker 1: Just do it. Yeah, your hand is in coach. People

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Speaker 1: in coach looking up. What does ship do it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Make sure you hit them typeless while you and not

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Speaker 1: hit them now, that's what I think will break all this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: too freaky. All right, thanks guys, I think. Post your

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