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Speaker 1: All right, this is from Trent On Steve HARVEFM. Trent says,

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Speaker 1: now that Thanksgiving is over, it's on to Christmas. Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: was busy enough, but I had no clue about the

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Speaker 1: number of Christmas parties my wife had committed to committed

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Speaker 1: us to. When she laid out the list. There were

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Speaker 1: nine of them. And that doesn't include the work party

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Speaker 1: that I will have to go to.

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Speaker 2: This is way too much. Nine parties.

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Speaker 1: I need to get my wife to cut this list

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Speaker 1: down significantly before I approach her with this conversation. Morning crew,

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Speaker 1: Please tell me how many Christmas parties are enough.

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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what you're gonna have to do,

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Speaker 3: but you don't have to get a you gotta get

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Speaker 3: a positive COVID test.

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Speaker 2: What what?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when we'll get out of the Christmas party, you're

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Speaker 3: gonna have to get a positive COVID test though, you

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Speaker 3: gotta get sick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no way. He could just have a regular

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Speaker 1: conversation with his wife.

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Speaker 4: Oh, you have it, but she committed to this.

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Speaker 2: He's at least got to go to the office party

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Speaker 2: with her.

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Speaker 4: Well, he's going to the two office parties. Got to

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Speaker 4: do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, nine to excessive. It's very much.

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Speaker 3: My wife would have never done that because she don't

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Speaker 3: want to do that.

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Speaker 4: Nine Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Or if you commit to the nine, you just know

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Speaker 1: your husband going to too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can't think of nine people I.

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't like you?

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Speaker 4: Well, how many is on the show you love everyone?

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Speaker 3: I'm not coming to y'all Christmas party, I'm.

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Speaker 4: No, Junior. Ain't nobody coming.

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Speaker 3: To your house on Junior piet because you're over there

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Speaker 3: choking people. So no, we're not coming to your house.

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Speaker 3: Argue about who daddy or the mama, and then and

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Speaker 3: then and then and then retensary.

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Speaker 4: Over there, crime and all like that. Ain't nobody but

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Speaker 4: back to you, Steve.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna give us a Christmas party? You used to

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Speaker 2: do that.

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Speaker 4: What happened?

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Speaker 1: Well? Bonuses, all of that.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, things ain't what they used to be.

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Speaker 1: You know what.

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Speaker 2: Inflation, prices, aging.

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Speaker 4: Crime, you know, trumpet off them towns. That Christmas party?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sit over here, putting all them tales on everybody.

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Speaker 4: We came from. Bonuses.

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Speaker 2: Yeah we've had yeah, oh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, so we ain't had a bonus?

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Speaker 4: Is Junior been here not one? How long?

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Speaker 3: Trying to have a whole nother family people not liking you. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Junior salary cut into the bonus structure.

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Speaker 2: What oh is that how it happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know Junior, y'all bonuses was I had to

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Speaker 3: pay him out a summer. Then when I had to

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Speaker 3: start paying Junior, that was the bonus structure.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, bye, nice knowing you, Junior.

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Speaker 2: Nice working with you.

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Speaker 1: It is by groceries, no eggs, no baked gas. All right,

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Speaker 1: we have time for another one, Steve. This is from

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Speaker 1: Angel on Steve Harvey. F M. Angel says, my my,

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Speaker 1: my mom has always.

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Speaker 2: Struggled with relationships.

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Speaker 1: She and my dad split when I was a teenager,

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Speaker 1: and from my perspective, he was a great guy.

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Speaker 2: She should have tried harder to hold on to.

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Speaker 1: Since then, she's had one bad relationship after another until

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Speaker 1: usually because she pushes away the good ones and clings

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Speaker 1: to men who treat her poorly. Now She's finally with

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Speaker 1: a genuinely nice guy, and I'm terrified she's going to

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Speaker 1: mess this up too. From the outside, it seems so

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Speaker 1: obvious how she sabotages her own happiness, but she can't

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Speaker 1: see it.

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Speaker 4: I want to.

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Speaker 1: Protect her and help her keep something healthy for once.

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Speaker 1: But I have no idea how to get her to

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Speaker 1: recognize her own patterns and avoid her hurting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well it's her, Yeah, it's her. It may not

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Speaker 4: even be the guys. It could just be her. Yeah

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Speaker 4: that's what yah mintle she Oh you can't help.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, look at.

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Speaker 1: The all right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show coming.

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Speaker 2: Up right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 2: Morning Show.