WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dude, Where's Her Car?

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<v Speaker 1>Second date. We got an email from one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners who described her first date as messy. Oh not

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<v Speaker 1>physically messy, Okay, maybe emotionally messy, mentally messy, just messy.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know. Something she spilled a drink or something. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I had a date once that ended with

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<v Speaker 1>whipped cream all over my pants. That was messy. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that's emotionally messy. It was delicious, though, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta say. And one of our listener's name is Mary

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<v Speaker 1>Louise or can I call you Mary? Or do you

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<v Speaker 1>prefer to be called Mary Louise? You can totally call

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<v Speaker 1>me Mary. People call me both all Mary. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear all about your messy date, but first tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the guy that you went out with. What's

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<v Speaker 1>his name? His name, and he's very cute and very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Dominic is just a cute name. I mean, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you can have it without being attractive. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just a hot name. Okay, where did you meet Dominic? So?

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<v Speaker 1>We met online, okay, and we were texting for a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit and he was just he was a gentleman.

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<v Speaker 1>Even when we were texting, he asked, really intelligent, like

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<v Speaker 1>insightful things and was just really sweet. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that you could come across as a gentleman through text.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh sure are you? Yeah? You put a little top

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<v Speaker 1>hat emoji at the end of your Yeah, it's such

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman other than you up. Yeah. Ok So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you and Dominic do for your date? So we

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<v Speaker 1>went to a restaurant and it was great, Like, he

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<v Speaker 1>was really sweet and really attractive and complimentary. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a little awkward because at the very beginning, the menu

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<v Speaker 1>was like one of those ones that has the bar

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<v Speaker 1>code thing that you have to scan with your phone.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that you are doing me You sit down

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<v Speaker 1>and co a QR code on the table and then

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<v Speaker 1>you scan it and then the menu po oh, I've

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<v Speaker 1>done that. I just did that for the first time

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<v Speaker 1>not very long ago, and it was way more work

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<v Speaker 1>than I wanted it to be. I was like, someone,

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<v Speaker 1>come to the table. Yeah, I'd like to put my

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<v Speaker 1>phone away when I'm out to dinner. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be like buried in it. I agree for old. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you went to a nice restaurant where they have

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<v Speaker 1>QR codes for the menu. Why did you bring that up?

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<v Speaker 1>Well just because that's kind of a part of why

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<v Speaker 1>the date was Matthew, because I can get my phone

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<v Speaker 1>to work with the bar code, I hear you, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you supposed to ask the waiter waitress, like

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<v Speaker 1>what they recommend, what they like, like all of it

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<v Speaker 1>takes way longer than it should come to the table,

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<v Speaker 1>well not at the right time, so you're like ignoring

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<v Speaker 1>him with your face like in your phone, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out this QR code, right, And so finally I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, hey, listen, I can't pull this up.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how to do this? Oh? Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>have an older phone and I don't even know if

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<v Speaker 1>it can't do that. Helping me? And we got it

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<v Speaker 1>up and we ordered and everything. Okay, we're able to

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<v Speaker 1>get the date on track. From there, Yes, So from

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<v Speaker 1>there that's when he was you know, asking like really

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<v Speaker 1>thoughtful questions, and it just felt like a nice connection.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were on the same page, Like he

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<v Speaker 1>was very upfront about wanting to eventually settle down and

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<v Speaker 1>have kids and a family. This is great. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's what you're looking for, this is amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when you said messy date, I didn't expect like phone

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<v Speaker 1>troubles to be messy? Is that the messy part? No? More? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? So he starts raining, like after we've eaten

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<v Speaker 1>and talked and everything, and I'd just gotten my hair

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<v Speaker 1>done that day and this might be a little high means,

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<v Speaker 1>but I kind of feel like it's normal. I spent

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money, like on the color and like

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<v Speaker 1>a fresh new cut, and I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>locked my car, which is like three blocks away. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>even without the hair. I don't want to watch in

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<v Speaker 1>the rain, Okay. So I just said, hey, is it

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<v Speaker 1>okay if I wait a little bit for the rain

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<v Speaker 1>to die down, you know, And he's like, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>about this. This might be weird, but I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to just go get your car and pick you up,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're comfortable with that. And so I was like, no, what, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, that's so nice of you. Good. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman thing. Wow, a gentleman and a personal chauffeur. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>And then don't tell me he stole the car. It

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<v Speaker 1>took a while and then I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>he stole my car. No, no, please tell me he

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<v Speaker 1>just couldn't find it or something. Yes, he couldn't find it,

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<v Speaker 1>so he showed up joking wet but if I was

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<v Speaker 1>the guy though, and I was like, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>where you said and it's not there. So wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>he come back with a car or did he just

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<v Speaker 1>come back walking? He just came back walking, but he goes, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't find it, but I called you am uber

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<v Speaker 1>to take you to your car three blocks. That was

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<v Speaker 1>his idea, though that wasn't her idea. You're not wrong, Mary,

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<v Speaker 1>when you said that he's a gentleman. I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>really goes the extra mile. So how did that end?

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<v Speaker 1>How did the night end? You huped and that was

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the date. No kiss, no kiss, But

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<v Speaker 1>he said he really enjoyed meeting me, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was still a gentleman. And I still feel like

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of chemistry there. But I'm worried

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<v Speaker 1>that he thinks some high maintenance. I could see how

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<v Speaker 1>you might feel that way, but the only way to

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<v Speaker 1>find out for sure is by calling dominic. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>sound too do you sound like medium maintenance? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not sorry with that well work, I'm sorry. There's

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of minuses by my name. Well, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not wrong about that, but let's play a song. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back. We'll call Dominic for you and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, okay, hold on second date if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with Mary, and I'm assuming Mary's calling

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<v Speaker 1>us on her nineteen eighties Motorola dyn Attack four thousand X.

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<v Speaker 1>Make sure you crank the rotor, Mary, so we get

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<v Speaker 1>a few more minutes out of this call. Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I say that because at dinner, the restaurant requires you

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<v Speaker 1>to scan a QR code in order to see their menu,

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<v Speaker 1>and Mary said her phone was having trouble doing that

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<v Speaker 1>because it's so old. Not a great look. Yeah, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. She also said, because it was raining after

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<v Speaker 1>the meal, she sent her date Dominic, out to find

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<v Speaker 1>her car for her and bring it back to the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant so her hair wouldn't get wet. Well, he volunteered,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you did, Yes, he did well. When he couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>find it, though, he just called her an uber out

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<v Speaker 1>of the generosity of his own heart to drive her

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<v Speaker 1>three blocks to her car, which it is huge. She

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<v Speaker 1>described him as being a complete and total gentleman during

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<v Speaker 1>the date. But Mary, gentlemen always return a lady's phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls and texts, and he's not doing that anymore. There's

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<v Speaker 1>no type of polite ghosting. No, there's not true. So

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<v Speaker 1>now we're going to try and figure out what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Have you talked to him at all? Mary? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't. I tried to reach out planet. It could

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<v Speaker 1>be my phone, but I doubt Wow, she's still nine.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, he does know you're talking about We'll talk

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<v Speaker 1>about snake later. I've got the phone number. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to dial it and we're gonna get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready okay, Yes, okay, I'm dialing it now. Excited

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 1>Dominic speaking. Who's this? Hey, Dominic? My name is Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing? I'm fine? What is this regarding?

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<v Speaker 1>This is regarding a segment that we do on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called a second Date Update? Have you ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>of that before? I don't think I have. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really fun and now you're part of it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. I shouldn't jump to conclusions. But the way

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<v Speaker 1>that it works is if you go out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>email us and we'll reach out to them for you

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<v Speaker 1>to try and help you figure out the reason why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so recently you went out with a woman who's

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to get a hold of you. Her name's Mary. Yeah, Dollar,

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<v Speaker 1>this is true. Yeah, Okay, I can't read that. Laugh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that was like, oh Mary or Mary. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the thing. I mean, the reason why she

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<v Speaker 1>reached out to us is because she had a great

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<v Speaker 1>time with you and she's confused you've been avoiding her

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<v Speaker 1>ever since the date. Really, that's surprising to hear, really,

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean her description in the date there was

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<v Speaker 1>a couple like little missteps, but overall, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a real connection. Yeah, I'm curious to

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<v Speaker 1>hear what she categorized as the missteps. Well, she mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>that there was a little bit of trouble pulling up

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<v Speaker 1>the menu at the restaurant because her phone was having

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<v Speaker 1>some issues technical difficulties. Yeah, I mean, there's like the

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<v Speaker 1>QR code you just hover your camera over that pop up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, was that a big turn off to you

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<v Speaker 1>that she had an old phone? No, I wasn't a

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<v Speaker 1>big turn off. Like she just didn't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>use a QR code. Not a big deal. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she handed me her phone so I could give her

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<v Speaker 1>hand with it, and as I was helping her, a

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<v Speaker 1>text message popped up from someone named mister Big. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a sex in the City reference sipping with

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<v Speaker 1>Harry Bradshaw's like it guy that you always got away,

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<v Speaker 1>like the elusive one that got away. Not what you

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<v Speaker 1>were thinking, and that is it's not a good sign

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<v Speaker 1>in my opinion, either way you slice it, it's not great. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It had a message I'm thinking about you and then

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<v Speaker 1>a wink emoji. Still the same thing I'm thinking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are on a first date, like you don't exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>She's at liberty to date other people. It's her first date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a big deal. So yeah, I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>cool of you to look past that. So that's not

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you're not calling her back. There's something else. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what she's told you, but she

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<v Speaker 1>got her hair done and she didn't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>it wet. So yeah, she mentioned that she parked aways

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<v Speaker 1>away and that you volunteered to go retrieve her car

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<v Speaker 1>for her so her hair wouldn't get wet. Yeah. She

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<v Speaker 1>really thought that was a strong move on your part

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<v Speaker 1>all of us, and she felt really bad when she

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<v Speaker 1>set you in the wrong direction. Yeah, that was an

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<v Speaker 1>honest mistake. Actually, I have to correct you on that.

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<v Speaker 1>I might not have disclosed everything to her. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean I actually found her car? What Why would

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<v Speaker 1>you lie about that? That is so weird. Yeah. Well

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<v Speaker 1>I went in and I put the key in the

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<v Speaker 1>ignition and her GPS popped up, and I was curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, maybe this isn't the most honorable thing. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just looked at the at home. You know there's

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<v Speaker 1>a home butt minute takes you back to your home address. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well there, but I just didn't know because she got

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<v Speaker 1>that text message. I saw it. Yeah, you didn't help

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<v Speaker 1>with snoop a little here and there. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>going to find out from a home address. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to say mister and missus house or something, mister

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<v Speaker 1>BIG's house. Yeah, well, you can't google a home and

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<v Speaker 1>see who has the title for the home. Okay, now

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<v Speaker 1>we're getting deep. Now tell me more. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a public record. What are you talking about? So

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the county website. I looked up the

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<v Speaker 1>record and figured out that the home that she lives

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<v Speaker 1>him is it is owned by a guy. A guy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody calmed down. Wow, you don't know she rents? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she lives with her brother, she's married, she has a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>she has my boyfriend. Could there could be an explanation.

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<v Speaker 1>There a thousand explanations to her not owning her own

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<v Speaker 1>guy owns the property. She's bad news, bro, I got

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<v Speaker 1>your back. That is done. Thank you, man, I got

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<v Speaker 1>you too. Yeah did you ever? I mean, obviously you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask her about this. I feel like it's something

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<v Speaker 1>you should have brought up to her. I didn't need

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<v Speaker 1>to ask. I mean, she's getting text from some dude

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<v Speaker 1>named mister Big and she's living at some guy's house.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but just felt like the signs were there,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were presenting themselves pretty clearly to men. There's

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<v Speaker 1>so many questions here exactly she was not in another relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>She wouldn't be calling a radio show if she was

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<v Speaker 1>in another relationship. That doesn't make any sense. But she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know that that guy was in her car and

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<v Speaker 1>saw that information. Maybe she thought it was all hidden.

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<v Speaker 1>She made the worst cheater ever. If she's on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with her. We don't have a lot of good

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<v Speaker 1>cheaters on this show. They're all pretty bad at it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think, like the only way to do this

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<v Speaker 1>is to directly ask her, because Dominic, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know. Mary's on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to talk to you. She's on the line. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you just want to ask her? Mary? Yeah, guilty.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a lot of questions come in your way.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on, Dominic. I'm really disappointed that you did this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is really bad. Wait what did I do? That's

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<v Speaker 1>really bad? Like invade in her privacy? You're you're looking

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<v Speaker 1>at my GPS and records somewhere I live, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>asked me to go get your car. I had a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of information that was there. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stalking you here. I wouldn't even tell me you

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<v Speaker 1>found my car. You lied about that. A gentleman never

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<v Speaker 1>finds a car and tells, oh my god. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>just ask her, Dominic, ask her if she's in a relationship. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you in a relationship? I well, okay, I live.

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<v Speaker 1>It's complicated. Oh no, very always complicated. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think, okay, very end and let her finish,

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<v Speaker 1>let her finish, Okay. So I'm I'm still living with him,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have half a conversation about breaking up, like

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<v Speaker 1>we're on the way out. So you've had the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about breaking up. Does not sound to me like you

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<v Speaker 1>have broken up exactly? Is why you've always gone through

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<v Speaker 1>people's things. The guy, the guy that you're currently with,

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<v Speaker 1>that is mister big Yeah. Oh I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if I even believe that anymore. Mary, I don't mister

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<v Speaker 1>Biggs another one? What are you doing? This never would

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<v Speaker 1>have happened if he didn't go through my stuff. This

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<v Speaker 1>relationship is on the way out. It's gonna end in

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<v Speaker 1>like two weeks. So Mary, you play on the date

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<v Speaker 1>with Dominic for two weeks, then like after you break up,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't do the date before you break up? Best

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<v Speaker 1>right now we still sleep together, Dan Dominic, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling, man? I'm feeling like my snooping has been

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<v Speaker 1>validated here. I mean, Dominic, I'm gonna follow my sword

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and I feel like I should issue you

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<v Speaker 1>an apology. Is the woman here? I was wrong. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't apologize to him. He lies. He's going through my

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<v Speaker 1>stuff and he didn't tell me. No, you can't be

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<v Speaker 1>upset about lying anymore. Mary, you're the bigger liar. You're

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody else. That's the bottom line. We can't ask

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<v Speaker 1>you to go out another date like we can Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course I can do that. I can ask whatever

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<v Speaker 1>I want when I'm running this show, going to say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>So with that being said, Dominic, we would not love,

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<v Speaker 1>but we were offering to send you out on another

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<v Speaker 1>date with Mary, and we'll pay for it. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have to ask? I mean, she did a relationship. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a hard no. What a gentleman? All right, don't be

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<v Speaker 1>calling radio stations until after you break up with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have to be single, inten I'm fine. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go on another date with liar. Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, And Mary, maybe like get a new

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<v Speaker 1>phone that has better privacy settings so that they can't

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<v Speaker 1>get in there and see because that was obviously the

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<v Speaker 1>issue that was brooking Jeffrey in the morning,