Speaker 1: Second date. We got an email from one of our
Speaker 1: listeners who described her first date as messy. Oh not
Speaker 1: physically messy, Okay, maybe emotionally messy, mentally messy, just messy.
Speaker 1: I don't really know. Something she spilled a drink or something. Well,
Speaker 1: I know I had a date once that ended with
Speaker 1: whipped cream all over my pants. That was messy. I
Speaker 1: don't think that's emotionally messy. It was delicious, though, I
Speaker 1: gotta say. And one of our listener's name is Mary
Speaker 1: Louise or can I call you Mary? Or do you
Speaker 1: prefer to be called Mary Louise? You can totally call
Speaker 1: me Mary. People call me both all Mary. I want
Speaker 1: to hear all about your messy date, but first tell
Speaker 1: us about the guy that you went out with. What's
Speaker 1: his name? His name, and he's very cute and very sweet.
Speaker 1: Dominic is just a cute name. I mean, like, I
Speaker 1: don't think you can have it without being attractive. I know,
Speaker 1: it's just a hot name. Okay, where did you meet Dominic? So?
Speaker 1: We met online, okay, and we were texting for a
Speaker 1: little bit and he was just he was a gentleman.
Speaker 1: Even when we were texting, he asked, really intelligent, like
Speaker 1: insightful things and was just really sweet. I didn't know
Speaker 1: that you could come across as a gentleman through text.
Speaker 1: Oh sure are you? Yeah? You put a little top
Speaker 1: hat emoji at the end of your Yeah, it's such
Speaker 1: a gentleman other than you up. Yeah. Ok So what
Speaker 1: did you and Dominic do for your date? So we
Speaker 1: went to a restaurant and it was great, Like, he
Speaker 1: was really sweet and really attractive and complimentary. It was
Speaker 1: a little awkward because at the very beginning, the menu
Speaker 1: was like one of those ones that has the bar
Speaker 1: code thing that you have to scan with your phone.
Speaker 1: You know that you are doing me You sit down
Speaker 1: and co a QR code on the table and then
Speaker 1: you scan it and then the menu po oh, I've
Speaker 1: done that. I just did that for the first time
Speaker 1: not very long ago, and it was way more work
Speaker 1: than I wanted it to be. I was like, someone,
Speaker 1: come to the table. Yeah, I'd like to put my
Speaker 1: phone away when I'm out to dinner. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be like buried in it. I agree for old. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you went to a nice restaurant where they have
Speaker 1: QR codes for the menu. Why did you bring that up?
Speaker 1: Well just because that's kind of a part of why
Speaker 1: the date was Matthew, because I can get my phone
Speaker 1: to work with the bar code, I hear you, and like,
Speaker 1: how are you supposed to ask the waiter waitress, like
Speaker 1: what they recommend, what they like, like all of it
Speaker 1: takes way longer than it should come to the table,
Speaker 1: well not at the right time, so you're like ignoring
Speaker 1: him with your face like in your phone, trying to
Speaker 1: figure out this QR code, right, And so finally I
Speaker 1: was just like, hey, listen, I can't pull this up.
Speaker 1: Do you know how to do this? Oh? Man, I
Speaker 1: have an older phone and I don't even know if
Speaker 1: it can't do that. Helping me? And we got it
Speaker 1: up and we ordered and everything. Okay, we're able to
Speaker 1: get the date on track. From there, Yes, So from
Speaker 1: there that's when he was you know, asking like really
Speaker 1: thoughtful questions, and it just felt like a nice connection.
Speaker 1: You know, we were on the same page, Like he
Speaker 1: was very upfront about wanting to eventually settle down and
Speaker 1: have kids and a family. This is great. I mean,
Speaker 1: if that's what you're looking for, this is amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when you said messy date, I didn't expect like phone
Speaker 1: troubles to be messy? Is that the messy part? No? More? Okay,
Speaker 1: what happened? So he starts raining, like after we've eaten
Speaker 1: and talked and everything, and I'd just gotten my hair
Speaker 1: done that day and this might be a little high means,
Speaker 1: but I kind of feel like it's normal. I spent
Speaker 1: a lot of money, like on the color and like
Speaker 1: a fresh new cut, and I just didn't want to
Speaker 1: locked my car, which is like three blocks away. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: even without the hair. I don't want to watch in
Speaker 1: the rain, Okay. So I just said, hey, is it
Speaker 1: okay if I wait a little bit for the rain
Speaker 1: to die down, you know, And he's like, well, how
Speaker 1: about this. This might be weird, but I would love
Speaker 1: to just go get your car and pick you up,
Speaker 1: if you're comfortable with that. And so I was like, no, what, yes,
Speaker 1: thank you, that's so nice of you. Good. That's like
Speaker 1: a gentleman thing. Wow, a gentleman and a personal chauffeur. Right,
Speaker 1: And then don't tell me he stole the car. It
Speaker 1: took a while and then I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he stole my car. No, no, please tell me he
Speaker 1: just couldn't find it or something. Yes, he couldn't find it,
Speaker 1: so he showed up joking wet but if I was
Speaker 1: the guy though, and I was like, I went to
Speaker 1: where you said and it's not there. So wait, did
Speaker 1: he come back with a car or did he just
Speaker 1: come back walking? He just came back walking, but he goes, hey,
Speaker 1: I couldn't find it, but I called you am uber
Speaker 1: to take you to your car three blocks. That was
Speaker 1: his idea, though that wasn't her idea. You're not wrong, Mary,
Speaker 1: when you said that he's a gentleman. I mean, he
Speaker 1: really goes the extra mile. So how did that end?
Speaker 1: How did the night end? You huped and that was
Speaker 1: the end of the date. No kiss, no kiss, But
Speaker 1: he said he really enjoyed meeting me, and you know,
Speaker 1: he was still a gentleman. And I still feel like
Speaker 1: there was a lot of chemistry there. But I'm worried
Speaker 1: that he thinks some high maintenance. I could see how
Speaker 1: you might feel that way, but the only way to
Speaker 1: find out for sure is by calling dominic. You don't
Speaker 1: sound too do you sound like medium maintenance? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not sorry with that well work, I'm sorry. There's
Speaker 1: like a lot of minuses by my name. Well, you're
Speaker 1: not wrong about that, but let's play a song. We'll
Speaker 1: come back. We'll call Dominic for you and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, okay, hold on second date if
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're
Speaker 1: on the phone with Mary, and I'm assuming Mary's calling
Speaker 1: us on her nineteen eighties Motorola dyn Attack four thousand X.
Speaker 1: Make sure you crank the rotor, Mary, so we get
Speaker 1: a few more minutes out of this call. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: I say that because at dinner, the restaurant requires you
Speaker 1: to scan a QR code in order to see their menu,
Speaker 1: and Mary said her phone was having trouble doing that
Speaker 1: because it's so old. Not a great look. Yeah, oh,
Speaker 1: it's fine. She also said, because it was raining after
Speaker 1: the meal, she sent her date Dominic, out to find
Speaker 1: her car for her and bring it back to the
Speaker 1: restaurant so her hair wouldn't get wet. Well, he volunteered,
Speaker 1: Yeah you did, Yes, he did well. When he couldn't
Speaker 1: find it, though, he just called her an uber out
Speaker 1: of the generosity of his own heart to drive her
Speaker 1: three blocks to her car, which it is huge. She
Speaker 1: described him as being a complete and total gentleman during
Speaker 1: the date. But Mary, gentlemen always return a lady's phone
Speaker 1: calls and texts, and he's not doing that anymore. There's
Speaker 1: no type of polite ghosting. No, there's not true. So
Speaker 1: now we're going to try and figure out what's going on.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Have you talked to him at all? Mary? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't. I tried to reach out planet. It could
Speaker 1: be my phone, but I doubt Wow, she's still nine.
Speaker 1: All right, he does know you're talking about We'll talk
Speaker 1: about snake later. I've got the phone number. I'm going
Speaker 1: to dial it and we're gonna get your second date update.
Speaker 1: You're ready okay, Yes, okay, I'm dialing it now. Excited
Speaker 1: for you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for
Speaker 1: Dominic speaking. Who's this? Hey, Dominic? My name is Jeffrey
Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm fine? What is this regarding?
Speaker 1: This is regarding a segment that we do on our
Speaker 1: show called a second Date Update? Have you ever heard
Speaker 1: of that before? I don't think I have. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: it's really fun and now you're part of it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's true. I shouldn't jump to conclusions. But the way
Speaker 1: that it works is if you go out with someone
Speaker 1: and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can
Speaker 1: email us and we'll reach out to them for you
Speaker 1: to try and help you figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: and so recently you went out with a woman who's
Speaker 1: been trying to get a hold of you. Her name's Mary. Yeah, Dollar,
Speaker 1: this is true. Yeah, Okay, I can't read that. Laugh, man,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that was like, oh Mary or Mary. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. I mean, the reason why she
Speaker 1: reached out to us is because she had a great
Speaker 1: time with you and she's confused you've been avoiding her
Speaker 1: ever since the date. Really, that's surprising to hear, really,
Speaker 1: what I mean her description in the date there was
Speaker 1: a couple like little missteps, but overall, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you guys had a real connection. Yeah, I'm curious to
Speaker 1: hear what she categorized as the missteps. Well, she mentioned
Speaker 1: that there was a little bit of trouble pulling up
Speaker 1: the menu at the restaurant because her phone was having
Speaker 1: some issues technical difficulties. Yeah, I mean, there's like the
Speaker 1: QR code you just hover your camera over that pop up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, was that a big turn off to you
Speaker 1: that she had an old phone? No, I wasn't a
Speaker 1: big turn off. Like she just didn't know how to
Speaker 1: use a QR code. Not a big deal. But you know,
Speaker 1: she handed me her phone so I could give her
Speaker 1: hand with it, and as I was helping her, a
Speaker 1: text message popped up from someone named mister Big. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is a sex in the City reference sipping with
Speaker 1: Harry Bradshaw's like it guy that you always got away,
Speaker 1: like the elusive one that got away. Not what you
Speaker 1: were thinking, and that is it's not a good sign
Speaker 1: in my opinion, either way you slice it, it's not great. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It had a message I'm thinking about you and then
Speaker 1: a wink emoji. Still the same thing I'm thinking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys are on a first date, like you don't exactly.
Speaker 1: She's at liberty to date other people. It's her first date.
Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. So yeah, I mean, it's
Speaker 1: cool of you to look past that. So that's not
Speaker 1: the reason that you're not calling her back. There's something else. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I don't know what she's told you, but she
Speaker 1: got her hair done and she didn't want to get
Speaker 1: it wet. So yeah, she mentioned that she parked aways
Speaker 1: away and that you volunteered to go retrieve her car
Speaker 1: for her so her hair wouldn't get wet. Yeah. She
Speaker 1: really thought that was a strong move on your part
Speaker 1: all of us, and she felt really bad when she
Speaker 1: set you in the wrong direction. Yeah, that was an
Speaker 1: honest mistake. Actually, I have to correct you on that.
Speaker 1: I might not have disclosed everything to her. What do
Speaker 1: you mean I actually found her car? What Why would
Speaker 1: you lie about that? That is so weird. Yeah. Well
Speaker 1: I went in and I put the key in the
Speaker 1: ignition and her GPS popped up, and I was curious.
Speaker 1: Oh no, maybe this isn't the most honorable thing. But
Speaker 1: I just looked at the at home. You know there's
Speaker 1: a home butt minute takes you back to your home address. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well there, but I just didn't know because she got
Speaker 1: that text message. I saw it. Yeah, you didn't help
Speaker 1: with snoop a little here and there. What are you
Speaker 1: going to find out from a home address. It's not
Speaker 1: going to say mister and missus house or something, mister
Speaker 1: BIG's house. Yeah, well, you can't google a home and
Speaker 1: see who has the title for the home. Okay, now
Speaker 1: we're getting deep. Now tell me more. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a public record. What are you talking about? So
Speaker 1: I went to the county website. I looked up the
Speaker 1: record and figured out that the home that she lives
Speaker 1: him is it is owned by a guy. A guy. Okay,
Speaker 1: everybody calmed down. Wow, you don't know she rents? Okay,
Speaker 1: she lives with her brother, she's married, she has a boyfriend,
Speaker 1: she has my boyfriend. Could there could be an explanation.
Speaker 1: There a thousand explanations to her not owning her own
Speaker 1: guy owns the property. She's bad news, bro, I got
Speaker 1: your back. That is done. Thank you, man, I got
Speaker 1: you too. Yeah did you ever? I mean, obviously you
Speaker 1: didn't ask her about this. I feel like it's something
Speaker 1: you should have brought up to her. I didn't need
Speaker 1: to ask. I mean, she's getting text from some dude
Speaker 1: named mister Big and she's living at some guy's house.
Speaker 1: I mean, but just felt like the signs were there,
Speaker 1: and they were presenting themselves pretty clearly to men. There's
Speaker 1: so many questions here exactly she was not in another relationship.
Speaker 1: She wouldn't be calling a radio show if she was
Speaker 1: in another relationship. That doesn't make any sense. But she
Speaker 1: didn't know that that guy was in her car and
Speaker 1: saw that information. Maybe she thought it was all hidden.
Speaker 1: She made the worst cheater ever. If she's on the
Speaker 1: phone with her. We don't have a lot of good
Speaker 1: cheaters on this show. They're all pretty bad at it.
Speaker 1: And I think, like the only way to do this
Speaker 1: is to directly ask her, because Dominic, I need to
Speaker 1: let you know. Mary's on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: she wants to talk to you. She's on the line. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: don't you just want to ask her? Mary? Yeah, guilty.
Speaker 1: That is a lot of questions come in your way.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Dominic. I'm really disappointed that you did this.
Speaker 1: This is really bad. Wait what did I do? That's
Speaker 1: really bad? Like invade in her privacy? You're you're looking
Speaker 1: at my GPS and records somewhere I live, Like you
Speaker 1: asked me to go get your car. I had a
Speaker 1: little bit of information that was there. It's not like
Speaker 1: I'm stalking you here. I wouldn't even tell me you
Speaker 1: found my car. You lied about that. A gentleman never
Speaker 1: finds a car and tells, oh my god. I mean,
Speaker 1: just ask her, Dominic, ask her if she's in a relationship. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: are you in a relationship? I well, okay, I live.
Speaker 1: It's complicated. Oh no, very always complicated. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: I didn't think, okay, very end and let her finish,
Speaker 1: let her finish, Okay. So I'm I'm still living with him,
Speaker 1: but I have half a conversation about breaking up, like
Speaker 1: we're on the way out. So you've had the conversation
Speaker 1: about breaking up. Does not sound to me like you
Speaker 1: have broken up exactly? Is why you've always gone through
Speaker 1: people's things. The guy, the guy that you're currently with,
Speaker 1: that is mister big Yeah. Oh I don't even know
Speaker 1: if I even believe that anymore. Mary, I don't mister
Speaker 1: Biggs another one? What are you doing? This never would
Speaker 1: have happened if he didn't go through my stuff. This
Speaker 1: relationship is on the way out. It's gonna end in
Speaker 1: like two weeks. So Mary, you play on the date
Speaker 1: with Dominic for two weeks, then like after you break up,
Speaker 1: you don't do the date before you break up? Best
Speaker 1: right now we still sleep together, Dan Dominic, how are
Speaker 1: you feeling, man? I'm feeling like my snooping has been
Speaker 1: validated here. I mean, Dominic, I'm gonna follow my sword
Speaker 1: right now, and I feel like I should issue you
Speaker 1: an apology. Is the woman here? I was wrong. I
Speaker 1: don't apologize to him. He lies. He's going through my
Speaker 1: stuff and he didn't tell me. No, you can't be
Speaker 1: upset about lying anymore. Mary, you're the bigger liar. You're
Speaker 1: with somebody else. That's the bottom line. We can't ask
Speaker 1: you to go out another date like we can Brook.
Speaker 1: Of course I can do that. I can ask whatever
Speaker 1: I want when I'm running this show, going to say yes.
Speaker 1: So with that being said, Dominic, we would not love,
Speaker 1: but we were offering to send you out on another
Speaker 1: date with Mary, and we'll pay for it. Do you
Speaker 1: have to ask? I mean, she did a relationship. It's
Speaker 1: a hard no. What a gentleman? All right, don't be
Speaker 1: calling radio stations until after you break up with someone.
Speaker 1: Doesn't have to be single, inten I'm fine. I don't
Speaker 1: want to go on another date with liar. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 1: I get that, And Mary, maybe like get a new
Speaker 1: phone that has better privacy settings so that they can't
Speaker 1: get in there and see because that was obviously the
Speaker 1: issue that was brooking Jeffrey in the morning,