1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Second date. We got an email from one of our 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 1: listeners who described her first date as messy. Oh not 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: physically messy, Okay, maybe emotionally messy, mentally messy, just messy. 4 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: I don't really know. Something she spilled a drink or something. Well, 5 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: I know I had a date once that ended with 6 00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: whipped cream all over my pants. That was messy. I 7 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: don't think that's emotionally messy. It was delicious, though, I 8 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: gotta say. And one of our listener's name is Mary 9 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Louise or can I call you Mary? Or do you 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: prefer to be called Mary Louise? You can totally call 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: me Mary. People call me both all Mary. I want 12 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: to hear all about your messy date, but first tell 13 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: us about the guy that you went out with. What's 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 1: his name? His name, and he's very cute and very sweet. 15 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: Dominic is just a cute name. I mean, like, I 16 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,959 Speaker 1: don't think you can have it without being attractive. I know, 17 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: it's just a hot name. Okay, where did you meet Dominic? So? 18 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: We met online, okay, and we were texting for a 19 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 1: little bit and he was just he was a gentleman. 20 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: Even when we were texting, he asked, really intelligent, like 21 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: insightful things and was just really sweet. I didn't know 22 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: that you could come across as a gentleman through text. 23 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 1: Oh sure are you? Yeah? You put a little top 24 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: hat emoji at the end of your Yeah, it's such 25 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: a gentleman other than you up. Yeah. Ok So what 26 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: did you and Dominic do for your date? So we 27 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: went to a restaurant and it was great, Like, he 28 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: was really sweet and really attractive and complimentary. It was 29 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: a little awkward because at the very beginning, the menu 30 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: was like one of those ones that has the bar 31 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: code thing that you have to scan with your phone. 32 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: You know that you are doing me You sit down 33 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 1: and co a QR code on the table and then 34 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: you scan it and then the menu po oh, I've 35 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: done that. I just did that for the first time 36 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: not very long ago, and it was way more work 37 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: than I wanted it to be. I was like, someone, 38 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: come to the table. Yeah, I'd like to put my 39 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: phone away when I'm out to dinner. I don't want 40 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: to be like buried in it. I agree for old. Okay, 41 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: so you went to a nice restaurant where they have 42 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: QR codes for the menu. Why did you bring that up? 43 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: Well just because that's kind of a part of why 44 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: the date was Matthew, because I can get my phone 45 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 1: to work with the bar code, I hear you, and like, 46 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 1: how are you supposed to ask the waiter waitress, like 47 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: what they recommend, what they like, like all of it 48 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: takes way longer than it should come to the table, 49 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: well not at the right time, so you're like ignoring 50 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: him with your face like in your phone, trying to 51 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: figure out this QR code, right, And so finally I 52 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: was just like, hey, listen, I can't pull this up. 53 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: Do you know how to do this? Oh? Man, I 54 00:02:57,600 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: have an older phone and I don't even know if 55 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: it can't do that. Helping me? And we got it 56 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: up and we ordered and everything. Okay, we're able to 57 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: get the date on track. From there, Yes, So from 58 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 1: there that's when he was you know, asking like really 59 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 1: thoughtful questions, and it just felt like a nice connection. 60 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: You know, we were on the same page, Like he 61 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: was very upfront about wanting to eventually settle down and 62 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: have kids and a family. This is great. I mean, 63 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: if that's what you're looking for, this is amazing. Yeah, 64 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: when you said messy date, I didn't expect like phone 65 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: troubles to be messy? Is that the messy part? No? More? Okay, 66 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: what happened? So he starts raining, like after we've eaten 67 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: and talked and everything, and I'd just gotten my hair 68 00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: done that day and this might be a little high means, 69 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: but I kind of feel like it's normal. I spent 70 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: a lot of money, like on the color and like 71 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: a fresh new cut, and I just didn't want to 72 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: locked my car, which is like three blocks away. Oh yeah, 73 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: even without the hair. I don't want to watch in 74 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: the rain, Okay. So I just said, hey, is it 75 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: okay if I wait a little bit for the rain 76 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: to die down, you know, And he's like, well, how 77 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: about this. This might be weird, but I would love 78 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: to just go get your car and pick you up, 79 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: if you're comfortable with that. And so I was like, no, what, yes, 80 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: thank you, that's so nice of you. Good. That's like 81 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 1: a gentleman thing. Wow, a gentleman and a personal chauffeur. Right, 82 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: And then don't tell me he stole the car. It 83 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: took a while and then I'm like, oh my god, 84 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 1: he stole my car. No, no, please tell me he 85 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: just couldn't find it or something. Yes, he couldn't find it, 86 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: so he showed up joking wet but if I was 87 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: the guy though, and I was like, I went to 88 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: where you said and it's not there. So wait, did 89 00:04:58,320 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: he come back with a car or did he just 90 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: come back walking? He just came back walking, but he goes, hey, 91 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: I couldn't find it, but I called you am uber 92 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: to take you to your car three blocks. That was 93 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: his idea, though that wasn't her idea. You're not wrong, Mary, 94 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 1: when you said that he's a gentleman. I mean, he 95 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: really goes the extra mile. So how did that end? 96 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: How did the night end? You huped and that was 97 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: the end of the date. No kiss, no kiss, But 98 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: he said he really enjoyed meeting me, and you know, 99 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 1: he was still a gentleman. And I still feel like 100 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: there was a lot of chemistry there. But I'm worried 101 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 1: that he thinks some high maintenance. I could see how 102 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 1: you might feel that way, but the only way to 103 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: find out for sure is by calling dominic. You don't 104 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: sound too do you sound like medium maintenance? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 105 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: I'm not sorry with that well work, I'm sorry. There's 106 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: like a lot of minuses by my name. Well, you're 107 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: not wrong about that, but let's play a song. We'll 108 00:05:58,200 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: come back. We'll call Dominic for you and get your 109 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, okay, hold on second date if 110 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're 111 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: on the phone with Mary, and I'm assuming Mary's calling 112 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,280 Speaker 1: us on her nineteen eighties Motorola dyn Attack four thousand X. 113 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: Make sure you crank the rotor, Mary, so we get 114 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: a few more minutes out of this call. Okay, yes, 115 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: I say that because at dinner, the restaurant requires you 116 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: to scan a QR code in order to see their menu, 117 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: and Mary said her phone was having trouble doing that 118 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 1: because it's so old. Not a great look. Yeah, oh, 119 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: it's fine. She also said, because it was raining after 120 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: the meal, she sent her date Dominic, out to find 121 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: her car for her and bring it back to the 122 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 1: restaurant so her hair wouldn't get wet. Well, he volunteered, 123 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: Yeah you did, Yes, he did well. When he couldn't 124 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: find it, though, he just called her an uber out 125 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: of the generosity of his own heart to drive her 126 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 1: three blocks to her car, which it is huge. She 127 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,360 Speaker 1: described him as being a complete and total gentleman during 128 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:07,559 Speaker 1: the date. But Mary, gentlemen always return a lady's phone 129 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: calls and texts, and he's not doing that anymore. There's 130 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: no type of polite ghosting. No, there's not true. So 131 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: now we're going to try and figure out what's going on. 132 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: Thank you. Have you talked to him at all? Mary? No, 133 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 1: I haven't. I tried to reach out planet. It could 134 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: be my phone, but I doubt Wow, she's still nine. 135 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: All right, he does know you're talking about We'll talk 136 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: about snake later. I've got the phone number. I'm going 137 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: to dial it and we're gonna get your second date update. 138 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: You're ready okay, Yes, okay, I'm dialing it now. Excited 139 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 1: for you? Here we go. Hello, Hi, I'm looking for 140 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: Dominic speaking. Who's this? Hey, Dominic? My name is Jeffrey 141 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 142 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: How are you doing? I'm fine? What is this regarding? 143 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: This is regarding a segment that we do on our 144 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: show called a second Date Update? Have you ever heard 145 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: of that before? I don't think I have. Okay, Well, 146 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: it's really fun and now you're part of it. Yeah, 147 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: that's true. I shouldn't jump to conclusions. But the way 148 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: that it works is if you go out with someone 149 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can 150 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: email us and we'll reach out to them for you 151 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: to try and help you figure out the reason why. Okay, 152 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: and so recently you went out with a woman who's 153 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: been trying to get a hold of you. Her name's Mary. Yeah, Dollar, 154 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: this is true. Yeah, Okay, I can't read that. Laugh, man, 155 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if that was like, oh Mary or Mary. Yeah. 156 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 1: So here's the thing. I mean, the reason why she 157 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: reached out to us is because she had a great 158 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: time with you and she's confused you've been avoiding her 159 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: ever since the date. Really, that's surprising to hear, really, 160 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: what I mean her description in the date there was 161 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: a couple like little missteps, but overall, it sounds like 162 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:15,480 Speaker 1: you guys had a real connection. Yeah, I'm curious to 163 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: hear what she categorized as the missteps. Well, she mentioned 164 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 1: that there was a little bit of trouble pulling up 165 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: the menu at the restaurant because her phone was having 166 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: some issues technical difficulties. Yeah, I mean, there's like the 167 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: QR code you just hover your camera over that pop up. Yeah, 168 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: I mean, was that a big turn off to you 169 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 1: that she had an old phone? No, I wasn't a 170 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: big turn off. Like she just didn't know how to 171 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: use a QR code. Not a big deal. But you know, 172 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 1: she handed me her phone so I could give her 173 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: hand with it, and as I was helping her, a 174 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:56,559 Speaker 1: text message popped up from someone named mister Big. Yeah, 175 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: that is a sex in the City reference sipping with 176 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: Harry Bradshaw's like it guy that you always got away, 177 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: like the elusive one that got away. Not what you 178 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: were thinking, and that is it's not a good sign 179 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: in my opinion, either way you slice it, it's not great. Yeah. 180 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 1: It had a message I'm thinking about you and then 181 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: a wink emoji. Still the same thing I'm thinking. Yeah, 182 00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: you guys are on a first date, like you don't exactly. 183 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: She's at liberty to date other people. It's her first date. 184 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 1: It's not a big deal. So yeah, I mean, it's 185 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 1: cool of you to look past that. So that's not 186 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: the reason that you're not calling her back. There's something else. Yeah, 187 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: So I don't know what she's told you, but she 188 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: got her hair done and she didn't want to get 189 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: it wet. So yeah, she mentioned that she parked aways 190 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: away and that you volunteered to go retrieve her car 191 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 1: for her so her hair wouldn't get wet. Yeah. She 192 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: really thought that was a strong move on your part 193 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: all of us, and she felt really bad when she 194 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: set you in the wrong direction. Yeah, that was an 195 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 1: honest mistake. Actually, I have to correct you on that. 196 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: I might not have disclosed everything to her. What do 197 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: you mean I actually found her car? What Why would 198 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: you lie about that? That is so weird. Yeah. Well 199 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,319 Speaker 1: I went in and I put the key in the 200 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: ignition and her GPS popped up, and I was curious. 201 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: Oh no, maybe this isn't the most honorable thing. But 202 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: I just looked at the at home. You know there's 203 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: a home butt minute takes you back to your home address. Yeah, 204 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: well there, but I just didn't know because she got 205 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: that text message. I saw it. Yeah, you didn't help 206 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: with snoop a little here and there. What are you 207 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: going to find out from a home address. It's not 208 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: going to say mister and missus house or something, mister 209 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: BIG's house. Yeah, well, you can't google a home and 210 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: see who has the title for the home. Okay, now 211 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: we're getting deep. Now tell me more. I mean, yeah, 212 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:01,559 Speaker 1: it's a public record. What are you talking about? So 213 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 1: I went to the county website. I looked up the 214 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: record and figured out that the home that she lives 215 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: him is it is owned by a guy. A guy. Okay, 216 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: everybody calmed down. Wow, you don't know she rents? Okay, 217 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: she lives with her brother, she's married, she has a boyfriend, 218 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:24,199 Speaker 1: she has my boyfriend. Could there could be an explanation. 219 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 1: There a thousand explanations to her not owning her own 220 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: guy owns the property. She's bad news, bro, I got 221 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: your back. That is done. Thank you, man, I got 222 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: you too. Yeah did you ever? I mean, obviously you 223 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 1: didn't ask her about this. I feel like it's something 224 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: you should have brought up to her. I didn't need 225 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: to ask. I mean, she's getting text from some dude 226 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: named mister Big and she's living at some guy's house. 227 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 1: I mean, but just felt like the signs were there, 228 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: and they were presenting themselves pretty clearly to men. There's 229 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: so many questions here exactly she was not in another relationship. 230 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 1: She wouldn't be calling a radio show if she was 231 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,679 Speaker 1: in another relationship. That doesn't make any sense. But she 232 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 1: didn't know that that guy was in her car and 233 00:13:08,840 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: saw that information. Maybe she thought it was all hidden. 234 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 1: She made the worst cheater ever. If she's on the 235 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: phone with her. We don't have a lot of good 236 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: cheaters on this show. They're all pretty bad at it. 237 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: And I think, like the only way to do this 238 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,599 Speaker 1: is to directly ask her, because Dominic, I need to 239 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: let you know. Mary's on the other line listening and 240 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: she wants to talk to you. She's on the line. Yeah, yeah, 241 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: don't you just want to ask her? Mary? Yeah, guilty. 242 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 1: That is a lot of questions come in your way. 243 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: What's going on, Dominic. I'm really disappointed that you did this. 244 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: This is really bad. Wait what did I do? That's 245 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: really bad? Like invade in her privacy? You're you're looking 246 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 1: at my GPS and records somewhere I live, Like you 247 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: asked me to go get your car. I had a 248 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: little bit of information that was there. It's not like 249 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm stalking you here. I wouldn't even tell me you 250 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: found my car. You lied about that. A gentleman never 251 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: finds a car and tells, oh my god. I mean, 252 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: just ask her, Dominic, ask her if she's in a relationship. Yeah, okay, 253 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: are you in a relationship? I well, okay, I live. 254 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: It's complicated. Oh no, very always complicated. Oh my gosh, 255 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: I didn't think, okay, very end and let her finish, 256 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 1: let her finish, Okay. So I'm I'm still living with him, 257 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: but I have half a conversation about breaking up, like 258 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: we're on the way out. So you've had the conversation 259 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: about breaking up. Does not sound to me like you 260 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: have broken up exactly? Is why you've always gone through 261 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: people's things. The guy, the guy that you're currently with, 262 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: that is mister big Yeah. Oh I don't even know 263 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: if I even believe that anymore. Mary, I don't mister 264 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: Biggs another one? What are you doing? This never would 265 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: have happened if he didn't go through my stuff. This 266 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: relationship is on the way out. It's gonna end in 267 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: like two weeks. So Mary, you play on the date 268 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 1: with Dominic for two weeks, then like after you break up, 269 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: you don't do the date before you break up? Best 270 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 1: right now we still sleep together, Dan Dominic, how are 271 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: you feeling, man? I'm feeling like my snooping has been 272 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: validated here. I mean, Dominic, I'm gonna follow my sword 273 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,440 Speaker 1: right now, and I feel like I should issue you 274 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 1: an apology. Is the woman here? I was wrong. I 275 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: don't apologize to him. He lies. He's going through my 276 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: stuff and he didn't tell me. No, you can't be 277 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: upset about lying anymore. Mary, you're the bigger liar. You're 278 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: with somebody else. That's the bottom line. We can't ask 279 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 1: you to go out another date like we can Brook. 280 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: Of course I can do that. I can ask whatever 281 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: I want when I'm running this show, going to say yes. 282 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: So with that being said, Dominic, we would not love, 283 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: but we were offering to send you out on another 284 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: date with Mary, and we'll pay for it. Do you 285 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: have to ask? I mean, she did a relationship. It's 286 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: a hard no. What a gentleman? All right, don't be 287 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: calling radio stations until after you break up with someone. 288 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: Doesn't have to be single, inten I'm fine. I don't 289 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: want to go on another date with liar. Oh okay, okay, 290 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: I get that, And Mary, maybe like get a new 291 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: phone that has better privacy settings so that they can't 292 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: get in there and see because that was obviously the 293 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: issue that was brooking Jeffrey in the morning,