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Speaker 1: A viral relationship test is making the rounds, and it

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Speaker 1: starts with DoorDash. So, according to a happily married woman,

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Speaker 1: you can supposedly right which we got an we gotta

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Speaker 1: specify because I don't just because you're married doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: you're happier. Right, Well, so you gotta next time you

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Speaker 1: talk about your man, guessay, I am a happily married woman,

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Speaker 1: not just a married woman, because I don't think that

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Speaker 1: married and happiness are necessarily synonymous.

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Speaker 2: There's still time, Kiki, you don't have to do it, okay.

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Speaker 1: According to a happily married woman, you can supposedly tell

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Speaker 1: if your partner really cares about you by what they

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Speaker 1: do when ordering takeout. Now, this is a game, and

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Speaker 1: I don't like it. Because this is a game, it's

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Speaker 1: a test. I don't like tests. Don't test me, communicate

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Speaker 1: with me, but I want to know. This is the

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Speaker 1: kind of stuff you pull at your house. Eight five

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Speaker 1: five five three five. The moment of truth comes when

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Speaker 1: one person says to you that they are not hungry.

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Speaker 1: So in her story, the woman said that her her

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Speaker 1: husband was ordering something from door Dash. She said she

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Speaker 1: didn't want anything, but when the food arrived, he had

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Speaker 1: ordered her a bean and cheese burrito. Anyway, Now that's

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Speaker 1: a bold move. I mean, maybe it's her favorite, but like,

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Speaker 1: cancel the rest of my plans for the rest of

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Speaker 1: the night, and like you can sleep in the guest room.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I'm ordering a bean and cheese burrito for I mean,

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Speaker 1: I might order a more conservative choice because if I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get well, but I'm saying, if I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: credit for my kindness, I'm not if you just ate

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Speaker 1: a bean and cheese burrito, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not not not much. It gonna be happening, I

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Speaker 1: don't think. And if it is, it's it's risky. But

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Speaker 1: beans farting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they don't do that to me, so I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I think he's the only one on earth then, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, can anyone else?

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Speaker 2: Can you eat a bean and not have that kind.

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Speaker 4: Of I can't, right right, that's you're on your own

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Speaker 4: there anyway, the bean and cheese burrito, he ordered it

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Speaker 4: because he knew she'd probably want it once the food

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Speaker 4: showed up, and that move apparently proved that he truly

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Speaker 4: understood her.

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Speaker 2: I'm there and their marriage is strong.

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Speaker 5: If you order me something when I say I don't

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Speaker 5: want anything, I get really upset because I have no

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Speaker 5: self control.

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Speaker 3: Jesus, I have zero self control.

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Speaker 6: I truly don't want anything when I say I don't

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Speaker 6: want anything, and if you get it for me, I will.

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Speaker 3: Eat it and I don't want to eat it.

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Speaker 2: This is why I can't play these games. I don't

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Speaker 2: know that.

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Speaker 1: I can't order you bean burritok. I don't want you

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Speaker 1: to you know, toot, but you don't toot.

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Speaker 2: And then if I.

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Speaker 1: Ordered you something, would you say you didn't want it?

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Speaker 1: But I shouldn't have. I really shouldn't have. But then

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Speaker 1: this person's saying, if the lady says I don't want anything,

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Speaker 1: then I got to order you something, because then if

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Speaker 1: I don't, I'm not thoughtful. Look, I'll tell you I'll

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Speaker 1: take my chances. I will take my chances. If I'm

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Speaker 1: in a situation where I'm ordering food and it's just

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Speaker 1: me like and you say you don't want anything, I'll

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Speaker 1: take my chances. I will order you something and either

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Speaker 1: it gets thrown away wasted food. That sucks, but at

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Speaker 1: least I don't get yelled at. But now you say

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Speaker 1: and I would get yelled at because you told.

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Speaker 2: Me not to.

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Speaker 3: But you know the rule.

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Speaker 5: It's like, if you're in a relationship with me, you

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Speaker 5: know that I genuinely mean it when I say I

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Speaker 5: don't want anything.

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Speaker 3: Because I have no self control.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, what about you guys? Do you I

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Speaker 2: mean Paulina, Yes, I love you.

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Speaker 1: If it made it, do a lot of testing on

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Speaker 1: this radio program, Yes, I have you have if Hobby

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Speaker 1: does this and you say, oh, I'm good, you don't

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Speaker 6: It's just my mood changes by the hour. So like,

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Speaker 6: if you want to order a six pm and the

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Speaker 6: food comes at seven by seven, I might want something,

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Speaker 6: and that's my own issue.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 6: I gotta like deal with that. So what he's done

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Speaker 6: is he's gotten smart.

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Speaker 1: Doc I got it. I got this thing I got

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Speaker 1: at six. I don't want to eat it's seven. I

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Speaker 1: want to eat my delivery. Yeah, I mean, what do

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Speaker 1: I do? It takes forty five minutes for the food.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot it do I just get me? Do

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Speaker 1: I get risky with it and say yes I want

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Speaker 1: something but no I don't at the time, but then

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Speaker 1: I might when it shows up exactly.

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Speaker 3: And my whole mind, mood, everything changes.

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Speaker 6: So he got smart and he'll do like it's a medium,

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Speaker 6: he'll do a large for example, right because it comes

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Speaker 6: with more fries or more chicken ten or whatever it is,

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Speaker 6: and he knows I'm gonna want some, So like he's

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Speaker 6: gotten a little smarter boy, just getting the meal a

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Speaker 6: little bigger so that if I don't for some reason

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Speaker 6: at seven o'clock, I'm like, actually, I'm going to bed,

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Speaker 6: you know, see you later.

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Speaker 3: He can then finish his own meal or just.

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Speaker 2: A dog whatever his testing I know, like just do

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Speaker 2: you want it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: And then if an hour later you wanted it but

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Speaker 1: he didn't order it, like that's not something to be

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Speaker 1: upset about, because like you, I did what you told

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Speaker 1: me to do now, and then for you to then say,

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Speaker 1: but you're not supposed to do what I tell you

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Speaker 1: to do, well, then how when does that apply? And

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Speaker 1: when doesn't that apply? You know, because there are gonna

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Speaker 1: be other times where you tell me you don't want

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Speaker 1: me to do something and you actually mean I don't

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Speaker 2: So I'm confused. What about you?

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Speaker 3: I am confusion. I want something all the time, so okay.

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Speaker 1: But will you communicate that or will you tell him

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Speaker 1: you don't but you really do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll say, you know what, I'm good. I'm good,

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 4: But then when his stuff arrives and it's all smelling good,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, let.

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Speaker 3: Me get a little bit. We got to just tell

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you got to know.

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Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying. I'm honest. When I go

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Speaker 3: from the rooftop, I don't want anything. Let's just be honest.

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Speaker 3: I'm sick of it.

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Speaker 1: I know. Sorry, that's too many guessing games you guys.

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Speaker 1: I just I need you just to tell me what you.

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Speaker 3: Want, what you say, and say what you mean.

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Speaker 1: But then I know there are other times when you

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Speaker 1: want to be surprised or you want some you want

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Speaker 1: to feel like he was thoughtful. Yes, but then if

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Speaker 1: he's being thoughtful and you didn't want him to be thoughtful,

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Speaker 1: you can't get angry about the thoughtfulness. Like Caitlin, you know,

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Speaker 1: if somebody gets you something because they really think that

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Speaker 1: you're gonna want it at some point you're like it,

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Speaker 1: then you can't get mad at them because you told

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Speaker 1: them no, because they were trying to be nice.

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Speaker 5: I I have an issue with that because I have

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Speaker 5: taken a really long journey to be able to tell

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Speaker 5: people what I really mean, and so when people think

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Speaker 5: that they know better for me, it kind of frustrates

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Speaker 5: me because I'm being one hundred percent honest.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if someone ordering you to be

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Speaker 1: in a cheese burrito means that they know more than you.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just means like, well, there's a chance

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Speaker 1: that while I'm over here with my tacos that Kayla

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Speaker 1: might be like.

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Speaker 3: I'm saying, there's the left job.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hey, Bridget, how you doing?

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Speaker 5: I'm good, Howard.

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Speaker 2: It was complicated. I got my molesket diary out.

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Speaker 1: I'm adding notes, you know, to what you use and

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Speaker 1: like what I should and shouldn't do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, are you married, Bridget?

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Speaker 7: No, I'm not.

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Speaker 2: I'm single.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But if you were with a guy and he's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm ordering food and you're like, I'm not hungry, you

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Speaker 1: kind of want him to order you something anyway, just

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Speaker 1: in case.

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Speaker 2: No, I probably wouldn't want it.

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Speaker 7: If I said I wasn't hungry, I'm probably not hungry.

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Speaker 7: Plus I don't really like playing games. Hell yeah, I

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Speaker 7: really don't think. I don't think it's a determining factor

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Speaker 7: of someone who's been a bad partner based on, you know,

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Speaker 7: them having an internal fight of.

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Speaker 2: Do I order her food?

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Speaker 6: Do I not order her food?

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Speaker 7: What if I do and she gets mad? What if

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Speaker 7: I don't and she gets mad?

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Speaker 2: What do I do? What do I do?

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Speaker 7: That's anxiety? Man, Thank you, you got the communicate what

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Speaker 7: you want and then leave it like that.

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Speaker 1: Now wait a minute, now, do I need to take

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Speaker 1: like time zones into consideration and you know the amount

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Speaker 1: of time plus or minus that the order might take.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, because if I ordered five o'clock,

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Speaker 1: you know central time, that's six o'clock Eastern. That's dinner

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Speaker 1: time for a lot of people. If the food comes

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Speaker 1: at six, that's going to be seven or eight Eastern.

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, by that point you need to eat

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Speaker 1: and which means there better be food there, which means

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Speaker 1: I better have ordered it. And if the wind is

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Speaker 1: blowing from the east, correct, you know, then that definitely

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Speaker 1: means food right hour by hour.

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Speaker 7: I think also you have to kind of know your

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Speaker 7: partner if you if you when your partner says I'm

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Speaker 7: not interested in food, and then every time you get

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Speaker 7: yourself food, they're always eating half of your food.

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Speaker 2: Then you know that you have your partner.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is true. Thank you, Bridget. I APPREI a

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Speaker 1: lot of wisdom here. Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, bye, okay, good Yeah, this is why I'm single. Guys.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know if I tried to do

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Speaker 1: something thoughtful and I got yelled at for being thought

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Speaker 1: that I'm out for I'm moving.

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Speaker 2: I'm moving out. Like I'm calling.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling the two fret guys and his dad or

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Speaker 1: whatever that moving company is calling. I'm calling those two

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Speaker 1: guys in their truck, and I'm just like, you're yelling

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Speaker 1: at me for being thoughtful. I'm taking the couch. I'm

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Speaker 1: taking the couch.

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Speaker 2: It's mine.