1 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:37,279 Speaker 1: Take a deep breath in through your nose. Hold it now, 2 00:00:37,360 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: release slowly again, deep in, helle hold release, repeating internally 3 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: to yourself as you connect to my voice. I am deeply, 4 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: deeply well. I I am deeply well. I am deeply well. 5 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: I'm Debbie Brown and this is the Deeply Well Podcast. 6 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to Deeply Well, a soft place to land in 7 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: your journey. A podcast for those that are curious, creative, 8 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: and ready to expand in higher consciousness and self care. 9 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: This is where we heal, this is where we transcend. 10 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. I'm Debbie Brown and Season four 11 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: of the Deeply Well Podcast has officially kicked off and 12 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: I am so excited to share that there is a 13 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:18,680 Speaker 1: new way to rep the show. We have merch officially 14 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: for season four. We have so many cute shirts for 15 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: you and hats, and I'm so excited to share these. 16 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: If you're a healer, you can rep it. If you're 17 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: like me and love just saying oh surprise me God, 18 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 1: wear a shirt. And of course we have our Deeply 19 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: Well podcast, so please enjoy. I am so excited to 20 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: share this march with you. Get everything that you love 21 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: and send me all the picks Okay, we are really 22 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: letting ourselves savor and expand conversations about integrity. So if 23 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 1: you happen to be listening to this podcast on your 24 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: phone or any of your devices, welcome, thank you for 25 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 1: being here. And if you're watching us on YouTube, yes, 26 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: we have a YouTube channel you can subscribe. Then you 27 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: may notice things look a little bit different this season. 28 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: So just to set the stage for everyone listening, I 29 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: am actually doing all of this season now in my workshop, 30 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: the space that I work out of, that I study 31 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: out of, that I see clients out of and create things. 32 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: And I decided this season to do that one because 33 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: it just felt even more deeply authentic and like that's 34 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: my jam. But also too, you know, I felt like 35 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to be able to bring to life on 36 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: this show things that I love bringing to life with 37 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: people in this actual room, diving into concepts, going a 38 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: little deeper in certain places, feeling even more at ease 39 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: and conversation, and so yeah, we're trying it out. This 40 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: is always growing and evolving. But the walls are yellow. 41 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: It is a beautifully sunlit day outside. It's a gorgeous 42 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: day in October here in Los Angeles. I'm looking out 43 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: of the window at like some big trees and some water. 44 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: And for those that see me on camera right now, 45 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 1: for those listening, you'll see a bookshelf. You'll see some crystals, 46 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: very on brand, very expected. So thank you for joining 47 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 1: me in this space. My look. As I shared in 48 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: the first episode of this season, that I hope you 49 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 1: had a chance to catch up on because I had 50 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 1: a really special story about joy that you may receive 51 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 1: my intention this season. This is a very important year 52 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: in life, in human history. This is a very very meaningful, 53 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: important year, and a lot changes, and I think on 54 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: one plane, we're kind of looking at the political atmosphere 55 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: we're in, and we know that we are on the 56 00:04:56,800 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: cusp of so much of the unknown. We can really 57 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: predict or fully prepare for this kind of unknown. We 58 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: don't know what's coming, but there are shifts. For those 59 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: that follow astrology, like myself, devoted student, we know that 60 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: we are in the cusp of coming into a new 61 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: age what would be considered the Age of Aquarius, and 62 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: coming out of a very very complex Pluto transit that 63 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: we've been in since two thousand and eight. And so 64 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 1: whether you're looking to the stars, whether you're simply looking 65 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 1: out of the window and taking in, you know, the 66 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 1: attitudes and the feelings that we see. I think something 67 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: each of us can agree on is a lot of 68 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: the things happening right now are first A lot of 69 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: the things happening right now are also, I believe, really 70 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: designed to get us looking at the inner nature of everything, 71 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 1: at the inner workings of everything. We are gratefully thinking 72 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: God on the end of what's felt like this fifteen 73 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: year dance with performance in a way that humans have 74 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: never really done because of social media, because of celebrity 75 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: worship culture that especially you know, became so relentless and 76 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: all consuming in the nineties and the early aughts, Like 77 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: so many things have been getting us ready for this moment. 78 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: And I want to say, for probably the last ten years, 79 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: something that I've been saying among friends and sometimes in 80 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: interviews is I believe I call this moment that we're 81 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: in the age of authenticity. And a lot of times 82 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: I would say that and people would say, what are 83 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: you talking about. You know, people are faker than ever 84 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: right now, and it's like, well, everything has to come 85 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: up for review for it to be useful for us. 86 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: So if the belief is that everything around us is 87 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: fake or that's what we're witnessing, is the fakeness and 88 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,559 Speaker 1: the performance of so much. The place that I first 89 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: go in my mind and heart is to say, well, 90 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: then that means we need to meet that with radical authenticity. 91 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: We need to meet this moment with the exact opposite 92 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 1: of everything that we are witnessing around us. We need 93 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: to be counterculture. You know. I believe that if you 94 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 1: use integrity as the measuring stick, it doesn't matter what 95 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: belief system you hold. It doesn't matter what life experiences 96 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: you've had, it doesn't matter how different you are from others, 97 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: how divided we all are. Integrity is what keeps everyone 98 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: in divine alignment. Integrity is what keeps this place safe 99 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: for all of us, decent for all of us, healthy 100 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: for all of us, you know. And that creates some 101 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: wiggle room for differences in some core beliefs per se. 102 00:07:55,520 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: But if we're operating out of true values, out of true, 103 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: true authenticity, and we're upholding that with a foundation of integrity, 104 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: I don't believe as human beings. I don't believe as partners, 105 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: as lovers, as parents, as any of the roles that 106 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: we play any of the things that we are I 107 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: don't believe there really is opportunity to be violently at 108 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: odds with anyone. Integrity as the baseline allows all of 109 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: us to be an acceptance that we are having some 110 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 1: shared experiences and some unique and different experiences, and we 111 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:42,319 Speaker 1: are able to have compassion and equanimity and equality irregardless 112 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: of any of those things. And so my core belief 113 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: is an integrity. There is very little there is that 114 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 1: is more important to me than integrity, and there is 115 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 1: almost nothing. There is nothing that is more attractive to 116 00:08:55,920 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 1: me in another person than integrity. And so as we 117 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: kind of savor in this, as we're gearing up for 118 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: a world that I believe is really going to require 119 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 1: that at the studs. So how I'm holding this, the 120 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: way that I'm looking at this, and I'm kind of 121 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: setting us up, and my desire in the way that 122 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: I am sinking my teeth into this topic is to 123 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: kind of open up all your portals, open up all 124 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: the ways that you experience a word or a thing 125 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: or a thought or a feeling, and bringing up for 126 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: review so that we can see how we apply it 127 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: in all the facets that we show up in Okay. 128 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: So when I think about some of the themes of 129 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: integrity that are happening in the greater world, none of 130 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 1: this is new or happening for the first time. But 131 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 1: I think we're finally allowing ourselves to get into the 132 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: texture of what that word actually means and require some 133 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: receipts about it. I think that's the thing that way 134 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: too often people didn't do. And I don't know if 135 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: it's because most people tend to surrender to a more 136 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: dominant energy, don't necessarily want to have to take it on. 137 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: You know, so many, so many of us alive, like 138 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: in the Billions, struggle with authority issues, and struggle with 139 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: issues of people pleasing or fawning, or wanting to fix 140 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: or wanting to save. And because of that, a lot 141 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: of people don't tell the full truth. A lot of 142 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: people want to make things sound nicer than they are 143 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: or quote unquote give the benefit of the doubt. But 144 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: when it's issues of integrity, it is dangerous to do that. 145 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: Give the benefit of the doubt for small mistakes, give 146 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: the benefit of the doubt for certain levels of fear 147 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 1: and withholding that some people carry, we do not need 148 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 1: to give the benefit of the doubt for people that 149 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: cause harm, right, and so like, one of these situations 150 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: that we're looking at very publicly right now is this 151 00:10:55,559 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: situation with Sean Combs, p Ditty, Puffy Puff Day, many names. 152 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: Right we're seeing something play out on the world stage. 153 00:11:06,120 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 1: And the thing that's been interesting to me about this 154 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: and even as I'm like expressing this, I don't I 155 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: don't quite know how I want to unpack this for everyone, 156 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: But it's been really interesting having people talk about this 157 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: right now. It's in the news. For those that have 158 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 1: been in the industry or connected to the industry, there 159 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: are a lot of ways that you know, you may 160 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 1: have experienced Didty personally, people that know him, been around it. 161 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: And so I find myself having conversations about Ditty right 162 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: now with a multitude of perspectives in people, people that 163 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: I used to work in the industry with or are 164 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 1: very deep or have been very deep in the industry, 165 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: talking to the everyday kind of person about it that 166 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: doesn't really know the inner wace, hasn't heard some of 167 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: those deeper rumors. And then other people that are like 168 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: lifelong fans of his and some are like an utter 169 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: complete shock that these kinds of things could happen. And 170 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: you know, the question I hold is this as someone that, 171 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: to the extent that I did, worked in the industry 172 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: and was around certain things, certain parts of the culture 173 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 1: like big parties after award shows or like you know, 174 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 1: just studio culture, things like that, and also as someone 175 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: that is very highly sensitive and has always operated in 176 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 1: the world. As such, it's been interesting to watch the 177 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: worship of someone, watch the confusion that brings in people 178 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: when they hear about something that is under the surface. 179 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: And my question for that always is like, why why 180 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: didn't we take anything else into count right, It's very 181 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 1: realistic that so many people may not have known about 182 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:08,320 Speaker 1: some of the darker things we're hearing about him. People 183 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: can represent a lot of different things for a lot 184 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: of people. And what seems like and I have no 185 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 1: diagnosis for this man, but there is extreme what appears 186 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: to be extreme extreme, extreme grandiose, narcissistic behavior, as well 187 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 1: as probably many other things at play. But everybody can 188 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 1: be a little bit different with everyone, and so even 189 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 1: figures like that have good days, right, or even figures 190 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: like that have a couple people they know they have 191 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: to be a certain way with So some people like 192 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: this are these manipulative chameleons that are able to show 193 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 1: up in a lot of different archetypes for people. But 194 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:59,240 Speaker 1: then there's some historical proofs that just ring true irregardless, 195 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 1: And so whenever I've looked at P. Ditty, I've always 196 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 1: been repelled by the ego. Like when I see people 197 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:12,840 Speaker 1: that grandiose like I deeply reject that. It seems for me, 198 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 1: it feels predatory, it feels dominating, it feels like that 199 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: person is manipulating you. And it also feels bizarre and 200 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: strange because I don't want to exist in any systems 201 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: that require that I behave like I'm less because I'm 202 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: around someone else that receives more attention. So the nature 203 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: of that in the industry always off top is just 204 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 1: it's ick. It's just not natural. It's not the way 205 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: I see the world, where there is no above or 206 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: below that puce aside. So aside from that, one thing 207 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 1: that I've always noticed with Didty is that universally across 208 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: the board, I've never heard an artist say anything good 209 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: about him. I've heard other celebrities. I've heard other people 210 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: that are at the part or successful say those things 211 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: about him. People that would maybe put themselves shouldered or 212 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 1: shoulder have said fun things about him, right, But I've 213 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: never heard necessarily good things. Right. What's the difference between 214 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: a fun thing and a good thing. A fun thing is, oh, man, 215 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: we always have a blast, you know, he holds it down, 216 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: he lives big, like, oh yeah, always inspired, he's taking 217 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: it to the next level. Something good is like, wow, 218 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 1: he's a really great person, like man like I felt 219 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 1: that in my soul, or that changed my life, or 220 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: he had this kind of a conversation with me, or 221 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: I felt heard, seen, understood, or you know, something that 222 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: speaks to someone's decency, someone's character, the way someone behaves 223 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,360 Speaker 1: as a bean, Like those are like good things you 224 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 1: say about other people. We have to look at that. 225 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: We have to connect the dots. You know, it's so 226 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: easy to see. Well, I never heard and I never saw. 227 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: But like the truth of someone's life is always with them. 228 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: It just depends what you value and what you take 229 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: the time to notice. So I think you know, this 230 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 1: age of authenticity, this age of deeper integrity. These are 231 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: some of the ways we're peeling back the layers in 232 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: the big stories, but also in the small stories. Things 233 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm noticing as well are when people are talking about 234 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 1: you know, I'm seeing a lot of people really wanting 235 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: like deeper friendships and deeper relationships. And it is so 236 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: beautiful to arrive at that place, I think for so 237 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: many of us whenever we get there, because you're realizing 238 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: that your ability, your capacity to hold intimacy is really 239 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: expanding and you're craving it. You understand intimacy to truly 240 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 1: be a fuel. It's this divine given receive between yourself 241 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: and another. And you know, I think as a lot 242 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: of people are having those conversations, you're going to notice 243 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: those subtler tones of integrity, of decency, of reciprocity beginning 244 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: to come up for review and all of the relationships 245 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: you currently hold and on all the ones that you're 246 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: looking to call in. So sink your teeth into that. 247 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: What are our meanings and definitions of integrity? For integrity, 248 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: you know, really think about what are the qualities that 249 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: someone should have as a foundation for being able to 250 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 1: be in your life? What are the attributes of their 251 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: character that are just foundational to one's life? Right, Like, 252 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 1: I think when we really kind of peel back the 253 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: layers and get down to the studs. We have been 254 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: requiring so little of the people that we dedicate our 255 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 1: lives too often without really looking to say, you know, 256 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: is this the most godly transaction? Is this what God 257 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: actually wants from my life? Or is this my own ego? 258 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: Is this righteousness? Am I feeling a void? Do I 259 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: think this connection represents or means something about me? Right? Like? 260 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: Are you looking to be in connection with people that 261 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,959 Speaker 1: look big to others because you think that makes you 262 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,919 Speaker 1: look big too? Or you looking to have connection with 263 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:28,720 Speaker 1: people because they have decency and inspiration moving in their 264 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 1: veins and there's just a safety about them, a goodness 265 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,959 Speaker 1: about them, no right or wrong answers. Really, like, you 266 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: get to decide. It's your life, our life. Our lives 267 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 1: are simply the sum of our choices, of our experiences, 268 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 1: of our decisions, and it's just important to bring things 269 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: up for review at this time more than ever in 270 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 1: the political choices that you make, this needs to be 271 00:18:54,240 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: up for review. Aside from what someone's platform is, what 272 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: are there day to day decisions of decency, of integrity, 273 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 1: of honor, of value? Do they move through the world 274 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:17,120 Speaker 1: with honor? Do they treat other people with respect. Do 275 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: they live with self respect or are they always looking 276 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 1: for their own aggrandizing Are they always looking to be 277 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 1: taken care of by people or to be to receive 278 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: sympathy from others, or are they here to stand up 279 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 1: straight and do the work and lead. We have to 280 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:38,679 Speaker 1: look at that when it comes to the politics of 281 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: this moment of human history. It has to matter. Anybody 282 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 1: that we put in office has to be making choices 283 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: out of integrity, because integrist choices benefit all, even if 284 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 1: we don't always love, like, agree or want to support them. 285 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 1: There are going to be ways regardless, because we're a 286 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: bunch of different kinds of people. Where some people are 287 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: going to have more, some people are going to have less. 288 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: Some things are going to be like this, some things 289 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: are going to be like that. Is that fair? No, God, no, 290 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 1: of course not. This planet is not fair. None of 291 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: our life experiences have been fair. But do they serve 292 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: the greater good at least in some way? And can 293 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: we find ways where that balance does come in for 294 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: us and we are getting our share in other ways 295 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: or we're getting a little more in other ways. That's 296 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: the divine dance and the balance. But when you're voting, 297 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: when you are making choices that are a part of 298 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 1: our human choices that affect all of us. Each of 299 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: us has to consider is this for the greater good? 300 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: And look at the full sum of choices that a 301 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: person running for public office makes. You know, when I 302 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 1: hear questions like do you trust politicians? No, I don't 303 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 1: trust anybody. I don't trust anyone. I trust myself. I 304 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: trust my connection with God and the divine. I don't 305 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: have the expectation that I have to trust everyone around 306 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: me to make choices for the greater good. It's never 307 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: going to happen. We've never lived on a perfect planet. 308 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: God has designed very extensive spiritual curriculum for each of us. 309 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: I don't have to trust politicians, but I am judging. 310 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:38,960 Speaker 1: Are the majority of the choices they make consistently? Do 311 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: they represent integrity in the way that I understand it, 312 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 1: in the way that I live it deeply? Well? So 313 00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 1: consider this month as we unfold in even more conversations 314 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: around integrity. You know, what does integrity mean for you? 315 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: Not just in this political landscape that we're walking into. 316 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: What does integrity mean for you in your own home? 317 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: What does integrity mean for you and the way you 318 00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 1: interact with others. What does integrity mean for you in 319 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: your body, in your decisions, in the way that you 320 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 1: show up and serve, and the way that you're able 321 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: to hold boundaries? You know, not being able to have 322 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: a lot of boundaries in your life with yourself means 323 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: that in some ways it's not as honorable as many 324 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 1: of us think it is. Right, It's not like I'm 325 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: so sacrificing, I'm a martyr. It's really, where are you 326 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: lacking in your personal integrity? Where are you operating in fear? 327 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: Where are you operating in your wounding? And where is 328 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: there opportunity to turn that around? Where is that opportunity 329 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: to make a different choice, to change your behavior, to 330 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 1: change the way you look at and experience and receive yourself. 331 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:59,399 Speaker 1: And I think every day we are given these opportunities 332 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: to evaluate who we are and what our interactions are 333 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,800 Speaker 1: and how we move in the world, and we're giving 334 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: we're given opportunities to make new choices, to change things, 335 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: to do things differently, and that is where our power lies. 336 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: Can you make those adjustments in real time or do 337 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: they take decades for you? Again, no right or wrong 338 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: It just depends on what you want to get out 339 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 1: of this lifetime. I'm somebody that made a lot of 340 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: the same hard choices over and over until I did it. 341 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 1: And what I've learned now that I don't is that 342 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 1: God life is so much more beautiful and easeful and 343 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: healing and miraculous and pleasurable if you just do the 344 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 1: hard thing when you're told to, just do it. Just 345 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,400 Speaker 1: do it the first time, do it when you hear 346 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: the whisper. You don't have to wait for God to 347 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: punch you in the face every time. Do it. Do 348 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: it because you trust that your intuition told you to, 349 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: even without further proof, And over time you'll see the 350 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,679 Speaker 1: proof come in and it'll all make sense. But be 351 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 1: willing to trust yourself, be willing to trust your connection 352 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: with the divine. And if you're not there yet, I 353 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: pray and hope for you that there is a willingness, 354 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: maybe even just in this moment, to stretch your heart 355 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: open a little more wide, and begin to slowly court 356 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: and cultivate that relationship with yourself and with the divine, 357 00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 1: so as they get ready to kind of bring this 358 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: first conversation about integrity to a close. I want to 359 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: bring forward a few definitions of integrity for you, because 360 00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: what I have definitely come to find in life, most 361 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: especially in my own sagas but in my work is 362 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: we can be using the same words in language but 363 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:09,479 Speaker 1: hold such completely different definitions for these words because the 364 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 1: ways that we've been introduced to them, or that they 365 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: have been demonstrated for us since childhood, have all been 366 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: very different. The word love means very different things to 367 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 1: each of us, depending on how much or how little 368 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: each of us has had of it, depending on how 369 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: our caretakers or the people that we loved or wanted 370 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: to love shared it with us. And so because of that, 371 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: it's really important that we check in and connect. Are 372 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: we operating from the same baseline understanding of what this 373 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 1: feeling or this characteristic or this noun, this verb, this 374 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: definition means to each of us. So I'm going to 375 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,080 Speaker 1: start here, And as long as you're not driving, if 376 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 1: you're somewhere safe, you might want to just sit down 377 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 1: and close your eyes listening to this, or let yourself 378 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: bring your eyes to looking outside of a window, or 379 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: just kind of being in a soft gaze so you 380 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,959 Speaker 1: can connect to the words that I'm saying, and notice 381 00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,000 Speaker 1: where they land. Notice in your body. Notice if there 382 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:17,400 Speaker 1: is instantaneously some kind of an example that shoots forward. 383 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: But just listen to some of these things that I'm 384 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 1: going to share. So the Merriam Webster definition of the 385 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:32,879 Speaker 1: word integrity is adherence to a code firm, adherence to 386 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: a code of values, especially moral or artistic values. An incorruptibility, 387 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:50,160 Speaker 1: incorrupt ability, an unimpaired condition, a sound, perfect or unbroken condition. 388 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:58,240 Speaker 1: Completeness the quality or state of being complete or undivided. 389 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: Some synonyms of the word integrity include character, decency, goodness, honesty, morality, probity, 390 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: and rightness, and an antonym. The opposite of the word 391 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: integrity is dishonesty. Sit in that for a second, and 392 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: I want you to think about where this conversation has 393 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 1: already been. If there is dishonesty connected to a person, 394 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 1: they do not have integrity. If someone represents completeness, a 395 00:27:53,119 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: state of being complete or undivided, that's integrity. They adhere 396 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: to a code of values that are moral or and 397 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:09,640 Speaker 1: artistic and incorruptible, they have integrity. It's important to note 398 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: those things. From a psychological standpoint, integrity is considered one 399 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:20,160 Speaker 1: of the most important human values. It can promote personal 400 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: and collective well being, and it is linked to increased 401 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:32,959 Speaker 1: self esteem and life satisfaction, mental health, and emotional stability. Wow, 402 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: that's powerful. Think about how much energy we spend when 403 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 1: we are not living in alignment with our values. It 404 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 1: drains us, It creates confusion, and it leads to internal conflict. Integrity, 405 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: on the other hand, promotes well being. It promotes increased 406 00:28:54,080 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: self esteem and emotional stability. Oh yeah, okay, Think about 407 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,959 Speaker 1: how much energy we spend when we are not living 408 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: in alignment with our values. It drains us, creates confusion, 409 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 1: and it leads to internal conflict that constant pull and 410 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: tug between what we know to be true and what 411 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 1: we are choosing to behave as or choosing to pretend 412 00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: to believe. Integrity, on the other hand, innately promotes well being, 413 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: increased self esteem, and emotional stability. Words that often in 414 00:29:53,200 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 1: a company integrity psychological integrity include accountability, consistency, honesty, sensitivity, 415 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: and transparency. So if someone who is in a position 416 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: of leadership or domination or authority does not naturally have 417 00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 1: the ability to be accountable, consistent, honest, sensitive, and transparent, 418 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: they are not operating in integrity. Now, spiritual integrity is 419 00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: the practice of living a life that is consistent with 420 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: one's values and principles and is free of contradictions between 421 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: what one says and does. It involves being honest with 422 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: oneself and having a deep understanding of oneself and being 423 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: willing to be authentic. So another way to look at 424 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 1: that is, for instance, I am somebody that does this 425 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: show deeply well. I am a healing practitioner and facilitator. 426 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm someone that works with clients and with companies in 427 00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: an advisory position. I'm someone that is deeply studied, meditation teacher. 428 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 1: All these things right, If I did not study the 429 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: things that I talked about, if I did not live 430 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,959 Speaker 1: the things that I talked about, if I taught meditation 431 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 1: but I did not meditate, I would not be in 432 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: integrity with what I'm saying. I am who I'm saying 433 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: I am, which means there is a layer of manipulation 434 00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: and dishonesty that I would be coming to you with 435 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 1: for whatever kind of personal gain. We need to look 436 00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: at the way we are being talked to by people, 437 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,160 Speaker 1: the way we are being influenced by people, we need 438 00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 1: to pay close attention to what we expect in leadership. 439 00:31:56,080 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 1: Because our leaders are in paid positions, we need to 440 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,959 Speaker 1: constantly be bringing up for review, especially while we're in 441 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 1: transition or expanding into a higher version of self. What 442 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: do I stand for? How much integrity do I live with? 443 00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:20,719 Speaker 1: And how is everyone else measuring up? Even people I 444 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 1: really like, even people I really enjoy, even people I'm 445 00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: nervous around, even people I'm scared to upset. Right, however, 446 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: you experience certain people in your life hold this value system. 447 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,200 Speaker 1: We've just now become really clear on up next to 448 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: them and see how you really feel what is in alignment. 449 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 1: There is a real opportunity in this moment in time, 450 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: and I want you to think about this as we 451 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: explore integrity. There is a real opportunity to uplevel your 452 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: life for the better, to heal yourself of wounds and 453 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: to get into true alignment who you say you are, be, 454 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: who you say you want to be. Let the healing 455 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: take root in your life, and let your behavior be 456 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: the truth of what that healing is. So some soul 457 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: work for today, and I just want to remind everyone, 458 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,719 Speaker 1: if you didn't catch it last episode, that now along 459 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 1: with every episode, we are going to have a PDF 460 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: you can print out so you can do the work. 461 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 1: You can do the work along with this show. So 462 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 1: that PDF is available in our newsletter. You can sign 463 00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: up on Debbi Brown dot com, hit me on my 464 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: link in bio on Instagram, and you can also go 465 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: on the website Dewi Brown dot com on the podcast 466 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: page and download the PDF of the soul work. So 467 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: for the soul work that is accompanying this episode, I 468 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 1: would like to ask everyone to spend some time thinking 469 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: about and maybe journaling, when is a moment for you 470 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:55,120 Speaker 1: personally that you felt like you were in deep integrity 471 00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: doing what's right because it's right, no matter if another 472 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: person was looking. And I want you to really explore 473 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,719 Speaker 1: how it felt as you did that, whatever that is 474 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,440 Speaker 1: big or small, And again it doesn't have to be 475 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 1: this like big breakthrough story of like I had integrity 476 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:15,399 Speaker 1: and then a miracle happened, right maybe sometimes, but more 477 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: so I want you to notice the inner feeling and 478 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: how long you felt connected to that feeling. Did you 479 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: feel pride about it, did it open up something in you? 480 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 1: Did you feel strong? Just notice that for yourself. And 481 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,959 Speaker 1: then the second question for that in soul work would 482 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: be notice the time that you didn't have integrity, whatever 483 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 1: that is, and just know you're human and alive. It's 484 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 1: happened for all of us. None of us have operated 485 00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: out of full integrity twenty four to seven. None of us. 486 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 1: It's not possible. We're all learning, we're all growing. But 487 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: it's important to be willing to bear witness to what 488 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 1: is sometimes are painful and bad behavior. So think about 489 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:02,359 Speaker 1: when have you not been in integrity and you knew 490 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: it because you always know it? And how did that feel? 491 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,239 Speaker 1: And how long did that stay with you? And how 492 00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,520 Speaker 1: do you relate to that experience? Now let yourself think 493 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,280 Speaker 1: about it for the week, for the month, for however long, 494 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: and I will see you next week. If you enjoy 495 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,560 Speaker 1: this episode, please consider giving a five star rating and 496 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 1: leaving a comment. I'm really grateful for your time. I've 497 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 1: connected to so many deep comments that people have left 498 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 1: with their own stories or with the ways that they 499 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 1: are connecting to this information. I'm not for everybody, none 500 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 1: of us are. 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