WEBVTT - Rebecca Sweet 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:14.880 Carola. She's the queen of talking. He was so your man. 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:19.360 She's only is actually got the snoop on on the 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:28.360 on side. No one can do with Clid Caralam Carola. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:36.320 No one can do with Clie Carol Carola. Hey, y'all, 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.800 welcome to Hyper Caroline Hobby. I am your host, Caroline Hobby. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:42.519 I know music, I know people, and I know the 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.440 questions do you want to ask? So let's get hyper 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.479 heads up. These are adults having adult conversations, so there 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:55.120 could be adult content this episode. I have the sweetest 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:58.520 soul joining me, Rebecca Sweet. I love this woman. She 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:02.160 is an incredible heart, an incredible soul. And she has 0:01:02.200 --> 0:01:04.880 a blog called sweet Lady Jane Lady is with an 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:08.200 eye and it's talking about food, fashion, travel, and art. 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.920 She loves farm to table food. She has so many 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:13.800 great recipes, all sorts of great gift ideas. And this 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.319 blog was a huge deal to her because it helped 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.640 her overcome one of her greatest obstacles, which was dyslexia. 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.240 So this blog really put her out there, got her 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:25.479 out of her comfort zone, and she's had so much 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:29.040 victory from it, personal victory, and it's been so well 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.560 received and her story is amazing. She's also married to 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.160 Philip Sweet from a Little Big Town, one of the 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:37.280 four members of a Little Big Town, and we talked 0:01:37.319 --> 0:01:40.199 all about their beautiful love story, their sweet love story, 0:01:40.680 --> 0:01:43.200 and how life is on the road Little Big Town. 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:48.080 It's pretty freaking awesome. So y'all welcome Rebecca Sweet. So 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:50.840 I'm here with Rebecca Sweet and she lives up to 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:54.080 her name Sweet because you're the sweetest. I really think 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:55.960 you are the sweetest. I don't know, maybe it's just 0:01:55.960 --> 0:02:00.560 when I'm around you that's a kind of me. And 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:03.040 we have to comment on your hair because it is 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.840 looking bomb. I just did this two days ago, so 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.360 it's kind of terrifying, but it was fun. I just 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.800 wanted to be bold. What you said bold, it's so bold, 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:14.280 and it's your skin tone, so it's kind of how 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:16.919 don't we described this color? I guess it's like a 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:20.560 true red. Amanda at Lee Edwards, she's the one who 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:22.960 was like, did it once. We kind of baby stepped 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:24.760 me into it the first time, and then when I 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:26.480 came back, I was like, Okay, let's do it go 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:29.160 big or go home. Yeah, I love it. She went there. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:31.560 It was awesome. She's kind of obsessed with curly hair, 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:34.960 so she's been really helping me embrace my curly hair. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.959 And then I love embrace the color that it's mine 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:39.680 and I love it. I don't think you should ever 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:43.120 change you. I would say this color forever. Yeah, okay, amazing. 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:47.360 Now I just need a convertible. Yeah, yes, exactly, totally 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:51.040 didn't at the top down exactly. Okay, So I'm gonna 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:54.480 start with a little rapid fire. Okay, So well, actually 0:02:54.520 --> 0:02:57.200 these are just some questions. So answer first thought that 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.239 comes to fine. Okay, if you had a time sheen, 0:03:00.440 --> 0:03:02.200 would you go back in time or would you visit 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:04.120 the future? And why? Where would you go? Oh? I 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:06.839 would go back in time to the forties. I love 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:12.240 the forties the speakeasies and the hair dues and yeah, 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.440 and it's kind of romantic because it was kind of 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:20.120 like dangerous but like not dangerous like during prohibition and stuff. 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:22.160 I would just love to see that. That would be amazing. 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.400 Oh you would look great? Is that like flapper? Yeah? Yeah, 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:30.119 like great Gatsby, you know. Or cigarette smoking is really cool? Yes, 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:33.200 and like the long like cane ones, you know, that 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:37.080 would be really fun to do that Okay, love what 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:41.120 always brings a smile to your face, Philip, he really does. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.800 You're sweet angel husband. Yeah, he's just such a good 0:03:43.840 --> 0:03:46.920 guy and sweetest and he just always believes in me. 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:49.760 I mean, anytime I get passionate about a project or 0:03:50.080 --> 0:03:52.640 even a house project or sweet Lady Jane, he just 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:56.480 always believes in me and takes me there and pushes 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:59.600 me and doesn't let me like just hang myself or 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:03.040 let me, you know, have doubt self doubt. So it's 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:05.880 kind of amazing. It's so good. I know, sometimes I'm like, 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:08.760 I don't know if I deserve you. You do, you 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:12.760 know you're not. And we're gonna come back to But 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.000 your husband is in a little big town and he's amazing, 0:04:15.440 --> 0:04:18.480 is amazing. And you also said sweet Lady Jane's that's 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:21.000 your blog when you're gonna talk all about But you 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:24.279 guys are the sweetest couple and I think people live 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:27.039 up to their names. That's so sweet. We live. I mean, 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:30.440 we've been married for ten years and so we just 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.960 wanted to love each other forever and to be that 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:35.200 couple to gross our grandchildren. Now, we wanted to be 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:37.840 like on the front porch drinking dirty martinis and like 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:43.080 making out. Making out Is that a conscious decision? Because 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.520 some couples get into this thing where they start like 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.520 picking at each other and they kind of keep score 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:49.320 and then all of a sudden, you see a couple 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:52.479 there they're always bickering and that's not you, guys. But 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:54.640 that was a choice. I mean, yeah, it definitely is 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.680 a choice. I mean, we definitely argue, but I mean 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.520 it's just the way we kind of take a break. 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.600 It's our process. We learned to communicate. We always are 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:05.159 constantly learning different ways to communicate, and even as we 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:08.440 grow older, that changes to you know, your feelings change, 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:10.279 and so as long as you keep in touch with 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.120 each other and be best friends, then you can be 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:15.520 that way. I still like him a lot too cool. 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.680 Do you feel like you are love him more now 0:05:18.720 --> 0:05:21.320 than you did ten years ago? Yes, Oh definitely, because 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:25.080 I mean he helped me grow so much, and ten 0:05:25.160 --> 0:05:29.440 years ago I was a little more cocky, a little 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:33.160 more obnoxious, you know, and he loved me through all that. 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.320 Loved you get some wisdom, yeah, without shoving it down 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.839 my throat, which was kind of amazing. He let me 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:41.040 learn on my own terms, in my own pace. And 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:43.960 didn't judge me for making my mistake or you know, 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:46.160 be like you're such an idiot. He never said that. 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:49.240 I'm sure you've helped him grow too. I don't know 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:53.159 you have. That's beautiful. I think the only thing I 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:56.360 do is helping with his technology, your tech having. I 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.520 like technology a lot. I do. I do. I built 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:01.760 a little big town an app one time years ago 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:04.560 because I just it's fun. It's just fun to kind 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:05.960 of look at. I don't know how to code or 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:09.920 anything that far, but I just really enjoy that. It's 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.760 that's interesting. You're like a rocket scientist. It's fascinating. Well 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:16.279 in my former life, right right, you know, yeah, I 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:18.599 think that's great. You're like a sexy rocket scientist. I 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.880 like that. That's what we should be for Halloween. And 0:06:21.960 --> 0:06:24.920 you could have Philip dressed up as like a Bunsen burner, 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:27.760 you know, exploding. That would be amazing. We do have 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:31.440 themed Halloween's at our house every year. It's kind of 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.279 hilarious when you're the first Halloween that we had our 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.560 daughter Penelope, he was a big bad wolf. I was 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.359 little bo peep and she was my sheep. It was 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:40.920 really hilarious. Oh my God, she was the cutest sheep ever, 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:46.159 little lamb, Little Lamb. Okay, so what makes you the angriest? 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.919 What makes me the angriest? Sweet? Still get angry? You 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:51.800 know what would make me angry is if you mess 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:54.599 with my husband or my baby. Don't family, don't mess 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.920 with your flock. It's just no, don't mess with my flock. 0:06:57.120 --> 0:07:01.200 I just don't like that. Like it's especially with Philip 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:03.240 and Penalpe that they are so sweet and they I 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:06.600 want to protect that. That I just get that makes 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:09.680 me fired up. You know. Yeah, that would definitely push 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:13.480 my button for sure. Yeah, Mama hand. Other than that, 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:16.520 I'm pretty easy going. Yeah, okay, Yeah, I thought there 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:18.800 wouldn't be much that made you angry. I just don't 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:23.040 mess with my dude. Okay. What is one song that 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:26.720 reminds you most of your life? Oh? Or one song 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:30.000 to describe your life? To describe my life. That's a 0:07:30.040 --> 0:07:33.960 tough one. That's a good one. I feel like there's 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:35.880 like a couple of you know how you feel like 0:07:35.920 --> 0:07:38.600 there's theme songs in your life. There's moments of those 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:41.480 like there Walking in Memphis is a big song which 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.920 Philip will die laughing when he hears this part why 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.760 Walking in Memphis, Because well, my dad and I used 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.160 to listen to that song all the time. I was 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:50.480 born in Memphis, so but we grew up. I grew 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.880 up here, and so we used to dance to that song, 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:55.040 and you know, I just thought it was some song 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.800 that my dad and I was special between us. And 0:07:57.880 --> 0:08:01.200 when Philip and I were kind of talking and you know, 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:02.880 he was asking me out on a date, I was like, Okay, 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:04.360 I'll go out on a date with you if you 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:06.720 can play Walking in Memphis for me. If you learn 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:08.120 how to play that, I would go on a date. 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:12.240 Relations He like busted it out right there. So you're like, okay, 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.440 let's just walk down. Okay, let's just yeah, literally, because 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.320 weren't you the intern? Didn't you tell me that y'all 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:21.800 have like a really du story. It is a scandalous 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:23.840 of a love story, but it's a true love story. 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:26.280 And how did it go down? Okay? So since I 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:29.000 grew up here in Nashville, I started Sony Music Nashville 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:32.480 in the basement when I was fourteen, and so anything 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:36.520 I could an intern, yeah, well I was. It was 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:40.839 technically like part of a high school program like kind 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:43.520 of like an internship, seeing how it goes and stuff 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:45.360 like that. But that was when Mike Krasky and Alan 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:48.360 Butler were the heads of Sony and I went to 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:51.000 high school with their sons, so we were all friends. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.680 And I just really wanted to be on the business 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:56.480 side of the music industry because I loved being around 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.480 creative people and passionate people. And if I was going 0:08:59.559 --> 0:09:00.880 to have to work a desk job for the rest 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:03.120 of my life, it had to be with passionate people. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.080 Just couldn't do it anither way. So I went to college, 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.439 came back home, and that's kind of when everything in 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:13.320 Nashville was kind of up in evil and you know, um, well, 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:17.040 Sony Music Nashville, you know, Alan and Mike and a 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:19.560 lot of the heads like ended up losing their jobs 0:09:19.600 --> 0:09:21.160 and they were kind of not sure what was going 0:09:21.240 --> 0:09:22.800 to happen with country music, if they were going to 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.680 move to New York or l A or just yeah. 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:28.000 I mean, it was kind of scary for my little 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.760 hometown because that's all that there was was country music, 0:09:31.120 --> 0:09:33.520 country music. They were just getting it rid of it 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:37.240 all together, you know how they turned those tables right. 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:41.160 It was kind of crazy. So Mike Craskey opened up 0:09:41.200 --> 0:09:46.000 an independent label called Equity Music Group. So of course 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:47.480 I went baying on his door, and I was like, 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.240 please don't have a job, Please cant have a job. 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.680 You know, well, I'm going to school and all this 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:54.440 that and the other. And I got a job working 0:09:54.480 --> 0:09:57.319 for the label and management. So I kind of got 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.480 to see both sides of it all, and I really 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:04.160 kind of help, you know, with everything, paying bills, getting contracts, 0:10:04.760 --> 0:10:07.720 driving the artists around this note the other, and every 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:10.280 time I would see Philip, I would just get these butterflies. 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:12.920 But I swore to myself I would never date an artist, 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.719 like even when I was a teenager, like just I'm 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:17.559 not going to do it. You know, why do people 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.719 swear to them? Because I did that to myself too. 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:21.120 I was like, I'm not going to date an artist, 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:24.040 but I secretly knew I was because they're the most 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:27.360 creative and passionate. Yeah exactly. It's like almost like I'm 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.800 not going to touch the hot stove. You know. I 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:32.240 think we had these images that they couldn't be faithful, 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:35.839 or they could be committed or want a family right, 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:38.280 or how do you have a normal life and it 0:10:38.360 --> 0:10:41.560 is obtainable, you know, but it's definitely about that right guy, 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.160 you know. And he would always try to like make 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:45.920 my lunch when I was supposed to be making his lunch. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.920 I was like, dude, you're not supposed to do that. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:51.280 Like I am so long. I was there for a 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:53.800 year and was flirting with you. Oh yeah anytime you 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:55.839 saw me, like for me, and I was like booking 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:58.000 his airline tickets and stuff like that, and I'm like, oh, yeah, okay, 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:01.680 you can't be flirting with me. Donave me trouble. And 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:04.559 um in Mike Crest he had threatened fill up too, 0:11:04.800 --> 0:11:07.600 and Jimmy and any male around me he was like daddy, 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.920 you know, like don't touch her, like she's off, Like yeah, yeah. 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:14.679 I was a little like kind of like the daughter 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:17.600 of the label. Like they just everybody wanted to make 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:20.960 sure that I was safe and you know, well taken 0:11:20.960 --> 0:11:24.160 care of which I was stilling them in. Um the 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:28.880 long story short, they little Big Towns tour manager at 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.200 the time called me and asked me to bring a 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:35.080 snake from Nashville to Memphis, like a snake the like 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:39.320 the snake that um it connects the stage. I was 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:42.360 like yeah, sorry, and nothing's too far out right, what 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:47.040 kind of a snake instead of a cake? A little 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:54.080 Britney spears action. I mean, I could happen. Karen might 0:11:54.080 --> 0:11:57.679 have to take his anex holding his snake. But right, 0:11:58.240 --> 0:12:01.160 but anyway, so it's a piece of gear that connects everything, 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:02.800 you know, on the stage to the front of house 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:06.520 and out to the audience. So I was like sure. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:08.200 You know, at the time, I'm trying to pay my 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.079 bills and they offered me money to do it, so 0:12:10.120 --> 0:12:12.280 I was like okay. But the whole way there, I'm 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.280 like calling all my girlfriends and like, I know he's 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:15.880 going to be there, and I know he's going to 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:18.160 dry and flirt with me. And I remember I had 0:12:18.200 --> 0:12:21.400 texted him something and he never responded, like a funny joke, 0:12:22.040 --> 0:12:24.520 he never responded. So I was like, Okay, he probably 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:27.719 thinks he's so much cooler than I am, so forget him, right, 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.160 And I get there and I'm sitting on his bus 0:12:30.160 --> 0:12:33.360 and I'm like see him on like the bus monitor camera, 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.240 like walking to the bus and I just grab a 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.800 newspaper and I'm like, m like so interested in what 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.920 this paper has. Amazing, So what you were like what 0:12:44.160 --> 0:12:47.640 you do about all about the news? Right then? Like 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:49.720 you didn't even see him come in. You're too busy. Yeah, 0:12:49.760 --> 0:12:52.040 I'm too busy. And so he comes up and he 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.320 actually like, I'm so sorry I didn't respond to your text. 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.080 And I was like, crap, he caught my bluff, you know, 0:12:57.160 --> 0:13:00.240 like like he's gonna he's not trying to play games. No, yeah, 0:13:00.320 --> 0:13:02.920 he was not trying to play games. And so towards 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:04.160 the end of the night came and I had to 0:13:04.200 --> 0:13:05.600 drive back to Nashville and he was like, you can't 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:07.960 drive home by yourself. And I was like, I drove 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.080 here by myself. I'm a big girl. It's not that far, 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.120 you know, I can handle it. And he's like, well, 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:16.760 why don't I just ride with you? And I'm like, okay, sure, 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:21.160 are you like dying inside dying body? Butterfly? Now it's 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:23.560 probably more than butterflies. Now, that's nerves, like intense, Like 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.199 I'm like, is my face red? Like, oh my gosh, 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.400 don't fall, don't fall, you know, And also like that's 0:13:29.400 --> 0:13:31.200 a long time with just someone in a car, like 0:13:31.720 --> 0:13:33.800 a lot of communicating that's going to happen here, right 0:13:33.960 --> 0:13:36.240 And I'm like and I'm working for the label still. 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:40.760 It was just all sorts of So then he pulls 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:43.440 his bag to my car and he gets in, and 0:13:43.440 --> 0:13:44.760 I feel like this is a good line, you know. 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.319 I was like ready for it. I was like, well, 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.280 I just want to let you know. If you think 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:50.280 that I'm that kind of a girl, you need to 0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:51.960 get back on your artist bus and we can forget 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.400 this even happen. And I appreciate you. You're concerned, you know, 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:57.240 so you just put it out there. Yeah, and he 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.319 passed that I trying to hook up with you? Yeah right, 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:02.959 and yeah, have you fats me on the shoulder and 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:04.360 he goes, well, I'm glad you got that out of 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:09.000 the way. Oh my god. So he's just been super 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:11.640 cool from the startper cool from the start. And then 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:14.400 literally I'm glad you got that out of the way. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:17.600 It was just okay. And then two months from then 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:19.680 we were engaged. A year later we were married. And 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.680 then so you'll make out on that car, right, Yeah 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:24.480 we kind of did. Yeah, totally totally. But it definitely 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:27.560 made me breakfast too. It was really so like a 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:30.040 makeout shack out. It was like he was really sweet 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:36.680 because we got there so I ended up being hey, 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:39.880 but you're telling it. It's all about the way it's presented, right, 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:41.680 Because I also said I would never marry an artist, 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:45.040 and I did that, right, So you know, I guess 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:46.760 I should stop saying I'm not going to do it, 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.800 because then usually I did it. Yeah, because it's really 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:51.640 in your heart what you wanted to do, right, But 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:53.280 you just want to be respected and you want to 0:14:53.280 --> 0:14:56.000 be well treated, right. And I was giving up a 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:58.600 lot like dating him too, because then I would never 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:01.320 be taking seriously in the industry. Again. I didn't want 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:03.960 to be that girl either that you know, dated a 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:06.480 bunch of artists or like I really and I was 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:09.000 kind of looking for something to put my life my 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:13.560 future together, like kind of over dating casually and stuff 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.840 like that. But I was also okay with being by 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:21.520 myself to know that's when it happens. Because I was 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.960 even ready to like never get married, you know. So 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:27.440 I even told Philip that, like in that first month 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:30.000 of dating, I was like, I don't really I'm not 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.680 really interested in getting married, and you know, I feel 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:35.960 like I can have a great life being me and 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.720 having a partner and not have to do that kind 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:41.680 of a thing, and and then later on I was like, 0:15:41.720 --> 0:15:44.000 of course I told the one guy that I actually 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:46.080 want to marry that I don't want to get married. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:48.200 I think that's what we always do though, especially when 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:50.360 you're in your twenties, you know, and you're trying to 0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:52.880 be like cool, this is who I am. Cool, Like 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:54.480 you're not going to like take a measure to me 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:58.200 and just letting you know I'm an adult adult. Yeah, 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.480 and I make the rules. Oh what is that? A 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:04.880 pretty woman? And I say who I? I say that. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:10.840 It's like, it's just I'm a walking contradiction, I guess 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:14.280 with But yeah, oh my gosh. I wouldn't change it 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:15.800 for the world. And you know, I have to play 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.840 hard to get right. He can't just have everything right. 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:24.520 He can't be sweet and adorable and charming charming. Yeah right, yeah, exactly. 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:27.800 How has it been being married married to a musician? 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:30.240 Has that worked out for you? Oh? I love it. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.520 I mean my house is always full of music, and 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:36.680 it inspires my daughter to be in the arts and creative, 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:39.720 and I just it's enjoyable. It's fun to watch because 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:43.600 I'm not necessarily the art, you know, into music musician 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:45.600 kind of thing. But you are very creative, But I'm 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.680 very creative. I'm just more in a different way. And 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:52.400 I just love hearing him play different instruments and I 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:55.040 think it's really cool. Sometimes on stage he's literally is 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.040 playing the guitar and playing the piano at the same time. 0:16:57.080 --> 0:16:59.120 I'm like, how do you do that? How is that possible? 0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:01.440 He plays with his years up here in this hand 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:04.239 on the piano. It's crazy. I have that kind of 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:08.040 He's a freaky anomaly anything. He'll grocer out his gray hairs, 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:13.920 even growing blonde. It's really obnoxious. So we've been looking 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:16.000 for the perfect specimen and we found him. It's your husband, 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:20.760 but I think it's both of you. Guys. It's okay. 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:23.960 So if you're a superhero, what powers would you have? Oh, 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:27.840 if I was a superhero, I would I guess to 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:31.840 change somebody's heart, Like, you know, there's so much gosh, Okay, 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:33.879 I want to drop the mic on that one, of course, 0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:36.240 I mean, you are the sweetest person. Well, there's so 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:39.280 much like going on in the world, and not to 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:41.440 bring it to the depressing point, but it's like, just 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:44.480 if you could literally just touch somebody and change their 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:48.080 mindset about the world, that would be a cool superpower 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:51.000 because then we wouldn't have all this hate going on. 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:52.879 You know, why do you think all this hate is 0:17:52.920 --> 0:17:58.040 going on? I think it's a miscommunication. Yeah, and I 0:17:58.080 --> 0:18:01.720 think unfortunately, you know, I love social media, but there 0:18:01.720 --> 0:18:04.880 are some downsides to it. And sometimes what it is 0:18:04.880 --> 0:18:07.040 is that people don't take responsibility for the things that 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:10.200 they put out there, and they think, oh, well, it's 0:18:10.240 --> 0:18:12.400 just my opinion. I can say whatever I want to. Well, 0:18:12.560 --> 0:18:15.480 people listen to your opinions when you put it out there, 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:19.720 whether it's right or wrong. And I think teaching that 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:23.840 social responsibility to people, it's just spreads like why wild 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.920 thought fire, you know, and everybody likes a little drama 0:18:26.960 --> 0:18:32.800 and controversy, and but it's snowballs. It's snowballs and people. Yeah, 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:36.480 it's unfortunate, but I think it's important to just start 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:39.800 talking about it and that it isn't against all of us. 0:18:39.800 --> 0:18:42.760 We're all in it together, you know. Yeah, I mean 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:47.320 we've got to do something about it. Yeah, in like 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:52.200 fifty years where they won't be like a white European 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:54.800 person genetically, you know what I mean, Like we'll just 0:18:54.840 --> 0:18:57.679 all be a big blend of people. It's gonna be 0:18:57.720 --> 0:19:01.120 so criss cross, so we'll I'll just be a bunch 0:19:01.160 --> 0:19:04.959 of MUDs, which I love mutton. They have a lot 0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:09.240 less health problem, like more adapted. It's the way nature intended, 0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:12.160 if you think about it. I agree. You don't see 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:16.359 other animals asking each other about their genetic backgrounds exactly. 0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:21.119 I love that great superpower. Thanks. Okay, And if you 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:24.120 could choose one celebrity to trade lives with, who would 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.560 it be? And why? Oh let's see, maybe just for 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:31.960 a day, maybe not permanently. Love her. She's the best 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:36.119 legs everybody And every time I see or do a 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:39.200 photo shoot or anything on Instagram, I'm like, I would 0:19:39.240 --> 0:19:41.040 love to spend a day in your life. Yeah, she's 0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:43.119 just one. Yeah. What would it be like to be 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:46.359 a supermodel? I know, right, Yeah, that would That's always 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.120 fascinating to me. I would want to be a fly 0:19:48.160 --> 0:19:50.960 on the wall, even like backstage and hear what they 0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:53.280 talk about and they're all there's just all of them, 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:55.160 you know, just like this heard of like the most 0:19:55.280 --> 0:19:58.800 gorgeous women, these legs and they just hang out together. Yeah, 0:19:58.920 --> 0:20:01.600 it's kind of incredible, it is, And I would just 0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:03.880 want to like try on one of the clothes, even 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:05.680 though it wouldn't be able to fit into it. But well, 0:20:05.680 --> 0:20:08.080 I mean, if you're class for the day, it will 0:20:08.080 --> 0:20:11.680 fit like a love. But you are smoking, so I 0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:14.760