1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:06,520 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast. Well, 2 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: this episode started a little bit off. Okay, how can 3 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: I pun this a little better? This episode started with 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 1: the um, I walked into a big fart in the room, 5 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: and it smells like a big fart right now. And 6 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,799 Speaker 1: apparently Mark has a really good David space, so let's 7 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: hear it. Well, we were just talking and he came up. 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: When I first got to l A in the late nineties, 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: I needed to do things to get my SAG cards, 10 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: so I grabbed at extra job. So I was a 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: featured extra on an episode who just shoot me? Okay, 12 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: you can't go look for because I was completely edited 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: out of the whole episode. But that's a whole other story. 14 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. So I was. It's the episode with French 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: Stewart and um, the woman Maya on the show is 16 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: dating French Stewart, and French Stewart's a puppeteer and all 17 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: of the problems he has with the relationship he takes 18 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: out in his puppets. It's a funny promise, Know everything's 19 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: Fine's his puppets are like you like that all the time, 20 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: you know, like it's funny. Anyway, I was the puppeteer 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 1: stage manager, and I had to go and rip mya 22 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: down from the set of this puppeteer set when she 23 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: was attacking and strangling one of the puppets at the 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: culmination of the episode. Anyway, so I'm on the set 25 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 1: hanging out all week, having a good time and just 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: gorging on free craft services. You know, it's all this 27 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: delicious free food, just going nuts and not really bad gas. 28 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: It was totally terrible. So standing off to the side, 29 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: and there was a guy there that seemed to know 30 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: Spade really well, David Spade, and he was wearing he 31 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: was total Hollywood slick back hair, sunglasses, indoors, black longsleeve shirt, 32 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: black pants, total Hollywood age. And he had gotten there 33 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 1: and I had seen him because hugged Spade everything. So 34 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: he's sitting in a folding chair next to me, and 35 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: I'm standing next to him, so he is right at 36 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: butt level. So I've dropped a bomb, like I can't 37 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: even imagine. It was not loud, but yeah, it was 38 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: like like I tears in my eyes and my hair 39 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: was straightening, like it was really bad. And David Spade's 40 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: coming over to this guy because they just finished a scene. 41 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: So this guy jumps up out of his chair, turns 42 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: Spade around and walks him in the other direction. And 43 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 1: I thought, that is some quality representation right there. They 44 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: just totally dodged the fog. What a good agent did 45 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: they know? I mean, was there anyone else around that 46 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: you could have? Possibly? Because I'm a I'll blame it 47 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: on everyone else around me. I think he probably set 48 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,120 Speaker 1: stay away from that guy. He really something died in him. 49 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: Have you told David the story? Since I'm sure you've 50 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: me I've mentioned it when he's been in. I've mentioned 51 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: it to Ryan and as the producers, but we never 52 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:39,639 Speaker 1: really get around to it. But I'd like to tell 53 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: him that story someday. But then at the end of 54 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: the week, the producer Steve Levitan, who then created Modern Family, 55 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: he came to watch the run through and he said, 56 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: I don't like when that guy goes up to and 57 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: pulls her off the stage, which was me. And that 58 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 1: was it, and then I was edited out. There's no 59 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: sign of me in the episode. I'm sorry, I got 60 00:02:58,280 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: my side card, but I do have a question. Why 61 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: were you Were you wanting to be an actor? Yes, 62 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to be on television. I wanted to be 63 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: a host, and I couldn't figure out any kind of 64 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: path to do that, so I was just auditioning for 65 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: anything that would have me. Um. But yeah, I wanted 66 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 1: my SADE cards so I could start being on TV 67 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: in whatever capacity ended up being on TV. And my friend, 68 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: who already had lived here prior that we were living with, 69 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: he sent me and my roommates up with these extra 70 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: gigs so we could get our side cards, because that's 71 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: a big hurdle when you get to l A is 72 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: getting that union card. So then, yeah, I know for sure, 73 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: how did you I'm sorry today's guest is but how 74 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: um what was the switch to be behind camera then? 75 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: Because obviously that's a longer story, but I'll just tell 76 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: you it's it was just, um, you know, failure reads 77 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: as the mother of necessity. So I did three years 78 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: of just going out for everything I could go out for, 79 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 1: and I booked a ton of stuff right away. I 80 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: got too Independent Phil Homes, I got a TV show, 81 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: I got the just Shooting Me thing, I got a 82 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: whole bunch of stuff right away, a commercial for Cores, 83 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: and then every one of those things kind of fell 84 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: apart and then that was it. I never booked another 85 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 1: thing in three years. And that's when I decided to 86 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: start working at Disneyland because I had an opportunity and 87 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: I was like, I'll take whatever I can get down 88 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: because I'm almost out of money. I started working there 89 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: and got it check and then after three years at Disneyland, 90 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: I got back into radio. And that's how I had 91 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:33,919 Speaker 1: it on this path. But when I was trying to 92 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: get a job, I set out my my old radio 93 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: demo to every station in l A. And Kiss FM 94 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: called and said, we do not want you on the radio, 95 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 1: but you seem to have experience, so can you come 96 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: and be a producer and behind the scenes. And I said, yeah, yeah, yeah, 97 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: whatever you need. I'm married, now I need something. So 98 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: that's how this all came about. And now you work 99 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: for Ryan Seacrest and yeah, like that's a pretty good gig, 100 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: the biggest radio personality in the world. It's worked out 101 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: pretty well. I'm up two over eleven years with Ryan. 102 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,720 Speaker 1: It's great, that's amazing. That's so cool, and you know, 103 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: we're very honored to have you. Mark. I mean, you're 104 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: a seasoned season vets here, so you're hard earned time 105 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: to be with us a little people, and this is 106 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: a highlight of the week. I enjoy you guys a lot. Well. 107 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: I appreciate you being you and sharing your story, and 108 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: especially your fart story, because I feel like we all 109 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: have that really embarrassing story. Um. I don't know, maybe 110 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: it's time to share mind since Mark put himself out there. Great, 111 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: you haven't shared it on here yet? No, Remember I 112 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: said I would never share it. I mean I remember this. 113 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: I remember trying to get you to do it. We 114 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: were in studio in burbon I mean, I'm just gonna 115 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: lay my microphone down and let you go. Should I 116 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: but like when people look at me differently, that you're 117 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 1: human and you're just like us. I don't think it's 118 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: a just like us kind of thing. I don't think 119 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: everyone has this experience. No, I don't just tell it. 120 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: Easton's ready, Becky's ready, Riley's ready. Our wine down listeners 121 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: are definitely ready. Okay, And I've never in my life 122 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:17,480 Speaker 1: shared this besides two a few friends. Um okay. So 123 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 1: I was, oh my good, Okay, most embarrassing story here 124 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 1: we go. I was twenty Oh gosh, how old was that? 125 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: It was? Right before I booked One Tree Hill, um, 126 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: and I was I had just moved into my boyfriend 127 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: Jonathan Check's house and who's actually now a very good friend. 128 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 1: His wife is, um, you know, our best friend. So 129 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 1: I just moved into his house up in the beech 130 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:50,840 Speaker 1: Wood Canyon Hills and uh, it was, you know, a 131 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: very small batch up pad. It was probably like a 132 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: six square foot bachelor pad. And so I was like, 133 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 1: I gotta like girly this place up a little bit. 134 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: So I start going online, um, looking for some shades, 135 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, bed Beth and Beyond has 136 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: these awesome shades. I'm kind of giving you guys a 137 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: long story, by the way, just to set of it. 138 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: So I go to bed. I was like, hey, John, like, 139 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm running out to the bed Beth and Beyond, Like 140 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: I'll be back in a little bit, and mind you, 141 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: let me just like set the scene. I'm wearing pretty 142 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: much like a short nightgown. I mean it was like 143 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: one of those little flower dresses from Forever twenty one, 144 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: like really short, very thin, like nothing much to it. 145 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: You know. I'm in my early twenties, So going to 146 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: bed Beth and Beyond and I'm walking through the halls 147 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: or the little aisles, and I can't find these blinds, right, 148 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: So I'm just like look and look and looking. Well, 149 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: then while I'm going through the aisles, I turn a 150 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: corner and there's this really I didn't see it obviously, 151 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: or I would have avoided it, but there was a 152 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: very sharp um like something was sticking out in one 153 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: of the aisles. So when I turned the corner kind 154 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: of fast, I scraped and I even have a scar 155 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: are on my left arm. I've got a scar right 156 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: there where it started to bleed and so I was like, 157 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: oh God, like that hurts. So I go up to 158 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: this guy who is helping someone else and I was like, hey, 159 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I two things I'm bleeding number one 160 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: and number two like I really need to find these shades. 161 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,119 Speaker 1: And they're freaking out and the guys like I'm so sorry, 162 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: Like do you need you know, help or assistance. I 163 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: was like, no, I just need a band aid and 164 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: I need to find these shades. Like I'm totally fine. 165 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: So he's like, Okay, are you sure you sure you shure? 166 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm like yes, I'm totally fine. So we go into 167 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: his office. I get a band aid to put it on, 168 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: and I was like, these are the shades I'm looking for. Well, 169 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 1: as we go down the aisles, I start looking down 170 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: at my band aid and I'm like, huh, maybe, like 171 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: I do need medical assistance because it was bleeding through 172 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: my band aid and I was like, maybe I need stitches. 173 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, I start to just 174 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: feel really really lightheaded, and I was like, um, actually, sir, yeah, 175 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: like I need um, I need some help. I need um, 176 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 1: I need some boom. I pass out. Okay. So I'm 177 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: in the middle of bed Beth and beyond passed out. Okay. 178 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: They're one there on Ventura in Studio City. In Studio City, 179 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: like Ventura and uh almost a cold water. So I'm 180 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: on the floor right, I wake up and I just 181 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: start screaming. I've never passed out before like this. I 182 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I just passed up, Like 183 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm the middle of I'm so sorry, and I was 184 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: like call my boyfriend so and they're like, man, man, man, 185 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: just calmed down. The fire. The fire people are coming, 186 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,320 Speaker 1: like they'll be here any minute. Okay. So in walking 187 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: now we're in Los Angeles right, So like the firemen 188 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 1: there are like straight off of a calendar like calendar environment. Yeah, 189 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: all want to be actors and I'll probably volunteer fireman. 190 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: So they walk in and I'm like, hi, I feel great, 191 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: like you know, just like they're like, okay, man, we're 192 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 1: gonna lift you up and we're gonna sit you in 193 00:09:55,679 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: this chair. Well, when they lifted me up, I had 194 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 1: myself when I passed, and I pointed to it and 195 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: was like, I put myself and I just started screaming. 196 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: And the look on these firefighters spaces. What I wouldn't 197 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: give for one of those guys to like hear this 198 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: story and and he remember it and he was one 199 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: of the firemen that was there. I would do anything 200 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: to track down one of those men to interview them. 201 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: How fantastic is that story? Is fantastic? So humiliating, So 202 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: I put myself when I passed passed out. I mean 203 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 1: they might some might call it a near death experience 204 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: because they say when you die, you poop. So apparently 205 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: I died and came back to life. You died in 206 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: the embarrassment sids. I think it was so embarrassing. Yeah, no, 207 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: no one can top that. And that's why when she 208 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: talked about once you fainted, uh a week or two 209 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: ago when you're doing you're getting your lab tests. I 210 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: mean I checked my butt to make sure the first 211 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: thing she did, and I was like, my first question, 212 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: I was like, did you poop? She's like no, I 213 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 1: checked myself. Like That's exactly where our heads went immediately 214 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: because it was so do I have to bring you 215 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: a change your clothes? Yes? Or no? I don't want 216 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: to hear skid mark on your underwear. But you're right, Mike, 217 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,239 Speaker 1: we need somebody a bed bath and beyond, employee, a firefighter, 218 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: somebody who was there that day. You've got to reach 219 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: out to us. I could have you on the show. 220 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: Oh my god. No, it's like any time when we 221 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 1: were living there and we would go to that bed 222 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: bath and beyond because I was the closest one to 223 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 1: our house. I would like kind of look at the 224 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: employees to be like, you recognize her. I'm surprised. Do 225 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: you ever went anywhere near that place? Have you? Have 226 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: you worked here for? Um? Okay, before we get the 227 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: lady gang on, um are amazing producer, Becky, just please, 228 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 1: just I need you to share your story. Um. So 229 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:05,280 Speaker 1: I've been dating my boy home for like five months now, 230 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: and I'm like visiting him in Michigan and I'm just 231 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 1: like I told her, I warned him. I was like, 232 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: I am sorry, my stomach heard so bad, like it's 233 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: been a few days already, and like I can't hold 234 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: it anymore. And he was like, it's okay. I was like, 235 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:26,599 Speaker 1: plug your ears. It was so loud. Why don't you 236 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 1: go in the other room. He lives in the studios. 237 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: I had nowhere to run or high, so I said 238 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: plug your ears and he heard it still. He's like, 239 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: that was so loud that But at the same time, 240 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 1: how much closer do you guys feel to one another 241 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: that you got that out? And I'm literally like, I'm 242 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: never farting in front of you till the day I die. 243 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean true story, because you can tell the first 244 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: time a hotel room. We're in a hotel room. So 245 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: it's kind of the same thing as you, Becky, right, 246 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: like what I'm gonna go walk in the halls and 247 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 1: Jane was doing something she's been ever anyway, and I 248 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: can't get her look. I was like, what is that. 249 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: She's like, you didn't hear anything. And then final I 250 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,719 Speaker 1: was like you're funny. She's like in the corner. I 251 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: literally went to a corner and went to a corner 252 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 1: like hit her face like a little kid, and was like, 253 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 1: I was so embarrassed. Usually when he stays with me 254 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 1: and like go to the living room, I have what 255 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: is your boyfriend there with you right now? What does 256 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: he think? What is his name? To Mario? He felt so, 257 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 1: he felt bad. He was like, I'm sorry for embarrassing you. 258 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: Do you love her more? Okay? Hi, how are you guys? 259 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm doing well. I'm like just laughing at this story 260 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: that she's telling you because it was so funny. But 261 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: he's sweet. I mean, I can tell you it's a 262 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 1: safe space, but I don't feel like that's the thing. 263 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: You got the girls tomorrow back me up. The girls 264 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 1: make it a bigger deal than it is, right, But 265 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: then why call it out though? Because every time I 266 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:16,960 Speaker 1: like do a little fun like he's like he gives 267 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: me a look because it's it's like we've been married 268 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: for going on six years, been together for like almost 269 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: seven and you still do that and you kind of 270 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: give me a look like you didn't hear that. You 271 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: didn't hear that. I'm like you're my wife, Like I 272 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: go into the bathroom after you after you take a dump, 273 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: and I'm like, dude, even girl, that's light, Like we 274 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: all do it well, Dude, I completely agree with what 275 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: you're saying. We just want to at least acknowledge that 276 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: it was there for you. But it's not at all. 277 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: And guess what, we don't. We don't give y'all for 278 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: it because we're nice, and then y'all will be like, 279 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: why do you have to ft? Well, because I know 280 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: no time out. We're a little bit more. I feel 281 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:57,400 Speaker 1: like we're more respectful with it, like knowing that we're 282 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: not just gonna fart like you will. Like what's the 283 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: thing called where the sheets and stuff? Dutch ovans? Yeah, 284 00:15:03,360 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: like that's not cool, Like you know, I made sure 285 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: I know it's going to be a stinky one, like 286 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: I go to a different room. But like men are 287 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: just like let it hang. Yeah, I mean that's exactly 288 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: it's And it's such a great relief when you're in 289 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: a new relationship, especially you guys are only five months 290 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: and as soon as both you do it, it's just 291 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 1: like we're good now, Like it's another level. So all right, Well, 292 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: so everyone listening. Just let it fly fly to Mario Becky. 293 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: Thank you guys, thanks for sharing. Okay, Um, Lady Gang 294 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: is in the waiting room. Let's take a break and 295 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: bring them on in. We're going to be wearing masks 296 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,640 Speaker 1: for a while. It's important to have the right mask 297 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: protect yourself and others. 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Maybe hasn't 307 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: been just had your daughter so five? Because you were 308 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: talking about getting mommy shamed, like at the grocery store 309 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: for something? Yeah, for buying food? Yes, yes, how dare you? 310 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: How dare I buy? Can dare you feed your baby? 311 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: If I should be hand making that? Yes? Congratulations on 312 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 1: the book, best, thank you, but seriously, congratulations to y'all because, 313 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: I mean, since I've seen you guys, you guys have exploded. 314 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:04,160 Speaker 1: I was. I love y'all show on e UM. I mean, 315 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 1: everything that you have going on. I mean, it's it's insane. 316 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: It's amazing though, but you guys deserve it. You guys 317 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 1: are energetic, You're fun, You're you share things that you 318 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: know are hard to share at times, and I I 319 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: appreciate that a lot because you're showing the good and 320 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: the bad and the the hard you know right back 321 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: at you. You're doing the same. I mean, you know 322 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: how it is. You know, you know it can be 323 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: hard ups and the downs. You know, that's right. We're 324 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,560 Speaker 1: just we're all just kind of riding the wave, right, 325 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 1: And I mean, from what you guys are doing, it's 326 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 1: amazing that you guys, you know, with all your individual 327 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: careers and accodes that the three of you have done. 328 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: You know, how did you give us a backstory in 329 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 1: our listeners? Kind of a backstory of how the Lady 330 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: Gang formed? All right? I usually take this one. I'll 331 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 1: do it. Um. So, Keltie and myself have previous lives 332 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,440 Speaker 1: as professional dancers. I was on broad Way. She was 333 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: a rocket. Yeah, she still got that, got it. So 334 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 1: this was stretch al right, okay, okay, so then this 335 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,159 Speaker 1: is exactly what you'll get when you listen to the 336 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: Lady Gang. Oh my god, apologies. Uh So we knew 337 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: each other a million lifetimes ago and then we both 338 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: kind of made our way out to l A and 339 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 1: would bump into each other at these like weird Hollywood 340 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 1: events and look at each other and be like, remember 341 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,399 Speaker 1: when we were broke and dancing our hearts out for 342 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 1: five dollars a week, and now we're here and this 343 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: is weird. Um. So then we decided we were so 344 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: sick of waiting for Hollywood to pick us. After every job, 345 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: We're like, oh my gosh, are they going to choose us? 346 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: So finally we had this lunch at Cafe one oh 347 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 1: one in l A which closed, yes because the pandemic. 348 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 1: It's devastating and um. Anyways, that was where we had 349 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: this really sad lunch one day that Kelty brought up 350 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: the idea of doing a podcast, and six years ago 351 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 1: a podcast. Was like yeah, I was like what is this? 352 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: I was like, you mean like Adam Carolla, what do 353 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: you mean? Like a Howard Stern, like yes, actually exactly. 354 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 1: So I just followed her lead because Kelty normally whatever 355 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 1: she touches turns to gold, and we knew we needed 356 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: a third girl who wasn't in the business and who 357 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: didn't care about the business and had a lot of 358 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,679 Speaker 1: street cred as a female entrepreneur and self made. And 359 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 1: then that's when Kelty asked Jack, and the reason they 360 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: know each other is because they share a mutual ex boyfriend. 361 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 1: I love is that? Is that what they call it? 362 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 1: An eskimo? Sister? Yeah, like my brother asked my sister. 363 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: Well yeah, but then so Jack, Well, I dated him 364 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,360 Speaker 1: after Jack, but then recently we found out that Jack 365 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 1: went back and made out with him when she thought 366 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: that we were still together, which so messed up. I 367 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: thought that, like when I because I have this whole thing, 368 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: that I will never go back to an X like 369 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 1: I'm very proud about it. That once you know, the 370 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: doors closed, the doors closed forever. And then I finally 371 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 1: remembered one day that I did go back and hook 372 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,800 Speaker 1: up with this sex boyfriend, and I was almost positive 373 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: that he cheated on Kelty with me, but we went 374 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: back and figured out that he didn't work. Oh well, 375 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 1: regardless look at you guys, now, look at us live 376 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: another day the other day. So the bond is still there. 377 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: And Kelty, you just renewed your vows, right, yes, did 378 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: you guys renew yours? We did, which I feel like 379 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,840 Speaker 1: we need to redo him again. We're in a new 380 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: trend of marriage. We're just like you know, we just 381 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:50,119 Speaker 1: keep reading everyone needs to renew after this this pandemic. 382 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 1: If you made it out alive, then yeah, I agree 383 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: with that. I know that Ceil and Heidi Klum didn't 384 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: make it eventually. But remember how they used to have 385 00:20:59,359 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: like a huge, huge vow renewal every single year, like 386 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 1: because she loves to throw parties, so she's like, basically, 387 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: how can I wear a fabuos dress? And I'm not 388 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: like winning an Oscar, so like what is this for me? 389 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 1: And she would throw this vow renewal. Yeah, Chris and 390 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: I renewed our vows last year and it was we 391 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: had been together ten years, seven years married, and we 392 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: had like a couple of rough years as they as 393 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,640 Speaker 1: they happen, and had really not been focused on our 394 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: relationship at all, and um, it was really sweet. I 395 00:21:25,080 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: I being an outward facing introvert, I feel a lot 396 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: of pressure to perform when I'm around people, as you 397 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: can tell already on this podcast. Um, but in my 398 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: real life, I'm actually like quite quiet. And so the 399 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 1: whole like wedding situation of like saying your vows and 400 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: having this moment in front of all these people, I 401 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 1: felt like I was like performing in the school play 402 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,320 Speaker 1: for like my future in laws. So it was nice 403 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 1: to just we went on a beach and like just 404 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: it was just us and we just set our red 405 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: or to each other, and um, it was like a 406 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: great renewal. And I've only really wanted to run and 407 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: hate him like five times since. So great down from. 408 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: So we're down from, you know. And by the way, 409 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: anyone that knows, like it's so normal to you know, 410 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 1: be like this. I don't like you a lot of days, 411 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: and sometimes I don't like myself, and it's it's okay 412 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: to have those, especially gosh the last and everything. But 413 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: in those years that you were having tough times, was 414 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 1: it for you or you like I don't even want 415 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: to be in this marriage anymore? Yeah, for sure. And 416 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: I think that anyone that lies and says that never 417 00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: happens to them is like a big fat liar for me, 418 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: Chris had my husband had his his boss had passed 419 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: away really unexpectedly, and he's very tied to his work. 420 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 1: He's a very loyal person and so he kind of 421 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 1: lost himself for a whole year. He was like just 422 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:43,119 Speaker 1: floating around. And I'm very attracted to the like boss 423 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 1: like man that is like taking care of and making 424 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 1: important phone calls, and like he didn't have that. He 425 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: was just kind of like, I mean, he's working, but 426 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 1: he's floating around and he just didn't have that driver passion. 427 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: And that's one of the things that I love about him. 428 00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: So I found him like a little bit on sexy, 429 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, And at that time in 430 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: my career, I was like the easiest I've ever been, 431 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 1: And so it was like this perfect storm of things. 432 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: And sometimes when you're I don't know how you feel 433 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: about the Jenna, but like when you're the woman in 434 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 1: a relationship that's acting like the man to like support 435 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: the man, sometimes that can be kind of draining on 436 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: like the sexiness of it all, you know what I mean, 437 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: When you're kind of in the control seat keeping it 438 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,119 Speaker 1: all together, I'm like, I don't want to keep it together. 439 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: I want someone else to keep it together for me. 440 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: You know. Very interesting. There is um Curb Your Enthusiasm 441 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: episode exactly about this CULTI it's when Cheryl is only 442 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: attracted to Larry when he's working on Seinfeld. So good. 443 00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 1: He's a big enthusiasm kind of dude, are you? Oh 444 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,199 Speaker 1: my god? I watched it. Every night when I go 445 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,520 Speaker 1: to sleep, I have to hear Larry David screaming at me. 446 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,160 Speaker 1: It really like lulls me to sleep, like a little lullaby. 447 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 1: It's the best. And I just I was late to 448 00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: the game on season ten, so I just watched season 449 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 1: ten like two weeks ago. Oh my god. It might 450 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 1: be one of the best. And they're they're filming a 451 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: new one, so you're gonna get me. It's so good. 452 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: You It's interesting that that Kelsey was saying, it's because 453 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: that's a lot of our relationship, right, is like the 454 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: role reversal in certain things and trying to find that 455 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,960 Speaker 1: identity and stuff. And I mean, I know for for 456 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: the guy that that takes them getting used to, you know, 457 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: kind of falling into a different role than maybe society 458 00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: has for you, or that you even want for yourself. 459 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 1: Especially at least for me personally, coming from the background 460 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: that I have used to be in the one making 461 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: money or being busy, and then now not do you 462 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: find that yeah on sexually kelty, damn you it's even 463 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: though you guys, I guess not make it about us. 464 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: Here's the thing, though, I will say, my dad always 465 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: says you can't have it all at the same time. 466 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 1: So like we're in the era of of you where 467 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 1: you're working on your career and you're the hottest thing 468 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: and you have so many avenues going on. You can't 469 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: also be having your career at this moment, Like it's 470 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: got to be you can't have it all. Yeah, I 471 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: think to answer your question, though, I don't. I don't 472 00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: find you on sexy. What I've find unsexy is when 473 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 1: you know you'll go play video games or you know 474 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,199 Speaker 1: you don't you don't manage your time. So I'm like, 475 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: I'm working my asshole and You're like, there's so many 476 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 1: things that can be done around the house around here, 477 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: and I'm like, help me pick up the slack. Like 478 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,960 Speaker 1: that's where I'm like, if there's any you know, like 479 00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,960 Speaker 1: your laziness sometimes can make you unattractive. Well, it's the 480 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,199 Speaker 1: lack of the drive at the moment there you go 481 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: like if you're you know, if you're working on something 482 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: or you're passionate and like you're trying to make steps 483 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 1: forward to something. My boyfriend loves video games too, but 484 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: we have this thing where he can only well know, 485 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,119 Speaker 1: he's playing them right now. I was gonna say, you 486 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: can only play them after I go to bed. Well, 487 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 1: and I'm curious what I was going to ask you that, Jack, 488 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: because you know, for us, I'm like, we've got to 489 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: and he and I will say, Mike does a good 490 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 1: balance where it's you know, hey, I'm going to take 491 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: a few hours for myself. Now it's when the kids 492 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: are napping or or we'll have you know, we kind 493 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: of plan out our week. It's like, Okay, this night, 494 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna have intention all night. This night we're gonna 495 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:01,879 Speaker 1: play games. And then the next night he gets his 496 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: he gets his own time, he gets to do whatever 497 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 1: he wants, and if that's video games and that's how 498 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,119 Speaker 1: he spends it. And I'm like, you know, working or 499 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,879 Speaker 1: or doing something or you know, watching the bat But 500 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: again that's a bachelor, I know. I'm like, but then 501 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 1: I can't judge what he's doing in his time, and 502 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 1: that's been I think the hardest thing for me is 503 00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 1: to not judge what he wants to do in his 504 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 1: time because what I what I value in my time 505 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: is so different. Yeah, we actually had my boyfriend and 506 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: I had this exact same conversation about like the video 507 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: games thing, and it's like the amount of hours that 508 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: I waste watching trashy reality TV. It's like, that's just 509 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 1: how we decompress, you know, women versus men. Men love 510 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,120 Speaker 1: playing Call of Duty or whatever the hell they're playing, 511 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:41,399 Speaker 1: and then women love watching ten hours have merried at 512 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: first sight, And that's that's kind of my thing. Where 513 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: there's this stigma around to make it about video games, 514 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,840 Speaker 1: but there's a stigma where it just comes across a 515 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: childish right because you think that's a little kids thing, 516 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: a little boy like you're a man now you're in 517 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,359 Speaker 1: your thirties or for whatever, grow up. But it's again, 518 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 1: if I was just sitting there, It's funny because if 519 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: I was just sitting there watching TV or watching a movie, 520 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,760 Speaker 1: Genna would probably have no feelings about it. But if 521 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm playing video games, you could be doing this. You 522 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,800 Speaker 1: could be doing that, You could be doing whatever just 523 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: because it's that one thing. But it is shocking how 524 00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,800 Speaker 1: many men play video games, Like pretty much every man 525 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 1: loves video games, so it's it's funny to look at 526 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: it in your own relationship, being like it's like for 527 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,119 Speaker 1: ten year olds, and then you look at any other 528 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: guy and they're all playing it together. Also, I would 529 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: much rather have my husband be playing video games than 530 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: like scrolling Instagram men. I know men who scroll Instagram 531 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 1: more than women, And I know this is like a 532 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: weird double standard, but I don't understand. Women are picking 533 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 1: out style inspiration, home decor makeup, skincare. We have a 534 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: whole world to open up to us. But what are 535 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: men scrolling and looking at on Instagram besides barstool sports? 536 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: But and women? That is a very good point. That's 537 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 1: a very good point, Like what would you rather be 538 00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: doing any time? Want not out like at the bar 539 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 1: trying to hit on other girls? I mean, there are 540 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: a lot worse things to do than be them playing 541 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: video games. There's worse things, But as long as it's 542 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,399 Speaker 1: just that, then it's good. All of it helped me 543 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 1: bury's body. If that happened, let me turn it back 544 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: to y'all in the second So right now, and with 545 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 1: the relationship and that being said, right with the three 546 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: of you having your own kind of career paths and 547 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,920 Speaker 1: things that you do, and then having all these projects 548 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: with the show, with the podcast, with the book that 549 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 1: you know, act like a woman that I want to 550 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,879 Speaker 1: dive into. How do you guys kind of help manage 551 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 1: each other's time, right, because it's a three you collaborating 552 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: on these things. So is there any of that in 553 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: y'all's relationship where it's it's like hey Jack, why don't 554 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 1: you do this? Or Hey Kelty or hey backa like 555 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: why aren't you working on this? Like come on, we 556 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: got to do that, Kelty Kelty is the boss. And 557 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,960 Speaker 1: every Monday I wake up to an email from this 558 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: lovely app we're using called a Sana and it says 559 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: Kelty has assigned four tasks to you. Oh my god, 560 00:28:55,320 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: I love this app? What is it? Because now great things? Becca, 561 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna wake up every day more. Sorry, Jenna has 562 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: a sign to you? Well, yeah, I mean I've been 563 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 1: listening to a lot of like grow your Business podcasts 564 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 1: to be honest, and um, doing like a lot of 565 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,280 Speaker 1: listening to female panelists create cultivated vanity fair and stuff, 566 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:16,760 Speaker 1: and so these are some of the tips that I've 567 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: found out. But yeah, there's this app called a Sauna 568 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 1: and basically we have a couple employees for Lady Gang, 569 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: and and when something needs to be done and we 570 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,560 Speaker 1: talked about something in meeting, we're like, let's add it 571 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 1: to the asauna, so that like Jack, instead of me 572 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 1: calling Jack every morning being like, hey, where's the graphics 573 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 1: for the new merch, it's just on her thing And 574 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: every morning I have it set up that it emails 575 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: them at eight am with like what is still outstanding? 576 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: And it has like never read those emails? Though? Is 577 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,320 Speaker 1: the problem? Just doesn't read her email? She's like, there's 578 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: two kinds of people. There's me who like has zero 579 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: new emails and her email, and there's Jack who's like 580 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: thirty thousands. Like getting Jack on email is also very difficult. 581 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: But you know, listen, it's been like it's a marriage 582 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: of sorts to be honest, Like it's a trial and error. 583 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,080 Speaker 1: And I think the most important thing with us is 584 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: that we don't give up on each other and are 585 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,720 Speaker 1: sort of brutally honest. In that same way, that you 586 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: have to be with your partner, and sometimes it absolutely sucks. 587 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: It sucks to hear it sucks to have to be 588 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: the person to like have the conversation when that's needed. Um, 589 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,280 Speaker 1: but it's always for the greater good. And I think 590 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: we all have We're all so determined and we have 591 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: such a special thing that we've created that it's like, well, 592 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 1: you know, are we going to let this thing be 593 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 1: the thing that ruins us? It's like, after five years, 594 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: you've invested all this time and energy and you made 595 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 1: it mostly work. Like let's just keep going, you know. 596 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: And we're really good at communicating with each other. We 597 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: always have been. We've never had to have like a 598 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 1: conversation where it's like, okay, you know, we need to 599 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: talk about things, Like We've all just been very open 600 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: about everything, and we all have our specific strengths, so 601 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: we know when to stay in our own lane, and 602 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: we know when it's like a Jack thing or Rebecca 603 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: thing or a Keelty thing, and we don't really step 604 00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: on each other's toes unless Keelty is like trying to 605 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 1: get me on a deadline or something like that. But 606 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: she also knows how I work, Like I'm a creative 607 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,680 Speaker 1: I work in my own time when I'm gonna do things, 608 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,960 Speaker 1: and I will usually make a deadline, but I'm gonna 609 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 1: do it at the eleventh hour, so super relaxing. It's 610 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: super relaxing for everyone. Was stressful at all for everyone 611 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: involved in the company. When I'm like, Hey, what this is? 612 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 1: Do we have to get it to the manufacturer for 613 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: the clothing line. The whole thing has to be turned 614 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: in by Friday morning. Are we good on that? Yes? 615 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: And then on Thursday I'm like, hey, Jack, how's it going, 616 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: And She's like, oh, yeah, I'm just starting to work 617 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 1: on that. I'm like, but I always get it in. 618 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,800 Speaker 1: But Jack, I love it because that's exactly how I am. 619 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 1: And look bottom of the ninth two outs, who do 620 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: you want to bet? You want me or Jack? Because 621 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna get that done. We're going to deliver. Because 622 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: when we wrote our book, Jane was the same way. 623 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: She had like a six month calendar. Okay, this day 624 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: you read this, on this day, you can write this. 625 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna write this. I was like, huh, you know, 626 00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: I tried doing it was exactly. I was like, we're creating. 627 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: I was like the last two months. Mike, are you 628 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 1: a Pisces? I am. Yes. That is the number one 629 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: thing about Pisces, especially men, because it's a water sign. 630 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 1: They are floating in outer space. Good luck ever, ever, 631 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: ever getting him to meet a deadline? That was just 632 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: really yes, because I don't know much. I haven't looked 633 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: much into pisces. But that's okay. That what is your sign? 634 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 1: I'm a sage, Okay, that's yeah. It's like it's a 635 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: tough combo, but you have to you have to embrace 636 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:19,479 Speaker 1: that is yellow screwed. You're not screwed. As I had 637 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 1: an old business partner who he was a Pisces, and 638 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: he was so creative. He was probably the most talented 639 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,959 Speaker 1: person I've ever worked with. However, he could not need 640 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 1: a deadline, and I just as soon as I embraced 641 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:32,479 Speaker 1: that and just knew that that was who he was, 642 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: I was okay. It was just expectations and managing them. Yeah, 643 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: good luck. Well, I'm sure it's hard to raise children 644 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: with someone who's floating in outer spicy space. Well yeah, 645 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: and that's yeah, that is very hard because sometime tail 646 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 1: just disappear and I'm like, where did you go? Like 647 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: I live on another planet or different reality. They're living 648 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,280 Speaker 1: in a different reality. Okay, it makes so much sense. 649 00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:00,600 Speaker 1: That's why my therapists always called it Mike's world, Like, Hey, 650 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: you're in Mike's bolove again, okay, um Becca, thank you 651 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: for sharing the miscarriage, um miscarriages. UM. I know it's hard. 652 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:13,160 Speaker 1: We've had five. Um we understand it's you know, we've 653 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: done IVF as well. And I just want to say 654 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: thank you for sharing your story because the more people 655 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: talk about it, the less it hurts. And it's still 656 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 1: gonna hurt, right, It's it's awful, it's terrible. Um. But 657 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 1: just to know that you're not alone, that I'm not alone, 658 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: that other people aren't alone. Um so, and I'm just 659 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're going through that right now. Thank you. 660 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: Where are you right now? The IBF process, so we 661 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 1: froze embryos in the spring, and um then I got 662 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: this job to shoot in Vancouver for six months. So 663 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 1: we kind of felt like it was the perfect sign 664 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: from the universe to just take arrest, take a beat 665 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: because there's nothing we can be doing here. You know, 666 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 1: our embryos are in l A. Are you in Vancouver? Yeah? 667 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: So wh are we you are? Yes? Wait, yes, it's 668 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 1: here too. He's going to be very excited. But they 669 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: can play games together. Great, he's brought his system here 670 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:15,319 Speaker 1: to Vancouver. Do you golf? Oh my god, we'll connect. 671 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,879 Speaker 1: How long are you here? We're here for six weeks 672 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 1: Ti March. Oh my gosh. Um, which part of Vancouver 673 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:27,160 Speaker 1: are you in? Like yell Town Downtown? Where are you guys? 674 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: It's cute. There's where my micro blading girl is. If 675 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:38,520 Speaker 1: you need a dope micro bladed eyebrows. Okay, okay, that's 676 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,320 Speaker 1: all good. Have you seen me? I beautiful? I actually 677 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,680 Speaker 1: just got my done be lore. I would take you 678 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,399 Speaker 1: up on that, but no, okay, let's get numbers after this. 679 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: But okay, so you're going to hold off on that. 680 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:55,839 Speaker 1: Have you this is your first round of IVF or yes? 681 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,440 Speaker 1: So we did. Yeah, we did one round of retrieval 682 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 1: and then we got all of our embryos that are frozen. 683 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: I just paid for storage yesterday, Thank you technology child. 684 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:13,839 Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy? It's yeah? So I did that one 685 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: round and then we, like I said, it was sort 686 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: of um, I think meant to be where our embryos 687 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,360 Speaker 1: are down in San Diego. And we're in Canada. The 688 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 1: border's clothes. There's no going back and forth, and there 689 00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:30,120 Speaker 1: was no there was no doing a transfer before coming 690 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,919 Speaker 1: here because I would have been showing too much for 691 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: this job that I'm doing, because it's like a longer, 692 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,720 Speaker 1: it's a series, but it's thank you. But it's so 693 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: crazy that you think you're just going to spontaneously just 694 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 1: get pregnant and have a baby, and then you're like, 695 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,799 Speaker 1: oh wait, I'm literally scheduling it like it's a dentist appointment. Now. 696 00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,399 Speaker 1: It's just so nuts. It's I'm so happy that that 697 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,160 Speaker 1: is what's available to us. And I think that the 698 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: reason I came out with and I was so open 699 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: about the experience was because I I am quite angry 700 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,919 Speaker 1: with the medical institution in general and how there's no 701 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: conversations very rarely with women in their late twenties and 702 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: early thirties to consider taking a simple blood test to 703 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 1: see what their hormones are looking like and what their 704 00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 1: egg supply looks like. So I was kind of piste 705 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 1: off that we've all been going to see an O, B, G, 706 00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: I N since we've gotten our periods and there's very 707 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:35,399 Speaker 1: rarely intervention when it comes to fertility. So since then, 708 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 1: I'm happy to report that so many women have reached 709 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: out and have either frozen their eggs or frozen embryos, 710 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,439 Speaker 1: or even just taken a simple blood test that they've 711 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,240 Speaker 1: had to ask for at their guy no. So um, 712 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 1: it's become like this weird mission that I never thought 713 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: I would have, But it feels like the most gratifying 714 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: thing we've done like thus far in the Lady Gang. Yeah, 715 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 1: it's such a great point because it's like, until you 716 00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:59,800 Speaker 1: are actually trying to have a child, you don't realize 717 00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: how hard it is, right because it's a miracle that 718 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 1: happens hundreds of times every single day, But until you 719 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,759 Speaker 1: really want it and realize how difficult it can be 720 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: for a lot of people who truly want a kid, 721 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,719 Speaker 1: it's it's unbelievably you know, difficult at times. And on 722 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: the iv F journey, I'm curious Becca if you guys 723 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,800 Speaker 1: aren't there yet. But when you you know, basically create 724 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: the embryos, you have your eggs frozen when you create 725 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 1: the embryos, the one part of that process that just 726 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 1: me personally, in my own kind of belief system, I 727 00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,440 Speaker 1: had a hard time with was when they would say, Okay, 728 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 1: we can either basically take a singular sperm and inject 729 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 1: it into the embryo, into the egg, or you kind 730 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: of take a you know, millions of sperm and throw 731 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,399 Speaker 1: them in like a basically a peatree dish and let 732 00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:47,680 Speaker 1: them let nature take its course. And I know for 733 00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: some people you have to inject the sperm directly into 734 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: the egg to make it work. But for me, just 735 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 1: when we were going through it, I had a hard 736 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 1: time because that's the only part of it that felt 737 00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 1: like you were playing God, right, because I'm like, let 738 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: the best spurn win, Like whatever sperm is supposed to win, 739 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,360 Speaker 1: that God is intending for you to have that child. 740 00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: Let that happen. Again, not everyone is able to have that. 741 00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes you have to inject it. But that's just the 742 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: one thing I know for me apportionally that came up 743 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 1: that had a hard time with. Yeah, it's I get that, 744 00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 1: because the whole thing is just so it is pretty crazy. 745 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,880 Speaker 1: I mean, the reason I had to do it in 746 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: general was because my egg quality so um that and 747 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 1: as you get older, that's just the reality of it. 748 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,000 Speaker 1: So that kind of feels that felt crazy too, because 749 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,760 Speaker 1: you're selecting the best eggs and then you can actually 750 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: find out the sex and then choose that. I mean, 751 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,360 Speaker 1: we we said because it did feel too much like 752 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,239 Speaker 1: playing god. We were like, we are only going to 753 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 1: do up to the point in which we get a successful, 754 00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 1: healthy embryo made, but we're not going to select the gender. 755 00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: We're simply going to say whatever looks the strongest or healthiest. 756 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:56,440 Speaker 1: But it is really insane, it's so crazy, the whole process. Well, 757 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 1: I'm excited for you though, because I know it's it's 758 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 1: it's it's it's tough, but it sounds like you have 759 00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: an awesome husband that is very supportive. And it was 760 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 1: just with those shots, Oh yeah, I made Mike doom. 761 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not, Yeah, she made She made 762 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: me take a shot in my ass without anything in it, 763 00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:14,879 Speaker 1: a progester and she's just like, no, if you're gonna 764 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,240 Speaker 1: do it to me, I'm gonna do it to you. Rember. 765 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 1: You gotta know what except for you can't. That's what 766 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: I didn't realize. Even though the needles were bigger, the 767 00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:24,760 Speaker 1: butt shots were way better than the stomach. Oh really, 768 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 1: I couldn't even sit with the progester own shots. It 769 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 1: was like a big ball. I hate the progester own shots. Anyways, 770 00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,840 Speaker 1: you guys, I okay, I just I mean, you have 771 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,719 Speaker 1: a million things going on, so can we just tell 772 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 1: everyone where we can get everything? And the book and 773 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 1: the book and the clothes and the podcast tell me 774 00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 1: all um. So we're at the Lady Gag on Instagram. 775 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 1: That's the easiest. The podcast comes out every Tuesday and 776 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,920 Speaker 1: Thursday wherever you get your podcast, and the book is 777 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,839 Speaker 1: available anywhere you get books. Target dot com, Amazon dot com. 778 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: You're a local indie bookseller, um, act like a lady. 779 00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 1: It's our New York Times bestseller. So we we came 780 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: out like four weeks before ours, and I was like, 781 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 1: there's hope if they can do it. Maybe yes, I mean, 782 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 1: you're amazing and incredible, but you're not Michelle Obama. And 783 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,280 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, there's like, you know, there's space 784 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 1: for just these fandoms. You're a part of so many 785 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,399 Speaker 1: different fandoms, so it's amazing for you know. I hear 786 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,840 Speaker 1: you on that because I was like, there's I was 787 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: like Mike because he was like, that's my goal, and 788 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 1: I was like, honey, shot, I was shooting for the 789 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:31,919 Speaker 1: start like, you know, but I'm so happy for you guys. 790 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,200 Speaker 1: I love you guys. Um like a few days great, 791 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,160 Speaker 1: I can't wait. Thanks guys so much. I appreciate you ladies, 792 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,799 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I just love those girls so much, 793 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: you know, going into it, I even asked you, I 794 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: was like, have we not interviewed them yet? Because I 795 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,799 Speaker 1: just hear so much about him and I mean they 796 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 1: were like the first podcast people ever. I feel like, yeah, 797 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: they were. They're definitely some of the O G s. 798 00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: But I just I have seen so much of them, 799 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: heard so much of them. It was great to put 800 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 1: you know, voices and faces and personalities altogether. But what 801 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,800 Speaker 1: a great group of women and you know, just awesome, 802 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: awesome people. No, she's got a wiggly tooth. Oh do 803 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,640 Speaker 1: you mean? No? This is good? It's gonna cry. It's 804 00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:34,239 Speaker 1: her first? Is your first tooth? Oh? Are you gonna 805 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:39,880 Speaker 1: keep it? Sorry? Genuinely makes me sad. It's her first. 806 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:48,400 Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm crying too. Our daughter is 807 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:52,840 Speaker 1: a wiggly tooth and I'm crying how exciting? How wiggly 808 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 1: is that? I'm not pulling it out because like it 809 00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,359 Speaker 1: gives me PTSD from my childhood. My dad he joke 810 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,879 Speaker 1: put a string around my tooth and opened the door. 811 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 1: Let you close the door, close the door. How are 812 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,800 Speaker 1: we going to do it? Oh my god, I'm gonna 813 00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 1: get a string the other side. I'll tie to a 814 00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 1: football the football. What did you do? Mark? We let 815 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:25,959 Speaker 1: it take its course. It just came out. We didn't 816 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: do I did the fancy door knob football techniques. How 817 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,959 Speaker 1: much does the tooth Fairy cost? I think inflation? Man. 818 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 1: Kids nowadays are asking for some for dollars for the 819 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 1: tooth fairy, this tooth fairy and given dollars. Well, I 820 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 1: don't think Jolie really knows the dollars anyways. Well, give 821 00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: her a hershey kiss. No, we'll get her something like 822 00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 1: a little unicorn toy or something. No, you can't do 823 00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: a little toy. It's got to be consistent. So we'll 824 00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: do like a quarter a quarter? Yeah, what do you 825 00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: mean the way the tooth fairy has to do something consistent. 826 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 1: It can't be like every time you get this, there's 827 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:06,839 Speaker 1: an xbox under my pro Well, what did you do? Mark? 828 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:11,000 Speaker 1: We did five dollars and Reese's peanut butter cup, which 829 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,359 Speaker 1: is kind of silly. Because I just encourages more tooth loss. 830 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 1: But it was consistent and it was competitive because you've 831 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,279 Speaker 1: got to keep that in mind too, because if their 832 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 1: friends are making more money than she has per tooth 833 00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 1: she's that's gonna bother her and make her question the 834 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 1: tooth fairies motivations. Well, they can write a letter to 835 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 1: the tooth fairy after for a raise. A tooth fairy, 836 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:32,120 Speaker 1: I'm really using a lot of teeth and making you work, 837 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 1: so I need a raise in my reward. You know what, guys, 838 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: I gotta I am a little emotional, so I think 839 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 1: I gotta end up. I think I need to go 840 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 1: give myself a good cry that I got a five 841 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,840 Speaker 1: year old he and by the way, I'm turning Canadian 842 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:50,280 Speaker 1: up here. Hey, between your Michigan and the Canadian influence, 843 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,520 Speaker 1: you're really getting it all right, y'all our beauty have 844 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,240 Speaker 1: a good one later