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Speaker 1: You are listening to Straight Deo Lab, the only podcast

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Speaker 1: hosted by me and my co host George. I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: I expected you to. I could feel I could feel

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Speaker 1: you looking at me with um slight disdain. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: So I was panicked in fact, looking not at you

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Speaker 1: you you never know what someone is going through exactly.

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Speaker 1: I always said, you never know? Is it not to

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Speaker 1: of don't want to. Oh it is no, I'm just kidding. Um.

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Speaker 1: I thought about it though, but okay, anyways, I was

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Speaker 1: working at a cafe at the at the Brooklyn College

426
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Speaker 1: Law School, and uh, second day, I you know, did it?

427
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Speaker 1: I like woke up late and like, um, I'm supposed

428
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Speaker 1: to be there at like seven o'clock. And then I

429
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 1: texted my boss and I was like, hey, I can't

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Speaker 1: make it in and then they're like you're fired. But

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Speaker 1: then oh a joke. But then let's look alive here.

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Speaker 1: So then I was like, you know what, I get it. No, worries,

433
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Speaker 1: and then my boss was like, best wishes, and then

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Speaker 1: the iPhone confetti happened. Okay, that's the thing that I

435
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: don't get. He said he or she or they said

436
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 1: best wishes. Yes. Best. To me, it seems like a

437
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Speaker 1: design fought to have the confetti go off for best

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Speaker 1: wishes so that it happened just naturally. They didn't like

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Speaker 1: assign the confetti to happen. I don't know if you

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00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: can do that. I don't either, because then somebody else

441
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: like texted me and they're like, let me see if

442
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: this works, and they texted best wishes, and it also

443
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: just confetti. That's crazy because best wishes is not confetti worthy.

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00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: It's not that happy. Best wishes is like so like vague.

445
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: It's like almost more often used to be cold and

446
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 1: rude than it is to be like actually happy, right.

447
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: I mean I would never say like regards and then

448
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 1: you know, Mariachi band, I think that would be inappropriate.

449
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: What how do you Okay, here's an insane question. How

450
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: do you sign emails? This is so sad, is it best?

451
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 1: I would never do that really annoys me, really even

452
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 1: more than cheers and cheers really upsets me too. I

453
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 1: do think we are moving from a best culture to

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Speaker 1: a cheers culture. I think you're a percent right, because

455
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: I think we have like hated on cheers for so long,

456
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 1: and now we're starting to be like, actually this whole

457
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: like it's the slide towards socialism, where like let's stop,

458
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: let's drop this like facade of work, Like let's just

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00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: say cheers and be like we're all one. There's nothing

460
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 1: more neoliberal than best. I fully agree. It's like pretending

461
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: to be polite. Exactly, it's pretending to be polite. It's

462
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: also it's like there's this air of like efficiency to it,

463
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 1: like what is it? Like, what does it mean exactly?

464
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: That's what it's. Also, it's like not committing to either

465
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: being kind of fully professional or like fully official or

466
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: fully friendly. It's like this weird in between. It's very

467
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 1: like the office is a family. But I feel like

468
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,159
Speaker 1: cheers is like cheers is like normalize the older we

469
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: get because like when you're young, you're not really like

470
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: saying cheers a lot, but like as you get older,

471
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 1: you come into like more and more like environments and

472
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 1: circumstances you are actually sincerely saying cheers. That's so true

473
00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 1: that I constantly cheers and I'm literally saying cheers. Yeah.

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00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: It's like I said cheers a lot this weekend, and

475
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: I meant it so to sign up an email with

476
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: cheers that email. But if I'm like seventeen, I'm like cheers,

477
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: like because cheers used to be very like a college

478
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 1: professors emailing me and like trying to like pretend he's

479
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,960
Speaker 1: not a college professor. He's so hot, yeah, and he's

480
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: hot for he's definitely hot. Bad professor though horrible meme,

481
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 1: but has never graded a paper correctly like it actually did,

482
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: doesn't even have a PhD. He hasn't really back back

483
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: back back, So if he says cheers to me, and

484
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 1: then if I would say cheers back, that would be

485
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: like when like the college could wears like a tweed

486
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: blazer to try to be like Jerry. I studied abroad

487
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: at Oxford, but it wasn't even one of the better colleges. Brian,

488
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Speaker 1: you didn't have So what do you sign off your

489
00:27:53,880 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: emails with? Thanks? WHOA, I hate myself? Are you that does?

490
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: Are you one of those people that does thanks even

491
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: when there's nothing to thank the person for. Yes, I

492
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: will say my email will be like thank you for

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00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: x x X, and then it will be like thanks,

494
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: but then my name, Wow, I'm a I'm a thanks

495
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:21,000
Speaker 1: girl as well. I think it's like it clears the

496
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: slate in a proper way for me, like because like

497
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: best feels loaded, cheers is too familial like thanks. It's

498
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 1: just like, I'm sure it's annoying to be reading an

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00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: email right now thanks. Like you know what, though, I

500
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 1: think you both need a little dose of Cheryl sam

501
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: burg Lenan because it sounds to me like you're being

502
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: like apologetic in business environments, which, as you know, is

503
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 1: how you don't get paid as much as men. You know, Brian,

504
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: you wouldn't believe this, but George is incredible in the

505
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: business environment. I believe it. I consider this a business environment. Honestly.

506
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 1: I can feel that, I can feel, I can feel

507
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: that monetary transactions are happening. We've been exchanging money on

508
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: venmois entire time, whenever one of us is doing better

509
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: at the conversation we venove. Um, wait, George, what is

510
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: your sign off? Though? Um? Okay, here's mine now. I

511
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: used to be a best girl, here's mine now. I

512
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: don't sign off just a capital G. I'm not a

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00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: capital G. I want to start doing that. I write

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00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: the email, I pressed period of my last sentence, and

515
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: then I hit send. Okay, that is a billionaire mindset.

516
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: That is literally since I started doing that, what if

517
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: they forget Who's Since I've started doing that, I have

518
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: made hundreds of thousands of dollars. Wow, that is amazing.

519
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: I want to start doing I've been Wait can we

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00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 1: While we're on the topic of emails, this this is

521
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: pointing to bring up people who have listened to the

522
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: pod may know that in the past we received an

523
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: email from a mold remediation experts PR person wanting to

524
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: get on the show, and we've been actively rude to

525
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: them and been like, this is not a show for

526
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: real scientists, this is a comedy podcast that is gay,

527
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,960
Speaker 1: and they keep emailing. Can I add one more thing?

528
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 1: An important part. You know what I'm gonna say is

529
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 1: that it's also a scientologist PR executive that represents this

530
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: mold remediation expert. That's very important and honestly so, we

531
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: told him explicitly stop emailing us, and then yesterday he

532
00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,120
Speaker 1: emailed us again and was like, Hey, I have my

533
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 1: mold remediation expert. I'd love if you got back to me.

534
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, so then I was the one

535
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: that was like, stop emailing us, period, and but it

536
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: was felt so um empowering to just say like a

537
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 1: strong sentence period. Well yeah, And I also I was like,

538
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: because the first time it happened, I was the one

539
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: who did strong sentence period, and then this time you

540
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: were like, I'm going to do it, And I thought,

541
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: you know what, you deserve to feel what this feels

542
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: like too, Like I'm actually glad the scientologist pr representative

543
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 1: for a mold remediation expert emailed us again because now

544
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: we're equal because we've both told this person to fuck off.

545
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,440
Speaker 1: It really was helpful, Brian. Next time that he emails us,

546
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: you can sort of you can look forward it to

547
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 1: you and then you can crap the email. I actually

548
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: do have a question for this reason. Um, I don't

549
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: know if anybody else can relate to this, but like

550
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: you know, on like nalogene bottles, like the lids, there's

551
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: always like mold in the lid and there's like one

552
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: way to like get it out because it's like so narrow.

553
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: It's like I've tried, like sticking a knife up there

554
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: and like scraping it. Don't know what you mean, I've

555
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: never seen. I mean like you have to use your

556
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: analogy and bottle a lot like me. Oh, how often

557
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 1: do you wash it? Once a day? Why? How does

558
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: why doesn't it come out when you wash it? I

559
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: don't know, Sam, but I'm hoping that maybe this scientologist

560
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: could like help. Well, you know what we could do

561
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 1: is just forward him to you and then you can

562
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: start your own podcast, have him on We'll Kill so

563
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: Kid or something. Would that be so bad? Brian? Can

564
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: I recommend something crazy? I think maybe it's like you

565
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 1: need a new water bottle. See these are this is

566
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: what I can't deal with right now. Like I'm sorry,

567
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: I can't deal it was like going to the analogene

568
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: website again. I'm also billionaire mindset to be like just

569
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: throw it out and buy a new one. Yeah, and

570
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 1: then what do I do with my old one? Well,

571
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: that's it's in the garbage. You never see that, you

572
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: don't think about it. Yeah, you just put in the

573
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: ocean's plastics. I think it's literally mental hold water like

574
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: it's it's at home. When it's in the ocean, you're

575
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: helping the sea creatures so they can drink a little

576
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: water about her. There analgene because they don't care about mold. Yeah,

577
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: well that should a segment. Yes, we absolutely should. That

578
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: was crazy. Okay, I think you should start. Okay, I'll

579
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: explain it. So, Brian, this segment is called straight Shooters,

580
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: and in it we ask you a series of rapid

581
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: fire questions to gauge your familiarity and complicity and straight culture. Basically,

582
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: just this thing or this thing, and you've got to

583
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: pick one and you can't ask any follow up questions

584
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: or we'll get p oed at your dumbass. So, um,

585
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: I'll start now. Um. Okay, Brian, breakfast burrito or dessert

586
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: pizza breakfast. Wrong, that's a really good one, okay, Brian,

587
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: dog earing a book, or cats sitting for your bitch

588
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: friend Trevor. Cats sitting for Trevor. Okay, Brian, Grinder screenshots

589
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: in which you look smart or spam bought screenshot in

590
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: which you look smart Grinder screenshots, Okay, Brian. The fact

591
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: that Shonda Rhymes wrote Crossroads or the fact that Ryan

592
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 1: Murphy directed Eat Pray, Love, Um, Shonda Ryans I did

593
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: not know either of those things. Are you serious? Yeah? Who?

594
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,320
Speaker 1: Those are both huge factoids. I'm very much a Hollywood outsider.

595
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:36,240
Speaker 1: Um okay, Brian um getting a breakthrough case or booking

596
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:42,319
Speaker 1: a breakthrough role, getting a breakthrough Wait, what's the first

597
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: one case? Yeah, that's like that's a huge really right now? Yeah?

598
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: That would Yeah. Do you think it's more likely to

599
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 1: get a breakthrough case or to book a breakthrough role

600
00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: in this climate? Definitely breakthrough for brea two case for me? Yeah?

601
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,800
Speaker 1: Well you you really are so into the idea of

602
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: getting a breakthrough case. I mean, okay, if you publicize it, right,

603
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,879
Speaker 1: that canna be your ticket. That's true. You can get

604
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 1: a breakthrough role via getting a breakthrough games. I want

605
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,920
Speaker 1: to be the Tom Hanks of like the last case.

606
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: You know, that's so genius. Genius. Wait, that's so like

607
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: to be to have as your goal that you're gonna

608
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: wait until you're gonna be like really careful triple mask

609
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: until the very last minute, until then it hasn't been

610
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: a case for twelve years, and then you can God,

611
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 1: you're thinking with a billionaire mindset now, because you're like

612
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 1: normally someone would think of getting a breakthrough case is

613
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: a bad thing. But you're like, how can I monetize that? Literally,

614
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: wait until then get a breakthrough case. Then suddenly you've

615
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 1: got a book deal. Well, because I can see like

616
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: the like newspaper spread, like it'll be like last COVID case,

617
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 1: like cured, and it'll be you being like thumbs up,

618
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: and that's gonna be heat. It's going to be like

619
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: a symbol of hope. You're going to be American sweetheart.

620
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 1: That's right. It's going to be so powerful. And then

621
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: the headline, you know, it'll give a little queer comedian

622
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:08,840
Speaker 1: Brian Bahi. So then people will know to look you

623
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Speaker 1: up or it can you know, they have to do

624
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: a little historical um, you know, biographical facts, so they'll

625
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: be like Brian cut his teeth in the open mic scene.

626
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: The next thing he knew he got COVID. So then

627
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 1: people are people are looking up on YouTube, people are

628
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: looking up on Instagram. I get to ring the ballot,

629
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Speaker 1: then your you get to ring the bell um, and

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00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: and so that Sam and I can mother and father

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Speaker 1: this dot pocket. Okay, Brian attending a film festival, attending

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Speaker 1: a music festival, or attending your nephew's baptism music festival okay,

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Speaker 1: Brian CEO CFO or CEO L cool guy, ce L

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Speaker 1: cool guy. Okay, Brian, being married, being divorced, or being

635
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: fundamentally unlovable being divorced. That's like my dream. I want

636
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: to get married just so I can get divorced. Okay,

637
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: talk more about that. I love the idea of having

638
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: been married. That's like fun. And then you're kind of

639
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,720
Speaker 1: like divorced. You're kind of like out on the town again,

640
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 1: wearing like boots red. Okay, what is your classic? Is

641
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 1: the ideal divorced age? Like with this question? Forty nine

642
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: nine so lovely little marriage yea and forty nine and

643
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: then when you're divorced, that's when you settled down and

644
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: have kids. Single dad, Oh but do you have You

645
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: lost me with the fantasy, So you want to get

646
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 1: and then have a Sam, you were so on board

647
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 1: and then immediately your face just like drive bringing the kids. Look,

648
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: I was, I was, I was feeling it. I could

649
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: see it. It was all very clear to me. And

650
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: then as soon as the kids all I thought, well,

651
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 1: now I actually don't know what's going on. Well, Sam

652
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,919
Speaker 1: was in like porn mode. He was like and then

653
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 1: what happens after he gets divorced, and then you were

654
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: like he has a kid, and then well it's just

655
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: also it's hard for me to understand the character of

656
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: like divorced Brian because like, Brian, I know you, like

657
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 1: you know, I know where you're going to be hitten

658
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: up after you get your divorce. You know, we ran

659
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,880
Speaker 1: into each other at the Cock one time, and you

660
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:39,400
Speaker 1: won't you won't let me forget that, Sam. It was

661
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: a funny story. There was a bonding little moment. Ah,

662
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,400
Speaker 1: what was Brian doing? Well, it was the Cock, you

663
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like and I would say our

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Speaker 1: family friend was getting railed and but also simultaneously having

665
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 1: a conversation with Sam about comedy. Is that true? No,

666
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: he wasn't getting railed, but maybe he did later. But

667
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 1: we were like we we were just like ran into

668
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,280
Speaker 1: each other there and we were like, wow, this is weird.

669
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 1: This is like the last place I would want to

670
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: run into someone. And then it was like, well, I

671
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: promise not to look at you if you don't look

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00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: at me. The talk is so crazy. I went there

673
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago and I was like, oh, I

674
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:21,760
Speaker 1: forgot this place exists. Yeah, I haven't been since pandemic um.

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00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: Was it fun? Was it back to its old glory? No?

676
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 1: It was only top level. Oh what's the point. That's

677
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: just the worst bar in New York. Yeah. I think

678
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: it's because we want on a Thursday. Should we do

679
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: a live show there? Yes? I really think you guys

680
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: should they have a built in state. Brian, you cann't

681
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: sell merge again if you want. Yeah, you guys have

682
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 1: to like reum purpose your merge. Yeah, we'll make it.

683
00:39:53,120 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: We'll cut out little holes for the people UM topic topic. Yeah. Yeah.

684
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: Like so, Brian, you did actually tell us what the

685
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: topic was, but I'm gonna pretend that I don't know

686
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: and have you can I ask something Sam? Would it

687
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 1: be beneficial to do a little break and ask Brian

688
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 1: how he thinks the pot is going? Whoa, we haven't

689
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: done one these in a while. I know, sure, Um, okay,

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00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: break starts out, Brian, how do you think the pot

691
00:40:27,640 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: is going? I feel like I was having a hard

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00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 1: time keeping up with UM serotonin, so I did have

693
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 1: to google it and I was like, oh, yeah, it's

694
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: like dopamine, but like a little bit different. It is

695
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 1: true that like no one knows what the difference between

696
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: dopamine and serotonine is yeah, I gotta agree with you there,

697
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: and I you know, I use them interchangeably. Um, that's

698
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: like a good point, is that I in my I

699
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: do just use them in or changeably. And I'm sure

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00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:04,439
Speaker 1: you know, I think you guys were right. And here's

701
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: what's crazy is you guys were actually right. Well, here's

702
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 1: the thing. Dopamine is, it's giving and uh, serotonin is

703
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: it's carrying. And wait is that true? Here's what's also.

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00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: You guys are like, um, sometimes I forget that you

705
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: guys like want to like you guys are like smart.

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00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: I would not say that. No, no, no, Brian, bohy, No,

707
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm not smart. Okay, we're not saying

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00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: that either. Like we're literally not trying to be like

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00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 1: like we're Brian, like you know us, Like, don't pretend

710
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: like you don't know us all of a sudden. Okay, wait,

711
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: I feel like I do know. I know. Okay, sorry,

712
00:41:52,320 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: go ahead, Okay, Dopamine is play. Okay. Neurons in the

713
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 1: brain released dopamine, which carries signals between neurons boring. Dopamine

714
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: plays an integral role in the reward system. A group

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00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,880
Speaker 1: of brain processes that control motivation, desire, and craving. Hot

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00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,479
Speaker 1: Dopamine levels also influence mood, sleep, learning, movement. Okay, fine,

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00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:24,719
Speaker 1: what is serotonin? Serotonin is involved in regulating against sleep mood.

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00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: It's the same ship. This is insane. They're the same thing. Yeah.

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00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: Why do they have different names? We've got hello and high.

720
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: The serve different purposes. I guess which one is the high?

721
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: When is the cheers? One? Is the best? The best? Exactly?

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00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: Different scientists just sort of use them depending on like

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00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: what they imply socially for them. Do you think dopamine

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00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: or serotonin is like the more neo liberal or the

725
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 1: more socialist? Doon is neo lib? I agree, because having

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00:42:56,520 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: a big Internet moment, that's neo lib. Well, or is

727
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 1: it like socialist? It's like very Twitter, you know what

728
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 1: I mean. I guess that's true. Maybe it's Champagne socialist.

729
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 1: Neither of them are really like have committed to a

730
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: political ideology. But we'll work on it. Yeah, we'll work

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00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: on it. Wait, so, Brian, you were saying it threw

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Speaker 1: you off when we were talking about serotonin. Yeah, I

733
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:23,959
Speaker 1: did have to google it, and I was I didn't

734
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 1: want to be too loud on my keyboard. So I

735
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: was like trying to like quietly type, Oh, okay, this

736
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: is crazy because now we're being pothole. It's like it

737
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: goes back a pothole girl, because like, now I see

738
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 1: where you were coming from. You never know what someone's

739
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: going through. We had no idea when we were doing

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00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: our intro. You seemed so comfortable and and you know

741
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: you were doing fine. Little did we know you were

742
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 1: the entire time looking up every single word you were saying.

743
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: I was truly I was like, what are these words?

744
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: I know they have something to do with like the internet,

745
00:43:56,520 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 1: but how do they tie in exactly? Yeah, But other

746
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 1: than that, I think the body is going great. You

747
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: guys have amazing microphones. Are you stelf conscious about your microphone?

748
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: Not at all. I'm here representing the underdogs for like us,

749
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: people who like you know, got have microphones that we

750
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: got a target the Merchant Girls, Yes, the merch Girls. Well,

751
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: you know I would like to point out, you know,

752
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: we wouldn't have these microphones unless we literally had to,

753
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: because we do this more than once. So Sam. Sam's

754
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: literally has like a like a light, his has a

755
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: light on his and if he moves to the right,

756
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: it's like he's at the club. Oh, that's right. It

757
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 1: does have a light, that is that is um that

758
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: is purple blue, one would say, in my defense, mine

759
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: also has a light, but it's any other directions so

760
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:58,240
Speaker 1: you can't see it, and it's red for communism. Well, Brian,

761
00:44:58,400 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: you don't need to be self consciou about not having

762
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 1: the mo Our fans are so forgiving of bad audio

763
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: quality because they have to be, because we often put

764
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 1: out horrific audio quality. Also, some of our best episodes

765
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,480
Speaker 1: are the ones with bad audio quality. And I'm not

766
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 1: mentioning any name, and I was about to Nori Read.

767
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: I would never mention the name Nori Read when talking

768
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,919
Speaker 1: about really good episodes with bad audio quality. That would

769
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 1: not ever cross my mind. It's cool, And like, Brian,

770
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 1: are you googling words right now? So what I'm getting

771
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: Brian is like we thought everything was going fine, but

772
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,240
Speaker 1: like you were insecure about not having them, like and

773
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: you were trying to catch up with all the scientific

774
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 1: terms we were using in our intro. And then that

775
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: means you immediately start out at a disadvantage, both emotionally

776
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 1: wrecked and it's also deleted, and I forget that. Like

777
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:08,759
Speaker 1: what it's like? Did you like zoom? You know, for

778
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: like so long it's been like around. I think it's

779
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: like standard. I'm used to like a zoom, like a

780
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 1: like a ten fifteen minute zoom, maybe even twenty. But sorry,

781
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 1: this is taking so long. Sorry to inconvenience you with

782
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 1: our fucking podcast. But isn't it also crazy that we

783
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: used to do these in person? Yeah that's pretty crazy.

784
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 1: Maybe the whole world changed. I don't know, unbelievable, Brian. Sorry,

785
00:46:40,800 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: it's not so you can be the last person to

786
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,160
Speaker 1: get COVID, but right now we are still in the

787
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: thick of a global pandemic. I feel like that if

788
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: this zoom is not entertaining enough for you, I feel

789
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: like that little riff was where I was, where I

790
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 1: peaked in the fast you know what, Let's ride that too.

791
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: Let's ride that way, babe. What is right into the topic?

792
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: We need to go go go break is over the

793
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: topic now. My topic is cast iron skillet. Brilliant genius.

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00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 1: Thank you? Um so what led you to this as

795
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: the topic? I was straight I was washing a cast

796
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 1: iron skillet today. Yeah, yeah, I used a sponge but

797
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: not so but not soap. I used a little bit

798
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:34,439
Speaker 1: of soap because the sponge was already soapy. Brian, Okay,

799
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: why do you guys feel so strongly about this, because

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00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,720
Speaker 1: that's what That's literally the whole thing about cast iron,

801
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: the whole thing. But also, I don't like when people like, yeah,

802
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 1: it's like it doesn't have feelings, you know. It's like

803
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: it's like when it's like in high school. It's like

804
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: I went to an all boys high school and like

805
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: they were just like um, and they would love to

806
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: get upset about everything, and I'm just like, this is

807
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 1: just like get upset about something that doesn't affect like anything.

808
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: Is like you sound like a team yeah, but but

809
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: I do, like I do see what you're saying, and

810
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: I think, in fact, like getting upset what we just did,

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00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: getting upset about using soap on a cast iron is

812
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,240
Speaker 1: such a straight thing. It's like it's like getting upset

813
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: about these little like me. It's like I'm trying to

814
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: think of like another example. It's like it's like I'm

815
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: not like, it's not like I'm abusing an animal. Where yes,

816
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,520
Speaker 1: it's like because it's a way to avoid larger questions

817
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: in life by focusing, by being like, the worst thing

818
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: you could possibly imagine is putting soap on a cast

819
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: iron skill it. I completely disagree. I have to disagree this.

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00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: We're not worried about the pan, Brian. We're worried about

821
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,359
Speaker 1: you and your well being. We're hearing you wash your

822
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 1: cast iron pan with soap, and we're saying, Brian, you

823
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 1: deserve better, treat yourself with love. Is it bad though?

824
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: Does it affect like my food in a way, yeah,

825
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: like at least taste wise, like you don't need to

826
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: do it, and so don't do it. And it's like

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Speaker 1: I think some of the soap like does stick around. Yeah,

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00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:20,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that's like almost good in this COVID era, Brian,

829
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: we know where COVID comes from. It's not come from

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00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: your past iron this right, you're never going to be

831
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: the last case comes from I'm like, you're here's what

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00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I did just now when I was

833
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: looking up to openmin in Saratotine. I'm like, Sam, if

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Speaker 1: someone asked you, why can't you use soap on a

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00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,760
Speaker 1: cast iron scalet, would you know the answer? No? Me neither,

836
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,880
Speaker 1: But did you look it up? No? Well, I tried,

837
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,560
Speaker 1: but like I couldn't. Okay, actually I feel little ripe

838
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: to pick or that's not an expression, but you got it.

839
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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what my grape is? Yeah?

840
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: Don't you think we should evolve? Should have the internet

841
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,399
Speaker 1: should have evolved in a way where if I look

842
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,840
Speaker 1: up a question like why can't you use soap on

843
00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: a cast iron? It should immediately give me a one

844
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 1: sentence answer. Okay, I have the one sentence answer, exactly

845
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 1: what you wanted. Soap is designed to remove oil. Therefore,

846
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 1: soap will damage your seasoning. This is what gives well

847
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,520
Speaker 1: seasoned cast irons. It's nonstick properties, and as the material

848
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: is no longer actually in oil, this surf fing tints

849
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: in dish soap should not affect it. Go ahead, and

850
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: what Okay, So it's saying basically like, because you have

851
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 1: to season it even before you use it. In theory, right,

852
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: you're to oil it up and like keep it oiled

853
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,399
Speaker 1: because of what it is. So when you soap, it

854
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: like ruins it seasoning. Once I'm done cleaning it, I

855
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 1: do like reoil it though, so it's like oiled again. Okay, well,

856
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 1: some of us have jobs, Ryan, but it's like Okay,

857
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: I do. I want to. I almost want to like

858
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: past the like specific scientific factors of this and talk

859
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: about like the rhetoric of oil and cast iron, because

860
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really what this topic is about.

861
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:19,400
Speaker 1: It's like drawing these hard lines about things that that,

862
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: as Brian said, like aren't that big of a deal.

863
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it's like it's also just like this

864
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: is what they used on like the Oregon Trail and stuff,

865
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:30,600
Speaker 1: and I think it's like it's kind of one of

866
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: those things where it's like, um, I don't know, like

867
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: what are like home remedies or something that like cure

868
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 1: like using vinegar as to clean ginger, cure your stomach

869
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, like if you put

870
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: like pepper under your pillow, it'll like cure shingles or

871
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 1: something like that. Like that's kind of that's it's like that,

872
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: but it's like cast iron like everything. I think it's

873
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: a miss essentially made up by people like who like

874
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: survived the Organ trail and they're just like, yeah, I

875
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: survived because like I, you know, I didn't sleep and

876
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: I never used soap on my caster and skillet, and

877
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: then it just got passed down and passed down. You're

878
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 1: saying you're you're like against um, you know this is insane,

879
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: against passing down knowledge from generation to generation. Yeah, I'm

880
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:32,279
Speaker 1: anti knowledge, anti knowledge and anti anti genially. Yeah. Um,

881
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: except you want kids when you're divorced. Yeah, but he

882
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: won't whatever clean, but I won't love them or support them. Yeah,

883
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 1: well that's how you build character. I'm actually going to

884
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:51,640
Speaker 1: make my kids eat so um okay, so wait, Sam,

885
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: can I I have something that I have something point out.

886
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: It's so funny to see you're reacting really strongly to

887
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: to this in a way that like, if anything, your

888
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 1: reputation is like very loosey goosey with things like so well,

889
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: it's not that I'm worried about like the cleanliness. It's

890
00:53:11,680 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 1: just like there's some things where it's like this is

891
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:17,919
Speaker 1: the rule, this is the one rule. Like so much

892
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: of life is like confusing, and it's like you just

893
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:25,800
Speaker 1: know you don't wash the It's like if you're afraid

894
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 1: of what kind of world would open up if you,

895
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:32,799
Speaker 1: you know, decided that this one rule isn't the end

896
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: all be all. It's also like when there's such a

897
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: simple I honestly think like when there's a simple fix

898
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: to like a more pleasant life. It's like I will

899
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: do that. Um, And so for me, I am sort

900
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: of like it's I am like, Brian, just just stop.

901
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: Your life could just be better. You're you're going out

902
00:53:49,760 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 1: of your way to make your life more annoying. And

903
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: what you know, it was a rule at one point

904
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: in time what briant Um being gay was against. It

905
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 1: was a rule women be able to vote. So are

906
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 1: you saying, Sam, if somebody was like, hey, women can't vote,

907
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, let's not change it. Rules are made

908
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: to be listened to two abided by God. Well, this

909
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,440
Speaker 1: is my impression of Sam when someone suggested women should

910
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: vote in the um, you know, during the Suffraget years.

911
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: This is Sam listening to a suffragett. That's that's just

912
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: not how it's done. No, you guys are absolutely insane.

913
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 1: If there's a simple answer whatever, Oh okay, wait, but Brian,

914
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 1: why do you I want to know more about? Like

915
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: you're like, why this is such a big topic in

916
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: your imagination? Because I recently purchased one in this pandemic

917
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: because I was like, everyone's getting into cooking. I hate cooking.

918
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 1: I really could just like not ever cook ever. But

919
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: I got a cast and skill because I'm like, I

920
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: guess I need to start cooking. And I didn't want

921
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 1: to like get a non caster and skill because I'm like,

922
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 1: if I'm gonna cook, I want to like go like

923
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 1: a little bit hardcore. And then I like looked up

924
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,280
Speaker 1: how to like clean it, and it's like you're supposed

925
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: to like use salt and like use that to like

926
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: exfoliate the cast and skiller or whatever. And I did

927
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: try that after making chicken, and it took like twenty

928
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: minutes to get all the bits and pieces of chicken off.

929
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm never doing this again. I'm just

930
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: gonna use a sponge, but to me, and then you

931
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,479
Speaker 1: can just soak it for a little bit, like soak

932
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: good for a little bit. Then you use like steel

933
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: wool to rub it steel will at all? Yeah you

934
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: can use yeah you are. I have a little metal things.

935
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: I don't have steel wool, but I have a what

936
00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: like chain mail where yeah, like a rough a rough spongement.

937
00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 1: What is that better than a sponge because it's not

938
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: about the spongement the sponge, it's about the soap. I

939
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 1: never feels like it feels like, Okay, Brian, I've never

940
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 1: yelled a girl like this, never a girl like this. Okay,

941
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 1: I feel like it's here's my um my main concern.

942
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: I would never use steal wool on a cast iron

943
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: because even though I know that Casterns don't have feelings,

944
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,360
Speaker 1: I know that like when you use it's like iron

945
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: to iron, it's like metal to metal. It like creates

946
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 1: little like small micro like cuts in the thing, and

947
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: it's like that's for bacteria heights. Right. I really was

948
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: trying so hard to be on your side. I feel

949
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: you came on this podcast two upset us, so you

950
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: know what I want to do. Yeah, I want to

951
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: do what I want to take my cast iron skill

952
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: it performance art style and just like douse it with soap.

953
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,840
Speaker 1: Now you're just trying to hurt Sam. I'll do this

954
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: at the Bell the Bell House. I mean to be

955
00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:21,120
Speaker 1: completely honest, that would be iconic. I think for I,

956
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 1: I like latching onto a taboo, Brian and making that

957
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 1: your whole thing. It's very like that's what Madonna's like

958
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: with the Catholic Church. It's like she'll be years old

959
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: and she just she'll still kind of like you know,

960
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:35,640
Speaker 1: put post a photo where she's the virgin Mary, but

961
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: she's like slapping someone's ass. Yeah, I'll do that, but

962
00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 1: for cast Iron. Yeah, And it's actually if you combine

963
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: and then when you end up being the last person

964
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:47,439
Speaker 1: to get COVID, it'll be like cast Iron performance artist

965
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: and queer comedian Brian By, divorced child of her parents

966
00:57:53,360 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: of two. Um uh oh god, do you feel like

967
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: you've been You've seen this reaction before where you try

968
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: to be like, who cares about putting soapen cast and

969
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:08,600
Speaker 1: then people immediately yell at you and are like shocked

970
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 1: at what you're saying. Now, here's the thing. The second

971
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 1: somebody brings up cast Iron, like in a conversation, I leave,

972
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 1: I like, I'm like this person is they're bad, They're

973
00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 1: not good, And I definitely like just leave the um

974
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: conversation entirely. And yet you brought it as you're chosen

975
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: topic for this recorded podcast. Yeah, because I feel like

976
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: no one can really you know, educate me on that. Well,

977
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:44,760
Speaker 1: no one can educate you on it because you refuse

978
00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: to learn. I do think Sam tried. It's like, but

979
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:55,959
Speaker 1: it's also it's like, why are we like this isn't

980
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: something that needs to be learned, like I should be

981
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:00,040
Speaker 1: able to do what I want with my cast and

982
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: it's it's a metaphor for the rest of your life. Yeah,

983
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: it's weird that this is where you're like, you know,

984
00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: focusing your right to freedom. Like, yeah, it's very very conservative.

985
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 1: It's very conservative, like picking one thing. It's very it's

986
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,919
Speaker 1: like your anti vax like it's like, I didn't feel

987
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: anti VAXX when I was talking. When I was like

988
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: a little bit went off about it, I was like, whoa,

989
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: this is This must be what it feels like to

990
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: be anti VAXs right in a way. Yeah, I get

991
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: what they do with you get anti vax well where

992
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:38,880
Speaker 1: they're triggering the libs. Yeah, I felt weird saying that.

993
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: Um wow, well I do want to say just to

994
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: vaguely point to what our podcast is even slightly about.

995
00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: Um to your point about it being straight. I think

996
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: when you mentioned you got a cast iron because you

997
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 1: wanted something a little more hardcore, that is what makes

998
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: the cast iron straight in my mind is that it

999
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: like lies a more like intense form of cooking when

1000
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: it's actually like just a different thing. Well, and much

1001
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:11,040
Speaker 1: like masculinity. It has a rough exterior, but then it

1002
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 1: needs more care than any of the other skillets, and

1003
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: it's better with a little musk. True, Brian, any final

1004
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:29,720
Speaker 1: remarks before we scream at your face. Um, you know,

1005
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: I regret it. I regret purchasing a cast iron skillet.

1006
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: But it's with me. No, but because I can't cook,

1007
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: because you can't cook. Okay, fine, So when you imagine,

1008
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 1: like when you imagine an ideal, like a life where

1009
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: you are so effortlessly using your cast iron, what do

1010
01:00:50,480 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: you imagine making? Um, hold on, sorry, I'm thinking and

1011
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: also playing in charge your You never know what someone

1012
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:07,280
Speaker 1: was going through, you know, I can't believe this entire time,

1013
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: a computer was running out of juice and we were

1014
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 1: completely oblivious to there, so oblivious, and that explains the

1015
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: sort of scarcity that Brian was working with. You could

1016
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 1: feel sort of a and you could feel a defensiveness

1017
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:23,000
Speaker 1: because he was like, okay, my computer is literally a

1018
01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 1: point five percent, and now you're also yelling at me

1019
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 1: about cast irons. Like yeah, he wasn't actually ever talking

1020
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: about the cast iron. The cast iron was a symbol

1021
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 1: for his computer dying. It was never about the cast iron,

1022
01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: and then we should have seen that, We should have

1023
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: seen it. It's interesting because in the beginning we were

1024
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: so in sync with our couples therapy talk, and then

1025
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: we got so full of ourselves because we realized how

1026
01:01:46,280 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 1: revolutionary we were being in our theories that we forgot

1027
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 1: to show empathy to our one and only guest. So, Brian,

1028
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:56,000
Speaker 1: you were saying, Okay, So I did listen to Anthony

1029
01:01:56,040 --> 01:02:00,320
Speaker 1: Bourdine's audio book back in February, shortly after I just

1030
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: this cast iron skillet that we've been talking about um

1031
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 1: and Anthony Bourdon's audio book. He does say that if

1032
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:11,720
Speaker 1: you really want to cook, your pan should be so

1033
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,160
Speaker 1: strong you couldn't bonk somebody over the head with it.

1034
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: And I think I really took that to heart. That's

1035
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 1: really all I remember about his book. Um, can I

1036
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:25,520
Speaker 1: ask a clari friend question like you can bonk someone

1037
01:02:25,560 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: on the head with any pan? And thank you so

1038
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: much for saying that, because that was absolutely my response

1039
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: as well. And in fact, I was gonna say, cast

1040
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: iron is actually a little too heavy. It's kind of

1041
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 1: you don't have much swing ability. Yeah, I'd rather give

1042
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 1: me like a kind of a you know, a stainless steel,

1043
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 1: non stick, or even not non stick, just a stainless

1044
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:46,919
Speaker 1: steel pan. But if you had to bonk somebody life

1045
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: or death situation, would you rather have a cast iron

1046
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,439
Speaker 1: or a fucking t I mean, I guess you could

1047
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: kill someone easier with a cast iron in my mind,

1048
01:02:58,040 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: but I think that's what Bourdane was getting at. But

1049
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 1: you have to think about in battle, Brian, like, if

1050
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 1: they're coming at you with who's maybe a cutting board,

1051
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: I think you're still gonna lose because while the years

1052
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 1: might be heavier, there's would be sort of swifter. You know,

1053
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 1: would not help is having a soapy cast dime That

1054
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't know at all, That wouldn't help at all. You

1055
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 1: would actually just slide right off. Would be slipper slide

1056
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: off your hands and off the other person's head. It

1057
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: would barely make an impt um. But yeah, I do. Yeah,

1058
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: I regret every decision I've made since um purchasing that

1059
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: cast irons. Do you know what I'm hearing is like

1060
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: I feel like you don't care about cooking and so

1061
01:03:39,640 --> 01:03:41,720
Speaker 1: you don't respect any of the implements. Like that's what

1062
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: is That's what this is coming down to, right, Yeah,

1063
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 1: a little bit. Oh my god, we had had like

1064
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: a breakthrough you go a breakthrough case yet, but I

1065
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,280
Speaker 1: do feel like that's a breakthrough. Like that's why it's

1066
01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 1: so annoying to you when people talk down to you

1067
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: about cast irons, because you're like, literally, it doesn't matter,

1068
01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:04,920
Speaker 1: and I don't care. Okay, here's my relationship with the kitchen.

1069
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 1: It was never fun to be in. It was so chaotic,

1070
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,040
Speaker 1: like so many things were happening. I was like, this

1071
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 1: isn't a fun place for me. Are you from a

1072
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 1: big family? Yes? And no? So I have so I

1073
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: have my like nuclear family as small it's like my

1074
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: parents and my sister. But then like my what's the

1075
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: opposite of nuclear, like extended, So that's like countless I see. Okay,

1076
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 1: when you imagine the kitchen, it's chaotic because there are

1077
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 1: too many people in it. Yeah, there's like dips flying dips. Yeah, okay,

1078
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 1: I'm really hungry twenty imagine twenty dips though, and I'm

1079
01:04:57,760 --> 01:04:59,680
Speaker 1: seeing it and putting the chip up in the air,

1080
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:02,560
Speaker 1: But you can't. You don't have time to taste it

1081
01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 1: because you're constantly passing them. If I'm kidding anything from you,

1082
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 1: the kitchen has always been sort of a fight zone

1083
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:14,440
Speaker 1: fight food fight. Yeah, but I've never been able to

1084
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 1: be in a food I would like, So it's really

1085
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: the violent imagery. I mean, first you're choosing which pan

1086
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: to get based on which one can kill someone. Then

1087
01:05:23,880 --> 01:05:27,200
Speaker 1: you're associating the kitchen with a mass free for all

1088
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:31,920
Speaker 1: fight dips almost I want to find I think what

1089
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 1: we need is like to find a peaceful way like

1090
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:40,040
Speaker 1: away for the kitchen to be a safe space. Yeah,

1091
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 1: turn the kitchen into a couch. Maybe you should get

1092
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:48,680
Speaker 1: really into grilling outdoors. Huh not why it's food, but

1093
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 1: it's not in the kitchen or vegetable. You really committed

1094
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: to caring for your cast iron, and then that is

1095
01:05:56,880 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: a way for you to like re reimagine the kitchen

1096
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:08,560
Speaker 1: as a as a place of um, you know, like

1097
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: suddenly there's a there's a there's an intimate relationship, there's care,

1098
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 1: there's safety, there's love. Should I name it? The hell

1099
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 1: was going to suggest that? Okay, what would you name

1100
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 1: your cast iron? If you don't? Could Dolby so beautiful?

1101
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 1: Are you looking at a speaker currently Dolby? You know,

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01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 1: Dolby could be in the same family as Nasdac and

1103
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 1: down Jones. Um, would you guys name your cast irons? Well,

1104
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 1: first of all, do you guys have cast irons? Yes,

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01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:56,920
Speaker 1: it's my first question. Cast iron I there was an

1106
01:06:56,920 --> 01:06:59,080
Speaker 1: issue where I tried to get the brand that has

1107
01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 1: recommended and then literally like somehow pressed the wrong button

1108
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:06,640
Speaker 1: and got a worse brand. So I feel first frustrated

1109
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 1: with it because it's not as good as I wanted,

1110
01:07:07,880 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 1: but also protective of it because I feel like I

1111
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 1: have to take even better care of it. So that's

1112
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 1: my story, sam Um, my story. I just want to say, Brian,

1113
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: you know we're not so different, you and I. I

1114
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: hate the kitchen. I do not enjoy cooking one bit,

1115
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:23,680
Speaker 1: but you know, there are some little little things you

1116
01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 1: can do to make it. Just like once I like

1117
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: took literally half a second to be like that knife

1118
01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 1: is bad for cutting a tomato. It's like, yeah, that

1119
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 1: actually makes every single day better. And I was being

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01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 1: a dumb bitch by fighting it. Uh. So you know,

1121
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:42,080
Speaker 1: in learning how to clean the cast iron skillet, I

1122
01:07:42,080 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 1: feel empowered. I feel joy. I still don't like cooking,

1123
01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 1: but at least I'm like not sucking up constantly. M

1124
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: hm m mkay, what's your what's your cast Iron's name? Everybody? Sam?

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01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: Um No, actually actually mine his name? Sam? Really no,

1126
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 1: I just I actually was actually was inviting mind his

1127
01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 1: name George. That's I was actually inviting you to go first.

1128
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:13,400
Speaker 1: And then when I said it it sounded right. I

1129
01:08:13,480 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, I'll wait. Maybe this is why

1130
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: you guys care about your caster and so much, because

1131
01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:21,080
Speaker 1: it's kind of like similar names to people in your life.

1132
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 1: You actually, do they really similar to our names? Do

1133
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:27,760
Speaker 1: you want to know something? Sam? You know how we

1134
01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 1: struggle with like being earnest and expressing, you know, loving feelings.

1135
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 1: I feel like because we care about each other so much,

1136
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: but don't want to say that outright. We've each extended

1137
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 1: that love to our cast iron that we've named after

1138
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 1: our co host. And one of the reasons why we're

1139
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:49,280
Speaker 1: reacting so violently to Brian is because it's almost like

1140
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 1: he's offending each one of us to the other. M hmm.

1141
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:56,919
Speaker 1: That is so true. Yeah, I'm like me not respecting

1142
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 1: my cast earn It's like me just like spitting under

1143
01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: guys face exactly, whereas for you, it's just an object

1144
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:06,680
Speaker 1: right with not positive associations. I mean you associated with

1145
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 1: food fights and murder and dips. Well, the dips are

1146
01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: part of the food fight, but the dip. I sorry,

1147
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,200
Speaker 1: I just I feel like dips are such a nice food.

1148
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: Like when I think of that, like when I think

1149
01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 1: of foods that are difficult, I don't think of dips.

1150
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:29,120
Speaker 1: They're difficult. They're difficulty. Okay, okay, okay, I am clearly

1151
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: I struck a nerve. This is um. This is the

1152
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 1: last thing I'll say. Okay um. I am a little

1153
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:41,680
Speaker 1: bit worried about becoming you guys though, Like what if,

1154
01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: like somebody, what if somebody brings upcast iron They're like, yeah,

1155
01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: I don't give a shit about my pants and I

1156
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:50,920
Speaker 1: lose my ship, you know. I like, I'm in a restaurant.

1157
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 1: It's like fine dining. There's a lot of like nice

1158
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,640
Speaker 1: dinner were on the table. I like, shove it all

1159
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: off and I just go off on this person, Briant.

1160
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: I think if you went off on that person, it, yes,

1161
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 1: might be painful and difficult at the moment, but you

1162
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:08,519
Speaker 1: could be helping that person. You could be saving their

1163
01:10:08,560 --> 01:10:12,879
Speaker 1: life exactly. So I hope that one day you become us,

1164
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:16,400
Speaker 1: because what we are is helpful, but we are as

1165
01:10:16,439 --> 01:10:23,680
Speaker 1: community builders. What we are is lovers. We are lovers,

1166
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:32,759
Speaker 1: So maybe think about that. Okay, I am. It's interesting

1167
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:37,879
Speaker 1: because because I'm now like, I think you are actually

1168
01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: satisfied with your relationship with your cast Iran and I

1169
01:10:40,240 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 1: no longer feel they need to change you. You know

1170
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: what you sound like? You sound like my therapist, my

1171
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 1: ex therapist who I saw her approximately six times and

1172
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: then the pandemic happened. We did one phone session and

1173
01:10:57,920 --> 01:10:59,960
Speaker 1: then I emailed her and I was like, you don't

1174
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 1: this isn't really working for me. And even when you were,

1175
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:07,280
Speaker 1: even when we were in person, I'm like, I didn't

1176
01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:10,160
Speaker 1: feel like I was like learning or growing or that

1177
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:13,400
Speaker 1: like you were facilitating anything. I didn't say all that,

1178
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:15,920
Speaker 1: but like that that was kind of the subtext. And

1179
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 1: then she emails me. She's like, well, I don't think

1180
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 1: you were open to learning and growing. And she's like

1181
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 1: she sent me a link to an article that was

1182
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 1: like here's how you'd be a better like patient or whatever. God,

1183
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:29,600
Speaker 1: I hate her. Yeah, I wonder you can't have a

1184
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 1: healthy relationship to your cast iron skill it, I know,

1185
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 1: Jesus um, but that's why you reminded me of George. Well,

1186
01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 1: that's I will say, this is like a very interesting

1187
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 1: episode if we can um zoom out for a moment.

1188
01:11:45,960 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 1: It feels um much more confrontational than I was expecting.

1189
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:54,600
Speaker 1: And even with all the conflict, I don't feel a

1190
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 1: resolution coming, and I keep waiting for one, and and well,

1191
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 1: I kind of like that Brian is holding his ground.

1192
01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,439
Speaker 1: I guess I do. I don't like it, but I

1193
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: respect it. I mean, what resolution could there be? Like

1194
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 1: me being like, okay, I'll treat my cast iron with respect.

1195
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 1: I think I was there. I was there. I'm willing

1196
01:12:16,920 --> 01:12:25,360
Speaker 1: to name it Dolbie. Okay, Goldie, Okay, let's say, Brian.

1197
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,240
Speaker 1: As with any session, I feel like it's important to

1198
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 1: reach like one, to have like one actionable item. And

1199
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 1: your actionable item is naming your cast iron. You did it.

1200
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:39,559
Speaker 1: Its name is Dolby. And you know, next time you

1201
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 1: come on the pod we can keep working on it. Yeah,

1202
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 1: see you next week. Sam. Who do you think am

1203
01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 1: I being confrontational? No? Okay, I know. I'm more like

1204
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 1: it's it's just funny. I'm like, okay, wait, I'm like, guys,

1205
01:12:55,600 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: be nice now, okay, be nice now. Okay, are you

1206
01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 1: not being nice? Brian? Are you mad at us? Wait,

1207
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:07,800
Speaker 1: that's not our segment? Yeah? Sorry, sorry being said not,

1208
01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:10,280
Speaker 1: but the answer is always yes. Okay, okay, I gotta

1209
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:16,599
Speaker 1: gotta got it. Well, um, you're blacklisted, so I hope

1210
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: you had fun today. It is Wait, do you know

1211
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: how we were? Like? I was like, every time I

1212
01:13:22,080 --> 01:13:24,160
Speaker 1: enter a room with Brian, I feel safe. I can

1213
01:13:24,200 --> 01:13:26,719
Speaker 1: look at it from across the room, clients a great smile.

1214
01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:30,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, I do feel an animalsty that I haven't. Really,

1215
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:35,680
Speaker 1: I have to agree this is crazy. You guys are

1216
01:13:35,800 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 1: saw much of my closest friends. Yeah, yeah, and yeah EXCEP.

1217
01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 1: For whatever reason, the cast iron controversy is what will

1218
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:49,320
Speaker 1: te us all apart. Um. I think there's nothing to

1219
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: do but our final segment. I kind of agree, as

1220
01:13:52,120 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 1: insane as that may sound, I'm fine with that. Oh

1221
01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:01,600
Speaker 1: my god, don't say I'm fine with that. Like, I

1222
01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 1: think it's Brinan. I think Brian is being mean Sam.

1223
01:14:07,840 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 1: He's literally Sam, What the fun? Sam? I'm never running

1224
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:15,920
Speaker 1: into you. You know, Brian, this is the first time

1225
01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 1: Brian has ever been open and vulnerable about his cast

1226
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:25,640
Speaker 1: Iron you know, psychosis and so we have to be respectful. No,

1227
01:14:25,760 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 1: you're totally right, Sam is Sam is diagnosing it with

1228
01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:32,120
Speaker 1: hysteria because because you don't, because you use soap on

1229
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 1: your skillet rather than trying to figure out what the

1230
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 1: root cause of it is. I'm the I'm the Tom

1231
01:14:36,400 --> 01:14:44,200
Speaker 1: Hanks of m cast starn psychosis. Okay, yeah, totally, that's good. Okay,

1232
01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: Bright our final segment, and I'm you know, I like

1233
01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 1: that we're ending on on attention, Like I feel like

1234
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 1: this is real Like like if people, if the listeners

1235
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 1: can't handle this and they want a clean resolution with

1236
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 1: a bowl on it, maybe go listen to um wait wait,

1237
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: don't tell me. Yeah, maybe watch Aladdin. Yeah, maybe watch

1238
01:15:08,880 --> 01:15:13,559
Speaker 1: Aladdin because this is real life. Yeah, this is Leilu

1239
01:15:13,640 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: and Stitch, but the middle part before the resolution, this

1240
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: is Empire strikes Back. That's right, Okay. Our final segment

1241
01:15:21,920 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: is called UM shout Outs, And in this segment we

1242
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 1: give radio style TRL style shout outs to things we

1243
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: want to just give a little love and support to.

1244
01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 1: And in fact, you know, I I'll go first, Okay, UM,

1245
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:43,400
Speaker 1: what's of freaks and losers? And also listeners who aren't

1246
01:15:43,400 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: freaks and losers? I want to give a quick shout

1247
01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 1: out to hand sanitizer. That's right. You had such a moment.

1248
01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 1: You were the bell of the ball. You you were

1249
01:15:52,080 --> 01:15:55,920
Speaker 1: the fixed to everything. Everyone loved you. People said, hand sanitizer,

1250
01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,480
Speaker 1: She's then you girl, She's gonna be the best actress

1251
01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:01,920
Speaker 1: not many end winner for the next five years running.

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01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 1: Cut to two years later, it's unclear what the science

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01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:08,960
Speaker 1: is the diseases airborne. You know, people just wash their

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01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 1: hands instead of using hand sanitizer. Um. Sometimes it makes

1255
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:15,680
Speaker 1: your hands. You know, people are not as into you

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01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 1: as they used to be. You are, let's face it,

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01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:21,360
Speaker 1: not to resort toardsprouche, but you are kind of going

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01:16:21,400 --> 01:16:23,920
Speaker 1: through your flaw era. And I just want to say,

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01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:28,280
Speaker 1: hand sanitizer. I still you know, I'll still occasionally chicken

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01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: on your work. I still support you, and I think

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01:16:30,439 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: if you just hold out, you will come back. I

1262
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:36,040
Speaker 1: don't think we've seen the last of you yet. And

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01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:38,360
Speaker 1: I just want to say, like, just hang in there.

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01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:43,400
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, take a break, regroup, read some scripts,

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01:16:43,680 --> 01:16:46,000
Speaker 1: getting you management, and then maybe next year, you know,

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01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:51,439
Speaker 1: you never know, we might have another pandemic. Who um, okay,

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01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 1: I will go what's up freaking losers out there. I

1268
01:16:55,320 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 1: just want to give a huge little shout out to

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01:16:57,960 --> 01:17:01,000
Speaker 1: watching movies on a plane. I would rather watch a

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01:17:01,040 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: movie on a plane in a damn movie theater if

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01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: I had the choice. Whenever I'm watching a movie on

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01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 1: a plane, I'm completely focused, i am locked in, and

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01:17:07,880 --> 01:17:11,559
Speaker 1: I am happy. I saw films like Another Round. I

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01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:13,680
Speaker 1: would never watch that in my own home, and I

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01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:15,960
Speaker 1: loved it. I'm trying to talk to you about it,

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01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 1: but no one else watched it on the plane, but

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01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 1: it was really really good. Georgia's seen it. I literally

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01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 1: watched it on a plane. I literally watched Another Round

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01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,640
Speaker 1: on a plane, and I completely agree. It's meant to

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01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 1: be watched on a plane, even though it's not a

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01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:31,360
Speaker 1: plane movie. Like, no people think a plane movie. Oh,

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01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:33,639
Speaker 1: it's like you know, you watch like Bridget Jones's diary

1283
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 1: because it's like whatever, like not a not a rigorous

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01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:40,200
Speaker 1: exploration of grief. But guess what, you can watch a

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01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,599
Speaker 1: rigorous exploration of greape on a plane and you're gonna

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01:17:42,600 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: fucking like it, you dumb bitch. Next time you find

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01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: yourself on a plane, specifically a delta flight, watch Another Round.

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01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 1: Who I can't believe you're both watch another round on

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01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 1: a plane. That was good. I love that movie. I'll say,

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01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:00,120
Speaker 1: I'll say one more, and I know we have to go.

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01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:04,679
Speaker 1: Last night I watched very like Prestige Drama at home.

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01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:08,720
Speaker 1: I was so distracted throughout and on my phone. It

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01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:11,639
Speaker 1: didn't connect with me. I can't do it. I can't

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01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:13,479
Speaker 1: and I can't even I'm afraid to even say what

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01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 1: the movie was because it's a movie that's considered so

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01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:17,120
Speaker 1: good that people will be like, Oh, you're stupid, you

1297
01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:19,599
Speaker 1: didn't get it. Let's just say it was a Max

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01:18:19,720 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 1: Picture nominee in the nineties, and let's just say actresses

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01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:29,680
Speaker 1: are in. It could be one of three movies that's right,

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01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,439
Speaker 1: and it is the second one you're thinking of. But

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01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: I it really I was like my ear my face

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01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 1: was bone dry, not a tear in the room. Despite

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01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:43,680
Speaker 1: I mean truly some incredible performances, writing, directing, really a

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01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: great job overall. But I wasn't on a plane. Well,

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01:18:48,640 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 1: we should get a plane just to give us the

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01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: illusion of flying and watch movies there. I would love

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01:18:52,960 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 1: I would love that. Um, okay, Brian, whenever you are ready, Okay,

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01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 1: what's up? My little freaks and losers. I want to

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01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: give a shout out to Dutch ovening like that you

1310
01:19:07,960 --> 01:19:09,960
Speaker 1: can really only do it in a certain type of weather,

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01:19:10,000 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 1: and we are in the midst of that weather right now.

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01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,400
Speaker 1: You're like finally able to get under blankets again and

1313
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:21,320
Speaker 1: like be warm and secure under like a thick blanket,

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01:19:22,080 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: which is prime environment for you know, your farts. And

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01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,479
Speaker 1: then sometimes you don't even want a Dutch oven yourself.

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01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:35,080
Speaker 1: It just kind of happens. And then that's like that's

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01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:37,040
Speaker 1: how you know you're really like in the midst of

1318
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:40,559
Speaker 1: like fall autumn. It's like when you're like getting those

1319
01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 1: like gusty vibes like that, like that gust of like yourself,

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01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 1: your insights, I guess, like all the way up to

1321
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 1: your guys. I don't know, um shout out to that

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01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:58,439
Speaker 1: whoa you know, Okay, before you go, George, I want

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01:19:58,439 --> 01:20:00,880
Speaker 1: to say. When he start did that, I was like,

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01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:06,080
Speaker 1: surely doesn't mean the like childhood word Dutch opening where

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01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 1: you fart under the covers. There's some sort of adult

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01:20:09,360 --> 01:20:13,120
Speaker 1: Dutch opening that is not that. And then even as

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01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:14,720
Speaker 1: you went it was like, well he's not saying far,

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01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 1: He's quite unclear, and the same journey and then it

1329
01:20:19,640 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 1: became very obvious that you were in fact talking about

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01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 1: that Dutch opening. And you know, not to be a

1331
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:29,519
Speaker 1: complete bitch, but I can't help but feel that even

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01:20:29,520 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: it's more of a symbol that you are actually in

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01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:36,160
Speaker 1: fact mad at us. Yeah, to recommend Dutch. I mean,

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01:20:36,200 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 1: it's very like Shad O'Connor ripping the photo of the

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01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: Pope at SML. It's like it's like the last the

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01:20:42,760 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: last piece of wait I said. I thought I was

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01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 1: clear I am that at most of you. Okay, okay,

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01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Oh wow, Well, Brian, thank you

1339
01:20:56,160 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 1: for doing the podcast. I hope we can be friends

1340
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:03,280
Speaker 1: after this. Me too. I hope if we run into

1341
01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 1: each other at the cock you won't ignore me. Yeah,

1342
01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:19,760
Speaker 1: like say, I wow, well committing to the bit. Really. Yeah,

1343
01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:27,479
Speaker 1: it's been a while since this has happened. I would say,

1344
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 1: I'm surprised and confused, shocked, disappointed, thrilled, thrilled. Sure, but

1345
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:39,599
Speaker 1: you know, tomorrow morning, I'm gonna wake up and do

1346
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:42,000
Speaker 1: what I always do and head to the market and

1347
01:21:42,240 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 1: approach it with love. Yeah. Yeah, I'll see you at

1348
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:51,880
Speaker 1: the market. Okay, see you at the market. Well, thanks Brian. Um,

1349
01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:54,839
Speaker 1: thank you for having me. This was a huge pleasure.

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01:21:55,040 --> 01:22:01,800
Speaker 1: Thank you for everything you brought to the table. Um,

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01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:05,880
Speaker 1: bye bye. I don't know co