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Speaker 1: music stage and Fred Nancy are on UM. So there's

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Speaker 1: a company. It's called ben Shot. It's in Wisconsin, and

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Speaker 1: I guess, is a gun. That's what they're getting as

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Speaker 1: their bare bonus at the end of the year. Is

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Speaker 1: a gun or a small close knit team At ben Shot,

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Speaker 1: I want to make sure all of our employees are

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Speaker 1: safe and happy. A handgun was a perfect gift. Two workers.

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Speaker 1: I guess at first, we're like, no, I think we'd

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Speaker 1: take the gun safety chorus and whatever. But they said, no,

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Speaker 1: your Christmas gift from us is going to be a gun.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering who gets the best Christmas perk though, Like,

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Speaker 1: who're driving to work right now has the best Christmas perk?

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Speaker 1: And I don't mean the teachers who don't have to

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Speaker 1: any kind of like sick, ridiculous Christmas bonus? That would

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Speaker 1: be nice. I heard the story about a radio personality.

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Speaker 1: well known. He apparently called This was in the nineties.

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Speaker 1: it was even Christmas Day, and everybody but two people

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Speaker 1: to work on Christmas Day. Forget you. I don't care.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know how many people. It was. Eight

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Speaker 1: people show up. I'm making this number up. They show up,

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Speaker 1: He drives them to a car dealership and buys each

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Speaker 1: we're not working on Christmas Day. Bad news. I'm not

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Speaker 1: buying any of you a car, but I'm wondering who

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Speaker 1: gets the best Christmas perk? What are we getting around here? Nothing.

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Speaker 1: We used to get and cheese. We used to get

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Speaker 1: summer saucage. That's what it was. We got a jacket

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Speaker 1: last year. I used to buy a summer sausage. Why

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Speaker 1: Last year we got a jacket, but not everybody got it.

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Speaker 1: And then apparently we got it because our station was

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Speaker 1: get to be competitive anymore. Apparently you don't get to

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Speaker 1: Do you remember why we missed the jacket giving why

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know we got one. And then somebody

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Speaker 1: They just make it give me like a patch on

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Speaker 1: We can't be competitive anymore? Like how about be the

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Speaker 1: something crappy, by the way, maybe maybe your your your

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Speaker 1: nice gesture. But yes, for a number of years here

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Speaker 1: at work or worse to work perk? Who gets? Who gets? What? Hey? Sam? Hey? Sam?

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Speaker 1: You get an awesome party at your office? What is

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Speaker 1: window business and people don't want to buy windows around Christmas.

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Speaker 1: And then yeah, they catered it last year. It was

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Speaker 1: everybody comes right back, but for for a few weeks there,

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Speaker 1: money on electricity. There's nobody here, so I've made the

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Speaker 1: argument for years. As soon as you guys flip to Christmas,

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Speaker 1: You know, no one wants to buy windows from us either.

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Speaker 1: guys are ready. Because it's your fault. We own the station.

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Speaker 1: We're still gonna make the money on it. So what

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Speaker 1: are they mad about? People can go listen to Christmas music,

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Speaker 1: be festive, whatever, money shopping, buy things the economy. Why

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Speaker 1: when we normally have thirteen content. I totally get it,

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Speaker 1: what does your work give you as a holiday perk?

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Speaker 1: It's like I no longer work there, but this is

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Speaker 1: kind of embarrassing. They give us five dollars Starbucks gift cards.

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Speaker 1: get one for five bucks? I don't know. Yeah, well

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Speaker 1: have a great day, Nina, gad you called. But this

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Speaker 1: company and um wherever wherever it was cotton, I'll get handguns.

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Speaker 1: I'd take a handgun. Hey why not? I wouldn't want that.

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Speaker 1: They're expensive, Amanda morning, What what is your business give you?

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Speaker 1: So they worked in a hospital and they gave us

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Speaker 1: compression fox last year. That's actually good trade. My mom's

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Speaker 1: kind of a lazy gift kind. Oh they weren't even

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Speaker 1: what's your work perk for the holidays? Sad? And we

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Speaker 1: have a chain of pizza restaurants throughout like five rounding towns.

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Speaker 1: So last year for our Christmas party, we got last Hurts,

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Speaker 1: which was awesome with their giant I'll go on them,

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Speaker 1: thinking we could wear them at work, but then they said,

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Speaker 1: oh no, they have a hood on them, so you

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Speaker 1: guys can't wear them. So we got free advertising, right,

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Speaker 1: can be our walking billboards. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Free pizza nothing, Nope,

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Speaker 1: jackets last year, but it was probably we could walk

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Speaker 1: around advertising for iHeartMedia that all this was had nothing

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Speaker 1: great to Haye, Tiffany, Tiffany, what is your work holiday

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Speaker 1: an s show? That must be? How many? How many

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Speaker 1: going to Mexico. Wow, all expenses paid? I mean how much?

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Speaker 1: Like how many people come back pregnant and like divorce

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Speaker 1: if we make it. But if we don't, we're taking

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Speaker 1: all her employees to Hawaii or some Mala car or something. Well,

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Speaker 1: They had a song about a year nineteen eighty four?

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Speaker 1: I have the lead singer for tiered is his name?

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Speaker 1: Lead singer bowling for soup? I have his number in

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Speaker 1: are you are you coming to Chicago? You didn't call me.

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Speaker 1: Let's let's all hang out, come on the show. Let's

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Speaker 1: play bowling for Soup songs? Oh boy? And the drummer

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Speaker 1: not bowling for super five hundred dollar bonus. Kelly gets,

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Speaker 1: Steve says they fly to Florida. Wow. Giovanni gets two

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Speaker 1: So you hung out with him before you guys were dating.

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Speaker 1: Four kids? Yeah, right, yo, yo, be very much the

423
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Speaker 1: girl and the guy. It sounds like thank you, Alie,

424
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Speaker 1: have a good day, one or three, five kiss. If

425
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Speaker 1: I'm Chicago's number one hit music station, it's Fred and Agie. Um,

426
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Speaker 1: let me see other things on my list to get

427
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Speaker 1: to today. Psychologists explain why you cannot buy only one

428
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Speaker 1: thing at Target. Expert say there are several reasons why

429
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Speaker 1: people cannot buy one thing at Target. Is it is

430
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Speaker 1: it infected, it's not. It's a rtorble question. It is

431
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Speaker 1: impossible to go into Target and walk out with one

432
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Speaker 1: thing impossible. I think it's impossible. To spend less than

433
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Speaker 1: twenty bucks too. That's I'll go theossible. I purposely sometimes

434
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Speaker 1: drop a list and I'm like, I am sticking to

435
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Speaker 1: this list. Maybe only three things on this list, very

436
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 1: specific items, and it still doesn't work. Even if I

437
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:23,399
Speaker 1: am determined, it does not work. And these are the

438
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 1: reasons why the psychologist says that you cannot buy just

439
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Speaker 1: one thing at Target. The lighting, the bright colors um

440
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 1: brightened your effect, and you tend to have a pretty

441
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:38,040
Speaker 1: good time. It's conducive to buying. So I guess the

442
00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 1: mood is always good. The color in the target makes you,

443
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,159
Speaker 1: I don't know, put you in a better mood. And

444
00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:45,680
Speaker 1: you're like, well, I need all of course, happy throw

445
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,480
Speaker 1: pillow and yes, that frame and of course I needed

446
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,359
Speaker 1: it down this dollar aisle flap screen TV. Yes, and

447
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 1: I've always wanted needed that one. What a great deal.

448
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,639
Speaker 1: Targets also very clever placing things in strategic places to

449
00:20:58,640 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 1: boost cross selling. Many stores they're not rolling out lifestyle

450
00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,640
Speaker 1: settings that helps shoppers visualize the goods in their own home.

451
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 1: That is true. You know you'll think like, what is

452
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:11,159
Speaker 1: this doing here? But then at the same time you

453
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,760
Speaker 1: wind up you're looking at it they stage it right, yeah, exactly.

454
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 1: And Target also employs psychological pricing, which gives you the

455
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,880
Speaker 1: impression that you're getting a deal when you may not

456
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: be actually getting a deal. I just always see things

457
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: that I did not expect to want, and I'm like, oh,

458
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 1: I've never seen this eighty four pack of chips. Ahoy,

459
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: I need to get that or whatever. It is, Like

460
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,719
Speaker 1: it's always something. And then the other thing is are

461
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,879
Speaker 1: the Target poops, which are not necessarily a good thing,

462
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,320
Speaker 1: but they don't happen to me, but most and I remember,

463
00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,159
Speaker 1: I think it was you, Angie or somebody on the

464
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 1: show was talking about the Target poops and I didn't

465
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Speaker 1: believe that they were a thing. And then I googled

466
00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 1: it and there's a whole like there's there reddit threads

467
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: and websites and be devoted to the fact that there's

468
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Speaker 1: something that happens in there. When you walk in and

469
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Speaker 1: take a breath, you take a whiff of the Target

470
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, air, and you have to go number two,

471
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,439
Speaker 1: and it's a real thing. I think they pump air

472
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:08,919
Speaker 1: laxatives into the events to make you have to go

473
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. I know where every bathroom is at

474
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Speaker 1: every target that happened to me. It doesn't happen. I

475
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Speaker 1: guess if you're having any sort of backup, backed up

476
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: issues and you just go to targets, not even backup.

477
00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:21,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I'm suggesting if you do have a problems. Yeah.

478
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Speaker 1: Side effect of driverless cars apparently will be an increasing

479
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Speaker 1: number of people having sex in those cars. A new

480
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Speaker 1: study from the Anals of Tourism Research. They note that

481
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: self driving cars could ultimately ultimately become rolling hotel rooms

482
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Speaker 1: rentable by the hour. Autonomous vehicles are expected to eventually

483
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Speaker 1: replace traditional taxis, and this means the cab companies could

484
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Speaker 1: take the money that they were paying drivers and invest

485
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Speaker 1: in roomy interiors that include betting or even massage chairs

486
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Speaker 1: in the cars. One researcher said it's just a small

487
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Speaker 1: leap to imagine Amsterdam's red light district on the move.

488
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Speaker 1: Who was cleaning those in between rides? I don't know,

489
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: that's disgusting. It's still public. I mean it'll still be

490
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 1: against the law. I mean loot in city's behavior or whatever.

491
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you're inside of a car, so nobody's seeing you.

492
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Speaker 1: You're not somebody's doing it in a car. Windows are

493
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,719
Speaker 1: like black Tips taxis are private two companies, right, so

494
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: it's not really out in public. Yeah, but when I

495
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:27,440
Speaker 1: look over, I can tell if you're riding somebody away.

496
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Speaker 1: Of course you would know. Um And the Georgia capital

497
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Speaker 1: of Atlanta has attained the number one spot on wad

498
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Speaker 1: hubs best cities for Singles, based on the sites look

499
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: at more than one hundred and eighty metropolitan areas. The

500
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: metrics considered everything from how much dating activities cost, cytail prices,

501
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Speaker 1: and how much it costs to get to all that

502
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Speaker 1: before a date too, how many singles are mulling around

503
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Speaker 1: each market. City where those flying solo have the toughest

504
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Speaker 1: time finding a love match is Brownsville, Texas. But you're

505
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Speaker 1: the top ten cities for singles and Anta, Denver, San Francisco, Portland, Oregon,

506
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, Seattle, Chicago at number seven, San Diego, Minneapolis, Portland, Maine.

507
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: And said, well, that's what it says based on their research,

508
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 1: you have, they're the best time of finding love m Minneapolis,

509
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,439
Speaker 1: now Portland, Maine. There's nothing else to do there except

510
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Speaker 1: do it. It's cold, small you can you gotta get

511
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: out there and find a way to keep warm. Plus

512
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: in Maine. They're having a problem with people. They don't

513
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Speaker 1: have enough people. They remember last week it last week

514
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,160
Speaker 1: they were saying, they'll pay for your college debt if

515
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 1: you in tax credits, if you'll move there, because the

516
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:38,360
Speaker 1: average age is like forty four, and everyone's gonna die,

517
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,639
Speaker 1: and then Maine's gonna close making clothes. It's gonna close

518
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Speaker 1: unless people show up there. Get why they get blown off?

519
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,040
Speaker 1: We'll find out now in waiting by the phone with

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Speaker 1: Fred and Angie. How are you doing, Rich, I'm all right,

521
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: welcome to the show. Waiting by the phone. Let's hear

522
00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: about this day with Kenya. How you met and and

523
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: how the day went and all that stuff. What you had, Well,

524
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: it's pretty simple. I' we've met. We had a little

525
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 1: uh online Um there's an online dating app, but um

526
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: we corresponded for a little bit and we went out

527
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,959
Speaker 1: on its date. We had dinner and drinks. Pretty simple.

528
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: The conversation was right, It's so good. I felt like

529
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 1: it was a real connection with us. We already peeling

530
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 1: back layers on the first date, getting to know each

531
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: other really well. So in the second date, that was

532
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: confident to be like, you know, come by my place

533
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: i'll cook dinner. Wow, makes makes something even a little

534
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 1: bit more into it. So she came over and uh,

535
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: and I felt like that was great too. Um, it

536
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 1: just seemed to it seemed like we were going in

537
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 1: the right direction, and she just kind of ghosted me.

538
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: I received nothing. I wanted to get in touch with

539
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,400
Speaker 1: her for a third date. I just couldn't do it.

540
00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:52,120
Speaker 1: Texted her, called her a couple of times, left messages,

541
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,120
Speaker 1: just didn't respond. Okay, all right, so you've reached out

542
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,199
Speaker 1: to her, you've tried to see her again. She So

543
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: something happened on that second date and she's not responded,

544
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: And you want to know why. I can't imagine what

545
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: I can't imagine? Yeah, I have no idea. Okay, well,

546
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: let's see if we can straighten this out. We'll call

547
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 1: her and you'll be on the phone and we'll ask

548
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: some questions. I don't want you to say anything right

549
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: at first, but hopefully make it, figure out what's going on,

550
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 1: and set you guys up on another date that we

551
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: pay for. Okay, can you hang on for a second

552
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: part two, waiting by the phone. You've got to hear

553
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 1: what goes down. We'll do it in three minutes. On

554
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: Kiss we want you at our jingle bowl. It is

555
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 1: what about three weeks away and you'll be there free

556
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: tickets to the Capital One jingle Ball. Next on Fred Nancy,

557
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: it's Kiss. Hey Rich, Ye, welcome back. Let's called Kenya.

558
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 1: You guys man on a dating app. You went on

559
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: two days. Second day was at your house, you cooked

560
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: dinner and you thought everything went great, except now she's

561
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 1: ghosting you and you want to know what's up. All right,

562
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: we'll call her right now. Good luck, man, Thank you. Hello,

563
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: Hey Kenya. Yes, Hi is Fred Nancy calling from the

564
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 1: morning radio show I guess FM, and I'm sorry to bother,

565
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: but I have to tell you that we are on

566
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I need your permission to

567
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can we keep talking? Thank you

568
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: so much. Um. We're calling about a guy name Rich

569
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 1: that you met in a dating app and learn in

570
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: a couple of days with you remember this guy, So

571
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: you're laughing already at what happened, because you know he

572
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: reached out to us that he liked you, told us

573
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,040
Speaker 1: about your two days, second day, that his place cooked inner,

574
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: all this stuff. He thought everything was going really well,

575
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: and then he hasn't heard from you when he wants

576
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: to know why, Because I think these guys just a joke, right,

577
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: I can't take him sis, you can't take him serious. Why. Well,

578
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: when we went on the date, um, I thought everything

579
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: was cool. The first day was cool. When um he

580
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: invited me to his face, I thought that was kind

581
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 1: of like too soon, and I just thought operated, but

582
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: I went with it anyway. And when I got to

583
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 1: his face, he cursed in every thing. Um, the food

584
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: is great, But then things just went downhill, like just

585
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: went left. Okay, Well, I could you not. This guy

586
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 1: went into his room, came back out, and he was

587
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 1: a totally he was a totally different person, like he

588
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 1: just he literally turned into a different person, like he

589
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 1: was a magician. He was all the weird things and

590
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, no, what do you mean weird

591
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: things like magic tricks. Yes, like turned into I don't

592
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: even know, like he dressed up like he had a

593
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: Halloween costume stored away in his room or something, and

594
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: came out and started doing all these hand movements and

595
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: I don't even know, rabbit out of his hat. He

596
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: became the amazing rich Is that what happened? Pretty little? Well,

597
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that Rich, the amazing riches here,

598
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: amazing rich what happened? Well, God, such a such a

599
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: brutal way to flickering. So I was like, that was

600
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: a very vulnerable and like private side of me. If

601
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: I have a passion for magic and uh, and I

602
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: thought that the date was going really well, and I

603
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: thought it would be really nice to uh, to share

604
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: with or something. It's like if someone had a you know,

605
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 1: I had a song that they sang on guitar and

606
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: and you know, I started playing guitar and singing a

607
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: very vulnerable piece show with the amazing rich hold on.

608
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: So okay, and I hate to I'm sorry to give

609
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: you a hard time. So you enjoy magic, do you?

610
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: And you have like a you put on a suit

611
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 1: or something like what? And then what I had on tricks? Well,

612
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: I have this little thing I call myself fantar, the

613
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: fantastic fantastic Yeah, and I put on what's it's a

614
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: simple I have like a cloak and and I it's

615
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 1: just it's with a bunch of slight of hand, and

616
00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: I have like some red balls and then I, you know,

617
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: I just I had some basic tricks. It's really slight

618
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: of hand that I do you know with with with

619
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 1: coins and cards and people really get kicked out of it.

620
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 1: And I don't share it a lot because I'm not

621
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: like a suppressive. Did she um kennyan? Did you have

622
00:30:04,800 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: to call him fantar the fantar? Did you have to

623
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 1: call him vantire the fantastic? I was literally shook and

624
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: just rolled at the whole thing happening, like I just

625
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: didn't even know what to do. When he was done,

626
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: I just seried at him for a second. I had

627
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,959
Speaker 1: to like, no, are you say it like it is?

628
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: This is really happening right now. It's a joke, Like

629
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: was it good? Yeah? Where the tricks good? Honest? I

630
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: don't know what the car to be honest, did he try?

631
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: Did he try? No? Maybe she had hidden the salabi?

632
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: So what was he like? He was making balls like

633
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Speaker 1: come out of your ears and stuff? Or like what

634
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635
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636
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637
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639
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641
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643
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644
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645
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646
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648
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650
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651
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652
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653
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654
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655
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656
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657
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658
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663
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664
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668
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669
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683
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686
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Speaker 1: took this from Redditum. We have a big family. Every year,

687
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: the whole tribe comes to my house. Since I have

688
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: the most room and I make the best turkey, there

689
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: are usually upwards of thirty children at my house for

690
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: the event. My sister has gone down the YouTube rabbit

691
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: hole and is now an avid anti vaxxer. Last year,

692
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: she's spent the entire day of A rating any of

693
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: us who vaccinated our children. All of us do that

694
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: except for her. Between then and now, she's announced to

695
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: be a Facebook that she's stopped vaccinating her kids. I

696
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: don't feel right putting my children at risk, and the

697
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: rest of the kids at the dinner for that matter,

698
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,680
Speaker 1: so I told her that she's not invited to our

699
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: house unless she showed me up to date to nation

700
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: records for her kids, ninety percent of the family's okay

701
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: with this. There are a couple of people who don't

702
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: think it's that big of a deal. They tell me,

703
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm overreacting. I should just let her bring the kids

704
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: and not break up the family over something silly. But

705
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm not budging. If those people want to have her

706
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 1: at their Thanksgiving dinner, then they can have their own

707
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 1: dinner somewhere else without me. But she's not coming to

708
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 1: my house with unvaccinated kids. Am I the ahole for

709
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 1: putting my foot down and refusing to budge. I'm not

710
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,799
Speaker 1: necessarily trying to get into like an anti vaccine conversation

711
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: about this, But what I am wondering about is, and

712
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: this is the question Thanksgiving a few days away, Thanksgiving

713
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: at my house or Thanksgiving in general, would be better

714
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 1: if we could uninvite who is the person? Thanksgiving at

715
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: my house would be better if we could uninvite so

716
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: and so, Because in this case, she's saying, Hey, I

717
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 1: don't want these kids around other kids if they're not

718
00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: up to the same health standard that I believe in

719
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 1: her kids are vaccinated, it shouldn't really matter then, right,

720
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 1: I mean, because they can't if they're kids are fine.

721
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: Theory I don't know. Yeah, yeah, I suppose. I mean

722
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 1: it sounds like she's just putting her foot down. It's

723
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: her house, though, I mean she does have I mean,

724
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: it's just because your family doesn't mean that you get

725
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: to come in my home whenever you want. I suppose

726
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 1: if I have standards in my house, then the answers

727
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: is whatever I decide, right Ryan, I mean, it's your house.

728
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: But at the same time, like, I don't know if

729
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: she wants to start that whole fight. You know, for Thanksgiving,

730
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 1: we actually moved Thanksgiving, and I can say this sound

731
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: that my grandparents are in having rip. We actually moved

732
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving like twenty years ago to a foreign country so

733
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 1: that we didn't have to deal with certain one particular

734
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: member of the family. And my grandparents were like, well, no,

735
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: she has to or he or she has to attend,

736
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: and so we're like, there's no problem. We're gonna have

737
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: her own Thanksgiving somewhere really really far away. Did that

738
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:52,959
Speaker 1: twenty years ago, and we've done it every year since.

739
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,720
Speaker 1: You never celebrated Thanksgiving me your grandparents. It's been twenty years.

740
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: It had been twenty years now. Christmas wasn't negotiable. Christmas

741
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: was only goes. We just had to deal with it

742
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: and suck it up. But um, for Thanksgiving, my mom

743
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: decided I'm not gonna be forced to have because because

744
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: there was sort of a forced hand on it too,

745
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 1: my grandparents saying that they, you know, you have to

746
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: invite these people for Thanksgiving in your home, like, and

747
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 1: my mom got tired of being told who had to

748
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: be in her house. Yeah, um, and so she just said,

749
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 1: we're just not doing it. What did that person too

750
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: that made you guys go to another country for twenty years? Wow,

751
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving would be better if we could uninvite this person, Victor.

752
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: Who is it? Actually, I'm the complete opposite of that.

753
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 1: I would I would just feel weird without having my

754
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: family there with me, um, because you know, for the

755
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,919
Speaker 1: past I'm twenty eight, so you know the past twenty

756
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 1: eight plays years. Um, I always been with my family

757
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,239
Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving, Christmas and years all of that. So there

758
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 1: was just steel a out of place for me that

759
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 1: I had. Anybody, Wait, wait with that, Yeah, but you're

760
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 1: missing the point. I want to hear about that one family,

761
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: to hear about the one long Victor. I want to

762
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: hear about the one person in your family. You're like,

763
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 1: come on, like they don't have to come. I guess

764
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: if I had to choose one person, is that uncle

765
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: that had always end up drunk drunk, the drunk uncle

766
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 1: is uninvited that always makes you sit on his laugh.

767
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: It's like, wait, that was that was just in your house?

768
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 1: Actually yeah, that's the thing, Like it's just me not

769
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 1: really like us like family. Oh you yeah, yeah yeah,

770
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: the one that your parents made you call he's uncle,

771
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 1: but like he's not, he's not really an uncle. Yeah yeah,

772
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: thank you. Like ten of those uncles like just dost

773
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: my uncle. I'm pretty could relate, you know, being my

774
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: thinking you're gonna have that one family or that you're

775
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: calling uncle but not really family. Yeah. Well I'm eas

776
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: in European too. I've noticed everyone's your cousin. Yep. Oh yeah,

777
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 1: I'm all white and I can relate to that so same.

778
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think it's an ethnic thing.

779
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: But thank you, Victor, have a good day. Lead you call.

780
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: Let me see here, Patty, Hey, hi, Patty. Timmy's gonna

781
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 1: be so much better when we uninvite my monster in law.

782
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: Lock with that? What's the deal with there? What's the backstory, Well,

783
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: there's a lot of backstory decides the fact. When she

784
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: comes over. She absolutely does not think she starts. He served,

785
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: and I don't mind doing that, but um, she kind

786
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: of blew it this year because she did come to

787
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: my son's graduation from my school and yeah, it kind

788
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: of stinks. And then she's not involved in any of

789
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: my kid's life. So we lived one mile from each other.

790
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, you got a serve her when she

791
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: comes over, Like, yeah, no, yeah, absolutely serve her. Take

792
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: the plate away, put it down. I'm like, uh, what

793
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 1: country are you from? What day and age are we

794
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: inw does your husband have to say about this? If

795
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: it's his mom, He's on my side. He's like yeah,

796
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: So like it's better off she stays home because she

797
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: always kind of ruins the moment. Oh so gona handle that, then, yeah,

798
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: I will. She put down. I put my foot on

799
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 1: on the monstro alaw. Yeah, thank you, Patty, have a

800
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 1: good day. We could just do what we didn't and

801
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: relocate the whole thing to another country. Um hey, Bud, yeah, man,

802
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving would be so much better if you uninvited my cousin.

803
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,839
Speaker 1: How many do you have? I have like three that

804
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: are just like the mass of the family. They're they're

805
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 1: as drama, they're always their kids are are crazy like

806
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: they just they're just off the chain, you know, So

807
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 1: you don't invite them. Thanks, Bud, have a good one,

808
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 1: all right. Yeah, they're gone, Annie, Yeah, father in laws out.

809
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: Why what did he do? I hear incredibly racist and

810
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 1: that's just the horrible things all the time. And we

811
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: kind of put up with it before we had kids,

812
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: but now we have a two and a half year

813
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 1: old but picks up on things. I just it drives

814
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 1: me nuts for things that he says. I just can't

815
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,000
Speaker 1: bite my tongue. Yeah. I had a member of our

816
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: family who and this was in the nineties, and he

817
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: was very old and he said very antiquated, inappropriate things.

818
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: But I was old enough to know that that's what

819
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 1: he said and to know that that was the way

820
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: he felt and not the right thing to say. But

821
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 1: a two and a half year old doesn't know that, right,

822
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: And so two and a half year old goes and

823
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: repeat some of those things, and you had a real

824
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 1: problem exactly exactly. But there's no talking to him. I mean,

825
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: there's no rationalizing with him, because oh, I'll just learn

826
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: with age and wisdom that you right, boy, oh boy,

827
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: all right, father laws out. Okay, have a good day.

828
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,439
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling, Pries. No one has called and said

829
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 1: I'm the person that nobody Hey Cassie, Hey, good morning guys.

830
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: Hi Cassie, good morning. So Thanksgiving would be so much

831
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: better if you could uninvite my sister. Oh your sister?

832
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 1: What happened? My sister, She's just a hot must so

833
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 1: we always get into it, Like two um Thanksgivings ago,

834
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: we got in. It wasn't like a bad physical altercation,

835
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: but she was just in one of those moods and

836
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't having it, and we didn't celebrate Thanksgiving for

837
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:27,359
Speaker 1: three years together. Wow. Yeah, because you threw the green

838
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: bean casserole in her face? Is that why I wish?

839
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: I wish piss it big you too, deal with your

840
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: drama without screw with our green bean casserole. Man, it's

841
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 1: the best part of Thanksgiving my family. Now. One of

842
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: my cousins is always laughing about it, like that's so funny.

843
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: We need to come over again for Thanksgiving. I'm like, uh,

844
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: what's funny that you two headed out w E style

845
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,359
Speaker 1: and like threw each other over the dining room table. Oh.

846
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 1: I love it when other people are like have issues

847
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,919
Speaker 1: and I just sit back and watch, like, let's see

848
00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: how this all plays out. Holidays, just drestful enough. Thank you, Cassie,

849
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: have a good day. Right five kiss am, Chicago's number

850
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: one hit music station. It's Fred and Angie. Have you

851
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: ever slept through something super important? Because apparently Paulina take No,

852
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,839
Speaker 1: were you supposed to like get close? Were you gonna

853
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: get close to Michelle Obama? Were you like, are you

854
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 1: just attending? Were you doing some kind of interview like

855
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,839
Speaker 1: taking pictures? No? I wasn't interviewing Michelle Obama. I don't

856
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 1: think i'd oversleep for them. I just completely like, I don't.

857
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: Don't give me attitude. No, No, don't going for them, don't. Okay,

858
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: so you'd be oversleep you oversleep to attend it? Yeah,

859
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: because okay, I was here attitude. I was actually texting

860
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 1: you before I knocked out. I'm like, I'm half asleep.

861
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 1: I'm reading my messages and I'm like, I have a

862
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: question for Friday Fall. I'm laying down my phone, no alarm, nothing,

863
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,920
Speaker 1: I closed my eyes and I just like, no, You're

864
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: like I'm just gonna rest my eyelids for a second.

865
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,399
Speaker 1: This is one my mom used to say. And then

866
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: three hours later she's still sleeping. Okay, So you were

867
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 1: just going to attend this event, yes, um, the event

868
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: when the people were trying to get tickets for him

869
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: paying thousands, and you slept through it. But you, you see,

870
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: slept it a whole thing. Did you wake up at

871
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: some point and go like it's too late or did

872
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: you just literally I woke up at eight thirty and

873
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: one time that it starts seven, No, eight eight, its

874
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: like by the time to make it right, maybe like wash,

875
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: wash up, a little, wash your what up? She specified

876
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: you go to wash my ass, wash, wash your parts

877
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: before you get attend. I thought your Thanksgiving once, what

878
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: like years ago when I was like in my early twenties.

879
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 1: But you know, the night before Thanksgiving is always like

880
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: the biggest bar night of the year, and so I

881
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: was so hung over, supposed to be at my mom's

882
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 1: house at a certain time. I slept through dinner, woke up,

883
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 1: was so sick, I was like throwing up. Finally pulled

884
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: it together. I made it for like dessert, but she

885
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: was so mad at me, and I had no other excuse.

886
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: I was just like, I was just sick, and she's like,

887
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: I can smell the booze on you. After an entire

888
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: bachelor party a couple of years ago, I spent to

889
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: my own bachelor rot. Yeah, and I went to Nashville,

890
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: and the first hour I got so hammered that I

891
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 1: left the bachelor party and I went. I got in

892
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,879
Speaker 1: a cab and I told the cab driver to take

893
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: me to my hotel, and he said, well, that's five

894
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: Which hotel is it? I said, at any hotel. I

895
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: had already checked into a hotel, but I couldn't remember.

896
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't remember, so he took me to another hotel.

897
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: I proceeded to check into that hotel and then I

898
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: lay there for about an hour before determining it that

899
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: was not in fact my hotel room. So then I

900
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: remembered where I stayed. This is, by the way, this

901
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:38,040
Speaker 1: is like six pm, you know, because it started Friday

902
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,280
Speaker 1: three pm. By six pm, I'm checked into another hotel.

903
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: So then I wound up in my hotel. Next thing

904
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: I know, I wake up at five am the next day,

905
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: and my fight left like four hours later, or I

906
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 1: had to leave and so I missed the entire thing.

907
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: It was a one night trip for me, it was

908
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: it was a weekend deal, but like we, I had

909
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: to be back to work. So so I literally missed

910
00:44:58,040 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: the entire thing. And I wake up to about a

911
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: hund text match. People thought I was dead. They're like,

912
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 1: where are you? What happened to your room? No? I

913
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: mean I wouldn't answer the fin I was completely passed out.

914
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: How much crap do you get from your friends for that, um,

915
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: you know a little. But there there were a lot

916
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: of them. There was a big it was a big

917
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: bachelor party. They were fine. I did that at my

918
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: own bachelor atte party. I'm the bachelorette in Vegas and

919
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: we day party. You know how Vegas is your day

920
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:25,320
Speaker 1: party all day. So I'm like, okay, hammered at three o'clock,

921
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,919
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna just gonna take a nap, get

922
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: back up at eight or whatever, get glammed. Nope, slept

923
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,799
Speaker 1: right through it. Everybody else went out. I just they

924
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: were trying to wake me up and I'm like, just go,

925
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm too tired. So everybody went out without me. Diana, Hi, Hey,

926
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: how's it going? Hi? What did you sleep through. It

927
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: was important. You were supposed to be there. You slept

928
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: through it. Yeah. I hosted a wine tasting party at

929
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: my house and I got so trashed, but I slept

930
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: through it. I felt sleepid about six o'clock and I

931
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: said that had to host all my friends for the

932
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: rest of the night. It's the day drinking. The day

933
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: drinking will get at you and screw up your you

934
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: with me. The next thing a bunch of women and him,

935
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, uh huh, that doesn't sound bad. Something's married.

936
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Diana, have a good day. I'm glad you called. Um.

937
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: Love you so you slept through this important event. You're

938
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: supposed to be awake. You're supposed to be there. Maybe

939
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: it wasn't because you were hammered. It seems like a

940
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:30,839
Speaker 1: few of ours are because of that. One three five

941
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Speaker 1: kis FM, Chicago's number one hit music station. Fred Nancy

942
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: are on, Hey, Chris, good morning? How are you? Hey?

943
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 1: Good morning? How are you welcome to Fred Nancy? You

944
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: are you slept through this my twenty first birthday? How

945
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: did you do that? Well? I turned twenty one. My brother,

946
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: my sister, about one of my friends from my home

947
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: park and a bunch of my friends at college. We

948
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 1: got together and a bottle light five or six o'clock

949
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: um at nine of your brain being party and I

950
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 1: mixed like mixed dream shots and beer together, ended up

951
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: bowing up and then just passed out. And that was it.

952
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: That was it for your twenty first PRIs man. I

953
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: was like, one of twenty first birthday should be. I

954
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: think happine been drinking two incapacitation. I'm not promoting that.

955
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: I mean you just starting like, oh, not in them.

956
00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: The next day, you know, you're just burning like yeah, yeah, yeah,

957
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:33,919
Speaker 1: what are you drinking later? I mean, thank you, Chris,

958
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,399
Speaker 1: have a good day. You're glad you called. Wow, you're

959
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: not going to consult the position with hate B. Is

960
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 1: that your name be? Your name is B. No, it's

961
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: for something else, Like sure for something else. Are you

962
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: in prison? This is our prison line, by the way,

963
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: because it sounds like you're on the prison. Pay for it.

964
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: Sounds like you're calling from the prison that Stephen Avery

965
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 1: is in UM. When did you sleep through oh my

966
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: little prisons Union. I went up the night before and

967
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:03,240
Speaker 1: that friend Talicated was moving with my mom at the time,

968
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 1: and she didn't wake me up. For it. This turned

969
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,880
Speaker 1: into our craziest hangovers. But I mean the reason that

970
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: everybody didn't show for something because they were drinking because

971
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: they were just tired, is the only one that wasn't happened? Yeah,

972
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: so you missed confirmation, so it didn't just they said

973
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: forget it, don't even go wake me up, or they

974
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: just forgot about you or what? Yeah, I was going

975
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: to be the godmother and my mom wait minutes? Or

976
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: did you then get skipped over as godmother? So you're

977
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: not not the godmother because you were drinking too much? Exactly?

978
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: So I want to apologize popfly, I spoke don't profat

979
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: about it, hangover at who became? Who became the godmother? Then?

980
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: Like just one of my other parts. Hey, you you

981
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: intended come here? Come here? Yeah, what are your stake

982
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: in your out here? Say these words? Okay? Oh wow,

983
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: have a good tab. Wow. That's a that's worse than

984
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 1: missing Michelle Obama, Pauli? And is it not being able

985
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: to be the godmother because you were drinking too much? Hey?

986
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: Is it hot? Is it hadada? Hey? Good morning? How

987
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: are you very well? You slept through this? Yeah, I

988
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 1: slept through a meeting with the vice president of our company.

989
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 1: And this was the first time I had ever had

990
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: a hadia WEPM. And it was at eight am, and

991
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 1: I looked up at a solid N thirty only because

992
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 1: my boyfriend had called me, And if he had not,

993
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: I probably would have sucked there like the entire day.

994
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: So what did you how did you get out of that? Like?

995
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: What did you say to this person? Uh? You know,

996
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 1: because I seen him around like all the time. I

997
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: was just honest with him and I was like, I

998
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: am so sorry I tolt me over slap, and he

999
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: was just he gave me a very disappointing look. And

1000
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: then we re schedules, are waiting for later that day,

1001
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 1: and then he perfectly set meet up. Oh wow, how

1002
00:49:56,960 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: do I get you back? Funny egg? I mean, it's good,

1003
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 1: good that you were honest. I guess I wonder if

1004
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: I would be I wonder if i'd tell my boss

1005
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: I overslept. I think I would probably come up with

1006
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: something else. But you're a better person than I am.

1007
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: Apparently you know, I'm actually a really bad liar. I

1008
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,799
Speaker 1: would have been caught. I feel like I just got

1009
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: way so nervous lying you did. Yeah, yeah, I was like, whatever,

1010
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:25,719
Speaker 1: it's just sleeping. Yeah, it's it's true. Yeah, I mean

1011
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: not not normally during a meeting with the company vice president,

1012
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: or when Michelle Obama's in town and you have tickets

1013
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: in there were limited and somebody else kind very lame

1014
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: for him to retaliate that way and stand you up

1015
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,719
Speaker 1: like it's so stupid. Thank you so much, have a

1016
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: good day. Glad you call. Hey Marty, Hi, how are

1017
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 1: you hi? What did you sleep through my high school graduation?

1018
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 1: Slept through your high school graduation? How did this happen

1019
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:53,759
Speaker 1: two years in the making. No, No one in your

1020
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: family was like, we have to attend this thing for

1021
00:50:55,680 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 1: form Marty, where is she? No one well that I

1022
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:02,400
Speaker 1: was the youngest of four, so they were kind of

1023
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,319
Speaker 1: happy not to have to sit through another one. I guess,

1024
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, things can be well, you're like, I'm

1025
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna take a little nap and then you wake up

1026
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: and the thing's over. No. Tell you had a Saturday

1027
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: morning graduation and we had a house party the night before.

1028
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 1: I see, there's basically nobody got up and it was whatever.

1029
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: So what'd you do, like gore out of the school

1030
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 1: later and get your diploma? No? I just returned the

1031
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,920
Speaker 1: cab and gone like two weeks later. Did you ever

1032
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: get a diploma? Like? Did they ever get you? Jim

1033
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:31,719
Speaker 1: came into mail. All right, thank you, Marty, have a

1034
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 1: great day. Glad you call. Hey Rachel? Yes, hi, Hi.

1035
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 1: Sometimes you sleep through work, all of it and you

1036
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: still have this job. Not all of it. But um,

1037
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 1: I have some pretty narcoleptic tendencies. So I used to

1038
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: fall asleep when when of my old jobs used to

1039
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: be a dusk job, which was a very bad idea

1040
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,839
Speaker 1: for me, because I would start to fall asleep and

1041
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: then I would wake up standing halfway across my office.

1042
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: I'd come back to my desk and my papers would

1043
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: be like stapled by times, and I wouldn't be trying

1044
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 1: to write stuff down. It would be scribbled across the

1045
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: page onto my desk. Oh my gosh. Wow. So you

1046
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: just fall asleep on command? Yeah? Yeah, sometimes that's wild scary. Yeah,

1047
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 1: I know. Do you ever like worry that you might

1048
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 1: fall asleep driving or doing something in time? I have, actually,

1049
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: but the doult of like slightly going off the road

1050
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: wakes me up. So I've never gotten scared. You better

1051
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:25,760
Speaker 1: go to the doctor. It's got something ARCILEPSI or something.

1052
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what you said. Yeah, thank you, Rachel, have

1053
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: a good day. My best friend slept through. Do you

1054
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,319
Speaker 1: guys have like probation here? We have to call for

1055
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: a color or a number probation like if you're on

1056
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: if you get like an m I P or get

1057
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: in trouble when you're drinking. Do you don't know? I've

1058
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: never broken the law, Yes, a lot, like college students

1059
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: get done. So if you get probabid, how does it work?

1060
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: I really don't know because in probation you literally for

1061
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: drugs or alcohol. You have to call and you have

1062
00:52:52,239 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: a color, and if your color is called or whatever,

1063
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 1: you have to go down to go and you have

1064
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: to pee, okay, And she would sleep through it all

1065
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: the time, and so obviously they assumed that she was

1066
00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 1: messing out right, and so she kept getting more and

1067
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:06,040
Speaker 1: more and more time as she was. Yeah, just because

1068
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,120
Speaker 1: she was sleeping through it. That's because it's like what

1069
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: else she's that showing up because she won't pass the

1070
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: task and brilliants, she was asleep, Louise ye, Hey, why'd

1071
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: you sleep through? So this is a funny story, but

1072
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: with a good ending. I slept through my championship game

1073
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:26,359
Speaker 1: for baseball. Oh my god, how's that happened? Uh? Yeah,

1074
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 1: and I was not drunk. So yeah, you're the first

1075
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: four and I before my family was expecting up you know,

1076
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: big news by uh mister laws. So now she was

1077
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: finally pregnant after a year try. So we're all, you know, waiting.

1078
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 1: It's about two thirty in the morning when she finally

1079
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 1: text us to say, hey, you know what yet where

1080
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: we're on? And we were so happy. I went to

1081
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 1: sleep around maybe four five. They gave me an eight o'clock,

1082
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 1: so believe me, believe me. I slept through twenty five calls,

1083
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 1: about forty five text messages, and my phone was the

1084
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 1: springing crazily. So I'm the starting pitcher. I um rushed

1085
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,800
Speaker 1: into the field. If you're not something about bait, but

1086
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: you know that there's no plot on it. So thankfully

1087
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: I was able to get there by the eighth inning.

1088
00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh no, you can God gave me

1089
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: three two. We're up by one. Coach looked at me

1090
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 1: with the biggest disappointed face, but with an evil eye like,

1091
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: uh yeah, he's still gonna have to pish. I was

1092
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: able to actually close the game we wanted, but this

1093
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: is how they got me back. So when they were

1094
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 1: celebrating and then everybody gonna troll business down, they told

1095
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: me seven o'clock PM, Well guess what was eight at

1096
00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: eight Thirty's hilarious, man, eight forty five. So they give

1097
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 1: her slipping out. The story was this in high school?

1098
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,479
Speaker 1: To you do? This was this high school? Yeah, because

1099
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 1: I was gonna, well if I showed up, if I

1100
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: had shown up late for again, kids did it? They

1101
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 1: show late? When I was playing high school basketball, the

1102
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: coach would have benched them. They wouldn't let him play.

1103
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 1: But I guess in this case, you were good at that.

1104
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: They were like, so what this one? Yeah? I guess, yeah,

1105
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: thank you, Louise, have a good day. They're glad you called.

1106
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: Let's go back. We'll do a good news Well to

1107
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: turn out to be a good story, I guess at

1108
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,799
Speaker 1: least they what if they had lost and then all

1109
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,879
Speaker 1: those people are pissed In one or three five kiss

1110
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 1: off from Chicago's number one hit music station. It's Fred

1111
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: and Angie. Um, so this is new information today, which

1112
00:55:27,080 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: is sort of not something I want to think about.

1113
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 1: But kids tend to have the same number of romantic

1114
00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: partners that their mother had. Oh God. Researchers looked at

1115
00:55:36,200 --> 00:55:38,920
Speaker 1: more than seven thousand mothers and their biological children in

1116
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: the US since nineteen seventy nine. They found a correlation

1117
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: between the numbers of partners a mother had and her child.

1118
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,760
Speaker 1: Researcher say it's most likely the mother's past relationship skills

1119
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: to their kids, which influence how they interact with everyone,

1120
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: including romantic partners. Do you have any concept of the

1121
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 1: number of romantic partners that your mother has had, because

1122
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't want to. Kind of my

1123
00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: mom is like a queen of long term relationships, so

1124
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: I've seen her in three marriages, but I mean, like

1125
00:56:06,520 --> 00:56:08,080
Speaker 1: from before you were born, Like, do you have any

1126
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 1: real idea. I think she was a virgin when she

1127
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 1: met my dad, says she says. So I don't know

1128
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 1: that she's had a ton. She's just had um more

1129
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,160
Speaker 1: marriages than probably she's thank you know, Klin, I could

1130
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: figure it out because I know, like my dad and

1131
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: her guy divorce when I was one and a half,

1132
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,720
Speaker 1: so I remember like all the dudes I met throughout

1133
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: my life before my stepdad, but it would have been

1134
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,960
Speaker 1: the high school or like, you know, whenever that story school,

1135
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: she wasn't she was playing with Barbie still she was eighteen.

1136
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 1: But then college she came back. You know, she's got

1137
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:48,239
Speaker 1: a little bigger and I think that's probably when she

1138
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: she got in the game. Yeah. I have the biggest crush,

1139
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: unbelievable crush on Oh my god, she's so pretty unbelievable. Yeah,

1140
00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. I well, I don't mean to make

1141
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 1: you feel I mean, that's just I'm saying. She's a

1142
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 1: very pretty lady, pretty Paula. Do you have any idea?

1143
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,919
Speaker 1: You have any idea? Yeah, So I've asked my mom before,

1144
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,799
Speaker 1: because I will asked your love. Yeah, I asked your

1145
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,399
Speaker 1: mom how many people she slept with? I asked Martha

1146
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 1: allny people she's been I didn't say slept with. When

1147
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: I asked, I was nervous, obviously it's a little bit appropriate,

1148
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: but I was like, how many men have you, like,

1149
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: you know, just dated or like what was that like

1150
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: for you? And even her sister's confirmed my mom was

1151
00:57:24,360 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: like that hot chick that like every guy wanted, which

1152
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 1: is like so opposite of me. And I'm like, that's funny.

1153
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: Don't say that. I mean like my mom was like,

1154
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: right now, we all check her mom and ask, yes,

1155
00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 1: that's not going to happen. Let's eyes my mom got answer.

1156
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: My mom would answer the question. Let's I don't want

1157
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: to know my mom's talk to me about like her

1158
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: sexual escapades, but like she hasn't talk to me about

1159
00:57:49,680 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: her number. Let's no, no, no, my dad messes with

1160
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: me about sleeping with my mom. Like my dad will

1161
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: make jokes every now and again about having sex to

1162
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: this day. And I'm like, I'm happy if they're having sex,

1163
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: But that's my mother that you're talking about. I'm so

1164
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: glad that they still do, that they still love each

1165
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: other and that they you know, they still do that

1166
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,000
Speaker 1: sort of thing. But I don't need to know about it.

1167
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: Would you have any idea, rufio about I would not

1168
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 1: even want to ask my mom, no problem, no way,

1169
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: because my parents had been married forever, Like it's just that,

1170
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: it's just that it was just my dad, that's it.

1171
00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think it's still going on

1172
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:23,680
Speaker 1: in the uf I don't even want to know, Fred why.

1173
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 1: I know you would want them to have a healthy sex.

1174
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: Lie you should shake it up a little bit, and

1175
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:31,960
Speaker 1: they like hay off a little bit. Do you remember

1176
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 1: all those guys that like wanted you when you were

1177
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: twenty just like see your dad says at the same time.

1178
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 1: And that was another thing. My grandparents. I can talk

1179
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 1: about them umpily now because rip, they're in heaven. But um,

1180
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: you know, the assumption was my mom was my grandmother

1181
00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: was a devout cath like my grandfather was not. But

1182
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: I think the assumption was that they were each other's

1183
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 1: only But I don't know because my grandfather was a

1184
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: military wasn't here the military model and he was in

1185
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: a touring band. Oh come on, played he played the

1186
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: trumpet in a legitimate, high level jazz band with like asked,

1187
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: thinks were full a lot of the times. Fred, Hey,

1188
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 1: somebody else's work I have. I never asked him that

1189
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: question because I don't I don't really want to know,

1190
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: but like I have to. And he was a good

1191
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: looking guy too, so I have to assume that maybe

1192
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: he had some experience before. Nana talks about it. Oh

1193
00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: my god, really, yeah, like details about her and my grandfather,

1194
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: Like it's messed up. Really, I'll never be the same.

1195
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: Was she with anybody else? He says, No, she hasn't,

1196
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 1: but I know, like, yeah, they started dating when they're

1197
00:59:41,720 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: real young, small town in Pennsylvania. But I mean, I know,

1198
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: like details, he's now been with someone else, but he's

1199
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 1: the only guy she's been with. Didn't. She said she'll

1200
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: never love again. It's really sad. She post up. No,

1201
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: she sit down all the time by younger guys. But

1202
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,439
Speaker 1: I know, like they're sex like details, and that makes

1203
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 1: me very up. Do your grandmother. I do not have

1204
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: a crush in your grandmother. I have loved her, I

1205
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,160
Speaker 1: have google. I love your grandmother. I want her to

1206
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 1: be mine. She is my grandmother now I don't have

1207
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 1: one anymore. I told you that though, when you were

1208
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: sitting there, I said, we please be my nana now

1209
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: because I don't have one anymore, said she would be

1210
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: said yes, yea. Um, but she's she's an amazing woman.

1211
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 1: She has I can tell that in her day she

1212
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 1: had a thing that's still very inappropriate. Um hey Allison,

1213
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 1: wait a minute, So um this whole thing comes up

1214
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 1: because an expert says that, um or this this research today,

1215
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: I guess as the kids tend to have the same

1216
01:00:37,440 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 1: number of romantic partners that their mother had, what do

1217
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:43,480
Speaker 1: you know about your parents. Um, so they were a

1218
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 1: product of the sixties and um they were swingers. So

1219
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 1: they definitely had like their little escapades within the marriage.

1220
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't think they did it like outside the marriage,

1221
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 1: but my sister caught them one time. She's a little

1222
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: bit older than Oh. They were about that hippie life totally,

1223
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: and they m yeah, they hung out with these people.

1224
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: I remember, how says little but I remember them being

1225
01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: my best friends with this couple, and yeah, they would

1226
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: they would totally get it on. And then my dad,

1227
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: as I got older outside of college, he would make

1228
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 1: reference to this sweet black lady that they used to

1229
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: invite into the Oh my god, now we're both screwed up.

1230
01:01:27,600 --> 01:01:32,320
Speaker 1: So yeah, wow, I know for sure my daughter's screwed

1231
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,200
Speaker 1: if that like, I'm worried now that you threw up,

1232
01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, I should really I don't know your daughter.

1233
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 1: She's nine, okay, so yeah, I got some time to

1234
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:49,240
Speaker 1: like screwed her up. Right. Well, if they have the same,

1235
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: I have to go back in time and erase some

1236
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: things to light how much how much of your past

1237
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: would you share with her when she's of age to

1238
01:01:56,920 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: if she ever asked you those questions. Oh, it would

1239
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:02,680
Speaker 1: have to be like a thirties. When my daughter's of age,

1240
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:06,800
Speaker 1: I'll share everything. You tell her everything. Yeah, oh my god,

1241
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: there's still a chance for her to horror then, Like

1242
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't know. I don't. If I ever

1243
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 1: have a daughter, I she she's screwed because of my indiscretions.

1244
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 1: My daughter is in trouble because of what I did

1245
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,920
Speaker 1: and the misery that I brought to other people's fathers.

1246
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: So that's why I'm gonna she'll be in trouble because

1247
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 1: I'll just assume every little boy was like I was.

1248
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 1: And secondarily, I know that I'm going to get what's

1249
01:02:35,120 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 1: coming to me because it's no I tell you right now,

1250
01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:38,680
Speaker 1: mark my words. If I ever get married and have

1251
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 1: a child, mark my words, we don't even need to

1252
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 1: do a gender examination testing, it will be a girl.

1253
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:48,160
Speaker 1: It will be There is no way that I will

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Speaker 1: get off I have a boy. Come back. Thank you, Allison,

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01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: I love you every good day. I love you too.

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Speaker 1: U No way, Olivia? Hi, good name? Hi? So what

1257
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: do you know about your You know about your parents

1258
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: sexual repertoire, It's like super freaky. So my mom only

1259
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: had one partner when she was like in her like

1260
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: late seen for like sixteen seventeen, um, and then that ended.

1261
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: She got set up on a blind date with my

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01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: dad when she was twenty. She got married when she

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Speaker 1: was twenty four, and then had me at twenty five. Okay,

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01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: and I so far had one partner at the age

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Speaker 1: of eighteen. I'm twenty three right now. Um, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: marry him. Wow, So you guys are living in parallel.

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Speaker 1: It's very freaky. Like I think about it, and I'm like, uh,

1268
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 1: this kind of grows like I don't like that. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Might not end up that way. You're still you know,

1270
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 1: you're young, You're just starting your sexual career. Thank you, Olivia,

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you too. I don't think

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Speaker 1: my mom was that much of a hookie. I think, um,

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01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 1: I think my dad was. I know my dad was.

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01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 1: My dad still is my father. My dad. My dad

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01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: is married to my mom's dada. But he was a

1276
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: bad boy Hill and Hill admit he had a very

1277
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 1: nice time in the seventies and eighties, in the sixtiats

1278
01:04:09,960 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: for that matter, So maybe that's where I got it from.

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Speaker 1: I'm just Heather, but I don't even know how you

1280
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: have that conversation. I don't want to have that conversation. Hey, Heather, Hi, Hi, Hi.

1281
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Speaker 1: My grandmother is ninety three and a couple of years

1282
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,080
Speaker 1: ago Step, my husband and I ask to dinner told

1283
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Speaker 1: us that seems to have screening for the neighborhood of

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01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: eight girl at her house. Back in the day, people

1285
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: used to do that. They I was watching some documentary

1286
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Speaker 1: EI the other day where they were talking about how

1287
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Speaker 1: Jackie Oh had a screening of that movie at the

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01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:48,919
Speaker 1: White House for people. Wow, yeah, yeah, Grandpa, get it. Guys.

1289
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Speaker 1: They were they were the most popular people in the neighborhood.

1290
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Speaker 1: Thank you, Heather alright one of three five kiss AM,

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Speaker 1: who listen to us. Or if you know somebody else

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Speaker 1: who could use some help for the holidays, um, then

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Speaker 1: you can nominate them at one h three five kiss

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Speaker 1: It can be about you, It could be about someone

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Speaker 1: that you love, someone you know they could use a

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Speaker 1: little extra assistance for the holidays, whether it's some gifts

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Speaker 1: or some decorations, or maybe an airline ticket or something

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Speaker 1: like that, just a little little something extra for the holidays.

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Speaker 1: One or three five kiss FM dot com. And the

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Speaker 1: keyword is wish to do that. But I read something

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Speaker 1: in Cosmo this morning and I wanted to get how

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Speaker 1: to deliver a kiss that kills. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: they do a lot Cosmo on Twitter. They post a

1310
01:05:59,200 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 1: lot of very great graphic um drawings. I like super

1311
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:07,400
Speaker 1: graphic drawings of sex. But who would I would love

1312
01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 1: to meet the person at Cosmo whose job it is

1313
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,680
Speaker 1: to They all get together in New York and some

1314
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:16,440
Speaker 1: conference room and up, okay, I have this new position

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Speaker 1: and the heads here and the theater here, and then

1316
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 1: and I need you to draw that up okay. And

1317
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,360
Speaker 1: then some graphic designer who like went it n yu

1318
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: and and had the best intentions can't get a media job.

1319
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:29,320
Speaker 1: So they're working at Cosmos and they gotta go in

1320
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Speaker 1: their little room because no, I don't tell that you're

1321
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: not that kind of girl. I look it up right now,

1322
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:51,439
Speaker 1: look it up picture. Yes, I know, so I didn't.

1323
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 1: Very talented graphic designer who intended to like work on

1324
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, nonprofit to save the world or whatever

1325
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:06,240
Speaker 1: is having to make dirty Sanchez video, Cincinnati, Boa, Exactly.

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Speaker 1: Congress of the Calipho. It's like, exactly. I mean, let's

1327
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Speaker 1: just go to work every day and be like fine

1328
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 1: like that kind of stuff. No, it feels like it's

1329
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:19,960
Speaker 1: in an injury waiting that happen. This is how sex

1330
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: will lands you in the e are okay, well, this

1331
01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 1: is where I'm going with this, Believe it or not.

1332
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: There's a way are you going now that we're talking

1333
01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 1: about Will Chamberlain, M How did we get to Will

1334
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: Chamberlain like sleeping with so many people? I don't know

1335
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: is not impressed by that. If you met a man

1336
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: and never mind this with you, it's I never know

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01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: what you're gonna say, like bragging? Cool? Oh yeah, he

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01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 1: had a book said he said, I've been with a

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Speaker 1: thousand women. You would be you would be learing to

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Speaker 1: get with them. I don't think so, yeah, totally just

1341
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 1: thousand people. It depends on how old he is, right,

1342
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 1: if he's you know, sixty five years old. I would

1343
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't, as you judge, like a thousand girls can't

1344
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 1: be wrong, let's do that. Would be kind of intrigued,

1345
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:08,080
Speaker 1: be intgued. It's kind of like, you know, whatever they

1346
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,320
Speaker 1: say you judge now, I'd be intrigued like the outliers,

1347
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 1: Like he's practiced his whole life, so he's a professional

1348
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: that numbers ten thousand, you need ten thousand hours whatever.

1349
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:20,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure, like, let's trust me, see what you got.

1350
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 1: If I've been with ten thousand women, then i still

1351
01:08:23,520 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: have a guy that ten thousand hours. I'll say that

1352
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 1: right now. Um. I bring this up because there was

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01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:30,640
Speaker 1: this tweet today in Cosmo about what it's like to

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01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:34,840
Speaker 1: be an adult virgin. It's, um, what it's really like

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01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:37,559
Speaker 1: to be a virgin in your twenties. So an adult

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Speaker 1: virgin twenty one, twenty five, twenty one. And they didn't,

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Speaker 1: of course identify who these people are. It's all anonymous women, A, B,

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Speaker 1: and C. Those are the ages twenty one, twenty five,

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Speaker 1: twenty one. They're all single, none of them are going

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Speaker 1: to wait until marriage. But I do often wonder what

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Speaker 1: it's like, What was the reasoning for being an adult

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Speaker 1: virgin and then are you do you stand by it?

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Speaker 1: You know, like, if you get to a certain point,

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Speaker 1: are you standing by it? Are you doubling down? Like wait,

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Speaker 1: I've waited this long now I'm gonna wait till I'm married.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you have one idea? If you are

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Speaker 1: this person, I would love to talk to you. And

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01:09:10,600 --> 01:09:12,560
Speaker 1: not trying to be gross about this, like honestly, I

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01:09:12,720 --> 01:09:14,720
Speaker 1: wonder how you get to a certain point in your

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01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: life is a virgin and if you if you really

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01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: at that point, then say I just want to get

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01:09:19,800 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 1: it over with now, like let's just we just got

1373
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: to move on. There's a great documentary actually that I

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01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 1: saw recently. It's on Netflix. You think Virgin School. I

1375
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 1: think I saw Ideas where and the thing is, I'm yeah.

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01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: There's a woman who literally de virginizes people over the

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01:09:35,600 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 1: course of a few months. She tries to get them comfortable,

1378
01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:40,800
Speaker 1: like first they lay in bed together with their clothes on.

1379
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 1: Then they take a piece of clothes off the next time,

1380
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 1: Then the next time maybe they're just laying naked, Like

1381
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:48,120
Speaker 1: they get closer and closer, and so she does this

1382
01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:49,640
Speaker 1: with all these people, and a lot of times the

1383
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:52,040
Speaker 1: people say, you know, it just didn't happen, and it

1384
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 1: didn't happen, and now it's been so long, Like did

1385
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:57,040
Speaker 1: I put so much? Like it's a big deal. I

1386
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:58,960
Speaker 1: want to Yeah, yeah, Like it's too much pressure and

1387
01:09:59,000 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 1: now I just like I'm freaked out by it. This

1388
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:03,240
Speaker 1: isn't even like I'm not even trying to be like

1389
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:05,080
Speaker 1: dirty about this, It's just what is it like to

1390
01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 1: be I have a friend who says she just hasn't

1391
01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:08,840
Speaker 1: found the right person to do it yet. But I'm like,

1392
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:10,680
Speaker 1: just get it over. But at what point? Like that's

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01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: why they go to this chair. So then you meet

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01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 1: somebody and then you wind up saying to them in

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01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 1: one way or another like I'm a virgin and you're

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01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:19,640
Speaker 1: the person, and then that puts this unneeded pressure on

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01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:21,679
Speaker 1: the right situation. That's why they just want to knock

1398
01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: it out with this virgin school instructor so that once

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Speaker 1: they do find that awesome person, that a lot of

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01:10:27,720 --> 01:10:29,720
Speaker 1: that is taken away, like all that pressure is gone

1401
01:10:29,720 --> 01:10:31,720
Speaker 1: and they can relax and enjoy. A guy's scared of that,

1402
01:10:32,000 --> 01:10:34,639
Speaker 1: Like if a girl says I'm a virgin, I would

1403
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:40,559
Speaker 1: I would that would be too much pressure for me. Hello, Ivan. Yes,

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01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 1: you waited until you were twenty years old? Um, and

1405
01:10:47,000 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: so how do you how do you get to that point? Like,

1406
01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: what what's your thinking? You you're saving yourself? Was it

1407
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:53,960
Speaker 1: a spiritual thing, a religious thing? It just didn't happen?

1408
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 1: What what's the deal? I wasn't religious? Uh, I was

1409
01:10:58,560 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 1: funny and a lot of my bud who were having

1410
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:04,639
Speaker 1: kids around that time, well, I'm not a high school

1411
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: and that we're having kids and kind of scared me

1412
01:11:06,520 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: a little bit. And then I also wanted to wait

1413
01:11:09,479 --> 01:11:12,720
Speaker 1: for the right person. In the end, I didn't wait,

1414
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: And actually if I did, I'll take it back and

1415
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:19,719
Speaker 1: I'll wait longer. If if if I had a chance,

1416
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 1: you would wait longer. Yeah, Man, I don't know. I

1417
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: think about it like if I met somebody amazing tomorrow

1418
01:11:26,600 --> 01:11:28,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to marry or whatever. I wish I had

1419
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 1: all the that I do have at this age without

1420
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:35,320
Speaker 1: how much experience is having done it probably like twenty

1421
01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 1: thousand not like will change? Ye what I'm saying, Like

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01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: I would said that anything I did before it's bad,

1423
01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 1: but like I wouldn't mind not having done any of that.

1424
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:45,679
Speaker 1: But know what I know now, if that makes any

1425
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:51,759
Speaker 1: sense like you know, you like to know. I won't

1426
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 1: say I will say, oh no, no, I'm sorry, I

1427
01:11:56,920 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: haven't continued. I was gonna say, I would say, after

1428
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: it did happen, I'm there pretty much the flags. But no,

1429
01:12:07,479 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. When you say like that,

1430
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: you would you would wait even longer, like I'm saying,

1431
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:12,760
Speaker 1: I want to be I want to be experienced and

1432
01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:16,200
Speaker 1: I want the person i'm with to enjoy what's happening

1433
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:18,920
Speaker 1: because I know what I'm doing. But I don't I

1434
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:22,120
Speaker 1: could do without any of that, like I don't. I'm

1435
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:26,400
Speaker 1: not necessarily proud of my of my past in that realm. No. Serious,

1436
01:12:26,439 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 1: So you want to be a virgin with all the

1437
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 1: knowledge I have, I don't want to be with a

1438
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:36,200
Speaker 1: guy that you're making my point a virgin ever, because

1439
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:38,120
Speaker 1: like I don't want to have to teach you the

1440
01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 1: ropes and see you're making my point. Yeah, I don't

1441
01:12:40,760 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 1: want to fix her up or I want to move

1442
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:49,720
Speaker 1: in ready the top bar? How are you doing good?

1443
01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,840
Speaker 1: How are you? You were a virgin until you were

1444
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 1: twenty two? How does that happen? Okay? So I went

1445
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:56,840
Speaker 1: to a Catholic ray school and Catholic high school. So

1446
01:12:56,920 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 1: I was brought up you must wait until you were married,

1447
01:12:59,640 --> 01:13:02,879
Speaker 1: right now. My boyfriend in high school, he was seventeen,

1448
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:05,400
Speaker 1: I was eighteen. I said, I wanted to wait. Um,

1449
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: actually we're both virgin. I waited until he was I

1450
01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 1: think twenty one and we were in college. I wanted

1451
01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 1: to wait until I knew I was going to marry

1452
01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: the person. Um. And he's like, we're not getting married

1453
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:19,000
Speaker 1: now we're in college. You'll marry me eventually. So that's

1454
01:13:19,040 --> 01:13:20,800
Speaker 1: how it happened. And then we actually married each other.

1455
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: So okay, all right, So you've only been with him

1456
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 1: then and he's only been with me. Oh, two virgins

1457
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 1: is fun, isn't it. I was a virgin and my

1458
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: boyfriend was a virgin too. It was like we didn't

1459
01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: know what the hell we were doing. Do you do

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01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 1: you ever wonder? I always I wonder this about people

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01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 1: who've only been in one person. Do you ever wonder

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01:13:37,760 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 1: if that's as good as it is? Like, if your

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01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 1: interaction is how it's supposed to be. Honestly, I mean,

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01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:46,839
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's supposed to be any difference.

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01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:50,479
Speaker 1: Did you ever wonder what this is? This? The highest

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 1: let it is, yes, but like, yeah, it doesn't matter

1467
01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 1: because it doesn't marrier. It's different with everybody. I mean,

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01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 1: I'm happy, so I mean, I don't know I'm gonna

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01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:03,560
Speaker 1: I don't know how I can get any better. But

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01:14:03,960 --> 01:14:08,639
Speaker 1: oh do I know what's that? We're not gonna We're

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01:14:08,640 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 1: not gonna change her. My sister is the same way though.

1472
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:13,880
Speaker 1: My sister married her eighth grade boyfriend and to this

1473
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: day they're still married. They're like thirty six, they have

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01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:19,760
Speaker 1: two kids. They're happy, and I'm always like, you know,

1475
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:21,360
Speaker 1: she and I will go out for some drinks. I'm like,

1476
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 1: don't you just want to see other dongs or anything?

1477
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:26,680
Speaker 1: And like she's like, no, cool, Mike. How do you

1478
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:29,360
Speaker 1: know you're cool? Though? Well, just because she is. And

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01:14:29,439 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 1: I guess it's one of those questions you talking about

1480
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:33,080
Speaker 1: how I talk to her. I'm not saying I'm not

1481
01:14:33,160 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 1: judging anybody out. Like when I asked that question to her,

1482
01:14:35,439 --> 01:14:37,599
Speaker 1: it's like, if you're happy, then you're happy, and there's

1483
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:39,640
Speaker 1: no need to wonder if the grass is greener. But

1484
01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 1: I wonder if you do. That was where I'm sure

1485
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: it's natural to wonder every now and that not that

1486
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: you would act on those thoughts, but natural. Thank you, Amy,

1487
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: have a great day. You called. Thanks for listening. Hey Robert, Yeah, Robert,

1488
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: you're twenty three and you're a virgin and no judgment.

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01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: How does it get to that point? Did you? Was

1490
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 1: it a spiritual thing or you just have a man?

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01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 1: Any the right person to the right situation has never

1492
01:15:02,240 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 1: really met anybody. The self confidence isn't really there, so okay,

1493
01:15:07,720 --> 01:15:09,599
Speaker 1: all right, so it would you do it at any

1494
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:11,880
Speaker 1: point if if the right situation approach or at this

1495
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 1: point you getta wait till marriage or how do you

1496
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: look at it? I mean, if the right opportunity. Yeah,

1497
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 1: Like to me, I always like I was brought up

1498
01:15:19,439 --> 01:15:23,160
Speaker 1: like that's something serious, so like in a relate like

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01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: a major relationship or maybe even married, but like a

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01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 1: serious relationship. Yeah, would you do I'm sorry, would you do?

1501
01:15:29,560 --> 01:15:31,400
Speaker 1: Like the virgin school? Like the other people I was

1502
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 1: talking about in the Netflix documentary, I mean I probably

1503
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 1: would have been a while since I've dated anybody. Yeah,

1504
01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:43,800
Speaker 1: actually close or contact with anybody kind of like pretty too.

1505
01:15:44,479 --> 01:15:46,559
Speaker 1: I probably would too, just to get it like over

1506
01:15:46,680 --> 01:15:49,560
Speaker 1: with and and so that I was like more comfortable

1507
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 1: when the right person came along. That's why I was wondering,

1508
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: is does it just add pressure? You know as you

1509
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:55,559
Speaker 1: get older and know what happens when you meet someone

1510
01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,719
Speaker 1: you really like and maybe that person has more experience

1511
01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,439
Speaker 1: than you do, and then you have to break it

1512
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 1: to them, hey, I've never done this before. And then

1513
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: they may or may not be in line with that.

1514
01:16:04,920 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 1: They may or may not be interested in in being

1515
01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 1: your first or going down that path with you. I mean,

1516
01:16:09,640 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 1: you gotta think about those things. I would imagine. Yeah,

1517
01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 1: but I did with twenty thousand people, so I don't

1518
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: ever think about it. I could do Paulina's virgin school. Yeah,

1519
01:16:21,760 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 1: registration open exactly collared, ten minutes before new benches en, right,

1520
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 1: exactly necessary, be willing to do some laundry and uh

1521
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: and a raiser and you'll be great. Yeah, Robert, we've

1522
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:41,840
Speaker 1: solved your problem. Call it community service, man. This is

1523
01:16:41,920 --> 01:16:44,559
Speaker 1: gotta go towards some kind of community service. Predators having

1524
01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:48,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, Robert, have a good day man. Hey Evie,

1525
01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:50,400
Speaker 1: all right, I wanted to get to you. You were

1526
01:16:50,520 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 1: thirty two when you lost your virginity, actually thirty one.

1527
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: We were just thinking about it. Just now I'm thirty

1528
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,640
Speaker 1: three thirty one one? So how does that happen? How

1529
01:16:57,640 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 1: do you get to thirty one? You haven't done it.

1530
01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: First it was more of a religious, less virtual thing,

1531
01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:07,920
Speaker 1: and then it turned into me help value and that

1532
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:10,519
Speaker 1: wanted us to sleep around. And then on one fire

1533
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:14,280
Speaker 1: reached thirty one, like something has to give now enough

1534
01:17:14,360 --> 01:17:22,840
Speaker 1: from him? And then I was like, what this has

1535
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 1: to be what I wanted? What I meantined a hot

1536
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,240
Speaker 1: guy that I'm went for a few weeks or a

1537
01:17:27,280 --> 01:17:30,280
Speaker 1: few months and then let's get the did she'll done?

1538
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:32,599
Speaker 1: And we did it? And did you tell this guy?

1539
01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:34,280
Speaker 1: Did you let him know that that was the case

1540
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:36,560
Speaker 1: or did you just sort of do it? Just do it?

1541
01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:39,040
Speaker 1: And I told him me. By the way, it's been

1542
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 1: a very long time for it's like ever he was

1543
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 1: it you now are No, unfortunately at least only been

1544
01:17:52,240 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 1: like three times since that happened. Not for the lack

1545
01:17:55,840 --> 01:18:00,560
Speaker 1: of wanting, No, there there are no man that I

1546
01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 1: want that around. But at least that you know, you've

1547
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 1: you've moved past that, right, you got that hurried sort

1548
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: of I don't know, a psychological thing like you've done it,

1549
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:12,000
Speaker 1: so it's sort of not weighing on you it's what

1550
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:17,439
Speaker 1: exactly exactly do you wish you would have started earlier?

1551
01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 1: Are you glad you waited that long? Um? Absolutely, that's

1552
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 1: a really good question. Sometimes I do wish I was

1553
01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 1: I started before because all my friends have so much

1554
01:18:27,600 --> 01:18:31,080
Speaker 1: more experience and um, but most of the time, I'm happy.

1555
01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm happy, right, I've always done what self right my heart.

1556
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 1: And then the reason I ask is because, and I'm

1557
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 1: not saying this is everyone that is a virgin adult,

1558
01:18:41,800 --> 01:18:45,600
Speaker 1: A lot of times the air I get is a

1559
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 1: very judgmental one of people that are having sex, and

1560
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: you know, sort of a self righteous well I'm a

1561
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:54,800
Speaker 1: virgin because I'm not sleeping around, sort of like, well,

1562
01:18:54,840 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: you're disgusting if you have sex, And so I always

1563
01:18:58,520 --> 01:19:01,479
Speaker 1: wonder if once you have it, you think to yourself, wow,

1564
01:19:01,520 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 1: I was a little judgy about this whole thing, because

1565
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:05,800
Speaker 1: this is pretty amazing, and now I get it. But

1566
01:19:06,040 --> 01:19:08,920
Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like you were very um like one

1567
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 1: of those judgmental virgins. I had attempted before, but it

1568
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 1: was just like me and wanted to feel really comfortable

1569
01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 1: and a spinal with the person and with myself. Harry Claude,

1570
01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:26,840
Speaker 1: thank you, Evie. Good luck. Yeah, I hope you find

1571
01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 1: that guy soon then, you know, yeah, do it. I

1572
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: hope he says it like that. Yeah, maybe politic can

1573
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 1: help you with that too. I have no idea. Thank you, Evie. Yes,

1574
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:46,720
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1575
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1577
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1578
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: up messages and then shares them on Twitter, and it's

1579
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 1: pretty funny. One person apparently took the message seriously and

1580
01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,280
Speaker 1: called him a loser for breaking up with them over text.

1581
01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: And then the conversations go on and on. It's kind

1582
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:22,680
Speaker 1: of funny. Somebody replied by sending him to San Francisco's

1583
01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:25,840
Speaker 1: Church of Scientology building. Most people who received the man's

1584
01:20:25,880 --> 01:20:27,800
Speaker 1: text were prompt to point out that he had the

1585
01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:31,479
Speaker 1: wrong number. Somebody else said, this is kind of Essie

1586
01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: way to break up with someone. The person pointed out

1587
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:36,880
Speaker 1: that they weren't currently dating anybody. He was just texting

1588
01:20:36,920 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 1: bunch of random people and breaking up with them, and

1589
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: the conversations are pretty funny. They're going up at fred

1590
01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 1: Anti dot com poll and it's working on them. Netflix

1591
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:47,759
Speaker 1: has shared some details on its users public streaming habits.

1592
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 1: Thirty seven thousand people across twenty two countries were asked

1593
01:20:51,360 --> 01:20:54,680
Speaker 1: about their usage. Sixty seven percent of viewers download and

1594
01:20:54,800 --> 01:20:57,439
Speaker 1: watched their shows on the move, not surprising. Thirty seven

1595
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:00,360
Speaker 1: percent admitted to watching and work, also not to rising.

1596
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:04,080
Speaker 1: Twenty two percent said they've cried while streaming in public,

1597
01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:10,160
Speaker 1: and twelve percent cop to netflixing in public bathrooms. Why

1598
01:21:10,320 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 1: how much time are you spending in a public bathroom

1599
01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:16,080
Speaker 1: that you're able to There's some people here that I've

1600
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 1: caught watching some stuff toilet. I've got full sleeping in

1601
01:21:20,000 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 1: the bathroom here. I've really, yeah, sleeping in the bathroom.

1602
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:25,480
Speaker 1: I don't know how you say to have a conversation

1603
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:27,640
Speaker 1: while you're sitting on the toilet too. I've walked in

1604
01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:30,880
Speaker 1: and heard people on their phone. Yeah, and I'm on

1605
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: the phone. I don't do that, like I and especially

1606
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:35,800
Speaker 1: in a like look, I don't want to do it

1607
01:21:35,840 --> 01:21:37,439
Speaker 1: in my own I just gonna say I don't spend

1608
01:21:37,439 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: a lot of time in my own bathroom. I try

1609
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:40,519
Speaker 1: and get in and out, but I guess I'm far

1610
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 1: more likely to like send an email or a text

1611
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:45,000
Speaker 1: in my own bathroom, but in a public bathroom, I'm

1612
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:47,600
Speaker 1: trying to get in and out, and if the experience

1613
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,640
Speaker 1: is an emergency that's going to require more than me

1614
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:54,200
Speaker 1: just peeing that. I'm certainly not trying to pull out

1615
01:21:54,280 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: my phone and shooting me shoot over a couple of

1616
01:21:57,560 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 1: bumble matches, some messages or something not happening. I don't

1617
01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 1: know who these people are now. I also know people

1618
01:22:04,080 --> 01:22:05,759
Speaker 1: who waste time at work by going to the bathroom

1619
01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:07,240
Speaker 1: for like an hour at a time, and they don't care.

1620
01:22:07,280 --> 01:22:09,200
Speaker 1: They'd rather just not be working, so they'll go hide

1621
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 1: in the bathroom. They want to relax. YEP. I just

1622
01:22:11,560 --> 01:22:14,800
Speaker 1: think it's disgusting. Netflix also reported forty four percent of

1623
01:22:14,880 --> 01:22:18,280
Speaker 1: viewers that they've been caught by someone watching over their shoulder.

1624
01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:20,479
Speaker 1: I've done that. I've also read along to books on

1625
01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:23,760
Speaker 1: airplanes with people like they'll be reading the book and

1626
01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:25,599
Speaker 1: so I'll look over and start reading, and then I'll

1627
01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:27,559
Speaker 1: try and they'll be halfway through the book, and I'll

1628
01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 1: try and figure out what the plot of the book

1629
01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:32,120
Speaker 1: is based on what I can pick up, what I

1630
01:22:32,200 --> 01:22:34,960
Speaker 1: can read off the pages I was I was watching

1631
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:38,160
Speaker 1: in a documentary on the flight to New York last week,

1632
01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 1: and there was a guy sitting next to me who

1633
01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:42,200
Speaker 1: I could tell was like trying to figure out what

1634
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 1: I was watching. And I was watching the Clive Davis

1635
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:47,519
Speaker 1: documentary and I started crying because the whole second hour

1636
01:22:47,560 --> 01:22:50,120
Speaker 1: is about Whitney Houston and it made me cry. And

1637
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:55,679
Speaker 1: he's like, are you okay, Whitney man? General, I'm okay

1638
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,080
Speaker 1: some more. Netflix have the most popular places to watch

1639
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:01,960
Speaker 1: Netflix outside though home or buses, planes, and the commute.

1640
01:23:02,000 --> 01:23:04,760
Speaker 1: Twenty six percent of people say they've streamed movies or

1641
01:23:04,800 --> 01:23:08,240
Speaker 1: TV shows while at work. We did that, um. Eleven

1642
01:23:08,320 --> 01:23:11,400
Speaker 1: percent say they've had a TV show or movie spoiled

1643
01:23:11,439 --> 01:23:15,120
Speaker 1: by someone watching it in public. Wellw how attentive are you?

1644
01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 1: I mean how much? How how carefully are you paying

1645
01:23:18,240 --> 01:23:20,920
Speaker 1: attention to somebody else's iPad if a show got spoiled?

1646
01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:23,160
Speaker 1: I guess if you're sitting like imagine if you're sitting

1647
01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 1: on the train or something, you know, you're really smart

1648
01:23:24,880 --> 01:23:33,360
Speaker 1: stuff phones in thought, Those people suck, Yeah, that's true. Yes.

1649
01:23:33,640 --> 01:23:36,000
Speaker 1: Twenty seven percent of people say a stranger has interrupted

1650
01:23:36,000 --> 01:23:38,720
Speaker 1: their Netflix viewing to talk about what they're watching, and

1651
01:23:39,200 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: eighteen percent said they're embarrassed about watching Netflix in public.

1652
01:23:42,560 --> 01:23:44,640
Speaker 1: My sister was watching a Ben Stiller movie in the

1653
01:23:44,720 --> 01:23:47,040
Speaker 1: airport on her iPad iPad one day. It's a tap

1654
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 1: on the shoulder, turns around. The guy says, that's a

1655
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:50,920
Speaker 1: pretty good movie, is they? And it was Ben Stiller,

1656
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 1: That's awesome, and then an awesome story. You can't say

1657
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:56,240
Speaker 1: bomb blah blah blah bla. You happen to walk by

1658
01:23:56,320 --> 01:23:58,080
Speaker 1: and see it, I guess, And then he walked away

1659
01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:00,640
Speaker 1: like no, no. My sister was like, am I on

1660
01:24:00,720 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 1: TV or something like what is going on? Yeah? But

1661
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:07,200
Speaker 1: I do that though. I walk by and look and

1662
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,960
Speaker 1: see what people are watching, see what's on people's computer screens.

1663
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:12,720
Speaker 1: This is why, the whole reason why they invented those

1664
01:24:12,800 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 1: things that block people from being able to do that.