1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: It's time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARVIFM dot com and 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on type 9 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: beguide it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject if she knew what I knew. 11 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for twenty eight years. 12 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: My husband and I had our kids right after college, 13 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: so we are just getting to the point where we 14 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 1: can enjoy life again as a couple. The first thing 15 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,239 Speaker 1: he wanted to do was try a threesome, and I 16 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 1: was down to try anything with him. I was surprised 17 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 1: by how much I liked it. That threesome led us 18 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: to try and group intimacy parties or swinging, and it's 19 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: a lot more exciting than threesomes. Now we are hooked 20 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,080 Speaker 1: on swinging. In March, we stayed at a resort that 21 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: that has a swinger's weekend. We had so much fun 22 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: that we already registered for the twenty twenty sixth event. 23 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: I told my best friend about it and she registered too. 24 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,680 Speaker 1: Since she has had not any luck with dating since 25 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: her divorce, I'm always trying to get her out of 26 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: the house or I invited her to a house party 27 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: with my husband and I. It was a real party, 28 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: not a swingers party, but I saw a guy that 29 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: I recently had sex with. I introduced him to my 30 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: bestie and they ended up hanging out all night and 31 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 1: exchange numbers. 32 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 3: Since then, they have been dating. 33 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: She said that he has not tried to have sex 34 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: with her, and I can't believe it. He told her 35 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: that he's a lawyer and a youth pastor, he's never 36 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: been married, and he's a son. What he has not 37 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: told her is that he met me at a swingers 38 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: party and we've had sex twice. So I have not 39 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: mentioned it to her either. She thinks that she's met 40 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: mister Wright and has no clue that he's Hue and 41 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 1: he really is a good lover and he loves swinging. 42 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: My husband said, as her bestie, I should warn her 43 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: about this man. How do I tell my bestie that 44 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: I had sex with her perfect new man. Well, you know, 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: you just have to tell her. This is one of 46 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,959 Speaker 1: those exceptions where you have to tell this woman because 47 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: he's telling her that he's a lawyer, a pastor and 48 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: all of this, and that's what you'd. 49 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 3: Think he is. 50 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,239 Speaker 1: You have no idea that he's a swinger. You, as 51 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: her best friend, can't let her go out like that. 52 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 3: She needs to know. 53 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: She needs to be the one to decide whether or 54 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,399 Speaker 1: not she wants to be with this lawyer and pastor 55 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: and swinger. Okay, especially especially the fact that you know, 56 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: you guys have been together. You got to give her 57 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: that option. Usually I would stay out of it. It's 58 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: not your business, but I think this time you owe 59 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: it to your friend. You owe it to your friend. 60 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: And you know what's throwing me off about all this 61 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,359 Speaker 1: is that all these rules and morals, all of a sudden, 62 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: you ating it now because you guys are swingers. And 63 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: does it matter who you've been with? Isn't that the 64 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: whole point of swinging, the whole culture? 65 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 3: Uh? 66 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Isn't that the point? So tell her? Let her know 67 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: what she's getting into. You know, she likes this guy. 68 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: He's being you know, he's not representing himself like he should. 69 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: And I think she needs to know, and I think 70 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: you need to be the one to tell her, Tommy. 71 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 3: Who he's swinging this moment? 72 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: All right? And we got us an undercouple swinging packing 73 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: past and then what we got an undercoverles swinging packing past. 74 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 3: Wow, it's a lot, Did I say it right? Yeah? 75 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 2: All right? And past is holding things in. He don't 76 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 2: want you to let He don't want the lady to 77 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: know who he is until he ready to lower the boom. 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 2: Because we got what we got. 79 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 3: An undercover swinging packing pastor. 80 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 2: Uh, I think it's time right now that we let 81 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: Pastor say what Pastor I want to say. I think 82 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: Pastor coming from where I'm from, and and and and 83 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: and and and and looking at who I want to 84 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 2: swang with, because I'm looking at your girlfriend, who looks 85 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 2: beautiful to me. But I can't let her know what 86 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: kind of man I am, what kind of package I got, 87 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: because I. 88 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 4: Am the undercover swinging packing pastor. Good Man, that's who 89 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 4: I am. You don't want to see my package until 90 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 4: it's too late. And yes, we did have our relations 91 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 4: you and I, but if that's all over, now because 92 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 4: I like your friends. I want your friend, so right now, 93 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 4: right now, I'm gonna let your lady know, let your 94 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:07,480 Speaker 4: friend know that it is time for me to reveal 95 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 4: that swinging packing past that you ready to see, because 96 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 4: she told you I was what packing. 97 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 2: I would love for the doors of the swinging house 98 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: to open. That might be a swing of to day, 99 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 2: that may be a swinger coming with several friends, because 100 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: as the lady stated that we got we we started 101 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: out swinging, but we like it when it's more people. 102 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 2: A lot of naked going on in this relationship. Now 103 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 2: you gotta understand this. And now this swinging has gotten 104 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 2: so good, we didn't already reserved ourself a naked spot 105 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty six so that we can go and 106 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: be naked there. And guess what past gonna be there 107 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: when y'all get there in twenty twenty six. He's a lawyer, 108 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: he's a pastor, and he's packing. He got a lot 109 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 2: going on. He got to like, I mean, I hate 110 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 2: to see it. He reminds me of myself, just a 111 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: certain to a certain and just for a smidget, you know, 112 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 2: when he got to the pastor. You know, I'm not 113 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 2: a pastor, but just god, when we got when we 114 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 2: got to the packing part, I kind of do it. 115 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: You're gonna do that together at the same time. All right, 116 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 2: hang on, y'all go all at the same time. 117 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,040 Speaker 3: Keep it right there, Keep it right there. Nephew. 118 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 2: Uh. 119 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of our response to today's Strawberry 120 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: letter coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour. 121 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:49,119 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter subject if she knew what I knew. 122 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. 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Actual rings will vary based on several factors. 133 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: All Right, guys, it's time to recap today's Strawberry letter. 134 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 3: The subject is. 135 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: If she knew what I knew this, woman wrote in 136 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: she's been married for twenty eight years. Twenty eight years. 137 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: She and her husband our have their kids right after college, 138 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: so the kids are grown now, they have their empty nesters, 139 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: and they're getting to the point, she says, that they 140 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: want to enjoy life again as a couple. So what's 141 00:07:56,760 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: the first thing they decided they wanted to do. Well, 142 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: have a threesome. Of course, doesn't everybody want to know 143 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: they wanted to try a threesome, all right, So she 144 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: said she was down to try anything with her husband, 145 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: and she was also very surprised at how much she 146 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: liked it. So the threesome rolled into swingers. Now now 147 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: they're full blown swingers and all of this, and they're 148 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: hooked on it. They went to a resort swinging resort recently, 149 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:29,559 Speaker 1: and now they've already signed up for one next year 150 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: for that event that hasn't even happened yet, that's how 151 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: much they're into it. So she also signed her best 152 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: friend up for it. And her best friend, she said, 153 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: has had you know, she hasn't had luck with dating 154 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 1: since she's been divorced. So she invited her friend to 155 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 1: a regular party regular Smeggler not a swingers party or 156 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: anything like that. But when they went, she happened to 157 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: have seen one of the guys that she had sex 158 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: with twice. And funny as it would happen, the guy 159 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: liked her friend and they kind to hit it off. 160 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 3: So her question, the woman who wrote the. 161 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 1: Letter, is should she tell her friend that, A she's 162 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 1: had sex with this guy twice and B he is 163 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: a swinger even though he told you he was a 164 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: pastor and a lawyer and a father, he's a swinger 165 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 1: for real. Yeah, yeah, he got a lot going on. 166 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: Her friend thinks he's mister Wright and he he loves swinging. 167 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 1: So she heard dilemma is should she tell her friend that? 168 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: And that's where we are. I think she, of course 169 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: should tell him. And because her friend has a right 170 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: to know, she can make her own decisions. 171 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 3: Uh, Tommy said, would you call him Tommy? He's the 172 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 3: swinging packing past Yeah. 173 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 1: She also said that he's packing and he's very good 174 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: in bed. So Junior, what you got, well, I got? 175 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 176 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,000 Speaker 5: Do you know how much stuff it is unpacking? His letter? 177 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 3: Figure question? 178 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 5: The question y'all said was tell her tell her? Why'd 179 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 5: y'all tell me? I don't. 180 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 3: I don't know this. 181 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 5: This this is what y'all doing. He ain't years a marriage? 182 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: Is what y'all. 183 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 5: This is what y'all want to do. I know what 184 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 5: I did. I know what I did here. I know 185 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 5: what I did here. 186 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 3: Testing. 187 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 5: I hear I heard testing. Because everybody need to get tested. 188 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 7: Everybody, everybody in this letter need to get the husband. Huh, 189 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 7: everybody need to get tested. But as far as this 190 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 7: past to go. 191 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 5: I know what thing. 192 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 7: If I know it's him, I'm taking my kids out 193 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 7: out of this church though. My kids not going to 194 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 7: Sunday school over here. I can't have Jamal learning from 195 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 7: him now. I picked my son up for Sunday school. 196 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 7: He come with his dress shirt up, but to his. 197 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 3: Neighbor with a gold chain? 198 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 5: Or what you do with Jamal? 199 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 3: Where you learn this at? 200 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 5: What are you doing? You trying to be all attractive? 201 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 5: You ain't learned nothing. No, there's no way. 202 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 3: How's this normal? 203 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 5: How's this normal? I just don't understand. 204 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 7: How's this normal? What do you want us to say? 205 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 7: Y'all signed up for a whole other year. Yeah, yeah, 206 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 7: now you don't think I do know? 207 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 5: I have went to dinner with my with a couple 208 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 5: that was swinging. 209 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,160 Speaker 7: I did, but when I looked down, I don't know 210 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 7: who wants to swing with them? 211 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 3: Why? 212 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: Sure? 213 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 3: Did two one of the. 214 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 5: Most attracted people. I see why they're together. I know 215 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 5: why they're together. Fun attract to find unattractive. 216 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 3: I say, so, only ugly people swing is. 217 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that the two I saw them, but 218 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: put you and your back to the dinner. How did 219 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 1: this happen? I gotta know, how did this happened? You 220 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: ended up at dinner with swingers? 221 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 222 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, and my wife tells you you're not. Yeah, yeah. 223 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 224 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 5: We go to the Mixican restaurant, she says, Now she 225 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 5: knows how I am. 226 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 7: She says, Hey, when we get in here, yeah, I 227 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 7: just want to let you know before we start sitting 228 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:44,439 Speaker 7: down for these people. 229 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 5: Two of my friends is swinging. 230 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 3: You just still pump that one, but she did. 231 00:11:50,920 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 7: I'm going in here, I'm looking at everybody at to 232 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 7: tell you, I'm trying to figure out who the. 233 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 5: Two when I found it two? When I saw them 234 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 5: swinging on? 235 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 4: What swinging on? 236 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 2: Swing on? 237 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 5: Swinging baseball bats, swinging, And I'm gonna tell you something. 238 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 2: Shut up? 239 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 5: That does it? No? 240 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:07,559 Speaker 2: No? 241 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 5: Then, no, I don't know who's swinging with them. 242 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 7: There's no way because if they try us, I turned 243 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 7: this whole table, ask about me and see what happens. 244 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 5: We had a misgan restaurant and be so much sauce 245 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 5: on you. There's no way. So I know, I know, 246 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 5: I said, this is not something I could do. I 247 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 5: can't see this so. 248 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: Well you don't know. I mean, twenty eight years later 249 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 1: you may have a difference of opinion like this too 250 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 1: much testing. 251 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 3: It's crazy. 252 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 5: I don't. I don't. 253 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 2: I don't think. I think we're missing a big picture. 254 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 3: What is the picture? What's there? 255 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 2: I think the big picture is where is this in 256 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 2: twenty two and six and what they do it? 257 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 3: We could go on you know. 258 00:12:44,559 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 5: What I'm saying, where's this resort at? So I'm going 259 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 5: to stay there? 260 00:12:50,040 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 1: How is that the first thing on your mind that 261 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: you want to do? Though, after after twenty eight years 262 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,360 Speaker 1: of marriage, the first thing you want to try it? 263 00:12:57,440 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 3: They've been wanting to do that. He been wanting to 264 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 3: do that first thing. 265 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: They got the kids out of house, they're empty nesters, 266 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 1: and of the first thing you want. You don't want 267 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: to travel, you don't want to do any you just 268 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: want to threesome. 269 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 3: Let's go. 270 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: I'm not looking across the room at my wife. That's 271 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: not happened. 272 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, what anyway? All right? 273 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: So I guess we're all in agree and that she 274 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,920 Speaker 1: should tell her best friend, though, because that is her question. 275 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 5: I can't tell you if you should or not. 276 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 7: List y'all gonna find out eventually, somebody goes knowing just 277 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 7: a second. 278 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 2: Yes, Tommy, do we all agree that we're going next year? 279 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: Leave your comments on Today's letter on Instagram and Facebook. 280 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey f M. And check us out on 281 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast. On the free iHeartRadio app, you're 282 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show