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Speaker 1: Caitlin's Entertainment Report, he is on the Fresh Shaw.

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Speaker 2: Over the weekend, Nicki Minaj kept us entertained with a

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Speaker 2: very detailed Twitter rant against Meghan the Stallion. Now this

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Speaker 2: all comes in response to Meghan's latest single Hiss. Nicki

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Speaker 2: Minaj posted several tweets call him Meghan out for sleeping

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Speaker 2: with her best friends man and allegedly lying on her

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Speaker 2: dead mother's name. And one Twitter post, Nikki said about Meghan,

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Speaker 2: you lied to Gail as in Gail King, you slept

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Speaker 2: with your best friend's man. But you want to take

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Speaker 2: shots at my family. Ba ha ha ha ha ha

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Speaker 2: ha ha. Get up on your good foot, Okay, she said,

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Speaker 2: ba ha ha ha, get up on your good foot

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Speaker 2: taking a shot and Meghan getting shot in the foot

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Speaker 2: by Tory Lanes.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: Nikki went on to release a full dish track titled Bigfoot. So, fred,

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Speaker 2: I want to know whose side are you on, Meghan

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Speaker 2: the Stallion or Nicki min I.

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Speaker 4: Man, that's tough, that's a tough one. I'm friends with

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Speaker 4: both of them personally, you know, Ki, I defer to

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Speaker 4: you on that. Whose team should I be on?

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Speaker 2: It?

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Speaker 4: I really can't answer that as somebody who's you know,

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Speaker 4: constantly uh, you know, kicking it with both of.

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Speaker 3: Them, right right right, you know what.

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Speaker 1: It's a tough place to be in.

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Speaker 3: It really is. So we're just gonna stay out of that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: Even better?

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Speaker 2: I like that I trying to set you up for

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Speaker 2: but anyway, you had to read it just like that.

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Speaker 2: In Happier news, though, and estrologer is predicting that there

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Speaker 2: will soon be wedding bills for Taylor Swift and Travis

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Speaker 2: Kelcey or Kelsey.

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Speaker 1: Grandma, Yeah right, what about me?

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Speaker 2: TMZ reports that they spoke with celebrity estrologer Kyle Thomas,

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Speaker 2: who's been featured on tons of outlets over the years,

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Speaker 2: weighing in on different Eight Listers fates based on horoscopes.

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Speaker 2: When asks about trailer, he predicts that Travis will pop

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Speaker 2: the question in twenty twenty five, So yes, Taylor will

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Speaker 2: probably have a ring before Jason and I definitely. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: absolutely right, Bob, we need none of that is funny.

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Speaker 2: And of course, in other married people news, I guess

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Speaker 2: Kanye West was spotted out doing Kanye West things when

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Speaker 2: he was caught in four K snatching a camera from

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Speaker 2: the hand of a reporter who asked him if his

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Speaker 2: wife Bianka had free will after snatching the phone. He

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Speaker 2: then responded and told the reporter, I am a grown

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Speaker 2: ass superhero like Kanye please, So apparently he's a superhero,

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Speaker 2: and don't ask that man about his wife, okay, Jason,

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Speaker 2: tell them what's up on their website.

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Speaker 5: So Britney spears mc queen told me to stand down.

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Speaker 5: Justin Timberlake listen to her and also the top streaming

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Speaker 5: shows of twenty twenty three and number one is one

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Speaker 5: of Fred's favorite French a radio dot com.

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Speaker 1: Well that was good.

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Speaker 4: So that was a Kiky report tag team with a

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Speaker 4: Jason Yeah, a little tag it okay? And then what

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Speaker 4: was I watching on Friday? Like the Britney fans were

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Speaker 4: trying to get one of her songs.

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Speaker 5: So Brittany has a song called Selfish that came out

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Speaker 5: on her fem Fatale album. So because they are savage

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Speaker 5: a f they started buying and streaming her version of Selfish,

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Speaker 5: which is also the title Justin Timberlake's new song and

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Speaker 5: basically surpassed Justin's song on the charts. So Brittany had

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Speaker 6: And then also, Brittany never made a video for Selfish,

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Speaker 6: so they made Oops.

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Speaker 1: I did it again number one over Justine.

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Speaker 5: They started buying all her music videos. Yeah, it's petty

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Speaker 5: and I love it.

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Speaker 4: There are certain fan groups I just for various reasons.

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Speaker 4: I'm just not going after. The Swifties are one. Brittany

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Speaker 4: fans are another.

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Speaker 1: In both Chief's Kingdom is another.

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Speaker 7: I'm at all three, come at me apparently Chief Kingdom

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Speaker 7: is another one. Conboy Nation Yeah four, I'm just a bandwidth.

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Speaker 4: I need to do some introspection all right here, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna give it another try.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what are we doing? I'm gonna give another chance.

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Speaker 1: I want to again.

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Speaker 4: I hate to admit I think I like it a lot,

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Speaker 4: justin Timberlake Selfish because it sounds like, you know, the

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Speaker 4: the Fresh show.

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Speaker 6: Like an hour ago, she just realized that the Grammys

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Speaker 6: were on Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Right, I'll tell I got about that tease all together,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, Oh, it's my turk, You're I

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Speaker 2: never mind, can't come.

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Speaker 1: To work please.

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Speaker 4: Life are writing in our diaries, we say them aloud.

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Speaker 4: We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Surprise to you just told me a second ago you

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Speaker 1: I say a lot of the surprise around here, Like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I say a lot of things around here.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Fred Deer Blog. So I'm at that point I think

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Speaker 3: in pregnancy.

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Speaker 8: I'm thirty weeks right where like things are not only uncomfortable,

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Speaker 8: but I I can't see stuff anymore.

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Speaker 8: Like if I drop something, I feel like it's a

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Speaker 8: mission to like pick it back up, you know what

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Speaker 3: It's like not the convioust position that I'm in right now.

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Speaker 3: But it's all good. We got like what ten more

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Speaker 1: No meme.

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Speaker 8: The only thing is now I'm at the point where

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna need Javier, my husband, to really step it up.

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Speaker 8: And I'm curious if you men in the room would

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Speaker 8: do this. I'm very curious, Oh boy, but you know

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Speaker 8: I like to keep myself nice.

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Speaker 3: Oh and your girl has done nothing in certain.

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Speaker 1: Places right for how long?

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Speaker 3: Maybe like a month?

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Speaker 1: And you want him to do it?

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Speaker 3: I can't see do you trust him?

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Speaker 1: Do you trust him to do that? I do?

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Speaker 8: But like how do you ask somebody to literally get

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Speaker 8: a razor out and get down there.

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Speaker 3: Get to work.

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Speaker 4: Why do I mean, could you just if you didn't

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Speaker 4: want him to do it? Because frankly, it's not even

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Speaker 4: I feel like I might do like bodily harm. So

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Speaker 4: what if you just went to like a pro and

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Speaker 8: I could do that, To be completely honest, though unpopular opinion,

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Speaker 8: I'm not a big wax girl.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why it hurts me so bad.

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Speaker 8: I think because I'm just that used to it probably

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Speaker 8: not a wax kind of lady. But I think it

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Speaker 4: What's gonna hurt more is it makes a bit of

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Speaker 4: a misstep because I wouldn't even I wouldn't even know.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't even know.

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Speaker 8: Right just what I'm saying, like like if I did

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Speaker 8: somebody else like up down, like.

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Speaker 1: Where are we going here?

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Speaker 3: So I'm a little nervous, and then I'm also really

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Speaker 8: But I have like seen and read that like that's

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Speaker 8: normal to ask your partner to do it, especially because

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Speaker 8: I can't see and when we go into labor, I

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I think it's valid. It's a it's a

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Speaker 4: reasonable request. I just don't know that I would.

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Speaker 3: Also do you see so, but you know that doesn't

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Speaker 2: So if you don't feel comfortable with him doing it,

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Speaker 2: I say, just put your leg up on whatever's in

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Speaker 1: And then you know, is that what you do? That's

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Speaker 3: And I take breaks too because it's a lot going on.

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Speaker 3: So excited did that and you like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna save the rest of it for tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, so you just I'm not making fun

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Speaker 4: I'm just I'm trying to be clear. I'm trying to

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Speaker 4: imagine shaving my face without seeing it.

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Speaker 1: So you just sort of feel around, Yes, you feel

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Speaker 1: it with a sharp razor blade.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you just sort of just just let the

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Speaker 4: let Jesus take the wheel.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And you're doing in sections like I'll do it

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Speaker 2: the rest of it tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: You could not do that. That's not a one day.

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Speaker 4: Thing big tim like, the right sides all set, we

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Speaker 3: Yet, exactly. Yeah, you gotta take it one day at

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the front section is looking good. I wouldn't go

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: Wow. Okay, Wow, that sounds dangerous.

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Speaker 2: I mean, listen, this is a big girl's life, and

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Speaker 2: so like now Pauline is in that territory for a

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Speaker 2: little while, and I'm just here to support you. Says like,

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Speaker 2: you can, you know, put that leg up and reach

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Speaker 2: for what you can, and you know what I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 2: You know he can understand.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And just that one's saying labor hurts more, to

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Speaker 4: go get wax Someone else is saying, don't it will

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Speaker 4: hurt more because you're pregnant.

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Speaker 1: Someone says used nair. Oh yeah, don't do that.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, the sentiment on the text seems to be

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Speaker 4: what's going to hurt more, waxing or giving birth?

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Speaker 3: Well, I think we don't know the answer to.

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Speaker 1: That, but obstly waxing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's how bad it hurts me. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if I'm just different, Like what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Go get waxed. I need to read this whole thing. First,

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Speaker 6: She like, can you use like a like like a trimmer,

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Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, Oh my god, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well then you're just the short well he wants you say,

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Speaker 1: give him the type fad.

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Speaker 4: Okay, watch my husband did it for me twenty one

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Speaker 4: years ago, and he did it too much and it's

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Speaker 1: Ohow, Yeah, I just I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't think it's a great idea, right, Like I

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Speaker 4: can barely if I ever shaved my face or if

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Speaker 4: I use a razor to shave my necklane because I

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Speaker 4: have a beard, I can barely do that without cutting myself.

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Speaker 4: And I'm looking in the mirror and I'm focused, right,

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Speaker 4: I'm concentrating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this diy thing, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's all that's that's a bit of a mountainous region.

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Speaker 1: I mean that is like, you know, that is.

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Speaker 4: Not a flat playing field.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot going on there, and I

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Speaker 1: think there's a lot that could go wrong.

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Speaker 4: It turns out the dolphins have romances in which two

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Speaker 4: Okay, So my dating life has been a complete and

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Speaker 4: It's just one thing after another, and the latest debacle.

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Speaker 4: Because Marley was like, I can see how somebody thinks

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Speaker 4: So it's just like, I don't know, but I felt

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Speaker 2: Right, this is something that you kept bringing up to

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Speaker 2: the woman that you were dating at the time, Like,

444
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Speaker 2: you know, I usually I'm twenty five.

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Speaker 4: That would be a mistake. That would be a mistake.

446
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Speaker 4: That would be a mistake. No date it was, I

447
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Speaker 4: don't know. You know me, I tend to I tend

448
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Speaker 4: to ask a lot of questions and conversations can get

449
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Speaker 4: really deep and you know, really early on. And in

450
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Speaker 4: this particular case, I was very intentional about what I

451
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Speaker 4: was trying to accomplish, which was an actual, like consistent relationship.

452
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Speaker 4: Like whatever I wasn't necessarily I just I just don't

453
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Speaker 4: know that you can necessarily look at someone and say,

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Speaker 4: because they've done this and that and this in dating,

455
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Speaker 4: that they're only looking for this or that or the

456
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Speaker 4: other thing. I think it can be like super case specific,

457
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Speaker 4: but I feel like maybe among other reasons I got

458
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Speaker 4: I got disqualified by this person because it may have

459
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Speaker 4: looked like, well, you're just out here looking for fun

460
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Speaker 4: with twenty five year olds, and it's like, but I'm

461
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Speaker 4: not always looking for that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that sounds like an insecurity thing with that with

463
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Speaker 6: that woman, you know what I'm saying, like, Oh, he'll

464
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Speaker 6: just exchange me for a twenty six year old.

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Speaker 9: Oh was that woman the one who said this to

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Speaker 9: you that it's a red fla.

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Speaker 4: It came up a couple times and and kind of ingest.

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Speaker 4: But it's like I kind of get the impression that

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Speaker 4: that wasn't necessarily working in my favor, and it makes

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Speaker 4: me really sad.

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Speaker 1: There were other issues too, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean there you know, I'm not going to get into it,

473
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Speaker 4: but it was it was just a weird evening and

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Speaker 4: a lot of alcohol and just I don't know, it's

475
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Speaker 4: it's super disappointing because I really wanted to I really

476
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Speaker 4: wanted to see where it could go. And I think

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Speaker 4: that there was a lot of prejudgment made. Yeah, just

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Speaker 4: based on the whole evening that's just not necessarily like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, maybe I'm an enigma. Maybe I'm a

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Speaker 4: tough guy to understand. Yeah, I'm I suppose there are

481
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Speaker 4: red flags and being forty three and unmarried for a

482
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Speaker 4: lot of people, but like yet for me, it's just

483
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Speaker 4: I haven't found the person. And I can see different

484
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Speaker 4: things as possibilities with different people. Like I can look

485
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Speaker 4: at this person and go, wow, you are by far

486
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Speaker 4: and above.

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Speaker 1: The oldest person I've dated at all.

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, no, that's not true.

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Speaker 4: So this person, for example, I did not want to

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Speaker 4: say that this is where like such an a hole,

491
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Speaker 4: you're gonna get me in trouble. Like in this case,

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Speaker 4: I look at this person and say, this is the

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Speaker 4: kind of person that I should probably be dating if

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Speaker 4: I'm being serious and intentional. You know, good job, good career,

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Speaker 4: lots of education, motivated, successful age, appropriate right on paper,

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Speaker 4: And so I can be intentional about that, and I

497
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Speaker 4: can treat that respectfully and maybe not lean into qualities

498
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Speaker 4: or desires. I say desires, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I can take that more seriously than I might be able.

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Speaker 4: Then I might say, you know what, I'm looking for

501
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Speaker 4: some fun and you look like fun, less of fun.

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Speaker 4: But that doesn't even mean you have to be twenty

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Speaker 4: seven years old.

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 4: I've dated people who have been divorced and all they

506
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Speaker 4: want is fun and they're forty five years old.

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Speaker 9: What's your age range set on the apps?

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Speaker 1: Uh, twenty six to like fifty?

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah. I mean I've seen you date people.

510
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Speaker 10: That you're like, Okay, I just want to have a

511
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Speaker 10: little fun. But I've also seen you be intentional with

512
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Speaker 10: people you've dated, So I think it is very situational,

513
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Speaker 10: and I think, honestly, like that's a good way to

514
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Speaker 10: look at dating. I think a lot of women like

515
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Speaker 10: go on every date. Some women, I'm not going to

516
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Speaker 10: put this on everyone, and they think like every person

517
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Speaker 10: might be their person, you know what I mean. And

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Speaker 10: I think that's like the trouble that sometimes women get into,

519
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Speaker 10: like it puts a little bit more pressure on first

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Speaker 10: dates or whatever.

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Speaker 9: So I think that's a better place to come from,

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Speaker 9: you know.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like women and men both get judged

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Speaker 2: after a certain age if you haven't had a family

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Speaker 2: or you're not married, Like we need to stop judging

526
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Speaker 2: each other, Like, Okay, it didn't happen for you yet,

527
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Speaker 2: and it hasn't happened for me yet.

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Speaker 3: Let's get it right.

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Speaker 1: Together.

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Speaker 2: I feel like we give each other a bad rep like, oh,

531
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Speaker 2: he's never been married, girl, he never had kids, Oh

532
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Speaker 2: my god, like he put the streets and that's that's

533
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Speaker 2: always the truth.

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Speaker 4: First say again, I might say that was the only problem,

535
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Speaker 4: but I definitely don't think it helped me and I

536
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Speaker 4: that's a bummer.

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Speaker 9: That's judgmental. I think.

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Speaker 10: I think it's very normal for older men to date,

539
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Speaker 10: or men to be older than the women they date.

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Speaker 4: Rather, when here comes, here comes some valuable feedback. Yes, Jeff,

541
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Speaker 4: go ahead, I can't wait.

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Speaker 1: Hey, good morning, Fred, Yeah, go ahead. You need to

543
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Speaker 1: see your therapist. Brother, I figure that out.

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Speaker 4: I did see my therapist yesterday, as a matter of fact.

545
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Speaker 4: But what's your point?

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. The point is like you're hijacking the show.

547
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Speaker 1: Find a woman at your age and get married, have

548
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Speaker 1: some kids.

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Speaker 4: What's called the friend show. By the way, Yeah, by

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Speaker 4: the way, thank you, Jeff. I appreciate you. We're talking

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Speaker 4: about a woman who's my age. That's what I'm trying

552
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Speaker 4: to do, right, Jeff.

553
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Speaker 3: Said, is so easy go out to pick one and

554
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Speaker 3: have to right. Okay, that easy?

555
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Speaker 4: Curious because I never, I truly had never thought about

556
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Speaker 4: it like, again, if I'm my age and only date

557
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Speaker 4: much much younger women exclusively, that might say something about me.

558
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Speaker 4: But I've done a lot of different stuff you never

559
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Speaker 4: thought for different purposes, and I guess I feel like

560
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Speaker 4: I was judged and kind of disqualified in some ways.

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Speaker 1: Everybody has a right to do that. They don't.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to like me, you don't have to

563
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Speaker 4: go out with me again. But I was super balmmed

564
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Speaker 4: because I'm just like, I don't you know you like

565
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Speaker 4: older man.

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Speaker 1: That's fine.

567
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Speaker 4: I'm not saying anything about that. I mean whatever. I

568
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Speaker 4: sometimes date younger women. But it just bummed me out

569
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Speaker 4: because like here I was. I thought I was on

570
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Speaker 4: the right track with like here we go, this is

571
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Speaker 4: this is what people have been saying I needed to

572
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Speaker 4: find and I did. And then it was like, well

573
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Speaker 4: because of your past, oh my god, because you've done

574
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Speaker 4: this very judgmental.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And by the way, the reason it came up, people

577
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Speaker 4: are asking why did it come up. It came up

578
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Speaker 4: because we were talking about past relationships and this person

579
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Speaker 4: tends to date older and I tend to date younger.

580
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Speaker 1: But as a man, that's not uncommon.

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Speaker 4: I think most single men out there are typically dating

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Speaker 4: younger than them, and I don't think it's for any

583
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Speaker 4: other reason, but like that men and women are not

584
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Speaker 4: necessarily matching immature up until a certain point.

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Speaker 3: Do you think, like.

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Speaker 10: Maybe you should stop with some of those questions like

587
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Speaker 10: at the beginning, And I'm saying that out of love,

588
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Speaker 10: Like I I don't think it's good to talk about

589
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Speaker 10: a lot of past relations.

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Speaker 4: I regret the depth of the entire conversation. I think

591
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Speaker 4: if the conversation hadn't been so deep and the wine

592
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Speaker 4: hadn't been flowing, then this is an entirely different experience.

593
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Speaker 4: But I also here, I was I don't know. I

594
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Speaker 4: thought it was a very open, honest conversation between two

595
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Speaker 4: people that.

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Speaker 1: That was going both ways.

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Speaker 4: So yes, I have a tendency to ask a ton

598
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Speaker 4: of questions I don't want the answer to because I

599
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Speaker 4: just love to torture myself. Yeah, but I also thought

600
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Speaker 4: it was a safe place.

601
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Speaker 3: I feel like.

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Speaker 10: Those can come like later when you guys already have

603
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Speaker 10: established like your own personal connection with each other, so

604
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Speaker 10: that it's not from a place of.

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Speaker 9: Like that someone would want to judge you about.

606
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Speaker 4: Because that's the thing I feel like, if you knew

607
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Speaker 4: me better. Yeah, then you might say, Okay, this guy's

608
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Speaker 4: got a little bit bitter. Sure, there's a little bit

609
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Speaker 4: more going on there than just chasing after this out

610
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Speaker 4: or the other thing. But again, I mean, I've dated

611
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Speaker 4: women older than me with with less intention than I have,

612
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Speaker 4: and I just I guess I don't necessarily I think

613
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Speaker 4: it's kind of what you're looking for in the moment,

614
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Speaker 4: or who you match with. You know, if someone's really

615
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 4: intense and wants this, then I think you can match

616
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 4: that energy. If someone is not and you're into that,

617
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 4: then you match that energy and you go with that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that I necessarily think it says anything

619
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Speaker 4: about you as a person, But I don't know. I

620
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 4: was curious because, again, of all the feedback I got

621
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Speaker 4: about this, that was one from someone I really trusted, like, well,

622
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Speaker 4: that could be a red flag, And I was like,

623
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Speaker 4: I never knew that.

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Speaker 1: I never thought of it that way.

625
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Speaker 3: No, you know, so keep doing.

626
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Speaker 6: Your thing, right, Yeah, I think i' must stop doing

627
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Speaker 6: what's your favorite color?

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Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I think question, I think we're hitting cause on fing

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Speaker 1: for a while. Show next