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Speaker 1: Hey, thanks for being here on our Second Date podcast,

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Speaker 1: and thanks so much for subscribing. We love that we

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Speaker 1: got a brand new Awkward Tuesday phone call for you

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Speaker 1: in just moments.

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Speaker 2: A moment second. Actually, I'm gonna start counting. First. We

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Speaker 2: need to make one of our listeners famous. Yeah, read

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Speaker 2: their comments or you know, make them infamous. I use

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Speaker 2: I use famous and quotes.

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Speaker 3: Change their name.

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Speaker 4: But Marianna commented and said, hello from the UK. I

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Speaker 4: had a carpenter in my house fixing my door while

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Speaker 4: I was working and listening to the show. When he finished,

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Speaker 4: he asked, what am I listening to? He's never heard

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Speaker 4: anything like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, don't either.

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Speaker 3: It's really funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he reviews the customer. She's unhinged. Yeah, well, you

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Speaker 2: know what, turn it up for all of your handymen

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Speaker 2: around the house. Awkward Tuesday starts right now.

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Speaker 5: Everyone knows about bro code, but what about lady laws.

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Speaker 2: Nobody calls it that.

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Speaker 3: Time the goal guide. Yes, the she scrolls.

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Speaker 2: It's getting older and older.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, the shoe lady scroll from the well, whatever it's called,

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Speaker 6: it does exist, and it's standing in the way of

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Speaker 6: our listener finding out the truth about what really happened

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Speaker 6: when his girlfriend went on a trip with a bunch

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Speaker 6: of her friends. He knows something happened, and he needs

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Speaker 6: our help getting the answers before his relationship falls apart.

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Speaker 6: And you're gonna hear it, and you're a brand new

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Speaker 6: awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: Next, it's awkward.

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Speaker 7: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: I think we all know what happens on boys trips.

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Speaker 5: Grown man sipping's sparkling water with tiny umbrellas, comparing essential oils,

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Speaker 5: debating the correct way to fold a linen napkin. Things

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Speaker 5: get pretty wild on all the guy getaways I've attended.

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Speaker 2: That is not a lot of girlfriend's happy here.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm not going to get into the origami tickle fights.

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Speaker 2: Whoa after you guys do the fitted sheet fight.

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Speaker 3: It's a boy's secret.

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Speaker 5: But on the other hand, girls trips, those are a

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Speaker 3: Anybody knows, nobody knows what goes on. You just disappear.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the same stuff, jump in.

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Speaker 3: Not as hard as we do it. You can't like

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Speaker 3: we can't.

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Speaker 1: We can plan a dinner to blow your minds.

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you that doubtful, But our listener, Mix says

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Speaker 5: his girlfriend took a girl's trip recently and now there's

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Speaker 5: an issue.

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Speaker 3: They should have jumped in with fun right away.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's probably fun for her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know how Mick feels about it. Mick,

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Speaker 5: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Dude, that was a lot for you, there was.

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Speaker 7: I realized I may have been doing guys trips wrong.

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Speaker 1: Looking for an invite for Jefferies next weekend.

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Speaker 7: I'm not certain of that.

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Speaker 8: I just.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll invite you to NAPA when we have an opening.

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Speaker 5: But what made you reach out to our show for help?

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Speaker 7: So my girlfriend, her name is Adrian. We've been dating

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Speaker 7: for like a year now. Like she still does stuff

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Speaker 6: Hopefully you're just like stop.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe she still has friends.

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Speaker 7: So they went on a trip together recently, and like

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Speaker 7: normally she gets back and like she's really cool, but

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Speaker 7: this time, I don't know, something's different. I'll ask her

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Speaker 7: about it, and like she doesn't say anything about it.

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Speaker 7: She just says it's fine and tries to change the subject.

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Speaker 1: Do you know was there any like girl drama? Like

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Speaker 1: was there some fights on the trip. Maybe she's upset

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Speaker 7: You know, if there was, I'd love to know, But

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Speaker 7: no one told me a thing. Have you you talked

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Speaker 2: I was going to ask what they say?

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Speaker 7: They haven't said anything either. They say if she wants

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Speaker 7: to talk about it, she can, but they can't.

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Speaker 6: The words that they used, that's a red flag right

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Speaker 5: Yeah, how did you feel? Hearing that response from the friends?

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Speaker 7: It makes me think that something happened, But I don't.

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Speaker 7: I have no idea what.

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Speaker 5: I didn't say it like that if something didn't happen,

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Speaker 5: I mean, at least an origami paper cut doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Like, what's the first thing that you're most worried about.

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Speaker 7: I'm worried she got hurt.

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Speaker 1: About Like.

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Speaker 7: I'm kind of worried about cheating, but you know, like

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Speaker 3: I mean, have you seen her?

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Speaker 5: I feel like you would know pretty quickly if she

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Speaker 5: was badly injured.

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Speaker 7: No, And I've tried, like ever since she got back.

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Speaker 7: I'm like, hey, do you want to do dinner? Do

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Speaker 7: I'm busy I've got something going on, but it's.

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Speaker 2: Almost like she's ghosting you ride from the airport.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, like she's still responding, So that's good.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how long has it been since your girlfriend got

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Speaker 7: It's almost been a week and normally we hang out

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Speaker 1: Six days not seeing someone when you're in a one

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Speaker 1: year relationship, is you?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well enough, Yeah, Alexis he's not giving like clingy boyfriend

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Speaker 5: vibes though, just a tiny bit borderline, but it is possible.

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Speaker 7: It just feels like she left this one version of

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Speaker 7: know what's going on, like what happened?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and who.

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Speaker 2: The real her really is?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: How many versions of her are there?

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Speaker 2: Well, there can be a lot.

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Speaker 5: So the reason that you reached out to us, I'm

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Speaker 5: just wanting to clarify you want to call your girlfriend

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Speaker 5: here and what are you hoping to get done?

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Speaker 7: I want to know what happened if I can, or

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Speaker 7: at least figure out when we could meet to find

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Speaker 3: So that's going to be our challenge here.

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Speaker 5: We're going to reach out to someone who is hesitant

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Speaker 5: to come out with a lot of information. We need

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Speaker 5: to figure out some advice for Mick here to help

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Speaker 5: him get her.

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Speaker 3: To open up.

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Speaker 1: Oh and I can't wait to hear the tea about

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Speaker 5: Or maybe help our listener. Maybe that should be important.

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Speaker 2: Things can be true, Joey.

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Speaker 5: We'll try to accomplish both when we do your awkward

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Speaker 5: Tuesday phone call right after this hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 5: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Girls' trips? What really goes

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Speaker 5: on when women spend a weekend.

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Speaker 3: Together the girls know?

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Speaker 5: Is it all just innocent pillow fights and why tastings

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Speaker 5: and gossip under the moonlight?

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Speaker 3: Or is there a more sinister side to a lady's layaway.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, like deciding who gets a king sized bed

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Speaker 1: at the rental house. Yeah, okay, you're right, they're all

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Speaker 5: But that is the question that our listener, Mick has

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Speaker 5: what happened on the girl's weekend? Because his girlfriend Adrian

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Speaker 5: went on a trip with a bunch of her gal pals,

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Speaker 5: came back and ever since hasn't willingly spoken with him,

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Speaker 5: has him hung out with him at all? He even

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Speaker 5: reached out to her friends to ask what happened and

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Speaker 5: this may be the worst part. Their answer was, it's

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Speaker 5: not really our place to tell you, yea.

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Speaker 6: And that also makes me think the girls want him

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Speaker 3: They would just be like right, they would lie to

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Speaker 3: make him feel good. But they didn't do that.

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Speaker 5: They put him into this limbo. So, as you can expect,

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Speaker 5: Mick is totally freaked out. He's turned to us for

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Speaker 5: advice because she clearly does not want to open up

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Speaker 5: to him about it. We need to help bring down

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Speaker 5: those walls. So, Brooke, what's your advice for Mick?

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Speaker 2: So easy? Really well, speculate something even worse that could

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Speaker 2: have happened, so then it's easy for her to confess

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Speaker 2: whatever it actually is. So you say, listen, I talked

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Speaker 2: to your friends. They said, you had to tell me,

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Speaker 2: my mind's going crazy. Did you kill someone?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: That's where they dig it, right to murder.

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Speaker 2: Then she feels comfortable to say, no, it's not that Nick.

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Speaker 5: Are you comfortable questioning your girlfriend on a potential homicide?

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Speaker 7: Hey, I think that's genius. I was shared of something else,

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Speaker 7: but this is a much better way to break the

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Speaker 7: ice on now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm shocked that you would actually think that's a

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Speaker 7: It's incredible. Like if I accused her of cheating, that's

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Speaker 7: just an instant fight, whether she did it or not.

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Speaker 7: Yeah no, but yeah, accusing her of murdering a strain

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Speaker 7: if she didn't murder someone, like, how where are you

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Speaker 7: supposed to even go from that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she'll totally trust Let's.

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Speaker 7: Like, accidental dance happen all the time.

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Speaker 3: Have you killed someone before me? Why are you so

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Speaker 5: Sorry, let's not even get into it. And frankly, I

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Speaker 5: don't think we should give any more advice after this,

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Speaker 5: So let's just let's dial Adrian for you. Hopefully she

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Speaker 5: answers our number.

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Speaker 7: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 5: I would take a deep breath before you do this.

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Speaker 5: Try to go in with a level head. But we

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Speaker 5: got your back. If you need us, I'm gonna dial

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Speaker 5: it right now.

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Speaker 3: Here we go.

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Speaker 7: Well, uh, hey, it's it's me. How are you?

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Speaker 8: Who are you?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 8: Whose son are you calling?

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Speaker 7: Son? It's just like you haven't really been responding to me, so,

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Speaker 7: like I kind of figured maybe a different number would

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Speaker 7: maybe get me the opportunity to talk to you, because,

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Speaker 7: like I haven't seen you, and like, I'm your boyfriend,

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Speaker 7: so why won't you talk to me?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Sorry, I am just kind of in the middle

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Speaker 8: of something right now though, but.

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Speaker 7: Oh, like okay, like I'm sorry about I have like

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Speaker 7: a miss you, like again, you just haven't talked to

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Speaker 7: me all week, and like usually when you like it's

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Speaker 7: got to be the trip, right because usually you come

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Speaker 7: back and I get to hear about like what you've done,

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Speaker 7: and I just haven't. You haven't said anything about it,

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Speaker 7: and I just don't know what's going on, So if

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Speaker 7: you could please talk to me.

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Speaker 8: I don't.

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Speaker 7: Like you went on a trip for a weekend. You left,

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Speaker 7: like we were talking, we were having fun, and now

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Speaker 7: you're back and I haven't heard a word about anything

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Speaker 7: that like me anything for a week now. So what happened?

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Speaker 8: Okay? You just first of all, calm this down, please, Okay,

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Speaker 8: So let's start there. Let's take a story. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 7: I'm not gonna yell, but what things I because like

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Speaker 7: I talked to your friends and they said that you

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Speaker 8: You should not be talking to my friends.

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Speaker 7: Do you even hear yourself right now? Like, I'm friends

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Speaker 7: with them too? Who who are you? I don't really

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Speaker 8: No, I'm someone who realizes they're worse.

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Speaker 7: Actually, what does that mean? Are you mad at me?

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Speaker 7: Did I do something? Like? Please? Just tell me? Please?

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Speaker 8: What is going on? It's nothing he did?

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Speaker 7: Okay? Well, if you're not gonna tell me, your friends,

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Speaker 8: I never cheated on you, if that's what you're implying,

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Speaker 7: Wait what hold on? No it wasn't. I Oh what happened?

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, I'll tell you this. There was another guy

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Speaker 7: Okay, I like, like, do I know him?

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Speaker 8: No, he's kind of famous.

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Speaker 7: What are you talking about? Famous?

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Speaker 8: Sort of? Well it was two seasons ago. She was

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, so so.

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Speaker 9: What So he flirted with me, m and it just

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Speaker 9: I dating down?

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Speaker 1: God?

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Speaker 8: She was like ripped?

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Speaker 5: Oh god, ok yeah, Mick, have her finished that sentence?

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Speaker 8: Who are the other people listening? Are you on speaker

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Speaker 8: with people nobody.

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Speaker 3: She's very susceptible.

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Speaker 7: So you're dating down.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, Mick, hold on, hold on. Let let's help

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Speaker 5: Adriane understand what's going on here. So you're on the radio.

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Speaker 5: This is called an awkward Tuesday phone call. The reason

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Speaker 2: And apparently it was for good reason that he is concerned.

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Speaker 7: So like nothing else happened, that was it.

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Speaker 8: I told you and I wouldn't do that. I'm not

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Speaker 3: Okay, one step shy. That's kind of nice. But she

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Speaker 7: Creating down, that's like the part I can't get over.

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Speaker 8: I said, I said dating down, question mark. I was

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Speaker 8: I'm being honest with you. You wanted honestly, I'm being

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Speaker 7: Okay, but you get how that would suck.

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Speaker 5: Right, like to hear you totally. But on her side, Mick,

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Speaker 5: a famous person flirted with her, and you could understand

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Speaker 2: Right, guy is not famous. I could guarantee you could

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Speaker 2: tell us his name, and there's no way anyone in

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Speaker 7: You don't even know always the hottest, but can you

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Speaker 8: Or like, I'm not talking about him. I'm not talking

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Speaker 5: Okay, we just have to focus more on Adrian. So

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Speaker 5: your mind is you're questioning where you're at in your relationship, right, which.

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Speaker 2: Is a normal experience at the one year mark. That's true,

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Speaker 2: Bachelorette contestant be damned.

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Speaker 5: But at the same time, Ajian, you still are in

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Speaker 7: Absolute said, yeah, and I miss you. I want to

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Speaker 5: And he was talking to a normal tone of voice too

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Speaker 8: This is like so much. Okay, look, we can still

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Speaker 7: So he convinced you to get into his line of work.

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Speaker 7: Is that what you're talking about?

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Speaker 2: Is that what we are considering it now?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 5: We are running out of time here, mixed. So at

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Speaker 5: the end of the day, are you okay with still

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Speaker 7: Don't do that, man, all right, Look, Adrian, I really

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Speaker 7: like you. I'm sorry I haven't told you this yet,

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Speaker 3: Oh that was the first time you said that.

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Speaker 8: Oh buddy, let's just like, we need to take a breather.

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Speaker 8: We need to take a break and just see like, yeah, that's.

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Speaker 3: A good idea.

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Speaker 5: Let's go to break right now and let's all breathe.

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Speaker 5: Commercial break coming up right after this. Man, Nick Man,

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Speaker 5: I wish you the best, but I would recommend you

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Speaker 5: don't watch ABC at eight pm weeknights.

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Speaker 2: That's Eastern time, that's Central.

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Speaker 3: I think, just don't watch it. Man, I'm not gonna okay,

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Speaker 3: good man.

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Speaker 8: Are freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know what to say about that other

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Speaker 5: than that was crazy.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: That's why the producers are going to pick her for

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Speaker 2: She was just the right level of Yes.

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Speaker 5: You think it's still a long shot that she gets

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Speaker 5: But I guess you're right. The more unhinged the better

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Speaker 7: It is.

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Speaker 4: It's good for him because the person always goes viral.

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Speaker 4: That's like, Hey, they were dating me when they went

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Speaker 5: They let's say that she does get cast and her

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Speaker 5: girlfriends from that trip have a big viewing party. He's

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Speaker 3: What do you mean she doesn't get the final rows. Yes,

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Speaker 3: she deserved it.

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Speaker 1: If your girlfriend is on the Bachelorette, you do want

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Speaker 1: to at least do well.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, boyfriend, I don't know if that one worked out

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Speaker 5: or if it didn't work out.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if to call it a success or not.

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Speaker 2: We got the truth, we did, and that that's the success.

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Speaker 5: That's what we can do for you in your personal life.

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Speaker 5: If you need some help, reach out to the show

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Speaker 5: and we can give you the advice you need to

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Speaker 5: call whoever it is in your life to have that

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Speaker 5: awkward conversation. Yeah, we love it, yea, And if you

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