WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: What's In a Name?

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jebels second date of day. If you'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to get in touch with someone who's blowing you off

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<v Speaker 1>after you've gone out on a date, all you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do is email us Brooke and Jebil at Moving

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<v Speaker 1>nine two five dot com and you can be like Monica, Hi, Monica, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you sorry? Monica? That probably wasn't the best introduction.

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<v Speaker 1>You emailed us about a guy named Garrett. Why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you tell us a little bit about him? He just

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner and um, we went. You're telling

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<v Speaker 1>a strong and really nice and um I thought the

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<v Speaker 1>date one love. You described him in your email as

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<v Speaker 1>easy to talk to. Yeah, not awkward and like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes like the conversation might be kind of like uh

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<v Speaker 1>falling awkward positives or something. But he was brief you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to, and like he feels like he genuinely like

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<v Speaker 1>listening to what I had to say. So, Monica, did

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<v Speaker 1>he ask you out on the stage or did you

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<v Speaker 1>ask him out? He asked me. Ye, he asked you out.

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<v Speaker 1>And where did you guys meet? Um, well, we met

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<v Speaker 1>through friends like friends of friends at a party and

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<v Speaker 1>then um he got my number through a friend and

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<v Speaker 1>then he emailed me and then we set up a date. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? And uh, how the date end? He dropped

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<v Speaker 1>me off at my place and then we kissed and

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<v Speaker 1>then I went insight and you never heard from him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you try to get a hold of him? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you have you try to call him? I didn't try

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<v Speaker 1>and call him, but I emailed him a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 1>and he hasn't replied at all. It sucks. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it sucks like having a first date kiss and being

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<v Speaker 1>so excited and then slowly, slowly it starts to wane

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<v Speaker 1>and then you figure out he's just not going to

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<v Speaker 1>get in contact with you again, and you can't think

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<v Speaker 1>of any reason why he wouldn't want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you again. Well, that's why I'm calling you, because

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea what like like piece, isn't my

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<v Speaker 1>hair ugly? Like that's gonna be You're gonna call me

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<v Speaker 1>about her hair was just terrible and I could not

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<v Speaker 1>deal with that rat's nest on top of her head.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that's not the reason. Um, we will call

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<v Speaker 1>him right after this song and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on brooking Cuba in the morning. Second update. Okay, Monica,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready to give Garrett a call? Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>sound pretty nervous. Yeah, that would be because I am

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<v Speaker 1>Remember Remember Monica went out with a guy named Garrett.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a good time at dinner and pretty simple.

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<v Speaker 1>He just hasn't gotten back to her and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>a little while. She emailed him and hasn't heard anything. Monica,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you most scared of? You know, like someone

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<v Speaker 1>texts characters something? Then okay, okay, something embarrassing. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now and we'll ask him why.

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<v Speaker 1>Feel free to jump in on the phone call whenever

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<v Speaker 1>you want, right. Hello, Hey, I was looking for Garrett. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry this wrong number? Oh all right. M I'm usually

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<v Speaker 1>a dumbass when it comes to dining number, so that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>You messed it up plenty of times. Yeah, Hello, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Garrett. Uh no, Garrett. Here there's

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<v Speaker 1>a Barrett Barrett yeah with a bee. Oh um. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my bad. I think you're I'm trying to call. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>moving ninety two point five. How are you good? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you good? I'm calling you because I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you about a girl named Monica that you know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is the right person. So yeah, this must

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<v Speaker 1>be did you go out on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Monica recently? I did? Is there anything? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's fine. Um. She actually emailed us because she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>us to give you a call to find out why

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't called her back to go on a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and you guys thought my name was Garrett. Yes, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense. Monica proceeded to call me Garrett instead

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<v Speaker 1>of Barrett, which is my name for the entire date.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you correct her five or six times? Did she

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<v Speaker 1>not hear you? All right? I can see, Uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know she wouldn't knowledge it and saying okay and

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<v Speaker 1>then just continue on. So, why you guys think my

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<v Speaker 1>name is Garrett? Monica's on the phone Barrett? So I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea that. Oh my gosh, how could you

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea? I corrected you five or six times?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I heard you. Oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sorry. How did you not get his name right

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place? I just thought his name was Garrett. Wait, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Barrett's not a very common name. Garrett is more common,

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<v Speaker 1>so I could kind of see, but I thought I

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<v Speaker 1>was being loud enough, like no offense taken. Monica was talking,

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<v Speaker 1>so I kind of just leuld slip it in there, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my name is Barrett. And I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 1>was just not registering or what, but it just wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>becoming clear, I guess. And then after like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>fifth sixth time, I kind of just gave up and

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<v Speaker 1>just I just went by Garrett. But Barrett formerly known

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<v Speaker 1>as Garrett, you kiss at the end of the night, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I did. That's kind of understandable. It is. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're going out with a girl and she wants to kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm probably gonna kiss her no matter what she calls me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Yeah, stieve you guys, it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't matter. I feel so irrible, Like Monica, were you

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<v Speaker 1>nervous on the date and like talking a bunch and

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<v Speaker 1>not really paying attention to what he was saying? Maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but like I said, he was so easy to talk to.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't think he was that nervous. Now I want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear what Barrett thinks about the date. Barrett, was

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<v Speaker 1>she talking too much? Not listening to you. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she was kind of dominating the conversation, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, which is okay because I don't want awkward

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<v Speaker 1>silence either, but I'd also like to be known as

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<v Speaker 1>my given name. Can we give Monica a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>really apologize right now? Yeah? Go for Monica. It feels

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<v Speaker 1>so bad. I'm so sorry, Barrett, I really mean it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say Garrett or Barrett? Barrett? Barrett? Okay? Now

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<v Speaker 1>now she's saying my name too much? Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Okay, Um, here's the deal. We will pay

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<v Speaker 1>for you guys to go on a second date. If

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<v Speaker 1>you'd like to go out again, Barrett, I would if

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<v Speaker 1>I hang on with Monica. Monica, we know that you're sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously you'd like to go out with him again, whatever

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<v Speaker 1>his name is. Uh, Barrett, do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Monica again? If we pay for it? She

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<v Speaker 1>definitely knows your name now, she seems sorry. She definitely

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<v Speaker 1>has gotten my name right now, So yeah, i'd go

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<v Speaker 1>out again. Monica, How do you feel about going out

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date? Are you feeling good about this? Oh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited. And I'll just call Barrett and you

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<v Speaker 1>can call me whatever he wants well in the morning,