1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:09,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's 3 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: tip is that every other year works too. Traditions can 4 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: still be a part of your life even if you 5 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: don't always make time for them. Today's tip was inspired 6 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 1: by some conversations I had while working on my annual 7 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: holiday fun list. Each year, I make a list of 8 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: things I would like to do over the holidays to 9 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 1: make memories and have fun. Of course, December is always 10 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 1: a busy time with kid performances, and this year I 11 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:53,240 Speaker 1: am singing in two choirs. Thanksgiving was also really late 12 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: this year, so there is just a limited volume of days, 13 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: and particularly weekend days for Christmas. That means we may 14 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: not make it to all our usual spots, but that's okay. 15 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 1: Just because something is gone for one year doesn't mean 16 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: it has gone forever. Every other year works as well. 17 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,679 Speaker 1: You can keep things feeling new while still having them 18 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: feel familiar by striking a good balance. For instance, we 19 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: went to see the Roquettes in New York City last year, 20 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: and we are going to go this year, but it 21 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: is possible that next year we will be traveling more 22 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,479 Speaker 1: in December and we won't prioritize it, but we might 23 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: go again the next year, since then we will be 24 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: feeling more like we are missing it. Same thing with 25 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: performances such as the Nutcracker. If you are not a 26 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: regular patron of the ballet, going to the Nutcracker every 27 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: year can feel like a lot of ballet. But every 28 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: other year means you are still seeing a lot of 29 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: the Nutcracker in life, and it will probably feel more 30 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: fresh each time. Maybe one year you drive to a 31 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: light display that's forty five minutes away in one direction, 32 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: and the next year you prioritize a different one in 33 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 1: the other direction. You can switch it again the next 34 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 1: few years and still get to see both regularly. I 35 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 1: think this is a good mindset because sometimes when something 36 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: that has been an annual tradition can't happen in a 37 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: particular year, we can get upset about it. Maybe we 38 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: should never travel over Christmas, or we can lament that 39 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: time is passing it's the end of an era. But 40 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 1: it doesn't actually have to be the end of an era. 41 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: An era can encompass more than one year. This year 42 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: we go, next year, we don't the year after we 43 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: do it. Again, and so forth. When you look back 44 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: on your life, seeing the Nutcracker twenty five times or 45 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: forty times might not really make that big a difference 46 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: in your fond memories of the Nutcracker. It is still 47 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: a good show either way. In the meantime, this is Laura. 48 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening, and here's to making the most of 49 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. If you've 50 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 1: got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach me at 51 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. Before Breakfast is a 52 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: production of iHeartMedia. For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, please visit 53 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to 54 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: your favorite shows.