Speaker 1: First date to follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Speaker 1: Attorneys online at advocatesla dot com. Kristin is on the
Speaker 1: phone today for a first date follow up and she's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a dude named Cruse. So in a
Speaker 1: few minutes we'll call him and see ifilth house why
Speaker 1: is ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Kristen,
Speaker 1: how long has it been since you talked to Cruz?
Speaker 2: Uh? Too?
Speaker 3: Weet?
Speaker 4: Okay, that's a while.
Speaker 5: I know I.
Speaker 3: Should have just forgot about it, but I don't know.
Speaker 3: This date was really good and that he's a catch.
Speaker 4: So he's got a cool name.
Speaker 6: Yeah too.
Speaker 4: You know, we didn't.
Speaker 5: Cruise along together, so hopefully that was cute.
Speaker 6: I guess you have to have a sense of humor
Speaker 6: about the idea of being ghosted anyway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it happens all the time.
Speaker 5: I was kidding.
Speaker 6: Did you reach out to Cruse though in that time
Speaker 6: at all to try to get a hold of him?
Speaker 3: Oh, definitely. I was not about to let him go.
Speaker 3: I was like, like, hey, how are you nothing? Didn't
Speaker 3: do anything? Did it?
Speaker 5: Call me?
Speaker 3: I even then called him and left a voicemail. I
Speaker 3: don't do that a lot, but I left a voicemail
Speaker 3: letting him know, like, Hey, what's going on. I thought
Speaker 3: you were going to call me when like you wanted
Speaker 3: to hang out again, and then nothing.
Speaker 4: Okay, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 3: Well, I first actually met him at my friend's boyfriends
Speaker 3: as a son twister my friend's boyfriend's softball game. He
Speaker 3: was a player, okay, and after we all went out
Speaker 3: to eat, so technically that was the first date. You know,
Speaker 3: it went so good. We had a second date and
Speaker 3: I don't know, I had a great time. He was
Speaker 3: such a gentleman, opened the door for me, was polite,
Speaker 3: really good looking call, which is a plus.
Speaker 5: And I really liked him.
Speaker 3: And then all of a sudden, just he gave me
Speaker 3: a kiss. You know, we had a little makeout session,
Speaker 3: and then he just said I'll call you later and nothing.
Speaker 6: What did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 3: Though?
Speaker 6: So the first unofficial date was when you guys met
Speaker 6: at with food, and then when you went out together.
Speaker 4: What did you guys do?
Speaker 3: Well, we got pizza and beer after the game, and
Speaker 3: then when we went out the second time, we went
Speaker 3: mini golfing like Glow in the Dark ones you know, yeah,
Speaker 3: so much, but my teeth are really bright, you know,
Speaker 3: so I thought I was going great. I'm not only
Speaker 3: use a little too much tongue. I was trying to
Speaker 3: hold back, but.
Speaker 5: Like what it is?
Speaker 3: It's like, did you do this? Long?
Speaker 5: Do that?
Speaker 3: Long? Did I do that?
Speaker 5: You start thinking it's you, and then I'm like, did
Speaker 5: I use too much tung? Do you not use too
Speaker 5: much tong on the first day?
Speaker 1: What is the I like to use the side, the
Speaker 1: left side, because that's my dominant side, but I will
Speaker 1: not use the right side on a first date. So
Speaker 1: I just you know, I don't get a lot of
Speaker 1: calls back though.
Speaker 6: So you only like stick your tongue on one side of.
Speaker 1: The Yeah, anything? Can you think of anything awkward? I mean,
Speaker 1: is it only the don so funny?
Speaker 2: I can't get over what you just like a dog.
Speaker 4: Kind of thing, very maneuver and yeah, not enough people
Speaker 4: can handle it.
Speaker 2: It's only on the left side. Like, no, I can't
Speaker 2: think of anything.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just felt like we had a great time and
Speaker 3: then all of a sudden, I don't know if like
Speaker 3: someone I don't know. That's why I'm calling you, guys.
Speaker 3: I have no idea because I thought we had a
Speaker 3: great time. We had a great session, you know, makeout session,
Speaker 3: like I said, but there was one thing that I
Speaker 3: guess did happen. His eyes saw someone that came in,
Speaker 3: and I kind of just like started kissing him really
Speaker 3: quick to hide my face.
Speaker 4: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 3: Well, like, I don't know. I just don't want them
Speaker 3: to see me. I'm a private person. I just don't
Speaker 3: want them to see me out with people, Oh.
Speaker 1: Like somebody you recognize, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3: So I just like quickly tried to like, you know,
Speaker 3: kissed him, and I told him like jokingly, like huh,
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to hide away from someone. And I
Speaker 3: don't know if that was weird to him. There is
Speaker 3: something that happened.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll try to figure out for you.
Speaker 1: Play so on come back and then call him and
Speaker 1: see if they'll tell us why is ghosting you and
Speaker 1: maybe get you another data Right, All right, cool, all right?
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Speaker 1: next right, little of today's first date follow up, and
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, Kristen is on the phone.
Speaker 1: She's getting ghosted by a guy named Cruz. So we're
Speaker 1: about to call him and see if you tell us
Speaker 1: why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But
Speaker 1: before we do that, Kristen, why don't you catch everybody
Speaker 1: up on your situation.
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I pretty much went on a first date
Speaker 7: with the guy that I met at my friend's softball game,
Speaker 7: and then we had a great time with mini golfing
Speaker 7: at the end of it.
Speaker 3: We had a good makeout session. But before that, I
Speaker 3: did see someone kind of come in that I knew,
Speaker 3: and I tried to hide by making out with him.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that threw him off. I just
Speaker 3: didn't want them to.
Speaker 5: Like see my face.
Speaker 3: So I don't know. I don't know if that's the
Speaker 3: reason why he's ghosting me. But I thought we had
Speaker 3: a great time. He was a gentleman, checked all my boxes,
Speaker 3: So I kind of want to see what's going on.
Speaker 4: All right? You ready for first to call him? I guess,
Speaker 4: So yeah, let's do it. Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi'm I speaking the Cruise. Please this zim, Hey Cruz,
Speaker 1: how are you. My name is Jewel. I'm calling from
Speaker 1: a radio show. It's called the Jewbil Show.
Speaker 6: Hi Cruz, I'm Nina. Also on the show, Hi, and
Speaker 6: I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5: Hey, I listen to you guys.
Speaker 4: Oh sweet, thank you. Now you're on the show.
Speaker 5: Oh wow, what's going on?
Speaker 4: Well, if you listen to us, have you heard a
Speaker 4: first date follow up before?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I have? Oh okay, is that what this is? Yes?
Speaker 4: It is.
Speaker 1: So you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us to get
Speaker 1: ahold of you and find out why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4: Do you know who would email us?
Speaker 5: I got an idea. Is it Kristin?
Speaker 4: Yes it is.
Speaker 1: Kristen answered the first question correctly. Now the other question
Speaker 1: is do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll tell you.
Speaker 4: Uh, listen.
Speaker 5: First of all, she seemed like a great person. She
Speaker 5: was really really cool. The day was great, like we
Speaker 5: hit it off and it just got a little shady.
Speaker 5: Yeah it was. It was really suspicious. So we met
Speaker 5: up at softball. I play softball with a friend of
Speaker 5: mine who knows her, and so you know, they were
Speaker 5: out and we kind of hung out afterwards and hit
Speaker 5: it off like we were talking to chatty. It was great.
Speaker 5: So we actually went out went out, so I took
Speaker 5: her mini golfing, which I think is a good way
Speaker 5: to kind of get to know people, and we walked
Speaker 5: on the beach wanted to see sunset at the park,
Speaker 5: you know, like it was really nice and romantic and
Speaker 5: she was really cool. But then at the parking lot
Speaker 5: when we're mini golf, like she just attacks me like
Speaker 5: like starts making out with me, like it forcefully, so
Speaker 5: it kind of threw me off. It wasn't that sweet,
Speaker 5: like you know, kind of get nose to nose and
Speaker 5: you're gonna get that first kiss, like it was right there,
Speaker 5: and I was like, what was that. She goes, oh,
Speaker 5: I just saw somebody I knew. I just wanted to
Speaker 5: I want them to see me. And I'm like, are
Speaker 5: you embarrassed by me? Are you embarrassed to be out
Speaker 5: with me?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: I just don't want people in my business. That doesn't
Speaker 5: make sense to me that you would make out with
Speaker 5: me so that they wouldn't be in your business, Like
Speaker 5: now you're giving them something to talk about. It was
Speaker 5: a little odd. So I went and and talked to
Speaker 5: my friends and I was like, yeah, I went out,
Speaker 5: and they're like, how to go and I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: it went great. It just she did this word thing
Speaker 5: and they're like, yeah, she's kind of she's kind of
Speaker 5: addicted to drama, and I'm like, what, yeah, she she
Speaker 5: kind of does that, like like her baby daddy is
Speaker 5: is pretty mean and kind of bad news. But she
Speaker 5: keeps calling them over like they're always involved and all
Speaker 5: they do is fight in public. And I'm like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 5: hold on, she didn't have kids, and they're like, no, no, no,
Speaker 5: she's she's pregnant. Now. Oh yeah, see that reaction. That
Speaker 5: was my reaction.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, what well, yeah, pregnant, Ruth, I'm allowed to date?
Speaker 3: Say you can't date I'm pregnant.
Speaker 5: Oh forgot that she'd be listening.
Speaker 1: Yes, that is Kristen. She's on the phone and listening
Speaker 1: this whole time.
Speaker 5: Hey, well you know I'm not. Yeah, my side is
Speaker 5: the truth. You didn't tell me that you were pregnant.
Speaker 2: So you're hating on a woman that's pregnant and saying
Speaker 2: she can't date. Is that what you're telling me right now?
Speaker 5: See you see that drama. That's the drama. That's the
Speaker 5: drama right there. See you're putting no, no, no, you're putting
Speaker 5: words into my mouth. I don't want to be part
Speaker 5: of that drama. I don't want you need to tell
Speaker 5: me up front if you're pregnant. That's not something that
Speaker 5: I should find out.
Speaker 2: That letter telling you that I'm pregnant right away. Like, ky,
Speaker 2: nice to Misia, I'm Christian and I'm pregnant.
Speaker 5: How you doing? What do you want to eat?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 6: Well when do you think that? Is that something you
Speaker 6: thought that you were going to tell them at some
Speaker 6: point Kristin.
Speaker 5: Of course, Well maybe I'm showing.
Speaker 4: Wow.
Speaker 5: Okay, listen, listen, hey, you do you. I'm not gonna
Speaker 5: I'm not judging you for anything. You do your thing.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying that's.
Speaker 2: Until your first off, it was a first date. It's
Speaker 2: not your business until maybe two months.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: So if I'm sorry, you kept saying it was our
Speaker 2: second date. You've corrected me on that. So I'm trying
Speaker 2: to go on the same page you're on because you're like,
Speaker 2: notnically our first date. So I'm telling you right now
Speaker 2: is our second day.
Speaker 3: But you said before it was our first, So it's
Speaker 3: our first because you want to count it as our first,
Speaker 3: because you don't count the fear and paint as well.
Speaker 5: I mean, we can change, you can change the verbiage. Now,
Speaker 5: you can say our last date. That's that's how I.
Speaker 2: Don't want to us.
Speaker 5: I don't want camp man up. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 5: Can't man, you're not.
Speaker 2: You want to sign my grave? I I dead or
Speaker 2: something like Okay, I'm pregnant.
Speaker 5: You're not mad you're pregnant, that you're actually the opposite
Speaker 5: of dead. You've got more life in you. I know
Speaker 5: I didn't want to get it out and you've cheated it.
Speaker 5: Mini golf, you can't even you don't hold your stick well.
Speaker 4: I have to ask the question, Cruz, would you like
Speaker 4: another day with Kristen? Will pay for it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, Kristen, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: No second day congounds on your baby though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 5: I'm definitely not naming him.
Speaker 3: You will.
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