1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back, 2 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: don't have a suit on, looking back to back down, 3 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: giving them move like amazing buck bus things and it's 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: not me true good Steve Harten to move to other 5 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: stud Please, mommy, I don't join join me to be 6 00:00:52,880 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: doing me happy. You gotta turn you gotta turn to 7 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: turn them out. Got to turn out to the water, 8 00:01:47,120 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: the water. Come come on your back at it. Huh, 9 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to 10 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only 11 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: Steve harbin Man got a radio show, Yeah, I do. Man. 12 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: God been so good to me over the years, in 13 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: spite of all the mistakes I've made, in spite of 14 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: all the dirt I've done to myself. I'm talking about 15 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 1: when in no one I was wrong, His grace and 16 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: mercy has forgiven me for all of my sins. God 17 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: can forgive you of all of your sins, everything you've done, 18 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: God can forgive you. He can wipe your slate clean. Now. 19 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 1: Might you might have some you know, things you got 20 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: to deal with because of some of your actions. Understand that. 21 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: But you can wipe your slates. You can wipe your 22 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: slate clean with God and start again. You can repent. 23 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: God has mercy and grace. You could be forgiven by God. Now, 24 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: people answer another story. Some people may never forgive you, 25 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: for you've heard them all, or maybe they're accusing you 26 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: of doing something else. But you know they may never 27 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: forgive you. But God, God is in the redemption business man. 28 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: God will forgive you for every sin you've ever committed. 29 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,839 Speaker 1: But you gotta want forgiveness now. And then you got 30 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: to come correct because what you can't do is you 31 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: can't shoot him the crap. Now you can say that 32 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: conversation with him. You know, whatever you told your lawyer, whatever, 33 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: whatever you told the victims, whatever you told, whatever the 34 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: story is you got going if it ain't the truth, 35 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: you could say that with God, because please know, he know, 36 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 1: and he know your heart. He know of you're trying 37 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: to manipulate somebody just for the system. If you're trying 38 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: to say this just so you can get out, He 39 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: know all of that. So if you're planning on shucking 40 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: him and jiving him, save your breath before you wind 41 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: up digging yourself in a deeper hole. Just let me 42 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: give you that piece of advice because he ain't nothing 43 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: to play with. He's too great to be played with. 44 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 1: And so with that in mind, I want to share 45 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: some positive stuff with you to smartn man. I want 46 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: to say this now. I want to remind you not 47 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: to let your circumstance and your situations dictate your future 48 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: or your results. I'm gonna say this again. This is 49 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: important information. Man. Don't let your circumstance and situations dictate 50 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: your future or your results. Do you know that in 51 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: order to get a different future or some different results, 52 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: you control that entire situation. It is you. It is 53 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: your thoughts that control the entire situation. It is how 54 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: you look at the situation that will determine how the 55 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: situation is for you. See, the same situation can be 56 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 1: totally different for two different people because you can say 57 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: you look at the examples of history, just just look 58 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: look in your neighborhood. How can that? Was a book 59 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 1: that a guy wrote one time who had the name. 60 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: He had a name, and he did some research and 61 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: he found a guy that grew up at the same 62 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: age in the same neighborhood as him, with the exact 63 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: same name. He went on to become a corporate CEO. 64 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: The other man was an inmate, and they had the 65 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 1: same name, grew up in the same neighborhood. They were 66 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: both brothers, you know not, I'm just saying brothers men, 67 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 1: and they grew and they went to them. Because how 68 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: can two different, two people the same situation and the 69 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: results turn out so different. It is because of the 70 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: thought process of one was completely different from the thought 71 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: process of the other. You control it. You don't have 72 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: to let your circumstances and your situations dictate your future. 73 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: Are your results. Here's the way it works. This is 74 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 1: so you can understand this. Your mind. It's the controlling 75 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: factor of your thoughts. Your thoughts are the controlling factor 76 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: of your outcome. The Bible says a man is as 77 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: he thinketh. Please don't short play this scripture here, because 78 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: this one is the real deal. This is the basis 79 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: of every self improvement book you'll ever read. It's already 80 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 1: written in the Bible. The Bible has all the information 81 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: you need. But in case you need a little bit 82 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: of clarity in some simple modern day language, then they 83 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: have self improvement books. They are all based on Biblical scripture. 84 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: A man is as he thinketh. That's why Norman Vincent 85 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:50,559 Speaker 1: Peale wrote the book The Power of Positive Thinking. That's 86 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: why a book came out called The Magic of Thinking Big. 87 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: That's why a book came out called Think and Grow 88 00:06:57,000 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: Rich by Napoleon Hell. That it all of you. All 89 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: these titles that I've read that have mattered in my 90 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: life the most, These three major books that I've read, 91 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: they all say one thing. Think thinking thoughts, because that's 92 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: what controls the outcome. Your brain works one of two ways. 93 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: It works positive or negative. It works good, which is 94 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: under the column of positive, or to work evil, which 95 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: is under the column of negative. It will have faith, 96 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: which is under the column of positive, or you will 97 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 1: operate in fear, which is in the column of negative. 98 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: That is the only way your mind works. Your mind 99 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 1: is a factory that's comprised of workers. Those workers are 100 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 1: controlled by two formings, forming positive and forming negative. But 101 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 1: guess what the CEO of the company, the head, man, 102 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: the boss is you. You come to work in the 103 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: morning and you say, man, today is a great day. 104 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to take steps towards brightening my future. I'm 105 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: going to take another step into making that dream come 106 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 1: true that I've been thinking about. I'm gonna take another 107 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: step forward in the development and the changing of my 108 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 1: life in a positive, good direction. If you come to 109 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: work and say that every day as the CEO, the boss, 110 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: the formans can only obey you, so that what you 111 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: just said was a series of positive statements then forming 112 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 1: positive steps to the forefront. He said, I got your 113 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: boss right away. He turns around, he blows the whistle. 114 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: He alerts all the workers in the factory today as 115 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: a good day. Today, we will take steps towards our future. 116 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: Today we are putting ourselves on track to get a 117 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: little bit closer to making our dreams come true. Today 118 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: we will be assembling all the things we need to 119 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: make our dreams come true and our life better in 120 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: the right direction. Everybody break. The workers in the factory 121 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: turn around and manufacture thoughts to justify the orders given 122 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: by the boss, which is you. You You are the CEO 123 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: of your corporation. If you don't own nothing else, you 124 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: own everything that's going on between your two ears. You 125 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: are the CEO of that corporation. If that corporation is 126 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: a good one, it's because you set it up that way. 127 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: If your corporation is a bad one, it's because you 128 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,959 Speaker 1: set it up that day. If you trying, if you 129 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: pushing towards your dreams, and you see the possibility of 130 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: things happening in your life is because you, as the CEO, 131 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: set it up that way. If you ain't got nothing popping, 132 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 1: if you just want to be a criminal taking stuff 133 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: from people, throwing your life out the window, you're gonna 134 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: be an inmate. You're gonna be sitting there there and 135 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,440 Speaker 1: you're gonna be mad at everybody. You got nobody be 136 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: mad at. But shoot, you understand what I'm telling you 137 00:09:55,640 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: this morning? Huh? You're listening morning show. Ladies and gentlemen. 138 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: We are here today, gathered for the radio show. This 139 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: is not a game. This is a contest. Anybody can 140 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: win it. You can get your own blue ribbon. Step 141 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: right up, one, all for one, All ye who come? 142 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:24,239 Speaker 1: You are blue ribbon candidates. Welcome to the Steve Harvey Contest. 143 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: What do you want a blue ribbon in today? That's 144 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: the question, Shirley, what do you think you can qualify 145 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 1: to get a blue ribbon in just the way I 146 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: do the show, the way I run the show? Carla, 147 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: what do you think you could get a blue ribbon 148 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: in the way I direct the show. Now, let's begin 149 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: the ignorance. Junior, what do you think you can get 150 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,080 Speaker 1: a blue ribbon? I could get a blue ribbon in 151 00:10:49,160 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: animal sound? He see that? Let them begin, Jay, what 152 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: do you think you could get a blue ribbon in 153 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: ignorance from nowhere? When you don't think it's coming straight 154 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 1: ignorant ignorance out of nowhere? Nephew, Tommy, share with us 155 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 1: what you could get a blue ribbon in that you 156 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: have probably already had thousand the seriousness of stupidity. I 157 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: bring it to a whole nother lovel I just have 158 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: to say one thing, seriously, Junior, I take offense with 159 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: what you did, because on the show, I do animal noises. 160 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: I do animals, animal animal You can't change your answer. 161 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: You you don't do you don't do but one he 162 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:53,839 Speaker 1: doesn't do animal noises, animal noises on the show. No, okay, 163 00:11:54,200 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: stop stop stop stop stop? Sureley do a kangaroo? Whatever? 164 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: Did this? Can? Okay, Shirley do a gorilla? Okay, okay, okay, okay, Shirley, 165 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: not do a chimpanzee. He's good at that, man, She's 166 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: really good at that. Was Caesar? Who was that? Who 167 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: was that Sheley. Yeah, that was Shirley Man, that was 168 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: that was her best one. Watched her kills. Do a dog, Shirley, Okay, Shirley, Shirley, 169 00:12:49,480 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: do a sheep? Shey, Shelly, do a pikers just had 170 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: a spell. It don't sound like I don't know like 171 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 1: I didn't just the word. I don't know what a 172 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: kangaroo sounds like. Show. We'll be back, mo. Shirley sounds 173 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: right all morning to talent and we didn't even know 174 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: she did animals sound Jule when we come back. You're 175 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: listening to morning show? Can you be friends with your ex? 176 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: And what does it take to be friends with you? 177 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn what they do. I don't 178 00:13:53,920 --> 00:14:01,840 Speaker 1: give my no no, he said. Now, I've been court 179 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: wave too many times. Hell, my answer can't even be 180 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: said on the ass. All right, Junior, friends, we're not 181 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: gonna be friends? Okay, Junior? Can you be friends with 182 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: an act? I would like to have been? They just 183 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: don't want me. You keep leaving me. I still be there. 184 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: You're the sweetest guy ever. Yeah, but I still be there. 185 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: Quit acting like no one wants you. You're so sweet, 186 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: You're come on, now, I know what anybody want him? 187 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: Come on, Junior, tell the truth. Now, don't know, Junior, 188 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: don't you let them make you cute? What? Let's stop, 189 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:52,320 Speaker 1: Let's stop, don't you I know I ain't make you ugly? 190 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 1: Don't let him? Can you save my daddy? You all 191 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: look just like, Yeah, I love your looking man, not 192 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: according to your bank account? Get the que do you get? 193 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: Thank you? But wait a minute, even even besides that, Junior, 194 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: why do you go to the gym every day? Then? 195 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: If what why do you go to the gym? I 196 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: gotta sit the sales shout. I guess to be in 197 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: shapeful something. But yeah, but you yeah, but you got 198 00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 1: to fight, you say for nobody. This is this is 199 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: for me. Started slimming down. You got your gun for 200 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 1: he The text is getting stronger to say for nobody 201 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: for me. All right, jay, let me let me ask 202 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: you give me friends with your eggs. All the stuff 203 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: I've lost in every divorce, all of them, every land, 204 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: one of them. I got that back and more so 205 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm cool now I'm cools. Yeah, we're cool. You know. 206 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go out of my way not to speak. Well, 207 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: that's that's not being a friend. I know, I know 208 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: one that you cool with. No, I'm cool with up. No, 209 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: you need a number about to throw excuse me what 210 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm about? Number? You got caught out? Jay? I can 211 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: tell you this. I can tell you this. You need 212 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: to listen to this. The very first divorce, which had 213 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: was a long time ago, has not spoken to me 214 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 1: since then. Really, I'm talking about Mama, Dad, Dad? Did 215 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 1: you know not a word? Not a word? Have y'all 216 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:47,480 Speaker 1: seen each other? Yeah? No, is that she saw you, Jay? 217 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: Because I know him, She saw him. She just missed. 218 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:04,480 Speaker 1: He threw something out of him. Yeah, she had his 219 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 1: ass lined up. She just missed. I'm a nice guy. 220 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,919 Speaker 1: I'm a very nice until you married me. Wow, that 221 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: is you in a nutshell? Is that the truth? Steve? 222 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: That sounds like the truth right there? Did you hear 223 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: what he said? But Jay is a nice guy all 224 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 1: the way around, He really is. He just you know 225 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: all it is. And I'm gonna tell you about my friend. 226 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: The only thing is he just doesn't He never developed 227 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 1: conflict resolution skills. He just walked out. He don't. He 228 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:47,239 Speaker 1: don't the conflict resolution. He just looked at you and 229 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 1: you just keep talking crazy. He just look at you. 230 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: Wide and then one day, then one day he just 231 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 1: drive off. Yeah he doesn't come back. Steve ain't man 232 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,160 Speaker 1: ain't I ain't I ain't he Hey, I don't even 233 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: do all that. Yeah, I don't like to argue, though, 234 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't. All right, now, let's get to the name. 235 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:12,520 Speaker 1: Your job long than I've ever been married. That's crazy, 236 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: all right, nephew, you're the newest to marry in the group. 237 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: Can you be friends with an ex if we're still 238 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 1: doing it? You know? I mean that makes sense right, No, 239 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: only to you. I think, I mean we should do it. 240 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: Then we might well still be friends if we're still 241 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: doing it. But if we're not, I think you're still involved. 242 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 1: That's not really the yea. Yeah, doing it involved is 243 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,159 Speaker 1: not the same thing. Carlin, You're well, what else is 244 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: left after that? What are we doing it? We ain't 245 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: talking after you do it? That's wasn't next? So only 246 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 1: friends you have are friends with benefits? Karl? What's the 247 00:18:55,240 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 1: purpose of a friend? Wow? Wow? To do over? Yeah? 248 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: Sure you want me to do it? No? No, no, 249 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: I mean get your nephew stefe. No, he's saying, listen 250 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: to me. I listened to me. It's times when he 251 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 1: not my nephew. Would this be one of those times 252 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:24,479 Speaker 1: I'm going, Oh, I know when to disown. It's times 253 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: where disowning him is just the best way to handle it, 254 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: you know. I look, when he says something so damn stupid, 255 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: why do I have to stop him? I'll do nothing 256 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 1: but be stopping him all damn day though. Okay, but 257 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 1: some of some of it you gotta go. I say 258 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,879 Speaker 1: stuff that makes sense, it's just you don't want to 259 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 1: digest it. Well, the thing that's really got me is 260 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 1: that out of all of you guys, Jay is the 261 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 1: only one that can remain friends with his axe, the 262 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,600 Speaker 1: bitter man of the bunch. That is crazy. And it's 263 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: only one Shirley, And I know exactly. I could say 264 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 1: her name right now, could I? Ja? Jacob? Same? Okay? 265 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 1: That that is if I say the wrong name, You're 266 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 1: not No, you're not. Wow? How many ext we don't 267 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 1: need to tell about it? Okay, marry lot up, Junior? 268 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:36,120 Speaker 1: What well you went all the way back there? All right? 269 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: Coming up? More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show, so 270 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:49,120 Speaker 1: journey right after then, Yeah, you're listening show right now. 271 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: It's time for the nephew to run that prank back ned. 272 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: Let's run it back to all you all you praise 273 00:20:56,160 --> 00:21:00,400 Speaker 1: dancers out there. This goes out to all of you all. Pray. Yeah, yeah, 274 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:04,120 Speaker 1: upset some people on this one. Yeah. Did that run 275 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: go out on the radio? Yes? Yes, yes? Do you 276 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: guys do what I like? Praise dance? That ain't for me? 277 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:18,040 Speaker 1: Pray We'll talk about the minute praise dance for y'all. Hello, 278 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: this is the day that the Lord is May let 279 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: us rejoice and be glad in And how you doing? 280 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: I'm looking for uh Stania? This is Sitania, Satia. This 281 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 1: is brother Fuller from the church. How are you? Oh, 282 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm brother, How are you? I'm good? I'm good. Um. 283 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 1: We wanted to give you a call about the about 284 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,479 Speaker 1: the praise dancing that's at the church. First of all, 285 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to really show you how much uh you're 286 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: doing a great job over there with the praise dances 287 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,959 Speaker 1: and you you definitely do a great job on uh 288 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: on on on every third Tunday that you guys actually perform. 289 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: Everybody seemed to really like it. Well, thank you, thank you. 290 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 1: What can I do for you today? There is a 291 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,400 Speaker 1: bit of a situation with um, you know, it's been 292 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 1: brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering, 293 00:21:57,720 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 1: a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been 294 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: elected to actually give you a pall and who is 295 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: this again? I'm sorry, who are you again? Brother full 296 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: of uh huh and and and who had a meeting 297 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,680 Speaker 1: uh some of the brothers at the church and uh 298 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: path to actually set in for a moment on it. 299 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,600 Speaker 1: And I was actually elected to actually just give you 300 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: a call that nothing that I don't think we can't 301 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 1: get uh rectified and you know, move on slowly as 302 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: we normally do. But I just think it's we wanted 303 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: to reach out to you and kind of make you 304 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: aware of it. If it's if you don't mind, okay, um? 305 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: And what things are those? Well? Since a Tania has 306 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:41,479 Speaker 1: any of the praise dancers before they became praise dancers? 307 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:47,240 Speaker 1: Was was was any of them strippers? I beg your partner, 308 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: Was any of the praise dancers that at the church 309 00:22:51,320 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 1: that you have on the praise team right now? Was 310 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 1: any of them strippers in the past? I'm sorry, sir, 311 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 1: I don't I don't really know who you are, and 312 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: I don't really understand this line of question. Like I said, 313 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 1: I'm brother Fuller. I don't think we've met, but uh, 314 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: like I said, I've been electing to give you a 315 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,960 Speaker 1: call it seeing what happened is this past week when 316 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: you all actually danced, it seemed like a couple of 317 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: the girls was actually gyrating during the phrase routine. Hey 318 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: what jat raiding? Brother Fuller. I don't know who you are, 319 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 1: and I don't know what you saw. None of my 320 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 1: girls with j rating. They would dancing for the Lord. 321 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 1: And I think if you look through your lord's eye, 322 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 1: perhaps you would see them better instead of maybe you 323 00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: were looking through the jar raiding eye. Look, some of 324 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 1: these girls are a couple of the girls. We can 325 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,439 Speaker 1: poll them out a couple of them. How uh strip 326 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: girl tendencies of it? Then? Because some of them has 327 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: been strip girls tendencies? You know what, sir? I think 328 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,119 Speaker 1: we need to complete this call. Perhaps I need to 329 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: call Bish up and speak to him myself, because you know, 330 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what you do all days, but I 331 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 1: have a real job and I'm sitting here holding the 332 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: conversation in my office about jar rating strippers in the church. 333 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: Are you kidding me, ma'am? Listen, listen now, here's a 334 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: couple other things that they're talking about. Some of the 335 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 1: girls feet a real ass you when you all a 336 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: performing and they want to see it, maybe you can, 337 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 1: you can, I don't know. Maybe I don't know if 338 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 1: y'all need to grip or whatever that y'all don't. Y'all 339 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:18,639 Speaker 1: don't put lotion on. We're not sure what that is. 340 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: As well as the totally alpile. Everybody has three, four, 341 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: five different designs and everything is it? Any way, y'all 342 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 1: can be in unison with you're totally polis. But the 343 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,680 Speaker 1: most important thing ill to Ji Raden doing the Dan's routine. 344 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: I don't know what your feet look like. I don't 345 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: need you calling me talking to me about my girls 346 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,199 Speaker 1: their feet, their nail polis. Perhaps your man should be 347 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 1: on Jesus instead of them, how about that man from time? 348 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 1: I don't have time, mamma, and to be on Jesus 349 00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 1: when somebody shaking them. But at the church, now that's 350 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: the problem. I know what. Look, I'm at work now, 351 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to keep a work tone. You're gonna make 352 00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 1: me curse up here, and now let me tell you something. 353 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: Don't call me anymore. I will deal with pastor. If 354 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: he has something to say with me, he can say 355 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 1: it to me personally. But I'm done with this conversation. 356 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 1: Are you gonna deal with the jy rating? Is what 357 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,399 Speaker 1: we want to know? Maybe you know what? It just 358 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: hit me. Maybe you're one of the ones that's doing 359 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 1: the GI rate. Look, let me tell you something. My 360 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,239 Speaker 1: girls ain't doing no damn jar rating, and neither am I. 361 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 1: Now I am done with this conversation. Do you understand? 362 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: But listen, I'm done? Are you done with the rating? 363 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 1: That's because we want to stop so we can we 364 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,119 Speaker 1: can't praise the Lord if the booty isn't shake you 365 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 1: know what, I gotta go to work now again. I 366 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: don't know what your issue is. It sounds to me 367 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: like you have an issue which I reading booties And 368 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,639 Speaker 1: I heard so much gy reading booties in one conversation 369 00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: in my entire life. Now my mind is set on Jesus. 370 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what your mind is set on. What's 371 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: to tell you? Before you was a praise then a 372 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: ministry over the ministry? Did you ll use to strip? Yeah? 373 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 1: I didn't do no stripping? Now did you? Why do 374 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,680 Speaker 1: any stripping? What did you what I'm gonna do any 375 00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: stripping whatever. Do you hear what I said? How do 376 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:00,800 Speaker 1: you like doing? Somebody? You would ask you if your 377 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 1: mama get some script? And how do you like that? Oh? 378 00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:04,760 Speaker 1: I'm saying, you know what? I want to know? When 379 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: is the next rehearsal. That the way I can come 380 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: and pick out of who it is that's doing this. Jill, 381 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: you don't have you don't have any visages at my rehearsal. 382 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to see you at my rehearsal. I 383 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't want to see any part 384 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: for you in my rehearse if I see you near 385 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: one of my girls. That's why I'm coming up for 386 00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 1: you myself. Do you understand me? I need to find 387 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: out who's doing that job? Damn thing? You need to say? 388 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: Your body in y'r own high and I'm glad y'all 389 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: ain't this? And when the when the when the plate 390 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: is being paid? Because I ain't not telling her you 391 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: act with them? One's coming through it, you know what. 392 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,640 Speaker 1: That's it. That's it. You call me disrespecting me. I'm 393 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: at work. They can't even have this to more? You 394 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: know what, don't call me no more? Don't look at 395 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 1: my girls no more. Man come to the church and 396 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: see what I got for it. I don't want to know. 397 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: Is you're gonna stop the job rating is doing. Don't 398 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 1: do it? Damn thing who they do talking to like that? 399 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: You're supposed to be a minute of stop your side. Yeah, 400 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 1: let's have done listening to tell you now, I'm getting 401 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 1: ready to job. When I got one more thing to 402 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: say to you, fold your lead. Now you ain't got 403 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,159 Speaker 1: a damn thing to say to me. I feel I 404 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: was then, and I said, I got one more thing 405 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,520 Speaker 1: to say? Is you listen? You know what? Men? Get 406 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,639 Speaker 1: off my phone. I'm gonna say it anyway. This is 407 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: Nephew Timment from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your entire 408 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: praise and ministry congregation. All your girls got me the 409 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: frank phone called you. Oh I'm a shoot for real. 410 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 1: Oh I think I'm chursing on the radio. Oh oh, 411 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: which is why I was. You know what it was 412 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: all of them. I talked five of us. Now I 413 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: got some explaining this show. Lord ha Mercy, you did 414 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 1: good though you did really hung in there. Oh wait, 415 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:45,359 Speaker 1: I talked to bishop. You might want to Oh. I 416 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,160 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna have a show. I got one thing 417 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: to ask you. Tell you what it is, the baddest 418 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: radio show in the land, nobody else but the Steve 419 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 1: Harvey More on the show s Huh, you don't, I 420 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 1: mean when you're listening to my praise dancer. Yeah, you 421 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:04,399 Speaker 1: don't think get some people up there? Don't need to 422 00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: be up there. Absolutely, that's not for me to say. 423 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:12,959 Speaker 1: I'm just judging church and church a praise dance limit. 424 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: What do you agree with timing? Which I seldom do, 425 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:21,639 Speaker 1: But we have got to limit the time that praise 426 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: dancers can be up down. It's never moved me. That's 427 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: never made me want to join. It ain't never made 428 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: me want to do better. It always has made me 429 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:37,400 Speaker 1: want to go home. Really, I want this service overWe 430 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: I want y'all stop all that waving. Can I tell 431 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: you the real thing. It ain't like synchrona swimming swims, 432 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: be key. I don't like watching people ain't all at 433 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: the same time. What what Tommy? If you're missing your 434 00:28:56,200 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: big toe praise dancer ain't fun. Don't equally you got 435 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: to look barefooted? Go you're listening to show. Carla found 436 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: this great article on hiring your relatives, your family members. Yeah, 437 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: we're all on team Tommy for the most part of 438 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: Jay is president and CEO by Yeah, but here's some 439 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: information from the article. Here the pros, Steve, Okay, for 440 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 1: hiring your relatives, you already know what you're getting. You 441 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: already know. You don't have to guess. You don't even 442 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: think about it, you know, because this is a member 443 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: of your family, so you know this person. Here's some 444 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: of the cons though, it sends the wrong signal to 445 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: other employees, you know, like they're not qualified for the job. 446 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: They just got the job because he was your Huh 447 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 1: that's true. Uh huh uh. Here's another con. A relative 448 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: may feel the rules don't apply to in this case him. 449 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:03,600 Speaker 1: That's so true. He just missed two days. Yeah, but 450 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 1: he didn't get paid though. Oh okay, that's where the 451 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: stain gonna come out. All him shows he's gonna need it. 452 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: He's gonna need it, alright, so he working to conversate 453 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 1: for his chick. There's another con Steve, Well, you don't 454 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: necessarily do this, but other CEOs might not hire relatives 455 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: because the con is you hold back from criticism or 456 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: you don't discipline him. So in this case, you did. 457 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 1: You did doc him his pay, right, man? I wishall would. 458 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna not criticize him. What is we talking? If 459 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: we're not doing criticism? Why are we talking? But but 460 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: you hired him, though, Steve, that was not by choice? 461 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 1: You what do you mean, my sister? Oh, the only 462 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 1: reason I ain't fired him is causing health. Well, I 463 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 1: wasn't a good hide though. You don't think he does 464 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: good work, Steve. You don't think I was a good 465 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 1: hire boy. If I could replay for days, you missed 466 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: the times you called in from day one though, I 467 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,400 Speaker 1: can't even tell you. Yeah, you guys weren't even here 468 00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 1: on day one when Tommy used to call him from 469 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: his bed at least twice a week, asking if he 470 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,880 Speaker 1: had to come in. I was trying to get used 471 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 1: to the system. That's awkward, but we were all here. 472 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 1: What else you got? That's about it. The article goes 473 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,479 Speaker 1: on to say that issues with family members who come 474 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: up I don't even want to stay. Yeah, just wait, 475 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: I gotta brace brace yourself. The article goes on to say, 476 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 1: issues with family members who come up short. You couldn't 477 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: let that go, asked me? He asked me it's his show. President, wrong, 478 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 1: they come up? It said, issues with family members? Come look, okay, 479 00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: good job around here? Come up short of the job. 480 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: They must have interview should be addressed just as they 481 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: would any other else who would have been the shortest 482 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: one on the shop. That's right there. I didn't have 483 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: to try to read one more time. I read it again. 484 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,040 Speaker 1: What don't you say, President and CEO of team Timmy 485 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:03,800 Speaker 1: need to hit it in? Yeah? But why she got 486 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,520 Speaker 1: water come out of think? Steve? Did you not ask 487 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 1: me to read this again? I didn't know. I didn't 488 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 1: know what it was you do, but you could not. 489 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 1: You gonna let it go? Okay? I was gonna of no, Junior, 490 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: I don't think I should. We've already heard it, Shirley. 491 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: I bet you a thousand dollars. You can't read it 492 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: without laughing? Ready said, okay? Thousand dollars, one thousand, Okay. 493 00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: The article goes on to say, issues with family members, 494 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: come on, I can do it. I can do it. 495 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 1: Come on, thousand dollars. Issues with family members? Bathe come on, 496 00:33:51,840 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: issues with get out with examily, even the devil. That's all, 497 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: that's all it is. That is so cute. You can't 498 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: get it. Don't worry about it one more time, two thousand. Okay, 499 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: I can do it, I can Okay. The article goes 500 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: on to say that issues with family members, who oh come, 501 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 1: it ain't all pretty good. The job, job, take this tissue. 502 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: I come up short at the moment. Have you ever 503 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 1: seen anybody go to the amusement park and that stick 504 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 1: means so much? Yeah, I've cried. You haven't seen somebody 505 00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: get on amusement ride They shut the safety bar down 506 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 1: and he stepped right out. You haven't seen somebody come 507 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: round at first? Heel on that roller coaster and everybody 508 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 1: on the train gotta grab him. Yeah, yeah, In other words, 509 00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,760 Speaker 1: and yeah, welcome back to me. Oh dog, you should 510 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: have seen what was happening. Why you was gone captain 511 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 1: a teen Tommy with Jack Yeah, the president. So in 512 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,520 Speaker 1: other words, Steve, they're saying that it might be the 513 00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 1: worst decision you can make to hire a relic. It 514 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: ain't no doubt about it from me. All right, we'll 515 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:52,040 Speaker 1: be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show 516 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:58,879 Speaker 1: right after you're listening Steve Show. Well, guys, forty three 517 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,920 Speaker 1: million people we'll be traveling over this weekend Now, if 518 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: you believe this new survey, Yeah, that's a lot of people. 519 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,240 Speaker 1: If you believe this new survey, the average American traveler 520 00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: hates going to the airport so much that they'd add 521 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 1: six and a half hours to their travel time if 522 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: it meant they could drive and take road trips to 523 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,800 Speaker 1: their location instead. Wow. Wow, Well, you know, it is 524 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,920 Speaker 1: a more enjoyable experience to drive for a lot of people, 525 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 1: because look, I used to take buses. I'm talking about 526 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:34,960 Speaker 1: who we were touring. Oh yeah, Like for example, if 527 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 1: I was going you know, okay, okay, all of us 528 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,000 Speaker 1: lived in Atlanta for a period, right, Like if I 529 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: was going to Birmingham to perform, I'm not going to 530 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:45,800 Speaker 1: get a plane. Or if I'm going to Orlando or 531 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:50,040 Speaker 1: I'm going South Carolina, I'm going somewhere like that, I'm 532 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:54,000 Speaker 1: getting a bus man. Because if you gotta leave in 533 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: plenty of time, you gotta pack, you gotta get dressed, 534 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: you gotta get in the car. Got to get to 535 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 1: the airport at least I on the half before, and 536 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,839 Speaker 1: you got to sit there and wait. Then you got 537 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 1: a board, then you fly. Then when you land, you 538 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: got to go to the baggage claim get your bag. 539 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 1: Then you gotta travel to the hotel. But then you 540 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,440 Speaker 1: could have been when you was called. That's you need 541 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 1: to stop, Steve, because when you get your bag, that's 542 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 1: a two hour wait. That's longer than the flight. Oh man, 543 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you, oh my car baggage claim 544 00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 1: I have steward there. I don't know who working back there. Man, 545 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: I know, but when I saw you don't. Yeah, you're right, Steve. 546 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 1: All that time when you yeah, all that when you 547 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,920 Speaker 1: think about it, Yeah, you can get on the road, 548 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: put your luggage in the trunk and be there and 549 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,200 Speaker 1: you just get to spend time in a couple of hours, 550 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 1: spend time more relaxing. Yeah, I don't want to spend 551 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 1: no time with nobody. Um, we took the bus when 552 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:55,880 Speaker 1: we went to open it from Atlanta, we had to 553 00:37:55,920 --> 00:37:59,120 Speaker 1: show down there. Yeah, all it was on there you was. 554 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 1: We was having what I thought he was maybe just you. 555 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:11,440 Speaker 1: I'm glad he didn't changed again, then let's go on college. 556 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 1: He ain't been in no damn baggage claiming a long time. No, 557 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: damn your bed come right off the back of your planet. 558 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,240 Speaker 1: You know what you're talking about. He stood in no baggage. 559 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,919 Speaker 1: What's this frustration? I ain't got no frustration. Roll out there, 560 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: up to his plane, get out, walk up them stuff. 561 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: You get all his plane. Oh, ain't nobody tending to 562 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: get off the damn phone or nothing. He talking all 563 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 1: the way through the flight taking off. Guy, ain't no 564 00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 1: seat belt on and nothing, just sitting down and sitting 565 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: there putting out there. We're gonna say, what kind of 566 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 1: sing all I got? Now? Look, God is blessing. But 567 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:50,200 Speaker 1: once it get I ain't mad at he ain't mad 568 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:54,279 Speaker 1: at him. Damn show sound and he get all the 569 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 1: come all he got. Yeah. At seventy three percent of Americans, 570 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,360 Speaker 1: Steve agree you. They consider road tripping a more pleasant 571 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 1: experience than flying. You gotta take your shoes off, you 572 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 1: gotta undress, you got it? Oh my god, that nicke 573 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,440 Speaker 1: and just going on, coming up some more music and 574 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 1: more fun on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 575 00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,360 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show today. It's gonna be 576 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 1: with Tommy and Junior. And I think you guys that 577 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,799 Speaker 1: have entitled this things you wish you still had. Yeah, 578 00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 1: I'm the YBC. What's the why see the young boys 579 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:40,879 Speaker 1: a comedy. Why the building they are YBC with things 580 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 1: you wish you still had, Junior said, tom Boy. If 581 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: I still had a page, you hit me on my 582 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,640 Speaker 1: hip today, I'd be bawling up in here, but I can't. 583 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,719 Speaker 1: I just wish I still had a page. I ain't 584 00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,359 Speaker 1: gonna lie. Yeah, put you put your yeah, your cell 585 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,839 Speaker 1: phones getting people get messed. Yeah, yes, yeah, you want 586 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: something now, Well you ain't got to worry about all 587 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,320 Speaker 1: that you know, all that call and all that you 588 00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: want about to hit you on the hip. I'll call 589 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 1: you when I get ready. Oh yeah, yeah, all right. 590 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 1: I just had a pain when you put your cold 591 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 1: in when I used to see sixth in that number 592 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: I got about. I just want stuff. I'm more affable 593 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: about right stuff that you know now I'm I'm doing stuff. Well, 594 00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:23,200 Speaker 1: it's a little stress and everything, making a little more 595 00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,560 Speaker 1: money and everything. But lord, I still wish I had 596 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 1: a car took regular gas. I'll be honest with I 597 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:35,399 Speaker 1: wasn't ready for Supreme all the time that ninety three plus. 598 00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,759 Speaker 1: I just had a call that just took regular you know, 599 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,880 Speaker 1: if I get back down the one eighty nine A 600 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 1: gay when I when I bought my truck. They didn't 601 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 1: tell me it had to be all the time. If 602 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 1: I could just get back to that thing you still have, 603 00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:57,200 Speaker 1: that wish you still had. If I could just popping 604 00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 1: in a VHS tape. Boy, you hear me, pop it 605 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:05,440 Speaker 1: in the greatest movies of all time, right there. VHS 606 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: to me, that's better than DVD. That's when you go 607 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: back when a moving meant something. When you went to blockbusting, 608 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:15,360 Speaker 1: picked up your tape, pop it in, and then you 609 00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: had to get it back the next day. You got 610 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:22,320 Speaker 1: two days. I was always late with that team always. 611 00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 1: I actually bought Mota. I had Pandora stole this idea 612 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,719 Speaker 1: from Pandora already stole this after. I really do wish 613 00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 1: I had a tape record, but I could just take 614 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 1: my song. Don't have to hit the commercial. Pandora come 615 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,520 Speaker 1: in after every second song. They got something they want 616 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,480 Speaker 1: to see. Man, just play this the ten songs for 617 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: raw I want to hear. Yes, I don't have time. 618 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in socks, shirts, shot pass belts. I 619 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: don't want to. I just want to get the Joda 620 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 1: system fading. After that, I want to get to some Luther. 621 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 1: I don't really think you had a tape record your 622 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: pols it. Let them get that at the dead play. 623 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: That's all I want to get back to me. I 624 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:06,160 Speaker 1: don't have it. I'll never have it again. But if 625 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: I could just have a nice outfrow and putting my 626 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 1: putting my rake in it with the fists on it, 627 00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,239 Speaker 1: and walk around like that, if I could do that 628 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 1: for a day while I be bare over, I know 629 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,800 Speaker 1: that if I could have it, I'd wear me a 630 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:24,359 Speaker 1: knife throw withold a pick in it, with the fists 631 00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,080 Speaker 1: on the top of it. Get a man weave. That's 632 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,600 Speaker 1: all you have to do. You can do that. Man 633 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:31,320 Speaker 1: live in Baltimore. I got to fly out there to 634 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,920 Speaker 1: get it. I'm already called it to live in Baltimore. 635 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:37,320 Speaker 1: He lived in Baltimore. The voice cold, What do you 636 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: do tell me? He put that on your head? It 637 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,600 Speaker 1: looks real serious, It looks so real. I'm gonna wear 638 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 1: it for about two days, just be balling. I'm telling 639 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 1: you watch me. You guys haven't seen it. You haven't 640 00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 1: seen it. I ain't showed you out a video. You 641 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,800 Speaker 1: gotta you gotta see it. It's unbelievable. It's gonna believe it. Unbeweavable. 642 00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 1: It really is. It is so things we wish uh 643 00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,840 Speaker 1: that we still had got Junior, I'll tell you with 644 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:05,920 Speaker 1: that thing I wish I still hate, ain't got no. 645 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 1: I wish I had a woman who didn't want so much. 646 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: I wish I had that. I used to day the 647 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 1: didn't care nothing about about going out to expensive place. 648 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 1: No Chileese is cool. I ain't even the chili and 649 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,920 Speaker 1: stof at all. The man you gonna get the two 650 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,919 Speaker 1: for twenty Uh that when you're getting two advertisers, two 651 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,359 Speaker 1: meals and two desserts, twenty books. I used to kill 652 00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 1: him in there. Boy, if I could bring that back, 653 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,759 Speaker 1: no chiless two for twenty y'all don't remember that. Get 654 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,399 Speaker 1: that out of your mind. Yeah, I ain't going back 655 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:42,600 Speaker 1: that over No no, because now you know we used 656 00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:44,600 Speaker 1: to eat restaurants. Now eat restaurants now where all the 657 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 1: lights is low yea all that they pay for them life. 658 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,960 Speaker 1: I asked him, turn my section up, take you take 659 00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:53,799 Speaker 1: thirty off my beatles up to give me so down. 660 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: I gonna eat the restaurants. Now you gotta take two elevators, 661 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,279 Speaker 1: get to the top. Chill. It's the same flow, body 662 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:04,200 Speaker 1: even I want to go over there, No, I want 663 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 1: to eat down for Twitter. Who don't miss that, nephew 664 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 1: coming up with a frank phone call right after this. 665 00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, nephew, what you 666 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,799 Speaker 1: got time for the frank phone call? Shirley, It's time 667 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:27,520 Speaker 1: to baptize some people. It's called mobile baptismal pool mobile baptism. 668 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 1: We come to you, and you know you could be ignorant. 669 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: You don't come to your house and baptize. That's what 670 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:40,640 Speaker 1: we do. Hit it. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach 671 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 1: a mister Wilson. How are you doing? My name is 672 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 1: brother Springwater Man. Listen. We uh we we got paid 673 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: to actually come by and do some services to you 674 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 1: for for you by some friends of yours, and we 675 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: wanted to actually call and see about scheduling and see 676 00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:02,799 Speaker 1: what you had available, uh, some some services. Well, y'all 677 00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: playing on Clenson grad which I do? What kind of 678 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,880 Speaker 1: services your head? Actually, sir, You've got some friends that 679 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 1: have actually spent a great amount of money on you. 680 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 1: And what we do is, um, we have a baptismal 681 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: own wheels servant. And what we do is we go 682 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 1: and we um we baptize people at their home, and 683 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: baptismal on wheels has been it's a new um company, 684 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,080 Speaker 1: but we've we've baptized over a thousand people. Now we 685 00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 1: have a truck with it which actually has a baptismal 686 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,440 Speaker 1: pool on the back of it, and we actually come 687 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:38,719 Speaker 1: to your home and we will baptize you in your 688 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: driveway and and make you hold again. So we hostess 689 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:48,800 Speaker 1: here brother water. Brother again, I'm sorry, I ain't fringwater springwater. 690 00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: What you want to come to my house and give 691 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:53,320 Speaker 1: me a baptism in my front yard. We want to 692 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,600 Speaker 1: baptize you right there in your drive where your friends 693 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 1: are paid for the services. And my friend, what a 694 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 1: friend will pay for me to get baptize? Man, I've 695 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 1: been baptized, are already doc well from my understanding, sir 696 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,440 Speaker 1: that but then that you you had some some bumps 697 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,360 Speaker 1: and bruises and and and they seem to believe that 698 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,279 Speaker 1: you need to be Washington coming. I mean, that's all good, 699 00:46:12,440 --> 00:46:14,560 Speaker 1: that's all, that's all. It's all good. But I mean 700 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 1: things are I mean things that matter that it made man, 701 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I've been baptized. I go to church, you know, 702 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 1: uh me and the Lord don't have no problems. I mean, 703 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 1: we all have setbacks. But for you to pull up 704 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: with your pool in front of my house to say 705 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,000 Speaker 1: you've been a baptize me, that that doesn't make any 706 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,120 Speaker 1: sense to me. Doc. I mean sometimes when some people 707 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,160 Speaker 1: are not able to go to the house of the 708 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,239 Speaker 1: Lord and get baptized, you know, we're making a lot 709 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:41,839 Speaker 1: more convenient for you. But we can actually need no convenience. 710 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 1: I don't need no convenience. What I need convenience for 711 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: you asking me to come to my house on a 712 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 1: Tuesday so baptized me in my driveway? Does that make 713 00:46:54,080 --> 00:46:56,320 Speaker 1: any sense to you? Brother water? I mean, come on, 714 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,120 Speaker 1: if you really sit back and think about it, does 715 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 1: that make any sense to you? Further coming? First of all, 716 00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,759 Speaker 1: so that that's that's that's that's brothers spring water. But 717 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to what I'm trying to see the 718 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 1: water is holy water, spring water. It doesn't make no 719 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 1: difference to me. You can't come to my neighborhood and 720 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:17,000 Speaker 1: baptize me in front of my home. So what is 721 00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:18,880 Speaker 1: all that I ain't war? This is this is what 722 00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 1: your friends are talking about that don't give it? That 723 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,279 Speaker 1: what my prayers are telling you, man that anybody which 724 00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:26,319 Speaker 1: which one of my friends, don't recommend you to come 725 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,279 Speaker 1: to my damn house. So I'm skin and if I 726 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 1: don't let make that you don't even make any sense 727 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,239 Speaker 1: to me. You understand, I'm not I'm not at any 728 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,720 Speaker 1: liberty to tell you who actually, uh importuning the liberty 729 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: became to my gym house that baptized me. But you 730 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,320 Speaker 1: can't tell me who the hell I gonna see you? 731 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 1: But you're not what man? Come on, you don't even 732 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 1: come on that that makes sense for you. Come on, 733 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't make any no way in the world. I'm 734 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,719 Speaker 1: gonna allow you to come and bring your phone in 735 00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:55,840 Speaker 1: front of my house and baptize me. Then I'm asking 736 00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,680 Speaker 1: you ask and you you supposed to be a pastor, 737 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: you supposed to get baptized. I'm asking you, Okay, what's 738 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,360 Speaker 1: a friend of mine is telling you that, you know, 739 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 1: letting you know I need to be done. You'll tell 740 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,760 Speaker 1: you how that liberty, sir, all I wanted to Basically, 741 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:13,880 Speaker 1: I've already been paid, I'm coming to church. I'm baptizing me. 742 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:17,240 Speaker 1: Then back time, I'm going to baptize you on Tuesday 743 00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,160 Speaker 1: in your driveway. Man, I tell you was did you 744 00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,920 Speaker 1: come to my house and front of my driveways? You 745 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 1: better bring an old congregation, you understand, You better bring 746 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:29,480 Speaker 1: the deacons, the brothers, the Sistance and everybody as you 747 00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: think how many you got ties of which this is 748 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 1: a problem. This is what your friends are talking about. 749 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,760 Speaker 1: This is why you need to be baptized and cleansed 750 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 1: again and washed in the blood of the lamp. This 751 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,399 Speaker 1: is what's wrong. You need to be cleans That's what's 752 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: wrong with you, mister Wilton. What's wrong with me? Now, 753 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 1: what's wrong with you is called me in a little 754 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 1: my hope. They're telling me I need to be back 755 00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,120 Speaker 1: tip in front of my house. If I need to 756 00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:51,520 Speaker 1: be backtip, don't get some only water, I go down 757 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 1: to the church. I don't need you come in front 758 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 1: of my house making an old churers. We are you 759 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: afraid of some white sheets talking about to backtip me 760 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,720 Speaker 1: that for mama, saying, from my understanding, from my understanding, 761 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 1: mister Wilson, you've missed two Sundays already this month, surning 762 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: this man. I can't go anywhere and get the one 763 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,479 Speaker 1: I don't need if you coming here because you telling 764 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,319 Speaker 1: I missed to damn Sundays. I'm gonna miss sending two 765 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 1: till the funhou ain't coming off, sir. All I know 766 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:19,479 Speaker 1: is I've been paid to do a job. I will 767 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,839 Speaker 1: be there Tuesday morning at seven o'clock and we will 768 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:24,440 Speaker 1: baptize you before you go to work on two more. 769 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: You would I tell you what, you curting my afterelling 770 00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:31,320 Speaker 1: o'clock morning. I swear on your lord, I'm gonna bust you. 771 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 1: You understand me. You would not cutting my house telling 772 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,560 Speaker 1: me you would have backtipe. Now, I don't give a 773 00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,680 Speaker 1: damn who paid you. You understand I was drying your 774 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 1: awards matter, stop down, bringing you your teachers, everybody else. 775 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 1: We're gonna have a fool prot you. That you understand. 776 00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 1: I'm time all of this anger and all of this 777 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,680 Speaker 1: that these problems you have within you. We are going 778 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,400 Speaker 1: to burge your body and get it out your system. 779 00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,360 Speaker 1: I don't want your pleas of me. I tell you what. 780 00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 1: I tell you what without the swing one is, that's 781 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 1: the rain water. You gotta get baptized. So Tuesday morning, 782 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't give a dam who pays you, who called you, 783 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,839 Speaker 1: bring y'all, I'm gonna I can't kill you. I'm gonna 784 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,040 Speaker 1: dry y'all side. I got one more thing I want 785 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,439 Speaker 1: to say to you when you listening to Gotta matter. 786 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 1: I'm bussy. You ain't got to say to me. I 787 00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: gotta go understand you ain't got at little man. I 788 00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: want to say to you. Is you listening to me? Whatnot? 789 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:28,160 Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 790 00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:36,440 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your boy Mason. Hello, man, 791 00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:42,680 Speaker 1: let me tell y'all something, man, Let me chell you something. 792 00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:45,880 Speaker 1: Boy y'all y'all was boy brido man, I said, haaf man. 793 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,280 Speaker 1: I was about to act a fool on y'all because 794 00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,719 Speaker 1: y'all would to show to be by crib. You'rederstand me 795 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 1: what Timmy, y'all ain't got just better to do. Didn't 796 00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,520 Speaker 1: sit around here and just with people during their day. Man. 797 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 1: I ain't never thought y'all could give me with this 798 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,720 Speaker 1: goes around baptize of people. That's like riddles A will 799 00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 1: baptized people with a point will. I gotta ask you something. 800 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,080 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Man? 801 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: You know it's the Steve Harvey Morning the Show. See 802 00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:28,879 Speaker 1: that's how you baptize somebody forget going to church now 803 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 1: exactly when they don't make it to the church. You know, 804 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 1: we bring the baptismal to you side right out. That's 805 00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 1: actually a good idea. We're n Yeah, we'll baptize you. 806 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,680 Speaker 1: You go to work in the morning. Yeah, and get 807 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 1: you get your save on. We get to save on 808 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 1: right there. We cleanse you right there in the driveway. 809 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: Won't we won't he do it? Yeah? He will? And 810 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:59,239 Speaker 1: will he won't. You're listening Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well, 811 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:02,279 Speaker 1: right now it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And 812 00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:07,320 Speaker 1: if you need advice on your relationship, on dating, on work, 813 00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 1: on sex problems, parenting, and more, submit your Strawberry letter 814 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:16,839 Speaker 1: to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter, 815 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,799 Speaker 1: right Steve, Did I leave anything out? Need to leave nothing? Hell? 816 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:24,920 Speaker 1: And anybody just not clear too. We don't need Joe 817 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:30,040 Speaker 1: letter cause you slow. All right, go ahead, show, all right, 818 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:34,320 Speaker 1: bub hold on tie Strawberry letter. All right, this is 819 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,320 Speaker 1: a long one. The subject my ex girlfriend is a 820 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:42,680 Speaker 1: huge problem. Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a big problem. 821 00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 1: Two years ago, I relocated for work. Before I moved, 822 00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 1: I had a special lady that I enjoyed spending time with. 823 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 1: She was a big, fine woman, thick in all of 824 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 1: the right places. It's been a year since I had 825 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,400 Speaker 1: seen her, and I was missing her good loving so 826 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,319 Speaker 1: I called her and told her I was sending her 827 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:08,720 Speaker 1: a bus ticket to come visit me. Yes, a bus ticket, 828 00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:16,439 Speaker 1: because a brother ain't rich. What The weekend finally came 829 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,279 Speaker 1: and I was so excited to see her. But oh 830 00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: my goodness, when this woman got off the bus, I 831 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 1: swear I barely recognized her. She had almost doubled in 832 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 1: size in the patch year. Don't get me wrong, I 833 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:33,080 Speaker 1: like big girls, but she should have told me that 834 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,800 Speaker 1: she gained a lot of weight. I didn't say anything, 835 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: and I tried not to look shocked. As soon as 836 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,879 Speaker 1: we got in the car, she pulled out a bag 837 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:45,359 Speaker 1: of snacks and offered me a brownie. I always loved 838 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,920 Speaker 1: her cooking, so I ate a brownie. When we got 839 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: to my apartment, I ate another brownie. Then I realized 840 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:56,879 Speaker 1: something wasn't quite right. Oh, I was high as heck. 841 00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 1: She admitted that the brown he's had weed in them, 842 00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 1: like it was no big deal. I was sitting on 843 00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,560 Speaker 1: the couch trying to get myself together, when all of 844 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:09,480 Speaker 1: a sudden, she climbed on me and said she was 845 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:13,239 Speaker 1: going to give me exactly what I'd been missing. All 846 00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:15,520 Speaker 1: I could do was lie there, pinned to the couch. 847 00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:19,080 Speaker 1: She took advantage of me for what seemed like hours. 848 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to yell out for her to stop, but 849 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,839 Speaker 1: nothing came out because I was too high. I ended 850 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 1: up passing out on the couch. The next day, I 851 00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:32,080 Speaker 1: told her that I felt violated. She said she could 852 00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:34,279 Speaker 1: tell that I had had a problem with her weight, 853 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,360 Speaker 1: so she took matters into her own hands. I couldn't 854 00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 1: wait to get this big, wild woman out of my house. 855 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:43,040 Speaker 1: Now she keeps calling and texting me and I don't 856 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 1: want anything to do with her. How can I get 857 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,560 Speaker 1: rid of her without hurting her feelings? This is a 858 00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 1: huge problem. Well, be careful what you asked for? Humh. 859 00:54:54,600 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 1: You know what though, I'm really sorry, Yeah, because a 860 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,760 Speaker 1: long letter. I'm really sorry that you know you feel violated. 861 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 1: I really am. And it's not talked about a lot, 862 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:09,279 Speaker 1: but men do get violated, and in this case, you 863 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,640 Speaker 1: were violated. If you felt that way, you know, if 864 00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,760 Speaker 1: this situation were reversed we probably have a completely different 865 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,279 Speaker 1: answer for you. But I will tell you this. She 866 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,759 Speaker 1: is out of your house, she's out of town, so 867 00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,080 Speaker 1: you don't have that to worry about. As far as 868 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:28,880 Speaker 1: the phone is concerned, you don't have to answer her calls, 869 00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 1: I mean, or you can just simply tell her it's 870 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: not going to work out. You didn't appreciate what she 871 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 1: did and all of that. But maybe as a man, 872 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:38,360 Speaker 1: you don't feel like you should tell her all of that, 873 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: But I think you should. I think you should be 874 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,200 Speaker 1: honest with this woman and let her know that what 875 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:46,080 Speaker 1: she did is wrong and how you felt about the situation. 876 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:50,839 Speaker 1: And please do not send her another bus ticket, all right, 877 00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:56,759 Speaker 1: that's in your best interest, Steve. Well, it's so much 878 00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:59,400 Speaker 1: to this letter. Should I just break it down line 879 00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:03,280 Speaker 1: by line? Come on? Because I get so many angles 880 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 1: in this letter. Shirley, my ex girlfriend is a huge problem. 881 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:12,600 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen, Shirley, I have a big problem right there. 882 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:16,879 Speaker 1: You damn show due and it's about to step down 883 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,520 Speaker 1: off a bus. So the whole time two years ago, 884 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:26,480 Speaker 1: I was okay for my boothy. I had a special 885 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:30,239 Speaker 1: lady I enjoyed spending time with. She's a big fan 886 00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,680 Speaker 1: war thicking all the right place. It's been a year 887 00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:36,439 Speaker 1: since I've seen her, and I was missing her, good love, 888 00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 1: So I called her and told her that I was 889 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:45,480 Speaker 1: sending her a bus ticket to come visit me. Yes, 890 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:50,399 Speaker 1: a bus ticket, because a brother ain't rich. Two things here, 891 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 1: when you busting them in, when you busting on the end, 892 00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: we are already dealing with low budget love it man. 893 00:57:03,239 --> 00:57:06,600 Speaker 1: You busting them in. They bust kids to slip, they 894 00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:11,960 Speaker 1: bust freedom riding, busting boycotty. You don't do that in 895 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,879 Speaker 1: modern David, but you somehow manage to bring that all 896 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 1: the way up. We stopped busting back a long time ago. 897 00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:23,200 Speaker 1: You still doing it. And because this is low budget loving, 898 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:28,280 Speaker 1: you must deal with another old saying, you get what 899 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 1: you pay for, all right. Now, See, first of all, 900 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,800 Speaker 1: what woman you know willing to get up on the bus. 901 00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:39,439 Speaker 1: I don't know, Sove West, come on, now, this woman 902 00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:43,280 Speaker 1: got off the bus. I swear I barely recognized. She 903 00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 1: had almost doubled in size from the past year because 904 00:57:47,480 --> 00:57:51,440 Speaker 1: she missed you, and so she been eating you like 905 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,800 Speaker 1: big women. Don't get me wrong, I like big girls. Okay, well, 906 00:57:55,880 --> 00:58:00,960 Speaker 1: well we're gonna get to like it. But she should 907 00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: have told me that she had gained a lot of week. 908 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 1: You didn't ask. Why would that come? Your cheap ass 909 00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: just sent the bus to You didn't ask because she 910 00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,840 Speaker 1: didn't have to volunteer. Oh you want to see me 911 00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: here I come. I didn't say anything, and I tried 912 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,720 Speaker 1: not to look shot. I didn't say anything, and I 913 00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 1: tried not to look shot. You can't take that look 914 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,360 Speaker 1: off your face with a big ass person getting down 915 00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 1: off a bus called the whole side and the bus 916 00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 1: go down. When she stepped on that last step and 917 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:34,720 Speaker 1: you saw that bust looked like it was coming to 918 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 1: our It's hard not to look shock when somebody finding 919 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:45,760 Speaker 1: turnover a damn bum. All right, Hang on two of 920 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:53,360 Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up. You're listening show. All right, Steve, 921 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 1: come on with part two of your response to today's 922 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,360 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. My ex girlfriend is a huge problem. Let's 923 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,880 Speaker 1: recap real something. Just a man used the data woman 924 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:04,320 Speaker 1: a year ago misster love, and he liked fine, thick 925 00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: with it. He sent for a bus ticket, she got 926 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 1: on the bus, and when she got off the bus, 927 00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: all hell. He couldn't believe it. She had doubled inside. 928 00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:16,200 Speaker 1: So that's where. Okay, but I want to bring to 929 00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:21,880 Speaker 1: your attention. Then show me the last fine person you've 930 00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: seen on a bus crossing state lines. That's my challenge. 931 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:32,600 Speaker 1: Ticket people that ride the bus looked like they ride 932 00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 1: the bus de terminal. In the terminal, you know who 933 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:41,160 Speaker 1: they in him? Yeah, it's a different crew. They don't 934 00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:45,400 Speaker 1: have lugging. They have clothes, laundry baskets with closed stuff 935 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,000 Speaker 1: to them in duct table. Wow, that's how they travel. 936 00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:56,000 Speaker 1: All they closed in grocery bags and zip locks afty 937 00:59:56,120 --> 01:00:01,360 Speaker 1: number one. Yeah, all right, now, she had gained a 938 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: lot of weight. I ain't say anything, and I tried 939 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:06,080 Speaker 1: not to look shot. It's hard not to be because 940 01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:16,200 Speaker 1: you say little stuff to yourself. That's what Jesus good. Oh, 941 01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 1: what the hell I'm gonna tell me to do? I 942 01:00:25,240 --> 01:00:29,800 Speaker 1: ain't got no extension for the seat man. It's self 943 01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:35,240 Speaker 1: off to kill herself with her slam only break. Well, 944 01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:39,520 Speaker 1: at least she don't need any bag. Yeah, this is 945 01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 1: what the stuff he's said is. As soon as we 946 01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:43,400 Speaker 1: got in the car, she pulled out a bag of 947 01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 1: snacks and offered me a brownie. I always loved the cooking, 948 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:49,400 Speaker 1: so I ate a brownie. When we got to my apartment. 949 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,560 Speaker 1: I ain't another brownie. Then I realized some wasn't quite right. 950 01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: I was high as hell. Yeah, and she knew it too. 951 01:00:56,920 --> 01:01:01,360 Speaker 1: She gave you the brownie to get you off your game. 952 01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 1: Yeah she didn't. Brownies got you loop. Now. After she 953 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 1: did that, she admitted that her brownies had weed in him, 954 01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:11,640 Speaker 1: but like it was no big deal. I was sitting 955 01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 1: on the couch trying to get myself together, when all 956 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 1: of a sudden she climbed on me and said she 957 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,760 Speaker 1: was gonna give me exactly what I had been missed up. 958 01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 1: Just about your buster here, I am a fit to 959 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:33,880 Speaker 1: bring it now, big fitting brain at RMA got something 960 01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:35,560 Speaker 1: for you. Gonna get to you then what you want 961 01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:38,360 Speaker 1: to do? What your bus? Then? It is all I 962 01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 1: could do is lie there, pin to the couch. You 963 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:45,520 Speaker 1: damn right, your pin She doubled the size she whipping 964 01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,480 Speaker 1: your hands. Actually, actually, what's happened to you in the 965 01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 1: middle of last room, you don't even know it. She 966 01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,439 Speaker 1: can pinned you. You're the wrest of the map. You'd 967 01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 1: have been out. She took advantage of me for what 968 01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,360 Speaker 1: seemed like hours. Anytime you want to you don't want 969 01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:01,920 Speaker 1: to do something seemed way long. You probably an't about 970 01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:10,440 Speaker 1: eight minutes, felt like any high, big armor, just getting 971 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:13,400 Speaker 1: to you know what the hell going on? I wanted 972 01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 1: to yell out for her to stop, but she couldn't. 973 01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:18,120 Speaker 1: You know why, because she had your pin. She cut 974 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 1: your win off. Big people know how to work they weight. 975 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:23,560 Speaker 1: She got just weight on. You tried to yell out, 976 01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:25,960 Speaker 1: but every time you take a deep breath, it came 977 01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:28,960 Speaker 1: in your chest mote. So now you can't even take 978 01:02:29,000 --> 01:02:33,320 Speaker 1: a deep breath. Then not that's pressed up. So you 979 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: tried to yell out, but her big ass had your pin. 980 01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:40,760 Speaker 1: Nothing came out because I was too high. I ended 981 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 1: up passing out on the couch. You got choked out, 982 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,320 Speaker 1: is what happened to you. Boy, You got passed out 983 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,720 Speaker 1: because you got put out. Next day I told her 984 01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 1: I felt violator. She said that she could tell that 985 01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,160 Speaker 1: I had a problem with her weight. You know what 986 01:02:54,320 --> 01:02:56,040 Speaker 1: she could tell when you get down off that bus 987 01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,680 Speaker 1: because you try not to look shot, but your ass was. 988 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:03,600 Speaker 1: You know when you first see your woman, who lord 989 01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 1: ain't ain't a good steak? Whoa lord? Not? Whoa whoa mean? Stop? 990 01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:12,200 Speaker 1: Now she keeps calling and texting me and I don't 991 01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: want anything to do with her. Why can I get 992 01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,560 Speaker 1: rid of her without hurting her feeling? This is a 993 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 1: huge problem. You damn right, it's a huge problem. But 994 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:23,800 Speaker 1: here's the first thing you do. I don't want to 995 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:25,400 Speaker 1: have anything to do with her. How can I get 996 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,959 Speaker 1: rid of her without hurting her feel You can block 997 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:30,640 Speaker 1: her number, or you can just get a whole new 998 01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:34,439 Speaker 1: fund that you got to get drafted because big people 999 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:37,960 Speaker 1: don't give up. I'll tell you right now. People wear 1000 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:42,040 Speaker 1: your ass down. So now what you want to do 1001 01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,000 Speaker 1: is you want to block her and you want to 1002 01:03:44,000 --> 01:03:46,840 Speaker 1: get a new number. Only that problem you can do it. 1003 01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,360 Speaker 1: First of all, you got to stop buying bust kicking. 1004 01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:53,960 Speaker 1: Don't buy another damn bus kicking. Busting her in is 1005 01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:57,680 Speaker 1: the first beginning of all your problems. People ups getting 1006 01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,800 Speaker 1: off the bus before her, didn't it clue you? In? 1007 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 1: Damn crazy are looking at people. So when she got 1008 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 1: off the bus, what you thought she was just fing 1009 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:13,400 Speaker 1: to be the real light jumping down off the same light? Yeah, 1010 01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:17,720 Speaker 1: you thought something angel were gonna come out of this bus? 1011 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 1: No hear her, big ass, come Steve, she would double 1012 01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:31,880 Speaker 1: the size stik. See Shelley, you a fine, sister. You 1013 01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:35,560 Speaker 1: can't double, though, anybody fing to do you in double? 1014 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:40,080 Speaker 1: Carll It, you can't double, Monica, you can't double. You 1015 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,760 Speaker 1: can't double. We deal with we. We we work with 1016 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,920 Speaker 1: you where you're at. Everybody got it going on. But 1017 01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,120 Speaker 1: what you can't do with double? Look? All right, what 1018 01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:53,280 Speaker 1: is that your Okay? That's your response to today's Strawberry Letter, 1019 01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 1: like buy no more, damn busted? Yeah? She yes, and 1020 01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,720 Speaker 1: carl It and Monica next time we travel. Just know that, y'all. 1021 01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:07,200 Speaker 1: Answer been coming in on the bus. All right, Steve, 1022 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,280 Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here, email us or Instagram. 1023 01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,400 Speaker 1: That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. And we'll be 1024 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,520 Speaker 1: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 1025 01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:19,960 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show. All right, we're back. Let's go. 1026 01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:21,960 Speaker 1: Come on, y'all. I want to inspire, I want to help. 1027 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,240 Speaker 1: I want to uplift. I want to share. It's not 1028 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,880 Speaker 1: so much teaching as it is for me with just sharing. 1029 01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:29,520 Speaker 1: You are the gift that just keeps on giving. I 1030 01:05:29,680 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 1: try to be here. Okay, Steve, what's your best advice 1031 01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,280 Speaker 1: to keep us focused? Well? I learned this from Eric Thomas. 1032 01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,200 Speaker 1: To be honest with Oh yeah, he's one of the 1033 01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:42,040 Speaker 1: greatest motivational speakers I've ever heard. Eric Thomas is a 1034 01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:44,680 Speaker 1: guy that I listened to. Okay, you know, I have 1035 01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:48,280 Speaker 1: some great speakers out there, but Eric Thomas nails it 1036 01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:52,560 Speaker 1: for me because he talked like, yeah, you know he 1037 01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 1: mad most of the kay. He swept to a shirt 1038 01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 1: in a minute, won't he the intensity what she talked. 1039 01:06:00,400 --> 01:06:04,000 Speaker 1: When you have your visions and you have your motivation, 1040 01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:08,919 Speaker 1: your dream, boy, the why, you gotta write down the why, 1041 01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:12,960 Speaker 1: the why you want it to happen. Because Eric Thomas 1042 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:16,800 Speaker 1: said that the why eliminates that I quit that I 1043 01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:19,479 Speaker 1: can't make it because the how it come is too big? 1044 01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:23,040 Speaker 1: The why are you doing it? Like I have to 1045 01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:26,640 Speaker 1: do this for my family? Well, it's it's harder to 1046 01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:28,959 Speaker 1: quit when it's more than just you on the line. 1047 01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:34,680 Speaker 1: You have to create a why. These big dreams you have, 1048 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,720 Speaker 1: they have to have a why behind that will help 1049 01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:42,240 Speaker 1: you stay to it and fight through the discouragement. Also, 1050 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:47,720 Speaker 1: your dreams have to be bigger than the consequences are 1051 01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:54,360 Speaker 1: the problems. Oh, you gotta want something so big that 1052 01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 1: no matter what it takes to get there or what 1053 01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:01,040 Speaker 1: it costs or what the factor is this dream so 1054 01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:05,160 Speaker 1: big I got to go on to go for it? Okay, okay, okay, cool. 1055 01:07:05,600 --> 01:07:08,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose time with my friends, but I'm gonna 1056 01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:12,040 Speaker 1: be a millionaire. Okay, cool. So I won't be able 1057 01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:14,840 Speaker 1: to go to happy hour no more because I'm trying 1058 01:07:14,920 --> 01:07:19,280 Speaker 1: to go on vacation of a dream of a lifetime. Okay, cool, Yeah, 1059 01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Take the vacation. Dream has 1060 01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:27,400 Speaker 1: to be so big that it outweighs the problems, all 1061 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:31,640 Speaker 1: the consequence. Okay, all right, that keeps you motivateing like that. Okay, 1062 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:35,680 Speaker 1: here's one more. I want to ask you this, because 1063 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 1: you live this, do you ever feel guilty or have 1064 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:44,400 Speaker 1: you ever been made to feel guilty because of your success? 1065 01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:50,760 Speaker 1: Because you're so successful? Lutely one hund you will go 1066 01:07:51,120 --> 01:07:57,120 Speaker 1: through that period of feeling guilty about your success mainly 1067 01:07:57,160 --> 01:08:01,280 Speaker 1: because the people closest to you are usually not experiencing 1068 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:04,800 Speaker 1: your success, and they make you feel obligated to them 1069 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:08,960 Speaker 1: because of your success. Because I knew you when? Okay, 1070 01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,560 Speaker 1: well I got you knew me when? But do you 1071 01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 1: know me now? And what does do you knew me when? 1072 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 1: Got to do with where I am now. Now if 1073 01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,760 Speaker 1: y'all want to continue this conversation, we can, Okay, I 1074 01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,920 Speaker 1: want you want to continue the conversation when we come back. 1075 01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:34,800 Speaker 1: Most Steve Harmata shows right after that. You're listening, all right, 1076 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 1: we're back. Wow, what an interesting conversation. It's it's the 1077 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:42,880 Speaker 1: morning show. We're asking Steve questions because I think it's 1078 01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,400 Speaker 1: important for people to hear directly from somebody who doesn't 1079 01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:48,920 Speaker 1: have an agenda with their life. Like I don't want 1080 01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,120 Speaker 1: y'all do this because I get a piece all this here. 1081 01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:54,600 Speaker 1: I genuinely want to share this information because I know 1082 01:08:54,680 --> 01:08:57,439 Speaker 1: it's important to people. The average person out there really 1083 01:08:57,520 --> 01:08:59,679 Speaker 1: does want to know how to make it. And unless 1084 01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:02,800 Speaker 1: some body who has made it gets down off their 1085 01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:05,240 Speaker 1: horse to share the information, where you're gonna get the 1086 01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:09,519 Speaker 1: information from it? This inmation and marriage didn't have this. 1087 01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:11,559 Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that we as a as 1088 01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:14,519 Speaker 1: a race, we don't share this type of information. We're 1089 01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:17,439 Speaker 1: starting to, maybe more now, but growing up, the only 1090 01:09:17,479 --> 01:09:20,360 Speaker 1: thing we knew about money was money doesn't grow on trees? 1091 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: Or do you think I'm made of money? Things like 1092 01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:25,080 Speaker 1: that that our parents told us. So now we're getting 1093 01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,640 Speaker 1: real information. Jay z is doing it in this on 1094 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:32,320 Speaker 1: ND Yeah, he's doing it. Let's go, Let's go back 1095 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:36,840 Speaker 1: to where we were. Tell us how we deal How 1096 01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:40,639 Speaker 1: do you deal with the guilty because I'm constantly I'm 1097 01:09:41,000 --> 01:09:44,599 Speaker 1: I loaned a lot of money. And let me ask 1098 01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:49,000 Speaker 1: you something. Loading money. Does it not create tension? Yes? 1099 01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:53,160 Speaker 1: It does? Y, Yes it does. Loaning money creates more 1100 01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:56,960 Speaker 1: problems than it solved. And it's creating issues not only 1101 01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,280 Speaker 1: with the person that you loaned it too, but then 1102 01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:03,240 Speaker 1: in your own a home because now you have loaned 1103 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:07,360 Speaker 1: some money that belongs in your home, and now somebody 1104 01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:10,280 Speaker 1: in your home may have to do without because we 1105 01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:14,719 Speaker 1: didn't gave what we had over here. And usually money 1106 01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:17,760 Speaker 1: you loan, but they don't understand about people that's climbing up. 1107 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:21,599 Speaker 1: Money they loan is money they need here. We don't 1108 01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:24,439 Speaker 1: have no extra free money. And then let me explain 1109 01:10:24,560 --> 01:10:26,960 Speaker 1: something to you about Let me explain something to you 1110 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:30,720 Speaker 1: about loaning you money or giving you money. Whenever I 1111 01:10:30,920 --> 01:10:34,599 Speaker 1: give you money, I'm actually giving you that plus forty percent. 1112 01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:37,880 Speaker 1: If you ask me for a thousand dollars and I 1113 01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:40,720 Speaker 1: give you a thousand dollars, what I'm actually giving you 1114 01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 1: it's one thousand, four hundred dollars because Uncle Sam is 1115 01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:48,160 Speaker 1: taxing me in the tax bracket. He don't give a 1116 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:50,800 Speaker 1: damn what you do with the money. So now I 1117 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:54,400 Speaker 1: didn't give you a thousand of mile dollars, plus I 1118 01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:58,400 Speaker 1: got to send the government four hundred or that thousand 1119 01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:02,719 Speaker 1: I sent you, old partner. Oh so now I really 1120 01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:04,840 Speaker 1: ain't that simple. So when you're don't pay me back, 1121 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:07,559 Speaker 1: you really didn't jam me. Now, well, in your case, 1122 01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:10,480 Speaker 1: people don't think you need it, you know, Oh, he'll 1123 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:14,240 Speaker 1: be all right. Money money, he's got money. He doesn't 1124 01:11:14,280 --> 01:11:15,880 Speaker 1: need that money. I'll get it. I'll get it to 1125 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:18,400 Speaker 1: him when I get Here's the thing. While you are 1126 01:11:18,479 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 1: coming up, people think that you have a reservoir of money, 1127 01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:25,600 Speaker 1: But that reservoir of money you had to work for 1128 01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,439 Speaker 1: the only reason you have a reservoir a little bit 1129 01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 1: of extra money or more than them is because you 1130 01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 1: usually work more than them. So now you are asking 1131 01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:38,760 Speaker 1: me to take not only my money, but my time 1132 01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:41,040 Speaker 1: that I've given to make this money and just let 1133 01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:44,439 Speaker 1: you have that right because you know I got it. Well, 1134 01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:48,240 Speaker 1: that's foul and you should not suffer from guilt. Because 1135 01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:50,479 Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. I've learned about guilt. 1136 01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:55,720 Speaker 1: Guilt is the most useless human emotion that there is 1137 01:11:56,280 --> 01:12:02,479 Speaker 1: because guilt serves nothing. Guilt it's the most devoid, the 1138 01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:06,639 Speaker 1: worst human emotion there is, because it serves no purpose. 1139 01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:09,560 Speaker 1: What what does guilt serve when you feel guilty? What? 1140 01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:12,360 Speaker 1: It don't help you, It don't benefit you. It does 1141 01:12:12,479 --> 01:12:15,760 Speaker 1: nothing for you to feel guilt. But people take advantage 1142 01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:20,880 Speaker 1: of the guilt for their own self entitlement and self 1143 01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:24,360 Speaker 1: selfish needs. That's what they use. They use guilt for that. 1144 01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:28,599 Speaker 1: So guilt serves no purpose. So stop feeling guilty because 1145 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:32,439 Speaker 1: you're blessed. Stop feeling guilty because God has given you grace. 1146 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:37,040 Speaker 1: Stop feeling guilty because you go to work and nobody 1147 01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:40,840 Speaker 1: gave you nothing. Nobody mails you free money. And we'll 1148 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:50,439 Speaker 1: be that and we'll be that. You're listening all right? 1149 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:54,719 Speaker 1: Day after fourth of July, This is July fifth. Yeah, 1150 01:12:54,760 --> 01:12:58,320 Speaker 1: so I'm sure you're off today. You're off today? Right? 1151 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:05,160 Speaker 1: Did you have to work? Well, we're here, huh, we're looking. 1152 01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:08,400 Speaker 1: We're looking at each other. Were usually usually when it 1153 01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:10,800 Speaker 1: comes this late in the week. Come on, now, I 1154 01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,200 Speaker 1: got something we can still do. Though there's still some 1155 01:13:13,320 --> 01:13:17,080 Speaker 1: celebration left. Oh really, yeah, I see if you got 1156 01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:22,599 Speaker 1: left over barbecue okay, yeah, okay, y'all got that right. Okay, 1157 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:27,000 Speaker 1: you have left over fireworks check? Okay, huh. Then we 1158 01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:34,479 Speaker 1: have a July filth naked celebration. You see what I'm saying. 1159 01:13:39,000 --> 01:13:44,479 Speaker 1: We're not doing that man, taking into the weekend, Tommy, 1160 01:13:44,760 --> 01:13:47,759 Speaker 1: eat barbecue and just take it on into the weekend. 1161 01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:55,000 Speaker 1: The weekend your cousin never called, yes, never called. You 1162 01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:59,120 Speaker 1: showed up yesterday. He wanted to take a dip in 1163 01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:04,559 Speaker 1: the pool, barbecue, and the celebration on the fifth. If 1164 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:07,519 Speaker 1: I ever go to someone's house and everyone's in there, 1165 01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:09,960 Speaker 1: everyone in there is naked and they're eating barbecue and 1166 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:12,960 Speaker 1: shooting fireworks, I'm not even gonna get on my car. 1167 01:14:13,439 --> 01:14:18,200 Speaker 1: I'm out. You don't knock it to you try. Yeah, 1168 01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:21,559 Speaker 1: I've never tried that. It's really it's really cool. If 1169 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:24,920 Speaker 1: you try. It depends on how good the barbecue. Yeah, 1170 01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:28,679 Speaker 1: we'll be back with more guys on this day after 1171 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:33,120 Speaker 1: July fourth. We're still celebrating though, Happy holidays. Taken on 1172 01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:36,040 Speaker 1: into the weekend. We'll be back right after this. You're 1173 01:14:36,080 --> 01:14:41,679 Speaker 1: listening to show well, guys forty three million people will 1174 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:44,960 Speaker 1: be traveling over this weekend. Now, if you believe this 1175 01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:47,400 Speaker 1: new survey, Yeah, that's a lot of people. If you 1176 01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:51,559 Speaker 1: believe this new survey, the average American traveler hates going 1177 01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:55,200 Speaker 1: to the airport so much that they'd add six and 1178 01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 1: a half hours to their travel time if it meant 1179 01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:04,080 Speaker 1: they could drive and take road tra to their location instead. Wow. Wow, Well, 1180 01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:07,240 Speaker 1: you know, it is a more enjoyable experience to drive 1181 01:15:07,360 --> 01:15:09,920 Speaker 1: for a lot of people, because look, I used to 1182 01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:15,040 Speaker 1: take buses. I'm talking about who we were touring. Oh yeah, 1183 01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:18,120 Speaker 1: Like for example, if I was going you know, okay, okay, 1184 01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:20,320 Speaker 1: all of us lived in Atlanta for a period, right, 1185 01:15:20,960 --> 01:15:23,360 Speaker 1: Like if I was going to Birmingham to perform, I'm 1186 01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:25,400 Speaker 1: not going to get a plane. Or if I'm going 1187 01:15:25,520 --> 01:15:28,920 Speaker 1: to a Lando or I'm going South Carolina, I'm going 1188 01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:33,800 Speaker 1: somewhere like that, I'm getting a bus man. Because if 1189 01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 1: you gotta leave in plenty of time, you gotta pack, 1190 01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:40,840 Speaker 1: you gotta get dressed, you gotta get in the car, 1191 01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:43,040 Speaker 1: you gotta get to the airport at least i and 1192 01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,400 Speaker 1: a half before, and you gotta sit there and wait. 1193 01:15:45,760 --> 01:15:49,240 Speaker 1: Then you got a board, then you fly. Then when 1194 01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:52,080 Speaker 1: you land. You gotta go to the baggage claim, get 1195 01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:54,640 Speaker 1: your bag. Then you gotta travel to the hotel. But 1196 01:15:54,840 --> 01:15:57,160 Speaker 1: then you could have been when you was going. That's no, 1197 01:15:57,479 --> 01:15:59,639 Speaker 1: you need to stop, Steve, because when you get your bag, 1198 01:15:59,800 --> 01:16:01,760 Speaker 1: that's a two hour will wait, that's longer than the flight. 1199 01:16:02,760 --> 01:16:06,960 Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm trying. Oh my baggage claimed, I have 1200 01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,680 Speaker 1: steward there. I don't know who working back there. Man, 1201 01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:18,639 Speaker 1: I know, but when you got it, I saw you don't. Yeah, 1202 01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:21,840 Speaker 1: you're right, Steve, all that time when you yeah, all 1203 01:16:21,880 --> 01:16:23,760 Speaker 1: that when you think about it, Yeah, you can get 1204 01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:25,720 Speaker 1: on the road, put your luggage in the trunk and 1205 01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:27,840 Speaker 1: be there and you just get to spend in a 1206 01:16:27,920 --> 01:16:31,479 Speaker 1: couple of hours, spend time more relaxing. Yeah, I don't 1207 01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:35,080 Speaker 1: want to spend no time. When we took the bus, 1208 01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: when we went to Albany from Atlanta web we had 1209 01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:39,880 Speaker 1: to show down there. Yeah, all of was on there. 1210 01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:42,760 Speaker 1: You was. We was having fun. I thought we was 1211 01:16:44,240 --> 01:16:48,679 Speaker 1: maybe just maybe I'm glad to be anyway. He didn't 1212 01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:53,560 Speaker 1: changed again. Let's go on call. You ain't been no 1213 01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:57,080 Speaker 1: body baggage claiming a long time. No, damn, wait, your 1214 01:16:57,120 --> 01:17:00,599 Speaker 1: bad right off the back of your plane. You talking about? 1215 01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:04,639 Speaker 1: He stood in no bag? What's his frustration? I ain't 1216 01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:08,280 Speaker 1: got no frustration. Roll out there, up to his plane, 1217 01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,360 Speaker 1: get out, walk up them stuff? You get all his plane? Oh, 1218 01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,800 Speaker 1: ain't nobody tending to get off the dawn phone and nothing. 1219 01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:16,599 Speaker 1: He talking all the way through the flight taking off 1220 01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:20,759 Speaker 1: the ain't no seat belt on and nothing, just sitting 1221 01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:23,040 Speaker 1: there and sitting there, putting out there. I'm gonna say, 1222 01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:27,040 Speaker 1: what kind of sing all I got? Naw, Look, God 1223 01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:30,320 Speaker 1: is blessing. But once get I ain't mad at h 1224 01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:37,120 Speaker 1: He ain't mad at him? Sound he get out of come? No, 1225 01:17:37,439 --> 01:17:40,880 Speaker 1: he got Yeah. At seventy three percent of Americans, Steve 1226 01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,679 Speaker 1: agree with you. They considered road tripping a more pleasant 1227 01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:47,080 Speaker 1: experience than flying. You gotta take your shoes off, you 1228 01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:50,800 Speaker 1: gotta undress, you got it? Oh my god, lay on 1229 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:53,920 Speaker 1: that nicket and just going on. All right, coming up. 1230 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,880 Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. You don't want 1231 01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:59,920 Speaker 1: to miss it. At forty nine after the hour, you're listening, 1232 01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:05,080 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Here we are last break of the 1233 01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:12,200 Speaker 1: day on this Friday. Take us home today. I'm still 1234 01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:18,360 Speaker 1: committed to trying to uplift everybody I really want to share, 1235 01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:24,240 Speaker 1: not teach. I want to share with you all, just 1236 01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:28,240 Speaker 1: some things I've learned and understand. I don't know it all, 1237 01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:32,680 Speaker 1: and I don't think I know more than you. It's 1238 01:18:32,760 --> 01:18:36,680 Speaker 1: just that I've learned in my life that repetition is 1239 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:41,679 Speaker 1: sometimes good. Somebody told me one time that there's a scripture. 1240 01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,240 Speaker 1: I don't know where it is, but it says something 1241 01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:47,760 Speaker 1: to the effect that faith comes from hearing, not from 1242 01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:51,920 Speaker 1: having heard. I didn't understand that until I got older. 1243 01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:57,519 Speaker 1: Faith comes from hearing, not having heard. Sometimes you've heard 1244 01:18:57,680 --> 01:19:02,439 Speaker 1: something in the past but it didn't quite connect, but 1245 01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:04,680 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you hear it at a particular 1246 01:19:04,800 --> 01:19:08,320 Speaker 1: time in your life, and oh my god, it's it's 1247 01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:11,200 Speaker 1: like a brand news phrase. It's almost like you've never 1248 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:14,479 Speaker 1: heard it before, but it clicked. The lightbulb turns on. 1249 01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,320 Speaker 1: So that's what I was taught, that faith comes from hearing, 1250 01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:23,160 Speaker 1: not from having heard. So sometimes repetition is good in 1251 01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:27,839 Speaker 1: why sayings or understanding a scripture because at a particular 1252 01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:31,799 Speaker 1: time in your life, it's so valuable to you because 1253 01:19:31,840 --> 01:19:34,160 Speaker 1: it happens right when you need it to hear. So, 1254 01:19:34,320 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: in my commitment to uplift people, this year, I've decided 1255 01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:43,680 Speaker 1: today to talk to you about another mindset that you 1256 01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:46,760 Speaker 1: have to develop to get to where you're going, and 1257 01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:52,680 Speaker 1: that is to elevate your thinking. You've got to elevate 1258 01:19:52,920 --> 01:19:57,920 Speaker 1: your thinking. You have got to think above your current 1259 01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:03,800 Speaker 1: circumstance because where you are now, the moment you say now, 1260 01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:06,719 Speaker 1: as soon as you get through saying now, that moment 1261 01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:11,120 Speaker 1: that you claimed as now is gone. So what I 1262 01:20:11,240 --> 01:20:12,960 Speaker 1: want you to do is I want you to start 1263 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:19,560 Speaker 1: thinking beyond today because for the majority of us, tomorrow 1264 01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:24,280 Speaker 1: is going to come. For the majority, tomorrow is going 1265 01:20:24,400 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: to come. So I want you to elevate your thinking 1266 01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:31,439 Speaker 1: so that you can have a better tomorrow. And what 1267 01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:35,000 Speaker 1: I mean by that is, I want you to up 1268 01:20:35,080 --> 01:20:39,240 Speaker 1: your ask when you're talking to God. From now on, 1269 01:20:39,840 --> 01:20:44,280 Speaker 1: up your ask the things you've been asking God for. 1270 01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:49,040 Speaker 1: I want you to think about it, elevate it, expand 1271 01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:51,840 Speaker 1: on it, blowing up. It's not too big for God. 1272 01:20:52,600 --> 01:20:55,960 Speaker 1: It may seem tremendous for you, it's nothing. For him, 1273 01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,920 Speaker 1: it's absolutely nothing. It's a wave overhead to blink over now. 1274 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:04,160 Speaker 1: It's a mere emotion. To him, it's nothing. It's it's 1275 01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:10,400 Speaker 1: an afterthought. He does amazing things. But you've got to 1276 01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:14,840 Speaker 1: call on him to get to gain access to all 1277 01:21:14,920 --> 01:21:17,960 Speaker 1: this amazing stuff. There's a scripture that says you have 1278 01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:22,559 Speaker 1: not because you asked not, And simply what that means 1279 01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:26,560 Speaker 1: is just what it says, you have not because you 1280 01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:30,840 Speaker 1: ask not. Most people don't have the life of their 1281 01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 1: dreams because they never ask God for it. Now you 1282 01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:38,320 Speaker 1: think about that, what have you been asking him for? 1283 01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:42,120 Speaker 1: If you've constantly been asking for rent, don't he always 1284 01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,560 Speaker 1: give it to you? Don't you somehow always manage to 1285 01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:47,400 Speaker 1: come up with the rent. Might be a little bit late, 1286 01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:49,479 Speaker 1: but don't you come up with it? Yeah? You do. 1287 01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:56,400 Speaker 1: Suppose you change that. Just ask for a mortgage. Why 1288 01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:58,240 Speaker 1: would he not give it to you. It's just some 1289 01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:01,880 Speaker 1: money to where you stay, It's all it is. So 1290 01:22:02,000 --> 01:22:04,040 Speaker 1: if you keep asking for rent, you're gonna get read. 1291 01:22:04,280 --> 01:22:06,320 Speaker 1: But if you ask God for a mortgage, you give 1292 01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:10,000 Speaker 1: you a mortgage. But you have not caused you asked not. 1293 01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:14,679 Speaker 1: You got to up your ass. Let me show you something. 1294 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:18,400 Speaker 1: This is not bragging, but I want to show you something. 1295 01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,439 Speaker 1: You're listening to a person who's been at just about 1296 01:22:23,520 --> 01:22:28,320 Speaker 1: every economic state. So at one point in time, I 1297 01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:33,360 Speaker 1: kept asking God. I said, God, man, I show want 1298 01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:36,639 Speaker 1: to see another zero in my income, if you could 1299 01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:40,080 Speaker 1: just give me another another zero. So I was making, 1300 01:22:40,600 --> 01:22:44,360 Speaker 1: you know, some thousands back then, right in a year. 1301 01:22:45,320 --> 01:22:48,519 Speaker 1: I've had years where I've made four thousand dollars. I've 1302 01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:51,840 Speaker 1: had years where I've made seven thousand dollars. I've had 1303 01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 1: years where I've made eight thousand, five hundred dollars. I've 1304 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,800 Speaker 1: had some lean years in this comedy thing. So I 1305 01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:02,679 Speaker 1: asked God, man, if I could just get another zero. 1306 01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:06,439 Speaker 1: But you know what I did to zero kicked me 1307 01:23:06,600 --> 01:23:10,679 Speaker 1: up to ten thousand, and from eight thousand to ten 1308 01:23:10,760 --> 01:23:13,040 Speaker 1: thousand spread out over the year, I did not really 1309 01:23:13,200 --> 01:23:16,120 Speaker 1: see a big jump in my lifestyle because to two 1310 01:23:16,160 --> 01:23:19,560 Speaker 1: thousand dollars it elevated it, but it wasn't quite what 1311 01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:23,000 Speaker 1: I wanted, and so I just kept asking for zero. 1312 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:25,800 Speaker 1: Do you know what happened? One day I was talking 1313 01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:28,479 Speaker 1: to this very very wealthy guy and I told him 1314 01:23:28,520 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 1: my theory of praying for the zeros. He said, you're 1315 01:23:31,080 --> 01:23:33,920 Speaker 1: praying too small. I said, what do you mean? He said, 1316 01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:37,280 Speaker 1: you praying too small? You asking for zeros. He said, 1317 01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:39,880 Speaker 1: if you get another zero from ten thousand, you half 1318 01:23:39,880 --> 01:23:42,360 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand dollars. He said, that ain't where you 1319 01:23:42,400 --> 01:23:44,360 Speaker 1: want to be. He said, why don't you ask God 1320 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:48,320 Speaker 1: for some commas? I said what he said? Why you 1321 01:23:48,479 --> 01:23:53,519 Speaker 1: keep asking for zeros commas? Change your life? Ask God 1322 01:23:53,640 --> 01:23:58,559 Speaker 1: for commas. Elevate your thinking. When I went from asking 1323 01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 1: God from zeros to com do you know he gave 1324 01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:03,880 Speaker 1: me another comma? Do you know what that did for 1325 01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:06,200 Speaker 1: my life? Do you know what it would do for yours? 1326 01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:09,120 Speaker 1: But you can't get it unless you ask. You have 1327 01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:13,360 Speaker 1: not because you asked. Now, elevate your thinking in this year. 1328 01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:16,599 Speaker 1: If you up your ask, he will up his guilt. 1329 01:24:16,880 --> 01:24:20,479 Speaker 1: It's a fact. It's not a theory of mind. It's 1330 01:24:20,520 --> 01:24:24,479 Speaker 1: a fact. You have not cause your ass not. Those 1331 01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:29,559 Speaker 1: are my closing remarks. Drop it drop, I'm telling drop 1332 01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:35,880 Speaker 1: it a comma man. Have a good weekend for real, 1333 01:24:36,120 --> 01:24:50,439 Speaker 1: y'all have a great weekend for all. Steve every contests 1334 01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:53,800 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 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