1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: The Friends show is on its Stay or go. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 2: Guy, I got my lawyer's wife texting me now, going, oh, 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: your lawyer can do it all like that dude hasn't. 4 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 2: I don't remember the last time he practiced law for me. 5 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: That's good, I don't. But I called the guy. 6 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, I need this, I need that, Like 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: I need a will, okay, And then he just has 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 2: some associated do it. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: You have somebody else do it? 10 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 11 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 2: This guy doing for you farms it out? Yeah, I 12 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 2: need this contract for the farms it out. My agent's 13 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: a lawyer, he doesn't practice law. I pay somebody else 14 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 2: to look at that too. I'm like, what are the 15 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 2: lawyers doing. 16 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna need a new lawyer. Now this guy's wife. 17 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: The wife's listening and be like you drop this guy. 18 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: He's talking to Mac about me. 19 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's it'll be okay. She talks as 20 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 2: much Mac and about maybe more kind of relationship we have. Hey, Ricky, 21 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: how you doing? 22 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 4: Hey, what's going on? 23 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: Guys? 24 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: I'm doing Ricky Man, Welcome to the show. What's going on? Stairgo? 25 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 2: So we believe it or not, we get all these 26 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: emails and dms from people going Hey, what do you 27 00:01:04,280 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: guys think about this? 28 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: And that? 29 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: Why you would hit up your morning radio friends for 30 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: you know, life advice. I'm not sure, but we're here 31 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: for you and I'd like to hear what's going on 32 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 2: with your fiance, Madison, so we can solve this problem 33 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 2: for you. 34 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, here it is. 35 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 4: We recently got engaged, and you. 36 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 1: Know, congratulations, that's that's wonderful. Yeah, thank you. 37 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 4: But you know, I was really excited, very very excited. 38 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: I can tell I was. Your excitement is just beaming through. 39 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: So why wouldn't be calling you guys if there wasn't 40 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: an issue? Right? Right? Right? 41 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 42 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, sorry, continue to go as you were. So 43 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 1: I was a lot more excited than I am now. 44 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: I was riding high and Madison came home one. 45 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 4: Day and she was excited, but she said she had 46 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 4: to show me something. 47 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: And turns out what she wanted to show. 48 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 4: Me was this brand new engagement ring that just had 49 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 4: a much bigger diamond than the when I bought her. 50 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: She had went out and a ring. 51 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 4: For herself and kind of like, I felt bad. 52 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:08,399 Speaker 2: Okay, so you you proposed with a ring and then 53 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 2: so you think it's all good and then one day 54 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 2: she comes home and that ring is gone, and now 55 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 2: she got a bigger ring that she bought for herself. 56 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: Exactly. Okay. 57 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 4: You know, you know she thought I would be excited 58 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 4: because when when I proposed to her, I told her, 59 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 4: you know, this isn't the ring you deserve, but I'll 60 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 4: try to upgrade it. 61 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: For you down the line. Now that is smart, This 62 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: is a smart guy. You don't like this cake, no, 63 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: not at all. 64 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: You buy the ring. My dad has said this to 65 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 2: me since I was a little boy. You buy the 66 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 2: ring you can't afford, because then, you know, as you 67 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: grow in life, then you can upgrade the ring at 68 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 2: a later time if you so choose. But Wigel broke 69 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 2: on a ring that you can't afford. You're making payments 70 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 2: on it. It adds more stress to the thing. It's 71 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: just a ring. You want to tim to go. You 72 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 2: want him to take a loan out. You want this 73 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 2: guy making payments on a ring for the next five years. 74 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: That is crazy. 75 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 2: No, it's not. 76 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: It's silly. 77 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 5: No, it's not. 78 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 6: Because I have to walk around with this ring on 79 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 6: as a representation of the man that loves me. 80 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 5: But you want me to walk around with a ring 81 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:14,600 Speaker 5: that can't nobody see. 82 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: Kiky that diamond. 83 00:03:16,440 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 2: If you think that diamond is diamond is a representation 84 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 2: of the love or the man, then you got this 85 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 2: whole thing wrong. 86 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 6: No, I don't because I have to wear it. You don't, 87 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 6: So it's it's a difference. 88 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 2: So I gotta go broke with a big ass ring 89 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,839 Speaker 2: so that other people can think that I love you. 90 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,679 Speaker 6: Don't go broke. Take your time, which is why I 91 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 6: don't have a ring. Take you take all the time. 92 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: Because he's saving his and his piggy bag. That's what 93 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: he's doing. Okay, but take all the time you need. 94 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 6: But don't come to me with no rinky ding ring 95 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:50,119 Speaker 6: pop and you want me to walk around and this off, 96 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 6: don't do it no like I And you should have 97 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 6: told her thank you. She was trying to be proactive 98 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 6: and make you look good. 99 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: No, he yeah, this. 100 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 7: Is a this is a horrible situation at these ends. 101 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 2: If I want to hear what you have to say, 102 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 2: but I want to make sure we have all the details. Okay, 103 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 2: so this too. So she comes back with a bigger 104 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: Did did she pay for that herself? Or where does 105 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 2: she get the money for that? She bought it herself. 106 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 4: You know, she thought she was helping me out and 107 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 4: she used her own money. But you know, the saying 108 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 4: was it wasn't wasn't a big deal. She didn't think 109 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 4: it was a big deal because you know, she makes 110 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,279 Speaker 4: more than me, you know what I mean. And she 111 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 4: said it was like all good intentions and everything, but 112 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 4: it just kind of made me feel a little bit inadequate. 113 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: And I don't really know how I should I don't 114 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: really know how I should feel. 115 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 2: And by the way, that's not the ring you proposed with, Ricky. 116 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: I don't have to tell you this, but that's that's 117 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 2: this is a made up status symbol she got on 118 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: her hand now so that other so she can look 119 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 2: a certain way to other kind of people. But that 120 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 2: is not the ring you proposed with, right. And so 121 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: I know people who they have a ring that they 122 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: got when they got engaged out of college twenty five 123 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: twenty four hour. They didn't have much. It's not a 124 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: you know, it's not a crazy ring, right, and then 125 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 2: they go on to be successful. But the ring, they 126 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 2: can go out and buy a ten card ring if 127 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: they want to, if they want to go broke on it, 128 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 2: but they got the money to do it. But that's 129 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 2: not the ring. That new ring has no meaning. The 130 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 2: whatever ring it was stands for where they were at 131 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: when they got engaged, and the love they had for 132 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 2: each other, and the ring that was on her finger 133 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 2: when they got married and the rest of it. So 134 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 2: now you wiggle, you'll trade that thing in for another one. 135 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: That means nothing it. All it means is look at me, 136 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: I have more money than you. That's not all that 137 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 2: ring me what that means. 138 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 6: And I understand getting married fresh out of college and 139 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 6: you both accept what you can afford, right, And I 140 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 6: say that you get what you can afford and what 141 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 6: makes you happy. But I would I hate to break 142 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 6: it to you, fellas and whoever else is in my rings. 143 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 6: If you're buying a ring for somebody, they do not 144 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 6: want a ring that they don't like, So you need 145 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 6: to consultate your future. 146 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 2: R But that's different than size, that's different than what 147 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 2: we can afford. 148 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: She didn't like the slow one? Yeah, thank you so, letter, 149 00:05:58,920 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: where's something. 150 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: That she loves? 151 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 2: Hello, she can afford, But her going out and replacing 152 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 2: the ring that he gave her is a slap in 153 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: the face. This dude's bought what he can afford, he saved, 154 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 2: he planned the engagement, he loves her. He got her ring, 155 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 2: he got on one knee, he gave it to her, 156 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 2: And what does she do though this isn't good enough, 157 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 2: and disposes it for something that she that's bigger. 158 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 6: I don't I don't agree with her going out and 159 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 6: doing it alone. And I would never purchase my own ring. However, 160 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 6: I would. I feel like the conversation can be had 161 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 6: that hey, babe, I love you, I'm in love and 162 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:32,239 Speaker 6: I want to get married. 163 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: However, this ring is just not doing it for me. 164 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 7: Okay, I'm telling you, Ricky, she's trading in the ring. 165 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: She's gonna trade you into That's what I'm saying. You 166 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: know what, if you got one, I agree with you. 167 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: This isn't here. 168 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 7: She could trade in a ring, get a bigger one's 169 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 7: gonna trade She's focused. 170 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: On the wrong, stuffy, No, she's not. Well, here's the 171 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 2: other thing. Here's the other thing. So now I can 172 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 2: go out and and buy a Labyn eight car. I 173 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: can buy the biggest damn costume looking dring you've ever seen. 174 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: And what am I? 175 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 2: What am I saying to the world I'm saying, look 176 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: at me, I'm rich, but I but that doesn't mean 177 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 2: i'm rich because the price diff Renchal's massive. So what 178 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 2: I'm saying is like, it doesn't mean I can I 179 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: can give the appearance of whatever I want. 180 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: That's not the point. 181 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 6: Okay, But you're not giving her the benefit of the doubt. 182 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 6: You're making it like she's just so superficial about what 183 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 6: the world thinks. No, man, she just doesn't like it, 184 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 6: and it's okay just to not like I don't. 185 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: Don't have a conversation with the man and I agree that. 186 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,600 Speaker 5: However, I'm not gonna tell her she's wrong for going to. 187 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: Get something she didn't come back. First. 188 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 2: First of all, I understand what you're saying, but this 189 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: is what the man she loves gave her. 190 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 5: I understand. 191 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 2: Can you at least pretend for a little while like 192 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 2: you appreciate the gesture. 193 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 6: Let's not go into a marriage pretending. Let's speak up 194 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 6: for what we like and what we want. Oh my god, 195 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 6: I know I'm not wrong because Jason agrees. 196 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 7: Jason agrees, I know I'm that's if you are ever getting. 197 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 5: A ring, I'm not saying the ring. 198 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 6: I don't if you are ever getting a ring. 199 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 2: The two people want to ring and don't have that. 200 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 2: It's saying something to me right now, Rufio, you just 201 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 2: swiftly kicked both of. 202 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 8: Them the. 203 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:26,559 Speaker 9: Merry. 204 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 7: I was like, the truth you single, I don't but 205 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 7: if you listen and run. 206 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 6: You can't run out, especially with a ring. I don't 207 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 6: want it, jule Mom, you know, and then I'm not 208 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 6: proud of I'm wrecking. 209 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 2: I don't blame you. I don't blame you for feeling disrespected. 210 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: I don't. Now. 211 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 2: Granted, here's the thing. If it were style, if it 212 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 2: was style, like if she were to say, this is 213 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 2: just not my styling, you guys didn't have that conver station. 214 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 2: I still don't think that you take the ring that 215 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,719 Speaker 2: someone just proposed to you with and throw it back 216 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: in their face. I still don't think you do that 217 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 2: because it's about the gesture, it's about the symbolism. 218 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: It is the future. Yes, and and but but. 219 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: That's not what she did. From my understanding, she just 220 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 2: went out and got a bigger one. It wasn't even 221 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 2: if she didn't like the way it looks, she didn't 222 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: like the way it. 223 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 10: Looked, it was big enough, style cut no, she just 224 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 10: wanted a big, flashy diamond. And yes, it is mostly 225 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:30,559 Speaker 10: for social media because I see this every day. It's 226 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 10: social media and or friends believe it or not. I know, 227 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 10: we like what we like as women. But you know 228 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 10: how many girls they see on my Instagram with their 229 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,199 Speaker 10: rings out next to their face and they're smacking, don't 230 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 10: hurt yourself. 231 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 2: And I might see w and Paulina like, I understand 232 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 2: that this is like fairytale stuff. But theoretically, when I 233 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 2: and I hope someday, if I ever get engaged that 234 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,719 Speaker 2: I will present a ring to her that makes her 235 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 2: feel proud. The value is commensurate with the way that 236 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: I feel and the place I am financially in life. 237 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:04,560 Speaker 2: But theoretically I should be able to give you a 238 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 2: a a ring and you should be happy about it 239 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 2: because what it means is I'm committing to you for life. 240 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 2: I'm just saying, theoretically, I should be able to give 241 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 2: you anything. 242 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 7: Theoretically the commitment is depending on the ring, Like, you 243 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 7: can't just have something that you like she already said 244 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 7: yes to You're gonna get on the ring. 245 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: But you're just saying, like you have to give her. 246 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,640 Speaker 7: Something that she likes, and that holds onto the commitment 247 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 7: because I have to give you something like she's gonna 248 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 7: wear something that she likes. Now she already said yes 249 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 7: to you. Let her walk around with something deside some 250 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 7: little ring that we brought her status is more important. 251 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 7: But Greggy, but I staments, not tied to the ring. 252 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 7: The commitment is you two together, Well, then the ring 253 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 7: shouldn't matter at all. Your finger trades in the ring 254 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 7: you're gonna trade him into, So you're equating a human 255 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 7: to a piece of jewelry. 256 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: It sounds to me like she's It sounds to me 257 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: like his emotions and his feelings are secondary to whatever 258 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 2: whatever she's trying to transmit to the world on her 259 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 2: left hand. That's what it sounds like. Hey, Ricky, I'm 260 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: going to take some phone calls and thank you for calling. Man. 261 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: You got me fired up. Kicky and I were about 262 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 2: to go. You'll win as low as I've ever seen him. Yes, 263 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 2: all right, have a good time. Look what you started. 264 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 5: I love you. 265 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 1: He just detonated something in this room than is it? Shaunty? Hey, Jhanti, 266 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 1: how you doing? Man? 267 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: So what do you think about that? If you're just 268 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 2: tuning in every I don't even know what to say. 269 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 2: I'm so disappointed in some people in this room because 270 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 2: the ring doesn't mean a thing. The ring don't mean 271 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 2: a thing. 272 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: She should have one. 273 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 9: She likes that, you guys, So I am here with 274 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 9: my boyfriend right now, and this engagement is a conversation 275 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 9: we've had and we're about to have this convo right now. 276 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 9: But what do you think I agree with you that 277 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 9: Fred that hey, you know what, let's go ahead and 278 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 9: let's do what we can at the moment. You know, 279 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 9: maybe kind of like Keith said, Hey, if she doesn't 280 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 9: like it, maybe have a congo about you know, hey, 281 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,280 Speaker 9: what type of ring had she maybe, you know, wanted 282 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 9: before you know, maybe that she like, you know, certain edges, 283 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 9: you know, the way that the rings are cutting all 284 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,640 Speaker 9: of that. I've got my boyfriend here. I also don't 285 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 9: think it's like we're never going to know who what 286 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 9: specific someone wants even know you to know for someone 287 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 9: someone for so long. 288 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all about. 289 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 9: You know, you know the fact that the count that 290 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 9: matters of getting the ring in the beginning, and then boom, 291 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 9: we can upgrade and get exactly what you want. 292 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 2: I'm saying exactly like, this is what I guess, I 293 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,640 Speaker 2: know what kind of bring on behind you, guys. 294 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: This is what he can afford at the time. 295 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: I mean, if he disregarded her preference and higherly, I 296 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 2: maybe that's something to talk about down the road. But 297 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 2: for the time being, can we just be grateful that 298 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 2: we're getting married and that we love each other and 299 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 2: that here's the symbol. I mean, that's that's what this 300 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 2: is about. 301 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: She's not grateful though she took it. 302 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 6: That's just a piece of jewelry, guys, to represent the commitment. 303 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 2: But you're asking a guy. And by mother way, thank 304 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 2: you so much for calling. Have a great day and 305 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 2: good luck to you guys. 306 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 7: Ya. 307 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:29,559 Speaker 2: You're completely discrediting what it takes for a man or 308 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: woman to make this commitment, completely discrediting. They got to 309 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 2: save their money. Yes, we gotta go out. Whoever's doing 310 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 2: the proposing, you got to save your money. You gotta 311 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: go out and buy this ring, pick it out, do 312 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 2: the best you can, and then you've got to muster 313 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 2: up the courage to get on one knee and propose 314 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 2: and make a commitment for life. This is and you're 315 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 2: just saying, eh, that's all good. And well, but that 316 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: ring is just not big enough. By that is not 317 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:55,079 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. 318 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:56,599 Speaker 1: What are you saying about me? 319 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 6: To wear something that I like and that I'm proud of. 320 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 6: It doesn't mean that my love for you is changing. 321 00:14:02,840 --> 00:14:04,960 Speaker 6: It doesn't mean I don't want to marry you. It 322 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 6: just means I have to walk around with this ring 323 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 6: as a representation of our commitment to each other. And 324 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,080 Speaker 6: I would like to wear something that fits the key 325 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 6: Key brand, be proud of whatever. Helena has a rock 326 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 6: on her finger, and that's what I expect for her 327 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 6: to have. But guess what, she had a ring she 328 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 6: didn't like. I do not think that Prolena will be 329 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 6: wearing it. 330 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: Yes, what if that ring had been smaller, she still 331 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 2: would have said yes? And we're still going to a 332 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: wedding in October? 333 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: Oh you think so? I do think? Am I right? 334 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 10: I mean yeah, I told you guys, honestly, can I 335 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 10: be very transparent? I would completely downgrade just because I 336 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 10: feel like I want to just do like a band 337 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 10: now or a tattoo or something, because. 338 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 5: I'm not about that life. 339 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: I thought I was. To be honest, I was like, oh, 340 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 1: that's your style, that's your preference. 341 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 7: That's what you would potentially like if you came up 342 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 7: to change and if that opportunity came up. 343 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: Yes, that's what fits you. This new ring that this 344 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:52,840 Speaker 1: woman bought fits her. 345 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 11: Yes, to represent you as a couple, Like should both 346 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 11: of you be in the ring? Not just you because 347 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 11: it's about your love, that's a good point. Should you 348 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 11: both be represented? 349 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: And I got to wear it. I know you feel that, 350 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: I understand, Okay. 351 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 7: So I put in a lot of work afford okay, 352 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 7: and I knew the silent just like by looking by 353 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 7: asking other people, looking at her pinteress and stuff like that. 354 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: And it's not a giant, ginormous rocket. 355 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 5: Was a unique ring and she loved it and she 356 00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 5: was proud to wear it. 357 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't know if she's I don't know if she 358 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:30,920 Speaker 1: loves that. 359 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 9: You shouldn't. 360 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: You should know? You know what I'm saying it because 361 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: it's what I got her. You know, it's it's it's 362 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: she's proud to whatever to wear. You know what I'm saying. 363 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 6: That's the symbol of our love is that is that 364 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 6: moment when she came to you and said, honey, I 365 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 6: don't like this and this is not fitting. 366 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 5: This is not what I would you. 367 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:49,440 Speaker 6: But she should be. She should be in a relationship 368 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 6: where she feels right freedom to do that. 369 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 7: That would be fine about in this situation. 370 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 2: She just traded in for a lot of people, guys, 371 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: for a lot of people. This is one of the 372 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 2: biggest things. They'll invested a car, a house, and for 373 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 2: a lot of people to ring it. 374 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: I should be great. 375 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: And people should not over extend themselves simply because you 376 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 2: won't be satisfied with something they can't afford. 377 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 6: She didn't ask them to overextend itself. She made the payment, 378 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 6: like when people. 379 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 12: Gage some meaning entirely. How it's just a piece of 380 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 12: jewey but it's not, so what does the matter? What 381 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 12: does it matter if it's the ring he got to 382 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 12: It's just a piece of jewelry. What do you mean 383 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 12: I have to wear? It's on her hand forever? 384 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: Thank you? Do you know how much work in getting me? 385 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 2: I know? 386 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,640 Speaker 1: Do I know? Do I know how much work goes 387 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: to get in a ring? 388 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 8: Right? Yes? 389 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 1: I don't have one. 390 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 6: I've been working for a long time. I don't know. 391 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 11: I feel like when someone gives you a gift, like 392 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 11: even if it's not your style, or you don't like it. 393 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 5: And that happens all the time. 394 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 11: Like when I'm in love and in a relationship, someone 395 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 11: gives me something that maybe I wouldn't have bought for myself, 396 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 11: but they're so proud, and I'm proud to wear it 397 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 11: because they thought of me. They put their energy into it, 398 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 11: and I would be proud to wear that because that 399 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 11: was something that they did out of love that you. 400 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 2: Gotta think this is the best they can do, because 401 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: I've gotta think they really thought about it, and so 402 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 2: you like, thanks so much for all that money and 403 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 2: for really thinking about it, but peace out. 404 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 1: I don't big middle finger. I'm gonna go to replace him. 405 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,600 Speaker 11: It's not about the actual ring, it's about all the 406 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 11: energy put into it. 407 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 2: And Linda, Hi, this is this is absurd. I am 408 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: flabbered acid Linda by the what's happening in this room 409 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 2: right now. 410 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: And it also makes a whole lot of sense to 411 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 1: me too. But anyway, Linda, go ahead. 412 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 8: When my husband proposed he had no ring because we 413 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 8: couldn't afford a ring, since then, I've gotten four rings. 414 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 1: Good thing you need to propose to I. 415 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:58,200 Speaker 8: Think I think he should go because she's not marrying. 416 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 8: She wants a status exactly. 417 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: What man she worked for the ring. 418 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 8: And you don't question that. 419 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:16,439 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. In the marriage, you show it grew together 420 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 1: and that's fine. 421 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 6: Like I would be fine if a man proposed to 422 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 6: me with no ring, Babe, I can't afford it. I 423 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 6: would rather you do that than give me a ring 424 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 6: that I don't want to wear. I would rather you 425 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,960 Speaker 6: give me no ring, like her husband did. He didn't 426 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,639 Speaker 6: have the money. He came to her, he said, I 427 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 6: want to get married. I love you, but when I 428 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,719 Speaker 6: get that bag, I'm gonna buy you four rings. 429 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 5: I love that. And she's proud to wear those rings. 430 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 5: She should be. 431 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 7: Probably, yes, what if it's a what if Big Tim 432 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 7: gives you a family heirloom ring and you know. 433 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 6: That I would be so appreciatd that. 434 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 7: What if it's a rinky ding thing that's all his 435 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 7: grandpa could afford at the time, and that's it. 436 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 5: It's a history round. 437 00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 1: Now, let me tell you how is that different than him? 438 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: Rufie just stood up? How is that different Kiki from him? 439 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 1: Picking something sentimentally? 440 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 6: Guy's gotta let me respond, I'm gonna wear the ring 441 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 6: from Grandma. On one hand, and then we got go 442 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 6: get my ring from. 443 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 2: On the other hand, Lord, hey Darlene in good morning, Hey. 444 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 3: Fred, Oh my god, I come here. 445 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 10: I got through. 446 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: I think, thank god you did. 447 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:35,479 Speaker 8: I love you guys. 448 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 1: I think that they should have had a conversation, for sure. 449 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 5: But I think he is a little bit more upset 450 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 5: at the fact that she can afford a bigger ring 451 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 5: than he was able to get her. 452 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 2: I don't think it has anything to do with that. 453 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 2: I think he's just I think he's just offended that 454 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 2: this was the best he could do and that he 455 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,960 Speaker 2: thought of I'm assuming he thought about it was and 456 00:19:55,960 --> 00:20:00,360 Speaker 2: and and then her reaction is cool, no, here, I'm 457 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 2: moving something else. 458 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 9: They should have had a conversation. 459 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 2: And by the way, he didn't comment on the style. 460 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 2: He only commented on the size, right, So it would 461 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:15,719 Speaker 2: have been one thing if he called in here and said, man, 462 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,760 Speaker 2: she just really it just didn't work with, you know, 463 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 2: her lifestyle. It really wasn't what she wanted. So we 464 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: went together and we found something that she did. No, 465 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: that's not what he said. He only commented on the size, 466 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: which means she was only concerned with the size. 467 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 6: That doesn't That doesn't I mean, we need to call 468 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 6: her because you guys are not giving her any benefit 469 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 6: of the doubt. I think she really loves this man 470 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 6: because to take your own money and go out to 471 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:40,919 Speaker 6: a Julia, how embarrassing that is. To go buy your 472 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 6: own You don't have to do it. 473 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: He's down and her Instagram how many photo does she 474 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: post already with it? And like, look at my. 475 00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,480 Speaker 5: Man, man? 476 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 2: Hold on, you know what I'm gonna do this for you? 477 00:20:54,680 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 2: Is it down? And he spells in d O W 478 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 2: L jesus, here we go, Paulina, you answered the phone, 479 00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: all right, I'm a w n A. That's not what 480 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 2: it says. We got to teach young man how to 481 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 2: do fanatics anyway, Uh, go ahead. This is a kiky 482 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: advocate here. 483 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: I don't know why correct, she's not. 484 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:23,159 Speaker 3: Ahead because when you what's someone, you should know what 485 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 3: they like. 486 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 5: There's no reason for the ring not to be what 487 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 5: you want. 488 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: And it's just you can't afford the ring that you 489 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: think you want. Then keep saving up for. 490 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,359 Speaker 11: She did take her feelings into consideration. 491 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,440 Speaker 1: It was the cut, just not the big of the dime. 492 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 1: It wasn't big enough. It wasn't big enough. That was 493 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: her problem. 494 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:46,399 Speaker 2: Thought he didn't keep saving one into each other for 495 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: life until I can afford to buy you a bigger ring. 496 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 5: But but but you knew who she was when you 497 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 5: proposed her. 498 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 2: You want I know who she is now? I know 499 00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 2: you know what I'm over there. I'm gonna take that 500 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 2: both the rings except them. Get the hell out what 501 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: you got to do. 502 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 3: You're right, go let him poke. 503 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: You have a good day. I love you. 504 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 5: Jason would never say no to a ring that Mike 505 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 5: gave him. 506 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 1: Crazy is That's not important to me at all. I 507 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: don't want to ring. I don't want It's so. 508 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,640 Speaker 7: That it's superficial to think that will ring me has 509 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 7: anything to do with the commitment and love that you have. 510 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 1: For exactly you're proving. What if you're gonna give me 511 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: something that's ugly, I'm not gonna wear it. 512 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 7: I was big enough, okay, at the right size, is 513 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 7: not the right color, whatever, I don't like it. 514 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get something that a diamond. But you 515 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: have to have that conversation with the person now trade 516 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: it in. 517 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, Natalie, Hi, Hi, everybody. 518 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 5: I'm in fight or flight at the. 519 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: Final sake, because I gotta go what do you think. 520 00:22:56,080 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 3: So long story short, my husband now her posts me 521 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 3: with the diamond shape. 522 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:02,960 Speaker 8: I told him I. 523 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 5: Hate it, so obviously. 524 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,880 Speaker 1: Him break up with him, throw it away. 525 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 8: No, no, we're married now. 526 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 3: But I did talk to him. 527 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 13: I was like, you know, this is the shape that 528 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,720 Speaker 13: I hated, Like I specifically told you, do not do this. 529 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 3: What turns out it's a family heirloom. 530 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 8: So that's wonderful. Like I was like, cool, whatever. 531 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,120 Speaker 3: But I think that he should definitely have the conversation 532 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,880 Speaker 3: with her, because, like he said, we have to wear 533 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 3: this ring for the rest of our lives. 534 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,359 Speaker 8: It's not even. 535 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: Well, you know, for right now, for a couple of years. 536 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 13: Have to have that conversation like this is something that 537 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 13: I want to love if I have to wear it 538 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 13: every single day. So I think that he definitely needs 539 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 13: to talk to her and have that conversation because she 540 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 13: wouldn't have said yes that she didn't want to get married. 541 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 2: I agree with some form of communication, but once what's 542 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 2: done is done, and I just think it comes off 543 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 2: so ungrateful to return to something that somebody got on 544 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 2: one knee and gave to you. 545 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 3: I completely agree she definitely should have had that conversation 546 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 3: with him beforehand instead of going out, because that makes 547 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 3: her look, you know, makes her look selfish and that 548 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,879 Speaker 3: she cares about the proposal at all. But if that 549 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 3: she needs to he needs to have a conversation before 550 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,760 Speaker 3: he just abruptly ends the engagement. 551 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,880 Speaker 1: Natalie, thank you, thank you so much. Have a good day, woman, Natalie, 552 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: thank you. Well, she doesn't agree with you. She didn't 553 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: agree with you. 554 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:40,520 Speaker 2: You're right, she is smart, would would be We're run, Tim, 555 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 2: I mean, un Rick, she'll be Anthony is. 556 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: I just can't believe it. I I just can't Anthony. 557 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 2: Thanks another time, We're she be, Shelley. Three minutes after 558 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 2: Mario the Fred Show is good morning.