1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camera Judge. 2 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: Welcome to a new episode of Two Teas and a 3 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: Pod with my self, Tamra Judge and my other half 4 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: Eddie Judge. 5 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 3: Welcome, Welcome. 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 2: Now we are live from the iHeart Verbo Podcast House 7 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 2: in Bottle Rock. 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: And how beautiful is this house? 9 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 4: This house is awesome and they don't get any ideas, 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 4: like you want to buy a house here? 11 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 1: Now? 12 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 3: Now I know everywhere we go and I love it. 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 3: I want to buy a house there. It's a problem. 14 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 4: Now. 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: I've posted some pictures online. I have had people reach 16 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: out to me on DMS and saying, oh my god, 17 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 2: my sister got. 18 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 3: Married there, or we've been there before. It is the 19 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 3: coolest house. So we're here today. 20 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: Obviously we're going to Bottle Rock later on today, but 21 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: Dolores and Polly are here, and Emily and Chane are here, 22 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 2: and we're doing some podcasts and we're having a lot 23 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: of fun. But one thing that we have never done 24 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 2: on Two Tea's is just me and you, Like, I 25 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: have some fan questions and we're just going to go 26 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 2: over them. 27 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 4: You know, this is a first for us. 28 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 2: It really is I think we did a podcast together 29 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 2: in San Francisco. 30 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,679 Speaker 3: Live with It was fed one and Teddy. 31 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 2: It was four of us, and I was introducing your 32 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 2: Ed's podcast, which is doing very well. 33 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 3: And you you filmed one last night. 34 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 4: Right I did. It was a lot of fun. 35 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 3: And you had Polly and Shane. 36 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a great conversation, talked about Father's Day, 37 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 4: being a dad. It was awesome. 38 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's coming out around Father's Day. I assume, Okay, well, 39 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 2: everybody needs to tune into that. So let's get into 40 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: some of these fan questions. 41 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 4: Fan question, So. 42 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 3: What was your first impression of each other? 43 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 4: My first impression of you was, holy cow, who is 44 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 4: this beautiful girl? I mean at my front door. That's 45 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 4: the first time I've ever met you saw you And 46 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: I tell the story to everybody. I saw birds fly, 47 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 4: I saw stars. 48 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 2: It's take one of those weird things where you absolutely 49 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: true for both of us. Now, I was married, you were, 50 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: and it was at the tail end of my marriage 51 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 2: and were we knew we were going to separate, and 52 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 2: I was looking for houses. You were, and we were 53 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: looking at your house, which happens to be the house 54 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: that we now live in. 55 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 3: Like just think about that for a minute. 56 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, full circle. 57 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: We were thinking you were thinking about running it out, 58 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 2: and we're like, okay. So anyways, So I when I 59 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 2: saw you, obviously there's cameras behind me, and I was 60 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: with Marcos as our mutual friend. 61 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 3: And I thought that you had no shirt on. 62 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 4: You thought that. 63 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: I thought that I saw you without a shirt when 64 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: you answered the door and you had a shirt on. 65 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 4: I had a shirt on. 66 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 2: So I thought, oh my god, this guy is so hot. 67 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: What did you guys fall for in each other? 68 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 4: I think the thing I fall fell for and I 69 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 4: still am falling for, is your ability to be glamorous 70 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 4: when it's time, but just able to throw baseball cap 71 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 4: on and go to dinner and just be chill, just 72 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 4: be you know, down to earth and fun to hang 73 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 4: out with, have normal conversations. You're not about the expensive 74 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 4: everything glamour. 75 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 3: It never happened. 76 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I definitely saw the real person in you. 77 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: And I mean, don't get me wrong, I like nice things, 78 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 2: but I don't do a lot of value on materialistic stuff. 79 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 4: Right, That's my point. Yeah, Like I don't, you know, 80 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 4: have to buy you an expensive Tiffany ring or something 81 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 4: like that. 82 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: Or I was never that girl that was like looking 83 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 2: for the rich guy. 84 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 4: And I mean, don't get me wrong, I have buy 85 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 4: you some really expensive things that you really appreciate, because 86 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 4: you do and that's why I do it. But it's 87 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 4: not like I have to go out and try to 88 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 4: overdo something I did last year, you know. 89 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 3: No, not at all. And we're not actually very big 90 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: gift givers. 91 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: Like we'll have birthdays where we just don't Yeah, we 92 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: don't buy each other. 93 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 4: Anything, or we just go out and buy ourselves what 94 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 4: we want. 95 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: Oh you're notorious at that. Oh it's my birthday, babe. 96 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 2: I just bought myself a Harley, like you. 97 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 3: Know what I mean. 98 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 2: Like, oh, okay, all right, I'm glad that you could 99 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: do that. 100 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 4: Okay, it's a good system. We have a good system. 101 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: Yeah for me. I just you were just such an honest, loyal, 102 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 2: down to earth good looking but doesn't necessarily know you're 103 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 2: good looking, you know what I mean? You know that 104 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: guy that's like not douchey and all those things, so 105 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 2: and smart and caring and you were good with my 106 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 2: kids and all those things. 107 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: So you are a full package in my eyes. 108 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 4: Thank you. 109 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 3: I mean, you bug me sometimes but yourself. 110 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 2: It's just wanting to know, right, love languages, what is 111 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 2: our So for me, I'm going to say I an 112 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 2: act of service. I get so turned on when you 113 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 2: were laying the turf in the backyard at Big Bear. 114 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 4: Oh I figured that out. Yeah. Anytime I'm in pain 115 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: and agony and busting my ass trying to do something, 116 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 4: it makes you happy? 117 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:58,040 Speaker 3: It does? 118 00:04:58,480 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: It does? 119 00:04:59,040 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 3: I like? 120 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: I like that, like, you know, doing things for me, 121 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 2: you know, like you'll go put gas in my car 122 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 2: and you'll wash my car, you know all those things. 123 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 4: I like that, And I like taking care of you 124 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: that way. 125 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 126 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: And I'm not like a super touchy lovey Yeah, I 127 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 2: know you know that. 128 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 3: And what's your love language? 129 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 4: What's that when you give people praise, words of affirmation? Formation? Yeah, 130 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 4: when when you always tell me when I'm doing good, 131 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 4: and you always you know, bring me up, and you 132 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 4: know you you don't have to buy me stuff, you 133 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 4: just tell me you love me, and yeah, that that 134 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 4: kind of stuff. 135 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 2: So how do we handle conflict? That's totally different. 136 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, I don't think that's something we have mastered, 137 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 4: and I don't know that we ever will because it's 138 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 4: an ongoing learning process, you know, because one time we 139 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 4: might handle the conflict really easy, talk it through and 140 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 4: it's over. Other times, you know, we'll yell at each 141 00:05:57,920 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 4: other and get in a fight and then walk away 142 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: because you know me, I can't deal with that. I 143 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 4: have to calm down. 144 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: It took me a long time to realize that you 145 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 2: need to not be around me when you're mad at 146 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 2: something like I just have to go okay, and I'm 147 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: not like that. 148 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: I'm like, in your face, give me. 149 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 4: An answer now, right, right, So I've. 150 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 3: Learned like, oh, if he's mad, I am just going 151 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 3: to walk away. 152 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 4: It's a learning process for sure. 153 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,720 Speaker 3: Who's more intense in the gym? 154 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:25,960 Speaker 2: Me? 155 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, right now, it's you. 156 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 2: I've this year's been super rough for me, and it's 157 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 2: I'm back at the gym as of this week. But 158 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 2: during filming and with you know, everything that want, with 159 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 2: Teddy and the stress level, I just couldn't. 160 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 3: My body just I couldn't. I couldn't do it. 161 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: So now back at it and loving it. It was 162 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 2: as long as I've went without working out three months. Yeah, 163 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 2: and I'm seeing it. What is the biggest misconception people 164 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: have about our relationship? 165 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 4: I don't know honestly, because I don't care what people 166 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 4: think about our relationships. I don't really pay attention. And 167 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 4: the only source I would have any information of that 168 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 4: is the media. You know, the stupid Well there's somebody stupid. 169 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: We'll get to that. 170 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 2: But there's a lot of stupid articles out there, always 171 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: saying more breaking up. 172 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 4: I don't know. I mean, I get the impression that 173 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 4: all our real friends love our relationship. I get that 174 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 4: from our friends all the time, like they always comment, 175 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 4: I love your love for each other. So I don't 176 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 4: know what misconception they might have. 177 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 3: I don't think there's a lot now. 178 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: I think in the very beginning, it was oh, it's fake, 179 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 2: everything's fake. He wants to be on TV, and they 180 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: quickly learned you didn't want to be on TV. There 181 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 2: was stories back in the day that you were my 182 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 2: ex's best friend. 183 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 4: Well he put that up, he put that out there, but. 184 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 2: There was a picture that he met you once or twice, 185 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 2: and that's what he put out there. 186 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 3: But over I mean, I would say not so many. 187 00:07:54,960 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, people more people if I post something about us, 188 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: they're like, oh my god, I love you guys together, 189 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 2: I love your relationship. I'm sure people have some shitty opinions, 190 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: but I don't really care. Like you said, Okay, this 191 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 2: is kind of a new trend and something we don't do. 192 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: But do you ever sleep in separate bedrooms? 193 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 4: Never? I hate sleeping away from you when you travel 194 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:19,640 Speaker 4: or when I travel and we're away. I don't like it. 195 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I put never, Yeah, never. 196 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 4: I don't like sleeping away from you. 197 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. What's your go to date night when the cameras 198 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 3: are off? Okay, so. 199 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 2: This is I mean, we're not fancy like that, but 200 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: we literally in sweats and baseball hats, will go to 201 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: the local Thai restaurant or have or fa. 202 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 3: Fah, we go have fa that's it. 203 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: And I can like almost read your mind. We're like, 204 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 2: we're you want to go eat? Yeah, And I'm like, 205 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 2: I know what he's going to say. Yeah, I know 206 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 2: it's gonna say. 207 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 3: I know where we're going to go. Yeah what I mean. 208 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong. We do go do some nice things. 209 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 4: Too, we do, but we'll find a fancy. 210 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: We're not that couple that's like, oh, let's go walk 211 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 2: a red carpet, Let's go to La, let's go out 212 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 2: to you know, Newport beach to be seen, like let's 213 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 2: go let's. 214 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 4: Go to La to the fanciest restaurant and have the 215 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 4: paparazzi take pictures of us. 216 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, it's just not our personality at all. 217 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 2: I'd rather just be in sweats and a baseball hat 218 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: and very little makeup and doing our thing. What traditions 219 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: do you have as a couple. This is a tough 220 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 2: one for me. I don't think we have like a 221 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 2: ton of traditions. I know that going camping once a 222 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 2: year was always something that we did together. When the 223 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 2: kids were younger, they would go with us. Now they're like, 224 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: I am not camping. I never want to camp again. 225 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 4: I think the traditions that we have together have to 226 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 4: do more with doing new things together like this, like 227 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 4: this podcast we're doing. This is a new thing for us. Yea. 228 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 4: The hard part is is that we've done so many 229 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 4: things together, Like what do we do next together? That's 230 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 4: a tradition. And I think if you define the tradition 231 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 4: as we just like to experience things together for the 232 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 4: first time, that's a tradition. 233 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 2: What hobbies do you guys do together besides working out? 234 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: And we do we work out, We don't necessarily always 235 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: work out do the same workout we're at the gym, 236 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 2: but we go together usually when we go. 237 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 4: And housework, yard work. 238 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 3: Well, you know, motorcycle riding. 239 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 4: So we did dirt bike together, dirt bike, electric bike together. 240 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 4: We ride our Murf bikes to the beach. Oh yeah, 241 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 4: we do that around Big Bear. 242 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 243 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 2: Well, that's one of the fun things about Big Bear 244 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: is being able to We have electric bikes there and 245 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: some in Orange County, and we ride our murf bikes 246 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 2: around the lake and go look at houses. 247 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 3: We love looking at houses. 248 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah. And I try to get you to ride 249 00:10:57,720 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 4: more Harley with me, but I I understand you're you're 250 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 4: afraid to be on the shoe. 251 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:07,320 Speaker 2: Older I get, the more fearful I get about Oh 252 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 2: god if I fall, Yeah, you know, I. 253 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 3: Love doing it. 254 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: But then I'm getting to be a little bit of 255 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 2: a scaredy cat as I get older. 256 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I get it. 257 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 3: If I break a hip, it's all over. It's all 258 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 3: over for me. 259 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 4: I might have to put you out, i know, like 260 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 4: a horse, take you out in the field and. 261 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 3: Make glue out of me. Do you guys get sick 262 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 3: of all the crazy headlines about you? 263 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: Too, like you two are breaking up or I broke 264 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 2: Rugby's leg recently. 265 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:34,760 Speaker 3: This is hilarious. 266 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 2: So guys, there's this whole thing going on on Facebook 267 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 2: and it's AI generated. And all I know is if 268 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 2: the link you click on the comments, there's all these 269 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 2: headlines and there's just clickbait. But if you click on 270 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 2: the comments, it's a story that comes from something that's 271 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: is c a R the word c ar in it. 272 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: When I see that, I go, oh, this is AI generated. 273 00:11:56,400 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 2: They're all fake stories. The people that are posting are 274 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: getting paid every time somebody clicks on this fake story. 275 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: It's annoying. 276 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 2: We talked to our attorneys about it, and they're not 277 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: just doing it about us. They're doing it about a 278 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 2: bunch of people, a bunch of people. And when I 279 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 2: knew it wasn't you know, like this was bullshit? Is 280 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 2: they ran the same stories with Emily and Shane saying 281 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 2: Emily had a gambling addiction, and then you know, then 282 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 2: they changed it to oh. 283 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: Eddie has a gambling addiction. 284 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 4: So I'm like, oh god, But just remember just because 285 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 4: it's AI doesn't mean AI took it upon themselves to 286 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 4: write the story. There is some scumbag behind, a scumbag 287 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 4: behind it that puts these marketing stories out there to 288 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 4: get clicks. And if you know, you know anybody in 289 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 4: the marketing business that's a scumbag, that's them they're putting out. 290 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:45,239 Speaker 2: Well I heard if somebody overseas or something that's studs. 291 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 3: I don't know. 292 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 2: I don't really know like that. Even when we talk 293 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: to our attorney about it, he's. 294 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:50,559 Speaker 4: Like, there's not a lot you could eat. 295 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 2: You don't even know who to go after because it's 296 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 2: all on Facebook. 297 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 4: So they do the same thing to try to get 298 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 4: people to go buy their CBD gummies and CVD market arts. Yeah, 299 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 4: trask gummies and then it's a link to a different website. 300 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 4: So we've sent letters, legal letters to those companies, you know, 301 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 4: to stop them from doing that because that's obviously illegal. 302 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 4: But from the beginning, remember when we first met, I 303 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 4: want to say, it was the first year we were together. 304 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 4: You had died in a CD jet ski accident in 305 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 4: Saint Trepez. I'm like, hell, I wish we were in St. Trepez. 306 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 2: But I literally had to like because my parents are 307 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 2: on Facebook, so I literally had to like call my 308 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 2: mom and dad and say. 309 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 3: By the way I didn't die. 310 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 4: I'm still here, still here. 311 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 2: That was like another thing that was going around that 312 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 2: was quite a while ago, let's see. And then also 313 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,200 Speaker 2: like reading the comments, because I do go on Facebook 314 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: more now than I ever have, because Instagram is so nasty, 315 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 2: dirty and mean and vile and just such lies, like 316 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 2: it makes me really sad to go on there because. 317 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 4: Well there's a lot of bots on there too. 318 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 3: That are Germany, and I don't quite understand all. 319 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: I mean, I had bought to tack melast year, but 320 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,599 Speaker 2: don't understand how that works, Like somebody buys them and 321 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 2: says say this about her. 322 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's it's another marketing scam that people have been 323 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 4: using to put to either deflect a story that's been 324 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 4: posted on social media or to drive more eyes and 325 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 4: ears and you know, and views to the story. 326 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 3: They're just mean. 327 00:14:19,200 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: So there's a lot of comments like I can't believe 328 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: Tarma would break her dog's leg, and then somebody wrote 329 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: I had to laugh about this one. They're like, I 330 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 2: really think Tarma's going through menopause right now because the 331 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 2: way she's acting is just not normal. And she's acting 332 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 2: like this on TV too, And I'm like Oh my god, 333 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 2: that ship has sailed. Yeah, I am well into my fifties. Yes, well, 334 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 2: so lots about Rugby. Do you guys sleep with Rugby 335 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 2: in your bed? 336 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 4: We tried it once the first time at home. It 337 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 4: was not comfortable. He moves, he snorts, he farts, he 338 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 4: he just kind of like you. Yeah, but there's only 339 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 4: room for one on our bed for that. Okay. Yeah, 340 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 4: we did have to have him sleep with this when 341 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 4: we went to go see your mom. Yeah, and he 342 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 4: was perfect. He's slept the good, he didn't move. It 343 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 4: was the only time that he's ever slept with us, 344 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 4: and it was okay. But I can't sleep with the dogs. 345 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 4: I love him a lot so much. I cuddle with 346 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 4: him and kiss him all the time, but I just 347 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,360 Speaker 4: cannot sleep with him. 348 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 2: When you are out of town, which doesn't very often, 349 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 2: I'll let him sleep in bed with me. Oh really, 350 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 2: and he just puts his head on your pillow and 351 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 2: just lays there. 352 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 3: Oh, he's really good. 353 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 4: He likes to climb on top of me. 354 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 2: Well, that's because you have a weird relationship with your dog, 355 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 2: Like you're hugging him all the time. He's on top 356 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 2: of you and you wrastle around in the grass with him, 357 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: and he loves me. He's like the child you never had. 358 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 4: He is my little boy. 359 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and somebody asked you ever get jealous of how 360 00:15:47,240 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 2: much Eddie loves Rugby. No, It's made my job so 361 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 2: much easier. 362 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 3: Let me just tell you. 363 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 2: So, I'm an early riser, so I get up usually 364 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: before you. I'll go downstairs. He still sleeps in his crate. 365 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 2: He loves sleeping in his crate, so he's I get 366 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 2: him out. He goes to the bathroom. I make my coffee, 367 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: and then I go back upstairs. He follows me up, 368 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 2: and he jumps in bed with you and lays next 369 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: to you, on top of you and just and I'm like, okay, 370 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: and it'll be fine for a while because I love 371 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: my peace and quiet in the morning and nobody talking 372 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 2: to me. 373 00:16:19,240 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 4: So it's like your ploy. 374 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can go hang out with your dog. 375 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: I'm on my computer shopping Amazon. 376 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 4: You know. If you don't want me to see you 377 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 4: in the morning, just say so. I won't talk to you, 378 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 4: I won't acknowledge you. I'll go my way. I can 379 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: talk after you have your coffee. 380 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 3: Would we ever consider moving to Big bear full time. 381 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 4: Well, we did consider it the first time we bought 382 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 4: the house up there, and we spent so much time 383 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 4: up there. I loved it so much. I remember I 384 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 4: wanted to sell the house in Orange County and buy 385 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 4: a bigger house up there. But I don't think I'm 386 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 4: ready to live up there full time. I love getting 387 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,320 Speaker 4: away and just enjoying the time. 388 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 3: I think like maybe in ten years or so, maybe 389 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 3: maybe maybe even maybe. 390 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 4: Even like the peace and quiet, I like the environment, 391 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 4: like lowness of it nice. It's a great place to be, 392 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 4: you know, but we'll see. I mean ten years is 393 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 4: a long time from now. We might decide to go 394 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:16,439 Speaker 4: live in Europe. 395 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you never know. 396 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 2: It's nice to have as a second house, and we 397 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 2: do spend a lot of time there, yeah, but probably 398 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: not full time. And if we did move there full time, 399 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 2: I would want a bigger house, Yeah, I not necessarily. 400 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: I don't need it that much bigger. 401 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 2: I just want one on more of a because there's 402 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: residential straits we're very much on like Airbnb straight right 403 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 2: right where there's not hardly anybody there. You don't have 404 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 2: any neighbors, but there are areas where people live there 405 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 2: full time, and the neighborhood's kept up better, you know, 406 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 2: the yards are kept up better. How do we deal 407 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 2: with conflict in making up after each other? I think 408 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 2: we talked about this earlier, just worded differently. I think 409 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 2: that I know that if we get in a fight, 410 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: which we don't fight very often, and it it's one 411 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 2: of those things like once every I always say this 412 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 2: once every six months or something. 413 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 4: But the problem is the Housewive show. 414 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 3: Yes, I know. 415 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,439 Speaker 2: The problem is is that when you get in an 416 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: argument every six months, then you fight about everything that 417 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:15,880 Speaker 2: happened for six months. 418 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,760 Speaker 3: You know, all the things that you did this and 419 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 3: you did that. 420 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:23,159 Speaker 4: But now I just six month period when you're filming 421 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 4: the House five show. 422 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 3: Outside of that, because I get super stressed up, I. 423 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 4: Get along great. We talk about any potential issues we 424 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 4: you know, and. 425 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 2: Also like you let me do my thing and I 426 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 2: let you do your thing, and so there's not like 427 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:41,239 Speaker 2: a lot of jealousy. There's a lot of respect between us. 428 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 2: So neither one of us Like I don't worried about you. 429 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 2: I'm not worried about you going and hooking up with 430 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 2: some girl. If you're out with your friends and I 431 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 2: would hope. You don't think, you know, worry about that 432 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:53,560 Speaker 2: with me. 433 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 4: No, yeah, I know you love me and I have 434 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 4: that connection with you and I don't have that insecurity, 435 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 4: and that's not an issue. But it's okay to be 436 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 4: away from each other once. Like I went on that 437 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 4: motorcycle trip while. 438 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 3: You were in Amsterdam asterdam. 439 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it just happened to work out at 440 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 4: the same time. But I've gone to trips in Mexico 441 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 4: without you with my guys. Yeah, dirt bikes, Yeah, dirt 442 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 4: bike trip. I'm not there to go meet a girl 443 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:23,479 Speaker 4: or look at girls. And the guys I hang out 444 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 4: with are so self respected they don't want to go 445 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 4: to strip clubs or stuff like that. We're there to 446 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 4: ride dirt bikes together. 447 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 3: You're growing, Yeah, you're doing. If you can relive one 448 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,399 Speaker 3: day of your marriage, what would it be? And I 449 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 3: think we both agree on this one. 450 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 2: The wedding day was so amazing and magical and beautiful, 451 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 2: and I think that it was so special because we 452 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 2: were expecting it not to be special because it was televised. 453 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 4: Well yeah, and put in other words, I was for 454 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 4: the bomb to drop because because it's reality to you 455 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:07,000 Speaker 4: it's reality TV, but it was so real, so special 456 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 4: and did a great job. And I'm standing there on 457 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 4: the altar literally taking it all in and realized, holy shit, 458 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 4: this is for. 459 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: Real because, like little backstory, we were actually thinking of 460 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 2: doing the wedding on TV and then going away and 461 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 2: just getting married with the family, like something very casual, 462 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 2: beach bare barefoot. Yeah, and then the wedding was so 463 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 2: beautiful that we're like, no, we're good. 464 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 4: We're good good. It was a beautiful, beautiful moment. 465 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:36,680 Speaker 3: What is the most ridiculous couple nicknames we have? 466 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 4: I don't have a ridiculous. 467 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,160 Speaker 2: Name, Like, I don't refer to you hardly ever, as 468 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 2: like if I'm going to yell for you in the house, 469 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:46,199 Speaker 2: I'm like. 470 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 4: Babe, babe. 471 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 2: Like I if I hear you go Tamra, I'm like, 472 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 2: oh shit, which you don't do. 473 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 3: It's always babe. 474 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 4: Well, I only resort to Tamora when you don't answer. 475 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 3: Sometimes I don't hear very well. 476 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 4: Right, And it's because you're old, right, yeah. 477 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're old too. 478 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 2: We're the same age now that you're in your fifties, 479 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: so we're five years apart. For people that are wondering, yes, 480 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,480 Speaker 2: I'm five years older. Back in the day when we 481 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 2: first met, they're like, oh my god, people were thinking 482 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 2: like I was fifteen years older than you or something. 483 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 3: Crazy. 484 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 2: What's one weird habit I have that secretly makes you 485 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 2: question my sanity. 486 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 3: I'll answer that one. First. You're chewing. 487 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 4: It's not a habit. It's a normal thing. 488 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 3: No, it's not. 489 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: It is. 490 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 3: It's not normal. 491 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 4: The habit is having the habit of always getting annoyed 492 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,880 Speaker 4: because people around you chew. It's a normal thing. It's 493 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 4: like you're going to get to the point where you 494 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 4: can't breathe around me. 495 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 3: Oh so it's a my issue. 496 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:49,479 Speaker 4: It's a U issue. Okay, you know people chew all 497 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 4: the time. 498 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 2: Well, I have like weird sensory issues with chewing. Any 499 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 2: kind of noise, Sitting at a restaurant with people behind me, 500 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 2: somebody talking in my ear, all those make me want 501 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 2: to punch somebody. 502 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 3: In the throat. 503 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 1: I know. 504 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 4: I can't even stick my tongue in your ear. 505 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 3: Oh oh for me, I think it drives me crazy 506 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 3: that you can't do two things at once. 507 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 4: It's not a problem. It's called focus. 508 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: But this is it. 509 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 2: You'll be in your office on your computer, and I'll 510 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 2: just come in and ask you, like a super simple question, 511 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: like you want to go to lunch. You're like, literally, 512 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 2: I'll have to ask you three times. Then you literally 513 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 2: like turn your computer off, look at me, and go 514 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 2: what I go? Do you want to You don't have 515 00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:36,919 Speaker 2: to turn You. 516 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 4: Don't understand this because you've never been in the zone. 517 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,160 Speaker 4: When you're in the zone, No, I'm a woman. 518 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 3: I can do multiple things. 519 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 4: You can't know. It's proved, scientifically proven that multitasking is 520 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 4: not a thing. It's stupid. 521 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 3: God, would you get that on GPT chat GPT. 522 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 4: Chat GPT right now and it'll tell me the same thing. No, 523 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 4: but I'm focused. When i'll focus, you have to say, hey, 524 00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 4: get my attention, then ask the question. Otherwise I don't 525 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 4: know what the hell you just said. I'm in the zone. 526 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 3: Okay. If you had to describe your love life with 527 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 3: a movie title. With the movie title, what. 528 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 4: Would it be. 529 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: For me? 530 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 4: Silence of the lamb minds, one flew. 531 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 3: Over the Cucka's nest. Oh god, you're going one day? No, 532 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 3: I mean, I'll joking aside, that's just we usually go 533 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 3: for the humor. 534 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. Under the Tuscan Son your favorite movie. 535 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 4: That's kind of a fantasy for us to move to 536 00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 4: Tuscany one day and ye have a house like that. 537 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 4: That's beautiful. 538 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 2: I don't know where was this the last one? Where 539 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: was the most random place you ever? Well, this is 540 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:50,919 Speaker 2: made out but ever gotten. 541 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 4: Freaky and it was the one and last time because 542 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 4: you are so damn conservative. When we first met, we 543 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 4: were in Panama and I invited you on that trip, 544 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 4: flew you out. We were on an island and so you. 545 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,920 Speaker 2: Were already in Panama doing something, and then I flew out, 546 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 2: flew out because I had the kids. I had to 547 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 2: wait till it was his turn. Yep, so flew out 548 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 2: by myself, which I had never done anything like that. 549 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 4: You got your passport for the first time. That was 550 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 4: your first. 551 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 2: I had a passport because I went to Mexico and 552 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 2: so basically, first it was in the bathroom at the 553 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 2: restaurant in Panama, and. 554 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:28,400 Speaker 3: Then it was in the jungle. 555 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:29,440 Speaker 4: In the jungle. 556 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 3: Now I just the most random place the bedroom. 557 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, not even our bathroom anymore. 558 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 2: That I just yeah, you know, you get older, you 559 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 2: get tired, and it's like you're like, hey, I'll get 560 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:50,159 Speaker 2: you tomorrow, yeah, the next day, whatever it is. 561 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 4: But yeah, that was it awesome. 562 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 3: But thank you for being on the podcast for the 563 00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 3: very first time. 564 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:05,640 Speaker 4: You. I feel privileged to be podcast, a successful podcast, 565 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 4: and I'm very proud of you. 566 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. 567 00:25:07,800 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 2: Thanks guys for tuning in to another episode of to 568 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 2: Teas and a Pod Twarts, You're a twat.