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Speaker 2: Phoebe is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She thinks that her fiance Rory might be messing around,

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Speaker 2: so she definitely wants to find out if he is

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Speaker 2: or isn't before they get married. They've been together for

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Speaker 2: five years. I guess, Phoebe, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Yeah, so I've been with my now fiance for

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Speaker 1: five years. I love him very much and I trust him.

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Speaker 1: Uh And you know, like any long term staying, their

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Speaker 1: abs and flows, and I think that's natural. But lately

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Speaker 1: we're in more of a disconnected phase and it feels

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Speaker 1: a little bit different this time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we have a lot going on, I will.

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Speaker 1: Say, like, we're trying to find a new place because

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Speaker 1: both work a lot, and he has been working on

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Speaker 1: like a special project recently, so he's been working like

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Speaker 1: eighty plus hours a week. Yeah, so we bare we

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Speaker 1: And then he has this boss named Emily. She just

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Speaker 1: But he constantly is talking to her, and it really

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Speaker 1: feels like she kind of comes first. Like if we're

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Speaker 1: for a work thing, He's like immediately at her beck

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Speaker 1: Like he doesn't seem to notice. But this is weird

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Speaker 2: Have you asked him specifically if he's messing around with

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Speaker 1: I haven't. I just I do feel kind of bad

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Speaker 1: awkward thing to bring up because I don't want to

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I haven't asked direth week. I've just been observing.

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Speaker 3: I definitely don't think you sound crazy, but I wonder

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Speaker 3: if you would be as concerned if his boss was

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Speaker 3: ringing all the time and your boss is calling. Chances

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Speaker 3: are you going to answer if your money's attached to it.

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 3: I don't like the handsy part, though. You have a

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Speaker 3: very valid point there. Do you know if she's in

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Speaker 3: a relationship, is she single?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. I have no idea. Honestly, we'll try.

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Speaker 2: To figure it out for you. You already told us what

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Speaker 2: grocery store. He's a rewards card member app. So we'll

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Speaker 2: call and pretend to be from the grocery store and

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Speaker 2: say that every single month, we choose one rewards card

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Speaker 2: our floral department. We'll SEEVI senzos to you or to

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Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, well play us, come

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Speaker 2: back and then get your to catch cheeter. Next, it's

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Speaker 2: time to catch a cheater. If you're just joining us

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Speaker 2: for today's to Catch a Cheater. Phoebe is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and she thinks that her fiance named Rory might

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Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral apartment, just our way of

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Speaker 2: saying thank you for shopping. We'll see ve Sinzos to

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Speaker 2: his fiance Phoebe or to somebody else. And before we

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Speaker 2: do that, phoe why don't you refresh everybody's memory on

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Speaker 2: your situation.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So, I've been with my now fiance for about five years,

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean that's kind of strange. I mean

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Speaker 2: it's super strange. Are you ready for us to call

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I let's do it, all right?

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from

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Speaker 2: I was looking for uh Rory?

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Speaker 4: This is he? Who am I speaking with?

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Speaker 2: Rory? Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing

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Speaker 2: phone call. We're calling to say thank you very much

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Speaker 2: for shopping with us and congratulations. Here this montht big winner?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 4: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member and

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Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stim red roses, a

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Speaker 2: Know who you want to send them to, I can

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Speaker 2: take the information in just a matter of minutes over

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Speaker 4: Yes, could you please send them to Phoebe?

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you'd like to put on a card

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Speaker 5: Yes, please could you put I love you, I got

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Speaker 5: awesome news. Please put awesome in all caps if you could,

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Speaker 5: that'd be greatly appreciated. It okay, period, and then dinner

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Speaker 5: question mark and then our sushi joint question mark.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't it be funny if your news is that you

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Speaker 2: were cheating on her? I'm sure what This is actually

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called Jubell Show. My name is Jeuble. Hi,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria, and Phoebe is on

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Speaker 2: the phone listening. We do a segment call to catch

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Speaker 2: a cheater, see if your significant other might be messing

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Speaker 2: around and maybe it's your horse. Yeah, we thought you

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Speaker 4: Okay, what is happening? I'm sorry? Hi, Okay, I'm a

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Speaker 4: what's that? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: H Okay? This sounds silly, probably, but I feel like

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Speaker 1: lately you've been so am I A with work and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, well this is a lot, okay.

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Speaker 5: I'm I can't believe you think I'd be cheating on you,

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Speaker 5: but now like, uh, okay, I kind of get it.

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Speaker 4: Look, I uh, I'm sorry about that, okay.

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Speaker 5: And I'm sorry that you think all of these things,

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Speaker 5: a reason, okay. And then there's a reason I've been

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Speaker 5: working so much too. And I've been working to score

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Speaker 5: the seal with a new client for a couple of reasons.

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Speaker 5: And the reason my notes had awesome news and caps

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Speaker 5: is because I wanted to wait until after the meeting

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Speaker 5: to tell you that not only did the deal go through,

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Speaker 5: but the commission alone, okay, was enough to pay for

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Speaker 2: To have baby whoa, oh god.

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Speaker 5: Oh And by the way, that's great, that's awesome, don't

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Speaker 5: reason why I've been working so closely with Emily is

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Speaker 5: that I was shadowing her, okay, And and I was

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Speaker 5: shadowing her so I could be become a partner in

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Speaker 4: That's what the late night meeting was.

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Speaker 5: They were there to tell me that I'd not only

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Speaker 4: So I apologize.

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Speaker 5: I shouldn't have gotten so stupa drunk, and I was

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Speaker 4: I was looking, I was waiting for the perfect.

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Speaker 5: Time to tell you in the right way, and so yeah,

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Speaker 5: so and then I got I don't know, I got

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Speaker 5: for you.

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's great.

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Speaker 1: I'm happy for you.

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Speaker 4: I I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to doubt you, and I trust you.

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Speaker 1: I just without any of that information in context, I

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Speaker 2: Which is totally understandable considering I.

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Speaker 5: Do and and look, and I of course, as you know,

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Speaker 5: I've been working soft and way too long of hours,

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Speaker 5: when I'm focused on one thing, and but this is

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Speaker 4: Was our future.

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Speaker 5: And so you know, I'm still sorry, but obviously I hope,

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Speaker 5: I hope this is worth it. And you know that doesn't,

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Speaker 4: I just you know, I hope we can we can

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Speaker 4: still do date night, Yeah, of course. Okay, that's a start.

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Speaker 5: That's a start, okay, and boundaries will be had much more.

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Speaker 4: So take that to the bank, the condo.

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Speaker 2: They all get to go on to date

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Speaker 1: Night, the Jewel shows, to catch a cheater,