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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: You know what's always been a big regret of mine

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Speaker 1: Jose's birthday because for the last decade that we've worked together.

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Speaker 1: Jose doesn't know this, but every year I try to

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Speaker 1: plan a big surprise birthday Excrabaganah with friends and his

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Speaker 1: relatives that we fly in with the bikini barista popping

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Speaker 1: up out of a giant cake. The problem is Jose

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Speaker 1: always shows up to work so early. He gets there

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Speaker 1: before the guests do. Yeah, so the come afterhand and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, guys, sorry, you're too late. Just go home.

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Speaker 1: I guess we'll try it again next year.

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Speaker 4: You are our celebration guy on this show.

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Speaker 1: Always blowing his own surprise. Your fault, Jose and one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners, Jamie, needs help today because she thinks

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Speaker 1: she may have accidentally blown her own surprise. So let's

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Speaker 1: talk to her about it. Jamie, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm curious, is it a birthday surprise or a

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Speaker 4: different type of surprise.

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Speaker 2: No, it's a much different type of surprise.

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Speaker 1: Well, hopefully there's some sort of woman popping out of

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Speaker 1: a cake in your surprise too. But let's hear more

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Speaker 1: about it. What's going on in your life?

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Speaker 2: Let me give you a little background here. I'm actually

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Speaker 2: the last person in my group of friends to get married.

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Speaker 1: Alexis feels you on that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like.

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Speaker 4: Halfway right now, she's not half still yeah, but I

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Speaker 4: will be that one.

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Speaker 1: Yes anyway. How do you feel about that, Jamie?

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, marriage is top of mind for me.

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Speaker 4: Oh you do want it, okay, because some people are

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Speaker 4: like anti, which is fine too, but it's something you

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Speaker 4: want in your life.

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Speaker 2: Oh, totally. I mean I have friends that have kids.

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Speaker 2: I have one friend that's been married twice already.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, do you have a person you want to

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Speaker 4: marry or are you just hoping?

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Speaker 2: So here's where it gets a little complicated. I've been

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Speaker 2: dating this guy for you for like eight months, so

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Speaker 2: it hasn't been long, but you know, eight months for

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Speaker 2: like over that six month hump. Just moved in together.

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Speaker 1: Okay, things are getting serious with you?

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Speaker 4: Oh you moved in together already?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean he is. Oh, he's just a great guy.

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Speaker 2: He's all he's sweet. He loves my family. They love

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Speaker 2: him as the big thing that's huge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: Which is also sweet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, that's that's great.

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Speaker 2: The thing is, I like his second relationship ever, and

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Speaker 2: it's fine. I mean, I feel like I've had to

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Speaker 2: teach him certain things and he actually listens and we

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Speaker 2: have great communications. But he does know about this desire

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Speaker 2: that I have to kind of catch up where my

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Speaker 4: Okay, so he's he's on board with your life plan.

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Speaker 4: He also wants to get married someday.

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Speaker 1: But I do understand that there's a stigma around guys

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Speaker 1: Some women are afraid of things like that.

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Speaker 4: There's going to teach.

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Speaker 2: Him some things, you know, like communication skills and stuff.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, well, he's learning how to do things

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Speaker 1: the right way with you. Where's the issue?

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Speaker 2: So the issue is, as I was going through some

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Speaker 2: moving in he was at work. I found a receipt

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Speaker 1: That's so exciting.

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Speaker 4: It's what you want, right, I know, but it's still

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Speaker 4: you don't know how she's going to do it right,

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Speaker 4: Like you just know that it's happening.

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Speaker 2: Surprise anyway, right, aren't you excited? First of all, I found

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Speaker 2: the receipt like tucked away, like really really deep, and

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Speaker 2: it was twelve thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: By the way, that's it a judging, doesn't it supposed

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Speaker 1: to be like three years salary that you spend on

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Speaker 4: Ay?

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Speaker 1: Oh, sorry, only if you love the three year salary.

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Speaker 1: That's the rule.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't even care about the price. I think

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Speaker 1: Obviously, I'm just kidding about the price of the ring.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's really nice and everything that you ever

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, rich boy, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: The ring is important, but it's not important. It's more

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Speaker 2: kind of in this mindset of like, wow, like he

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Speaker 4: Oh oh, so you're you're not wanting this yet.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not ready. It's not that I don't want

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Speaker 2: it with him. Let me just like clarify. He's amazing,

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Speaker 2: he's perfect. I would love to marry him someday, but

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Speaker 2: it just feels really too soon and I don't. He's

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Speaker 2: like he's like a little puppy, you know, Like that's

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Speaker 1: Nose Okay, Okay, I don't.

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Speaker 4: Know, man, Like you don't know when he's gonna propose, Like,

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Speaker 4: what if you bought the ring and it's not for

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Speaker 1: Hand twelve thousand dollars?

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Speaker 4: Now things are clicking, So what are you wanting to

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Speaker 4: do like talk to him about how you you found

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Speaker 4: the receipt.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't want him to know that I found

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Speaker 2: the receipt, okay, because, like you said, it could be

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Speaker 2: that he bought the ring and he's waiting. Like so

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Speaker 2: my question is, because it's really delicate, I'm like, how

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Speaker 2: do I how do I let him know that I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough to like subtly let a guy know

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Speaker 4: But as a guy, you'd want to know, right because

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Speaker 4: you don't want to propose and get like just a

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Speaker 1: Sure, I think most guys don't want to propose, but

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Speaker 1: you do it because that's what the girl wants.

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Speaker 4: That's not true.

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Speaker 1: Jeff took a poll online. We'll go to that. That's

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Speaker 1: that's not here. There there. We're focused on the relationship

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Speaker 1: that Jamie's going through with a guy. What's his name again, THEO. Okay, So,

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Speaker 1: just like every awkward call that we do, we're going

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Speaker 1: to come back give you our best advice that we have.

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Speaker 1: It's not saying much, but it's the best that we got.

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Speaker 1: And then we'll let you call THEO and try to

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Speaker 1: subtly convince him to hold off on proposing just a

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Speaker 1: little bit longer until you're fully ready to commit.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, and let's just hope he doesn't hear this

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Speaker 4: first part.

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Speaker 1: You know, nobody listens to the show, Brooke, No one's

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Speaker 1: going to hear. That's okay. We're going to do it

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Speaker 1: with your awkward Tuesday right after this hold on, it's awkward,

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Speaker 1: it's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We as a

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Speaker 1: society tend to put a lot of pressure on having

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Speaker 1: the perfect proposal. Yes, guys and girls do that. We

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Speaker 1: want it to happen at the perfect time. In the

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Speaker 1: perfect place with the perfect speech done. But look, Brooke

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Speaker 1: got engaged in a dirt field behind a broken fence

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Speaker 1: next to an open sewer drain. After do it over

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Speaker 1: five times, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: Their relationship is perfect. He's allowed to speak ten whole

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Speaker 4: That's up though from eight last year.

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Speaker 1: Good for him. Jamie isn't quite ready to have the

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Speaker 1: guy for eight months and she feels like it could

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Speaker 1: for a very very expensive ring. Yes not just a ring,

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Speaker 1: like a real ring, she wants advice on how to

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Speaker 1: subtly hint to her boyfriend that this is not the

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Speaker 1: right time yet, just hold off a little bit longer.

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Speaker 1: How does she do that? Jose, what do you think? Well,

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Speaker 1: this may not be very direct, but you need to

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Speaker 1: get him to just question the relationship.

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Speaker 5: What just listen?

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Speaker 1: Justafire I like where this is going. That way, you

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Speaker 1: is ask him if he's willing to add a third

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Speaker 4: What whoa?

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Speaker 1: Exactly exactly he's gonna go?

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Speaker 4: Whoa?

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Speaker 1: And wait a minute.

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Speaker 4: I mean it will add time if you break up

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Speaker 4: and then you have to get him back, and then yeah.

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Speaker 1: This is good for entertaining. What do you think, Jamie?

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Speaker 2: I think no, yeah, that's not me. He's going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go to the woman who pressed her husband

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Speaker 1: into Mary.

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Speaker 4: What do you think all you have to do is

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Speaker 4: use a little gossip to your advantage. You call him

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Speaker 4: and you say, oh my god, you will not believe

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Speaker 4: one of my friends just got engaged after only eight months?

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Speaker 4: Can you believe that? That is so fast? Can you

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Speaker 4: imagine if that happened to us, Like, how crazy that

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Speaker 1: That is nuts? Play on insecurities as a man. What

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Speaker 1: do you think about that, Jamie? How is that?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's good because then I can

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Speaker 2: get his like real feeling on how that is, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, like his opinion?

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Speaker 4: How is that insecurities at all?

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Speaker 1: It's like, Oh, Jessica's boyfriend was mad enough to propose

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Speaker 1: after eight months? What's wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: It's like, oh my god, she should say no, why

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Speaker 4: would they do that so quick?

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Speaker 1: Quickly?

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Speaker 4: Listen?

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Speaker 1: Who I think we got some good advice? I don't

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Speaker 1: know because I wasn't fully listening to it. I hope

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Speaker 1: that helped you, Jamie. Are you ready?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel good about it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I'm gonna do with the for you. We're

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Speaker 1: going to jump in if we feel like you need

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Speaker 1: a little help. I think you got this all by yourself.

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Speaker 1: I doubt we're going to talk the rest of the second.

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, mabe, how's it going?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 5: Uh? What number?

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Speaker 3: Are you calling from?

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Speaker 2: My number?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: It didn't come up.

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Speaker 5: That's so strange.

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Speaker 1: How's it calling?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, it's.

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Speaker 2: Good, honest. I'm just like getting so much stuff done

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Speaker 2: in the house and she's trying to get my life

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Speaker 2: together today. I feel at us the worts it's been

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Speaker 2: running around. How's work?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 5: It's always like such a loser.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, he's a jerk. But I'm just like

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Speaker 5: That's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: And I just I heard some crazy news from my

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Speaker 3: What what happened?

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Speaker 2: So she's been dating this guy for like about eight

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Speaker 1: For her and him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought it was pretty interesting. So you think

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Speaker 5: But I mean it sounds like, I mean, did she

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Speaker 5: Well then yes, I mean that sounds great, but what

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's really quick, like eight months.

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Speaker 2: I mean they really know each other eight months?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I'm happy for them. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 2: I just I just a question for you. Do you

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Speaker 4: Inn it?

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Speaker 2: Like, are you good? Are you okay? Did I kitchen

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Speaker 3: My door's closed.

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Speaker 5: Don't worry. I mean, you know, you might pomp in

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Speaker 3: But whatever, I'll just play him on the phone.

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Speaker 2: With left you know, it's fine, okay, Okay, So yeah,

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Speaker 2: I just it kind of fell out.

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Speaker 5: Receipt for what so it saysn't for a ring?

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Speaker 2: Oh And what I thought was interesting was it was

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Speaker 5: Oh, I thought I tucked that away in that cabinet

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Speaker 3: Okay, Look, I know it's a lot of money, so

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Speaker 2: Now we're never like that feels like hmm, like there's

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Speaker 5: It is with things like this where it's like they

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Speaker 1: Wanted to do.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, I think you're so sweet, but I

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Speaker 2: just I don't think it's the right time, right now

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Speaker 5: The right time for us to buy a Patriots super

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Speaker 1: I don't get it.

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Speaker 3: Wait, what all think about?

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Speaker 2: What rings? What are these other?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to interrupt your conversation there, but we're a

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, the what we're here for?

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Speaker 1: You?

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Speaker 3: Your bro?

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Speaker 1: Well, we're here. We're here really for Jamie because she

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Speaker 1: was confused by what she found and now I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: It's not an engagement ring.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god. No, it's a I'm a big Patriots fan.

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Speaker 5: It's a Patriots super Bowl ring.

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Speaker 1: Where'd you get that?

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Speaker 5: It's like a dealer where they sell that sort of

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Speaker 5: like sports memorabilia, you know, it's super Bowl. Man, my gosh, Jamie,

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Speaker 5: did you really think I was going to propose?

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Speaker 2: If I'm being totally honest, yeah, I mean I, oh

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Speaker 2: just moved in together. We both said we want to

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Speaker 2: I mean, you.

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Speaker 1: Sound like you should be marrying Claire in her new husband, Jamie,

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Speaker 1: are you okay?

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Speaker 5: Are you like?

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Speaker 2: Oh God, I don't know what I'm feeling right now.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm kind of bummed. I don't I don't

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Speaker 4: I totally get that, because, like, you felt so special

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Speaker 1: You're down thirteen k.

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Speaker 2: He's got to resave it up again.

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Speaker 5: Now, Jamie. Look, I really do see's getting engaged down

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Speaker 5: the line, like maybe three, four or five years from now.

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Speaker 1: Oh years. Don't rush things. You take your time with

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Speaker 5: Wait. Okay, wasn't she just talking about how she doesn't

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Speaker 2: I just five years. I don't know. That's a sorry,

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Speaker 2: Sorry about the years.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, it's like, just get me off. Then. We would

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Speaker 1: love to give you a chance to propose right now

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Speaker 1: on the radio. Nobody wants that.

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Speaker 3: No, that is not happening.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, well we met stuff here. This this should

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Speaker 1: be between you two. This is a special moment that

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Speaker 1: you guys need to discuss. What's going to work out?

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Speaker 1: That's right, for you. Ye so funny.

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Speaker 2: I just need a drink right now. I'm off today

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Speaker 2: for more.

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Speaker 4: Time, dude. That's why mimosas were invented. Go for it.

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Speaker 1: That's all I have. Mosas and non proposal. Congratulations Jamie,

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Speaker 1: than working Jeffrey in the morning.