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Speaker 1: Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: Guess what the good Moms are coming to your city

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Speaker 2: on April twenty six. We're pulling up at the Black

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Speaker 2: Effect Podcast Festival.

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Speaker 3: That's right, We'll be hitting the stage with other hot

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Speaker 3: podcasts like R and B, Money, Trap Nerds, Naked Sports,

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Speaker 3: and Sarah Jakes.

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Speaker 2: And if you've ever been to a Good Mom's Bad

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Speaker 2: Choices show, you know it gets real, real bad, and

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Speaker 2: we have some special guests. So I'm so excited to

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Speaker 2: meet our Atlanta tribe. Make sure you pull up April

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Speaker 2: twenty six to the Black Effect Podcast Festival and get

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Speaker 2: your tickets at Black Effect dot Com Slash Podcast Festival.

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Speaker 1: See you there.

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Speaker 4: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 4: She cooked, she cleaned, cared for her children and the

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Speaker 4: man of the house, and of course she didn't talk back.

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Speaker 4: She was both obedient and soft by nature. She was

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Speaker 4: a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 3: I sing that shit off.

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Speaker 1: We're Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: Two single mom who said fuck the patriarchy, shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices.

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Speaker 1: And sound out they were so bad after all, we're experts.

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Speaker 1: Over and your new vestie, sit back and near the ride.

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Speaker 1: I can do.

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Speaker 3: At Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm America

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Speaker 3: and I'm Nila and it's Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Bitches.

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Speaker 3: What it do? Hello? Hi? How are you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you haven't tuned into our YouTube channel. Shit

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Speaker 2: because Meila's dressed like a little kiddy cat today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very important. You know I'm feeling rather felin in

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Speaker 3: and so why not represent it. I see like all

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Speaker 3: the white high school girls wearing kitten ears all the time,

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Speaker 3: so I said I could wear kitten not kitten heels.

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Speaker 2: Kitten ears, let's not be confused with kitten heels, because

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Speaker 2: we know how we feel about kitten heels.

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Speaker 3: I fucking hate kitten heels. It is my number one

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Speaker 3: pet peeve on women, unless you're over sixty, in which case.

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Speaker 1: And even then just just surrender.

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Speaker 3: Just wear flats.

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Speaker 1: Fuck it.

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Speaker 3: I like New York is like the number one place

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Speaker 3: of kitten heels, and it really pisses me off every

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Speaker 3: time I go.

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Speaker 2: It is an East Coast like Boston girl thing or

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Speaker 2: something Connecticut.

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Speaker 1: Some shit.

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Speaker 3: Just commit, bitch, just commit. Don't do it. If you're

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Speaker 3: going on a date, don't fucking wear that kitten hell.

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Speaker 1: If you didn't call you back, bitch, tell you.

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Speaker 3: It's because that fucking kitten here. Sorry we got off topic.

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Speaker 1: How are you? I'm great, I feel good.

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Speaker 2: I'm I've been eating really well for the past week.

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Speaker 2: I got like severely ill last week and I was

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Speaker 2: puking my brains out. That body was like, bitch, stop enough.

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Speaker 2: And so I've been just kind of trying to rewire

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Speaker 2: my mind to stop eating bullshit.

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Speaker 1: And I've been feeling good, feeling healthy, and I haven't

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Speaker 1: been drinking. But last night I went to Summerville. How

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Speaker 1: was it?

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Asa Ray for that fucking restaurant. That

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Speaker 2: shit is a fucking vibe.

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Speaker 3: I missed it. I'm gonna have to wait another three months.

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Speaker 1: No, that's just dope. Like, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: When I walked in, I was like, god damn. It

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Speaker 2: was just like it was super impressive. The food was amazing.

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Speaker 2: It was a little girls' night. We missed you. I

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Speaker 2: know you were tired. I was shocked because me a

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Speaker 2: little miss a party.

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Speaker 3: I don't and this year I've I just I've let

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Speaker 3: shit go. I can have fomo. I'm not going to

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Speaker 3: make it. I'm bitch, just tired. I overbooked myself. I

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Speaker 3: went on a trip that my daughter really wanted to

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Speaker 3: go on. It was it was painful for me, not

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Speaker 3: like I went to Disney World. This is my bad

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Speaker 3: choice of the week. I went to Disney World to

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Speaker 3: go with my daughter with a mom that I don't love.

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Speaker 3: And it was fine until it wasn't. I only have

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Speaker 3: like forty eight hours and I spent like fifty eight,

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Speaker 3: and so I just had to go.

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Speaker 1: I didn't.

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Speaker 3: My social battery was on a zero.

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Speaker 1: I tried to tell.

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Speaker 2: You, bitch, you did did Okay, I'm glad that you

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Speaker 2: went and you had those forty eight hours that were positive.

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Speaker 3: It was those last It was those last like hey

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Speaker 3: yeah that I was just like, this is why I

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Speaker 3: hit my max nice. But it was still it was fun.

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Speaker 1: Great. I'm happy for you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you sacrificing for the children.

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Speaker 1: We do it every day.

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Speaker 2: Well, you guys, I'm really excited because we have a

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Speaker 2: special guest here, and you know, we've been trying to

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Speaker 2: get this man on our show for a minute, like

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Speaker 2: I would say, like maybe a year and a half,

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Speaker 2: two years of some sort, and he's finally pulled up

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Speaker 2: on us in LA. He's from New York. I know

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Speaker 2: a lot of you bitches. A lot of you hoes

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Speaker 2: listening right now. I wish you were sitting in my seat,

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Speaker 2: but you're not. I would love to welcome to this

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Speaker 2: to the show, rapper, producer, actor, father.

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Speaker 1: Party Fontaine. You forgot sex, oh international sex symbol.

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Speaker 5: Excuse me.

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Speaker 3: A respect on this.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry having Partisan Fontanne.

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Speaker 1: Welcome Partisans Party to the show.

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Speaker 5: Thank you all for having me. I'm excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're excited to have you.

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Speaker 2: We were talking off camera and I was asking Party

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Speaker 2: if his name, if his government name is Partisan and Fontaine,

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Speaker 2: because that's such a strong I don't even know if

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Speaker 2: it's a black name. I guess the black name. I

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Speaker 2: never heard nobody named Partisan. But I was like, that's

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Speaker 2: a strong name. And you told me that's not your

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Speaker 2: real your real name, So how did you come up

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Speaker 2: with this name?

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Speaker 5: My birth name?

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Speaker 1: And actually I heard that your name was originally a

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Speaker 1: rap name was Partisan McFly.

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Speaker 5: Party partly.

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Speaker 1: Because we got a team nigga the internet.

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Speaker 6: It started as Party McFly after watching it back to

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Speaker 6: the future. But I was like, that might not that

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Speaker 6: might not age well with me.

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Speaker 1: How old were you when you were Party McFly.

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Speaker 5: Sixteen fifteen something like that.

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Speaker 6: When I first decided I wanted to like start rapping

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Speaker 6: and making music, I needed a moniker. But yeah, it

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Speaker 6: quickly evolved in the partisan and then I started working

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Speaker 6: at a Sax sax flaf and I used to have

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Speaker 6: to pass the and Fontange story and I was like,

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Speaker 6: y Fontaine just sounds.

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Speaker 5: Luxury.

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Speaker 6: Yeah exactly. So then I attacked it on to the

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Speaker 6: end of my name and I threw it on. I

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Speaker 6: threw it on my Space and I swear to God,

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Speaker 6: people just you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: It just stuck with me.

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Speaker 3: Was it not the MySpace?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: I know you're our age.

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Speaker 5: That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: Good old my Space?

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Speaker 3: Remember the codes and ship and if that we were

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Speaker 3: colder were why do we stick with that?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 3: We don't know ship because I was putting the backgrounds

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Speaker 3: and the music, the h and if you did one

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Speaker 3: thing off the whole thing for hours we didn't know

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Speaker 3: about but we would figure out that fucking MySpace Ship

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Speaker 5: In the background of Ship doing it.

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Speaker 3: Yo, the kids will never know.

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Speaker 5: Wait.

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Speaker 2: The other day I had I found a picture of

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Speaker 2: my old bedroom when I was a kid, and I

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Speaker 2: showed Iri and I had that mac that had like

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Speaker 2: the like you remember the yeah, and she was like,

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Speaker 2: what is that?

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Speaker 1: What is that?

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Speaker 2: I just burst out laughing. She's like what the fuck?

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Speaker 2: I was like, that is a computer?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that makes us seem so old.

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Speaker 2: I was in there coating and as selling my life

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Speaker 2: in chat rooms.

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's interesting. Like you never you think you look

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Speaker 3: at old pictures, but you rarely have a photo of

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Speaker 3: your old and then you can take you back there

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Speaker 3: because you kind of forget those details of your like

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Speaker 3: childhood life, because you have so much shit on your brain.

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Speaker 1: And then you're like, oh, yeah, that.

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Speaker 3: Wall I covered in pictures of Tyra Banks and niggas from.

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Speaker 1: That fucking magazine min was Nelly. I was nellied out.

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Speaker 1: I had Nelly all over that goddamn wall.

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Speaker 3: He got older and I lost interest. But in seventh grade, baby,

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Speaker 3: that was my nigga.

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Speaker 1: And tell me St. Luna takes and Nelly what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get me started, because I know every.

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Speaker 3: Rap we're excited to have you. I want to know

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Speaker 3: you were an athlete before you decided to be a rapper, right,

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Speaker 3: wit shifted, Where were you? Like you know what I

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Speaker 3: call this athletic shit.

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Speaker 6: It was like I guess in senior year high school

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Speaker 6: is when I was like, all right, I don't think

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Speaker 6: And I started just and I just fell in love

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Speaker 6: then put it out like as fast as I wanted to,

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Speaker 6: like anything like that just took over my mind. That

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Speaker 3: This is important. This is an important lesson because I

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Speaker 3: feel like there's a lot of young men who said,

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Speaker 3: I'm a basketball player. But do you have to ask yourself,

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Speaker 3: are you going to the NBA though? Because the chances

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Speaker 3: are low, My chances are low. You have to look

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Speaker 3: at numbers. And I don't want to kill anybody's dreams.

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Speaker 3: But my baby daddy, he told dam I have to

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Speaker 3: go for my own experience. I feel like a lot

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Speaker 3: of I mean, not like rapping as much better freaking

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Speaker 3: numbers or podcasting. Really, so I'm being.

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Speaker 2: Hypocritical, he said, I'm gonna I'm gonna quit bawling and

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try wrap.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying I think people lack the ability to

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Speaker 3: pivot and really say, what the fuck am I doing?

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Speaker 3: Does this really matter? Because you don't want to be

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Speaker 3: thirty five and then be like I should have not

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Speaker 3: been bawling until thirty five. I should have had a

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Speaker 3: plan B. And I know people are not popular about

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Speaker 3: plan b's because you want to just like know that

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Speaker 3: the first thing's gonna happen. And I'm a firm believer

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Speaker 3: of manifestations obviously, but I think, look what happens when

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Speaker 3: you follow the truth? O.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 6: It definitely was definitely a time like I'm like, at school,

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Speaker 6: I was, I was a scholarship player. So after I

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Speaker 6: It's a good moniker. If all you see is positive

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Speaker 3: That's a good perspective. I think people think, oh, like

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Speaker 6: Somebody took that doesn't know you, that are not invested

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Speaker 5: Like they got a full day of they own the.

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Speaker 6: You gotta respect that, like you're doing something. I got

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Speaker 5: What is what class I listen?

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Speaker 6: I've started off with just doing gym, because you know,

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Speaker 6: It was a worksheet. I'm like, all, it's pretty easy, boomed.

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Speaker 6: The students they kind of want to listen to somebody

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Speaker 6: that looked like them, you know what. They're like, you're

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Speaker 5: It's cool.

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Speaker 6: Before I know it, they just getting me for the

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Speaker 6: Oh we got a Spanish I'm like, I don't know

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Speaker 6: nothing about Spanish, right, but it doesn't matter now. It's like, yo,

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Speaker 6: I mean, Like I was, I was a kid. They

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Speaker 5: I seen my mom, I've seen you.

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Speaker 6: And I'm like, out of here, yeah, no, I don't

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Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. This is like one hundred

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Speaker 6: think one day I didn't I didn't substitute, and I

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Speaker 5: And then he's showing me.

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Speaker 6: He showed me on on his phone, all the kids

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Speaker 5: He's like, Yo, that's tough. Monell put that shit away. Right.

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Speaker 6: The next day, the same kid comes downstairs and he's like, yo,

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Speaker 6: they pulled us into the office. They was asking how

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Speaker 6: I guess one of the teachers seeing you in the video.

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Speaker 6: So it's like a big deal. And before I as

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Speaker 6: They had a little siren on the top and not

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Speaker 6: envelope was like, yeah, you need to appear before the

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Speaker 6: it's not it's probably time to just do music now.

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Speaker 3: That's when you're retired from substitute.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe that was my last day or subject.

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Speaker 1: I feel like fighting the case. How long were you?

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Speaker 1: How long did this last for?

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Speaker 6: It was probably it was probably a good part of

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Speaker 6: it's probably so about when school was about to get out,

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Speaker 6: so it's probably a good.

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Speaker 5: Part of the year.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, you seem like you work with kids a lot.

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Speaker 2: Is that like a Was that like a passion of yours?

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Speaker 1: Early on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: It was easy, Like you know, it was like it

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Speaker 6: was little mes I'm watching. I'm watching them grow up.

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Speaker 6: They want to play basketball, they want to be bad,

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Speaker 6: they want to be loud. And I'm in shout out

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Speaker 6: to whoever hired me at the Boys and Girls Club

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Speaker 6: because all I live right down the street. So I'm

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Speaker 6: just driving a van picking up the kids who got

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Speaker 6: just it was just a great time. That's definitely my

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Speaker 3: Have you always wanted to be a father? Was that

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Speaker 3: always like a player of yours? M let me see,

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Speaker 3: like when you're a young man.

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Speaker 5: I guess it was. It was somewhere in the plane,

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Speaker 5: But it wasn't like, yeah, I can't wait to be

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Speaker 3: You know, most men don't really think about that. Only

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Speaker 3: for women. They give us fucking baby dolls and shollers.

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Speaker 3: At three They're like, you're going to raise someone, but

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Speaker 5: That becomes like a play thing for girls, right.

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Speaker 3: No, they they brainwashed us absolutely to teach us about

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Speaker 2: They just say, here's but I can't tell you how

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Speaker 2: how it's gonna get in here and how you're going

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Speaker 2: to get it out right.

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Speaker 5: Here's here's a baby. Here's a kitchen fake.

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Speaker 3: Here's a kitchen fake cook this plastic food. This is

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Speaker 3: your future, which is really fucked up. I'm refusing get

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Speaker 3: any daughter of mine any little kitchen, even though I

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Speaker 3: love that ship as a child.

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Speaker 1: How old is your daughter? She's eight eight, that's a

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Speaker 1: good age.

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Speaker 3: She just goes to our daughters. Our daughters are nine

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Speaker 3: and ten. She's spicy, she.

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Speaker 6: She's everything, telling you that she's a little adult, like

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Speaker 6: it was crazy.

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Speaker 5: Matter of fact.

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Speaker 6: She just had a dance competition that she did great

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Speaker 1: What kind of dance she does?

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Speaker 5: Everything she does tap a lyrical.

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Speaker 1: I saw a video of y'all that was so fucking adorable.

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Speaker 5: Stretches Like why why I'm show me the stretches? Y'all

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Speaker 5: do it? This? She busts these she's doing.

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Speaker 1: She's all flexible because you know, kids basically.

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Speaker 2: Do have bones, just tartless, a tarlish, just bent over here, big.

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Speaker 5: As overhead, Like I'm like, bro, get out of.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you can't keep up, dad, you want more kids?

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Speaker 5: If God gives them to me? I do you know?

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Speaker 2: It's it's well, God could give him about you.

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Speaker 5: Seriously, seriously, It's two things.

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Speaker 6: I love my daughter and I love like everything about

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Speaker 6: I love the experience.

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Speaker 5: I'd be feeling like, damn.

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Speaker 6: I miss so much of her with my job and

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Speaker 6: what I'm doing, Like I be feeling like damn to

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Speaker 6: I'm a little older and I got time and I'm

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Speaker 1: So I guess so you experienced dad guilt when you

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Speaker 5: Hate it. I hate it. I hate it absolutely whole heartedly.

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Speaker 5: She understands, but she still be pissed.

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Speaker 3: She like, damn, kids, don't for giving the fuck about

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Speaker 5: Toys and ships you get like, yeah, yeah, it's nice,

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Speaker 5: but you left.

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Speaker 3: Do you have a good relationship with her mom?

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Speaker 1: You best friends?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, absolutely absolutely, She's she's dope.

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Speaker 6: Shout out to her because my daughter is amazing, and

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Speaker 6: I know it's because of because of her.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything like I'm curious like when you grew

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Speaker 2: up as did you have siblings or what was your

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Speaker 6: I have, Well, my mom has me and my brother

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Speaker 6: and my dad has four other boys.

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Speaker 1: Outside of that where they married your parents.

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Speaker 5: Yes, they didn't get married.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything that you're doing differently in your version

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Speaker 2: you were like, yeah, when I have a kid, I

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Speaker 2: ain't doing that.

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Speaker 5: Ship.

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Speaker 6: I think my dad like two things right, me being

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Speaker 6: in this in his life, in his entertainment, in this field,

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Speaker 6: I understood my dad a lot more now, Like I

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Speaker 6: understood I understood what it was like to have a

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Speaker 6: dream and a passion, and like you, he's he was

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Speaker 6: going at it one hundred. He was a singer. He

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Speaker 6: was a gospel singer. He was a gospel he still is.

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Speaker 6: I don't even know how I said it was he

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Speaker 6: about to drop an album. Now you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Shout out daddy album John thorpep okay.

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Speaker 6: Right, so yeah, go buy his album, stream it. He's

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Speaker 6: a legend in North Carolina. Like you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 6: You go in, they to The's quartet anything, and they

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Speaker 6: know who he is. But I understood what he was

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Speaker 6: trying to make happen. So me seeing that it lewed

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Speaker 6: me to know, like, all, it's cool to do that,

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Speaker 6: but make the time, you know, find the time. I

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Speaker 6: make sure I never missed anything important. I make sure

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Speaker 6: I see her every week, you know. Like, so I

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Speaker 6: learned a lot from him.

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like he had a difficult time with

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Speaker 3: the finding balance and pursuing the passion and also raising kids?

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Speaker 5: Hell yeah, And it was a different time.

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Speaker 6: It was a different And then I say to my mom, like, bro,

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Speaker 6: this nigga had too When you met this nigga, he

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00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 6: already had two.

446
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:36,560
Speaker 5: He thought he was just about to be good. Nah.

447
00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,600
Speaker 6: I opposed a picture of my dad the other day.

448
00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:41,600
Speaker 6: I'm like, Ma, you I know you ain't think he's

449
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:43,080
Speaker 6: about to change this nigga right here?

450
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,960
Speaker 5: He no, but but.

451
00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,359
Speaker 6: I think he probably you know, he was pursuing a

452
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,520
Speaker 6: dream in a time where it was probably Look, I'm

453
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,639
Speaker 6: making sure the food is there, Like you know what

454
00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:55,320
Speaker 6: I'm saying.

455
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,239
Speaker 3: That's all you really needed to do.

456
00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:58,200
Speaker 5: That's about it.

457
00:19:58,280 --> 00:19:59,640
Speaker 1: Did your mom remarry?

458
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:00,320
Speaker 5: Nope?

459
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,720
Speaker 1: Okay, so she's chilled after that.

460
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,040
Speaker 5: I think she's My mom is cold blooded.

461
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:06,760
Speaker 6: Like you know what I'm saying, she didn't have people

462
00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,439
Speaker 6: proposed and all that, and she'd be like, ah, I

463
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,920
Speaker 6: just don't like nobody that much.

464
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:11,200
Speaker 5: Man.

465
00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,760
Speaker 6: She's like, I want to have my space, I want

466
00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:15,159
Speaker 6: to have my time. Like I'll be trying to get

467
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:16,800
Speaker 6: her to stay at my house and be like mine,

468
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 6: just stay here. Like she'd be cooking her little banana

469
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:21,119
Speaker 6: breads and she got all the little healthy snacks and

470
00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 6: stuff in the pantry.

471
00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:23,479
Speaker 5: Just stay here.

472
00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:25,320
Speaker 6: She'd be like, nah, I got to have my own

473
00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,280
Speaker 6: So she just likes to move around, likes to be

474
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,200
Speaker 6: on her own schedule.

475
00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:32,160
Speaker 3: So so growing up, you you went back and forth

476
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 3: with your mom or dad. You didn't necessarily grow up

477
00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:37,199
Speaker 3: in a household with two like a married two buried parents.

478
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,679
Speaker 5: N I never seen them together.

479
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,480
Speaker 6: I did live with my dad for a while, and

480
00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:42,760
Speaker 6: I stayed with my mom obviously for the most part,

481
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 6: but I never seen them together.

482
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:45,840
Speaker 1: Did that effect?

483
00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 3: Like when you were younger, We're like, I'm going to

484
00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,920
Speaker 3: be married or I'm going to be this kind of

485
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: a father and I'm going to be married and them

486
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 3: and have a kid. I have a white picket fence,

487
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 3: Like what was your vision?

488
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,800
Speaker 5: I think that was the vision at first, Like that

489
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 5: was the that was like that would be nice. You

490
00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying. You know, stuff don't happen like that.

491
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 6: And that's how I realized, like I see what he

492
00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 6: was doing, I see what he was chasing, see what

493
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 6: he's trying to do.

494
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,360
Speaker 3: How about now, do you aspire for marriage?

495
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 6: I think it would it would be nice to have

496
00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 6: somebody that that you felt strongly enough to get in

497
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:20,199
Speaker 6: front of your peers and your friends and the church

498
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 6: and God and tell them that you want to be

499
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,680
Speaker 6: with them forever and ever to a death. Do you

500
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 6: part in sickness and in wellness?

501
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,919
Speaker 5: Richer? I think that's really nice.

502
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:32,160
Speaker 6: But these motherfuckers got out here so much and said

503
00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaker 6: irreconcilable difference, Yo, what this shit don't mean nothing? Y'all

504
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 6: could have stayed dating for that, Like you know what

505
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 6: I mean?

506
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: Like to me you think marriage means.

507
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 6: I just feel like it. I feel like we watered

508
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,760
Speaker 6: it down, Like you know what I mean. I feel

509
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 6: like it doesn't hold the same merit that it used to.

510
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 6: I feel like it's been you know, it's been taken

511
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,360
Speaker 6: for granted. It's like, oh, yeah, the Instagram pictures would

512
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 6: be nice. The thought of it is because y'all want

513
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 6: that thought, right, we want the perfect da da da.

514
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 6: But when you get to the work, the work that

515
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 6: it requires to Yo, I might have to meet my

516
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,159
Speaker 6: partner five different times in this lifetime, but you know

517
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like they're going to transform what they

518
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 6: was when I met them.

519
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 5: It's not what they're going to be. AM I dedicated

520
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 5: to relearning.

521
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 6: Am I dedicating to to not only giving love how

522
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 6: I like love, but how they receive it. You know,

523
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 6: Like it's it's so much that goes into it. And

524
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 6: if I did, if I was to find a partner

525
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 6: who was that had that level of dedication, who was

526
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 6: able to provide that level of grace and just really

527
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 6: cared about me, you know what I'm saying, and I

528
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 6: felt the same, I'll be down for it because.

529
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: You're kind of a lover boy. I feel like I

530
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,840
Speaker 3: look into the instagrams like every other six months and

531
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:51,680
Speaker 3: you have like a new bitch. I'm like, relationship, Yeah,

532
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, party. I love a nigga that loves

533
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: love because I feel like it's a lost art to

534
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 3: men think like everybody is supposed to love them without

535
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:01,240
Speaker 3: loving anybody back. And we're also in the era of

536
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 3: like open relationships. Everyone's like it's I'm Polly. I'm like,

537
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 3: if I hear that fucking word when we're goddamn time,

538
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm cool with it. I just feel like

539
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 3: it's a it's like a it's not only a trend,

540
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,640
Speaker 3: but I'm like people have been being hose forever, Like.

541
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 1: This is not Polly until it doesn't go their way.

542
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 5: No.

543
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 3: I know, people become Polly because it doesn't go their way.

544
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 1: No, But then they get Pollie and they think they

545
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 1: can handle and it still doesn't go their way, and

546
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,640
Speaker 1: then they're like, this shit isn't for me.

547
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 3: Either, because I feel like, like like you said, being

548
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 3: in a relationship with one motherfuck, it requires so much dedication,

549
00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,959
Speaker 3: dedication to growth because you're gonna keep seeing yourself like

550
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 3: there's a in love. The mirror is like no other.

551
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 3: Like it's like when your parents, you grow up with them,

552
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 3: you live in the household with them, You're triggered because

553
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 3: you're growing up. There's no other relationship that's gonna be

554
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 3: as triggering and as mirroring as in a romantic relationship

555
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 3: where you're doing life together. And I feel like people

556
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: don't really don't really understand all of that until they

557
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 3: get into it and they're like, never mind, it's easy

558
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 3: to peace out. So I feel like poly especially. You

559
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 3: know how much I hate the fucking word polly single

560
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 3: or single pollie, I fucking hate it.

561
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 5: What does that mean?

562
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: It means you're single.

563
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 5: That's what the multiple people.

564
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,439
Speaker 3: It means you're single on your hoe because you're going

565
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: to hope. It's like, I know, I just want to

566
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,639
Speaker 3: be I want to have different relationships, but be single,

567
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 3: But it means you're single, bitch, Stop making up new

568
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,680
Speaker 3: words for regular ship. You're single and your howeing, which

569
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 3: is what all single.

570
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 1: People be doing. It's fine, it's fine.

571
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 3: Just be single. And then ethical whatever.

572
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: Ethical ethical is, like when well they like to ethical

573
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 2: non monogamy, It's.

574
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 6: Like, I just think, because Harlem is my show, liked

575
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 6: and that's what he was talking to Shorty about.

576
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 5: Right. He was like, I do got other women.

577
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:46,679
Speaker 3: You're openly sharing and means honest, which is which just

578
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 3: fucking should just be the standard, my nigga, Like, if

579
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 3: you're dating someone, just be honest. Might not have to

580
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,360
Speaker 3: put the word ethical to be like I'm ethical?

581
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: No, I mean there's because there's other non monogamy where

582
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:02,159
Speaker 2: people don't want to know ship. They don't want to know,

583
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 2: so I go do your thing, shout the fuck up

584
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 2: and then come back.

585
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 3: But that must But is that also not ethical? Because

586
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,680
Speaker 3: that's my agreement, Like I don't tell, don't I want

587
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 3: to ask, don't tell me? But the like, I feel

588
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 3: like there's always the agreement of like if I ask,

589
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,879
Speaker 3: be honest, but if you if we have to assume

590
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 3: that niggas are lying all the time, and you have

591
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 3: to put the title ethical non monogamy, like.

592
00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, we're in. We're in like an error.

593
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: We gotta make a name for everything.

594
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 2: You guys, So are you single now?

595
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 5: Yes?

596
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:37,679
Speaker 1: Are you dating? Mm hmm? How long have you been single?

597
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 2: That's like when a man becomes single, does he like

598
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: go on like a like a cleanse or just like

599
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 2: what happens because bitches do a bunch of crazy ship

600
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: they like, you know, they like go celebrate, or.

601
00:25:55,840 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 3: They like the ratification by themselves, the world trip.

602
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,640
Speaker 2: They like they reacclimate with their friends that they haven't

603
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 2: talked to in one year because they were so invested

604
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,879
Speaker 2: in their nigga, Like you know, what do what do

605
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 2: men do?

606
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: Or what what do men do? And then what does

607
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:09,199
Speaker 1: party do?

608
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 5: First? All right? Phase one? Right, Phase one you've just

609
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 5: broken up, is you go through that phone like you've

610
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 5: never before.

611
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 6: I forgot about every single one to see who's in arms.

612
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 5: Reach, right, that's the first.

613
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 3: So you go through shock and then you go reaching

614
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,399
Speaker 3: for the first picture the.

615
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 5: Club, the club after the club, and for a couple

616
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 5: of weeks you're like nothing there still ain't ain't hitting it.

617
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: Save ship you just left.

618
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 5: But then you settle in and you go to the gym.

619
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna say healthy, we're gonna find helpy bitches.

620
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 5: The final phase is going to the gym. You just

621
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 5: change your ship up and then you be like but the.

622
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: Gym to just be by yourself or the gyms are also.

623
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:56,199
Speaker 6: I mean depend depending on their eyes, those steps, depending

624
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 6: on how y'all broke up, right, Okay, if it's a heartbreak,

625
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 6: like I bet, like this bitch broke my heart, she

626
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 6: left me such and such, you might go to the

627
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 6: gym first, right, you know what I mean. It's just

628
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 6: like I gotta get back looking good type ship and

629
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 6: you see your therapy.

630
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 5: But I think I think.

631
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 6: The time alone really let me focus on myself and

632
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 6: and what I wanted to do, what I wanted to achieve.

633
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 5: One physically, two.

634
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 6: Uh career wise, like like the thing for power came up,

635
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 6: we just landed another movie getting into it, about to

636
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 6: do something with one of the fitness brands. So it

637
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 6: allowed me to uh because like I said, relationships are

638
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 6: work right and that you got to invest in them

639
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 6: and be there. So it kind of like freedom some

640
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 6: time in mental space, Like I got some cloud space

641
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 6: back and was able to just lock in a little.

642
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 3: Bit so hoeing scrolling scrolling health, scrolling club hoeing.

643
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: Health, and.

644
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 2: And then you realize you're back in alignment with yourself

645
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 2: party four steps.

646
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying.

647
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 6: And then they be looking back like damn, this is

648
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 6: my fucker looking good, this nigga ship together.

649
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: You do go back? Are you a go backer.

650
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 5: I can't. I can't go.

651
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: You never go back.

652
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 5: I've tried it once, but all right, put it like this,

653
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 5: h If I know.

654
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 6: That the the girl is like moved on and sleep

655
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 6: with somebody else, I just I think it's it's over

656
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 6: for me.

657
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 2: I can't onmind, there's no interest in that.

658
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: There's no like I'm gonna get my bitch back real quick,

659
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: fucking I.

660
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 6: Guess, depending on the nature in which you you know

661
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 6: what if you you know what I'm saying, Depending on

662
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 6: the nature and what you lost it, and then you

663
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 6: might you know what I'm saying, Maybe you get on

664
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 6: your ship and be like, oh you thought that niggas

665
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 6: for you?

666
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: Huh?

667
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:48,400
Speaker 6: You thought you you thought you had found no one.

668
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 6: You thought you niggas like you thought.

669
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 5: That was gonna make you happy. Come back where you belong.

670
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 2: This is my New York at this one, I'll never

671
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: know you see that important can't do maybe fucking my

672
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 2: whole brain.

673
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 3: You did one bad New York.

674
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: I had a few.

675
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: Bad New Yorkers, bitch, Okay, I had a whole life

676
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: before I met you. Yeah, she's the most recent one

677
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 2: really was bad.

678
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: And then before that I had a Dominican that he

679
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: was lying. The one arm.

680
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was like, yeah, he'd had arms. Well, everyone

681
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 2: had arms, to be clear, but he had he was

682
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: cheating on me with his supposed best friend. But the

683
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 2: way he told me that, the way he made me

684
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,400
Speaker 2: feel safe, He told me that his best friend only

685
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: had one arm, so there was no chance, right because

686
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 2: she has one arm, his handicap, like I seen.

687
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 5: Her on exactly.

688
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: But then.

689
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 3: The plot twist is that then she got on the

690
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 3: phone with the bitch she was his best friend, and

691
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 3: she was like, this is my Nick, and she's like,

692
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 3: what he told me? You had one arm? And she said,

693
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 3: what he told me?

694
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: You had one arm? So everyone had one arm? So,

695
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: y'all Nick is in New York. Y'all really handicaps?

696
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: How did he get I was never going to meet

697
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: instant because I lived in l A and he lived

698
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: in New York.

699
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 6: Oh, and he just says she had one arm, like

700
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 6: you're going pictures of his handicapped friend.

701
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 3: And first of all, one arm is not going to

702
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 3: stop a nigga from smashing. Let's be clear, you got

703
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: but no disability.

704
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: I never heard of it.

705
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 3: Like disability really like curving a niggas so hard they

706
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 3: wouldn't do it, like you said, like she was thick?

707
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 5: You know ot there?

708
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 2: You ever had sex with someone with a disability, all

709
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 2: of them crazy, but no missing arms, limbs, wheelchair?

710
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 5: Not that I wouldn't, Not that I wouldn't, but I

711
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 5: haven't yet.

712
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 3: How do you feel about dating? Well this, how do

713
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 3: you feel about dating moms? Because I know a lot

714
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,720
Speaker 3: of niggas are anti dating moms even when they have kids.

715
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 3: So I'm just curious.

716
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 5: I'm all for it. I think I think single mother

717
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 5: is like my favorites.

718
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 1: You're that, lady. Why are we your favorites?

719
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 3: Tell us more.

720
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 5: One out of share?

721
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 6: Fact, y'all be having responsibilities and ship to do you understand?

722
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 6: Like y'all got y'all can't y'all don't be bullshit.

723
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 5: You know what I mean?

724
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 6: Like your time is precious. You know what I'm saying,

725
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 6: y'all be having to be back somewhere single girls. I

726
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 6: ain't got no kids, y'all.

727
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 5: Just looking around the house and ship.

728
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: Waiting for you to take me here.

729
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?

730
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: No, what are you doing? Nothing?

731
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 5: Like? Yeah, just like you know what I'm saying.

732
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 6: So I got an appreciation for a woman that you

733
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 6: know what I mean, They got a certain schedule and

734
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 6: just tacked to them like you know what I mean,

735
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 6: everything has to be within rhyme or reason for them

736
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 6: and then too y'all are like y'all sorry. Women with

737
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 6: children are really uh appreciative, like you know what I mean,

738
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 6: like after picking up crayons and diapers or whatever they've

739
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 6: been doing all day.

740
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 5: Hey, listen, come here, let me just rub your feet.

741
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 6: Amen, be very grateful, you know what I'm saying, Like,

742
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 6: let me just let me just let me you straight

743
00:31:58,440 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 6: everything good?

744
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 5: What you want to watch? I already got your food

745
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 5: over there. Like they appreciate shit like that, you know

746
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So I got a.

747
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 3: Real basically your stepdaddy material.

748
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 5: You heard it.

749
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: You're first ladies.

750
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 3: I mean, if you date a mom, that's essentially that's

751
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: that's essentially what you're signing up for a long term

752
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 3: relationship with the mom stepdaddyhood.

753
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: That's true.

754
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 3: Do you have a limit on how many children you

755
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 3: would like?

756
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 5: It is?

757
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: Like three is your heart? Okay, that's too many?

758
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 5: Hold on all right? So dating or were going there for?

759
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 3: What are you dating for right now? Like if are

760
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 3: you not dating for like long term? Are you just like,

761
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: what is the point of dating someone seriously in like

762
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: monogamy if you don't have the intention of taking it

763
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 3: to like a long term format?

764
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 5: I mean.

765
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 3: Potentially, okay, okay, just for dating. What is your kid.

766
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 5: Maximum tow one?

767
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 6: If it's like, yo, we have to go there, And

768
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 6: I mean, actually, if the other one is like eighteen

769
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 6: nineteen and out the house, you don't even count no more.

770
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 5: You reset you back the one.

771
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I agree. I don't think I even in

772
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 3: my single them, I wouldn't date. I didn't really want

773
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 3: to date somebody with a whole bunch of kids. So

774
00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 3: I understand. I think that's not a popular opinion.

775
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 6: And it's not even about the kids. It's about they

776
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 6: all got dads. The motherfuckers be coming around for stupid shit.

777
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 6: And I gotta you know what I'm saying, baby thinking

778
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 6: we beefing, I'm not beefing with your nigga. Pick this

779
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 6: nigga up and get the fuck out of here. We

780
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 6: got I've been waiting to wear her ass out all day.

781
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 3: Lap sucking up my itinerary.

782
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: Hurry up.

783
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, So that's that's that's the real problem with.

784
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 3: We have a question. Were you there when your daughter

785
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 3: was born? H you saw it, but did she come out?

786
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 3: She had a natural birth?

787
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 6: She she was sin Sirian. I was there. I'll never forget.

788
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 5: That was crazy.

789
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 3: Were you traumatized? How you did it change and shift

790
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 3: your perspective of like women?

791
00:33:56,440 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 6: I thought my baby Mam was the bravest person in

792
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 6: the world. I ain't going I'm like what they like

793
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 6: because when they do something like that, and it was

794
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 6: like they was making it sound like it was just

795
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 6: dire like blood pressure. This they rushing in, we got

796
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 6: we gotta do this.

797
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:09,240
Speaker 1: Peep.

798
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 5: They've turned it on the hospitals.

799
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: The hospitals, I'm like, yo, what the fuck is going on?

800
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 5: They like epidural? They signed the papers. I'm trying to

801
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 5: read the ship. She like sign it. I'm like, oh ship,

802
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

803
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 6: Like, so all of this happened, and she was like, hey,

804
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 6: it's the baby, alight, it's the baby, or it's the baby,

805
00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:30,400
Speaker 6: are right? So I looked at her like you're a soldier.

806
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 6: I would have went I'd have called the lawyer, Hey,

807
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 6: what's on this paper? Like what happened about please?

808
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

809
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, But no she went through that, and I was

810
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 6: watching they the little decisions started throwing organs around the.

811
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 5: Room and Ship. I'm like, oh shit, I'm seeing it.

812
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 5: I never thought I would see.

813
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 3: I think that's worse than the niggas get traumatized off

814
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 3: over the pussy opening up ten centimeters, But I think

815
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 3: throwing up the organs and reputting them back.

816
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 2: Is I mean, the way my baby daddy was screaming

817
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:04,959
Speaker 2: during my C section, bitch, I thought I was dying.

818
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 5: Oh I was.

819
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: Not cool, he was.

820
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,879
Speaker 3: I was ressed because if you react like that, then

821
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 3: she's gonna be.

822
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: I have the video.

823
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 2: I might have to insert it right here, because this

824
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: nigga was screaming baby, I was like, what the fuck

825
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 2: am I dying?

826
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 1: And not? And now when I saw the video, I said, well, yeah,

827
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: wait there you have a video of the the guts.

828
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,479
Speaker 1: Well yes, when I have the video of Iri coming

829
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,439
Speaker 1: out of me and.

830
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 3: Everything, why have I never seen this video? I might

831
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,240
Speaker 3: even your best friend.

832
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: See the guts. But like he said, yeah, like they

833
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: placed Ship on the table.

834
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 5: Taking stuff out and putting it. I'm like, yo, and then.

835
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 3: They put it back and then I'm supposed to be fun, right,

836
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 3: I'm just like, how do you how do you put

837
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 3: the digestive system back perfectly?

838
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: It's a lot of like I think it just kind

839
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: of comes just kind of I don't know. I don't know.

840
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 3: Ladies don't have a baby for just anybody. The ship

841
00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:06,759
Speaker 3: is not a walk in the park. Can you pick

842
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 3: a card for us? I forgot to ask you.

843
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what is it? Let me say.

844
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 5: A little bad drum?

845
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 3: She looks happy. That's the money mar these pinnacles. How

846
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: do you feel about the esoterics, the tarot? And have

847
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 3: you ever dated a whitch? I know you grew up

848
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 3: in the church, which you know, like, I.

849
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 5: Don't think they knew they was, but they was.

850
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: Which doesn't mean negative.

851
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 3: It's not like the ones you see in the like

852
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 3: the wicked Witch of the Western or shit like that,

853
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 3: which is I feel like, are just women who have

854
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 3: the alchemy and the intuition to harness there?

855
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 5: No, I haven't. I haven't eighty one per se. But

856
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 5: I think a few girls have pulled these out on

857
00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 5: me before pulled.

858
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 1: Out the cards.

859
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 3: You know what, You're not like a guy raised in

860
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 3: the church. He was like, don't show me no sage

861
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 3: or no cards, No, nothing.

862
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 5: Like that what is this?

863
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't think it's too much, you know

864
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. It's what are you a Capricorn? And

865
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 6: people who think they know you about that?

866
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:10,080
Speaker 3: Do you think you're pretty true to your sign? Are

867
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 3: you very organized and good with money? Organized that you

868
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 3: don't have any spreadsheets?

869
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 5: None?

870
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: Don't like an itinerary when you travel?

871
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 5: I mean it would be nice, but if I gotta

872
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 5: make it, it's not happening.

873
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,880
Speaker 3: You have OCD? Are you very neat in your house?

874
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 5: I got ADHD?

875
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 6: So it's like it's like when I put something somewhere,

876
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 6: I remember where it's at, and if somebody moves it,

877
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 6: now I think it's stolen because clearly I know I'll

878
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 6: put it here and now it's not there.

879
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 5: So I don't understand.

880
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 2: What would you say is like your biggest pet peeve

881
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 2: in a relationship or yeah in a relationship.

882
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 6: In a relationship, I would say just just pessimism, like

883
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 6: if it's if it's everything is negative or everything is

884
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 6: a complaint and everything.

885
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 5: Is Oh, why should do that? You know what I mean?

886
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 6: I don't like that, Like I like a person that

887
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 6: can just see the benefit or like they didn't have

888
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 6: our correct seats, Well, these are fun, Like you know

889
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 6: what I'm saying. I like a vibe like that. So

890
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 6: if everything is something wrong in me, I'm so like

891
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 6: affected by my partner's mood. Like so if my partner's unhappy,

892
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 6: immediately I feel the tension of like how do I

893
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 6: fix this? Like how do I make it right? So

894
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 6: after a while of just everything is wrong, I've been

895
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 6: putting out fires all day, like you know what I mean.

896
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 6: So I would say, like pessimism.

897
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: What would you say, is the nicest thing a woman

898
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: ever did for you?

899
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 5: The nicest thing a woman has ever done.

900
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 2: For me, the most thoughtful thing, because I'm always curious

901
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 2: like what a man views as thoughtful. Because I was

902
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: actually talking to Kem about this the other day because

903
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 2: we're talking about the couple's retreat that we're doing and

904
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 2: just you know, figuring out what workshops we're gonna do

905
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 2: and how we're gonna play. And I was saying, how, like,

906
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 2: for example, like in mirror work like a woman, it

907
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 2: would be really impactful for a man to come behind

908
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 2: a woman and like whisper affirmations into her ear while

909
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 2: looking in the mirror, touching her body. And I was

910
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: like does a man benefit from that? He was like,

911
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 2: m not really a man just want you dick and

912
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 2: give him compliments.

913
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: No, I think a man.

914
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: I think men often like want compliments on like what

915
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 2: they what they provide, what they or what they can

916
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 2: do or what or like they're doing a good job,

917
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 2: like I really enjoyed when you did that.

918
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 3: Oh, like thank you for fixing that shelf, like I've

919
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 3: been asking to fix for five months.

920
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 5: Straight.

921
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 2: So like when it comes to to you, like what

922
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 2: is it? I mean, first answer was the nicest thing

923
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: a woman did for you? And then like what is

924
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 2: what is something like thoughtful that a woman might be

925
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: like surprised to hear that a man like you would

926
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 2: enjoy I think.

927
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 5: I think, Oh, I think the nicest thing I ever done.

928
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 5: H damn. Two, I'm gonna think. I'm gonna think of two.

929
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 5: Like one.

930
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 6: I'm a big gamer, right, so I'll never forget like

931
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 6: every year two K comes out, right, So this is

932
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 6: big to me. This is big, big one. I was

933
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 6: like this, you know what I'm saying. So she she came.

934
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 6: She had like twenty four pack of batteries controller, brand

935
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 6: new controller out of the batteries in the game I said,

936
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 6: she's trying to stay, She's trying to be around for

937
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 6: a minute, so so that that was definitely one of them. Well,

938
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 6: it was like I think organized the massage, like you

939
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying out of nowhere, It's like, hey,

940
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 6: I got to as soon as she's just gonna give

941
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 6: you a massage and d D, I was like me,

942
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 6: for me, you appreciate the nigga, she's smart like so

943
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 6: I think those are two of the nicest. But yeah,

944
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 6: I think men do like to be just recognized and

945
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 6: and appreciated for whatever they because whatever efforts they making,

946
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,320
Speaker 6: I think that goes along.

947
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 5: Way with guys.

948
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 3: Not to sell. Can you roll that backward?

949
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: Yes, my love?

950
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 3: Okay, I have a question, what is your ideal, like

951
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 3: if you were planning the perfect date? Because you you

952
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 3: are the self proclaimed sex symbol, So I just want to.

953
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 1: Know where you're self proclaimed, Like it's on the internet

954
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: that you are self proclaimed.

955
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 2: Yes, someone said that you are a self proclaimed sex symbol.

956
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 3: Party you should be self proclaimed.

957
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: I agree with it.

958
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,320
Speaker 3: I'm a self proclaimed sex symbol. I said it about myself,

959
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 3: so it's true.

960
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 2: But it's kind of like when someone like claims their genius,

961
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 2: like you have to say it if you actually are it.

962
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: She's just mad that I've claimed the sex symbol of

963
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 3: the podcast and you don't have to argue about that today.

964
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 3: But it just is what it is. Yes, happen.

965
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: Don't forget.

966
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 3: It's not every day that you're in the room with

967
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 3: you know, multiple sex symbols.

968
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 6: Is the criteria, like how many you must have?

969
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 3: Sex, must be good at its strong sex game, confident

970
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 3: in your sex moves, your four play moves. You just

971
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 3: a sexy body roll.

972
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 5: Porn star, you know what I mean?

973
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 6: But sex symbol like this person exudes sex when they

974
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 6: come like like damn, it's this motherfucker, you know what

975
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 6: I mean?

976
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 5: Like I feel like that's the sexybody that's an important

977
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 5: person looks at me. It's like, ship, is this mother

978
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 5: fucking undressing me? Should I be undressing? Like you know

979
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 5: what I mean? Like like that that goes into it.

980
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 3: So you feel like that, You feel like you can

981
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 3: just look at a bitch and you can undress her

982
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 3: with your sunglasses, miss your eyes. I can't believe it.

983
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 3: I can't confirm you guys. It's just too strong. You

984
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 3: have to keep from one sex symbol to another. She

985
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 3: cannot you can either deny or confirm. It's like a vampire.

986
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,880
Speaker 3: I can't see your eyes. How will I know?

987
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 7: So?

988
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 3: What is your ideal date? How do you how are

989
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 3: you laying out the evening sex symbol party?

990
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 6: Let me see? Where do I want just to go

991
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 6: home out with? It's all important. It's because important dates

992
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 6: are you know, It's definitely about individual that you're with

993
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 6: and what they would enjoy and appreciate.

994
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: What would you enjoy and appreciate?

995
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 3: What would you plan if you were like, this is

996
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: this woman you've been waiting to go out with for

997
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 3: a long time. You got some time, you got a weekend.

998
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 3: This is something you really have interested in. She's sexy,

999
00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,399
Speaker 3: she's smart, she has an itinerary, she has shit to do.

1000
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 3: She's not just fucking loitering.

1001
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: She's a single mom.

1002
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 5: She's a single mom.

1003
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, thirty five, definitely a single mom over thirty.

1004
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 5: Five, over thirty five alone. She got ship to do.

1005
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: You know, she helps her.

1006
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 5: Kid, a new kid.

1007
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 6: But you know what I like that I figured out

1008
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 6: I've liked in the last few years. I enjoy like

1009
00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 6: a lot of Broadway stuff right now, a lot of plays.

1010
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 6: So I would tell Ao, just get dressed, throwing something,

1011
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 6: we go to the UH, I'll pick her up. And

1012
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 6: if I couldn't pick her up, I'll make sure there'll

1013
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 6: be flowers in the truck that I sent. So she

1014
00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:56,240
Speaker 6: would have those who'd arrive watch the play I would

1015
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 6: like to drive. I would like to drive from there.

1016
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 6: I could have the playlist going, you know, put the

1017
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 6: hand on the thigh while I'm driving us to dinner.

1018
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 6: Make sure it's either private room or somewhere with a

1019
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 6: real good view. Oh see whatever she likes, a bottle

1020
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 6: or whatever.

1021
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:17,760
Speaker 5: Why the champagne she wanted?

1022
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 6: Oh, seafood Tower, but the oysters hit every time.

1023
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,800
Speaker 3: I don't even language and seafood Tower, I don't.

1024
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 6: Even like oysters, but I know to have the motherfuckers

1025
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 6: readily available. After the conversation, we pretty much.

1026
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 3: Home and then what once we're home, Yeah, that's where

1027
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 3: it gets really, that's where the date starts. And what's next?

1028
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 3: Other candles? Lit incense? Do you have Siri? Play my

1029
00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 3: love jams?

1030
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 5: You want to know something crazy?

1031
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 6: When I'm when I once we get to the house,

1032
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 6: like I do a little walk through whatever the case

1033
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 6: may be. Oh yeah, this is this, this is this

1034
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 6: telling you how my ship?

1035
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:10,400
Speaker 1: But you have your hue lighting.

1036
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 3: It was like the dim lightings. I hate a nigga

1037
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 3: with Florence's fluorescent lights.

1038
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 6: All of them, all of them, damn all of them

1039
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 6: change color. But then I get into the fucking room

1040
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 6: and I don't know why. This might be just my

1041
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 6: vibe right now, but Gunna, nasty girl, play that ship through.

1042
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 3: So Gunna, I'm gonna have to write that down so

1043
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 3: to God.

1044
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 6: Oh and then I got a just in case you know,

1045
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 6: she wasn't prepared, got like a bunch of bonnets individually

1046
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 6: rapped and.

1047
00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 5: Like to change.

1048
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 3: If I come to a nigga's house and he has

1049
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 3: a bonnets with an s individually rap how often are

1050
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 3: you bringing bitches back to the house for sleepovers? You

1051
00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 3: gotta hide the rest of the collection. You gotta act

1052
00:45:58,200 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 3: like it's like just for her.

1053
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 6: There's not only bring one. Okay, bring one obviously, But

1054
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. God blesses those who are prepared.

1055
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 6: So so they got the little nutrient gena wipes. If

1056
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 6: she wanted to take her ship off, little too blush.

1057
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 6: You want a T shirt or something.

1058
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 5: We did?

1059
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 3: I like it.

1060
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 1: I'm missing one step.

1061
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 2: You didn't book the babysitter for she's a single mom

1062
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:29,200
Speaker 2: party a babysitter to pay for the babysitter, baby, You

1063
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: know this is it's expensive for us to go on dates.

1064
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 3: She had one nick and pay for a babysitter, and

1065
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 3: she's never she's never forgotten ever.

1066
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: Eye was astonished. I couldn't believe.

1067
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 3: I've been hearing about that ship in the fact that

1068
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 3: if minus A Vacum was a fucking horrible he was

1069
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 3: from New York to a horrible individuals, but he got

1070
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,800
Speaker 3: a babysitter and this ship wonner.

1071
00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 6: Im about to say it because if that's one of

1072
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 6: the joints she gives you, like, I don't know, I

1073
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 6: got my kid.

1074
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 5: I'll pay for that. You know what I'm saying.

1075
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 3: Don't worry about that.

1076
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 1: No, no, no, you can't send it.

1077
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 3: My auntie is coming over to get that baby.

1078
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: Can we talk about this back with this? Is this

1079
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 2: actually tastes really good? That's the l A is the

1080
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: d This is the l A Backward Limited Edition. Basically

1081
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:08,959
Speaker 2: smooth like for real, just like an l A bitch, Smooth.

1082
00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 3: Like an l A bitch. Do you like women from LA?

1083
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 3: Do you like New York women. Do you have like

1084
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 3: a region preference, regional preference.

1085
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 5: I don't have a regional preference at all.

1086
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 3: Is nice?

1087
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 5: They got a nice bob to them. I have no idea.

1088
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 3: Seven of the day, your day of birth of I

1089
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:27,120
Speaker 3: mean your time and whereabouts?

1090
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 5: What I need to know?

1091
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 3: You didn't find out what time you're born? Hold text

1092
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 3: your mom. I know you got the per certificate.

1093
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 5: Let me ask you. Yeah, yeah, as my brother, what

1094
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 5: time was all born? You remember?

1095
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 3: Your brother don't remember?

1096
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: Why would he know what time you were born?

1097
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 5: He was already seven.

1098
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: It has to be. It has to be the exact time.

1099
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 3: It goes by a minute, Yeah, exactly, am, Yeah it depends.

1100
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 5: Let me see.

1101
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 3: Only witchy bitches are asking every man they met, what

1102
00:47:57,560 --> 00:47:58,239
Speaker 3: time are you born?

1103
00:47:59,680 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1104
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 3: This is important information. I bet you it's a water sign.

1105
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 3: Huh my, mic I'm gonna go to Cafe Astrology so

1106
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 3: I can get you going as soon as we find

1107
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 3: out if you guys haven't been to Cafe Astrology. This

1108
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 3: is not an ad. This ship changes your.

1109
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 6: Hey, hey grandma, how you girl? How you doing your

1110
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 6: pretty self? I mean I'm in Hollywood, so it's only fitting,

1111
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 6: I said, I'm in La. It's actually not too bad.

1112
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 6: It's pretty good.

1113
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 5: Oh good good.

1114
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: This was in California. He's telling he's so good. I'm confident.

1115
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 5: I got a question for y'all. Y'all are going crazy.

1116
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 6: I got a question, Ma, what time?

1117
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,359
Speaker 5: Tell them? Where the tell them?

1118
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 3: I agree, Mom, Shanelin, I agree. If you're watching on YouTube,

1119
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 3: he's looking good.

1120
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: At the month.

1121
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 5: What time was out born.

1122
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 8: More more forty three or four thirty forty three or

1123
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,879
Speaker 8: four forty three?

1124
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1125
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 5: Morning four forty three am.

1126
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 1: It's a M.

1127
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:35,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, a M before the quacking throne.

1128
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 5: So I was always an early riser. I got it.

1129
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:40,919
Speaker 5: You wasn't no early?

1130
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, waking me up out of my fleet.

1131
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 5: Time to go, It's time to go.

1132
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 8: Tell mam, I want to be born, carry kick it

1133
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 8: and carry it on.

1134
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 5: What I have no idea. I just need the world

1135
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 5: needed me to come through today.

1136
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:08,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, you are. You know I'm get up at five,

1137
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking it's indigestion.

1138
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:19,959
Speaker 5: Around indigestion, thinking this could be something anything else.

1139
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 3: What's your actual birthday?

1140
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:29,919
Speaker 5: December? Well, yeah, nineteen eighty nine.

1141
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 1: And where city were you born?

1142
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 5: Newburgh, New York.

1143
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 6: I'm here on this lovely podcast, Good Bams, Bad Choices.

1144
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 1: My mom, Hi, Hi, Hello.

1145
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 6: So we're trying to figure out when I was born

1146
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 6: to see why why I act.

1147
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:50,680
Speaker 5: The way I act?

1148
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: We got it. We're getting the data right now. We're

1149
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,919
Speaker 1: gathering the data, all right.

1150
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 5: All right, man, I got a question, all right? Why

1151
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 5: why why you never wanted to remarry?

1152
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: Why didn't I ever want to be married?

1153
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 5: Yeah? Why why you was like, I mean, you know

1154
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 5: why you ain't want to I'm thinking, I'm.

1155
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 8: Trying to think of.

1156
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: I was good.

1157
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 5: I was good.

1158
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:32,399
Speaker 8: I was trying to raise two young men, fine young men.

1159
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 8: So because I had to keep I gotta have to

1160
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 8: keep books.

1161
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 5: All right, we grown, We're grown. Now, Why you still

1162
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 5: ain't want to remarried?

1163
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 1: Because I'm happy?

1164
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 5: All right? I just wanted to know.

1165
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 1: I come, please, I take care. I don't know.

1166
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 5: Of eight.

1167
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:12,520
Speaker 1: Man?

1168
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 5: All right, man, I just had to chap in with

1169
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 5: you one time. All right, Oh g.

1170
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 6: Thank you, thank thank you, mom, by Grandma, I love you.

1171
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 3: Wo wow, that was beautiful. That was beautiful. But you

1172
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:40,120
Speaker 3: heard it first, women, men are a distraction. If you

1173
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 3: have peace, don't be seeking these niggas out here. You

1174
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 3: heard it from parties, Mama, she said, because I was fine.

1175
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: I love that she knew the time she said four

1176
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:54,879
Speaker 1: forty three.

1177
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:57,640
Speaker 3: You don't forget human coming through your vagina.

1178
00:52:57,680 --> 00:53:00,839
Speaker 6: It's pretty that's the crazy part, right, like because they say,

1179
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,920
Speaker 6: like that's literally like the most pain a human can withstand.

1180
00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:05,600
Speaker 5: Right, and then y'all do it again.

1181
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,440
Speaker 3: You sign up to you do it again.

1182
00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 5: It's like, y'all just forget.

1183
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, we do.

1184
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 3: Though I'm about to do it again and I've I've

1185
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,799
Speaker 3: forgotten and I've had to if I want to do

1186
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 3: it again.

1187
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like a dream that happened sort of.

1188
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 3: We are the portal between the heavens and earth. There

1189
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 3: is nothing else that Literally we don't know where we

1190
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,240
Speaker 3: come from, but we are the vessels.

1191
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 2: And that why, and that's why we deserve all the

1192
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 2: respect and all the love and all the caring and

1193
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 2: our feet rubbed after dinner, and yeah, cars with flowers

1194
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,839
Speaker 2: and them getting picked up and paid babysitters.

1195
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:44,080
Speaker 3: That's the most importantly, most importantly, pay that babysitter.

1196
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:46,399
Speaker 2: That is that's a major key. Okay, you will get

1197
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 2: some pussy if you pay the babysitter.

1198
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 3: What are the things Sun moon, sun moon rising, right,

1199
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 3: ascend it?

1200
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: Okay, are you guys ready? I'm ready? Are you ready?

1201
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: Ready to know who you are?

1202
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,480
Speaker 5: I've been wondering this whole time, wondering the whole.

1203
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 3: Time, which one is sunding? This is very complicated. While

1204
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 3: I feel like the one's going up. I'm gonna have

1205
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:10,200
Speaker 3: you look for that one. So party, your son is

1206
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 3: a capricorn, your moon is a Capricorn. To freak itt

1207
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:25,600
Speaker 3: all your flow and your spice. Okay, and so wait, what.

1208
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: Is the Okay?

1209
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 2: So he is a sun capricorn, a moon capricorn, and

1210
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 2: a rising scorpio.

1211
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 3: That makes sense. The sex symbolism and the flow where

1212
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 3: you're chill about ship that is the water sign that

1213
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 3: makes sense.

1214
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,399
Speaker 1: And apparently on Cafe Astrology, I just o came.

1215
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 2: I just saw this the other day because we're in

1216
00:54:47,239 --> 00:54:49,479
Speaker 2: our goddess healing circle with Jesse. Shout out to Jesse

1217
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,840
Speaker 2: of Sweet Love Sanctuary. Make sure you check out, just

1218
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:56,200
Speaker 2: check her out overall, she's incredible that you can find

1219
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,759
Speaker 2: out the balance between your masculine and feminine you are.

1220
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,319
Speaker 1: I don't know if you don't like this too. Masculine

1221
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: eight feminine.

1222
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,640
Speaker 3: I like it. I think most men who are like wealth,

1223
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 3: I'm asking.

1224
00:55:08,800 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: Him, you're too masculine. Out of ten yes, eight feminine.

1225
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 1: I think it's healthy. I don't think it's I don't

1226
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 1: think it's unhealthy. I just think most.

1227
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 2: Men have an issue or take heed ever sharing the

1228
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 2: fact that or even identifying with any part of their femininity.

1229
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 2: And if it is, it's like the most minute amount,

1230
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 2: even if that's not true for how they show.

1231
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 3: Up, I know, And I think I think that's usually

1232
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 3: an indication that if someone thinks that that's a negative trait,

1233
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,879
Speaker 3: that they are have a misconception of it, like true

1234
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 3: masculinity means.

1235
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, or what femininity means, true true, both.

1236
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 3: And I think we're in a time and error where

1237
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 3: it's like cool to hate women, like a lot of

1238
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 3: men like bashing it on the internet and like stand

1239
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 3: strong in it. And I think it's feminine. It's weird,

1240
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 3: Like it's just a strange We're in a strange time.

1241
00:55:58,200 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 3: So I think in order to bring the balance back

1242
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 3: to true masculinity, the men have to the like the

1243
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,719
Speaker 3: real men have to come with more femininity because to

1244
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 3: balance out, I.

1245
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,319
Speaker 6: Think we had a bad time of us just being

1246
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 6: hard on each other, Like you know what I'm saying.

1247
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 6: I see multiple platforms whereas women just like or just

1248
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 6: like you knowice the quick interviews where it's like, oh,

1249
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 6: do we need men and they're.

1250
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 5: Like, no, we don't need them for nothing, We don't

1251
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 5: need I'm like, damn.

1252
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: It's like damn.

1253
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 6: You know, there's a lot of doging going on, and

1254
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 6: I feel like we just need to give each other

1255
00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 6: a lot more grace and then respect our differences that

1256
00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:38,600
Speaker 6: we bring, Like I gotta appreciate a woman for everything

1257
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 6: that she is and everything that I'm not that she's

1258
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 6: able to do, and vice versa.

1259
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 2: How do you feel about women on just in life?

1260
00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:47,640
Speaker 2: And I feel like you probably encountered this a lot,

1261
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:51,600
Speaker 2: just in being in hip hop music industry.

1262
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:52,760
Speaker 1: There's this.

1263
00:56:54,320 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 2: There's been a long I guess pushing of women being

1264
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 2: like if you can't buy me the bag, if you

1265
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 2: can't get me this, if you can't me that, then

1266
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 2: like fuck you, you're disposable to me. And then I

1267
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: see men that say they don't want that, but then

1268
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 2: they're with those women. So I'm just curious, like does

1269
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:09,840
Speaker 2: that hold weight to you or is that kind of

1270
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 2: abad shut up? I don't believe it, Like, how do

1271
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 2: you feel about that?

1272
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 5: It's it's a slider scale. It's a duality, right, Oh.

1273
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 6: I feel like when I when I hear statements like that,

1274
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 6: it's like a woman who has been been tricked before it, Right,

1275
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 6: So I think every I want.

1276
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:36,240
Speaker 5: To saying my response, yeah, because I.

1277
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 6: Think women are are emotional, like you know what I'm saying,

1278
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 6: at least more they lead with emotion, right. So in

1279
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 6: the beginning, it's like, oh, Yo, you meet a guy.

1280
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 6: He's cute, he's nice to me, he's saying these sweet things,

1281
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 6: da da da da da, and he really likes me,

1282
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. And they choose their men

1283
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 6: off of who they think really likes them. And in

1284
00:57:57,840 --> 00:58:00,320
Speaker 6: terms where that goes sour, that goes south. And it's

1285
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 6: like this niggas a dick. He never liked me, and

1286
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 6: now I'm just here feeling dumb. Right, he was messing

1287
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:10,200
Speaker 6: with this girl telling her the same stuff, right, So

1288
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:12,919
Speaker 6: then the girl starts to feel dumb and then it's

1289
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 6: like that happens enough times. It's like, yo, I keep

1290
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 6: getting left with nothing. So now the compass that she

1291
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 6: had on how to dictate who she goes with and

1292
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 6: who she finds attractive gets skewed. It's like, all right, listen,

1293
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,480
Speaker 6: I liking mean enough no more. Now you gotta come

1294
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 6: with something. Yeah, Like I gotta have I have to

1295
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:38,160
Speaker 6: at least place a monetary value on this so I

1296
00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 6: can at least weed out all of the I like

1297
00:58:41,440 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 6: you for you like.

1298
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 5: I don't believe that no more.

1299
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 6: So now I gotta see the like the bag is

1300
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 6: the like the cars that like you can provide this

1301
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,280
Speaker 6: that and the third on top of you know, women

1302
00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 6: like security and the ability to provide that level of security.

1303
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 6: But I think where that came from is you ain't

1304
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,600
Speaker 6: gonna trick me out of nokuchie because you like me.

1305
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 5: They can show me.

1306
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Would you be attracted to

1307
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:05,720
Speaker 1: a woman that that leads with that?

1308
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 6: Because I think this is a I think that's a

1309
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 6: like I said, a trauma response. And she doesn't see

1310
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:15,400
Speaker 6: I think her compass still might be a little off.

1311
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 6: She doesn't see where to place the value in the

1312
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 6: guy like. She doesn't see like, all right, these are

1313
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 6: the qualities I should be looking for. And this is

1314
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 6: what it ain't get me the bag, it's you have

1315
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 6: this going on for yourself. You're going in this direction.

1316
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 6: You look at you hold me to this standard. I

1317
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 6: hold myself to this standard. I feel like, so the

1318
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:36,200
Speaker 6: bag is ministery and that's why you got so many

1319
00:59:36,240 --> 00:59:39,440
Speaker 6: people like, ship a bag for that pussy. I do that.

1320
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 6: That's cool, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's easy.

1321
00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 6: That's an easy trade off for a lot of people.

1322
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 6: So I don't think I don't think that's the barama.

1323
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: So it actually puts women in a more harmful situation

1324
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 2: to be honest, like, well, if you're if you're looking

1325
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 2: at it from that perspective.

1326
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 5: If I can buy l like yeah, shit that you

1327
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 5: know what I mean?

1328
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:58,200
Speaker 3: Anybody can anybody the merit of a character.

1329
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,919
Speaker 2: And then it kind of just perpetuates exactly what whatever

1330
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 2: it is, the trauma response that she's reacting to, because

1331
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,040
Speaker 2: now now she paid, Now she got paid for the pussy,

1332
01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 2: and now and now this niggas still dogged her out

1333
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 2: and then but now it's reinforcing the whole reason why

1334
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 2: the whole thing.

1335
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:20,080
Speaker 3: I think a lot of women haven't had the pleasure, unfortunately,

1336
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 3: of experiencing the relationship with the man that provides a

1337
01:00:25,560 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 3: full compass of things. You know, emotional support, like intelligence,

1338
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 3: there's so many other things that you know obviously qualities

1339
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 3: that men have. But if you've never seen it, and

1340
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:37,480
Speaker 3: all the niggas have only you know, pretended like they're

1341
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:39,080
Speaker 3: likes you and then dogged you out and that's your

1342
01:00:39,080 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 3: only example, or maybe your dad was a dog and

1343
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 3: you cheated on your mom or whatever it is. But

1344
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 3: if you've never witnessed a man living in like true

1345
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 3: masculinity and in like a safe and healthy space, then

1346
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 3: you're like, no, these niggas are not safe. If you like, statistically,

1347
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 3: niggas are not safe. We have like women are the

1348
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 3: only species we have to go out and literally think

1349
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 3: that our body could be perpetuated as like a weapon.

1350
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 3: So we're always on like if I wear this, who

1351
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 3: am I with? You know what I mean? So if

1352
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:09,840
Speaker 3: you feel that they are danger of you to you

1353
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 3: to be around them, yeah, like pay me because what

1354
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 3: else do you have to provide? So like within this cycle,

1355
01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 3: men are like acting out in a way that lets

1356
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 3: me know there's very little else you have to.

1357
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: Offer, and then women are subthing answer it exactly.

1358
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, So basically I'll have to wake the fuck up

1359
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 3: and if you're going to save humanity.

1360
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,919
Speaker 2: You've mentioned that your daddy was kind of like a player, right,

1361
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 2: how do you think that because I'm wondering, like, how

1362
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 2: do you think that that is like shown up in

1363
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 2: your life as a man who's you know, dating, who

1364
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 2: has been in serious relationships. People always say I always

1365
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:49,439
Speaker 2: hear like people say, like if your daddy was a cheater,

1366
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: then if his daddy was a cheater, then he's.

1367
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 6: A cheating I mean he's he's gotten it right, He's

1368
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 6: been married for like the last twenty years. And now

1369
01:01:57,480 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 6: I think so like you know what I mean, like, uh,

1370
01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 6: got it right. I just understood, Like I just say,

1371
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 6: I understood what he was going through and what comes

1372
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 6: with it. And and we talked about we talked about

1373
01:02:09,040 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 6: and do.

1374
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,600
Speaker 1: You mean like in the regards to like women, like

1375
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: having a lot of options, essentially.

1376
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 6: Having a lot of options, and it just coming with

1377
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 6: with the with the territory of the of the career.

1378
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 6: I guess, like we talked about when you raise the

1379
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 6: little girls, you're giving them dolls and kitchens and stuff

1380
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 6: like that. It's like, oh, you'll be a wife, you

1381
01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, You'll be a mom. They give

1382
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 6: little boys footballs, race cars, basketballs and say ship to

1383
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 6: them like, oh, you're gonna get all the girls. You're

1384
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 6: gonna have all the girls. You're gonna have all the girls.

1385
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 6: Know crazy, right, So it's like, yeah, finally, like you

1386
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 6: know what I mean. Like, So it's it puts you

1387
01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 6: in a in a place where it's like, damn, this

1388
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 6: is what I worked for.

1389
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 1: We're definitely not telling little girls you're gonna have all

1390
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:49,480
Speaker 1: the boys.

1391
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:52,040
Speaker 2: You're gonna got girls.

1392
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: You're fast, you're fast.

1393
01:02:53,800 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 1: Put on lipstick, stop.

1394
01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:59,040
Speaker 3: Hanging out with boys. Don't be a horre. Yeah, being

1395
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 3: told that from such a young age, like you dance

1396
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,360
Speaker 3: and it's too much. Put on a brad like all

1397
01:03:04,400 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 3: the things they tell us about our bodies is completely

1398
01:03:06,640 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 3: different than what they tell boys.

1399
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 2: He didn't answer my question though, because I was I'm

1400
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,040
Speaker 2: a recovering cheater recovering.

1401
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 1: I'm a recover recovered Okay, this is years ago.

1402
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 2: I haven't cheated since two thousands, early two thousand.

1403
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: Two thousand and seventeen.

1404
01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:28,000
Speaker 2: Ish, I'm Erica, and I'm true I have cheated, but

1405
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 2: I was I was cheating back throughout that time. That

1406
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 2: happened like one or two times since I fully really

1407
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 2: stopped cold turkey, you know, and cheating. I also come

1408
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 2: from a long line of cheaters, my dad being one,

1409
01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 2: uh and being very honest with me about it even

1410
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 2: as a young girl, like being like Erica. First of all,

1411
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm never getting married.

1412
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: I was. I was priding to this stand the other day.

1413
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 1: How he told me he never loved my mom.

1414
01:03:53,600 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 2: How he uh, how he was just like I just

1415
01:03:56,640 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 2: never had the I just never had the desire to

1416
01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 2: to be married. And he's been with his partner now

1417
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:05,960
Speaker 2: for twenty years. They're not married, and you know, and

1418
01:04:06,000 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 2: he's had and he struggled with with monogamy. You know,

1419
01:04:10,200 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 2: my whole life, I've witnessed and struggled with monomy. He's

1420
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 2: tried to conform because he was like, all right, let

1421
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 2: me do the right thing. And it's just he just

1422
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:20,440
Speaker 2: it's not it's not in his I don't want to say,

1423
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 2: it's not his DNA.

1424
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,959
Speaker 1: It's a choice. But for you and your in.

1425
01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: Your journey into like you know, being a boy, witnessing

1426
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 2: your father starting to date, and have you ever has

1427
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 2: just been ever a thing where you've had to, like,

1428
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, work through because I think a lot

1429
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:38,200
Speaker 2: of men won't even admit that that, Like, yeah, because

1430
01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 2: I'm a recovery cheater, I recovered from cheating, or I

1431
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 2: went through a very heavy phase in my life where like, yeah,

1432
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 2: I didn't really give a fuck, So I'm curious.

1433
01:04:46,680 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 6: I definitely, definitely it was a phase in life where

1434
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:52,560
Speaker 6: I didn't give a fuck. It was like, damn, let

1435
01:04:52,560 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 6: me see. How can I put this as a And

1436
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 6: I don't know if this is true for all guys?

1437
01:04:57,320 --> 01:04:58,080
Speaker 5: How do they think? Right?

1438
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 6: One, I can say, if you want to be monogamous

1439
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 6: and you really you really want to do it, can

1440
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 6: we I feel like we can't do it right? So

1441
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 6: I think it's our natural or it's the easiest thing

1442
01:05:10,240 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 6: for us in the world. No, because too many niggas

1443
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 6: suffer from the same problem. Yeah, Like yo, like I'm

1444
01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 6: talking about great niggas.

1445
01:05:17,360 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 5: You're talking about doctor King.

1446
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like you mean, doctor King?

1447
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 5: You mean to tell me this nigga cheated. President's cheat?

1448
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:27,520
Speaker 6: Like come on, bro, Like these are great men others

1449
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 6: Like this ain't a just a me thing, This is

1450
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 6: not just a tyrone thing.

1451
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: This is doctor King.

1452
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 5: How so cheated universally like this.

1453
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 2: Is has doctor King, did you gotta give me grace?

1454
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 3: Okay, jay Z, It's not me, it's my whole species.

1455
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 5: Like you're joking, But listen what I'm saying.

1456
01:05:46,600 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 6: Like right from from from thirteen right, maybe even eleven right,

1457
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:56,400
Speaker 6: a nigga is trying to find out how to get

1458
01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,840
Speaker 6: some ass. From eleven twelve, we are we do. I

1459
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 6: don't know nothing about sex, but I know I need

1460
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 6: to be involved with.

1461
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 5: It somehow, Like these girls here, these girls are starting

1462
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 5: to look too good.

1463
01:06:09,240 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 6: So from then right, and you very quickly learn as

1464
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 6: a guy that you have to have something for girls

1465
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 6: to want you.

1466
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:17,000
Speaker 5: Right.

1467
01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 6: You gotta be able to talk to them. You gotta

1468
01:06:19,240 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 6: smell good. You gotta be tall. You gotta be the

1469
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 6: fastest in the class. You gotta be the best dressed.

1470
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:29,560
Speaker 6: You gotta be something funny. You have to or ship

1471
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 6: you a star like you know what I'm saying. You

1472
01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 6: have to acquire something that is so about you that

1473
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 6: women want to be around you and want to have

1474
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 6: sex with you. You have to acquire this, right, So

1475
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 6: you spend all your life trying to figure out what

1476
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 6: that is. What is my thing that is going to.

1477
01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 5: Get me the access to the ability to have women

1478
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 5: and sex.

1479
01:06:50,920 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 6: Girls, y'all are taught from a don't do that and

1480
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:59,960
Speaker 6: from twelve thirteen fourteen, whatever guys want y'all just because

1481
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 6: y'all are girls. Y'all are girls. Yeah, you'll have vagiants

1482
01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:05,280
Speaker 6: like you know what I'm saying. A nigga is interested.

1483
01:07:05,320 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 6: There's somebody pulling a chair for you, holding the door

1484
01:07:08,120 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 6: for you, say oh, girl, you cute because there's a

1485
01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 6: possibility of sex for doing so. Y'all didn't have to

1486
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 6: do nothing. Y'all might not even wash. Y'all ass that day.

1487
01:07:16,080 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 6: Y'all came outside with sweats and a stain on your

1488
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 6: T shirt. And it's a nigga telling you a girl.

1489
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: Like you don't think that they're also developing, like what

1490
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 2: your your acquired taste? It's just like anyone can get

1491
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 2: it at that age.

1492
01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 5: What you mean?

1493
01:07:26,280 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 1: I mean when you're saying from the ages of what

1494
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 1: did you say ten to?

1495
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:35,040
Speaker 5: We're just trying. We're just trying. We're trying to figure out,

1496
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,240
Speaker 5: We're trying to figure out what it is that all

1497
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 5: court like, if damn, how do I get a girl

1498
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 5: to like me?

1499
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, How do I get a girl.

1500
01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like this is our thing.

1501
01:07:42,640 --> 01:07:45,560
Speaker 6: Y'all are taught, Like, hey, y'all can literally have sex

1502
01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 6: anytime y'all want, right, Like you can. You can find

1503
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 6: a stranger on the street and like, hey, you got

1504
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 6: five minutes and it happened for you.

1505
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 5: Doesn't happen like that for us. So you guys are

1506
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 5: more on this side of restraint, like restraint restraint.

1507
01:07:58,640 --> 01:08:01,640
Speaker 6: Like we'd be having to jump through hoops to get

1508
01:08:01,640 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 6: into some ass. So that's how it's been for us

1509
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 6: for since twelve. So now when it's coming at us,

1510
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:10,720
Speaker 6: laugh right, laugh right, it's like you gotta be a

1511
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 6: real discipline motherfucking to be able to just shutting this away,

1512
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:17,280
Speaker 6: turn this like, nah, I'm good, I'm good, I'm good.

1513
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 6: I remember there was a time I would have killed

1514
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 6: to have a girl come up to me and be like, hey,

1515
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 6: so this thing, we just got a different struggle, a

1516
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 6: different relationship with with sex and being monogamous.

1517
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:32,519
Speaker 5: That's the long way to that. So you be cheating

1518
01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:36,000
Speaker 5: or now for me, I stay single.

1519
01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 3: So you be cheating or ethical? Pl No, I'm single.

1520
01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:43,639
Speaker 5: I'm single. I had a relationship with the girls into

1521
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 5: girls and and and that was cool, Like you know,

1522
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 5: I thought that was that was like maybe this is

1523
01:08:51,520 --> 01:08:55,240
Speaker 5: for me. Maybe this is the girl that's in the girls,

1524
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:58,800
Speaker 5: who's picking girls, bringing girls, and it's like I don't

1525
01:08:58,800 --> 01:08:59,599
Speaker 5: want to be with them.

1526
01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 2: But the variety is like you don't have to like

1527
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 2: shut it you have to you don't have to be

1528
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 2: so disciplined.

1529
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 6: Exactly, and it's like us and it's uh us having

1530
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:10,960
Speaker 6: this experience together.

1531
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 5: So I thought that was I thought that was dope.

1532
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:17,280
Speaker 1: Mhm interesting.

1533
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 3: Shall we play trigger, my dear? Yeah, do you have

1534
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 3: an affirmation for us this week? An affirmation like something

1535
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 3: you tell yourself when you're feeling down or every day,

1536
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,800
Speaker 3: or just something you go by like.

1537
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: This is.

1538
01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

1539
01:09:35,360 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 5: Not when that's so profound. It's nothing.

1540
01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be so profound. The last one

1541
01:09:39,520 --> 01:09:42,479
Speaker 1: was a few weeks ago. Was bitch, be Buddha, be

1542
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:45,519
Speaker 1: like Buddha. Bit be like Buddha. Bitch.

1543
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 5: What did that mean?

1544
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 3: Like trigger, just bring yourself back to the core of

1545
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 3: there's nothing I can do about this, zero expectations.

1546
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 5: Okay, I get it, I get I get it now.

1547
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 6: Mine's just like you're gonna die anyway, Like you're gonna

1548
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 6: die one day. Bro, fuck you nigga, Like you know

1549
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 6: what I'm saying because I'm more telling myself now, I

1550
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 6: don't do that, Like, Bro, you're gonna die.

1551
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 3: You're gonna die, and every every minute it's closer to death.

1552
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 6: Bro, do whatever the fuck it is. You say what

1553
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 6: you wanted to say. Get that ship off, you know

1554
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:15,559
Speaker 6: what I mean, Like, stop worrying about people what they

1555
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 6: think they're gonna die to everyone that, like these niggas

1556
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,120
Speaker 6: is like, just stay on their own journey. Bro, do

1557
01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,400
Speaker 6: whatever you gotta do. Fuck what they think folk, what

1558
01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:26,639
Speaker 6: they say, I mean what.

1559
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,120
Speaker 1: They say, Like, so you're gonna die one day, fuck it.

1560
01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:31,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're gonna die one day. And don't let it

1561
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 6: be nothing on that list that you hadn't done, Like damn,

1562
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:37,519
Speaker 6: I wish I would just really don't don't have that.

1563
01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 2: Well, it seems like you're making you're making grounds on

1564
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 2: whatever list you have. Yeah, is there anything on that

1565
01:10:43,520 --> 01:10:47,160
Speaker 2: list that you feel like you're is like number one

1566
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 2: you haven't acquired.

1567
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 5: Yet Number one. I don't know. I'm not gonna. I'm

1568
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 5: not gonna.

1569
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,599
Speaker 6: I'm knocking off stuff pretty rapidly. Like this acting thing

1570
01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:55,760
Speaker 6: was was a big one for me.

1571
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 1: How was it? How was that? Was that your first

1572
01:10:58,080 --> 01:10:59,839
Speaker 1: time ever in any project?

1573
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 6: I think my first acting was shout out to easta

1574
01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:07,799
Speaker 6: rap shit like they brought me on. I played myself actually,

1575
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 6: which is tougher than you think, because it's like, damn,

1576
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 6: how would I act in this where I'm not supposed

1577
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:14,639
Speaker 6: to be acting?

1578
01:11:14,800 --> 01:11:16,360
Speaker 5: You know what I mean. So it's tougher than you think.

1579
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 6: But that was my first I had read for Power previously,

1580
01:11:22,080 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 6: like a couple of years during COVID, and they wound

1581
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 6: up giving that that role to Joey as a matter

1582
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 6: of fact, and Joey badass yit unique role. But a

1583
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 6: late few years later, they needed somebody else and they

1584
01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:39,680
Speaker 6: they asked me to read and I nailed it. And

1585
01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:42,280
Speaker 6: now there's another movie coming.

1586
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 4: This.

1587
01:11:45,800 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 6: I don't know if they started production yet, but I

1588
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 6: just signed for another movie, so we're getting into it.

1589
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 6: And I've always wanted to do that. I've always loved

1590
01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 6: cinema and how people are etched in time, Like I'm like, Damn,

1591
01:11:57,520 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 6: Will Smith was fucking nineteen killing that ship. Martin was

1592
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 6: killing that ship. Jamie Fox was killing that ship. You

1593
01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:06,800
Speaker 6: know what I'm saying. And no matter how old they

1594
01:12:06,840 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 6: get whatever, like you.

1595
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:09,880
Speaker 5: Got that stand ever time like.

1596
01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 6: Yo, like this was me then, and people will remember

1597
01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 6: you that way, like YO, remember that episode like you

1598
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:18,120
Speaker 6: know forever. So I always love that. I always want

1599
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:20,200
Speaker 6: to be a part of that. So I'm happy that

1600
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 6: I finally getting knock.

1601
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 1: That one over.

1602
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:23,560
Speaker 3: Congratulations.

1603
01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 1: Okay, let's play trigger, y'all.

1604
01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 3: We're going to ask you one word questions and you

1605
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 3: just say the first thing that comes to mind.

1606
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:40,640
Speaker 5: Bad habits, cigarettes, What it's a bad habit? Oh?

1607
01:12:40,720 --> 01:12:43,560
Speaker 1: Sorry? Okay, I thought you were saying you cigarettes.

1608
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:47,200
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, I don't smoke. It's about me.

1609
01:12:53,640 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 6: Okay, go ahead, Okay, bad habits, procrastination, fatherhood, amazing.

1610
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, last time you had sex?

1611
01:13:07,040 --> 01:13:14,880
Speaker 5: Thank you. I'm doing bad out here a wow?

1612
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 1: A while ago now December, January, February, March, November, September yesterday?

1613
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:21,240
Speaker 5: What month is it now?

1614
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 3: It's March, Christmas, New Year's February.

1615
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:30,599
Speaker 2: Probably Okay, you're right, it's still kind of bad.

1616
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:34,680
Speaker 1: Uh anal.

1617
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:38,519
Speaker 3: Not a deep breath?

1618
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, because now I really if you, if you with me,

1619
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 6: like you, my girl, I want to do like everything

1620
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 6: I wanted to be. No leaf unturned, So I'm all

1621
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 6: for it. Like if you if you move on, there's

1622
01:13:50,880 --> 01:13:51,720
Speaker 6: nothing we ain't done.

1623
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:53,640
Speaker 2: I don't care, like I know that give you got

1624
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 2: a little bit gratification to nigga's like get gratification by

1625
01:13:56,080 --> 01:13:57,439
Speaker 2: like seeing a bitch that.

1626
01:13:57,400 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: You've done everything too with another nigga, You're like, already.

1627
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:04,800
Speaker 6: I've done everything, done, everywhere, everything on.

1628
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 5: I know nothing. There's nothing new for you, okay.

1629
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: Love language mm hmm, physical touch, wrapping or producing rapping

1630
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:24,799
Speaker 1: white women, no offense.

1631
01:14:24,840 --> 01:14:27,839
Speaker 5: They just ain't not my main attraction.

1632
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:29,559
Speaker 1: Do you have you ever dated a white woman, like

1633
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:31,560
Speaker 1: seriously in a relationship?

1634
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:36,000
Speaker 5: No? Not not not after the eighth grade?

1635
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: What's her name? I gotta know?

1636
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:42,639
Speaker 7: Ship?

1637
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 5: Uh Stacy something like that like that like that.

1638
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:49,679
Speaker 3: What have you knocked down a white woman?

1639
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 5: Uh? Yo?

1640
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 1: They I've never. I've never you refer to sex is

1641
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 1: knocked down.

1642
01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1643
01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,000
Speaker 1: I never knocked in my life?

1644
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 8: Are you?

1645
01:15:03,479 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 1: What's happening? Come back high?

1646
01:15:07,479 --> 01:15:08,240
Speaker 5: Not one of them.

1647
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 3: When white women and never dated. But if you knocked

1648
01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 3: him down, he has.

1649
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: A wrapper on the show and suddenly knock down. We're

1650
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:21,120
Speaker 1: knocking these bitches down?

1651
01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 3: Would you know? I smoke a background the man, I

1652
01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:24,360
Speaker 3: feel like a gangster.

1653
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: You didn't answer, though, Oh.

1654
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 6: No, actually there was. It was what I would see it.

1655
01:15:31,560 --> 01:15:34,320
Speaker 6: I forgot she was like from over there, white.

1656
01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:37,799
Speaker 1: She wasn't from over Europe, European.

1657
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 6: I'm saying, you go Baltic something, you know. But she

1658
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:43,280
Speaker 6: was bad as the motherfucker.

1659
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1660
01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, black women most toxic trait.

1661
01:15:50,880 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 5: Oh my, most toxic. I think sex fixes everything.

1662
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 3: That's the most Nigga, we sucked what You're so mad?

1663
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 5: How could this?

1664
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: You love me?

1665
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 3: I fixed like ninety n You literally said you.

1666
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 5: Forget your fucking body convulsed.

1667
01:16:15,280 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 1: Move on, bitch. God favorite porn category.

1668
01:16:20,080 --> 01:16:32,760
Speaker 5: Mmmm, it's tough goes by the week. I'm not gonna lie.

1669
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 5: I think.

1670
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 6: I think in my later years, I feel like a

1671
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:37,280
Speaker 6: heavy titty guy, like I'm just.

1672
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: So just like titty porn ship.

1673
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 2: I saw I post you said about a girl who

1674
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 2: had plastic surgery. You were saying, basically, she should have

1675
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 2: just never touched your titties.

1676
01:16:49,120 --> 01:16:53,560
Speaker 1: Specific you would take this listen.

1677
01:16:53,280 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 6: Because I see and I come across in a lot

1678
01:16:55,960 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 6: of the time. I hear when it's not for like

1679
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 6: old back pain, and I hear I want to look

1680
01:17:01,880 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 6: better and close, and I'll be like, bro, them titties

1681
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 6: look perfect and closed. I don't like the way they droop.

1682
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 6: They don't droop. They are elegantly swinging.

1683
01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 3: Like I don't think you understand what elegant elegantly swinging?

1684
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 5: Yeah, like them, she's got grace.

1685
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 1: I love it, like you know what I mean, some

1686
01:17:20,479 --> 01:17:23,000
Speaker 1: ship baby, And.

1687
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:26,439
Speaker 5: I can really appreciate that more than you know what

1688
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 5: I'm saying, droop in your mouth.

1689
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 6: Now, I gotta work all hard, straight across. They don't

1690
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 6: come down to meet me half like yeah.

1691
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 1: Like that's the fact.

1692
01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 5: That, like I can really appreciate the bitches.

1693
01:17:40,800 --> 01:17:44,679
Speaker 2: With titties, you know, matter shout out to some flower

1694
01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:46,240
Speaker 2: cause you know she's like the head of the Saggy

1695
01:17:46,240 --> 01:17:46,879
Speaker 2: titty Committee.

1696
01:17:47,280 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 3: That was the tiny titty matters.

1697
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 5: We are latching to whatever titty comes out.

1698
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:57,640
Speaker 3: That's that's just primate mal intuitions.

1699
01:17:57,920 --> 01:17:59,080
Speaker 5: You don't got to do that.

1700
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 1: Celebrity crush.

1701
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:09,360
Speaker 5: Mm hmm. I don't know if I have one.

1702
01:18:09,880 --> 01:18:19,720
Speaker 6: Uh I said this if I was gonna go on

1703
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:21,120
Speaker 6: a date, though, I would like to go on a

1704
01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 6: date with Tracy Ellis Ross.

1705
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:27,519
Speaker 1: Okay, you like you're like older women want them at all.

1706
01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:29,559
Speaker 1: Turn off.

1707
01:18:31,080 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 5: Mm hmm, too aggressive, turn on.

1708
01:18:36,439 --> 01:18:44,160
Speaker 6: Softness boxers or briefs, briefs therapy, boxer briefs.

1709
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:45,320
Speaker 1: The combo.

1710
01:18:45,400 --> 01:18:46,400
Speaker 3: Now you're having to look.

1711
01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:50,760
Speaker 5: Like what I just buy one underwear every every one

1712
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:51,519
Speaker 5: of them is the same.

1713
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:53,640
Speaker 1: What is the underwear you buy?

1714
01:18:54,600 --> 01:18:58,639
Speaker 6: Don't try to go out there and body ships up. Listen,

1715
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 6: you go to Target. I'm pretty sure Target got a brand.

1716
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:04,200
Speaker 6: It's called good fellow and they make all black underwear

1717
01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:05,240
Speaker 6: in the box of briefs on.

1718
01:19:07,120 --> 01:19:08,120
Speaker 5: In the world, best of the world.

1719
01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:09,439
Speaker 3: We can't support Target anymore.

1720
01:19:09,479 --> 01:19:15,520
Speaker 1: Guys, go to Goodfellows dot com. No there Targets.

1721
01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 5: Okay, well, somebody else makes matter of fact about draws.

1722
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:20,839
Speaker 1: The draws draw.

1723
01:19:21,120 --> 01:19:21,599
Speaker 5: Matter of fact.

1724
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 6: I do make draws, Yeah, I do make Go go

1725
01:19:25,120 --> 01:19:29,240
Speaker 6: to good Folks brand dot com. Get your pair of drawers.

1726
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 6: I got ladies underwear to I gotta get you. I

1727
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 6: got you.

1728
01:19:33,439 --> 01:19:35,519
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show y'all, I'm bugging the funk.

1729
01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 3: Out you forget you got the whole you got.

1730
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:40,280
Speaker 6: Because and I just I just put them on some

1731
01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 6: models before I left New York too.

1732
01:19:41,960 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 5: But yeah, I'll get you all.

1733
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:43,800
Speaker 1: So okay, thank you.

1734
01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 6: Therapy, Yes, yeah, need to find a new one though

1735
01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 6: the last one was white dude pissed me off.

1736
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:55,880
Speaker 1: Oh, eating pussy.

1737
01:19:58,200 --> 01:19:59,519
Speaker 5: The best.

1738
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 1: Best advice you've ever gotten.

1739
01:20:03,640 --> 01:20:05,719
Speaker 5: That's the advice I ever gotten.

1740
01:20:06,360 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

1741
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 6: People aren't gonna understand what God gave to you, all right.

1742
01:20:19,439 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 6: So it's like a lot of times we try to

1743
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 6: explain it and run it by people and like, yo,

1744
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 6: what if we do this? And then they come thinking

1745
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:32,080
Speaker 6: logically and ship They're like yo, But a lot of people, hey,

1746
01:20:32,120 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 6: I ain't asked you all of that support the ship,

1747
01:20:34,240 --> 01:20:36,680
Speaker 6: but they're not going to see whatever your vision is

1748
01:20:36,800 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 6: or how big something.

1749
01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:41,000
Speaker 5: Could be because God gave that idea to you. So

1750
01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:42,200
Speaker 5: go with that.

1751
01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:47,960
Speaker 6: Biggest insecurity, biggest insecurity is not being good enough.

1752
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 5: Mushrooms and in in micro dosage cannabis.

1753
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 2: I'm mad at it, happily ever after Amen, Amen, Well,

1754
01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 2: before we get out of here, I think we should

1755
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 2: read your tarile car that you pulled.

1756
01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 3: You got the nine of Pinnacles, which means abundance, luxury,

1757
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:27,120
Speaker 3: self sufficiency.

1758
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 1: Financial independence. Sounds very capricorn.

1759
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:32,720
Speaker 3: As a matter of fact, you have worked hard to

1760
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 3: create abundance in your life, and the Nine of Pinnacles Wait,

1761
01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:38,679
Speaker 3: something's happening and AD's coming up. Okay, You've worked hard

1762
01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:40,400
Speaker 3: to create abundance in your life, and the Nine of

1763
01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:42,960
Speaker 3: Pinnacles say is now you can finally enjoy the fruits

1764
01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:46,520
Speaker 3: of your labor. Thanks to your independent efforts, self confidence,

1765
01:21:46,520 --> 01:21:49,719
Speaker 3: and discipline, you attained a well deserved success and created

1766
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 3: a subtle, a stable foundation for your material wealth and comfort.

1767
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:58,440
Speaker 3: Now sit back, relax and enjoy the luxuries and pleasures

1768
01:21:58,479 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 3: of the good life. Money, lead, your time, fun, material

1769
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 3: comfort and rest.

1770
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:03,760
Speaker 1: You deserve it.

1771
01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:05,680
Speaker 5: Amen.

1772
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:10,680
Speaker 3: Do you do you feel like that resonates with you?

1773
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:11,000
Speaker 5: Oh?

1774
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:12,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I've been saying I'm about to take a

1775
01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:15,000
Speaker 6: break and move to d r and just by the

1776
01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:15,559
Speaker 6: beach house.

1777
01:22:15,680 --> 01:22:17,880
Speaker 1: I saw you were out there. You have a good time.

1778
01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 5: I did. It was nice out there.

1779
01:22:19,520 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 3: They have some really nice investment properties out there.

1780
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 5: I'm out there.

1781
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 1: You got to come to Costa Rica. Oh yeah.

1782
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 6: I don't like I like to be places or go places,

1783
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:32,559
Speaker 6: but I don't like to travel, if that makes any sense.

1784
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:33,759
Speaker 1: You don't like the actual travel.

1785
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,040
Speaker 5: I don't like having to pack a bag, go to

1786
01:22:36,080 --> 01:22:36,559
Speaker 5: the airport.

1787
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:39,200
Speaker 3: None of that wanted. Some as Mr with that watermelon

1788
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 3: show us some things I can't.

1789
01:22:43,439 --> 01:22:44,960
Speaker 5: I can't do that. I can't do that. I can't

1790
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:45,280
Speaker 5: do that.

1791
01:22:45,760 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 6: I can't My mom called, I can't do that. I

1792
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 6: can't do that. But this watermelon has been sitting there

1793
01:22:51,200 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 6: looking good as ship.

1794
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:55,080
Speaker 1: I know. We got this watermelon because we thought maybe.

1795
01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:57,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what you said.

1796
01:22:57,360 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 2: Your love language is physical touch? What about acts of service?

1797
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 5: Mm? Describe?

1798
01:23:09,439 --> 01:23:10,439
Speaker 1: Describe? I can show you.

1799
01:23:16,439 --> 01:23:19,160
Speaker 5: I need to take anything more if you.

1800
01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:31,479
Speaker 3: We do retreats in Costa Rica, and we realize women

1801
01:23:31,560 --> 01:23:34,520
Speaker 3: have a wound about like getting served and being serviced

1802
01:23:34,560 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 3: in their friendships, and like me and Erica, we've found

1803
01:23:38,080 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 3: a lot of love in our friendship just serving each

1804
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 3: other and serving the women in our community. And I think,

1805
01:23:43,520 --> 01:23:45,720
Speaker 3: you know, it's important that on the internet we're seeing

1806
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:47,880
Speaker 3: a lot of hate and we just want to share

1807
01:23:48,000 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 3: our I think it's important to to water the masculine,

1808
01:23:52,720 --> 01:23:55,400
Speaker 3: and so we want to feature this fruit.

1809
01:23:55,520 --> 01:24:00,080
Speaker 1: If that's okay with you, the fruit, I'll play.

1810
01:24:01,960 --> 01:24:07,840
Speaker 3: You consent, Okay, you already have this fruit?

1811
01:24:09,120 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 5: She said, hey me that.

1812
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:13,400
Speaker 3: Do you like watermelon?

1813
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1814
01:24:18,720 --> 01:24:19,639
Speaker 1: You gotta do them.

1815
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:20,160
Speaker 5: Baby.

1816
01:24:22,880 --> 01:24:24,920
Speaker 3: We're known on the internet form.

1817
01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 1: That was a very masculine bite.

1818
01:24:32,120 --> 01:24:37,280
Speaker 3: Very cafe astrology.

1819
01:24:38,680 --> 01:24:41,759
Speaker 1: How do you feel about strawberries? What's your favorite fruit?

1820
01:24:43,080 --> 01:24:46,799
Speaker 5: Watermelon, pineapple, strawberries.

1821
01:24:51,760 --> 01:24:56,040
Speaker 2: Your teeth are so white, party a really nice smile.

1822
01:24:57,920 --> 01:24:58,760
Speaker 5: It just cost me.

1823
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 1: Teeth wouln't didn't look like that before, No, those teeths got.

1824
01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 3: How does that feel? Do you like being served by

1825
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:09,400
Speaker 3: the feminine? You feel cared for?

1826
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:13,519
Speaker 1: I think it's time.

1827
01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: I think we as women with all that man bashing,

1828
01:25:17,520 --> 01:25:18,960
Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna lie, we've been a part of

1829
01:25:18,960 --> 01:25:21,559
Speaker 2: it at times in our life, because there are men

1830
01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 2: that need to be held accountable. But I think there's

1831
01:25:23,960 --> 01:25:27,160
Speaker 2: a lot of men that watch and listen that are

1832
01:25:27,160 --> 01:25:31,800
Speaker 2: open to acknowledging their shortcomings and wanting to be better.

1833
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:36,439
Speaker 2: And when they do, you have a greater opportunity to

1834
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:41,400
Speaker 2: really be fully nourished and supported by divine, feminine women.

1835
01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 2: I think a lot of men think that there's not

1836
01:25:42,920 --> 01:25:45,880
Speaker 2: good women in the world. That's like kind of like

1837
01:25:46,200 --> 01:25:50,040
Speaker 2: the propaganda that's being shared now. I see so much

1838
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 2: of it on the internet, and I think it's because

1839
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:57,400
Speaker 2: we're imbalanced and women actually would love nothing more than

1840
01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 2: to serve their man, and I think men but love

1841
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 2: nothing more than received from their women. So I think

1842
01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:09,599
Speaker 2: the more we have conversations like this, honest conversations, the

1843
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 2: more everyone gets to win.

1844
01:26:10,960 --> 01:26:12,320
Speaker 3: And gets healed.

1845
01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 2: So this is our offering to you party for you know,

1846
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:19,479
Speaker 2: being honestly like a very a source of a lot

1847
01:26:19,560 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 2: of inspiration and love and support for black women, a

1848
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:25,439
Speaker 2: lot of your music. I really I love how much

1849
01:26:25,520 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 2: you idolize the black woman and really empower her to

1850
01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,800
Speaker 2: be her in all ways, in every single way, So

1851
01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:35,839
Speaker 2: thank you for your service.

1852
01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 3: I think we forget that there's black men that will

1853
01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 3: do that loudly and proudly because we see so little

1854
01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:42,240
Speaker 3: of it on the internet, and we see a lot

1855
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:45,280
Speaker 3: of hate and so that resonates. But yes, I appreciate you,

1856
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:47,720
Speaker 3: and I thank you for that being that representation. It

1857
01:26:47,760 --> 01:26:50,439
Speaker 3: means a lot. And like hip hop and being young

1858
01:26:50,520 --> 01:26:53,400
Speaker 3: and handsome and like having a statement and saying it boldly.

1859
01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:54,400
Speaker 1: So thank you.

1860
01:26:55,400 --> 01:26:58,960
Speaker 5: Thank y'all for being the inspiration that you know behind

1861
01:26:59,000 --> 01:27:01,960
Speaker 5: all of the words actions, creativity.

1862
01:27:02,640 --> 01:27:03,200
Speaker 1: You're welcome.

1863
01:27:06,600 --> 01:27:08,639
Speaker 3: Did you want to share a bad a bad choice

1864
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:09,960
Speaker 3: that you've done this week?

1865
01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:12,520
Speaker 1: This week?

1866
01:27:11,240 --> 01:27:15,679
Speaker 7: Or bad mom not a bad mom, but a bad

1867
01:27:15,760 --> 01:27:17,960
Speaker 7: mom so.

1868
01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:27,600
Speaker 6: Living it's only one bad choice? And I feel like

1869
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:31,760
Speaker 6: us fellas make it all the time. I don't know

1870
01:27:31,760 --> 01:27:35,559
Speaker 6: if y'all know about these choices, but yeah, y'all know,

1871
01:27:35,680 --> 01:27:39,240
Speaker 6: y'all know we do this ship. We will get into

1872
01:27:39,320 --> 01:27:48,360
Speaker 6: a situation right with protection in our pocket, and we

1873
01:27:48,400 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 6: will steal consummate, raw tashimi in there, nothing condom right there,

1874
01:27:58,000 --> 01:28:00,960
Speaker 6: and you still just decide to go there without it.

1875
01:28:01,479 --> 01:28:04,360
Speaker 6: I too, Do you know what I'm saying? Olympic to this.

1876
01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:07,880
Speaker 6: It's a bad decisions. You gotta be better.

1877
01:28:09,560 --> 01:28:11,800
Speaker 3: I think the women can. We might not have it

1878
01:28:11,800 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 3: in our pocket, but I think the women can also

1879
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:16,280
Speaker 3: be better. We could all be better. I have to

1880
01:28:16,280 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 3: be better.

1881
01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:18,040
Speaker 1: I am women. I am women too.

1882
01:28:18,680 --> 01:28:25,120
Speaker 2: I think after also that you like created life, like

1883
01:28:25,200 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 2: there's a level, and also like created life or been

1884
01:28:28,120 --> 01:28:30,479
Speaker 2: in long term relationships like you.

1885
01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:31,479
Speaker 1: It's hard.

1886
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:38,160
Speaker 2: It'd be hard, not just hard, it'd be hard.

1887
01:28:38,000 --> 01:28:44,679
Speaker 6: Going back, listen, listen, bring it scratch. Whatever the fuck

1888
01:28:44,760 --> 01:28:47,080
Speaker 6: I just said, niggas, all of us. I thought it

1889
01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 6: was just us, everybody, we together. That's why they don't

1890
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:52,120
Speaker 6: put up a just But do you.

1891
01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:56,679
Speaker 3: Feel like I feel like at a certain age, it's

1892
01:28:56,720 --> 01:28:58,880
Speaker 3: not even It's like because I don't want to really

1893
01:28:58,920 --> 01:29:01,559
Speaker 3: I don't desire really is sex of the condom? They

1894
01:29:01,560 --> 01:29:04,040
Speaker 3: smell weird, Like, I don't desire that. So I am

1895
01:29:04,120 --> 01:29:07,479
Speaker 3: then more intentional about who I'm fucking because a I

1896
01:29:07,520 --> 01:29:11,280
Speaker 3: realized there's an actual energy exchange. Most people are kind

1897
01:29:11,280 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 3: of slow, and I have to, like, I have to

1898
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:15,880
Speaker 3: really be motivated to want to share with you in

1899
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,800
Speaker 3: that way, because I don't really like if I have,

1900
01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:22,479
Speaker 3: I just don't casual sex. Sex as you get older

1901
01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:25,080
Speaker 3: becomes more and more rare, not because you become less

1902
01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 3: sexual or because you don't like to fuck. It's because

1903
01:29:28,080 --> 01:29:29,400
Speaker 3: the pickings are slim.

1904
01:29:29,439 --> 01:29:31,639
Speaker 2: Well, you learn yourself and you realize it's not worth

1905
01:29:31,680 --> 01:29:32,320
Speaker 2: it half the time.

1906
01:29:32,680 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, but I would say that there is. I

1907
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,760
Speaker 1: think most people. I don't say most people. Let me

1908
01:29:38,800 --> 01:29:39,240
Speaker 1: not speak for me.

1909
01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:42,000
Speaker 3: Don't endorse this, let me kids.

1910
01:29:42,479 --> 01:29:44,519
Speaker 1: I think it's hard out here to put a condom on.

1911
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:45,599
Speaker 3: Okay, it is hard.

1912
01:29:45,600 --> 01:29:46,559
Speaker 1: But if you're gonna not.

1913
01:29:46,520 --> 01:29:49,519
Speaker 2: Put a condom on, make sure you're fucking the right person, okay,

1914
01:29:49,560 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 2: because anything can happen.

1915
01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:54,120
Speaker 3: We don't endorse the ship. We said, it's just the truth.

1916
01:29:54,240 --> 01:29:56,840
Speaker 3: We don't support it. It's not the best of us.

1917
01:29:57,479 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 2: This is why this is a bad choice. We said

1918
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,040
Speaker 2: this is a bad choice. We led with a disclaimer.

1919
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:05,360
Speaker 1: This is a bad choice. Right, this happens, and.

1920
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,639
Speaker 2: Now we're just we're just telling you that it's okay

1921
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:10,200
Speaker 2: because I know that you've also made some bad choices,

1922
01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:11,800
Speaker 2: probably last night.

1923
01:30:12,000 --> 01:30:14,519
Speaker 1: And go get that plan by bitch, go get it now.

1924
01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:16,040
Speaker 1: Don't think twice.

1925
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:21,240
Speaker 2: I know your if you're fertile, ast fuck, don't be risky.

1926
01:30:21,320 --> 01:30:23,439
Speaker 3: You can't get abortions and you cannot get a plan.

1927
01:30:23,479 --> 01:30:26,519
Speaker 1: B but send me your address. I will ship it

1928
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:29,080
Speaker 1: to you. It's free here. I will send it on over.

1929
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:34,160
Speaker 3: But there's more important things than just maybe getting pregnant.

1930
01:30:34,360 --> 01:30:35,960
Speaker 3: It's not There's worse things.

1931
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, there is, so are adults.

1932
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:48,200
Speaker 2: We're parents, okay, Last, but not least, because I'm really

1933
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:49,360
Speaker 2: interested and I must know.

1934
01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:52,479
Speaker 1: Do you have a horror story for us?

1935
01:30:52,560 --> 01:30:59,800
Speaker 3: Party like a very when you acted like a huff?

1936
01:31:00,560 --> 01:31:02,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like some whole activity day.

1937
01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:04,040
Speaker 2: We're like, god, damn, I can't believe that was that

1938
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 2: was highly horriorsh of me.

1939
01:31:07,600 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 1: And it doesn't have to be.

1940
01:31:08,439 --> 01:31:10,400
Speaker 2: It could be like I'm proud of myself, or it

1941
01:31:10,400 --> 01:31:11,880
Speaker 2: could be like god damn, I did too much?

1942
01:31:17,400 --> 01:31:18,840
Speaker 1: Whose stories?

1943
01:31:22,280 --> 01:31:26,680
Speaker 5: Okay, Jesus, just letting people know my shit. I've been

1944
01:31:26,760 --> 01:31:28,080
Speaker 5: a pretty private person.

1945
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:28,000
Speaker 7: You know.

1946
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:29,439
Speaker 1: Maybe we'll put this on Patreon.

1947
01:31:29,520 --> 01:31:30,920
Speaker 3: You'll make it like a more slip.

1948
01:31:31,000 --> 01:31:32,000
Speaker 1: We'll put this on Patreon.

1949
01:31:32,080 --> 01:31:35,679
Speaker 2: If you want to hear parties highly Horrish hotel, then

1950
01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:38,800
Speaker 2: make sure you join Patreon, Thisspatreon dot com, backslash good

1951
01:31:38,840 --> 01:31:41,800
Speaker 2: Mom's Bad Choices where you can get a lot of

1952
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:44,200
Speaker 2: other hotels there like ours that we don't always share

1953
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:46,880
Speaker 2: on the podcast.

1954
01:31:47,160 --> 01:31:50,600
Speaker 6: All right, So I had had a girl with me

1955
01:31:51,439 --> 01:31:53,320
Speaker 6: and I've been dealing with her for a while, like

1956
01:31:53,640 --> 01:31:56,600
Speaker 6: nothing like serious, nothing dating, but we just been you know,

1957
01:31:58,479 --> 01:32:00,240
Speaker 6: interacting for some years is.

1958
01:32:00,200 --> 01:32:02,519
Speaker 5: Now, so it's cool.

1959
01:32:02,840 --> 01:32:06,240
Speaker 6: But somebody else called. It was like, hey, what you're

1960
01:32:06,280 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 6: doing that. I'm in the city.

1961
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:09,840
Speaker 5: Now.

1962
01:32:10,080 --> 01:32:14,800
Speaker 6: Me and said friend have you know, shared a girl

1963
01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:18,560
Speaker 6: or two in our past. But this is totally unplanned.

1964
01:32:18,840 --> 01:32:21,200
Speaker 6: She doesn't know this girl at all. So I'm like,

1965
01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 6: what am I going to do? So I send a

1966
01:32:27,240 --> 01:32:28,200
Speaker 6: text like do you like girls?

1967
01:32:28,280 --> 01:32:37,439
Speaker 2: She's like yeah, yeah, she like.

1968
01:32:32,200 --> 01:32:34,680
Speaker 1: One like yeah.

1969
01:32:35,240 --> 01:32:37,640
Speaker 6: So I'm like all right, that's enough for me to

1970
01:32:37,800 --> 01:32:39,679
Speaker 6: just try to wing this. You know what I'm saying.

1971
01:32:41,040 --> 01:32:43,479
Speaker 5: The fact that she even likes girls is like.

1972
01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:47,960
Speaker 6: All right, bet, I'm like, I'm like, okay, cool, my

1973
01:32:48,040 --> 01:32:51,880
Speaker 6: friend is here. That's just Vegas. Hell, but send the

1974
01:32:51,920 --> 01:32:55,800
Speaker 6: car she comes. I'm like, hey, while this car is

1975
01:32:55,800 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 6: already in the way, I'm like, I show her a picture, like, hey,

1976
01:32:57,880 --> 01:32:58,839
Speaker 6: what you think of her?

1977
01:32:59,120 --> 01:33:01,320
Speaker 1: She's like, oh, so you were risking it, Like this

1978
01:33:01,360 --> 01:33:02,320
Speaker 1: picture is already on the.

1979
01:33:02,280 --> 01:33:03,280
Speaker 5: West she's already on the way.

1980
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:07,080
Speaker 3: Oh, discussions just she don't know on the way.

1981
01:33:07,120 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 5: She don't know she's on the I'm just trying to

1982
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 5: do some ground work here, you know what I mean?

1983
01:33:11,120 --> 01:33:12,760
Speaker 1: Like she live where she lived?

1984
01:33:12,800 --> 01:33:14,360
Speaker 5: Like she like she's coming.

1985
01:33:14,439 --> 01:33:18,599
Speaker 6: She's coming from maybe like forty five minutes, thirty five okay.

1986
01:33:18,360 --> 01:33:19,439
Speaker 1: So you have forty five minutes to.

1987
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:20,920
Speaker 5: Work just to warm up.

1988
01:33:20,960 --> 01:33:22,800
Speaker 6: I don't even do much warming up either though. I

1989
01:33:22,880 --> 01:33:24,719
Speaker 6: just simply asked what she's thinking of this girl.

1990
01:33:24,880 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 5: She's like, oh, she's cute. All right, that's enough for me.

1991
01:33:28,160 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 5: That's enough. That's enough for me.

1992
01:33:31,479 --> 01:33:33,599
Speaker 6: Now I think I've done this more than one occasion.

1993
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:37,439
Speaker 6: But all right, so girl gets here. Girl a ride.

1994
01:33:37,479 --> 01:33:41,160
Speaker 6: She's like, what was that? You know, I'm like, what's

1995
01:33:41,200 --> 01:33:41,679
Speaker 6: the present?

1996
01:33:43,320 --> 01:33:44,640
Speaker 5: I go down, I go down.

1997
01:33:46,760 --> 01:33:48,880
Speaker 1: I don't get nother fucking ideas, nigga.

1998
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 5: I go downstairs. I go downstairs, and and she's like's here, Like,

1999
01:33:55,840 --> 01:33:57,280
Speaker 5: oh is my friend upstairs?

2000
01:33:57,360 --> 01:34:00,400
Speaker 6: She says, you're cute. She's like who is? She's like,

2001
01:34:00,439 --> 01:34:02,320
Speaker 6: what if I don't like her? I'm like, you will

2002
01:34:02,720 --> 01:34:04,599
Speaker 6: trust me, you will like you'll like her.

2003
01:34:04,680 --> 01:34:05,759
Speaker 3: This is a risky business.

2004
01:34:06,040 --> 01:34:08,639
Speaker 5: It's definitely risky, but you gotta you gotta have stake.

2005
01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:10,799
Speaker 3: Is either a success or a disaster.

2006
01:34:10,960 --> 01:34:12,640
Speaker 1: Normally, bitches are asking a lot of questions like how

2007
01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:14,400
Speaker 1: do you know her? Who is she? How many times

2008
01:34:14,400 --> 01:34:14,800
Speaker 1: we fucked?

2009
01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 5: Did you?

2010
01:34:15,360 --> 01:34:15,960
Speaker 1: Do you love her?

2011
01:34:16,920 --> 01:34:20,160
Speaker 5: We didn't even you see how I mitigated all of those.

2012
01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:25,520
Speaker 3: But like Marie episode, there's a ring the doorbell.

2013
01:34:25,240 --> 01:34:28,960
Speaker 6: So boom, I got upstairs. I'm like, friend is in

2014
01:34:29,000 --> 01:34:32,960
Speaker 6: bed already. Homegirl's hair is fully dressed.

2015
01:34:32,600 --> 01:34:35,400
Speaker 1: From the club wherever she was o'clock in the morning.

2016
01:34:35,479 --> 01:34:38,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's late, it's late. So she she walks in.

2017
01:34:38,479 --> 01:34:41,519
Speaker 6: I'm like, hey, yo, this is yo X. This is

2018
01:34:41,560 --> 01:34:43,360
Speaker 6: why and you know what I'm saying such and suf

2019
01:34:43,479 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 6: She's like hey, I'm like yeah, I met her like

2020
01:34:46,320 --> 01:34:49,599
Speaker 6: a little while agosi. Matter of fact, the story is crazy.

2021
01:34:49,840 --> 01:34:52,439
Speaker 6: You're gonna die when you hear this. And I'm telling it.

2022
01:34:52,520 --> 01:34:54,400
Speaker 6: I'm like, you know, telling the story.

2023
01:34:54,520 --> 01:34:56,559
Speaker 5: Boom boom. I'm like, yo, ship, let me just get

2024
01:34:56,560 --> 01:34:59,800
Speaker 5: you more comfortable, real fast. Boom. Get her together, get her.

2025
01:34:59,720 --> 01:35:03,040
Speaker 3: Ship, her bonnet, her bonnet, takes her shower.

2026
01:35:03,120 --> 01:35:07,400
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. I don't don't joke about this.

2027
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:07,960
Speaker 5: Matter of fact.

2028
01:35:12,520 --> 01:35:15,040
Speaker 6: She takes her shower, she gets ready. Now I go,

2029
01:35:15,160 --> 01:35:18,439
Speaker 6: I gotta go back and like temperature check.

2030
01:35:18,479 --> 01:35:19,720
Speaker 5: I guess. You know what I'm saying. I'm saying, like,

2031
01:35:19,840 --> 01:35:20,640
Speaker 5: are you nervous?

2032
01:35:21,280 --> 01:35:24,439
Speaker 6: Not nervous. It's just like, let me see how it's

2033
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:26,200
Speaker 6: about to go. Let me see the level of mad.

2034
01:35:26,280 --> 01:35:30,680
Speaker 2: She is like yeah, what what?

2035
01:35:31,600 --> 01:35:33,520
Speaker 5: She was like what?

2036
01:35:34,520 --> 01:35:34,680
Speaker 1: So?

2037
01:35:34,880 --> 01:35:36,320
Speaker 5: Now I still got to play it cool with the

2038
01:35:36,320 --> 01:35:38,240
Speaker 5: other girls. She's like, I don't know if she likes me.

2039
01:35:38,320 --> 01:35:40,519
Speaker 5: I'm like, it's fine, it's.

2040
01:35:40,360 --> 01:35:43,000
Speaker 1: Fund like, it's fun.

2041
01:35:43,400 --> 01:35:46,160
Speaker 5: Let's let's get in the bed. We're getting in bed.

2042
01:35:46,320 --> 01:35:48,559
Speaker 1: Damn no, loove. We didn't do drink.

2043
01:35:48,600 --> 01:35:49,759
Speaker 3: We didn't dance.

2044
01:35:50,120 --> 01:35:52,880
Speaker 6: Wait, I might I might have had shots. The one

2045
01:35:53,160 --> 01:35:55,519
Speaker 6: X didn't drink. Why I drink? And she had been.

2046
01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:57,639
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.

2047
01:35:57,920 --> 01:36:00,200
Speaker 6: So I think I think we did get extra shot

2048
01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:04,920
Speaker 6: or whatever the case. Maybe a little bit, yeah, boom,

2049
01:36:05,160 --> 01:36:07,720
Speaker 6: just just a little bit. I'm still cool, cordial. It's

2050
01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:10,519
Speaker 6: getting which I want to watch. Matter of fact, the

2051
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:11,600
Speaker 6: new Venom just came on.

2052
01:36:12,160 --> 01:36:15,559
Speaker 1: Wow, right, not venom and nothing like Venom to get

2053
01:36:15,560 --> 01:36:16,280
Speaker 1: the pussies wet.

2054
01:36:17,800 --> 01:36:18,080
Speaker 5: Whoa.

2055
01:36:19,880 --> 01:36:21,200
Speaker 1: I can't wait to watch that.

2056
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:24,840
Speaker 5: Look, the fucking movie is background. I typically go.

2057
01:36:24,840 --> 01:36:26,519
Speaker 1: With family people dying in the background.

2058
01:36:26,680 --> 01:36:30,320
Speaker 5: I typically go with family guy, American Dad. Those are

2059
01:36:30,400 --> 01:36:31,200
Speaker 5: typical go to.

2060
01:36:31,720 --> 01:36:34,200
Speaker 2: But oh, you have typical go to movies for threesome

2061
01:36:34,280 --> 01:36:34,960
Speaker 2: situations or.

2062
01:36:34,960 --> 01:36:37,240
Speaker 3: Not just background, just.

2063
01:36:37,479 --> 01:36:41,000
Speaker 2: Background situations much one American Dad, American Dad.

2064
01:36:41,600 --> 01:36:44,280
Speaker 3: You must you must intend on getting it popping rather quickly,

2065
01:36:44,320 --> 01:36:47,360
Speaker 3: because none of those shows make anybody, specially.

2066
01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:48,720
Speaker 1: Because that's like they're not going to watch it. They

2067
01:36:48,800 --> 01:36:50,760
Speaker 1: have to focus on what's happening. No one wants to

2068
01:36:50,760 --> 01:36:53,320
Speaker 1: watch fucking American Dad when there's a hard dick next

2069
01:36:53,320 --> 01:36:54,439
Speaker 1: to you. Watch.

2070
01:36:54,960 --> 01:36:56,840
Speaker 5: In comparison, I seem like the good option.

2071
01:36:56,960 --> 01:37:02,280
Speaker 1: Now I am an American likes this ship of me.

2072
01:37:03,240 --> 01:37:07,840
Speaker 6: So we played and then it's just like we we.

2073
01:37:08,200 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 5: Know, yeah, kiss this one, kiss this in the middle.

2074
01:37:13,040 --> 01:37:15,639
Speaker 6: Like these these these pants have been on for entirely

2075
01:37:15,680 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 6: too long, like you know. And then once one starts,

2076
01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:23,360
Speaker 6: it's like, oh, ship that this ship is happening. This

2077
01:37:23,680 --> 01:37:32,040
Speaker 6: is happening. Oh mid mid arranging and moving around. It's like,

2078
01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:36,360
Speaker 6: I'm like, yo, you you ever. She's like, I never,

2079
01:37:36,520 --> 01:37:39,840
Speaker 6: I never actually eating a girl out the girl who

2080
01:37:39,840 --> 01:37:42,439
Speaker 6: came the girl came over. She's like, I'm like, oh.

2081
01:37:42,439 --> 01:37:47,080
Speaker 3: Ship, that really really but here she goes, she says,

2082
01:37:50,080 --> 01:37:51,360
Speaker 3: but I'm down to try.

2083
01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:55,639
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, did you give her a lesson.

2084
01:37:55,560 --> 01:37:59,760
Speaker 6: The fucking jackpot? Actually no, just she just wanted to try.

2085
01:37:59,840 --> 01:38:03,040
Speaker 6: She was she was feeling X and was like, I

2086
01:38:03,320 --> 01:38:05,719
Speaker 6: bet she goes to she just starts.

2087
01:38:07,080 --> 01:38:10,240
Speaker 5: I'm looking. It's like, is from there you know what

2088
01:38:10,240 --> 01:38:12,240
Speaker 5: I'm saying, amazing.

2089
01:38:11,960 --> 01:38:13,680
Speaker 1: Beautiful night. So she did a good job on her

2090
01:38:13,680 --> 01:38:17,960
Speaker 1: first time. From what I was told, Wow, that was

2091
01:38:18,000 --> 01:38:18,519
Speaker 1: a success.

2092
01:38:18,560 --> 01:38:19,720
Speaker 3: That could have gone terribly wrong.

2093
01:38:19,880 --> 01:38:23,760
Speaker 5: Could it could have? But that's what fortune favors. The boat.

2094
01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:24,360
Speaker 5: Go for it.

2095
01:38:25,040 --> 01:38:27,479
Speaker 6: You're going to die, Bro, You're going to die. They're

2096
01:38:27,600 --> 01:38:32,200
Speaker 6: going to die. Bro corner corner.

2097
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:36,679
Speaker 3: She's cute, girls, you know what you should have Maybe

2098
01:38:36,800 --> 01:38:38,600
Speaker 3: maybe the question is do you eat pussy? Have you

2099
01:38:38,600 --> 01:38:39,240
Speaker 3: ever eaten pussy?

2100
01:38:39,360 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 2: Might have been I just want to know, girls, and

2101
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:44,519
Speaker 2: I just want to let the gentleman listening right now

2102
01:38:44,600 --> 01:38:46,439
Speaker 2: don't think that this is this is not going to

2103
01:38:46,479 --> 01:38:46,920
Speaker 2: work for you.

2104
01:38:47,040 --> 01:38:47,759
Speaker 1: This is a very.

2105
01:38:47,600 --> 01:38:53,120
Speaker 2: Specific circumstance, a very specific man where you.

2106
01:38:53,080 --> 01:38:55,679
Speaker 3: Didn't tell them they're at the door, at the door,

2107
01:38:58,080 --> 01:38:58,200
Speaker 3: Is it.

2108
01:38:58,240 --> 01:38:59,000
Speaker 1: Usually after hours?

2109
01:38:59,040 --> 01:39:01,560
Speaker 2: Because after hours more things are abound to happen.

2110
01:39:01,600 --> 01:39:04,439
Speaker 1: Drinking, delirious. But that's why.

2111
01:39:04,640 --> 01:39:06,479
Speaker 3: But that's why it's even crazier. If I'm sitting at

2112
01:39:06,520 --> 01:39:10,000
Speaker 3: the house, we're totally sober, chilling, regular watching family guy

2113
01:39:10,240 --> 01:39:12,600
Speaker 3: and he says, what do you think it's cute? And

2114
01:39:12,840 --> 01:39:15,240
Speaker 3: two minutes later she's there. I'm like, what the fuck?

2115
01:39:15,400 --> 01:39:18,599
Speaker 2: Well, there's probably a vibe already happening before that.

2116
01:39:19,000 --> 01:39:20,920
Speaker 5: I just know her for a long time.

2117
01:39:21,080 --> 01:39:22,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to know your audience.

2118
01:39:23,720 --> 01:39:27,000
Speaker 3: Thank you for that share. You've been very gracious sharing

2119
01:39:27,040 --> 01:39:28,719
Speaker 3: such intimate stories about yourself.

2120
01:39:28,720 --> 01:39:29,080
Speaker 1: You're great.

2121
01:39:29,240 --> 01:39:30,120
Speaker 5: Don't look at me different.

2122
01:39:30,160 --> 01:39:33,720
Speaker 1: Mom, I'm sorry, he's not a great son. Mom. He's

2123
01:39:33,760 --> 01:39:36,160
Speaker 1: doing great, and will send to her segment.

2124
01:39:38,400 --> 01:39:44,240
Speaker 3: We'll cut you especially where can the people find you?

2125
01:39:45,520 --> 01:39:50,800
Speaker 6: Instagram, p A R d I uh TikTok section a

2126
01:39:50,920 --> 01:39:54,880
Speaker 6: sex symbol, Twitter is or x is party.

2127
01:39:57,000 --> 01:39:59,200
Speaker 1: And where? And what else? What else you got going

2128
01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:01,880
Speaker 1: on right now? You know you have Canaan on? Is

2129
01:40:01,920 --> 01:40:02,400
Speaker 1: there anything else?

2130
01:40:02,439 --> 01:40:03,080
Speaker 5: Cane and Yeah?

2131
01:40:03,200 --> 01:40:07,479
Speaker 6: Season four Cane Raising Canan on Stars Hulu. However you

2132
01:40:07,520 --> 01:40:09,759
Speaker 6: watch it on care if you're still well fucking streaming

2133
01:40:09,840 --> 01:40:12,559
Speaker 6: whatever it is and your friend account watch season four

2134
01:40:13,680 --> 01:40:19,120
Speaker 6: b Realer a new movie on the way, new records out,

2135
01:40:19,200 --> 01:40:23,800
Speaker 6: little shit, anybody out tune it up with me and

2136
01:40:23,840 --> 01:40:27,240
Speaker 6: Cardi b out I'm.

2137
01:40:27,160 --> 01:40:31,320
Speaker 2: Morell well, thank you, thank you for joining us, Carti

2138
01:40:31,600 --> 01:40:33,080
Speaker 2: and we love you guys.

2139
01:40:33,320 --> 01:40:37,320
Speaker 1: We actually still have some spots available at our couple's retreat.

2140
01:40:37,760 --> 01:40:39,559
Speaker 2: So if you're thinking about coming to Costa Rica, if

2141
01:40:39,600 --> 01:40:42,360
Speaker 2: you have a lover that maybe you know you want

2142
01:40:42,360 --> 01:40:43,439
Speaker 2: to build intimacy with.

2143
01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:46,240
Speaker 1: This is not a threesome retreat, though it must be clear.

2144
01:40:46,080 --> 01:40:47,400
Speaker 3: If you have a poly relationship.

2145
01:40:47,439 --> 01:40:47,960
Speaker 1: If you have a.

2146
01:40:48,160 --> 01:40:51,240
Speaker 2: Relation, you are welcome. You are welcome to our couples Retreat.

2147
01:40:51,479 --> 01:40:54,719
Speaker 2: It's June fourteenth through the twenty second in Costa Rica.

2148
01:40:54,880 --> 01:40:55,799
Speaker 1: It's going to be sexy.

2149
01:40:55,840 --> 01:40:57,599
Speaker 2: It's going to be a lot of play, a lot

2150
01:40:57,640 --> 01:40:59,600
Speaker 2: of adventure, So make sure you click the link in

2151
01:40:59,640 --> 01:41:01,599
Speaker 2: this episod so to check that retreat out and all

2152
01:41:01,600 --> 01:41:03,519
Speaker 2: the other retreats we have going on. We have our

2153
01:41:03,560 --> 01:41:06,800
Speaker 2: annual summer retreat that's almost sold out. So if you've

2154
01:41:06,840 --> 01:41:09,160
Speaker 2: been wanting to come on one of our Good Vibe retreats,

2155
01:41:09,200 --> 01:41:12,760
Speaker 2: the All Women's retreats, then definitely tap in and make

2156
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Speaker 2: sure you subscribe to this episode. Subscribe now, leave a

2157
01:41:16,720 --> 01:41:18,080
Speaker 2: review now please?

2158
01:41:18,800 --> 01:41:20,360
Speaker 1: And what else is that it?

2159
01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:22,759
Speaker 3: Think you covering it all? Oh, we're gonna be at

2160
01:41:23,120 --> 01:41:26,559
Speaker 3: the Podcast Festival in Atlanta, so pull up and see

2161
01:41:26,600 --> 01:41:28,120
Speaker 3: us on April twenty sixth.

2162
01:41:28,120 --> 01:41:32,160
Speaker 2: And we'll be in Charlotte, Charlotte doing a second Yes

2163
01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:35,320
Speaker 2: May second with mom Juice. We're gonna have a really

2164
01:41:35,320 --> 01:41:38,920
Speaker 2: beautiful discussion at their fest, so make sure you check

2165
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Speaker 2: out mom Juice.

2166
01:41:39,640 --> 01:41:41,240
Speaker 1: Than Charlotte, right and Charlotte.

2167
01:41:41,280 --> 01:41:43,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you haven't had any mom Juice or

2168
01:41:43,760 --> 01:41:45,960
Speaker 2: do some mom Juice, it's really delicious wine.

2169
01:41:46,160 --> 01:41:48,519
Speaker 1: How do you? How do you recommend? And we'll see

2170
01:41:48,560 --> 01:41:50,880
Speaker 1: you next time? Bank please?

2171
01:41:51,680 --> 01:41:53,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm live, been so good.

2172
01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:55,160
Speaker 5: Can't you tell I went through it?

2173
01:41:55,280 --> 01:41:57,200
Speaker 1: Drought that's until I find a well may my.

2174
01:41:57,320 --> 01:41:59,720
Speaker 7: Have been known hurt? I used to be brokenstail now

2175
01:41:59,760 --> 01:42:02,920
Speaker 7: dot com the Blues inser like Beyonce Jisell throat shot

2176
01:42:03,040 --> 01:42:05,560
Speaker 7: or pop in his cor We're in her voices patriarch

2177
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:07,400
Speaker 7: and kept it in the box to its flots.

2178
01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:10,240
Speaker 1: Women put the pee in powers, so it's pointless. They

2179
01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:12,719
Speaker 1: want me to be good, so I make bad choices.

2180
01:42:12,880 --> 01:42:15,360
Speaker 1: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

2181
01:42:15,479 --> 01:42:18,439
Speaker 7: It he's in on the cannabis in their backbone, walked

2182
01:42:18,439 --> 01:42:21,280
Speaker 7: in boscels cap and I blew his cat bolls hot dog.

2183
01:42:21,400 --> 01:42:23,840
Speaker 7: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and no

2184
01:42:23,920 --> 01:42:24,880
Speaker 7: waisted straight.

2185
01:42:24,640 --> 01:42:26,720
Speaker 1: To it like a dollar sign. Mother, rent the lover

2186
01:42:26,840 --> 01:42:27,120
Speaker 1: when too.

2187
01:42:27,160 --> 01:42:29,360
Speaker 7: It is like a water suming where you're renting winter

2188
01:42:29,479 --> 01:42:32,280
Speaker 7: reessential will when the summertime. I do what doll ain't

2189
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:33,559
Speaker 7: know when that needs to run it by