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Speaker 1: So we got one final one for you.

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Speaker 2: Today, I effed up by accusing my boyfriend of cheating

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Speaker 2: on me with his dead husband.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I forgot. It was probably like finding well, no, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking like finding like something you know of the

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Oh, like accusing the actually oh.

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Speaker 3: Right, like finding something of the dead husbands and then

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Speaker 1: Right, Okay, I'm I'm serious.

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Speaker 4: To see Ye, the dead husband left a duplicate of

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Speaker 4: its we wei and they use that a lot. We've

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Speaker 4: seen stories like this, and I was saying, it's a throwback.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, where stories there was?

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Speaker 1: That was the story? Oh my god, Well let's find

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Speaker 1: out y'all. Uh So today I fed up.

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Speaker 2: Wife Wife Too says technically my f up was on Friday,

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Speaker 2: but I just found about the sub thoroughway for clear reasons.

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Speaker 2: My boyfriend thirty two male and I thirty one female,

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Speaker 2: have been dating for about eight months now, and he's

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Speaker 2: We currently don't live together, but things have been going

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Speaker 2: alarm bells start ringing immediately. I talked myself through it

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Speaker 1: And wouldn't be back until Monday. Yeah, that's that's suspiciously

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Speaker 3: Days, and I hope he doesn't know your partner.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you'd be out. Yeah, you're like, what are you?

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Speaker 2: I tried not to freak out, but I did a bit,

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Speaker 2: and I drove to his place. He was there, let

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Speaker 1: The better of me. I knew his password by catching

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Speaker 1: it a few times when heed it? Whoa? But not

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Speaker 1: on purpose? What you you memorized that on purpose?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I'm sorry, Like, I mean, unless you have a

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Speaker 1: I forget don't know it. Yeah, they're like.

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Speaker 3: They've actively been like here is my past where I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Most of my friends know my password because it's very easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, me and my girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: We share each other's passwords, and it took me a

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Speaker 3: Like I made mine as easy as possible because I

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Speaker 1: And my relationship with Riley too, but we won't even

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Speaker 2: His text messages seemed normal, besides two conversations, one to

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Speaker 1: Hurst.

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Speaker 5: I thought it was Kristen Kristen. It's not Kristen, Kirsten.

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Speaker 2: No, it's Kristen. He I are I had a curson

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Speaker 2: Kristen also talked about how much their ice cream date

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Speaker 2: I probably should have realized then what was happening. Being

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Speaker 1: I mean, put an ic in the comments. If you

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Speaker 1: Do you like I do not see I do not

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Speaker 3: I think it's weird that the boyfriend is not mentioned

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Speaker 3: However, However, it's also bad that double red flag that

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Speaker 4: It's only a red flag if they're proven wrong. We

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Speaker 2: This is my husband Jay. He ended himself five years ago.

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Speaker 3: He took his life. Whoa.

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Speaker 2: He then explained to me that every year, on Jay's birthday,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, why, that's That's what I'm wondering.

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Speaker 1: I've been together for eight months.

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Speaker 3: But eight months, I think personally, I think after eight

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Speaker 4: Six months, they've already known I worked at a sawmill and.

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Speaker 3: Everything about everything, I'm telling them everything.

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Speaker 2: I had zero idea about Jay or his family. After

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Speaker 2: I love this man so much and I don't want

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Speaker 2: will leave it at that. Oh my goodness, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: The before life or yeah, where did where was? That's

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Speaker 3: I want to say, Oh, he's currently seeking on a therapist.

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Speaker 2: I have to imagine at eight months you should would.

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Speaker 2: I'm very again, I think there I think there are scenarios.

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Speaker 1: If you can't, you know, prove it, nothing, improve it nothing.

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Speaker 2: I do think there are scenarios, but I don't know

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Speaker 4: It is a it is a gamble looking through your

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Speaker 4: She found dudes of another woman or man or something

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Speaker 4: like that, found actual cheating, would she still be validated

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Speaker 2: I would say that ultimately, the the worst offense, the

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Speaker 1: Uh. But I think it's.

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Speaker 3: It's less about is this a good thing to do

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Speaker 3: and more about this is a relationship ender.

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Speaker 2: So ultimately it kind of technically doesn't matter. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: doesn't make sense because it's like, yo, yeah, I might

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Speaker 4: It's only validated to look through so Mu's phone if

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Speaker 4: you find a relation ending pause for example.

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Speaker 3: So either way, so either your partner cheated and your

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Speaker 3: relationship's over, or you look through their phone there was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say, I would say the phrasing I

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Speaker 2: But also if it's the cheating scenario, the relationship is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it kind of like gets canceled out in

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Speaker 2: Really has to be a extreme scenario and you're just

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Speaker 1: I do think there're scenario is where you should do that.

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Speaker 1: Then yeah, exactly like that.

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Speaker 2: But this was like once it reaches like you're getting

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Speaker 3: This was literally like my husband took a or sorry,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then and then like her reaction of like

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Speaker 2: what is this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean? Also something it.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like she was like inherently suspicious, suspicious of any

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Speaker 2: Yeah it was yeah, yeah, so yeah, but let us

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Speaker 2: know what you all think in the comments yellow.

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Speaker 5: This is an episode from Deep Within the Archives.

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Speaker 1: Time for okop relash. I'm reporting my sister in law

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Speaker 1: to the police for child endangerment, but I was not

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Speaker 2: You know, it's never fun when you have to call

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Speaker 2: the police on your own sister in law.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but if you get them to take the child,

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Speaker 6: then you're kind of like having double baby'shitting, right, because

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Speaker 2: Much like the plot line to Inception. I do not

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Speaker 2: understand what you're saying. So this is me twenty five mail,

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Speaker 2: my brother Jack twenty seven male, and his wife twenty

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Speaker 2: five female. It all started when Jack and Jill got

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Speaker 2: perego ooh, they.

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Speaker 1: Went up that hell they created a baby hill yep.

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Speaker 2: The at least was almost over, and my parents invited

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Speaker 2: Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my

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Speaker 2: He told me that he and Jill will be at

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Speaker 1: Stupid. Wait, so that's the.

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Speaker 5: Real real are living with the parents.

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Speaker 1: Jack and Joe are moving in because their lease is

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Speaker 1: about to come up and she's about to have the baby,

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Speaker 1: so they're moving in with the parents.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, it's a little different. And now the

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 5: Get out of here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Bum did you forget? Everything belongs to me?

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Speaker 5: Do you forget?

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Speaker 2: I refused, but my parents got mad. We got into

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Speaker 2: a big fight, and I lost and ended up in

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Speaker 2: the much smaller guest room. Then his wife, Jill, had

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Speaker 2: a problem with my cooking. I eat scrambled eggs with

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Speaker 2: mozzarella and avocado every day for breakfast, so delicious, which

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Speaker 2: I was literally just gonna say that literally sounds like

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Speaker 5: Hit huge me that that sounds awesome.

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Speaker 1: But Jill said she could not stand the smell. That

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Speaker 2: I refused, and then my parents got involved, and then

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Speaker 2: I did have to stop. Yo, this guy can't eat.

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Speaker 2: You can't stay in the room. You thought you could

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Speaker 2: eat and sleep, You ate it.

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Speaker 1: There was problems with other food I liked too, and

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Speaker 5: What can the man eat?

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Speaker 1: Let me eat?

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Speaker 2: I was told that I must be more accommodating because

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Speaker 2: she is pregnant, Like that is my problem at ain,

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Speaker 2: it ain't. Then Jill started to boss me around. We

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Speaker 2: were alone for eight hours while my parents and Jack worked.

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Speaker 2: She obviously thought I was going to be her personal maid.

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Speaker 2: I refused, and she threw a temper tantrum like always,

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Speaker 2: and I again had a big fight with Jack and

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Speaker 2: my parents and I was then told that she has

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Speaker 2: that I'm an a hole for not agreeing to help her.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Like I understand. You know you want to make

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Speaker 6: sure the pregnant woman is safe. Yeah, I'm not stressed.

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Speaker 5: The man's gotta eat, he's gotta eat.

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Speaker 1: No, he has to starve.

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Speaker 6: You're taking every food group away from this poor soul's

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Speaker 6: food pyramid is empty.

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Speaker 2: You know, his lack of food will We'll build a

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Speaker 2: real resilience within him. I'm channeling my dad, I'm channeling

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Speaker 2: my inner Reddit logic.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, yeah, he's intermittent fasting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very very good.

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Speaker 6: Read him to faris the four hour body.

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Speaker 2: So everyone thinks I'm an a hole for not helping her.

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Speaker 2: So I told Jack that he's the one that.

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Speaker 1: Knocked her up. It's your responsibility. I mean true, this

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Speaker 1: is true.

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Speaker 5: He's pitting facts.

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Speaker 2: I stood my ground and in the end, Jill's cousin

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Speaker 2: And that is it.

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Speaker 1: Bro's he is so salty, it's amazing. It's amazing.

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Speaker 6: You can't have that delicious food, you know, you gottawhere else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, I don't like babies, so I just

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Speaker 2: keep him myself now. But that doesn't stop Jill from

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Speaker 2: asking for favors. Please watch the baby while I take

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Speaker 1: I always refuse it.

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Speaker 2: Right, it's been it's been a tense This baby ridiculous actually,

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Speaker 2: and we have new fights now all the time, over

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Speaker 2: and over. It all came to a head last Friday

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Speaker 2: when she asked me to watch my nephew while she

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Speaker 2: goes to the pharmacy for baby formula. I refused. She

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Speaker 2: got mad and we started having a fight. She grabbed

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Speaker 2: that the moment she walks out the door, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: call the police.

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Speaker 1: On her for child endangerment.

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Speaker 5: Yo.

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Speaker 1: It's a bit much. It's a bit much, right.

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Speaker 6: He's like so just like man is so antipe baby,

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Speaker 6: and just like this couple. Dude, yo, yo yo, it's

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Speaker 6: time to move out. FAM's get your own place big time.

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Speaker 2: Like I feel for him, but like this, he's going

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Speaker 2: to get out too far?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, too far? Now.

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Speaker 2: I was serious, and she knew it. That's how bad.

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Speaker 2: It's like, she knows that he's gonna call the police.

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Speaker 2: You're being a asshole over hude.

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Speaker 1: She broke down and screamed what a horrible human being

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Speaker 1: a complete mental breakdown. Good God.

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Speaker 2: When Jack and my parents came home, we had the

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Speaker 2: biggest fight yet. Jack accused me of hating Jill and

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Speaker 2: my nephew, among other things. I told him I refuse

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Speaker 2: to bond with them because they will weaponize my nephew

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Speaker 2: against me.

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Speaker 5: Oh sound fucking crazy.

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Speaker 2: You sound crazy, bro. My parents told me enough is enough,

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Speaker 2: that they can't believe they've raised such a selfish human being,

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Speaker 2: and that I can either help or move out. Yeah yeah, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 2: I am thinking the second option and quick edit. I

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Speaker 2: work from home and pay for fifty percent of all

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Speaker 2: household expenses, including the mortgage. Jack and Jill do not

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Speaker 2: contribute to any expenses. All right, well it's very simple.

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Speaker 2: Take that money that you're contributing and get yourself an apartment.

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Speaker 1: Like what are we doing here?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What are we doing?

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Speaker 5: Yes? For sure?

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Speaker 6: The a hole right point? Yes, okay, eight thousand percent? Op,

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Speaker 6: what do you do? What are the comments on this one?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I was curious, So al tell you guys, what do

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Speaker 6: you think it's like?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: For sure, we got to see what you guys say

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Speaker 2: on this. So, based on Op's response, Jilda doesn't want

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Speaker 2: a parent her all day. They pay nothing towards the

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Speaker 2: house and treat Op a crap in your shoes.

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Speaker 1: Op.

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Speaker 2: I might maybe sometimes watch the kid while the parent

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Speaker 2: GRIBs a shower. I would not, however, be free in

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Speaker 2: house babysitting under circumstances barring with genuine emergency the way

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Speaker 2: they seem to treat you, though, I can't say I

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Speaker 2: blame you for refusing outright. As long as this has

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Speaker 2: been made clear to everyone, OP is not the A hole.

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Speaker 1: I think. I think I think Op is being.

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Speaker 6: I think dud read it always sides with Poster, but

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Speaker 6: I think I think Op he's probably been a little

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Speaker 6: bit of an A hole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If you think this family story is crazy, check out

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Speaker 2: this one where Opie's husband lost her two hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of no