1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: This is from Arianna and Camden. Ariana Wright. 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:05,520 Speaker 2: I walked up on my husband and the woman across 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 2: the hall from us gossiping about a lady that just 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:08,560 Speaker 2: moved in. 5 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: He hasn't even talked to me about the lady. 6 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: Should I go meet her for myself and see why 7 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 2: my husband is so concerned about her? 8 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 9 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, next question, Shirley, Yeah, going. 10 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: Over there and meet her? What? 11 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 2: What? 12 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 3: This don't make no sense? 13 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 4: And you walk up on your husband gossiping about a 14 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 4: woman who just moved in with the woman across the hall. 15 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 4: You ain't even met the woman across the hall? Why 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 4: is he he ain't even talked to you about Okay, 17 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 4: go meet it in? 18 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: Oh okay, but you know the issue is her husband 19 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: gossiping with this woman. 20 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: Before. 21 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,880 Speaker 4: See what she trying to make it is like, why 22 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 4: is he so concerned about the woman that moved in? 23 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 3: Should I just go meet her? Okay, go meet her? 24 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: I think? See that don't make no sense. 25 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 4: What you can't do is write us and then try 26 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 4: to lie to us about your real reason. 27 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 1: Right right? 28 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 4: Your husband talking with the woman across the hall. Have 29 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 4: you met her yet? 30 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: And why they ain't shopping it up? 31 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 3: Right? 32 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 4: And I ain't saying nothing to you about the woman 33 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 4: down the hall yet go down there and meet the 34 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 4: woman down the hall, Yes, because they in the little 35 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 4: messy apartment complex, so you. 36 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: Know, yeah? 37 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 3: All right? 38 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: Moving on to Porter in Gainesville, Porter writes, I met 39 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 2: the woman of my dreams, and we're going on our 40 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: first day. I suggested pizza and live music. She said, 41 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 2: she'll pick the restaurant. What if I can't afford the 42 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: restaurant she chooses? Should I be honest about my finances 43 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 2: up front? 44 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 3: I figure out how to get this pizza man in 45 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 3: the situation. 46 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 4: All, when y'all get in the car to go to 47 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 4: the restaurant and her choice, you put in your GP 48 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 4: the piece of place you wanted to go to do 49 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 4: it like that. Here's the problem we got. You claim 50 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 4: that you have met the woman of your dream First 51 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 4: of all, slow down, dog, You know how they times 52 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 4: I said that. He said, let's just bag that. Slow 53 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 4: down a little bit. We done probably about I'm probably 54 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,079 Speaker 4: about thirty. 55 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 3: Situation easy, easy. 56 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: Temples, thirty. 57 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 4: Lord, So first of all, back up a little bit. Secondly, 58 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 4: you got to quit meeting people you can't afford, though, 59 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 4: I mean, well you can level up. But you got 60 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 4: to get up to where you live it cause see 61 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 4: you can say you up, but we can't eat over. 62 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:13,680 Speaker 2: There though, because that's his thing, that's his question. Should 63 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 2: I be honest about my finances up front? That's really 64 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 2: what he wants to know. 65 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 3: Bru. Listen to me. Man, If you tell the woman 66 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 3: of your dreams that. 67 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 4: You can't feed her, eh, you ain't. 68 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, you ain't finna be the man or her dread. 69 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 3: She might be the woman of. 70 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 4: Your dream You know what, Here's what I heard somebody 71 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: say online it one day. He said he said women 72 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 4: are gold diggers. You know what this old dude said. 73 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 4: He said, no, man, women ain't gold diggers. He said, 74 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 4: they just expensive. All women are expensive. I like him, 75 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 4: You just got to find the one you can afford. 76 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: Think see you came because yeah. 77 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: Do you agree, Junior? 78 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 4: Me and Neil Long and again right now to this day, 79 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 4: right to this day, is not expensive? 80 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 2: Who what? 81 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: I didn't see her in Macy's. I know that. 82 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: Shoppy been looking. 83 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 3: I ain't. I ain't seen her in there. 84 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 1: Doesn't mean but steevee, you used to be porter. 85 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 2: In Gainesville, so I thought, you know, I used to 86 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 2: be what Porter, the guy who wrote the letter Porter, 87 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 2: the yeah, the celo he wants. 88 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 4: I couldn't give bag of popcorn at one point, Yeah, 89 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 4: I couldn't have got you. 90 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: No for Yeah, So did you tell your date on? 91 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: How did you hand Yeah? How did you handle it? 92 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 2: No? 93 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 3: I just went where I could afford. 94 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: So you planned the date? 95 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, we got in my car, I just started driving. 96 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 4: I knew I was going to Dennis. 97 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 3: I don't know what saying, but I knew it. 98 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 4: I knew exactly what it was. I knew, I knew, 99 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 4: I knew what the dollar ninety nine was gonna do 100 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 4: for me. Well, see, this is how you do it. 101 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 4: First of all, you're planning the date. Yah, you're playing 102 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 4: the date. Then you call and say, hey, I got 103 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 4: car trouble. As soon as I get it fixed, I'm coming. 104 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 4: Then you wait till all the good restaurants is closed. 105 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 4: Last survey at ten thirty eleven o'clock. Now you're down 106 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 4: the waffle house. I hoped, Dennis, and that is now. 107 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: I still want to take you out. 108 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 4: My car broke down, So you let you you out there, 109 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 4: and you're sitting there, You're sitting in your house intil 110 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 4: all restaurants stop serving, and then afterday you just down 111 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 4: to Ihop Dennis and Wafflehau. But I'm still coming to 112 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 4: get you, and then she gonna appreciate the effort, and 113 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 4: then you that's how you start. 114 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, well, I hope you learned something 115 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 2: from that. Moving on to Resa and de Soto, Resa writes, 116 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,800 Speaker 2: my sister's husband died and I told my family that 117 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,279 Speaker 2: I'm not going to the funeral. He and I were 118 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: married for six years, and he divorced me for my sister. 119 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 2: My family said I should let go and be there 120 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 2: for my sister. What do you think I should do? 121 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: Steve? 122 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: He dad here. Nobody know, man, anybody going there? You 123 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 3: know what, y'all we gotta start being real. Everybody. 124 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 4: You know that die does not move you. Let's just 125 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 4: come to terms with that. Every death ain't on stdent. 126 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 4: You've all got that call, man, you Steve, you're sitting 127 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 4: down here, man, Uncle Remus died. Yeah right back, man, 128 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 4: y'all still having the barbecue Friday. 129 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 1: You and he weren't that tight. You as just the opposite. 130 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 4: Everybody died. He even gotta hit you. Just not required 131 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 4: my morning because I ain't got it right. 132 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: Okay, that's all. Yeah, that's it. You're listening. Steve Harvey 133 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 1: Morning Show