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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Kathy and

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Speaker 1: I are back and we're so excited to be here.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, get Kat, how are you doing today, Susan?

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Speaker 1: I'm great? Thanks?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So, I don't know if you haven't listened out

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Speaker 2: there to our episodes. We have had so much fun

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Speaker 2: answering your questions. You really need to check them out.

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Speaker 2: We've been having some great questions and.

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Speaker 1: They missed a good one day.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, the question stupid game. That's stupid game

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Speaker 2: for those of you. If you're missing Susan playing moral quandary,

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Speaker 2: you have no idea what you're missing. So anyway, we

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Speaker 2: love giving advice. Keep those questions coming.

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Speaker 1: All right, Kathy, I know you're still up there at

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Speaker 1: your sister's house. Are you loving life? Have you played

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Speaker 1: any golf?

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Speaker 2: I played golf before I left. Haven't played golf here

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Speaker 2: because I didn't bring my clubs. But I've been helping

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Speaker 2: my sister be doing a lot of gardening because you know,

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Speaker 2: my home, I only have container gardenings, but here she

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Speaker 2: has a beautiful, uh garden. We painted this.

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Speaker 1: I receive any pictures of this garden yet?

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm sitting here thinking, what

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Speaker 2: is the first thing I need to do, Susan, pictures

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Speaker 2: of the garden. Okay, I'll get right now.

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Speaker 1: I like digging in the dirt.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you like getting the dirt, Susan. You like

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Speaker 2: getting the dirt, digging it.

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Speaker 1: That's why I have an ice back on my back.

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Speaker 1: Right now?

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Speaker 2: Your back? What happened?

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Speaker 1: Well? Digging in the garden. I can't end over anymore.

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Speaker 1: I'm anybody out there dealing with this. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: can't even tie my shoes without sitting down. This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I pulled something. I went to a chiropractor. I'm going

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Speaker 1: back again. I got icel on it. I can't sit

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Speaker 1: for a long time, Like, what did I do? You

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Speaker 1: and I are about to go to California.

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Speaker 2: Listen, as we get older, everybody out there, i'm sure

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Speaker 2: feels when you get to be a certain aid your legs.

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Speaker 2: You don't pop out of bed. You and I've talked

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Speaker 2: about this, and I've talked about it on my Instagram.

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Speaker 2: You gotta just get up and move.

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Speaker 1: It's not getting out of bed. Cat, I was bent

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Speaker 1: over doing the things I like to do. The guard.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought you were talking about something else.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Please, Okay, we're going to move along

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Speaker 1: and we're going to answer more of our fan questions.

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Speaker 1: Don't you love doing this? Guy?

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. I really feel like

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Speaker 2: we help some people, don't you. I think we give

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Speaker 2: some How.

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Speaker 1: About the one we had the other day though, with

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Speaker 1: a woman, poor woman, perfect relationship, They love to cook

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Speaker 1: and eat, and then she had a brain surgery out

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Speaker 1: of nowhere. She can't swallow. I felt so big.

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Speaker 2: I think her name was Maggie. Maggie. Let us know

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Speaker 2: how you're feeling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're still thinking about you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are. All right. Well, if you have a question,

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Speaker 2: please send them in. Even if you don't have a question,

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Speaker 2: send in a comment. All you have to do is

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Speaker 2: go to Bachelor Nation slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: And I repeat Bachelornation dot com slash gold That's where

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Speaker 1: you find us. All right, then, now, before we get

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Speaker 1: into those questions, let's get started with Kathy. All right.

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Speaker 2: Here, it is, how do you kindly tell a friend

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Speaker 2: or a boyfriend an outfit, makeup or hairstyle is unflattering

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Speaker 2: on them? Depends on who it is.

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Speaker 1: I supposed to guess what you'd say this isn't it right?

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Speaker 2: This is just your opinion, Susan. And so a friend

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Speaker 2: or a boyfriend, First of all, those are two different people.

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Speaker 2: In my book. If it's me, you're going to say,

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Speaker 2: get that ugly outfit off, and you had I.

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Speaker 1: Would say, cat, never wear that again.

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Speaker 2: And friend to me.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, if you're a real friend, you

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Speaker 1: if you really don't think something flatter somebody should be honest.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you wouldn't be ignorant about it.

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Speaker 2: So I think I think a friend is very different.

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Speaker 2: I think a friend you can say exactly that, but

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Speaker 2: I think with a boyfriend you gotta be a little

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Speaker 1: I think I agree with the careful. But do you

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Speaker 2: Okay, now now we're now Kathy's getting honest. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to say, boyfriend, Sam, Joe, whatever your name is, you're

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Speaker 2: not seriously think you're leaving the house? Not shirt? Do

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Speaker 2: you go chack?

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Speaker 1: You're not going anywhere in that? Oh boy, gosh, No, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I think most people would, or the ones that really

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Speaker 1: don't like you won't because they want you to look bath.

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Speaker 2: Oh come on, really, by the way, Susan. Susan, by

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Speaker 2: the way, take off that shirt. It's ugly on you.

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Speaker 1: It is not as cute.

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Speaker 2: Just just kidding, just kidding.

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Speaker 1: All right, then, Beth, we're going to start with our question. Okay,

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Speaker 1: go hi, Kathy and Susan. I really need your help.

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Speaker 1: I think my boyfriend is in love with our best friend.

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Speaker 1: I've been with my current boyfriend for six years, and

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Speaker 1: in the past year, it feels like all we do

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Speaker 1: running to our best friend for comfort and support. We

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Speaker 1: our own relationship with them. However, it feels like they've

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Speaker 1: been phasing me out for a while. It's really hard

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Speaker 1: to explain, but I just get the sense that they enjoy,

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Speaker 1: oh boy, each other's time way more than either of

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Speaker 1: them enjoy their time with me anymore. I'm so afraid

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend's plus one, he brings our best friend instead.

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Speaker 1: No one in our friend group has mentioned anything to me,

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Speaker 1: but I can just constantly feel eyes on me. What

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Speaker 2: So to me, there's so much being said that's not

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Speaker 2: because the indications are after six years, they're not married,

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Speaker 2: they're not haven't moved in together, they haven't declared you

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Speaker 1: They just hanging on till scared.

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Speaker 2: Yep, That's what I'm feeling. That's what my intuition is

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Speaker 2: telling me. You don't you know? Sometimes, Beth, the proof

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Speaker 2: a thing for our best friend. The proof is what

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Speaker 2: trust him and maybe with good cause of them, yeah,

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Speaker 2: either on of them, but maybe with good cause. And

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Speaker 2: I think you need to look at yourself and see

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Speaker 2: if this relationship has maybe run its course.

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Speaker 1: What do you think, Susan, I kind of feel like

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Speaker 1: something's going on. I feel she's afraid to ask questions

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Speaker 1: as far as the group hasn't mentioned anything, but she

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Speaker 2: And I say, it's not our job. It's not my job, Beth,

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Speaker 2: though I may feel sorry for you, I may feel

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Speaker 2: like it's horrible what they're doing if they're actually doing it.

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Speaker 2: But sometimes you just have to read the room.

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Speaker 1: You have to see when you go with your intuition.

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Speaker 1: That's usually my sign, and I fight it. I'm fighting it,

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Speaker 1: as you know, with something that I'm going to do

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Speaker 1: so I got to dig in deeper.

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Speaker 2: But you know what feel it is a yucky feeling.

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Speaker 2: But you and I are older and we have the

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Speaker 2: confidence to know that we can survive this. This girl, bauth,

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you're really afraid to let go of something. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you know what, let go of something good and

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Speaker 2: new can't come into your life if you're holding on

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Speaker 1: Where did you get that? Where do you get that?

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Speaker 2: I think, I say, I think, I think I learned

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Speaker 2: it playing moral quandary with Susan. Whatever, go on, let's

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Speaker 2: good luck to you about though, and let us know.

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Speaker 1: How sorry, but definitely look into this and and be

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Speaker 1: you believe yourself. Your intuition is usually.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it truly is.

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Speaker 2: Anonymous writes, Hi, Kathy and Susan. I have a twelve

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Speaker 2: everything my mom said because she was always so anxious

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Speaker 2: What do you think you know?

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Speaker 1: I used to feel a certain way as well. But

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Speaker 1: they don't come with a book of rules and how

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Speaker 1: to do this. Be there for them. Suggest You can

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Speaker 1: only guide them the best that you know how. You

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Speaker 1: can't be a helicopter mom. It's just you can't. They

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Speaker 1: There's so many times that I just wanted when they

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Speaker 1: about this a couple episodes ago, where they became friends

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Speaker 1: and left you out, Remember, Kathy, Yes, I do, And

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Speaker 1: you feel so bad for your daughter. You want to,

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Speaker 1: but you can't fix the world. You prepare them for

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Speaker 2: But you know what I'm hearing here, I think anonymous.

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Speaker 2: She says she tuned out everything her mother said. This

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Speaker 2: woman is dealing in Uh you know what do I say? Extremes?

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Speaker 2: She says, I don't want to make everything sound scary,

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Speaker 2: and I don't want to smother her. Anonymous. There's a

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Speaker 2: whole lot of land, a whole lot of real estate

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Speaker 2: between those two options. And I think because you tuned

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Speaker 2: out everything your mom said, you're worried your daughter's going

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know what the best way is listen.

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Speaker 2: This is something I didn't do as well as I

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Speaker 2: should have raised my kids. But listening, have opportunities for

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Speaker 2: What's something I admired you admire about me? I admire

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Speaker 2: All right, cheers to that. Wait, who do you think

437
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Speaker 2: would make an amazing Golden Bachelor? I don't know either.

438
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Speaker 1: Personally, I don't know. I know enough single Bachelor's Bradley.

439
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: Oh he's not Golden. Sorry, sorry, Brad, he might be taken.

440
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Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't Okay, what.

441
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 2: Wait? What's something you admire about me?

442
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 1: Goad?

443
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 2: I told you? I told you about how you make

444
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 2: everyone feel like the party? Yes, it was, it was.

445
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Speaker 2: What's one thing Bachelor Nation doesn't know about me that

446
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 2: they should know? Ooh boy? Do you want to?

447
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: I know that, Yeah, you have a heart at gold

448
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 1: No about you than it is because they think your delivery?

449
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 2: Well can I just say thank you? But she means well,

450
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 2: I am a nice person. I hate that some people.

451
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Speaker 1: Think of me to say it. I say that, Kat, Okay,

452
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,959
Speaker 1: what to defend yourself? I'm defending you. You're loved, Kathy.

453
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: Don't don't ever think differently?

454
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Speaker 2: All right? What is I appreciate that? Dear friend? Uh?

455
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 2: What about you? What's something about you they should know?

456
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Speaker 1: Look? Huh, maybe they should know? How you know that?

457
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:34,919
Speaker 1: I think they know I have big heart. But the

458
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: empathy and the I'm.

459
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 2: Going to tell you what I appear.

460
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 1: That's what it is. I'm not.

461
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 2: You are she is, and so am I. You and

462
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 2: I that's one thing we share in common. But you

463
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 2: know what else I'm going to tell the world that

464
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: they don't know about you, Susan. Tell me if I'm wrong,

465
00:24:53,840 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 2: I'm not buy cars while driving. No, you are very

466
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 2: Susan does have a heart of gold. We do share

467
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 2: that in common. But one thing I don't think people

468
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:13,199
Speaker 2: know about you is you are very very strong willed.

469
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Speaker 2: Am I right?

470
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Speaker 1: You don't think the world does that?

471
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: No, I don't think they do. She is very strong willed,

472
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,640
Speaker 2: and it's sometimes it's your way the highway. Am I right?

473
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 2: There you go? But I still love you.

474
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: I'll die trying.

475
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 2: All right?

476
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: Okay, when did you know? Oh? When did you know?

477
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: I was your best friend?

478
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,639
Speaker 2: You know what I'm going to tell you, the honest

479
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: to God's truth, My best friends, the people that I

480
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: love in my life. Yes, I don't remember. In your case,

481
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 2: I mean I don't, I don't.

482
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Speaker 1: We knew we were going to be friends the night

483
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Speaker 1: at the fireplace for one of the man's.

484
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 2: Yes, But when did I know I could trust you

485
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 2: and love you? Honestly? I can't remember. It just evolved.

486
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: What about you?

487
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, same thing. It worked. Although I trusted you immediately,

488
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: I'm a trusting.

489
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,720
Speaker 2: Do you think people do you think I'm trustworthy. Yes,

490
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: that was your people know about me. I'm a trap door.

491
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 1: I am a tru what's your first impression of me?

492
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: Honestly, my first impression was you just seemed like if

493
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 2: I remember correctly, I just thought, oh my gosh, she

494
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 2: looks like so much fun. I think that's what I thought.

495
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: So when I told you I surprised the girls in

496
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Speaker 1: New York class the other night, and it was Peggy.

497
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 1: Which one's more outspoken, Peggy or Genie? Oh I get

498
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: them confused with the great hair Peggy.

499
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 2: Well they're both unspoken.

500
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 1: I was Peggy. And was she over on the fireplace

501
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: by April or is that Jeanie?

502
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 2: That was.

503
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: Okay, So it wasn't Genie. Peggy the one about the lake,

504
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 1: not the pond, She says to me. Talk about first impression.

505
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: I'll never forget you walk into that mansion when she

506
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: came in, she goes. You came up to me, you

507
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 1: point at your finger in my face, and I was

508
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 1: looking at her.

509
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 2: Like, oh God, what did I do?

510
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: And she goes, you go, she goes. I was frightened

511
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: the way you came at me.

512
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 2: You have fabulous hair, spoken like a true hairdresser. So

513
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: she goes, you scared me.

514
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: I thought you were going to holler at me.

515
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 2: That's funny because that's not that is nothing you would

516
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,919
Speaker 2: holler about that. You really have fabulous hair. What was

517
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 2: your what was your first impression to me?

518
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: Funny? Really funny? Made me laugh?

519
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 2: I got you, Yeah, I will say, guy, I think

520
00:27:46,600 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 2: maybe you know what that is.

521
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: I think you're very quick with it. Yeah, yeah, I

522
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: think that I'm gonna spend time with this one gonna

523
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:54,640
Speaker 1: make me laugh?

524
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 2: I do. I think that's what it was. You and

525
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 2: I everyone people have a gift of laughing? Or can

526
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 2: I tell you Susan? People in Canada have asked me

527
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 2: repeatedly are you Are you and Susan really good friends?

528
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: And I say, yes, it's not, it's not.

529
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 1: Do you know how many messages I get? How come

530
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: you're not with Kathy? How come Kathy's not a but around?

531
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 2: I go?

532
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: She does live in Texas?

533
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 2: To get together stay tubed people on our Instagram. You're

534
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 2: going to see a whole lot.

535
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: You'll see a couple movies. Okay, So I think that

536
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 1: does again. Damn, the time goes.

537
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: Fits always too fast.

538
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: I hope you guys are enjoying our bits.

539
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: We have had so much fun. We love you, guys,

540
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,239
Speaker 2: We love your questions. Be sure to submit your I mean,

541
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 2: I know I sound like a broken record. My cats,

542
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: my kids, my kids tell me mom. My kids always

543
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 2: say Mom, You've said it, You said it, well, let

544
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 2: me say it again for all of you. Please submit

545
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: your questions to us at Bachelor nation dot com slash

546
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 2: goal an hour. We want to hear from you, We

547
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: want to answer your questions. We want to laugh with

548
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 2: you and cry with you. So please send in your

549
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 2: questions and comments.

550
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 1: Keep them coming because we love it, and listen to

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00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour's Golden Hour on the iHeartRadio app or

552
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: wherever you listen to your podcast. Until next time

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Speaker 2: Take care and see you soon.