WEBVTT - For All Intensive Purposes

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<v Speaker 1>Spreading In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I

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<v Speaker 1>Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and

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<v Speaker 1>it is a it's an early morning over here. For

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<v Speaker 1>some of us, it's early, some of us it's very early.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very early for me. It's currently eight thirty seven.

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<v Speaker 1>And we moved the podcast earlier because I'm like going

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<v Speaker 1>out of town and everyone you know, stepped up for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're probably they've probably been await for a lot

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<v Speaker 1>longer than I have, but I appreciate it. Nonetheless, I

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<v Speaker 1>already had a nap. I already had a nap today.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where I'm at. That is so crazy, where I

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<v Speaker 1>really screwed myself. So Saturday, Hayley does like this gingerbread

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<v Speaker 1>party every year, and so we had the party. I

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<v Speaker 1>some might say blacked out. I blacked out and not

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<v Speaker 1>so drunk, but in like the best way, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>were not an annoying drunk. You were like hilarious drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy to hear that, because I don't remember

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<v Speaker 1>so many things. I I got, like, hey, I'm after

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<v Speaker 1>you tell your story, I'm gonna remind you of something

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<v Speaker 1>that you did that it was very bad. No yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>can continue one. I'll tell a little bit later. That's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give me anxiety. Okay. So when Haley and I

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<v Speaker 1>were getting ready for this party, I was like, she

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<v Speaker 1>has always wanted to be the Grinch, Like she is

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<v Speaker 1>a Grinch stand. She has been like practicing his voice everything.

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<v Speaker 1>She loves the Grinch. And so I was like, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't we get costumes and like dressed up and it'll

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<v Speaker 1>be like funny, we'll just surprise everybody. So she was like, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds fun. So I just ordered these uh costumes

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<v Speaker 1>from Amazon, and I was gonna be Martha May and

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<v Speaker 1>she's gonna be the Grunch. But we get the costume

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<v Speaker 1>and it has like a mask. But she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, like if I'm going to really do this,

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<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to do it, I think I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go all out. And I was like, what does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? And she was like, I think I want

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<v Speaker 1>to do like like prosthetic makeup and like get it

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<v Speaker 1>professionally done. So I'm like, Okay, that feels like an

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<v Speaker 1>unnecessary expense, but whatever you want, if you can turn

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<v Speaker 1>the person. I just don't yeah to this the season,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to have to be responsible finding

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<v Speaker 1>an FX makeup artist. So she find someone and he

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<v Speaker 1>comes over and like we're starting the makeup, and I

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<v Speaker 1>go first, well, I hadn't eaten all day. I had

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<v Speaker 1>had like a protein bar in the morning, and then

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<v Speaker 1>once he started because like the prosthetic nose covered my lip,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I was like, you know, I didn't eat

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<v Speaker 1>past the time I got my makeup done, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I drink so much on an empty stomach and it

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<v Speaker 1>just went downhill. And I kept saying things to Haley yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, I say something about the party, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, we literally had a full conversation about

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<v Speaker 1>this the night before. And in my mind, like I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't gotten drunk to a point where I don't remember

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<v Speaker 1>things like that in a long time. And I was

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<v Speaker 1>so anxious. I'm like, this is why people don't drink,

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<v Speaker 1>this is why you stopped drinking. Yeah, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>for all purposes, all intent is all intensive purposes, all

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<v Speaker 1>intent and purposes. Oh that makes sense, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is all intensive purposes? So for all the intensive purposes?

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<v Speaker 1>You were hilarious and it was like amazing, like you

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<v Speaker 1>were just having like the best time but I could

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<v Speaker 1>tell you were drunk, like maybe forty five minutes into

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<v Speaker 1>the party. You know, you told Robbie about a d

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<v Speaker 1>M that you'd sent me the night before, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was not. I remember that I was not drunk. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, is she drunk or isn't? Like, oh, why

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<v Speaker 1>would that because he said to me about the sweatshirt

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<v Speaker 1>or no, you had said to Hi about the sweatshirts

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<v Speaker 1>and he made a comment about us being dressed up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, joking about the sweatshirt. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you are one committed man. No, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>all she said. She was, you don't need a ring.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a committed man already. And I was like, that guy,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's not gonna stop. No, I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I didn't. I didn't. I felt very justified this

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<v Speaker 1>weekend and finally getting him in those matching um she's

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<v Speaker 1>my sweet potato. Yes, I am sweatshirts because I had

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<v Speaker 1>them for about two years now. I was sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>my closet and our boss Biada had an ugly sweater

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<v Speaker 1>party Friday night and I was like, you know, what

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<v Speaker 1>tis the season? And he was like, oh, so he

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<v Speaker 1>wore because it was an ugly sweater. It was an

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<v Speaker 1>ugly sweater, but a last I got a minute and

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<v Speaker 1>it felt very good, and everybody thought they were really,

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. I messaged Tanya and I go, it was

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<v Speaker 1>a photo of Robbie wearing this letter, and I go,

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<v Speaker 1>you do not need a ring. This man is committed,

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<v Speaker 1>and I I did, I stand by it. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm happy to hear that's that's what you really thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Made me sound drunk, Betty who that was amazing. Then

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the night, so Becca comes over

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like pushing she's pushing p she's pushing tequila on,

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<v Speaker 1>pushing tea, pushing tequila everybody, like everybody not just like

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<v Speaker 1>a shot, like a like a four inch shot of

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<v Speaker 1>chill tequila. But you couldn't take her seriously because of

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<v Speaker 1>that prosthetic nos. So like I could not have a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with Becca without like crying, laughing. So she's coming

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<v Speaker 1>over and like pushing this tequila on me and like

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<v Speaker 1>making everybody chant my name so that I would do

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<v Speaker 1>the tequila shot, and so like it's I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, it's probably we start doing running charades.

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<v Speaker 1>Becca is not on my team, and you all know

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<v Speaker 1>how competitive Becca is. So we had three teams and

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<v Speaker 1>our team was like winning. We were like in the

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<v Speaker 1>winning and then there was one last game and I

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<v Speaker 1>think we could have tied it up or something. And

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<v Speaker 1>I look over at the other team and Becca and

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<v Speaker 1>Marla had shared one of the whole running sharades thing

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<v Speaker 1>is like it's the honor code, Like it's the honor system,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. They you have to act

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<v Speaker 1>out the sharades and and just hope that your team

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<v Speaker 1>is like you have to hope that all the other

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<v Speaker 1>teams are just law abiding citizens and they're gonna, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>be true, tried and true. And Becca and Marla, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who it was, but one of you said

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<v Speaker 1>the answer like the movie to the other person, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you cheatas could have been me. It

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the two of you, and I called

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<v Speaker 1>you guys out. I was like, you cheatas. Yeah. That

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have like a whole lot of like clear

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<v Speaker 1>memories of that, except for being like looking around and

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I was in that mean Girl scene

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<v Speaker 1>where like everyone turns into like a zoo, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's actually animals. Like it was just chaos around me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I remember. And then yeah, my prosthetics started

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<v Speaker 1>lifting and it was like crumble. It was just like

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<v Speaker 1>things were. The trajectory was downhill and downhill only. But

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<v Speaker 1>the best part is like the invitation did it say

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<v Speaker 1>like to where it didn't even say to wear festive stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>did it. No, it said it said get like confestive

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to just be you know, basically like

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to dress up, dressed up, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be cozy cozy. But we didn't tell a

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<v Speaker 1>single person. I think Marla and Taylor Branks to only

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<v Speaker 1>people who knew about us dressing up. I was shocked

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<v Speaker 1>when we walked in like we were in like normal

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<v Speaker 1>street clothes jeans and T shirts and a jacket and

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<v Speaker 1>like walk into the grine in Martha May. That was

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<v Speaker 1>just like really taken aback, Like you guys really went

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<v Speaker 1>all out for this one, and it was hilarious. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you so much. I Haley comes over to me like

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<v Speaker 1>as we're finishing getting ready and the party's about to

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<v Speaker 1>start more in the bathroom and she's looking at me

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<v Speaker 1>and she has like her whole grinch face on and

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<v Speaker 1>her teeth are brown. He like painted her teeth brown

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, baby, I just want you to know

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<v Speaker 1>that I've always like connected to the Grinch and I've

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to find my Martha May. And I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>staring at her, like, are you we really having this

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<v Speaker 1>serious conversation right now with your brown teeth? And she

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<v Speaker 1>like gets emotional when she's like I think I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get emotional. I was like okay. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about it later after the party. We can

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<v Speaker 1>rehash this conversation. But no, like she was literally I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not kidding one to say it was a dream come

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<v Speaker 1>true for her. It was a literal drink come true.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was really cute, it was really fun and um.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then yesterday, you know, after a night like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you would stay in bed and eat, eat, and just

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<v Speaker 1>like chill all day. No. I woke up, started cleaning,

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<v Speaker 1>putting my house back together, and then we went and

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<v Speaker 1>shopped because so Haley and I are going to the

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<v Speaker 1>White House today. We got invited to go because we're um,

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<v Speaker 1>they're signing the Respect All Marriages Act. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>a really big deal. And I've never even been to Washington,

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<v Speaker 1>d C. So I'm super excited. But that's how we

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<v Speaker 1>did the podcast early because it was a very last

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<v Speaker 1>minute thing. But we like, we shopped all day to

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<v Speaker 1>find um outfit. So imagine my hangover yesterday, waking up,

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<v Speaker 1>cleaning and then shopping all day. Well, what did you find?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a little it's like a it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a little short suit like a tweeted Wolves probably would

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<v Speaker 1>not be able to hang around me. Um, like a

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<v Speaker 1>little short suit with it's cute. It's very preppy, very

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<v Speaker 1>white housey. I feel I think I think it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be I think I'm gonna freeze. I'll say that. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I haven't. I haven't fully slept. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Phoebe it rained last night in l A and Phoebe

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<v Speaker 1>freaks out with the rain. So I'm in survival mode

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<v Speaker 1>as far as just needing my immune system to just

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<v Speaker 1>be strong. Yeah, you're not like thriving, you're surviving. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think I'm thriving too. I'm thriving and surviving.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you're cool. Yeah, I'm having a great time. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm also just coasting on fumes like I did last

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<v Speaker 1>week when I ran out of gas. Yeah that also, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, that's that's what's going on in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I kept saying, I Hayley said, I kept going. So

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday I go, do you think, um, Betty who had

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<v Speaker 1>a good time? Because Betty Who came to the party?

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<v Speaker 1>Mind you all, I am like a massive Betty Who fan,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I love her music. I Brittany and I have

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<v Speaker 1>videos of us dancing to her song from like years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's really cool like that she's a friend

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<v Speaker 1>now and she came to the party, but she was

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<v Speaker 1>by herself and didn't really know anyone other than me

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<v Speaker 1>and Haley, so she didn't Yeah, I mean I think

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<v Speaker 1>she had met people, but like, really she just knew

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<v Speaker 1>me and Haley. I didn't know that. I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was there with a friend. No, But that's how I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so like comfortable and cool and nice and like

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<v Speaker 1>she would make you think that, you know. But so yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>as we're cleaning up, I'm like, do you think Betty

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<v Speaker 1>Who had fun? Like, I hope she had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she didn't really know anyone, And Haley was like,

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<v Speaker 1>heybe you asked this three times last night, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we had a full conversation about that. She had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. I think she had a great time, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, I just I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to make sure. You know, there is

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<v Speaker 1>something about that though. When you have like a party,

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<v Speaker 1>you have people over, you want everybody to have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, and so like your focus is like and

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<v Speaker 1>like sometimes like yeah, obviously you have like your staples

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<v Speaker 1>and your friends that are just friends with each other,

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<v Speaker 1>so like they're easy. But then you always, like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that you always invite like a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>people that don't really know everybody, and so you want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that they feel comfortable, so you like

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<v Speaker 1>overcompensate and spend so much time with them and like

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<v Speaker 1>showing them around. Yeah, yes, that's exactly what happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>but then I birthday party because I felt like we

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<v Speaker 1>just invited like her dog, like a dog's birthday party.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how she felt. You're, yeah, you're making sure all

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs are like not being left out, the dog's owners,

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<v Speaker 1>not the dogs. Okay, a lot of people that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know each other, do you know. I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a hodgepodge. And so I was like playing Martha May, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my nice way to bring it back you thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>So then Friday night I went into a party and

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<v Speaker 1>guess who I sat next to? Who do you sit

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<v Speaker 1>next to at a party? Well, I'm going to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>but first we're gonna take a break. Al Right, we

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<v Speaker 1>are back. Um okay. So Friday night before the Saturday party,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to another party and it was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>sit down dinner. It was so beautiful and um we

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<v Speaker 1>were sitting there and so our friend Audrey was like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are going to be sitting next to Addie And

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I think she's like I think her

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<v Speaker 1>newest role she's in Grays Anatomy. And I was like what.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, who do you know? I'm like a

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<v Speaker 1>huge Grayzy Natomy band. And She's like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about anybody. So Addie gets there's at like Attle

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<v Speaker 1>of Cane and she is Jewels on Gray's Anatomy, which

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<v Speaker 1>she's like the one I feel like she's getting like

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of like Izzy Meredith hybrid hybrid role. Where

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<v Speaker 1>did you become friends with her? Yeah? We chatted all night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I did, of course. So I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we've had like so many of the cast on like

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<v Speaker 1>we'd love to have you one. Um. I also, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even think I talked about this on the podcast. Um,

0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:29.960
<v Speaker 1>Haley and I were out to eat it like our

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<v Speaker 1>favorite place, and Harry Shum was there, and so we

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<v Speaker 1>went up and said hello to him. Did I talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this? I know, but you told me. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you told me on the podcast or not.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm basically like the whole like new generation of Gray's.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm spotting around town. Wow, so she's gonna come on right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll reach out and get her on. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>look I just lined up in twenty three. Yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 1>just shaping up. I mean, what can't we do in Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't. We should pitch ourselves, like, uh, like our podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>like we will be having Patrick Dempsey. We've manifested it,

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<v Speaker 1>but like we put it in a way that makes

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<v Speaker 1>it feel like he's coming, but he's not. Yeah, Like

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<v Speaker 1>after we post the new logos is like scrubbing in

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<v Speaker 1>whatever and then we say like Patrick Dempsey, yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's like no context behind it. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I'm into it. I haven't really gotten any more leads

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<v Speaker 1>on the Patrick Dempsey front. But I'm gonna remind the

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<v Speaker 1>scrubbers once again. Let's spam him, Let's get in his inbox,

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<v Speaker 1>let's comment on his photos, let's get him on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>In whatever it takes. Annoying him the best strategy that

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<v Speaker 1>don't annoying him, though, Yeah, I think so, because what

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<v Speaker 1>else are we gonna do? We don't know anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think maybe annoying him isn't isn't like the way,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it's like if you can but the

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<v Speaker 1>scraper isn't annoying. They're sweet. They're gonna be like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, this this podcast scrubbing in. They love you,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to have you on, like, they're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be like mean, I'm not worried about them. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not worried about them. We annoyed a movie theater and

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<v Speaker 1>now I have a crown behind me. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to point that out. Yeah, exactly exactly. Annoying can be productive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, any annoying is also a different word for

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<v Speaker 1>like persistent, And you know what happens to the persistent

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<v Speaker 1>mouse gets the cheese, and you know what we're gonna get.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna get our cheese. Yeah, we're gonna get If

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick Dampsey were cheese, what kind of cheese would you be? Cheddar? No? Yeah, classic, delicious.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody wants a slice sharp cheddar. Yes. I think he's dignified.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't can't think mozzarella, he's just he's not good

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<v Speaker 1>in every form. He's good in every form, pizza, mozzarella stick,

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<v Speaker 1>string cheese, Like, what can he do to make it better?

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<v Speaker 1>Mozzarella cheese makes every If this, if, if this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>get make you want to come on, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what is going to want to make you come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, though, I don't know why the cheese

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<v Speaker 1>conversation is making me. Really, I'm like really into Jennifer

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<v Speaker 1>Fisher right now because she also has Hashimoto's disease and

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<v Speaker 1>she posts all these recipes that she cooks based on

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<v Speaker 1>like the diagnosis, like what we should be eating and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and the recipes are so easy and she has so

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<v Speaker 1>many of them. I started making them this weekend and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so into it. I'm literally like one step away

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<v Speaker 1>from being Betty Crocker, Like I am a whiz kid

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<v Speaker 1>in the kitchen and I'm like whipping up these gourmet

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<v Speaker 1>meals and I feel like, I am so in charge

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<v Speaker 1>of my life right now because I'm also doing yoga,

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<v Speaker 1>which is really good for my hashimotos, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm gonna have a renaissance and that's my

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<v Speaker 1>word for the year, and I'm freaking excited about it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like, really, it's the rataissance. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's even better than renaissance. That's your word? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the like you're announcing it here, nancing it right here

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<v Speaker 1>right now? My word for renaissance, I'm gonna have a rebirth.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to have a uh a reboot, a recharge,

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<v Speaker 1>a refresh, a renaissance. Do you see the theme here?

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<v Speaker 1>It's ours ours. Yeah. So I'm just feeling good. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling you know, I'm having some good um intention, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling um what's the word. I'm feeling empowered because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like cooking and being in charge of what's in my

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<v Speaker 1>body and my yoga and I'm gonna have a little risks.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking the last two weeks of December and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna be a radissance goddess. If you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you are, Yeah, yeah, I know what you mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you know, are you baking? No, So Betty Crocker

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<v Speaker 1>might not be the best analogies. I don't know who

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<v Speaker 1>was a good chef. Yeah, well, I think there's so many.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was like, are you baking some I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>baking at all, cooking gourmet meals, like just delicious gourmet,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're like Gordon Ramsey. I'm like Gordon Ramsey adjacent basically, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt very like U. I felt very um, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what the word is. But yesterday, so we

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<v Speaker 1>got our Christmas. We got a Christmas tree in a

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<v Speaker 1>Hanuka bush on Saturday, so we have like Hanaka corner

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<v Speaker 1>and then we have a giant Christmas tree and we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't put the decorations on the tree yet because um hm,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a situation with the lights up. But we're

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<v Speaker 1>all good now, and um, I'm a little bit scared

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<v Speaker 1>to put the presents under the tree because I think

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<v Speaker 1>Sonny's gonna like really man handle them. So right now

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<v Speaker 1>they're all up on like the hanukah ledge. Um but

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<v Speaker 1>I just fought and then I like spent the whole

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<v Speaker 1>day with my friend Paulina and her dog. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was a taste because I've been wanting to get like

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<v Speaker 1>a second I've been thinking about getting a second dog.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was like a true test of like having

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<v Speaker 1>two dogs around and it was total chaos. That's so

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<v Speaker 1>funny because like I was going to ask if you

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<v Speaker 1>it was like you were on my list of like

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<v Speaker 1>do I ask Tonya if she can watch Phoebe for

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four hours while we're gone? And I was like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, yeah, but she like you'll put sunny

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<v Speaker 1>in her crate and Phoebe likes to sleep on the

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<v Speaker 1>bed and I was just like panics, so like she

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<v Speaker 1>would keep all up all night. So yeah, Robbie's not

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<v Speaker 1>I found another sitter. Yeah. I was like it would

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<v Speaker 1>be Robbie to be like what why? Like I knew

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<v Speaker 1>that you would step up and be like I'll take her,

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<v Speaker 1>and then maybe you'd be like you know what, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need another dog in the bed. Thing is

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<v Speaker 1>like not even she We literally just have to say okay, Sonny,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a bedtime and she just gets up and walks

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<v Speaker 1>into her crate. She loves her create it's like her,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like her personal space. Yeah, Phoebe's so you could

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<v Speaker 1>bring a crate and put phoebe right next to Sunny.

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<v Speaker 1>She would cry all night. You would hate that. You

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<v Speaker 1>would be like just a letter on the bed. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>she's taken care of, so it's all good, okay. Well

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<v Speaker 1>oh oh and then and then so we had like

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<v Speaker 1>a whole day with the dogs. Da did a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of Christmas wrapping. I was a little elf. Dadada made

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<v Speaker 1>my Jennifer Fisher shrimp curry. And then we watched the

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<v Speaker 1>season finale of White Lotus. We watched at six pm

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<v Speaker 1>when they dropped the episode, which I have never done

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<v Speaker 1>with the show ever. Ever, let me tell you spoiler alert,

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe we should say spoiler alert now. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that you should do a spoiler here. Why because

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<v Speaker 1>it just aired. It aired last night. You gotta give

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<v Speaker 1>people a little bit, like if you're talking about Grace

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<v Speaker 1>anatomy or something that's different. But this is this was

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<v Speaker 1>a big show. People haven't had a chance to watch

0:22:09.119 --> 0:22:10.560
<v Speaker 1>it yet. I think you should be careful here. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to hear what you're about to say. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>it's what I'm saying, Well, that is selfish. That is

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<v Speaker 1>not selfish. Watch TV shows at our own time. If

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<v Speaker 1>you go on Instagram, it is spoiled for everybody right now. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's why, and that's why I'm staying off of Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of people are. Hannah before this

0:22:28.240 --> 0:22:30.720
<v Speaker 1>episode just said to us, Oh my gosh, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>go on my phone until I watch it. Now you're

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<v Speaker 1>about to spoil it for Hana too. Here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Wasn't good? That's all I need to know, because I

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<v Speaker 1>can't really get a like did people enjoy the finale

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<v Speaker 1>or was it disappointing. It's so funny because the whole season,

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<v Speaker 1>Robbily kept being like when something going to happen, when

0:22:49.880 --> 0:22:51.840
<v Speaker 1>something going to happen? What's with this show? Like why

0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:54.720
<v Speaker 1>doesn't anything happen? And like he like kind of pooh

0:22:54.720 --> 0:22:56.840
<v Speaker 1>pooed it the whole time, but then like was so

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<v Speaker 1>excited about watching it, like when it came out, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Because you're like on the

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<v Speaker 1>edge of your seat, so you're like wanting to know,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's going on. My whole problem with it is

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like the messaging like the like it's almost

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<v Speaker 1>like the people that are bad ended up fine and

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<v Speaker 1>good and like free and like winning and like the

0:23:16.560 --> 0:23:19.840
<v Speaker 1>good person, like died, so like that's what makes me

0:23:21.080 --> 0:23:23.399
<v Speaker 1>weird about it, do you know what I mean? Like

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<v Speaker 1>that was a big that was a big spoiler. But

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<v Speaker 1>there really sorry, scrubbers, I'm really sorry that just happened.

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<v Speaker 1>We tried, we tried, but well there's a there's not

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<v Speaker 1>just one. I don't know. I haven't I've like kind

0:23:41.320 --> 0:23:43.040
<v Speaker 1>of watched here and there, so I really I don't

0:23:43.040 --> 0:23:46.080
<v Speaker 1>know who's good or who's bad. Really, so like I

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<v Speaker 1>I'm unfazed by this, But you know what, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it is because every single person I talked to said

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing. They were like, you're watching and everything

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<v Speaker 1>feels so intense and then like it leads up to

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<v Speaker 1>nothing every episode. But I think they're so Genie is

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<v Speaker 1>because I think this is my argument about releasing shows

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<v Speaker 1>once a week like old school, because even if the

0:24:07.760 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 1>episodes as a whole aren't like so interesting or fascinating,

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:14.840
<v Speaker 1>you're still wanting to know what happens next, and you

0:24:14.880 --> 0:24:16.879
<v Speaker 1>have to wait all this time and it gives a

0:24:16.920 --> 0:24:19.960
<v Speaker 1>build up, and I think that the art of like

0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:23.080
<v Speaker 1>enjoying a show like that has been lost because everything's

0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:25.320
<v Speaker 1>binge able, you know, everything's like you can just sit

0:24:25.320 --> 0:24:27.560
<v Speaker 1>through hours and hours, and and then I feel like

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:30.880
<v Speaker 1>there will be these amazing shows are like amazing episodes,

0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 1>but you're like, it was fine because you just watched

0:24:33.920 --> 0:24:36.119
<v Speaker 1>three in a row. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I felt like, um, I was really enjoyed watching all

0:24:39.480 --> 0:24:41.280
<v Speaker 1>like the TikTok's because I like missed a lot of

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 1>stuff when we were watching it. And this isn't a

0:24:43.280 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 1>spoiler because this was I don't know what episode this is,

0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:48.399
<v Speaker 1>but it was in the middle. Um. But there's this

0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:52.840
<v Speaker 1>theory that one of Daphne and Cameron's kids is the

0:24:52.880 --> 0:25:00.320
<v Speaker 1>trainer's kid. I don't know what that means, shoot, but

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 1>this point I'm fascinated by the mindset of that because

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like Netflix is seeing the kind of hype

0:25:05.640 --> 0:25:07.680
<v Speaker 1>HBO is getting on some of these shows like White

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<v Speaker 1>Lotus that everyone's talking about every single week, and that's

0:25:10.680 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 1>why they pushed the last few episodes of Stranger Things

0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 1>until months later, and that's why they're doing Harry and

0:25:16.040 --> 0:25:18.720
<v Speaker 1>Megan three this week, three next week. That like, I

0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:21.240
<v Speaker 1>think being influenced by that. Plus, I think a lot

0:25:21.280 --> 0:25:23.639
<v Speaker 1>of people when they want to watch a show that

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.080
<v Speaker 1>that's binge able, they buy the service for a month,

0:25:27.359 --> 0:25:29.439
<v Speaker 1>watch it, and then cancel it. But if you can

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:32.360
<v Speaker 1>keep going for nine ten weeks, then you got them

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:36.119
<v Speaker 1>for three months instead of one. Yeah. I mean that. Although,

0:25:36.160 --> 0:25:38.320
<v Speaker 1>but then you have shows like Wednesday that are just

0:25:38.400 --> 0:25:40.960
<v Speaker 1>like massive and it doesn't matter. I mean, I think

0:25:40.960 --> 0:25:43.199
<v Speaker 1>it just it's like varies from show to show. But

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:46.480
<v Speaker 1>I do think that based on what everyone says about

0:25:46.520 --> 0:25:48.679
<v Speaker 1>White Lotus, which is like, yeah, there's so much happening

0:25:48.680 --> 0:25:50.760
<v Speaker 1>that leads to nothing, I think a lot of that

0:25:51.720 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>is the excitement of like having to wait a week

0:25:55.119 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 1>before you see what happens. I have some beef with

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 1>the success of Today and Stranger Things and stuff, because

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:04.560
<v Speaker 1>those are they're good shows. And like Allison just watched

0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:07.200
<v Speaker 1>all Wednesday and she liked it. But all those stats

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:11.240
<v Speaker 1>are coming from Netflix and they're like, you know, Wednesday

0:26:11.280 --> 0:26:14.960
<v Speaker 1>was watched by ten trillion people, uh, just as the

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:17.600
<v Speaker 1>first episode, and like to report that, like that has

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:19.680
<v Speaker 1>to be fact. Like they can't just make that up, right,

0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:25.040
<v Speaker 1>They can say whatever they want that they're controlling that data. Yeah,

0:26:26.880 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 1>what do you mean? I can't just say, like I

0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:31.639
<v Speaker 1>have a billion people watching my Instagram story because we

0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:33.840
<v Speaker 1>can tell because Instagram is public with their numbers, but

0:26:33.880 --> 0:26:35.600
<v Speaker 1>if all the numbers and Instagram are private, you can

0:26:35.640 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 1>say whatever you want. It wouldn't be illegal. The only

0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 1>person or individuals that would want that information like clarified

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 1>or advertisers, which Netflix does not have, so whatever they want.

0:26:47.720 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 1>That's a good point. But I gauge hype differently. It's

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>just how many people do I know that are talking

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 1>about it and how much am I seeing on my

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 1>social media feed? And based on that, Wednesday's pretty massive

0:26:57.200 --> 0:27:00.160
<v Speaker 1>right now. Maybe not quite White Lotus massive, but it's

0:27:00.160 --> 0:27:02.480
<v Speaker 1>pretty big. But I wonder if it fades quicker because

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:04.439
<v Speaker 1>of the binge able element of it. Yeah, Like I

0:27:04.480 --> 0:27:07.919
<v Speaker 1>watched Wednesday all in a two days basically, and so

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:11.920
<v Speaker 1>my like my high low was then then and there,

0:27:12.000 --> 0:27:13.920
<v Speaker 1>like I didn't care any more, like a snack. It's

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>more forgettable. Yeah, Like I want to talk about on

0:27:16.080 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 1>the podcast, like I was like so excited to come

0:27:17.800 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 1>on here and talk about why Lotus and then like

0:27:19.280 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 1>you guys in my parade, so you talked about it

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:24.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot, probably more than well I know, But like

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I want to talk about more theories that I saw

0:27:26.440 --> 0:27:28.600
<v Speaker 1>on TikTok, Like I missed so many things that they

0:27:28.600 --> 0:27:30.200
<v Speaker 1>were showing me on TikTok that I was like, oh

0:27:30.200 --> 0:27:31.919
<v Speaker 1>my gosh, how the heck did I miss this? And

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 1>I also watched this show like not on my phone.

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.320
<v Speaker 1>I was watching it like I wasn't distracted, And the

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:39.119
<v Speaker 1>fact that I missed some of these nuggets, I'm like,

0:27:40.119 --> 0:27:42.840
<v Speaker 1>how did I miss these? But it's the binge able

0:27:42.880 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 1>shows that like a season two will come out a

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:46.879
<v Speaker 1>long years later and I'll be like, I think I

0:27:47.119 --> 0:27:50.360
<v Speaker 1>watched that show. Is that something I watched? Like it's

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:53.720
<v Speaker 1>so forgettable when you binge him quickly. Yeah, that's how

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I also feel about Well, I feel this way about

0:27:56.720 --> 0:27:59.720
<v Speaker 1>everything that we have, like movies and music. I feel

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 1>or albums like I feel like it all like we

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:05.280
<v Speaker 1>get everything, and it's like stream stream stream, and then

0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:08.320
<v Speaker 1>it's like we want more, Like we've done, we've done it,

0:28:08.520 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, we've listened, we've watched, and then it's like

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:14.760
<v Speaker 1>what's next, And the artists are like, we're suffering. We're

0:28:14.800 --> 0:28:17.160
<v Speaker 1>trying to keep up and we can. That's why I'm

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 1>so happy that our podcast comes out once a week

0:28:21.080 --> 0:28:24.160
<v Speaker 1>the same I know people are just chomping at Shomping

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Podcast like they just want to binge it every single day,

0:28:27.119 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>but like, no, no, you cannot, no, no, no, you

0:28:30.840 --> 0:28:33.800
<v Speaker 1>have to wait. You have to wait, like white white

0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 1>lotus adjacent, Yes, yes, white lotus scrubbing in. I forgot

0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:41.800
<v Speaker 1>to talk about um at the holiday party when I

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 1>had that prosthetical and I couldn't breathe through my nose,

0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 1>like literally, I could not breathe through my nose. I

0:28:46.600 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 1>would suffocate. And I realized which I noticed this about

0:28:51.680 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>a year ago. I had gotten a facial and she

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.080
<v Speaker 1>had covered my face like a mask, and she had

0:28:56.120 --> 0:28:58.440
<v Speaker 1>like put holes where I could breathe, but that was

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:02.200
<v Speaker 1>really the only the only orifice I was able to

0:29:02.200 --> 0:29:06.240
<v Speaker 1>breathe out of. And I got so anxious I had

0:29:06.280 --> 0:29:08.200
<v Speaker 1>to ask her to take it off because I felt

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:10.240
<v Speaker 1>like I was going to have like a panic attack,

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:13.320
<v Speaker 1>like like claustrophobia. And I've never been like that. I've

0:29:13.360 --> 0:29:17.040
<v Speaker 1>never gotten panicked by that at all. So something happened.

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it's my age or whatever. So

0:29:19.840 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>when he put the nose on, he was like, by

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 1>the way, you're not gonna be able to breathe out

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:25.400
<v Speaker 1>of your nose, And I was like, Okay, that's fine.

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'll breathe out my mouth. He put it

0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:32.240
<v Speaker 1>on and I had to like fully self soothe myself.

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I was like internally, like you're fine, you can

0:29:35.480 --> 0:29:39.320
<v Speaker 1>breathe through your mouth. You're not. You're okay, Like you

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.080
<v Speaker 1>just have to get used to breathing through your mouth.

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:43.600
<v Speaker 1>It's like if you have a cold, you know. It

0:29:43.640 --> 0:29:46.240
<v Speaker 1>was the craziest thing. So all night when I was

0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:49.080
<v Speaker 1>trying to eat, just have like a conversation that went

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:53.440
<v Speaker 1>longer than like thirty seconds. It was he winded so stressed.

0:29:53.640 --> 0:29:57.719
<v Speaker 1>I was so winded. It was so stressful, and everyone

0:29:57.920 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 1>like on Instagram was like I have so much in

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 1>anxiety knowing that you couldn't breathe out of your nose.

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, it was. I can't believe actors

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 1>and actress is just deal with that part of the

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>But can we get an update on your ability to

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:17.280
<v Speaker 1>smell and taste? Um? Yeah, I think I'm like at

0:30:17.320 --> 0:30:21.040
<v Speaker 1>like like I still have Yeah, I'm pretty I think

0:30:21.080 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm back, But like I don't know, is it altered forever?

0:30:23.680 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 1>Like am I just like am I at like fifty

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.800
<v Speaker 1>but because it's better, it feels like ninety. I don't know,

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 1>but my bad smell isn't remember how like I only

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>smelled one smell for every bad smell. That's not like

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:41.080
<v Speaker 1>that anymore. Every bad smell smelled the same to you,

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying. Every bad smell smelled like

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>throw up. Oh I don't know how so like rotten

0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:54.520
<v Speaker 1>trash or something. I don't even know how to explain it.

0:30:54.520 --> 0:30:58.520
<v Speaker 1>But it was horrible, but also some bad smells. I

0:30:58.560 --> 0:31:00.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, that could have been worse. Like I was

0:31:00.600 --> 0:31:03.120
<v Speaker 1>like kind of like, alright, that could have been worse,

0:31:06.000 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 1>the same rotten trashmell. No dead serious though, Actually that

0:31:10.600 --> 0:31:13.160
<v Speaker 1>happened in a porter potty where I was like, this

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>smells like every other bad smell, This could be worse.

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:18.640
<v Speaker 1>Like I think I'd rather smell my bad smell than

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 1>that one. I actually smells like, Okay, we're gonna take

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:24.600
<v Speaker 1>a break and then we'll be back with some emails.

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:43.040
<v Speaker 1>All right, we are back. Before we do emails, though,

0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>there was this cruel rumor, and Hannah is the one

0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:49.000
<v Speaker 1>who sent it to me that said that they were

0:31:49.040 --> 0:31:54.760
<v Speaker 1>doing a holiday sequel with like like that thing came

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:57.600
<v Speaker 1>and went so fast that was the biggest story in

0:31:57.600 --> 0:32:01.240
<v Speaker 1>the world. Yeah, herds were and then hearts were broken

0:32:01.320 --> 0:32:03.880
<v Speaker 1>within a matter of like a half an hour. It

0:32:04.000 --> 0:32:08.800
<v Speaker 1>was so sad, like and get to happen? Like who

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 1>started that? And like how did it? Like? It wasn't

0:32:11.200 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 1>like BuzzFeed. It was like like I don't remember where

0:32:13.800 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 1>did the Daily Mail or something that posted it. I

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:20.600
<v Speaker 1>don't think it was I don't know. I don't think

0:32:20.600 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>any of the sources I saw were legit. Like I

0:32:23.040 --> 0:32:28.800
<v Speaker 1>remember being like who's that? What? Yeah? What outlet is that? Um?

0:32:28.920 --> 0:32:31.880
<v Speaker 1>But I saw on TikTok one of the daughters in

0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 1>the movie Jude Law's Daughters, she's like all grown up

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.520
<v Speaker 1>now and she was she posted she was like, hi,

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:39.920
<v Speaker 1>like I played the daughter in the first one and

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:42.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to let you know it's not true. And

0:32:42.600 --> 0:32:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, just heartbreak after heartbreak. Yeah,

0:32:47.960 --> 0:32:49.960
<v Speaker 1>so that was upset. It was like you were right.

0:32:49.960 --> 0:32:52.440
<v Speaker 1>It was like this high and then just like a sharp,

0:32:52.880 --> 0:32:57.960
<v Speaker 1>sharp sharp plummet. Do you want? What else is there

0:32:58.000 --> 0:32:59.800
<v Speaker 1>to tell? Like I want to see where they are

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:07.680
<v Speaker 1>out I do. Maybe they switch again, Oh yeah, maybe

0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:10.040
<v Speaker 1>they switched with someone new, like we add and maybe

0:33:10.080 --> 0:33:12.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like white lotus, like just more characters are added

0:33:12.480 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 1>into it. It was like the original cast and like,

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I want to see like the girls grown up. I

0:33:18.120 --> 0:33:20.239
<v Speaker 1>want to see camer Diaz as a step mom. I

0:33:20.280 --> 0:33:21.960
<v Speaker 1>want to see them go to l A and have

0:33:22.080 --> 0:33:25.720
<v Speaker 1>like a double date with what's their nuts? Like, that's

0:33:25.760 --> 0:33:28.560
<v Speaker 1>what I want. I think we needed stronger plot than that.

0:33:29.120 --> 0:33:32.280
<v Speaker 1>You I'm not a screenwriter, Okay, I'm not. I'm not

0:33:32.320 --> 0:33:37.320
<v Speaker 1>a plot twister. I'm just just a consumer over here. Yeah,

0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>this is why, this is why I never made it

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:44.160
<v Speaker 1>past the rumor Miller Miller, mill Um. Yeah, but I'm

0:33:44.200 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 1>the same. Like part of me had mixed feelings about it,

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 1>because like sometimes when they try to do a sequel,

0:33:48.400 --> 0:33:50.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, let's just leave something for what

0:33:50.360 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 1>it was, which that is just like the greatest Christmas movie.

0:33:53.480 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, but like their read boot was so good. Yeah.

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:02.800
<v Speaker 1>I did actually like the but a lot of people

0:34:02.920 --> 0:34:06.840
<v Speaker 1>were like, this is not it, but ed you and

0:34:06.880 --> 0:34:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I enjoyed it, all right, Mark, let's do some emails,

0:34:14.640 --> 0:34:17.359
<v Speaker 1>all right, beca thank you very much. This is anonymous,

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:20.359
<v Speaker 1>and she says, my best friend gave birth four weeks ago,

0:34:20.400 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 1>and this weekend I went to go visit her for

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:24.360
<v Speaker 1>the night. She and her husband have lived across the

0:34:24.360 --> 0:34:27.200
<v Speaker 1>country from Maybe they recently moved just three hours away.

0:34:27.320 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>While meeting her baby was also my first time spending

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:32.319
<v Speaker 1>time with her husband. I always had my suspicions that

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't super nice to her, but after this weekend

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 1>those suspicions were confirmed. He's nice in a way that

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:40.799
<v Speaker 1>he'll run errands and offer to do things for her.

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:43.600
<v Speaker 1>But she mentioned she was near her pre baby weight

0:34:43.920 --> 0:34:47.279
<v Speaker 1>only four weeks postpartum, and her husband laughed and said, yeah,

0:34:47.360 --> 0:34:50.839
<v Speaker 1>but you don't look the same, that's for sure. She

0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 1>laughed it off, but he said multiple things this weekend

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>that we're not supportive. She doesn't even react or seem

0:34:56.160 --> 0:34:57.799
<v Speaker 1>to think anything's wrong with it. I'm just sitting there

0:34:57.800 --> 0:34:59.879
<v Speaker 1>in shock. Would you say to your friend, hey, you're

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:02.520
<v Speaker 1>it should be nicer to you, or would you just

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:04.839
<v Speaker 1>let it go since she doesn't seem super bothered by it.

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:08.879
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean, like, here's the thing. Your your

0:35:08.920 --> 0:35:11.440
<v Speaker 1>friend is hearing the same stuff that you're hearing, and

0:35:11.480 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>obviously it's not affecting her the same way it's affecting you. Like,

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm triggy. I feel tricky about like

0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:22.640
<v Speaker 1>stepping and telling something that their husband sucks, because like

0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:27.279
<v Speaker 1>that's their husband and like they're they're witnessing it too,

0:35:27.360 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? Like it's not like

0:35:29.480 --> 0:35:34.400
<v Speaker 1>he's doing something behind her back. I would say, like

0:35:34.719 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't step in at all. The only thing I

0:35:37.239 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 1>would do is like, if you're around her and you

0:35:39.200 --> 0:35:41.120
<v Speaker 1>order to hear something again, I would step in and

0:35:41.160 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>be like, I think you look amazing, like you just

0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 1>had a baby, and like like kind of counter his

0:35:46.719 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>words because maybe that will make her think like that's

0:35:50.680 --> 0:35:52.680
<v Speaker 1>not very like what he's saying to me isn't very nice,

0:35:52.800 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 1>or you know, or maybe she'll realize, but it doesn't.

0:35:56.160 --> 0:35:58.279
<v Speaker 1>The sad part is like she's either used to it

0:35:58.840 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 1>or she thinks like she deserves it, you know. And

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and I think both of those are unfortunate. But I

0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:07.840
<v Speaker 1>don't think it's like necessarily your place to step in

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:11.920
<v Speaker 1>and be like he's wore, he's the worst person ever.

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:14.120
<v Speaker 1>But I do think maybe you can like counter his

0:36:14.200 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 1>words with something that's nice so that she maybe has

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>a moment of like an aha moment of like, oh,

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:24.600
<v Speaker 1>he's says like hurtful things sometimes, Yeah, yeah, I think

0:36:24.600 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>it'd be different if it was a boyfriend. Correct, Yeah, husband,

0:36:30.920 --> 0:36:34.719
<v Speaker 1>that ship is sailed. Every marriage is different. Every you know,

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>the way the couple's interact, every woman, everybody's different. So, yeah,

0:36:40.400 --> 0:36:42.720
<v Speaker 1>you gotta skip this one. They might be that couple

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.120
<v Speaker 1>where like he says something to her and she's like, well,

0:36:45.800 --> 0:36:47.799
<v Speaker 1>you don't want the same either, where they're just gonna

0:36:47.800 --> 0:36:51.000
<v Speaker 1>like mean to each other, but like they're not bothered

0:36:51.040 --> 0:36:54.440
<v Speaker 1>by I personally would not do well with that, but

0:36:55.120 --> 0:36:57.879
<v Speaker 1>you know, to each his own, her own their own.

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:01.160
<v Speaker 1>This is from say I have a crush on a

0:37:01.200 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 1>girl I have in two of my college classes. She's

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 1>incredibly gorgeous and has this really good energy. I can't

0:37:06.840 --> 0:37:10.120
<v Speaker 1>explain it. She has radiates goodness. She's still bubbly when

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>she talks. I want to ask if she wanted to

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:15.520
<v Speaker 1>go out some time in person. Two things, I've only

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>talked to her in class and for class related things,

0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:20.640
<v Speaker 1>so I don't really talk to her outside of class.

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>So to be honest, anyone could say that I don't

0:37:24.120 --> 0:37:28.040
<v Speaker 1>really know her. Number two, I don't know if she's

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:31.880
<v Speaker 1>in the girls. She comes off as straight and more backstory.

0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:35.480
<v Speaker 1>I have her Instagram and when I hypothetically went on

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.759
<v Speaker 1>Instagram to see what celebrity she follows. None of it

0:37:37.840 --> 0:37:40.759
<v Speaker 1>our typical l G B t Q people. I know

0:37:40.840 --> 0:37:42.560
<v Speaker 1>from a friend that she did it a guy last year,

0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>but they broke up. So should I even act on it?

0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Should I ask her out? How do I go about it? Again?

0:37:46.920 --> 0:37:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Should I even act on it? Cheese? I don't think

0:37:55.640 --> 0:38:00.239
<v Speaker 1>that's for this particular situation. And I think maybe, I mean,

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:05.280
<v Speaker 1>there's a way where you could like go get coffee

0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:07.839
<v Speaker 1>or something and then you know, get to know her

0:38:07.840 --> 0:38:10.000
<v Speaker 1>and see if that's even if she's even into girls.

0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:13.520
<v Speaker 1>But it's just like it's kind of it's trickier because

0:38:14.440 --> 0:38:18.600
<v Speaker 1>it's assumed, like you know, she you're it's assumed that

0:38:18.640 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 1>she's straight. But like it would be the same thing

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:22.600
<v Speaker 1>like if a guy was writing in and he was like,

0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I have a crush on this beautiful girl, Like should

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 1>I make a move? But you want to respect the

0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 1>boundary of like you know, her sexuality, but also you

0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:36.000
<v Speaker 1>can I think, as a friend asked to like go

0:38:36.040 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 1>get coffee and then and then see like if you

0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:42.719
<v Speaker 1>can open up that conversation so that you feel confident

0:38:42.800 --> 0:38:45.160
<v Speaker 1>moving into the next phase. But I mean I don't

0:38:45.200 --> 0:38:49.120
<v Speaker 1>think so, because like if you like not knowing somebody's sexuality,

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Like what if you see somebody in the car and

0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 1>like you're attracted them and you want to just hit

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:54.200
<v Speaker 1>on them in the car, do you know what I mean,

0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:57.279
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't know what you're saying, you do that,

0:38:57.440 --> 0:38:59.640
<v Speaker 1>or you like on the phone and you're like, hey,

0:38:59.760 --> 0:39:02.239
<v Speaker 1>like can I get your number? I think just did

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:05.000
<v Speaker 1>not work out for you, Mr. It didn't work out

0:39:05.040 --> 0:39:08.880
<v Speaker 1>per se, but like it was it was an avenue

0:39:09.160 --> 0:39:11.320
<v Speaker 1>to you know what I mean? Like dating, This dating

0:39:11.360 --> 0:39:13.879
<v Speaker 1>is you just like try, try, try, until like you

0:39:13.920 --> 0:39:16.719
<v Speaker 1>find the one. And I feel like that's what she

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.800
<v Speaker 1>should do. She should just, like I mean flirt, just

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 1>like flirt a little bit and see if like she

0:39:20.640 --> 0:39:23.120
<v Speaker 1>flirts back. Like you don't have to like ask her

0:39:23.160 --> 0:39:25.280
<v Speaker 1>on a date, but you could be definitely be flirty

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 1>and see if she's flirty back, and if she's giving

0:39:27.120 --> 0:39:29.880
<v Speaker 1>you vibes, then like take it from there. But you

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.480
<v Speaker 1>don't have to like not flirt with someone because they

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:36.479
<v Speaker 1>might not be into girls. No, No, I'm not saying

0:39:36.480 --> 0:39:39.239
<v Speaker 1>don't flirt with her. I'm saying, like before you ask

0:39:39.320 --> 0:39:42.840
<v Speaker 1>her out on a date, like get like do something

0:39:42.880 --> 0:39:46.440
<v Speaker 1>that's a little more less steaks, but with Haley. Like

0:39:46.480 --> 0:39:48.920
<v Speaker 1>Haley was all night when we met kept asking like

0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:50.839
<v Speaker 1>his back into girls, and we were like no, no, no,

0:39:50.880 --> 0:39:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Like we were just setting up with my sister. And

0:39:53.560 --> 0:39:55.799
<v Speaker 1>then when we were all supposed to go out and

0:39:55.800 --> 0:40:00.080
<v Speaker 1>get drinks and everyone bailed, we went and I it

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>thinking like I left that night and I told my

0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 1>sister as I was leaving, I was like, is she

0:40:06.640 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna get the wrong impression? Like I've never been out

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:11.200
<v Speaker 1>like one on one with the gay girl, so like,

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she's going to get the wrong

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:16.279
<v Speaker 1>impression if I go and get drinks with her and

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:18.920
<v Speaker 1>then we hit it off. Yeah she did, and she

0:40:19.080 --> 0:40:23.040
<v Speaker 1>was right too. But um but I'm saying like I

0:40:23.120 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 1>went with the intention of like I'm gonna go and

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:30.160
<v Speaker 1>get a drink with this girl because she was like

0:40:30.880 --> 0:40:32.759
<v Speaker 1>nice and fun the other night. So I don't think

0:40:32.800 --> 0:40:35.040
<v Speaker 1>it has to be like, oh I need to know

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:36.719
<v Speaker 1>if we're going to date or not. I think you

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>can do something that's more casual without the steaks and

0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>get to know her and see where the conversation leads

0:40:42.920 --> 0:40:48.399
<v Speaker 1>and if there's chemistry there, yeah vib Yeah, you gotta.

0:40:48.440 --> 0:40:50.080
<v Speaker 1>You gotta flirt a little bit and see if there's

0:40:50.120 --> 0:40:52.200
<v Speaker 1>any kind of an opening here, because it sounds like

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:54.719
<v Speaker 1>there's not. It sounds like you haven't been given one

0:40:54.760 --> 0:40:57.120
<v Speaker 1>at all. And until you're given something, I think you

0:40:57.160 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 1>need something to go on here, because I don't it's

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:01.600
<v Speaker 1>not like you want to be friends with this person.

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:03.560
<v Speaker 1>If you do, then there's ways to kind of if

0:41:03.600 --> 0:41:05.360
<v Speaker 1>you're fine with that, there's ways to kind of go

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.360
<v Speaker 1>about it. But until then, I don't. I don't know.

0:41:08.400 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 1>I think you gotta hang back a bit. I just

0:41:11.040 --> 0:41:13.720
<v Speaker 1>you need some sort of some sort of a green

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:15.880
<v Speaker 1>light from her. Right now. It's just a woman you

0:41:15.960 --> 0:41:19.879
<v Speaker 1>don't know who gives off total straight vibes. We're all

0:41:19.920 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 1>strangers at the beginning. Yeah, until we're not right, But

0:41:27.160 --> 0:41:29.520
<v Speaker 1>that's that's exactly. We need to not be strangers. But

0:41:29.520 --> 0:41:31.200
<v Speaker 1>we need to not make it romantic right away. We

0:41:31.239 --> 0:41:37.320
<v Speaker 1>need not be strangers first. I don't know, unless unless

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:39.600
<v Speaker 1>she matched with her on a dating site where she

0:41:39.719 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>was literally like looking like she's on there looking to

0:41:44.200 --> 0:41:46.799
<v Speaker 1>match with people and go on dates. I think it's

0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 1>too It's like I'm I'm I'm with Mark. In the

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:53.360
<v Speaker 1>sense of like waiting for an opening or like seeing

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 1>if you feel chemistry. Because also if she had a

0:41:57.080 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend and she doesn't fall I know, it's silly to

0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>think of like who they follow, but unless she's like,

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:06.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, I wouldn't want anyone to know, or like,

0:42:06.280 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't want anyone to assume you might be right. But

0:42:11.760 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm with Mark. I think maybe you wait for an

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:18.960
<v Speaker 1>opening where maybe there's a study opportunity or you're in

0:42:19.000 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 1>a group setting and y'all can have a one on

0:42:21.120 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>one conversation and just like you know, it opens up

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>to see if there's any chemistry there, because you might

0:42:27.120 --> 0:42:28.960
<v Speaker 1>get her one on one and she might be like

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:31.880
<v Speaker 1>total friend vibes. You might be like, I'm not getting

0:42:31.920 --> 0:42:34.200
<v Speaker 1>anything here, and then you have your answer. Yeah, you

0:42:34.280 --> 0:42:36.160
<v Speaker 1>end up at a party that she happens to be at.

0:42:36.239 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you're in my class. Hey, how are you?

0:42:38.200 --> 0:42:39.799
<v Speaker 1>That's great, and then you can figure out if there's

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:43.239
<v Speaker 1>anything there at all. And yeah, do you listen to

0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:53.640
<v Speaker 1>Haley Kiyoko, that's a great opening line. Um. So, yeah,

0:42:54.160 --> 0:42:56.400
<v Speaker 1>that's tough, and I know that's been like Haley has

0:42:56.400 --> 0:42:59.880
<v Speaker 1>always talked about that. That's her, you know, it's always

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:03.879
<v Speaker 1>and heart for her too with that, and I think

0:43:03.960 --> 0:43:07.719
<v Speaker 1>she was shocked that, like when we hung out, I

0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:12.759
<v Speaker 1>was very um like comfortable just acknowledging that there was

0:43:12.800 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 1>something there as opposed to making her feel like she

0:43:16.200 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 1>was crazy, you know, because I think a lot of

0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:22.000
<v Speaker 1>times if people are not confident their sexuality and they're

0:43:22.040 --> 0:43:25.840
<v Speaker 1>scared or unsure, they can like kind of make the

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:29.000
<v Speaker 1>other person feel like they made everything up in their heads.

0:43:29.040 --> 0:43:33.000
<v Speaker 1>So I think Hayley was very like happy that I

0:43:33.000 --> 0:43:35.319
<v Speaker 1>didn't do that and that I just acknowledged, like, yeah,

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:40.240
<v Speaker 1>there was definitely something there tonight and and I acted

0:43:40.239 --> 0:43:48.200
<v Speaker 1>on it the following day. So there's some encouragement. There's

0:43:48.200 --> 0:43:52.759
<v Speaker 1>some encouragement for you. Um. I think that's all we

0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:54.720
<v Speaker 1>have for today, but we do have a really exciting

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:58.160
<v Speaker 1>episode coming another a double episode coming up again this week.

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:05.440
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be with av en Um and I'm very

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:10.120
<v Speaker 1>excited for that, So stay tuned. I have to finished

0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:13.680
<v Speaker 1>packing and get off to the White House. Yeah, I

0:44:13.719 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 1>gotta go jet off to the White House. So um,

0:44:16.920 --> 0:44:19.319
<v Speaker 1>we'll be back on Thursday, and we love you all

0:44:19.320 --> 0:44:21.920
<v Speaker 1>so much and we'll talk to you later. By we

0:44:21.960 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>love you bye. If you want to talk, my lotus

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<v Speaker 1>d m me bye.