Speaker 1: Spreading In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and
Speaker 1: it is a it's an early morning over here. For
Speaker 1: some of us, it's early, some of us it's very early.
Speaker 1: It's very early for me. It's currently eight thirty seven.
Speaker 1: And we moved the podcast earlier because I'm like going
Speaker 1: out of town and everyone you know, stepped up for me.
Speaker 1: And they're probably they've probably been await for a lot
Speaker 1: longer than I have, but I appreciate it. Nonetheless, I
Speaker 1: already had a nap. I already had a nap today.
Speaker 1: That's where I'm at. That is so crazy, where I
Speaker 1: really screwed myself. So Saturday, Hayley does like this gingerbread
Speaker 1: party every year, and so we had the party. I
Speaker 1: some might say blacked out. I blacked out and not
Speaker 1: so drunk, but in like the best way, Like you
Speaker 1: were not an annoying drunk. You were like hilarious drunk.
Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that, because I don't remember
Speaker 1: so many things. I I got, like, hey, I'm after
Speaker 1: you tell your story, I'm gonna remind you of something
Speaker 1: that you did that it was very bad. No yeah,
Speaker 1: can continue one. I'll tell a little bit later. That's
Speaker 1: gonna give me anxiety. Okay. So when Haley and I
Speaker 1: were getting ready for this party, I was like, she
Speaker 1: has always wanted to be the Grinch, Like she is
Speaker 1: a Grinch stand. She has been like practicing his voice everything.
Speaker 1: She loves the Grinch. And so I was like, why
Speaker 1: don't we get costumes and like dressed up and it'll
Speaker 1: be like funny, we'll just surprise everybody. So she was like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: that sounds fun. So I just ordered these uh costumes
Speaker 1: from Amazon, and I was gonna be Martha May and
Speaker 1: she's gonna be the Grunch. But we get the costume
Speaker 1: and it has like a mask. But she was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, like if I'm going to really do this,
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to do it, I think I want
Speaker 1: to go all out. And I was like, what does
Speaker 1: that mean? And she was like, I think I want
Speaker 1: to do like like prosthetic makeup and like get it
Speaker 1: professionally done. So I'm like, Okay, that feels like an
Speaker 1: unnecessary expense, but whatever you want, if you can turn
Speaker 1: the person. I just don't yeah to this the season,
Speaker 1: but I don't want to have to be responsible finding
Speaker 1: an FX makeup artist. So she find someone and he
Speaker 1: comes over and like we're starting the makeup, and I
Speaker 1: go first, well, I hadn't eaten all day. I had
Speaker 1: had like a protein bar in the morning, and then
Speaker 1: once he started because like the prosthetic nose covered my lip,
Speaker 1: and so I was like, you know, I didn't eat
Speaker 1: past the time I got my makeup done, and then
Speaker 1: I drink so much on an empty stomach and it
Speaker 1: just went downhill. And I kept saying things to Haley yesterday.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I say something about the party, and
Speaker 1: she was like, we literally had a full conversation about
Speaker 1: this the night before. And in my mind, like I
Speaker 1: haven't gotten drunk to a point where I don't remember
Speaker 1: things like that in a long time. And I was
Speaker 1: so anxious. I'm like, this is why people don't drink,
Speaker 1: this is why you stopped drinking. Yeah, but I mean,
Speaker 1: for all purposes, all intent is all intensive purposes, all
Speaker 1: intent and purposes. Oh that makes sense, And I was like,
Speaker 1: what is all intensive purposes? So for all the intensive purposes?
Speaker 1: You were hilarious and it was like amazing, like you
Speaker 1: were just having like the best time but I could
Speaker 1: tell you were drunk, like maybe forty five minutes into
Speaker 1: the party. You know, you told Robbie about a d
Speaker 1: M that you'd sent me the night before, and I
Speaker 1: was not. I remember that I was not drunk. I
Speaker 1: was like, is she drunk or isn't? Like, oh, why
Speaker 1: would that because he said to me about the sweatshirt
Speaker 1: or no, you had said to Hi about the sweatshirts
Speaker 1: and he made a comment about us being dressed up,
Speaker 1: and I was like, joking about the sweatshirt. So I
Speaker 1: was like, you are one committed man. No, that's not
Speaker 1: all she said. She was, you don't need a ring.
Speaker 1: He's a committed man already. And I was like, that guy,
Speaker 1: because that's not gonna stop. No, I know, I know,
Speaker 1: but I didn't. I didn't. I felt very justified this
Speaker 1: weekend and finally getting him in those matching um she's
Speaker 1: my sweet potato. Yes, I am sweatshirts because I had
Speaker 1: them for about two years now. I was sitting in
Speaker 1: my closet and our boss Biada had an ugly sweater
Speaker 1: party Friday night and I was like, you know, what
Speaker 1: tis the season? And he was like, oh, so he
Speaker 1: wore because it was an ugly sweater. It was an
Speaker 1: ugly sweater, but a last I got a minute and
Speaker 1: it felt very good, and everybody thought they were really,
Speaker 1: really cute. I messaged Tanya and I go, it was
Speaker 1: a photo of Robbie wearing this letter, and I go,
Speaker 1: you do not need a ring. This man is committed,
Speaker 1: and I I did, I stand by it. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I'm happy to hear that's that's what you really thought.
Speaker 1: Made me sound drunk, Betty who that was amazing. Then
Speaker 1: at the end of the night, so Becca comes over
Speaker 1: and she's like pushing she's pushing p she's pushing tequila on,
Speaker 1: pushing tea, pushing tequila everybody, like everybody not just like
Speaker 1: a shot, like a like a four inch shot of
Speaker 1: chill tequila. But you couldn't take her seriously because of
Speaker 1: that prosthetic nos. So like I could not have a
Speaker 1: conversation with Becca without like crying, laughing. So she's coming
Speaker 1: over and like pushing this tequila on me and like
Speaker 1: making everybody chant my name so that I would do
Speaker 1: the tequila shot, and so like it's I don't know,
Speaker 1: at this point, it's probably we start doing running charades.
Speaker 1: Becca is not on my team, and you all know
Speaker 1: how competitive Becca is. So we had three teams and
Speaker 1: our team was like winning. We were like in the
Speaker 1: winning and then there was one last game and I
Speaker 1: think we could have tied it up or something. And
Speaker 1: I look over at the other team and Becca and
Speaker 1: Marla had shared one of the whole running sharades thing
Speaker 1: is like it's the honor code, Like it's the honor system,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They you have to act
Speaker 1: out the sharades and and just hope that your team
Speaker 1: is like you have to hope that all the other
Speaker 1: teams are just law abiding citizens and they're gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: be true, tried and true. And Becca and Marla, I
Speaker 1: don't know who it was, but one of you said
Speaker 1: the answer like the movie to the other person, and
Speaker 1: I was like, you cheatas could have been me. It
Speaker 1: was one of the two of you, and I called
Speaker 1: you guys out. I was like, you cheatas. Yeah. That
Speaker 1: I don't have like a whole lot of like clear
Speaker 1: memories of that, except for being like looking around and
Speaker 1: I felt like I was in that mean Girl scene
Speaker 1: where like everyone turns into like a zoo, you know,
Speaker 1: everyone's actually animals. Like it was just chaos around me.
Speaker 1: That's all I remember. And then yeah, my prosthetics started
Speaker 1: lifting and it was like crumble. It was just like
Speaker 1: things were. The trajectory was downhill and downhill only. But
Speaker 1: the best part is like the invitation did it say
Speaker 1: like to where it didn't even say to wear festive stuff,
Speaker 1: did it. No, it said it said get like confestive
Speaker 1: if you want to just be you know, basically like
Speaker 1: if you want to dress up, dressed up, if you
Speaker 1: want to be cozy cozy. But we didn't tell a
Speaker 1: single person. I think Marla and Taylor Branks to only
Speaker 1: people who knew about us dressing up. I was shocked
Speaker 1: when we walked in like we were in like normal
Speaker 1: street clothes jeans and T shirts and a jacket and
Speaker 1: like walk into the grine in Martha May. That was
Speaker 1: just like really taken aback, Like you guys really went
Speaker 1: all out for this one, and it was hilarious. Thank
Speaker 1: you so much. I Haley comes over to me like
Speaker 1: as we're finishing getting ready and the party's about to
Speaker 1: start more in the bathroom and she's looking at me
Speaker 1: and she has like her whole grinch face on and
Speaker 1: her teeth are brown. He like painted her teeth brown
Speaker 1: and she's like, baby, I just want you to know
Speaker 1: that I've always like connected to the Grinch and I've
Speaker 1: always wanted to find my Martha May. And I'm like
Speaker 1: staring at her, like, are you we really having this
Speaker 1: serious conversation right now with your brown teeth? And she
Speaker 1: like gets emotional when she's like I think I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get emotional. I was like okay. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: we'll talk about it later after the party. We can
Speaker 1: rehash this conversation. But no, like she was literally I'm
Speaker 1: not kidding one to say it was a dream come
Speaker 1: true for her. It was a literal drink come true.
Speaker 1: So it was really cute, it was really fun and um.
Speaker 1: And so then yesterday, you know, after a night like that,
Speaker 1: you would stay in bed and eat, eat, and just
Speaker 1: like chill all day. No. I woke up, started cleaning,
Speaker 1: putting my house back together, and then we went and
Speaker 1: shopped because so Haley and I are going to the
Speaker 1: White House today. We got invited to go because we're um,
Speaker 1: they're signing the Respect All Marriages Act. I think it's
Speaker 1: a really big deal. And I've never even been to Washington,
Speaker 1: d C. So I'm super excited. But that's how we
Speaker 1: did the podcast early because it was a very last
Speaker 1: minute thing. But we like, we shopped all day to
Speaker 1: find um outfit. So imagine my hangover yesterday, waking up,
Speaker 1: cleaning and then shopping all day. Well, what did you find?
Speaker 1: I feel like a little it's like a it's like
Speaker 1: a little short suit like a tweeted Wolves probably would
Speaker 1: not be able to hang around me. Um, like a
Speaker 1: little short suit with it's cute. It's very preppy, very
Speaker 1: white housey. I feel I think I think it's gonna
Speaker 1: be I think I'm gonna freeze. I'll say that. But um,
Speaker 1: so yeah, I haven't. I haven't fully slept. And then
Speaker 1: Phoebe it rained last night in l A and Phoebe
Speaker 1: freaks out with the rain. So I'm in survival mode
Speaker 1: as far as just needing my immune system to just
Speaker 1: be strong. Yeah, you're not like thriving, you're surviving. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I think I'm thriving too. I'm thriving and surviving.
Speaker 1: Yeah you're cool. Yeah, I'm having a great time. And
Speaker 1: I'm also just coasting on fumes like I did last
Speaker 1: week when I ran out of gas. Yeah that also, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so yeah, that's that's what's going on in my life.
Speaker 1: I kept saying, I Hayley said, I kept going. So
Speaker 1: yesterday I go, do you think, um, Betty who had
Speaker 1: a good time? Because Betty Who came to the party?
Speaker 1: Mind you all, I am like a massive Betty Who fan,
Speaker 1: Like I love her music. I Brittany and I have
Speaker 1: videos of us dancing to her song from like years ago,
Speaker 1: and so it's really cool like that she's a friend
Speaker 1: now and she came to the party, but she was
Speaker 1: by herself and didn't really know anyone other than me
Speaker 1: and Haley, so she didn't Yeah, I mean I think
Speaker 1: she had met people, but like, really she just knew
Speaker 1: me and Haley. I didn't know that. I thought she
Speaker 1: was there with a friend. No, But that's how I mean.
Speaker 1: She's so like comfortable and cool and nice and like
Speaker 1: she would make you think that, you know. But so yesterday,
Speaker 1: as we're cleaning up, I'm like, do you think Betty
Speaker 1: Who had fun? Like, I hope she had a good time.
Speaker 1: I know she didn't really know anyone, And Haley was like,
Speaker 1: heybe you asked this three times last night, and then
Speaker 1: we had a full conversation about that. She had a
Speaker 1: great time. I think she had a great time, And
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I just I just want to
Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure. You know, there is
Speaker 1: something about that though. When you have like a party,
Speaker 1: you have people over, you want everybody to have a
Speaker 1: good time, and so like your focus is like and
Speaker 1: like sometimes like yeah, obviously you have like your staples
Speaker 1: and your friends that are just friends with each other,
Speaker 1: so like they're easy. But then you always, like I
Speaker 1: feel like that you always invite like a couple of
Speaker 1: people that don't really know everybody, and so you want
Speaker 1: to make sure that they feel comfortable, so you like
Speaker 1: overcompensate and spend so much time with them and like
Speaker 1: showing them around. Yeah, yes, that's exactly what happened. And
Speaker 1: but then I birthday party because I felt like we
Speaker 1: just invited like her dog, like a dog's birthday party.
Speaker 1: That's how she felt. You're, yeah, you're making sure all
Speaker 1: the dogs are like not being left out, the dog's owners,
Speaker 1: not the dogs. Okay, a lot of people that didn't
Speaker 1: know each other, do you know. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: like a hodgepodge. And so I was like playing Martha May, Oh,
Speaker 1: my nice way to bring it back you thank you.
Speaker 1: So then Friday night I went into a party and
Speaker 1: guess who I sat next to? Who do you sit
Speaker 1: next to at a party? Well, I'm going to tell you,
Speaker 1: but first we're gonna take a break. Al Right, we
Speaker 1: are back. Um okay. So Friday night before the Saturday party,
Speaker 1: we went to another party and it was like, I
Speaker 1: sit down dinner. It was so beautiful and um we
Speaker 1: were sitting there and so our friend Audrey was like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: y'all are going to be sitting next to Addie And
Speaker 1: she was like, I think she's like I think her
Speaker 1: newest role she's in Grays Anatomy. And I was like what.
Speaker 1: I was like, who do you know? I'm like a
Speaker 1: huge Grayzy Natomy band. And She's like, I don't know
Speaker 1: anything about anybody. So Addie gets there's at like Attle
Speaker 1: of Cane and she is Jewels on Gray's Anatomy, which
Speaker 1: she's like the one I feel like she's getting like
Speaker 1: the kind of like Izzy Meredith hybrid hybrid role. Where
Speaker 1: did you become friends with her? Yeah? We chatted all night.
Speaker 1: Yeah I did, of course. So I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: we've had like so many of the cast on like
Speaker 1: we'd love to have you one. Um. I also, I
Speaker 1: don't even think I talked about this on the podcast. Um,
Speaker 1: Haley and I were out to eat it like our
Speaker 1: favorite place, and Harry Shum was there, and so we
Speaker 1: went up and said hello to him. Did I talk
Speaker 1: about this? I know, but you told me. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you told me on the podcast or not.
Speaker 1: So I'm basically like the whole like new generation of Gray's.
Speaker 1: I'm spotting around town. Wow, so she's gonna come on right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: well we'll reach out and get her on. Oh man,
Speaker 1: look I just lined up in twenty three. Yeah, she's
Speaker 1: just shaping up. I mean, what can't we do in Yeah,
Speaker 1: we can't. We should pitch ourselves, like, uh, like our podcast,
Speaker 1: like we will be having Patrick Dempsey. We've manifested it,
Speaker 1: but like we put it in a way that makes
Speaker 1: it feel like he's coming, but he's not. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: after we post the new logos is like scrubbing in
Speaker 1: whatever and then we say like Patrick Dempsey, yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: and there's like no context behind it. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I'm into it. I haven't really gotten any more leads
Speaker 1: on the Patrick Dempsey front. But I'm gonna remind the
Speaker 1: scrubbers once again. Let's spam him, Let's get in his inbox,
Speaker 1: let's comment on his photos, let's get him on the podcast.
Speaker 1: In whatever it takes. Annoying him the best strategy that
Speaker 1: don't annoying him, though, Yeah, I think so, because what
Speaker 1: else are we gonna do? We don't know anybody else.
Speaker 1: I just think maybe annoying him isn't isn't like the way,
Speaker 1: but I think it's like if you can but the
Speaker 1: scraper isn't annoying. They're sweet. They're gonna be like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, this this podcast scrubbing in. They love you,
Speaker 1: they want to have you on, like, they're not going
Speaker 1: to be like mean, I'm not worried about them. I'm
Speaker 1: not worried about them. We annoyed a movie theater and
Speaker 1: now I have a crown behind me. I just want
Speaker 1: to point that out. Yeah, exactly exactly. Annoying can be productive. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, any annoying is also a different word for
Speaker 1: like persistent, And you know what happens to the persistent
Speaker 1: mouse gets the cheese, and you know what we're gonna get.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get our cheese. Yeah, we're gonna get If
Speaker 1: Patrick Dampsey were cheese, what kind of cheese would you be? Cheddar? No? Yeah, classic, delicious.
Speaker 1: Everybody wants a slice sharp cheddar. Yes. I think he's dignified.
Speaker 1: I don't can't think mozzarella, he's just he's not good
Speaker 1: in every form. He's good in every form, pizza, mozzarella stick,
Speaker 1: string cheese, Like, what can he do to make it better?
Speaker 1: Mozzarella cheese makes every If this, if, if this doesn't
Speaker 1: get make you want to come on, I don't know
Speaker 1: what is going to want to make you come on,
Speaker 1: I will say, though, I don't know why the cheese
Speaker 1: conversation is making me. Really, I'm like really into Jennifer
Speaker 1: Fisher right now because she also has Hashimoto's disease and
Speaker 1: she posts all these recipes that she cooks based on
Speaker 1: like the diagnosis, like what we should be eating and stuff,
Speaker 1: and the recipes are so easy and she has so
Speaker 1: many of them. I started making them this weekend and
Speaker 1: I'm so into it. I'm literally like one step away
Speaker 1: from being Betty Crocker, Like I am a whiz kid
Speaker 1: in the kitchen and I'm like whipping up these gourmet
Speaker 1: meals and I feel like, I am so in charge
Speaker 1: of my life right now because I'm also doing yoga,
Speaker 1: which is really good for my hashimotos, and I just
Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna have a renaissance and that's my
Speaker 1: word for the year, and I'm freaking excited about it. Um.
Speaker 1: I'm just like, really, it's the rataissance. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: that's even better than renaissance. That's your word? Is that
Speaker 1: the like you're announcing it here, nancing it right here
Speaker 1: right now? My word for renaissance, I'm gonna have a rebirth.
Speaker 1: I'm going to have a uh a reboot, a recharge,
Speaker 1: a refresh, a renaissance. Do you see the theme here?
Speaker 1: It's ours ours. Yeah. So I'm just feeling good. I'm
Speaker 1: feeling you know, I'm having some good um intention, I'm
Speaker 1: feeling um what's the word. I'm feeling empowered because I'm
Speaker 1: like cooking and being in charge of what's in my
Speaker 1: body and my yoga and I'm gonna have a little risks.
Speaker 1: I'm taking the last two weeks of December and I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna be a radissance goddess. If you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, you are, Yeah, yeah, I know what you mean.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, are you baking? No, So Betty Crocker
Speaker 1: might not be the best analogies. I don't know who
Speaker 1: was a good chef. Yeah, well, I think there's so many.
Speaker 1: But I was like, are you baking some I'm not
Speaker 1: baking at all, cooking gourmet meals, like just delicious gourmet,
Speaker 1: Like you're like Gordon Ramsey. I'm like Gordon Ramsey adjacent basically, Okay,
Speaker 1: I felt very like U. I felt very um, I
Speaker 1: don't know what the word is. But yesterday, so we
Speaker 1: got our Christmas. We got a Christmas tree in a
Speaker 1: Hanuka bush on Saturday, so we have like Hanaka corner
Speaker 1: and then we have a giant Christmas tree and we
Speaker 1: didn't put the decorations on the tree yet because um hm,
Speaker 1: I had a situation with the lights up. But we're
Speaker 1: all good now, and um, I'm a little bit scared
Speaker 1: to put the presents under the tree because I think
Speaker 1: Sonny's gonna like really man handle them. So right now
Speaker 1: they're all up on like the hanukah ledge. Um but
Speaker 1: I just fought and then I like spent the whole
Speaker 1: day with my friend Paulina and her dog. And it
Speaker 1: was a taste because I've been wanting to get like
Speaker 1: a second I've been thinking about getting a second dog.
Speaker 1: And it was like a true test of like having
Speaker 1: two dogs around and it was total chaos. That's so
Speaker 1: funny because like I was going to ask if you
Speaker 1: it was like you were on my list of like
Speaker 1: do I ask Tonya if she can watch Phoebe for
Speaker 1: twenty four hours while we're gone? And I was like
Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, but she like you'll put sunny
Speaker 1: in her crate and Phoebe likes to sleep on the
Speaker 1: bed and I was just like panics, so like she
Speaker 1: would keep all up all night. So yeah, Robbie's not
Speaker 1: I found another sitter. Yeah. I was like it would
Speaker 1: be Robbie to be like what why? Like I knew
Speaker 1: that you would step up and be like I'll take her,
Speaker 1: and then maybe you'd be like you know what, maybe
Speaker 1: I don't need another dog in the bed. Thing is
Speaker 1: like not even she We literally just have to say okay, Sonny,
Speaker 1: it's a bedtime and she just gets up and walks
Speaker 1: into her crate. She loves her create it's like her,
Speaker 1: it's like her personal space. Yeah, Phoebe's so you could
Speaker 1: bring a crate and put phoebe right next to Sunny.
Speaker 1: She would cry all night. You would hate that. You
Speaker 1: would be like just a letter on the bed. Anyways,
Speaker 1: she's taken care of, so it's all good, okay. Well
Speaker 1: oh oh and then and then so we had like
Speaker 1: a whole day with the dogs. Da did a lot
Speaker 1: of Christmas wrapping. I was a little elf. Dadada made
Speaker 1: my Jennifer Fisher shrimp curry. And then we watched the
Speaker 1: season finale of White Lotus. We watched at six pm
Speaker 1: when they dropped the episode, which I have never done
Speaker 1: with the show ever. Ever, let me tell you spoiler alert,
Speaker 1: So maybe we should say spoiler alert now. I don't
Speaker 1: know that you should do a spoiler here. Why because
Speaker 1: it just aired. It aired last night. You gotta give
Speaker 1: people a little bit, like if you're talking about Grace
Speaker 1: anatomy or something that's different. But this is this was
Speaker 1: a big show. People haven't had a chance to watch
Speaker 1: it yet. I think you should be careful here. I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear what you're about to say. Basically,
Speaker 1: it's what I'm saying, Well, that is selfish. That is
Speaker 1: not selfish. Watch TV shows at our own time. If
Speaker 1: you go on Instagram, it is spoiled for everybody right now. Well,
Speaker 1: then that's why, and that's why I'm staying off of Instagram.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are. Hannah before this
Speaker 1: episode just said to us, Oh my gosh, I can't
Speaker 1: go on my phone until I watch it. Now you're
Speaker 1: about to spoil it for Hana too. Here's the thing.
Speaker 1: Wasn't good? That's all I need to know, because I
Speaker 1: can't really get a like did people enjoy the finale
Speaker 1: or was it disappointing. It's so funny because the whole season,
Speaker 1: Robbily kept being like when something going to happen, when
Speaker 1: something going to happen? What's with this show? Like why
Speaker 1: doesn't anything happen? And like he like kind of pooh
Speaker 1: pooed it the whole time, but then like was so
Speaker 1: excited about watching it, like when it came out, do
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because you're like on the
Speaker 1: edge of your seat, so you're like wanting to know,
Speaker 1: like what's going on. My whole problem with it is
Speaker 1: I feel like the messaging like the like it's almost
Speaker 1: like the people that are bad ended up fine and
Speaker 1: good and like free and like winning and like the
Speaker 1: good person, like died, so like that's what makes me
Speaker 1: weird about it, do you know what I mean? Like
Speaker 1: that was a big that was a big spoiler. But
Speaker 1: there really sorry, scrubbers, I'm really sorry that just happened.
Speaker 1: We tried, we tried, but well there's a there's not
Speaker 1: just one. I don't know. I haven't I've like kind
Speaker 1: of watched here and there, so I really I don't
Speaker 1: know who's good or who's bad. Really, so like I
Speaker 1: I'm unfazed by this, But you know what, I think
Speaker 1: it is because every single person I talked to said
Speaker 1: the same thing. They were like, you're watching and everything
Speaker 1: feels so intense and then like it leads up to
Speaker 1: nothing every episode. But I think they're so Genie is
Speaker 1: because I think this is my argument about releasing shows
Speaker 1: once a week like old school, because even if the
Speaker 1: episodes as a whole aren't like so interesting or fascinating,
Speaker 1: you're still wanting to know what happens next, and you
Speaker 1: have to wait all this time and it gives a
Speaker 1: build up, and I think that the art of like
Speaker 1: enjoying a show like that has been lost because everything's
Speaker 1: binge able, you know, everything's like you can just sit
Speaker 1: through hours and hours, and and then I feel like
Speaker 1: there will be these amazing shows are like amazing episodes,
Speaker 1: but you're like, it was fine because you just watched
Speaker 1: three in a row. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt like, um, I was really enjoyed watching all
Speaker 1: like the TikTok's because I like missed a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff when we were watching it. And this isn't a
Speaker 1: spoiler because this was I don't know what episode this is,
Speaker 1: but it was in the middle. Um. But there's this
Speaker 1: theory that one of Daphne and Cameron's kids is the
Speaker 1: trainer's kid. I don't know what that means, shoot, but
Speaker 1: this point I'm fascinated by the mindset of that because
Speaker 1: I feel like Netflix is seeing the kind of hype
Speaker 1: HBO is getting on some of these shows like White
Speaker 1: Lotus that everyone's talking about every single week, and that's
Speaker 1: why they pushed the last few episodes of Stranger Things
Speaker 1: until months later, and that's why they're doing Harry and
Speaker 1: Megan three this week, three next week. That like, I
Speaker 1: think being influenced by that. Plus, I think a lot
Speaker 1: of people when they want to watch a show that
Speaker 1: that's binge able, they buy the service for a month,
Speaker 1: watch it, and then cancel it. But if you can
Speaker 1: keep going for nine ten weeks, then you got them
Speaker 1: for three months instead of one. Yeah. I mean that. Although,
Speaker 1: but then you have shows like Wednesday that are just
Speaker 1: like massive and it doesn't matter. I mean, I think
Speaker 1: it just it's like varies from show to show. But
Speaker 1: I do think that based on what everyone says about
Speaker 1: White Lotus, which is like, yeah, there's so much happening
Speaker 1: that leads to nothing, I think a lot of that
Speaker 1: is the excitement of like having to wait a week
Speaker 1: before you see what happens. I have some beef with
Speaker 1: the success of Today and Stranger Things and stuff, because
Speaker 1: those are they're good shows. And like Allison just watched
Speaker 1: all Wednesday and she liked it. But all those stats
Speaker 1: are coming from Netflix and they're like, you know, Wednesday
Speaker 1: was watched by ten trillion people, uh, just as the
Speaker 1: first episode, and like to report that, like that has
Speaker 1: to be fact. Like they can't just make that up, right,
Speaker 1: They can say whatever they want that they're controlling that data. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? I can't just say, like I
Speaker 1: have a billion people watching my Instagram story because we
Speaker 1: can tell because Instagram is public with their numbers, but
Speaker 1: if all the numbers and Instagram are private, you can
Speaker 1: say whatever you want. It wouldn't be illegal. The only
Speaker 1: person or individuals that would want that information like clarified
Speaker 1: or advertisers, which Netflix does not have, so whatever they want.
Speaker 1: That's a good point. But I gauge hype differently. It's
Speaker 1: just how many people do I know that are talking
Speaker 1: about it and how much am I seeing on my
Speaker 1: social media feed? And based on that, Wednesday's pretty massive
Speaker 1: right now. Maybe not quite White Lotus massive, but it's
Speaker 1: pretty big. But I wonder if it fades quicker because
Speaker 1: of the binge able element of it. Yeah, Like I
Speaker 1: watched Wednesday all in a two days basically, and so
Speaker 1: my like my high low was then then and there,
Speaker 1: like I didn't care any more, like a snack. It's
Speaker 1: more forgettable. Yeah, Like I want to talk about on
Speaker 1: the podcast, like I was like so excited to come
Speaker 1: on here and talk about why Lotus and then like
Speaker 1: you guys in my parade, so you talked about it
Speaker 1: a lot, probably more than well I know, But like
Speaker 1: I want to talk about more theories that I saw
Speaker 1: on TikTok, Like I missed so many things that they
Speaker 1: were showing me on TikTok that I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, how the heck did I miss this? And
Speaker 1: I also watched this show like not on my phone.
Speaker 1: I was watching it like I wasn't distracted, And the
Speaker 1: fact that I missed some of these nuggets, I'm like,
Speaker 1: how did I miss these? But it's the binge able
Speaker 1: shows that like a season two will come out a
Speaker 1: long years later and I'll be like, I think I
Speaker 1: watched that show. Is that something I watched? Like it's
Speaker 1: so forgettable when you binge him quickly. Yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: I also feel about Well, I feel this way about
Speaker 1: everything that we have, like movies and music. I feel
Speaker 1: or albums like I feel like it all like we
Speaker 1: get everything, and it's like stream stream stream, and then
Speaker 1: it's like we want more, Like we've done, we've done it,
Speaker 1: you know, we've listened, we've watched, and then it's like
Speaker 1: what's next, And the artists are like, we're suffering. We're
Speaker 1: trying to keep up and we can. That's why I'm
Speaker 1: so happy that our podcast comes out once a week
Speaker 1: the same I know people are just chomping at Shomping
Speaker 1: Podcast like they just want to binge it every single day,
Speaker 1: but like, no, no, you cannot, no, no, no, you
Speaker 1: have to wait. You have to wait, like white white
Speaker 1: lotus adjacent, Yes, yes, white lotus scrubbing in. I forgot
Speaker 1: to talk about um at the holiday party when I
Speaker 1: had that prosthetical and I couldn't breathe through my nose,
Speaker 1: like literally, I could not breathe through my nose. I
Speaker 1: would suffocate. And I realized which I noticed this about
Speaker 1: a year ago. I had gotten a facial and she
Speaker 1: had covered my face like a mask, and she had
Speaker 1: like put holes where I could breathe, but that was
Speaker 1: really the only the only orifice I was able to
Speaker 1: breathe out of. And I got so anxious I had
Speaker 1: to ask her to take it off because I felt
Speaker 1: like I was going to have like a panic attack,
Speaker 1: like like claustrophobia. And I've never been like that. I've
Speaker 1: never gotten panicked by that at all. So something happened.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's my age or whatever. So
Speaker 1: when he put the nose on, he was like, by
Speaker 1: the way, you're not gonna be able to breathe out
Speaker 1: of your nose, And I was like, Okay, that's fine.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll breathe out my mouth. He put it
Speaker 1: on and I had to like fully self soothe myself.
Speaker 1: Like I was like internally, like you're fine, you can
Speaker 1: breathe through your mouth. You're not. You're okay, Like you
Speaker 1: just have to get used to breathing through your mouth.
Speaker 1: It's like if you have a cold, you know. It
Speaker 1: was the craziest thing. So all night when I was
Speaker 1: trying to eat, just have like a conversation that went
Speaker 1: longer than like thirty seconds. It was he winded so stressed.
Speaker 1: I was so winded. It was so stressful, and everyone
Speaker 1: like on Instagram was like I have so much in
Speaker 1: anxiety knowing that you couldn't breathe out of your nose.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, it was. I can't believe actors
Speaker 1: and actress is just deal with that part of the
Speaker 1: But can we get an update on your ability to
Speaker 1: smell and taste? Um? Yeah, I think I'm like at
Speaker 1: like like I still have Yeah, I'm pretty I think
Speaker 1: I'm back, But like I don't know, is it altered forever?
Speaker 1: Like am I just like am I at like fifty
Speaker 1: but because it's better, it feels like ninety. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but my bad smell isn't remember how like I only
Speaker 1: smelled one smell for every bad smell. That's not like
Speaker 1: that anymore. Every bad smell smelled the same to you,
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying. Every bad smell smelled like
Speaker 1: throw up. Oh I don't know how so like rotten
Speaker 1: trash or something. I don't even know how to explain it.
Speaker 1: But it was horrible, but also some bad smells. I
Speaker 1: was like, that could have been worse. Like I was
Speaker 1: like kind of like, alright, that could have been worse,
Speaker 1: the same rotten trashmell. No dead serious though, Actually that
Speaker 1: happened in a porter potty where I was like, this
Speaker 1: smells like every other bad smell, This could be worse.
Speaker 1: Like I think I'd rather smell my bad smell than
Speaker 1: that one. I actually smells like, Okay, we're gonna take
Speaker 1: a break and then we'll be back with some emails.
Speaker 1: All right, we are back. Before we do emails, though,
Speaker 1: there was this cruel rumor, and Hannah is the one
Speaker 1: who sent it to me that said that they were
Speaker 1: doing a holiday sequel with like like that thing came
Speaker 1: and went so fast that was the biggest story in
Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, herds were and then hearts were broken
Speaker 1: within a matter of like a half an hour. It
Speaker 1: was so sad, like and get to happen? Like who
Speaker 1: started that? And like how did it? Like? It wasn't
Speaker 1: like BuzzFeed. It was like like I don't remember where
Speaker 1: did the Daily Mail or something that posted it. I
Speaker 1: don't think it was I don't know. I don't think
Speaker 1: any of the sources I saw were legit. Like I
Speaker 1: remember being like who's that? What? Yeah? What outlet is that? Um?
Speaker 1: But I saw on TikTok one of the daughters in
Speaker 1: the movie Jude Law's Daughters, she's like all grown up
Speaker 1: now and she was she posted she was like, hi,
Speaker 1: like I played the daughter in the first one and
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to let you know it's not true. And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, just heartbreak after heartbreak. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that was upset. It was like you were right.
Speaker 1: It was like this high and then just like a sharp,
Speaker 1: sharp sharp plummet. Do you want? What else is there
Speaker 1: to tell? Like I want to see where they are
Speaker 1: out I do. Maybe they switch again, Oh yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: they switched with someone new, like we add and maybe
Speaker 1: it's like white lotus, like just more characters are added
Speaker 1: into it. It was like the original cast and like,
Speaker 1: I want to see like the girls grown up. I
Speaker 1: want to see camer Diaz as a step mom. I
Speaker 1: want to see them go to l A and have
Speaker 1: like a double date with what's their nuts? Like, that's
Speaker 1: what I want. I think we needed stronger plot than that.
Speaker 1: You I'm not a screenwriter, Okay, I'm not. I'm not
Speaker 1: a plot twister. I'm just just a consumer over here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is why, this is why I never made it
Speaker 1: past the rumor Miller Miller, mill Um. Yeah, but I'm
Speaker 1: the same. Like part of me had mixed feelings about it,
Speaker 1: because like sometimes when they try to do a sequel,
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, let's just leave something for what
Speaker 1: it was, which that is just like the greatest Christmas movie.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, but like their read boot was so good. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I did actually like the but a lot of people
Speaker 1: were like, this is not it, but ed you and
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, all right, Mark, let's do some emails,
Speaker 1: all right, beca thank you very much. This is anonymous,
Speaker 1: and she says, my best friend gave birth four weeks ago,
Speaker 1: and this weekend I went to go visit her for
Speaker 1: the night. She and her husband have lived across the
Speaker 1: country from Maybe they recently moved just three hours away.
Speaker 1: While meeting her baby was also my first time spending
Speaker 1: time with her husband. I always had my suspicions that
Speaker 1: he wasn't super nice to her, but after this weekend
Speaker 1: those suspicions were confirmed. He's nice in a way that
Speaker 1: he'll run errands and offer to do things for her.
Speaker 1: But she mentioned she was near her pre baby weight
Speaker 1: only four weeks postpartum, and her husband laughed and said, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you don't look the same, that's for sure. She
Speaker 1: laughed it off, but he said multiple things this weekend
Speaker 1: that we're not supportive. She doesn't even react or seem
Speaker 1: to think anything's wrong with it. I'm just sitting there
Speaker 1: in shock. Would you say to your friend, hey, you're
Speaker 1: it should be nicer to you, or would you just
Speaker 1: let it go since she doesn't seem super bothered by it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, like, here's the thing. Your your
Speaker 1: friend is hearing the same stuff that you're hearing, and
Speaker 1: obviously it's not affecting her the same way it's affecting you. Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm triggy. I feel tricky about like
Speaker 1: stepping and telling something that their husband sucks, because like
Speaker 1: that's their husband and like they're they're witnessing it too,
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like it's not like
Speaker 1: he's doing something behind her back. I would say, like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't step in at all. The only thing I
Speaker 1: would do is like, if you're around her and you
Speaker 1: order to hear something again, I would step in and
Speaker 1: be like, I think you look amazing, like you just
Speaker 1: had a baby, and like like kind of counter his
Speaker 1: words because maybe that will make her think like that's
Speaker 1: not very like what he's saying to me isn't very nice,
Speaker 1: or you know, or maybe she'll realize, but it doesn't.
Speaker 1: The sad part is like she's either used to it
Speaker 1: or she thinks like she deserves it, you know. And
Speaker 1: and I think both of those are unfortunate. But I
Speaker 1: don't think it's like necessarily your place to step in
Speaker 1: and be like he's wore, he's the worst person ever.
Speaker 1: But I do think maybe you can like counter his
Speaker 1: words with something that's nice so that she maybe has
Speaker 1: a moment of like an aha moment of like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's says like hurtful things sometimes, Yeah, yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it'd be different if it was a boyfriend. Correct, Yeah, husband,
Speaker 1: that ship is sailed. Every marriage is different. Every you know,
Speaker 1: the way the couple's interact, every woman, everybody's different. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta skip this one. They might be that couple
Speaker 1: where like he says something to her and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: you don't want the same either, where they're just gonna
Speaker 1: like mean to each other, but like they're not bothered
Speaker 1: by I personally would not do well with that, but
Speaker 1: you know, to each his own, her own their own.
Speaker 1: This is from say I have a crush on a
Speaker 1: girl I have in two of my college classes. She's
Speaker 1: incredibly gorgeous and has this really good energy. I can't
Speaker 1: explain it. She has radiates goodness. She's still bubbly when
Speaker 1: she talks. I want to ask if she wanted to
Speaker 1: go out some time in person. Two things, I've only
Speaker 1: talked to her in class and for class related things,
Speaker 1: so I don't really talk to her outside of class.
Speaker 1: So to be honest, anyone could say that I don't
Speaker 1: really know her. Number two, I don't know if she's
Speaker 1: in the girls. She comes off as straight and more backstory.
Speaker 1: I have her Instagram and when I hypothetically went on
Speaker 1: Instagram to see what celebrity she follows. None of it
Speaker 1: our typical l G B t Q people. I know
Speaker 1: from a friend that she did it a guy last year,
Speaker 1: but they broke up. So should I even act on it?
Speaker 1: Should I ask her out? How do I go about it? Again?
Speaker 1: Should I even act on it? Cheese? I don't think
Speaker 1: that's for this particular situation. And I think maybe, I mean,
Speaker 1: there's a way where you could like go get coffee
Speaker 1: or something and then you know, get to know her
Speaker 1: and see if that's even if she's even into girls.
Speaker 1: But it's just like it's kind of it's trickier because
Speaker 1: it's assumed, like you know, she you're it's assumed that
Speaker 1: she's straight. But like it would be the same thing
Speaker 1: like if a guy was writing in and he was like,
Speaker 1: I have a crush on this beautiful girl, Like should
Speaker 1: I make a move? But you want to respect the
Speaker 1: boundary of like you know, her sexuality, but also you
Speaker 1: can I think, as a friend asked to like go
Speaker 1: get coffee and then and then see like if you
Speaker 1: can open up that conversation so that you feel confident
Speaker 1: moving into the next phase. But I mean I don't
Speaker 1: think so, because like if you like not knowing somebody's sexuality,
Speaker 1: Like what if you see somebody in the car and
Speaker 1: like you're attracted them and you want to just hit
Speaker 1: on them in the car, do you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like you don't know what you're saying, you do that,
Speaker 1: or you like on the phone and you're like, hey,
Speaker 1: like can I get your number? I think just did
Speaker 1: not work out for you, Mr. It didn't work out
Speaker 1: per se, but like it was it was an avenue
Speaker 1: to you know what I mean? Like dating, This dating
Speaker 1: is you just like try, try, try, until like you
Speaker 1: find the one. And I feel like that's what she
Speaker 1: should do. She should just, like I mean flirt, just
Speaker 1: like flirt a little bit and see if like she
Speaker 1: flirts back. Like you don't have to like ask her
Speaker 1: on a date, but you could be definitely be flirty
Speaker 1: and see if she's flirty back, and if she's giving
Speaker 1: you vibes, then like take it from there. But you
Speaker 1: don't have to like not flirt with someone because they
Speaker 1: might not be into girls. No, No, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: don't flirt with her. I'm saying, like before you ask
Speaker 1: her out on a date, like get like do something
Speaker 1: that's a little more less steaks, but with Haley. Like
Speaker 1: Haley was all night when we met kept asking like
Speaker 1: his back into girls, and we were like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: Like we were just setting up with my sister. And
Speaker 1: then when we were all supposed to go out and
Speaker 1: get drinks and everyone bailed, we went and I it
Speaker 1: thinking like I left that night and I told my
Speaker 1: sister as I was leaving, I was like, is she
Speaker 1: gonna get the wrong impression? Like I've never been out
Speaker 1: like one on one with the gay girl, so like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's going to get the wrong
Speaker 1: impression if I go and get drinks with her and
Speaker 1: then we hit it off. Yeah she did, and she
Speaker 1: was right too. But um but I'm saying like I
Speaker 1: went with the intention of like I'm gonna go and
Speaker 1: get a drink with this girl because she was like
Speaker 1: nice and fun the other night. So I don't think
Speaker 1: it has to be like, oh I need to know
Speaker 1: if we're going to date or not. I think you
Speaker 1: can do something that's more casual without the steaks and
Speaker 1: get to know her and see where the conversation leads
Speaker 1: and if there's chemistry there, yeah vib Yeah, you gotta.
Speaker 1: You gotta flirt a little bit and see if there's
Speaker 1: any kind of an opening here, because it sounds like
Speaker 1: there's not. It sounds like you haven't been given one
Speaker 1: at all. And until you're given something, I think you
Speaker 1: need something to go on here, because I don't it's
Speaker 1: not like you want to be friends with this person.
Speaker 1: If you do, then there's ways to kind of if
Speaker 1: you're fine with that, there's ways to kind of go
Speaker 1: about it. But until then, I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think you gotta hang back a bit. I just
Speaker 1: you need some sort of some sort of a green
Speaker 1: light from her. Right now. It's just a woman you
Speaker 1: don't know who gives off total straight vibes. We're all
Speaker 1: strangers at the beginning. Yeah, until we're not right, But
Speaker 1: that's that's exactly. We need to not be strangers. But
Speaker 1: we need to not make it romantic right away. We
Speaker 1: need not be strangers first. I don't know, unless unless
Speaker 1: she matched with her on a dating site where she
Speaker 1: was literally like looking like she's on there looking to
Speaker 1: match with people and go on dates. I think it's
Speaker 1: too It's like I'm I'm I'm with Mark. In the
Speaker 1: sense of like waiting for an opening or like seeing
Speaker 1: if you feel chemistry. Because also if she had a
Speaker 1: boyfriend and she doesn't fall I know, it's silly to
Speaker 1: think of like who they follow, but unless she's like,
Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't want anyone to know, or like,
Speaker 1: wouldn't want anyone to assume you might be right. But
Speaker 1: I'm with Mark. I think maybe you wait for an
Speaker 1: opening where maybe there's a study opportunity or you're in
Speaker 1: a group setting and y'all can have a one on
Speaker 1: one conversation and just like you know, it opens up
Speaker 1: to see if there's any chemistry there, because you might
Speaker 1: get her one on one and she might be like
Speaker 1: total friend vibes. You might be like, I'm not getting
Speaker 1: anything here, and then you have your answer. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: end up at a party that she happens to be at.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're in my class. Hey, how are you?
Speaker 1: That's great, and then you can figure out if there's
Speaker 1: anything there at all. And yeah, do you listen to
Speaker 1: Haley Kiyoko, that's a great opening line. Um. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's tough, and I know that's been like Haley has
Speaker 1: always talked about that. That's her, you know, it's always
Speaker 1: and heart for her too with that, and I think
Speaker 1: she was shocked that, like when we hung out, I
Speaker 1: was very um like comfortable just acknowledging that there was
Speaker 1: something there as opposed to making her feel like she
Speaker 1: was crazy, you know, because I think a lot of
Speaker 1: times if people are not confident their sexuality and they're
Speaker 1: scared or unsure, they can like kind of make the
Speaker 1: other person feel like they made everything up in their heads.
Speaker 1: So I think Hayley was very like happy that I
Speaker 1: didn't do that and that I just acknowledged, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: there was definitely something there tonight and and I acted
Speaker 1: on it the following day. So there's some encouragement. There's
Speaker 1: some encouragement for you. Um. I think that's all we
Speaker 1: have for today, but we do have a really exciting
Speaker 1: episode coming another a double episode coming up again this week.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be with av en Um and I'm very
Speaker 1: excited for that, So stay tuned. I have to finished
Speaker 1: packing and get off to the White House. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: gotta go jet off to the White House. So um,
Speaker 1: we'll be back on Thursday, and we love you all
Speaker 1: so much and we'll talk to you later. By we
Speaker 1: love you bye. If you want to talk, my lotus
Speaker 1: d m me bye.