1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Spreading In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 1: it is a it's an early morning over here. For 4 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: some of us, it's early, some of us it's very early. 5 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: It's very early for me. It's currently eight thirty seven. 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: And we moved the podcast earlier because I'm like going 7 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: out of town and everyone you know, stepped up for me. 8 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: And they're probably they've probably been await for a lot 9 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 1: longer than I have, but I appreciate it. Nonetheless, I 10 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: already had a nap. I already had a nap today. 11 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: That's where I'm at. That is so crazy, where I 12 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: really screwed myself. So Saturday, Hayley does like this gingerbread 13 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: party every year, and so we had the party. I 14 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: some might say blacked out. I blacked out and not 15 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: so drunk, but in like the best way, Like you 16 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:12,199 Speaker 1: were not an annoying drunk. You were like hilarious drunk. 17 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to hear that, because I don't remember 18 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: so many things. I I got, like, hey, I'm after 19 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: you tell your story, I'm gonna remind you of something 20 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: that you did that it was very bad. No yeah, 21 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: can continue one. I'll tell a little bit later. That's 22 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: gonna give me anxiety. Okay. So when Haley and I 23 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: were getting ready for this party, I was like, she 24 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,200 Speaker 1: has always wanted to be the Grinch, Like she is 25 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: a Grinch stand. She has been like practicing his voice everything. 26 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 1: She loves the Grinch. And so I was like, why 27 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: don't we get costumes and like dressed up and it'll 28 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: be like funny, we'll just surprise everybody. So she was like, okay, yeah, 29 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: that sounds fun. So I just ordered these uh costumes 30 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 1: from Amazon, and I was gonna be Martha May and 31 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: she's gonna be the Grunch. But we get the costume 32 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: and it has like a mask. But she was like, 33 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: you know what, like if I'm going to really do this, 34 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,799 Speaker 1: I've always wanted to do it, I think I want 35 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 1: to go all out. And I was like, what does 36 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: that mean? And she was like, I think I want 37 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: to do like like prosthetic makeup and like get it 38 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: professionally done. So I'm like, Okay, that feels like an 39 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:23,119 Speaker 1: unnecessary expense, but whatever you want, if you can turn 40 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: the person. I just don't yeah to this the season, 41 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: but I don't want to have to be responsible finding 42 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: an FX makeup artist. So she find someone and he 43 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: comes over and like we're starting the makeup, and I 44 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: go first, well, I hadn't eaten all day. I had 45 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 1: had like a protein bar in the morning, and then 46 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: once he started because like the prosthetic nose covered my lip, 47 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: and so I was like, you know, I didn't eat 48 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: past the time I got my makeup done, and then 49 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: I drink so much on an empty stomach and it 50 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:01,519 Speaker 1: just went downhill. And I kept saying things to Haley yesterday. 51 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I say something about the party, and 52 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: she was like, we literally had a full conversation about 53 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: this the night before. And in my mind, like I 54 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 1: haven't gotten drunk to a point where I don't remember 55 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: things like that in a long time. And I was 56 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: so anxious. I'm like, this is why people don't drink, 57 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: this is why you stopped drinking. Yeah, but I mean, 58 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: for all purposes, all intent is all intensive purposes, all 59 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: intent and purposes. Oh that makes sense, And I was like, 60 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: what is all intensive purposes? So for all the intensive purposes? 61 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 1: You were hilarious and it was like amazing, like you 62 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: were just having like the best time but I could 63 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: tell you were drunk, like maybe forty five minutes into 64 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: the party. You know, you told Robbie about a d 65 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: M that you'd sent me the night before, and I 66 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: was not. I remember that I was not drunk. I 67 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: was like, is she drunk or isn't? Like, oh, why 68 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: would that because he said to me about the sweatshirt 69 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: or no, you had said to Hi about the sweatshirts 70 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: and he made a comment about us being dressed up, 71 00:04:07,080 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: and I was like, joking about the sweatshirt. So I 72 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: was like, you are one committed man. No, that's not 73 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: all she said. She was, you don't need a ring. 74 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: He's a committed man already. And I was like, that guy, 75 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: because that's not gonna stop. No, I know, I know, 76 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:27,039 Speaker 1: but I didn't. I didn't. I felt very justified this 77 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: weekend and finally getting him in those matching um she's 78 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: my sweet potato. Yes, I am sweatshirts because I had 79 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: them for about two years now. I was sitting in 80 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: my closet and our boss Biada had an ugly sweater 81 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: party Friday night and I was like, you know, what 82 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: tis the season? And he was like, oh, so he 83 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: wore because it was an ugly sweater. It was an 84 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,600 Speaker 1: ugly sweater, but a last I got a minute and 85 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 1: it felt very good, and everybody thought they were really, 86 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: really cute. I messaged Tanya and I go, it was 87 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: a photo of Robbie wearing this letter, and I go, 88 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: you do not need a ring. This man is committed, 89 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 1: and I I did, I stand by it. Yeah, so 90 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: I'm happy to hear that's that's what you really thought. 91 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: Made me sound drunk, Betty who that was amazing. Then 92 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: at the end of the night, so Becca comes over 93 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: and she's like pushing she's pushing p she's pushing tequila on, 94 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 1: pushing tea, pushing tequila everybody, like everybody not just like 95 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: a shot, like a like a four inch shot of 96 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: chill tequila. But you couldn't take her seriously because of 97 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: that prosthetic nos. So like I could not have a 98 00:05:41,800 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: conversation with Becca without like crying, laughing. So she's coming 99 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: over and like pushing this tequila on me and like 100 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: making everybody chant my name so that I would do 101 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 1: the tequila shot, and so like it's I don't know, 102 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: at this point, it's probably we start doing running charades. 103 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 1: Becca is not on my team, and you all know 104 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 1: how competitive Becca is. So we had three teams and 105 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: our team was like winning. We were like in the 106 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 1: winning and then there was one last game and I 107 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 1: think we could have tied it up or something. And 108 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: I look over at the other team and Becca and 109 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: Marla had shared one of the whole running sharades thing 110 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: is like it's the honor code, Like it's the honor system, 111 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. They you have to act 112 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: out the sharades and and just hope that your team 113 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: is like you have to hope that all the other 114 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: teams are just law abiding citizens and they're gonna, you know, 115 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: be true, tried and true. And Becca and Marla, I 116 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: don't know who it was, but one of you said 117 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: the answer like the movie to the other person, and 118 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: I was like, you cheatas could have been me. It 119 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: was one of the two of you, and I called 120 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: you guys out. I was like, you cheatas. Yeah. That 121 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 1: I don't have like a whole lot of like clear 122 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 1: memories of that, except for being like looking around and 123 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,239 Speaker 1: I felt like I was in that mean Girl scene 124 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 1: where like everyone turns into like a zoo, you know, 125 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 1: everyone's actually animals. Like it was just chaos around me. 126 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: That's all I remember. And then yeah, my prosthetics started 127 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: lifting and it was like crumble. It was just like 128 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: things were. The trajectory was downhill and downhill only. But 129 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: the best part is like the invitation did it say 130 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: like to where it didn't even say to wear festive stuff, 131 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: did it. No, it said it said get like confestive 132 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: if you want to just be you know, basically like 133 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: if you want to dress up, dressed up, if you 134 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: want to be cozy cozy. But we didn't tell a 135 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: single person. I think Marla and Taylor Branks to only 136 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: people who knew about us dressing up. I was shocked 137 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,679 Speaker 1: when we walked in like we were in like normal 138 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: street clothes jeans and T shirts and a jacket and 139 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: like walk into the grine in Martha May. That was 140 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 1: just like really taken aback, Like you guys really went 141 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: all out for this one, and it was hilarious. Thank 142 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: you so much. I Haley comes over to me like 143 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: as we're finishing getting ready and the party's about to 144 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: start more in the bathroom and she's looking at me 145 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: and she has like her whole grinch face on and 146 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: her teeth are brown. He like painted her teeth brown 147 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: and she's like, baby, I just want you to know 148 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: that I've always like connected to the Grinch and I've 149 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: always wanted to find my Martha May. And I'm like 150 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: staring at her, like, are you we really having this 151 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: serious conversation right now with your brown teeth? And she 152 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: like gets emotional when she's like I think I'm gonna 153 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: get emotional. I was like okay. I was like, well, 154 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: we'll talk about it later after the party. We can 155 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:47,439 Speaker 1: rehash this conversation. But no, like she was literally I'm 156 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: not kidding one to say it was a dream come 157 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: true for her. It was a literal drink come true. 158 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: So it was really cute, it was really fun and um. 159 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: And so then yesterday, you know, after a night like that, 160 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: you would stay in bed and eat, eat, and just 161 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: like chill all day. No. I woke up, started cleaning, 162 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 1: putting my house back together, and then we went and 163 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,840 Speaker 1: shopped because so Haley and I are going to the 164 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: White House today. We got invited to go because we're um, 165 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: they're signing the Respect All Marriages Act. I think it's 166 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: a really big deal. And I've never even been to Washington, 167 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: d C. So I'm super excited. But that's how we 168 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: did the podcast early because it was a very last 169 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: minute thing. But we like, we shopped all day to 170 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: find um outfit. So imagine my hangover yesterday, waking up, 171 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: cleaning and then shopping all day. Well, what did you find? 172 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: I feel like a little it's like a it's like 173 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: a little short suit like a tweeted Wolves probably would 174 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: not be able to hang around me. Um, like a 175 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: little short suit with it's cute. It's very preppy, very 176 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: white housey. I feel I think I think it's gonna 177 00:09:57,480 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: be I think I'm gonna freeze. I'll say that. But um, 178 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: so yeah, I haven't. I haven't fully slept. And then 179 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 1: Phoebe it rained last night in l A and Phoebe 180 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: freaks out with the rain. So I'm in survival mode 181 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: as far as just needing my immune system to just 182 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,839 Speaker 1: be strong. Yeah, you're not like thriving, you're surviving. Yeah, 183 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: but I think I'm thriving too. I'm thriving and surviving. 184 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: Yeah you're cool. Yeah, I'm having a great time. And 185 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: I'm also just coasting on fumes like I did last 186 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:40,319 Speaker 1: week when I ran out of gas. Yeah that also, Yeah, 187 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 1: so yeah, that's that's what's going on in my life. 188 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: I kept saying, I Hayley said, I kept going. So 189 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: yesterday I go, do you think, um, Betty who had 190 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: a good time? Because Betty Who came to the party? 191 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: Mind you all, I am like a massive Betty Who fan, 192 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: Like I love her music. I Brittany and I have 193 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:06,000 Speaker 1: videos of us dancing to her song from like years ago, 194 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: and so it's really cool like that she's a friend 195 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: now and she came to the party, but she was 196 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 1: by herself and didn't really know anyone other than me 197 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: and Haley, so she didn't Yeah, I mean I think 198 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,200 Speaker 1: she had met people, but like, really she just knew 199 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,080 Speaker 1: me and Haley. I didn't know that. I thought she 200 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:25,160 Speaker 1: was there with a friend. No, But that's how I mean. 201 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: She's so like comfortable and cool and nice and like 202 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: she would make you think that, you know. But so yesterday, 203 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: as we're cleaning up, I'm like, do you think Betty 204 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 1: Who had fun? Like, I hope she had a good time. 205 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: I know she didn't really know anyone, And Haley was like, 206 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: heybe you asked this three times last night, and then 207 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: we had a full conversation about that. She had a 208 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 1: great time. I think she had a great time, And 209 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I just I just want to 210 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 1: I just wanted to make sure. You know, there is 211 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 1: something about that though. When you have like a party, 212 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: you have people over, you want everybody to have a 213 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: good time, and so like your focus is like and 214 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 1: like sometimes like yeah, obviously you have like your staples 215 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: and your friends that are just friends with each other, 216 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: so like they're easy. But then you always, like I 217 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 1: feel like that you always invite like a couple of 218 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 1: people that don't really know everybody, and so you want 219 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,599 Speaker 1: to make sure that they feel comfortable, so you like 220 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 1: overcompensate and spend so much time with them and like 221 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: showing them around. Yeah, yes, that's exactly what happened. And 222 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: but then I birthday party because I felt like we 223 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: just invited like her dog, like a dog's birthday party. 224 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: That's how she felt. You're, yeah, you're making sure all 225 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 1: the dogs are like not being left out, the dog's owners, 226 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: not the dogs. Okay, a lot of people that didn't 227 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 1: know each other, do you know. I mean, it's just 228 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: like a hodgepodge. And so I was like playing Martha May, Oh, 229 00:12:50,640 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: my nice way to bring it back you thank you. 230 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,680 Speaker 1: So then Friday night I went into a party and 231 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: guess who I sat next to? Who do you sit 232 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: next to at a party? Well, I'm going to tell you, 233 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: but first we're gonna take a break. Al Right, we 234 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: are back. Um okay. So Friday night before the Saturday party, 235 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: we went to another party and it was like, I 236 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: sit down dinner. It was so beautiful and um we 237 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,560 Speaker 1: were sitting there and so our friend Audrey was like, oh, yeah, 238 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: y'all are going to be sitting next to Addie And 239 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: she was like, I think she's like I think her 240 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: newest role she's in Grays Anatomy. And I was like what. 241 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: I was like, who do you know? I'm like a 242 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:55,439 Speaker 1: huge Grayzy Natomy band. And She's like, I don't know 243 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: anything about anybody. So Addie gets there's at like Attle 244 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: of Cane and she is Jewels on Gray's Anatomy, which 245 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: she's like the one I feel like she's getting like 246 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: the kind of like Izzy Meredith hybrid hybrid role. Where 247 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:14,400 Speaker 1: did you become friends with her? Yeah? We chatted all night. 248 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: Yeah I did, of course. So I was like, you know, 249 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: we've had like so many of the cast on like 250 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,760 Speaker 1: we'd love to have you one. Um. I also, I 251 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: don't even think I talked about this on the podcast. Um, 252 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: Haley and I were out to eat it like our 253 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: favorite place, and Harry Shum was there, and so we 254 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: went up and said hello to him. Did I talk 255 00:14:34,640 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 1: about this? I know, but you told me. I don't 256 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: know if you told me on the podcast or not. 257 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: So I'm basically like the whole like new generation of Gray's. 258 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm spotting around town. Wow, so she's gonna come on right, Yeah, 259 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 1: well we'll reach out and get her on. Oh man, 260 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: look I just lined up in twenty three. Yeah, she's 261 00:14:54,400 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: just shaping up. I mean, what can't we do in Yeah, 262 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: we can't. We should pitch ourselves, like, uh, like our podcast, 263 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 1: like we will be having Patrick Dempsey. We've manifested it, 264 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: but like we put it in a way that makes 265 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: it feel like he's coming, but he's not. Yeah, Like 266 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: after we post the new logos is like scrubbing in 267 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: whatever and then we say like Patrick Dempsey, yeah yeah, 268 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: and there's like no context behind it. Yeah, I mean 269 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: I'm into it. I haven't really gotten any more leads 270 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: on the Patrick Dempsey front. But I'm gonna remind the 271 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 1: scrubbers once again. Let's spam him, Let's get in his inbox, 272 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: let's comment on his photos, let's get him on the podcast. 273 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 1: In whatever it takes. Annoying him the best strategy that 274 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: don't annoying him, though, Yeah, I think so, because what 275 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: else are we gonna do? We don't know anybody else. 276 00:15:50,440 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: I just think maybe annoying him isn't isn't like the way, 277 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: but I think it's like if you can but the 278 00:15:56,560 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: scraper isn't annoying. They're sweet. They're gonna be like, oh 279 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: my gosh, this this podcast scrubbing in. They love you, 280 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: they want to have you on, like, they're not going 281 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 1: to be like mean, I'm not worried about them. I'm 282 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: not worried about them. We annoyed a movie theater and 283 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: now I have a crown behind me. I just want 284 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: to point that out. Yeah, exactly exactly. Annoying can be productive. Yeah, 285 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: you know, any annoying is also a different word for 286 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: like persistent, And you know what happens to the persistent 287 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: mouse gets the cheese, and you know what we're gonna get. 288 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna get our cheese. Yeah, we're gonna get If 289 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: Patrick Dampsey were cheese, what kind of cheese would you be? Cheddar? No? Yeah, classic, delicious. 290 00:16:46,640 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 1: Everybody wants a slice sharp cheddar. Yes. I think he's dignified. 291 00:16:56,600 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: I don't can't think mozzarella, he's just he's not good 292 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: in every form. He's good in every form, pizza, mozzarella stick, 293 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: string cheese, Like, what can he do to make it better? 294 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: Mozzarella cheese makes every If this, if, if this doesn't 295 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: get make you want to come on, I don't know 296 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 1: what is going to want to make you come on, 297 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: I will say, though, I don't know why the cheese 298 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:29,120 Speaker 1: conversation is making me. Really, I'm like really into Jennifer 299 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: Fisher right now because she also has Hashimoto's disease and 300 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 1: she posts all these recipes that she cooks based on 301 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,679 Speaker 1: like the diagnosis, like what we should be eating and stuff, 302 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:41,719 Speaker 1: and the recipes are so easy and she has so 303 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: many of them. I started making them this weekend and 304 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: I'm so into it. I'm literally like one step away 305 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: from being Betty Crocker, Like I am a whiz kid 306 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: in the kitchen and I'm like whipping up these gourmet 307 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: meals and I feel like, I am so in charge 308 00:17:57,600 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: of my life right now because I'm also doing yoga, 309 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: which is really good for my hashimotos, and I just 310 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: feel like I'm gonna have a renaissance and that's my 311 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 1: word for the year, and I'm freaking excited about it. Um. 312 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 1: I'm just like, really, it's the rataissance. Oh my gosh, 313 00:18:15,440 --> 00:18:19,919 Speaker 1: that's even better than renaissance. That's your word? Is that 314 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: the like you're announcing it here, nancing it right here 315 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: right now? My word for renaissance, I'm gonna have a rebirth. 316 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to have a uh a reboot, a recharge, 317 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,200 Speaker 1: a refresh, a renaissance. Do you see the theme here? 318 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 1: It's ours ours. Yeah. So I'm just feeling good. I'm 319 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: feeling you know, I'm having some good um intention, I'm 320 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: feeling um what's the word. I'm feeling empowered because I'm 321 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,199 Speaker 1: like cooking and being in charge of what's in my 322 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 1: body and my yoga and I'm gonna have a little risks. 323 00:18:58,160 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: I'm taking the last two weeks of December and I'm 324 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: just gonna be a radissance goddess. If you know what 325 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you are, Yeah, yeah, I know what you mean. 326 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 1: Yeah you know, are you baking? No, So Betty Crocker 327 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: might not be the best analogies. I don't know who 328 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 1: was a good chef. Yeah, well, I think there's so many. 329 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: But I was like, are you baking some I'm not 330 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 1: baking at all, cooking gourmet meals, like just delicious gourmet, 331 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: Like you're like Gordon Ramsey. I'm like Gordon Ramsey adjacent basically, Okay, 332 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: I felt very like U. I felt very um, I 333 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: don't know what the word is. But yesterday, so we 334 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: got our Christmas. We got a Christmas tree in a 335 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: Hanuka bush on Saturday, so we have like Hanaka corner 336 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: and then we have a giant Christmas tree and we 337 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 1: didn't put the decorations on the tree yet because um hm, 338 00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,239 Speaker 1: I had a situation with the lights up. But we're 339 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 1: all good now, and um, I'm a little bit scared 340 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 1: to put the presents under the tree because I think 341 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: Sonny's gonna like really man handle them. So right now 342 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 1: they're all up on like the hanukah ledge. Um but 343 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: I just fought and then I like spent the whole 344 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,360 Speaker 1: day with my friend Paulina and her dog. And it 345 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: was a taste because I've been wanting to get like 346 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: a second I've been thinking about getting a second dog. 347 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: And it was like a true test of like having 348 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 1: two dogs around and it was total chaos. That's so 349 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: funny because like I was going to ask if you 350 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: it was like you were on my list of like 351 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 1: do I ask Tonya if she can watch Phoebe for 352 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: twenty four hours while we're gone? And I was like 353 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, yeah, but she like you'll put sunny 354 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: in her crate and Phoebe likes to sleep on the 355 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: bed and I was just like panics, so like she 356 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: would keep all up all night. So yeah, Robbie's not 357 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 1: I found another sitter. Yeah. I was like it would 358 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: be Robbie to be like what why? Like I knew 359 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,239 Speaker 1: that you would step up and be like I'll take her, 360 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: and then maybe you'd be like you know what, maybe 361 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 1: I don't need another dog in the bed. Thing is 362 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,200 Speaker 1: like not even she We literally just have to say okay, Sonny, 363 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: it's a bedtime and she just gets up and walks 364 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:14,080 Speaker 1: into her crate. She loves her create it's like her, 365 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 1: it's like her personal space. Yeah, Phoebe's so you could 366 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 1: bring a crate and put phoebe right next to Sunny. 367 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: She would cry all night. You would hate that. You 368 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 1: would be like just a letter on the bed. Anyways, 369 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 1: she's taken care of, so it's all good, okay. Well 370 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: oh oh and then and then so we had like 371 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 1: a whole day with the dogs. Da did a lot 372 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: of Christmas wrapping. I was a little elf. Dadada made 373 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: my Jennifer Fisher shrimp curry. And then we watched the 374 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: season finale of White Lotus. We watched at six pm 375 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: when they dropped the episode, which I have never done 376 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: with the show ever. Ever, let me tell you spoiler alert, 377 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: So maybe we should say spoiler alert now. I don't 378 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: know that you should do a spoiler here. Why because 379 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 1: it just aired. It aired last night. You gotta give 380 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 1: people a little bit, like if you're talking about Grace 381 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 1: anatomy or something that's different. But this is this was 382 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 1: a big show. People haven't had a chance to watch 383 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 1: it yet. I think you should be careful here. I 384 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 1: don't want to hear what you're about to say. Basically, 385 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 1: it's what I'm saying, Well, that is selfish. That is 386 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 1: not selfish. Watch TV shows at our own time. If 387 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: you go on Instagram, it is spoiled for everybody right now. Well, 388 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,679 Speaker 1: then that's why, and that's why I'm staying off of Instagram. 389 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are. Hannah before this 390 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: episode just said to us, Oh my gosh, I can't 391 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: go on my phone until I watch it. Now you're 392 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: about to spoil it for Hana too. Here's the thing. 393 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 1: Wasn't good? That's all I need to know, because I 394 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: can't really get a like did people enjoy the finale 395 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: or was it disappointing. It's so funny because the whole season, 396 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: Robbily kept being like when something going to happen, when 397 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 1: something going to happen? What's with this show? Like why 398 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: doesn't anything happen? And like he like kind of pooh 399 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: pooed it the whole time, but then like was so 400 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: excited about watching it, like when it came out, do 401 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Because you're like on the 402 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: edge of your seat, so you're like wanting to know, 403 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,439 Speaker 1: like what's going on. My whole problem with it is 404 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: I feel like the messaging like the like it's almost 405 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,439 Speaker 1: like the people that are bad ended up fine and 406 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 1: good and like free and like winning and like the 407 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,840 Speaker 1: good person, like died, so like that's what makes me 408 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,399 Speaker 1: weird about it, do you know what I mean? Like 409 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 1: that was a big that was a big spoiler. But 410 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: there really sorry, scrubbers, I'm really sorry that just happened. 411 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 1: We tried, we tried, but well there's a there's not 412 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: just one. I don't know. I haven't I've like kind 413 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: of watched here and there, so I really I don't 414 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: know who's good or who's bad. Really, so like I 415 00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: I'm unfazed by this, But you know what, I think 416 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: it is because every single person I talked to said 417 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,640 Speaker 1: the same thing. They were like, you're watching and everything 418 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,880 Speaker 1: feels so intense and then like it leads up to 419 00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 1: nothing every episode. But I think they're so Genie is 420 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 1: because I think this is my argument about releasing shows 421 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,639 Speaker 1: once a week like old school, because even if the 422 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: episodes as a whole aren't like so interesting or fascinating, 423 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: you're still wanting to know what happens next, and you 424 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,879 Speaker 1: have to wait all this time and it gives a 425 00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: build up, and I think that the art of like 426 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: enjoying a show like that has been lost because everything's 427 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 1: binge able, you know, everything's like you can just sit 428 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 1: through hours and hours, and and then I feel like 429 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 1: there will be these amazing shows are like amazing episodes, 430 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 1: but you're like, it was fine because you just watched 431 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:36,119 Speaker 1: three in a row. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, 432 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: I felt like, um, I was really enjoyed watching all 433 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: like the TikTok's because I like missed a lot of 434 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: stuff when we were watching it. And this isn't a 435 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: spoiler because this was I don't know what episode this is, 436 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 1: but it was in the middle. Um. But there's this 437 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: theory that one of Daphne and Cameron's kids is the 438 00:24:52,880 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: trainer's kid. I don't know what that means, shoot, but 439 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 1: this point I'm fascinated by the mindset of that because 440 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 1: I feel like Netflix is seeing the kind of hype 441 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,680 Speaker 1: HBO is getting on some of these shows like White 442 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,680 Speaker 1: Lotus that everyone's talking about every single week, and that's 443 00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: why they pushed the last few episodes of Stranger Things 444 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: until months later, and that's why they're doing Harry and 445 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: Megan three this week, three next week. That like, I 446 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: think being influenced by that. Plus, I think a lot 447 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 1: of people when they want to watch a show that 448 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: that's binge able, they buy the service for a month, 449 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 1: watch it, and then cancel it. But if you can 450 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,360 Speaker 1: keep going for nine ten weeks, then you got them 451 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 1: for three months instead of one. Yeah. I mean that. Although, 452 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 1: but then you have shows like Wednesday that are just 453 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: like massive and it doesn't matter. I mean, I think 454 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 1: it just it's like varies from show to show. But 455 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: I do think that based on what everyone says about 456 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 1: White Lotus, which is like, yeah, there's so much happening 457 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: that leads to nothing, I think a lot of that 458 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 1: is the excitement of like having to wait a week 459 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 1: before you see what happens. I have some beef with 460 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,480 Speaker 1: the success of Today and Stranger Things and stuff, because 461 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 1: those are they're good shows. And like Allison just watched 462 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: all Wednesday and she liked it. But all those stats 463 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: are coming from Netflix and they're like, you know, Wednesday 464 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: was watched by ten trillion people, uh, just as the 465 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: first episode, and like to report that, like that has 466 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 1: to be fact. Like they can't just make that up, right, 467 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 1: They can say whatever they want that they're controlling that data. Yeah, 468 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: what do you mean? I can't just say, like I 469 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: have a billion people watching my Instagram story because we 470 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 1: can tell because Instagram is public with their numbers, but 471 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 1: if all the numbers and Instagram are private, you can 472 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: say whatever you want. It wouldn't be illegal. The only 473 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: person or individuals that would want that information like clarified 474 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: or advertisers, which Netflix does not have, so whatever they want. 475 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: That's a good point. But I gauge hype differently. It's 476 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: just how many people do I know that are talking 477 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,399 Speaker 1: about it and how much am I seeing on my 478 00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: social media feed? And based on that, Wednesday's pretty massive 479 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,160 Speaker 1: right now. Maybe not quite White Lotus massive, but it's 480 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 1: pretty big. But I wonder if it fades quicker because 481 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,439 Speaker 1: of the binge able element of it. Yeah, Like I 482 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 1: watched Wednesday all in a two days basically, and so 483 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: my like my high low was then then and there, 484 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 1: like I didn't care any more, like a snack. It's 485 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: more forgettable. Yeah, Like I want to talk about on 486 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: the podcast, like I was like so excited to come 487 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: on here and talk about why Lotus and then like 488 00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 1: you guys in my parade, so you talked about it 489 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: a lot, probably more than well I know, But like 490 00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 1: I want to talk about more theories that I saw 491 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: on TikTok, Like I missed so many things that they 492 00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 1: were showing me on TikTok that I was like, oh 493 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 1: my gosh, how the heck did I miss this? And 494 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: I also watched this show like not on my phone. 495 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,320 Speaker 1: I was watching it like I wasn't distracted, And the 496 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: fact that I missed some of these nuggets, I'm like, 497 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 1: how did I miss these? But it's the binge able 498 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 1: shows that like a season two will come out a 499 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,879 Speaker 1: long years later and I'll be like, I think I 500 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 1: watched that show. Is that something I watched? Like it's 501 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 1: so forgettable when you binge him quickly. Yeah, that's how 502 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,680 Speaker 1: I also feel about Well, I feel this way about 503 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: everything that we have, like movies and music. I feel 504 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 1: or albums like I feel like it all like we 505 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 1: get everything, and it's like stream stream stream, and then 506 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: it's like we want more, Like we've done, we've done it, 507 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: you know, we've listened, we've watched, and then it's like 508 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 1: what's next, And the artists are like, we're suffering. We're 509 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 1: trying to keep up and we can. That's why I'm 510 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: so happy that our podcast comes out once a week 511 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 1: the same I know people are just chomping at Shomping 512 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,080 Speaker 1: Podcast like they just want to binge it every single day, 513 00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: but like, no, no, you cannot, no, no, no, you 514 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: have to wait. You have to wait, like white white 515 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: lotus adjacent, Yes, yes, white lotus scrubbing in. I forgot 516 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 1: to talk about um at the holiday party when I 517 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: had that prosthetical and I couldn't breathe through my nose, 518 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: like literally, I could not breathe through my nose. I 519 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: would suffocate. And I realized which I noticed this about 520 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 1: a year ago. I had gotten a facial and she 521 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: had covered my face like a mask, and she had 522 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: like put holes where I could breathe, but that was 523 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,200 Speaker 1: really the only the only orifice I was able to 524 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: breathe out of. And I got so anxious I had 525 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: to ask her to take it off because I felt 526 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 1: like I was going to have like a panic attack, 527 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: like like claustrophobia. And I've never been like that. I've 528 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: never gotten panicked by that at all. So something happened. 529 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's my age or whatever. So 530 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: when he put the nose on, he was like, by 531 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: the way, you're not gonna be able to breathe out 532 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: of your nose, And I was like, Okay, that's fine. 533 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: You know, I'll breathe out my mouth. He put it 534 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 1: on and I had to like fully self soothe myself. 535 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: Like I was like internally, like you're fine, you can 536 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: breathe through your mouth. You're not. You're okay, Like you 537 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: just have to get used to breathing through your mouth. 538 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,600 Speaker 1: It's like if you have a cold, you know. It 539 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 1: was the craziest thing. So all night when I was 540 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: trying to eat, just have like a conversation that went 541 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: longer than like thirty seconds. It was he winded so stressed. 542 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:57,719 Speaker 1: I was so winded. It was so stressful, and everyone 543 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 1: like on Instagram was like I have so much in 544 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: anxiety knowing that you couldn't breathe out of your nose. 545 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, it was. I can't believe actors 546 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: and actress is just deal with that part of the 547 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: But can we get an update on your ability to 548 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: smell and taste? Um? Yeah, I think I'm like at 549 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: like like I still have Yeah, I'm pretty I think 550 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: I'm back, But like I don't know, is it altered forever? 551 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: Like am I just like am I at like fifty 552 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: but because it's better, it feels like ninety. I don't know, 553 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,280 Speaker 1: but my bad smell isn't remember how like I only 554 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 1: smelled one smell for every bad smell. That's not like 555 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: that anymore. Every bad smell smelled the same to you, 556 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying. Every bad smell smelled like 557 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: throw up. Oh I don't know how so like rotten 558 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: trash or something. I don't even know how to explain it. 559 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: But it was horrible, but also some bad smells. I 560 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: was like, that could have been worse. Like I was 561 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: like kind of like, alright, that could have been worse, 562 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: the same rotten trashmell. No dead serious though, Actually that 563 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 1: happened in a porter potty where I was like, this 564 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 1: smells like every other bad smell, This could be worse. 565 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: Like I think I'd rather smell my bad smell than 566 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 1: that one. I actually smells like, Okay, we're gonna take 567 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: a break and then we'll be back with some emails. 568 00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 1: All right, we are back. Before we do emails, though, 569 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 1: there was this cruel rumor, and Hannah is the one 570 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: who sent it to me that said that they were 571 00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 1: doing a holiday sequel with like like that thing came 572 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: and went so fast that was the biggest story in 573 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: the world. Yeah, herds were and then hearts were broken 574 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 1: within a matter of like a half an hour. It 575 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 1: was so sad, like and get to happen? Like who 576 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: started that? And like how did it? Like? It wasn't 577 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 1: like BuzzFeed. It was like like I don't remember where 578 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: did the Daily Mail or something that posted it. I 579 00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: don't think it was I don't know. I don't think 580 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: any of the sources I saw were legit. Like I 581 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:28,800 Speaker 1: remember being like who's that? What? Yeah? What outlet is that? Um? 582 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 1: But I saw on TikTok one of the daughters in 583 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: the movie Jude Law's Daughters, she's like all grown up 584 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: now and she was she posted she was like, hi, 585 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: like I played the daughter in the first one and 586 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to let you know it's not true. And 587 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, just heartbreak after heartbreak. Yeah, 588 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 1: so that was upset. It was like you were right. 589 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: It was like this high and then just like a sharp, 590 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: sharp sharp plummet. Do you want? What else is there 591 00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: to tell? Like I want to see where they are 592 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: out I do. Maybe they switch again, Oh yeah, maybe 593 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: they switched with someone new, like we add and maybe 594 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,440 Speaker 1: it's like white lotus, like just more characters are added 595 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: into it. It was like the original cast and like, 596 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 1: I want to see like the girls grown up. I 597 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,239 Speaker 1: want to see camer Diaz as a step mom. I 598 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 1: want to see them go to l A and have 599 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: like a double date with what's their nuts? Like, that's 600 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: what I want. I think we needed stronger plot than that. 601 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: You I'm not a screenwriter, Okay, I'm not. I'm not 602 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: a plot twister. I'm just just a consumer over here. Yeah, 603 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: this is why, this is why I never made it 604 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 1: past the rumor Miller Miller, mill Um. Yeah, but I'm 605 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: the same. Like part of me had mixed feelings about it, 606 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 1: because like sometimes when they try to do a sequel, 607 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, let's just leave something for what 608 00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 1: it was, which that is just like the greatest Christmas movie. 609 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: Like yeah, but like their read boot was so good. Yeah. 610 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: I did actually like the but a lot of people 611 00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: were like, this is not it, but ed you and 612 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 1: I enjoyed it, all right, Mark, let's do some emails, 613 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 1: all right, beca thank you very much. This is anonymous, 614 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,359 Speaker 1: and she says, my best friend gave birth four weeks ago, 615 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: and this weekend I went to go visit her for 616 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 1: the night. She and her husband have lived across the 617 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: country from Maybe they recently moved just three hours away. 618 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,680 Speaker 1: While meeting her baby was also my first time spending 619 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: time with her husband. I always had my suspicions that 620 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: he wasn't super nice to her, but after this weekend 621 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: those suspicions were confirmed. He's nice in a way that 622 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,799 Speaker 1: he'll run errands and offer to do things for her. 623 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,600 Speaker 1: But she mentioned she was near her pre baby weight 624 00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: only four weeks postpartum, and her husband laughed and said, yeah, 625 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,839 Speaker 1: but you don't look the same, that's for sure. She 626 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 1: laughed it off, but he said multiple things this weekend 627 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,120 Speaker 1: that we're not supportive. She doesn't even react or seem 628 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 1: to think anything's wrong with it. I'm just sitting there 629 00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,879 Speaker 1: in shock. Would you say to your friend, hey, you're 630 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,520 Speaker 1: it should be nicer to you, or would you just 631 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:04,839 Speaker 1: let it go since she doesn't seem super bothered by it. 632 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, like, here's the thing. Your your 633 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 1: friend is hearing the same stuff that you're hearing, and 634 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 1: obviously it's not affecting her the same way it's affecting you. Like, 635 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm triggy. I feel tricky about like 636 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: stepping and telling something that their husband sucks, because like 637 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,279 Speaker 1: that's their husband and like they're they're witnessing it too, 638 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like it's not like 639 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: he's doing something behind her back. I would say, like 640 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,160 Speaker 1: I wouldn't step in at all. The only thing I 641 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: would do is like, if you're around her and you 642 00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 1: order to hear something again, I would step in and 643 00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,400 Speaker 1: be like, I think you look amazing, like you just 644 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 1: had a baby, and like like kind of counter his 645 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:50,680 Speaker 1: words because maybe that will make her think like that's 646 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: not very like what he's saying to me isn't very nice, 647 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: or you know, or maybe she'll realize, but it doesn't. 648 00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: The sad part is like she's either used to it 649 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: or she thinks like she deserves it, you know. And 650 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: and I think both of those are unfortunate. But I 651 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,840 Speaker 1: don't think it's like necessarily your place to step in 652 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 1: and be like he's wore, he's the worst person ever. 653 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: But I do think maybe you can like counter his 654 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: words with something that's nice so that she maybe has 655 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: a moment of like an aha moment of like, oh, 656 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 1: he's says like hurtful things sometimes, Yeah, yeah, I think 657 00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:30,800 Speaker 1: it'd be different if it was a boyfriend. Correct, Yeah, husband, 658 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,719 Speaker 1: that ship is sailed. Every marriage is different. Every you know, 659 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: the way the couple's interact, every woman, everybody's different. So, yeah, 660 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,720 Speaker 1: you gotta skip this one. They might be that couple 661 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 1: where like he says something to her and she's like, well, 662 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 1: you don't want the same either, where they're just gonna 663 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 1: like mean to each other, but like they're not bothered 664 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: by I personally would not do well with that, but 665 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 1: you know, to each his own, her own their own. 666 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: This is from say I have a crush on a 667 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: girl I have in two of my college classes. She's 668 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,799 Speaker 1: incredibly gorgeous and has this really good energy. I can't 669 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,120 Speaker 1: explain it. She has radiates goodness. She's still bubbly when 670 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 1: she talks. I want to ask if she wanted to 671 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: go out some time in person. Two things, I've only 672 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 1: talked to her in class and for class related things, 673 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: so I don't really talk to her outside of class. 674 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: So to be honest, anyone could say that I don't 675 00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 1: really know her. Number two, I don't know if she's 676 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 1: in the girls. She comes off as straight and more backstory. 677 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,480 Speaker 1: I have her Instagram and when I hypothetically went on 678 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 1: Instagram to see what celebrity she follows. None of it 679 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: our typical l G B t Q people. I know 680 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: from a friend that she did it a guy last year, 681 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,480 Speaker 1: but they broke up. So should I even act on it? 682 00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:46,840 Speaker 1: Should I ask her out? How do I go about it? Again? 683 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: Should I even act on it? Cheese? I don't think 684 00:37:55,640 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: that's for this particular situation. And I think maybe, I mean, 685 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:05,280 Speaker 1: there's a way where you could like go get coffee 686 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,839 Speaker 1: or something and then you know, get to know her 687 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: and see if that's even if she's even into girls. 688 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: But it's just like it's kind of it's trickier because 689 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,600 Speaker 1: it's assumed, like you know, she you're it's assumed that 690 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 1: she's straight. But like it would be the same thing 691 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:22,600 Speaker 1: like if a guy was writing in and he was like, 692 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,480 Speaker 1: I have a crush on this beautiful girl, Like should 693 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: I make a move? But you want to respect the 694 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: boundary of like you know, her sexuality, but also you 695 00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 1: can I think, as a friend asked to like go 696 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,759 Speaker 1: get coffee and then and then see like if you 697 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,719 Speaker 1: can open up that conversation so that you feel confident 698 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 1: moving into the next phase. But I mean I don't 699 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: think so, because like if you like not knowing somebody's sexuality, 700 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: Like what if you see somebody in the car and 701 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 1: like you're attracted them and you want to just hit 702 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 1: on them in the car, do you know what I mean, 703 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 1: Like you don't know what you're saying, you do that, 704 00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,640 Speaker 1: or you like on the phone and you're like, hey, 705 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,239 Speaker 1: like can I get your number? I think just did 706 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 1: not work out for you, Mr. It didn't work out 707 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,880 Speaker 1: per se, but like it was it was an avenue 708 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 1: to you know what I mean? Like dating, This dating 709 00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,879 Speaker 1: is you just like try, try, try, until like you 710 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,719 Speaker 1: find the one. And I feel like that's what she 711 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 1: should do. She should just, like I mean flirt, just 712 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: like flirt a little bit and see if like she 713 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: flirts back. Like you don't have to like ask her 714 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,280 Speaker 1: on a date, but you could be definitely be flirty 715 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:27,120 Speaker 1: and see if she's flirty back, and if she's giving 716 00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 1: you vibes, then like take it from there. But you 717 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 1: don't have to like not flirt with someone because they 718 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,479 Speaker 1: might not be into girls. No, No, I'm not saying 719 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 1: don't flirt with her. I'm saying, like before you ask 720 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 1: her out on a date, like get like do something 721 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:46,440 Speaker 1: that's a little more less steaks, but with Haley. Like 722 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: Haley was all night when we met kept asking like 723 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:50,839 Speaker 1: his back into girls, and we were like no, no, no, 724 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: Like we were just setting up with my sister. And 725 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,799 Speaker 1: then when we were all supposed to go out and 726 00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,080 Speaker 1: get drinks and everyone bailed, we went and I it 727 00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 1: thinking like I left that night and I told my 728 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 1: sister as I was leaving, I was like, is she 729 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: gonna get the wrong impression? Like I've never been out 730 00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: like one on one with the gay girl, so like, 731 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if she's going to get the wrong 732 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: impression if I go and get drinks with her and 733 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 1: then we hit it off. Yeah she did, and she 734 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:23,040 Speaker 1: was right too. But um but I'm saying like I 735 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: went with the intention of like I'm gonna go and 736 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,160 Speaker 1: get a drink with this girl because she was like 737 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:32,759 Speaker 1: nice and fun the other night. So I don't think 738 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: it has to be like, oh I need to know 739 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:36,719 Speaker 1: if we're going to date or not. I think you 740 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,239 Speaker 1: can do something that's more casual without the steaks and 741 00:40:40,280 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 1: get to know her and see where the conversation leads 742 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:48,399 Speaker 1: and if there's chemistry there, yeah vib Yeah, you gotta. 743 00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 1: You gotta flirt a little bit and see if there's 744 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 1: any kind of an opening here, because it sounds like 745 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 1: there's not. It sounds like you haven't been given one 746 00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: at all. And until you're given something, I think you 747 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,160 Speaker 1: need something to go on here, because I don't it's 748 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 1: not like you want to be friends with this person. 749 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 1: If you do, then there's ways to kind of if 750 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,360 Speaker 1: you're fine with that, there's ways to kind of go 751 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 1: about it. But until then, I don't. I don't know. 752 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,960 Speaker 1: I think you gotta hang back a bit. I just 753 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,720 Speaker 1: you need some sort of some sort of a green 754 00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 1: light from her. Right now. It's just a woman you 755 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:19,879 Speaker 1: don't know who gives off total straight vibes. We're all 756 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:27,120 Speaker 1: strangers at the beginning. Yeah, until we're not right, But 757 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 1: that's that's exactly. We need to not be strangers. But 758 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 1: we need to not make it romantic right away. We 759 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:37,320 Speaker 1: need not be strangers first. I don't know, unless unless 760 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: she matched with her on a dating site where she 761 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:43,960 Speaker 1: was literally like looking like she's on there looking to 762 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:46,799 Speaker 1: match with people and go on dates. I think it's 763 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: too It's like I'm I'm I'm with Mark. In the 764 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,360 Speaker 1: sense of like waiting for an opening or like seeing 765 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: if you feel chemistry. Because also if she had a 766 00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: boyfriend and she doesn't fall I know, it's silly to 767 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:03,040 Speaker 1: think of like who they follow, but unless she's like, 768 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 1: you know, I wouldn't want anyone to know, or like, 769 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't want anyone to assume you might be right. But 770 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm with Mark. I think maybe you wait for an 771 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: opening where maybe there's a study opportunity or you're in 772 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: a group setting and y'all can have a one on 773 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: one conversation and just like you know, it opens up 774 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 1: to see if there's any chemistry there, because you might 775 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 1: get her one on one and she might be like 776 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,880 Speaker 1: total friend vibes. You might be like, I'm not getting 777 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: anything here, and then you have your answer. Yeah, you 778 00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: end up at a party that she happens to be at. 779 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're in my class. Hey, how are you? 780 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,799 Speaker 1: That's great, and then you can figure out if there's 781 00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 1: anything there at all. And yeah, do you listen to 782 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: Haley Kiyoko, that's a great opening line. Um. So, yeah, 783 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: that's tough, and I know that's been like Haley has 784 00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 1: always talked about that. That's her, you know, it's always 785 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,879 Speaker 1: and heart for her too with that, and I think 786 00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 1: she was shocked that, like when we hung out, I 787 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,759 Speaker 1: was very um like comfortable just acknowledging that there was 788 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 1: something there as opposed to making her feel like she 789 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:17,960 Speaker 1: was crazy, you know, because I think a lot of 790 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: times if people are not confident their sexuality and they're 791 00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,840 Speaker 1: scared or unsure, they can like kind of make the 792 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: other person feel like they made everything up in their heads. 793 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 1: So I think Hayley was very like happy that I 794 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,319 Speaker 1: didn't do that and that I just acknowledged, like, yeah, 795 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:40,240 Speaker 1: there was definitely something there tonight and and I acted 796 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 1: on it the following day. So there's some encouragement. There's 797 00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 1: some encouragement for you. Um. I think that's all we 798 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,720 Speaker 1: have for today, but we do have a really exciting 799 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 1: episode coming another a double episode coming up again this week. 800 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna be with av en Um and I'm very 801 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: excited for that, So stay tuned. I have to finished 802 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,680 Speaker 1: packing and get off to the White House. Yeah, I 803 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 1: gotta go jet off to the White House. So um, 804 00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 1: we'll be back on Thursday, and we love you all 805 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,920 Speaker 1: so much and we'll talk to you later. By we 806 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:23,640 Speaker 1: love you bye. If you want to talk, my lotus 807 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:24,479 Speaker 1: d m me bye.