1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: So just when you think things can't get any worse, 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: you go ahead and add something like a retrograde into 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,040 Speaker 1: the mix. Oh my god, I mean, can we not 4 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: have just one little moment of peace here? Well, I 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: mean I didn't know that there were so many retrogrades 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 1: and life is fucked right starting my research for this, 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: it's like every time you turn around, something's going into retrograde. Right. Well, 8 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: the one that's most commonly talked about is mercury retro grade. 9 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:35,199 Speaker 1: Everyone always feels like the world is just kind of 10 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: going to ship when that happens, and it's just like 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,840 Speaker 1: communication errors, like equipments breaking. I feel like there's always 12 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: like travel issues, it's things like that. But what's happening 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: right now is called venus retrograde, which has a completely 14 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: different effect than mercury. Right yeah. I mean from the 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: research that I did, every planet can goes into retrograde, 16 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: which just means they go spinning backwards. Is that the deal? Yes, 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: or they appear they appear to whether or not they're 18 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: actually spending spinning backwards. One Venus in fact, does spend 19 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: the opposite direction as Oarth all the time, but it's there. 20 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: It looks like their rotation around the sun is doing 21 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: what I read was it looks like a moonwalk backwards moonwalk. Yeah, 22 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,199 Speaker 1: look at me, you're just like a regular astrologer over there. 23 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: Call me Susan Miller, all right, but yeah, I mean, 24 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: and I think the mercury thing, it's it's it happens 25 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 1: like two or three times a year, so it's really frequent. 26 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: So that's probably why it's the more popular one, whereas 27 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 1: venus and retrograde is every year and a half to 28 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: two years that happened, right, It's not as common. But 29 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: this one affects love relationships. What was the other thing? 30 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: Beauty and money, you're you're you're spending, habits and your 31 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: financial well being an effect to which everything right now 32 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 1: is so different anyway in quarantine. So I feel like 33 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: all of these things have been a facted before this 34 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 1: started happening, and this just there's a whole another wrench 35 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: in the picture right right Well there, I don't I 36 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: don't know the exact dates, but there's something called like 37 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: a shadow period with retrogrades, and there's a pre shadow 38 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: and a post shadow, and I think so this retrograde 39 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: started on May thirteen, and it's going to go until June, 40 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: and I think I read that the shadow period started 41 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: April nine, which is very far into like when the 42 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: king was like, you know, really taking hold. So it's 43 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: it's i mean, funny, ironic. I don't even know what 44 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: the word is. Interesting. Interesting that like all of these 45 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: things were being affected while this global pantanic pandemic was happening, 46 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: and there must be some sort of alignment that's causing 47 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: this to fall in that time makes sense. I think 48 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: the interesting thing about retrogrades though, is, like we were 49 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: saying before, you know, mercury retrograde is kind of deemed 50 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: as this like terrible time period, and if you talk 51 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: to any astrologer about that, they're actually like, it's not 52 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: so bad. I don't know why people make it into 53 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 1: such a bad thing. Retrogrades are actually a time to 54 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 1: slow down. There are times of reflection of growth. It's 55 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: you know, it's the kind of the time where you 56 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:24,079 Speaker 1: can look at introspectively what you actually want, what's happening 57 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: inside of you. It's just knowing how to deal and 58 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: knowing what they bring into the world so that you're 59 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: not just completely like, oh shit, this is terrible, right, Yeah, No, 60 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: I mean everything that I read was about exactly that, like, 61 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: and in fact, I've read it as a speed bump 62 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: in life, you know, So it's not you're driving your 63 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: car into a wall. It's telling you to slow down, 64 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: approach things with caution, right and and and and check 65 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: your surroundings. And by surroundings, it means look inside. I 66 00:03:56,960 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: like that about a speed bump, which is essentially how 67 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: we're all having to live life right now anyway, totally, totally, 68 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: and you know, it's funny, like I feel like every 69 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: conversation I have about quarantine and I'm you know, I'm 70 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: having conversations with people haven't spoken to it a long time. 71 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: So there's a lot of those, like you're still having 72 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: that same conversation over and over again. But the general 73 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 1: consensus is that like, yes, people are freaked out, but 74 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: people are also like leaning into this. There's a lot 75 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: of you know, I've heard a lot of stories about 76 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: people who had babies right before the quarantine hit, and 77 00:04:26,839 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, it's a scary time to have a baby, 78 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,799 Speaker 1: but what an amazing time for parents to be home. 79 00:04:31,880 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: And it's not they're not rushing back to work a 80 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: little more focused. Yeah, especially you know, like, traditionally, the 81 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: fathers haven't had the same sort of paternity leave that 82 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: mothers have, and they get so little time with their newborns, 83 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: and now they get all this amazing time. Um. I 84 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: think it's going to have an amazing impact on this generation, 85 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: which is also sort of essentially what we're saying about 86 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: retrogrades today. I wanted to talk about this because it 87 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: is some time. I'm where I'm reading a lot of 88 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: articles where people are freaking out and they're just like, 89 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 1: how can we handle one more thing? And the thing 90 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: that we said earlier about just knowing what the retrograde 91 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: brings can actually make it a really great time. And 92 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 1: if you just act casual, you can learn a lot 93 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: during this time, especially about yourself and with venus, your relationship. 94 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,799 Speaker 1: So let's talk a little bit about venus rector grade. 95 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: What is actually happening happening right now? Wait, first, I 96 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: want to know what's your sign? Chip, I'm a Scorpio. Okay, 97 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends who are scorpios. Yeah, 98 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: we're all Valentine's Day, baby, we were like made on 99 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. It's kind of gross, that's disgusting to think about. 100 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 1: I thank you for that visual. It's like it's like 101 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: being conceived at prom, you know what I mean, It's 102 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: like the adult person of being conceived a prom. It's 103 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: so big, got like a little too drunk. My parents 104 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: were on vacation over Valentine's Day and got pregnant. It's 105 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: totally are well. I am a cancer, which is already 106 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: super emo of a sign, and apparently during Venus retrograde 107 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: that the signs that are the most affected are Gemini 108 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 1: cancer and Sagittarius, and my boyfriend is a Sagittarius. This 109 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: is gonna be a wild ride. Well, I hope you 110 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: all are leaning into the communication about your relationship. The 111 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: funny thing is is before I knew this is exactly 112 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: my point. Before I knew about Venus retrograde, I was 113 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 1: like a little bit I've been a little bit short 114 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 1: tempered lately, and so like you know, things can agitate 115 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 1: you or you just want to over communicate. That's always 116 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 1: my go to And now that I know what's going on, um, 117 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: just you know, with this energy, it does help me 118 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: to kind of take a pause and go, maybe I 119 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: should go journal instead of taking that one to him 120 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 1: right now? Okay, Well, so Now that we know that, 121 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: let's talk about They say specifically, these are the main 122 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 1: points of what not to do in a Venus retrograde. 123 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: One of them is don't change anything with love, so 124 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 1: don't do a breakup right now. Don't change anything with money, 125 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: and don't change anything with beauty during this time. Correct 126 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: like bangs, don't do retrograde bang, whatever you do, don't 127 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: cut your bank. Well. Quarantine is also a time where 128 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: everyone is feeling like I need a haircut, and it's 129 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: like just at this point, just waited out. Salands are 130 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: about to reopen. Do not make any changes, especially before June. 131 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: Don't go do the bleach, you know, get bleach and 132 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: like dye your hair. That's you're going to burn it off. 133 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: You already did it so it actually looks really good though, 134 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: thank you, But I trust you more than that trust 135 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: a lot of people. Well. I also, you know, my 136 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: hair is not that long, so if I was a 137 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: woman with long hair that don't go chop things off. 138 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: All of those things that I was reading into Lord 139 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: dot com and they say, Venus is the planet of love, 140 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 1: abundance and beauty. During its retrograde, it's not a good 141 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 1: idea to make drastic changes to your appearance, so hold 142 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: off on the quarantine banks. They also say that any 143 00:08:02,480 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 1: plastic surgery is also ill advised, So maybe it's a 144 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: good thing that all these botox and filler places are 145 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: kind of they're not open right now, so we can't. 146 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: We're not going to be our own worst enemies in 147 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: this situation. Yeah, and no, like in home botox, because 148 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,239 Speaker 1: is that an option? I mean, I feel like people 149 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: do crazy ship all the time. I bet you if 150 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: we've researched, we could find pictures of people that did 151 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: bo talks themselves. That is one thing I do not 152 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: want to do. I would my face would be like paralyzed. 153 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: I bet you. There are people that like work in 154 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: those clinics that administer both talks to themselves. Oh for sure, 155 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 1: that's another story. Um. Laura also says during this time, 156 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 1: our lives, our love lives may feel stagnant and an 157 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: array of emotions are likely to arise. It's wise to 158 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: address these feelings as they come up, Like if you 159 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: secretly resent your partner's close relationship with their X, for example, 160 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: that's not going to be a secret for much longer. 161 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: Add to the fact that many of us are quarantined 162 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: with lovers and under tremendous stress. You can bet that 163 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: no stone will be left unturned. So they're saying conversations 164 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: are going to happen, but if you're aware that, you know, 165 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 1: maybe emotions are a little bit heightened right now, it's 166 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: not necessarily the time to bring it all to surface, 167 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 1: or if you do it, do it cautiously. You're right, 168 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: like everything that I read said it is it's as 169 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: long as what you're doing is to push the relationship 170 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 1: forward and positive, positive, even if it is a difficult conversation, 171 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: now is a good time to have them. But it's 172 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: not a good time just to decide you're over something 173 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: and break up, and it's probably not a good exactly. 174 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: It's also you know those times I don't know if 175 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: anyone else goes through this, but like if you have 176 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: a feeling and you just feel like you have to 177 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: tell your partner every single feeling that you have, like 178 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:55,079 Speaker 1: like just like well today I'm feeling this or today 179 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: it's like that, and it's like, maybe this is a 180 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: time to be extra cautious of those things because they 181 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: might weigh on your relationship a lot, right right, you 182 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: brought up feelings about X is something that I thought 183 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: was interesting and kind of a coincidence, a quarantine coincidence, 184 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,679 Speaker 1: and we've spoken about it on here before. Was that 185 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: because it's this is love is one of the things 186 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: that UM is, you know, heightened during the venus and retrograde. 187 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: You can expect to hear from your exes. I'm sorry 188 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: I was taken aback because you just said Venice. Nice. Sorry, 189 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm not talking about a city in Italy, Venice, ven Sorry, 190 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: Thank you for calling me out all that. I would 191 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 1: have been so embarrassed when I listened back. What did 192 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: What did they say about the ex is? Sorry? I 193 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: got very sad checked They said that you can expect 194 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: to hear from them and to use your intuition when 195 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: responding because well a right now, like it is fairly 196 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: fairly common that exes are reaching out so because from 197 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: a time of crisis, and it's okay, But if you 198 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: are going to reach out, you have to UM sort 199 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: of set your expectations and know what you want out 200 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 1: of it, UM, because it might just be that you 201 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: were hoping to hear from an X and it's a 202 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 1: time to reconnect, but not to make any major choices 203 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: like if it's if you want to reconnect, lead into it, reconnect, 204 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,959 Speaker 1: but don't get back in a relationship right now with 205 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: your ex. Right you're referencing the podcast we did last 206 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: week about XS is reaching out during quarantine, which that 207 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: is an interesting point. I mean, that makes all of 208 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: these emotions even more heightened because we've got this energy 209 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: of venus and you're in quarantine. Maybe you're lonely, So, 210 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 1: like you said, actually go listen to the podcast because 211 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: I think we gave some good tips on how to 212 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: navigate that. The other thing to think about that I 213 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: read is if you're in a relationship and XS are 214 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 1: reaching out, because they say that might happen too, that's 215 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: always a hard one to navigate. Yeah, look, I think 216 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: he goes back to the communication like if you if you, 217 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 1: if you choose to respond, there's two manas you can 218 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: know about it. Like if you're gonna respond and don't 219 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: want to engage, you could say it's great to hear 220 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: from you, you know, and sort of like nip it 221 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: in the bud. Or if you feel like you want 222 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,599 Speaker 1: to be a friend or reconnect with this person, I 223 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 1: think you just have to communicate that with your partner 224 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 1: so that it's clear, because nothing sketchier than doing something 225 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: secret secretly, right, even if your intentions are pure, it's 226 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: gonna be a really hard to convince your partner that 227 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 1: they were if you hadn't communicated what was going on 228 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 1: at such a good point. I was having that conversation 229 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: with another friend I guess this was last week and 230 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: her boyfriend, you know it was trying to keep the 231 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: peace in a relationship and deleted a text thing because 232 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: he was like, it's not a big deal and I 233 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: don't want to cause a fight. But then she told 234 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: I mean, he ended up telling her and was like, 235 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have probably done that. She's like, you can't 236 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: because that makes it look so sketchy, you know, And 237 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: that is something that's what is your protocol in relationships? 238 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 1: Do you want to be told if an X reaches 239 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: out to your partner? Well, I think it depends on 240 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: like the context, how how engaged you are in the 241 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: context of it, like yeah, I mean it's and also 242 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: like kind of how the relationship ended, like if you 243 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:12,199 Speaker 1: know that history, Like I said this in the past podcast, 244 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: like I'm I'm good friends with a lot of my 245 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 1: acts so and and literally have zero interest in dating them. 246 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: And again, so I wouldn't. I mean, I wouldn't. I 247 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: could justify doing it, but I think that I would 248 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 1: probably be like make it out and the open that 249 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: it did happened, like that's you're communicating. It's such a 250 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: fine line because like a lot of times, if you're 251 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: like you said, if you're friends with someone and it 252 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 1: can seem like threatening almost like they're just like it's 253 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: like what do you want to say? Every single time 254 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: you'll text, you want them to be like, hey I 255 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 1: texted with so and so today, Like that can kind 256 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:49,200 Speaker 1: of get exhausting. But at the same time, you really 257 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: do have to decide with your partner, Like I, you know, 258 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: we kind of have an arrangement where it's like if 259 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: a random reaches out, I mean, we're going to tell 260 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: each other because there's just like a no secrets thing, 261 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: which makes you feel more secure. I think it makes 262 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: him feel more secure. But but again it's like it 263 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: just depends on your relationship. I guess yeah, And look, 264 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,680 Speaker 1: I think that openness and honesty is what makes a 265 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: healthy relationship. And even if what you're doing is um 266 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 1: like I said, with pure intention, like if you're keeping 267 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: it secret, it it puts a fog on it. Then 268 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: it causes doubt in your partner, it breaks the trust. 269 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: So I think the more open you can be, especially 270 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:36,239 Speaker 1: in a time like venus and retrograde, when it's relationship 271 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: stuff is heightened anyway, So it's all about communication exactly, 272 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: then like over the overly communicative exactly, And if you 273 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: think it's going to cause problems in your relationship, then 274 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: it's probably best to let your gut speak to you 275 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: and don't respond, you know, right, that's a good point 276 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: to you don't always have to respond. Another question that 277 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: I read about was will venus retrograde as breakups, which 278 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 1: on the heels of this conversation, I mean, I think 279 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: that's an easy transition, and Women's Health dot Com says 280 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: it can. But if the breakups occurred during this time, 281 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 1: just know that they probably would have happened anyway, or 282 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: they should have happened anyway. Like, it's not a time 283 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: that's going to cause a breakup. It might just heighten 284 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 1: things so that that breakup happens a little quicker, But 285 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: it could also go the opposite way, so where you 286 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: know there's these issues coming up, like we were just saying, 287 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: and it can strengthen your relationship because you actually work 288 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: through these things and you work through some underlying issues 289 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 1: that might have always been there well. And I think 290 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,600 Speaker 1: further to that is, if you know, if a problem 291 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: arises that it looks like it's moving towards breakup, don't jump, 292 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 1: don't jump to that conclusion. I think now is a 293 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: really good time to try to work through it and 294 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: communicate through it. Whereas you know, I think a lot 295 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: of relationships end sometimes for stupid reasons and it's just 296 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: a fight that you can't get past and communication has 297 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: been poor. So maybe this is a time to like 298 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 1: slow the role on the break up and and give 299 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 1: yourself the time to work through it. Yeah, like that 300 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: you said, you read an article in the Huffington's Post 301 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 1: with some notes on the things that are heightened during 302 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: Venus retrograde. Is that right? Yes? Yeah? This is It 303 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: is um eight ways to protect your beauty, love, relationships, 304 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: and money. And this is actually from two thousand fifteen, 305 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 1: but it's still obviously um it pertains to what's going 306 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 1: on right now because this is every time that Venus 307 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: is retrograde relevant if you will yes, so it says, 308 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: hold off on getting married or making wedding plans. Well, 309 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: anyone has to worry about that? Well yeah, right now, 310 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: it's like you can't even get married, right, but you 311 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: can't have a way to zoom. Don't do a zoom wedding, okay, thanks. 312 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 1: Do not begin a new relationship or breakup from the 313 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: one you're in. Why did they don't begin a new one? Okay, 314 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: I'll just read this. A little thing says Venus rules love, 315 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: relationship and partnerships of all kinds. The retrograde is not 316 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: a time for moving forward new beginnings. You're changing the 317 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: status quo you are. You're not operating from a practical 318 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: place of objectivity about your needs. Your heart is plugged 319 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: into love, romance, and sensuality. You may be so attracted 320 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 1: to someone that you cannot see how they can do 321 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: any wrong. If you've just met someone, just enjoy them 322 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 1: without feeling a need to tell your relatives and friends 323 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: this is the one. If you've been dating someone for 324 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: a while, take a breath before you escalate your romantic commitment. 325 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,720 Speaker 1: If you've been in a serious relationship for some time, 326 00:17:24,119 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 1: hold off a little longer to propose Okay, so just 327 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: no major changes including proposing, breaking up, or taking things 328 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: to the next level. Okay, interesting, What's next? UM Number 329 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: three is make an appraisal of your current relationship. I 330 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 1: think you know we've touched on that. So prepare for 331 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: old relationships to return to your life. Be aware of 332 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 1: making changes in your beauty and overall appearance. But no 333 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: thanks postpone monetary matters, which I'll touch on that because 334 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,920 Speaker 1: that really hit home for me. Well, I've been over 335 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: the last few months, I've had a desire to sell 336 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 1: my house and and find something new, move to a 337 00:18:09,160 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: different neighborhood. And it's been a process, like I looked 338 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 1: at one million homes, it feels like, and I have 339 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: looked at land and um just trying to figure out 340 00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: what it is exactly that I want versus just the 341 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 1: itch to have something different. And over the last couple 342 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 1: of weeks, like I've sort of slowed my role a 343 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: little bit and like subconsciously consciously, And I think a 344 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 1: lot of it probably had to do with like ship 345 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: we're in the middle of a global pandemic, Like I 346 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: took a pay cut. Maybe this isn't the best time. 347 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: But in reading about this, stuff. I'm like, wait, maybe 348 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: it was subconsciously the retrograde of Venus speaking to me, 349 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: this is not a good time to do it, um, 350 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: just and it's it's been weird because it hasn't been 351 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: like a heavy decision. It's been more of a gut decision. 352 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 1: And when my realtor sends me thing, it's like, I 353 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: hate telling her. I don't like it because I feel 354 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 1: like I should be looking for something, but like nothing 355 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: is speaking to me right now. The only things that 356 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: are speaking to me are out of my reach. And 357 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 1: I don't want to overspend and I don't want to 358 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: get into a place where I'm also poor, you know, right, well, 359 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: so this is a great time. I mean, this is 360 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 1: a great note for you to even think about that 361 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: and be a little more peaceful in trusting your debt. 362 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: Right interesting, Okay, totally, Um number seven is reconsidered whether 363 00:19:26,600 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: or not it is the right time for an investment, 364 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: which you know, we just sort of and then cautiously 365 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: evaluate any luxury items that you want to buy. Now 366 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 1: is not the time for extravagance. I mean, luckily for 367 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 1: all of us, maybe this is a great thing that 368 00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: we're in this pandemic right now because a lot of 369 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: these issues just are kind of irrelevant. I think a 370 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: lot of us are already doing these things, like avoiding 371 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: the lave or maybe I'm wrong, but I know, for 372 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: me avoiding the luxury items, like I haven't been spending 373 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: the way I used to spend cut back right now, 374 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: you know we had to. Yeah, yeah, I mean it's 375 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: that has been sort of a blessing here. I guess it's. 376 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: I mean I basically shocked at two places right now, 377 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 1: the grocery store and Amazon. That's what you're going to say, 378 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 1: the grocery store and the liquor store. Just me, No, Well, 379 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: you know, I was a stocked up on liquor, so 380 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: I can get beer and wine in the en fair enough. 381 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:25,280 Speaker 1: But but Amazon is for all the other like non essentially, 382 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, I've really learned to sort of check myself 383 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 1: when I'm on there, Like I'll fill up my cart 384 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: and then I go through and delete ship. Yeah, I mean, 385 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: this is it essential? So why are you buying another 386 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: book when you haven't read the ones you have? Exactly? Yeah? 387 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: What about you were mentioning that you think you might 388 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 1: be you might have been born during a venus retrograde. 389 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 1: Why do you think that? Well, okay, so some here's 390 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 1: the thing about my astrological knowledge and just how I 391 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: feel about it in general, like i've I've often, you know, 392 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,920 Speaker 1: I questioned the validity of it. But then I read 393 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: definitely yeah, And then you read stuff and you're like, 394 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,479 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is nail on, you know, like 395 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,600 Speaker 1: and um, so a lot of things were like pointing 396 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 1: towards me feeling like maybe I was born in retro 397 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,040 Speaker 1: Venus and retrograde, but then some things aren't. Basically what 398 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: I read was ten percent of people, somewhere between eight 399 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,959 Speaker 1: and ten percent of people are born in Venus and retrograde. 400 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: And and some of the qualities of those people are 401 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,359 Speaker 1: that you sort of you marched the beat of your 402 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 1: own drum. You you um, you don't bow to societal norms. 403 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: You seek up to fulfill a higher, higher spiritual purpose. Um. 404 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: You like you like there's a desire to like seek 405 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 1: your own truth, even if it makes life a little 406 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:51,080 Speaker 1: bit more complicated, like because you're going against the flow. Um, 407 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: there is I'll read this. This is from Cafe Astrology 408 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 1: dot com. It says people born under Venus retrograde. I 409 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: have to watch self sabotage and love relationships. They may 410 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,640 Speaker 1: have an underlying feeling of not being good enough, attractive enough, 411 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 1: or lovable enough. Deep insecurities can be present. Self love 412 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: can be an issue. Fears can lead them to overcompensate, 413 00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 1: such as to overeat and serial date. So there was 414 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: there's like all these things, like a lot of that 415 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,440 Speaker 1: does apply to me. Um, but then there's some things 416 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 1: where it's like, um, you're shying your youth because of awkwardness, 417 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: small talk, social graces, you have a version of superficialities. Um, 418 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: love is extremely important. So some of those things do 419 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 1: which I check those boxes and some of them they 420 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: don't check. So um, But it was I don't know 421 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 1: how to figure out if that's in my chart or not. 422 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: So I was doing the research and try and figure 423 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 1: it out, and I just I couldn't figure out. I'm 424 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: probably gonna have to go to Marv and have him 425 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 1: let me know. Well, funny that you should mention that, 426 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: because in five minutes I have a session with Marv. 427 00:22:54,880 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: So I'm marvels are astrologer. If you got have not 428 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: listened to my podcast with him, he is insanely smart 429 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 1: and it just makes this whole thing very interesting. I 430 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: do think it's a hard thing for a lot of 431 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: people to buy into. I know my boyfriend specifically is like, okay, retrograde, 432 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, like just it's just like whatever. People don't 433 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: buy into it. But if you read about it like 434 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 1: you're saying, I think it's an interesting thing to think about, 435 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,960 Speaker 1: and especially to put on your plate during this quarantine 436 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,720 Speaker 1: time and maybe to think about maybe taking a little 437 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 1: bit of a pause before you get in these major 438 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,440 Speaker 1: fights or make any huge decisions in relationships and love 439 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: and money. Beauty, please don't cut your bangs things like that. Um, basically, yeah, 440 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I was just thinking the main notes that 441 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 1: I took away after researching today where you know, I'm 442 00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,560 Speaker 1: going to just take a little breath, and it actually 443 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 1: helped ease a little bit of my anxiety of some 444 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: things I've been thinking about, and just like take it 445 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,959 Speaker 1: to the journal, right it out. You can always make 446 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: the decision later. You don't have to do it right 447 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 1: this second. This ends June, right, so who knows where 448 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 1: the world could be at that time. We could be 449 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 1: out of quarantine even who knows. But and you don't 450 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: want add bangs at that point because somebody, if you 451 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,879 Speaker 1: don't have somebody want I wanted to add something to 452 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: it too, And UM, I thought this was a really 453 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: interesting thing because I've heard the quote before and UM, 454 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know why this is a generalization, 455 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 1: but I feel like we have more female listeners and 456 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,199 Speaker 1: we have male listeners. But I wanted to sort of 457 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 1: inject this because it sort of brings the mail into 458 00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:27,360 Speaker 1: this conversation a little bit. So, UM, I never really 459 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: knew what men are from being a men are from Mars, 460 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 1: women are from Venus even met but UM, I found 461 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: this thing. I believe it was an helping compost and 462 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 1: it says that saying is outdated and gendered, but if 463 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 1: we look at it through the modern lens and understand 464 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: that gender is fluid, it can still help us to 465 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: understand what these two planets and the resulting retrogrades mean. 466 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: We all contain both masculine and feminine energy. Venus is 467 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: a softer, nurturing counterpart to the more heavy aggressive energy 468 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: of Mars. Ramp up that self care and nurture your 469 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,320 Speaker 1: inner child. I think that's a great point to leave 470 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: on to just really like take this time to get 471 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 1: introspective and ask yourself what you need, which I mean 472 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 1: we all need to be doing anyway during this quarantine time. 473 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: If you ask, yeah, look, don't let this time be wasted. 474 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:20,440 Speaker 1: It's a great time to really like be introspective and 475 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: and build yourself up for when the world opens back up, 476 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: so you come out stronger and more um centered. I 477 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: think the biggest point we need to make is that 478 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: if nothing else, a retrograde is the perfect time to 479 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: just remember act bye.