1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:00,720 Speaker 1: That show is on. 2 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: It's stay or go all right, Daniel is here, Hi Daniel, 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:11,000 Speaker 2: good morning, Good morning Daniel. What's going on with this 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: is you're a married man, okay, and you got some 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 2: kids and your wife is up to something. You think, 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 2: maybe what's the situation? 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: So I wanted to get some advice, you know, relationship advice. 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 3: So my youngest daughter mentioned something to me about mommy's 9 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: new friend Jeff's house. So I was, you know, kind 10 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 3: of caught off guard by that. So I asked my wife. 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 3: She told me their kids. You know, my daughter made 12 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 3: friends at the park with this girl, and they went 13 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: over to. 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: Their house, the new friend's house, for a playdate. And 15 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 1: Jeff is their dad. 16 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: Okay, Jeff is all right, all right, So the kids 17 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: are playing and they go over to Jeff's house. 18 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah. 19 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: And so I was just a little put off by that, 20 00:00:58,320 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 3: Like my wife didn't tell me. I had to find 21 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: out through my daughter, and so I guess my way 22 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: I'm feeling. 23 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 1: Am I wrong to be bothered at? 24 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 3: My wife was married to me, obviously went over to 25 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 3: a single man's house. 26 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: This is a single dad, and I didn't know anything 27 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: about it. 28 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 2: I don't think this is a problem. Why is this 29 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: a problem? It's not Why is this a problem? I mean, 30 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 2: the kids are playing like. It's not the kid's fault 31 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: that you know, Jeff got divorced or whatever. Sorry for 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:27,039 Speaker 2: your love, Jeff, I mean, right, I'm sorry. What if 33 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: Jeff's gay? 34 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: Do we know? 35 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: What do we know about Jeff? How much do we 36 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: know about this man? And I mean, I mean, I'm 37 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: being honest. I'm not I'm not invalidating your concern. I 38 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: just I think, like, do you do you always? Are 39 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: you always fully briefed on the on the relationship status 40 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: of the parents of the playdate? Honestly? And I'm not again, Daniel, 41 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 2: I'm not making funny here, but I'm serious. 42 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 3: No, I mean, And I confronted my wife and she said, 43 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 3: you know, it's not a big deal. She just the 44 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 3: fact that she didn't bring it up, you know, being suspicious, 45 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 3: and you know, obviously I'm a little insecure about it. 46 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: And I you know, I think if the tables were 47 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 3: turned and I would stay at home dad and I 48 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 3: went to a single mom's house, I would be, you know, 49 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: have the wherewithal to tell my wife, Hey, I'm going 50 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 3: over to you know whatever Stacey's house and you know, 51 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 3: hang out with it, you know, just so you're aware 52 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: of what's going on. The fact that it wasn't, you know, 53 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 3: as you mentioned to me, put me off. 54 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: I had to find out through my daughter. 55 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 3: And then the way she says, she's like mommy's new friend. 56 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: Jeff. Okay, Well, the wording of that was a little. 57 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna, I'm gonna, I'm gonna put a crazy 58 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: one out there for you because I am crazy, so 59 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 2: I can do that. Let's say that your wife went 60 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 2: over to Samantha's house and Samantha had a couple of kids. 61 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 2: We're not worried about that, right, We don't say anything 62 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 2: about that about Samantha single mom. 63 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 3: Right, Sure, No, I'm not worried about that because. 64 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: It turns out Samantha's lesbian. 65 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 2: Oh turns well, it turns out his wife is exploring, experimenting. 66 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: Turns out not to say, I'm just saying if it 67 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 2: were a woman, we wouldn't say anything about this, and 68 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 2: we wouldn't say anything because we don't think there's a 69 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 2: sexual threat, because that's what this is about. This is 70 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: about the potential for a sexual threat, when really it's 71 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: about the kids playing. Now, I admitted last hour, I'm 72 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: an insecure person. This doesn't bother me because why I'm 73 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 2: married to this person. Why are they automatically cheating on me? 74 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 2: If they're alone with a single person, that could be 75 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 2: happening anywhere. 76 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: Why, ouse, Why are you in. 77 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 4: The house where the kids supposed to play at a park? 78 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 4: The kids play at a park. You don't need to 79 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 4: be in Tim's house or John's house without telling me anything. 80 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 4: John could be a serial killer. And you got you 81 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 4: and my kids in that house and no one has 82 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 4: said anything to me. 83 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: Absolutely not. But Samantha could be a serial killer. 84 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 4: Jamantha, Samantha could, But I know John might be for real, 85 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 4: I'm not no, no, no, no. My man doesn't need to 86 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 4: be in any other woman's house without my knowledge. 87 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 2: You guys, if she were alone, if she were like, 88 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 2: if the kids weren't there, yeah, that's know that the kids. 89 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 4: Might have been in the basement playing at her. And 90 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 4: what timmy what's his name? 91 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Jeff Yeah, mom's friends Jeff. 92 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, MoMA jeh upstands people. 93 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 5: Are texting that they're saying, why are they saying Jeff's 94 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 5: mommy's friend, Jeff's house? 95 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 4: And not my friend Susie. 96 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: Right, like you know the age of the kid, Like 97 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: maybe that's but. 98 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 2: You you guys, I am a look, I am insecure 99 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: in relationships. Many may I have a lot of unreasonable 100 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 2: thoughts about what I am into and what I'm not 101 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: into and what I think is cool, what I don't 102 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 2: think is cool. But I have to tell you when 103 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 2: it comes to the kids, I mean, there's there are 104 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 2: going to be situations where one parents they are the 105 00:04:29,680 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 2: other parents, not single parent, moms at work, dads at work, 106 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 2: you know, soccer practice moms there, dad took the kids, mom, mom. 107 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: And sister wives, everybody. 108 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: What I'm just saying, why do we automatically jump to 109 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 2: there has to be infidelity? 110 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 4: I don't think infidelity. 111 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 5: My big concern, Well, my concern is maybe I over 112 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 5: communicate with my husband. 113 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 4: But do people not talk at the end. 114 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 5: Of the night where it's like you're in bed, you 115 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 5: want to you know, tuck yourself in. Oh, how was 116 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 5: your day? 117 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 4: All was good. 118 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 5: We went to Jeff's house and little Susie play with 119 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 5: little Jimmy and they had a great time. 120 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:03,520 Speaker 1: Like why are they not telling each other this? 121 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 4: I tell my husband everything. I'll be like, oh, yeah, 122 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 4: I was here today. 123 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: We did this? 124 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: Be more concerned, Paulina if it were over explained to me, wife, Now, 125 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: Jeff's a single day, but you have. 126 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: Nothing to work about it because the kids. I'd be like, 127 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: wait a minute, hold on, I wasn't working about it. 128 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 6: He's gay. 129 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 1: No, not even that. 130 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 5: It's just like I feel like you just communicate with 131 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,320 Speaker 5: your partner and say, how is your day? 132 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: What did you do? Would you see? Where'd you go? Like, 133 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's a little panther No, do you 134 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: have any suspicion of your wife? Otherwise? 135 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 2: I think I'm not invalidating your feelings because there are 136 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 2: a lot of people apparently that agree with you, that 137 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 2: think it's inappropriate. I guess when it comes to the kids, 138 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 2: I guess I don't necessarily think you get to choose, 139 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: you know, the marital status of the parents of the kids, 140 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: that your friends be friends, right. 141 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,239 Speaker 1: I tend to agree with your co hosts. 142 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,320 Speaker 3: I think everything should be out in the open and 143 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 3: have an open line of communication. If there's nothing to hide, 144 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 3: then use nothing you can't say then just to be 145 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: open and just whether and if she went to a 146 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 3: female house, I'd like to know that too, just for 147 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: the fact that we're married, we're life partners. Our lives, 148 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 3: you know, do revolve around each other and our children. 149 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 3: So it's nice to know if God forbid, something does 150 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 3: happen where she was what she's doing. So I think 151 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 3: that's only fair an open line of communication and a 152 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 3: marriage to me, and I would offer her the same 153 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 3: respect from my vantage point. If the table's returned, so 154 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: me not getting it, it's just alarm bells went off. 155 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:26,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I hear what you're saying. 156 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,840 Speaker 2: I just think there are far more sinister ways to 157 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: conceal infidelity than play dates out And maybe it's maybe it's, 158 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 2: like you know, right out in the open, maybe you 159 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: should be worried about this because it's just so obvious that. 160 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 1: But at the same time, if you don't. 161 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,679 Speaker 2: Suspect your wife, if you don't suspect she's a cheater, 162 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 2: if you've never suspected she's a cheater, then why are 163 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 2: we putting that on her now? In this one situation 164 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 2: that is pretty easily explainable. The kids met at the park, 165 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: they hung out. It's not as though you can say, no, kids, 166 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but we can't go over to that house 167 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 2: because Daddy says that Jeff's a predator. Daniel, I'm just 168 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: I mean, it sounds ridiculous and again not making fun 169 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 2: of you, but like, come on, you know what I mean. 170 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: It's not as though she. I don't think we targeted 171 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 2: the guy in the playground. Hey, kids, go play with 172 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 2: those kids because daddy's hot, you know what I mean. 173 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 3: I find it a respect. I wouldn't do that on 174 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: my end. I wouldn't go to a single our female's house, 175 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 3: whether single or marriage. Just to me, it would be 176 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: just putting yourself in a situation where it's not necessary. 177 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: So I just wouldn't do that. 178 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 3: So I feel like I should be given that in return, 179 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 3: as you know, equal boundaries, and it's just not even 180 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 3: putting myself in the situation. It just temptation isn't even there. 181 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: There's no you know, because that's what leads to others things. 182 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 3: It's just it can easily go down that path. So 183 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: I'd rather not even dabble. 184 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 1: This is ridiculous. 185 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 5: I'm just saying, communicate with your partner at the end 186 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 5: of the night, when you're having your tea, whatever you 187 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 5: guys do together at night, your wine. 188 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,240 Speaker 4: Just say this is how my day went. That's all 189 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 4: I'm saying. 190 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 5: But he's taking it too far now, just because you're 191 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 5: a single mom all of a sudden, like you're attempted. 192 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:03,120 Speaker 4: Come on, like, relax, what's at Jeff's house that's not 193 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 4: at our house? 194 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 2: Maybe Jeff, maybe he's a cool guy with the bounce 195 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 2: house or the. 196 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: Or the loom. Maybe it's the loop. 197 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 4: You gotta be the loop because they were in the backyard. 198 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 4: They say, we were in their house. Hey, why what's 199 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 4: in Jeff's house that is not at our house? I 200 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 4: come on, he don't know. I'm telling you, guys. I 201 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 4: don't say leave your wife, but you need to investigate. 202 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 4: You need to go to work and circle the block 203 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 4: and pop up. 204 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 2: See what you guys, we can't just suspect our partners 205 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: of cheating all the time, just automatically because we're alone 206 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:42,960 Speaker 2: with another single person, Like, we just can't do that. 207 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 2: Let me take some Let me take some phone Callst. Daniel, 208 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 2: have a great day. Thanks for calling. 209 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 4: I don't even know. 210 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 6: They don't have to be single for things to happen. Also, 211 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 6: there's so many other ways this could be. And I'm 212 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 6: just guys, come on, and people are like, Fred, you're wrong. 213 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 6: But guys, right last hour, I told you I'm insecure 214 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 6: at this hour, I'm like that a ghost. I about 215 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 6: a ghost with this hour, guys, I can't. I cannot. 216 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: If I'm married to someone, I cannot constantly police who 217 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: they're with and win and why. Okay, so she goes 218 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: to work and there's a single guy the cubicle next 219 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: to her. 220 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: They're doing it. 221 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 4: No, no, there at work. There work, they're not. 222 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: That doesn't mean anything. 223 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 2: Did you see a story in Charlotte last week and 224 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:24,679 Speaker 2: the people who have work and they go to the 225 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 2: top of the parking garage and they're doing it in 226 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: the back of the car, and it went viral in 227 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: all of the world all over TikTok because these people 228 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 2: were doing it in the middle of work. 229 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 4: Imagine what they're doing in. 230 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: The back of before runner where there's a bed. 231 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 4: Imagine what you write. 232 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 2: You guys, Come on, Megan, Hi, Megan, good morning, Hi, 233 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: good morning. 234 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 7: I cannot believe I got through. But anyways, I think 235 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 7: it definitely needs to be a conversation. I'm not saying 236 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 7: he needs to go, but there needs to be more 237 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 7: of a conversation. The little girl said, mommy's new friend. 238 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 7: The little girl didn't say my new friend. 239 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: That's right, how old I It. 240 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 7: Doesn't matter like kids, No, like kids, kids are smart, 241 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 7: and so I think that the way that the little 242 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 7: girl phrased it, she didn't talk about her new friend Susie. 243 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 7: She talked about mom's new friend, Jeff's house. 244 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:16,720 Speaker 8: Whether Jeff has kids or Jeff. 245 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 7: Single, it doesn't matter one way or the other. The 246 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 7: way that this was set up was Mom was going 247 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 7: to her friend's house. A little girl didn't go to 248 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 7: her friend. 249 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 1: My sister thought she was a horse when she was 250 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 1: a toddler. 251 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:31,320 Speaker 7: You know, like maybe she just phrased it that way. 252 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't know that. 253 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: I mean, you're right, maybe there's a raw honesty from 254 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 2: a child that you know is truly revealing. But someone texted, 255 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm being disrespectful or insensitive about this. 256 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: No, I'm not. 257 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 2: What I'm doing is I'm not automatically running to infidelity. 258 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 5: Just because. 259 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 6: I know you're not together. 260 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: He did, that's his concern, and I'm not being I'm 261 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 2: not being insensitive, but I'm I'm I'm arguing that I 262 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 2: don't think that's fair to her, a person who he's 263 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 2: married to. And trust and had kids with and says 264 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 2: admittedly on our show, he's had no reason to doubt her. 265 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 2: And now all of a sudden, their kids meet a 266 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 2: single dad, and now automatically. 267 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: He's they're they're they're sleeping with each other. Guys. That's yeah. 268 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 7: I'd want to invest. I'd want to talk to the 269 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 7: kid more and be like, where did you meet this person? 270 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 7: Because mom said, oh, the kids met at the park. 271 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 7: How do we know the kids really met at the park. 272 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 7: The mom can tell the kid, oh, yeah, this is 273 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 7: the friend you met at the park the other day. 274 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 2: Megan, thank you, and I appreciate the call. Have a 275 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 2: good day. I'm a I'm a single guy. I've been 276 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 2: single my whole life. I have tons of married friends 277 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 2: whose husbands are at work, and sometimes we'll go to 278 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 2: lunch or sometimes I've even gone to stuff. I've even 279 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: gone to stuff with mom and kid when dad's out 280 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 2: of town. And I'm not pretending to be the dad. 281 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: I'm just accompanying because you know, hey, we got this 282 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 2: thing in the park. 283 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 1: You know you went. 284 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 2: I'm not sleeping with these people. I'm not saying with 285 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: these people, but like it would be look at you, 286 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 2: I think gets unfair to me as a single guy 287 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 2: that we automatically always target me as the guy who's 288 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 2: up to something. I can't just be friends with a 289 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 2: woman who's married without sleeping with her. It's impossible. Yeah, 290 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 2: so I think you're being insensitive type casting me as 291 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 2: a bad dude or Jeff over here, I don't think, 292 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 2: but we don't know. Maybe maybe Jeff is a dirty dog. 293 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,840 Speaker 2: Maybe Jeff is gay. 294 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, a dirty dog. We really don't know. True, he 295 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: can beat a dirty dog. 296 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 2: But if he's getting a dirty dog and he's dirty 297 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 2: dog in somewhere else cotail house, I think it is 298 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: insensitive to automatically jump to infidelity every time your spouse 299 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 2: or girlfriend or partner is doing something with another human 300 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 2: being of the opposite sex. 301 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:51,720 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, thank you, Tanya, Hi, hi there, good morning. 302 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 8: I honestly feel like he should invite have his wife 303 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 8: invite Jeff to their house and see if Jeff is 304 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 8: open to me eating them together, because I kind of 305 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 8: get the feeling that maybe, like the mom and Jeff 306 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 8: had this thing going on and they were like, Hey, 307 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,079 Speaker 8: I want to be able to see you, you know more, 308 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 8: Maybe we can have a playdate for our kids at 309 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,559 Speaker 8: the park and they can, like, you know, and then 310 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 8: we can have an excuse to get together. I honestly 311 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 8: think it's kind of fishy, I. 312 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: Guess, but I you know, I mean, that's a different 313 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: level of awful. If this woman is using the children 314 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 2: to play in the other room while she cheats on dad, Like, 315 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 2: that's a whole different thing. While wow, we have apparently 316 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: Jeff and mom, the woman that he's married to, that 317 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 2: he committed to life. Apparently she's the worst human being 318 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 2: to involve her children in infidelity. 319 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 1: Like, guys, this is crazy. 320 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 3: I have ton't ask for any of this, and all 321 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 3: of a sudden we're like maky, like come over and 322 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: meet the family. 323 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 1: You know, Tanya, I do. 324 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,439 Speaker 2: I think there could be better communication, absolutely, But you guys, 325 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 2: we cannot just jump to the worst. We cannot just 326 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 2: with the some people all the time, like why is 327 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 2: everyone a cheater? 328 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 8: I have young kids, and I will tell you this. 329 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 8: They do not know people's names. Like my kids don't 330 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 8: know their friend's parents name. So the fact that they 331 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 8: know the parent's name is kind of suspicious to me. 332 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 8: My kids severely learned friend's name. 333 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 2: All right, you know, tell me these are all good points. 334 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. Thank you, Thank you for listening. Have 335 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 2: a good day. 336 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 6: You're not laughing at you. 337 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: And by the way, we weren't laughing at her at all. 338 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 2: It's just over here stirring it up. 339 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: Oh say it look like you've done with these people. 340 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 4: Everyone is cheating? 341 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 2: Why are we Who is being insensitive? No one's being insensitive. 342 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: I just don't think that it's fair to label this 343 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 2: person as a cheater for this. We don't know that. Aaron, Hi, Hey, 344 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 2: how are you Aaron? We can't just call everybody a cheater. 345 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 2: Every time Kiki. 346 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: She does, she will How did you want to say? 347 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 2: Aaron? 348 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 1: Please please tell it about. 349 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 9: I hate to be if I'm taking side to your friend. 350 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 9: I'm kind of against you. I hate to say it. 351 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: That's okay. I think I'm used to it. 352 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 9: I don't think they should go. I think there were 353 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 9: two questions that are important that you didn't ask, and 354 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:14,960 Speaker 9: the first one was the age of the child does 355 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 9: matter because of how she phrase it of Jeff's friend, 356 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,000 Speaker 9: if she's three or four and saying that is different 357 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 9: than if she's eight and saying Jeff's friend's house. So 358 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 9: that's number one. Number two is I'd be a little 359 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 9: bit questionable. I hate to bring this up. The income 360 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 9: of the families. I kind of have a I talked 361 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 9: to a lot of people, and I am aware that 362 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 9: people that are more affluent, that have more money, are. 363 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: Very open to open relationships and families. 364 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:49,720 Speaker 2: So now they're rich and swinging. 365 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 4: I'm just saying I. 366 00:15:55,280 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 2: Had in front of his ask so much fantastic. So 367 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 2: so it's possible that there's socioeconomic status. 368 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 9: No, I'm streaking again. I used to teach it, ok 369 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 9: park and that was very common in the affluence. 370 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, no, fair enough, there's there are some freaky 371 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: things when I'm in the suburbs there. 372 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: Hey, Aaron, thank you, have a good day you guys. 373 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm sorry, I just I can't with this. 374 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 2: So we got to do a full vetting process before 375 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 2: my wife, if I were married, before my wife can 376 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: take my kids to hang. 377 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: Out with just to see his taxes. 378 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 2: Hey, can we do a full std and blood panel 379 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 2: in this guy? I want to know what Jeff's lippings 380 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 2: are like, ladies, was. 381 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 4: Just a toddler, Like, let's give a toddler that trauma, like. 382 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 2: Does he have low s if he has low se 383 00:16:51,280 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 2: nothing's going on here, Bianca, Bianca out of control? High Sorry, yeah, 384 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 2: it's your turn. 385 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: Please say something. 386 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:17,439 Speaker 5: Can you hear me? 387 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: Yes of course, yes, yes, Bianca. 388 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 10: Go hey, hey, hey, I was calling him to say, 389 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 10: there's no way a mom with a couple of kids 390 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 10: is having an affair Jess because she goes to Jeff's house. 391 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 10: We are so tired. We are just glad to have 392 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 10: people who want to be with our children and entertain 393 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 10: our kids. And if I'm giving the choice between sleeping 394 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 10: with somebody else or taking a nap, I'm always going 395 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 10: to take the nap. 396 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 4: Bread girl. 397 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just again, I think it's really unfair to 398 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 2: just say, oh, two people man. 399 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 1: And a woman. 400 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 4: Now you're taking it. You're taking a nap at Jeff's house. 401 00:17:58,160 --> 00:17:59,919 Speaker 10: I mean I'm gonna be taking a nap if I'm 402 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 10: wanted to hang out with my. 403 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 4: Kids and play. 404 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 10: I am totally down. I am. 405 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 9: Be. 406 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: You're not helping anything here. Get out of just. 407 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 2: Bed, get out of thank you have a good day. 408 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 1: Car, I gotta go. 409 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 2: Well, now you're doing in the car, do it in 410 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: the car while the kids playing. Now you're a netligent 411 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 2: parent too. Somebody calls everywhere alone with a man you 412 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:36,639 Speaker 2: just met. Oh my god, honey, don't walk outside, you 413 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: might it's the mailman. Single you guys, You guys are crazy. 414 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 2: I love Hey. I'll tell you what if we find out, 415 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 2: if we find out that this woman is cheating, that 416 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 2: I take it all back and I'm sorry, and i 417 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: will publicly apologize, and I'll be roasted at the at 418 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 2: the square. You can stone me at the square if 419 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 2: this is what happens. But I just don't I think it. Say, 420 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,400 Speaker 2: I think we're really jumping here. And let me tell 421 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 2: you something else. If I went on the air and 422 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,879 Speaker 2: I said, and if I were married with kids, and 423 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 2: I went on the air and I said, yeah, my wife, 424 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 2: you know my my my kids have a school friend 425 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 2: and you know he's a stay at home dad, and 426 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 2: they were over there yesterday while I was at work. 427 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 2: They were having brunch and playing in the backyard, and 428 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 2: she's obviously cheating. 429 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: You guys would crush me, Yeah, you would crush me. 430 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: They we don't know the location. We don't know the 431 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: venue of the hangout, you. 432 00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:34,000 Speaker 4: Said, a school friend that has history there. 433 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,879 Speaker 2: If I went on the air, Polina and I said, 434 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 2: my wife was hanging out with our kids and a 435 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 2: single dad. Obviously she's up to something. You guys would 436 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,440 Speaker 2: destroy me to pieces. 437 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:49,679 Speaker 1: And all I'm. 438 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 2: Saying is, we don't know that. And so now you're 439 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 2: gonna go, you're an accuser of cheating. You're gonna accuse 440 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 2: her of cheating in front of the kids, using the 441 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 2: kids as a decoy. I mean, that's a lot of accusations. 442 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: It's a lot of work to spin the block. 443 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 2: And I'll tell you what she if she if she's 444 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,640 Speaker 2: doing all that, she is a bad human being. 445 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:09,359 Speaker 1: Right and she smashes on the first date to night 446 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: at the. 447 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,600 Speaker 2: Park, I mean great, Yeah, it was more of a 448 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 2: second date thing. So totally classic, way classy. The Entertainer 449 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 2: Report and showed bes kicking Next Fred Show.