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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Double Show. Crystal is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been dating her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend Bryce for over a year now. They live together,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Hey, Crystal,

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Speaker 2: why do you think that Bryce might be cheating?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, first of all, thanks for having me. Yeah, so,

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Speaker 3: my uh my boyfriend Bryce, he goes on a lot

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Speaker 3: of business trips, right, and every time he comes back,

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Speaker 3: he comes with new clothes like that aren't like clothes

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Speaker 3: that seem like he just bought them, you know, like

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Speaker 3: they seem worn in, but clothes that don't that we

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Speaker 3: don't have it at our place, And he doesn't want

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Speaker 3: to be intimate the first few days that he's back,

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Speaker 3: which just seems like really sketchy to me. And ever

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Speaker 3: since we started dating, I knew that he would be

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Speaker 3: traveling a lot, and it wasn't really a big deal. Like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we both take our work pretty seriously, and

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Speaker 3: he travels like every other week, and sometimes it's a

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Speaker 3: couple of days and sometimes it's for the whole week.

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Speaker 3: He works in sales. I don't know if I if

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Speaker 3: I mentioned that, but yeah, and like he used to

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Speaker 3: just be so excited to see you when he got back,

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Speaker 3: and like, you know, we would always be intimate, like

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Speaker 3: he couldn't keep his hands off me, and he used

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Speaker 3: on the road. And now it's like way less frequent

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Speaker 3: and I can't get a hold of him. Like it's

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Speaker 3: just there's so many seemingly red flags here.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's like the evolution of the relationship.

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Speaker 4: You know, in the beginning, it's always like, oh, I

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Speaker 4: can't wait see you, and then it just kind of

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Speaker 4: is like, Okay, well, I trust you. We don't need

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Speaker 4: to talk every five minutes. Like is it kind of

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Speaker 4: that or do you feel like it's more than that.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's more than that. Something in my

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Speaker 3: gut tells me it's more than just like you know,

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Speaker 3: being out of the honeymoon phase.

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Speaker 2: Like, so, you guys have been together for a year

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Speaker 2: over a year. How long has this been going on?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's it's hard to like track exactly. I mean,

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Speaker 3: he's been traveling the whole time we've been together. But

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Speaker 3: I feel like in the last maybe six months or so,

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Speaker 3: it's gotten weirder.

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Speaker 1: So back to the coming back with new clothes. Is

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Speaker 1: he a thrifter? Huh No.

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Speaker 3: I'll even ask him like, oh, I haven't seen that

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Speaker 3: be like, oh, yeah, you know, like he just kind

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Speaker 2: If he's anything like me, he doesn't pack things or

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Speaker 2: loses things and then has to buy new stuff on

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Speaker 2: the road.

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Speaker 1: Is he like that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yes, but like again, these don't seem like new clues.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he's like Warren stuff. I think we're all in

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Speaker 4: agreement that there's a little bit of a flag going

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it does seem true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do you know where he goes when he goes on

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Speaker 1: his work trips?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I feel like most of I mean,

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Speaker 3: he's in sales, so he's like, you know, doing a

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Speaker 3: lot of like interfacing with different clients, potential clients and

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Speaker 2: He Ever, do you know anything about his past relationships?

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Speaker 2: Is he ever cheated before or been honest about that?

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Speaker 3: To my knowledge, he has not liked. That would be

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Speaker 3: something that I would really be cautious of going into

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Speaker 3: if I knew that someone had a history of cheating.

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Speaker 4: Sure, everything else in your relationship is fine other than

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Speaker 4: those first couple of days when he comes back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I feel like after those few couple days

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Speaker 3: when things are weird, like, yeah, we settle back into

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Speaker 3: a rhythm, but then he's traveling again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, you told us what grocery store.

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Speaker 2: He's a rewards card member, so we'll do the usual

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Speaker 2: and call and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 2: and tell him that every single month, we choose one

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Speaker 2: from our floor old department, and we'll see if he

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Speaker 2: sends those to you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, thank you. Play as I'll come back and

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Speaker 1: then call him and see if we can catch him

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Speaker 1: with to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Right after this, right in the middle of the Catch

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Speaker 2: a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Crystal is on

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Speaker 2: the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of one

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Speaker 2: year named Bryce might be cheating. So so in just

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Speaker 2: a minute, we're about to call him and pretend to

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Speaker 2: be from the grocery store where he's a rewards card

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Speaker 2: member and say that every single month we choose one

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Speaker 2: Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered to anybody

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Speaker 2: that they want. Will seev sends them to her or

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Speaker 2: to somebody else in just a second. But first, Crystal,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So Bryce and I live together. We've been together

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Speaker 3: for over a year and living together for the past

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Speaker 3: six or so months. And he travels a lot for

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Speaker 3: work because he works in sales, and whenever he comes

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Speaker 3: new clothes on or like in his bag that I

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Speaker 3: with me for like the first few days that he's back,

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Speaker 3: and it just feels really really bizarre.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and it's definite change in behavior.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Thank you?

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Speaker 1: Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is jord been calling from so I was

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Speaker 1: looking for a rewards card member named Bryce.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's rue Bryce.

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up this it's not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling to tell you congratulations here this month's big winner.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, I mean, what did I give certificate.

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Speaker 3: Or what what's the deal.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you aren't aware, but every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one Rewards Card member to say thank you very much

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Speaker 2: for being such a loyal customer and for shopping with

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Speaker 2: us by giving them free flowers delivered straight from our

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Speaker 2: floral department to anybody that they want in the entire

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Speaker 2: United States of America. You just want thirty six long

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Speaker 2: stem red roses, a box of candy, and a card

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I assume that comes with a vase.

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Speaker 1: Yes it does.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you know who you want to send them

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Speaker 2: to right now, I can take the information in just

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Speaker 2: a couple minutes over the phone.

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Speaker 5: Actually, good, timer, I got a good I got a

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Speaker 1: Great, all right, well let's hop to it.

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Speaker 2: Then you just the name of the person you want

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Speaker 2: to send them to, and then what you would want

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Speaker 2: to put on a card, and then I will get

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Speaker 2: the address last all right, yeah, first will be the

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Speaker 2: first and last name of the person.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I got you, Meredith.

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Speaker 1: Anything you want to put in a card for Meredith?

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Speaker 5: Uh? Let me think, uh uh maybe like to my wife.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm sorry, I have to I have

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Speaker 3: to cut you off. I have to cut you off.

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Speaker 3: This is Crystal. I'm sorry you did you just say wife?

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Speaker 3: I'm hearing you correctly. You said Meredith is your wife.

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Speaker 1: This is actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show.

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Speaker 2: We do a thing where we try to catch people

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Speaker 2: cheating by saying where they'll send flowers, and that is

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Speaker 2: your girlfriend, Crystal.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and back out conversation.

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Speaker 5: This is a story. I'm having a right now.

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Speaker 3: Yes, how can you not understand that you have a what?

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Speaker 3: And I'm your girlfriend? Are like? Is it? When did

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Speaker 3: you get married? Was that not something you thought I

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Speaker 3: should know? Crystal?

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry this you're I'm like, this is a thousand

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Speaker 5: miles an hour. I have no idea. What's happening in

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Speaker 5: my head is spinning. I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Okay, don't play this phone call. And you're on the

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Speaker 3: phone here, You're you're playing dumb. Okay, you know what

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Speaker 3: our relationship is, and clearly you know that you have

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Speaker 3: okay to keep that from me.

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Speaker 5: Oh God, Crystal, I I didn't want to have to

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Speaker 5: talk about this. In this way, and I got married

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Speaker 5: five years ago, but five years ago, but I was

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Speaker 5: separated when I met you, and I had just and

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Speaker 5: I did not know what was going on in life.

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Speaker 5: And I did not know I was going to fall

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Speaker 5: for you and the relationship that I have a real thing.

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Speaker 5: I just did not know. And I'm constantly.

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Speaker 1: Why are you sending flowers to your wife?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 5: Because I have been spending more time in Arizona with

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Speaker 5: Meredith and I have been kind of living this this

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Speaker 5: double This sucks, dude, I can't believe this.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, this sucks for you. Hello, I'm the victim here.

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Speaker 3: Let's not let's not play the victim.

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Speaker 5: I know I did not know what was happening, and

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Speaker 5: then I need a distance from her. And then you

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Speaker 5: and I started obviously working out, which gave me like

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Speaker 5: guess that I have been with her and connecting with her.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that's where you've been going to Arizona to

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Speaker 3: be with your wife that I didn't know existed, and

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Speaker 3: that's why when you come back you have new clothes

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Speaker 3: and you don't want to have sex at that right,

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Speaker 3: just making sure I have that right? Yeah, okay, right, Well,

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Speaker 3: if this is a situation, then I'm going to send

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Speaker 3: you a bill for half of our rent to the

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Speaker 3: last eight months, and you're gonna pay it, and honestly,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna block your number. I never want to hear

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Speaker 3: from you again. So yeah, thank you for showing me

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Speaker 3: who you really are.

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Speaker 5: Jesus. I'm sorry, Crystal, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: No, no, I don't want to hear that. That's that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I hung up on him, Crystal, so he's gone now,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: So sorry, no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess you got your questions answered and now

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Speaker 2: you can move on and and remember in your future relationships,

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Speaker 2: somebody being married and having a whole nother life is

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Speaker 2: pretty rare.

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Speaker 1: So that's true. You know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, protect yourself, but try to do your

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Speaker 2: best to make this situation this situation moving forward.

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Speaker 1: It'll be hard, but.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and I know you don't want to hear this,

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Speaker 4: and I know you already know, but the Internet is

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Speaker 4: your best friend, is it? Sometimes I wonder why people

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Speaker 4: are always doing background searches.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hello, that makes more sense. Well, sorry, let

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Speaker 1: us know if you need anything. Okay, I'm sorry. You

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Speaker 1: have some peace, all right, Thank you guys. Good luck

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Speaker 3: The Jewel Shows to Catch a Cheater