1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge. 2 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Cheese and 3 00:00:18,840 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 2: Pod with myself and Tamra Judge. 4 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 3: This is a very special episode. 5 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: We're in person finally and look we're in bedazzled to 6 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 2: teas and a pod shirt. 7 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 3: I know, okay, So Mel the clothing. Mel underscore the clothing. 8 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: If you guys noticed, when I went to Boston at 9 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 3: Finway Park, I had this bedazzled shirt on and she 10 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 3: made it for me. So Jen Guyser from Bravo hooked 11 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 3: us up. She made me that, and she surprised me 12 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 3: with these two teas. 13 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 4: I love it. 14 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 3: It's so funs If you need some bedazzled shirts, I'll 15 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 3: post it. 16 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 2: So this is a fun episode because it's a fan 17 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 2: Q and A. We put up something on Instagram. We 18 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 2: had them ask us questions and. 19 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 3: I haven't looked them over. 20 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 4: Me neither, Oh god, me neither. 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 2: So very Veronica Hollenstein asks what do you admire most 22 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: about each other? 23 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: Oh? 24 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 3: My gosh, I think for you, and this goes from 25 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: current to from the time I met you, is just 26 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 3: your strength and your ability to just be so strong 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: like if I ever have a business question, you know this, 28 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 3: I will call you and say what do you think? 29 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 3: And you can think. You know, you're You're very smart, 30 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 3: very sharp and just very like. I don't most people 31 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 3: I don't know if they know this about you, but 32 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 3: business savvy like you. You just and just a strong, 33 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: strong person, strong like and you'll and you'll tell me too, 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 3: like if I call and complain about somebody, well, okay, 35 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 3: well let me the whole story. Okay, Tamra, maybe you 36 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 3: didn't do this right or you know you give it 37 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 3: to me story. 38 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 4: I want to get it. I want to be pragmatic. 39 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I appreciate that. 40 00:01:58,240 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 41 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: What I admire about you the most is, honestly, especially 42 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 2: with everything going on, you are a really good friend. 43 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 4: Thank you really are a good friend. 44 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 2: And I think that it's been skewed throughout years of television, 45 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 2: but like, there isn't a day that I wake up 46 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 2: that I don't hear from camera and checking in and 47 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 2: even when I'm at my worst, you're there, so I 48 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: think you know. Of course, I admire that you're a 49 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 2: great mother. You're you're a great mother too, But also 50 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: when we're together, we have so much fun. Together. We 51 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 2: do and it's like not eve. 52 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 3: We have one mind between the two of us. We 53 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: can finish each other's sentences. 54 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,120 Speaker 4: But it's I think. 55 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 2: That that's hard to find, especially later in. 56 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 3: Life, Like how I'm sorry I put you into menopause. 57 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 3: You know I always said to you before, like we're 58 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,959 Speaker 3: so alike. If I get my period back, I'm not 59 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 3: gonna be friends with you anymore. 60 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,519 Speaker 4: Mine's gone now, mine is gone gone. 61 00:02:55,720 --> 00:03:00,040 Speaker 2: But you really have been there, like cameras the I 62 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: have a friend that I'm like, I think I'm gonna 63 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 2: do a birthday dinner tomorrow at seven. 64 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 4: You don't feel pressure. I'll be there and she's there, 65 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 4: and it's like it's just so. 66 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I get a bat. You said bad 67 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 3: rap because what you guys see me as friends is 68 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 3: on a TV show where it's very hard to have friends. 69 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: Everybody has gone after everybody. My friends that I've had, 70 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 3: I've had for twenty something years. Yeah, that refuse to 71 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 3: come on the show. 72 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 2: Abby prem asked if you could both give your thirty 73 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 2: year old selves advice, what would it be. 74 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 3: I think mine would just be just trust the process, 75 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 3: don't stress too much. I think at thirty you know 76 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 3: thirty is a good age. I think thirty is when 77 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: you start figuring things out and you becoming a you're 78 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 3: a big girl now, you know. 79 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 5: Me. 80 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: Just I think it's hard because I'm trying to think 81 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 3: back I was I had so many kids. No, I 82 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 3: only actually had two at that time. But I don't know. 83 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 3: Just work hard, save money, invest your money. I wish 84 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: I would have invested money earlier. Yeah, that's one thing 85 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: I wish. It doesn't take much to put X amount 86 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,960 Speaker 3: away every single paycheck, and I wish I would have 87 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 3: done that. But I don't know. I think, just don't 88 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 3: worry so much. I was always so stressed of trying 89 00:04:17,000 --> 00:04:18,239 Speaker 3: to be something I wasn't. 90 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's exactly what I was going to say 91 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: that end part that you just said. I think, if 92 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 2: you know, if I go back to my early thirties, 93 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: I was so worried what people were going to think. Yeah, 94 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 2: that I then wasn't myself. I was more quiet, I 95 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 2: was more reserved. I didn't feel comfortable in my own 96 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 2: skin to say how I actually feel, which is really free. 97 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 98 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 2: But then the same advice I would give myself now, 99 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 2: which is try to take it day by day which 100 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: is really hard for me. 101 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, been to present. 102 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 3: You are doing that, now try and try it. You're yeah, 103 00:04:50,520 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: but I think you're doing a good job than you're 104 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: doing a great job. 105 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 2: Joey Elsberger asks if we could pick each other's ultimate 106 00:04:58,279 --> 00:04:59,799 Speaker 2: girls trip, can. 107 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 3: We just pick a trip that we can all that 108 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 3: we can be on. Let's do it together together. We'll 109 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: do that. We're doing this trip together. 110 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 4: So it's us. Yeah, that's true. 111 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 3: Uh huh do you want to do? Like from each cast? 112 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 4: Okay, so let's go down Salt Lake City. Who would 113 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 4: you pick? 114 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: Well, we can't pick everybody we like, because then it 115 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 3: wouldn't be a very I think Bronwyn. 116 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:23,359 Speaker 2: Yes, Bronwin from Salt Lake City, Atlanta. 117 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna do for sure, Atlanta. 118 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:33,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do Porsia, Potomac. Karen, Karen, Karen who gets 119 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 2: out of jail. I'm about to be getting out of 120 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: jail on birthday. She's probably readily available. 121 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's ready for it. Beverly Hills, Beverly Hills. I 122 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 3: mean I would want Kyle Kyle. I want Kyle, but 123 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 3: you know we would just be like the trace a Megas, 124 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 3: just hanging out. 125 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. So if we couldn't have Kyle, then I would want. 126 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 3: Those set everybody straight. 127 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't. 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: I don't know her very well, and I feel like 129 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: in that chaotic and apartment it might be a little 130 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 2: different because that's different than filming Housewife. Yeah in Miami, Miami, 131 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 2: I know you want Stephanie, don't even want I want Stephanie. 132 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: I know you're Stephanie. I mean I think Stephanie and 133 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 2: I would probably come to blows so, which would be great, 134 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: Which would be great TV yep. 135 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 3: And then she'd take you on her private jet. 136 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 4: Well you know what, No, she probably wouldn't. 137 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 2: She'd put me in the back and I'd have to 138 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 2: be locked up in the bedroom by myself. 139 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 3: But she asked Alexia to go on her private jetting 140 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 3: an assignment. 141 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 4: And then are we missing any other franchises? 142 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 2: Oh, Orange County, Well that's me, that's yeah, New York. 143 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 3: I don't even know New York or New Jersey is back, but. 144 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 4: I would I would. 145 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: I would want Dolores or Melissa. 146 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 3: I wouldn't Melissa. But I say, throw Teresa in there, 147 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 3: get it all going, let's get this ship started. 148 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 4: I did notice that we will be seeing Teresa soon. 149 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 3: We are on a panel together. I know at Bravo Khan. 150 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 4: Do you think she's still mad at us? 151 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: She I think she's somebody that holds grudges, So I'm 152 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 3: gonna say yes, But I don't know, there's nothing really 153 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 3: to be mad about. We were just recapping the show. 154 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. Uh, Max Hadid underscore og asked, what's a subtle 155 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: red flag you've learned to spot early in a friendship? 156 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:18,679 Speaker 4: Is this in our friendship or in general? 157 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 3: And I'd say a general friendship a red flag. I 158 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 3: think for me it's bragging. 159 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 4: But you love Stephanie. 160 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 3: As a housewise, I didn't say I want to be 161 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: friends with her. 162 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 4: For me, it's more. 163 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 2: Of like a feeling I have within the second. 164 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's good, Like I'm good like that with people 165 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 3: like I can be like there's something quite not right. 166 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: But when somebody's trying to sell themselves and talk about 167 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 3: themselves and how great they are and how kind. 168 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 2: They are, amazing. 169 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 3: Their marriages and all that stuff, I'm like, no, sorry, no, 170 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 3: I want the real shit. I want you know what. 171 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 3: My husband drove me crazy last night to make kids, 172 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 3: you know what, the little burgers. I want to kick 173 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 3: him out of the house, you know what I mean, 174 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 3: Like they're so hard. I went down to earth. Yeah, 175 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 3: that's what I. 176 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 2: Like, down to earth. I also want somebody who can 177 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: tell me it like it. 178 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 3: Is, yeah, and not sugarcoat things. 179 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 4: Not sugarcoat things. 180 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: And some of them makes freaking laugh, Like if you're 181 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 2: not gonna make me laugh, well, and if stories don't add. 182 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: Us, stories are stuffy, really stuffy. That's hard. 183 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 2: Sabrina Sunny Mills nicks ass, you're. 184 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 3: Doing good at the Ace, Sabrina shorten that name. You 185 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: become famous one day. Nobody's gonna be able to find you. 186 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 2: Who was the biggest flirt at Bravo Con. 187 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 3: I don't think anybody flirts with me. 188 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 4: I mean I think it's an equal thing. 189 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 2: And he's not flirting, it's just who he is. 190 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's just. 191 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,959 Speaker 3: Very handsy and lovey and huggy and that kind of stuff. 192 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. 193 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 2: And he also, you know, he's Southern. So those Liken 194 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: guys are very like how's it going, and complimentary and nice. 195 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 2: But I mean, I don't think for one second sheps 196 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 2: interested in me. 197 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 3: Who know, you never know. Maybe for me you and Shep, 198 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 3: I feel like no like brother and sister like. 199 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: Brother this year will be me and Shep, But I'm like, 200 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,320 Speaker 2: who would be my options for this year? 201 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 3: Did you hear that Jacks was kicked off a Bravo 202 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 3: con What happened? Like, that's serious shit. 203 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 4: Well maybe just. 204 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 2: With everything else getting the boot, it just for his 205 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: well being, because that's where people tend to go and have, 206 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: you know, some missteps. 207 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 3: I mean, he's been on Bravo for years and there's 208 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 3: people that are not even on Bravo right now that 209 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 3: are getting invited. So I'm like, what happened? 210 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 2: I have a feeling it might be why when I 211 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: watched back on some of these episodes there was a 212 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 2: bunch of substance abuse like warnings and things like that. 213 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 2: So I have a feeling that that kind of stuff 214 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 2: gets involved. Maybe it's a liability. 215 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe, but I don't really know because I was like, 216 00:09:55,200 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 3: whoa he got kicked off the rasta Ye. 217 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 6: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about Sorority life, the good, 218 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 6: the Bad, and the Sisterhood with your hosts me Gia, Judice, 219 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 6: Daisy Kent. 220 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 7: And Jennifer Kessler. Rush, The recruitment, the ritual, The reality 221 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 7: of Greek life has been a mystery for those outside 222 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 7: the sorority circles until now? 223 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 8: Is it really a supportive sisterhood that's simply misunderstood, or 224 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,960 Speaker 8: is there something more scandalous happening on campuses across the country. 225 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 8: In this podcast, we pledge to peel back the layers 226 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:33,560 Speaker 8: and spell out the truth one Greek letter at a time. 227 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 6: Pledges and actives, rush chairs, and ritual keepers. Some call 228 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 6: it the best time of their life, while others say 229 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 6: it's a nightmare. 230 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 7: From a perfect rush to recruitment scandals. What is really 231 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 7: going on behind the doors of those sorority houses from 232 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 7: Alpha to Omega. 233 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 8: We're taking you inside sorority row, including the chapter room, 234 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 8: as we explore the fellowship in the front of mees. 235 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 6: Let's get dirty. 236 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 8: Listen to Dirty Rush on the iHeartRadio app, apple pot 237 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 8: or wherever you get your podcasts. 238 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 9: From executive producers Ben Higgins and Ashley Iikeinetti, this is 239 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 9: Famously available. You'll meet our fabulous single women that you 240 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:17,960 Speaker 9: may be familiar with already, Deanna Poppus, Mercedes Northilk plus 241 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 9: stay tuned as things will ultimately get golden. Listen to 242 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 9: Famously Available on America's number one podcast network, iHeart follow 243 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 9: famously available and start listening on the free iHeartRadio app today. 244 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 2: Do we find it exhausting to keep up our images collabs? 245 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, yes I do. I'm afraid. I'm like, you 246 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 3: know what the show is keeping me young? You know 247 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 3: what I mean? Like I will always work out because 248 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 3: that's just my thing. I've been doing it since eighteen 249 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 3: years old in sports when I was younger. But you know, 250 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,439 Speaker 3: it's it's a lot. 251 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: I would say, it's the moments of like pure exhaustion 252 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 2: where you're just like, I can't do it anymore. And 253 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 2: there are moments where like today when you walked in, 254 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: I was already so tired and I was like, oh 255 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 2: I'm writing this, But the second I felt your energy, 256 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 2: I was. 257 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 3: Like, Okay, spicy, I'm ready to go. 258 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 259 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 3: I mean it's exhausting, Like I don't I would I 260 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 3: have hair extensions? 261 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 2: Would I be Would you rather be in office from 262 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 2: nine to five? 263 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: No, I'd want to be retired. I don't want to 264 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 3: work anymore. I want to do the podcast. That's what 265 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,439 Speaker 3: I want to do, and you know, collect my Vina 266 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: checks that's what I want to do. 267 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: When filming a reality show, do you catch yourself confusing 268 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 2: who you are deep down with who you are on camera. 269 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: When that goes up when filming or watching when filming 270 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 3: a reality show, do you catch yourself confusing who you 271 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 3: are deep down? 272 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 4: M Holly Luriy's asked this. 273 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 3: Holly Laurie asked this. You know I heard on an 274 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 3: interview recently. I don't know it was Emily or I 275 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 3: think it might have been Emily where she says, you know, 276 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 3: the thing with camera is like off camera, she's so quiet, 277 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 3: she doesn't really go out much. You know, she's so reserved, 278 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 3: But on camera, I'm a different person. I think that's true. 279 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 3: But I think there's an alcohol component when I film 280 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 3: that gets me heightened and gets me to the level 281 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 3: that I'm at and gives me the courage to call 282 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 3: people out. Were in my normal everyday life, I would 283 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 3: never do that. 284 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 2: We're in my normal everyday life, I would. 285 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: You would, Oh, you call people out that don't even 286 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,559 Speaker 3: need to be called out. I'm like, Teddy, let's really down. Now, 287 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 3: it's really down, I would. 288 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 2: Say for me on camera, I think it's I was 289 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: always about getting in my head too much. 290 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:44,640 Speaker 3: You were calmer on I. 291 00:13:44,679 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: Was calmra on camera and I also, I didn't really 292 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: know people very well at the beginning, so I think 293 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 2: that And is. 294 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 3: That your first reality show you've ever done? Yes, And 295 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 3: so that's a big deal to just jump right into it. 296 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 3: And plus you were going through some crap to you. 297 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: Going through personal shit. I also. 298 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,959 Speaker 2: Was the youngest on the cast by the lot, had 299 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 2: the least amount of money, like, and all of a sudden, 300 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 2: I'm you know, showing up on my platform shoes and 301 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 2: my your waving shorts. 302 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh, and had a man Ben. 303 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, I don't go here. 304 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 3: It's like Denise coming into the show. True Religion's on. 305 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 2: Gosh, Chrissy Kat eighty three asked, my best friend forever 306 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 2: has staged four metastatic mel noma. How do I support her? 307 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 2: And the best possible? Oh my gosh, you know sorry. 308 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 3: That's first of all, so so sorry about that. And 309 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 3: you know, we can speak about that on both sides, 310 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 3: because you know, there is another side to cancer, and 311 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 3: that's the people that are surrounded by you and the 312 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 3: people that love you that feel helpless and are scared 313 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 3: and are you know, going down the deep rabbit hole 314 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 3: of Google of what's what to expect, which is never 315 00:14:58,680 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 3: a good thing. And you know, for me personally, you 316 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 3: see on the show like I was devastated, devastating, not eating, 317 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 3: not sleeping, stressed out, concerned, wanted to be with you, 318 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 3: didn't want to be doing this. You were at that 319 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: point not even there. 320 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like non response, non responsive, and. 321 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 3: I think they know nothing. It's just it's just being there. 322 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: And I think another thing for me is like I 323 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 3: don't want to always ask you how are you feeling? 324 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think what's good and what you've learned, 325 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 2: which I think back in the New Orleans days, you 326 00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 2: hadn't like if I didn't write you back, you would worry. 327 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 2: I'd worry, and now you know, it's just she's probably 328 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: not feeling very good to struggling. Yeah, just know that 329 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 2: it's not about necessarily how I'm feeling that day, or 330 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 2: that I don't want to talk to somebody. It's just 331 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,400 Speaker 2: that like sometimes I can't be there the way I 332 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 2: would want to be there, So I'm just not there. 333 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 3: And it was hard for me as well in the 334 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 3: sense that we were we talked every day, we were 335 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 3: on the podcas cast, every day, we were traveling, we 336 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 3: were in New Orleans three weeks prior to all this, 337 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 3: and then it went from that to the only time, 338 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 3: and it's still there's still a big distance still because 339 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 3: you're not you're not good with your phone, or you're tired, 340 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 3: or you're at a doctor's appointment. So it's a totally 341 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 3: different and you mourn that friendship as well. 342 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 2: I wanted to and I have that with all of 343 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 2: my friends that but I'm super close with. 344 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 3: But it'll come back. 345 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 4: It'll come back. 346 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 2: And also just know, just say, just as simple, I 347 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,000 Speaker 2: love you thinking about you. 348 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 4: That's enough. 349 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 3: Does it bug you when people are like, how are you? 350 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:36,880 Speaker 3: What are you like? 351 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 2: Too many questions, too many questions, too many questions. 352 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 3: Well that's just in general. 353 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 4: I mean that's pretty much me in life. Okay, this 354 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 4: is Raider. 355 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 2: Jojo asked if you could have the other squash the 356 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 2: beef with someone at Bravo Khan this year. 357 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 4: Who would it be? 358 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: Who would I have you squashed the beef with? I 359 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: would want you to squash the beef with Cratching. 360 00:16:59,000 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 4: Oh. 361 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 3: I've tried to watch the Beef with Gretchen all season long, 362 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 3: and you will see as we go on, it's really 363 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,720 Speaker 3: hard to squash the beef with somebody that's repeatedly, you know, 364 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,959 Speaker 3: fed fake lies about me. Oh no, but I have 365 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 3: tried Granton. 366 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 4: Do I think that she's lying? One million percent. 367 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 2: I think she's lying. And to me, the issue is 368 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:24,400 Speaker 2: more about Gretchen than it is about Katie at this point. 369 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 2: I think Katie just doesn't know how to be like 370 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 2: a good housewife and just be like what you said 371 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 2: it and you know what, Yeah, then I gossiped about Well. 372 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 3: I think Katie was also scared because Gretchen and Slade 373 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 3: got to her and said, if you repeat this, you 374 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 3: could get fired. And she's new, she doesn't know like this. 375 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 3: This could be like, you can go to court over 376 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 3: this because it is it's illegal, and what they're accusing 377 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 3: me of doing is absolutely one hundred percent illegal. And 378 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 3: I could go after them and I could start deposing 379 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 3: them and getting them, all three of them. And what 380 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 3: about how. 381 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 2: She's changed her story three times? 382 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 3: Well, what you don't know is and I don't this 383 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:03,879 Speaker 3: will be a flashback, but when we were at the park, me, 384 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 3: Shannon and Gretchen, when I first questioned her about this, 385 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 3: she did this whole performative. 386 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 9: This. 387 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 3: This is why I didn't want to come back. This 388 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 3: is why they had to ask me three times. I'm like, no, 389 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 3: that's called negotiating. And then I go, did you tell 390 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 3: her you went to the hospital, and she said, yes, 391 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: I did. 392 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then they showed it in the flashback. 393 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,800 Speaker 3: But no, they didn't show their original one. And then 394 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 3: I said to her, why did you tell her that? 395 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 3: And and she said because I didn't feel well? And 396 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 3: then and the I don't. I didn't remember in the car, 397 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 3: so then she said it in the car again and 398 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 3: now she's saying, oh, I misspoke, Tamra misspoke, Tamra miss spoke. 399 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 4: Like that's how. 400 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 3: She She's just she's a tough one for me because 401 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 3: she doesn't own anything. She's been coming after me for 402 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: a year, but then she plays victim, so it's really 403 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 3: hard for me, you know, and like just makes up 404 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 3: shit like she was on a podcast, Heather mc donald's podcast, 405 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 3: and and I hear that she says something about, well, 406 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 3: the reason my Terramor got baptized. I'm like, do you 407 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 3: know why I got baptized? 408 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 2: And why are we bringing back It's like long ago, 409 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: a recap episode. 410 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 3: Obsession of details. It's just too much for me. I 411 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 3: don't even say, Vicky. 412 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 2: No, because I mean I feel like at any point 413 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 2: in time that beef could be squashed. I bet if 414 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 2: they brought we've had a few. Yeah, see, I don't. 415 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 2: I don't even bother because I feel like that one 416 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 2: is easy. I feel like if she came back full time, 417 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 2: you guys would be fair. 418 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:36,000 Speaker 3: We would move forward, especially since she sent you a present. 419 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 2: Without our pictures in it. Oh yeah, who would. 420 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 3: Who would I want you to squash the beef with. 421 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think you have too many beefs, 422 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:49,400 Speaker 3: do you. 423 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 2: I mean I think my biggest beef was Denise and 424 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: squashed it. 425 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 3: I would say, probably, Vicky. I think that you like 426 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 3: officially squashed shit. You tried Bravokan last time and that 427 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 3: didn't go over. 428 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 9: I didn't. 429 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 4: I wouldn't say I tried. I was an asshole. 430 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well, but I would. 431 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: Say that when I filmed on OC, Vicky and me 432 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,719 Speaker 2: and Shannon were sitting down at a table and like 433 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 2: Vicky and I had a moment where she finally like 434 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 2: understood yeah me. I mean granted, she then came out 435 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: and talked about me after, but that touch just fair. 436 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 2: But then I got cancer, So then she started being 437 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 2: really nice. 438 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 3: Well, Vicky's dealt with people close to her that had cancer. 439 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: And yeah, but I would easily squashed if I see Vicky. 440 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. 441 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 3: Maybe the three of us can be the new trace 442 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 3: a Megos. We can take our show on the road. 443 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,879 Speaker 3: I might know you would be squashing. 444 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 4: Any beef with Shannon, then things would be a real call. 445 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,760 Speaker 3: She you know, she holds a grudge, that's her problem. 446 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: Then Andy's of Bravo asked, what is something you're both 447 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,000 Speaker 2: passionate about that we don't know about. 448 00:20:56,280 --> 00:21:00,640 Speaker 3: Oh, for me, it's home design. I love. I can 449 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 3: just sit in a house and stare at it, and 450 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 3: stare at the walls and be like, knock that wall down. 451 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 3: This wall needs wallpaper, like I love. Since I was 452 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 3: a kid, I've loved decorating. 453 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 2: For me, I clearly you guys know that I love 454 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 2: riding horses. Yeah, so that's been a big part of 455 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:20,560 Speaker 2: something that I'm missing. Something I've become pretty passionate about 456 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 2: now has been swimming. 457 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 3: Like I never like swimming, like I despise it. 458 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,679 Speaker 2: Swimming has given me, like the days that I'm really struggling, 459 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 2: I go and get in the pool and I swim, 460 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 2: and it's something about just I don't know, being in 461 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: the water, feeling like free, weightless and free. 462 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 3: Are you good at swimming? Because I like, I tried 463 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,000 Speaker 3: to swim. I had to do the swim test in 464 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 3: Scotland when I did Traders, and they take you to 465 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 3: this Olympic sized pool. I got like halfway through. I'm 466 00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 3: like like, I'm huffing and puffin. It's hard work. And 467 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 3: then it's like, well, my weave. 468 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate to see that. But I also like games, 469 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 2: Like I if I'm with friends and we can play 470 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 2: renmy cub is right. But I love to play games. 471 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 3: Because you're competitive. 472 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, since you're always adding different housewives to the Tute's umbrella, 473 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 2: who would be your ideal pairing to pick? 474 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 3: That's a good question. 475 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 2: I like what we've got going on now where we 476 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 2: can kind of fill in for each other and it 477 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 2: feels pretty natural. But I wish we had like a 478 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 2: Potomac Girl on, like, because they they don't seem afraid 479 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 2: to say what they think. 480 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they're I mean Robin and yeah, like 481 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 3: their their podcast is so successful and congratulations to them, 482 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 3: But I mean thinking of like a pair that we 483 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 3: can put on our umbrella. 484 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 2: I mean, we could take them. We want you, we 485 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 2: want you guys. 486 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 3: Well, I'm yeah, I don't know. 487 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 2: I mean we have we air almost every single day 488 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 2: at this point. 489 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, but who, that's a good point. We need to 490 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 3: look into that because I feel like I have had 491 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,919 Speaker 3: it like, oh, we should get them and I aw, 492 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 3: I can't remember now, I'm drawing a total blank. And 493 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 3: then after we're done, I'll be like, oh, well, we had. 494 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:17,200 Speaker 2: To get people that actually start, you know, that work 495 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 2: more quiet on the show, but then really have a 496 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 2: lot to say. 497 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, well Cynthia and Crystal are doing pretty well 498 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 3: too with their podcast. 499 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,199 Speaker 4: I mean, there's a lot of people doing pods, but 500 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 4: who that. 501 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 3: Doesn't do a podcast at all? That would be pretty outspoken. 502 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 3: I mean I would love Kate Chastain and pair her 503 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 3: with somebody after rewatching her on Traders right now, Holy moly, 504 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,400 Speaker 3: Oh she's just so outspoken. 505 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 2: I don't know Kate Chastain very well. We've had some 506 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 2: issues in the past, but I'm over that. Were squashed 507 00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 2: that beef a Bravocon at some point. Yeah, it's clearly 508 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 2: it's squashed. Tam Or, why do you say, nobody reached 509 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: out to you when clearly dead. 510 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 3: Oh, so basically what happened was Heather reached out to 511 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 3: me when I was in that night at New Orleans 512 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 3: and when I was on the that like at four 513 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 3: in the morning. I got on the plane and she 514 00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 3: had text me at four in the morning, or wasn't 515 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 3: four in the morning, but my plane it was a 516 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 3: long flight, so actually it wasn't long flight. Was there 517 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 3: three hours? We did it. But anyways, so I so 518 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,879 Speaker 3: she texted me on my way out, I was talking 519 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 3: about when I actually got home. I I mean, I 520 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 3: didn't get a phone. I would have loved a phone call, 521 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 3: like you know, and and I did end up texting 522 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 3: Heather back. I just needed to take a beat and 523 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 3: I needed to just not be on my phone. Now 524 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 3: look at social media. Just get that had already. 525 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 2: Done enough damage with your ancest story post. I know ta. 526 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,800 Speaker 3: So yeah, and you know what, actually, Shannon text me 527 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 3: that night. 528 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 2: Too, that night you wanted once you got home. 529 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 3: I was so out of it then that you know, 530 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 3: even the the flight home was pretty rough for me. 531 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 2: So I was really praying. Oh, fans also wanted to 532 00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 2: know this question, did you actually end up having to 533 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 2: get an uber back to the Hotelity Production Production. 534 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 3: No production had a car for me out there with 535 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,960 Speaker 3: like they always do. It was just taking a little 536 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 3: bit longer than normal. And they have cars. They have 537 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 3: extra cars out there in case something like this happens 538 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 3: that are rigged with cameras. Yeah, and mine was with cameras. 539 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,439 Speaker 3: Was I don't even remember calling Eddie. 540 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 2: You don't. Oh my gosh. 541 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:40,199 Speaker 5: Yep, can't stop talking about the Traders. You've come to 542 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 5: the right round. 543 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 3: Table, relived the betrayal all over again with your favorite 544 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,400 Speaker 3: faithfuls like me Tama Judge. 545 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 5: To Laura's Catanya and Wells Adams. In the Ultimate Rewatch podcast, 546 00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 5: by Order of the Faithfuls, we will take you inside 547 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 5: the castle starting from season one for Rewatch That's to 548 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 5: die For. Listen to by Order the Faithful on America's 549 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,639 Speaker 5: number one podcast network, iHeart. Follow by Order of the 550 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 5: Faithfuls and start listening on the free iHeartRadio app Today. 551 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 2: Teddy, how this is from our y con in three fourteen? 552 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 2: How do you think Taram would do on RHO Beach? 553 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 2: And how would Teddy do on the Housepzed Orange County? 554 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 3: Well, you've been on a housepase Orange County. I think 555 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 3: you would do great. I think that you. I think 556 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 3: personally that you fit in better in Orange County than 557 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 3: Beverly Hills. I feel like you're just a down to 558 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: earth girl. But then I do think like every show 559 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 3: needs different personalities to make it work, so I think 560 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:47,720 Speaker 3: you're good at both of them. 561 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 2: I think if Beverly Hills saw you walking in to film, 562 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 2: they would shit their pants, Like shit would just start 563 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 2: leaking out. 564 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 565 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 4: I think you can great on any show that you're on, 566 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,640 Speaker 4: but I can't. I personally can't even picture it. 567 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 3: I think I would be intimidated a little bit. 568 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 2: You may be intimidated, but then you know what, You 569 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: just have a glass of champagne and ax annex and 570 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 2: then you just show them where to go. 571 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 3: I would like to be a housewife floater like Cynthia. 572 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 3: Cynthia was, but now she's I don't. 573 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 2: Know that we have the personality type. 574 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,879 Speaker 3: Oh, I think we could do it. I think it 575 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,920 Speaker 3: should be a pair. I think the two of us 576 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,919 Speaker 3: should just go like, spend you know, two weeks in 577 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 3: Salt Lake City and then we'll go to Miami. 578 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 4: And what is that? What are their jobs. 579 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,199 Speaker 3: Shitsters, professional shitsters. 580 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 2: Sat shitsters. Here we go this next one, Tamra, how 581 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 2: is Alexis's bridal shower? 582 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 7: Oh? 583 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 3: It was really nice. It was like it was at 584 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:53,439 Speaker 3: a jewelry store down in Balboa Island and it was 585 00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 3: just a couple hours of We played a game, we 586 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,399 Speaker 3: had some food, a little drinks, and it was it 587 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,959 Speaker 3: was nice to John's family and some of her friends. 588 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 2: Teddy, do you have any tea on upcoming VH season? 589 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm just gonna share all the tea and 590 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 2: get my ass handed to me and yeah, yeah. 591 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. 592 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 3: Hold on, do you remember that time where we we 593 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 3: we were in here in your house and we showed 594 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 3: the picture from the Orange County reunion? Yeah, water marked it. 595 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. 596 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 2: No, I have nothing to share. I think it's gonna 597 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 2: be a good season. Oh my gosh. From what I've heard, 598 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 2: it's pretty juicy. So yeah, we'll see Tamor, when was 599 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 2: the last time you actually spoke with me? 600 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 3: I text with her, Uh, I don't know, maybe a 601 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 3: month ago and something was said. She said something. Oh 602 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,800 Speaker 3: I know what it was. I did a post and 603 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 3: like a story like ask me anything, and I said 604 00:28:58,080 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 3: something nice about her or having her come back and 605 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 3: then return. You know this is typical Vicky. Oh, I 606 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 3: love Tamoron, love her so much. We have so much 607 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 3: in common. We've known each other forever, and so it 608 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 3: kind of went to that. And then I heard about that. 609 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 3: Then I text her a video of us, like a 610 00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 3: montage of all the funny moments that some somebody put together. 611 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,239 Speaker 3: And then she wrote me back the next day and 612 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: she's like, oh, I love this, so we and then 613 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 3: it hasn't. 614 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: Been easy to get mad, but easy to forget. 615 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 4: Yeah. 616 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 3: But the thing is is like, I don't think there 617 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 3: was any reason for her to be mad about towards 618 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:35,680 Speaker 3: me or at me. It was more she was, you know, 619 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 3: because I called Shannon out last year, so she was like. 620 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 2: I think Shannon out yes year last year. And I 621 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 2: don't think she liked our friendship now. 622 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 3: No, So I think it's fine. I don't have any 623 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 3: hard feelings. 624 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: But those are the questions, guys. We gave you as 625 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: juicy as we possibly could. I'm excited for Salt Lake 626 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 2: City to start airing. 627 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,640 Speaker 3: Oh, if there's any other show that you can go 628 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,560 Speaker 3: to sides Beverly Hills, what would. 629 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 2: It be Me Too or Miami, Yeah, yep. 630 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 3: But Salt Lake City, those girls know how to do it. 631 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 3: They argue, they fight, it's conflict, it's resolution. It's not 632 00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 3: like nobody's holding a grudge. I'm not hearing about what 633 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 3: happened two years ago. I'm not hearing what happened seventeen 634 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 3: years ago. Like they just move on. They keep it 635 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 3: like they make. 636 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,440 Speaker 4: They make good TV, and I hope it posts the same. 637 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 4: Do you think we're gonna see Monica this year? 638 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 3: I doubt it. I don't know. Didn't she I mean, 639 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 3: she was just had a baby and all that during 640 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:35,280 Speaker 3: the time. 641 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 2: I love and all that, you know what, but it's hard. 642 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 3: You know, you know, it is like having a baby 643 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 3: and like it's the last thing on your mind is 644 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 3: filming a reality show. I heard just saw on Instagram. 645 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's true, but it's like three 646 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 3: hundred and something days till Jinshaw is released, So you 647 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 3: know what, I count down has started. 648 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. 649 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 2: Well, thanks for tuning in to another episode of to 650 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,800 Speaker 2: Cheese and Pod. Keep listening and we appreciate the support