1 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a 2 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: suit on, looking back to back down, giving them move 3 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: like the moking buck bus things and its cub me 4 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: true good it Steve ha listen to movie together for Stubby, 5 00:00:38,520 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: I don't join join you with me. You gotta turning 6 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: them go. You gotta turn to turn them out, turn, 7 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,279 Speaker 1: got to turn them out to turn turn the water 8 00:01:47,440 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: the water. Come, come on your baby daddy. Uh huh, 9 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: I shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to 10 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: the voice, Come on, come on, y'all dig me now. 11 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show man. 12 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: Is God good to me? Unbelievable? Yeah? It is, and 13 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: and I can only attribute it to one thing. It's 14 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,399 Speaker 1: just been a turnaround in my life. It's it's been 15 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: me finally making a decision to see what all God 16 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 1: has for me, but at the same time trying to 17 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 1: be more God wants me to be instead of more 18 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 1: of what I want to be. That's the trade off. 19 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: You know, you gotta do something now, you know you 20 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: know you want God's blessings. You gotta be willing to 21 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: do something on his behalf. No, I'm not saying I 22 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 1: got it right right now, because I'm just being real 23 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: with you, I don't. I don't have it all together 24 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: by any stretch of imagination of I'm trying to get 25 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:58,120 Speaker 1: better in several areas. I'm praying about it, I'm working 26 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 1: on it, but you know it's and I've I've grown 27 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: to accept the process. But I'm improving in a lot 28 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: of areas from day to day. But I'll tell you what, man, 29 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: my success all is going on with me I can 30 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: only attribute to this turnaround. And the turnaround was simple. 31 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 1: I turned around and started looking at God. That was 32 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: a simple move, man. I just turned around and started 33 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: looking at him, and I was going, Okay, I get it. Now, 34 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 1: you created me. You're the creator. You have a purpose 35 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: for me. I understand that. Now. Now let me just 36 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: walk in that purpose and let me get to doing 37 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: that purpose. Now, my purpose and your purpose and their 38 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: purpose and anybody's perfect purpose could be different, and the 39 00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: way you go about the purpose can be different. And 40 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: that's the part that I've really grown up to. I've 41 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: opened up my mind to understanding that everybody's different, nobody's 42 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: quite the same, and that is not my right or 43 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: position to judge, but to be of a forgiving spirit 44 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: and understand and forgive those as I ask God to 45 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: forgive me. See that's the key. That's the key, y'all. 46 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: So when you out here and you stuck on this unforgiveness, 47 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: understand in the large prayer as a segment that says, 48 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who 49 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: trust pass against us. There's another version says forgive us 50 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: our debts as we forgive our debt us. It's two 51 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: different versions, but either one it means the exact same thing. 52 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: It means simply this that you are asking God to 53 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: forgive yours like you forgive others. Forgive us our trust 54 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: passes as we forgive those who trust pass against us. 55 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: When I crossed the line with you, God handle me 56 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: the way I handle people when they cross the line 57 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: with me. You feel what I'm saying to you. See 58 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 1: you understand that. That's the breakdown on it. Best way 59 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 1: I can give it to you. Forgive us our trust 60 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: passes as we forgive those who trust pass against us. 61 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: Forgive me God for stepping over the line, like I 62 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: forgive those that step over the line on me. That's 63 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: the hard part. Man, that's the part man, I've really 64 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: been working on. I've been really trying to get that together. 65 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: And so I've learned forgiveness a lot better over the 66 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: past five years than I have before. And it's paid off. 67 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 1: I can't tell you how it was paid off, because 68 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: now God's mercy and grace is all over me because 69 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 1: I've learned to become more graceful. Now I ain't graceful 70 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: like him, I ain't merciful like him, but I've learned 71 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: to become more more graceful, more merciful, because man, I 72 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: can't live my life like that. I just got sick 73 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: of me. Man, you're mad at me now, I'm mad 74 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: at you. You hating on me. Now I'm gonna hate 75 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: on you. I ain't got time for that. Man, I've 76 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: got you. Look here, you got somewhere to go. But 77 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: hate take up time. It's time consuming, and hating trying 78 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: to seek revenge it's time consuming, take up way too 79 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: much of your time to seek revenge when vengeance ain't 80 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: really yours. That's another one. Vengeance is mine, say if 81 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,039 Speaker 1: the Lord it ain't yours. So now when you go 82 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: to seek it to take it out, guess what you're doing. 83 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: You're doing something now. Man, Now you off into area 84 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: that you got no business being in, and instead of 85 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: steady climbing your ladder like you're supposed to, you didn't 86 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: take out time for vengeance to hate. I'm a hater. 87 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a blogger. I'm a blog about so 88 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: and so. When you're blogging about somebody, and most of 89 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: these people you don't even know when you're blogging about somebody, 90 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: what you're doing, what you're hating. It takes time to hate. Man. 91 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: I just decided, Man, I gotta take all my time 92 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 1: and instead of have doing time and being active, I 93 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: got to be proactive. See some people get that confused 94 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: being active and being proactive. Pro is positive. Pro means 95 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: to move forward. You know, if you put pro in 96 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: front of most words, it's a positive influence. You know, 97 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: does the pros and the cons. The pros is the 98 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: good side, the cons is what can go wrong the 99 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: bad side. You know, if you're active, that's one thing, 100 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: But if you're pro active, you're going forward in a 101 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: positive direction. When you become a pro that means you 102 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: the best of the best at whatever it is you 103 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: chosen to be. I'm a pro so somehow, and I 104 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: know English teacher grammatical God, the word pro a lot 105 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: of times when you put it in front of something 106 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: means positiveness. So now a lot of people think that 107 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 1: if you just active something all to happen. Well, I'm 108 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,559 Speaker 1: doing something, and that's what happens. Man, We just find 109 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: ourselves doing a lot of busy work that really ain't 110 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: bout nothing. It ain't going the way. It ain't got 111 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: no direction or no purpose because we haven't tried to 112 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: find out the direction of a purpose. So you wake 113 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: up and you and your wheels are spinning. You a 114 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: hamster on a tread meal. You're running real fast, but 115 00:08:21,280 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: you're just going in the same spot. You understand that's 116 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: because you're just out here being active instead of proactive. 117 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: Why don't you get God in your life. Why don't 118 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: you turn and face your creative and find out how 119 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: to become more proactive so you can do things to 120 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 1: move yourself forward. How you can get your life off 121 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: the ground and get off the tread meal and really 122 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,319 Speaker 1: get it rolling in the direction that it need to 123 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 1: be going. Man, I'm telling you God can make that 124 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 1: change for you if he see you making the change 125 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: for him. See the whole key man, the whole kids. 126 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: You got to be willing to do something. You got 127 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: to give God something to less bless me God. And 128 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,359 Speaker 1: then you go sit on your couch and you ain't trying. Okay, 129 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:09,319 Speaker 1: bless me God with what? What? What? What are you 130 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 1: working with? He can't have the people hire you if 131 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: you ain't put the app in. Come on, man, the 132 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 1: blessing comes when you make a proactive step, when you 133 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: try to do something on the positive side. Look, man, 134 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,679 Speaker 1: I'm gonna quit messing around with all these people. I'm 135 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: gonna start going home. I'm gonna leave these women loan 136 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 1: out here. You got to say, all right, man, I 137 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: ain't going over that at night. I just ain't gonna 138 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: get Then God can work with you. God help me 139 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: stop seeing all these women. But you steady going over 140 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,599 Speaker 1: there calling them setting up stuff. Can't nobody help you 141 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 1: because once you get over there, you already know. See, 142 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 1: you gotta get proactive. You gotta do something yourself. You 143 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. That that's the key man. 144 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: So come on, y'all you're listening show. Ladies and gentlemen, 145 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: man have your attention. Please, Uh, it's Monday morning. It's 146 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: the beginning of a new week, but it's the same 147 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: damn thing up in the hill. We fing to turn 148 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: up this volume, create this ignance and be botty Bounty 149 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: Dog gone it, Shirley Strong. We let Steve we let 150 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: Oh that's that, ain't choose We let Steve we love man. 151 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: We didn't live that fun. That was fun. It's young 152 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: people listening to this show going, uh, we live, and 153 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 1: they probably ain't even saying that no more. They say 154 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 1: still saying we live. I'm scared to use modern day slang. 155 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: I'm still going I'm still doing you know, what's happening 156 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: for the whole playoff? You know that way? I know, 157 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: I know it's out of style and all my talk 158 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: is out of style. We let calla for real. What's happening? 159 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: We about that life? What's going on? Junior? You got one? 160 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say more than one. Tell me you 161 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: got one? Lit? Light lit? I'm living my bath life. Man. Yeah, 162 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 1: now dude, this one still work turned up. Yeah, that 163 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: was still work on. What it is is what it is? Good? 164 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: Good everybody? Cool man, my man, slapping five. You did that, 165 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: you may as well throw it right on in their stick. 166 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: I still say, right on. I still you'll say, hey, man. 167 00:12:00,760 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 1: When I talk to my older brother, it's it's it's 168 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 1: like talking to Marvin Gay. Seriously, man, I'm talking to them, Hey, 169 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 1: what's up? Drunk's handed with youth? Man? Give me some 170 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: of that skin? Man, your skin that's five on the 171 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: black hand, keeping like that. It's all right, man, right on? 172 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: What's been going on with your player? You still doing it? 173 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: Ain't you? You know, people ain't easy, but somebody ain't 174 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: gonta doing it? Might be to me, Hey, dog, yah, 175 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: what's up? What's up? Timmy? One of my little girls, 176 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:39,480 Speaker 1: one of the friends of the I say, mister, Timmy, 177 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: you lit, I said, baby, I said, baby, I don't. 178 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't smoke. I don't know what you're 179 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: talking about. She said, what that could be a drunk 180 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: reference either way. I wasn't there. I don't know. I 181 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: don't know what Lit meant. Yeah, especially in front of 182 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 1: your kids, know what, you gotta stay fresh and him, Tommy, 183 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: we got younger kids too, you know. Hey, hey, hey, 184 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: let me tell you what I did. One day in Atlanta. 185 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 1: I came out my office with my shirt open, and 186 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 1: my kids friends was in the house. When you say, Dad, 187 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: your shirt is open, I say, I live here. Tell 188 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: all your little flat stomach ass from turn around and 189 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: quit looking over here. But it's so funny, Steve, You're 190 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: right because we're at an age now where everything we 191 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: do embarrasses our kids. There's nothing that we can do 192 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: that where our kids think we're cool. Nothing. All right, listen, 193 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,400 Speaker 1: coming up in thirty two, after the hour, we'll have 194 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:38,640 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Shop. Right after this. 195 00:13:39,280 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: Let we let turn up. You're listening to this Day 196 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Listen. Taking a week or even a few 197 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: days out of the office for a vacation can certainly 198 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 1: put anyone in a good mood, right. We all love 199 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: to take our vacation time. But it turns out, yeah, 200 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: but it turns out that all those positive facts of 201 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: a few days without work, they don't actually last long. Okay. 202 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: Unfortunately for quite a few people, those positive effects are fleeting. 203 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: In fact, the poll finds that twenty four percent of 204 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: workers say the positive effects disappear as soon as they 205 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: return to work, right exactly, while forty percent say they 206 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: only last a few days. Now. Of course, not everyone 207 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: returns from vacation, relax and rejuvenated, because people tend to 208 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 1: work on vacation more than they planned. So Steve, I 209 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: got to ask you. Would you say you return to 210 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: work after vacation with a better attitude? Are you more 211 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: motivated and productive? Do you have a hard time? Oh? 212 00:14:44,920 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: You are okay because you take a long vacation. Yeah, 213 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: you're ready to come back, and he sounds rested when 214 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: he can. I don't, Well, you're not ready to come 215 00:14:54,640 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: back to vacation with pay permanently? Yeah, I would do 216 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: it in a heart. Oh well yeah I wouldn't. Yeah, 217 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: but do you have a hard time relaxing, you know, 218 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: coming down when you first get on vacation, I know 219 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: I do. It takes me a minute. Do you miss us? No? Never, Yeah, 220 00:15:14,240 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: it takes me four days to disconnect, Yeah, to get 221 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: into to really get it. It used to take me 222 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: a week, but now I've gotten better. It's only gonna 223 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: take me two days this year because I've already started 224 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: leaving him. Yeah, you're gone. You're not even here right now? 225 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: You go right, I've already just left here. Yeah, you're 226 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 1: on vacation, so you'll be relaxing no time. As soon 227 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: as I get there. Where are you going this year? 228 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 1: Same place I go every year? Show? Okay, gonna go 229 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: see some of the things. We have friends in places 230 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: now that live there, and we come oh really okay, okay, 231 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: rich friends always rich friends. Yeah, that's they flocked together. 232 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: They go yeah, rich, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know my 233 00:16:02,840 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 1: friends at the mall and the food court. I love 234 00:16:09,880 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: when Jay had a Rose Royce, but he didn't have 235 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: a Rose roys life side. He was if you see 236 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 1: Rose roy parked in front of the stove and not 237 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: at the gas Where were you going? Jay? Seven and 238 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 1: eleven chicken? And I'm a dollar store? Dollar store? Okay. 239 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: The other day, huh. My wife and I were going 240 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: on our anniversary trip. So when we got through taping 241 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 1: Family Feud Friday night, the anniversary was Sunday, so I 242 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: took away for a couple of days. Cliff picks us up, 243 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 1: our driver, picks go to the house, gets Marjorie comes 244 00:17:04,359 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: to the set and picked me up. When I get through, 245 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 1: take the makeup off, I get in the car. We're 246 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: in the wrong car. We decided to celebrate starts celebrating 247 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: our anniversary. We're gonna stop at fat Burger. Oh, Okay, 248 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: we pull up in the parking lot. There's no drive through. 249 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 1: We pull up in the parking lot and we're trying 250 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 1: to park. The eyes that was on us. They can't 251 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: see him a car, but people are gonna People in 252 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: the subway was looking out. Who the hell trying to 253 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: back in this spot? We pull up, Cliff get out 254 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,600 Speaker 1: to go inside to get the fat burger. He called 255 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 1: a head so they can start order. We're sitting there, 256 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: people just walking by, just looking at the car. We wrong, 257 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: like two lay sitting up in here. Marjorie said, Steve, 258 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 1: I don't think this was a good idea. I said, 259 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: we're here now when you want me to tell Cliff 260 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: forget it, let's go, She said, Now I want the 261 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: fat burger because she hadn't never handed fat burger before. 262 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: It was her first fat burger. Oh wow, So we 263 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 1: in a Rose Royce in fat Burger in the parking 264 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: lot of the fat Burger with a laundry matt next 265 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: dough or subway right now? M though, wasn't it? That 266 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 1: burger was good? Though? Wasn't Boy? Did Marjorie like it? 267 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: She said, Steve, I never she stopped driven by it, 268 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 1: but it sounded like it wasn't good. It was called 269 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:56,320 Speaker 1: fat burger, fat burger good. Yeah, but that oh yeah, 270 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 1: I agree with that especially now. Yeah, I agree with 271 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 1: that especially now whatever. Well, I don't know, since we've 272 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: been gone and been back and In and Out Burger's 273 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: tastes different to me now. I knew In and Out 274 00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,640 Speaker 1: Burger wasn't good when I saw all skeinny people coming out, 275 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: But I don't care where you go. It's always a 276 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 1: line around the block to In and Out Burger. But 277 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: they're a little different to me now than they were. 278 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: I don't like guys. Oh, I like five guys. I 279 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: like five guys. Yeah. Yeah, they make a burger and 280 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: I like their fries. I like five guys, five guys. 281 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah everywhere I ain't seen it. Oh yeah, they're they 282 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: have Yeah yeah, maybe you should take the rolls out 283 00:19:44,040 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 1: again and you know, try to find it. Where do 284 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:52,119 Speaker 1: you go? You go see a five guys? Where do 285 00:19:52,240 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 1: you turn and see a five guy? All right, we'll 286 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: be back with Marvin the Steave Harvey Morning Show right 287 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to morning show. Researchers have discovered 288 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: that Americans are having less sex than they were twenty 289 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: years ago. Oh I know I am twenty years ago. Yeah, Jack, 290 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: you were bringing it stead repeated. I'm talking about Jack 291 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: j R. S Everything, whel boy, you should have seen it. 292 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:54,080 Speaker 1: You should have seen well. To be exact, they say 293 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: about nine fewer times per year than they were in 294 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: the nineteen nineties. Yeah, that's what they're thing twenty years ago, 295 00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 1: nine fewer times a week per year, but you were 296 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: per week boy. Oh man, I'm talking about performances that 297 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: that had no meaning. No, what is it a performance 298 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: to put on a show? What would you say? Wasn't 299 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: in love? Which before you you're just you're not on stage. 300 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: I will stage rabbit, gentleman, rabbits sunshine come bouncing out 301 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 1: the bath room with a with a white tail rabbit, Yeah, 302 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 1: coming through the smoke lights, lights ago and a cottontail 303 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: On't I didn't kick the energy as of funny, I 304 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: have to wait. I was. I had a drum at love, 305 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:24,640 Speaker 1: drum been and muscular, hard ass looking rapid. They got frog, 306 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: nothing but veins, muscle and skins, six pack ass, muscles, 307 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 1: HARDI ham strange, everything but veins, skin man, just some massive. 308 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: I ain't never had no real guns. But you just 309 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: saw vain. Okay, man, I'd like to do yours. Nobody fat. 310 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: You had to bring him up. They had to bring 311 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,360 Speaker 1: them out. Ladies and gentlemen coming to the room right now. 312 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,439 Speaker 1: The only rabbit that makes bugs, but it's not that funny. 313 00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:06,959 Speaker 1: The old rabbit that can tell Peter Cottonhead go ahead. 314 00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 1: It's Jack Rabbit. Fun Jack Rabbit. Jack Rabbit came in 315 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,880 Speaker 1: with a pair of gold boots on purple shoe. Sha 316 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Jack rabbit. Johnson Man, oh God telling you 317 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:35,680 Speaker 1: man the old rabbit to star Roger Rabbit girl Jack rabbit, 318 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: So wow, I'm getting ready to tell you right now. 319 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 1: The researchers believe that this is because Americans are getting 320 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,479 Speaker 1: married older and starting their families later, so that they 321 00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 1: it's called jack rabbit. Ain't give a damn back. That's 322 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: why I was. I had nothing to lose. So if 323 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,239 Speaker 1: you're older, you know, he might be more tired as 324 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: a parent. No, which means less sex. No, I ain't 325 00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: had no money. I wasn't working regular Yeah time time 326 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: I was out here, boy broke, why are you yelling? 327 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: Height and was looking for home? What is this intensity 328 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:29,200 Speaker 1: level you have? Because I was homeless? Rabbit Sun time 329 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 1: with you had it before, girl, so I could stay. 330 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:40,320 Speaker 1: I got it. What you're doing tomorrow night? Be here 331 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: you Friday? Driving back through time? Did she know I 332 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:48,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't even leave it? Time? Man? Okay? In technology, they say, 333 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:51,880 Speaker 1: is also a major distraction and relationships. Now, hell yeah, 334 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 1: I didn't have nothing back then. I have nothing but time. 335 00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 1: You couldn't text me, you can't find me, you couldn't 336 00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 1: call me. Here I am dan. It was a good 337 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 1: old day, oh man. That's what they're saying. People are 338 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: spending more time looking at their smartphones than they are talking. 339 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 1: Talking dirty to each other. Now talk dirty on pay phone. 340 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:28,719 Speaker 1: Somebody will wait. Phone set hard, you can't. I'm standing 341 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,520 Speaker 1: up in a booth. It is hard for me to 342 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: get what I need. And I'm hitting this booth with 343 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: these folk glass sides, everybody looking at me. I'm trying 344 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: to trying to do it, but the phone booth. I'm 345 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 1: standing up the dope not it grew it hit the 346 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 1: dough is over. I gotta doing that to my say 347 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 1: saying little man, what is you in that? Talking out 348 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,920 Speaker 1: the grew in? I should have been here, man, I don't. Yeah, 349 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 1: I got excited. Now I'm bad a bag out to 350 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: do a little bit. Man, Oh man, I had trouble. 351 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get it all in technology. No technology, 352 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: none of that. Not hell no that pay phone, hardy 353 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: having phone saying you got long distan you got put 354 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:22,479 Speaker 1: another quarter in there. God, you got the hair up 355 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: and say this. The greatest invention they had was when 356 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 1: they started dropping them pay phones down where you could 357 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 1: pull up your car and then left the window down. 358 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: That was the greatest invention of I used to look 359 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 1: for them. Wow, pull up over there, man, I could 360 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: arrange for phone calls. Call me back at this number 361 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: in four hours. I go over there and wait, I'll 362 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: be right there at that fact for the rest of 363 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: the name. I loved your commitment to everything. How you 364 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,359 Speaker 1: doing well? I'm going. I ain't got no house, but 365 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: you rolling though. Dog. I told her girl where I 366 00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 1: live my home? No, it was payphone outside of shame 367 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: that no one. The girl told me one time you 368 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: need to answer, I got one. It ain't on. I forgot. 369 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: I used to give away pay phone numbers here girl, 370 00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:13,879 Speaker 1: where I live, and I couldn't tell me I was home? 371 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,359 Speaker 1: O man, every time my car you ain't never I 372 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,640 Speaker 1: can't even leave you know tis, I know you're thinking about. 373 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: All right, And on that note, the Jay Rabbit sunshine 374 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 1: you don't lived, Jack Rabbit sunshine you live. Thank God 375 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: for the place, jr Rabbit keep your jack ain't your 376 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 1: rabbit forever with the sun shining on. Long live Jack 377 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: Rabbit Jackson and the sun that shined on. Like all right, 378 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: more of this crazy ignorant show, Steve Harvey Morning Show. 379 00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening Steve Morning Show, We're gonna 380 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,359 Speaker 1: talk about annoying things that grown people do while you're driving. 381 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 1: So when you are driving, because these people are in 382 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: the car with you, riding with you, the passenger, the 383 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: passenger or the back seat. The kids are just just 384 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 1: you the driver, So you gotta focus, yeah, on road. 385 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 1: And it's just little stuff that gets on this Little 386 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 1: things man, like just that Lott Steve, like you driving right. 387 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: I can't stand people to point to stuff for me 388 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: to look at. Man, I'm driving, look oh look look 389 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 1: you missed, you missed. Oh you they got tomatoes on sale? 390 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: Look look yeah see that sad And I'm drive where that? Man? 391 00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 1: I can't stand for people to scene that gets on 392 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: my ner. Come first of all, you don't know the 393 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,880 Speaker 1: words to the song. I can't stand and you don't 394 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: sound nothing like nothing like the song the song? Are 395 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: you evil? When you just change the station when they're 396 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: singing Twitter on talk, I don't talk rady, I don't 397 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 1: care what they're talking about. We started listening to talk 398 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: the minute you open your mouth. And ladies and gentlemen, 399 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: we are here today. Like when we're going Crosstown to 400 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 1: my auntie, how I hadn't been there a thousand times, 401 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,640 Speaker 1: but my wife want to give me directions though, to 402 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,280 Speaker 1: go this way, go this way, Yeah, forty five and 403 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,280 Speaker 1: then take fifty nine. If you take fifty nine, we'll 404 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: get there a little quicker. But we've been there several times. 405 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:59,080 Speaker 1: I know where I'm going. Come on, Steve d. When 406 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 1: people drive and they damn car looking over at an 407 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: accident that they ain't a about to get up in 408 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: one over hill, yeah I can't over that. I can't 409 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: you know that window, that window is not to be 410 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: played with okay down ye yes? Or women went hot slashes, yeah, yeah, 411 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:37,120 Speaker 1: I can't stand that. That's why I got wind the locked. 412 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: That's why I got locked. Yeah, he got the lock 413 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: to winn take a jot of. I'm not not doing it. 414 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: Not do how grown he is. I'm not gonna do it. 415 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 1: You know. I can't stand right I getting my car washed, 416 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 1: and I coun't pick him take it somewhere. If you 417 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: eat in my car and drop any fact, I don't 418 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,160 Speaker 1: know when it. When you're driving, you always notice somebody 419 00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 1: dropping something. Yeah, chips, I see the chip fall down 420 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,120 Speaker 1: your shirt to the seat, to my floor. But you 421 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: can't eat like it ain't down it? Okay, okay, I 422 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 1: hate to go there. Come on, I'm driving in my car. 423 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 1: I look out the little just look out through the 424 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: peripheral of my of my of my right side. Are 425 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,719 Speaker 1: you hicking? Yo? No, wait a minute, where are you? 426 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: Where are you dusting that? Old man? Where's that going on? 427 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:34,959 Speaker 1: My floor? Man? Now, bro, bro, when y'all is saying it, 428 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: you didn't seen it. I used to hate getting it 429 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: somebody's car and don't nothing work. We ain't got no radio, 430 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:55,840 Speaker 1: we ain't got no el. We're just sitting up in here, hot, 431 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: in silence, and it's started to smoke tower. So Steve, 432 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:13,640 Speaker 1: it's time for today's headlines, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Ann Tripp, Okay, 433 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: thank you very much, everybody. This is an trip with 434 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,800 Speaker 1: the news. Welcome to a new Monday, and this is July. First. 435 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: President Trump and North Korean dictator Kim John Un met 436 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: at the border between North and South Korea the zone 437 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: briefly yesterday and Trump became the first American president, the 438 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: first sitting American president to do so. We went and 439 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 1: met at the line, and in meeting at the line, 440 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: I said, would you like me to come across? He said, 441 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: I would be so honored. Kim John n first crossed 442 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: the dm ump on the south side and then both 443 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 1: crossed into the north for a few minutes. After that, 444 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: they held a fifty minute meeting on his South Korea 445 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 1: and agreed to restart nuclear talks before Trump returned to Washington. 446 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: In Virginia, the self professed white supremacist who ran down 447 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: and killed a white woman who was part of an 448 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 1: anti racist rally in Charlesville, and he is going to 449 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: be locked up for a life. James Alex Fields plad 450 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: guilty to twenty nine federal hey crimes as part of 451 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: the plea deal that allowed him to avoid the death penalty. 452 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: Feels plowed through a crowd of demonstrates in August of 453 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,440 Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, killing thirty four year old Heather Higher and 454 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: injuring dozens of others who were protesting a Unite the 455 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: Right rally where white men carrying tiki torches chanted the 456 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 1: jew will not replace us, an instant that President Trump 457 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:31,200 Speaker 1: later claim featured good people on both sides. The US 458 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: Census Bureau was supposed to begin printing those twenty twenty 459 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: Census for hims today, but it's not clear if that's 460 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 1: going to happen since in beginning the constitutionally mandated national 461 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: headcount until the Supreme Court comes out with a definitive 462 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 1: ruling on the citizenship question he wants included, the Justice 463 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: is voted to keep it off the forms temporarily. Seeve 464 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: Choy of the New York Immigration Coalition says, the High 465 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: Court's intention is pretty clear. The ruled that the citizenship 466 00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: question was not about whatever kakamane reason Donald Trump gave 467 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: for it. The Supreme Court ruled that in fact, this 468 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 1: citizenship question was a direct strike at big immigrant rich 469 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 1: states like New York. However, the printing of an estimated 470 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: one point five billion cents his forms could nevertheless be 471 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,879 Speaker 1: delayed until October here's the latest one, this one walking 472 00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,479 Speaker 1: around a hospital while being a black patient. A black 473 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: man recuperating from pneumonia in a hospital in Freeport, Michigan, 474 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: arrested by white coffs while strolling the grounds on his 475 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: doctor's orders. Authary say twenty four years Shaquille Dukes was 476 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 1: wearing his hospital gown and attached to an ivy when 477 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:34,840 Speaker 1: a clueless white security guard ac because he was outside 478 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: the hospital and called the police. Anyway, it's all over. 479 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: Luckily they didn't kill mister Duke's Dukes's sewing. Finally, at 480 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,799 Speaker 1: the weekend box office toy story four, everyone, Bonnie made 481 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 1: a friend in class. Oh, she's already making friends. No, no, 482 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,600 Speaker 1: she literally made a new friend. Yeah, it's a sport 483 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 1: or something. They brought a fifty billion dollars. Now back 484 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:57,399 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey mourning Cheryl. You're listening to show, 485 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:04,320 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, it's your time's here. Time to slay 486 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: another one, murder another one. Well, you know what. The 487 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:15,480 Speaker 1: song is called happy and my song is called nappy. 488 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 1: You know, her chemicals can hurt you here, chemicals can 489 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:24,719 Speaker 1: change your change. What will her chemicals stud you? Come on, 490 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,000 Speaker 1: come on, come, on. I'll just let it be now. 491 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,840 Speaker 1: Let it be never right now. I want to kill people. 492 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: Say if they are not to pay, my hair is 493 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 1: not meant to lay right now, keep the han a 494 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 1: phone stone. I like it. Nappy got on your head. 495 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: You won't hurt your fingers when you run through my hair. 496 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:04,800 Speaker 1: Take it up by you if it's natural, just try 497 00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 1: a change, surprise and let it beat it beat all 498 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: the way. You should know your Jesus well looks so 499 00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,279 Speaker 1: nice and you just want to be if you want 500 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: to be nappy, let it be. Let it be never 501 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,759 Speaker 1: right nothing, don't you and all that it's Christian and 502 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: all that it is could let it be never right now? Coho? 503 00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: I just want to be annoyed. I'm not gonna keep 504 00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 1: on getting a cock and weeds with lace and the 505 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 1: prim no weeds. The broken can be nappy, happy to 506 00:36:49,800 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 1: be happy to that's a grease robins. We have throw 507 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: her head, do your head. If it's not good, don't 508 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: you bring it down right now? Come on, do what 509 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 1: I say. No she don't want I'm talking about say 510 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,360 Speaker 1: let it break it down, break it down. If you 511 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 1: want to be happy. The dug out too. Let it 512 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: be napping. Don't you let it be happy, Let it 513 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: be nip and a thing that is right and thing. 514 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 1: I just want to be that fool. Say take that 515 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:46,040 Speaker 1: hot ass weird? Yes, let it be home run Jay. 516 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: That is sounds like yeah, sounded just like her. Come 517 00:37:53,200 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: on on, she take a comb? Come on? That is Christian? 518 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: God's little is Christian? All right? More of this crazy 519 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this you're 520 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:20,720 Speaker 1: listening to show Steve, We got an email from a listener. 521 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 1: It says, my friend is a chef. People always talk 522 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: to him about cooking. Even if he wants to talk 523 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: about something besides food, the conversation inevitably goes back to 524 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 1: him being a great chef. The email goes on to say, 525 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 1: I have a friend working for candidate running for office, 526 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:44,040 Speaker 1: and every conversation in which she protects inevitably turns into politics. So, Steve, 527 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 1: what does every conversation in your life turn into? I mean, 528 00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:53,840 Speaker 1: do people talk about what TV? Money, money and advice? 529 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: I mean for success and it's not but now it's 530 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 1: not today ask for money. They want to discuss, you know, 531 00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: ideas for it, how to make more. I don't really 532 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,840 Speaker 1: mind that, you know. I mean, it's like when you 533 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,959 Speaker 1: meet a shelf, you're gonna have questions because everybody loves 534 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,400 Speaker 1: inside information. A guy in politics, you want to get 535 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 1: his opinion. You meet a pro football player, you want 536 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 1: to get information about playing ball, other teams. High song. So, man, 537 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,840 Speaker 1: have you ever faced a Rodgers? That's just comment? So 538 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: you know, man, you know, man, how was it? Man? 539 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: You know? I mean, you know, it's like people see 540 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: Marjorie all the time, they're go, I bet he's just 541 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: a hoop to live with. I bet he just funny 542 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: all the time. No, he's not funny at home at all. 543 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,080 Speaker 1: They just go, you're just saying that, like I'm just 544 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: at the house, just show never stopped. Yeah, yeah, like 545 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 1: they always want to ask tell me they have a 546 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,400 Speaker 1: strawberry letter for me. I got a letter for you. 547 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: What I always talk to you about? Tommy frank, my mama, prank, 548 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:03,440 Speaker 1: my daddy, prank my uncle. Can I just say when 549 00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:05,840 Speaker 1: the people I meet who meet me, let me just 550 00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 1: clear this up. I don't know where Steve is. I 551 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:14,480 Speaker 1: don't know what he's doing. I'm not with him. I 552 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 1: don't know where the hell he is. I don't talk 553 00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 1: to him that much. I just don't know, and don't 554 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: give me a damn thing to give him him that one. Oh, 555 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: I'm not taking it. You're gonna win with a bag, 556 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 1: Steve ain't telling Steve nay, But how do you not 557 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 1: take the stuff? Oh? You know what I do, and 558 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna met this. I'm gonna say it. I'll take it. 559 00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: But I thought it was I've watched him do it. Yeah, 560 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 1: I don't want to hurt nobody feeling. Oh, yeah, you 561 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,680 Speaker 1: know what. You know what I don't like? They roll 562 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:59,160 Speaker 1: up on Tommy, got something just for you, dog, just 563 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 1: for you, whole type. Come back ten minutes later. Here 564 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 1: is get this to Steve. I'm this is my book 565 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 1: and I know here like this book. It's kind of 566 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,000 Speaker 1: like his book, but not a great food like his book. 567 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,440 Speaker 1: I heard step like GM and chop cake. I made 568 00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:27,000 Speaker 1: one wrapped up. I made I made two, one for 569 00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 1: you and one for Steve. Though we can't eat something 570 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: somebody we don't know hands and we can't get it, 571 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: we can't put it in our protels. Though. Man, I 572 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,440 Speaker 1: don't give damn about your feelings getting hurt. But you're 573 00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:54,359 Speaker 1: not gonna do is poising me nobody eats food from 574 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 1: a total strange. You can't do. It's not even smart. 575 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: Oh that reminds me of that meme where this person 576 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,600 Speaker 1: was washing chitlands in their tub, in their bathtub at home. Yes, 577 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 1: that's why you can't take food from strangers. You don't 578 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:16,839 Speaker 1: know what their habits are. Chub chitlands. Yeah, I don't 579 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:23,839 Speaker 1: know how y'all ain't. Yeah, it's kind of in your sight. No, yeah, 580 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:30,279 Speaker 1: in the bathtub. I put them in a n eat 581 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 1: no chitlings, chill bath right right right, man? Yeah, yeah, 582 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,799 Speaker 1: right after they got a right after they get up, 583 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get right back in here with en No, no, no, 584 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: how about hey, save that water because I got the 585 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:59,320 Speaker 1: clean don't don't dream that drink. That's ridiculous, that's mass. 586 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:09,120 Speaker 1: We back at that nasy house again. Coming out more 587 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,200 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're 588 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:17,240 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. So the nephew is here, nephew, 589 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,400 Speaker 1: what you got? Break? Phone called time? My roommate Betty. Okay, 590 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:29,319 Speaker 1: my roommate Betty running cad running bitty. Hello, must speak 591 00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: to Devin, Yeah to see okay, Hey man, this Chris, 592 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: I live a bum of you. I ain't ever met 593 00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 1: you before, but you you you have. You've been calling 594 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:40,919 Speaker 1: the leasing office about complaining on me about I'm making 595 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: too much noise away. Yeah, man, I'm my bad, bro. 596 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:46,319 Speaker 1: I was trying to catch you. Man. I could never 597 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: I could never catch you at home. Man. It's just 598 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,480 Speaker 1: like you know, bro, I work a knife. I work 599 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,359 Speaker 1: at night. Yeah. Yeah, you're saying. I'm saying I work 600 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,760 Speaker 1: in a day, but I can't sleep at night, broking' 601 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:57,879 Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on in your apartment. I'm saying, 602 00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:59,600 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be in your business. I'm not 603 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,880 Speaker 1: trying to in your business. Player. I just can't get 604 00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 1: a sleeping night, man, because it'd be a lot of 605 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 1: noise or a lot of noise, a lot of talking. 606 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,000 Speaker 1: And what you do is your business. Bro. I'm just saying, please, man, 607 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 1: But you ain't have to go to the leasing office. Man, 608 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:14,320 Speaker 1: Oh you have to do you know what's hall at me? 609 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:16,239 Speaker 1: You ain't then you know they got me written up, 610 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: like you know, one more complaint on me, they're gonna 611 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,319 Speaker 1: put me out of something. Well. Yeah, like I said, though, 612 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: I was trying to get I was trying to find you. 613 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,440 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. But we I guess we 614 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: miss each other because you you work at night. I 615 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 1: work in the day. So you know when you're going, 616 00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm coming, and when I'm coming, you gone. I'm saying, 617 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 1: Brian trying starting. I'm just trying to, you know, go 618 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,480 Speaker 1: to work and pay my pay my bills. Man, it's 619 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,800 Speaker 1: I be at work at night. Man. You know what 620 00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:41,480 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm trying to get my hustle on, like 621 00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 1: you trying to get yours on doing Hala hala hala. 622 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,440 Speaker 1: Hold on. Okay, okay, let's make it my sense, bro, 623 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:49,840 Speaker 1: if you are working night, somebody in your somebody in 624 00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:53,920 Speaker 1: your apartment, how can loud them keeping me up square betting? Okay, 625 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: you got a roommate us long? No, I ain't got 626 00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 1: no roommates? Man, beny about in the talking loud holding 627 00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: a conversation. It's like two people in there talking loud 628 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:09,360 Speaker 1: every night. And that's brother, that's Penny man Benny Be talking. Okay, 629 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,399 Speaker 1: you say you ain't going the romance? Who who is Benny? 630 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,959 Speaker 1: Who is Benny? Benny is my bird my parents? That's 631 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:18,080 Speaker 1: Benny Be talking. It's like, man, stop going me di 632 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: listen mine what why Wait a minute, you're trying to 633 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:26,279 Speaker 1: tell me um bird that was biting? Man, I don't 634 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,319 Speaker 1: have bity two years, that's my bird. Birds don't even 635 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,000 Speaker 1: live that long. So so now I'm sucking night. I'm 636 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: at the work because because a bird, that's what you want. 637 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,640 Speaker 1: That's what you called me to tell me. I called 638 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 1: you to tell you. You ain't gonna be putting these 639 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,839 Speaker 1: complaints on me. Man, But I'm I'm gone, and that's 640 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:49,240 Speaker 1: been in talking. Man. Bit it in yo, bro yo, yo, penny. 641 00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, hey, look, I'm telling you now do 642 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,840 Speaker 1: something with the bird then, or that's gonna be some 643 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,360 Speaker 1: consequentions and repercussions. I'm talking about some fried chicken around it, 644 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: and man plenty. It's like a family member to me. 645 00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:05,080 Speaker 1: Bird too. Can't sam the chicken on the car flake 646 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:09,879 Speaker 1: box Kentucky Chicken churches, Brian, Hey, man, you don't tell 647 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: me nothing better about my birth? Okay, brother? You know what, 648 00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: maybe man, you need to square off from front of 649 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: each other because you don't you don't disrespect Betty Man. 650 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 1: All right, all right, you take something, all right? All right? 651 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,919 Speaker 1: I bet that be on my table when I get home. 652 00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:28,040 Speaker 1: If it's a bird, then I'll bet that, beyall, don 653 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,080 Speaker 1: a table man a man. Then you ain't gonna sit 654 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: in disrespect me and trying to tell me what you're 655 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,800 Speaker 1: gonna do to my bird. But you ain't gonna do 656 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: nothing stupid to betty. Tell you what I tell you 657 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,000 Speaker 1: what you can date you at home? Right now? What 658 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:39,920 Speaker 1: can you go to work tonight? I bet you beat it. 659 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:42,520 Speaker 1: I'll bet that tomorrow. I bet you with these things 660 00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 1: looking good tomorrow. Man, ain't hold on a minute, man, 661 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,319 Speaker 1: wait a minute though? What you play do and start 662 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: talking about what you're gonna do to my bird? Not 663 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:53,399 Speaker 1: and told you you file for going to the listen 664 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 1: office calling me, y'all and now you're on the phone. 665 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm trying to work this out with you, and now 666 00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:59,680 Speaker 1: you ain't trying to work now. I first stop you. 667 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,120 Speaker 1: You called me and tell me that it's a bird 668 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 1: holding a conversation with itself. I'm a stupid right now, 669 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,400 Speaker 1: but I'm I'm a stupid even continue this conversation. I 670 00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:15,279 Speaker 1: excuse with me. I P a knight? Am you serious? Man? 671 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:18,640 Speaker 1: I really use some evis or something like man, listen, 672 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 1: bro listen, whatever it is, it's just a bird or 673 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,360 Speaker 1: recording whatever. If you gotta do something waiting, it is 674 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: a bird, man, I'm gonna be solid softed if this 675 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,960 Speaker 1: is a bird, I'm gonna really it's a bird. It's spinning, man, 676 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: it's spinning. You know. All you gotta do is come 677 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:34,960 Speaker 1: to me. And we could have had a listen like me. 678 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 1: Hola hola hola Okay, okay, okay, We're gonna have it 679 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 1: like men. And then first off, leasing office wouldn't give 680 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,399 Speaker 1: me a name. What's your nine? My name? Chris? Okay, Chris, 681 00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm deafering. There we go, There we go. Listen, dowg 682 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,080 Speaker 1: I ain't for the past three months. You know what 683 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I ain't really been getting no sleep because 684 00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,839 Speaker 1: of this bird. You say it's a bird. I don't 685 00:47:56,880 --> 00:48:00,799 Speaker 1: believe that. But a bird a bird? Come on, dog 686 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 1: that's doing it for ten years. We'll look take them 687 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:08,319 Speaker 1: to work with you is I don't care, figure something out, 688 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,839 Speaker 1: but whatever going on up there with you and your 689 00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,879 Speaker 1: fire need to come to an immediate house or it's 690 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,600 Speaker 1: gonna be something down. Hey man, hey man, what you 691 00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 1: can't do is threatened me by what's going on in 692 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 1: my household. Man, Look kill you ain't been it's being 693 00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:24,719 Speaker 1: in linny. Whatever the nine meals, you need to do 694 00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,560 Speaker 1: something with that. It's gonna be some real It shows 695 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,160 Speaker 1: like why don't I going back and forth with you 696 00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,839 Speaker 1: about this? You keep telling me something about a buy 697 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 1: It's a bird. What's the problem with it? What's the problem? 698 00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: I understanding that people have pet birds? Say man, I 699 00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,000 Speaker 1: don't give them if you have a pet bird, But really, 700 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 1: this all night long? How do you? How do you? 701 00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,719 Speaker 1: How do you live with the thing? Come, I'll never 702 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: shut up. I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what 703 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,320 Speaker 1: Benny told me to tell you? Though, God, tell you 704 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: what Benny told me? Wait wait wait wait wait wait 705 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,359 Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait white white Chris white, white brother, 706 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear what no bird told you 707 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 1: to tell me? Can I tell you what Benny told 708 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 1: me to tell you? What? What? What? Then? It told 709 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:09,360 Speaker 1: me to tell you this that This is nephew Timmy 710 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got pranked 711 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 1: by your boys, Sean, He say, did I get your man? 712 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:29,279 Speaker 1: Got me? God? You got it man, that guy. I'm 713 00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:33,440 Speaker 1: gonna get it. I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna I'm 714 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,319 Speaker 1: gonna have to wait to this dude, get armed out 715 00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:39,640 Speaker 1: and talk to him. Line, talk somebody, you about some 716 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 1: poling the bird. I don't know what's up stairs, man, 717 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,879 Speaker 1: I do go, I'll be up our night. And I'm 718 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:48,799 Speaker 1: saying I'm missing I'm missing my sleep. I'm missing now 719 00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying I'm missing y'alls in the morning because I'm 720 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,600 Speaker 1: robbing hitting the slooth. But I got one more thing 721 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,319 Speaker 1: to ask you. What is what is the baddest I'm 722 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,560 Speaker 1: talking about the baddest radio show in the land? Man? 723 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 1: You are shot never You know your roommate does not 724 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,319 Speaker 1: have to be a human being. You know that there's 725 00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 1: some people with other kind of roommates stupid, it's people 726 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 1: with ostriches in the house. I got a pair. That's 727 00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: my roommate. Benny, Benny, you're listening to the Steve Harvey 728 00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, right now, it is time for 729 00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:29,560 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, on dating, 730 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:32,719 Speaker 1: on work, on sex, on parenting, and more, that would 731 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 1: be m O. R. E j U. Submit your Strawberry 732 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 1: letters that Submit your Strawberry Letters to Steve HARVEYFM dot 733 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:45,800 Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry letter. All right, come on June. 734 00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:49,319 Speaker 1: All right, here it is. It's that time, Shirley Strawberry 735 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:54,800 Speaker 1: with our Strawberry let subject. Four years later, I'm still 736 00:50:55,880 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: his girlfriend. Yeah, Junior's on one today. You're Stephen, Shirley, 737 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:05,319 Speaker 1: I'm stuck. I've read your book, Steve, and I've been 738 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,800 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend for four years. In the four years, 739 00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:12,760 Speaker 1: we've bought a home and had lots of beautiful vacations together. 740 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 1: We're under thirty years old, and we have a solid relationship. 741 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 1: He provides, protects and professes his love for me. So 742 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 1: why after four years, I still don't have an engagement ring. 743 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,839 Speaker 1: I haven't given him my all yet because there are 744 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 1: certain benefits that only a wife can give to her husband. 745 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:36,720 Speaker 1: He's not my husband. I never feel bad for reminding 746 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,440 Speaker 1: him when he complains about me holding back. When I 747 00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 1: drop hints about us moving to the next step in 748 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,400 Speaker 1: our relationship, he says that I'm going to have to 749 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: be patient, and pressuring him is not good. I was 750 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 1: furious this summer when he went out and bought a 751 00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,640 Speaker 1: jet ski for over two thousand dollars. That was money 752 00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,359 Speaker 1: he could have used on my diamond ring. I get 753 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,960 Speaker 1: with my girlfriends and they make me feel even worse 754 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 1: and put even more pressure on me for not having 755 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: a ring yet. Our wedding colors are picked out, we 756 00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 1: have a church and reception place in mind, we have 757 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 1: talked about who we'd want in our bridal power party, 758 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,920 Speaker 1: and we picked out a beautiful honeymoon location. Am I 759 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 1: overthinking this and stressing myself for no reason? Should I 760 00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:22,960 Speaker 1: just give it time and or leave him now and 761 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: stop putting my life on hold? He should know by 762 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,879 Speaker 1: now what he wants. Please help me? Well, I mean 763 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:32,040 Speaker 1: apparently he doesn't know right now, or he's not ready 764 00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,000 Speaker 1: right now, or if he was ready right now, he 765 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:36,080 Speaker 1: would have done it. I mean, you guys live together. 766 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:40,279 Speaker 1: You've made purchases together, major purchases like a house. That's 767 00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,080 Speaker 1: what married people do. You guys go on vacation together. 768 00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,600 Speaker 1: You all may as well be married. I mean, you 769 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:51,960 Speaker 1: do all the things that married people do without the benefits, 770 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,360 Speaker 1: meaning the ring and the mrs and all of that 771 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,400 Speaker 1: that you desperately want. What I'm saying is, why are 772 00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,560 Speaker 1: you doing all this and you're not his wife? Why? 773 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 1: I mean, where is his incentive to marry you right now? 774 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,600 Speaker 1: He's still young. You guys are both still under thirty 775 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,319 Speaker 1: years old. You're saying, you say you have a solid relationship, 776 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:12,400 Speaker 1: but you're not getting what you want. You say, he provides, 777 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,359 Speaker 1: he professes and protects, like Steve says in the book. 778 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,520 Speaker 1: But you guys have bought a home together. So you're 779 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:22,000 Speaker 1: feeling like the next step is marriage. You're already like 780 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:25,399 Speaker 1: a wife to him. Um, you're gonna have to pull 781 00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 1: up a little bit um or or maybe in his case, 782 00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,759 Speaker 1: put out a little bit. I don't know. You're saying 783 00:53:31,800 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 1: you're holding back. You didn't, you weren't specific. But by 784 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,799 Speaker 1: holding back, do you mean you're not having sex with him? 785 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 1: But you guys have bought a house together. Ain't nobody 786 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:43,200 Speaker 1: bought this? This is not making sense to me. I 787 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,399 Speaker 1: was just gonna say that, Steve, this is not making 788 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:50,319 Speaker 1: sense to me. Uh, he's definitely not ready. You guys 789 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,839 Speaker 1: are young, under thirty. He still has some more fun 790 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,879 Speaker 1: to have with his over two thousand dollars jet Ski. 791 00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 1: You know he wants to play on that some or 792 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 1: you didn't say it, but the holding back part that 793 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:06,920 Speaker 1: that is a big puzzle in here. You've left a 794 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 1: lot out. So if you're ready now, and he's not. 795 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: You guys, you are stuck because you bought a major 796 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,840 Speaker 1: purchase with him, so you know, to get him to 797 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 1: marry you, it is going to be a struggle now. 798 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,200 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, take your equity out and move on. 799 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,400 Speaker 1: You know, that's one option that you have. But I 800 00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,320 Speaker 1: don't think you want to do that. I think you 801 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,720 Speaker 1: want what you want, but the timing is just not right. Steve. 802 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 1: If you've been with a man for four years and 803 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,959 Speaker 1: you live with him and you alten bought a house, 804 00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:43,920 Speaker 1: there's a thing called common law marriage, so you're entitled 805 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,080 Speaker 1: to everything that a wife is entitled to at this point, 806 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:53,120 Speaker 1: now you're asking this letter. In four years, we bought 807 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:56,759 Speaker 1: a home, had lots of beautiful vacations together, we're under 808 00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,920 Speaker 1: thirty years old, got a slim related. He provides, protects 809 00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 1: and professes his love with me. So why after four 810 00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,839 Speaker 1: years do I still not have an an engagement ring. 811 00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:11,440 Speaker 1: You're missing? He hasn't professed it fully. He protects for you, 812 00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:15,719 Speaker 1: he provides for you. But the professing part is you 813 00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:20,439 Speaker 1: thought in the book I said he that That means 814 00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 1: that a man says he loves you. No, I explain 815 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:28,239 Speaker 1: to you. How we lay claim to women, How we 816 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 1: claim you all as hours, not in terms of property. 817 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying how we make you mind. We 818 00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:40,880 Speaker 1: make you my hours with titles. Now you don't have 819 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,080 Speaker 1: the title you want. Now you want to know, if 820 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:45,440 Speaker 1: you want to know, if you're overthinking this. No, you're 821 00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 1: overthinking this. But you all, ladies, you keep making the 822 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 1: same mistake over and over and over. See, y'all keep 823 00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:07,000 Speaker 1: doing married duties without having the man purchased them all 824 00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:11,840 Speaker 1: pay for them. You're doing all the wifely duties, but 825 00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:15,200 Speaker 1: he ain't got to do nothing to get them. All 826 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 1: he got to do is move in with you, sleep 827 00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,920 Speaker 1: with you. It's gotta be more to that. See, here's 828 00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:24,839 Speaker 1: why you all keep stuck. Why after four years don't 829 00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,759 Speaker 1: I have engagement ring. I haven't given him my all 830 00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,040 Speaker 1: yet because they have certain benefits that only a wife 831 00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,239 Speaker 1: can give to a husband. He's not my husband. I 832 00:56:33,280 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 1: don't even know why you put that in there. You 833 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:41,440 Speaker 1: all in y'all sleeping together. All right, When we come back, 834 00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:44,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what's wrong. Then I have the answer, 835 00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:49,759 Speaker 1: and we'll be back at twenty three after you're listening show, 836 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,759 Speaker 1: all right, let's recap today's strawberry letter, Steve. Subject, four 837 00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,399 Speaker 1: years later, I'm still his girlfriend. Let's get part two 838 00:56:57,400 --> 00:56:59,759 Speaker 1: of your response. All right, four years later, this girl 839 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,719 Speaker 1: man because she's still a dude's boyfriend. They've been together 840 00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 1: four years. They don't bought a house together. Excuse me, 841 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 1: girlfriend bought a house together. Beautiful vacations day under thirty, 842 00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,560 Speaker 1: She says, he provides protecting, professes his love for me. 843 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,160 Speaker 1: When a man professes his love with you is not 844 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 1: just I love you. It comes with titles. It's like promotions. 845 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 1: So why after four years don't I still have an 846 00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 1: engagement ring? Because you haven't required one yet. You have 847 00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:33,360 Speaker 1: not required an engagement for these actions to occur. Now, 848 00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:36,200 Speaker 1: see the mistake Like I told you that y'all keep doing, 849 00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: is y'all keep doing all these married duties without him 850 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:44,800 Speaker 1: having to purchase the married duties. Now, whatever it is 851 00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: you're talking about you holding back in this letter, it 852 00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:51,080 Speaker 1: obviously it ain't enough to make him marry you. So 853 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:55,240 Speaker 1: whatever you're holding back, he good. I just thought i'd 854 00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:00,280 Speaker 1: bring that up. You're already given plenty, So why don't 855 00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:04,640 Speaker 1: I have an engagement ring yet? You're ready? Because he 856 00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 1: has everything he wants all ready. He don't need to 857 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:13,520 Speaker 1: give you a ring. Can we be okay with that? 858 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,640 Speaker 1: I mean, this is an open and shut case to me. Now, 859 00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:22,080 Speaker 1: your problem is when I drop hints about moving to 860 00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 1: the next step in our relationship, he says that I'm 861 00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:27,360 Speaker 1: gonna have to be patient and pressuring him is not good. 862 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:34,400 Speaker 1: It's not good for him, So don't pressure him. See, ladies, 863 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,440 Speaker 1: you can get a lot more what you want by 864 00:58:36,520 --> 00:58:40,600 Speaker 1: just pressuring yourself. You don't have to pressure man. If 865 00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:42,919 Speaker 1: a man ain't good with it, just say, hey, look, 866 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:47,440 Speaker 1: let me step to the side until you decide what 867 00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,200 Speaker 1: you really want to do. Because I'm not playing house 868 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:54,440 Speaker 1: with you anymore. So now I ain't pressuring you. You 869 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 1: can you can stay here in this house I'm gonna need. 870 00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 1: I'm not paying them more money on this thing I'm 871 00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:03,080 Speaker 1: and I won't and I want to sell it because 872 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:07,000 Speaker 1: I want my half back out. And you're not sleeping 873 00:59:07,040 --> 00:59:09,080 Speaker 1: with me no more in that bed right there, and 874 00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm not cooking no more food. It ain't no problem. 875 00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 1: I'm not pressuring you. You don't have to ask me 876 00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,920 Speaker 1: to marry you. But I'm gonna stop sitting up in 877 00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 1: here acting like we're married, and then you never give 878 00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,160 Speaker 1: me what I want. I'm going to my mama's house. 879 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,840 Speaker 1: Call me when you want to go to the next 880 00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: level now that most women are not gonna do because 881 00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:32,160 Speaker 1: they're afraid of losing them. Man, but you ain't. You 882 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 1: don't have them one. You won't right now. And it's 883 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:38,520 Speaker 1: so terrible because they have this major purchase together. They 884 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:41,040 Speaker 1: have a house together. Yeah right, but you can get 885 00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:44,000 Speaker 1: out of that. No, that's yours. I'm telling you the 886 00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 1: woman gonna win and that you ain't cheated on the dude. 887 00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 1: Nothing like that. Oh he gonna lose. He gotta get 888 00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 1: the house up. Now that's your house and he'll be 889 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 1: paying for Oh my god. Preachers. Yeah you woke up, jay, Yeah, yeah, 890 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 1: he hit out. He preached one hundred, one hundred and one. 891 01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:11,240 Speaker 1: What do you know about this, Jake. I've lost some houses. 892 01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,880 Speaker 1: She stopped a small community with the houses I've locked. 893 01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,800 Speaker 1: She mad because this food and went out bought a 894 01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,640 Speaker 1: jet ski for over two thousand dollars, and she talked 895 01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,120 Speaker 1: about that money he could have used on my diamond ring. 896 01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 1: I get with my girlfriends. They make me feel even worse, 897 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,240 Speaker 1: putting more pressure on me for not having a ring. 898 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 1: Our wedding colors are picked out. He hadn't done at all. 899 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,720 Speaker 1: He let you pick out the wedding colors. He't let 900 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,880 Speaker 1: you talk about the church reception place in mind. You 901 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,600 Speaker 1: don't talked about brider party. You didn't picked out a 902 01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 1: honeymoon location. Are you talking about this all you want? 903 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:54,040 Speaker 1: Quit pressure me? You want to planet planet where you 904 01:00:54,080 --> 01:01:00,600 Speaker 1: want to go? We're going you her girlfriend? Pick out 905 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: your play? So, baby, what you're gonna do about flowers? 906 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:12,560 Speaker 1: Though they're gonna have nice? Just a reenactment your role? 907 01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: It would be doing are we reenacting this? You want 908 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:22,680 Speaker 1: to get married? Hey? Baby? Aw? You doing? What's going on? 909 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: I got got some wedding books. I need you to 910 01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:35,560 Speaker 1: look at you like, yeah, what about this color out here? 911 01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 1: I love? Future? Like yeah, yeah, yeah, that's cool. Future cool. Yeah? 912 01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 1: And how about how about we're gonna work on our 913 01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 1: dance because you know my daddy at the reception, me 914 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:50,280 Speaker 1: and my daddy gonna do a little dance and then 915 01:01:50,480 --> 01:01:52,640 Speaker 1: you and I do a first dance, So you want 916 01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:54,520 Speaker 1: to work on that later on the night to dance? 917 01:01:56,120 --> 01:01:58,800 Speaker 1: I could you know how old are you? You know 918 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:04,280 Speaker 1: your daddy might not that. What now that was about 919 01:02:04,280 --> 01:02:15,920 Speaker 1: to dance lessons? What's happening? Oh you're daddy, damn yeah, 920 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 1: you gotta shaping that up because if you don't, I 921 01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 1: can call it wedding off. Now what don't make me? 922 01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:31,320 Speaker 1: Don't make me call up these plans because I do, daddy? Yeah, yeah, 923 01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:36,280 Speaker 1: you about your whole ass. You This is upsetting my spirit. 924 01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:40,840 Speaker 1: Really you're gonna call it wedding off. Well, if that's 925 01:02:40,880 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 1: what you want to do, then I guess it's just off. Then? 926 01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, quick you know what I'm doing this? 927 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:59,320 Speaker 1: Oh cool? All right, guys, we gotta get out of here. 928 01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,640 Speaker 1: Thank you for that. Reenactm email us, their instagram us, 929 01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,440 Speaker 1: your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM 930 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,400 Speaker 1: or at my girls. Surely all right, we'll have more 931 01:03:08,440 --> 01:03:11,200 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're 932 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:15,400 Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we go, 933 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:20,760 Speaker 1: Junior year up, Hey morning, everybody. Man. Let me just 934 01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:22,480 Speaker 1: sell the truth right now. And I'm just meaning I 935 01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:24,520 Speaker 1: don't mean this dispect for nobody in there. I love 936 01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:27,920 Speaker 1: all y'all, now, I really do. But I just want 937 01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,760 Speaker 1: to let y'all know something, man, truth be told, I 938 01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 1: won't be related to Steve for real? What's wrong? No? 939 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 1: Because I ain't got no money in my family. You 940 01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,800 Speaker 1: don't I need somebody else beside me money? And I 941 01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:44,920 Speaker 1: just found an over vacation uncle, Steve. Boy, do you 942 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:48,800 Speaker 1: be looking, Tommy? Do you know how much your uncle worth? Yea, 943 01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,680 Speaker 1: how much? I'm not gonna throw the number that but 944 01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:55,680 Speaker 1: I actually no, no, I don't know this. Yeah, but 945 01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:57,640 Speaker 1: we've been working with him every day. Y'all are so 946 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:03,600 Speaker 1: disrespectful to set up him hip man. You did I 947 01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:08,000 Speaker 1: go with him? What that man? Were supposed to treat 948 01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:12,120 Speaker 1: him different? Yes? No, because of his hell wet it's 949 01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:15,720 Speaker 1: broke people you treat better than him? No? No, oh no, 950 01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:17,800 Speaker 1: I gotta ain't it. I sweat. I never talked to 951 01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:21,520 Speaker 1: you the same. No, not long as I know. Steve 952 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,919 Speaker 1: ain't hill If you don't get your broke ass away 953 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:30,080 Speaker 1: from me. No, No, I'm tired. I'm tired all the 954 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:31,440 Speaker 1: pro people I got to be nice to a head 955 01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:33,240 Speaker 1: on Steven. We treat him like he ain't worth nothing. 956 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,680 Speaker 1: This man, he could change our generation. We treat him regularly, 957 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:38,560 Speaker 1: treat him like I don't want to treat him record, 958 01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:45,480 Speaker 1: I love you Now if you see me him, I'll 959 01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 1: tell you what. He worked more than a hundred me. 960 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:51,640 Speaker 1: Did you know that? Did you know he was the 961 01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: highest paid what I wanted saying that I was winning 962 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,920 Speaker 1: when he was worked one hundred dollars to get that 963 01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 1: him through it. I knew him when he wasn't worth nothing. 964 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:10,040 Speaker 1: But but but now he didn't pass everybody else. You're 965 01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:13,200 Speaker 1: not tripping on you. You don't want to. So I 966 01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,439 Speaker 1: didn't know he was just rich? Ye oh my god, 967 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:18,320 Speaker 1: do you need to shoe because you know you're gonna 968 01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,720 Speaker 1: be on TV. We know you're not. You're not. We're 969 01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:23,920 Speaker 1: not doing this for him. We're not listen and make 970 01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:29,040 Speaker 1: it work. Forget that. Regular folks got thirty dollars hour 971 01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:34,320 Speaker 1: that reglar folk? All right? That this okay, y'all quit this. 972 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:38,560 Speaker 1: Regular folk, seventeen regular people. I may I take yourr 973 01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 1: that re people. Okay, two hundred million, Yeah, okay, it's 974 01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:44,959 Speaker 1: a little different. But let me tell you something. People 975 01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:46,800 Speaker 1: with two hundred men, you still have to tell you, 976 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:50,240 Speaker 1: tell to see something that you do this regular time. 977 01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:53,040 Speaker 1: He don't do nothing you do, No, he don't. Okay, 978 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 1: So how you regular you have to sit in a 979 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,920 Speaker 1: regular chair. He don't, Man, that's about it. Shut up. 980 01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:11,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna try to call you drive Tommy, drive God, 981 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:16,560 Speaker 1: say it, you can say it. What How did I 982 01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:23,440 Speaker 1: get calls up into this? All right, we gotta go. 983 01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:33,200 Speaker 1: We'll be back. You're listening to show. All right, Happy Monday, 984 01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:37,440 Speaker 1: Happy Monday everyone? Whow and what a great Monday. Hopefully 985 01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 1: it will be and it can be if we wanted 986 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 1: to be, right, Steve, Uh, it's all on what you expect. 987 01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 1: When you control your attitude, you control your altitude. Since 988 01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:53,240 Speaker 1: we're talking about being positive this morning, why don't you 989 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:58,440 Speaker 1: give some advice to Jay Anthony Brown bitter man about 990 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:04,600 Speaker 1: how turning that negative too into positive? Yeah, thirty thirty 991 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,560 Speaker 1: year friend, thirty five year friend. If I would Jay 992 01:07:07,600 --> 01:07:11,680 Speaker 1: Anthony Brown, go ahead, I would realize that where I 993 01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:15,560 Speaker 1: am today, I've exactly thought myself to that exact position, 994 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 1: that he's in a good position. Yeah, he just doesn't 995 01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:22,600 Speaker 1: look at how far he's come from where he started. 996 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,560 Speaker 1: And if he wouldn't do that, well I know why 997 01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:29,760 Speaker 1: he bit m because you know he don't take rejection. Well, 998 01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,400 Speaker 1: Ce Jade's like this, you know, if he in a relationship, 999 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:37,800 Speaker 1: and he loves the honeymoon phase, the beginning of the relationship, 1000 01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 1: but as soon as it turned into what did you say, 1001 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,720 Speaker 1: that's the beginning of the are you saying? They can't 1002 01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:51,200 Speaker 1: even ask a question? Girl? He said, okay, here, let 1003 01:07:51,480 --> 01:07:53,840 Speaker 1: me give you an example. Ask me some questions, Sherlett, 1004 01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:59,520 Speaker 1: I'm okay, Well, you said you wanted to have dinner tonight. 1005 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,880 Speaker 1: What time time? Uh? Are you gonna pick me up? 1006 01:08:02,360 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 1: So damn you just gonna bother me a by what time? Now? 1007 01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 1: I just need to know. Yeah, I just need to 1008 01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:14,600 Speaker 1: know so I'll know when to be ready. I'll be 1009 01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:21,000 Speaker 1: there when I get there. Okay, Well, baby, well should 1010 01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:24,120 Speaker 1: I wear? Going? Are we going to a fancy restaurant? 1011 01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:26,040 Speaker 1: Or is it going to be casual? I just said, 1012 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:30,040 Speaker 1: why we always got to go somewhere fancy? You know, 1013 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 1: why can't we just go somewhere like regular peak? So 1014 01:08:35,120 --> 01:08:40,400 Speaker 1: we're just gonna spend all the money eating? What should 1015 01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:49,000 Speaker 1: I wear? What? What do you think I should? Close? To? Hell? You? Well, 1016 01:08:49,120 --> 01:08:51,439 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so are we driving or are we 1017 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:55,000 Speaker 1: going to take a car? Because sometimes we go in 1018 01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:57,560 Speaker 1: a car? Well, I know that, but sometimes you know, 1019 01:08:57,680 --> 01:09:00,559 Speaker 1: we may have a couple of cocktails or something. And oh, 1020 01:09:00,640 --> 01:09:03,240 Speaker 1: so now you're gonna drink a lot too. I'm just 1021 01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:07,280 Speaker 1: saying I don't want you to drive if you've been drinking, 1022 01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:18,280 Speaker 1: that's all I drive, But we I don't drive at 1023 01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,080 Speaker 1: got all this stuff legalize that you still want to drink? 1024 01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:23,800 Speaker 1: So is that? Is that what you're gonna wear? Oh? 1025 01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: You don't like what I got on. I just asked 1026 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 1: if you were gonna wear that. If you're wearing a suit, 1027 01:09:30,280 --> 01:09:32,920 Speaker 1: then maybe I'll put on a contail dress. You know? 1028 01:09:33,080 --> 01:09:41,439 Speaker 1: So what this ain't gonna work? Can we at least 1029 01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:46,080 Speaker 1: get to dinner? I don't see how this could possibly 1030 01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:49,280 Speaker 1: that because I was gonna say, if we went to dinner, 1031 01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:52,000 Speaker 1: I was gonna let you order for me. You pick it. 1032 01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:54,320 Speaker 1: Now you want me to order your food? So you 1033 01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 1: be mad? And what I don't know? Don'tbody know what 1034 01:09:57,040 --> 01:09:59,479 Speaker 1: you want to eat? Okay, Well, you don't even know 1035 01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,120 Speaker 1: where we go? How I will pick? Well, that's why 1036 01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,519 Speaker 1: I asked, Well, okay, well I gotta ask you this. 1037 01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:07,880 Speaker 1: I have to ask you this now. Will you be upset? 1038 01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:12,960 Speaker 1: Is it? Okay? If I order a dessert? Wow? So 1039 01:10:13,160 --> 01:10:16,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna just sit up there you don't care how 1040 01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:20,760 Speaker 1: you gonna look in ten years. Huh, judge, So we 1041 01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:26,439 Speaker 1: just got the dessert. Honey, I was being considerate because 1042 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:32,360 Speaker 1: I know you have diabetes, but you're gonna order dessert 1043 01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:35,439 Speaker 1: while I'm sitting over here just looking, which is why. 1044 01:10:37,840 --> 01:10:45,240 Speaker 1: That's why I got diabetes causing you. Well, if if 1045 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,920 Speaker 1: we go to the restaurant out by the by the 1046 01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:50,240 Speaker 1: water is it okay? What are we driving all way 1047 01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,240 Speaker 1: down there by the waterfall? Well? I thought it would 1048 01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:55,680 Speaker 1: be nice, you know, romantic walk after dinner maybe, you know, 1049 01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:59,760 Speaker 1: romantic walking out cold and be on that beach at night. Damn, 1050 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:01,640 Speaker 1: how you want to eat? Get the flu? Now? You 1051 01:11:01,760 --> 01:11:06,000 Speaker 1: see you take off work. Now I got to come 1052 01:11:06,040 --> 01:11:10,680 Speaker 1: by and bring super you know I got. All right, 1053 01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:12,960 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1054 01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:21,040 Speaker 1: Show right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1055 01:11:21,200 --> 01:11:25,960 Speaker 1: it is Monday, Happy d you like fourth week? Everybody? Man? Yea? 1056 01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:32,280 Speaker 1: I know, No your barbecue and tell me every chance 1057 01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:37,280 Speaker 1: I get what's your barbecuing? Someone? I'm gonna trying to 1058 01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:40,519 Speaker 1: do something different, like a whole vegan meal like we 1059 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:45,360 Speaker 1: talked about, yes, vegans vegan shouldn't come to barbecue. So listen, 1060 01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:51,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a whole feel a loan. You can't 1061 01:11:51,200 --> 01:11:54,559 Speaker 1: make that up. Feeling. Yeah, it's a it's a whole 1062 01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:57,120 Speaker 1: thing and every it's all for you. Ever ever had 1063 01:11:57,160 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 1: it where it's uncut. You can buy the whole thing. 1064 01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,080 Speaker 1: It's a whole. It's like a loaf of bread. It's 1065 01:12:01,080 --> 01:12:04,559 Speaker 1: a hole for late you smoke it right, really? Yeah, 1066 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:07,720 Speaker 1: you know you're not making this up. No, you know 1067 01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:09,720 Speaker 1: who taught me this. It is Gee Garvin and he 1068 01:12:09,800 --> 01:12:11,600 Speaker 1: gave me the recipe and everything. This is. This is 1069 01:12:11,600 --> 01:12:15,360 Speaker 1: a little bit I'm telling me. Yeah, but you can't 1070 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:19,200 Speaker 1: to meat bout one hundred fifty dollars, so you can't 1071 01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:24,679 Speaker 1: messed up the meat. You can't play with that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1072 01:12:24,680 --> 01:12:27,360 Speaker 1: you got it on the grind. It's the least. So yeah, 1073 01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be doing a little some something, you know, 1074 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:32,760 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you what. I'll tell you this. Let 1075 01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:35,040 Speaker 1: me get your little little secret that really ain't my 1076 01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:38,200 Speaker 1: secret that I stole through Junior from one of his boys. 1077 01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:41,519 Speaker 1: One of his boys was cooking outside the outside the 1078 01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:44,599 Speaker 1: barbershop and instead of having you know how people had 1079 01:12:44,640 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 1: this this base they make so they can go and 1080 01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:49,639 Speaker 1: keep the meat moist. Yeah, he just went out there 1081 01:12:49,680 --> 01:12:51,920 Speaker 1: with a whole Italian dress and it just sprayed it. 1082 01:12:54,800 --> 01:12:57,400 Speaker 1: I do that too though. All right, we'll have more 1083 01:12:57,479 --> 01:12:59,880 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show on this July four 1084 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:05,800 Speaker 1: week kick off right after this. You're listening Morning show, 1085 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:11,679 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, it's your boys time, he's here. Time 1086 01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:14,720 Speaker 1: to slay another one murder another one's hope. Well, you 1087 01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:20,880 Speaker 1: know what the song is called happy, and my song 1088 01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:27,680 Speaker 1: is called nappy. You know how chemicals can hurt, her, 1089 01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:31,560 Speaker 1: chemicals can change change. What will her chemicals? Stud you 1090 01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:35,519 Speaker 1: come on, come on, come on, I'll just let it 1091 01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:40,439 Speaker 1: be now right now. I want to kill people. Say 1092 01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: if they are not to pay, my hair is not 1093 01:13:45,360 --> 01:13:51,759 Speaker 1: meant to lay keep the ho com of phone Stone. 1094 01:13:54,960 --> 01:14:01,639 Speaker 1: I like it nappy. That's three. Rub it on your hand. 1095 01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,280 Speaker 1: That's what you do. It won't hurt your fingers when 1096 01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:09,200 Speaker 1: you run through her head. Take it up by if 1097 01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:18,640 Speaker 1: it's natural. Just try to change us, Frida. Let it 1098 01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:21,880 Speaker 1: beat it beat all the way. You should know your 1099 01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:30,519 Speaker 1: Jesus well looks so nice and you just want to 1100 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:33,439 Speaker 1: be If you want to be nappy, let it be 1101 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:38,720 Speaker 1: let it be never right nothing. Don't you want and 1102 01:14:38,840 --> 01:14:40,479 Speaker 1: all that it's Christian and all that it could, Let 1103 01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,640 Speaker 1: it be never right now, coleout. I just want to 1104 01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:48,559 Speaker 1: be annoy I'm not gonna keep on getting a cock 1105 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:54,439 Speaker 1: and weeds with lay send the front no weeds broken 1106 01:14:55,000 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 1: and be nappy, happy to be happy, na use that 1107 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:09,479 Speaker 1: to less of grease. Roberts. We have through my head 1108 01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:18,479 Speaker 1: to your head. If it's now, don't bet your don't 1109 01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:22,040 Speaker 1: you bring it down right now? Come on, do what 1110 01:15:22,160 --> 01:15:27,520 Speaker 1: I say. No, she don't want to talking about say takes. 1111 01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:34,320 Speaker 1: Let me break it down, break you down. If you 1112 01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:38,840 Speaker 1: want to be happy. The dug out too, let it 1113 01:15:38,920 --> 01:15:42,280 Speaker 1: be napping. Don't let it be happy. Let it be 1114 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:46,000 Speaker 1: and a thing that is right. And I just want 1115 01:15:46,040 --> 01:15:51,000 Speaker 1: to be that fool. Say take that hot ass weird, Yes, 1116 01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:56,439 Speaker 1: let it be home run Jay that it is like 1117 01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:09,639 Speaker 1: yeah round, just liking her. Jesus take a comb on Christian, 1118 01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:18,320 Speaker 1: God's little is Christian? All right? Coming up, we'll close 1119 01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:20,719 Speaker 1: out the show. We have one more break on this Monday. 1120 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:24,519 Speaker 1: Steve with his closing remarks. When we come back right 1121 01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:29,559 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to show. Hey, it's your girl 1122 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,559 Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry and listen. If you don't wear SPF because 1123 01:16:32,640 --> 01:16:35,000 Speaker 1: you don't think you need it, well you kind of do. 1124 01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:39,320 Speaker 1: On average, women get about eighteen hours of incidental sun 1125 01:16:39,400 --> 01:16:41,800 Speaker 1: exposure a week. That's like heading out to the beach 1126 01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:45,479 Speaker 1: for a day without wearing any sunscreen. So check out 1127 01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:49,559 Speaker 1: Ola Regenerous Whip with SPF twenty five. It's light weight 1128 01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:53,320 Speaker 1: and it protects your skin while it moisturizes. This month, 1129 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:56,840 Speaker 1: select Ola products are buy one, get one fifty percent off. 1130 01:16:56,960 --> 01:17:01,439 Speaker 1: Find them at your local Walgreens. All right, Steve, here 1131 01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:04,160 Speaker 1: we are last break of the day on this Monday. 1132 01:17:04,280 --> 01:17:06,439 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We've had some fun today. 1133 01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:09,720 Speaker 1: Thank you, and now it's time for you to take 1134 01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:12,719 Speaker 1: us home, get back to work. With some closing remarks. 1135 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:18,400 Speaker 1: You know something, as I get older and I go 1136 01:17:18,560 --> 01:17:21,599 Speaker 1: through things in my life, one of the things I've 1137 01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:26,960 Speaker 1: become really comfortable with is sharing my own personal experiences 1138 01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:29,800 Speaker 1: with people and hope that they can learn from some 1139 01:17:30,000 --> 01:17:32,880 Speaker 1: of the experiences I've had, some of the mistakes I've made, 1140 01:17:33,000 --> 01:17:36,040 Speaker 1: and so, you know, one of the things I wanted 1141 01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:39,080 Speaker 1: to help people with out there, because everybody has their 1142 01:17:39,160 --> 01:17:42,120 Speaker 1: share of haters out there, and so I just want 1143 01:17:42,160 --> 01:17:45,360 Speaker 1: to talk to you for just a second about the 1144 01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:50,840 Speaker 1: people that you surround yourself with. It's important that you 1145 01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:55,080 Speaker 1: take constant inventory in your life to make sure that 1146 01:17:55,240 --> 01:18:00,479 Speaker 1: you don't have dead weight attached to you. It's important 1147 01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:06,000 Speaker 1: that you don't have people or who are in a 1148 01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:11,880 Speaker 1: relationship with you that's just one sided. It's important that 1149 01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:16,680 Speaker 1: you know that everybody in your life is important to 1150 01:18:16,840 --> 01:18:20,439 Speaker 1: you and would be there for you in the moment 1151 01:18:20,520 --> 01:18:23,760 Speaker 1: of the rest. Now, if these people don't fit that bill, 1152 01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:29,400 Speaker 1: then I'm sorry. You got to do something else. But 1153 01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:33,519 Speaker 1: you got to watch people. You got to constantly monitor 1154 01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 1: people because people change, especially as you elevate in life. 1155 01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:42,760 Speaker 1: As you elevate in life, people have a different perception 1156 01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,760 Speaker 1: of you. Seeing what I found in getting more and 1157 01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:49,320 Speaker 1: more and more successful, it is not that you change 1158 01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:53,559 Speaker 1: as you becomes more and more successful. It's that people's 1159 01:18:53,680 --> 01:18:58,320 Speaker 1: perception of you changes. So now it becomes all Now 1160 01:18:58,560 --> 01:19:02,200 Speaker 1: they think they all are. Now they think they is 1161 01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:05,880 Speaker 1: because of that, when an actuality, you can very well 1162 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:10,960 Speaker 1: be the same paid person, you just at a different level. 1163 01:19:11,840 --> 01:19:14,679 Speaker 1: But it's amazing, man, when you get to this other level. 1164 01:19:15,040 --> 01:19:18,280 Speaker 1: In order for people to throw rocks at you. It 1165 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:21,040 Speaker 1: ain't level no more. They got to throw their rocks 1166 01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:24,720 Speaker 1: up at you. And it kind of disheartens you from 1167 01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:27,920 Speaker 1: time to time as you just minding your business and 1168 01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:30,840 Speaker 1: going through your life and doing what you do to 1169 01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:34,519 Speaker 1: get people throwing rocks up at you. And now a 1170 01:19:34,560 --> 01:19:36,360 Speaker 1: lot of people out there that can relate to what 1171 01:19:36,520 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's not that you think you better than somebody, 1172 01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,599 Speaker 1: but it's just that you've gotten yourself in another level. 1173 01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,680 Speaker 1: You've just leveled up. And when you leveled up, you 1174 01:19:46,920 --> 01:19:50,400 Speaker 1: can't be concerned with the people that ain't up there 1175 01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:55,320 Speaker 1: with you, because a lot of people ain't up there 1176 01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:58,360 Speaker 1: with you because they wouldn't even fit up there with you, 1177 01:19:58,600 --> 01:20:02,320 Speaker 1: know how. The majority of people ain't up there with you, 1178 01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:04,479 Speaker 1: because if God wanted them to be up there, he 1179 01:20:04,600 --> 01:20:07,559 Speaker 1: to put them up there, but he didn't. He put 1180 01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:11,479 Speaker 1: you up there. And it's okay, that's just what it is. 1181 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:15,800 Speaker 1: You up there. It's not for everybody, this place that 1182 01:20:15,960 --> 01:20:20,400 Speaker 1: you've reached. I'm just sorry, man, It's just not for everybody. 1183 01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:24,439 Speaker 1: And you gotta understand that and don't get disheardened. Man, 1184 01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:27,320 Speaker 1: When when when when you get up at the top 1185 01:20:27,600 --> 01:20:30,360 Speaker 1: and it starts to feel lonely. I was talking with 1186 01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:32,479 Speaker 1: somebody the other day. You know, the problem with being 1187 01:20:32,680 --> 01:20:35,599 Speaker 1: at the top is like being on the pyramid. It's 1188 01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:38,920 Speaker 1: a sharp point at the top of that pyramid. Ain't 1189 01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:41,680 Speaker 1: a lot of friends up there, ain't a lot of 1190 01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:45,320 Speaker 1: company up there because guess what, it just ain't a 1191 01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:48,400 Speaker 1: lot of room up there most people. And then now 1192 01:20:48,439 --> 01:20:51,679 Speaker 1: when you do have friends, they write up under that pyramid. 1193 01:20:51,840 --> 01:20:53,760 Speaker 1: They there and you know what they do. They to 1194 01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:58,000 Speaker 1: support system for you. And you find that in people 1195 01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:02,080 Speaker 1: all the time. But man, if you're not careful, if 1196 01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:05,800 Speaker 1: you're not really really careful, and you're not monitoring people 1197 01:21:05,840 --> 01:21:10,000 Speaker 1: along the way, it's not you. The changes, they change, 1198 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:14,160 Speaker 1: their perception of you changes. So once their perception of 1199 01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:19,040 Speaker 1: you changes, they attitude towards you changes. I can't count 1200 01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 1: the people, man, I can't count the people in my life, 1201 01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:26,840 Speaker 1: man who for one reason or another felt like it 1202 01:21:26,960 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 1: should have been them, or for one reason another they 1203 01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,920 Speaker 1: just got jealousy you because of what you had. I 1204 01:21:34,040 --> 01:21:38,040 Speaker 1: was talking to Jamie Fox at this party the other night, 1205 01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:43,000 Speaker 1: and Jamie Fox I showed him something that he had 1206 01:21:43,040 --> 01:21:45,920 Speaker 1: posted on Instagram. He said, Wow, man, I'm glad that 1207 01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:49,280 Speaker 1: meant something to you. And what he posted was some 1208 01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:52,759 Speaker 1: people only hate you because of the way other people 1209 01:21:52,880 --> 01:21:58,640 Speaker 1: love you. Y'all remember that some people only hate you 1210 01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:02,120 Speaker 1: because of the way other people love you. Do you 1211 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,759 Speaker 1: know that that's simply all it takes for some people 1212 01:22:04,800 --> 01:22:07,479 Speaker 1: to hate you. You ain't got to have done nothing 1213 01:22:07,560 --> 01:22:12,320 Speaker 1: to them. But people get sick of your success. People 1214 01:22:12,400 --> 01:22:16,840 Speaker 1: get tired of you. God always blessing you, how you 1215 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:20,080 Speaker 1: always why they get another car from, why they keep 1216 01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:22,920 Speaker 1: getting a promotion, what they're doing over there? They always 1217 01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:26,160 Speaker 1: brag my theay baby did this? They baby did that? No, no, no, 1218 01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:29,479 Speaker 1: no no. Some people only hate you because of where 1219 01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:34,120 Speaker 1: other people love you. So you got to constantly monitor 1220 01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:37,519 Speaker 1: people in your life, man, because, like I said, you 1221 01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:40,240 Speaker 1: get more and more successful. It's not you who changes. 1222 01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:44,720 Speaker 1: It's the people's perception of you who changes. And if 1223 01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:48,040 Speaker 1: they can't make the adjustment, then you have to make 1224 01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:51,599 Speaker 1: the adjustment. You got to get rid of people who 1225 01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:54,360 Speaker 1: don't mean you well. You got to get rid of 1226 01:22:54,479 --> 01:22:57,400 Speaker 1: people who are non supportive. You got to get rid 1227 01:22:57,439 --> 01:23:00,920 Speaker 1: of the people that's always bad news. You got to 1228 01:23:01,000 --> 01:23:04,639 Speaker 1: get rid of the people that you always got to help, 1229 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:08,040 Speaker 1: but they ain't got no help for you. Am I 1230 01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:16,040 Speaker 1: talking to you? And are you listening? You can't help everybody? 1231 01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:27,800 Speaker 1: Drop it three thirty million, I stop, nobody. Have a 1232 01:23:27,880 --> 01:23:40,439 Speaker 1: good day, y'all, have a great week. Here's Monday. For 1233 01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:43,920 Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 1234 01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:47,439 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1235 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:51,360 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1236 01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:55,479 Speaker 1: FM dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.