WEBVTT - Juliana Part 1 — Her New Man and New Chapter? | Golden Hour

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to Golden Hour, Susan. And guess who's with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Jaffy. But here's what's special. Guess where we are? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we're house phil She's in the next room recording. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so weird. Usually I'm in Texas and she's in Philly.

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<v Speaker 2>But this week we are both in Philadelphia. But today

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<v Speaker 2>someone who isn't with us, who we wish were with

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<v Speaker 2>us is I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you imagine the three of us on the sofa

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<v Speaker 3>right now?

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<v Speaker 2>That would be It'd be crazy. Okay, our respect. You

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<v Speaker 2>can hear her laugh. She is one of our most

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<v Speaker 2>wonderful Bapsloor National alums and from my hometown Newton, Massachusetts.

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<v Speaker 2>Juliana Pascaressa. Are you impressed, Juliana, I can say your

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<v Speaker 2>last name.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm super impressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Outside I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was exactly that I was just going to say, took

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<v Speaker 1>the words out of my mouth. I'm impressed you said

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<v Speaker 1>it perfectly. Okay, So before welcome Juliana. Before the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I know your name, Juliana is we have to go

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<v Speaker 1>over this. Your uncle Paul right is your uncle went

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<v Speaker 1>to school Newton High School with my sister Debbie and

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<v Speaker 1>all I grew up. I'm younger than my sister, Debbie

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<v Speaker 1>was she passed away from But all I ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>was Paul passed Rosa this and Paul passcrose to that.

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<v Speaker 1>So next time you're talking to your uncle, I'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to know my sister was a cheerleader at NUT and

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<v Speaker 1>I I want to know what all the Paul this

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<v Speaker 1>and Paul that was about. You see, if you can

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<v Speaker 1>find out for me, please absolutely absolutely.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say small world, but you know, my dad

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<v Speaker 4>has eight siblings, so I feel like somebody, yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 4>going to be So before.

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<v Speaker 3>We start puising you to death, tell us how have

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<v Speaker 3>you been? Where have you been?

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<v Speaker 2>What have you been up to since all the things? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I mean I've it's been good. Life has been

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<v Speaker 4>really great to me. A lot of newness, a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of exciting stuff, some big changes, but I'm a New

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<v Speaker 4>Yorker now. We go back to Boston a lot to

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<v Speaker 4>visit my family. Mike knows, you know just how close

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<v Speaker 4>and important my family is to me, So he's been

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<v Speaker 4>awesome making the treks back a lot. We actually just

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<v Speaker 4>got back to New York this morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I interrupt? You said, Mike, Yeah you got back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but some of you were in two public relations

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<v Speaker 2>of relationships since coming to a Bachelor World. We know

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<v Speaker 2>how the first one ended, Yes, catch us up on

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<v Speaker 2>the rest.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you know, I mean I have to thank

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<v Speaker 4>Bachelor Nation for this second on a little bit, because

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't have met him if I wasn't in this

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<v Speaker 4>kind of realm for a minute there. And I met

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<v Speaker 4>Michael last summer at an event that I was invited

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<v Speaker 4>to and he was actually he put on the whole

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<v Speaker 4>event and we met and we stayed in touch, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I was a little hesitant at first, just

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<v Speaker 4>because of you know, everything I think I'd been through

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<v Speaker 4>in the public you know world that I was kind

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<v Speaker 4>of trying to figure out and navigate. And then you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he he uh, he's stuck around. You know, he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>let me go, which made me really happy, and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we've just been together ever since.

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<v Speaker 2>Kind of It's Michael from New York. Michael's from New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, why was he was he working the event or so?

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<v Speaker 4>He's an executive producer, her director of experiential for you know,

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<v Speaker 4>different brands, And so there was an event in the

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<v Speaker 4>Hamptons that he, you know, put on start to finish

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<v Speaker 4>and the management team that I was working with at

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<v Speaker 4>the time had invited me to come stay in the

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<v Speaker 4>house for the weekend, and so he was just there

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<v Speaker 4>making sure everything was running smoothly, and that's where we met.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. Wow. So okay, so we'll we'll back

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<v Speaker 2>up a little bit. But there's been So are you

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<v Speaker 2>living now in New York and just going back and forth?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, so I moved full time to New York actually

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<v Speaker 4>last month with him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, come on, you got a spill.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, Julie, I'm a hold up, your left hand

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<v Speaker 2>is anything right?

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<v Speaker 3>Are we married? Are we engaged?

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<v Speaker 2>So?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I think that I'm like still learning to

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<v Speaker 4>like what I'm comfortable sharing. But you know, there's a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of really fun and exciting things coming up this

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<v Speaker 4>year that I will, you know, keep everybody in the

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<v Speaker 4>loop on.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you look between the lines.

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<v Speaker 2>You look so happy. That is for that is for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I appreciate that too.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you know, that's been something that my family

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<v Speaker 4>and my friends have been saying to me a lot lately,

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<v Speaker 4>just that I look so happy, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>feel I feel so happy.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, you did share. To be fair, We're not

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<v Speaker 2>digging too deep, because you did share on a story

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<v Speaker 2>that you were engagement ring shopping, which is why I

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<v Speaker 2>thought maybe you'd like to hold up your left hand.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, but I'm guessing. I'm guessing her hands are

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<v Speaker 2>glued in her lap.

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<v Speaker 3>Right now, leave her alone. The answer is mind your

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<v Speaker 3>business for now.

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<v Speaker 2>Just for now. Wow. Okay, So are.

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<v Speaker 3>You working in New York?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so, I mean right now, I'm focused on me

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<v Speaker 4>and my sister's clothing brand, Nice Girls Label.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Recently left my nine to five, so that's been kind

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<v Speaker 4>of a big change for me too. But I feel,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, really good about where things are going with that,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm still label. It's called Nice Girl's Label.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice Girls Label. Let's get that out there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. My sister and I started it in honor of

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<v Speaker 4>my grandmother. Her phrase was it's nice to be nice,

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<v Speaker 4>and when she passed, we were like, how can we,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, continue spreading that. And my sister and I

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<v Speaker 4>like live and lounge wear, so we were like, let's

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<v Speaker 4>do you know some basic crew necks and joggers. They're

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<v Speaker 4>amazing quality, very comfortable and can you your yes, please

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<v Speaker 4>send it. I'll send it to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Guys, we got to drive this there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would love it. So are you online shop?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it an online Yeah, it's it's Nice Girls label

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<v Speaker 4>dot com. And yeah, we actually just did a new

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<v Speaker 4>new launch a few days ago for the Saint Mary

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<v Speaker 4>of Carmen's Italian Festa that happens down the lake in Newton.

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<v Speaker 2>Down the lake, you got to explain to everybody what

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<v Speaker 2>that means. Okay, well like Philly cheese, stay down, like,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead, what is it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's it's no Nantum Newton, And it is, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>the Italian part of Newton. It's actually where I had

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<v Speaker 4>my hometown. It's you know, where I spend a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of my time. A lot of my favorite restaurants are there.

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<v Speaker 4>My parcelon Love YOUU Tique is down there. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>a it's an amazing community of people. It's in the

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<v Speaker 4>festa is I want to say, it's like ninety ninety

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<v Speaker 4>ninety two, ninety fifth Festa this year it's July fourteenth

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<v Speaker 4>to the sixteenth, so wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just tell you though, I was just at

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<v Speaker 1>the Big Park there in Boston. We went to the

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<v Speaker 1>Italian section for dinner. Yeah, I felt so at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you in the North. I fell in love South End,

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<v Speaker 2>North End? Where were you?

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<v Speaker 3>North End?

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<v Speaker 4>North End?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to I want to see.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and next time you're there, if you haven't already,

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<v Speaker 4>you have to go to Brico. It's our absolute favorite

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<v Speaker 4>restaurant and their espresso martinis are top tier.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, because she's definitely Cathy has to come next time.

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<v Speaker 1>My girlfriend said, didn't work out this time, but so.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so Juliana. I The reason I wasn't in

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<v Speaker 2>Boston with Susan and these other ladies, said, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>is because I was in New Jersey judging the Miss

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<v Speaker 2>New Jersey pageant for Miss America pageant, which happens in September,

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<v Speaker 2>which was a lot of fun. But yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>a plasma. I want to know though, just going back

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<v Speaker 2>to your bachelor experience, because you're really good friends with

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<v Speaker 2>Ali Joe, right, yeah, who else are you really good

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<v Speaker 2>friends with? From your time?

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<v Speaker 4>I talked to Ali Joe the most. You know, we

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<v Speaker 4>kind of are on the same path with you know,

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<v Speaker 4>our relationships moving in with each other. So it's really fun.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was frequently going to Florida because I have

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<v Speaker 4>some family down there and she's from you know, or

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<v Speaker 4>she moved down to Fort Lauderdale, so we were always

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<v Speaker 4>seeing each other. It was easy to hang out, but

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<v Speaker 4>you know, mostly her. I mean, I stay in touch

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<v Speaker 4>with a lot of the girls. I saw Alex at Coachella.

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<v Speaker 4>I ran into Daisy and I'd say, you know, here

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<v Speaker 4>and there. I talked to Parisa too, but Ali Joe

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<v Speaker 4>is my number one girl that she's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 3>Love her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So looking back, so looking back, just whatever you

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<v Speaker 2>want to share.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean you you are a beautiful, beautiful woman

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<v Speaker 5>who clearly is on a very upwards running projectory trajectory,

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<v Speaker 5>which would thrilled.

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<v Speaker 2>But can you just kind of now that you're stepped

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<v Speaker 2>away from it, your bats or experience, what would your

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<v Speaker 2>overall comment be about it?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I think, truly, I feel like I did

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<v Speaker 4>the best that I could. That the world is so

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<v Speaker 4>new and it's so tough to naviate a really unique situation.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I led with compassion to the best that

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<v Speaker 4>I could, and I tried to give absolutely everybody grace,

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<v Speaker 4>including myself. And I think challenging is the word. But

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<v Speaker 4>I feel stronger, I feel more confident in myself, and

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I'm thankful for the opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>And that experience helped that, am I right? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy and I felt the same way coming off the show.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like, wow, I'm good people, Yeah, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if I didn't find love it or for your sake,

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't work out, but what it told you about

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and then to find the next person or the

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<v Speaker 1>right person, you were ready, Like we have to be

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<v Speaker 1>thankful for that Slory really.

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<v Speaker 4>One percent, and you know, everything does happen for a reason, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And I wouldn't be here today if I didn't have

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<v Speaker 4>that experience. But I also think it kind of helped

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<v Speaker 4>like on my pathway to even being able to consider

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<v Speaker 4>and actually moving to New York because I'm so close

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<v Speaker 4>and like so tied at the hip with my family,

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<v Speaker 4>and I rely a lot and I always had on

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<v Speaker 4>like their opinions, and like, you know, if there was

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<v Speaker 4>a situation where I needed guidance, like you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>leaned on them so much, and so in that like

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<v Speaker 4>filming process, I had to truly rely on myself. And

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<v Speaker 4>even afterwards, it's like they didn't know what I'd been through, right,

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<v Speaker 4>And so I'm navigating emotions that they can't necessarily relate to. So, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>exactly to your point, I feel definitely confident in myself

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, okay, I can do so.

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<v Speaker 3>So you grew up right in front of.

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<v Speaker 2>The right So Julieta, you would you say it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>seem like you're as much in the public eye now

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<v Speaker 2>having been engaged to a lead. It sounds like you're

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<v Speaker 2>more involved with your let your clothing line and your

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<v Speaker 2>and Mike. How does it does it feel differently because

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<v Speaker 2>your answer about your experience in Bachelor seems to be

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<v Speaker 2>different than I mean, I was never a lad even

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<v Speaker 2>you know it's not too late, but I've never been

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<v Speaker 2>a lead. But I thinks and I've talked to a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of leads and people who've been engaged, and they

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<v Speaker 2>always seem to embrace it wholeheartedly and want to do

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<v Speaker 2>the public deal, and you don't seem that way. Can

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<v Speaker 2>you talk about that a little bit?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, I think going back to the way beginning,

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<v Speaker 4>like my sister signed me up for it, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>necessarily something that I was seeking out, and I didn't know,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, you never know what can come from it, right,

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<v Speaker 4>So I went in you know, I'm like, I'll say

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<v Speaker 4>yes to kind of anything that resonates to me. But

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<v Speaker 4>there's definitely a line that I draw between what I

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<v Speaker 4>want in my future and what you know, I have

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<v Speaker 4>to sacrifice to get there, and you know, some people

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<v Speaker 4>do it all. I just think I've always been a

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<v Speaker 4>bit more of a private person and I do really want,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, marriage and a kids and a family, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still navigating how much I'm comfortable sharing. And I

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<v Speaker 4>found somebody that's not really in the public eye, so

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<v Speaker 4>it's not like it's a usual regular part of our routine.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, he's he's a team player when I

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<v Speaker 4>want to make a silly video and kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>share behind the scenes of our life. But you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I think right now it is I'm focused on my

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<v Speaker 4>my real life, and I'm super supportive of anybody that

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<v Speaker 4>chooses and can you know, do both. I find it

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<v Speaker 4>super challenging.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>You know I do what resonates I think with me,

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<v Speaker 4>and I always have. So I'm not just because I,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, was sharing a part of my life and

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of my life with millions of people that

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<v Speaker 4>watched and supported it doesn't mean that I have to

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<v Speaker 4>carry that responsibility on after the fact is kind of

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<v Speaker 4>how I thought of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and you're being true to yourself. That's the most

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<v Speaker 3>important thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Kathy, it is, it is I I wanted. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it is a lesson that we all learned, some sooner

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<v Speaker 2>than others. So I think you know Jihanna that I

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<v Speaker 2>was on That's wor in Paradise last summer and Ali

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<v Speaker 2>Joe left. I and I've talked a few times. I

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<v Speaker 2>love her And for those of people who don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>she and Sam missed each other by a day, and

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<v Speaker 2>I know that she was very frustrated about what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Is she over that? Do you guys talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>at all? What happened? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean we we've talked about it since the

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<v Speaker 4>second she got her phone, you know, back in her hands.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it was something that to her was so

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<v Speaker 4>devastating and it was so sad as a friend to

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<v Speaker 4>have her, you know, here, she put her life on hold.

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<v Speaker 4>She was so excited, you know, it's another opportunity, and

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<v Speaker 4>it felt you know, short lived for her and almost

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<v Speaker 4>like you know, a false sense of hope with how

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<v Speaker 4>kind of everything went down. So you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 4>roller coaster of emotions, and everything happened so fast in

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<v Speaker 4>this world behind the scenes, and decisions have to be made,

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<v Speaker 4>so you know, it's hard to not take it personally.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure from her shoes, but she's so happy now

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<v Speaker 4>and her and Sam, you know, found.

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<v Speaker 2>There, Susan. I just got to say, you and I

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<v Speaker 2>so here we are a year later, Alice with Sam,

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<v Speaker 2>This beautiful woman is Juliana's with Mighty. It's like I

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<v Speaker 2>would put up with being tossed off a show. I'd

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<v Speaker 2>be I'd be fine with being tossed off a boat.

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<v Speaker 2>Pick whatever you want, and we can have if I

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<v Speaker 2>had the right guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, everything happens for a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>For people come into your life for a reason, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>a season, but it's all about a learning experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, So what is the biggest lesson you learned?

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<v Speaker 2>Two questions, Juliana, I want to know what, and again

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<v Speaker 2>what of your comfortable sharing? What is the biggest lesson

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<v Speaker 2>you learned in this whole bachelor experience? And then what

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<v Speaker 2>is the biggest rumor that seems to perpetuate itself in

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<v Speaker 2>this Bachelor nation land that is completely false?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, just give us a little bit nip it in

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<v Speaker 3>the butt.

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<v Speaker 2>This is your chance to tell all you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I think one of the biggest lessons that truly my

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<v Speaker 4>dad has always shown me, but it was an opportunity

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<v Speaker 4>for me is you know, grace and compassion and composure

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<v Speaker 4>will take you farther than anything else in this world.

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<v Speaker 4>There were times, especially towards the end of it airing,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, towards the end getting closer to AFR, that

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<v Speaker 4>I was so infuriated that I could have easily acted

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<v Speaker 4>out of anger and tried to tear other people down

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<v Speaker 4>based off of emotions. But you know, I can look

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<v Speaker 4>back now and be happy that I didn't have to

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<v Speaker 4>take anybody down because of you know, how I was feeling,

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<v Speaker 4>and I had my helth. I held my head high

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<v Speaker 4>the best that I could and just tried to really

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<v Speaker 4>lead with love and make my family proud because that's

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<v Speaker 4>how I was raised. And I think that I feel

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<v Speaker 4>better about that. I think when you're mean to people,

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<v Speaker 4>it might feel good in the moment, but afterward it

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<v Speaker 4>doesn't sit well.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Okay, you don't have to answer this, but I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be honest and I'm lost. Yeah, who are you going

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<v Speaker 2>to tear up? And why? You know?

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<v Speaker 3>I just we watched it, kath.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 4>I think truly it's you know it A lot of

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<v Speaker 4>it came from my relationship with Grant, you know, the

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to say like lack of you know,

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<v Speaker 4>honesty and authenticity, but I think that that's what I

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<v Speaker 4>was feeling, and a lot of that. It did feel

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of a like a one sided relationship, and

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<v Speaker 4>that's such a tough thing to navigate, you know, alone.

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<v Speaker 4>And and then I think, you know, some of it

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<v Speaker 4>comes from some of the other girls and the things

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<v Speaker 4>that they were saying or alluding to in podcasts and

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<v Speaker 4>even at the the finale, you know, I mean, listen,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not in anybody else's shoes, and I do try

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<v Speaker 4>to imagine what it's like to be in their shoes.

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<v Speaker 4>But there are things that I just personally would have

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<v Speaker 4>done differently because I know how it would have made

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<v Speaker 4>me feel. And I don't think paring anybody down. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't think it does anybody good.

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<v Speaker 2>You're smart.

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<v Speaker 3>What your father, if he's listening, you did a good job,

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<v Speaker 3>really did. You're a lovely young woman, you really are,

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<v Speaker 3>and you have a good hit on your shoulders. I

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<v Speaker 3>like the way you think. For me, being kind is everything,

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<v Speaker 3>even when it hurts totally, you're just be kind. You're

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<v Speaker 3>the better person.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let me just say who's who? You know? We

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<v Speaker 2>grow up in the same time, Juliana. But I come

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<v Speaker 2>from the school of speak the truth and sometimes it

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<v Speaker 2>does hurt. So I don't know, you know, can we

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<v Speaker 2>find some middle ground here or am I just you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like wrong, I don't know. Maybe wait, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Say it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Say it how, Susan. I'm accused sometimes of Susan's and

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<v Speaker 2>I get it. It's my delivery that. But sometimes I'll

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<v Speaker 2>say what the truth is and Susan will say to me, well, yes, Kathy,

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<v Speaker 2>it's true, but you don't need to say it, And I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, what just hurts somebody's feelings or something?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>But's true? You know?

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<v Speaker 4>I will say one thing is I think that you know,

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<v Speaker 4>my sister and I actually go back and forth on

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<v Speaker 4>this a lot. Is because you know, we're the nice

0:19:48.119 --> 0:19:50.640
<v Speaker 4>girl's label. That's what we're trying to promote. Kindness is key,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, but there is. It doesn't mean that you

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<v Speaker 4>can get pushed around. You know that you can be

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<v Speaker 4>a strong person and say things how it is but

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes it is in the delivery. But I think you're

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<v Speaker 4>responsible for the intentions and the way that you say

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<v Speaker 4>and act other people. You don't have, you know, control

0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:12.359
<v Speaker 4>over how other people are going to perceive it or

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<v Speaker 4>take it. I think a lot of it comes with

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<v Speaker 4>the intention, and you know, you can be strong and

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<v Speaker 4>you can say you're not gonna you know, You're not

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<v Speaker 4>going to talk to me like that. I'm not going

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<v Speaker 4>to take disrespect. But I'm also not gonna stoop low

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<v Speaker 4>just to meet how you're making me feel.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't want to wait.

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<v Speaker 2>How old are you, Juliana? Thirty? Great? I just got

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<v Speaker 2>schooled by a thirty year old wonderful, Thanks Juliana.

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<v Speaker 3>Because she wouldn't hear it from me. She heard it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it means something.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, okay, so what's one of the biggest rumors?

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted the other part of that.

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<v Speaker 3>What's one of the rumors?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really know. I mean, I'm not sure that

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<v Speaker 4>there was there were there were rumors that I was

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<v Speaker 4>like a mean girl, you know. I think that that

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<v Speaker 4>is because feelings were hurt and they're things that I

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<v Speaker 4>did say to your point, Kathy, like you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not going to just let somebody run their mouth over

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<v Speaker 4>and over and over again.

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<v Speaker 2>I will.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a point where I'm just like listen, like

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<v Speaker 4>let's just say it like it is, you know. And

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<v Speaker 4>but I think, you know, that was really it. I

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<v Speaker 4>think I got called maybe a mean girl. I think

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<v Speaker 4>that there were rumors or things that people would say

0:21:22.440 --> 0:21:24.800
<v Speaker 4>such as like, you know, I'm girlfriend material, I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>wife material, or I'm infatuated and I'm kind of like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, trying to make you know, I would fall

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<v Speaker 4>in love with anybody, and the reality is, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I outdate like anybody before for so long before.

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<v Speaker 2>Going off in that way. I'm sorry somebody said you

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<v Speaker 2>would run by me again, you would marry material.

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<v Speaker 4>They were like saying that I was so you know,

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<v Speaker 4>giggly and so happy and right off, like right from

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<v Speaker 4>the beginning, like so you know, head over heels is

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<v Speaker 4>what you know they were seeing on the screen that

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<v Speaker 4>you know, I just wanted to win. You know, I

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<v Speaker 4>would have done whatever it takes to like win, and

0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:04.359
<v Speaker 4>I'm so easily. I'm somebody that easily follows in love.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, if you ask my friends and family,

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<v Speaker 4>it's the complete opposite because I wouldn't give anybody the

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<v Speaker 4>time of day, you know, for so many years before

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<v Speaker 4>going on this show.

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<v Speaker 3>It helped me.

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<v Speaker 4>It helped open me back up to like the possibility

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<v Speaker 4>of love. And it was so fun and everything was

0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:23.399
<v Speaker 4>so you know, exciting and whatever, and I am a

0:22:23.480 --> 0:22:24.480
<v Speaker 4>getting with you person.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel a little chemistry, you're acting on it like

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<v Speaker 1>that was a perfect moment to do with the hell

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<v Speaker 1>with all those people?

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<v Speaker 2>Also also Jilliana, I mean, come on, you all batsfor

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<v Speaker 2>Nation ladies on the shows are You're all beautiful and

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<v Speaker 2>talented and have gorgeous hair and you're what guy? Would

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<v Speaker 2>you know? I'm be serious, like, you're all so beautiful,

0:22:48.880 --> 0:22:51.440
<v Speaker 2>and I imagine with that comes a little bit why

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<v Speaker 2>her not me? Totally? Totally?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure you know, girls, I think just even now

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<v Speaker 4>today with social media especially, everything is like a little

0:23:00.160 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 4>bit of comparison, and you know, they see somebody living

0:23:03.040 --> 0:23:05.160
<v Speaker 4>a life, why can't I live like that? Why don't

0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:07.800
<v Speaker 4>I look like that? And you know it's tough as

0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:10.520
<v Speaker 4>it is, but then you put you know, twenty beautiful

0:23:10.560 --> 0:23:13.119
<v Speaker 4>girls up against each other in one room, It's like

0:23:13.160 --> 0:23:15.919
<v Speaker 4>there's got to be some inner dialogue, like, oh, no,

0:23:16.160 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 4>like she's got this and I don't, or she can

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:21.360
<v Speaker 4>talk do this and I can't. Like it's a tough environment.

0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:24.080
<v Speaker 2>It is so Susan and I have done a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of podcasts about dating app I have a question for

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<v Speaker 2>you actually about dating n apps. Do you think that

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<v Speaker 2>people your age obviously you're taken, but do you think

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<v Speaker 2>it's easier or more difficult to find a really good

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<v Speaker 2>relationship on a dating app?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, I mean, I don't know. I think

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<v Speaker 4>it helps if, like because nowadays it's like where are

0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:56.800
<v Speaker 4>people meeting when they're you know, trying to date.

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<v Speaker 2>That I can tell you, Jilana. In my age, they're

0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:01.960
<v Speaker 2>in it's called a rest home.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's I think because chivalry is you know, it's

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<v Speaker 4>like a man would like come up to you, or

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<v Speaker 4>you could even go up to a guy and be like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, how's it going. You'd spark up a conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Now it's like if you're out at a bar, you

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<v Speaker 4>know you're drinking with your friends. The you know, intention

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<v Speaker 4>is unclear because a lot of people want different things

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<v Speaker 4>right now. I had a conniption when I went back

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<v Speaker 4>on the dating apps after Bachelor, for like a short

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<v Speaker 4>stint because I hadn't really been on them ever before.

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<v Speaker 4>And one of the options on I think it was

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<v Speaker 4>Hinge was like, what are you looking for? And it

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<v Speaker 4>was like the options were like long term, short term,

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<v Speaker 4>and yeah, I was like what what? Why would you

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<v Speaker 4>I was? I was like, what a short term even mean?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I mean decided yet it means Juliana.

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<v Speaker 2>It means dinner, drinks, dinner, and flay sex. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>short term.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy though, like you know, it's just I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>at least they're being straightforward, but why are you swiping

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<v Speaker 4>on an app to get that? You know, at least

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<v Speaker 4>put in the work and go out and you know,

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<v Speaker 4>try and go up to a girl at a bar

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<v Speaker 4>or something. You know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know more about meeting Mikey. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell me the dynamics so you at this place. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry to go backwards, but I'm so curious.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was the first ever, like I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if you want to call it, like an influencer weekend right,

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<v Speaker 4>And I was with all these different people I'd never met.

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<v Speaker 4>I remember begging the management team like please let me

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<v Speaker 4>bring a friend, because like I don't know, like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to be so awkward in this, you know, and

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<v Speaker 4>everything was so new, and he and I I was

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<v Speaker 4>like glued to his hip basically the whole weekend because.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you met him as soon as walking in it

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<v Speaker 3>as I walked.

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<v Speaker 4>In, Yeah, because I was one of the first.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like, help me, I feel weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and he was you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I think there was the initial attraction for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>He's very handsome, and he's also just very kind, and

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<v Speaker 4>he was paying attention to me. You know, he was

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<v Speaker 4>making sure I had everything I needed, making sure I

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<v Speaker 4>was comfortable, and you know, just throughout the weekend, it

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<v Speaker 4>was like, rather than kind of hanging out with all

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<v Speaker 4>the other people that were there, which you know, they

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<v Speaker 4>were all amazing, awesome people. I just think I was

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit more like I like to be behind

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<v Speaker 4>the scenes a bit. And you know, so they were

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<v Speaker 4>all inside partying at one point and him and I

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<v Speaker 4>were like out in the back deck kind of just

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<v Speaker 4>like catching up getting or catching up I guess, getting

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<v Speaker 4>to know each other.

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<v Speaker 3>And did anybody notice did anybody say anything to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's actually obvious. Yeah, like a few people did.

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<v Speaker 4>And he actually told people that weekend. Some of the

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<v Speaker 4>people that he had met before that were there. He

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<v Speaker 4>was like, Oh, I'm I'm going to marry this girl.

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<v Speaker 4>This girl is my wife.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. I said the same thing when I

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<v Speaker 2>met my husband at a fraternity party, and I did so.

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<v Speaker 2>Eighteen months later I was married. So this is a

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<v Speaker 2>good sign. I'm liking this.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can I share something please?

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<v Speaker 1>My medium Slight Psychic told me she keeps telling me,

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<v Speaker 1>not once, not twice, a few times that I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna meet some kind of a producer that had a

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<v Speaker 1>thing in his ear or something, not just a TV

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<v Speaker 1>show where somewhere I'm at. It sounds like, sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>she got my story.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so awesome. Yeah, she didn't just get your story,

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<v Speaker 2>she got the guy, Susan, That's.

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<v Speaker 5>What I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Well worried about.

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<v Speaker 4>He's thirty six, thirty six perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And my mom has always, always, forever said to me,

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<v Speaker 4>she's like, when you meet your person, it's all gonna

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<v Speaker 4>just happen so fast, like I know it. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>he's not from Boston. I don't even know if he's

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<v Speaker 4>from Massachusetts. She's always that to me. So, like when I.

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<v Speaker 2>Got the call, for the Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, this is perfect. I was like, my

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<v Speaker 4>mom was right, like, this is this is my person,

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<v Speaker 4>you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And I went and like all ready to go.

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<v Speaker 4>And then I came back and I was like no,

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<v Speaker 4>but didn't work. And she's like, don't give up, hope,

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<v Speaker 4>because like my mom is so intuitive and she knows

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<v Speaker 4>me of course, like the back of her hand. But

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<v Speaker 4>she's like, no, no, no, that wasn't your person, Like

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<v Speaker 4>you'll know when it's your person. And I did, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I just knew right away when I met mine.

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<v Speaker 3>How long has it been?

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<v Speaker 2>A year?

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty almost a year?

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<v Speaker 2>Two? Yeah? What is the best thing? What obviously then

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<v Speaker 2>is I'm sure devastatingly good looks? What is what is

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<v Speaker 2>you know when you meet someone like there's chemistry and

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<v Speaker 2>that's usually becumets the're good looking. What is the personality

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<v Speaker 2>trait that just so draws you to him? The character trait?

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<v Speaker 4>I got to tell you it. I'll say one thing

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<v Speaker 4>and then I got to say another thing. That's a

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<v Speaker 4>little weird. But I think the first thing is he's

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<v Speaker 4>very he's very caring, you know, he is he's aware,

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<v Speaker 4>and he's always like got my back. But He's very

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<v Speaker 4>just like intentional with what he does and always wants

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<v Speaker 4>to make sure I feel like loved and looked after.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I think that's like number one. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I noticed that right away. But the other thing I

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<v Speaker 4>want to say that's like a little weird, is you know,

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<v Speaker 4>he reminds me a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of my dad, and that's weird.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not okay, okay, but he's just like my dad

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<v Speaker 4>has always made me feel like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 4>am never going to front somebody that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I don't even know. He's just like

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<v Speaker 4>anything good happened in my life, I'm calling my dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Anything bad happened, I'm calling my dad. Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I moved out of my parents' house, but I was

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<v Speaker 4>still going home every day at like six point thirty

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<v Speaker 4>to walk my dog with my dad. Like I was, like,

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<v Speaker 4>I he's my best friend and love. Yeah, and and

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<v Speaker 4>Mike is just just like him. So my dad's still

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<v Speaker 4>number one.

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<v Speaker 2>But Mike is a parents met him. I'm assuming. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they all get along.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a year cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Is it Italian? Yes? He is?

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<v Speaker 3>He is Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry. I know Jewish people named Michael. I

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<v Speaker 2>know do not own Michael place. That's it must be

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<v Speaker 2>hard though in some ways to move to a new community.

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<v Speaker 2>Susan and I've been talking about this, you know, do

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<v Speaker 2>we when we were both fully retired? Like do I

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<v Speaker 2>move to North Carolina? Do I move back to the

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<v Speaker 2>East Coast? Like how do you feel about making your

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<v Speaker 2>home in New York? And is it a permanent move

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<v Speaker 2>to be in New York?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was something I never thought I would do.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I just I am just so close with

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<v Speaker 4>my family. The thought of going away has never even

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<v Speaker 4>rossed my mind. So you know, this is a permanent move.

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<v Speaker 4>Mike does have a really beautiful four year old son,

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<v Speaker 4>so so we're kind of tied down in New York.

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<v Speaker 4>But like I said, we've been making so many trips

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<v Speaker 4>back to Boston and it's.

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<v Speaker 3>Close, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, everyone, that's all for Part one with Juliana. Stay

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<v Speaker 1>tuned for Part two coming out soon. Bye bye,