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Speaker 1: What's up, everybody, Batch, our nation, Batch, our happy, our listeners.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to another episode. We have a good one

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Speaker 1: for you because I know you saw tonight's episode and Becca,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where to start. I mean, we

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Speaker 1: have never seen anything like ever. No, this is very

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Speaker 1: very new in Bachelor territory. I mean usually hometowns it's

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Speaker 1: kind of the safe week, it's it's easy, it's standard.

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Speaker 1: This week was crazy crazy. I mean, Garrett and I

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Speaker 1: were just gasping the entire time we're watching it. So

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Speaker 1: we have much to dive into. We have some very

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Speaker 1: special guests because we needed help with this crazy We

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Speaker 1: needed help and so we needed to bring in the

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Speaker 1: main men in our lives to give a male perspective

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Speaker 1: on everything that just went down. So we've got drum

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Speaker 1: rolled mister Garrett and Briant. Yeah, it's bay Day. It's

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Speaker 1: a double date, double date. We need some clarity, some

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Speaker 1: some understand ending. We need this male perspective, so let's

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Speaker 1: get into it. Becca is the collective sigh of the group.

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Speaker 1: We got to talk about Victoria f and her hometown

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Speaker 1: because we haven't seen anything like it before and for

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Speaker 1: the first time ever, Rebecca, I have no words. I am.

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Speaker 1: I am silent, and thank god we have the men

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Speaker 1: here who can just give us the mal opinion because

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Speaker 1: I am so interested in what they have to say.

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Speaker 1: I am too, I mean, I will I will say

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Speaker 1: I have a few choice words for everything that we saw.

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Speaker 1: But I definitely want to get into Garrett and Brian's

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Speaker 1: opinion because men, I think, tend to look at things

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Speaker 1: in a different light, a different perspective. But we saw

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Speaker 1: a lot go down, like and don't just talk about Victoria.

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Speaker 1: I need to understand Peter from the male perspective because

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting it same. So who whoever wants to

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Speaker 1: dive in, by all means, good luck? Where to start?

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Speaker 1: This is a tough one. I just feel like she

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Speaker 1: just doesn't know how to express her exact feelings. I

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Speaker 1: feel like if she would have just told him, hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: you know what, people are going to talk shit. It

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Speaker 1: is what it is, like, I can't do anything about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm in love with you. Everybody has a past, like,

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Speaker 1: let's just move forward. And at the same time, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I know you don't agree with me, but

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Speaker 1: what if they would have gone in? Peter assesses the situation,

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Speaker 1: goes in with the family. Yeah, I know it's a

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Speaker 1: big deal. Well, like gets a feel for how she

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Speaker 1: is with her family, all the love that comes from that,

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Speaker 1: and then maybe talk about it afterwards. But I feel

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Speaker 1: like that just ruined the night he left. I get it,

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Speaker 1: you know, you don't want to meet the family and

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Speaker 1: you know, have this looming over his head. But I

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Speaker 1: just think she just doesn't communicate well. I think if

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Speaker 1: she would have just been upfront and honest and maybe

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Speaker 1: divulge exactly what happened, you know, whatever Marissa was set

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Speaker 1: talking about, you know, maybe given her side of the story,

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Speaker 1: I think she would have been in a better spot.

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Speaker 1: Like put yourself in this situation, Garrett. You've just been

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Speaker 1: dancing on stage offbeat because that's Peter. But Peter owns it.

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Speaker 1: You've been dancing on stage, singing the song. You're having

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Speaker 1: the time of your life. In the words of Peter,

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Speaker 1: this is unreal. Peter's having like he's on cloud nine.

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Speaker 1: The producers are like, hold on two seconds, like we

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Speaker 1: want we got something else for you. So your ex

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Speaker 1: comes up, approaches you and tells you something about this

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Speaker 1: girl that you've just had the time of your life

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Speaker 1: with you? Would you how do you handle that? Um?

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Speaker 1: I think depending on how my relationship was with my

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Speaker 1: ex and how truthful of a person she was, I

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Speaker 1: would take that into consideration and be like, what she's

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Speaker 1: telling me, you know it is coming from a good

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Speaker 1: place in her heart. So I'm gonna have to approach

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Speaker 1: that and ask Victoria f right questions and then approach

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Speaker 1: her and ask her, you know, like, what is this

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Speaker 1: I've heard about? You kind of explain yourself and then

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Speaker 1: you know, asked the right questions. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: if he asked the Peter didn't. Peter didn't ask the

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Speaker 1: right questions. He took what Mersas said to hard and

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Speaker 1: of course addressed with Victoria. But he doesn't sit down

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Speaker 1: and say like, hey, like what is she talking about it?

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Speaker 1: I don't even juicy details, even though eyes of you

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Speaker 1: or want the juicy details. But as Brian was saying, like,

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Speaker 1: She just said I'm done and she just shuts down,

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Speaker 1: and I don't even know, if you want my real opinion, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't even have had her make it to the hometown. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she walked away. If she walked away. I know that

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Speaker 1: I have, you know, two to three other great relationships

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Speaker 1: red flags to me, it's totally off. I agree with Brian.

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Speaker 1: I think she should have or he should have gone

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Speaker 1: her and her past relationships. But I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, obviously you know your ex. You know, maybe

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Speaker 1: she does have a good heart, maybe she is coming

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Speaker 1: from a good place, but at the same time she

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Speaker 1: has your ex. Could there be some type of jealousy

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Speaker 1: on her part where she's just stirring the pot and

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Speaker 1: now that has him all confused. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: just think he I think he's done that a couple

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Speaker 1: of times this season, where he just takes somebody's word

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Speaker 1: for it, throws him all off, and then that, you know,

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Speaker 1: messes up relationship with other women. I think he should

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Speaker 1: just you know, take it at face value, you know,

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Speaker 1: interact with these women, and then you know, let it,

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Speaker 1: you know, leave all at hearsay to the side. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I mean That's how I guess I would

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Speaker 1: handle it. I don't think I would have been able

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Speaker 1: to go and meet the family if I was Peter,

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Speaker 1: I would not have wanted because family is such a

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Speaker 1: big thing that if he was questioning where he's at

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Speaker 1: in that relationship, family adds this whole new layer, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and just seriousness to the relationship that if he's already

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Speaker 1: on the fence like that, don't don't get that muddled.

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Speaker 1: I think that would be too hard, especially when you

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Speaker 1: have to go to the family now and put on

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Speaker 1: a face and get all excited and talk about like

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Speaker 1: you're dating history on the show and relive all these

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Speaker 1: special moments. But in the back of your mind you

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Speaker 1: have this like nagging why do you have to put

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Speaker 1: a face on? Why don't you just walk in there

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Speaker 1: and tell him exactly what is he going to go

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Speaker 1: meet mister Fuller and be like, hey, I just heard

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Speaker 1: that your daughter breaks relationships, But like, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: how great she is right now? Will you talk about

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Speaker 1: this season and how good it's been, but there's been

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Speaker 1: some issues addressed or whatever, and be like, you know

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Speaker 1: the strength to compartmentalize and just be like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna walk in there. Our relationship has been good, like

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Speaker 1: I'm very passionate about her. You know, I want to

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Speaker 1: keep her around, you know, you know, with Kelsey as

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Speaker 1: the other option. But but their relationship hasn't been good.

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Speaker 1: I think that's the thing. This is like a situation

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Speaker 1: where it's like, fool me once, shame on you, fool

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Speaker 1: me twice, shame on me. Peter has been fooled multiple

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Speaker 1: too many times to count when it comes to her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And every time you see them interact together, every dinner

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Speaker 1: can't talk things through, like and so it hasn't been

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Speaker 1: a great relationship. But he's attracted to her. He's like

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Speaker 1: he feels that chemistry and that passion, and I think

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Speaker 1: that's the only thing pulling him back, because that's something

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Speaker 1: you think maybe he's that's what attracts and to her

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Speaker 1: as far as crazy, maybe a little drama. Maybe she

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Speaker 1: wants Oh I want I want to change her. She's mysterious.

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Speaker 1: You know, I can't figure her out, like I want

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Speaker 1: to see what's going Are you looking for a wife

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Speaker 1: or a good time? I mean, do you really need

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Speaker 1: the Bachelor to find a crazy chick? I mean you

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Speaker 1: can do You can do that any day of the week.

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Speaker 1: I think it's so frustrating because you're watching this interaction,

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Speaker 1: Like I just want to say, I'm over it. That's

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Speaker 1: the title of this podcast. I'm fucking over it and

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Speaker 1: the words of a good friend. Can we just send

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Speaker 1: them all home and ship them to paradise? Like I am.

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Speaker 1: I am so over this. The interactions and the way

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Speaker 1: these relationships. It is so frustrating because, especially in this episode,

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Speaker 1: you're sitting here and you're watching Peter literally answer his

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Speaker 1: own questions. He is saying, you're bad at communication, you

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Speaker 1: get up and run away. These problems continue to happen.

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Speaker 1: The writing is on the wall. If you won't read it,

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Speaker 1: it's like I don't. That's why I'm like searching for

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Speaker 1: the men, like what is it? Why can't Peter like

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Speaker 1: so easily swayed and manipulated by these women. To your point,

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Speaker 1: I think he answers his own questions because he breaks

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Speaker 1: and then it's silent, and then he answers it, and

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Speaker 1: so you get up, you walk away, and he starts

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Speaker 1: answering the question he just asked her, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: becomes much more apparent, I think. But even in their

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Speaker 1: and she uses all these excuses. I truly, truly think

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Speaker 1: be honest, if she was like, yeah, no I don't

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Speaker 1: like him, like, she'd get much more backlash, I think.

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Speaker 1: I mean she's already going to but for like, as

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Speaker 1: a man watching this, can you guys sense that? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And then I think she put it on him, like

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Speaker 1: she feels that she's trying harder than him, right, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what what what relationship she's living in,

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Speaker 1: but I mean obviously Peter was shocked when she said that.

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Speaker 1: She's like, what are you talking about? Like, have you

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Speaker 1: not seen me trying? No, No, let's just call a

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Speaker 1: spade of spade. She's made it to the top four.

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Speaker 1: She's in running for the Bachelorette. I think that that's

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Speaker 1: where she's like, peace out, Like, I'm good. I've made

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Speaker 1: it as far as I need to come to be

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Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. Well, let me tell you something, Victoria f one.

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Speaker 1: To be the Bachelorette, you have to be able to

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Speaker 1: like have an opinion, to form a sentence, to be

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Speaker 1: able to make a declarative statement, to have a conversation,

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Speaker 1: to answer questions, to pull things out of people, and

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Speaker 1: to be able to communicate. None of these things I've

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Speaker 1: been able to sing see her do the only time

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Speaker 1: I've seen her form of sentences when she's singing the

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Speaker 1: see the rose ceremony happen at this point, and no

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00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:10,360
Speaker 1: surprise here, We've got Victoria, f Hannah, and Madison. That's

428
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: who's left. Kelsey goes home. I think we kind of

429
00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:15,560
Speaker 1: saw that one coming based on the Hometown episode. But

430
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 1: the real surprise here is that Madison looks so distraught

431
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,240
Speaker 1: after Peter gives her a rose. She knows she's going

432
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 1: to Fantasy Suits at this point, and he tells her

433
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 1: that she's going to the Golden Coast I mean Australia,

434
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: for goodness sake, people, and Madison looks upset, confused, I

435
00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:38,200
Speaker 1: mean any adjective except for happy and thrilled. So we

436
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: see her pull him to the side and says that

437
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 1: she wants to talk to him, and that's where the

438
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: episode just cuts off. So I'm sure you're like all

439
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 1: of us at this point where you're like Madison, I'm sorry,

440
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 1: why are we waiting until the thirteenth hour to tell

441
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 1: him this information that you've been holding since the day

442
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: you met him. If Madison does give Peter an ultimatum,

443
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,359
Speaker 1: which it appears that she does from the pre views,

444
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 1: how is she any different from Luke p in Hannah's season?

445
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 1: Where's the lie? I'll wait? I mean, do hometowns bring

446
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: up like memories for you guys? Good ones, bad ones? Brian?

447
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 1: I know we had some. It wasn't all smooth sailing

448
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 1: at our hometown, but can I just say Brian is like,

449
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 1: this is why we're such a good balance. He is

450
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,440
Speaker 1: so optimistic, he is so positive. I remember he walked

451
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 1: out of our hometowns and he's like, I thought that

452
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: went great. And I was like fuming at my family.

453
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: I was just like, if that's what you took from it,

454
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 1: I'm so glad because I still want you to be here.

455
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:44,879
Speaker 1: But my family was just like, like, why can't I

456
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: find the word for this? They were just like on

457
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: you with questions after questions, just like, really put him

458
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: through handled it? Well? You did handle it? Did he did? No? No? No?

459
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 1: You did? You handled it? So I even was telling

460
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: you that like he did so well, But like I

461
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: loved watching you and you're like, look people Stone my

462
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: brother in law started talking. I was like, I'm sorry,

463
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: who are you what? I was seeing him and I

464
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 1: love him because he was the one who's like, oh,

465
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: she's really into Brian because she took up for Brian

466
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,880
Speaker 1: and not the other people. But at the same time,

467
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:20,680
Speaker 1: I was like, in law, sorry, not the person to

468
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: be talking. Yeah, but how was it for you, Garrett?

469
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 1: I was smooth sailing everything. I pretty much wanted to

470
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,360
Speaker 1: show her about my hometown. As you know, I got

471
00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 1: portrayed my families and agriculture. So I got to do

472
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 1: like a little tractor date. Um. She got to go

473
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: to like the heart of Antico, which is super small,

474
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 1: and they got like half the city to go there,

475
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 1: so there was about thirteen thousand people. And then I

476
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: don't think it was fun. I mean I never really

477
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: had I think, through all the hometowns, I never had

478
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: a bad one. It was always my family was excited.

479
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: His family was just like my family. We walked in

480
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 1: and just the like bunchets of love and and just

481
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 1: fun openness like hate me. And he was my last

482
00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:06,479
Speaker 1: hometown and so I was like, oh, yeah, I've had

483
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 1: three other great ones like this one. We'll see what

484
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 1: you know. It was the last one, and so I

485
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: didn't really like put much stock into it. No offense,

486
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: that's only bad, not much stock. But I get what

487
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: you mean. As the lead, I understand. Were you like nervous?

488
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: Were you really nervous going into his hometown just because

489
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: you know how you felt about him. He was probably

490
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: the one I was least nervous for, just because I

491
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: felt like I had known him longer and the way

492
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 1: he had always talked about his family seemed just just

493
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: like him and just like my family. And so I

494
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 1: just went in like, oh, we're gonna have a great time,

495
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,680
Speaker 1: and we did. It was amazing, Like it was so

496
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 1: much fun. And so Brian was my first and I

497
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,400
Speaker 1: knew how I felt about Brian, so I really went

498
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: in thinking, if this this has to go well because

499
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: I could potentially be meeting my in laws, like that

500
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,680
Speaker 1: was my thought, And I was so nervous walking in.

501
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: And then the week before he had told me that

502
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: his mom and his girlfriend before really didn't have the

503
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: best relationship, So I was nervous. I just really wanted

504
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: her to like me, And when we walked in Brian,

505
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: like we walk in, his mom like immediately be lines

506
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: to him, and she's excited, and Brian takes both of

507
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: us and he puts his arm around both of us,

508
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: and so that was very comforting to me, and even

509
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: his mom talks about it to this day. She's like, Okay,

510
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: I loved that he did that. It made me know

511
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: where he stands with her. And then later she was like,

512
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: I'll kill you. Have you heard of Yeah, well was

513
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: it that she said at the end, And you were like, wait,

514
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: what did she just say? Was it I'll kill you?

515
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 1: She said, if you love him, then I'll love you.

516
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: If you hurt him, I'll kill you. Yeah, And it's

517
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 1: like a Spanish term, And I laughed, like I thought

518
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 1: it was funny. I knew what she was saying. You know,

519
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: it's she had great advice when you marry you, when

520
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: you marry him, you marry into the family and just

521
00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: like a closeness that we should all have with one another.

522
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: And I'm very close with my family, so I got it. Yeah,

523
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 1: I think that's saying in Spanish like de matel. It's

524
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: like very commonly used, Like, you know, her sister forgets

525
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: her glasses at the house. Oh my god, day made.

526
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,120
Speaker 1: How could you like he's gonna start saying that every

527
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 1: time I annoy him. Yeah, but in English obviously it

528
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: sounds worse. It sounds a little worse. Or when producer's

529
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 1: preview it for an entire week and in bold red

530
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 1: letters it's I'll kill you, and his mom's in HR

531
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: so she was mortified because she's gonna lose her job.

532
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm curious though, for you guys, who are you because,

533
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: like I say, hometowns, because Brian came to Dallas to

534
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: meet my family, So you met Becca's family in the Maldives,

535
00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: so I'm like counting that as a hometown too. Yeah okay,

536
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: but um, who were you most nervous to talk to

537
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: Garrett and Brian when it came to meeting Garrett? You

538
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:49,679
Speaker 1: Becca's family and then Brian my family. Oh well, for me, obviously,

539
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: it was the judge all sam its like was never

540
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 1: ever been on TV before. It was like the man,

541
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 1: the myth, the legend right situation. It was crazy because

542
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: I actually went third when I met her family, and

543
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 1: both guys came back with totally different opinions. Oh really,

544
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: I remember Peter came back. He was like he was

545
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: really intimidating. He barely talked to me, like literally got

546
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: to talk to him five minutes. I was like, Okay,

547
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: it's gonna be tough. And then Eric comes back like, no,

548
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: he was cool. He warmed up to me. We talked

549
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: for a while, you know, we got along great. Eric

550
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: is so positive. Yeah. Yeah, and then I was like, okay,

551
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: which dad am I getting? But my dad did like

552
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: Eric did. Yeah, it was He was a straight shooter.

553
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 1: I mean, not gonna lie. He asked the questions he

554
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: needed to ask. I answered them, and you know, I

555
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 1: think at the end of the day we respected each

556
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 1: other for Yeah, no, totally. My dad did not have

557
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 1: any issues with Brian. Yeah, because I talked a lot.

558
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: He said he talked a lot, and he said he

559
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: talked a lot, but he just was like no, and

560
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: I didn't say yes to any of them. Yeah, what

561
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: about you, Garrett? She told me her uncle Chuck would

562
00:27:54,800 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: just be fine. I love him. Okay, Uncle Chuck, he is.

563
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: He just has the sweet All of my uncles, um

564
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: because my dad obviously passed away, so my uncles were

565
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: at my hometown during the Bachelor season and then yeah,

566
00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: Garrett was able to meet one of them in the Maldives. Yeah,

567
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: Uncle Chuck. And then it was fun meeting her mom.

568
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't too nervous to meet her mom. Her mom

569
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: just always seemed like a sweetheart, you know. And she said,

570
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 1: my mom's you know, really sweet, easy going, and she's like, well,

571
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 1: my uncle Chuck is gonna hammer you with questions us,

572
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: which is why. Okay, So I saw my family a

573
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: little bit before that, and my uncle Chuck and my

574
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: aunt Ianne, they were they were the ones originally who

575
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: when I first was like going on to be the

576
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: going on the Bachelor, They're like, do wait, Like it

577
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: will be such a great experience. Why not? They were

578
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: so gung ho. And then they came on the show

579
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: and they started interrogating these guys and I was like,

580
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, my uncle Chuck like drilled me hard

581
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 1: one day before he met the guys, and I was like,

582
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I would be nervous to be the guys, right,

583
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: But but it came from a place of love, and

584
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: I think it went well. Him and my sister heard

585
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: it off like they knew each other for years. Yeah. Yeah,

586
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: it was easy talking to her sister, for sure. It

587
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: was like talking to my brother back home. Yeah, for me,

588
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 1: it was the opposite. I think conscience was the she was.

589
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: But my cousin, who was my best friend, she said

590
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: that when we walked through the door, before we had

591
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 1: walked in to meet the family, she heard me laugh

592
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 1: and she was like, I knew immediately that that was

593
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: the guy for you. And I'm like, okay, she would

594
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: know probably better than anyone, right, Yeah, so like that

595
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: was comforting to me. She's like, I haven't heard you

596
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: laugh like that any years, and I'm like, I don't

597
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: even remember at that moment, but she did special. Yeah,

598
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: we get that audio back. If you could go back

599
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 1: and do anything differently, like the whole season, not just hometowns.

600
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 1: Is there anything I know what you would say? I'm

601
00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: very curious, Brian, But Garrett, would you do anything differently?

602
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: I would say I would have brought her to Reno

603
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: Red lived the past ten years, to show her where

604
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,320
Speaker 1: I was currently living and show her like why I

605
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: lived there and what I love, you know, like it

606
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 1: was cool bring her back to like where I grew

607
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 1: up and where my family was at. But it would

608
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: have been nice to have her like come to where

609
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: I was at and why I enjoyed living there so much.

610
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: I would love to see Reno. I feel like the

611
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: only thing I know about Reno is Sister Act. Oh

612
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: when I thought of Reno, I thought of Sister Act Yea, yeah,

613
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: Sister Mary Clarence. Yeah, but you need to go. It's beautiful. Okay,

614
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: it's much prettier than I expected. Rather than that. No,

615
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: it was all the everything I wouldn't. I would have

616
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: done the same. Yeah. Yeah. Well he was good too,

617
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: because he I think he'd never really watched the show,

618
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: so he just was very go at the flow, like, oh,

619
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,600
Speaker 1: what are we doing this week? And he was the

620
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: one who kind of not was more reserved, but held

621
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: back his feelings until he knew he really felt them,

622
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,360
Speaker 1: which I appreciated because I was thrown off because I

623
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: was like, I under all these guys, like what do

624
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: you mean? You're like, you know, you have all these

625
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: guys in the house, right and you we've all experienced it,

626
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: and it's like these guys would get so fired up,

627
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we've been in the house for three days,

628
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: twenty three of us like they're pissed. They're like, can

629
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: you believe she kissed? She kissed so and so right

630
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: and talking about you're gonna let that get to you.

631
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: It's like, what's gonna happen when there's like five of

632
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 1: you left? And then I was like he was the

633
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: one who would like sit back and just laugh and

634
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: the guys would start to lose their mind. I just

635
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: literally watched guys losing lens. It's like, who was surprising.

636
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: It's like, oh my god, she kissed me, and now

637
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: she kissed somebody the next day. It's like the nerves

638
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 1: would be not rattled. But the only time where I'd

639
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: be like, damn, she needs like it was when she

640
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: would wear red lipstick and then she would come and

641
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: like her lips would be and her chin and I'm like,

642
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: from all the guys one I learned my lesson. Okay,

643
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: it was like coming in for a kiss, I'm like lipstick,

644
00:31:57,040 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. He talk about compartmentalizing. I hadn't do that

645
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: a lot. With that. It's like Jess like she was

646
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: just having a hard makeout session. Her face is all

647
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: read and then it's like, hey, yeah, let's make out.

648
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: It's great. It's mouth wash. You do some squats so

649
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 1: you get the blood out of your face into your

650
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: legs or something. It's like, wow, I mean I definitely

651
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't wouldn't have changed anything. I mean obviously it led

652
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: me to you, but I mean, if there was one thing,

653
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: I would definitely Obviously Ellen, I knew it. I knew

654
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: it well everybody would. Let me paint the scenario. Um,

655
00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: you know we're going on Ellen, and you know we're

656
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: riding the bus drinking. I guess you were allowed to

657
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: drink heavily back then. Yeah, y'allre lit by the time

658
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 1: y'all got to So we were lit getting there, and

659
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: we were in the green room and all of a sudden,

660
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 1: our producer comes in and hands each one of us

661
00:32:53,840 --> 00:33:01,960
Speaker 1: bright neon underwear like box or briefs. So we're thinking,

662
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: obviously I'm going to the day. We're like, okay, we're

663
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: definitely gonna have to dance in some capacity because that's

664
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,760
Speaker 1: what they do on Ellen. So he hands this like

665
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: all right, guys, put these on. So of course we're

666
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: all looking at each other's like, wow, we are going

667
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 1: to be getting butt naked on stage in front of Ellen,

668
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: in front of the audience, front of America, Like, where's

669
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: where are the drinks? She walked in so I literally,

670
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: in a span I think of like ten minutes, we

671
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: down like four fireball shots. So we were all just

672
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: I would have been napping up on stage after this. Yeah, no,

673
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: we were. We were lit and I just got ahead

674
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 1: of myself and you know, so what happened was because

675
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 1: here it's like what happened? So Ellen standing up there,

676
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, these are the guys on the date,

677
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 1: and I think there were six people, and so she's

678
00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,719
Speaker 1: asking questions and so she says, has anyone kissed Rachel?

679
00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: And Will says yes, I've kissed her, and or raise

680
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: your hand if you've kissed her, and so like the

681
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: guys didn't know. So they're kind of like, oh, everybody,

682
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 1: but like a couple of people I said, at first

683
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: I think I said she's a great kisser. Yeah. Brian

684
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:16,080
Speaker 1: grabs the mike from Ellen and he's like, she's a

685
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:18,760
Speaker 1: great kisser. And then Ellen's like, okay, that one kisses

686
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 1: and tells and then Will and then Will goes I

687
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: second that, and then Brian goes he had my sloppy

688
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 1: seconds and people were like I was like, yeah, she

689
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: turned to me. She turned to me, and she goes,

690
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 1: I don't like that one off, she goes, don't pick him?

691
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: Did I know what Brian was trying to say? But

692
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: I was like, you have to realize in that moment,

693
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 1: you were calling me the sloppy seconds and I was like,

694
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,840
Speaker 1: and people were not okay with it, and so like

695
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: my sister had seen that before, so that's why she

696
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,720
Speaker 1: came into hometowns with these preconceived notions about um Brian,

697
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: and so it just was not good. Yeah, and obviously

698
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 1: no way, like what did I mean that towards you know,

699
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: and we were all drunk as hell, and it was like,

700
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 1: just me compete. Can I tell you about an unseen moment?

701
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: I don't even know if I've ever said this on Mike.

702
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 1: So then later that night we're having the cocktail party,

703
00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: or maybe it was a couple of days later, Brian

704
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 1: when he meets me to have a conversation, has a

705
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 1: present for me. This did not air, and so like

706
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: I come out the door and he's like leaned up

707
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 1: against the side of the wall like all ricos suave,

708
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: and he hands me this present. I'm like, oh my gosh,

709
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: what is it? And I opened the present. It's the

710
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: Ellen underwear that he wore and he had sprayed his

711
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: cologne and the underwear talking about high Okay, you all

712
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: might think that's a very cheesy like it, but I

713
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: wore them that night. I thought it was hilarious. But

714
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: seeing how like people perceived Brian and after that day,

715
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: I'm so glad that didn't air because it just would

716
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: have been so cheesy. But it was funny. I couldn't

717
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: stop laughing at that, Like I was like, this is

718
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: so extra, but I love it. The move is the

719
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: way to go. I did that with a present for her.

720
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: I was like, so good. Smell is the sense that

721
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: you know you remember the most. So okay. So I

722
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: think Rache and I have talked about how night one.

723
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: We obviously like we're very into you guys, like we

724
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: knew when was the moment though rage where you were

725
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 1: like it snapped. You were like Brian's the one. So

726
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 1: I always, I mean, both of you guys got the

727
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: first impression row So we obviously were impressed and saw

728
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 1: something in the beginning. So I could just we're very smart,

729
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:58,439
Speaker 1: like very perceptive, cut straight to it, like we don't

730
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: have time to play games. Basically we're not Peter. Yeah,

731
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,320
Speaker 1: it was watching it. We were like, oh, that was amazing.

732
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 1: That was so that was one of the best I've

733
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 1: ever seen. Seriously, um, but with Brian, I always knew

734
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: I was super into him, but he was so smooth

735
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 1: and charming that I was afraid of Like I was like,

736
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 1: is he who he says he is? And so for

737
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: me and we both talked about this, it was geneva.

738
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: There was something and like, do you guys feel this?

739
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:35,280
Speaker 1: There's something about those second dates that tell everything because

740
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: you get below the surface, you kind of see more

741
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 1: of a personality. So that second date that Brian and

742
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: I had to me was just magical. And it was

743
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: the nighttime portion where I had questions that I needed

744
00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: answered and I didn't even have to ask. He was

745
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: already telling me. I needed to know why are you

746
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 1: still single? Have you had a serious relationship? What is

747
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: your family like? And he answered all those questions, and

748
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: it was just this sincerity behind everything that he was saying.

749
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: I was like, he is who he says he is.

750
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: I just got to meet the family. And at hometowns.

751
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: Before I met the family, I actually pulled his producer

752
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: to the side and I was like, he's the one.

753
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 1: And because we were drinking and dancing, and she was

754
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: like what and I She was like what did you say?

755
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: And I was like nothing, nothing, I'm drunk and I

756
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: ran into the bathroom. He never heard me say that,

757
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: but I told his producer. I didn't. I didn't even

758
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: told my producer. It was just like word vomit, right,

759
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: but I meant it because it was just having such

760
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 1: a great time. Geneva was was everything. So all that

761
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 1: to answer your question, week seven okay, right before hometown, okay,

762
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: for me, it was the same Geneva. I mean, I

763
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 1: as far as I was convinced with her, like as

764
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: far as the foundation of what you know, her makeup is,

765
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it was everything I wanted, you know, in

766
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: my future. So I was pretty much convinced at that

767
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: point on her. But you know, obviously want her to

768
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: pass a family test, and she did. Family His mom

769
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,239
Speaker 1: slid a note to him. This didn't air either, but

770
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: we were at the table eating and his mom like

771
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 1: wrote like is it true? Is this real? You know,

772
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: like checky yes or no or something, slid it under

773
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: the table and they were like, Olga, she's in school.

774
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: But it's funny you asked that because like, as far

775
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: as answer like you got like all your questions questions answered,

776
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: and it's like going back to Victoria f It's like

777
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 1: you had a second chance to answer his questions and

778
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: you still couldn't do it. So it's like alternate red flag.

779
00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 1: I digress ahead well and going back to hometowns. I

780
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: think it's such a pivotal week for people. I mean,

781
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: it's always interesting because usually in season's past, it's always

782
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 1: been a pretty tame week. It's very standard. You meet

783
00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: the four families. You always have the one dad who's,

784
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: you know, kind of hesitant and won't give the blessing.

785
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: You have the mom who cries and it just wants

786
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: you to find love. It's it's pretty standard. This one

787
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 1: is very different. But I think for Garrett and I personally,

788
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 1: that's Hometown's week was when I realized I loved him,

789
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: and I didn't even think it was gonna hit me.

790
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: It was. It was after I met his family. I

791
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 1: was sitting in the airport about to fly, so I

792
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: was with my producers and I just started sobbing into

793
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 1: into my breakfast. I was like, oh my gosh, I

794
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: had this this breakfast burrito and I just started crying.

795
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 1: And they're like, what is going on? I was like,

796
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I think I love him. And I

797
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: did not expect it. I just because because his hometown

798
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: was last. I was like, you know, I've had three

799
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: great ones, like we'll see what happened, and it hit

800
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: me and I don't know. I don't know when you

801
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:39,040
Speaker 1: when it clicked for you. I mean, you told me

802
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: in the Bahamas that you were falling for me, But

803
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,399
Speaker 1: but I don't know if you guys felt I'm sure

804
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: you did with your family, But even when I was

805
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 1: sitting with Garrett's parents, because he had been married before

806
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: and he had been divorced, and that was his main

807
00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: narrative throughout the entire season, was us talking about it,

808
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:59,799
Speaker 1: which I honestly forgot that one. Honestly, it's not if

809
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: he will remember, because I was like he was, and

810
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: I felt like that's all they would show is of

811
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: our conversation was only talking about his past relationship and

812
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: his divorce. And so when we went to hometowns, I

813
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: just really wanted to get to know his family and

814
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: talk to them. I finally got to the point when

815
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: I think I talked to his dad last, and they

816
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 1: kept bringing up the divorce I'm like, I don't want

817
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,799
Speaker 1: to talk about that. He's answered it, his family has

818
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: answered it. I think he's ready. And I felt like

819
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: this defense mechanism. I was just like, I'm not doing it.

820
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk about it anymore. And I

821
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 1: kind of snapped and I don't think they had ever

822
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: really gotten that before. For me, Yeah, girl, that's what

823
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: I knew. I was like, dang, yeah, it was that moment.

824
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I ever even told you that. I

825
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: don't know know. The funny part was, I was just

826
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: thinking of the unseen moment that you guys were talking about,

827
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: because you know how you were saying, you know, I

828
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: was really easy because Brian was answering all those questions

829
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: or whatever. For me, that happened our very first group date,

830
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: before our first one on one. They were like, hey,

831
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 1: why don't you get you know, we were just like

832
00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 1: getting to know each other, and then it's like, hey,

833
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: why don't we just like switch it up a little

834
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,480
Speaker 1: bit and uh talk about past relationships? So I fired

835
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 1: it up and I went right into it. I was like,

836
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: she's like, tell me about your serious relationships. I was like, oh,

837
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 1: you know, I was off and on in high school.

838
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: But it's high school. I was like, but in college,

839
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: you know, I had one or two serious girlfriends, and

840
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,960
Speaker 1: then after that and then I went straight into the marriage.

841
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: I was like, right when I graduated, you know, I

842
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: met this girl I was coaching baseball. And then they're

843
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 1: like whoa, whoa, and she's just sitting there like this,

844
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: like this is how it went down. You were married.

845
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: You in the morning after a dodgeball date. So the

846
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: guys had been going hard all day. Garrett was one

847
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 1: of the last guys I was going to talk to,

848
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: and they knew I was really into him, and so

849
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: they like pulled us down by the pool and set

850
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: up this like sexy it felt very cruel intentions, very

851
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: sexy in the corner, and and so we're talking. We're

852
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,319
Speaker 1: like having small talk at first, you know, I'm talking

853
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: about the date, how much fun we had, and then

854
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,280
Speaker 1: they were like, why don't she talked about something more serious,

855
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: and so I was like, Okay, tell me about your

856
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: past relationships, and all of a sudden, he looks at me.

857
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, you know, I dated a little bit

858
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: in college, but I was also married and then got divorced,

859
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: and then right away they came in. They're like, Okay,

860
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: you guys have to go, and I was like no,

861
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 1: I was like and then in my mind, I'm like,

862
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is sabotaged because they knew I

863
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,439
Speaker 1: was in him. I gave him my first impression rows

864
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: and he was married and divorced, and so it was

865
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: the most awkward moment. I wanted to cry. I was

866
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 1: so oh no. So we had to walk out. So

867
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: the only redeeming part of this entire conversation is that

868
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 1: as we were walking out, I was wearing heels and

869
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: I tripped off the curb and Garrett like, I almost

870
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: faced planning, and Garrett grabbed me and pulled me up,

871
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: and then we had this special moment. We were laughing,

872
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 1: and then we kind of danced under the street lights,

873
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: and that was the only moment. But I was like,

874
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Like and then I'm thinking all the worst,

875
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 1: Like was he planted just like screw with me? Because

876
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: I really liked him. But he's the first guy I

877
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 1: ever wrote about in my journal. I my rose and

878
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 1: now it was And so luckily the next day I

879
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: was like, I need I need to have a date

880
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: with this guy and talk about it because I got

881
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: to get to the bottom of this. But I'm scared

882
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: at first. But to answer your guys question, not to Victoria,

883
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: f you or anything like that. When I knew was

884
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 1: I was fun in love with her in the Bahamas,

885
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: I told her, but I really wanted her to meet

886
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: my family and interact because they are such a huge

887
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: part of my life. Yeah, and I knew. I was like,

888
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: it's gonna go well with him or whatever. And it went.

889
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: And then they hit it off right away, and I

890
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,240
Speaker 1: could tell, like right through the door, like the energy

891
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: and everything. And she had great conversation with my brother,

892
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 1: my sister, my mom, and my dad, who were like

893
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:42,359
Speaker 1: the foremost important people. And then feel the love. Yeah yeah,

894
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 1: And then I was like, man, I love this girl.

895
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: And then but then it sealed the deal when I

896
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: met her family in the Maldives. So it was I

897
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: think the first time he cried was with Uncle Chuck.

898
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: I remember, I don't even know what happened. I was like,

899
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,919
Speaker 1: I was like, dude, they must have slipped some sort

900
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: of thing. It was like they were talking. I wasn't

901
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: even like anything being that emotional in the beginning, and

902
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: I was like tearing up and I was like, what

903
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 1: is going You were probably taught it's everything like tire.

904
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: But it was because my uncle Chuck brought up my

905
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: dad and then you guys sort of crying about my dad.

906
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the dad think hit me hard because I

907
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: was like, it would be difficult to go through it.

908
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: I don't know, I had both my parents and like,

909
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: it'd be difficult to go through something like this and

910
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: want advice from your parents of the opposite sex. I

911
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: feel like at least for me. So I was like,

912
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: that'd be tough to do. I thought it was endearing,

913
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,760
Speaker 1: like I remember, see, these are the things we remember.

914
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: I remember you crying in there, and I remember be

915
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 1: like whoa, whoa, And I think that's when we saw

916
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 1: a different side of him. And I typically do this

917
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: when I'm watching You didn't cry when I when you

918
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: were talking about it was a Hallmark movie for me

919
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: or something they did in the Hallmark I don't even

920
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: do that as we watched Hallmark movies. I'm like, why

921
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: am I even tearing up right now? Oh God, I

922
00:45:54,719 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 1: cannect it through a Hallmark movie with a dry eye.

923
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: Oh They're ridiculous When I want to know. So you

924
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:03,239
Speaker 1: actually the last the last date, when you have the

925
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: two final guys, they'll give you a gift. Brian, did

926
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 1: you give something to Rachel? I did I gave her?

927
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: Give her a couple gifts, Yeah, he did, but the

928
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: one I remember, there's the first one. I love that. No,

929
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: but I gave her a Domino box because we actually

930
00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 1: went to play Dominoes on a street. So it's a

931
00:46:23,320 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: it's called Domino Park. It was very famous. All the

932
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,480
Speaker 1: old old gentlemen are always playing there. They're really good.

933
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:34,240
Speaker 1: They kicked our ass. Yeah, together Domino We played Mexican

934
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 1: Train Dominoes. He said, Domino's box. I thought of pizza.

935
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:43,320
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, what would you put there? Favorite?

936
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: This was an actual Domino box. Um. So it was

937
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: her own unique set. But when you opened it up,

938
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: it had actually all the pictures of all our interactions. Yeah,

939
00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: so you know our first date or Geneva date. Second.

940
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 1: Thank you. I love that little moments that we're special

941
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 1: to us. Yeah, I still have it. Well, you guys,

942
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:09,160
Speaker 1: this was so fun having our little love bugs in

943
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,840
Speaker 1: the studio. We're gonna have to do it again. I

944
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: feel like we just touched the surface. We have games

945
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: to play in the future. Yeah, this was our double

946
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: date and we did it on our podcast with everybody listening.

947
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 1: I think it was a success. I agree. Yeah, so

948
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: you guys are going to come back. Are you scared? Now?

949
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: Now we'll come back. Yeah. They got real confidence. They're

950
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: like sitting back in their chairs. They're like, yeah, we'll

951
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 1: come back. No, thank you guys so much for being here.

952
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: We'll have to We'll bring them back again. Becca, we'll

953
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: do this again. That puts an end on Hometowns, which

954
00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:43,280
Speaker 1: was I'm done. I'm done. I'm shock. I'm a little

955
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: nervous going into next week because I really have no

956
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 1: idea what to expect. You know exactly what to expect.

957
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: Peter can't make a decision. The girls give him a

958
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:54,479
Speaker 1: run around. There will be tears, no conversations. Everyone gets

959
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: a rose. That's Peter should be Oprah right now, because

960
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: that's what it's getting. Right. Well, we already um up

961
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: and recapped Week nine. You're welcome you guys. No, but

962
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: thank you guys so much for tuning in. We love,

963
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: of course, talking all things Bachelor, even when it confuses

964
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,279
Speaker 1: and frustrates the hell out of us. So make sure

965
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 1: you come back next week because we'll have another great

966
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: episode for you