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Speaker 2: No, does that feels so bad?

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Speaker 1: I've been stood up at the end of a date

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Speaker 1: Events, at least linger for a second before you run away.

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Speaker 2: People go into the bathroom and then.

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Speaker 1: But this is different. This isn't like an excuse yourself

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear this happen to you. How you

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Speaker 1: About what happened on this date. Dana tell us the situation.

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Speaker 4: So I got stood up on a vacation dates.

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Speaker 2: A vacation date like when you met somebody at a resort.

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Speaker 4: You mean, not particularly. I had met dis guy Sean

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Speaker 4: Well, I had a high hope. Okay, good and honestly,

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Speaker 1: And it's a red flag that his entire family is

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I mean I said the boundary pretty quickly,

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Speaker 4: No, I mean like when I finally met him, he

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Speaker 4: He responded later that evening and he said, I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: Did you check the local papers about any devastating news

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call him. His name is Sean, right, Dana, Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: You wife are gone because of him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, good luck?

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Speaker 1: looking for Seawan? Sewan there, No, he's out for a run.

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Speaker 4: Can I take a message for you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, well hold on, Well.

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Speaker 4: This Yeah, who's this?

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Speaker 1: Who is this?

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Speaker 4: Are there's several of you.

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Speaker 1: Go on, Well, we're a radio show. We're called Brook

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Speaker 2: Is this Shawn's number?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Did he sign up for something?

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Speaker 3: Are you a family member of Seawan's?

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Speaker 4: I mean you could say that.

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Speaker 4: I'm his wife?

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Speaker 1: What kind of called it?

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Speaker 4: Are you How am I supposed to respond to this?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to tell her?

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Speaker 2: Well, this is the first time we will not be

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Speaker 3: We can't do this.

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Speaker 1: No, this is awful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to tell her? Do you want to

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, it's not surprising because unfortunately a lot of guys

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Speaker 3: Of it, the coward's way out.

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Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to it. Number two. Number two, have

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Speaker 2: She's going to do it calmly.

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Speaker 1: Or we go option three, my favorite, have Brooke speak

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Speaker 3: You can do it now.

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Speaker 4: I think that if Brook can set this up, I

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good choice, Dana. I feel like this

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, here's the thing. We are not breaking

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Speaker 3: He's gonna really, You're gonna really do it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, somebody has to. This woman has to know.

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Speaker 4: Brook tell her the truth.

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Speaker 3: Come on, I got your back here.

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Speaker 1: Excuse devastating news. Let's make it a real thing word

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Speaker 2: I didn't get your name.

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Speaker 1: What's your name, Nikki?

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Speaker 2: Hi, Nikki. It's so you're probably wondering why we'recalling, how

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Speaker 2: we got your husband's phone number. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 2: not great news on that front. Okay, because the reason

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Speaker 1: Update, typically very fun segment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So typically people go on a first date and

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Speaker 1: Well, they were a funny hat.

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Speaker 4: Breath?

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Speaker 2: Does that make sound sticky?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, so that's why we got your husband's phone number.

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Speaker 2: We didn't realize he was a husband. Your husband apparently

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I mean we trade off weeks, we do

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait what y that's fine?

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Speaker 3: Are you in an open relationship?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Owens, I am relieve.

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Speaker 2: I thought Nikki I was giving you the whole world

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Speaker 3: To other people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, could you pass some of what they think about?

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Speaker 4: Is that all?

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Speaker 1: Could you write down some of how that how that

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Speaker 4: I am not talking you through this. Can I go?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: You you know?

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Speaker 2: Can you hear my heart beat over the radio?

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Speaker 4: Very work out?

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Speaker 1: I was so nervous, you know, Nikki, thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: great day. Okay, great all tell your husband Sean, what's up.

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Speaker 2: This is one of those the more you know, the

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Speaker 1: Okay, so Nicky's gone. Hey, Dana, good news. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: You're one of many women.

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Speaker 4: My jaw.

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Speaker 3: I forgot. She was so great forgot.

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Speaker 2: I'm taking it that Sean didn't let you know that

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for that.

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Speaker 1: No, you know, but on her these I think it

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Speaker 2: I think the person dating the husband is I think me, Okay,

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Speaker 1: These are the types of wholesome, good news stories that

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Speaker 1: jeff I hope kt LA runs a story tonight local

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Speaker 1: married man dates two dozen women, wife is thrilled. Disney

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Speaker 1: but hopefully we can help make your love life less devastating.

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Speaker 1: If you email the show, we can call that person

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Speaker 1: who's not calling you back. And by the way, while

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