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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm doing well about you? We are great.

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Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone. Let's learn about this date.

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Speaker 1: I'm going through your email here. You went out with Roxy,

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Speaker 1: you met on Tinder, and then what happened.

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Speaker 2: We talked for a bit, we actually went out twice.

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Speaker 2: And I don't, you know, mean to get too much

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Speaker 2: into things, but after the second date we hooked up,

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Speaker 2: which I put it a pretty good sign. I thought

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Speaker 2: she was into it. But you know, she started ghosting

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Speaker 2: me after that, and I'm here to find out why.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I see what ye don't. I don't hear

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Speaker 1: you bragging about hooking up on the second date. I

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Speaker 1: think sometimes on a second date that's a good sign, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, especially if you get a second date then

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Speaker 1: you hook up. It's like this is going in the

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Speaker 1: right direction, except she's ghosting you and it's driving you crazy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll call her, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 1: figure out what's going on and uh and put this

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Speaker 1: to rest and hopefully we can straighten out whatever the

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Speaker 1: issue is. Maybe nothing's going on, maybe she's just been busy,

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Speaker 1: or who knows, and if that's the case, we'll set

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Speaker 1: you up on another date and we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I really appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Can you hang on for a second.

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Speaker 2: I'll be here.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the bottom of this, Part two of

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Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone After the Weekend back in two minutes,

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Speaker 1: don't move. Fred shoke the weekend. He's on The Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Tim, You doing okay,

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Speaker 1: doing good?

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Speaker 2: Well, anxious to figure out what's going on here?

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Speaker 1: Right right, Well, we're about to find out. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: call Roxy. We're gonna see what's going on. You guys

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Speaker 1: went in a couple of dates. You thought they were successful.

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Speaker 1: Now she's ghosting you and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: You got it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, good luck?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Is this Roxy? Yeah? Roxy, it's Fred from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now and I need your permission to continue

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Speaker 1: with the call. Is it okay if we keep talking?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: I know it's kind of awkward, but thank you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I no, I know, thank you so much. We're calling

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Speaker 1: on half of this dude named Tim, who I guess

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Speaker 1: you met you on Tinder and you went on two dates.

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Speaker 1: Do you recall this guy? Yeah, yeah, sound excited. We

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Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, we've heard it before. So what would

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Speaker 1: happened with this guy? Because he described a couple of

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Speaker 1: really good dates, he liked you a lot, was hoping

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Speaker 1: to take you on a third date, says that you're ghosting.

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Speaker 1: Can we sort of get to the bottom of why.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I.

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Speaker 2: Feel called out, but.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to be discreet. Yeah, tim is

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Speaker 3: I mean he was like a cool like honestly, we

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Speaker 3: actually got along really well. He was a really nice guy.

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Speaker 3: If we had gone on a couple of dates and

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Speaker 3: we had kind of pulled around and stuff, and after

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Speaker 3: one of the hook ups, he this is like weird

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Speaker 3: to even talk about with public. I told my closest friends,

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Speaker 3: but he asked to keep my underwear. Did you call

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Speaker 3: them panties?

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Speaker 1: You got a lot of problems. One, I hate that word.

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Speaker 1: Second yeah same, SAME's so he what like he wanted

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Speaker 1: them as some kind of a souvenir.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what he's gonna do with him. I was,

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Speaker 3: but I was like, no, dude, absolutely not. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: so I mean that is just kind of how I

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Speaker 3: felt about the whole situation.

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Speaker 1: You were kind of spooked. You're like, I'm not doing

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Speaker 1: this too.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just I don't get like, I don't

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Speaker 3: consider myself like vanilla necessarily, but I'm not into I

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Speaker 3: didn't know what the hell he was gonna do with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so I was just like, no, I'm going to go

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Speaker 3: ahead and see the clothing that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me expensive ponties, nice ones. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: know what was going to go down. But would you

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Speaker 1: leave somebody with the guy asked you, Yeah, he would

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Speaker 1: little things to make people happy. You know, well, what

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Speaker 1: if they were expensive ones?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why not? Yeah? What is an expensive What is an

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Speaker 1: expensive pair of underwear? I don't know. I don't buy

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Speaker 1: like expensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like the expensive ones I have are.

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Speaker 1: Like in a set, you know, like pinky or something

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Speaker 1: would be like thirty bucks for underwear or Tim is here.

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Speaker 1: I always leave that part out. So I've been listening

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Speaker 1: to all this, Tim, what what do you? I mean, Look,

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Speaker 1: you're entitled to your own freaky but.

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Speaker 2: I just like keeping them as a bit of a souvenir.

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Speaker 1: So do you have a box full of them somewhere?

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Speaker 1: Like that's disgusting? Oh yeah, if I'm not special though

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Speaker 1: it's nothing like that.

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Speaker 2: Like what if I hook up with somebody and like

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Speaker 2: they give me their pinions, let them keep it. But

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Speaker 2: if I'm seeing somebody else, I throw the old ones away.

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Speaker 1: Creepy. If I had a collection, that would be that

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Speaker 1: would be creepy. Yeah, no question. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And also I don't see what the big deal is.

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Speaker 2: You know, a lot of people are into this sort

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Speaker 2: of thing, which she told me no, and I was

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Speaker 2: totally cool with it. I didn't freak out or anything

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Speaker 2: like that. And also, aren't you supposed to not kink?

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Speaker 1: Shame?

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Speaker 2: But I feel like I'm being very judged right now,

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Speaker 2: and that's not very cool.

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Speaker 1: Not very the whole lot of a second. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know that we're judging you so much. She's

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Speaker 1: allowed to judge you because she doesn't have to do

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Speaker 1: what you asked you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not into it.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and that like said no, and I respected

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Speaker 2: you saying no. I didn't push the matter. I just said, hey,

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Speaker 2: by the way, I'm into this one. Do you mind

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Speaker 2: if I kept it? You said no. I said, that's.

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Speaker 1: Cool, okay.

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Speaker 2: At the end of it, you could have just said

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Speaker 2: afterwards Hey, that really freaking out. I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: see you again.

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Speaker 1: That's true. She could have. She doesn't know you that.

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Speaker 3: I didn't really, so you can't let it go.

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Speaker 2: I did want to chat about it, and you didn't

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Speaker 2: want to chat that, so this was my only recourse.

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Speaker 2: But I thought we had something. I wanted to know

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Speaker 2: what was going on. I thought maybe you were.

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Speaker 1: You guys, You guys, we talk about this all the time, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys have only been out twice. There's

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Speaker 1: no equity. I used to wear equity all the time. Like,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't. She likes you, but she doesn't really really

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Speaker 1: out something that's that that she thinks she's abnormal or

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable with, and that she's just going to get over it.

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Speaker 1: Like I understand what you're saying, which is I asked

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Speaker 1: you for something, she said no, and you were cool

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Speaker 1: about it, and you can communicate, but like you're not.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're there yet. You're still getting to

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Speaker 1: know each other. She can't get that out of her mind.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't know anything else about you. She's just wanting

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Speaker 1: a bunch of other stuff. If I'm dating somebody for

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Speaker 1: six months and they asked me to do something weird

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Speaker 1: that's different than two times.

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Speaker 2: And I bounced and that was that.

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Speaker 1: With my luck, I would ask for that and get kinky.

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Speaker 1: I'd forget I had them, and then I would meet

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Speaker 1: the woman of my dreams and she'd come over and

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Speaker 1: be like, what are these? And then I'm in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I got this is kind of weird. Rock. See any

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Speaker 1: chance you would forgive this guy and give another shot.

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Speaker 3: It's just not my thing. I think we both be

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Speaker 3: better off. We found people that that are mold a

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Speaker 3: little bit better.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Well, if you will, Tim, Good luck

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Speaker 1: to you, Tim. Okay, sorry, thanks. Yeah. Caitlin has the

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