Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Ashley is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
Speaker 2: boyfriend Ryan for four years, but now she thinks something
Speaker 2: might be going on, so we'll see if we can
Speaker 2: to help her out. Ashley, thanks for coming on the show.
Speaker 2: Sorry it has to be this way. What's going on?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
Speaker 1: and never thought that I would call it, but here
Speaker 1: I am. So we've yeah, we've been together four years,
Speaker 1: you know, ups and down like anybody else. I mean,
Speaker 1: not what you see on Instagram a couples. But I
Speaker 1: kind of just feel like he's done with the relationship.
Speaker 1: So it's just kind of like heavy on my heart
Speaker 1: right now. So I just want to test it. I
Speaker 1: want to test it. And so basically, what's going on.
Speaker 1: I used to travel a lot for work, but now
Speaker 1: I'm not, and he's been traveling for his job. But
Speaker 1: it just keeps kind of picking up. Mike. He'll he'll
Speaker 1: fly off somewhere for a week, and then he comes
Speaker 1: home for a couple of days, and then he leaves again.
Speaker 3: And then when he.
Speaker 1: Does come home, which has been like, you know, increasing
Speaker 1: over the last couple of months, Like when he's going away,
Speaker 1: so when he's coming home, he always seems like he
Speaker 1: has something better to do.
Speaker 3: So it's starting to be kind of it feels like
Speaker 3: he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and I
Speaker 3: feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's not
Speaker 3: wanting to be intimate anymore, which is ever?
Speaker 4: And what does he say? How does he start that?
Speaker 1: He kind of like when he comes home now, she's
Speaker 1: always hiding off in his office for hours. It's like
Speaker 1: he makes it seem like he's reading an emails, but
Speaker 1: as soon as I walk away, his messenger notification kind
Speaker 1: of pings over and over and over.
Speaker 3: Like there's a conversation going on, and we're always like really.
Speaker 1: Open with each other about like oh I'm talking.
Speaker 3: To I'm don gone so like they're so funny and you.
Speaker 1: Know it's women's intuition.
Speaker 3: You just kind of feel like he's he's not sitting
Speaker 3: with someone. Like we know each other's friends, we know
Speaker 3: each other's so so.
Speaker 1: For me, like we're really good friends with each other.
Speaker 3: You know, like I care about him and so I
Speaker 3: did comfort him about it, you know, I'm like, you've
Speaker 3: been going more, you haven't really been wanting.
Speaker 1: To touch me, and you're hiding away in your office.
Speaker 1: He legit just shrugged it off.
Speaker 3: He said he has a new assistant in his office
Speaker 3: and he's been showing her the rope, so that's kind
Speaker 3: of been taking a lot of time.
Speaker 1: But I've seen I've seen her, and I'm really not
Speaker 1: the jealous type, but she's legit his type, So so.
Speaker 5: You think it might actually be the assistant that he's
Speaker 5: talking to.
Speaker 1: I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
Speaker 1: like I just want to believe that he would never
Speaker 1: shoat on me because we're really not like we've talked
Speaker 1: about that in the past, like how we wouldn't do it.
Speaker 1: I hope it's all them in my head, I really do.
Speaker 1: I just don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know how a world we're feeling so here
Speaker 3: I am.
Speaker 5: I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
Speaker 5: about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
Speaker 5: the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 4: I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2: You know, it sucks because I think they think about themselves,
Speaker 2: like how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like,
Speaker 2: but you're someone else's talking to you that you care about,
Speaker 2: like it's about them at that moment, and that's fine. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you know, like so anyway, yeah, that sucks the way
Speaker 2: that was handled. All right, Well, you told us what
Speaker 2: a grocery store he's a rewards card member at.
Speaker 4: So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2: We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 2: card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
Speaker 2: to you or to somebody else. Okay, all right, we'll play,
Speaker 2: so don't come back.
Speaker 4: You're to catch to here.
Speaker 1: Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater, only on the
Speaker 1: Jubile Show and only on the New Hits one oh
Speaker 1: six point one.
Speaker 2: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater if
Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Ashley is on the phone. She's
Speaker 2: been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years and now
Speaker 2: she thinks that he might be cheating. So in a second,
Speaker 2: we're going to call him and pretend to be from
Speaker 2: the grocery store that he's a rewards car remember at
Speaker 2: and say that he's this month's big winner of flowers
Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that he wants from our floral department.
Speaker 2: And we'll see if he believes that first of all,
Speaker 2: and then if he sends those flowers to Ashley or
Speaker 2: to somebody else. But before we do that, Ashley, why
Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3: So we've been together four years. I used to travel
Speaker 3: a bunch for work.
Speaker 1: He's the one that's traveling now in his time away
Speaker 1: just keeps increasing.
Speaker 3: And then when he is home, he's been kind of
Speaker 3: avoiding me.
Speaker 1: He's been working in his office and you know, big
Speaker 1: red flag for me and not wanting to be in it, which.
Speaker 3: No one should ever feel.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 1: It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
Speaker 1: him about it, like it's not like I'm like, he
Speaker 1: did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
Speaker 1: up to him, like this is a really big deal.
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like this and he said, nothing's going on,
Speaker 1: But I still feel like there is.
Speaker 4: With his assistant too, is who you think it is?
Speaker 1: Yes, total opposite looking of me. Totally his previous type
Speaker 1: before me.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, well you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 4: I guess Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hi.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is shorttle calling from I was looking
Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named Ryan.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 4: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
Speaker 2: your business.
Speaker 4: Here. This mon's big winner.
Speaker 1: Uh? Where did I win?
Speaker 4: The flowers?
Speaker 6: The flowers?
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 2: gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
Speaker 2: to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
Speaker 2: It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want. It's actually a
Speaker 2: three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 6: Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 6: Okay, cool? Great.
Speaker 2: Let me let me just give it to tell you
Speaker 2: how it works. Then I can take the information over
Speaker 2: the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
Speaker 2: you back. If you don't know who you want to
Speaker 2: send them to right now.
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
Speaker 6: let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 4: Okay, and do you want to send a card along
Speaker 4: with this?
Speaker 6: Uh? Yeah, yeah, say something like, uh, I cannot.
Speaker 1: Wait to hold you again.
Speaker 6: And uh the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 4: Okay, got that.
Speaker 2: And now at this point, I would like to tell
Speaker 2: you that my name is actually Jubel, and I'm calling
Speaker 2: from a radio show that's called The Jebel Show, and
Speaker 2: your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 3: No, yeah, hold on.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's what this is.
Speaker 6: Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, Yeah, yep.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like I asked
Speaker 1: you this and you told me nothing was going on.
Speaker 3: But I can't believe it.
Speaker 1: I mean I I asked you about this and you
Speaker 1: told me I know, and now it's your assistance. Like
Speaker 1: I just knew it. I knew it, and I asked
Speaker 1: you and you denied it. Why would you do this?
Speaker 1: But I can't believe it. Actually, I asked you this
Speaker 1: and you did this.
Speaker 6: Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
Speaker 6: It's not it's not something I'm happy about it's Look, Ashley,
Speaker 6: I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: It's just you're not happy. You're so disrespectful, you're not
Speaker 1: happy about Like, what are you even thoughting about?
Speaker 3: It sounds like you you said you can't wait to
Speaker 3: be in.
Speaker 1: Her arms again. It sounds like if you want us
Speaker 1: to happen, Like, what are you even thinking?
Speaker 6: Look, it's just it's I don't I don't know. It's
Speaker 6: it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
Speaker 6: you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
Speaker 6: long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
Speaker 6: more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
Speaker 6: So like it's just we have things we connect on,
Speaker 6: the lifestyle, the travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
Speaker 6: made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
Speaker 6: was a distance outside of it, I.
Speaker 3: Just I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Well, you should have broken up with me, then you
Speaker 1: should have told me, and you should have broken up
Speaker 1: with me. And we've been together long enough that you
Speaker 1: could have told me, and we could have broken up,
Speaker 1: and then you can do whatever you want.
Speaker 3: Love with her.
Speaker 6: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know I
Speaker 6: want us to be broken up.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm just trying to figure things out, and it's something
Speaker 6: I just kind of fell into and I should have.
Speaker 1: How am I ever been going on like four or
Speaker 1: five months?
Speaker 4: Whoa?
Speaker 1: I thought that this is legit only like two months
Speaker 1: and I asked you so long ago, like you're so
Speaker 1: disrespctful to be doing that, mean this slum and I
Speaker 1: don't even know anything about her, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: Like you've been.
Speaker 1: Taking intimacy away from me, which is so disrespectful to
Speaker 1: do to another human being. But you're disrespecting my body too.
Speaker 1: Does she know that you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 6: Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
Speaker 6: I mean, I told her about my life, she told
Speaker 6: me about her life, her husband, all that, and then
Speaker 6: we just sort of fell into.
Speaker 1: This her husband, her husband, Oh.
Speaker 3: My gosh, what are you doing?
Speaker 1: Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship, You're not
Speaker 1: like in some fantasy land.
Speaker 3: She's married.
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
Speaker 2: she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Now, I just feel like I should retout to her
Speaker 1: husband and let him know so that he's not being disrespected.
Speaker 6: As well as ash come on, come on, you're already
Speaker 6: doing this on the radio. You don't look.
Speaker 1: I get.
Speaker 6: I get while you're there, and I and I care
Speaker 6: about you, but I but if you're going to be
Speaker 6: vindictive about it, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I'm done.
Speaker 3: I'm done.
Speaker 1: I'm done.
Speaker 3: I can't.
Speaker 1: I deserve, I deserve better than this. I am a
Speaker 1: good person and I.
Speaker 3: Have treated them so well for four years. I've always
Speaker 3: been there for you, and I don't deserve to be
Speaker 3: treated like this.
Speaker 1: I deserve to be loved by a good partner and
Speaker 1: you should be humiliated by what you've done.
Speaker 6: Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, this thank you for four
Speaker 6: years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
Speaker 6: phone call that you're blasting to the world. So get
Speaker 6: the better that you deserve.
Speaker 4: And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 3: I am too. I mean, I was on our list
Speaker 3: that would end up this way and it did. So
Speaker 3: I just need to go for a walk and clear
Speaker 3: my head right now.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you got
Speaker 5: to do, but just know this was a two for
Speaker 5: you did your good deed, two for one, two for have.
Speaker 1: Was the rest of the day. I'm gonna go on
Speaker 1: a walk in Google her husband now that I have.
Speaker 3: Her Latin name, okay, so I can let him know
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